Speaker 1: Hey guys, it's your girl, Mandy be from Horrible Decisions,
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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions. Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions.
Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy b a k A debt bitch
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Speaker 1: never heard our show before, it's disgusting. It's really not congratulations.
Speaker 1: I'm not usting and I have one. It's you know,
Speaker 1: quite normal. You know who may have had a boyfriend
Speaker 1: someone in the Bible. Today we're going to talk about.
Speaker 1: We had a lot of episodes where we cross referenced religion.
Speaker 1: One of my favorites we had Pastor Corey. He came
Speaker 1: in talked a little bit about Christianity with us. However,
Speaker 1: we've never done an episode about celibacy and the origin
Speaker 1: of it, why we choose to be celibate, why people
Speaker 1: have talked about it, the difference with abstinence, but particularly
Speaker 1: I thought it would be fun to talk about the
Speaker 1: Bible and references with sex, because I feel like the
Speaker 1: world has been grooming us for sex since BC, before
Speaker 1: Christ and before cock because we knew it. So Brianda,
Speaker 1: we have her in the studio today. You guys are patrons,
Speaker 1: you've heard of her. But if you haven't heard of her,
Speaker 1: tell us who you are. What's your podcast is? I
Speaker 1: don't know, Like, am I supposed to talk while you're talking?
Speaker 1: But my name is Brian stuff. That's her stick I know. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's cool. Wait, but I'm Brianda. I'm a podcaster, actor,
Speaker 1: and I love you girls. Both of these ladies have
Speaker 1: been on my programs Super Trip Talk literally the only
Speaker 1: two episodes that like hit over a thousand animals. I'm
Speaker 1: not even kidding you. Like, seriously, you guys, your cloud
Speaker 1: was amazing, but your presence was even better. Um and yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm celibate, bitch. That was that was God. He was
Speaker 1: like me talking God. That was God protecting me from you.
Speaker 1: Ethn So ship the celibacy is on the bulk of
Speaker 1: our episode, but just a way to like talk about
Speaker 1: this a little bit more with you. Like we've both
Speaker 1: had our separate conversations with Brianda about celibacy, but I
Speaker 1: still feel like I don't really get it all the
Speaker 1: time because sometimes you present such a We talked a
Speaker 1: little bit about, you know, celibacy and other episodes, and
Speaker 1: we've never really talked about why why people want to
Speaker 1: do it. And even with you, sometimes I get confused
Speaker 1: because you give me a lot of sexual energy. Not me,
Speaker 1: but like I think you're very sexy person and you're flirty,
Speaker 1: and I think we think when we think celib it
Speaker 1: like oh my god, church girl, like you know, a
Speaker 1: little chastity belt on her posty, But tell us where
Speaker 1: it came from because you've had sex before, Oh a
Speaker 1: lot of it, yes, in many different ways. Like I
Speaker 1: just think that when you pigeonhole any one group into
Speaker 1: like one saying you'd be wrong, Like there are nuances,
Speaker 1: people are different, Like I do like being provocative. I'm
Speaker 1: in I'm an entertainment. I'm not wearing a bra right now,
Speaker 1: Like I live freely and i live my life, but
Speaker 1: I'm not pigeonholed to this. Like you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: far from prudish, but you get what I'm saying. Like
Speaker 1: there's just more I would love with this episode to
Speaker 1: just expand people's minds to people who choose to abstain
Speaker 1: from having sex and they're not this like prudish, like boring. Also,
Speaker 1: I swear, which I'm trying to stop, but I swear
Speaker 1: I speak provocatively. You say I flir. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't think I flir, but I've been told I'm a
Speaker 1: little coquette. But honestly, I think that me being celibrate
Speaker 1: makes me more flirty because I know nothing would ever happen.
Speaker 1: I just want to connect with people and sometimes comes
Speaker 1: off a different kind of way towards me. So we
Speaker 1: we interviewed fran um Darren Quarantine, and something that I
Speaker 1: see that you keep going back and forth between is
Speaker 1: using the word celibate and using the word abstain, which
Speaker 1: is what abstinences. So I guess we spoke with fran
Speaker 1: about being abstinent. What then is the difference, do you see,
Speaker 1: because right now you're interchanging both of the words. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So when I started, it was only abstinence, like I
Speaker 1: wasn't even Christian when I decided I'm going to take
Speaker 1: a break. So that's why I refused to you cell
Speaker 1: but celibate is when you're doing it for the like
Speaker 1: for religious reasons, which today I would say that that
Speaker 1: is why. But it started to answer like your first question.
Speaker 1: I wanted to be celibate because I wanted to figure
Speaker 1: out why I felt fucking shame and guilt every single
Speaker 1: time I would masturbate or have sex with someone, Like
Speaker 1: why did I feel these sensations of guilt? And I
Speaker 1: wanted to figure it out because I didn't feel guilty,
Speaker 1: but the sensations were comparable, right, And I mean like
Speaker 1: you come and then you felt bad, yeah, or sometimes
Speaker 1: i'd cry. No, sometimes I'd like I just feel terrible,
Speaker 1: and I would be like, I don't know why I'm
Speaker 1: having sex with my boyfriend, Like I don't get it.
Speaker 1: But I saught therapy. I wanted to figure out. I
Speaker 1: wanted to know if you went to therapy because I
Speaker 1: wanted to know if maybe that stem from some sort
Speaker 1: of trauma that you hid in the back of you know,
Speaker 1: your mind. Maybe let me tell you something, Okay. I
Speaker 1: grew up in an immigrant household about my dad and
Speaker 1: my mom, yes, and my sister. So all three of
Speaker 1: them were sexually abused or diddled as children, all of them.
Speaker 1: I was the only one in my household that didn't.
Speaker 1: So in my house we didn't only did we not
Speaker 1: talk about sex, but sex was almost really like a
Speaker 1: taboo thing because the older people around me were dealing
Speaker 1: with their own conflicts and pains, so if anything, it
Speaker 1: was avoided even as a kid. Like like I said,
Speaker 1: I wasn't diddled as a kid, But I hate saying
Speaker 1: I don't want to that's a distasteful joke. But I
Speaker 1: remember I would try and make connections with my family
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, please let me come and talk
Speaker 1: to me, touch me, attention, And I wouldn't get that that.
Speaker 1: I think that's why I want to be an actor,
Speaker 1: because I want attention. I'm a narcissist, I'm vain, I like, like,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I I just want attention
Speaker 1: all the time. I didn't get that as a kid.
Speaker 1: It's almost like I recognized love by neglect, and these
Speaker 1: are things that I had to learn by isolating the
Speaker 1: sex from me, just so it could make my life
Speaker 1: a little easier. So now that sex is gone, right,
Speaker 1: how long has it been a little over two years?
Speaker 1: Now that it's gone, what would be the thing that
Speaker 1: would let you have sex again? Right? Like? Would it
Speaker 1: be marriage? Would it be a serious relationship someone who's worthy?
Speaker 1: What is it for sure? That That's a tough question.
Speaker 1: But as it stands today, because I wanted to prepare
Speaker 1: for this session today, I'm gonna go ahead and say
Speaker 1: it would be marriage, really? Yeah? Yeah? Or can I
Speaker 1: be honest with you, I would have to know that
Speaker 1: we were getting married. I'm talking about I've met your family,
Speaker 1: you've met my family. Can I ask you though in
Speaker 1: this I don't want to Why do you? Because I
Speaker 1: want to get into this though, because you're waiting for marriage.
Speaker 1: You're like, I have to make sure I met his family,
Speaker 1: he met mine? But then what what does marriage mean
Speaker 1: to you? What does marriage constitute to you? Because to
Speaker 1: a lot of people, including myself right now, it is
Speaker 1: just a business. Um, it's a transaction for financial you know, taxes. Essentially,
Speaker 1: that's really it. Because I have openly talked about unfortunately
Speaker 1: being someone on the receiving end of love from a
Speaker 1: married man. I've I've gotten financial gain from a married
Speaker 1: man without being married. Um, and also even I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan of a Housewives of Potomac, But
Speaker 1: she she sat here and had these vows, got a
Speaker 1: pre nup, and now she's discussing a post up with
Speaker 1: her husband. So I just want to know, what, what
Speaker 1: does marriage signified for you? That that's what you're waiting
Speaker 1: for for sure. So I think I had the benefit
Speaker 1: of having a more secular upbringing and never wanting to
Speaker 1: get married, Like I've only ever wanted a career and
Speaker 1: to take care of my family. That's just been it.
Speaker 1: And I think that kind of sets me up in
Speaker 1: a way that opens my eyes to what marriage could be.
Speaker 1: I've never had this idea of like a grand wedding
Speaker 1: or whatever. I don't even really want it. For me,
Speaker 1: marriage is having a foundation of like love and trust
Speaker 1: and devotion and also a devotion to honestly your spirit, yourself,
Speaker 1: whatever that may be. Like, they don't need to necessarily
Speaker 1: practice Christianity per se, but they need to have a
Speaker 1: connection to their spirit and themselves I need that hands
Speaker 1: down because that's what I need for my family. So
Speaker 1: when you ask me what is marriage to me? I
Speaker 1: would say, like, marriage really is a bond between me
Speaker 1: and my partner and spirit like God, whatever that is
Speaker 1: from them. And and wait, get this. The gnarliest part
Speaker 1: about celibacy is that if you meet the right person,
Speaker 1: you get to figure out ways to love each other
Speaker 1: and show each other affection that are outside of our
Speaker 1: genitalia Are you kidding me? And then the sex is
Speaker 1: just a cherry on top. I'm sure you know. I
Speaker 1: think I've had deeper connections with women because there's no
Speaker 1: penetrative sex. That sounds weird, but like with women, I've
Speaker 1: grown closer to them initially, right, I think the intimacy
Speaker 1: that I've had with you know, the lover is and
Speaker 1: I don't even love her, let's say boyfriends I've had,
Speaker 1: the intimacy came after sex and after a lot of sex.
Speaker 1: But with women, I can recall like getting closer before
Speaker 1: we had sex. Because with women, I feel like you
Speaker 1: never know if you're a by person, like sometimes like
Speaker 1: this is my homegirl, is it not? We get closer
Speaker 1: and closer and closer, and that is really the only
Speaker 1: thing that sometimes makes me want to wait when having
Speaker 1: sex with men. But to be honest, I think a
Speaker 1: lot of the times that I don't is because the
Speaker 1: more and more that I do this show I realize
Speaker 1: sex can be something I can enjoy and table it
Speaker 1: and leave it. So I don't mind having sex with
Speaker 1: someone if I don't feel like I'm connecting with them
Speaker 1: that deeply, because I can just enjoy and living that
Speaker 1: and not feel guilty about it. Understood now that the
Speaker 1: whole guilt thing is going to be a lifelong journey
Speaker 1: of mine to you know, navigate much like a lot
Speaker 1: of our internal child we all feel have felt gifty.
Speaker 1: You'll have to be why I do that or what
Speaker 1: we're sure? Now I have a question for you to
Speaker 1: because podcast justn't funny to say, well, because I think
Speaker 1: it will help the listeners really understand celibacy at its core.
Speaker 1: So Mandy, first, yes, how long has it been or
Speaker 1: how long have you ever been celibate or like abstained
Speaker 1: from having sex? Choice? So y'all know it was there
Speaker 1: like quarantine. How long was that? Uh? I would say
Speaker 1: about I would say realistically about four months since I've
Speaker 1: like was probably the longest that I went from why
Speaker 1: did you do it? Well? First saw which I was
Speaker 1: locked in my house and then and in the beginning
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, a part of me was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, Dick isn't available. I want to fly
Speaker 1: some end. And immediately I went to like realizing like, okay,
Speaker 1: none of these things are worth my time, like let
Speaker 1: me find myself during this time, and even when I
Speaker 1: was speaking a friend and during that time, I was,
Speaker 1: you know, not having sex. It was before I met
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, and I really found ways in which I
Speaker 1: did probably it's start and continue relationships that didn't have
Speaker 1: value to me. Um. And I also noticed that I
Speaker 1: was maybe giving a lot of people my time that
Speaker 1: didn't deserve it. And I did realize that in the
Speaker 1: scent of just not giving myself to anyone. So yes,
Speaker 1: wait and now you wheezy, how long was yours? And
Speaker 1: have you ever done it by choice? Practice absidence? So
Speaker 1: I did it to heal from a breakup, and then
Speaker 1: after I went a certain amount of time, then I
Speaker 1: did it by choice because I feel like the circumstance
Speaker 1: of the breakup is why I just started saying I
Speaker 1: was cell of itate and using the word cell of
Speaker 1: it as not using abstinent, but I now realized it was.
Speaker 1: But it started just not doing it was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I need to help from this breakup, and then it
Speaker 1: was like, okay, no, I need to take it away
Speaker 1: because then I'll know if I could do it or not.
Speaker 1: So making that active choice was fun. But you use
Speaker 1: the word healing and you use the word like waste
Speaker 1: of time and stuff. Ladies, that is literally what I'm
Speaker 1: doing it doing, but I'm taking a step further like
Speaker 1: that's but it's exactly the same thing because you're not
Speaker 1: even masturbating. Correct, No, I'm not. Have you gotten closed?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah? When I okay, so we don't have to
Speaker 1: talk about it now. But okay, fine, I was virtually
Speaker 1: dating this guy. Asshole. You want to go, like check
Speaker 1: him out. It's on my podcast. It's called Quarantine Bay
Speaker 1: ghosted me because he fucking did, asshole. How do you
Speaker 1: get ghost in core? Jesus, don't I don't know. He
Speaker 1: was a Cornell lawyer, asshole though, coming just it's important
Speaker 1: what where the hell he went? Because we posted me
Speaker 1: and he knew about myself as he I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: We would speak for eight hours a week like during
Speaker 1: I really did fall for him, and I fall in
Speaker 1: love easy, right, and I like masturbated for the first
Speaker 1: time in years, like with him, and it was the
Speaker 1: very first time I've ever done that. And for the
Speaker 1: first time it didn't I didn't feel guilt or shame.
Speaker 1: So I was like, but but but he broke my
Speaker 1: heart and and I still and I don't masturbate now. No,
Speaker 1: he did not break my person. And this is to
Speaker 1: say I don't masturbate, but I will say I still
Speaker 1: get horny. Like one of my favorite things to do
Speaker 1: is watch videos of men crying. It just turns me
Speaker 1: on and then listen. And when I do the next morning,
Speaker 1: I'm humping my pillow. And why do you type in
Speaker 1: to find videos of men cry? It's a great question.
Speaker 1: How do you say, the only time that I see
Speaker 1: men cry is during the NBA fucking finals. That's so hot. Tears.
Speaker 1: I just used the range in video. Let me tell
Speaker 1: you it's tears someone died. No, but I've done it,
Speaker 1: and I get that. But no, so I'll research like
Speaker 1: grooms looking at their brides walking down the aisle. You
Speaker 1: google cantube YouTube all of it. I've seen it all
Speaker 1: not mad to listen the next morning if I see that, like,
Speaker 1: my bunties will be so wet, no pants. Oh my
Speaker 1: bilingual honey is lett. Yes, I listen, you're English made.
Speaker 1: Tell me those three months in Mexico doesn't mean I
Speaker 1: am not Mexican. I'm serious. We had to uh so,
Speaker 1: like I had to re like call to get the
Speaker 1: electricity turned on with the crimins saloom as we're going
Speaker 1: back and the guys on the phone, He's like, well
Speaker 1: let me tell you how it works. Please, I don't
Speaker 1: need you to say anything. I've been there. I know
Speaker 1: I've done it. I know exactly what happened, so like, please,
Speaker 1: I'm from tom basically like I know, yes, yes, look
Speaker 1: it up. You should have seen me when I got
Speaker 1: pulled over. I was like, I know Sergio nameing people.
Speaker 1: They're like, we don't give a you guys. Look when
Speaker 1: I see you, guys, I want to speak Spanish and
Speaker 1: I don't mean a light skinned but you know what's crazy.
Speaker 1: I think I have trauma with that because I remember
Speaker 1: in middle school Spanish. No, seriously, there's trauma. I would
Speaker 1: get a substitute teacher and they'd say my name, and
Speaker 1: you know, I may be either asking if I was
Speaker 1: a tea or something. I'd be like, no, I'm black.
Speaker 1: And he's like, but your name it comes from Latin Amanda.
Speaker 1: And I said, but it's Amanda. It ain't Amanda nigga
Speaker 1: like and I would Amanda, Yeah, it comes, it's there's
Speaker 1: an it's like, that's what he said. Looking at what's
Speaker 1: what a goal? I don't know. Looking at they said
Speaker 1: Amanda came from like Puerto Rico and something. Maybe he did,
Speaker 1: I don't know, but he was trying to tell me love.
Speaker 1: I knows deserving to be loved and I do deserve
Speaker 1: to get right now, do you know that last? I
Speaker 1: love you? So people a cole meaning of it. For
Speaker 1: love is God. All of that, that's what That's what
Speaker 1: God come to Bible study, I will, okay. That's where
Speaker 1: I used to be a mission. I used to actually
Speaker 1: have to memorize versus of the Bible and I would
Speaker 1: get little really, I would get a little pet name
Speaker 1: on the fash. Oh bish, I forgot that ship. Now
Speaker 1: it's hard because it used to be a compet titian
Speaker 1: for me to be honest. So so the fact that
Speaker 1: even the way I learned the Bible because if I
Speaker 1: if I learned it and I memorized it, I had
Speaker 1: to say it in front of the class. It would
Speaker 1: be on Wednesday's missions and I had a satchel and
Speaker 1: you would literally get like girl Scout badges for every
Speaker 1: book of the Bible that you learned and recited. It
Speaker 1: was really it was yeah, it was kind of yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't do any of that ship when I was
Speaker 1: a little. Yeah, I didn't have I didn't go to church,
Speaker 1: and everyone, well, oh we get into it white, we
Speaker 1: got it out larned ship. I want you guys to
Speaker 1: know that I've don't move like because it knows go
Speaker 1: you know, the police and Vietnam. Someone's offended. First of
Speaker 1: all that listen to this show, they love me. There's
Speaker 1: like three of them one girl. So we only got
Speaker 1: three Asians twenty six white people. I don't know. Like,
Speaker 1: so one girl. We have Fanny that I know about, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: wrote me. She was like, my name ade Fanny and
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, well you never do I don't
Speaker 1: know you are, okay, so based and being no, I'm seized.
Speaker 1: This is disgusting. But as a bunch of people tagged
Speaker 1: us in this on Twitter, three hundred and forty five
Speaker 1: thousand used condoms that were cleaned and sold as new
Speaker 1: What yes So. Footage was broadcasted on their television like
Speaker 1: on their newscast, with large bags containing contraceptives scattered across
Speaker 1: the floor of a warehouse in Bindung, and police said
Speaker 1: the bags weighed more than seven pounds, equivalent to three
Speaker 1: thousand condoms. I'm sorry, I'm looking at a picture. Use me.
Speaker 1: The owner of the warehouse said they received a monthly
Speaker 1: input of news used condoms from an unknown person and
Speaker 1: basically they cleaned it. A woman was detained during the
Speaker 1: bust and told the police that, um, they were boiled
Speaker 1: in water, then dried and reshaped on a wooden fallust
Speaker 1: before being repackaged and resold. Here's the interesting things. Just
Speaker 1: when we drink water, Yes, it's filtered. Yes, of someone
Speaker 1: ship in it before. Okay, I don't know. You shouldn't
Speaker 1: look at it like that, but it is. But it
Speaker 1: is like in spaceships. I only know because for fact
Speaker 1: Snake NASA episode. But in spaceships basically their p and
Speaker 1: their ship it's all filtered through and it's clean through
Speaker 1: system to come out as clean water and that's the
Speaker 1: water that we drink as well. It's sewer water and
Speaker 1: it's filtraded and they clean it. But they'd be getting
Speaker 1: our water from other places to like springs like Zephyr
Speaker 1: Hills is from a spring, and are like, just don't
Speaker 1: go into springs, bro, But they reuse the water. It's
Speaker 1: reclaimed water. Just watching you. But what I'm saying is
Speaker 1: reclaim condoms. No, that is I am not like, you
Speaker 1: know what's crazy, But the way we use condoms, even
Speaker 1: as soon as we like say during sex, as soon
Speaker 1: as you pull it off, it's not even reused, like
Speaker 1: it doesn't even really go back on to secure the
Speaker 1: same I guess that's why they're cleaning it. Boiled the ship.
Speaker 1: Maybe A shrinks back said, who ever had a Nike
Speaker 1: and try to reuse a condom that right now? Because
Speaker 1: I have, and I remember getting mad. Yeah there's no more, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and there's just there's just no more. Well, I've done
Speaker 1: the mistake of taking a condom all to suck it
Speaker 1: in between and him being like, so I don't have
Speaker 1: anymore then, why did you let me take it off?
Speaker 1: You don't suck it with the condom, you I mean,
Speaker 1: but I end up tasting the condoms sometimes anyways, because
Speaker 1: because whatever the inside casing is the taste on the dick,
Speaker 1: which is why everyone's like, well, how do you know
Speaker 1: what a magnum taste like? As soon as you pull
Speaker 1: it off, that inside casing is what I'm tasting in
Speaker 1: my mouth. Then gold condoms is nest which ones. I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna tell you what. Look take one girl, right,
Speaker 1: because do you even track your ovulation or anything or
Speaker 1: your body actually have the I U D. And I'm
Speaker 1: taking it out next month, and I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: going to get more Christian months it's out. I don't know,
Speaker 1: more Christian wants your idea that? What does that mean?
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, it is. There's two, So there's one the
Speaker 1: competing you're gonna be wanting to have sex? Well, I
Speaker 1: guess we'll see. I don't know. The copper one is
Speaker 1: no check my next month I will tell. But you know,
Speaker 1: I've had it for five years. It's got to come out.
Speaker 1: I also want to let my body do it's thing.
Speaker 1: I'm twenty seven now and my body is doing weird
Speaker 1: things like I'll hold my belly like I'm pregnant, or
Speaker 1: like I'll like hold my cat like it's my little baby,
Speaker 1: like all my titty and stuff. Do you guys know? No? Girl?
Speaker 1: And I got I got Body, and I don't be
Speaker 1: holding him because I mean I want to be a
Speaker 1: mom because that mother. Oh it's so funny because my
Speaker 1: friends are like, you sound like a black ass mama
Speaker 1: with your because I'll be like, Body, don't get your
Speaker 1: motherfucking off. That's not to And he knows as soon
Speaker 1: as I get up and go like this, he just run.
Speaker 1: Have you had your cat since it's a quarantine kitty? Ap?
Speaker 1: Why did that sound like you? It's a quarantine kitty?
Speaker 1: How long your cat? Three years? So the rest of
Speaker 1: the gros that listen to this show, I am not
Speaker 1: in that bone at all. Black don't she saved my life? Okay,
Speaker 1: so no emotion. I think we think you you know,
Speaker 1: emotional support is why I got Body's name is melancholy.
Speaker 1: You said what you couldn't got an a because a dog.
Speaker 1: I would have had said, you should have got your
Speaker 1: boyfriend and gotten rid of the cat, babysitter my boyfriend
Speaker 1: right after the cat. And I was like, damn, BODYE not,
Speaker 1: I don't even need your ass. I got both at
Speaker 1: the same at the same time, I put some of
Speaker 1: the horhive men like or that if there's anyone out there,
Speaker 1: like I'm definitely checking, but y'all got to get a ring.
Speaker 1: I just want to make a point. I went out
Speaker 1: Brianda a few weekends. We hang out a bar around
Speaker 1: her crib and she left once or went to the bathroom,
Speaker 1: and someone said to me one of the bar tenders,
Speaker 1: He's like, why are you doing this every weekend with
Speaker 1: her fucking going out? And she you know, she ain't
Speaker 1: trying to get down like that. I'm like, just because
Speaker 1: she loves Jesus, show me that cats work. Like I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: this sh don't bother me at all, Like, wait, why
Speaker 1: do you do this to her? Like Brihanna was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have came out. She had a little bandetta.
Speaker 1: I had just finished praying. Like, I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna do you drink liquor? Yeah, I do drink.
Speaker 1: I do drink. I didn't want to eat edibles. I
Speaker 1: do mushrooms. You guys don't have a Seconday. I'm getting high,
Speaker 1: and so I'm like, do you want him or not?
Speaker 1: It's just like no, okay, okay, I don't care to me,
Speaker 1: Like if I hang with someone and they know who
Speaker 1: I am, they funk with me. It's kind of like
Speaker 1: when you hang with a vegan, like if they're cool,
Speaker 1: they embarrassed, like if they know I'm gonna eat me
Speaker 1: and they find what can I tell you how Anning
Speaker 1: my friend, one of my best friends who's coming um
Speaker 1: to celebrate my birthday with me, were getting like ceviche
Speaker 1: on the boat. Right, this bitch don't eat shellfish. They said, well,
Speaker 1: we can substitute with hummus. I said, no, we cannot.
Speaker 1: At the bit. You better bring your whole sex because
Speaker 1: we get the c and then she doesn't eat meat.
Speaker 1: So they offered burgers, and Sevia said, okay, I said, bitch,
Speaker 1: for you, uh, we'll do the We'll do the little
Speaker 1: vegan burgers, a little fake ships, but sitting burgers be okay.
Speaker 1: Anything else they have. You know why I love you, bro.
Speaker 1: You know he's gonna feeling No, he wasn't. Okay, Well
Speaker 1: that point on the pork right, they had a big
Speaker 1: old one they had done. It's come fross too much.
Speaker 1: Oh you guys are ridiculous. Shut the up, bitch. We
Speaker 1: off here eating chickens doing our duty generationally, our ancestors
Speaker 1: want to need to eat chickens. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: They didn't want y'all have cats, but wait, not even chicken.
Speaker 1: And I feel bad because my nigga don't even eat pork.
Speaker 1: So when we went to a little Mexican spot, I said,
Speaker 1: could I have the out pa store? He was like,
Speaker 1: what is store? I said, what, bitch? Pork with pineapples.
Speaker 1: It's I think I'm not start by still is it?
Speaker 1: It's pork and pineapple stores for type of the type
Speaker 1: of it's the way the meat, it's stories pork. Right, No,
Speaker 1: I am too poor for this. I don't know from
Speaker 1: a Mexican restaurant. Maybe cheat told you pays based on lamb.
Speaker 1: Based on lamb, swarm me brought to Mexico, New Mexicans
Speaker 1: with putting pork and at their question me about the
Speaker 1: opp store when you feed a little bit more time
Speaker 1: to Mexico pineapple. So anyway, all right for the horrid derve,
Speaker 1: I want to talk about blow jobs. I think we're
Speaker 1: gonna need to revamp and do an episode about this
Speaker 1: because this is a very basic tip. But you guys
Speaker 1: don't seem to know it when you're sucking dick. Men,
Speaker 1: women whoever has a mouth that they're about to put
Speaker 1: on something that's shaped like a dick, if it's a
Speaker 1: real dick and not a strap. Keep in mind, Okay,
Speaker 1: a lot of the times it's easy to stay right
Speaker 1: at the hip and I feel like we look at
Speaker 1: you know, tips online or people are always talking about
Speaker 1: the friend of them and all these parts about how like,
Speaker 1: you know, the head is very sensitive. The base of
Speaker 1: the dick being dry is not sexy at all, and
Speaker 1: you got to use the rest of your mouth. Also,
Speaker 1: a lot of people are worried about their gag reflex.
Speaker 1: Never have I ever heard of niggas say in my life,
Speaker 1: and excuse me if I'm overstepping here, say I don't
Speaker 1: want to hear the sound, and it bothers me so
Speaker 1: badly that I don't want you to get to the
Speaker 1: rest of my dick. Please stop worrying about the gag,
Speaker 1: because you should put some effort in. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I think that men enjoy when it looks
Speaker 1: like you may be trying to die on it. Put
Speaker 1: the dick in your mouth. I've seen hilarious more fucking men,
Speaker 1: like I mean more important lately, we're like bitches are
Speaker 1: just staying right here and doing like a little no no,
Speaker 1: put some effort put it in your mouth, but you
Speaker 1: want someone to you wouldn't want to be put in
Speaker 1: your mouth. Also, when it's in your mouth, make sure
Speaker 1: your tongue out as well, because if you're just sucking it,
Speaker 1: bens it could do that. That's his job to put
Speaker 1: the vocal in your mouth, right, and this is very important.
Speaker 1: Make sure that your tongue can be felt on it
Speaker 1: because that's another sensation in itself, because right, your mouth
Speaker 1: is technically a cave, and that's really what it's doing
Speaker 1: when like it's making the shape, right, you're putting it
Speaker 1: in a cave. But they want to know it's a
Speaker 1: wet cave. So if you take your tongue out and
Speaker 1: you're like have it sticking out while you suck dick,
Speaker 1: the dick will get wetter. You'll get more saliva coming out.
Speaker 1: But not only that, it'll be a different sensation from
Speaker 1: just this hollowey cave mouth thing you have. Okay, taking
Speaker 1: out your tongue and i'd imagine when it hits the
Speaker 1: back of the throat, you salivate a little more, giving
Speaker 1: you more juice. Question though, it's just like if you
Speaker 1: had your mouth open right now and you're supposed to
Speaker 1: hold it open right it's gonna start dripping. So like
Speaker 1: the wider that you put your mouth and the more
Speaker 1: that the tongue is out, that's really what I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna start. I have really low self esteem. So like
Speaker 1: when I'm with a guy, every guy who's ever guys
Speaker 1: look at me when I'm giving them head know, they
Speaker 1: look at me like I'm a homeless person asking for change,
Speaker 1: like just come back up here, like they just just so,
Speaker 1: are you nervous when you suck big? I just I
Speaker 1: mean about my abilities? Why I just don't feel like
Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing. So it's so funny because
Speaker 1: my tip was going to be for the ladies who
Speaker 1: don't like to gag, like myself. My my my boyfriend
Speaker 1: definitely likes to get because I'll be I'll have to
Speaker 1: hit him in his face because he likes to like
Speaker 1: make me go down there and gag. So what I
Speaker 1: do to avoid this is I fake gag, so I'll
Speaker 1: like what That's actually really funny. So my tip for
Speaker 1: the ladies who really hate gagging, but you know your
Speaker 1: partner likes you to gag, just fake gags. So I'll
Speaker 1: literally still be at the head and be like, and
Speaker 1: I just make fake noises like I'm gags, but I'm
Speaker 1: really not. And I'd be like, and I just make
Speaker 1: all these little fake gag noises because I don't want
Speaker 1: to die sucking dick. Do you guys switch tempo and stuff? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll do that, like really what I do though? And
Speaker 1: I noticed this because he made me give him a
Speaker 1: hand job one time. He was like, I want to
Speaker 1: see if you can make me come with a hand job,
Speaker 1: like no mouth, no nothing. And I realized too, how
Speaker 1: how much uh more firm he wanted me to grip
Speaker 1: his dick because he was pretty much telling me what
Speaker 1: he likes. So instead, I know a lot of us
Speaker 1: just go up and down, but a lot of men
Speaker 1: actually like you to kind of you know, squeezing. He did,
Speaker 1: he did forever. I was like, nigga about it? Come
Speaker 1: in then? So what I would do without putting my
Speaker 1: mouth on it? I went to the top and like
Speaker 1: would make my spitfall, but I could only do it
Speaker 1: with my hand. He was like, I want to see
Speaker 1: if you could do it, and it did. It took
Speaker 1: a while, but with that, but with that, I learned
Speaker 1: even just the pressure he liked for me to apply
Speaker 1: on his shaft. So now I feel like that helped
Speaker 1: me know when I'm when I am sucking his dick,
Speaker 1: even if I am staying at the top, I know
Speaker 1: he likes it to be squeezed a little harder than
Speaker 1: I thought he would have liked. To keep in mind,
Speaker 1: like when men wear cockerings and ship like that, or
Speaker 1: they take pills, it's blood flow. So when you're squeezing
Speaker 1: it tighter, like they're feeling the blood blood flow. And
Speaker 1: I'm not saying squeeze the dick and make it erupt,
Speaker 1: but I'm not. We wanted to rub old baby has
Speaker 1: always told me, like if it's early in the morning
Speaker 1: and he's not hard yet or whatever, like he always
Speaker 1: told me to squeeze it and it's so squeezing. It
Speaker 1: is definitely like a tip. The first question when I
Speaker 1: go on on dates with guys and I like let
Speaker 1: them know on the a that I'm sellingbate, Like the
Speaker 1: first thing they'll ask is like like everything, so he
Speaker 1: had jobs too, Like no, they'll ask like, like your
Speaker 1: oral no, and I'm like, no, no, why would I
Speaker 1: want that? I would drive myself crazy. Yeah, that hate
Speaker 1: when people say, like when you're in your period, they'll
Speaker 1: make like a joke about it. That doesn't work. And
Speaker 1: it's funny because we many I were just saying, I
Speaker 1: don't know, the last week or whatever, we've had some
Speaker 1: guests on it don't like sucking dick, and it's I
Speaker 1: feel like such a bit because I feel like I
Speaker 1: don't understand. I don't understand it. Maybe that's why we
Speaker 1: have this job, but I truly do not. You like
Speaker 1: it because you're good at it. I don't like it
Speaker 1: because I'm not good at that. So that's what I'm
Speaker 1: think enough to admit that. Tell me. Y'all heard a
Speaker 1: few episodes about I think it was right that I
Speaker 1: was fucking nicked his dick with my teeth. But in
Speaker 1: my defense, we actually circled back to this conversation. I
Speaker 1: was like, look, I brother this up in an episode.
Speaker 1: We need to talk about it again. He said he's
Speaker 1: never ever had a girl, not never not felt teeth
Speaker 1: on his dick. But yeah, because you said it's you
Speaker 1: just that sucking that dick can you imagine how insecure
Speaker 1: would feel, right, but also I'm in it for myself. Wow,
Speaker 1: you're so brave. Thank you. You know there's there's brand
Speaker 1: aids and I also halls talk about it not be
Speaker 1: putting no band aid on this. So we're gonna get
Speaker 1: into the horrible decision this week, and she got I
Speaker 1: called it Bible bussy because there's so much gay stuff
Speaker 1: in the Bible. But really I thought it would be
Speaker 1: fun because we talked about Christianity and some of the
Speaker 1: hypocrisy and how there's a lot of welcomeness in there
Speaker 1: with Pastor Corey. But specifically, I thought it'd be cool
Speaker 1: to talk about stories of sex in the Bible. Mandy
Speaker 1: and I have a dope episode called ho Story on
Speaker 1: Patreon where we talked about, um, all the sex stories
Speaker 1: from back in the day that we found a lot
Speaker 1: of prostitution and ship like that. But Brianna is going
Speaker 1: to teach us today about some little skanky stories in
Speaker 1: the Bible. Oh my god. Okay, well I didn't know
Speaker 1: I was going to be the teacher. Mind you, guys,
Speaker 1: I am not a minister pastor. I don't I'm not good,
Speaker 1: all right, So I wanted to talk about the story
Speaker 1: of Sodom and Gomorrow. Why don't we just go there? Okay, sodom, sodomy, yes,
Speaker 1: which we all know what what is sodomy when you
Speaker 1: put a broomstick? Sure? Why? Just like I thought it was, like,
Speaker 1: sodomy is a bunch of things. So it's also yeah,
Speaker 1: if you look up sodomy in the dictionary, it's a.
Speaker 1: It's a. It's like it's considered anal sex. I thought
Speaker 1: it was any but that's the first one. But there's
Speaker 1: also in the dictionaries of sexual anniverse involving anal or
Speaker 1: oral copulation. So basically, even if your mail is on
Speaker 1: the axe and on the ass, then it's I know,
Speaker 1: objects to it's everything exactly, not like that. I like
Speaker 1: being about Buddha, which brings me to the story of Sodom.
Speaker 1: So I wanted to like really go for the more
Speaker 1: extreme story. This story and the story and judges these
Speaker 1: are the really ones that like people even skip but
Speaker 1: not every story in the Bible is like this. By
Speaker 1: the way, do not let this suay you from meeting
Speaker 1: the Bible. So I'd realized that everyone in Sodom and
Speaker 1: Goborra was doing wicked things quote unquote wicked things, killing,
Speaker 1: gang raping, raping their daughters, giving their children. Like, I'm
Speaker 1: talking about a lot of really heinous, vile things. And
Speaker 1: God went to his homie Abraham, Abraham for the Jews,
Speaker 1: head out, the father of the Covenant, you know, the
Speaker 1: father of all nations, the father of Israel. And he
Speaker 1: went him and he was like, bro, I'm about to
Speaker 1: put Sodom on lockdown and burn that ship down. And
Speaker 1: Abraham was like, whoa, whoa, why whoa. I know you've
Speaker 1: done it before, but like, let's talk about this. And
Speaker 1: then God was like, okay, listen, this is what they're
Speaker 1: doing X y Z, and then he said okay. Abraham
Speaker 1: was like, God, wait, let's talk about this. Well, what
Speaker 1: if there were a thousand righteous men? Are you gonna
Speaker 1: burn them all down to? And God was like all right,
Speaker 1: let me check. And then God was like, okay, there's
Speaker 1: not a thousand good people down there are you talking about?
Speaker 1: And then Abraham was like, okay, wait, check, what about five?
Speaker 1: What if there are five hundred good people down there,
Speaker 1: You're just gonna burn them all the way to And
Speaker 1: then God was like all right, final, let me check check.
Speaker 1: Still not even five hundred, and then Abraham's like ten.
Speaker 1: He goes and goes, motherfucker, there aren't even ten righteous
Speaker 1: people down there. It's going down. And then he said, okay, wait,
Speaker 1: my nephew Lot is down there. Please spare him, you know, Abraham,
Speaker 1: that's really what Abraham was trying to get at, because
Speaker 1: Abraham's family was sacred in the Bible, especially in the
Speaker 1: Old Testament. So God goes, all right, I will hook
Speaker 1: your nephew and his family up. He sends down two
Speaker 1: angels to Sodom too, angels, and they meet at the
Speaker 1: court square. Mind you, the court square is where is
Speaker 1: popping where everyone congregates. It's why they all do the
Speaker 1: exactly the lower East side of New York City. Yes,
Speaker 1: and then they see the Lot sees them, and he
Speaker 1: sees like other people approaching them, like they're about to
Speaker 1: bait them, because in this town that they see new people,
Speaker 1: new men specifically, that's where we go. So then you know,
Speaker 1: a lot goes can't come to the courts where it
Speaker 1: coming come to my house. Please. This is a depiction
Speaker 1: of hospitality, which people don't talk a lot about. But
Speaker 1: he was being hospitable to these eight two angels he
Speaker 1: brings them in, and the angels tell him all right, y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all gotta go because God's about to burn this ship down.
Speaker 1: Let's pack it up, let's go. Araham's like, well, hold on, what, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not ready. I mean a lot his nephew was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not ready. I haven't even packed my things, like
Speaker 1: I got my daughter's here. And then all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: in lots Home Insadom they here. The whole town is
Speaker 1: outside of lots House, and I'm talking about people from
Speaker 1: all ages, men, women, old, young, and they're like, hey,
Speaker 1: bring out those two guys. We saw you all go
Speaker 1: in there with bring him out. We want and you
Speaker 1: want to know what they said in the let's let's go.
Speaker 1: Let's pray for Mandy real quick. So the people in
Speaker 1: the town go, bring him out. We want to get
Speaker 1: to quote unquote know them carnally, which in biblical terms
Speaker 1: means anal yes. And a Lot was like, no, you cannot,
Speaker 1: because Lot was a lot of not partaking these things.
Speaker 1: Lot was like, okay, wait, hold on, what if I
Speaker 1: gave you my two daughters and said like please, I
Speaker 1: know so many things. But that shows that he's not
Speaker 1: really is righteous are good either, but we have to
Speaker 1: also judge him based off of the like where the
Speaker 1: time was that Jerry common, especially like with concubines. They
Speaker 1: would get listen, we talked about the gays having the ship,
Speaker 1: end of the stick, talk about women and children. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's talk about that. But any who, So he offers
Speaker 1: him that and they were like no, and then the
Speaker 1: angels like, we gotta get going now. They end up
Speaker 1: planning their escape. It's a Lot, his wife and his
Speaker 1: two daughters, and they plan out their escape to leave
Speaker 1: Sodom anymore. And then the angels tell them, all right, listen,
Speaker 1: we're going to go straight ahead, and you cannot so
Speaker 1: much as look back at the old town. And Abraham
Speaker 1: was kind of a a lot sorry. Lot was kind
Speaker 1: of hurt because a Lot lived and saw him for
Speaker 1: a really long time, and he kind of felt whole
Speaker 1: full for those people. He almost felt like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: maybe he could like fix them or there was hope
Speaker 1: for them or something. And the angels were like, no,
Speaker 1: there's not, and God has made his decision. Go. So
Speaker 1: they end up walking. It's everyone and as they're walking,
Speaker 1: Lot's wife turns back to look and God has already
Speaker 1: started the second they're not God's starting pellets of sulfur flames.
Speaker 1: It's a scary sight. And his wife sees his wife.
Speaker 1: Lot's wife defies what the angel said, and then she
Speaker 1: turns into a pillar of salt like assault statue. And
Speaker 1: that's it. Abraham's like, Goddam angels are like, we weren't
Speaker 1: kidding when we said, don't look back at your past.
Speaker 1: You have to keep going forward. Anyways, That's how he
Speaker 1: gets out of Sodom. The wait and that's really Brianna,
Speaker 1: I need to produce a podcastle for I would love
Speaker 1: to please. I am telling you I'm not fucking around
Speaker 1: for that was they would invest my own money that
Speaker 1: you're saying, okay us And then he just came down.
Speaker 1: I say, it's blasphemous from using swear words. I'm not perfect,
Speaker 1: but whatever, But I'm an entertainer, and I think that
Speaker 1: it's all about the times, right, Like I'm an entertainer
Speaker 1: when you are like trying to speak to a certain
Speaker 1: group of people and a certain demographic that will take
Speaker 1: digestice better, like our listeners are going to enjoy this more.
Speaker 1: I love you. Didn't even hear the end of it
Speaker 1: into wait, listen, that's the end up kind of like
Speaker 1: and Sodom was destroyed Sodom and gon that the neighboring
Speaker 1: some neighboring towns. But y'all, so now it's a lot
Speaker 1: and his two daughters that are left, and they're thinking
Speaker 1: that it's like the end of the world. Imagine imagine
Speaker 1: knowing that they end up going to this cave in
Speaker 1: a place called Zor, and their father is, you know,
Speaker 1: is very old. The sisters plot and they go, all right,
Speaker 1: we need to save our family line because their family
Speaker 1: line is like sacred. They're like, know, we need and
Speaker 1: they go to fund let me continue. The eldest daughter
Speaker 1: talks to the younger daughter. It was like, sister, it
Speaker 1: was like, we got it. We gotta fun dad. You
Speaker 1: gotta get him. She goes, we gotta get him drunk,
Speaker 1: and we gotta do it. The first night the eldest
Speaker 1: got her father drunk and did the deed, and then
Speaker 1: the next night the younger sister went in got the
Speaker 1: father drunk again. You cannot know real quick, not that
Speaker 1: you memorized it, but does it say art thou poured
Speaker 1: wine upon thy glass for thy father? Like in so
Speaker 1: many words. It um you know, they you know, the
Speaker 1: scripture is kind of like biblical poetry, and I don't
Speaker 1: have a memorized per se, but it's something along the
Speaker 1: lines of I was handicapped by the wine or something
Speaker 1: like in so many words, I was incapacitated by the wine,
Speaker 1: which like, really, dad, really not, I don't think so
Speaker 1: shut well, he ended up yeah, he ended his daughters.
Speaker 1: He end up coming in both of them. They both
Speaker 1: got pregnant. It is all up. Okay, I might want
Speaker 1: to read about but you don't understand. But let's understand.
Speaker 1: But you have to understand that this team, which I
Speaker 1: don't necessarily really believe, but they say that the girl
Speaker 1: the sisters were doing this because they thought the world
Speaker 1: was over and they wanted to procreate girl fucking me
Speaker 1: and my daddy gonna boy. Yeah, well, the listen the Bible. Okay,
Speaker 1: And this is what I also want to say about
Speaker 1: the even the let's take it, let's macro level. The
Speaker 1: world is an imperfect, dangerous, wild place. It's also beautiful
Speaker 1: and magnificent, and like we get to build these relationships.
Speaker 1: You guys have this massive podcast city. It can be
Speaker 1: beautiful and it listen the Jews did no. Um, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I love Jewish men. But listen the ones
Speaker 1: with the low curl. I love it all, you know what,
Speaker 1: especially the tall ones that play basketball. I've never then
Speaker 1: with a Jewish. What does the Jewish basketball play? I'm
Speaker 1: sure I can find one. Oh you mean you just
Speaker 1: see him around what you neighbor? They look Jewish. Oh
Speaker 1: that's terrible to say. You're in So I can I
Speaker 1: just say Bible with Brianda, We'll be coming out soon.
Speaker 1: I'm not fucking playing. That was That was also discussing Yes,
Speaker 1: I would love to continue discussing the more beautiful parts
Speaker 1: of the Bible we have. We we do got to
Speaker 1: another story? So is right? Wait? Oh, Judges is more
Speaker 1: or less the same story? But I wanted to I
Speaker 1: can tell you. I can tell you more the Bible.
Speaker 1: It's in the Book of Acts and it's more or
Speaker 1: less the same storyline. Um, do you guys really want
Speaker 1: me to get into this? It really is sort of
Speaker 1: the same. But it involves uh, concubine. You guys know
Speaker 1: what that is? Okay, class, So race don't raise your
Speaker 1: hand A lot of ones I go hold you. You
Speaker 1: know the only thing I thought about, but I noticed
Speaker 1: that what you're talking about, is it a concus that's
Speaker 1: a secment. I'm thinking of a whole hands and pray
Speaker 1: for Mandy's libato who you said. I'm thinkingna like the
Speaker 1: demons and Charmed or something, somebody in prison. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: it means okay. So biblically it means a like a
Speaker 1: side woman, a side piece. Oh my god, man, he
Speaker 1: was like, is that a port part? You know what,
Speaker 1: Let's save Let's save that story for another podcast. I
Speaker 1: want to. I do want to end it on one
Speaker 1: though personally I gave you guys that story. This story
Speaker 1: is gonna be for me. So there's a story in
Speaker 1: the Book of John chapter five where Jesus goes out
Speaker 1: to the pool of Bethesda. But Bethesda, which is where
Speaker 1: it's very kind of like the courts where where a
Speaker 1: lot of people congregating stuff. And but at this point
Speaker 1: Christ had, you know, the gentiles and people that weren't Jewish,
Speaker 1: like were were loved Jesus and believed that he was
Speaker 1: the Messiah. And Jesus was there kind of like a listen.
Speaker 1: Jesus was a rock star, if we kind of think
Speaker 1: about it, he was out there, you know, showing the
Speaker 1: people his embrace and like preaching, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And listen, he sees someone from the crowd, and he
Speaker 1: sees a man who was on the ground looked ill.
Speaker 1: He sees them, and he he approaches him and he goes,
Speaker 1: I'm going to heal you, and then goes off being
Speaker 1: a rock star. He then comes back to check on him.
Speaker 1: He's still on the ground. Jesus like, really, get up.
Speaker 1: I healed you, and all of a sudden, this man
Speaker 1: can walk again. And there's something in that chapter that
Speaker 1: really hits with me personally. And it was and it
Speaker 1: said that that man who he healed did not know
Speaker 1: who he was. And I think that's really important because
Speaker 1: it goes to show you that when it comes to
Speaker 1: loving God and Christ for that matter, it doesn't matter
Speaker 1: about the bells and whistles and the blessings you may have,
Speaker 1: like I have all of this that means I must
Speaker 1: be loved by God. No, God doesn't care about that.
Speaker 1: God sees you, and God sees righteousness. It'd be like
Speaker 1: almost like lying in your journal, lying to yourself in
Speaker 1: your journal, Like you can't lie to God. God knows
Speaker 1: and he doesn't care about you going to church seven
Speaker 1: times a week, and like all of a sudden, he
Speaker 1: knows your soul. And that man didn't even know about Jesus,
Speaker 1: and Jesus healed him. Meanwhile, he was in a crowd
Speaker 1: of people who knew and loved him and was like
Speaker 1: sign my like and he's and he didn't care about that,
Speaker 1: yes exactly, and he did not. He chose the one
Speaker 1: who did. And I think it's really important. Listen, I've
Speaker 1: read the Book of John on acid and it was transformative.
Speaker 1: It was transformati. Let's give a little precursor. So Brianna
Speaker 1: has a podcast like christian Ya. He's playing that a
Speaker 1: little please, because if you're right you you did? You
Speaker 1: get to explain, yes, explain real quick and listening to
Speaker 1: you what's your podcast was about, so they can know
Speaker 1: you a little bit more for sure. So if anything, uh,
Speaker 1: psychedelics was what brought me to Christ. Like I was
Speaker 1: an atheist, I was like an atheist activist before all
Speaker 1: of this. So I would read the Bible, but it
Speaker 1: was only so I could like learn about it, so
Speaker 1: I could like and debate people about the really thing
Speaker 1: I would bring to myself about it. Just like so anyways, so,
Speaker 1: and I remember one of my favorite psychedelic um comics,
Speaker 1: um uh duncan trustle. He had a podcast and he
Speaker 1: was talking about being on mushrooms and reading the Book
Speaker 1: of John and I said, it was my first time
Speaker 1: doing psychedelics ever was acid. And I said, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna I'm gonna read the
Speaker 1: Bible and be on asset. And I was also really
Speaker 1: depressed at the time and like suicidal, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I need something else, I'll go to it fine. And
Speaker 1: it was just that line particular really hit me. And
Speaker 1: I feel like we all have our however way you
Speaker 1: get to Christ or whoever way you get to God
Speaker 1: or your own spirituality, whatever it's called, we all remember
Speaker 1: that first thing that cracked us open. And that was
Speaker 1: it for me, That line right there, it's it proved
Speaker 1: to me that it didn't matter that I haven't been baptized.
Speaker 1: It didn't matter that I didn't, you know, necessarily understand
Speaker 1: most of the Bible, because my relationship with Christ was
Speaker 1: individual and mysterious in my own and it didn't matter
Speaker 1: about the bells and whistles because I don't know. I
Speaker 1: found it and I felt this. I was like overcome
Speaker 1: by love. Where's the parts of the Bible that they
Speaker 1: talk about celibacy? Like have you read anything? And you're like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is me. This is what I'm
Speaker 1: an emulate, like oh yeah, okay, well here and there's
Speaker 1: so many okay, well, First Corinthians, which is I think
Speaker 1: the most famous book that that Paul wrote where people
Speaker 1: really got broken down like immorality, what's good and what's not?
Speaker 1: Lust and stuff, And it was the line that really
Speaker 1: got me and I was like, oh, I found home.
Speaker 1: Was do not deprive each other of sexual relations unless
Speaker 1: you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for limited time,
Speaker 1: so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Wait,
Speaker 1: don't wait in there? Yeah wait yeah, say it again again,
Speaker 1: saying I'll repeat it weak. So this is in terms
Speaker 1: of marriage and chapter seven, verse five. Okay, do not
Speaker 1: deprive each other of sexual relationships unless you unless you
Speaker 1: both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy. So basically, don't
Speaker 1: hold that pussy out unless for a limited time. But
Speaker 1: what is limited? What is time? Because it's not three days?
Speaker 1: You know, always one of which I got a three
Speaker 1: day period. Oh, God. But because you ain't been bleeding.
Speaker 1: Huh you guys to me, what are we get? Okay, guys,
Speaker 1: you have you just got by the way, congratulations on
Speaker 1: what's the new podcast called? We're gonna have another one?
Speaker 1: But Jesus said thing, yes, that's exactly. I like that too.
Speaker 1: But that's what Maybe the Bible with Brianda could be
Speaker 1: the Bible. You could say it all born, why you
Speaker 1: never wanted to do this? No, this is great. I
Speaker 1: well I brought it up to you, but you are
Speaker 1: you didn't say it like gospels. Don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: I love hearing you talk about drugs because I can.
Speaker 1: I be honest with you. This is a performer. So
Speaker 1: when I'm in front of a mike, I tapped dance Love.
Speaker 1: No I do you would say that he listen whatever,
Speaker 1: that's what he said, all right, Wait, we do have
Speaker 1: time for a little bit more around five minutes because
Speaker 1: we got oh hell yeah, okay, okay, wait, if we
Speaker 1: got time, then I'll do girl five minutes. No, no,
Speaker 1: I can do I can then I can do judges. Okay,
Speaker 1: so judges is just as wicked and gory as no. Okay,
Speaker 1: well maybe actually I mean with all the rape they
Speaker 1: were doing probably all right, So this story is about
Speaker 1: Lovite and his concue. We don't, no, we don't. So
Speaker 1: this mante he had a girlfriend, a concubine, and she
Speaker 1: cheated on him actually, which, by the way, just because
Speaker 1: they weren't considered a wife didn't mean that the men
Speaker 1: didn't have a relationship with them, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So I did feel that he felt something for her. Um,
Speaker 1: she cheated on him, and then after she did, she
Speaker 1: went back home. Because lovete actually stole the concubine. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of that comin sound Dr Love You know what.
Speaker 1: I'm having my grains all the time, doctor, and you
Speaker 1: know it's finds water. Amanza. She gets on my damn nerves.
Speaker 1: I think she's on a podcast. She's just got too
Speaker 1: much going on. She always calling me all the time.
Speaker 1: Were you an accountant? Were there a bunch of juwesday?
Speaker 1: Maybe doing law, I mean bullshit law have it and
Speaker 1: the one the one where you get paid for being
Speaker 1: in a car accident. But no, there wasn't. Um, there
Speaker 1: was only one jew on my floor. Thank you for that.
Speaker 1: And we do that because bitch, it got to be
Speaker 1: busy season. What is it right before the nine rum
Speaker 1: poor whatever for me out of here. But the New
Speaker 1: York Man You show Show Shanna, sat Show Shanna. I
Speaker 1: knew that was cool. Whatever it was, the nigga said, well,
Speaker 1: I can't be at work, and we was like busy thing.
Speaker 1: We was mad. We was like we did we all jewish?
Speaker 1: We ain't coming to work hucking boss. Now y'all know
Speaker 1: I ain't ship. But my boss at the time, when
Speaker 1: I was working two companies before Young corpor was coming
Speaker 1: and Rosa Shanna right, and I was like, I want
Speaker 1: to get this Monday off. I was like, hey, t J,
Speaker 1: I just wanted you to know Rosha Shan is coming.
Speaker 1: And he looks at me. He goes, what the fuck
Speaker 1: have you ever been a jew? When the funk have
Speaker 1: you ever a day off? I am that cheat answering
Speaker 1: this question would you eat every morning? But I I
Speaker 1: don't want to say anything, and I was like a
Speaker 1: sausage rink puppet and what is in that sauftage rink puffet?
Speaker 1: I saw it was beef yo and I'm damn sure
Speaker 1: I didn't go to work on Monday. I said, well
Speaker 1: human resorting to almost said my last name. It is
Speaker 1: the most jewish last name anyone you name me when
Speaker 1: I fucking call and type in those real estate companies
Speaker 1: and call me back. So you're Jewish? I mean what
Speaker 1: I'm pleasur it is and whatever I'm being discriminated against
Speaker 1: and be like, wow, is this or this name? What
Speaker 1: is it? Tell me my name is so Jewish and
Speaker 1: has enough? Okay? Anyway, so how jewish was dalcr lo
Speaker 1: by Oh my god? Not Jewish enough? Okay? Wait, so
Speaker 1: she cheats, so she ends up leave it. So once
Speaker 1: cheats on Lovete, she leaves. She's probably unhappy, as most
Speaker 1: side bitches are. So he goes out, and um, she
Speaker 1: goes to her father's house, and because that's where she
Speaker 1: used to live, she goes there. And you know what
Speaker 1: Lovete does. He goes after her because she was gone
Speaker 1: for four months. Four months his side piece was done gone.
Speaker 1: He was alone, He's lonely, was missing her. It wasn't
Speaker 1: sucking as dick the way this concubine was sucking it.
Speaker 1: That's not so listen. So wait, So so Lovete goes
Speaker 1: to her father's house and he treats her with like
Speaker 1: I said, hospitality, which is a very common theme. And
Speaker 1: he goes, oh my god, hey, he's known as the
Speaker 1: father in law. Actually, um so he he says her
Speaker 1: for a number of days, and he convinces the concubine
Speaker 1: to please come back with me. Please. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Whatever we went through, it's kind of like a testament
Speaker 1: of like working things out, like for couples that like experience,
Speaker 1: you know, cheating and stuff. No relationship is perfect, okay,
Speaker 1: And even if the relationship you think are perfect, they're
Speaker 1: not talking about their issues as the problem. But I
Speaker 1: think that that's a really that that part of the
Speaker 1: book was, That's what I gathered from them. Anyways, let's
Speaker 1: pass forward this a little bit. So he ends up
Speaker 1: leaving with his donkey and his in a bunch of
Speaker 1: food and wine and his concubine, and on their voyage
Speaker 1: they ran past this town that was similar to Sodom.
Speaker 1: The name is failing me right now, but it'll come
Speaker 1: to me. And the concubine was like, we can't stay here.
Speaker 1: There's a bunch of pagan ship happening here. We gotta
Speaker 1: go somewhere else, and he was like, no, we're gonna
Speaker 1: be fine, don't worry. Listen, pagan ship for you guys
Speaker 1: is like kind of witchgraphy stuff things that they felt
Speaker 1: the magic color too, exactly. So they find themselves out
Speaker 1: another court square. It's it's um. It's Levi and his
Speaker 1: concubine with and his donkeys in the ship, and no
Speaker 1: one would be hospitable with him though no one would
Speaker 1: invite him in. That's how they are there. That's what
Speaker 1: God really talks about, like the people who don't share,
Speaker 1: who are closed off. He doesn't funk with that, um.
Speaker 1: But eventually an old man sees them in the court
Speaker 1: square and it's like, you got what are you all
Speaker 1: doing here? Keep coming up? Listen, like legit, y'all gotta
Speaker 1: get back in here. No, seriously, is not good. This
Speaker 1: has to been the one righteous man in that town. Seriously,
Speaker 1: And they found him. They take him in right, and
Speaker 1: then levit's like thank you so much, you know. The
Speaker 1: concubine is like, all right, baby, let's go to the back,
Speaker 1: like okay, we're fine. And then all of a sudden
Speaker 1: again the whole town is outside the old man's house.
Speaker 1: Again who they're saying and in the story, it's very
Speaker 1: similar to Sodom in Gabora, Like seriously, and they go
Speaker 1: we want to get to know your new visitors, get
Speaker 1: to know them carnally, which again we already know means
Speaker 1: rape you, gang, rape you, whatever. And then the old
Speaker 1: man's like, no, please, don't take the concubine. Instead, bitches,
Speaker 1: they give him the concubine they offered. Yeah, and guess what,
Speaker 1: they fuck her. All of the town fox her and
Speaker 1: for hours. She ends up going somewhere else and coming
Speaker 1: back morning after and collapses on the ground. And then
Speaker 1: Love fights Caesar on the ground and he goes, get up.
Speaker 1: He sees that she's not moving. He goes, bitch, cut up.
Speaker 1: She's dead, and he is so pissed. He cuts her
Speaker 1: body up in twelve pieces. Oh of course, he wait,
Speaker 1: let me tell you. He no you he no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. He cuts the pieces everybody, limb by limb,
Speaker 1: and he sends him to the nations, to the other
Speaker 1: twelve nations, so that they can see how terrible and
Speaker 1: and and discussing and horrible the town of It's a
Speaker 1: benj Benjamin Knights, The Benjamin Knights, that's those are the
Speaker 1: people that fuck the that concubine up and and and
Speaker 1: it basically was a turning point for like um showing
Speaker 1: them how vile they were, even though he did a
Speaker 1: vile act by for sure, how long it takes the ship.
Speaker 1: It must have been thinking that's a very good thought.
Speaker 1: You're right, that's very good, but it's true, and he
Speaker 1: sent it. But he did in order to show them
Speaker 1: just how vile these people were, which if you really
Speaker 1: think about it, love I, you know one's more vile
Speaker 1: than you. You're the one that offered her up. You're
Speaker 1: the one that like cut her up. One. But if
Speaker 1: you're thinking about this this through the context of Biblical times,
Speaker 1: he really wanted to show like, no, those people are
Speaker 1: fucked up. Like I told you, you can have her
Speaker 1: for a little right, y'all took it too far anyways.
Speaker 1: The Bible is a wild thing. That's but again the
Speaker 1: two stories that like, listen, people want to skip. Typically
Speaker 1: the Bible is also the achole thing. Yeah, the books,
Speaker 1: there's a yeah, those a lot of them skip it.
Speaker 1: And that's a common thing and a lot of Abrahamic
Speaker 1: Christian because because I just felt like I watched a
Speaker 1: TV show. Oh man, that what a compliment coming from me.
Speaker 1: You're welcome, because that was exciting. It was when you
Speaker 1: said cut her up. I was like I thought I
Speaker 1: loved how Now hey, hey, so y'all know, just like
Speaker 1: she said, she ain't a pasta and read them books
Speaker 1: if you want to interpreted another way, because we know
Speaker 1: that the Bible is not really written in English. You
Speaker 1: told him where to find Yeah? For sure? With that,
Speaker 1: John Love, I okay, John Jacob Joon. Now on for
Speaker 1: the whole confession. Yes, we haven't had a confession in
Speaker 1: a while. I appreciate this. I don't know who it
Speaker 1: comes from, but here we go. Hello, hell's I'm an
Speaker 1: avid male listener and a white bread sex haver. Why
Speaker 1: what does that mean? A white bread sexhor It's what's
Speaker 1: the have her sex? Have her? Have her? No, he has?
Speaker 1: He has sex white bread sex. So wait, he's white.
Speaker 1: This man is white. So we got a white male listener.
Speaker 1: This is why he had a dream about me. Had
Speaker 1: to be. I hadn't been reluctant to share my dream
Speaker 1: because I didn't really want to. I don't want to
Speaker 1: read like a Sleezoh, dude, you're already weird sex. Didn't
Speaker 1: think y'all would care me. You and Mandy, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: dragged you into this. We really mean the club you
Speaker 1: could have left me out. Wheezy and me started messing
Speaker 1: around on the way to the suv parked down the street.
Speaker 1: Mandy rolled her eyes and bounced out of disgust. Good,
Speaker 1: I like where this is going? Anyway? He was giving
Speaker 1: that great a oral that she brags about. Excuse me,
Speaker 1: it would sucking the white paint. After a while, she
Speaker 1: got frustrated that I hadn't come yet. She dropped her
Speaker 1: hands to the side, looked up at me like, really naked. Really?
Speaker 1: Oh wait, this is a white man and he types
Speaker 1: the N word. What's the wait? Wait wait, wait, wait
Speaker 1: wait wait wait white bread sex have he's white bread.
Speaker 1: He's bread, and white likes having sex with white plain
Speaker 1: vanilla girl. Maybe he likes a white bread. Maybe right, people,
Speaker 1: you're trying to give us some some gluten free I
Speaker 1: don't think a white dude wrote really nigked, but and
Speaker 1: there's no aster he wrote. Wheezy looked up at me,
Speaker 1: dropped her hands in out of like, really nigked, which
Speaker 1: I would do, but not for you. What's white bread? Like?
Speaker 1: R E D no b A d oh wait, white bread?
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That's what I mean. Okay, So
Speaker 1: he's just suburbian. Yeah, straight and email it anyway. Look,
Speaker 1: we thought that the air work. You can say, you
Speaker 1: can't think you can write. Wait, white people can't. It's
Speaker 1: not necessarily racial and meaning. It's just an indication of blandness.
Speaker 1: Oh he's bland. Okay, okay, well, bitch, when you put
Speaker 1: white bread in the toast, it'd be tasting good. Same man,
Speaker 1: it ain't that bland. But okay, well, let's get past
Speaker 1: the word. Reluctantly, she climbed into the back of the sub,
Speaker 1: rolled in her back through her legs behind her bed
Speaker 1: her head easily as she had on a short dress.
Speaker 1: Her eyes were absolutely shooting daggers at me out of
Speaker 1: disgust while I was overheard thrusting you sick. Fuck. I
Speaker 1: woke up laughing, but not on some dumb I was
Speaker 1: able to hold out on that head or whatever ship.
Speaker 1: I just imagined that she totally would have killed me
Speaker 1: than for reading best tea boat signed the Proud Masturbator. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're fucking weird, though I don't know he's letter to
Speaker 1: this right now. Like, I'm not talking about his dream
Speaker 1: being weird. I'm talking about the white bread. That's what
Speaker 1: that's walk off. You can't pull white in a in
Speaker 1: contact and then say Nigga three sentences like that. Damn
Speaker 1: was like, and I thought you were a sex. We
Speaker 1: have a question. I have a question. Can white people
Speaker 1: not spell it out? Either? No? Okay, okay, I'm fine,
Speaker 1: but I was just curious. Let me tell you why? Why?
Speaker 1: Because we yes, Jules, that really Nike A T shirt
Speaker 1: or whatever it was, and Nigga's let her happen. Yes,
Speaker 1: you know it's worse. Yes, Jules got increasingly worse. Like
Speaker 1: I feel like she wasn't that bad that many years ago.
Speaker 1: I was like, she's a white girl, like they were
Speaker 1: kind of right, and then that interview and was like
Speaker 1: talking about every black woman and just oh and Karen
Speaker 1: Simil wasn't hate you take a picture with kids too?
Speaker 1: What was that in z Ways show? Maybe you guys
Speaker 1: gotta watch that show. And honestly, what bothered me about
Speaker 1: that most? It's like, I don't care if I don't
Speaker 1: really know Karen Sabel, but if she was being phony,
Speaker 1: at least her black ass did some that we are
Speaker 1: saying that it's not the same problem, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's like, no, it makes me was profiting
Speaker 1: off of the culture and trying to be down so bad.
Speaker 1: Why are you telling us about a black woman who
Speaker 1: well that was the problem too. She also um was
Speaker 1: recorded saying that black women are just jealous of her
Speaker 1: because when she walks into the room, she has the
Speaker 1: same body type as a black woman, but black men
Speaker 1: want her more. The dude that said he felt like
Speaker 1: she could say naked, Was it like Soldier Bloy or something? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. It was the guy that she was interviewing
Speaker 1: that was interviewing her, some black dude. Damn. I can't
Speaker 1: remember his name right now, but y'all know who he
Speaker 1: is because he's popular. But not so. We're walking on
Speaker 1: the street, me and old Bay. This is back in
Speaker 1: like November. What were we doing the night we went
Speaker 1: to Andrew show? Walking down the street. They knew each other,
Speaker 1: so they say what's up? And whoever recognized too? Oh?
Speaker 1: It was like, oh, yeah, she does a podcast, Da
Speaker 1: da da da, And I'm like, why do I know you?
Speaker 1: And he was like, oh, I have a show as well.
Speaker 1: I was like, aren't you the guy who gave yes
Speaker 1: dules the past to say nigga? Because no one asked
Speaker 1: for you to do that. Old Bay was like, look me,
Speaker 1: like this, are you serious mind? You were in front
Speaker 1: of a club getting in because the dude was like,
Speaker 1: let's collapse, kill us something. What was his name? I
Speaker 1: don't know. Oh my god, it's gonna I don't know,
Speaker 1: I don't know what. I want to make sure I'm
Speaker 1: addressing the person correctly that told this Caucasian woman she
Speaker 1: could say it. He's like, so you spend it? You good?
Speaker 1: You could say Nigga, Absolutely not. And I'm so tired
Speaker 1: of Nigga's that no black women have been hurt by somebody.
Speaker 1: They're just like, fuck them, you go ahead, what the funk.
Speaker 1: It was one of the most embarrassing things to watch
Speaker 1: from her, and then it made it even worse. It's
Speaker 1: like you watch people that we all know this in
Speaker 1: the industry than they were like kind of just skipping
Speaker 1: over it, and they just don't sunk with her. It's
Speaker 1: so weird. And she still wears box braids. Oh she
Speaker 1: does very blonde on the other day. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I feel like that's gonna go anywhere. I feel like
Speaker 1: white people are still going to do the hair, the hairstyles.
Speaker 1: I am the black fishing for good black fishing. Um. Anyways, Brianda,
Speaker 1: let our listeners know once again, thank you again for
Speaker 1: joining us. If you guys like, if you guys love her,
Speaker 1: you guys can join our patreon. UM and there are
Speaker 1: two episodes with Brianda on their right. We've done two
Speaker 1: with you, did with your former co host Caucasian and
Speaker 1: and then we don't have to and then and then
Speaker 1: we did one with just uh you most recently more
Speaker 1: recently colorism. Yeah. So someone just referenced you too about
Speaker 1: how your sister and you really did in the comments. UM, well,
Speaker 1: if you want to go ahead and let them know
Speaker 1: where they can find you, you guys, I love you.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for this opportunity. UM again, my
Speaker 1: name is Brianda. You can find me on All the Things, Twitter,
Speaker 1: Instagram at That's Brianda, and you can also follow my
Speaker 1: podcast super trip Talk at super trip Talk on All Things.
Speaker 1: If you have any more questions, you can just super
Speaker 1: trip talk dot com too. She's not very active on Instagram.
Speaker 1: I'm not, but I'm about to be, but she needs
Speaker 1: to be. That was his name. Oh okay, so uh yes,
Speaker 1: check out RIONI the follow me you said kill us something,
Speaker 1: but Marta same ship. Where where you going? Um? Well, guys,
Speaker 1: make sure you guys check out this show again. She's
Speaker 1: amazing and I guess there y'all will probably get to
Speaker 1: hear and tell Bible stories before is over. Um or
Speaker 1: if not the top, I guess we're speaking out Bible ship.
Speaker 1: But check out us out on Patreon. We do live
Speaker 1: town halls every month. It's super funnies are our most
Speaker 1: up to date, up to dated, up to date episodes
Speaker 1: that you guys can get with Mandy and I is
Speaker 1: every Monday on our Patreon. Not every Monday's really every
Speaker 1: three month, three mondays of month. Um. Other than that,
Speaker 1: let me try to feel, let me try to do
Speaker 1: this feel. You can listen to periods sist with Mandy.
Speaker 1: Then tomorrow you can listen to see the Thing is
Speaker 1: and you can listen to her facts. Say, okay, let's
Speaker 1: go peace all right, make sure you check it out.
Speaker 1: Stay two for the five minute on the slip by.
Speaker 1: I know where I don't want to start. No, I'm
Speaker 1: just kidding. UM, let's start with Let's start with Ashley
Speaker 1: and Michael, because that's really where I don't want to go.
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy. I actually I'm not sure if
Speaker 1: the rest of y'all agree. Let me know in the chat,
Speaker 1: But I actually am liking Ashley more this season then
Speaker 1: I've liked her in previous seasons. UM. I think that
Speaker 1: that baby has done her motherfucking good. I think she
Speaker 1: grew up a little bit, um, but I do I
Speaker 1: think that that is why she is still going through
Speaker 1: ship with Mr Michael Um. She admitted this season that
Speaker 1: they have added people to the bedroom. UM, and he
Speaker 1: came out recently and was like, I don't feel like
Speaker 1: you're married to me anymore. You show all of your
Speaker 1: um attention to the baby. And she also opened up
Speaker 1: about how she doesn't want to swing anymore, and he's like, well, Ship,
Speaker 1: you ain't giving me attention and you don't want to
Speaker 1: do this anymore. I'm not gonna lie to like what
Speaker 1: he said in the in the therapy session, but he
Speaker 1: pretty much just feels like he's not having the same
Speaker 1: sexual relationship with Ashley as when they first started to
Speaker 1: cover their relationship. What are your views on that? Assante
Speaker 1: and Tammy, I see Tammy raise your hand, Raise your
Speaker 1: hand so that we can talk about what y'all thoughts
Speaker 1: are on Ashley and Michael Darby's relationship. But Assante will
Speaker 1: start with you, yeah, why you tallly them up? Um,
Speaker 1: let me just start with I don't have any favorites.
Speaker 1: I hate them all equally. I mean, they all really
Speaker 1: play in the mass, which is why we're here, right.
Speaker 1: It's just I don't like the playing the mask where
Speaker 1: we're gonna hide our hand because of respectability politics thing
Speaker 1: that we're doing. I get that that's where they think
Speaker 1: that there are they are, but they're really not. So
Speaker 1: I just I just need that veil dropped now to
Speaker 1: get back to Ashley and why I hate her. Um,
Speaker 1: Michael wanted to hold having a baby over and you
Speaker 1: wanted to hold that over her head because of the
Speaker 1: way that her mom was That should have been a
Speaker 1: huge red flag. Do you want to go half with
Speaker 1: this white man who really wants to say you know,
Speaker 1: who wants to emotionally abuse you? And then we're gonna
Speaker 1: open up this conversation about you know, letting people into
Speaker 1: the bedroom, right Michael since season one has grabbed as
Speaker 1: on camera. Now, unless we're gonna do the red table
Speaker 1: talk with Will and Jada, if if we'll need to
Speaker 1: come to and we need everybody to be accountable. Let's
Speaker 1: go on ahead and say, not only do we open
Speaker 1: our bedroom, but we open it up to both sexes.
Speaker 1: So everybody can stop motherfucking asking about the gate ship
Speaker 1: because Michael, you didn't even talk about. You didn't talk
Speaker 1: about like Michael, you didn't talk about why you told
Speaker 1: this woman you had a wife and a boyfriend. We
Speaker 1: didn't go back there. Actually are you waiting? Are you
Speaker 1: waiting to go back there? Because that has not been
Speaker 1: brought up again and I was wanting more details on that.
Speaker 1: Just cleared up the fact that you know the fact
Speaker 1: that there was a nigger in the room, or you
Speaker 1: know that he did go up with said woman, but
Speaker 1: did not clear up why he told said woman he
Speaker 1: got a wife and a boyfriend. So but you are
Speaker 1: you saying, like, okay, so who's his boyfriend? You know,
Speaker 1: I don't care if you gotta ask, like you know,
Speaker 1: have we have we slept with him before? Or like
Speaker 1: you know, however, you need to feel comfortable normalizing it.
Speaker 1: You need to do it because quit pussy footing around
Speaker 1: and then arguing with black old ass Bill Gates who
Speaker 1: don't love his damn wife no more. Like on the
Speaker 1: reunions that should just be so sorry no, so I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie um and I'm about to let me
Speaker 1: a talk on this um topic as well. But I
Speaker 1: think that that's my problem. Um. And we've talked about it.
Speaker 1: If you guys noticed, not only with Red but Ak
Speaker 1: who was our guests this week, we've had bisexual men
Speaker 1: on the show. And I think it may come to
Speaker 1: where maybe Ashley doesn't want to admit that she is
Speaker 1: okay with Michael being bisexual. UM. So I think she
Speaker 1: used the swinging as a way to like, let it
Speaker 1: just be known that, yeah, we allow other people into
Speaker 1: the bedroom. But I think, for whatever reason, they're still
Speaker 1: shame in women admitting that they're okay with being with
Speaker 1: a man that may like to play with men um.
Speaker 1: And that's just I think where she finds not being
Speaker 1: okay with admitting she would rather just be like y'all
Speaker 1: were swingers and we let other people in the room.
Speaker 1: Uh miya um, if you can go ahead and un
Speaker 1: mute what you got to say about the Darby's syst
Speaker 1: so can you hear me? Just fine? Okay? So I
Speaker 1: it definitely in the beginning, uh didn't like either one
Speaker 1: of them. I did feel like Ashley was always doing
Speaker 1: the most, always and everybody's business all that. I do
Speaker 1: feel like a Sante said, what I think about Michael
Speaker 1: is like he just kept moving the gold post on Ashley,
Speaker 1: like and now she has gotten to the goal post finally,
Speaker 1: like he held the damn baby and then it was
Speaker 1: you know, now it's you don't, You're not here for me,
Speaker 1: but her baby is fresh. Alb