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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Andrew is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Kylie. He has

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Speaker 2: no idea why, So in a minute, we're gonna call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him.

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Speaker 2: But first, how long has it been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Kylie? Andrew?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been it's been a it's been a little

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Speaker 3: a little while. But I don't know, I'm kind of like,

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of sad that, you know, she's not calling

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Speaker 3: me back. I don't know, I that we had to

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Speaker 3: look a really good time and it goes gonna be

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Speaker 3: like a child and just like straight up ghost me.

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Speaker 3: You know, Iah, I'm gonna I'm gonna have to call

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Speaker 3: her out on the show, you know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, he's ready to do this. Don't ghost on, Andrew. Well,

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Speaker 4: why don't we back up to before you got ghosted

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Speaker 4: and tell us about what your date was like with Kylie.

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Speaker 3: We went to dinner. First dinner was pretty good, and

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Speaker 3: we played a mini golf afterwards, and then we played

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Speaker 3: do you know some of our arcade games.

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Speaker 2: What did you guys like talk about and stuff?

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Speaker 3: You know, we just talked about life and you know,

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Speaker 3: and pass relationships and stuff. And yeah, I just I

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Speaker 3: don't know. I don't I really don't know what happened.

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Speaker 3: I think it might be like something like I don't

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Speaker 3: know if I'm like too good for her, or maybe

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I was a little too competitive on

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Speaker 3: the games or something. I'm not sure, Like I don't

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Speaker 3: I think I was a little overly competitive when playing games,

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Speaker 3: but I'm not I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: She said that you like, you want to call her

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Speaker 2: out for ghosting you, but do you want a second

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Speaker 2: day too? Or you just want to call her out

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Speaker 2: for ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: I kind of both, but I'm kind of yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: kind of like, you know, I'm pretty sad that she

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Speaker 3: doesn't want to she's ghosting me, you know, like, I

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Speaker 3: don't know what happened, Like it shouldn't. I think she's

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Speaker 3: just being a child right now, to be honest, Well,

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Speaker 3: what if something.

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Speaker 2: Like what if she has a legit reason?

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Speaker 4: Andrew, Like, what if I don't know she lost her

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Speaker 4: phone or she hasn't been feeling well, you know, I mean,

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Speaker 4: we don't know what happened yet.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you could be right, But I don't know why

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Speaker 3: exactly that that she would. I doubt it's her phone.

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Speaker 3: I think she's like, you know, just being childish and

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Speaker 3: not being an adult, and she's not responding to me.

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Speaker 2: What was the last thing that she said to you?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: How did how did everything end with her?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: I wanted to play, you know, golf, and she kind

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Speaker 3: of like seemed less interested the more we kept playing.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe she just didn't like the game

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Speaker 3: we're type of game we were playing, or like she

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Speaker 3: was tired, but she I wanted to keep playing and

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Speaker 4: Did she say something to you at that point, like

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Speaker 4: what was the last thing she said to you? Like

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Speaker 4: I just don't want to play golf?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, And she's just like yeah, I'm good, you know,

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Speaker 3: and I'm just like okay, why, like we're having fun?

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Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like a good sign, Andrew, Like she

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Speaker 3: Well at least she could like tell me that hey

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Speaker 3: I was. At least you don't want to call her

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Speaker 3: to hang out and say hey I don't want to

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Speaker 3: having good time. That just straight up ghost me.

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Speaker 2: And I mean she just didn't want to play golf.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, who doesn't like Clan Gold.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll see what she says. Well, play a song

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Speaker 2: come back, and then call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you

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Speaker 2: another date if you still want one. With your first

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Speaker 2: day follow up coming up next. Okay, okay, play a song,

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Speaker 2: this first.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Andrew is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Kylie.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another

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Speaker 2: date if he still wants one. But before we do that, Andrew,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Kylie. Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when I with Kylie, we had dinner, we had

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Speaker 3: we went to the place of mini golf, wanted to

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Speaker 3: play some arcade games. Thanks for going good. And yeah,

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Speaker 3: now I haven't I haven't heard from her, and I

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Speaker 3: she's being childish in my opinion.

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Speaker 2: Okay, ready for us to call her and ask her

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Speaker 2: straight up why she's ghosting you? Yeah, for sure, here

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Speaker 2: we go. Man, Hello, I may I speak to Kylie? Please?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: This is her?

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Speaker 2: Hi, Kylie?

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Speaker 5: How are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel and this is a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jewbel Show. Yeah, Kylie, Hi, the show's

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Speaker 2: here too. My name is Nina, and I'm be sure.

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Speaker 2: How are you doing?

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Speaker 5: I'm really good, but surprised for calling me? I love

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Speaker 5: you guys. What's up?

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Speaker 2: Sweet? Thank you? How much? We're chilling? We wanted to

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Speaker 2: call you because somebody emailed us about you? What?

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Speaker 5: How about?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 2: It's somebody that you went on a date with.

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Speaker 5: Is this the first Gate follow up?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: It is. We got an email about you from somebody

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Speaker 2: that you're ghosting, and they want to know why you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting them. Do you want to take a guess at

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Speaker 2: who it is?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm not really ghosting, but you probably are talking

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Speaker 5: about Andrew?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Correct? So what does not really ghosting mean?

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Speaker 5: Okay, so let me just recap our gate for you.

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Speaker 5: He was a complete child the entire date. He's the

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Speaker 5: type of dude that's got to win at everything. We

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Speaker 5: went to one of those like arcade slash mini golf

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Speaker 5: type of activities, and by the third hole he was whining,

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Speaker 5: like not teasing whining, but like genuinely whining that I

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Speaker 5: was beating him, and like I was like, okay, so

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Speaker 5: this guy is one of those guys that needs a

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Speaker 5: woman to be lesser than to feel like a man.

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Speaker 5: Forget it. I just started missing every hole, became super disinterested,

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Speaker 5: and by the end of the night, I told him like,

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Speaker 5: I'm not into this because you are like a child.

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Speaker 5: And the fact that he's still messaging me is on him.

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Speaker 5: I don't need to respond because I'm done. And I'm

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Speaker 5: sure he's listening because I know how these work. I

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Speaker 5: listen all the time. So Andrew, if you're listening, listen,

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Speaker 5: no hard feelings, but I'm just not interested. You already

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Speaker 5: know that. You just stop messaging me.

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Speaker 3: You are like wow, like wow, I can't believe what

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Speaker 3: you're saying. It's like so untrue, and like you're telling

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Speaker 3: everyone that you're pretty much just a sore loser and

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Speaker 3: you don't know how to story take a loss and

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Speaker 3: this is how you react to taking a loss. Uh huh.

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Speaker 5: Sure, So the issue is not that a lost, it's

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Speaker 5: that I had to pretend to lose because you have

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Speaker 5: such a fragile ego, or.

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Speaker 3: You just don't know how to have fun and just lose. Well,

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Speaker 3: so you still know how to have fun. Just admit

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Speaker 3: you lost, and that's it. We were having fun, we

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm sure. All right. Sounds good, Andrew. We'll just

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Speaker 5: leave that story in your head if you can just

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Speaker 3: I want my lava lamp back, by the way that

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Speaker 3: I you. Okay, I would I want my lava lamp back.

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Speaker 5: No, too bad that three ninety nine or whatever it's worth.

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Speaker 5: I gave it to my little baby brother. If you

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Speaker 3: Wow, that was way more than three ninety nine. That

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Speaker 3: was ten thousand tickets. Okay, okay, listen why you want show?

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Speaker 5: But okay, I love the double show. You guys are awesome,

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Speaker 5: But I'm done. I'm out by Wow. Oh so you

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Speaker 5: guys can hear him like, how childish is it to

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Speaker 5: argue over tickets? Like he wants something back that he

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Speaker 5: gave me that I already gave to my little brother.

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Speaker 5: It's so childish, like, grow up, you are supposed to

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Speaker 3: You're just mad. You can't get the high score and

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Speaker 3: I give all those tickets. You can't get any tickets yourself.

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Speaker 3: I get the high score, so you don't you lose.

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Speaker 3: You to accept your loser and have some fun and

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Speaker 3: get some tickets.

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Speaker 5: Yes, okay, heard, I'm a loser. Keeping the lava lamps.

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Speaker 3: As long as you admit it. As long as you

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Speaker 3: admit it that you just don't make you lost. You're

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Speaker 3: you and you gave away a lot of lamp because

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Speaker 3: you're jealous of my victories.

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Speaker 5: You're right, dude, Listen, I'm so jealous and I lost

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Speaker 5: all the games that I don't win. It like because

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Speaker 5: I don't have you in my life anymore.

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Speaker 2: Andrew, are you for real?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 2: Are you joking around?

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Speaker 5: She lost?

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Speaker 3: Like she doesn't know how to have fun? Okay, Like

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Speaker 3: we were having a lot of fun and she has

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know how to have fun. That's why

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Speaker 5: you're begging me for a second date. Makes a lot

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Speaker 5: of sense.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want to hang out a loser anyway,

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Speaker 3: I like hanging out with winners.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, let me just ask the question. I know

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Speaker 2: the answer. Would you like to go out with Andrew again?

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Speaker 2: Kylie will pay for it?

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Speaker 5: Definitely not.

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Speaker 2: Andrew. I'm sorry man, no second date there.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I definitely don't want them. But if any

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Speaker 3: winners want to go to play with me, well, I've

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Speaker 3: had every thing go Wednesday, and if someone who plays

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Speaker 2: Okay, hopefully you get some people showing up. Just play

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Speaker 2: skeyball and Kylie good luck, good luck with everything.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, guys.

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