1 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to I've never said this before with 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: me Tommy Di Dario, So I am refraining from saying 3 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: every single viral quote from me and girls right now. 4 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: It's not easy. I'm not gonna lie, but I'm trying 5 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: because my guest today has heard them NonStop a week 6 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: after week since the release of the movie in two 7 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: thousand and four, and he must be exhausted. But that's 8 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: just a testament to the iconic work that mister Jonathan 9 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: Bennett has done in his career. What a joy it 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: is to be in his presence. I truly mean that. 11 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: It's no wonder that he does it all. He's acting, hosting, producing, 12 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 1: I mean, the list goes on and on, and he 13 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: has so many fun Christmas projects going on right now. 14 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 1: So we're about to get a little bit festive up 15 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: in here and talk to a man who brings so 16 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: much joy to so many. All right, let's see if 17 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: today we can get Jonathan Bennett to say something that 18 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: he has never said before. Jonathan Bennett. Yes, I'm not 19 00:00:57,920 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: running into in an equinox. 20 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 2: I know, seeing each other the gym. We're not liking 21 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 2: each other's post on Instagram. We are in the flesh. 22 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 2: Do you know Tommy Dedari a real human being? You 23 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 2: can actually touch him. He's actually a real human being. 24 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 2: He's not just an AI Instagram person. He's a real human. 25 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 2: It's very nice to see you. It's good to see you. 26 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 2: How you doing wonderful? Can't can't complain You're feeling good, 27 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 2: feeling great. 28 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: You have a lot going on. 29 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 2: There's honey, I'm tired. 30 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: I bet you are tired. We have a lot to 31 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: cover today. We're going to celebrate all the things going 32 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 1: on in your world. Okay, but my first burning question 33 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 1: for you, let's let's start hard. Okay, are you ready 34 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: for you? 35 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 2: Ready for it? 36 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: Are you really ready? 37 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 2: Born? Ready to Okay? 38 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 1: How many times a week do people hit you with? 39 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: It's October first, zero, but they hit me with it. 40 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 2: It's October third a lot. That's a correct number, So 41 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 2: I would say, for that's not the number one you get. No, 42 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,559 Speaker 2: October third is what I get hit with the most. 43 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 2: And they want to tell me my hair looks sexy. Pushback. 44 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 2: Those are like the two. 45 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: Two weekly things, oh daily, Yeah, there you know, we're 46 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: just place that's happened. 47 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 2: Someone asked me this, I said, the weirdest, uh, the weirdest. Oh, 48 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: I'll tell you exactly where we were in Mexico and 49 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 2: we were uh celebrating the Day of the Dead there 50 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 2: and I was in full makeup, like you could not 51 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: recognize me at all. And this kid turned around to 52 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 2: me in the middle of the street while we were dancing. 53 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 2: It was like October third, and I'm like, how I 54 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 2: am literally covered completely faced the entire phase and makeup, 55 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 2: like you know, design and everything. And he spotted me 56 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 2: in the middle of like a street fair dance festival 57 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 2: in Mexico and it was I said to my husband, 58 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know what it's like to 59 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 2: not be Aaron Samuels. Like it's been so many years 60 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: that like I can't remember back to like what life 61 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 2: was like before all the mean girls stuff, because I 62 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 2: was like twenty two when that happened. So like my hold, 63 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 2: like I can't remember back to like what it's like 64 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: to go to a Starbucks and not have the girl 65 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: right like cruel on your on your cup, Like it's 66 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 2: just it's just normal, Like it's just like what life 67 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:10,119 Speaker 2: is now. 68 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it kicks off everything for you, right, yeah, 69 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 1: really big launch do you feel like doing that project 70 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:18,679 Speaker 1: because you were the hunk, right, You're the hot guy 71 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 1: in school and that's how everyone knew you. You feel 72 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: like that put you in a box for a while. 73 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 2: Good question. Uh, yes, I think it does put you 74 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 2: in a box. 75 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: There. 76 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 2: You know, there's two different ways to look at boxes. 77 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,839 Speaker 2: One you can look at them as a bad thing, 78 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 2: which I think it was for me in some ways 79 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 2: with mean girls, with being like you're like the hot jock, 80 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 2: like that's what you do, so everyone just saw you 81 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 2: as that. But then I think there's a way to 82 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 2: like reinvent yourself and control the box. Like people are 83 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 2: gonna put you in a box regardless, So if you're 84 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 2: gonna be in a box, don't be in the box. 85 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: Be the guy that like stands on top of the 86 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 2: box because you own this box. You pee on that box, 87 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 2: like that is my box. No one's touching it, can't 88 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 2: come close. You know. That's like that's I think when 89 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 2: you when you think of like in terms of like 90 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 2: being put in a box, I was just put in 91 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 2: the wrong box being like the hunk that that was 92 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: like just like this jock, you know, straight guy that's 93 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: like I don't want to say boring, but it was 94 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: you know, I think Jonathan Bennett has way more to 95 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: offer in like qualities about him that are more fun 96 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 2: to put, you know, for people to see than who 97 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 2: Aaron Samuels was. Like Aaron Samuels just cares about school, 98 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 2: his mom and his friends, right, you know, like he 99 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 2: was like kicks the soccer ball and like does that 100 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 2: where like I had so much more life to you. 101 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 2: So in a sense that's being in that box was 102 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 2: not great because I was like, but that's not who 103 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 2: I am. I'm all these other things. It just took 104 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: a while for me to get to that other box. 105 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: Right, You're like, I want to show the other things 106 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: that yeah, yeah, and what so interesting? And during that 107 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: time you weren't out right. 108 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 2: Correct, No not. I mean my friends and family knew, 109 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 2: and you know, like everyone knew. It was like this 110 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 2: like thing in Hollywood where like everyone I call it 111 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 2: like Santa Claus. Like it's like it's kind of like 112 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 2: Santa Claus, like you, oh, I don't know if you 113 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: have children listeners. 114 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: But this is a free space to say what okay. 115 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 2: Good, like if you're Hollywood and like the late nineties 116 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 2: early two thousands, being gay like your friends and family knew, 117 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 2: like people you worked with, no, but like you wouldn't 118 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 2: talk about it publicly because it was a different time 119 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 2: and you just couldn't like it was just about it 120 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 2: or yeah you could, well we didn't have posting, sweetie, 121 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 2: it was we are hold on how much time do 122 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: you have we? I mean when Mean Girls came out Facebook, 123 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 2: I think just started that year, so it was a 124 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 2: different time. So, you know, I think it's like Santa Claus. 125 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 2: And what I mean by that is if there's people, 126 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 2: if there's a kid the room and you start talking 127 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 2: about Santa Claus, I'm not going to correct you and 128 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 2: be like, what are you talking about? There's no such 129 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 2: thing as Santa Claus. I'm like, oh, yes, Santa Claus 130 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:14,480 Speaker 2: is definitely coming tonight. Like we're all in on the lie, right, 131 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 2: the whole world's in on it. It's part of culture, 132 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: and it's something that's celebrated. That's kind of like what 133 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 2: it was like being a gay closeted actor in Hollywood 134 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 2: in the late nineties early two thousands, Like I didn't 135 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 2: have to tell my co stars and my family to like, hey, like, 136 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 2: let's not share this too much, you know, like you 137 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 2: want to keep this close to the best. They just 138 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 2: knew to do it. Like if we would be out 139 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 2: somewhere and like get an interview question about like does 140 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 2: Jonathan have a girlfriend? Like my co stars wouldn't be like, no, 141 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: he's gay. They'd be like, I don't know. I guess 142 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 2: you'll have to ask him. Like everyone's in on the 143 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 2: everyone's in on the joke, you know what I mean. 144 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 2: And that's it's It's what it was. 145 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: Back then, Like you didn't even have to have that conversation. 146 00:06:58,200 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: It was it was. 147 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 2: It was if you live in Hollywood and we're in 148 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 2: the industry, you just understood it. 149 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 1: So when you see yourself in that movie and it 150 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: comes on TV and you look at that guy and 151 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: you are not encouraged to publicly be who you are, 152 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's a project that's so 153 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: beloved by so many people, in a role that's so 154 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: beloved and means so much so many people. Does a 155 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: party you ever feel like, God, like that kind of 156 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: sucked for that dude. Who can it really be who 157 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: he is at the time? 158 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I it does in a way, But I 159 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 2: also don't know life without that, Like I don't, like 160 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 2: I can think back of like what, God, it would 161 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 2: have been so much better to just like be your 162 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: authentic self and like be out and I would love that, 163 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 2: But I can't then picture what life would be like 164 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 2: having done that because I don't know what that is, right, 165 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 2: So it's like, yes, that sounds like something I would 166 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 2: want to have done and like be like, gosh, I 167 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 2: wish you could have been out, But I also like, 168 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 2: I just I can't fathom it because being in the 169 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: closet and being a you know, closet, you know, being 170 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 2: an actor and like doing all the films I was doing, 171 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 2: it was definitely like you're always waiting for the shoe 172 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 2: to drop, the other shoe to fall, right. You're like, well, 173 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 2: as long as they don't know that I'm gay, like 174 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 2: I'll get this job, you know what I mean. Like 175 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 2: that's like always in your back of your mind. You 176 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 2: never live a day without the fear that, like, if 177 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 2: they find out that I'm gay, I'll never play leading 178 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 2: man again. And the only thing you gotta think about 179 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 2: it like this the only thing you care about in 180 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 2: life For me, for someone who's obsessed with what they do, 181 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 2: and it loves it more than anything on earth except 182 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 2: for my husband. It's the thing that it's it's the 183 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 2: second biggest love of my life, right, Like I love acting, 184 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 2: I love performing, I love creating for people. And back then, 185 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 2: if you were told, hey, you can have all this, 186 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 2: but if they find out that you're gay, you're gonna 187 00:08:56,920 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 2: lose it all. Yeah, it's like giving a night and 188 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 2: like it's like it's like the night is walking into 189 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 2: the castle and they're throwing from coming home from more 190 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 2: and they're throwing roses at them, but they're like, but 191 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 2: before you go in, we're gonna take away your sword 192 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: because you're just you're not gonna be all of you. 193 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 2: You're just gonna be part of you. We're gonna celebrate 194 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: that part. But if they find out the rest of 195 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 2: you not, you're not gonna You're not gonna be a 196 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 2: night anymore. You're not gonna work. And so that's kind 197 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 2: of like the analogy I use when I think back 198 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 2: to that time, Like, of course I wish I could 199 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 2: have been out, but I just can't fathom what that 200 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 2: would be, Like I have no idea. 201 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes that's better than not now. Yeah, yeah, it 202 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: is what it was, and here you are and. 203 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, and how how would I know? Also, I think 204 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,839 Speaker 2: if I was out, then I wouldn't be such an 205 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 2: advocate for telling gay stories gay love stories. Now had 206 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 2: I been out then, yeah, you know, because you know, 207 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 2: we grew up before RuPaul's Drag Race was on television. 208 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I mean, We watched TV and 209 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 2: movies before that, and now this amazing general that's here. 210 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 2: It's like they're just used to seeing it. 211 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: Can I imagine having a show like over Compensating when 212 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: we were growing up or or at Stopper or it 213 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:11,839 Speaker 1: just wasn't a thing at all. 214 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 2: It's it's wild to me, and like they're like, well, yeah, 215 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 2: well on drag Race. Well I started watching it I 216 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 2: was like five, and you're like, what you were watching 217 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 2: drag Race when you were five? Oh my god? Like 218 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:24,559 Speaker 2: we didn't have that, and that's why, like my husband 219 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 2: and I like, you know, you and your husband do 220 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 2: the same thing. And I think it's beautiful. Like we 221 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 2: James and I always post pictures of us kissing or 222 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 2: of our relationship or like really special moments, not because 223 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 2: we need to see another picture of us kissing, Like 224 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 2: we have enough kissing photos and I love them, but 225 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 2: like we post that stuff so that way young James 226 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 2: and Jonathan who are at home wanting to you know, 227 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 2: so they have something to be able to look up 228 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 2: to and say, oh, wait, there's a love that looks 229 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 2: like mine that exists out there, and you can have 230 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 2: a happy life and you can be fulfilled and you 231 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 2: can you can fall in love, you can get married, 232 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 2: you can do all these things because we never had 233 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 2: that growing up. You didn't have that. Geo didn't have that, Like, 234 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 2: we didn't have those things to look at and see. 235 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 2: So like that's why we post all the stuff we do. 236 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 2: It's like we want to be the people that you 237 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 2: can like turn to and be like, oh that can 238 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 2: happen for me too. 239 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's intentional for good reason, right yeah. 240 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 2: I mean obviously everyone wants to see my husband in 241 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 2: a bathing suit because he has he's beautiful, and so 242 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 2: I usually post bathing suit photos of us together because 243 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 2: I want to see him, and James is sitting over 244 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 2: there like what are you doing. It's true, I want 245 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 2: to because he looks hot. We see you, Jane, Yeah, 246 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: we see you. We see you, j I mean the 247 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 2: dead can see you. Yow. Speaking of speaking of trap, 248 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 2: let's get into our Tommy Dedario thirst trap of the week. 249 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 2: I'd like to go to picture number. 250 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: Six and fifty two. 251 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 2: Wait, what's the one? What you do recently? You do 252 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 2: the thing with the vitamins. Oh I'm a yeah spokesperson 253 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 2: from guard Yes, yes, you're doing that one. I was like, okay, 254 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 2: he knows how to get the algorithm going. Tommy's not 255 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 2: going to make things see Okay, smart you know that time, 256 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 2: So you got to make things get seen. 257 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 1: Me. 258 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 2: If it is Tommy in a shirtless in some sort 259 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 2: of short short, you know that an ad is coming 260 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 2: the next post. Same thing for James. If you see 261 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 2: James in a tiny little booty short with his butt 262 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 2: out and his legs out, you know that we are 263 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 2: about to post a branded content next. That's right, and 264 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 2: we need to drive that algorithm. You got to cut 265 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 2: through the noise. That's right, cut through the noise. 266 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: Okay, that's right, Tommy, Okay, back to you, Back to 267 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: you and a little riled up. Now. 268 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 2: I hate Tommy's He literally turned red because he's like, 269 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 2: you've really nailed it. 270 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: Though you're not wrong, okay to put it. 271 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 2: No shame in it? 272 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 1: Oh hell no, no at all, no shame to put 273 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: a pin in this chapter of the conversation before we 274 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: get to some holiday foot. 275 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 2: But I just have to get my yettie I never 276 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 2: said this before cup and fill it with water, so 277 00:12:57,600 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 2: mom brand go ahead. 278 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: Can't with you? I literally, but yes, please fill it 279 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 1: up and show it to Camra. Thank you have been 280 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 1: in this chapter of your life. 281 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 2: I can't. 282 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: Are you done pouring? 283 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 2: Now? Tell them on? Get the ball out of the shot? 284 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: There we go, perfect water? Joy? 285 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 2: Never have I ever? Never? Have I ever? Oh wow, 286 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 2: I've never said this before. 287 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 1: We won't get a closer with that drinking shot? Not 288 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: your best one, but we'll work on it. We'll work 289 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,839 Speaker 1: on it, okay, anyway to put a pin on this? 290 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: How serious have conversations been between you and Lindsay about 291 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: a sequel to me and girls? Everybody wants one? Have you, 292 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 1: honestly seriously had a conversation about it? Like? 293 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 2: Have you been like me and the low Hand? 294 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? Have you been like, if we're going to do this, 295 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: what would it look like? Would we do it? 296 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 2: Like? 297 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: Has that even happened? 298 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: Has there been a conversation between me and Lindsay Lohan 299 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:58,200 Speaker 2: about a sequel? I don't think there's been an actual 300 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 2: conversation between us that I can rem They might have, 301 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 2: but like in the group chat, do we want to 302 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 2: do it? Yes, you know, but we haven't actually sat 303 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 2: down and ben like, how do we do this? I 304 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 2: know that everyone wants to I know that. I mean 305 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 2: ninety nine percent of the cast is like, let's go. 306 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: Like all the main players. 307 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 2: Yes, I think yes, I mean, for to my knowledge, 308 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 2: everyone that I talk to whenever we're like texting, you know, 309 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 2: sometimes on October third and stuff, like our phone lights up. 310 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 2: It's the Me and Girls cast other than me and 311 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 2: Lacy because we do Hamewark movies all the time. And 312 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 2: Daniel Fransese, who I see all the time. The rest 313 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 2: of us all are very very friendly and like like 314 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 2: close with each other. It's just we did that movie 315 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 2: twenty two years ago. So it's like, how many people 316 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 2: do you talk to from college? Like do you actually 317 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: keep in contact with everyone you went to college with? No, 318 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 2: But like if they pop up on a thing or 319 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 2: it's their birthday and you remember, it's, oh my god, hey, 320 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 2: good to see you. And it's not because we don't 321 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 2: want to hang out. It's because we all get everyone 322 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 2: grows up. We were children, like we were kids shooting 323 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 2: this movie, and then you grow up and get your lives, 324 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 2: you get married, you have kids, you you know, move away. 325 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 2: So like everyone loves each other, life just gets in 326 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 2: the way and everyone gets busy and starts doing their 327 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 2: own things. So it's like we would love to like 328 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 2: come back and bring the band back together. It's just 329 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 2: way above my pay grade. That's a Tina Fe question. 330 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: Do you think Aaron would be gay or straight consideration? 331 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 2: That's a great question. I think Aaron will be straight. 332 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 2: I do. I don't think yeah, because I don't think 333 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 2: we should like I think day, Like you know, there, 334 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 2: first of all, how weird is this? Almost all the 335 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 2: guys from Ingirls are gay, and Mingirls is one of 336 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 2: the gayest cult class movies of all time. So let's 337 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 2: think about that, Like what came first? The gay or 338 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 2: the mean girls? Like Daniel frand Szy gay, the guy 339 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 2: that plays Kevin Napoor Rejief gay, Jonathan Bennett gay, like 340 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 2: the three I know, it's so funny that like the 341 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 2: three dudes, I mean other than Shane Omen he's straight, 342 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 2: but like you know, the majority, like the three main 343 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 2: guys all came out at some point, which I thought 344 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 2: was really funny. It's just like ironic in a way. 345 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 2: It's like it's like, yeah, it's just funny to me. 346 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 2: I think Aaron would be straight because I wouldn't want 347 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 2: to just like you would to go and change the 348 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 2: narrative of Aaron Samuels because Jonathan benn is gay. You 349 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 2: would keep the narrative of Aaron Samuels because that's the story. 350 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, well we will you really will wait for 351 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: that to happen. 352 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I'll be a I think he would teach though, 353 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 2: he'd be a teacher. 354 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: Oh I could see that. 355 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, why don't we just do the movie? 356 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 2: Everyone wants, right, everyone wants we all come back. We're 357 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 2: all teachers. I'm a teacher at the school. The girl 358 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:05,479 Speaker 2: the you know, the girls are grown up, have their 359 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 2: own kids, and now their daughters are coming to school, 360 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 2: and it's managing the parents with the kids in high school. 361 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:13,160 Speaker 2: Because like the parents of kids in. 362 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 1: High school, you thought about this at all, huh. 363 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:17,639 Speaker 2: I mean it's just like it's like in your face, 364 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 2: like that's the storyline. It's not rocket science, you know, 365 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 2: and you know you just you see that way you 366 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:26,719 Speaker 2: have you have multi general. As someone that does Hallmark 367 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 2: Channel movies, we think a lot about multi generational viewing, 368 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 2: and you could have a storyline for all the parents 369 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 2: who are the millennials that are the current fans of 370 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:36,959 Speaker 2: the movie that grew up with it, so they're going 371 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 2: to be attached to like Lacey, Amanda Meet totally that 372 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 2: and then you have the kids who are the new 373 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:44,360 Speaker 2: batch for their kids to be watching, so they can 374 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 2: identify with those kids, the parents identify with their og cast. 375 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 2: I mean you were Tina right at get any younger, sweetie, 376 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 2: Come one, Tina Fa, I'm not getting any younger. 377 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 1: Well, and you're also booked and busy. I mean you're 378 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 1: also the King of Christmas. If you haven't heard, rumor 379 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 1: on the street is have is the head? The where's 380 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 1: the crown? 381 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 2: Tommy? Uh huh? Mariah and Mariah and I are the 382 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 2: now apparently the royal family. Yeah, of it, that's what 383 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 2: people say. 384 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:09,679 Speaker 1: So what makes you the King of Christmas? 385 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 2: I don't think there's anyone that's done more Christmas TV 386 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 2: shows or holiday TV shows than me. I think like 387 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 2: they come like the gay king. There's straight boys that 388 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 2: have done it, but the Gay King of Christmas for sure, 389 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 2: So I've got to I think it's also just like 390 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 2: being involved with Homework Channel, being involved, I'm like a 391 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 2: Seasons guy. I have Halloween Wars on Food Network. This 392 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 2: was last year. This was happened in twenty twenty four. 393 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 2: Halloween Wars on Food Network, Jonathan Bennett host Great. Then 394 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,879 Speaker 2: I have Finding Mister Christmas on Then I have Then 395 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 2: I was in the Thanksgiving Parade, the Macy's Thanksgiving Day 396 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 2: Parade for Homework Channel doing Thanksgiving. Then I was in 397 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 2: Finding Mister Christmas and My Christmas Movies or Homewark, and 398 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 2: then I host the Ball Drop in Times Square New 399 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 2: Year's Eve. So literally it's like Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas in 400 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 2: New Year's I was always working on each of those days. 401 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 2: So I think, you know, just being the doing so 402 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 2: much Christmas content and making so many Christmas movies, but 403 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 2: also making Christmas movies that matter, like we were the first. 404 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 2: I was the first person to do the first same 405 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 2: sex kiss in a Christmas movie in the Christmas House. 406 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 2: And then I got to create and produce and start 407 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 2: in the Holiday Sitter, which was the first gay led 408 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 2: Hallmark Christmas rom com which had never been done before, 409 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 2: which was a huge deal. It was like just the 410 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:37,640 Speaker 2: storyline of the two guys. It wasn't an ensemble cast, 411 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,119 Speaker 2: it was just us. And then you know, I created 412 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 2: Finding Mister Christmas, which is my reality show, and that's 413 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 2: like the search for the next Hallmark leading man. And 414 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 2: so with all those things combined, I guess they I 415 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 2: guess I kind of got Christmas. I got a vibe 416 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 2: on Christmas. 417 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you certainly do. And I think what's really cool 418 00:19:55,680 --> 00:20:00,119 Speaker 1: is you are working at a network where I think 419 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: a lot of people over the years thought that could 420 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:05,199 Speaker 1: never be possible. So how hard did you have to 421 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 1: push for these ideas to happen? 422 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 2: Then? Great question. Yeah, you know previously, years, years ago, 423 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 2: when you think of Hallmark Channel, you wouldn't think like, oh, 424 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 2: gay Christmas rom com. Right, It was a different world. 425 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 2: And then we had people like Michelle Vickery come into 426 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 2: power at the network who has been a huge advocate 427 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:30,160 Speaker 2: for it. And she called me one day and said, 428 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:33,159 Speaker 2: do you want to play gay characters or straight characters? 429 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 2: And I said I like to play gay characters. She 430 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 2: goes done, I'll make it happen. And ever since we 431 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:43,880 Speaker 2: did the Christmas House. It's the door opened. And we've 432 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:47,199 Speaker 2: had so many more gay storylines on the network, and 433 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 2: I think it's just a people say, do you have 434 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:58,159 Speaker 2: to fight for it? I don't have to fight for it, 435 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 2: but I do have to stay vigilant, right, So it's 436 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 2: not that I have to convince the network to do 437 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 2: gay stories. They are they are dedicated to doing gay 438 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 2: stories on a Hallmark Channel and it's which is probably 439 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 2: the most powerful network in the world for the gay community. 440 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 2: And I'll tell you about that in a second. But 441 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:24,120 Speaker 2: like the they're dedicated to telling those stories. But I'm 442 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 2: just always there at the front, like making sure that 443 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,240 Speaker 2: my eyes are on them so that we're telling the 444 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 2: correct stories. So it's more about like story management than 445 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 2: it is like will we do it right? It's like 446 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,439 Speaker 2: making sure they fit And what I think is so 447 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 2: powerful about Hallmark Channel. And we won the glad Award 448 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,920 Speaker 2: last year for Best Move for Best Feature Film and 449 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 2: for The Groomsman, which was the first gay wedding that 450 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 2: I produced and started in for Homemark Channel. I know, 451 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 2: I was like, what a gay wedding on Homemark Channel? 452 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,360 Speaker 2: Like yep, And it was beautiful. It was absolutely beautiful. 453 00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 2: But what's so powerful about this network is that we 454 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:07,479 Speaker 2: are viewed in so many states that the people that 455 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 2: where the people living in them in the smaller towns, 456 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 2: might not have a gay community, might not know a 457 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,719 Speaker 2: gay person, or know that they know a gay person, 458 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 2: might not have any gay friends, might not whatever that 459 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 2: may be in some of those people might have, you know, 460 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 2: prejudiced towards the community. And I think by telling home, 461 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,439 Speaker 2: by telling gay love stories on Hallmark channel, the number 462 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 2: one go to network for love, Like when you think love, 463 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 2: what do you think? Hallmark Love Stories universally in America 464 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 2: the number one destination, number one watched entertainment cable network 465 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 2: in the world. Like it is the place you go 466 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 2: for love. So when gay stories are told on that network, hey, 467 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 2: why shouldn't they be because it's, you know, network for 468 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 2: love stories. But by telling those stories on that network 469 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 2: with those people that watch that might not ever see 470 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 2: a gay love story otherwise, is a huge, huge, huge, 471 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 2: huge important thing. Like they watch the movies. Let's say, 472 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 2: let's say, you know, I'll use like my aunt for example, 473 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 2: Like you have an aunt that might not accept the 474 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 2: gay community. Maybe maybe that's what's happening but when she 475 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 2: tunes in and she sees Jonathan Bennett and Alexander Lincoln 476 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 2: in a Hallmark movie who are falling in love, and 477 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:43,199 Speaker 2: that movie, in her looks, sounds and feels just like 478 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 2: the other one hundred and thirty seven movies she watches 479 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 2: a year that are straight on a Hallmark channel. There's 480 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 2: something subconscious that happens to her when she's watching it, 481 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,880 Speaker 2: because what does it do, Tommy? It feels familiar? Yeah, 482 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 2: And she maybe doesn't change the channel right away. Maybe 483 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:02,719 Speaker 2: she keeps watching and then she goes, oh, okay, and 484 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 2: then she sees something funny or charming or interesting, and 485 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 2: maybe she watches a little bit longer, and then maybe 486 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:13,919 Speaker 2: by the end of that movie, we haven't changed her 487 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 2: mind completely, but maybe we've poked a hole in it. 488 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:20,199 Speaker 2: We've poked a hole in any of the resistance she 489 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 2: has towards the community, because she goes, well, that kind 490 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 2: of looks and sounds and feels just like my love, 491 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 2: And that looks and sounds and feels just like the 492 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 2: other love movies that I watch on the network. Okay, 493 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: maybe maybe it's a little more similar than I think. 494 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 2: That one little hole can open up a whole world. Right, 495 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 2: So it's like my job is to go and poke 496 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 2: holes to change hearts and minds with my movies, and 497 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 2: it's powerful. 498 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: That's how it happens. Nothing, nothing happens overnight, you know, 499 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,199 Speaker 1: but when you start making things feel like it's part 500 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 1: of the routine, it's part of the norm. It's all 501 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 1: it's familiar exactly. That's why, right, Like you know where like. 502 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 2: A movie, you know, you have movies, like you know, 503 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 2: some of the other gay movies that come out. They're 504 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 2: great and they're funny, but there sometimes can be a 505 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 2: little more inside baseball. 506 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 507 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 2: Right, it's like you have to understand the grinder joke 508 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 2: to understand like where my ann is, Like what's grinder? 509 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like it's not that you 510 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 2: have to like you have to meet the audience where 511 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 2: they are, and you have to meet your the people 512 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:25,160 Speaker 2: that are that might be resisting your community where they are, 513 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 2: and where they are is you know, all over the 514 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 2: country and a lot of people watch this network. 515 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, and where you are is everywhere because you're not 516 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 1: only acting and producing, but you're hosting the reality is yes, 517 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:41,640 Speaker 1: season two. I mean, this seems like you love doing it. 518 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,120 Speaker 1: You light up when I see you tell me about it. 519 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 2: Here's the thing, Tommy, think of how hard the industry is. 520 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,400 Speaker 2: You've been in the industry a long time, your hub 521 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 2: your hubbies, in the industry forever to be able to 522 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 2: say I have a I have a TV show on 523 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 2: TV that I created. Do you know how many knows 524 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 2: it takes to get there? 525 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it does happen. 526 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 2: A zillion knows, And by a miracle of God or whoever, 527 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 2: we got to make finding mister Christmas and finding Mister 528 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 2: Christmas is my life's work. It's everything I've learned in 529 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,719 Speaker 2: the twenty two years in the industry. I took that 530 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 2: and applied it to this. Because I've been a contestant 531 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 2: on Celebrity Big Brother, I've went home first, I've been 532 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 2: a contestant on Dancing with the Stars, went home third. 533 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:41,639 Speaker 2: I am. I've been a contestant on these shows. But 534 00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 2: I've also been an actor for twenty some years, and 535 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,919 Speaker 2: so I've taken all that knowledge and combined it to 536 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,920 Speaker 2: create like what I think is the perfect reality show. 537 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 2: I think it is absolutely perfect. It is the search 538 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 2: for Hallmark's next leading Man. So we take ten hot guys, 539 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 2: we dress them in Christmas sweaters and flannels, and they 540 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 2: are gorgeous, like ten out of tens, all ten of them. 541 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,439 Speaker 2: We take them and we put them in a house 542 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 2: where they compete in different acting challenges. One by one 543 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 2: they get eliminated, and then the winner gets to have 544 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 2: gets to be the next Hallmark Christmas movie star. He 545 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 2: gets a lead into Christmas movie. So we're letting the 546 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 2: audience in on the journey of like finding the next hunk. 547 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,360 Speaker 2: My husband hates when I compare it to Rupul's drag Race. 548 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 2: He's like, don't compare it to RuPaul's dragras. It's not 549 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 2: Rupuel's drag race. I said, kind of, but in the 550 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 2: similar zone of like we're searching for talent right Like 551 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 2: it's it's like ten queens trying to be like, you know, 552 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 2: the next drag Race superstars. This is like ten hot 553 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 2: guys competing to be the next like Hallmark leading man. 554 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 2: And it is so much fun and so it's just 555 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,440 Speaker 2: the exact thing you want when you watch reality television 556 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 2: that you don't get to see. It is ten hot 557 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 2: guys being vulnerable, opening up and sharing their experiences, crying together, 558 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 2: laughing together. These ten guys walk into this house as 559 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 2: competitors and they leave as like brothers. They all, they're all, 560 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 2: they all become so close by the end of this 561 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 2: because I don't know any I don't know any other 562 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 2: reality shows that you can turn on and see ten 563 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:26,880 Speaker 2: grown men being vulnerable with each other and like supporting 564 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,160 Speaker 2: each other, like they're more worried about, like taking care 565 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 2: of each other, to help each other out because it's 566 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 2: Hallmark Channel and that's just what we do and what 567 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 2: we instill in them, and by them helping each other, 568 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 2: they become the best versions of themselves. For the show. 569 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 2: It's absolutely like a It is like a science experiment 570 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 2: in like people like it is the it is like 571 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 2: it's like this, you want, you want to do good, 572 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 2: help the person next to you be better and you'll 573 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 2: and that will RaSE that will raise you up. And 574 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 2: that's exactly what the show does. 575 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 1: And it's so feel good. Is it one episode a week? 576 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, one episode a week, So there's eight episodes. We 577 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 2: start with ten guys. One by one they get eliminated 578 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 2: and we have them compete in different challenges that are 579 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:11,239 Speaker 2: all based on like the Hallmark Christmas movie tropes that 580 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 2: we've come to love of the Christmas movies like It's 581 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 2: it's like you have the meat cute, then you have 582 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 2: the like kiss at the end of the movie, you 583 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 2: have the first date. You have them meeting the family. 584 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:27,920 Speaker 2: Like all the tropes that we see in the movies 585 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 2: that we love, we took each of those tropes and 586 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 2: gamified an episode around it. So on the meet Cute episode, 587 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 2: the first episode, Janelle Parish from Pretty Little Liars is ore. 588 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 2: We bring a different Hallmark girl in each episode to 589 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 2: co star against them in their acting challenges. So they're 590 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 2: like thrown into the fire with like the real Hallmark girls. 591 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 2: You know, we have all the big stars of Hallmark 592 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 2: that they're acting with. And some of these guys, you know, 593 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 2: have never acted before a day in their life. Some 594 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 2: of them have experienced. But episode one, we take them 595 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:02,239 Speaker 2: to a ski slope, put them in snow skis and 596 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 2: give them lines to learn, and we say, you have 597 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 2: fifteen minutes to learn these lines and then you're gonna 598 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 2: act with Janelle Parish while you ski down the hill. 599 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 2: You have one take go And so they're having to 600 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 2: like ski down a hill while acting and like memorizing 601 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 2: their lines. Do it. They have fifteen minutes to do it, 602 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 2: because that's how it is when you shoot Homewark movies. 603 00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's like sometimes things change and it's like we're 604 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 2: losing daylight. You have to get this scene in ten minutes, 605 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 2: and we got to get out of here, and so 606 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 2: we need when we're looking for like the next Hallmark 607 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 2: movie star, we're looking for the guy that can like 608 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 2: put when his feet are put to the fire, he 609 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 2: can like rise up and like make it happen no matter, 610 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 2: you know, no matter how he does it. 611 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: And so it's like that animal mentality. Yes, like you 612 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 1: go in like a warrior. Yes, I'm just saying I 613 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: would have crushed that so well. Ski Tommy, I know, 614 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 1: I see you posting in your skiing Yeah, I got fine, 615 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: you know, ask me. It's crushed that season three. We 616 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 1: have a contentions. I don't want to talk about it 617 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 1: or anything I read for you today. It's no, no, no, 618 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: it's fine, it's fine, totally fine. I think you would 619 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 1: be a great home. Thank you. 620 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 2: But you act too. 621 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:11,239 Speaker 1: I have a background, you have a background in act. 622 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: I'm here to talk about me right now. But yes, 623 00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,239 Speaker 1: I went to n Yu. Oh did you see this 624 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 1: mic drop by Tommy just now here. I went to 625 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 1: n y U and then he takes his yetty. I said, 626 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: we're not going to talk about it, but I went, yeah, 627 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 1: I got kicked out of the iHeart Studio and already Jesus, Tommy, 628 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 1: you also have a movie coming out November ninth, November ninth, 629 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 1: Color Christmas Vacation, which is based on my own family. 630 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 2: Because I don't know about you, Tommy, but is your 631 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 2: family completely functional and has zero dysfunction in it? 632 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,400 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, Italians from Jersey. 633 00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 2: Sure. I thought, with the whole Hallmark lens, what if 634 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 2: we took what if we took siblings and instead of 635 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 2: making it per, what if we just were like super 636 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 2: honest and made a dysfunctional group of siblings that just 637 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:06,120 Speaker 2: don't get along with it? 638 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: I love it. 639 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 2: And then we put them on a river cruise on 640 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 2: the Dua River in Vienna looking at all the Christmas markets. 641 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 2: So it's two brothers and a sister played by me. 642 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 2: And this is what I love so much about this movie. 643 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 2: Not only is the movie just hilarious and heartwarming and 644 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 2: so much fun, you get to see all the Christmas 645 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 2: markets of Europe and it's just absolutely Brent like we 646 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 2: shot in Vienna during the Christmas markets last year, so, like, 647 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 2: the production value is insane, but the cast chemistry. You 648 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 2: have the gay dude from Mean Girls, Jonathan Bennett gay 649 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 2: Aaron Samuels. You have Brandon Routh Superman yeah, and then 650 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 2: you have Eden Cher, who played Sue on the Middle. 651 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 2: So you have like literally Superman, the dude from Mean Girls, 652 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 2: and Sue from the Middle coming together to play siblings 653 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 2: that don't get along. And it is probably one of 654 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 2: the most beautiful movies I've ever shot, and just the 655 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 2: chemistry between like Eden Cher and brand because Brandon Routh 656 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,959 Speaker 2: and I have known each other since we did soaps 657 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,959 Speaker 2: together back in New York City in like two thousand 658 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 2: and one, and so we've known each other our whole 659 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 2: lives and we look so similar. And when Ing Girls 660 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 2: came out, everyone thought it was him, and then when 661 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 2: Superman came out, everyone thought it was me. They're like, 662 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 2: are you Superman. I'm like, no, that's my friend Bja. 663 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 2: They're like, are you the guy from Ingirls. He's like, no, 664 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 2: that's Jonathan because we look so similar when we were younger. 665 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 2: So it's really we've always wanted to play brothers. And 666 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 2: now we get to come together and like play brothers. 667 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 2: I played the gay one. He plays like the jock 668 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 2: football player brother. And Eden's like our sister that's in 669 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,480 Speaker 2: the middle. And it's just it's so much fun. 670 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, what don't you have going on? Man? 671 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know I have. We have a lot 672 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 2: going on. And I'll be back here. What are you 673 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 2: guys doing for New Year's Eve? We'll be in New 674 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 2: York City. 675 00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 1: I'm not sure yet, but we're here to do it. 676 00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 2: I'm hosting the ball drop again ten years in a row, 677 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 2: tenth love it ten years. Yeah, okay, you really are 678 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 2: the King of Christmas, King of the Holidays, king of 679 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 2: all that. 680 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 1: Yes, we're gonna do a little Rapid Fire. 681 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 2: I love Rapid Fire. 682 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,359 Speaker 1: Number one. What three Christmas albums would be on your 683 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 1: mount Rushmore? 684 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 2: My husband wrote probably the best Christmas album I've ever heard. 685 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 2: And I don't mean that like because he's my husband. 686 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 2: It's the songs are so good. So James Vaughan, Babe, 687 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 2: what's the title? Because I always mess it up? Feels 688 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,799 Speaker 2: like it feels like it feels like Christmas? By James Vaughan. 689 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 2: It's on Spotify and everywhere you get music because we 690 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 2: got to use his movie or his music in what 691 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 2: in my Christmas movie last year? During the kiss scene 692 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 2: my husband's movie played, my husband's song played, and it 693 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,319 Speaker 2: was so special to have like a gay Christmas movie 694 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 2: with like the leads gay husband singing the song. It 695 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,000 Speaker 2: was a very cool thing. Yeah, in st Merry Christmas, 696 00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 2: Happy Holidays never gets old, never ever. And Whitney Houston 697 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 2: Joy to the world, because I can hear it in 698 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 2: my head right now, like when she's so good. I mean, 699 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,800 Speaker 2: come on, I mean that would be it instinct solid 700 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,879 Speaker 2: in my husband sold if you're in a really good company. 701 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:23,400 Speaker 1: Yeah you are. That's that's quite a lineup. Okay. The 702 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:27,280 Speaker 1: holiday or love actually love. 703 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 2: Actually nothing better than that mono. Oh you like the 704 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:34,680 Speaker 2: Holiday Moore really love actually for me all the way 705 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 2: it is that the monologue about the Heathrow Airport and 706 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:42,799 Speaker 2: the love gets me every time. And it's also when 707 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 2: the singer what's his name Billy that sings this, like 708 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,839 Speaker 2: the you know, British singer guy and he's like, we 709 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 2: took the word love and changed it to Christmas. That's 710 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,799 Speaker 2: how I feel sometimes, like when I'm pitching things I'm like, 711 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,880 Speaker 2: it's Rupe Paul's grace, but we're replacing it with hunks. 712 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:04,760 Speaker 2: It's not rocket science. 713 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 1: Okay, solid solid. Two more Christmas lights white are color white. 714 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:17,880 Speaker 1: I love a clean Christmas light. I love Green Garland 715 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 1: white Christmas lights, red bow. It is so classy and 716 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,840 Speaker 1: just so like it just it feels so elevated. You 717 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,640 Speaker 1: feel so like, oh, we're rich. We have white lights 718 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 1: in Green Garland with the bows. Okay, Green gars. 719 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:37,319 Speaker 2: I think like all the like neighborhoods that were like 720 00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 2: super like big houses, they always did like the white 721 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 2: lights of the things. So it was like a little 722 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,800 Speaker 2: more classy, elevated. So that's why my head. 723 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:47,200 Speaker 1: Goes yeah, solid, solid choice. And finally, when is the 724 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 1: first day you should decorate for Christmas? 725 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 2: Tommy? 726 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:50,839 Speaker 1: When is it appropriate? 727 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:55,440 Speaker 2: Tommy? Oh, this is not part of our something. I've 728 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,960 Speaker 2: never done this. I've never this is not part of 729 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 2: I've never said this before. But it is never too 730 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 2: early to decorate for Christmas. However, I don't decorate for Christmas. 731 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 1: What does that mean? I don't decorate for holidays? For 732 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,759 Speaker 1: holidays ever? Ever, like you don't put one decoration out 733 00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:13,279 Speaker 1: in your house? 734 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:18,359 Speaker 2: Hm, barely do we babe, like one tree, Oh, the inflatables. 735 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 2: I put the inflatables in our yard. The inflatables in 736 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,720 Speaker 2: our yard are like I did that to annoy James. 737 00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:29,000 Speaker 2: That was one thing. But like, and the reason is 738 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:33,120 Speaker 2: you don't put a tree up. No, I know, I know, 739 00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 2: and you would think. And I'm just being honest because like, 740 00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 2: here's the thing. Like I could come on here and 741 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 2: be like, yo, like, yeah, of course we decorat, but 742 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 2: that'd be lying, and I don't want to lie. Like, 743 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:47,360 Speaker 2: here's the thing. January eighth around, we start casting for 744 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,800 Speaker 2: Finding Mister Christmas season two and I start or season 745 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 2: three and I start designing the challenges. So I'm designing 746 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 2: Christmas challenges and casting the guys. And then after designing 747 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 2: the challenges, we still shooting the show. So I'm in 748 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 2: Christmas mode shooting the show for like three weeks, and 749 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,280 Speaker 2: then I go into a Hallmark Christmas movie. By June, 750 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:12,800 Speaker 2: shoot another Christmas movie. That's another month of Christmas shooting. 751 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,720 Speaker 2: Then we start doing like the Hallmark Countdown to Christmas 752 00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 2: kickoff where it's all Christmas all the time. Then we 753 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:22,680 Speaker 2: do Christmas in July. Then I shoot Halloween Wars to 754 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:27,319 Speaker 2: in August to like start celebrating Halloween and then the 755 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,560 Speaker 2: countdown to Christmas kickoff and the show starts airing. So 756 00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,760 Speaker 2: we're doing Christmas events, the Hallmark Christmas Cruise, Hallmark Christmas 757 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,920 Speaker 2: Kansas City Experience. By the time the actual Christmas Day 758 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 2: gets here, I'm like, I don't think I can put 759 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 2: a tree up, Like I think I just need to 760 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 2: lay on the couch. And it's not the fact of 761 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 2: like I don't want a tree, it's that I don't 762 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 2: want to have to take it down because we have 763 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 2: been putting up Christmas decreations and doing Christmas decorations all 764 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,719 Speaker 2: over the world for an entire year. So when the 765 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 2: actual holiday gets there, I'm like, my holiday is to 766 00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:00,360 Speaker 2: like let everyone else enjoy the holidays that we helped 767 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 2: make Marion Brighte for them. I'm gonna land my couch 768 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 2: and eat like Tai food and watch movies. 769 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 1: That's fair. 770 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 2: Like, That's what I'm gonna do. It's fair, totally fair, 771 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,000 Speaker 2: And it's not because I don't like it. It's because 772 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,280 Speaker 2: we started January eighth. Yeah, I started doing Christmas. 773 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 1: You got a year of it. 774 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 2: We've had a year. 775 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 1: I get it. I get it. I was shook at first. 776 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:18,799 Speaker 1: I feel like it makes sense and by the time 777 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:25,160 Speaker 1: it happens, you're just like. 778 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 2: Okay, no more Christmas for me. I'm just gonna land 779 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:26,000 Speaker 2: the couch. 780 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 1: Okay, you deserve it. You you deserve it, don't mean 781 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,600 Speaker 1: that you deserve it fair enough. I feel like that 782 00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 1: was a really good what you've never said before? So 783 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:35,560 Speaker 1: I guess I'm still gonna ask you the question. I 784 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,360 Speaker 1: wrap up every interview with this question based off the 785 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,879 Speaker 1: title of the show. I've mainly because I was tired 786 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:43,680 Speaker 1: of going to premieres and jun kits and talking to 787 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:45,879 Speaker 1: people for two minutes and like not having a real 788 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 1: conversation and it's all the same bites that you answer 789 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,920 Speaker 1: from the same outlets, and you know, it's just, to me, 790 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:53,920 Speaker 1: the least interesting part of my job, if I can 791 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 1: say that. So I created a show where I could 792 00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:58,839 Speaker 1: have people come on and say something they don't get 793 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 1: a chance to say, or that they want to get 794 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,439 Speaker 1: off their chest, or whatever it means to you. It's 795 00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,560 Speaker 1: just like, here's your time to say something you don't 796 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,960 Speaker 1: always get to say. So, what is something you've never 797 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:08,479 Speaker 1: said before? 798 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:23,400 Speaker 2: Oh, I've never said no to a gig or to 799 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:27,200 Speaker 2: a paycheck. Never, I've never said no to a job 800 00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,840 Speaker 2: like and you can look at my IMDb and go, yep, 801 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:35,359 Speaker 2: you definitely have not said no ever, because there are 802 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:40,799 Speaker 2: some real turns on there. But I've never said no 803 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:49,160 Speaker 2: to like opportunity or a connection because I love working 804 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,759 Speaker 2: and even if the movie's absolute garbage, I love being 805 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:54,440 Speaker 2: on set. And when you're on set, you never know 806 00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 2: what you're gonna learn or who you're gonna meet. 807 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:56,800 Speaker 1: In this. 808 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:02,120 Speaker 2: Business, in this industry, and really life in general is 809 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,759 Speaker 2: all about relationships. It's not about being the best actor. 810 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 2: If it's about if it was about being the best actor, 811 00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,520 Speaker 2: watch TV, you wouldn't see any bad actors. Do We 812 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,640 Speaker 2: see bad actors a hundred times? So why is that? 813 00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:16,319 Speaker 2: Because it's about the relationships, right, So relationships are the 814 00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:20,759 Speaker 2: most important thing in your life, personally and professionally. And 815 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:27,799 Speaker 2: I've never said no to a job like. My age 816 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,920 Speaker 2: will be like it's like zero dollars and you're shooting 817 00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:34,440 Speaker 2: and like you know, muskokey for two months and you 818 00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,239 Speaker 2: get a hundred bucks and you have no hotel, you 819 00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 2: have to sleep on the street, and you're like, yeah, great, 820 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 2: I'm like I'm in let's do it. Like I've never 821 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 2: said no to a job. 822 00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 1: I kind of love that. 823 00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:49,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, because and every time I say yes, work gets work. 824 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,359 Speaker 2: You never know who you're gonna meet. You never know 825 00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,680 Speaker 2: like what thing is gonna click on there, Like sure, 826 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,399 Speaker 2: maybe it might be a garbage movie no one's gonna watch, 827 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 2: but guess what, the writer on this is actually really 828 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 2: good and he actually met someone who met someone and 829 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:04,799 Speaker 2: blah blah blah. And the next thing you know, you're 830 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 2: out to dinn they're like, you should read for this project. 831 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,600 Speaker 2: And then you get another gig. Like it's it's always 832 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:14,160 Speaker 2: about like we're getting you work. And like so I've 833 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 2: never said no to a job or a paycheck, and 834 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,319 Speaker 2: you can look at my social media to say that 835 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:21,320 Speaker 2: I've never said no to it. 836 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,480 Speaker 1: That's a great one. I actually really love that. And 837 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,439 Speaker 1: you wouldn't be where you are today without that, right, 838 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 1: Like you're here for a reason, you're doing You're in 839 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,799 Speaker 1: a career and in a path that you love and 840 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 1: you're happy with. And yeah, opportunities seem to keep coming 841 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:33,319 Speaker 1: to you. 842 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:36,239 Speaker 2: And also that's another thing. They don't come everything you've 843 00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:39,479 Speaker 2: seen me promote than Halloween Wars, I've created. Yeah, of course. 844 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 2: And that's the thing which is easy. Yes, that's the 845 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,319 Speaker 2: thing that I tell everyone that wants to break into 846 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 2: the industry. Right, They're like, how do I do it? 847 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,279 Speaker 2: I'm like, create your own stuff? The only I mean, 848 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,600 Speaker 2: you created a podcast that I'm sitting on and talking 849 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,359 Speaker 2: on right now, Tommy. 850 00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 1: Based it came from an Instagram live show I did 851 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 1: during the pandemic. 852 00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,040 Speaker 2: Yes, and then now we're on your podcast talking about 853 00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,279 Speaker 2: it because you created it. I hard to and just 854 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:04,239 Speaker 2: call Tommy and say, oh, never have I ever. Let's go. 855 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 2: I know it's not called never havever ever. I just 856 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,440 Speaker 2: like saying that I've never said this before. Let's do 857 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,640 Speaker 2: the show. Tommy's like, no, I'm going to create the 858 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 2: thing in the IP that makes iHeart go, oh, will 859 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:16,680 Speaker 2: you come do the show here? Yeah, And that's what 860 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 2: you have to do in twenty twenty five, twenty six 861 00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 2: to like make it in this industry. 862 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:23,360 Speaker 1: I am ready for a masterclass with Jonathan Bennett. 863 00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:24,359 Speaker 2: Let's think we just got one. 864 00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,759 Speaker 1: Let's go. Let's go, my friend, thank you. 865 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:28,799 Speaker 2: I am so happy that you're a real human. Oh 866 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 2: my Instagram model people, Oh my god. He doesn't just 867 00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,960 Speaker 2: like his green Earth, No I, what is it green Earth? 868 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 2: What's it called? Earth? 869 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,680 Speaker 1: Go watch all the things going on? Finding Mister Christmas 870 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:47,319 Speaker 1: and a Keller Christmas Vacation out November ninth. Jonathan Bennett's 871 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:49,560 Speaker 1: Thank You, m Me Doter, thank you so much, Thank you. 872 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:55,200 Speaker 1: Until next time, Stay Sexy, San Diego. I've Never Said 873 00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:59,560 Speaker 1: This Before is hosted by Me Tommy Didario. This podcast 874 00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:03,480 Speaker 1: is exactecutive produced by Andrew Publici at iHeartRadio and by 875 00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,919 Speaker 1: me Tommy, with editing by Joshua Colaudney. I've Never Said 876 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,880 Speaker 1: This Before is part of the Elvis Duran podcast Network 877 00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 1: on iHeart Podcasts. For more, rate review and subscribe to 878 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:18,240 Speaker 1: our show and if you liked this episode, tell your friends. 879 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,800 Speaker 1: Until next time. I'm Tommy Dederio