Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning,
Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's
Speaker 1: tip is to put a price tag on it. When
Speaker 1: there is something you want, figure out how much time
Speaker 1: and money it would take to make it happen. You
Speaker 1: may realize that things are not as costly as you assumed,
Speaker 1: or perhaps they are, but at least you know what
Speaker 1: you're working with so you can make rational choices. So
Speaker 1: often in life we talk about things we would like
Speaker 1: to change, but then we dismiss these ideas out of hand,
Speaker 1: or perhaps view the problems as so overwhelming that there
Speaker 1: is no rational place to start. I wish I could
Speaker 1: fill in the blank, travel more, go back to school,
Speaker 1: renovate my kitchen, stop looking frumpy, not spend my weekends
Speaker 1: scrubbing the bathrooms. But here's the thing. Very few things
Speaker 1: in life are truly impossible to change. Many changes could
Speaker 1: happen with some amount of cash or time. Taking a
Speaker 1: moment to consider how much such changes would cost in
Speaker 1: time and money may prompt you to realize it is
Speaker 1: something you can do more easily than you thought, or
Speaker 1: at least it will put the problem in perspective. For instance,
Speaker 1: maybe after the pandemic, your old work wardrobe is no
Speaker 1: longer fitting like it did. Rather than bemoaning this or
Speaker 1: squeezing into clothes that make you feel bad about yourself,
Speaker 1: you could put a price tag on this issue. With
Speaker 1: three hours on the internet and six hundred dollars, what
Speaker 1: do you think you could do? My guess is that
Speaker 1: you could buy yourself a pretty good professional wardrobe in
Speaker 1: a larger size with just a quick trip to the
Speaker 1: post office to return whatever doesn't work. Or maybe you
Speaker 1: don't like your disorganized pantry. What if you gave yourself
Speaker 1: two hours on the weekend and fifty dollars for organizing supplies.
Speaker 1: My guess is that you'd be pretty close to getting
Speaker 1: the pantry under control for less than the cost of
Speaker 1: a family dinner out. Even with something that is more complicated,
Speaker 1: you should still look at the price tag. If you
Speaker 1: are bothered by your crooked teeth, for instance, go visit
Speaker 1: an orthodontist or check out one of those online services.
Speaker 1: They will give you a dollar figure and a length
Speaker 1: of time. Then you can decide how you feel about that.
Speaker 1: Now it might be possible that you'll decide it isn't
Speaker 1: worth the cost. I have a slight gap between my
Speaker 1: front teeth that I thought about fixing for a few
Speaker 1: seconds in my late twenties. I got an expert opinion
Speaker 1: on what fixing it would take, namely a few thousand
Speaker 1: dollars and six to twelve months. Then I had a
Speaker 1: kid and decided I didn't have the brain space to
Speaker 1: be worried about an imperceptible gap. In general, the upside
Speaker 1: of knowing is that then you can make an informed choice,
Speaker 1: which leads to less rumination. No more I'm so embarrassed
Speaker 1: by the dent in my car. I should have it fixed. Instead,
Speaker 1: you think to yourself, hmhm, it stinks that I have
Speaker 1: a dent in my car, but I would rather use
Speaker 1: the thousand dollars that would cost to fix it for
Speaker 1: something else, since I'm going to get a new car
Speaker 1: in a year or two. Anyway, your mind can move
Speaker 1: on to other things. This sounds simple enough, but I've
Speaker 1: found that sometimes people like to nurse dissatisfactions rather than
Speaker 1: truly figuring out what it would take to solve a problem.
Speaker 1: Perhaps you hate doing laundry, don't we all? It can
Speaker 1: be fun to complain. I recently heard such complaints about
Speaker 1: mounds and mounds of laundry taking over one's life from
Speaker 1: a fairly well off woman who could absolutely have afforded
Speaker 1: to pay someone else to do her laundry. I'm not
Speaker 1: sure what was going on there. Did she not know
Speaker 1: that that was an option or was it more comforting
Speaker 1: to keep the identity of doing everything for everyone else?
Speaker 1: I don't know. But we can put a price tag
Speaker 1: on a great many things. That includes outsourcing laundry or cooking,
Speaker 1: hiring some weekend childcare, even big things like taking a
Speaker 1: six month sabbatical and traveling the world, going part time
Speaker 1: and using the extra hours to write a novel. In
Speaker 1: the end, we might not find it is worth it
Speaker 1: to pay that price for various reasons. But when we
Speaker 1: know the price, we can make a decision and either
Speaker 1: make the change or move on. Knowing we can then
Speaker 1: focus on more satisfying things in the meantime. This is Laura.
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening, and here's to making the most of
Speaker 1: our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to hear from you.
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