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Speaker 1: I ban my sister in law from the wedding because

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Speaker 1: my parents love her more than me. Let me explain.

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Speaker 1: My forty three female fiance thirty eight male are getting

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Speaker 1: married at the end of next month. It's a second marriage,

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Speaker 1: so he've agreed to keep it incredibly small and intimate.

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Speaker 1: What does it like when people say that is just

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Speaker 1: like it's their second marriage, so who like?

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Speaker 2: Gives a shit?

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Speaker 1: We're only inviting twenty five of our closest friends and

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Speaker 1: family due to tight budget and wanting to keep things simple.

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Speaker 1: Fiance's sister, forty two female, is used to being the

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Speaker 1: center of attention and has been a real issue for

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Speaker 1: my fiance his entire life. She's the golden child, and

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Speaker 1: his parents spend most of their time and energy catering

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Speaker 1: to her, from driving her to doctor's appointments, to cooking

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Speaker 1: and delivering home cooked meals to paying her bills regularly.

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, I did not know my parents were supposed

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Speaker 2: to be a subscription to a food prep service. Bro dude,

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Speaker 2: another hello fresh out here? Come on?

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Speaker 1: His parents even used to pay him to go clean

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Speaker 1: her apartment for her when he was in college when

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Speaker 1: they were dating. No, I think when he was in college,

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Speaker 1: so probably before they were dating, right, because he's like

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Speaker 1: he's thirty eight. Now, Wow, that's crazy, dude. Imagine if

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Speaker 1: like your parents are like, hey, like, can you go

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Speaker 1: clean your sister's apartment.

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Speaker 2: We'll pay you twenty bucks. That'd be great. I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: be mad.

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Speaker 1: She is often in some kind of medical crisis, which

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Speaker 1: I suspect maybe munch shansins or at least severe hypochondria.

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Speaker 1: Munchinsen's is like when you poison your kid so you

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Speaker 1: can take care of them. Really yeah, it's like a

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Speaker 1: psychological disease.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Despite all of that, I've always had good interactions with her,

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Speaker 1: and we generally get along. The current issue revolves around

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Speaker 1: sister in law's romantic relationship. She's married to a man

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Speaker 1: that she lives with, and I've met several times at

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Speaker 1: holidays and dinners in my future in law's house. However,

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Speaker 1: sister in law also has another partner all called Okay,

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Speaker 1: So sistern law is dating multiple people at the same time.

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Speaker 2: She's got that little thrupple going on. Dang on her.

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Speaker 1: Hey g is an older woman who is married to

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Speaker 1: sister in law's cousin, who was also a woman.

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Speaker 2: I'm where are we? I am confused?

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, just to be clear, all right, So sister

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Speaker 1: in law is married to a man. Sister in law

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Speaker 1: has another partner who's called G. G is married to

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Speaker 1: sister in law's cousin. So sister in law and the

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Speaker 1: cousin are related. It's almost like swinging with your family.

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Speaker 1: Everyone in the family is aware of the relationship and

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Speaker 1: it's been going on for several years. I met G

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Speaker 1: for the first and only time this past Thanksgiving. Before

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Speaker 1: we arrived, we were told G was now identifying as

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Speaker 1: key and we were all to address them as masculine. Okay,

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Speaker 1: no big deal, especially when I'd never met them before.

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Speaker 1: When we arrived, I was introduced to G and I

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Speaker 1: was surprised to see them wearing a very revealing dress.

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Speaker 1: I'm not one to body SHAMEE by any means, but

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Speaker 1: G is a very heavy set and older and this

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Speaker 2: Oh good lord, Wow, what a situation this is right here, Holy,

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Speaker 2: this is complex.

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Speaker 1: This is the way they chose to dress to a

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Speaker 1: family Thanksgiving in New England in November. On top of that,

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Speaker 1: it was obvious, both by smell and appearance that they

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Speaker 2: Nice Jesus.

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Speaker 1: We then had to spend the rest of the afternoon

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Speaker 1: watching cistern Law indulge in PDA with G.

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Speaker 2: That was really.

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Speaker 1: Uncomfortable, while she gushed about having two husbands. The whole

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Speaker 1: situation was off putting and impossible to ignore, ensuring sistern

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Speaker 1: Law was the focus of the day, it was an

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Speaker 1: awkward experience.

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Speaker 2: I have no desire to repeat.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, she's like, I'm so glad I have two husbands.

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Speaker 1: And as stated at the beginning, when we sat down

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Speaker 1: to do our wedding invites, we were focused on keeping

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Speaker 1: the list incredibly short, which left out several people we

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Speaker 1: would have really liked to include. When we gave an

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Speaker 1: invite to sister in law, we addressed it to her

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Speaker 1: needed to invite G as well because of their relationship

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Speaker 1: law that she only got a plus one like everyone else,

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Speaker 1: and neither my fiance or I had any kind of

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Speaker 1: G incredibly off putting. We can't trust they'll dress or

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Speaker 1: bathe appropriately for a wedding. Not bathe man, Dude, that's tough. Also,

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Speaker 1: I don't get people that don't like taking baths or showers.

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Speaker 2: I don't either. That's true. It's fine.

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Speaker 1: I take a shower, dude, I'm ready. I can't be

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Speaker 1: on a zoom call if my breast smells bad. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want to smell like a perfume store.

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Speaker 2: Sane.

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Speaker 1: We know that, sister in law bringing gee. We'll just

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Speaker 1: ensure the focus will be on her and her relationships.

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Speaker 1: My fiance doesn't deserve that on his wedding day, and honestly,

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Speaker 1: neither do I. We thought the matter settled, but my

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Speaker 1: fiance had a family holiday yesterday at his parents' house

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Speaker 1: that I wasn't there for. G was there, once again,

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Speaker 1: wearing a very short dress and an obvious need of

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Speaker 1: a shower. My fiance made it through the entire evening

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Speaker 1: without the wedding coming up right until he had one

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Speaker 1: foot out the door. As he was walking out, sister

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Speaker 2: Wow. So close, so.

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Speaker 1: Close, so freaking close would just say, like, take a

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Speaker 1: bath and fucking wear a sun dress.

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Speaker 2: I don't want these vibes at my wedding. I don't

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Speaker 2: want these vibes. Your body stanks and your vibes thanks.

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Speaker 1: I can deal with like a short dress. What I

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Speaker 1: can't deal with is a stank pit. You know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: stank pit. Fiance was taken aback, but really how to leave?

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Speaker 1: He plans on sending an email to his sister in

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Speaker 1: If it comes down to it. We believe that may

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Speaker 1: mean sister in law won't be coming to the wedding

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Speaker 1: and could cause a bit of a rift in the family.

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Speaker 1: Am I wrong for wanting to stand our ground and

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Speaker 1: insist G was never invited to the wedding and it's

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Speaker 1: not welcome to show up. And there is a little

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Speaker 1: bit of an edit and an updates, a big, thick,

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Speaker 1: juicy update. But John, tell me, what do you think

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Speaker 1: is OP being too sensitive to restrictive or not? I?

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Speaker 2: And this is such like an unfortunate thing with weddings

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Speaker 2: that goes on even though it's your own wedding because

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Speaker 2: you don't want to like hurt people's feelings and all this,

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Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, it's your wedding,

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Speaker 2: and like it's it's just I think it's just the

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Speaker 2: general vibe of G that OP is not about. Like

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Speaker 2: you could try and point out one particular thing, but

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Speaker 2: I think it's just like, yo, I don't really enjoy

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Speaker 2: that is all you need to say.

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Speaker 1: I think also what G does is G brings out

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Speaker 1: an aspect of cistern law that ope he just doesn't

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's rough.

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Speaker 1: Would you invite G to your wedding? Let us know

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Speaker 1: the comments and let's get into this edit and updates.

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Speaker 2: Edit.

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Speaker 1: I've been accused of being out of line for mis

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Speaker 1: gendering G by using day them pronouns.

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Speaker 2: Clarify.

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Speaker 1: G asked us to refer to them as he at Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 1: but that has been in flux since then because we're

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Speaker 1: to refer g in gender neutral terms rather than misgendering them. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so I guess it's like sometimes g is going by

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Speaker 2: Have heard, and they're like, we want to be as

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Speaker 2: respectful as we can. Yeah, all right, on to the update.

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Speaker 1: My fiance was trying to figure out what to say

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Speaker 1: to his family about the whole situation, and it very

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Speaker 1: much is a whole situation. His mother emailed us to

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Speaker 1: make sure we were going to sister in law's birthday

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Speaker 1: and to ask if we were getting excited about the wedding.

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Speaker 1: I told my fiance he clearly couldn't wait any longer

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Speaker 1: emailed them clarifying sister in law only got a plus

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Speaker 1: sure that was being respected. He also said he didn't

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Speaker 1: appreciate being told by sister in law she would be

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Speaker 1: I don't have any polyamorous friends, so I wonder if

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Speaker 1: it is seen as like a dick move in, like

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Speaker 2: I could see that, but also it's more g isn't

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Speaker 2: a vibe, It's it's more Jesus vibe. But the flip

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Speaker 2: wedding has to account for fifty percent more people, more

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Speaker 2: it's you gotta go case by case, you put, you

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Speaker 1: The ensuing meltdown has been ugly, to say the least.

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Speaker 1: Mother in law began spamming my fiance with angry and

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Speaker 1: unhinged emails, accusing him of being anti Polly and somehow

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Speaker 1: something that is kind of cool. The whole situation is

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Speaker 1: fiance not to respond to mother in law until she

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Speaker 1: him about random garbage, acting like nothing ever happened. Father

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Speaker 1: in law asked to talk to fiance face to face today.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was an odd request, as they usually

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Speaker 1: just talk on the phone, and we lived three hours

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Speaker 1: away from them. Fiance had to be in the area

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Speaker 1: for work today. My theory was he planned to offer

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Speaker 2: Not the case.

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Speaker 1: He actually told my fiance that they all thought the

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Speaker 1: budget was a big excuse since we hadn't asked them

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Speaker 1: for any financial help with the wedding. He told his

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Speaker 1: because we wanted to keep this small and simple and

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Speaker 1: have control over the guests and not feel obligated to

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Speaker 1: invite people we didn't want there. I didn't even invite

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Speaker 1: one of my brothers I don't get along with. Father

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Speaker 1: in law agrees that g presents a lot of issues

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Speaker 1: and asks if they could convince them to be more

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Speaker 1: issue that sister in law would go out of her

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Speaker 2: So what do you think, John asshole? Not the asshole,

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Speaker 1: ninety eight says, not the asshole. Father in law said,

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Speaker 2: Think opca hole?

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Speaker 2: for okop reward.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for stealing my dad's one

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Speaker 1: million dollar inheritance without telling them?

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Speaker 2: You know, if I'm just going off the bat, I

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Speaker 2: of the millions, the millions. You gotta think of the money, John,

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Speaker 2: What about what about me? That is a good question.

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Speaker 2: You know, what about my needs?

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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, don't let anyone stop you from being a

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Speaker 1: selfish piece of shit.

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Speaker 2: All our fathers did was raise us and care for

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Speaker 2: us all our lives. I mean, that's it. That's all

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Speaker 1: That's all they've done, and it should uh, it should

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Speaker 1: you exactly. They blurw this out, blow this out, just kidding.

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Speaker 2: We love we love you, Dad's Yeah, I love your dad.

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Speaker 2: I had a great walk with my dad this morning. Actually,

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Speaker 2: there we go, see fatherly wisdom. Don't give him a

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Speaker 1: I can bet your ass if he's getting a million

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: My mother died when I was sixteen. Ouch, not a

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Speaker 1: great start. My dad married a woman two years later.

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Speaker 1: This feels like a haiku. Let's way my mother died.

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Speaker 2: Close. That's the feeling.

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Speaker 1: It's five seven five yeah, yes, yeah, I think my

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Speaker 2: Two years later, woman woman to Haku. Yes, this is

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Speaker 2: we did it. We did it. Call his Japanese poets

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Speaker 2: that sneeze because brilliant. There we go that that's that's

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Speaker 2: Ye hey, hey, pay us please, I'm trying to get

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Speaker 2: that tesla money not not not a car, just a

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Speaker 2: testa coil. I don't want to do that the magic stuff.

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Speaker 2: Of course.

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Speaker 1: My grandparents, my dad's parents. Hey, my stepmother, I really

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Speaker 1: don't like her either. I love how like short and sweet.

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Speaker 1: It's like bam bamun writer. Even after my half siblings

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, hey, stepmother, how you doing what? I hate you?

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Speaker 2: I hate you, and my family hates you. We don't

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Speaker 2: hate you. My grandparents are quite wealthy. My thought.

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Speaker 1: My father has been banking on this inheritance for a while.

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Speaker 1: It's so like the sun structure is very clear. He

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I go that far. Daddy, oh, daddy, daddy,

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Speaker 2: oh daddy. Oh, we gotta got it. We gotta have

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Speaker 1: I just found out on Saturday that I'm getting the

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Speaker 1: majority of my grandparents' estate. My father is getting a

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Speaker 1: token amount of fifty thousand dollars, so we can't dispute it.

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Speaker 1: Oh so he thinking, he's thinking he's getting millions, and like, hey,

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Speaker 1: here's here's fifty k, which is not.

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Speaker 2: Not bad, not bad, but it's it's really.

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Speaker 1: Giving that to him, so he can't be like, whoh, no,

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Speaker 1: I was screwed out of this money. It's like no, no,

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Speaker 1: this is very intentionally we're giving you this sum of money,

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Speaker 1: but no more.

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Speaker 2: Oh that is so painful.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like the person in this story that

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Speaker 1: we need to watch out for is a stepmother that

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Speaker 1: everyone hates.

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Speaker 2: Like why does everyone hate her? And what is she planning? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: this evil stepmother definitely has some skeletons in her closet.

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Speaker 2: Like OP needs to make sure to research her with

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Speaker 2: public data check just to be safe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and if you want to research the people around you,

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Speaker 2: Do it.

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Speaker 1: My grandparents maybe promise not to give out any money

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Speaker 1: after to like the father, right, and I intend to

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Speaker 2: Okay, so Daddy's not getting shit, yeah, I mean to guess,

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Speaker 1: But I do feel really guilty that my father just

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Speaker 1: my dad isn't a lot of debt. Am I the

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Speaker 2: There's more we need to know? Yeah, I feel like

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Speaker 2: there's definitely something going behind the scenes. Is it just

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Speaker 2: something else. Something's up with the dad. That's maybe he

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Speaker 1: Don don that's how she died, and they're like, hey,

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Speaker 2: That's a plot twist. So so you learn your lesson.

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Speaker 2: We're not You're only giving you fifty thousand dollars, no

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Speaker 2: more murdering. But there is an update.

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Speaker 1: Well, actually, before we go to an update, is OPI

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Speaker 1: the a hole for not telling you?

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Speaker 2: Think? Okay? No, but I think OP, he's got to

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Speaker 2: he should leave his dad hanging. I think you should

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Speaker 2: still figuring out if he can get his dad to

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Speaker 2: like yeah, because there's gonna be so much drama, and

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Speaker 2: he's just like he's like depending on this, he's like

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Speaker 2: for him. Yeah, and then he might come back way

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Speaker 2: later in life and be like, op, I need help

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Speaker 2: take care of daddy baby. Yeah. A lot of people

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Speaker 2: have asked me for updates, so I thought i'd make one.

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Speaker 2: It was kind of positive. I agreed with many of

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Speaker 2: they definitely were. That is true. Yeah. I talked to

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Speaker 2: his wife, and myself. I sent some tea coming tea

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Speaker 2: and crumpets there will be I was secretly hoping that

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Speaker 2: my grandparents would get over some of their issues with

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Speaker 2: my dad and his wife, but no, my dad's wife

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Speaker 2: started crying and wailing when they revealed that I would

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Speaker 2: grandmother almost exploding. My dad, to his credit, looked disappointed,

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Speaker 2: but said it was their money to do as they wish. Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's a respectable.

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Speaker 1: Move on the dad's part, but still, like fuck, a

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Speaker 1: respectable move.

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Speaker 2: But but he's fucked. But he's fucked. Yeah, this is

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Speaker 2: own fault. Yeah. Is it just because he married this guy?

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's just because he married this time mother.

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Speaker 2: I'm really confused.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the new agreement is that my father will receive

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Speaker 1: seventy five thousand dollars twenty five k bomb okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: few days later and acted very foolishly.

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Speaker 2: You foolish wool You thought your tomfoolery would get this money.

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Speaker 2: You sound like an old time villain, like.

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Speaker 1: You fool you could thwart my evil plan?

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Speaker 2: Will nay?

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Speaker 1: I say this is not your day. I came to

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Speaker 1: do more than play. And when my say has been said,

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Speaker 1: you will all be dead.

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Speaker 2: So go ahead. The floor will still be red. You

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Speaker 2: should definitely be like those people that do the shows

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Speaker 2: at like Disney or whatever. Yeah, which, by the way,

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Speaker 2: can me tell you a tale or two that made

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Speaker 2: you know Jake Novak snel cast member and I'm the

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Speaker 2: in Treo or whatever. And then people on TikTok found

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Speaker 2: and like, wow, dude, TikTok fame man changes you. That's right.

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Speaker 2: And she somehow thought that insulting my mother would help

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Speaker 2: her how someone gives her mom Jesus Christ. I told

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Speaker 2: that seemed to shut her up. There we go.

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Speaker 1: I like that my relationship with my dad has never

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Speaker 1: been the greatest, but I haven't really seen any further

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Speaker 1: decline in the relationship. But I feel a lot of

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Speaker 1: relief now, Thanks everyone.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm still like confused, as I agree, it's like

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Speaker 2: very harsh to totally like remove him so much, remove

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Speaker 2: the dad from the will just because of like this wife.

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Speaker 2: I feel like op may or somebody is leaving something

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Speaker 2: out because this doesn't make this. This math ain't math.

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Speaker 2: And literally it's like, why would you not give your

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Speaker 2: own at least? Like and then it's Op getting millions,

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Speaker 2: but the rest of the siblings are getting just a

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Speaker 2: fifty k fund. Like that's weird too. I think Ope

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Speaker 2: is omating some stuff. Honestly, why is Op getting all

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Speaker 2: the money? Because yeah, ohp he's getting all the money.

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Speaker 2: His siblings are getting fifty k for education, not even

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Speaker 2: fifty k cash, and then the dad is getting seventy

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Speaker 2: five k, like I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know, and that thought he was going to inherit million millions,

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Speaker 1: not one million millions, so that there there's there's a

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Speaker 1: few million left over here.

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Speaker 2: I'm suspicious. I'm suspicious of OK, yeah, I'm sorry. I

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Speaker 2: just don't know what's going on. I'm confused. I don't

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Speaker 2: think the step mom. I think there's there's more to this.

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Speaker 2: There's more, there's more. Maybe I think someone was mad

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Speaker 2: at tell Us tell us, I don't know. What do

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Speaker 2: you guys think