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Speaker 1: So slow, Sir thirty two sixty one says, my husband

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Speaker 3: Buckets of it, gastro intestinal.

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Speaker 1: I take that to me, and it's not really for

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Imagine someone cooking soup all the time and just everything

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Speaker 1: Our two twenty something kids still live at home and

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Speaker 1: If he makes chicken breasts, he sautas them and they

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because you can't handle spice.

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Speaker 1: He's never said no one can touch his food, but

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Speaker 7: First question, how swool is this guy? This guy Jack?

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Speaker 6: If he's super jacked, it be no annoyed. I was

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Speaker 2: Wow, dude, this took a very different turn.

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Speaker 3: Sophie is just.

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Speaker 7: Like Boom is.

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Speaker 3: You always eat your own food and we always eat

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Speaker 7: It's like my food is my food, and your food

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Speaker 5: Sweet.

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Speaker 1: He offered to go get the rest last night, admittedly

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Speaker 1: It felt petty to me because there is other food

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Speaker 6: He just said sorry, like sorry, but that like I

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Speaker 1: this situation in reverse, our daughter likes his yogurt and

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Speaker 1: that my friends, he is the end of the story.

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Speaker 3: We read it, and now we will respond to it,

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Speaker 5: We read and responded.

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Speaker 4: I don't really feel like she fixed anything or like

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Speaker 5: Just kind of like she was like, it's probably fine.

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Speaker 6: I think you need to get a raw chicken breast

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Speaker 6: and give them a little a little slap.

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Speaker 1: Of dude and be like, you see this, this is

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Speaker 6: You love chicken so much, here's your protein gets wall.

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Speaker 5: Accept it and what you know what I want to accept?

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Speaker 5: What another story?

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Speaker 6: Let's get into it and this one happens to be

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Speaker 3: But you've been checked.

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Speaker 8: I have been checked. I did have a snake up

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Speaker 2: And our boy is clean as a whistle.

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Speaker 8: Do you see what's going on here? I, I honestly

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Speaker 6: You like and oh, this is someone from our own community.

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Speaker 6: Her husband is a mix of confused and embarrassed or

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Speaker 3: Warm queen is left.

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Speaker 2: That is true.

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Speaker 3: We have the pigeon king instead.

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Speaker 2: And there's another edit.

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Speaker 6: Y'all are giving this one attention. I wasn't prepared for. LMFAO.

450
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Speaker 6: I probably won't come back to this post, but also

451
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Speaker 6: want to clarify I do not actually believe this man

452
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Speaker 6: had cancer.

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Speaker 3: Why is he lying then? Exactly at all?

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Speaker 6: It's just my phrasing because it was and still is

455
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Speaker 6: an absolute mind f of a situation that left me

456
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Speaker 6: with more questions than answers.

457
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Speaker 8: Why would he lie unless he was trying to like

458
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Speaker 8: hurry support so she wouldn't ask for child support.

459
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Speaker 2: Maybe he's just like a yeah, maybe that.

460
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Speaker 6: Maybe he's like just like a compulsive liar who just like.

461
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Speaker 3: Lies for Yeah. Maybe it was like, hey, can you

462
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Speaker 3: help me out with something?

463
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Speaker 8: He's like, I would really love to I have prostate

464
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Speaker 8: cancer just to get out of like a banal request. Yeah,

465
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Speaker 8: and then just continued with the lie.

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Speaker 6: To going deeper and deeper. Please stop telling me to

467
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Speaker 6: file child support. It has literally nothing to do with

468
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Speaker 6: me wanting his money, not wanting his money. My feelings

469
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Speaker 6: towards him, et cetera, et cetera. I've told him he

470
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Speaker 6: can do that for himself for visitation, because he wanted

471
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Speaker 6: to go to court after leaving the state for three

472
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Speaker 6: hundred or three hundred and sixty three days and never

473
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Speaker 6: telling me he has not. I don't know what the

474
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Speaker 6: law is where you're located, but putting him on child

475
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Speaker 6: support could stop me from filing abandonment and having any

476
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Speaker 6: rights revoked.

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Speaker 2: Et cetera.

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Speaker 8: But guys, basically, if she files for child support, he

479
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Speaker 8: may be entitled to money or sorry, he may be

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Speaker 8: entitled to time with child.

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Speaker 6: Oh and Op's like I want to have full control

482
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Speaker 6: of the custody because he is financially providing. I have

483
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Speaker 6: no desire to force a grown ass man to do

484
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Speaker 6: his due diligence, especially when, especially when it is no

485
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Speaker 6: benefit to me or my child. My intention behind my

486
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Speaker 6: attention behind not filing for child support is strictly so

487
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Speaker 6: that way I can file abandonment and the man who

488
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Speaker 6: raised her can legally adopt her. Oh, I guess maybe

489
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Speaker 6: there is another man, the partner, a partner in the

490
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Speaker 6: picture of that oh PE's partner.

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Speaker 2: There we go.

492
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Speaker 3: We've reached out. We've reached the full year of no

493
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Speaker 3: contact required.

494
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Speaker 2: It's just costly.

495
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Speaker 6: I appreciate your concern and advice, but it is not

496
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Speaker 6: necessary or helpful. So maybe the guy Brandon was just

497
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Speaker 6: trying to like get out of having to like secure

498
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Speaker 6: the don't contact me and I don't want anything to

499
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Speaker 6: do with this kid, right, So yeah, okay, I think

500
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Speaker 6: I can see that he's like he's like kind of

501
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Speaker 6: playing along the first like oh yeah, like let's stay,

502
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Speaker 6: let's stay in touched d DA. So it's like he

503
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Speaker 6: kind of looks like he's engaging, and then he's like, oh,

504
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Speaker 6: I have prostate cancer. So it's like that's like his

505
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Speaker 6: trump card of like oh I can't be involved, Like yeah,

506
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Speaker 6: all of this well, Big Protein just dropped in a

507
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Speaker 6: relevant comment for me once again our own community members.

508
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Speaker 6: In our slngs okop show so uh Stormfinch says, while

509
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Speaker 6: extremely rare below the age of fifty five ten percent,

510
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Speaker 6: it is becoming more common in younger men I think

511
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Speaker 6: having prostate cancer. Unfortunately, the survival rate is also lower

512
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Speaker 6: when diagnosed at a younger age, and scientists fear that

513
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Speaker 6: it's the same form of cancer. And scientists fear that

514
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Speaker 6: it's not the same form of cancer that appears in

515
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Speaker 6: men in their sixties, so it's harder to treat, right, Yeah,

516
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Speaker 6: they have less like, yeah, things developed for it because

517
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Speaker 6: it's less common. Let's begin with Fredo says, second, this

518
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Speaker 6: spouse had it young at forty. They went aggressively after

519
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Speaker 6: it a very low prostate specific antigen, whereas sixty five

520
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Speaker 6: year old friend had triple his prostate specific antigen. So basically,

521
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Speaker 6: like the higher that the PSA is, the or the

522
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Speaker 6: worst it is. Older friend is watched with a prescription

523
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Speaker 6: no cancer treatment. If that dude had it that young,

524
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Speaker 6: it'd be the fearsome type of cancer. Mom would know.

525
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Speaker 6: Opie replies, that is actually wild information I didn't know,

526
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Speaker 6: but do appreciate.

527
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Speaker 2: Which is a.

528
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Speaker 6: Great example of the community helping the freaking community that

529
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Speaker 6: we love to see.

530
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Speaker 3: We we love our show, kop show. It's great.

531
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Speaker 8: You'd like to read stories from there, please submit your

532
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Speaker 8: own if you have them.

533
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Speaker 2: That's right, and that's it.

534
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Speaker 3: That's it, that's all. She wrote.

535
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Speaker 8: Also, we may be getting something wrong. We may be

536
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Speaker 8: getting something wrong with the PSA stuff, So correct us

537
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Speaker 8: if we.

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Speaker 2: Are Yeah, we are little completed.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, We did a quick research, but we're not completely

540
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Speaker 8: sure if we're getting that right. But you know what

541
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Speaker 8: we are sure of. If you love us, make sure

542
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Speaker 8: to subscribe We love you and see it tomorrow.

543
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Speaker 3: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

544
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Speaker 6: Time for okop relash. My wife had seven children that

545
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Speaker 6: clearly aren't mine. I tried to make it work, but

546
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Speaker 6: then she did something even worse.

547
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Speaker 3: AI or human? Oh Sam, what do you think?

548
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Speaker 2: Oh?

549
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 3: That sounds like a that sounds like a human redditor

550
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Speaker 3: that we have on our hands.

551
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Speaker 2: You know, they are messy like that.

552
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Speaker 3: They be messy, they'd be messy. Let's see it.

553
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 2: But we'll see.

554
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Speaker 6: My wife and I have been married for about ten

555
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Speaker 6: years and we have seven children together.

556
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Speaker 3: It's a lot of children. Recently, I started.

557
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Speaker 6: To notice that our kids don't really look like me

558
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Speaker 6: at all.

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Speaker 3: You know, you wake up one.

560
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Speaker 6: Day and you're just like, wait, wait wait those can

561
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Speaker 6: you seven?

562
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Speaker 3: All seventy of you?

563
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Speaker 2: Line up?

564
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Speaker 3: Rick?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm noticing? Uh, what large ears you have, grandmother?

566
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Speaker 8: What long nose you have? What wait, what long is

567
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Speaker 8: you have? What furry limbs you have?

568
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Speaker 3: What separate nippers you have? Grandma?

569
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Speaker 6: That's a whole different story. Oh, so, Obie says, I

570
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Speaker 6: have dark hair and brown eyes, but most of our

571
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Speaker 6: kids have blonde hair and blue eyes. I don't know

572
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Speaker 6: if that's biologically possible unless they're adopted. I asked my

573
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Speaker 6: wife about it, and she just laughed it off and

574
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Speaker 6: said the kids can sometimes take after their grandparents.

575
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Speaker 3: I wasn't convinced, but I let it go.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 6: A few weeks later, I stumbled upon some old pictures

578
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Speaker 6: of my wife when we were dating. In these pictures,

579
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Speaker 6: she had short, blonde hair and blue eyes. And that's

580
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Speaker 6: when it hit me. All of our kids look exactly

581
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Speaker 6: like her, but not me. Unacceptable, unacceptable. I confronted my

582
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Speaker 6: wife and she finally admitted what that that Not only

583
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Speaker 6: are these not my kids? She had all of the

584
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Speaker 6: kids with seven different men.

585
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Speaker 3: Are they all blonde haired and blue eyed? She has

586
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Speaker 3: a type. She has a type, bro she has the time.

587
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Speaker 3: Ah not, let's finish, okay.

588
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Speaker 6: She said she did that because she wanted a big

589
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Speaker 6: family and didn't think I was capable of giving her that.

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Speaker 3: Damn which we read a story recently that was the case.

591
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Speaker 6: I was devastated believe she would do something like this

592
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Speaker 6: without even talking to me about it first, I felt

593
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Speaker 6: like my entire marriage was built on a lie.

594
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Speaker 3: I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 6: I love my wife and I don't want to lose her,

596
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Speaker 6: but I also don't know if I can trust her anymore.

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Speaker 2: Any advice?

598
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Speaker 3: With seven different children from seven different men, you're telling

599
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Speaker 3: me you having a hard time trusting her. You know what, Opie,

600
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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say you're wrong. Well, Sam, there's an update?

601
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Speaker 3: Oh what's the up date?

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Speaker 6: After I confronted my wife about the seven children she

603
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Speaker 6: had with other men, she finally, what.

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Speaker 3: Do you got John? Okay?

605
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Speaker 6: She finally admitted that she had eight more children with

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Speaker 6: eight more different.

607
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Speaker 3: Men as well. Back fifteen. That's a fifteen every children.

608
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Speaker 8: You know, whenever you're laughing hysterically, that's how you know,

609
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Speaker 8: That's how you know.

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Speaker 6: She said that she did this because she had this

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Speaker 6: overwhelming desire to have as many children as possible as possible, bro,

612
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Speaker 6: and she didn't think I was capable of giving her that.

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Speaker 6: The real question is, how did hope you not know?

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Speaker 6: I mean, she's like, fifty, yeah, we would have to

615
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Speaker 6: be pregnant fifty fifteen years of pregnancy, just insaney.

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Speaker 2: I was heartbroken.

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Speaker 6: I couldn't believe that she lied to me for so

618
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Speaker 6: long and had so many children with other men behind

619
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Speaker 6: my back. I knew that our marriage was over. I

620
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Speaker 6: spent the next few days trying to come to terms

621
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Speaker 6: with everything that had happened. It was a lot to process,

622
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Speaker 6: and I felt like I had lost everything that mattered

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Speaker 6: to me. In the end, I decided to divorce my wife.

624
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Speaker 6: It was a difficult decision, but I knew it was

625
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Speaker 6: the right thing to do. I couldn't stay with anyone

626
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Speaker 6: who had lied to me for so long and had

627
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Speaker 6: so little respect for our marriage. It's been a tough road,

628
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Speaker 6: but I'm starting to move on and build a new

629
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Speaker 6: life for myself. I've learned a lot from this experience,

630
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Speaker 6: and I hope to use it to become a better

631
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Speaker 6: person in the future. AI, there's one final There's one

632
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 6: single final update. After my divorce, I felt lost and alone.

633
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Speaker 6: I had spent so much of my life focused on

634
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Speaker 6: my marriage and my family, and now it was all gone.

635
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Speaker 2: I didn't know what to do with myself.

636
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Speaker 6: But then I stumbled upon a group of people who

637
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 6: were passionate about snake milking.

638
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Speaker 3: Are you familiar with snake milking?

639
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 6: So snakey milking is where you like get venom from

640
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Speaker 6: a snake, like a dairy from a teit.

641
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Speaker 3: I had never I had never ever.

642
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Speaker 6: Heard of snake milking before, but something about it just

643
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 6: spoke to me. I started attending meetings and learning more

644
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Speaker 6: about the process. As I got more into the community,

645
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 6: I started to feel like I belonged somewhere again. These

646
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 6: people were passionate and dedicated, and they welcomed me with

647
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Speaker 6: open arms. One of the members of the community, a

648
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 6: woman named Sarah. Oh god, she really caught my eye

649
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Speaker 6: or should I say, my fangs. She was really kind

650
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 6: and had a love for snakes that rivaled my own.

651
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Speaker 3: We're almost done.

652
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Speaker 6: We started spending more and more time together, and before

653
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Speaker 6: I knew it, we were in love. We've been together

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Speaker 6: for a few years. I couldn't be happier. I never

655
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Speaker 6: would have thought that a divorce and a love of

656
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Speaker 6: snake milking could lead me to the love of my life,

657
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Speaker 6: but I'm grateful every day I did it. I found

658
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Speaker 6: a new passion and a new family in the snake

659
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Speaker 6: milking community, and I wouldn't have it.

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Speaker 2: Any other way.

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Speaker 6: Okay, yes, you're right, it's a I.

662
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Speaker 3: Gave it away fifteen children or the snake milking or

663
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Speaker 3: I think it was definitely after the eight.

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Speaker 6: Because like, honestly, with our stories, the seven is it's plausible.

665
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Speaker 6: Well seven, we've had a story where a person had

666
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Speaker 6: seven children and like four of them or like five.

667
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Speaker 3: Or so you got you gotta make it like like

668
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Speaker 3: you know, like a couple of them.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, your yard is now our park. My partner

670
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Speaker 8: and I purchased the house next door to my best friend.

671
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 8: I live with him for close to a decade when

672
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 8: his kids were babies, so they viewed buy house as

673
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 8: an extension of theirs. And we're in and out all

674
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 8: day every day.

675
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 2: That's lit.

676
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 3: We should buy houses next to each other party.

677
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 8: I had a pool in my yard, and because my

678
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 8: friend's kids were still little, I installed a retractable cover

679
00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 8: and made sure it was locked so they couldn't open it.

680
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 8: Ends yard had one of those wood fort climbing wall

681
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 8: swing set deals in a large sandbox.

682
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 2: That's fire.

683
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, these places are lit. Throughout the year.

684
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 8: We spent most of her evenings outside grilling, drinking, and

685
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 8: watching the kids play, swim whatever. One summer day, I

686
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 8: came home from work a little earlier than normal and

687
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 8: started a preferent inner. I heard a knock at my

688
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 8: back door, which was odd since my buddy's kids never knocked.

689
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 3: I guess came in all the time. Okay, I would

690
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 3: see who it was.

691
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 8: And discovered a mom and her two kids who looked

692
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 8: to be maybe five to seven years old.

693
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 2: Random. Random mother.

694
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 3: Random mother. As I opened the door, she informed me.

695
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 8: That her kids needed to use the bathroom and that

696
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 8: I needed to come out and get the cover off

697
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 8: my pool. I was confused and asked her to repeat herself,

698
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 8: and she said that her kids needed to pee and

699
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 8: they were hot and bored with playing in the sandbox,

700
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 8: so I needed.

701
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 3: To open up my pool.

702
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 2: Oh God.

703
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 8: I asked her why she was in my friend's yard

704
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 8: and what made her think her kids were welcome to

705
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 8: swim in my pool or use my bathroom for that matter.

706
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 3: She got really bushy and told me.

707
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 8: That she had moved into the house behind us, and

708
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 8: that she wanted my buddies kids to come over all

709
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 8: the time, and I opened the pool for them.

710
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 3: Wow.

711
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 8: She insisted that since I was willing to open up

712
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 8: my pool over the kids next door, I should also

713
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 8: open up for the children who live behind me. I

714
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 8: tried explaining the relationship between my best friend's family and mind,

715
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 8: where do.

716
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 2: These people get their audacity?

717
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 3: Like, No, I know they're sharing the resources because they're friends,

718
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 3: not to just random strangers.

719
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,399
Speaker 8: She claimed it didn't matter that I had known them

720
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 8: since birth and pretty much had helped raise them.

721
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 3: I just needed to know her kids too, and.

722
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 8: That would be okay, goodness. I told her no and

723
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 8: closed the door, and she spent a while knocking and

724
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 8: fussing through the window and that her kids he in

725
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 8: the planet on the side of the.

726
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 3: Paty what.

727
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 8: And when I didn't react, she took her kids back

728
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 8: into my friend's yard and started playing on the swing.

729
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 6: Stop her children Peedy peed I texted him to let

730
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 6: him know what was going on.

731
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 8: The friend right at the moment, he was letting three

732
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 8: hundred plus pounds worth of new fees, which are these

733
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 8: like massive dogs, and he let him out in the

734
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 8: yard without noticing the unwelcome visitors. The mom starts shrinking

735
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 8: and climbs up into the fort, leaving both kids on

736
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 8: the swings.

737
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 6: Oh wow, so he straight up just let out three

738
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 6: hundred pound dogs to stick it on the mom?

739
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 8: Well, no, no, so what happened is like he just

740
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 8: let the dogs out, not realizing there was anyone in

741
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 8: the place. The mom just goes in the leaves and

742
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 8: leads her two kids behind. Oh my god, so I

743
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 8: guess like be eaten by these dogs. Like, let's just

744
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 8: say they're actually vicious. She's just ditching her kids. Bruh

745
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 8: freaking nuts. She starts demanding that we put the dogs inside,

746
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,479
Speaker 8: and how dare my friend let his dogs out into

747
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 8: his own yard.

748
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 3: When her kids are clearly playing there.

749
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 8: He tells her too, and then calls the police.

750
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 2: Good.

751
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 3: When the cops arrive, she puts on this whole waterworks

752
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 3: about how her kids are just looking for friends and.

753
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 8: My buddies kids are somehow bullying her kids, even though

754
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 8: they never met at all.

755
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 2: Karen's always do this. The water works after.

756
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 8: And the waterworks continue that he invited her over just

757
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 8: to let his dogs attack her job back, blah blah blah.

758
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 8: They eventually move her back onto her own property and

759
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 8: then come back later to tell us they warned her

760
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 8: about coming back. She lived in that house for almost

761
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 8: a year before she and her husband divorced, which is

762
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 8: not a surprise at all. During that year, I had

763
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 8: to replace the lock over the pool cover control three times.

764
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,959
Speaker 8: Oh my god, I've a fencing company, remove a gate

765
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 8: at the back of my property that was meant to

766
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 8: let the lawnmower through, and eventually pay a security company

767
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 8: to come check on the yard anytime we were going

768
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 8: to be away for more than a few hours.

769
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 2: That's that is beyond ridiculous.

770
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 6: She had to hire a security company so as Karen

771
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 6: wouldn't get into her yard.

772
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 3: I know, I know this.

773
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 8: Karen was persistent and apparently they found her and her

774
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 8: kids in their yards repeatedly, but she'd leave when we

775
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:12,240
Speaker 8: got home. What finally resolved the issue was my partner

776
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 8: catching her in the pool. She told him she knew

777
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,399
Speaker 8: the man that owned the house and that he had

778
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 8: told her it was okay to swim. Let's see, he

779
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 8: told her that he was married to the man that

780
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 8: owned the pool and that it was in fact not

781
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 8: okay to swim. She apparently had a bad reaction to

782
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 8: realizing she was immersing her sons in gay.

783
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 3: God, and they never saw her again.

784
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 2: Gay water.

785
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, quite the twist at the end.

786
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 6: Wow, maybe that's you know, Uh, oh geez, what's his name?

787
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:49,760
Speaker 6: The Info Wars guy.

788
00:38:50,080 --> 00:39:01,320
Speaker 8: Oh, Alex, Alex Jon's like it's it's kind of like

789
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 8: I get what you're saying, Like this is the entitlement

790
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 8: is nuts. Like I don't know how these people go

791
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 8: through life thinking that this is going to result in

792
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,760
Speaker 8: the way they imagine it to be. Like this woman

793
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 8: is probably forty years old. Yeah, and somehow life has

794
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 8: not taught her that she shouldn't be doing stuff like this,

795
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 8: Like I wonder how many times she's gotten away with this.

796
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 6: I'm literally afraid if like a restaurant gets my order

797
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 6: wrong to correct it and.

798
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 2: Going into other people's freaking pools.

799
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 3: I know, really really ridiculous at nuts. But John, do

800
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 3: you have a story from it?

801
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 2: Yes? I do.

802
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 6: Entitled parent won't accept a solution and gets banned.

803
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 3: From water park forever. Okay, I'm interested.

804
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 2: Lien, there I go.

805
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 6: This happened a couple of years ago, but it still

806
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 6: makes me shake my head. I nineteen female had a

807
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 6: job working at a water park dispatching rides.

808
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 2: Some of the rides.

809
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 6: Require guests to get a tube at the bottom of

810
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 6: the ride to carry it up.

811
00:39:58,880 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 2: To the top.

812
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 6: Okay, water park employees know that only certain tubes can

813
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 6: be used on certain rides.

814
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 2: If you use the.

815
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 3: Wrong tube on the wrong ride, you are.

816
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 6: Asking for people to be injured. The ride I was

817
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 6: working on had waterjets that exploded from the bottom of

818
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 6: the ride, so the tubes had to be very durable,

819
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 6: so it could like just rip into that.

820
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 8: Honestly, doesn't sound safe, but I guess the tubes, so

821
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 8: let's keep going.

822
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 6: They should honestly come up with a better system. But

823
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 6: I digress anyway. Entitled mom and entitled kids are waiting

824
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 6: in line. I can see that they have grabbed the

825
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 6: wrong set of tubes from the bottom of the ride.

826
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 6: They have clear tubes, which are not nearly durable enough

827
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 6: for this ride, when they needed reinforced blue tubes.

828
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 8: Okay, the reinforced blue tubes seem honestly just to keep

829
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 8: people safe exactly.

830
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 6: I go over to Mom and explain that she has

831
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 6: the wrong tube for this ride. One of the correct

832
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 6: tubes is pasted next to the entrance of the ride,

833
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 6: so it's pretty clear which tube goes to which ride.

834
00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 2: Reasonable enough, Reasonable.

835
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 6: I tell her that when she gets to the front line,

836
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 6: she will need to step to the side so I

837
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,240
Speaker 6: can have a coworker run down and grab some correct

838
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 6: tubes for them. She can still go on the ride,

839
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,839
Speaker 6: someone just needs to bring her the tubes. Entitled mom

840
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 6: does not acknowledge me at all, so all she has

841
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 6: to do is.

842
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,720
Speaker 3: They'll get it for her, and they won't even do that.

843
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 6: And she just ignores her. Right, So that's the first

844
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 6: bad instance. Anyway, she gets to the front of the line,

845
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 6: so not only does she ignore her, she skifps everyone

846
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 6: in line. She just goes straight to the front and

847
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 6: tries to sit her tube down to get on the ride. Me, ma'am,

848
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, this isn't the correct tube. I've radioed to

849
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 6: have someone bring you the correct tube for you and

850
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 6: your party, but I can't let you ride down in

851
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 6: this tube. It's not safe and you can get hurt.

852
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 6: Please stand to the side until your tubes get here.

853
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 6: Trying to be the nice person, literally trying to save lives.

854
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 3: And people from injury.

855
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 6: Totally fair, right, trying to save her butt from being

856
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 6: literally ripped apart by the tube by the water jets

857
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 6: Like that doesn't sound pleasant, Entitled Mom.

858
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 2: I waited and you can't tell me what to do.

859
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 6: I'm going down the ride. Get the f out of

860
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 6: my way. Me, You can't go down the ride of

861
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 6: this tube. It's not safe, Like your butt's gonna get

862
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 6: ripped apart by these jets.

863
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 8: This entitled mom has no worry about her butt. I

864
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 8: guess I think she's just ready for it to get

865
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 8: ripped to shreds.

866
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 6: This doesn't happen, But I wish the jets just like

867
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 6: removed her, like her her bathing suit, and then she

868
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 6: just ended up naked.

869
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 2: That would have been funny.

870
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 6: Entitled mom, get the f out of my way, you bitch.

871
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 6: Then the crazy part, this is nothing.

872
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 3: None of the rest of the bar.

873
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 6: She throws the tube at my face. It's bulky and

874
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,439
Speaker 6: not heavy, so I can easily dodge it. But now

875
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 6: I have to call security.

876
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 2: Took quick move.

877
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 6: So yeah, my manager is the person who's treking the

878
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 6: tubes up, and upon hearing from my call to security,

879
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 6: he drops the tubes and comes sprinting for me.

880
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 3: Good stand up guy.

881
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,959
Speaker 6: Entitled mom is now destroying the landscape around the top

882
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 6: of the ride, and it's encouraging her kids to join in.

883
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:03,439
Speaker 2: How dare this bitch make us? Wait?

884
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 6: This punt won't let you on the ride. I'm nineteen,

885
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 6: I'm not paid to put myself in Harmsley. She's probably

886
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 6: making minimum wage, I know, so I do nothing to

887
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:14,439
Speaker 6: stop her and her kids.

888
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 8: So yeah, that's not her responsibility. But like, holy crap,

889
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 8: is this woman going off the walls.

890
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 2: Literally and off the slide.

891
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 6: There's just like little yard around it, and she's just

892
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 6: like ripping up the grass and just like basically destroying

893
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 6: the whole area.

894
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 8: Yes, because that's what you do to get your way

895
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 8: and just cause more destruction.

896
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:32,919
Speaker 2: Whew.

897
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 6: She is literally pulling out grass and spitting in my

898
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 6: general direction. I picked up the tube she threw and

899
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 6: I'm sitting on it on the side of the ride.

900
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 6: Entitled kids, of course, join in and are spitting in

901
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 6: my generaction.

902
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 2: Who spits it? People?

903
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 3: Yo, dude, there's spitting like I guess, like mother like kids.

904
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the most if someone's spitting at you, that's

905
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 2: so disrespectful.

906
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, they're spitting in my general direction and ripping up

907
00:43:58,600 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 6: dirts and plants.

908
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 2: I'm ten feet away, so no spit gott near me.

909
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 8: Okay, thankfully, don't have enough spitting power, I guess.

910
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 6: And that's how entitled mom and her entitled kids got

911
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:11,720
Speaker 6: banned from the park forever.

912
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 3: They deserve it.

913
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 6: By the way, the tubes she needed, which my manager

914
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 6: was carrying up, were ten stars away from her. It

915
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 6: was around a curve, so she couldn't see them, so

916
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 6: she thought, oh god, this person's gonna run like you know,

917
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 6: up ten flights of stairs, which is what I thought.

918
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 6: She was literally couldn't wait. She couldn't wait, She literally

919
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 6: couldn't wait. Like this is such bs.

920
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 8: I just don't I don't get how people can't wait

921
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 8: ten seconds, like she couldn't even wait ten seconds.

922
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 6: And to what you said earlier, it's just it's just

923
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 6: incredible to imagine, like these are moms with young children.

924
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 2: They're probably in their like late thirties forties.

925
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 6: The fact that you have gone through your whole life

926
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 6: without someone correcting you to that point is just mind boggles.

927
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, insane.

928
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 8: But also let's give props to the UH water worker

929
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:03,280
Speaker 8: who is act like dealing with all this stuff with poise.

930
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 3: I'm surprised that this mother didn't get cursed out, but she.

931
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 6: Had the perfect response because it's like easy to get

932
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,479
Speaker 6: just triggered and just start like yeah back right, which

933
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 6: I wouldn't have been mad at like if she was

934
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 6: just like, you know, what lady, I'm snapping on you.

935
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not going I'm not even like blaming her.

936
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: Uh.

937
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 6: Funny story. I actually yesterday went to Del Taco. Yeah,

938
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 6: and literally it was it was the craziest thing. So, uh,

939
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 6: there was someone else that's had yelled at these people.

940
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 6: There's only two people working back there, and so someone

941
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 6: yells at them first, and then some lady comes barging

942
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:39,399
Speaker 6: in and then she's like, you got my order wrong.

943
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,280
Speaker 6: I put it in on the app and the manager

944
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 6: is telling her like, I literally just made it exactly

945
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 6: as it was and she was like literally unwrapping it.

946
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 6: And they've been going back and forth. It gets more

947
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 6: more heated, and finally the chick is like, I need

948
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:52,320
Speaker 6: to talk to your manager.

949
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 2: And she's like, I am the manager, and she.

950
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 3: Says, I love the reveal.

951
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 8: It's like the superha, like like the the the evil villain.

952
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 2: I am, I am the manager exactly. So she says,

953
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 2: I am the manager and she says, well, you suck.

954
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 6: And keep in mind there's like five of us in

955
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 6: the restaurant and then two employees, so like it's not

956
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 6: like a big restaurant.

957
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 3: We're all just standing there like yo, this is totally.

958
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 8: Thing is Like John has it verified these people exist

959
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 8: in real life and are out there living amongst us.

960
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 3: You're not just on these Reddit posts. They're in your life,

961
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 3: around the corner, everywhere. Watch out.