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To the 21 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 2: new listener out there, I want to welcome you to 22 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 2: the program and welcome you to the soft Rep family. 23 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 2: And I also want to welcome, without any further ado, 24 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 2: Francelle White, who has written the book The Paris Girl, 25 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 2: and it is about her mother in the French Resistance, 26 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 2: and I would like to welcome her all the way 27 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:38,559 Speaker 2: from London on our show this morning. 28 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 3: Welcome, good afternoon. Thank you. 29 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: You noticed with you, You're very welcome. I was so 30 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: excited to have you on. And you notice how I 31 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: said good morning and you said good afternoon. That's because 32 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 2: right now I'm filming this and it's eight am in 33 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 2: Utah and it's about what three pm instory. 34 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 3: Is three pm here? Yeah, yeah, I've already been to 35 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 3: the gym and I've done the cook and everything else. 36 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 2: That's funny. And have you already had some tea today? 37 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 3: Sorry? 38 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: Have you had tea today? 39 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 3: No, not tea yet. It's only three o'clock. We don't 40 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 3: have tea till four. 41 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 2: Oh four o'clock. Is tea time is about four o'clock? 42 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? 43 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 2: Oh, so I've got you until about tea time. Perfect now, now, Anne, 44 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 2: you know your publicist reached out and said, hey, Rad, 45 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 2: we'd love to have you know, francell on and talk 46 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 2: about a Paris Girl and the book Paris Girl, it 47 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 2: kind of it's very captivating when I start reading it 48 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 2: and I realize that it's your mom. Yes, it's my mother, 49 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 2: and that's like you're like the daughter of the French Resistance. 50 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's her story, it's her wartime story. She's an 51 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: amazing person. But this part of her life is which 52 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 3: I've written about, was between the ages of nineteen and 53 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 3: twenty four, which is when she was in the resistance 54 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 3: and probably through some of the most dangerous times of her. 55 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: Life, the actual Gestapo, you know, like she was living 56 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 2: through the Gestapo and like you know, nineteen thirty nine 57 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 2: and nineteen forty, you know, she was working at the 58 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 2: passport office, trying to well. 59 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:19,559 Speaker 3: That's the extraordinary think. She was working at police headquarters 60 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 3: when Moore was declared and the Germans marched into Paris. 61 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: And when they marched into Paris, they took over police 62 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 3: headquarters because obviously they became responsible for the police, and 63 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 3: she was she had to stay there. She was a 64 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 3: civil servant, and she wasn't allowed to sort of resign, 65 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 3: which she probably would have liked to have done, and 66 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 3: it worked her advantage. She stayed there for four years. 67 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 3: She had to work with the Nazis who were there, 68 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 3: and by working with them, she was able to fool 69 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 3: them around a bit, and she was able to become 70 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 3: a courier type type up an underground newspaper under their 71 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 3: eyes without them noticing what she was doing. It was 72 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 3: quite remarkable looking back on it. 73 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 2: You know, she was just involved in all of the 74 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 2: chatter going on. Right She's in the office. She's like 75 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 2: in the police headquarters or police station of any facet 76 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 2: right where we didn't really have the internet, didn't have 77 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 2: you know, radio communications, but she's in there listening to it. 78 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 2: All that's right over here and so and so down 79 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: the street over there, and so she's able to like 80 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 2: just capture all this intel. 81 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, so well, I think her resistance work was 82 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 3: separate to what she was doing at police headquarters. She 83 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 3: was at police headquarters because she was responsible for issuing 84 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 3: passports and ID cards to the people of Paris or 85 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 3: the people who needed them. 86 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, and it's a very detailed job, as 87 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 2: you talk about in the book, where you know, there's 88 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 2: just like little things on the passports that they have 89 00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 2: to always be you know, in all details, yes, all 90 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 2: the little details, because people are coming in and they're like, 91 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:04,919 Speaker 2: how long are you staying here? Are you here for 92 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 2: two months? Three months? With your purpose? 93 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 3: Yes? Yes, yes, but I think that was her, That 94 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 3: was her cover because as the war progressed kind of 95 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 3: by nineteen forty, late nineteen forty, my uncle who was 96 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 3: her brother, started up and started up an underground newspaper 97 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 3: and they needed somebody who would type up that newspaper. 98 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 3: So they needed a kind of typewriter, and then they 99 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:36,559 Speaker 3: needed paper, they needed ink, they needed roneo machines, ronio 100 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 3: machines with the machines that built today it's photo copying 101 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 3: machines to print out this this newspaper that they had 102 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 3: drawn up and that she typed up and then printed, 103 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 3: and having done all that, they took it out into 104 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 3: Paris and distributed, distributed. 105 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 4: And it's like the students mainly at that time, right, 106 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 4: because here she is eighteen, nineteen twenty years old, right, 107 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 4: and her circle of influence is a younger generation of 108 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 4: her friends. 109 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:11,039 Speaker 2: Right, Yes, that's right, that's right, and they see what's 110 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 2: going on. They see the infant station, infestation of like 111 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 2: fascism and communism coming in and. 112 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, they earmarked, they earmarked the students, They earmarked 113 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 3: the youngsters because they knew that they were young and 114 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 3: they were the ones that they were trying to entice 115 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,919 Speaker 3: to join the resistance and join them. And also what 116 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 3: her group were doing as the war progressed, they were 117 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 3: trying to get young men who were mainly students, to 118 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 3: escape France, and so they would arrange for their travel 119 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:45,919 Speaker 3: down to the Pyrenees in between France and Spain and 120 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 3: get them across the Pyrenees and then they'd make their 121 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 3: way to French and North Africa where they join up 122 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 3: with the French army. So this was another very big 123 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 3: part of the work that they were doing. 124 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 2: And then she became a mom with you, you know, 125 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 2: I mean, let's think about all of this for a second, 126 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 2: like the whole spectrum here, she lives through all of this, 127 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 2: does all of what she does in your book, which 128 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 2: we could talk about it all the time. I want 129 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 2: my reader, I want my listener to go and get 130 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: your book, right, it's going to be out there. 131 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 3: That's wonderful. It'd be great if they'd buy it. 132 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yes, yes, buy the book and read about 133 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 2: her mom. But her mom then became her mom like 134 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 2: and had to deal with, you know, raising a family 135 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 2: and raising well, it's. 136 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 3: Unusual what happened because she was French and at the 137 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 3: end of the war, when the Americans and the British 138 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 3: arrived in France, she started going out with the Gis 139 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 3: and the British officers, and along the way she met 140 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 3: my father who was British. So she married him and 141 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 3: then came to England and left France behind. 142 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's okay, time for a new life. And what 143 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 2: was your what is your dad? What was your dad's 144 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 2: what was he was? 145 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 3: He was he was in the Royal Air Force at 146 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 3: the time. He was in the Royal Air Force. He 147 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 3: served for four years and Royal Air Force. He was 148 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 3: in the Middle East first and then he came back 149 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 3: to Europe and he was sent to France to arrange 150 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 3: for the RAF the logistics to leave France, not the aircraft, 151 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 3: but all the land land things that belong to trucks 152 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 3: and things to leave France. But that that's how they 153 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 3: met because of she because she'd been in the resistance. 154 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 3: She was on the French embassy I'm sorry, on the 155 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 3: British embassy list. And so when there was a party. 156 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 3: She was invited to go to it where my father 157 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 3: was also. 158 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 2: Right, and then also your mom was kind of hanging 159 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 2: out with social lights of the scene and you know 160 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 2: actors and playwrights, right, did I read about that? 161 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 3: That was earlier on? 162 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:45,599 Speaker 2: That was that was that was earlier on. But I 163 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: mean she did have this just ability to. 164 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 3: All. She had an amazing life. I mean, she was 165 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:57,079 Speaker 3: living in central Paris. Her her half sister was one 166 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 3: of France's leading actresses at the time, her brother in 167 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 3: law was one of France's leading playwrights. So she had 168 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 3: access to an awful lot of what was going on 169 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:11,559 Speaker 3: artistically in Paris at the time, apart from her resistance 170 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 3: work and her work at police headquarters. Yeah, so it's 171 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 3: quite an involved life. But she loved America. She loved 172 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 3: America because after my father died in nineteen sixty six, 173 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 3: she took over his business and she used to have 174 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 3: to go to New York on business and just loved 175 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 3: her time there. 176 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 2: She's just all over. And so your father passed away 177 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 2: relatively young on her. 178 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:42,559 Speaker 3: He was sixty one, and he was in art logistics. 179 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 3: He had an art logistics company called Gandra and White, 180 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 3: and she took it over from one day to the next. 181 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:50,439 Speaker 3: She was only forty five, and one of the first 182 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,440 Speaker 3: things she had to do was go to the United 183 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 3: States to talk to her clients who were in America, 184 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 3: and she just loved it. And they were so kind 185 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 3: to her and helpful and kept her going. 186 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 2: You know, and just to kind of like talk about 187 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 2: your book a little bit here, you know, I'll read 188 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 2: the press release out loud, and so if you'll bear 189 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 2: with me, the Paris Girl, the young woman who outwitted 190 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 2: the Nazis and became a World War two hero by 191 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 2: francell Bradford White. And you know, of course that's who 192 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 2: we're talking with, is France. All so let me read 193 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 2: this paragraphs here. In the dark days of World War Two, 194 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 2: as millions of people were suffering, a powerful resistance movement 195 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 2: was being established in France. Citizens were starving, German soldiers 196 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 2: patrolled the streets of Paris. French scigns were replaced by 197 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 2: their German equivalents, and the French flag was hidden away. 198 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 2: It was during this time as the Gestapo took control 199 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 2: of Paris. That is it andre gritature. 200 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, then. 201 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 2: We would make a remarkable contribution to the war effort 202 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 2: with a dazzling combination of bravery, modesty, and energy. She 203 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 2: would go on to become one of the most highly 204 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 2: decorated women of World War Two. Her success in outwitting 205 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 2: and fighting the Nazis knew no boundaries. The Parish Girl, 206 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 2: written by Andre's daughter Franzel, which we have will be 207 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 2: based upon her mother's journals written in detail throughout World 208 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 2: War Two from nineteen thirty nine to nineteen forty five. 209 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 2: So not only is this a fascinating glimpse into life 210 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 2: during wartime through these vivid journal entries, but an examination 211 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 2: of the character of bravery by one of the most 212 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 2: decorated women women of World War Two for her role 213 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 2: in defeating the Nazis. So what makes a resistance fighter? 214 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 2: How does one become a fearless patriot? Is it genetics, language, 215 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 2: presence of mind, access, being eccentric, having initiative? The book 216 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 2: uses Andrea as a look into characteristics of someone waging 217 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: a personal fight for the greater good with a combination 218 00:11:55,280 --> 00:12:00,080 Speaker 2: of wit, cunning, bravery, and courage. You know your mom 219 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 2: is awesome and I've learned to say that Mom's rock. 220 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 2: You know I'm a huge. I love my mom, and 221 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 2: you know, and I know you love your mom, and 222 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 2: this is your way of being able to put your 223 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 2: mom out there and immortalize more of her in a book. 224 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 2: From your first hand account of mom, you know, she'd 225 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 2: probably talked to you, she'd probably sing to you. She'd 226 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 2: probably say little things to you that now that you're older, 227 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 2: you pick up on. 228 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:29,959 Speaker 3: Well, that's quite interesting what you're saying. Because I grew 229 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 3: up with the French Resistance, I mean right from being 230 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 3: a very small child, and she would tell me anecdotes 231 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 3: and stories, but I never really understood the bigger picture 232 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 3: of what she was doing. And it was when she 233 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 3: developed dementia and I decided that I was going to 234 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 3: write her wartime story because I thought I would write 235 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 3: this book and I would make it. I would use 236 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 3: it to raise money for dementia research and support Lovely. 237 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,680 Speaker 3: So that's what happened. And when I started to write 238 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 3: the book, obviously I had the anecdotes, I had the journals, 239 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 3: the diaries, I had several books which had been written 240 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 3: about the war and the group by my uncle and 241 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 3: his friends. But I still didn't understand the bigger picture. 242 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 3: So I had to research it. I went to Paris, 243 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 3: I went into the archives of police headquarters. I went 244 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 3: into the archives of the Ministry of Defense, which explained 245 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 3: exactly why she was so highly decorated. I went down 246 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:24,080 Speaker 3: to the Pyrenees to the Chateau d'urion, which was their 247 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 3: center where they used to go to and take the 248 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 3: intelligence too, from where it was taken over the mountains 249 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 3: to the British and the American consulates in Spain in Santandero, Bilbao. 250 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 3: So it was quite a journey writing this story because, 251 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 3: as I say, I had all these little stories which 252 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 3: kind of I couldn't write a book with just a 253 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 3: lot of hearsay stories. I needed the constructive back up 254 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 3: to it. I mean, for example, she told me that 255 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 3: she'd slept in a brothel one night, and she told 256 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 3: me about that because she was annoyed at that where 257 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 3: I slept when on a trip and I slept somewhere 258 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 3: where I was worried about, you know, mosquitoes and malaric 259 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 3: airing mosquitoes, and so she suddenly told me about having 260 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 3: to sleep in a brothel. But I didn't understand why 261 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 3: she'd had to sleep in the brothel during the war. 262 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 3: I thought she slept in the brothel because the train 263 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 3: got delayed. But it was much more than that. She 264 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 3: was traveling from Paris down to the south of France, 265 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 3: down to the Pyrenees, and you know that the train 266 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 3: got delayed and she had nowhere to go, so she went, 267 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 3: as she told me, she went to the local police 268 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 3: station and they said to her, well, all the hotels 269 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 3: are full, but we do have a safe house, which 270 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 3: is a brothel, and you could go and stay there. 271 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 3: And because she had a police headquarters, I d and 272 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 3: in France you always have id on you. You still did 273 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 3: this day. She was able to say who she was, 274 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 3: and she was looked after. 275 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 2: Right and probably caringly too, Like you know, I understand 276 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 2: the word brothels sound scary, but you know it's it's 277 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 2: full of ladies inside the place that are going to 278 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 2: be like, hi. 279 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 3: We couldn't tell me everything because I remember when she 280 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 3: tells us the story I was telling about twenty one, 281 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 3: but I remembered it. 282 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, right, you're just you were a young woman 283 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 2: right there at twenty one listening to mom and you're 284 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 2: like mosquitos and she's like back in my day, let 285 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 2: me tell you, right, Yeah, now. Now, the other crazy 286 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 2: thing is like, let's put ourselves in the mindset of 287 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 2: a nineteen year old girl who's working in the police 288 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 2: department as a passport reception and meeting all these people, 289 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 2: and now she's going down towards the Pyrenees where they 290 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 2: are obviously knowing that this is probably a crossing, right, 291 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 2: people are trying to escape. So I'm sure the Gestapo 292 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 2: has like set like a net of like, you know, 293 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 2: the train's coming through. It's like, why are you going 294 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 2: to the Pyrenees? Right? So your mom? 295 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 3: They didn't they didn't. I mean, they couldn't be on 296 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 3: top of what everybody was doing obviously and a scar 297 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 3: where as she was concerned, They thought she was just 298 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 3: somebody working at police headquarters. Because she was working at 299 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 3: police headquarters, she had the advantage of being able to 300 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 3: obtain Auschwitz Aspitz were permits to allow you to travel 301 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 3: around France, which unless you had a very good reason, 302 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 3: you couldn't get them. But because she was working at 303 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 3: police headquarters and she knew that the Germans and the Nazis, 304 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 3: she'd say, I want to go and see my aunt 305 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 3: in the Pyrenees. She's not well or whatever, and she'd said, 306 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 3: can I have a permit and they'd say, yes, you can, 307 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 3: here you go. So that was unusual. So her position 308 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 3: the police headquarters really helped her traveling around. 309 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 2: That's what I was wondering, right, because if you're just 310 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 2: trying to wander around like head that way on a train, 311 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 2: there would probably be nets, you know, like certain checkpoints 312 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 2: like but she was already working, and so they were 313 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 2: just like, oh, she has a pass, she's good to go. Yeah, 314 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 2: and she I love that. I love that. 315 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. But one of the lovely stories that I 316 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 3: love again, it was an anecdote and it's never been 317 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 3: written about anywhere. So it's what she told me is 318 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 3: that as time moved on, the group were working for 319 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 3: the OSS, which is today's CIA, And my uncle was 320 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 3: parachuted blind into occupied France by an American an American 321 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 3: Air Force aeroplane, and he was parachuted with a suitcase 322 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 3: full of dollar notes this is into the Pyrenees in 323 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 3: an area called Orion, and also with a kind of 324 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 3: bagful which he had in his pocket of gold coins 325 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 3: which was to be used for their what one would 326 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 3: call wartime chest, so that they could bribe people, they 327 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:43,359 Speaker 3: could pay for their expenses. Anyway, she got all this money, 328 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 3: which her job was to take it back to Paris. 329 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 3: So my uncle was parachuted blind into occupied France. The 330 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 3: money had to be got back to Paris, and the 331 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 3: gold coins had to be sewn into a girdle, so 332 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 3: that issue was searched, nobody would find them. So if 333 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 3: she had them in her handbag and someone searched a 334 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:05,479 Speaker 3: handbag or the dollar notes, they would have thought, well, 335 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 3: what are you doing. So she wrapped all this around her. Now, 336 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 3: this story was something she told me. It hasn't been 337 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 3: written about in any books. It's just an anecdote which 338 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 3: happens to be true because she joked about the fact 339 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 3: that with one of the gold coins which she tried 340 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 3: to get into a gird or, she couldn't get into it. 341 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 3: She couldn't get gold coined into it. And so my 342 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 3: uncle said to her, well, why don't you go and 343 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 3: buy those shoes you so wanted, And so she went 344 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 3: and bought the shoes, and we still have the shoes 345 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 3: that she bought during the Second World War, courtesy of 346 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:40,199 Speaker 3: the OSS. 347 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 2: I love that. I love that. 348 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 4: Okay, there's some of the anecdotes, yeah, which did you 349 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 4: ever wear them? 350 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:50,159 Speaker 2: Did you ever get them? 351 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 1: No? 352 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 3: I don't wear them. 353 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 2: Have you ever though? Were you ever a size to 354 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 2: fit in your mom's shoes? No? 355 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 3: I did not know, right, No. 356 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 2: No, I know why. 357 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 3: I just haven't. I've worn the jewelry, but I haven't. 358 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 3: Not those jees that's. 359 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 2: Tried on the ruby slippers. No, no, you haven't tried that. No. 360 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 2: I just went and saw that last night with my family. Wicked, 361 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:15,119 Speaker 2: and that was a really great uh you know, Wizard 362 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 2: of Oz and I'm just thinking, oh, well, special shoes. 363 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think they sold for a lot of money, 364 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:28,159 Speaker 3: didn't they. Julie Garland's shoes so much. Shoes they sold 365 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 3: recently for I think millions millions. 366 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, those ruby shoes, those ruby shoes, and what a 367 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 2: great show. I do suggest going to see Wicked if 368 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: you haven't seen the movie. It was really entertaining. Yeah. Yes, 369 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 2: as well as buying your book, The Paris Girl. Okay, 370 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 2: let's put it out there to my listener. You know 371 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 2: it's going to be it's going to be out and 372 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 2: you can probably get it at any popular place, and 373 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 2: especially local bookstores. If somebody local in your area is 374 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,439 Speaker 2: supplying the books. Try to buy it from a local bookseller. 375 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 2: That would be the first place I would recommend. 376 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:05,879 Speaker 3: Am I about to say, who mean bands and Noble? 377 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 3: I know have it and it's on Amazon. I don't 378 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 3: know your shots very well. Walmart. I think it's at Walmart. 379 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, you're probably all. Have you made it 380 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 2: to the airport yet? Are you at the airport? 381 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 3: It would be great if it was at the airport, 382 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:19,439 Speaker 3: that would be wonderful. 383 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 2: I don't know a Heathrow or something where they're going through, 384 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 2: you know, great A lady in Red Virgin read walking 385 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 2: by grabbing your book, you'll be able to maybe you'll 386 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:32,959 Speaker 2: be able to go in. So I talk to authors 387 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 2: all the time, right, and so uh, maybe you'll be 388 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 2: able to go in and just sign a couple of copies. 389 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:42,439 Speaker 3: That would be wonderful. I love I love meeting people 390 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 3: who buy the book because those who buy the book 391 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 3: are so interesting, and they come and tell me all 392 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 3: sorts of extraordinary stories, their wartime stories, and lots of 393 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 3: them tend to be older, but they still tell me 394 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 3: all sorts of stories about their parents and their grandparents. 395 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,919 Speaker 3: Be they American, be they British, be they French, the 396 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 3: French tend to be more reserved, but the Americans in 397 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 3: the British are very open about things. 398 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:06,639 Speaker 2: Oh I bet, I bet right? Wow. So do you 399 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 2: speak French as well? 400 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 3: I do speak French. 401 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I need to learn that. 402 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 3: I need to learn because my mother was French. 403 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 2: So yeah, exactly, Yeah, I love that. Well, my ancestry 404 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:23,440 Speaker 2: is French. I'm very yes, very much European right here, Yeah, 405 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 2: very much. Yeah, I think I'm related to Louis the fourteenth. 406 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 3: Oh, that's good. That goes back a long way. Well, 407 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 3: he did amazing things. He built beasaill Is, you know, right. 408 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 2: Right, right right, yeah right. And it was as I'm 409 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 2: reading through your book, I'm like, wait a second here, 410 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, why do I feel so French? Well? 411 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 3: The book, the book takes you through Paris an awful lot. 412 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,959 Speaker 3: It takes you to all the main places in Paris. 413 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 3: It takes you past the lourever, it takes you to 414 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 3: police headquarters, it takes you to Notre Dame, which you 415 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 3: know your future president or your incoming president has just 416 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 3: been to. It takes you along the river, it takes 417 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 3: you down to the Pyrenees. It's very much a journey 418 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 3: through France. Through a resistance fighter in the eyes of 419 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 3: the resistance fighter. 420 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 2: And as I read it, as I was reading your book, 421 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 2: it feels like it just kind of came to life 422 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 2: in my head. And I'm just thinking about that as 423 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 2: you're talking even more because you know, when I said, 424 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,400 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm kind of French more French. It's 425 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 2: pulling something out of me as I'm reading it, almost 426 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 2: like I'm able to see your mom walking down the 427 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 2: street or like look over her shoulder, or you know, 428 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,439 Speaker 2: just whatever the like in the passport office, you know, 429 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 2: maybe walking with a clipboard because there was no technology 430 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 2: of like cell phones, you know, there was nothing or 431 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 2: the typing, you know, like my father in law, my 432 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 2: father in law was a typewriter guy in the sixties, 433 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 2: and so when he went to Vietnam, it was very 434 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 2: coveted that he is a US Marine got a typewriter, 435 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 2: like here's your gun, here's your bayonet, and typewriter, and 436 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 2: he had to take that everywhere. Fact in fact, my 437 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 2: dad called him a Remington Raider because he knew Remington Raider. Okay, okay, 438 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 2: because the typewriter was called Remington, and so he'sator, you know, 439 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 2: And so your mom had a skill set to type. Yes, yes, 440 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,120 Speaker 2: I mean that wasn't normal back then. 441 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,199 Speaker 3: I suppose so, because you know, by the time I 442 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 3: was her age, the whole system had changed. I mean, 443 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 3: we were into computers, we were into completely different. 444 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 2: Changing ribbons on the machine and just pulling the letter 445 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 2: backs because it's so we're doing it. 446 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, they have these things in museums. We don't have 447 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 3: them anymore. 448 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 2: I still have my dad's typewriter, yes, yes, oh yeah, yeah. 449 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 3: But one of the things that people have enjoyed about 450 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 3: my book is is the fact they say that the journals, 451 00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 3: which is she was writing about some of the things 452 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 3: she did, and a lot of people have told me 453 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,359 Speaker 3: it's the journals that bring the story to life. You 454 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 3: get a lot of historical novels, or you get a 455 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 3: lot of history written by historians, but it's the diaries 456 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,919 Speaker 3: that really bring it to life. The fact that she says, 457 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 3: I can't tell you how much I hate the Germans. 458 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 3: I wish they oway, you know, and different things like that. 459 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 2: There's inserts like that, well she talks to her journal, 460 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,199 Speaker 2: Well we made it this far journal, we made it 461 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 2: into the police station, or we made it here journal, 462 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 2: you know, like well, you know, she's like today, I 463 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 2: think there's a quote in there that says war was declared. Yes. 464 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 3: She describes how she describes on the I think it 465 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 3: was the fourteenth of June nineteen forty the Germans walked 466 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:47,399 Speaker 3: down the Chancelicia and marched into police headquarters. And she 467 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 3: talks about her diary entry that day is she said, 468 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 3: I've been so brave until now, and then I completely 469 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 3: fell apart and I cried for ten minutes. I cried 470 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,439 Speaker 3: solidly because it was so awful for them. 471 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and what just and then there was a 472 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 2: couple of days where there's like maybe there was injuries, 473 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 2: but you just didn't put them in the book. Right. 474 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 2: It was like there's like a three day period where 475 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 2: there was no jury of I think it was like 476 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 2: the eleventh or the fourteenth of a certain time frame, 477 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:15,880 Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, what do w I should? 478 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 2: So I'm captivated by her daily life. I'm like, wait, wait, wait, whoa, whoa, whoa, 479 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 2: where's the days that these other days there's like, you know, 480 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:26,360 Speaker 2: you feel what I'm saying. 481 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 3: Like yeah, yeah, But she would she would say that 482 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:32,919 Speaker 3: a lot of living was very normal. You know, life 483 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,479 Speaker 3: was normal. You might have had the Nazis and they 484 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 3: were awful and the situation was horrible, but life was normal. 485 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 3: You just had to carry on in a normal way 486 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 3: and you went about your business. You went to work 487 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 3: by bicycle, or you went on the metro, or you 488 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 3: went on the bus, and life carried on and the 489 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 3: country was occupied and went from time to time you just, 490 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,439 Speaker 3: I suppose burst out crying and think, how is it 491 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 3: ever going to finish? 492 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 2: You know, there's so much of like how history seems 493 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 2: to repeat itself in this world, and how you're saying 494 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 2: we have to still live life and keep moving forward 495 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 2: and not just let it drag us down. Even though 496 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,920 Speaker 2: the situation may seem dire, we still have to keep 497 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 2: internally upbeat about it. And you know, yeh boy, you know, 498 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 2: because we don't need history to keep repeating itself. 499 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,919 Speaker 3: No, and it does, sadly with what's going on in 500 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 3: Europe at the moment with Ukraine, it's really history repeating itself. 501 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:31,719 Speaker 3: It's horrendous. 502 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 2: And here in the US with our with our politicians 503 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:38,400 Speaker 2: just not seeing any agreement like you know we got, 504 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 2: they're just completely split. It's like, you know, stop it 505 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 2: sound Yeah, And England's definitely, like, hey, we back everything 506 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,120 Speaker 2: going on with Ukraine. We're here for support for you, 507 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:56,160 Speaker 2: and I also support them as well. So I don't 508 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,880 Speaker 2: want it to come to your shores. I don't want 509 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,399 Speaker 2: it to come to our shores because it's just going 510 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 2: to be that's just a crate. It's late. London's already 511 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 2: had enough. 512 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:09,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I went. 513 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 2: I went down to Southampton with a friend of mine 514 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,439 Speaker 2: and my wife a few years back, and we were 515 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 2: looking at the Isle of Wight and you see kind 516 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,959 Speaker 2: of like the coastline of France. Yes, And then they 517 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,480 Speaker 2: were telling me the story about how back in the 518 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 2: World War two time frame, the LUFWAFFA, the Air Force 519 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 2: would fly over to do bombing raids and just indiscriminately 520 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 2: bomb right, just drop bombs on lights or whatever they 521 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 2: think they want cities. And when the when they would 522 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 2: fly back over Southampton, they would try to drop bombs 523 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 2: on those lights, but they were ships. There were fake 524 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,960 Speaker 2: lights out in the water. They made a fake city. 525 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 2: So I think, how many bombs are just all over 526 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 2: that place? You know, like just from all these previous conflicts. 527 00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:58,440 Speaker 3: You know, it's horrendous, horrendous what people do to people. Yeah, and. 528 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:00,679 Speaker 2: What a beautiful country. 529 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: Though. 530 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 2: I love England. I tell you what, you know. I 531 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 2: got to travel over there with my wife and go 532 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 2: down the tray and see my friends and go eat 533 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 2: it the Mad Hatter, Holy cow, it was so good. 534 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 2: A lot more. 535 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 3: Please do. Like London, I kind of like the States. 536 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,880 Speaker 3: I love you. I love New York. It's so lime. 537 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 3: I know you're a new jah, but I love I 538 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 3: love it. 539 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, you know. And and staying up oh yeah, 540 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 2: you know, staying in East London and walking around at 541 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,919 Speaker 2: three am trying to find fish and chips. You know. 542 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:33,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, I put. 543 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 2: Vinegar on my fish and chips. And somebody would like, 544 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,719 Speaker 2: you put vinegar on your fish and chips. I'm like, 545 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 2: that's what they do. 546 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 3: That's what they do. It's pretty horride I do, but. 547 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 2: I yes, And they're big pieces to east Side, and 548 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 2: I like west Side. I walked all over Hyde Park when, 549 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 2: all over the place. But you know, I just think 550 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 2: about all of the conflict that's happened through the ages 551 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 2: in England. 552 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 3: Well, it's it's interesting you're saying that because I refer 553 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 3: to it in my book. But my mother, before the 554 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 3: war was sent to England to learn English, and she 555 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 3: spent a year in England and she at the time 556 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:14,719 Speaker 3: she came through Southampton and then by train came up 557 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,680 Speaker 3: to Victoria And one of the things she said that 558 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 3: when she came back to England in nineteen forty five, 559 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 3: she was devastated by what she saw in central London 560 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 3: around Victoria Station because she'd left and it was a 561 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 3: normal built up area. She came back in nineteen forty 562 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 3: five and everything was destroyed and that must have had 563 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 3: a huge impact on her. And I mean obviously on everybody, 564 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 3: but somebody who'd been away from it and then comes 565 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 3: and sees it absolutely. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Like. 566 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,880 Speaker 2: Right now, let's talk about current events. I have friends 567 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 2: that had meet business meetings in Kiev like three and 568 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 2: a half years ago. For some reason, I just didn't 569 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 2: make the meeting, right I wasn't like on the invite 570 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 2: to fly out and have this nice Kiev you know, 571 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 2: swore a for four days that everybody else went to 572 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 2: a little jealous. But now today my friends like rabbits, 573 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 2: you can, Ukraine's getting hit. You know, things that we 574 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 2: saw that we went and traveled and saw are devastated. 575 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 3: Right now, Yes, yes. 576 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not able to fathom that because here 577 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 2: I am sitting at my home with my fireplace on, 578 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 2: and I'm not having any super missile blow up something 579 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 2: randomly next door. 580 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, you know. 581 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 2: And and for your your your sweet mom who's hardcore, okay, 582 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,880 Speaker 2: for being of social life and being undercover and such 583 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 2: a young age, you know, for her to go back 584 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 2: and see it devastated, I'm sure there's a lot of 585 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:44,880 Speaker 2: PTSD post traumatic stress that ill. 586 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, yes, I think everybody with everybody went 587 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 3: through an awful lot. 588 00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 2: Such a violent situation, Yeah, such a war. I mean 589 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 2: it was such a war, like of a war, right, 590 00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 2: there was more trench fighting and just like brutality and. 591 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 3: You know, it's it's unreal what people do to people. 592 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, over what? Over what? 593 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 3: Well that the Germans the Nazis wanting to take Europe 594 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 3: and the Russians wanting to be part of it. 595 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that worked out real well, didn't it for Germany? Huh? 596 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 2: That really worked out well. They moved right into Russia 597 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 2: and surrounded themselves. 598 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. Once they went into Russia, the Russians weren't going 599 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,160 Speaker 3: to have it, and they stopped it. It was very 600 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,960 Speaker 3: nasty when you think that fifty five million people died 601 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 3: during the Second World War. 602 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's awful. It's awful, you know, and your mom 603 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 2: had friends that were that were Jewish, you know, that 604 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 2: were being hidden. There's families hiding them and gestopo everywhere. 605 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 3: The Jewish situation was horrendous. You know, there's nothing and 606 00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:59,239 Speaker 3: it must never be forgotten. And I think that, you know, 607 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 3: the younger people people don't really take on board what 608 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 3: it was about. I mean, obviously I knew Jewish people 609 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 3: who'd lost I have Jewish friends who lost their parents 610 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 3: and their grandparents, and now it's all kind of disappearing. 611 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 3: That generation is completely gone and you don't really hear 612 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 3: about it first and and we mustn't ever ever forget 613 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 3: just trrendous and what happened in France to the Jewish people, 614 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 3: what happened in Germany, what happened everywhere in Europe? 615 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, around like they all just got tagged, you're it 616 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden, it's like wait, like 617 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 2: the one there's a photo that really resonates about what happened, 618 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 2: and there's so many photos, but it's a box of 619 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 2: like wedding rings, right, and it's just like they would 620 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 2: take them off of them before they would have before 621 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 2: they would execute them. They would take their wedding rings 622 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:48,960 Speaker 2: off of them, all the Jewish and put them in 623 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 2: a box. And the piles of shoes like those right 624 00:32:53,000 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 2: there are so saddening in the distance. But what the 625 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 2: hell why even I mean, I'm so sorry to say 626 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 2: that like that. It's like, you know, it's like unneeded. 627 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, surrendous. 628 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 2: Because somebody was just like you know, I don't know, 629 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 2: like freaking out in his room saying I got to 630 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,440 Speaker 2: do this with my country and my army, and I'm 631 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 2: freaking out. I gotta go wipe another people off the earth. 632 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 2: It's like, bro, calm down, man glove across his face. 633 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 2: I'm talking about Hitler. I'm saying, like that guy was 634 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 2: nuts to go. He was nuts. He was on all 635 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 2: sorts of amphetamines. 636 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 3: I didn't think it was I don't think it was nuts. 637 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,840 Speaker 3: I think it was evil. It was evil. And the 638 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 3: group of them, the group of them you know who 639 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,680 Speaker 3: were with him, they were evil as well. They were nuts. 640 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 3: They were evil. They knew what they were doing. 641 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 2: They were like power drunk. They were drunk on all 642 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 2: of this power and no one wanted to tell him 643 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 2: he was wrong because they were eating off the same 644 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 2: plate exactly. 645 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 3: You're absolutely right. 646 00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, but they knew it was wrong, did they? It 647 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 2: was wrong? 648 00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 3: Oh, of course it was wrong. But how did they 649 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 3: see it? That's they knew they what they were doing 650 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:10,359 Speaker 3: was what they wanted to do. 651 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think that like a Jewish 652 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 2: seven year old has any threat, No, of course not. 653 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,840 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, absolutely horrendous. 654 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:22,800 Speaker 2: Or some guy with a gun and a leather jacket. 655 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 2: What's the threat from that seven year old or that 656 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 2: twenty two year old or yeah, really you know who's 657 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:30,919 Speaker 2: the one walking around with the guns? 658 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:37,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, it's it's the most horrendous part of history. 659 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 2: Well, and that's why your mom was so like, I'm 660 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 2: this is not okay. 661 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,440 Speaker 3: Well it wasn't it okay for anyone? 662 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean like not everyone was. Well, I mean, 663 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 2: I guess the French resistance is, you know, try to 664 00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 2: like blend in and then disrupt from within, you know, 665 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 2: so that no one kind of picks up on it, 666 00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 2: And that's the resistance right there, right, it's like just 667 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,279 Speaker 2: resist the situation. But you know, I'm sure that there 668 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:09,720 Speaker 2: was some scary looking leather wearing whip hold and dude 669 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:11,759 Speaker 2: that walked in front of your mom and he was like, 670 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 2: where are your papers? That's something I mean. 671 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,799 Speaker 3: One of the things in her daries she refers to 672 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 3: a very close friend of hers who was only twenty 673 00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 3: two and he just disappeared from one day to the next. 674 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 3: You know, he decided he ought to get into the 675 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 3: free zone. France was divided into the occupied zone and 676 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,000 Speaker 3: the freezer and the free zone. You tended to be 677 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 3: able to do a bit more what you wanted to do. 678 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,319 Speaker 3: You didn't have the naxies quite on top of you. 679 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,880 Speaker 3: And he escaped to the free zone, but he still 680 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,400 Speaker 3: completely disappeared. This was a twenty three year old, one 681 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 3: of her closest friends, and that was just one person 682 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 3: of the people she knew. And I think that would 683 00:35:56,000 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 3: have left an awful legacy with with her and with 684 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 3: anybody who lived through it, those people who knew Jewish 685 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:07,840 Speaker 3: people who had friends who just disappeared. And she would 686 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:11,439 Speaker 3: talk about that, and I didn't know very much about 687 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 3: it because she didn't really talk about it. And I 688 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,239 Speaker 3: remember one day, I must have been in my late twenties, 689 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 3: asking her about the Jewish situation, and she just looked 690 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 3: at me and just went into a kind of trance 691 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,920 Speaker 3: because it was something she just didn't want to be 692 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 3: reminded of or talk about because it was just so horrendous. 693 00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is. And I did read that in the 694 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,240 Speaker 2: book where her friend who went to the Freedom. 695 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, and from the friends of my friends of my 696 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,399 Speaker 3: grandparents as well. I mean, my grandmother was a very 697 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 3: sociable person. She loved people. But you know, when I 698 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 3: knew how she didn't have that many friends, and I 699 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 3: think it was partly because a lot of them who 700 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:53,880 Speaker 3: were Jewish, and a lot of them just disappeared. Yeah. 701 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:58,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's just like it's awful. You know, 702 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 2: like you know your best friend or someone that is 703 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 2: a really close friend and he's like, I'm going to 704 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 2: try to make escape, and you don't ever hear from 705 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 2: him again. You would think that they would try to 706 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,920 Speaker 2: reach out to a homie, like a good friend, you know, 707 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:14,040 Speaker 2: like you know, hey, Franzelle, I made it. I'll reach 708 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 2: out to you some other way later, you know, just 709 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:21,520 Speaker 2: just to be gone, you know. And so here here 710 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 2: you are as a legacy of your mother, you know, 711 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 2: powerful female with a pen and you know, able to 712 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,920 Speaker 2: write your book and put it out there for us 713 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:38,440 Speaker 2: to have to read. Really just in the archives of 714 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 2: the world's books. Now. 715 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:43,560 Speaker 3: Well, I hope, I hope the readers enjoy the book. 716 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I've had I've had a lot of feedback 717 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 3: on it, and it's it's very interesting how people look 718 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,800 Speaker 3: at it. The historical bit in it was very difficult 719 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 3: to write about. Some of it was very difficult to 720 00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:03,719 Speaker 3: understand the landings in French North Africa, for example. The research, 721 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,440 Speaker 3: I mean, just just what my family was doing was 722 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,840 Speaker 3: was difficult to comprehend and how they lived compared to 723 00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:14,560 Speaker 3: the way we live with freedom. We are free, and 724 00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 3: I don't think we value our freedom enough. No, you 725 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 3: lose it, but you really understand what you have. 726 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 2: It's true. Over here in the US people are like, oh, 727 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,920 Speaker 2: you know, they're coming after our freedoms and this, that 728 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 2: and the other thing. There's a lot of like, oh, 729 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 2: we got to protect I'm like, look, if this is 730 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,640 Speaker 2: me being like oppressed as freedom, I guess I'm okay 731 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,760 Speaker 2: with it, all right. If this is if I'm oppressed 732 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,319 Speaker 2: somehow or in some stimulation and I don't know it, 733 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,840 Speaker 2: you know, okay, cool? I love my family, I have 734 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:50,200 Speaker 2: a fireplace. I'm fortunate and I'm blessed. You know, podcast, 735 00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 2: I can say what I want. I mean, stay with you, right, 736 00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,919 Speaker 2: And that's all I think anybody really wants, whether they're 737 00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 2: they didn't. 738 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:02,400 Speaker 3: Realize how we are to be in a democracy. 739 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 2: Correct, right where your voice and my voice are equal. 740 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that had you can say what you want to say. 741 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:14,840 Speaker 2: That's right. There's places where they're still oppressing women, even 742 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 2: over here in the US, trying to like get involved with, 743 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,839 Speaker 2: you know, their rights. I tell people all the time, man, 744 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 2: I can't make a human inside of me. I come 745 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 2: from a woman. Hello, birthday should be the birth from 746 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:34,400 Speaker 2: the mom's day, but somehow I get spoiled with the 747 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,960 Speaker 2: presence for being born. Yeah, I'm like, I hope you 748 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:39,000 Speaker 2: see what I'm saying here. 749 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 3: You know, it's interesting what It's interesting what you're saying 750 00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:44,279 Speaker 3: because it made me think about this young Jewish man, 751 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 3: a very close friend who she lost. And I think 752 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,760 Speaker 3: it's written in the book. She says that every every 753 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,400 Speaker 3: year on his birthday, he used to give flowers to 754 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,160 Speaker 3: his mother to thank her for giving him. 755 00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 2: That's right, you know, I read that and I I 756 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:05,359 Speaker 2: resonate with that, okay, because I'm of the same thought 757 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 2: process that mom. Where do I start, you know, how 758 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 2: do I tell you I love you? You know? 759 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:13,319 Speaker 3: That's very nice? 760 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:17,120 Speaker 2: Yes, you know? And so and I hope that others 761 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:18,840 Speaker 2: that listen to this will at least take some of 762 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,840 Speaker 2: this back and go and if your mom is still around, 763 00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:22,360 Speaker 2: go give her a call, you know, and say I 764 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:22,680 Speaker 2: love you. 765 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,799 Speaker 3: It's a lovely thing to say. It's a very lovely thing. Yes, 766 00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,319 Speaker 3: they appreciate just enough. 767 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,720 Speaker 2: There's just three words we want to hear in public 768 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 2: from our kids, and that's I love you. Ahead and 769 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,120 Speaker 2: be embarrassed, go ahead and blush about it. Go ahead 770 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:42,600 Speaker 2: and say it. Say it to me in public. Maybe 771 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,719 Speaker 2: I'll buy you what you want. My son loves me, 772 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:48,120 Speaker 2: go ahead and give him the new car he loves 773 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:52,600 Speaker 2: and he loves me. That's that's as a father, that's 774 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 2: what I'm after, right, And. 775 00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,359 Speaker 3: I got daughters, and I. 776 00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 2: Want my daughters to see this interview and be like, hey, 777 00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,640 Speaker 2: we can be her. We can write a book, you know. 778 00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,200 Speaker 2: We can watch our dad go to audition for Broadway 779 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,280 Speaker 2: and maybe get rejected, but at least he's trying. 780 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:07,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you. 781 00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,560 Speaker 2: Know, we have to be the role models for our kids. 782 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:13,160 Speaker 2: Looking at you being so brave and so awesome for 783 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,200 Speaker 2: your son, right who we got to meet, who helped 784 00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:21,600 Speaker 2: you get on this put together? Right, they're very. 785 00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:22,640 Speaker 3: Long suffering children. 786 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 2: I think, wait till he gets your diary and writes 787 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:31,600 Speaker 2: your book. The year was nineteen sixty nine and it 788 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,240 Speaker 2: was the summer of love. Mom. I had to stop 789 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:41,880 Speaker 2: reading your diary. What's going on? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, Oh 790 00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,759 Speaker 2: my goodness, oh my. Now, now I have to ask you, 791 00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,920 Speaker 2: with it being such a vivid book and you know, 792 00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:50,960 Speaker 2: come into life off the pages when you're reading it, 793 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 2: has anybody approached you about like turning this into some 794 00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 2: type of like a theatrical or a you know, or 795 00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:57,560 Speaker 2: a movie or a TV. 796 00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:04,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there is, which my publishers in America, Kensington Books, 797 00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 3: have kindly organized. And yes, of course I'd love it 798 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 3: to become a film because if it turned into a film, 799 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:13,479 Speaker 3: I'd make serious money for adventure research. So that would 800 00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,600 Speaker 3: be very very good. Yes, And it has the makings 801 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,600 Speaker 3: of a film. It's an amazing story. It is an 802 00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 3: interesting story. It's a different story. It's a different story 803 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,719 Speaker 3: to typical resistance fighters story because she was working at 804 00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:30,480 Speaker 3: police headquarters, and that's a difference. I think that was 805 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:34,319 Speaker 3: a big difference to most resistance fighters. And also the 806 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,880 Speaker 3: fact that they were trying to get youngsters out of 807 00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,759 Speaker 3: France to join the army, which I don't think a 808 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 3: lot of the resistance groups were doing. That was not 809 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,399 Speaker 3: part of their agenda. They got one thousand young men 810 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 3: out of France through the Pyrenees who went through Spain 811 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,520 Speaker 3: and made their way to French. Tangerian joined up the army. 812 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:57,160 Speaker 3: And this is when my uncle was recruited out of 813 00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 3: the French Army into the OSS because the OSS wanted 814 00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:07,760 Speaker 3: youngsters who would work for them as intelligence gatherers in France. 815 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,920 Speaker 3: So that is when he was recruited by the OSS. 816 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:15,160 Speaker 3: And then he was dropped blind into occupying France with 817 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,480 Speaker 3: these dollar notes with him and the gold coins to 818 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 3: carry on his wartime effort. 819 00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:28,439 Speaker 2: Just him, just his story alone of all right, you're 820 00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:31,600 Speaker 2: the chosen guy, you're the uncle. We could meet your 821 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 2: mom in the movie, but his own getting the gold 822 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,919 Speaker 2: to her is its own. 823 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's well, it was. There were 824 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,360 Speaker 3: several of them in the group. I mean it was 825 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,640 Speaker 3: a group of there were fifteen of them who were 826 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,880 Speaker 3: recognized by the Goal at the end of the war 827 00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,799 Speaker 3: as having been in the resistance, and he integrated them 828 00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,960 Speaker 3: at the end of the war into the French army. 829 00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,919 Speaker 3: And the reason he integrated them into the French army 830 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,360 Speaker 3: so that they could be given back pay for having 831 00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:05,520 Speaker 3: been in the armed forces. I mean, it's the most 832 00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,200 Speaker 3: extraordinary thing. I gave a talk in London and there 833 00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,719 Speaker 3: was a general in the audience who was just in 834 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,120 Speaker 3: fits of laughter. How do you give people back pay 835 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:16,240 Speaker 3: and pull them into the army But it's after they joined. 836 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 3: It's a lovely story, but yeah, it is. I mean, 837 00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:25,319 Speaker 3: I reread the book today again because I knew I 838 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,360 Speaker 3: was talking to and it does cover very many aspects. 839 00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:32,320 Speaker 3: It covers the relationship of my uncle and my mother 840 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 3: with the overseas Strategic Services, which is very interesting to 841 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:40,960 Speaker 3: the Americans because the Americans didn't have many agents in 842 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:45,960 Speaker 3: France because France was supposedly intelligence wise the territory of 843 00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,640 Speaker 3: the British intelligence services, so that was an unusual situation. 844 00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,799 Speaker 3: And my uncle, who was called al Angriatry, was the 845 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:58,360 Speaker 3: first foreign journalists working for the figure Row to be 846 00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 3: interviewed or who was a to interview President Reagan when 847 00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:05,160 Speaker 3: he became president. And I can't remember the name of 848 00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,759 Speaker 3: the chap who was in charge of the chap who 849 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 3: was in charge of the CIA at the time. It 850 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,240 Speaker 3: was a chap called William Casey, and he organized the meeting. 851 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 3: So it was all wow things. 852 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and there's so much and I would love 853 00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,319 Speaker 2: to see this come to the screen, you know, the 854 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:25,480 Speaker 2: big sh yes. And if you're listening and you happen 855 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,080 Speaker 2: to have the means to get this done, you should 856 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:32,239 Speaker 2: check out this book and and give it a read. Yes, yes, 857 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,480 Speaker 2: and then and reach out and get Yes. 858 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:36,879 Speaker 3: It does make it's a good story because there are 859 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,040 Speaker 3: so many aspects to it. 860 00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:41,920 Speaker 2: It could be a series. It could be like a series. 861 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,319 Speaker 2: You know, you could have like you know, you could 862 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:45,960 Speaker 2: binge sixteen episodes. 863 00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, it could work that way as well. 864 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because I just want to see I just 865 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 2: want to see your mom, like you know, kind of 866 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:55,480 Speaker 2: being your mom in the passport and like I can 867 00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:59,280 Speaker 2: see it already, like someone who like all if there's 868 00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:02,760 Speaker 2: if there's a a film company in Hollywood that wants 869 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:06,399 Speaker 2: to recreate all of the gear of the police officers 870 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 2: and had that on them and all of the set 871 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 2: dressing and like that whole period. Man, what a show 872 00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,239 Speaker 2: to be a part of that would be. And you 873 00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,240 Speaker 2: have to be in it. You have to have a camera, 874 00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,560 Speaker 2: you have to even like a regular like oh yes, 875 00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,000 Speaker 2: uh huh, yes, you need to send this letter over 876 00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:24,880 Speaker 2: to the Gestapo. 877 00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:29,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, the military people in the military in this 878 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:34,200 Speaker 3: country who've read the book, like, is that the chapter 879 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 3: about when my mother was arrested by the vermart and 880 00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:42,760 Speaker 3: subsequently interrogated by the Gestapo. And they loved that because 881 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 3: they loved the soft while the way she handled the 882 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:49,840 Speaker 3: people interviewing her or people questioning her, and she just 883 00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:51,960 Speaker 3: didn't put up with any nonsense. She wasn't going to 884 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,960 Speaker 3: be intimidated by them. She was a strong personality, she 885 00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,839 Speaker 3: was young, and she just treated them with content and 886 00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:01,000 Speaker 3: she got away with it. And she basically told the 887 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 3: Gestapo chat who had been sent to interview her, but 888 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 3: he didn't know how I was to do his stop 889 00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,320 Speaker 3: that he wasn't doing his job properly. And the reason 890 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 3: and she's as an explanation, she said, if you were 891 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:15,720 Speaker 3: doing your job properly, you would phone my senior offices 892 00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:19,359 Speaker 3: at police headquarters and you would find out what I 893 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,920 Speaker 3: did at police headquarters and how I'm not involved in 894 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:29,720 Speaker 3: any form of resistance. And that's a very good chapter. 895 00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:36,960 Speaker 2: You know, you yourself have kind of followed along with metals 896 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,719 Speaker 2: in like your mother, right, talk about how your mother 897 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:48,160 Speaker 2: had medals on and they're like checking out her medals. Okay, okay, 898 00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:49,960 Speaker 2: I put my hands in air quotes if you're listening 899 00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:54,120 Speaker 2: to this. Her mom would wear her medals, and I 900 00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:56,960 Speaker 2: think someone would get jealous about the medals because they 901 00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:00,680 Speaker 2: were like in the area of her bosom buzza Maria, 902 00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 2: her cleavage and she knew what she was wearing a 903 00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,000 Speaker 2: low cut dress and she'd have her medals. 904 00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,440 Speaker 3: They went to a ball, and I don't know how 905 00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:09,799 Speaker 3: it works in the United States, but in the UK, 906 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,399 Speaker 3: if you go to official evenings, you're allowed to wear 907 00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 3: your medals. And obviously at the time, not many women 908 00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 3: had medals of that nature. And she was at an RAF. 909 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,080 Speaker 3: She was at an RAF ball with my father and 910 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 3: somebody in the RAF. An RAF officer saw this medal, 911 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,880 Speaker 3: which is the quadiger and was a bit surprised that 912 00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 3: she had it, and I think he was half looking 913 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:32,800 Speaker 3: at the medal, half looking. 914 00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,759 Speaker 2: At her yes, exactly right. 915 00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,319 Speaker 3: Good story. But that's how I first learned about the 916 00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 3: whole whole episode of what she'd done. 917 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 2: And then you received an honor as well. Would you 918 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 2: want to explain what that is from? Was it from? 919 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? It was very nice. I was given what's called 920 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,360 Speaker 3: a British Empire Medal. I don't know how you compare 921 00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 3: it in America, but it was given to me by 922 00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,120 Speaker 3: the Queen and it was given to me for services 923 00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:01,400 Speaker 3: to charity. So I've done a lot of fundraising in 924 00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,040 Speaker 3: my life. I did a lot for cop death babies 925 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:08,000 Speaker 3: who died within the first three or four months of birth. 926 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 3: I did a lot of fundraising for that. And then 927 00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:13,400 Speaker 3: I've done a lot of police work. I've done a 928 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:18,120 Speaker 3: lot of political work, and more recently this raising money 929 00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:22,200 Speaker 3: for dementia research and support. And so I don't know 930 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,160 Speaker 3: how works in the United States, but in the UK, 931 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:28,200 Speaker 3: somebody puts you forward, they write reports on you, and 932 00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:31,040 Speaker 3: it goes to the Prime minister. Prime Minister at the 933 00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:34,440 Speaker 3: time agreed to give me the award, and therefore he 934 00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:36,600 Speaker 3: puts it forward to the Queen, who then signs it 935 00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:39,840 Speaker 3: off and gives you the medal. The last queen, sorry, 936 00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 3: Queen Elizabeth. 937 00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and I was at her jubilee, so it 938 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 2: was a very yes yeah, good time, right, yes, yes, 939 00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:52,040 Speaker 2: love that and we love Duran also. Okay, so I'll 940 00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 2: let you know. Okay, very very much. Western boys and 941 00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:02,479 Speaker 2: wess Western girls, the Eastern boys. No, very much. 942 00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,600 Speaker 3: But it's very interesting. It's very interesting you you asking 943 00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:10,960 Speaker 3: me about about the medal, because I don't know if 944 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:14,160 Speaker 3: it's because we're kind of more reserved in England. But 945 00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,520 Speaker 3: people don't really often ask me about it. They know 946 00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:19,160 Speaker 3: about it, but they don't really ask why I got it. 947 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,239 Speaker 3: And yet when I was in the United States on 948 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,719 Speaker 3: business last when was it in April? I was at 949 00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:27,799 Speaker 3: San Francisco, one of our clients had looked me up 950 00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:29,960 Speaker 3: and said, what was all that about? How did you 951 00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:33,360 Speaker 3: get it? But nobody would normally do that. In England. 952 00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,359 Speaker 3: It's unusual. They don't ask about it. I don't know why. 953 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,440 Speaker 2: Well, maybe you should just wear it, you know, so 954 00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:39,879 Speaker 2: you're not. 955 00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:43,080 Speaker 3: Meant to you're only a laugh. There a strict conditions. 956 00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:46,520 Speaker 3: The queen has these conditions. Yeah, you're only meant to 957 00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,000 Speaker 3: wear medals. It must be the same in the United States. 958 00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:52,319 Speaker 3: You can only wear medals at certain functions, so they 959 00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:56,000 Speaker 3: have to be official functions, so I wouldn't wear it 960 00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:57,839 Speaker 3: in the street. 961 00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,560 Speaker 2: In the US. So when I went over to England 962 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,000 Speaker 2: a few times, and I would see all my sas 963 00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:06,200 Speaker 2: friends and all these other blokes, if you will, in 964 00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 2: their suits all proper, and they'd have like a big 965 00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,600 Speaker 2: rack of their ribbons. But they've been retired. Over here, 966 00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,520 Speaker 2: we don't really have that. They don't the former military. 967 00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 2: They don't really wear anything to social events like that. 968 00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,320 Speaker 2: For example, I just did a social event for a 969 00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 2: huge military charity and everybody was just kind of like 970 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,600 Speaker 2: in Texas, but nobody had like except for the guy 971 00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,239 Speaker 2: that won the Medal of Honor. He was wearing that 972 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:31,080 Speaker 2: on stage to kind of signify he had earned that, 973 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:35,440 Speaker 2: right yeah or yeah, And I was awarded. But when 974 00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:37,240 Speaker 2: I went over there, I thought it was so cool 975 00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:39,959 Speaker 2: that if you wore them on one side, it means 976 00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 2: you earned them, right, yeah, exactly, but you could represent 977 00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:48,680 Speaker 2: like your husband on the other side. Yes, with the medals. 978 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,799 Speaker 3: It's quite interesting you saying that, because I got all 979 00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,040 Speaker 3: my parents' medals, which I think I can wear on 980 00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:57,280 Speaker 3: that side, and then mine, which is very very insignificant, 981 00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:57,719 Speaker 3: but sad. 982 00:51:58,719 --> 00:51:59,399 Speaker 2: I love that. 983 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,120 Speaker 3: I love it's very insignificant, you know. 984 00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,160 Speaker 2: And and also like, you know, right here, I have 985 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:06,719 Speaker 2: this as a remembering. I have the poppy right here, 986 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,799 Speaker 2: you see, like the little Oh yes, this is a 987 00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:11,920 Speaker 2: Royal Irish regiment. Give it to me. 988 00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,760 Speaker 3: It's very special wearing that very special. 989 00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,239 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this is a gift by a friend of 990 00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,319 Speaker 2: mine over in uh you know, and I just keep it, 991 00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:20,719 Speaker 2: buy me, give it a kiss there. 992 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:23,960 Speaker 3: It's the one. It's a wonderful charity. It raises money 993 00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:25,400 Speaker 3: for the military. 994 00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,480 Speaker 2: I wish we still did that over here. You know, 995 00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,160 Speaker 2: back in the day, we used to have the poppy. 996 00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:34,120 Speaker 2: You know, there would be veterans Remembers Day. Yeah, in 997 00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:36,840 Speaker 2: the US they would have. I looked it up. I 998 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:40,120 Speaker 2: was like, how come England has the poppy everywhere every 999 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:41,560 Speaker 2: time I go over there. I've been over there a 1000 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:44,120 Speaker 2: few times and it's always around Remembrance Day and I've 1001 00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:46,520 Speaker 2: done special events and everybody's got so many poppies and 1002 00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:48,919 Speaker 2: they're at the airport. You can give them, you put 1003 00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:49,880 Speaker 2: a couple of bucks in the. 1004 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very clever raising money. 1005 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And I'm like, how come we stopped wearing it? 1006 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:59,720 Speaker 2: In the US, and I'm like, bring the poppy back. Yes, 1007 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:03,360 Speaker 2: it just kind of it fizzled out, is what I 1008 00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,839 Speaker 2: learned from reading about it one time. So yeah, yeah, 1009 00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,520 Speaker 2: but I still wear it. I still have a beret 1010 00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:16,200 Speaker 2: that I wear that I haven't it, you know. And 1011 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:17,520 Speaker 2: I just want to say, you know, I've had you 1012 00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:19,360 Speaker 2: for just about an hour of your time, and I 1013 00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 2: know we're across the pond and across the world to 1014 00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:24,680 Speaker 2: talking to each other. And this is the first time 1015 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:26,560 Speaker 2: you and I have ever met. And I want to 1016 00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:30,239 Speaker 2: show people that you can have a totally normal conversation 1017 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:35,799 Speaker 2: with another human being on this earth after just meeting them. 1018 00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:39,560 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, it's been lovely chatting to you, really interesting. 1019 00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,319 Speaker 3: As you say, it's strange that you're so far away. 1020 00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:46,279 Speaker 2: Yes, but yeah, here we are. Like when I get 1021 00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,480 Speaker 2: on an airplane and I fly over there, I just 1022 00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:51,719 Speaker 2: close the window on the plane and then I open 1023 00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:55,600 Speaker 2: it up and I guess I'm there. Is it a simulation? 1024 00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:56,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1025 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm very lucky to be able to 1026 00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:04,960 Speaker 3: travel so freely. Because coming back to my mother, she'd 1027 00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:06,960 Speaker 3: been in England, as I said, for a year before 1028 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:09,800 Speaker 3: the war. That then come the walls. She wasn't able 1029 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,440 Speaker 3: to travel. So for five years you couldn't go across 1030 00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:14,920 Speaker 3: the channel. I mean, now you just go to Paris, 1031 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:16,960 Speaker 3: you know, at the drop of her hat at that 1032 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:19,239 Speaker 3: time that at the time you couldn't because it was 1033 00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,880 Speaker 3: very expensive anyway. But during the war you couldn't travel, 1034 00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:25,760 Speaker 3: You couldn't go anywhere. So yeah, yeah, we don't value 1035 00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:26,680 Speaker 3: our freedom enough. 1036 00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:30,439 Speaker 2: No, No, I think I do, but I don't think 1037 00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:34,280 Speaker 2: I do enough. So I'm just born into the situation. 1038 00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,600 Speaker 2: You know, as an American, Right, there's people who come 1039 00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:41,200 Speaker 2: to this country that know more about this country than 1040 00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:42,880 Speaker 2: I know about my own country. 1041 00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:43,760 Speaker 3: That's true. 1042 00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,640 Speaker 2: That's true, and I'm honest about it. Okay, the test 1043 00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:51,120 Speaker 2: that somebody has to naturalize themselves to become a naturalized 1044 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:54,080 Speaker 2: citizen here, the test, I would be scared. 1045 00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:57,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, they know more about it. The people who 1046 00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,880 Speaker 3: naturalize know more about the country than we do. 1047 00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:04,600 Speaker 2: And I'm like, why are we Like it's just like helloy, 1048 00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,879 Speaker 2: And they're so proud too. It's like, oh, the thirteenth 1049 00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,680 Speaker 2: Law of the Land is and I'm like, what what 1050 00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,560 Speaker 2: is it? What is it? What's the thirteenth We just 1051 00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,840 Speaker 2: know the first of the second, what's the third, fourth, fifth, thirteenth? What? 1052 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:17,680 Speaker 3: Yeh? 1053 00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:20,840 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what. We need to appreciate what we have. 1054 00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,520 Speaker 3: Don't we You know we do? We need to. 1055 00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,800 Speaker 2: We're very lucky and friendships, so I want to appreciate this. Okay, 1056 00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:33,239 Speaker 2: So you and I will be friends. And I just 1057 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:35,719 Speaker 2: want to say thank you so much for being on 1058 00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:38,359 Speaker 2: the show today. And I want to talk about one 1059 00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:42,200 Speaker 2: more time The Paris Girl, the young woman who outwitted 1060 00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:45,480 Speaker 2: the Nazis and became a World War two hero, which 1061 00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,719 Speaker 2: is out at all bookstores, Barnes and Noble, It's on 1062 00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:52,640 Speaker 2: the Amazon. It's probably at your local airport, and if not, 1063 00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:54,919 Speaker 2: just go there. Oh, you want to know a trick 1064 00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:56,360 Speaker 2: her before I sign off? You want to know a 1065 00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,600 Speaker 2: trick I heard a really popular author do. He will 1066 00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:04,960 Speaker 2: take his book and take it to the airport and 1067 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,160 Speaker 2: it has a UPC number on the back of it. 1068 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:10,200 Speaker 2: You'll have one, and if there's not one there, he'll 1069 00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:12,680 Speaker 2: hand it to the lady or whoever's at the checkout 1070 00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:16,080 Speaker 2: and they'll scan it and it'll say like last one, 1071 00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,000 Speaker 2: and it'll make them reorder it. 1072 00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:20,200 Speaker 3: Oh good, Oh, that's wonderful. 1073 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:21,080 Speaker 2: You see that. 1074 00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:24,160 Speaker 3: You see how thank you very much for helping me 1075 00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:27,719 Speaker 3: promote the book. I really appreciate it hugely. It's my 1076 00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:30,600 Speaker 3: first book to be published in the United States, so 1077 00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:31,640 Speaker 3: it's very exciting. 1078 00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:35,640 Speaker 2: Well, congratulations and congratulations to being a mom as well, 1079 00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:38,920 Speaker 2: and to your family Okay, and your lovely pearl necklace, 1080 00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,600 Speaker 2: and you're lovely. Okay. I just want to lady, so 1081 00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:42,080 Speaker 2: you know that. 1082 00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 1083 00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:46,120 Speaker 2: I don't want to have to sign off, but I'm 1084 00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:47,880 Speaker 2: about to sign off. I want to say thank you 1085 00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:51,200 Speaker 2: to my listener for taking the time to hear mine 1086 00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:56,000 Speaker 2: and Friendsell's discussion about her mother in the French Resistance 1087 00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:59,239 Speaker 2: and how powerful women are in this world. And you're 1088 00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,920 Speaker 2: always welcome on the show. And if you ever get 1089 00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,839 Speaker 2: this into theaters or in a movie or a TV show, 1090 00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:08,480 Speaker 2: and if you ever need a long bearded Viking frenchman, 1091 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:10,600 Speaker 2: you just let me know and I'll show up in 1092 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,000 Speaker 2: that Okay, And you're awesome. 1093 00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,160 Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much. Thank you for the opportunity 1094 00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:19,320 Speaker 3: of chatting to you and meeting you in particular. I 1095 00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,360 Speaker 3: really enjoyed it. 1096 00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 2: Same and behalf of France. El White and myself here 1097 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:30,360 Speaker 2: at Soft Rep Radio and my producer Callum who's over 1098 00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:35,360 Speaker 2: in London? Okay, why am I not in London right now? Anyways, 1099 00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:38,840 Speaker 2: if you're watching this during the holidays, happy holidays. And 1100 00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 2: if not, go check out her book everywhere books are sold. 1101 00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:45,600 Speaker 2: And this is rad On behalf of France El saying peace. 1102 00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:54,360 Speaker 3: Thank you. 1103 00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:06,480 Speaker 1: You've been listening to self Red Radio