1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: It's daily highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show. 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 2: How good of a friend are you if you aren't 3 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:14,239 Speaker 2: afraid to tell your friends the person they're dating just 4 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 2: may not be the one. When red flags, Yeah, when 5 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:23,440 Speaker 2: you should, I do agree. Red flags are flying and 6 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 2: you're like, hey, yeah, I'm just noticing this this guy 7 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 2: you're dating or this woman you're dating. It's just ooh 8 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 2: and apparently you know, their vision is clouded over by lust, 9 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 2: by they got a hot body, or they're you know whatever. 10 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: I mean. At some point you feel like you should 11 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 2: say something, don't you. 12 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: I think it's you're that close to the person then 13 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: you should say something because you don't want them to 14 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: get to the point where, you know, it gets really 15 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,319 Speaker 1: serious and they move to the next step. If you're 16 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 1: seeing these red flags this early in the relationship, there's 17 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: a little something going on, yes, but they have to be. 18 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 3: Meaning full red flags. 19 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 4: It can't just be you being a jerk because you 20 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,559 Speaker 4: don't like this Ryan like a real red flag. 21 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: Well, for instance, if they say to you, God, I 22 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 2: really like her a lot, or I like him a lot, 23 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 2: but there's this one thing she does. It's like, oh God, 24 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: I don't know there's the red flag. They're recognizing the 25 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 2: red flag. They're telling you the red flag, and you're saying, well, 26 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: don't you hear what you're saying? You're really you got 27 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 2: a red flag flying? It's flopping in the breeze. Yes, carry. 28 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 5: I know someone who's very early in the relationship and 29 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 5: she wants him to FaceTime her immediately. She used these 30 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 5: random spot checks when he's out with his friends, all 31 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 5: of a sudden, FaceTime me now and then. Or she'll 32 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 5: just FaceTime to see where he is and what. 33 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 2: He's up to do. She doesn't trust where he is, 34 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: right So I just said, I said, that's a red flag. 35 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 2: You guys have no trust in the relationships. It's ridiculous. 36 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 2: I mean, she's got a trust that you're doing the 37 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 2: right thing. 38 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 3: And are you sure that's. 39 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 4: Why she's doing it? Are you sure they don't just 40 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 4: communicate that way? 41 00:01:59,040 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 2: Who the hell does that? 42 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:05,559 Speaker 5: You're out with the bullets, you're out with the boys, expects, Hey, 43 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 5: why aren't you answering my FaceTime right now? Well, you 44 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 5: know I'm out. 45 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: With my boys right now. Don't don't do that, Okay? 46 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: That that flag could not be more red together three 47 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: months frog's going to say something that. 48 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 6: I was going to say. What does he have a 49 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 6: track record as he'd lied to hear in the past 50 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 6: about where he is. Maybe if that's happened, maybe that's 51 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 6: the problem. But if it's only three months in, yeah, 52 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 6: it's an issue. 53 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 3: No are you sure? 54 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 2: Pokay, Well, so, so the groundwork is is being place. 55 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 7: How do you say that though, because I know I've 56 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 7: encountered the situation and I want to say something, but 57 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 7: I also don't want to crush their hopes and dreams 58 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 7: of a relationship. 59 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 3: You talked about your relationship, You did your relationship. 60 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 2: Exactly, and and and if they defend it, they defend 61 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 2: the relationships. And Okay, you've said your piece in the Okay, 62 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 2: you can only say so much. You can't go on 63 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 2: and on about So let's say where where we're at dinner? 64 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 2: And yeah, you know I'm dating this girl, and uh, 65 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 2: just I have to pick her up take her to 66 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 2: the airport, and you know, then she asks that I 67 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 2: pick her up at the airport and drive her to 68 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 2: her house. I mean, okay, by the way, if you're 69 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 2: listening anyplace other than New York City, then this is 70 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 2: really relevant in New York. You don't drive people to 71 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 2: the airport. You just don't mean I don't people Daniel, 72 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 2: that's a red flag. Well, I mean, look, if you 73 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: live if you live in Manhattan, let's say, and there's 74 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 2: an airport, I mean you got to get a get 75 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 2: a car out of a garage. And it's like, no, 76 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 2: just take an Uber. Really you live in the suburbs, 77 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 2: it's a little different. You know, God I do too. 78 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 2: You know, I'm still not going to drive you as 79 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 2: to the airport, but anyway, you know, there's a red flag, 80 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 2: like I insist you take me to the airport. Well, 81 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 2: you know, Uber, it's right there. That's not as big 82 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: a red flag as the facetiming down to nowhere when 83 00:03:59,520 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: you know. 84 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like the check in, like where 85 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: are you? I want to know where you are at 86 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: all times? 87 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 3: What the only reason that I'm I'm a little hesitant 88 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 3: on this. 89 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 4: Based on the way you guys are looking at it. Yes, 90 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 4: very crazy. I do that to my sister all the time. 91 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 3: But that's. 92 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 4: But I do it to my friends. I do it 93 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 4: to people. I'm like, why aren't you answering when I 94 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 4: need you at this moment? 95 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 2: Right now you know what, then there's a red flag 96 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: on Gandhi right now, red flag? Hold on, there's a 97 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: flag on the play. There's a flag on the play. 98 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 3: I guess too, though. I mean, when you think about 99 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 3: this stuff, does all of us have red flags? 100 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 4: Every single one of us? Of course some have really 101 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 4: major red flags. I'm looking right. 102 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 3: At you, just like me. I just at what point 103 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 3: do you cut people off for one thing? We all 104 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 3: have these things. 105 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: But I just think like something like that where you 106 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: need to know everywhere I am and every moment three 107 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: months in is just for the future. 108 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 2: It's not good. 109 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 4: It is going to one might be crazy, but I'm 110 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 4: just saying, like a red flag doesn't necessarily mean you 111 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 4: have to cut it off immediately. 112 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 3: Red flag, of course exactly. 113 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 2: Look I said it earlier. I'll say it again. If 114 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 2: you want to say something and you feel like you 115 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 2: owe it to them, and then you say it, but 116 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 2: then you got to leave it up to them, that's 117 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 2: all you can do. If they have to learn on 118 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: their own, right. But if you let it go now, 119 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 2: it's going to be a problem later. So if you 120 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 2: if you set a precedent of letting it go now, 121 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 2: then it's hard to say something later down the road. 122 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, then when something happens and then you say, well 123 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: I kind of knew, They go why didn't you tell me? 124 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 3: Why didn't you tell me this? 125 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 2: But I did back on March March night. That night, Hey, 126 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 2: let's talk talk to Hannah. Oh, I'm beautiful Burlington, Vermont. 127 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 2: I love Burlington from Mont. Hannah. What a beautiful place 128 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 2: to live. You love living there? 129 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 8: I absolutely love it. This is the best place to live. 130 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 2: I got it, I got it all right. So we're 131 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 2: talking about red flags. Do you have a friend that 132 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 2: you actually had to talk off a ledge with a 133 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: red flag? Or were you the red flag person? Or 134 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 2: what's going on here? Hannah? What's your story? 135 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 8: So? I wish that I had listened to my friends 136 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 8: when they noted all my ex's red flags. I was 137 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 8: with my ex for nine years, and from the beginning, 138 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 8: my friends and my family tried to tell me all 139 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 8: about his red flags, and I just would not listen. 140 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. The thing is is they told you. Do you 141 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 2: remember them telling you? 142 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 8: Oh, totally, I remember them telling me. They tried so 143 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 8: hard to get me to listen. 144 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 2: I know, but at some point, like I said, you 145 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 2: got they have to be there for you, as your family, 146 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 2: as your friends and say hey, red flag, red flag, 147 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 2: that's all they can do. You had to learn on 148 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 2: your own. I mean you were on your own. You're 149 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 2: an adult. You can make your own decisions, right right. 150 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 8: I totally think that. You know, you can say all 151 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 8: you want about red flags and everything, but until they 152 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 8: want to change or they want to do what they 153 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 8: have to do or what they think they have to do, Like, 154 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,679 Speaker 8: there's nothing really you can say. 155 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: Hey, let me ask you this. Well, by the way, 156 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 2: I'm assuming you're out of this relationship and you're doing 157 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 2: much better now, right, All good? 158 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 8: Yeah? I am currently married and beautiful baby and super happy. 159 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: Oh cool, cool, Okay, that's all good news. So we're 160 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 2: talking about sharing locations with your phone, like, for instance, Gandhi, 161 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 2: she and all of her friends they have this network 162 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 2: where they all know where each other are at all times. Yes, 163 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 2: but when you're dating someone, Gandhi's asking like, how soon 164 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 2: is too soon to start sharing locations? 165 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 8: Oh that's a tough one. My husband and I do 166 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 8: share locations, but we didn't start sharing locations until I 167 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 8: got pregnant, So I don't know what would be too soon. 168 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 8: I feel like maybe honestly, until you're married. 169 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, Alex and I we don't share 170 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 2: locations at all, and I don't, Okay, I don't. I 171 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 2: totally trust everything's fine, but for other. 172 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 8: Got the only reason it's for safety, Yeah. 173 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 2: Exactly, safety first, but not like snooping around knowing where 174 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 2: you are. But in a relationship, if you're just starting 175 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 2: to date someone and they go, hey, you know, I know, 176 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 2: we've been dating each other for like a month and 177 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 2: I've had so much fun, let's share locations a month, 178 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: I don't know. No way, yeah, which way too early? 179 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe if you're in an uber you know, and 180 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: you want to make sure the person got someplace that's exactly, 181 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 1: but I don't want yeah exactly. 182 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 2: I hate that. 183 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 4: That one's extra turkey now, especially because when you first 184 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 4: start dating somebody, until they've been to your home or 185 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 4: you've been to theirs, you don't want them to know 186 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 4: where you live. I wouldn't share that location for a 187 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 4: long time, and even then I don't want you to 188 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 4: know when I'm home. 189 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 3: People are crazy, people do crazy things. I don't know. 190 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 3: Andrew having my location scares me enough. 191 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 2: Well, I know, but we were asking so Andrew, he 192 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 2: went down to uh Miami in South Florida. He said, 193 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 2: I'm just going to work out of the Y one 194 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 2: hundred office this week. Okay, Well, we know for a 195 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 2: fact he's still at home. He's probably in bed. He's 196 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 2: not working out of any office, didn't. We just talked 197 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 2: to Claudia, why whatever is Andrew? Is he there yet? 198 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 2: Did you have a desk for him? Whatever? She's like, Andrew, 199 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 2: is he coming in. 200 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 6: Anyway? 201 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 2: All right? Well listen, thank you for your call, Hannah. 202 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 2: I have a beautiful day and beautiful Burlington, Vermont. I 203 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 2: love it up there. 204 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 8: It's so gorgeous. 205 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 2: Oh so much, thank you, thanks for listening. God scary. 206 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 2: Remember your roommate whose girlfriend used to rip her hair 207 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 2: out and leave it on the bathroom floor to kind 208 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 2: of mark her territory. 209 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 6: Yup. 210 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,839 Speaker 2: She used to spray her perfume on pillows and things. 211 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 5: Horror show, and I had warned him these are red flags, 212 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 5: get out now while you can. She ended up being 213 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 5: all kinds of crazy. She went back crap level one 214 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 5: to ten in about two months. And then he's like, 215 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 5: I'm sorry I should have listened to you. 216 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, I told you so ripping out your hair. 217 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh yes, you're everywhere. 218 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 5: She's just spread it everywhere because in case another woman came. 219 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 2: Over her blonde hair. 220 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 8: Yeah. 221 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 2: Well look, you know, if you're dating someone like that 222 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 2: and be your friends just saying red flag, you'd like 223 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: to think, Well, you may think that's a red flag, 224 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 2: but I know them better because i'm dating them, so 225 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 2: maybe I'm seeing something in them you don't see. Well, 226 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 2: maybe maybe there is a red flag. 227 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, because sometimes you're just blinded by like oh my gosh, 228 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: they're so hot, or you're booty drunk, right exactly, and 229 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: so you know, because you can't see because you're booty drunk. 230 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: Sometimes it takes somebody else to say, hello, wake the 231 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: hell up. 232 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 6: Have the booty drunk glasses on. As the best person 233 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 6: booty drunk. 234 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 4: Like ever in the history of relationships, a friend has 235 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 4: said to another friend who is deeply in love with someone, Hey, 236 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 4: this person has a red flag. And the friend said, 237 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 4: you know what, You're right, I'm gonna listen to you 238 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,439 Speaker 4: and just move right along. No, they have to experience 239 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:54,719 Speaker 4: it for themselves. 240 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,839 Speaker 2: Probably for the most part, at the very least. If 241 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 2: someone came to me and said hey, red flag going 242 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 2: on here. I would go, oh, know, everything's fine, it's okay. 243 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 2: But at least it's now it's been registered. 244 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 1: You're thinking about it. 245 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 2: So at least you know it's it's something I'm thinking about. 246 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 2: Okay there, all right, let's get into the three things 247 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:14,559 Speaker 2: we need to know from Gandhi. We never did the 248 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 2: Danielle report. No, we've skipped it three times. 249 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 3: We're fine. 250 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 2: Danielle Les's work for me. 251 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 1: An hour. 252 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 3: I'm tired. 253 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: You know we love that hour. All right, let's get 254 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 2: into the three things we got. Danielle's report. It's floating. 255 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 2: It's a fluid thing on the clock. I don't know 256 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 2: it'll happen. Also, we got to play password. We gotta 257 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 2: get inut of that. I also promised zombie Boy from 258 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 2: Lady Gaga. We we go off on these tangents about 259 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 2: other stuff and we never get to the stuff we promised. 260 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 2: So typical of this show.