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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the c l O Chief

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Speaker 1: Love Officer Steve Harvey Karen in Tulsa right to. My

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Speaker 1: husband and I have a lot of phone sex when

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Speaker 1: he's traveling. Last week he called and woke me up

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Speaker 1: at three am, and I didn't know that our five

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Speaker 1: year old had snuck into my bed until my hobby

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Speaker 1: saw her cattle face on my phone. I told her

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Speaker 1: it was just a game. She told my mom about

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Speaker 1: the game. I can't punish her. What do we do? No?

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Speaker 2: Huh what you won't do? That maybe growing on to her?

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: She then told your mommy, Your mama knows him. So

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Speaker 3: let let me show you something. Why are y'all nowadays?

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Speaker 3: Always feel like you got to feel like you're explaining

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Speaker 3: some of your children.

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Speaker 1: Right Where don't come growing up?

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Speaker 3: Where didn't come from? What happened to? Shut yourself? You

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Speaker 3: better not say nothing because how yeah calls? I said,

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Speaker 3: what happened to that?

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Speaker 2: Man? Stop? What do we do? Why?

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what, I tell you what? I bet

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Speaker 3: you better not say nothing. I'd say something that you

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Speaker 3: want to see?

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Speaker 2: What that ad?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's where that at. That's to fix all for

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Speaker 3: that next world?

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Speaker 2: Surely all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Henry and Schomberg, who says, my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: does accounting work part time at her church, but she's

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Speaker 1: never been overly religious. Lately she's been bragging about the

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Speaker 1: preacher and giving the advice that came from him. Is

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Speaker 1: she doing more than the books at church?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: But what in this question gives us enough information to go?

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Speaker 3: Where you going with this? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: She's quoting the pastor.

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Speaker 2: She's gotten off, she's quoting the pastor. Maybe she been

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Speaker 2: paying attention in this service. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Look, I don't she doing count church.

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Speaker 2: Didn't want to give you advice.

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Speaker 3: You know, I ain't overly religious people. It's at the

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Speaker 3: church right now. Yeah, it ain't just your girl, So

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't worry about it one way or another. You know,

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Speaker 3: if it's if it's sound advice, just going to take it.

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Speaker 3: You know, she getting some special counselor from the pastor.

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Speaker 3: It's all to help you.

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Speaker 1: So just you know, a man doesn't want his woman

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Speaker 1: coming home and saying, well the pastor said this, and

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Speaker 1: you know, talking about another man.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well see number one, all your girl did was

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Speaker 3: give her girlfriend the information she ain't got to go

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Speaker 3: in the house and say pastor saying see, but the

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Speaker 3: whole letter. The question in this letter is what is

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Speaker 3: she doing with the pastor where she's getting all this

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Speaker 3: inside information? That's what this is about.

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Speaker 1: Really well, yeah, he wants to know is his girlfriend

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Speaker 1: doing more with the pastor than just keeping a book?

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Speaker 2: You need to cut down? Sign here here and here

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Speaker 2: he look, man, you know your girl better we do

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Speaker 2: what you.

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Speaker 4: Think she so your your answer cee alone.

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Speaker 3: Yew hell, we don't you know how better we do?

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Speaker 3: You tell us what's happening.

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Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna move on to Tiffany there since

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Speaker 1: that one straightened out. Tiffany and Augustus says, I'm married

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Speaker 1: and my husband has a son from a previous marriage.

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Speaker 1: The ex wife and stepdad gave his son a car

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Speaker 1: for Christmas. My husband feels disrespected. I told him that

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Speaker 1: he's overthinking it. Why is he upset at the stepdad

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Speaker 1: for buying.

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Speaker 3: The car because he didn't the stepdad.

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Speaker 2: I bet your son a man at all.

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Speaker 3: Step Man, daddy, look what step faught?

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Speaker 2: Get your car that driveway? You can't fall on this

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Speaker 2: drive You need a ride? Here he buy you a car?

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Speaker 3: For Oh, I understand the father being upset because he

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Speaker 3: got beat to the punch. And maybe the stepfather could

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Speaker 3: be a little bit more affluent. You never know, you know,

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Speaker 3: and maybe he wanted to buy his son his first car.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that could happen, but you know it didn't.

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Speaker 1: All right, So moving on. Last one now, Steve, this

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Speaker 1: is from Prissy, and.

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Speaker 3: He probably the looked at the new step father. No,

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Speaker 3: he can't do nothing with him. That's why he had

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Speaker 3: the house complaining to the white because he can't go

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Speaker 3: over to buy him something else. Let's see what happened. No,

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Speaker 3: we can see what's happening right now. See right there?

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Speaker 1: What else can he buy in my house?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm buying in my house. Yeah? Oh, getting ready?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Last one again, this is from Chrissy and Danbury. Chrissy says,

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Speaker 1: I've been married for seven years and we have three children,

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Speaker 1: and I'm pregnant. Now I asked my husband about Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I asked my husband about getting a vasectomy. He said,

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Speaker 1: what if we get divorced and my new wife wants kids?

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Speaker 1: Like he has one foot out of the door. This

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Speaker 1: is crazy, that was It sounds like your answer.

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Speaker 3: Obviously, slanging is more important to him than anything. So

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Speaker 3: I don't even know why you're in here talking to

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Speaker 3: me about getting myself cut on, because that ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: happ because if something happened to me and you, I

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Speaker 3: got to be able to go somewhere and reproduce.

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Speaker 2: Now, you can't stop me. My job is to multiply.

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Speaker 2: You stop.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna try to You're gonna try to criss cross

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Speaker 3: out the timetable. That ain't what we're doing. I'm here

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Speaker 3: to multiply. I'm the I'm the X on the calculator. Baby,

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Speaker 3: I'm the X factor. I'm times this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we started happenings in my new white

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Speaker 2: little kids. And I ain't gonna be able.

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Speaker 3: To while pregnant. Yeah, dog dog, you better be. I

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Speaker 3: don't think you should go to sleep. It's pregnant on me.

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Speaker 2: Yo.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how you make that statement. And thank

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Speaker 3: you for going to get some shut out not right,

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Speaker 3: Yeah he did. It's a lot of stupid people in

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Speaker 3: this world.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: I had a friend one time told his wife, oh

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Speaker 3: so you screwed Rollo now.

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Speaker 2: Right up to him. And then.

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Speaker 1: We heard about that.

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Speaker 2: I told right in there, I said that to him.

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Speaker 2: I said, all right, now said it with conviction. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so that's right up there with why would I get

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Speaker 2: a second and then my new wife? I get my

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Speaker 2: new wife, won't kid? Thank you, Steve Harbin, Marty show Man.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather be a pastor or a lawyer?

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm crooked. I'm not visiting the sickest shutting end

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Speaker 2: here we go?

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Speaker 3: Oh that on.

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Speaker 2: I ain't coming to my office telling me your problem. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh well you don't need to be a pastor.

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Speaker 1: You know that requires compassion for us.

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Speaker 3: You know, we'll go down there every Sunday, Every Sunday,

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Speaker 3: Shore Jobs

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Speaker 2: Morning, Steve Hay Morning Show coming up right after