Speaker 1: The second date of day. I think there's this big
Speaker 1: misconception that when you meet the one, it's love at
Speaker 1: first sight. Oh, Like, there's an instant attraction, a sudden,
Speaker 1: unspeakable connection there, money's exchanged, and then boom, you're in love.
Speaker 2: Money you know.
Speaker 1: But sometimes, Okay, the truth is the best love stories
Speaker 1: can be the opposite, where they start with disappointment at
Speaker 1: first sight and then make the movies that does. Think
Speaker 1: of the Notebook. She doesn't like him when they first meet.
Speaker 1: In the fact, I think Ryan Gosling tries to hurt
Speaker 1: himself when they first meet. I don't remember him.
Speaker 3: I was drunk on a plane when I watched it,
Speaker 3: so I can't give you the details.
Speaker 1: I'm saying love comes in all different forms. And that's
Speaker 1: what happened for one of our listeners, Candace, who met
Speaker 1: the guy she wants to call to a in an
Speaker 1: unusual way. Candace, how you doing.
Speaker 4: I'm doing great.
Speaker 3: I'm intrigued, Candace. If you say that you met him online, though,
Speaker 3: I'm going to be upset.
Speaker 1: No, no, okay, okay, before we get into how you met.
Speaker 1: What's the guy's name?
Speaker 4: His name is Teddy?
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So how did you and Teddy come
Speaker 1: to be?
Speaker 4: I met Teddy in a parking garage.
Speaker 1: That's my fear.
Speaker 2: Actually she was hiding under his car.
Speaker 1: Excuse me, stories parking garage, Pepper Spray, keep going. What
Speaker 1: happened in this parking garage?
Speaker 4: I was coming off of the elevator and that was
Speaker 4: a guy standing by my car, really really upset.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I mean, how are you feeling? I
Speaker 2: would have been freaking out.
Speaker 4: I was too, and I didn't know if I should
Speaker 4: turn around a little back, but I kept on going
Speaker 4: and he said is this your car? And I said yes.
Speaker 4: So he said, well, you see you parked too close
Speaker 4: to my car. I said, okay, I didn't mean to excuse.
Speaker 2: Okay, he couldn't do the passenger side crawl through so
Speaker 2: many times.
Speaker 1: Okay, so is that when you kissed him? Okay?
Speaker 3: I mean it is a good question, like, at what
Speaker 3: point do you find a guy who's angry at you
Speaker 3: and critiquing attractive.
Speaker 4: I wasn't even thinking at the time, so I just
Speaker 4: pulled out of the space where I was part and
Speaker 4: guess what happened? What I get his bumper moving out of.
Speaker 2: The Alexis is like those are the times I usually
Speaker 2: just leave this morning.
Speaker 1: Did you speed off or did you? Did you stick around?
Speaker 4: I stuck around, okay, And he said, are you kidding me?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: It's got to be rough and so embarrassing.
Speaker 1: I mean, this sounds very romantic. But at what point
Speaker 1: does this turn into like a date.
Speaker 2: Situation or was this it?
Speaker 4: I gave him my business card with some information from
Speaker 4: the insurance company girl, and you know we started talking
Speaker 4: after that on the phone.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so he called you all right?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so we were both kind of venning about how
Speaker 4: we both had bad days that day. That was a
Speaker 4: bad day for me and bad day for him, as
Speaker 4: he stated, yeah, no, and he's apologizing to me. Also
Speaker 4: he did for his anger.
Speaker 3: Mad that's a good sign too. So did you ask
Speaker 3: him out or did he ask you out?
Speaker 4: I asked him out?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, like, how did you preposition that?
Speaker 4: I just was saying, well, since we both had bad
Speaker 4: days and I kind of messed up bumping into your car,
Speaker 4: and I just thought it would be nice, you know,
Speaker 4: maybe we can both go out and have dinner. And
Speaker 4: he said that sounds like a good idea, is.
Speaker 1: A nice meal together. I gotta try that. The next
Speaker 1: time I get into a fender. Are okay, So you
Speaker 1: guys went out to dinner? Then how did that go?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it went okay itself. I guess I had one
Speaker 4: too many margarita and I let something out as I
Speaker 4: was talking about how I was at this same restaurant
Speaker 4: where we were, and that I had hooked up with
Speaker 4: a random guy in the club.
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 3: At the restaurant like like no, no, no, not like that.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: I was at the restaurant with my girlfriend and when
Speaker 4: we left there, we went to a club nearby. But
Speaker 4: the most shocking part of the story is the I
Speaker 4: hooked up at the club that wasn't my boyfriend that
Speaker 4: I hooked up with.
Speaker 1: Yees, Oh, this this is a cheating story that you
Speaker 1: told off.
Speaker 2: By choice.
Speaker 4: I told you I had one too many marguerite.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it sounds like you had six too many
Speaker 2: margarite night since.
Speaker 1: But so, how did you were able to recover after
Speaker 1: admitting this?
Speaker 4: No, we wrapped up the night, okay. Gave me a handshake. Oh,
Speaker 4: I think.
Speaker 2: Nothing might be better. I mean, are you singles now?
Speaker 2: Before we call this guy? I just want to make sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? And so since the end of that
Speaker 1: night after the handshake, have you guys spoken at all?
Speaker 4: No, the weird thing. He was supposed to be in
Speaker 4: touch with me, you know, regarding the insurance stuff, but
Speaker 4: he hasn't done nothing. Oh really No, he was a
Speaker 4: cute guy and we did connect, but before I opened
Speaker 4: my mouth.
Speaker 3: Gosh, it's gonna be a hard one to come back from, right,
Speaker 3: I know. I mean, everybody's made mistakes in relationships before that.
Speaker 2: That part's I know.
Speaker 1: I mean, you may need to go and hit his
Speaker 1: car again, but.
Speaker 2: You know what, that's a little bit.
Speaker 1: Let's play a song. We'll come back. We'll try and
Speaker 1: get your second date up date right after this. Hold
Speaker 1: on Candace. Okay, for a second, I thought Candace called
Speaker 1: us for the wrong segment. She really should have been
Speaker 1: on Busted, where we hear cheating from our significant But no,
Speaker 1: Candace really does want a second date after a one
Speaker 1: night misguided foray into infidelity. Let's call it. You know
Speaker 1: that can happen to anyone, right, Brooke.
Speaker 2: I haven't done it in a very long time, right.
Speaker 5: That's why I know.
Speaker 1: That's why waiting in the parking garage for you.
Speaker 3: As soon as I've never cheated on my husband, but
Speaker 3: you know, like boyfriends, it didn't really I mean where
Speaker 3: the relationships didn't really matter, does it really?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Let's move on, so you support canas I don't.
Speaker 3: I'm just shame it, Like I get it, Candice, like
Speaker 3: I feel you.
Speaker 4: You guys all focus on the wrong thing. That was
Speaker 4: a story that I told a long time ago.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, mine was like mine was when I was
Speaker 2: in college.
Speaker 1: It's not like it's fine now. I think that there's
Speaker 1: anyway After admitting to Teddy that she hooked up with
Speaker 1: the wrong person that wasn't her boyfriend, she now wants
Speaker 1: us to call him and try and help smooth things
Speaker 1: over to maybe get a second date. Now, before we
Speaker 1: call him, is there anything else that you admitted to
Speaker 1: him that we need to know about before we do this?
Speaker 4: No, that was the only thing Okay.
Speaker 1: Okay that she remembers at least because there was a
Speaker 1: lot of Margarita's and I forgot. But we're going to
Speaker 1: find out for sure. I'm ready to dial Teddy's number.
Speaker 1: Are you feeling ready, Candice?
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: Okay, Let's see if he answers and find out what
Speaker 1: he has to say. Here we go, Hello, Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: looking for Teddy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it is just Teddy.
Speaker 1: Hey, Teddy, what's up?
Speaker 4: Man?
Speaker 1: My name is jeff from the radio show Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5: Broken. I never heard of you guys.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, not Broke Brook co host. Ya.
Speaker 5: Hi Teddy, Hey, what is this about? Did I win something?
Speaker 1: Maybe in a way kind of, but I'll tell you, well,
Speaker 1: we don't know for sure yet. This is something we
Speaker 1: do call the second date update, where we help our
Speaker 1: listen is get back in touch with people that they
Speaker 1: went out with after they've been ghosted.
Speaker 5: I haven't been out in a minute, So what's this about.
Speaker 1: Well, you have been a minute.
Speaker 2: You went to dinner recently, right with.
Speaker 1: A woman named Candace.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I know what you're talking about now, I
Speaker 5: get it.
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh did you not consider that a date?
Speaker 6: Ah?
Speaker 5: I mean we were hanging out. I don't know what
Speaker 5: you'll call it?
Speaker 1: Okay, Well you hanging out? You know, sure, we we'll
Speaker 1: call it a hangout too. But the whole, the whole
Speaker 1: point of us doing this is Candace has been trying
Speaker 1: to get a hold of you after she had a
Speaker 1: really nice time with you that night, and she doesn't
Speaker 1: understand why you're not responding to her, especially because you
Speaker 1: guys are supposed to stay in contact after the whole
Speaker 1: fender bender thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she owes you money, right or her interest company does.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, she sure does. But you know, things got
Speaker 5: busy for me. You know, life moved on and we
Speaker 5: had got an interesting time.
Speaker 1: It was cool, interesting interesting time.
Speaker 2: I mean, was there any chemistry were you guys? Were
Speaker 2: you at track? Did the canvas at all?
Speaker 6: I thought she was okay, she was attractive, but it
Speaker 6: wasn't like when you actually earlier was the day that
Speaker 6: was it was something we went out we you know,
Speaker 6: I know she told you how we met. She hit
Speaker 6: my car, Yeah yeah, and I thought she was trying
Speaker 6: to skip on you. At Bill, I say, hey, I
Speaker 6: pay for your dinner. You know, just don't tell anybody
Speaker 6: about the car act.
Speaker 1: I mean that's possible, but yeah, I mean we spoke
Speaker 1: to Candas earlier man, and she told us the whole
Speaker 1: backstory about how you guys met and when you guys
Speaker 1: went out to dinner, and she did bring up that
Speaker 1: there was kind of an awkward moment where she told
Speaker 1: you a story about going to the club, and she
Speaker 1: feels kind of embarrassed about what she admitted to.
Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, I would have told the embarrassed too what
Speaker 5: she said, you.
Speaker 2: Know, yeah, where she cheated on her boyfriend with some dude.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that was actually a big moment for me hearing that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, did the did the attractive level of her drop
Speaker 3: after she told that story?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it wasn't really more about her. It was really
Speaker 5: about more about me.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 5: I came to a big realization that time, like I
Speaker 5: shouldn't be here right.
Speaker 1: Now what she does? What realization are you coming to?
Speaker 5: Well, my girlfriend was at home, and then I realized
Speaker 5: I shouldn't have been out doing what she did.
Speaker 1: You in a relationship, did you know you were on
Speaker 1: a day?
Speaker 3: I don't mean to laugh, I'm sorry, but they of
Speaker 3: it upcoming.
Speaker 5: Like I said, it was just more of a hangout.
Speaker 5: I didn't know I was putting myself in a bad
Speaker 5: situation and being there. You know, she was gonna tell
Speaker 5: me about asked and think of that thought.
Speaker 2: I see why we use the word to hang out.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 5: We weren't going to get married or go down to
Speaker 5: the hole. It was just a hangout.
Speaker 1: Well, hold on a second, you're saying that moment when
Speaker 1: she admitted to cheating. Was a realization for you. What
Speaker 1: were you thinking before that moment.
Speaker 5: I wasn't really thinking of anything. I just wanted to
Speaker 5: go out and have some fun, to hang out. But
Speaker 5: when she told me that story from back in the days,
Speaker 5: I realized that I shouldn't be here right now.
Speaker 3: Wait, So, like I was going to give you the
Speaker 3: benefit of the doubt, like that you thought it was like.
Speaker 2: An insurance meeting something. You know, you were going out
Speaker 2: to have fun.
Speaker 5: I mean it was they have fun, So I knew
Speaker 5: it wasn't gonna be an insurance meeting.
Speaker 2: By Okay, Well that's honest, honest, But that's honest.
Speaker 1: You didn't kiss or anything, did you, right?
Speaker 5: You just oh no, I didn't do that. I didn't
Speaker 5: do that.
Speaker 1: Being honest with us right now, But were you honest
Speaker 1: with Candace? Did Candace know that you had a girlfriend.
Speaker 5: Well, that wasn't supposed to come up. We were just
Speaker 5: hanging out.
Speaker 1: You were trying to hide it from her. It sounds like, well,
Speaker 1: I can't hide it anymore because I gotta let you know, Teddy,
Speaker 1: that Candace has actually been on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and she wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Man, you got shut me up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm kind of shocked and surprised that you didn't
Speaker 4: tell me that you have a girlfriend. We wouldn't have
Speaker 4: went on a date.
Speaker 1: She's calling it a date.
Speaker 5: Man, It wasn't no date. We were just hanging out
Speaker 5: met you, So I was it a date.
Speaker 4: You should have came out and told me you had
Speaker 4: a girlfriend, because we wouldn't have went out. Because you
Speaker 4: know what I call that, Teddy cheating?
Speaker 5: You a cheater, and that was a pot calling the
Speaker 5: kettle black.
Speaker 3: Look at you, I know, but she's not still in
Speaker 3: a relationship.
Speaker 5: You've been cheating before me. Oh I didn't even see you.
Speaker 4: You said you. I heard you. I wasn't dating at
Speaker 4: that time. I told you a story happened back in
Speaker 4: the day.
Speaker 5: That was a.
Speaker 4: Viol And you know what you can do, Teddy for me,
Speaker 4: put an egg in your shoe and beat it.
Speaker 1: Oh that was a dig or somebody's making pancakes today.
Speaker 2: So did you come clean with your boyfriend?
Speaker 3: Then? Right after that hook up and you guys broke
Speaker 3: up immediately because you felt so bad about cheating on
Speaker 3: him at the club.
Speaker 4: I'm not going to talk about that, you know, that's
Speaker 4: all in the yea.
Speaker 1: Let's focus on the present and Teddy, in present day.
Speaker 1: Before you went to dinner with Candace, did you let
Speaker 1: your girlfriend know that you were meeting up with another woman?
Speaker 5: Well, just like Candace said, we're not gonna focus on
Speaker 5: the past.
Speaker 2: We're not gonna focus on Okay.
Speaker 5: Here minding my business.
Speaker 2: You guys called me okay, Well.
Speaker 1: Did you tell her after you went out with Candace
Speaker 1: that you had met up with a woman that's in
Speaker 1: the past.
Speaker 5: You're trying to bring my past in the future. I
Speaker 5: left that alone a long time ago.
Speaker 2: That's what cheating is. Literally currently hooking up with someone
Speaker 2: right now. It's all of your cheating is gonna be
Speaker 2: in the past. There's nothing to tell you know, It's
Speaker 2: how time works.
Speaker 1: Is It's just like about intent. Maybe there was a
Speaker 1: little bit of intent there, and in the court of law,
Speaker 1: that's enough to convince.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, but better out of the doubt, Teddy,
Speaker 3: did it scare you straight?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: Are you not?
Speaker 4: Are you?
Speaker 2: Are you never gonna do that again?
Speaker 5: I'm never gonna do that again. This is in the past.
Speaker 5: There's no remix of the past. I'm just trying to
Speaker 5: mind my business and you guys are calling me about
Speaker 5: something to happen.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, let's forget about the past. Let's let's erase
Speaker 1: our minds about what happened in the past. Let's talk
Speaker 1: about the future. Would you guys like to see each
Speaker 1: other again? Because we'll offer to send you guys out
Speaker 1: on another day and we'll pay for it.
Speaker 2: Can we send him and his girlfriend?
Speaker 1: And I'd like to see two cheaters hook up with
Speaker 1: each other. If two cheaters hook up, then it cancels
Speaker 1: it out.
Speaker 4: You need to shed your mouth. No theater, that's true.
Speaker 2: In present day, that's true.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 5: Well, at leasta she was gonna call me a cheater.
Speaker 5: I should have got something out of that night. I
Speaker 5: should have got something. I get nothing.
Speaker 1: Okay. So it sounds like you are interested in seeing
Speaker 1: her for an anyone. So is it a no?
Speaker 5: Then no, it's no, definitely not.
Speaker 3: All right, good boy, teddy, good boy, You have a
Speaker 3: good light, teddy.
Speaker 1: Okay, she'll see you at the club later tonight.
Speaker 2: All right, in the morning,