WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Accident At First Sight

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of day. I think there's this big

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<v Speaker 1>misconception that when you meet the one, it's love at

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<v Speaker 1>first sight. Oh, Like, there's an instant attraction, a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>unspeakable connection there, money's exchanged, and then boom, you're in love.

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<v Speaker 2>Money you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes, Okay, the truth is the best love stories

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<v Speaker 1>can be the opposite, where they start with disappointment at

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<v Speaker 1>first sight and then make the movies that does. Think

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<v Speaker 1>of the Notebook. She doesn't like him when they first meet.

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<v Speaker 1>In the fact, I think Ryan Gosling tries to hurt

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<v Speaker 1>himself when they first meet. I don't remember him.

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<v Speaker 3>I was drunk on a plane when I watched it,

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<v Speaker 3>so I can't give you the details.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying love comes in all different forms. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what happened for one of our listeners, Candace, who met

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<v Speaker 1>the guy she wants to call to a in an

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<v Speaker 1>unusual way. Candace, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm doing great.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm intrigued, Candace. If you say that you met him online, though,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be upset.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, okay, okay, before we get into how you met.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the guy's name?

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<v Speaker 4>His name is Teddy?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, So how did you and Teddy come

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<v Speaker 1>to be?

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<v Speaker 4>I met Teddy in a parking garage.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my fear.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually she was hiding under his car.

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse me, stories parking garage, Pepper Spray, keep going. What

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<v Speaker 1>happened in this parking garage?

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<v Speaker 4>I was coming off of the elevator and that was

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<v Speaker 4>a guy standing by my car, really really upset.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I mean, how are you feeling? I

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<v Speaker 2>would have been freaking out.

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<v Speaker 4>I was too, and I didn't know if I should

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<v Speaker 4>turn around a little back, but I kept on going

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<v Speaker 4>and he said is this your car? And I said yes.

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<v Speaker 4>So he said, well, you see you parked too close

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<v Speaker 4>to my car. I said, okay, I didn't mean to excuse.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, he couldn't do the passenger side crawl through so

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<v Speaker 2>many times.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so is that when you kissed him? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it is a good question, like, at what

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<v Speaker 3>point do you find a guy who's angry at you

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<v Speaker 3>and critiquing attractive.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't even thinking at the time, so I just

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<v Speaker 4>pulled out of the space where I was part and

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<v Speaker 4>guess what happened? What I get his bumper moving out of.

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<v Speaker 2>The Alexis is like those are the times I usually

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<v Speaker 2>just leave this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you speed off or did you? Did you stick around?

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<v Speaker 4>I stuck around, okay, And he said, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>It's got to be rough and so embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this sounds very romantic. But at what point

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<v Speaker 1>does this turn into like a date.

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<v Speaker 2>Situation or was this it?

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<v Speaker 4>I gave him my business card with some information from

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<v Speaker 4>the insurance company girl, and you know we started talking

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<v Speaker 4>after that on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, so he called you all right?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so we were both kind of venning about how

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<v Speaker 4>we both had bad days that day. That was a

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<v Speaker 4>bad day for me and bad day for him, as

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<v Speaker 4>he stated, yeah, no, and he's apologizing to me. Also

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<v Speaker 4>he did for his anger.

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<v Speaker 3>Mad that's a good sign too. So did you ask

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<v Speaker 3>him out or did he ask you out?

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<v Speaker 4>I asked him out?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like, like, how did you preposition that?

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<v Speaker 4>I just was saying, well, since we both had bad

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<v Speaker 4>days and I kind of messed up bumping into your car,

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<v Speaker 4>and I just thought it would be nice, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe we can both go out and have dinner. And

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<v Speaker 4>he said that sounds like a good idea, is.

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<v Speaker 1>A nice meal together. I gotta try that. The next

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<v Speaker 1>time I get into a fender. Are okay, So you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went out to dinner? Then how did that go?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it went okay itself. I guess I had one

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<v Speaker 4>too many margarita and I let something out as I

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<v Speaker 4>was talking about how I was at this same restaurant

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<v Speaker 4>where we were, and that I had hooked up with

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<v Speaker 4>a random guy in the club.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>At the restaurant like like no, no, no, not like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I was at the restaurant with my girlfriend and when

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<v Speaker 4>we left there, we went to a club nearby. But

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<v Speaker 4>the most shocking part of the story is the I

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<v Speaker 4>hooked up at the club that wasn't my boyfriend that

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<v Speaker 4>I hooked up with.

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<v Speaker 1>Yees, Oh, this this is a cheating story that you

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<v Speaker 1>told off.

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<v Speaker 2>By choice.

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<v Speaker 4>I told you I had one too many marguerite.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it sounds like you had six too many

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<v Speaker 2>margarite night since.

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<v Speaker 1>But so, how did you were able to recover after

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<v Speaker 1>admitting this?

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<v Speaker 4>No, we wrapped up the night, okay. Gave me a handshake. Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing might be better. I mean, are you singles now?

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<v Speaker 2>Before we call this guy? I just want to make sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right? And so since the end of that

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<v Speaker 1>night after the handshake, have you guys spoken at all?

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<v Speaker 4>No, the weird thing. He was supposed to be in

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<v Speaker 4>touch with me, you know, regarding the insurance stuff, but

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<v Speaker 4>he hasn't done nothing. Oh really No, he was a

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<v Speaker 4>cute guy and we did connect, but before I opened

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<v Speaker 4>my mouth.

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<v Speaker 3>Gosh, it's gonna be a hard one to come back from, right,

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<v Speaker 3>I know. I mean, everybody's made mistakes in relationships before that.

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<v Speaker 2>That part's I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you may need to go and hit his

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<v Speaker 1>car again, but.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, that's a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's play a song. We'll come back. We'll try and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date up date right after this. Hold

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<v Speaker 1>on Candace. Okay, for a second, I thought Candace called

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<v Speaker 1>us for the wrong segment. She really should have been

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<v Speaker 1>on Busted, where we hear cheating from our significant But no,

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<v Speaker 1>Candace really does want a second date after a one

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<v Speaker 1>night misguided foray into infidelity. Let's call it. You know

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<v Speaker 1>that can happen to anyone, right, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't done it in a very long time, right.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why I know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why waiting in the parking garage for you.

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<v Speaker 3>As soon as I've never cheated on my husband, but

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like boyfriends, it didn't really I mean where

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<v Speaker 3>the relationships didn't really matter, does it really?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's move on, so you support canas I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just shame it, Like I get it, Candice, like

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<v Speaker 3>I feel you.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys all focus on the wrong thing. That was

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<v Speaker 4>a story that I told a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, mine was like mine was when I was

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<v Speaker 2>in college.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like it's fine now. I think that there's

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<v Speaker 1>anyway After admitting to Teddy that she hooked up with

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong person that wasn't her boyfriend, she now wants

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<v Speaker 1>us to call him and try and help smooth things

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<v Speaker 1>over to maybe get a second date. Now, before we

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<v Speaker 1>call him, is there anything else that you admitted to

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<v Speaker 1>him that we need to know about before we do this?

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<v Speaker 4>No, that was the only thing Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay that she remembers at least because there was a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of Margarita's and I forgot. But we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>find out for sure. I'm ready to dial Teddy's number.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you feeling ready, Candice?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Let's see if he answers and find out what

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<v Speaker 1>he has to say. Here we go, Hello, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking for Teddy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it is just Teddy.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Teddy, what's up?

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<v Speaker 4>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from the radio show Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Broken. I never heard of you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, not Broke Brook co host. Ya.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi Teddy, Hey, what is this about? Did I win something?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe in a way kind of, but I'll tell you, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know for sure yet. This is something we

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<v Speaker 1>do call the second date update, where we help our

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<v Speaker 1>listen is get back in touch with people that they

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<v Speaker 1>went out with after they've been ghosted.

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't been out in a minute, So what's this about.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you have been a minute.

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<v Speaker 2>You went to dinner recently, right with.

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<v Speaker 1>A woman named Candace.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I know what you're talking about now, I

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<v Speaker 5>get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Oh did you not consider that a date?

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<v Speaker 6>Ah?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean we were hanging out. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 5>you'll call it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well you hanging out? You know, sure, we we'll

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<v Speaker 1>call it a hangout too. But the whole, the whole

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<v Speaker 1>point of us doing this is Candace has been trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of you after she had a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice time with you that night, and she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>understand why you're not responding to her, especially because you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are supposed to stay in contact after the whole

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<v Speaker 1>fender bender thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she owes you money, right or her interest company does.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, she sure does. But you know, things got

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<v Speaker 5>busy for me. You know, life moved on and we

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<v Speaker 5>had got an interesting time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was cool, interesting interesting time.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, was there any chemistry were you guys? Were

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<v Speaker 2>you at track? Did the canvas at all?

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<v Speaker 6>I thought she was okay, she was attractive, but it

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't like when you actually earlier was the day that

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<v Speaker 6>was it was something we went out we you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I know she told you how we met. She hit

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<v Speaker 6>my car, Yeah yeah, and I thought she was trying

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<v Speaker 6>to skip on you. At Bill, I say, hey, I

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<v Speaker 6>pay for your dinner. You know, just don't tell anybody

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<v Speaker 6>about the car act.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's possible, but yeah, I mean we spoke

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<v Speaker 1>to Candas earlier man, and she told us the whole

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<v Speaker 1>backstory about how you guys met and when you guys

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<v Speaker 1>went out to dinner, and she did bring up that

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<v Speaker 1>there was kind of an awkward moment where she told

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<v Speaker 1>you a story about going to the club, and she

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<v Speaker 1>feels kind of embarrassed about what she admitted to.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, yeah, I would have told the embarrassed too what

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<v Speaker 5>she said, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, yeah, where she cheated on her boyfriend with some dude.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that was actually a big moment for me hearing that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, did the did the attractive level of her drop

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<v Speaker 3>after she told that story?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it wasn't really more about her. It was really

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<v Speaker 5>about more about me.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>I came to a big realization that time, like I

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<v Speaker 5>shouldn't be here right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now what she does? What realization are you coming to?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, my girlfriend was at home, and then I realized

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<v Speaker 5>I shouldn't have been out doing what she did.

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<v Speaker 1>You in a relationship, did you know you were on

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<v Speaker 1>a day?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't mean to laugh, I'm sorry, but they of

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<v Speaker 3>it upcoming.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I said, it was just more of a hangout.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't know I was putting myself in a bad

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<v Speaker 5>situation and being there. You know, she was gonna tell

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<v Speaker 5>me about asked and think of that thought.

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<v Speaker 2>I see why we use the word to hang out.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 5>We weren't going to get married or go down to

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<v Speaker 5>the hole. It was just a hangout.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, hold on a second, you're saying that moment when

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<v Speaker 1>she admitted to cheating. Was a realization for you. What

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<v Speaker 1>were you thinking before that moment.

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<v Speaker 5>I wasn't really thinking of anything. I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>go out and have some fun, to hang out. But

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<v Speaker 5>when she told me that story from back in the days,

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<v Speaker 5>I realized that I shouldn't be here right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, So, like I was going to give you the

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<v Speaker 3>benefit of the doubt, like that you thought it was like.

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<v Speaker 2>An insurance meeting something. You know, you were going out

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<v Speaker 2>to have fun.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it was they have fun, So I knew

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<v Speaker 5>it wasn't gonna be an insurance meeting.

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<v Speaker 2>By Okay, Well that's honest, honest, But that's honest.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't kiss or anything, did you, right?

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<v Speaker 5>You just oh no, I didn't do that. I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Being honest with us right now, But were you honest

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<v Speaker 1>with Candace? Did Candace know that you had a girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, that wasn't supposed to come up. We were just

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<v Speaker 5>hanging out.

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<v Speaker 1>You were trying to hide it from her. It sounds like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't hide it anymore because I gotta let you know, Teddy,

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<v Speaker 1>that Candace has actually been on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>and she wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Man, you got shut me up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm kind of shocked and surprised that you didn't

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<v Speaker 4>tell me that you have a girlfriend. We wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 4>went on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>She's calling it a date.

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<v Speaker 5>Man, It wasn't no date. We were just hanging out

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<v Speaker 5>met you, So I was it a date.

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<v Speaker 4>You should have came out and told me you had

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<v Speaker 4>a girlfriend, because we wouldn't have went out. Because you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I call that, Teddy cheating?

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<v Speaker 5>You a cheater, and that was a pot calling the

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<v Speaker 5>kettle black.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at you, I know, but she's not still in

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<v Speaker 3>a relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>You've been cheating before me. Oh I didn't even see you.

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<v Speaker 4>You said you. I heard you. I wasn't dating at

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<v Speaker 4>that time. I told you a story happened back in

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<v Speaker 4>the day.

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<v Speaker 5>That was a.

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<v Speaker 4>Viol And you know what you can do, Teddy for me,

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<v Speaker 4>put an egg in your shoe and beat it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that was a dig or somebody's making pancakes today.

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<v Speaker 2>So did you come clean with your boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 3>Then? Right after that hook up and you guys broke

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<v Speaker 3>up immediately because you felt so bad about cheating on

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<v Speaker 3>him at the club.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to talk about that, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 4>all in the yea.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's focus on the present and Teddy, in present day.

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<v Speaker 1>Before you went to dinner with Candace, did you let

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend know that you were meeting up with another woman?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, just like Candace said, we're not gonna focus on

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<v Speaker 5>the past.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not gonna focus on Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Here minding my business.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys called me okay, Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you tell her after you went out with Candace

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<v Speaker 1>that you had met up with a woman that's in

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<v Speaker 1>the past.

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<v Speaker 5>You're trying to bring my past in the future. I

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<v Speaker 5>left that alone a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what cheating is. Literally currently hooking up with someone

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<v Speaker 2>right now. It's all of your cheating is gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>in the past. There's nothing to tell you know, It's

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<v Speaker 2>how time works.

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<v Speaker 1>Is It's just like about intent. Maybe there was a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of intent there, and in the court of law,

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<v Speaker 1>that's enough to convince.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, okay, but better out of the doubt, Teddy,

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<v Speaker 3>did it scare you straight?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you not?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you never gonna do that again?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm never gonna do that again. This is in the past.

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<v Speaker 5>There's no remix of the past. I'm just trying to

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<v Speaker 5>mind my business and you guys are calling me about

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<v Speaker 5>something to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, let's forget about the past. Let's let's erase

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<v Speaker 1>our minds about what happened in the past. Let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>about the future. Would you guys like to see each

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<v Speaker 1>other again? Because we'll offer to send you guys out

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<v Speaker 1>on another day and we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we send him and his girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'd like to see two cheaters hook up with

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<v Speaker 1>each other. If two cheaters hook up, then it cancels

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<v Speaker 1>it out.

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<v Speaker 4>You need to shed your mouth. No theater, that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>In present day, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, at leasta she was gonna call me a cheater.

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<v Speaker 5>I should have got something out of that night. I

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<v Speaker 5>should have got something. I get nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So it sounds like you are interested in seeing

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<v Speaker 1>her for an anyone. So is it a no?

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<v Speaker 5>Then no, it's no, definitely not.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, good boy, teddy, good boy, You have a

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<v Speaker 3>good light, teddy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, she'll see you at the club later tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, in the morning,