1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: The second date of day. I think there's this big 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: misconception that when you meet the one, it's love at 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: first sight. Oh, Like, there's an instant attraction, a sudden, 4 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: unspeakable connection there, money's exchanged, and then boom, you're in love. 5 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 2: Money you know. 6 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: But sometimes, Okay, the truth is the best love stories 7 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: can be the opposite, where they start with disappointment at 8 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: first sight and then make the movies that does. Think 9 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: of the Notebook. She doesn't like him when they first meet. 10 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 1: In the fact, I think Ryan Gosling tries to hurt 11 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: himself when they first meet. I don't remember him. 12 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 3: I was drunk on a plane when I watched it, 13 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 3: so I can't give you the details. 14 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: I'm saying love comes in all different forms. And that's 15 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: what happened for one of our listeners, Candace, who met 16 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:52,959 Speaker 1: the guy she wants to call to a in an 17 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: unusual way. Candace, how you doing. 18 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 4: I'm doing great. 19 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 3: I'm intrigued, Candace. If you say that you met him online, though, 20 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 3: I'm going to be upset. 21 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 1: No, no, okay, okay, before we get into how you met. 22 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 1: What's the guy's name? 23 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 4: His name is Teddy? 24 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So how did you and Teddy come 25 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: to be? 26 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 4: I met Teddy in a parking garage. 27 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,199 Speaker 1: That's my fear. 28 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 2: Actually she was hiding under his car. 29 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: Excuse me, stories parking garage, Pepper Spray, keep going. What 30 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 1: happened in this parking garage? 31 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 4: I was coming off of the elevator and that was 32 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 4: a guy standing by my car, really really upset. 33 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I mean, how are you feeling? I 34 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: would have been freaking out. 35 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 4: I was too, and I didn't know if I should 36 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:47,559 Speaker 4: turn around a little back, but I kept on going 37 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 4: and he said is this your car? And I said yes. 38 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 4: So he said, well, you see you parked too close 39 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 4: to my car. I said, okay, I didn't mean to excuse. 40 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 2: Okay, he couldn't do the passenger side crawl through so 41 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 2: many times. 42 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: Okay, so is that when you kissed him? Okay? 43 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 3: I mean it is a good question, like, at what 44 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 3: point do you find a guy who's angry at you 45 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 3: and critiquing attractive. 46 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 4: I wasn't even thinking at the time, so I just 47 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 4: pulled out of the space where I was part and 48 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 4: guess what happened? What I get his bumper moving out of. 49 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 2: The Alexis is like those are the times I usually 50 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: just leave this morning. 51 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:36,239 Speaker 1: Did you speed off or did you? Did you stick around? 52 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 4: I stuck around, okay, And he said, are you kidding me? 53 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? 54 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: It's got to be rough and so embarrassing. 55 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: I mean, this sounds very romantic. But at what point 56 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: does this turn into like a date. 57 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 2: Situation or was this it? 58 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 4: I gave him my business card with some information from 59 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 4: the insurance company girl, and you know we started talking 60 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 4: after that on the phone. 61 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 2: Oh okay, so he called you all right? 62 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, so we were both kind of venning about how 63 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 4: we both had bad days that day. That was a 64 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 4: bad day for me and bad day for him, as 65 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 4: he stated, yeah, no, and he's apologizing to me. Also 66 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 4: he did for his anger. 67 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,839 Speaker 3: Mad that's a good sign too. So did you ask 68 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 3: him out or did he ask you out? 69 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 4: I asked him out? 70 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, like, like, how did you preposition that? 71 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 4: I just was saying, well, since we both had bad 72 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 4: days and I kind of messed up bumping into your car, 73 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 4: and I just thought it would be nice, you know, 74 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 4: maybe we can both go out and have dinner. And 75 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 4: he said that sounds like a good idea, is. 76 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: A nice meal together. I gotta try that. The next 77 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: time I get into a fender. Are okay, So you 78 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: guys went out to dinner? Then how did that go? 79 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, it went okay itself. I guess I had one 80 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 4: too many margarita and I let something out as I 81 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 4: was talking about how I was at this same restaurant 82 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 4: where we were, and that I had hooked up with 83 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 4: a random guy in the club. 84 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 2: I mean. 85 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 3: At the restaurant like like no, no, no, not like that. 86 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 2: Okay. 87 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 4: I was at the restaurant with my girlfriend and when 88 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 4: we left there, we went to a club nearby. But 89 00:04:56,279 --> 00:05:00,080 Speaker 4: the most shocking part of the story is the I 90 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 4: hooked up at the club that wasn't my boyfriend that 91 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 4: I hooked up with. 92 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: Yees, Oh, this this is a cheating story that you 93 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 1: told off. 94 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 2: By choice. 95 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 4: I told you I had one too many marguerite. 96 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it sounds like you had six too many 97 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: margarite night since. 98 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: But so, how did you were able to recover after 99 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: admitting this? 100 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 4: No, we wrapped up the night, okay. Gave me a handshake. Oh, 101 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 4: I think. 102 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 2: Nothing might be better. I mean, are you singles now? 103 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 2: Before we call this guy? I just want to make sure. 104 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? And so since the end of that 105 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 1: night after the handshake, have you guys spoken at all? 106 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 4: No, the weird thing. He was supposed to be in 107 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 4: touch with me, you know, regarding the insurance stuff, but 108 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 4: he hasn't done nothing. Oh really No, he was a 109 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 4: cute guy and we did connect, but before I opened 110 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 4: my mouth. 111 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 3: Gosh, it's gonna be a hard one to come back from, right, 112 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 3: I know. I mean, everybody's made mistakes in relationships before that. 113 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 2: That part's I know. 114 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: I mean, you may need to go and hit his 115 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,919 Speaker 1: car again, but. 116 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 2: You know what, that's a little bit. 117 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: Let's play a song. We'll come back. We'll try and 118 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: get your second date up date right after this. Hold 119 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: on Candace. Okay, for a second, I thought Candace called 120 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: us for the wrong segment. She really should have been 121 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: on Busted, where we hear cheating from our significant But no, 122 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: Candace really does want a second date after a one 123 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: night misguided foray into infidelity. Let's call it. You know 124 00:06:57,960 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: that can happen to anyone, right, Brooke. 125 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 2: I haven't done it in a very long time, right. 126 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 5: That's why I know. 127 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,840 Speaker 1: That's why waiting in the parking garage for you. 128 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 3: As soon as I've never cheated on my husband, but 129 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 3: you know, like boyfriends, it didn't really I mean where 130 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 3: the relationships didn't really matter, does it really? 131 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. 132 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: Let's move on, so you support canas I don't. 133 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 3: I'm just shame it, Like I get it, Candice, like 134 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 3: I feel you. 135 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 4: You guys all focus on the wrong thing. That was 136 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 4: a story that I told a long time ago. 137 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, mine was like mine was when I was 138 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 2: in college. 139 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: It's not like it's fine now. I think that there's 140 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: anyway After admitting to Teddy that she hooked up with 141 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: the wrong person that wasn't her boyfriend, she now wants 142 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: us to call him and try and help smooth things 143 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: over to maybe get a second date. Now, before we 144 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: call him, is there anything else that you admitted to 145 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 1: him that we need to know about before we do this? 146 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 4: No, that was the only thing Okay. 147 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 1: Okay that she remembers at least because there was a 148 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: lot of Margarita's and I forgot. But we're going to 149 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: find out for sure. I'm ready to dial Teddy's number. 150 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: Are you feeling ready, Candice? 151 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 4: Yes, I'm ready. 152 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: Okay, Let's see if he answers and find out what 153 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: he has to say. Here we go, Hello, Hey, I'm 154 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: looking for Teddy. 155 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, it is just Teddy. 156 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: Hey, Teddy, what's up? 157 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 4: Man? 158 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 1: My name is jeff from the radio show Brook and 159 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. 160 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 5: Broken. I never heard of you guys. 161 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:45,079 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, not Broke Brook co host. Ya. 162 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 5: Hi Teddy, Hey, what is this about? Did I win something? 163 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: Maybe in a way kind of, but I'll tell you, well, 164 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: we don't know for sure yet. This is something we 165 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: do call the second date update, where we help our 166 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: listen is get back in touch with people that they 167 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: went out with after they've been ghosted. 168 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 5: I haven't been out in a minute, So what's this about. 169 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: Well, you have been a minute. 170 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 2: You went to dinner recently, right with. 171 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 1: A woman named Candace. 172 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I know what you're talking about now, I 173 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 5: get it. 174 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 2: Okay, Oh did you not consider that a date? 175 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 6: Ah? 176 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 5: I mean we were hanging out. I don't know what 177 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:24,319 Speaker 5: you'll call it? 178 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: Okay, Well you hanging out? You know, sure, we we'll 179 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: call it a hangout too. But the whole, the whole 180 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: point of us doing this is Candace has been trying 181 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: to get a hold of you after she had a 182 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: really nice time with you that night, and she doesn't 183 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: understand why you're not responding to her, especially because you 184 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 1: guys are supposed to stay in contact after the whole 185 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: fender bender thing. 186 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, she owes you money, right or her interest company does. 187 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, she sure does. But you know, things got 188 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 5: busy for me. You know, life moved on and we 189 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 5: had got an interesting time. 190 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 1: It was cool, interesting interesting time. 191 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 2: I mean, was there any chemistry were you guys? Were 192 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 2: you at track? Did the canvas at all? 193 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:05,319 Speaker 6: I thought she was okay, she was attractive, but it 194 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 6: wasn't like when you actually earlier was the day that 195 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 6: was it was something we went out we you know, 196 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:14,079 Speaker 6: I know she told you how we met. She hit 197 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 6: my car, Yeah yeah, and I thought she was trying 198 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 6: to skip on you. At Bill, I say, hey, I 199 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 6: pay for your dinner. You know, just don't tell anybody 200 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 6: about the car act. 201 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 1: I mean that's possible, but yeah, I mean we spoke 202 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: to Candas earlier man, and she told us the whole 203 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: backstory about how you guys met and when you guys 204 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: went out to dinner, and she did bring up that 205 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 1: there was kind of an awkward moment where she told 206 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: you a story about going to the club, and she 207 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: feels kind of embarrassed about what she admitted to. 208 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, I would have told the embarrassed too what 209 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 5: she said, you. 210 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 2: Know, yeah, where she cheated on her boyfriend with some dude. 211 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, that was actually a big moment for me hearing that. 212 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, did the did the attractive level of her drop 213 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 3: after she told that story? 214 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, it wasn't really more about her. It was really 215 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 5: about more about me. 216 00:10:58,679 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 2: You know. 217 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 5: I came to a big realization that time, like I 218 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 5: shouldn't be here right. 219 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: Now what she does? What realization are you coming to? 220 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 5: Well, my girlfriend was at home, and then I realized 221 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 5: I shouldn't have been out doing what she did. 222 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: You in a relationship, did you know you were on 223 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: a day? 224 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 3: I don't mean to laugh, I'm sorry, but they of 225 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 3: it upcoming. 226 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 5: Like I said, it was just more of a hangout. 227 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 5: I didn't know I was putting myself in a bad 228 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 5: situation and being there. You know, she was gonna tell 229 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 5: me about asked and think of that thought. 230 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 2: I see why we use the word to hang out. 231 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 4: Now. 232 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:35,719 Speaker 5: We weren't going to get married or go down to 233 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 5: the hole. It was just a hangout. 234 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 1: Well, hold on a second, you're saying that moment when 235 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: she admitted to cheating. Was a realization for you. What 236 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 1: were you thinking before that moment. 237 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 5: I wasn't really thinking of anything. I just wanted to 238 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 5: go out and have some fun, to hang out. But 239 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 5: when she told me that story from back in the days, 240 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 5: I realized that I shouldn't be here right now. 241 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 3: Wait, So, like I was going to give you the 242 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 3: benefit of the doubt, like that you thought it was like. 243 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 2: An insurance meeting something. You know, you were going out 244 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 2: to have fun. 245 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 5: I mean it was they have fun, So I knew 246 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 5: it wasn't gonna be an insurance meeting. 247 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 2: By Okay, Well that's honest, honest, But that's honest. 248 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: You didn't kiss or anything, did you, right? 249 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 5: You just oh no, I didn't do that. I didn't 250 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 5: do that. 251 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: Being honest with us right now, But were you honest 252 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: with Candace? Did Candace know that you had a girlfriend. 253 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 5: Well, that wasn't supposed to come up. We were just 254 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 5: hanging out. 255 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: You were trying to hide it from her. It sounds like, well, 256 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: I can't hide it anymore because I gotta let you know, Teddy, 257 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: that Candace has actually been on the other line listening 258 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: and she wants to talk to you. 259 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 5: Man, you got shut me up. 260 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm kind of shocked and surprised that you didn't 261 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 4: tell me that you have a girlfriend. We wouldn't have 262 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 4: went on a date. 263 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 1: She's calling it a date. 264 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 5: Man, It wasn't no date. We were just hanging out 265 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 5: met you, So I was it a date. 266 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 4: You should have came out and told me you had 267 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 4: a girlfriend, because we wouldn't have went out. Because you 268 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 4: know what I call that, Teddy cheating? 269 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 5: You a cheater, and that was a pot calling the 270 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 5: kettle black. 271 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 3: Look at you, I know, but she's not still in 272 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 3: a relationship. 273 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 5: You've been cheating before me. Oh I didn't even see you. 274 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 4: You said you. I heard you. I wasn't dating at 275 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:30,719 Speaker 4: that time. I told you a story happened back in 276 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:31,079 Speaker 4: the day. 277 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 5: That was a. 278 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 4: Viol And you know what you can do, Teddy for me, 279 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 4: put an egg in your shoe and beat it. 280 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:47,199 Speaker 1: Oh that was a dig or somebody's making pancakes today. 281 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 2: So did you come clean with your boyfriend? 282 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 3: Then? Right after that hook up and you guys broke 283 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 3: up immediately because you felt so bad about cheating on 284 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 3: him at the club. 285 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,439 Speaker 4: I'm not going to talk about that, you know, that's 286 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 4: all in the yea. 287 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: Let's focus on the present and Teddy, in present day. 288 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:06,959 Speaker 1: Before you went to dinner with Candace, did you let 289 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 1: your girlfriend know that you were meeting up with another woman? 290 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 5: Well, just like Candace said, we're not gonna focus on 291 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 5: the past. 292 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 2: We're not gonna focus on Okay. 293 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 5: Here minding my business. 294 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 2: You guys called me okay, Well. 295 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: Did you tell her after you went out with Candace 296 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: that you had met up with a woman that's in 297 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: the past. 298 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 5: You're trying to bring my past in the future. I 299 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 5: left that alone a long time ago. 300 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 2: That's what cheating is. Literally currently hooking up with someone 301 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 2: right now. It's all of your cheating is gonna be 302 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 2: in the past. There's nothing to tell you know, It's 303 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 2: how time works. 304 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: Is It's just like about intent. Maybe there was a 305 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: little bit of intent there, and in the court of law, 306 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: that's enough to convince. 307 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, but better out of the doubt, Teddy, 308 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 3: did it scare you straight? 309 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: Right? 310 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 2: Are you not? 311 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 4: Are you? 312 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 2: Are you never gonna do that again? 313 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 5: I'm never gonna do that again. This is in the past. 314 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 5: There's no remix of the past. I'm just trying to 315 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 5: mind my business and you guys are calling me about 316 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 5: something to happen. 317 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, let's forget about the past. Let's let's erase 318 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: our minds about what happened in the past. Let's talk 319 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: about the future. Would you guys like to see each 320 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 1: other again? Because we'll offer to send you guys out 321 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: on another day and we'll pay for it. 322 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 2: Can we send him and his girlfriend? 323 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: And I'd like to see two cheaters hook up with 324 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 1: each other. If two cheaters hook up, then it cancels 325 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: it out. 326 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 4: You need to shed your mouth. No theater, that's true. 327 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 2: In present day, that's true. 328 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: Okay. 329 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 5: Well, at leasta she was gonna call me a cheater. 330 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 5: I should have got something out of that night. I 331 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 5: should have got something. I get nothing. 332 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 1: Okay. So it sounds like you are interested in seeing 333 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 1: her for an anyone. So is it a no? 334 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 5: Then no, it's no, definitely not. 335 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 3: All right, good boy, teddy, good boy, You have a 336 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 3: good light, teddy. 337 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: Okay, she'll see you at the club later tonight. 338 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 2: All right, in the morning,