1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Is dating fun? I think there's two answers there, yes 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: and no, depending on how it's going, on what stage 3 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,239 Speaker 1: you're in. And think about that when I get into 4 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: this second date update, because Madison has reached out in 5 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: Long Beach and she has said that they met at 6 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: a friend's Super Bowl party and they hit it off, 7 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 1: hit it off so much they barely watched the game. 8 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: They exchange numbers. What's the easiest way to exchange numbers? 9 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: I've fumbled through it sometimes, not even I'm talking about 10 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: like even work, Like, Hey, you want to get together 11 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: for a meeting, I'll give me yourself. I think you 12 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: text each other? Is it text each other? One gets 13 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: the number and then you text right away? It's me, Yeah, Hey, 14 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: I put it in my notes, the notes, because it 15 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: seems easier, like I'm trying to be smooth. I'm put 16 00:00:55,720 --> 00:01:00,279 Speaker 1: in my notes. But that's so not efficient. Well, then 17 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: you can click on it and send to the person anyway. Um, 18 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: all right, So they exchange numbers. They've been texting ever since, 19 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: but the guy won't ask her out. Let me get more. 20 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: Madison's actually on the phone here. His name is Jacob Madison. 21 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,960 Speaker 1: Good morning. Why won't he ask you out what's up? 22 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: I honestly have no idea because we got along so well, 23 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: like we like we really hit it off, Like every 24 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: conversation was like slowing. There was no awkward like pauses, 25 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: like he seemed really into me. So I honestly am 26 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: like going crazy. I have no idea why. Well, I'm 27 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: gonna tell you what Tissany's thinking. I'm thinking, don't chase him. 28 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: M I'm gonna tell you then what Tanya's thinking, which 29 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: is he probably is a girlfriend everything. But yeah, you 30 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: know what, that's kind of that kind of is what 31 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: I'm thinking, right, That's what I'm thinking because the fact 32 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: that he's giving you the I'm busy like not a 33 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: good sign. It's strange. Right. By the way, what was 34 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: the super Bowl February twelfth? A long time here? I 35 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: just feel like maybe there's someone else. What are you thinking, Tanya? 36 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,519 Speaker 1: I was thinking, good memory on you for remembering the 37 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: Super Bowl, Sempy twelve a special day, all right, So 38 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: we're gonna see where we can track him down. I mean, 39 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: not much to go on here, but why is he 40 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 1: creating this dialogue with you and then just not asking 41 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: you out? On air with Ryan Seacrest. Okay, so real quick, 42 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: leaning too this. We're in the middle of a second 43 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: date update disaster. Madison met Jacob at a super Bowl party, 44 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: the one that just happened. They hit it off. They 45 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: don't watch the game. They're into each other. They exchanged numbers. 46 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: They've been talking ever since, but he will not make 47 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: the move. He won't even ask her out, and she's 48 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: like wanting him to ask her out. So medisine, I 49 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: have Jacob on the phone. Let me see what we 50 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: can find out. Just be really quiet, you're gonna listen 51 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: in on this. Okay, okay, okay, Jacob, thanks for holding on. 52 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: We're calling about a woman named Madison that you know. 53 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 1: Is that sound familiar? Yeah? So how did you meet Madison? Oh? Uh? Better? 54 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 1: At a super Bowl party one of my friends was 55 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: having and we just kind of started off about talking 56 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: about some food or guacamolea or whatever and then just 57 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: didn't stop talking all night. And what was it you 58 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: talked about about the guacamolea? We just talked about how 59 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: it was like the perfect blend of spices. You know, 60 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: a lot of people put too much tomato or too 61 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: much our way here and stuff, but it was just 62 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: I actually like deal on my guacamole. Have you had that? 63 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 1: I can't say I have. If you do, if you're 64 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: in the guacamolea you do a little like fresh herbs 65 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 1: on top, you can do some deal. Okay, this is irrelevant. Yeah, no, 66 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: I'm being serious. Has the food take right? The reason 67 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: we're calling you is Madison? So when I say that name, 68 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: what do you think? What do you feel? Um? Well, 69 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: she seems pretty cool. Honestly, I'm just kind of feeling 70 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: it out right now. And what are you feeling it 71 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: out for? Well? No, I just say this, but she 72 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: said something when we were talking that kind of set 73 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: up a little bit of a red flag for me. Yeah, no, 74 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: I don't what happened. Um, Well, we were talking and 75 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: she said, yea, that she isn't really friends with a 76 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: lot of girls. She thinks that they're too much trauma. 77 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: So all our friends are dudes, and I don't know 78 00:04:58,160 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 1: those kind of girls. You kind of gotta watch out 79 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: for them, you know, totally. So why did that's? What 80 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: what struck you about that? What bothered you? Well, you 81 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: know there's the girls like that. Yeah, it's just awkward, 82 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: you know, it's like you want to be friends with 83 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: the girls friends, right, you know, if you're in a relationship, 84 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 1: you want to be friends. They're friends. I don't get along. 85 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: But if it's just a bunch of dudes that were 86 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: hanging out with and just her, it's like awkward. I 87 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: don't know who has feelings or who or if there 88 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: is a past with one of them. Are you you're 89 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: like already jealous? Well, not jealous, it's just you kind 90 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: of gotta be wary of those kind of people because 91 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: if you're because there's a girl that's like hanging a 92 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: bunch of guys, you just always around all that like 93 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: competition and you don't know, didn't why not have you 94 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: been out? Have you asked her out? But have you 95 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: made a move? Have you asked throughout? Oh? Not really, 96 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: I just didn't kind of enjoying seems But Jacob, if 97 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: it's on your mind that some of the other guy's 98 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: gonna make the move, you should make the move. Yeah, 99 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 1: you're just assuming all of this that's true. I just 100 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. I've had some bad experiences in the 101 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: past like this. But bro, do you want to go 102 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 1: out with Madison? I do? I? Do? You do want 103 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: to go out with things pretty cool. I think she 104 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 1: seems very cool and then ask her you should ask 105 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 1: her out. She wants to go out with you, and 106 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: she's on the phone right now, Jacob, So let's go, Madison. 107 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 1: Are you hearing this? Oh wow? Yeah, yeah. I honestly 108 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: I can't believe like the things you just said, because 109 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 1: like I of all the things that we talked about 110 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: and we got along with, like this is the thing 111 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: you're concerned about, and that's a little wild to me. Ah, 112 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: that's awkward. Um, I guess it's just I don't know 113 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: if you just like the attention some guys or I 114 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know what it is. No, no, no, 115 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: I I honestly just feel like I click better with 116 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: guys because I've never really been like one to have 117 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: a lot of girlfriends, Like they always just seem to 118 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: be super into like frivolous stuff, and I'm just like 119 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: I'm not into that. So I just prefer hanging out 120 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: with guys, like honestly, we just get along better. So 121 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: it was, yeah, I don't know. Usually much gas experience. 122 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: It's like if a girl does not have friends with 123 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: a lot of girls because not because you don't want 124 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: to hang out with her. It's because like there's something 125 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: wrong with you and they you're putting off a bad 126 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: vibe for them. You know, I'm that doesn't have to 127 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: be the case. I just Jacob, can you ask her out? 128 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: I don't know that Madison wants to go out with 129 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: him at this point? Madison, do you want to go out? Jacob? Honestly, like, 130 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 1: at this point, I'm not really sure anymore. I feel 131 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: like this has like been a waste of your time. 132 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, not a waste of our time. If we 133 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 1: get to a place where you are clear, So I 134 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: guess I need to ask both of you is there 135 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: a date here? Or should we just move on? I 136 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: would actually be willing to fixure out on a date. 137 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: I think that there's a little bit more that we 138 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 1: could explore here. But Jacob, I think you need to 139 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: be a little bit more passionate about it, enthusiastic about it. 140 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: I'm not Madison, but if it were me, I would 141 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: want that. Yeah, you know what, You're right, I think 142 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 1: I do like this girl, and I'm gonna take to 143 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: talk to her. Just let's do this. Let's do honestly, guys, 144 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 1: like it's fine, like, never mind, because I feel I 145 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: feel I'm suddenly feeling like this kind of like like 146 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: I'm desperate all of a sudden, and I'm not that person. 147 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 1: So honestly, guys, I don't I don't need this guy. 148 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: And um, I think I made him out to be 149 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: greater than he really is after one night and like 150 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: this was a mistake. But okay, I know I don't apologize. Okay, Well, 151 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: good n thank you for reaching out, Jacob. Good luck 152 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 1: to you. Uh you swing you miss get another bat? 153 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: So I don't know. He may not swing and still 154 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: miss oh guy, I don't know. I like him so 155 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 1: close minded, but I'll find But how about a little 156 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: bit of excitement and wanting to take someone out to 157 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: get to know? Yeah, I guess alright to I mean 158 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: sleep And I'm sitting here with the microphone. I know, 159 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: come on, Jacob, like we're and he was like yeah, 160 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: but I don't know. I wouldn't want to go out somebod. 161 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: It's not like a little more excited wout like gas 162 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: to take me out. He put her in a box 163 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: from the get go. He already he had his mind 164 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: made up as to what type of girl she was 165 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: not the case. I know, and that's not okay, But 166 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: I don't think he really wanted to go out again. 167 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: I think he was based on his tempo there. I'm 168 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: not so sure he really wanted it that date. All right, Well, 169 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: that sucked. That was good, Okay, that was great.