1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: This is what's trending Jason and kiss. I'm kind of impressed. 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:09,239 Speaker 1: Jason Brown made his picks on Friday, NFL Week ten 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: and your record, and there's one game to go. Eight 4 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: and five, Dad, they can't lose, Parsley, you couldn't lose. 5 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 2: Yes, you couldn't lose. 6 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift will be at the game. Yes, the Bears 7 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: will wear white pants. Yes, Jason's crush of the week. 8 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: Derek Carr will throw two points. That's what I said. Yeah, 9 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: so you had the Bengals on Thursday. No, you had 10 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: the Panthers. Yes, you had the Bears. Hell, no, so bad. 11 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: Those guys all have jobs today that do all the 12 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: Bears jobs. Hopefully not. They're right the four nine ers 13 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: in the Bucks, No, you're the Bucks. Sorry. Chiefs over 14 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: the Broncos. Yes, Builds over the Colts, Yes, Commanders over 15 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: the Steelers. No, Vikings over the Jaguars. Yes, Falcons over 16 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: the Saints, No, Charges over the Titans. Yes, Cardinals over 17 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: the Jets. Yes, Eagles over the Cowboys. Yes, that's another 18 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: bad team. Lions over the Texans. Yes they you guys. 19 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: Eight and one? Yeah, we only lost one? What are we? 20 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry? What are we eight and one? 21 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 2: Oh Jesus, Mary, Joseph, I've been. 22 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: Consistent for years. Okay, it's true, though, that's true. I 23 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: said more nice things about the Lions than I do 24 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: the Bears. And hey, when I am a Dan Campbell guy, 25 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: and I was from day one. Did you guys watch 26 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: you watch that game? Yes to the Caitlin right, well, yeah, 27 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: I fell asleep towards the end those. 28 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 3: Red helmets when the Texans were giving me a headache, 29 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 3: like on the screen, like it was so blurry for 30 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 3: some reason. 31 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: I don't know it was. They were abrasively red and 32 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: the face man was like like glittery red. 33 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 3: I was like, this is Jason, I don't realize you can. 34 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I realize there's red in the Texans is 35 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: red and blue, but like, I didn't realize you could 36 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: just you could just kind of do whatever like pick 37 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: I'm sure they all have to be approved by the NFL. 38 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,119 Speaker 1: But yeah, like that was that was a different red 39 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: that I've ever seen. But that was the Cardinals random. 40 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: What are we doing? Were just making it up as 41 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: we go, so you could go nine and five tonight, 42 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: You've got the Rams over the Dolphins. Nice and then 43 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: your part slay hit. Wow, it's almost like you know 44 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: what you're doing. Could it be like ever the Lions 45 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: and the Chiefs in the Super Bowl? Yeah? No, Are 46 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 1: they like it should have been last year? Yeah? Territories? No, territory. 47 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: Don't they have like territories? It could be Yeah, you're 48 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 1: talking like areas of the country. But yeah, no, anyone 49 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: can play against anyone about divisions. Super Bowl. 50 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 3: The NFC plays the af right. So are they in 51 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 3: the same different the Lions on the NFC, the Chiefs 52 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 3: on the AC So they could Oh, okay, it's. 53 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: The winner of the AFC and the winner of the 54 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 1: NFC that meet in the Super Bowl. And this year 55 00:02:57,080 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 1: where is it? It's in New Orleans. No lack a lot. 56 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: Isn't there a lot? They have it there a lot more. 57 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: It's not fair, guys. Just Veterans Day today and the 58 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: millions across the US are commemorating veterans, a federal holiday 59 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:18,679 Speaker 1: to honor both active and former US service members. Many 60 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: government institutions, banks, and schools will be close today. Also 61 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: a bunch of free stuff for veterans all over the place, 62 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: so different retailers and restaurants as a token of thank 63 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: you for your service and sacrifice. And we at the 64 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: frend show thank you, yes, for your service and sacrifice. 65 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 1: And what did the Styta Constitution always give it up 66 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: to members of the military active and retired. 67 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: Absolutely shall get ready. 68 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, well I think she's been ready. Yeah, already did that. 69 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. A flight carrying the Auburn men's basketball team 70 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 1: had to make an emergency landing on Friday after players 71 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: on the airplane apparently got into some kind of a fight. 72 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: The plane carrying the aub men's basketball team had to 73 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: declare an emergency in land after horse playe from some 74 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: of the players. The plane was in the air for 75 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: about forty five minutes on Friday as the team was 76 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: going to face Houston. However, after several players got into 77 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 1: each other's faces and were yelling, the plane turned around 78 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: went back to Alabama. I guess on Auburn, Alabama. That's 79 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: where the school is. One of the planes pilots described 80 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: the incident as a fight and said the two players 81 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: got into an altercation. No punches were thrown. Needed. Player 82 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: traveled to Houston and the team got on a later 83 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: flight on Friday. They went on to beat number four 84 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: Houston on Saturday, seventy four to sixty nine. So I 85 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 1: don't know if it was a real fight, if they 86 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: were screwing around or what. But anyway, oh yeah, that. 87 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 4: Must be that that is Rediklous. So I was the 88 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,799 Speaker 4: coach everybody needs. They would still be running right now. 89 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 1: Well, I don't even know how that happens. Like these 90 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 1: are I mean, I know they're like me young, but 91 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: still call it like turning? What wastng right? 92 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 2: Like this is not a car, bro We're in the sky, right, 93 00:04:59,440 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 2: We're going. 94 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: To a what are you doing? Yeah? And now it's 95 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: at the time like stop. Yeah. More than half of 96 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 1: the monkeys that were bred for medical research that escaped 97 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:12,359 Speaker 1: from a compound in South Carolina have been recovered. But 98 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: this is like a real life nightmare. It was like 99 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: deranged monkeys that had been messed with at the DNA 100 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: molecular level escaped from their laboratory. Twenty four of these 101 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 1: monkeys were captured on Sunday, a day after forty three 102 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 1: of the monkeys escaped. 103 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 3: I guess someone total on, someone's got one keeping it 104 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 3: as a path. 105 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: Well, you weren't supposed to do that. Someone trying. I 106 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: guess they they've been messing with these animals, and I 107 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: don't like that, but you know, whatever's going on with 108 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: these things, they were like, hey, don't don't like, don't 109 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: talk to them, don't go up to them, like call 110 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: the cops, like let them do their deal. Veterinarians have 111 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: been examining the animals, and initial reports indicate they're in 112 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: good health. The monkeys made a break for it. I 113 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: guess this was last Wednesday after an employee at the 114 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: facility didn't fully lock the door and she fed and 115 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: checked on them. So you were fire. But I guess 116 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: he's just more like nice monkeys, you know, because I 117 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: told you last week they were doing something with their Yeah, 118 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. Anyway, Americans are dooms spending, and that's 119 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: trending this morning. There's been an increase in the number 120 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: of consumers who cope with feelings of anxiety by doom spending. 121 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: You guys do this, do you guys get anxious and 122 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: then spend money? 123 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 5: Yeah? 124 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah. I'm on a firm. 125 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 6: I'm on afterpay everything just because I'm like, I want 126 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 6: to spend money and buy things. 127 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 2: It's not going to save that audio money. 128 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 6: And you think that has to do with anxiety. I 129 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 6: think so because I've never bought that stuff. I feel 130 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 6: like you've always been that way, you think so. I 131 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 6: feel like you've been broke since the damn the chain. 132 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 4: No, I did not buy a chain, but I buy 133 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 4: things for like myself, the baby, and now Amazon sends 134 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 4: me recommendations. 135 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 1: Do you get those? 136 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 2: So now I must have it? It's recommended I must have. 137 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: I've become a sucker for these, like Instagram clothing ass Yes, yes, 138 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: I don't know why, but like I've got I'm buying 139 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: like random sweaters now, like I bought what it's made 140 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: out of? Like what the hell I see yesterday? It's 141 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: made out of oyster shells? I don't I don't even. 142 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: That's not why I bought it. I bought it because 143 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to sweat sweatshirt or whatever. But I guess 144 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: they're like grinding down oyster shells now and making fabric out. 145 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: I don't know what they held. That was not why 146 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: I bought it. It's just a fun fact that you 147 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: should know. I don't know what, because yeah, but someone it. 148 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: Every now and again, I'll get one of these things 149 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:35,679 Speaker 1: and I'll be like, this was cheap and it's not bad, 150 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: like it's like it holds up whatever. You're the one 151 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: on Fashion Nova and Timu and whatever else. 152 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 2: Excuse me, she is got. 153 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 4: She by cheap sweater. Sometimes you have to do you 154 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 4: at least read the reviews. Do you see the people 155 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 4: try it on? 156 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: Well? Yeah, but I don't know if I trust a 157 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: review because you can AI can't. They make reviews fake too. 158 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 4: But you can see people now try that fits on, 159 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 4: like in your size. 160 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. Some I would say, one out of 161 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: five times, whatever it is, I'm not like prolifically buying 162 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: this stuff, But one out of five times it'll show 163 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: up and I'm like, this is like terrible. But the 164 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: other times I'm going, this looks like the same thing 165 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: that I would have bought it in a much more 166 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: expensive store with a different logo on it. I don't 167 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: know anyway. Doom spending is the practice of spending money 168 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 1: to sue the fears about broader issues like politics and 169 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: the economy. Harris poll found that gen Z and millennial 170 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: consumers are more likely to say that it's better to 171 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: treat themselves now rather than hold off for the future. 172 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: That feels like it could change at any moment. See, 173 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 1: I'm kind of the opposite, Like I have spending guilt 174 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: buyers remorse over almost everything I buy. I buy it, 175 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: I got didn't need that almost instantly, and so like 176 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: I do the opposite, Like if I think something bad's 177 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: going to happen, then I don't spend money on anything 178 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: because I'm like, I gotta have money because this thing 179 00:08:56,640 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: might happen. So I can't spend it because what I'm 180 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: might need to eat. You know, I might monkeys might 181 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: come and take all my stuff, and I might need 182 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,199 Speaker 1: to buy me least you could eat that sweater made 183 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: out of oysters. Well, the good part of the wist 184 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: already gone. It's almost less as damn it. Where's a 185 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: little oyster? Get me some saltine crackers? Eat the sweater? 186 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:24,319 Speaker 1: I could? Yeah, Experts said the doom spending post is 187 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: a danger to consumers long term financial health. So how 188 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: do you curb it? Awareness is the first part. I'm 189 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,559 Speaker 1: plucking and taking a step back. The other thing I 190 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: noticed is that if I really want like a thing, 191 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: if I'm thinking about it after like a week, then 192 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: I should buy it. Yes, but a lot of times 193 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 1: I'll look at a thing I want that and then 194 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: I don't buy it, and then a week later I 195 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 1: don't even remember what I wanted, so that I didn't 196 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: need it, right, you know what I mean? Like I'll 197 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: be like, I want to do this, and then I 198 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: if I don't. If if a week later I can't 199 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: remember what I wanted to do, then I guess I 200 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: didn't need to do it. Or if like three or 201 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 1: four days later, I'm still thinking about it, well, then 202 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: I go by it. 203 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 2: That's right. I like that? 204 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: You like that? Yeah? Yeah, And a Dodgers fan says 205 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 1: he was fired for going to the championship parade. So 206 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: the guy's been canned After calling out sick to party 207 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 1: at the Dodgers Championship celebration, the guy was given a 208 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: letter of termination that stated that he had been seen 209 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: at the Dodgers World Series parade. The now former employees 210 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: accusing his boss of being a Yankees fan, and that's 211 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: the root of the issue. The guy posted his termination 212 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: letter on Reddit, and the message has since gone viral. 213 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: It turns out that a regular at the business tattled 214 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: on this guy when he saw him there. Show me 215 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 1: the proof there, Like when the Cubs won the World 216 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: Series in twenty sixteen. I don't think anybody was worse. 217 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: They was off. Yeah, I don't think anybody wants to win. 218 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,200 Speaker 1: I mean, it's like point now the Dodgers. That's two 219 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: in a row, isn't there how they won? 220 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 7: They won the. 221 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 1: Okay, so they so they win semi regularly. I don't 222 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: know if you haven't if you have a sick day 223 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 1: of vacation day, I don't know why you can't take 224 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: it for that. 225 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 2: You're not sick. 226 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: You don't know that this man had the sniffles. I 227 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know if you had the sniffles. 228 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: I have no idea dragon here. I am maybe have 229 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: some you know, he had a taco bell or something, 230 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: and then he he pooped himself. He was just getting 231 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:22,679 Speaker 1: some fresh air, had to take a walk and ended 232 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: up the brain. I mean, I feel like stuff like that, 233 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 1: there's only so many in your lifetime. So, but I 234 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 1: don't know if you should get fired for it. I 235 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: guess you can't call him sick for it. I don't know, right, 236 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: I don't know National Sunday Day, of course, it's Veterans 237 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 1: Day to day as well. Sunday like ice cream Sunday 238 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 1: Sunday I was like, it's a Monday, bro, Sunday. 239 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 5: Nay. 240 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:59,559 Speaker 2: What did you say she's about to beat man Sunday Day? 241 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: I honestly. 242 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 2: Said, upset. 243 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: We don't celebrate that today. It's not the wrong. The 244 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: entertainment report is a fresh show. It's all right. The 245 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: honorable is here, Your honor take it away. 246 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 4: All right, let's get into the courtroom. This one says, hey, 247 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 4: ki KEI. My name is Ashley. I've been dating my 248 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 4: boyfriend Kevin for five years now. He has two little 249 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 4: sons from a previous relationship that I love in street 250 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 4: like my own, but of course I've always wanted a 251 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 4: wedding in kids of my own. At our second year 252 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 4: of dating, he made a promise to me that by 253 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 4: year four we'd be married and expecting a baby. 254 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: But year four is long and gone. 255 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 4: So a few months ago, I made the decision to 256 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 4: stop my birth control, and I'm now pregnant with our 257 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 4: first child. When I told him the news, he said, 258 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 4: I thought you were on birth control, So that obviously 259 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 4: crushed me, but he accepted it and we worked through it. 260 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 4: Fast forward to our baby shower last weekend, where his 261 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 4: mom made a toast in front of all of our 262 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,679 Speaker 4: family and guests and said congratulations on trapping my son. 263 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: Whoa, and then they had laughed. 264 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 4: I was crushed. I can't believe that he told his 265 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 4: mother that I trapped him. I am the one that's 266 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 4: trapped in a five year relationship with no commitment from 267 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 4: her son. I cried in the car about it and 268 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 4: asked him to confront his mom about her comment, but 269 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 4: he still hasn't. So now I'm avoiding all contact with 270 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 4: his mother and I don't plan on allowing her to 271 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 4: see our son when I deliver. 272 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 2: Am I wrong? 273 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 4: No, Ashley girl, congratulations on the baby. But honey, I 274 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:57,840 Speaker 4: don't think you need to be mad at his mother. 275 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 4: I think you should be mad with your man. I 276 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 4: feel like your anger is a little bit displaced because 277 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 4: you know, he told her that comment obviously, but that's 278 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 4: truly how he feels. And another thing is I am 279 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 4: all for my body, my choice, you know, as a woman. However, 280 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 4: I don't think is right to stop your birth control 281 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 4: without talking it over with your partner. 282 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 1: Yeah you can't do that, I'm sorry. But if that's 283 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:25,640 Speaker 1: the agreed upon method for preventing pregnancy and you just 284 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: stop right, then you I'm not going to use the 285 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: word trap, but you know what you're doing because you're 286 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: not telling the other person to use any preventative method. 287 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: So you know that the possibility of you getting pregnant 288 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: it has now is exponentially higher. That's something that and 289 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: you could argue, well, you know, I mean a guy 290 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: could take this method of that method, not if he 291 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: doesn't know, right. And again, if you have an adult 292 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: conversation and you sit down and you say, hey, this 293 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: is what we're gonna do. We're gonna use this method 294 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: of that method, and you guys agree on that together, 295 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 1: then one person cannot you change it up right and 296 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: not have that conversation so that again, I'm not gonna 297 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: use the word trapped. 298 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 2: Well what. 299 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 1: Else are you gonna call a situation where you stop 300 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: doing something to prevent pregnancy and don't tell the other 301 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: person who then doesn't stop doing anything either. 302 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 4: Right, And you could play devil advocate and say, you know, 303 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 4: he did promise her at year four they would be 304 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 4: married and expecting. It's now year five, he's made no 305 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 4: moves on the engagement and so have that conversation too. Well, 306 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 4: that's true, but she clearly took matters into her own hands, 307 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 4: and now they have a baby on the way, and 308 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 4: so actually, yeah, I don't think it's his mom's issue, honey. 309 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 4: I think you are wrong, sadly, and I know you're pregnant, 310 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,239 Speaker 4: so don't get emotion. I'm sorry, sorry, sorry. 311 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: Well, and you can't just go get pregnant because the 312 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 1: person who you want to be more official with or 313 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: more you build more of a foundation with, hasn't proposed 314 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: to you people try this thing. It's like, well, and 315 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm not saying everyone doesn't on purpose, but it's like, uh, well, 316 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: now we have this kid together, so that you know, 317 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: now we're like god to right. Yeah, now, well we 318 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: may as well get married now because we you know, 319 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 1: we've taken one additional step to sort of I don't 320 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: know what the word is. I'm looking for create a 321 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: human well, well, to solidify this relationship. Yeah, like in 322 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: perpetuity forever. But you guys with the jury eight five, five, five, nine, 323 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: one one three five, what say you? Who's in the 324 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: wrong here? I'm gonna go with the dude needs to 325 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 1: he probably should have followed up on his promise, But 326 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: I'm also gonna go with she can't really act like 327 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 1: a victim in this situation, because she knew exactly what 328 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: she was doing when she stopped taking birth control. What 329 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 1: would be the other I mean, I suppose you could argue, well, 330 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: she stopped taking birth control for some other health reason. Okay, 331 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 1: well then have that conversation exactly, whatever the reason is, 332 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: had that conversation. 333 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 4: You have to share there with your partner. And she 334 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 4: mentioned in this in this letter that you know, she 335 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 4: feels like she's trapped in a relationship with no commitment. Honey, 336 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 4: you're not trapped. You can leave whenever you want. I know, 337 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:06,159 Speaker 4: you may be attached to his other sons, you know, 338 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 4: his children, you may have a relationship with his family, 339 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 4: but you are not trapped. 340 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 3: Honey, you can leave. Yeah, she ain't got the relationship 341 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 3: with the family no more. 342 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 2: Oh man. 343 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody's thinking it. Oh yeah, everybody knows. That's what 344 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 1: everybody And it's hard not to. It's hard not to 345 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: because again, if you guys, if you're having a responsible 346 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 1: physical relationship with someone and you had a conversation about it, 347 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 1: and then you know, if the rules changed, then everyone 348 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 1: needs to know. Otherwise, why does only one person know? 349 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, And this is how you end up with men 350 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 4: who leave the relationship and you know he never wanted 351 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 4: to maybe he never wanted more kids with you, or 352 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,120 Speaker 4: he never wanted wanted more keys. 353 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 3: Did promise he did? He did say, won't get married 354 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:57,679 Speaker 3: and have kids. Bru It's like a pinky promise. 355 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: I mean, not again, I don't mean to. This isn't 356 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 1: all her fault by any means, but like I never 357 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 1: understand why when things aren't going someone's way, it's like, well, 358 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:09,400 Speaker 1: let's just throw a kid into this. 359 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 2: Right, that'll fix it, right, Like. 360 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 1: More stress, more responsibility. You know, in this particular case, 361 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:19,399 Speaker 1: he could take the position that he was deceived. Again, 362 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 1: when you know, when we're all being adults and and 363 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:23,880 Speaker 1: we're doing these sorts of things, this is the risks 364 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:25,679 Speaker 1: that we take. But when we think the risk is 365 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 1: one percent, and now the risk is much higher, and 366 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:33,919 Speaker 1: nobody told me about that. Like that's not fair either, Jessica, Hi, 367 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, good morning. Hey, what do you want 368 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: to say? Peaky's cord? Hi? 369 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 7: Everyone, By the way, I just wanted to say that 370 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 7: technically speaking, the mother. 371 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 1: In lawson have said that because I feel like it 372 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:49,360 Speaker 1: was inappropriate. 373 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 5: However, the lady and the relationship isn't the wrong because. 374 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,640 Speaker 4: Yes, although you may have promised her that they're going 375 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:00,439 Speaker 4: to have you know, kids and mayor be and everybody 376 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 4: the fourth year. 377 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,440 Speaker 5: However, as time progresses, and. 378 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 7: I really should sometimes things change, feelings change, you know, 379 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 7: and maybe he changed his mind, or maybe he wants 380 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 7: to wait a little bit longer and he's just not. 381 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 2: Ready, you know. 382 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 7: Like I've said things in my path and my poss 383 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:18,360 Speaker 7: relationship that I didn't feel I would have done by 384 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:20,159 Speaker 7: a certain time that I promised, you know. 385 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 4: So no, yeah, she should have definitely involved him in 386 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 4: that decision. 387 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:26,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm really not trying to put this all on 388 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: the woman because he didn't live up to his word, 389 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: but like, I don't. 390 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:30,919 Speaker 2: Know that is true. 391 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 1: It's hard to look at this and say her response 392 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 1: to this was to get pregnant without telling him, essentially right, 393 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 1: because again, if you just for no other reason, but 394 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:43,360 Speaker 1: I'm just going to get off birth control, to get 395 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 1: off birth control and not tell anybody you're trying to 396 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:49,360 Speaker 1: get pregnant, right, absolutely, so maybe that kind of decision 397 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: making is how we got here. Again, I'm not blaming 398 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 1: this all on her, I'm just creating. I'm just presenting 399 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:58,120 Speaker 1: an alternative perspective here, which is that is the best 400 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: decision to make now. And so if you making decisions 401 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 1: like that all the time, you know, it's a little 402 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:08,719 Speaker 1: bit uh deceptive. Oh yeah, it's a lot deceptive actually, 403 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 1: And I get it. 404 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,400 Speaker 4: As a woman, we have a clock that you all 405 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 4: don't have, you know, And she wanted kids. She wants 406 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 4: kids by a certain age, and she wants to start 407 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,360 Speaker 4: her life. And maybe in her mind she's like, I'm 408 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 4: just gonna take matters into my own hands. 409 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: But Suss is so wrong. I know you can't. You 410 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 1: can't do that, like you but. 411 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 2: We're on a clock, damn it, y'all need to help us. 412 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 1: There's just but there are so many layers. It's just 413 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: so many layers of deception. 414 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:33,439 Speaker 5: It is. 415 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,159 Speaker 3: But then she got to do with all those consequences 416 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 3: she started it. You know what I'm saying, Her mom 417 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 3: saying that is wrong, but I mean. 418 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 1: It's the truth. It's the truth. Yeah, you know that's 419 00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: what they're all saying behind that family group. Chech gotta 420 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: be wild too, all right, it's crazy. I've heard of 421 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 1: this sound the name before, where it's like we're not 422 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:57,199 Speaker 1: gonna have kids, we're not gonna have kids when I 423 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: canna have kids. We decided this together. We had the conversation. 424 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:03,280 Speaker 1: Not one person decided. We decided, and then it comes 425 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: up again and it's like, but we decided, and then 426 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, there's a kid yep, and it's like, 427 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: I hate, I hate to do that. I hate to 428 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,439 Speaker 1: put blame on anybody. It was like a you know, 429 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 1: it's not a problem solver, it's not no Adriana, Hi, 430 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. Hey what do you want to say? 431 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 7: Kiky scored, Well, two things, as women, we know what 432 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 7: we do when we know go on bar control. So 433 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,119 Speaker 7: she knew the concept, like she knew what she was 434 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 7: doing when she did that. And second of all, who 435 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 7: knows if he like I know, he said four years 436 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 7: that they'd be married and have kids, But how does 437 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 7: she know, like there's no financial problems or something like 438 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 7: that that's going on that he hasn't done that yet, right, Yeah, 439 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,120 Speaker 7: you know what I mean, Like you have to look 440 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 7: at both, Like she knew darn well what she was doing. 441 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 1: She let's call it what it. 442 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 7: She kind of does track them because you know, you 443 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 7: you you know what's going to happen when you get 444 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:56,119 Speaker 7: rid of your first control. 445 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Adriana, thank you, have a good day you too. 446 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,719 Speaker 1: Someone texted seven O Waight, she's holding him to a 447 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: promise that he made three years ago. She should have 448 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 1: had the discussion year four, not wait an extra a 449 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 1: year and bring the baby on him. She's wrong. Yeah, 450 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, don't. I don't think you hold 451 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 1: someone to a promise by creating another human use again, 452 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: we got to think about the child's life here. What 453 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,440 Speaker 1: if he's like, yo, I feel trapped. You didn't communicate 454 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: with me. This is here, and I don't want anything 455 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: to do with you anymore. Well, now you're bringing a 456 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: kid into that. And again, I'm not putting it all 457 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: on her, but it is one of those disproportionate things 458 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 1: in relationships where there isn't necessarily the same equivalent for men. Right, 459 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,679 Speaker 1: Like I can I can use protection. There's a lot 460 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: of things I can do. I can get a vasectomy, 461 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: I can do all that, but like, there isn't a 462 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 1: pill for me to take. So if that's the method 463 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 1: that we decide we're going to use, then you're gonna 464 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: you gotta do it. Yeah, like and again, and if 465 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 1: I just say like you got to take the pill 466 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 1: because I don't know what I'm gonna do whatever I want. 467 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: Well that no, I mean, if you sit down and 468 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 1: have an adult conversation, say here's the method that we're 469 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 1: going to use, and it's to say I did collectively 470 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: that that's the method, then you gotta do it. And 471 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: if you just stop, well then I think I have 472 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 1: every right to feel betrayed, right, which doesn't negate him 473 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: not following up on his stuff. But I again, I 474 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 1: come back to the same person that's gonna just unilaterally 475 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 1: stop taking birth control is the same person's not getting 476 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 1: proposed to. But you can't live off like a promise. 477 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 3: That's like you're going off someone's word, like, oh, in 478 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 3: four years, it's gonna happen. 479 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 1: Then we all get lied to all the time. I 480 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 1: promise my kid everything. I never I've never followed through 481 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 1: on any of it. 482 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 2: That's a surprise. 483 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:46,919 Speaker 1: Following through. Hey Lava, Hi, by Hi, good morning. What 484 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 1: do you want to say? This is a very this 485 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 1: is a very messy one. 486 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 7: I was gonna say that I feel like it is 487 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,679 Speaker 7: definitely baby trapping because I know what's means to her. 488 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 3: But I feel like there was. 489 00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 1: A conversation that had to be had between the both 490 00:23:59,480 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 1: of them. 491 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 7: He did promise in four years that they were gonna 492 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 7: get married or whatever was going to happen. 493 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 1: I feel like he had she had to speak to 494 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 1: him and be. 495 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 5: Like, Okay, you're not pulling up in your promise. 496 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 3: I'm either going to leave you or you know, we 497 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:11,920 Speaker 3: need to have a conversation. 498 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 7: But this was This was not the way she had. 499 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 1: To take things like this is. Honestly, I don't get 500 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,119 Speaker 1: long term consequences as well, because if she's going to 501 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 1: do this, let's say he's okay with it, but at. 502 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 5: A certain point he's gonna he might get. 503 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 3: Like resentment towards the child or even to more. 504 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: You know. 505 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 7: I just feel like this was a whole wrong situation 506 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 7: Like this is now where she had to take hold. 507 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 1: I'll never understand when people throw a child into an 508 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: already tumultuous situation. It's like that is very unlikely to 509 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: bring you together permanently. It is likely to cause more 510 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 1: stress and more resentment and more confusion. 511 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 2: The key right right. 512 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: The kid has nothing to say about it, of course, 513 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 1: have a good day, Tito. What's up, Tito? How you doing? Hey? Man, 514 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 1: how do I even recap this kiky scort? So this 515 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: woman uh waiting for Yeah, was waiting for a ring. 516 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: It's been four years. The dude said it would take two. 517 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 1: That wouldn't happen, And all of a sudden, now she's 518 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: pregnant because she decided without telling him to pull birth control, 519 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 1: and now his family is accusing her of trapping him. 520 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 1: She's still not engaged, and everybody seems a little confused here. 521 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,159 Speaker 1: And I guess I think she kind of opened herself 522 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,119 Speaker 1: up to this criticism. To be really honest, what do 523 00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 1: you think? 524 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 5: I just think that he's just trying to keep her around. 525 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 5: If he was really committed, they would have done something 526 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 5: like I don't know it. That's what it sounds like 527 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 5: to me. He's broken promises, you know. She he keeps 528 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 5: telling her, you know, one more year, one more year, 529 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,640 Speaker 5: and then the year never comes it. He's not committed, 530 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 5: He's not fully committed. 531 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 1: Right, So have a baby. Yeah, right, let's throw a 532 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 1: kid into this. Thank you che though. Hey Nicole, how 533 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 1: you doing? I'm good, Hey, Nicole, good morning, Welcome to 534 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 1: the Freend Show. What do you want to say? 535 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 7: I wanted to say, what if the roles were reversed 536 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 7: and he agreed to have a family, but he had 537 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 7: secretly had of a sephony. That's not fair. 538 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 5: One person doesn't get to choose family planning no matter 539 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 5: what we promis. 540 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree. So yeah that would be 541 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: but he didn't do that. But yeah, you're right, that 542 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 1: would be. No different is a dude, you know, saying 543 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: I'm just going to go handle this and not tell 544 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 1: you about it, and now the decision has been made. 545 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 4: Sorry, because I feel like sometimes maybe maybe as a 546 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 4: I'm trying to defend her a little bit, but like 547 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,439 Speaker 4: as a woman, maybe she thought like, well, I'm the 548 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 4: one that has to carry the baby, and you know, 549 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 4: I'm the one that's going to take care of the 550 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 4: baby majority and I'm the one in the relationship. So 551 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,199 Speaker 4: maybe she thought like, I can make this decision on 552 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:42,479 Speaker 4: my own. But it's not right. 553 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,439 Speaker 1: You can't. You cannot. Again, you want to raise the 554 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: child on her own, and I cannot change the rules. 555 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 1: And then again, if a dude, and thank you, Nicole, 556 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 1: have a great day. I'm glad you called. 557 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to show a little compassion. Thank Yeah, 558 00:26:58,840 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 2: it is wild. 559 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 1: It is just ignorant and he's like, there's no conversation 560 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 1: and he's doing whatever he wants and he's not being 561 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 1: considerate of you, and it's kind of like your problem 562 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 1: kind of thing. Well, then you know, I shame on you, 563 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,199 Speaker 1: and accidents happened. But if you again, I've said it 564 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:15,919 Speaker 1: like ten times. If you guys are gonna say, like 565 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: in a very adult, mature way, hey, here's what we're doing, 566 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden you just don't do 567 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 1: it anymore, then I think you're opening yourself up to 568 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 1: people being like, damn, what was your motivation here? Because 569 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 1: what else could it be? Right, if it's a health thing, 570 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: like I don't know, I don't like taking the pill, 571 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 1: and or I don't like the IUD whatever it is, 572 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 1: and then again that's one thing. But then you got 573 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 1: to tell your partner. You got to say, hey, look, 574 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: I don't like the way I feel on this stuff. 575 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: I'm not going to take it. Heads up, you know, 576 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 1: don't be out of here suiting up the club, right, 577 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 1: don't you doing your thing? Because it might work, But 578 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 1: when you don't tell anybody, yeah, I don't like it. 579 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,640 Speaker 1: I don't like it. Kicking the Entertainer Report trending story 580 00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,639 Speaker 1: is in fun fact all next, the French show is 581 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:00,639 Speaker 1: back in two minutes.