WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Plus One 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.120 All right, welcome to the show with Daddy Issues. Hey, 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:04.080 oh yeah, it's Burke and Jeffrey. 0:00:04.080 --> 0:00:05.960 In the morning, there was a Second Date podcast, of course, 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:09.360 I'm referring to yesterday's Second Date where the guy said 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:10.559 because she had a nose piercing. 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:13.200 As I'm staring at Alexis's. 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:17.000 Nose piercing, which I had mine peers for eighteen years. 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:20.480 The only reason I took it out is because when 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:23.520 I was breastfeeding my baby when she was little, she 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:25.000 kept ripping it out of my nose. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:31.800 Oh my god, it hurts so bad. Oh yeah, yeah. Anyway, 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:33.440 my dad was all about it when I got it done, 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:33.880 but I'm. 0:00:33.920 --> 0:00:36.320 Already probably you as well. Yeah, it's like double pain. 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:39.479 Yeah, it was double pain. Some of the comments we're 0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:42.280 seeing from yesterday, yeah, kind of the same. Megan Jones said, 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:45.360 I got my nose piers with my dad. Oh yeah. 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:49.040 Michelle says, everyone knows the universal sign for daddy issues 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:56.120 is a lower back tattoo. Yeah, it's just the universal 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:58.200 sign that you went to high school in the late nineties, 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:06.080 everybody had or a palm tree or a heart. 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:08.679 Yeah. Yeah. I used to go to a tanny bed, 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:11.440 which don't do. By the way, it's terrible for you. 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:13.960 In the back of a video store. It was so sketchy, 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:16.039 that is, it was so sketchy. 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:20.000 Anyway, we're got awkward Tuesday right now, and so let's 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:21.160 get awkward and make it happen. 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:22.800 It's brand new and it starts now. 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:27.320 The most uncomfortable topic to bring up in any conversation 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:32.080 isn't politics or religion or that hairy growth on your 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:37.319 lower back hands down? Its money? Oh oh yeah, top. 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:39.640 And while it's kind of unavoidable if you're talking with 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:42.520 your boss or your roommate, the last person you want 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:44.959 to bring it up with is your crush. 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:46.360 Ooh, I know. 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.520 That's exactly what one of our listeners is being forced 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:53.200 to do. And the craziest part is why he has 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:57.000 to discuss it with her. Oh, it's so weird. You're 0:01:57.040 --> 0:01:59.440 going to hear it in your brand new awkward Tuesday 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:03.240 phone call right after this. It's awkward. 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:04.320 It's Tuesday. 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:10.520 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. It shouldn't happen, but sometimes 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:14.760 it does. Where money comes between friends and ruins their 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:16.000 relationship forever. 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:19.680 Yeah, so easily that can happen. 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:23.120 Yeah, like when I bought Brooke a seventy dollars wine 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:27.320 glass to Canter for her wedding. That should pretty much 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:30.200 equal out Brooke paying for all of my lunches over 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:33.760 the last decade, but somehow she doesn't see it that day. 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:34.600 Why you don't pay her? 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:36.840 I actually got married thirteen years ago, so it's been 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:39.520 over a decade that I've been paying for lunches. 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:43.520 That's three years. You see the hostilities that I'm still 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:47.320 getting over a decade later. Now, Brooke and I've been 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:49.640 able to work through it, but one of our listeners 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:53.639 hasn't had as much success with his friend, and that's 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:56.640 why he needs our help today. Nick, Welcome to the 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:58.200 friend Dome. How you do it? 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:03.079 Hey, guys, if you're having me, do you? Nick? 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:05.840 Now? 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:10.560 Not yet? Well, tell us about the situation going on 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:12.639 that's created issues with you and your friend. 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:16.760 Yeah, so I got this co worker. She works in 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:20.040 my company, but different floor, so I don't really see 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:21.080 her that much. 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:23.959 So this is just a work friend that we're talking about. 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:27.800 Yeah. Yeah, so I've had like a small crush on 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:28.440 her for a while. 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:30.799 Okay, what's her name? 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.560 Yeah, Dana. 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.640 Okay, does Dana know you have a crush on her. 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:38.240 She does because I actually asked her out in a 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:39.760 work event at a year ago. 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:43.080 Okay, how long ago? 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:44.760 About a year ago? 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:47.760 A year ago, so it didn't turn into anything. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:50.200 Now, she actually had a boyfriend at the time, so 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:53.600 she said no, thank you, but I would if I 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:59.160 wasn't in a relationship, so she was nice about it. Yeah. 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:03.160 So a year later, I'm kind of out of the blue, 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:06.400 I get a message from her and she wants me 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:09.040 to meet her outside. And we have food trucks outside 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:10.840 of our buildings, so she asked me to come meet 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:13.440 her outside by the food truck. So excited, I'm like, 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:15.360 I've always liked this girl. You know, I'm still single, 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:16.920 so maybe something exchanged. 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:19.480 Oh yeah, maybe she broke up with her boyfriend. Yeah 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:19.719 you know. 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:23.360 Yeah yeah. So turns out she needed a plus one 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:25.479 for a wedding that she was going to that Saturday. 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:30.040 Wow, wedding dates a legit invite. 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:33.080 That is her opening, right, just single. 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:36.080 Then at the time, I wasn't sure, and I really 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:37.200 didn't want to ask that question. 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:40.040 Oh yeah, I feel like if I don't ask and 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:40.880 I don't have to know. 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:44.680 Right, Yes, I wasn't sure, and uh, I just kind 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:47.440 of wanted to find out and see, and I legitimately 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:48.880 could not say yes quick enough. 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:54.080 I'm still hoping she's single, and so I can say, oh, yeah, 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:55.400 so have you. 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:56.560 Gone to the wedding yet or no? 0:04:57.240 --> 0:04:59.960 Yeah, so I canceled my plans. I was excited to go. 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:01.320 Oh I had plans already. 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:03.119 But they can wait totally right. 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:05.360 So I went to the wedding, and I did find 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:06.360 out that they broke up. 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:13.040 Yes, horrible. You're talking about Dana and her boyfriend. 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:14.320 Yeah, dated her boyfriend. 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.680 Dude, that's awesome and lining up for you. 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:18.760 I feel like you had to like restrain yourself when 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:22.840 she said yeah, we broke up, You're like, oh, pump 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:23.600 under the table. 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:26.200 I pretended to feel sad about it. 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:28.320 Good job, what you're supposed to do. 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:31.599 Yeah, And we had a great time. And it was 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:34.960 our friend from college's wedding. We were dancing, drinking, had 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:36.400 a flirty vibe between us. 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:39.760 Oh good, Yeah, this is random, But like, how were 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:41.360 you associating with her other friends? 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:43.400 Yeah? I guess that they will give you a good 0:05:43.440 --> 0:05:46.120 read into how there will, like the vibe is between 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:47.839 you and her, if you're able to get along with 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:50.000 her friends mutually, yeah. 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:50.240 Yeah. 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:52.320 We were all drinking at the bar, having a good time, 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:53.640 good great size. 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:55.320 Okay, where does the money sign? 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:58.599 Like? This is feeling like a second date update, not 0:05:58.680 --> 0:05:59.880 a for Tuesday. 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:02.119 Oh I'm getting there, don't worry. 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:03.600 Oh you're life Okay. 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:05.560 At the end of the night, we had a hug. 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:07.200 I could have went for the kids, but I didn't, 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:10.080 you know, out of disrespect. We were drinking and I 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:12.160 answered to hang out next weekend and she said she 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:13.000 would really like that. 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:13.599 Cool. 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:14.279 Okay. 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:16.839 Then two days later it happened. 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:18.200 What did who? 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:23.520 I got a Venmo request asking for one hundred and 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:25.880 fifty dollars to cover my wedding guest feet? 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:30.560 Oh what from who? It wasn't from her? It was 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:30.920 from her? 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:32.119 It was from It was from Dana. 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:35.160 Yeh wow, I've never even heard of that. 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:36.720 Did she Venmo the wrong person? 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:39.440 I texted her and I said, are you sure this 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:41.320 is for me? I thought maybe it couldn't be for me, 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:44.080 and she said it's from both of us. 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:46.840 We will wait wait, so we will. 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.080 I guess it makes sense if the bride didn't like this, 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:51.800 she didn't bring a boyfriend, he said, wedding gift. It 0:06:51.839 --> 0:06:54.560 sounds like there that she's making him pay for the. 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:58.080 Wedding gift that she gave her friend from college. 0:06:58.200 --> 0:06:59.400 Is that what you said? Gift? 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:00.359 Know what? 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:04.440 Yeah, wedding costs, guest cost guest wedding. 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:05.440 Guess what is that? Then? 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:10.720 I'm not sure to be okay, So what is it 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:12.640 that you want to do with your awkward Tuesday phone 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:12.920 call that? 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:15.520 I mean, I kind of just want to know what 0:07:15.680 --> 0:07:19.600 the costs are for? Why am I paying them? Yeah, 0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:22.600 you invited me to a wedding, Like she's hugely like, 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:23.800 I want to know what's going on. 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:24.960 It's like her okay, I. 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:26.840 Mean, it would make sense if he was getting an 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:29.880 invoice from the bride and groom directly and that was 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:32.320 their issue, But the fact that it's coming from Dana 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:34.440 that makes it really really weird. 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:38.200 Well, and there's no explanation. She's treated that like that's 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:39.560 an obvious Like yeah. 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:42.400 Like she said for food or for a give or. 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:44.080 Maybe there was like a cash bar and you didn't 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:47.640 realize oh yeah, you know, like maybe the drinks cost 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:48.080 that night. 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:48.560 Maybe. 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:51.200 But he wants to keep the chance of a romantic 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:53.520 connection alive. So we're going to come back and figure 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:58.280 out some ways to flirtily sexily ask her about Hey, 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:00.760 what's the one hundred and fifty dollars charge? He sent me? 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:04.120 All about flirty conflict this you, Jeff. 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:06.800 Yeah, we'll come back with some advice for you for 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:11.120 your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward. 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:16.520 It's it's awkward Tuesday phone call. If you're just joining 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:19.360 us for the awkward Tuesday phone call not only as 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:22.560 a friendship on the line, but a possible love connection 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:27.360 between our listener Nick and his coworker Dana. There's been 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:31.560 some unspoken feelings happening there. So when she asked him 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:34.640 to be her plus one to a wedding recently, that 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:36.480 was his golden opportunity. 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:37.880 Oh, he was so excited. 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:41.800 The weird part is afterwards, Dana sent him a one 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:45.960 hundred and fifty dollars invoice to cover their wedding guest fees. 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:47.560 We still don't know what that means. 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.520 Nobody knows what that means, least of all Nick, and 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:52.480 it just felt wrong to him because he was the 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:54.720 plus one. He didn't even know who the bride and 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:58.040 groom were. That's why he wanted our help today to 0:08:58.160 --> 0:09:01.000 bring it up to Dana. And figure it out while 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:04.640 still keeping his chances with her alive. Honestly, though, Nick, 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:07.400 if you really want this woman to like you, maybe 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:10.120 the best answer is just eat that one hundred and 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:12.760 fifty dollars and don't make this phone call. 0:09:12.800 --> 0:09:15.040 I was gonna say no, you guys, this sets the 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.000 tone for the entire relationship. 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:19.200 Honestly, he takes care of his lady. 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:22.440 Yeah, she'll like that about you. Yeah, okay, Brook, you 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:24.480 have better advice for him? What's do? 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:26.120 I think you should get out of pen and write 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:29.040 down my question right now? Seriously, Brook, nobody writes with 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:29.600 pen and paper. 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:32.600 Just write on your phone and okay, okay, I need 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:35.440 to ask her, Nick, why pay her half? 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:35.960 Oh? 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:38.720 Yeah, seriously? Why pay her half? 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:42.160 Because she said that it's for me as well. Right, 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:46.960 so she invited you, it's her friend. Sure she should 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:48.240 be paying for you. 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:50.319 But but in the least, why do you have to 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:52.400 pay her wedding fee? That doesn't make any sense. 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.760 Are you saying that on a date? Brook? You wouldn't 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:57.720 make your husband Michael pay for stuff. 0:09:57.880 --> 0:09:58.680 This isn't a date. 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:01.720 This is a wedding and this is her friends like 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:03.320 bridy grooms do weird things. 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:04.080 All the time. 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:08.480 When you and Michael are at a wedding, all bets 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:12.520 are off. You guys aren't together, you have separate entities, 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:16.480 and whatever happens just happened. I see what you're saying. 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:19.280 B take that in mind, Jose, what's your advice? 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:20.520 I don't understand. 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:23.600 I get it, Jose, you are going to do something 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:27.439 really unconventional here. Okay, you're gonna thank her immediately? 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:28.400 Really? 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:28.680 Why? 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:29.360 Oh yeah? 0:10:29.400 --> 0:10:30.600 Why why would I think her? 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:32.959 Well this, it's a positive tone. Immediately you're like, hey, 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:35.000 thank you so much for that. I didn't even think 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:37.480 to ask if I owed you any money? And then 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.160 maybe guess what you think it's for. 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:43.600 Rather than accusing her of what it's for, you're like 0:10:43.640 --> 0:10:46.760 disarming her with a compliment before you come in with 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:48.400 the real question. Oh my gosh, I must have. 0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:51.000 Yes, it must have been a wedding gift. 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.000 I mean, it could get you the answers you want 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:56.160 of what it's for, but it definitely doesn't get you. 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:59.280 Out of pain for it. 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:03.640 One step at a time, for happy, keep the vibes positive. 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.800 What do you think you feel like that's helping you out? 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:06.520 Before you make your. 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:09.960 Call here, yeah, I guess I'm still very confused on 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:12.040 why I got a bill. I guess I would all 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:12.880 figure out in the moment. 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:14.960 But we've given you the tools to be able to 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:19.080 hopefully handle this conversation without making it too awkward between 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:19.720 you and Dana. 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:22.560 I'm so curious how you're going to feel after you 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:24.080 hear her answers, And I. 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:26.280 Wonder what the is seven five each is a pretty 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:27.439 good deal for a wedding, just. 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:33.640 Saying you're lucky that she didn't invoice you to pay 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:37.199 for her dress also, so count your blessings. But we're 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:39.680 going to dial her number right now. Hopefully she picks 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:41.160 up and you can make your awkward call. But here 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:41.400 you go. 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:51.600 Hello, Hey, Dana, it's Nick. How you doing. 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:55.719 Hi, Nick, I'm great, It's great to hear from you. 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:57.080 You too. How's everything going. 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:01.360 It's going pretty well. Just working like usual, as you know. 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:05.840 Yep, yep, just another day on the grind. 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:11.640 What we do. So what's up? Are we still getting 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:12.640 together for lunch today? 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:16.200 Or yeah? Yeah? I mean I had a great time 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:18.800 the other night, and I want to thank you first 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:21.360 for the invite in the party. I had a great time, 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:24.160 and I just I kind of apologize for not asking 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:25.920 what I owed for the event, because I know I 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:28.560 got that invoice, so I didn't know. I wanted to 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:30.000 find out more like what's going on? 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:34.640 Oh yeah, well you know the bride she sent me 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:37.080 an invoice and actually charged me seventy five dollars for 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:41.040 each of us. Oh wow, you probably wanted to know that. 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:45.640 Yeah, I just kind of came out of nowhere. When 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:47.960 you go to a wedding, you don't you know someone's 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:50.240 taking you, you don't really think about paying. So but 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:52.920 I also just I should have asked if I, you know, 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:54.920 owed anything, because I love hanging out with you, and 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:57.520 you know, I never want to chalk in between that, 0:12:57.679 --> 0:12:57.840 you know. 0:12:58.679 --> 0:13:00.800 I mean maybe I read the situation wrong. I mean 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:02.760 I kind of thought that we were on a date, 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:06.200 and typically whenever I go on dates, guys will usually pay. 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:09.880 Are you saying you wouldn't want to pay if we 0:13:09.880 --> 0:13:10.720 were on a date. 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:13.640 I was a date, I think it would be different. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:15.920 I just kind of you kind of invited me, and 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:18.360 I didn't know if it was you were considering it 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:20.360 a date or if it was I don't know, just 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:22.280 kind of came out of left field. A little context 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:23.240 probably would have helped. You know. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.480 Oh that's interesting. It kind of feels like you're criticizing 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:27.400 how I handled it. 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:32.280 Not trying to criticize, just kind of thinking out loud 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:34.240 and just trying to get some more information. You know. 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:37.520 Well, ever, since I broke up with my boyfriend, I've 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:40.040 been on quite a few other dates, and guys are 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:43.160 just notoriously cheap, And that's why I'm just so glad 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:44.640 that I'm getting to spend time with you. You know, 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:46.600 you have so much integrity and you really know how 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:47.240 to treat a woman. 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:50.800 Well, I appreciate that. 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:54.400 So if you wanted to spend more than one hundred 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:56.240 and fifty, you know, I did have to uber home 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:58.840 that night, and there were just a couple other expenses. 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:05.880 Oh man, Nick, you're not saying a lot. Is there 0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:07.520 a problem? Like what's going on? 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:13.439 So? Uh, that's a little that's a little outlandish, that's 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:14.040 a little crazy. 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:19.400 It's outlandish. Is Atlantis to want to take care of 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:21.200 me to make sure that I get home safe? Like 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:23.320 you wouldn't just want to spend a little extra money. 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:25.880 Maybe you're not the person that I thought you weren't. 0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:26.120 Nick. 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:33.640 Oh god, god, Nick, that is terribless. 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:38.080 No, not, Hey, what's going on? 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:38.600 Who is that? 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:39.920 Hell? 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:42.120 That was so manipulative, Dana. 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:47.960 We're all very impressed with you, Dana, because, yeah, you're 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:50.080 on a radio show right now called Brook and Jeffrey 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:50.320 in the. 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.480 Morning, a radio show. 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:54.840 Yeah, Nick's there too. 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:56.520 Nick, Why would you do this? 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:57.440 This is between you and me. 0:14:57.480 --> 0:15:00.600 Why would you call a radio show? What is happening? 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:04.080 It just kind of was taken off guard. I was 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:07.000 kind of confused on the whole situation, and I needed help. 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:08.520 I called them to help me because I really like 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:10.520 you and I wanted to continue our relationship and I 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:11.720 didn't want to make it awkward. 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.080 So, yeah, you don't like me enough to pay for 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:16.120 my uber to get home safe, So I guess that's 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:16.680 clear enough. 0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:20.080 Or even go to the wedding and uber home regardless. 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:23.560 There, dam How does that have any indication of whether 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:24.600 or not he likes you. 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:26.720 You guys work at the same place. You probably make 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:30.120 around the same amount of money, like pay for yourself. 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:32.800 First of all, I don't know who the hell you are. 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:37.160 And certain women have standards. It sounds like you have none. 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:40.520 No, certain women have independence, and you need some. 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:43.920 Excuse me, No, do you know what year it is, Grandma. 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:45.640 Women are still to be taking care of. 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:50.200 Taking care of Okay, we're back into the nineteen ten. 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:52.600 Is enough of to pull yourself up by your own bootsteps. 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:55.640 It's not that pay for. You invited him to the wedding. 0:15:56.440 --> 0:16:02.119 Let us puts we want to lift you to greatness. 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:02.960 That's what tells me. 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:07.640 Okay, hey, so yeah, these people were trying to give 0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:09.760 me a hand. But you know, I'm sorry, Dana. I 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:11.280 want to take responsibility for it. 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:11.480 You know. 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:14.960 Yeah, that's nice, that's really nice. 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:15.880 I could have been better. 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:20.760 Yeah, Now, why are you taking blame for this? 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:23.680 I mean, Brook, you're ganging up on her. You're getting 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:26.200 up on the team, and me, I came here as 0:16:26.200 --> 0:16:27.720 a guest. I don't have to put up with this. 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.280 Up for you, No, he does. He wants to stand 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:33.480 up for Dana because he was her date. 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:37.239 Yeah, and so at the beginning, this is what you want. 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:40.560 That is how women should be treated. Thank you, Nick. 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:43.680 Okay, we'll start. I'll come into an agreement here. So 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:45.520 at the start of this I suggested you eat one 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:47.560 hundred and fifty dollars, but it sounds like you need 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:49.920 to do a little bit more to how much money 0:16:49.960 --> 0:16:52.440 are you willing to cost towards her and venmo to 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:54.080 prove how good of a date you are? 0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:56.480 Whatever she needs to feel comfortable here. 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:58.760 Wow, you just want a good guy. 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:01.600 You're just buying her affection at this point. That is 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:02.400 not worth it. 0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:03.720 It won't last in the end. 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:06.119 Brook, you're not dating anymore. I don't think you have 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.200 any You you checked out thirteen years ago from this 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:15.439 ral with my seventy dollars wine decant. That's payment for that. 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:18.439 So you know after this, I'm venmoing you a charge 0:17:18.480 --> 0:17:21.440 for attending my wedding and that's just Nick. 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:23.000 You're going to cover that cost from me, right, Bro, 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:24.640 it's about love. 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:27.600 I don't have you, but I do have Dana. Dana, 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:28.360 You and I are good. 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:31.560 Oh wow, what a gentleman, Dana. You landed a good 0:17:31.560 --> 0:17:33.240 one there. Yeah, chivalry Ison dead? 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:34.160 What romos? 0:17:34.600 --> 0:17:34.760