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Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Meloncamps and Tambrad Judge. Hi, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to this week's to Cheese and a Pod. We

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Speaker 1: are so excited to have samuels. It's myself, Teddy Meloncamp

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Speaker 1: and Tambra Judge. She's so freaking adorable. I can't stand it. Um.

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Speaker 1: I cannot wait to hear all of her hot takes

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Speaker 1: and she is the best at her one liner, so

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to bring her on. So excited. Hello, Hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: beautiful beauties. Good, how are you for coming on? Definitely

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Speaker 1: thanks for having me. We appreciate it well. And first

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Speaker 1: I have to give you a little bit of a

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Speaker 1: hard time because now you got me hooked onto a

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Speaker 1: new show. Yes, Love and Marriage d C on the over.

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Speaker 1: I am so hooked because I have never seen relationships

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Speaker 1: so openly talked about on reality television. Let me tell you,

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Speaker 1: I had to be even more vulnerable so that everybody

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Speaker 1: else can loosen up. I was like, I'm gonna just

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Speaker 1: put all my business out there. After after Potomac, were

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Speaker 1: you afraid to do the show? I know? How did

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Speaker 1: you do this? So the difference between this and Potomac

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Speaker 1: is that I'm a very bubbly, high energy person. I

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Speaker 1: don't like being in situations where I'm expected to argue

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Speaker 1: or expected to have beef or has my guard up

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Speaker 1: as soon as I walk into a room. Right, So

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Speaker 1: with this show, it's more about it's not about the

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Speaker 1: girl's circle, it's about the marriages. It's about family business.

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Speaker 1: And then you have the girl's circles, the guy's circles,

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Speaker 1: the intimate conversations, the group settings. Like it's such a

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Speaker 1: full show and everybody that's on this show is bringing

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Speaker 1: their own story, their own relevancy, their own you know everything.

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Speaker 1: So it's really nice. I love I mean every single one.

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Speaker 1: You're invested, Like I'm I'm even like, what's what's what

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Speaker 1: did little Jamie do? What's going on? What's this? Like?

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Speaker 1: I am so thick into it, but I don't understand

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Speaker 1: this is my I'm even seeing a different side to Chris. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm potomac. He was so reserved. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you're scared, but you're saying like one b laugh

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Speaker 1: but you're also seeing like real marriage. How did you

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Speaker 1: guys get to that point? So with Chris, with Potomac,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's not really a focus on the ment really.

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Speaker 1: And then one thing you got to understand about Chris

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Speaker 1: taught to basically present themselves in a certain way, and

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Speaker 1: he's old school NFL. So he's not like these young

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Speaker 1: guys that's all the social media acting a fool. He

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Speaker 1: is the guy who if they had a bad game

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Speaker 1: he's gonna go into his interview and he's gonna put

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Speaker 1: it on himself. He's gonna say, well, we could have

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Speaker 1: to hold it down so that the quarterback and do

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Speaker 1: their job. He's gonna give you that politically correct commentary.

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Speaker 1: So when we started Potomac, everything was about being politically

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Speaker 1: correct for him and me. I don't roll like that,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm always gonna just be me whether you like

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Speaker 1: So Housewives is not politically correct at all, right, And

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Speaker 1: Chris was trying. He tried. When he got to the end,

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Speaker 1: you gotta open up like you got to. So do

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Speaker 1: you think this is gonna become a franchise? Like? Are

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Speaker 1: as well? I think so. So right now we're actually

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Speaker 1: the second of the Love and Marriage franchise. It just

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Speaker 1: and this is Carlos. Carlos King is the producer right

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Speaker 1: who we recently had on the pod. I love him.

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Speaker 1: We talked all the time. Is he amazing? He's amazing, amazing?

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Speaker 1: So what would you say the biggest difference between filming

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Speaker 1: Potomac and filming Love and Marriage? They were the production

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Speaker 1: was a fly on the wall. They literally would just

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Speaker 1: There was no like, hey, go in here and make

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Speaker 1: It was just we're just watching y'all, very laid back.

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Speaker 1: But this time around, everybody else was able to be

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Speaker 1: So it was nice. Well, I went back and watched Potomac.

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Speaker 1: We both did, we ourselves, and I watched the fight,

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Speaker 1: That's all I could That's all I can look at

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Speaker 1: James and I when I came to Potomac, that was

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Speaker 1: So we just made magic happen together. And I love

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Speaker 1: in touch with him. Now. When that happened, that went down,

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Speaker 1: did you get did you get it talking to? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Of course, but you know what I'm talking to was

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Speaker 1: my talking to? Was I quit? Yes? When I talked

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Speaker 1: I just I said, I'm sorry to the network. I'm

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Speaker 1: told my quit. How did you end up filming more

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Speaker 1: a contract. You have to fill the contract, right, Yes,

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Speaker 1: but they told me, they said, um, whatever makes you

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Speaker 1: the women, I said, because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: And my whole thing was if you can hit me

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Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna ever be in the same room

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Speaker 1: I used to get into fights. That's what she said

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Speaker 1: has the capacity of losing it. You know. Listen, how

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Speaker 1: one thing. But what we're not gonna do is have

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Speaker 1: make that into something. I'm like, that's not why we're here.

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Speaker 1: The only, the only, the only thing you may see

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Speaker 1: me on would be watched What Happens Live? If if

424
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Speaker 1: they don't look at my show as competition, how don't

425
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Speaker 1: bring you after? Were you when you found out that

426
00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: Ashley was finally leaving Michael? You know? I second, I

427
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,239
Speaker 1: just saw them in Florida. We got together, like a

428
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 1: few months ago. Chris and I were in Florida and

429
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 1: we got together with with her and Michael, and I

430
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 1: knew that they were having issues the same way Chris

431
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: and I were having issues, But I didn't think that

432
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,719
Speaker 1: it was like the end, So I don't think it

433
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 1: was the same way. A way after I think I

434
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 1: don't know there was let back that up, meaning meaning

435
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 1: you know how us women get together, We just kind

436
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: of complained like, you know, he's not seeing my side,

437
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 1: he's not hearing me out more so that type of talk.

438
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:41,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, so I didn't realize it was like tumultuous.

439
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,439
Speaker 1: I didn't realize it was like I'm done, I'm you know,

440
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that. So where was there any truth

441
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 1: since we're talking about it, was there any truth to

442
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: the production but touching all of that ship? So not

443
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 1: to my knowledge. So the only thing I know is

444
00:23:56,640 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 1: that Michael is uh, he's a handsy, friendly, any guy.

445
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 1: But as far as anything that they have said in

446
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 1: the past about him, where they were trying to make

447
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 1: him like he assaulted somebody all that, I don't know

448
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 1: anything about that. To this day, people think that I

449
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 1: have recordings that I've hid and help wants to for Ashley,

450
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 1: like it is insane. I'm like, y'all gotta stop with

451
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: the conspiracy theories because listen here. If I had the footage,

452
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: I would have shown it, but I don't, and I

453
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 1: don't know that it actually happened. I really don't know.

454
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Okay, one other we have like three

455
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 1: more fan questions. One is about your parents, what's going on?

456
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: What's happening. Oh no, uh yeah, to Chola passed away

457
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 1: last year, but I first, and it's so crazy. It

458
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: was literally. The reason why I remember when I talked

459
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 1: to Andy about the Girl's trip is because it was

460
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: literally the next day I had I sent the video.

461
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,919
Speaker 1: Andy and I were talking. I recorded a video of

462
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 1: to child on my shoulder and I said they had

463
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: to Andy. He shook his head. No, Andy, Andy said, oh,

464
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: he's still mad at me about the reunion. Yes, but yeah,

465
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 1: oh man, it has been very difficult because so Challa

466
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 1: was like he was like a sibling to my kids,

467
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: like my kids literally literally a week and a half ago,

468
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 1: my oldest son wrote down crying and I'm like, what's wrong,

469
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: and he said, I just missed the Challa And it

470
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: happened all the time you have him. I had him

471
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 1: for two years, since he was three months old, and

472
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 1: it was a crazy it was a just a it

473
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: was a tragic. Did he get COVID? Uh no, thank

474
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: god he didn't. But it was just it was insane

475
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: the way everything happened. And he oh my god, I'm

476
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: still I'm still not over it, and my kids keep

477
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 1: asking for another part and I'm just not my heart's

478
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,880
Speaker 1: not ready and I'm such an animal lover, so I'm

479
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: willing to give you the four parakeets my dad sent

480
00:25:52,800 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 1: us for Easter. Nobody wants my front door, and I

481
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: was like, what the hell is going on? So it

482
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: was it was the best day of my life. When

483
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: my dog opened up the parakeet cage and they flew

484
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 1: out the window. It was the best day of my life.

485
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: It's different in Para. Oh yeah, well, if you change

486
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: your mind, you know, just send me a d M.

487
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 1: The parakeets are yours. Um, you're so kind, Teddy. You

488
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: know what. I'm a giver. I'm a giver. No you're not.

489
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: Oh not really? Um? And then what else is there

490
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: anything else you want to tease about you? I want

491
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: to ask you what you because as a fitness girl,

492
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: I see the shoulder caps, I see the biceps. Tell

493
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,880
Speaker 1: me your workout. That's what I want to know. Tell

494
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 1: me your workout. Going to say she doesn't work out.

495
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: I already know. I don't. I don't. I'm gonna pull

496
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: your hair and slap you right now. Really genetics, genetics,

497
00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 1: It's partly genetics and partly I actually were you, sir?

498
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 1: You were something I'm I'm vegetarian, so I don't eat

499
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 1: any meat. I'm boord inline vegan. I've been. They weren't

500
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,919
Speaker 1: thrilled with the vegan like your house guests. No finished

501
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: watching episode three, you'll hear what their feedback was about

502
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 1: the vegan dinner. But it was the vegan dinner from hell,

503
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:22,439
Speaker 1: not because you know, as a fitness expert, vegetarian diet

504
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 1: does not build muscle. So no, so that's why I

505
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: said partly genetic. So the muscle tone straight from my dad.

506
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: That's lovely. Do you know what I do for that

507
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: two hours? Listening heavy? Oh my gosh, I want to

508
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: hate you right now. I really want to hate you.

509
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: How tall are you? Oh? You're tall. She's taller. I

510
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: mean we're shorties. Were were? You probably don't remember this.

511
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 1: We actually bumped into each other in New York. You

512
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: were leaving the morning news and I was coming in.

513
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: It was it was like a high and I was

514
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: hid phase. Yeah, try to kiss you. We literally she

515
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: was coming off and I was going on. It was

516
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: like a rush, like we got a hurry up, and

517
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: I was just like her picture and then, oh my god, no,

518
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: I would have kissed her if I was drunk. I

519
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,719
Speaker 1: love me a hot girl when I'm drunk. Oh, of

520
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,679
Speaker 1: course you better watch out for yourself. I got like

521
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: a special muscles, like should her cap turns me on? Okay,

522
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,120
Speaker 1: and we have to ask one more annoying question before

523
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 1: we leave you. I know you know it's always I'm

524
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: always the one that rundown and I'm just waiting giving.

525
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: Don't ask it, bit um. Have you ever since all

526
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: of this went down? Spoken to Candice? Have I ever?

527
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 1: I couldn't hear you. I'm sorry. Oh, since all of

528
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: this went down, spoken to Candice, I don't talk to

529
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: people that said at the children's table anymore. Oh God,

530
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 1: I'm interested at all. Like, there's a lot of things

531
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,719
Speaker 1: that happened behind the scenes that people think it's just

532
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: the fight. The fight happened like it was like a fluke.

533
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: It wasn't. There wasn't any build up to it. Production

534
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:22,959
Speaker 1: manipulated scenes, even the time in which we they aired

535
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: the episodes. It was like all out of sequence to

536
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 1: make it seem like there was this major build up

537
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 1: that caused the fight. It wasn't anything like that at all.

538
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: It was simply your hand was in my face. I

539
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: asked you to get it out. You didn't and then

540
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: it just got crazy from there. So that's like a

541
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: thing for me. And it's funny because her first season

542
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: when we when we actually met, she was doing all

543
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: at hand talking and I literally sat in confessional. She

544
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: keeps talking about the hands and she might hit me

545
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: and I might have to hit back. I don't like

546
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: hands in my face, Like I just don't. Didn't she

547
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: also doing was like the Night for the Fork, like

548
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 1: there was other things that she had done on the

549
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: season prior. Correct. Yeah, she's an angry child, you know.

550
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: She she waves knives and she does all kind of

551
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 1: tantrum type stuff and um, you know, I'm just I'm

552
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: not here for it, you know. So it is what

553
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: it is. Good riddance to her. I wish her all

554
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: the best, um, but I have no interest in all

555
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: the best, all the best. Lu bless her god. Lass

556
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: you have to hear her heart. Would take bless her

557
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: heart saying yourself and you still have not for Lazy

558
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: Mom's your podcast, so people can tune into that. Yes, yes,

559
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,959
Speaker 1: we have the platform, the online community, and we do

560
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 1: pop ups, so we we do in person like it's

561
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 1: like the Quick Live Q and a. So that was

562
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: featured on the first episode of Love and Marriage DC,

563
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: and that's been really fun because it's getting people comfortable

564
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: after going through quarantine to come back out. Because we

565
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: used to do full fledged like shows. It was like

566
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: a whole live band, you know, food, drinks, that fun. Yeah,

567
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: with giveaways. We have a host and it used to

568
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 1: be a full out, you know, three hour event. So

569
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: one busy girl, Yes, I love being busy though, Oh

570
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: my gosh, busy busy. And then when do you start

571
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: filming season two? Well, they haven't made an announcement on

572
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: a season two yet, so we'll see. But I'm pretty

573
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: sure the way all likes to move, as soon as

574
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: they green light it will be filming like right away,

575
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. And first show for for this show,

576
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: will they have like a reunion type thing or now? Yes, yes,

577
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,959
Speaker 1: we're actually gonna be filming reunion really soon. I need

578
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: to call us to the Andy Cohen of that right. Yes,

579
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: he is, Oh goody show the Nightcap. Yes, after our show.

580
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: It is just epic. I love it. I love what

581
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: he's doing. It's like, why why reinvent the wheel? You

582
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: know He's we have been loving watching you and your transparency,

583
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 1: and for all of us that are in marriages, you

584
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: guys are talking about else stuff and actually you're feeling

585
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: the emotion and we really appreciate it. We appreciate you,

586
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: and what a wonderful mom you are as well. Um

587
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: and Carlos King Love and Marriage George County. I'm just saying,

588
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: to do it. He needs to do it. Carlos has

589
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 1: this magic such I'm waiting for that phone called Carlos.

590
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: She is, She's honestly like this. She's like Carlos, Carlos, Carlos,

591
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: Um about that day show you're doing. Thank you so

592
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: much for joining us. Money, Thank you. It was awesome.

593
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 1: Bye bye, bye bye. She's lovely, she's awesome. She is.

594
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: So would you go on Love and Marriage in Sina?

595
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I'd rather go on Love and Marriage somewhere

596
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: adjacent between and Cino and Orange County and then we

597
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: could do it together with Eddie and I. Oh, hilarious

598
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: the ads. Can you imagine the ads? Here's the thing, Eddie.

599
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: Eddie was never really excited about Orange County because none

600
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: of the dudes were like cool, like, he didn't have

601
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: any guys that he wanted to hang out with if

602
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 1: he was like with guys like like New Jersey. The

603
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: guys all like each other, they have fun to hang out.

604
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: It's it's exciting. But when you're on a show where

605
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 1: the girls, girls are whatever kind of get along and

606
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: fighting drama, but the guys are just sitting in the back,

607
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: just staring, it's not fun for them. So if he

608
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: had someone like Edwin, you know, that would be fun

609
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: for him, I would do it. I mean, I think

610
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: one of the biggest things that I I I agree

611
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: with Monique about Housewives is I do wish they showed

612
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: more of the home life, of the relationships, this like

613
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: of the businesses, not the like us throwing parties, but

614
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: what it actually takes to maintain a business, manage a business,

615
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 1: how women grow their businesses. Like those are things I

616
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: ultimately would want to watch because as if I was

617
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: at home watching these things wanted to create, I feel

618
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 1: like that's a different that's a different network. It's a

619
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: different network. Robert doesn't want to do that. They want

620
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:11,399
Speaker 1: to do fighting, arguing, drama, all that. In fact, they

621
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: frown upon showing businesses, right, they frowned upon showing businesses.

622
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: But if they showed the women having to actually fight

623
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 1: through the grit of whatever is going on in their life.

624
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: Then I think it would be more real. Well, there

625
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: you go. I think you should pitch that to Andy.

626
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,280
Speaker 1: I'm also, hey, Andy, I hope you liked the president

627
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 1: I sent to Lucy. Also, I have an idea for

628
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:44,479
Speaker 1: a show's good luck with Well that was fun. I'm great.

629
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Speaker 1: She was great, and I'm going to see you soon.

630
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: We have a busy. We have a busy next couple

631
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: of I am literally waking up and not panic attacks,

632
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: but I wake up like because I have so much

633
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Speaker 1: going on in the next month in New York three times.

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Speaker 1: talk to you soon. Was another great podcast. Okay, hi guys,