1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: This is from Shiranda on Steve Harvey FM. Steve. She 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: needs some advice. 3 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 2: She says, my husband treats me like a queen, and 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: I don't doubt that he loves me. But I've caught 5 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 2: him cheating before, and I think he's at it again. 6 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 2: He comes from a family that says in his culture, 7 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: cheating is tolerated as long as the wife is loved, 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 2: cared for, and respected. I got the love and care, 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 2: but not the respect. I don't want a divorce, but 10 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 2: I hate knowing my husband might be spending time with 11 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: another woman. If I put my foot down and he 12 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 2: doesn't stop, I'll have to choose between living with the 13 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: cheating or leaving him, and neither is what I want. 14 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 1: What should I do? 15 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: How can I cope with living with a husband who 16 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 2: loves me but cheats. 17 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 3: I don't know. 18 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 4: If you're willing to accept that, there's nothing I can do. 19 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 4: I can't, ma'am. I don't have an answer for you. 20 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but you're thinking that this is what happened. 21 00:00:57,680 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 4: You just said he's from a family that has a cult, 22 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 4: and they told you that. 23 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, they said cheating is tolerated in their culture. Yeah, 24 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 2: as long as a woman loved and cared for and respect. 25 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 3: It, And that is what you say he's doing. 26 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 4: You don't know how to live with a man who cheats, Well, 27 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 4: let me let me ask you this. 28 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:20,479 Speaker 3: How have you done it thus far? 29 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? But how have. 30 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 4: You coped with it thus far? Because you've caught him 31 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:32,479 Speaker 4: cheating before and you stayed. So if you don't want 32 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 4: to divorce, then continue to act like you've been acting 33 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 4: like it ain't happening. But you know what's happening, and 34 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 4: that's when not what you want. I don't know how 35 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 4: to tell you to take a bad treatment. 36 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, let off, Steve. My husband treats me like a. 37 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 3: Queen, right, but I'm not going to though right. 38 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, well you can get treated like a queen until 39 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 4: I leave a house, right to cheat? 40 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, See, this is craziness. 41 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 4: He treats women like queen. So when he leaded the house, 42 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 4: he got to get back to queen treatment. Yeah, and 43 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 4: said you don't go to work with him. Somebody down 44 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 4: here got to get this treatment. 45 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. And she's caught him cheating. She said she carved 46 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: him cheating. 47 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 3: More by you steal that. So I don't know what 48 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 3: to tell you ma'am, next question, I really can't help you. 49 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah, all right, we do have time for 50 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 2: another one, Steve. This is from Damon on Steve Harvey FM. 51 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 2: Damon says, I'm dating one of my co workers and 52 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 2: dinner was perfect and a conversation flowed, but then we 53 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 2: went to the movies. 54 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: One of my. 55 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,959 Speaker 2: Big pet peeves is people who talk in a theater 56 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 2: during a movie. I don't mean like past the popcorn 57 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:00,239 Speaker 2: or stuff like that. I'm talking about did you see 58 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 2: the makeup on that girl over there? Or did you 59 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 2: see the memo about overtime all during the movie. If 60 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 2: something like this bugs me this much, is a second 61 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 2: date even worth it? 62 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: Wow? 63 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 3: This is a man talking. 64 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is damon, Bro. 65 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 4: Bro, you're gonna give up a good woman, possibly because 66 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 4: she talked too much. But you know how many of 67 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 4: us wouldn't even be in her relationship if that. 68 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: Was Yeah, this is they talk too much? Yeah? 69 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:35,839 Speaker 3: What woman you find the date? What woman you find 70 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 3: the date that don't talk a. 71 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: Lot when in the movies are otherwise? Huh? 72 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 4: Anything I find one that don't talk, let me know, 73 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 4: let me know right where you get them? 74 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: M Wow? 75 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 3: And if she don't talk. It's because she threw with you. 76 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: Why don't y'all just quiet in the movies? 77 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: Bro quit going to movies. 78 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 4: But this could be a good reason why you still single, 79 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 4: because if you that great of a catch, you probably 80 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 4: have been caught by now. 81 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 1: Oh maybe if. 82 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 4: That's a pet peeve talking in a movie, a big 83 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 4: what's your other peeves? 84 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 3: Because he got some more because if you that simple. 85 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: Dinner was perfect and the conversation flowed. 86 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 4: He yeah, because y'all was talking, all right, Yeah, maybe 87 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 4: she was nervous. Man, y'all at the movie. She just 88 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,599 Speaker 4: trying to keep talking. Ye had a perfect dinner, man, 89 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 4: boy guy. 90 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 2: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have 91 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 2: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 92 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.