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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer Podcast. Zero. Here's Nikki. Hello here, I

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Speaker 1: am welcome to the show. It's a Nicki Glazer podcast.

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Speaker 1: I'm Nicki Glazer. Andrew Colin is here, Noah is here. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I never remember how to pronounce

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Speaker 1: your last name, and it's so embarrassing, Like I just

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Speaker 1: I can't. I can't tell you that in person, like

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Speaker 1: I have to do it on air when we're like,

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Speaker 1: for some reason, it's easier for me to say really

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Speaker 1: embarrassing things and things I'm ashamed of into a microphone

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Speaker 1: when it's like live than did like personally say to you.

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Speaker 1: I honestly never say your last name because I just

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Speaker 1: freak out because I haven't memorized how to pronounce it.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna guess and you just let me, Like

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Speaker 1: if there was a gun to my head, I was

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Speaker 1: gonna say, no, that's it Aer, Okay, Yeah, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to remember it from now on because I'm always going

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Speaker 1: to think of Avenue because it's always like a V

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Speaker 1: or you know, like I think of eight. But I

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Speaker 1: know that you hate birds, so it's not avian. I

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Speaker 1: don't hate you, just hate pigeons, which are of the

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Speaker 1: Avian family. So that's how I'm gonna remember. That's how

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Speaker 1: I that's literally how I do everything. And that does

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Speaker 1: not mean I'm a bad friend, by the way, Like

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Speaker 1: Noah's one of my best friends. But me, it just

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Speaker 1: it's one of those things that has been on my

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Speaker 1: mind for so long and I never am sure of it,

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Speaker 1: so I always just don't say it. But I just

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Speaker 1: want to get honest about it, because it doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: I'm a bad person. Doesn't mean I don't love Noah.

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Speaker 1: I forgot my but like one of my best friend

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Speaker 1: Robin's birthdays yesterday, I forgot Kirsten's birthday this year. I

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Speaker 1: forgot my mom's birthday this year. I'm not a bad

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Speaker 1: person because I forget birthdays. I love them just as

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Speaker 1: much as they love me. I'm going to forgive myself

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Speaker 1: for it, and I hope that they forgive me too.

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Speaker 1: But I just there's certain things sometimes that I just

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Speaker 1: go You're like, I just don't shame about Like it's

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Speaker 1: it's shameful that I don't know how to pronounce your

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Speaker 1: last name. And then it's like gets so like can

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Speaker 1: it take something really? And then I feel too embarrassed yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's it's glass. Or for a long time, I didn't

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Speaker 1: know how to pronounce my own last name either. OK.

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Speaker 1: That kind of makes me feel better, but like also

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Speaker 1: it's I don't know what. Okay, you feel better? You

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Speaker 1: didn't know Noah's last name? Yeah, no, I honestly, I

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever said her last name once

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Speaker 1: out loud until because you didn't know how to say it.

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Speaker 1: Do you do you know now how to say it?

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Speaker 1: Say it? Andrew, what's my last name? Say it? Bit

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Speaker 1: same name? Name? Got your like you, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: say the or is there Is it wrong to say

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Speaker 1: the or it's a v i o r For our

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Speaker 1: listeners who may not know, is it wrong to say?

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Speaker 1: Is it a vy? Or? Because I would say the or?

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Speaker 1: Or is it avier avor? I used to have? There

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Speaker 1: she would go, Noah avoi. She would be like so

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Speaker 1: dramatic about it. It sounds like because avoir a v

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Speaker 1: o i r is the one of the you know,

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Speaker 1: most popular verbs, most used verbs in French. It's to have.

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Speaker 1: and that's a conjugation of avoir A v O I R.

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Speaker 1: So it does look very um French. So I'm glad

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Speaker 1: to have that out of the way. Like that is

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Speaker 1: it before and um, and I kind of like swallowed

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Speaker 1: my pride in asking you. We've had this conversation before

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Speaker 1: and I got the answer, and I think I didn't

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Speaker 1: create a mnemonic device to remember it. And so then

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Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, wait, Like do you ever do

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Speaker 1: that where you're like clear there, you like get some information,

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Speaker 1: You're like, oh good, and then you are so obsessed

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Speaker 1: I need a gps um. But there are embarrassing things

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Speaker 1: when it comes to like being a human being and

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Speaker 1: it doesn't mean you're a bad person. Like I think

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Speaker 1: And so I was just talking with a good friend

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Speaker 1: Ian Finance. He came by my hotel. I'm in York

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Speaker 1: and we were talking about honestly, like we we both

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Speaker 1: like just it all. All this behavior stems from feeling

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Speaker 1: alleviate that feeling of like feeling like anxiety because you're

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Speaker 1: either scared or shamed or anything. And the only way

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Speaker 1: to alleviate it is to get a little hit of dopamine.

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Speaker 1: And when you reach for that thing to make yourself

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Speaker 1: that you're doing something that is addictive or wrong or illegal,

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Speaker 1: is you're just trying to be a person who isn't

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Speaker 1: And so I'm just it's like a nice reminder for

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Speaker 1: really do when someone reacts. Just came out. Well, we

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Speaker 1: You and I are both scared of being someone being

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Speaker 1: mad at us, being criticized, having it come back to us,

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Speaker 1: want constructive criticism. So studies have shown that we bite

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Speaker 1: night doing two shows. Um, but there's comedy live podcast

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Speaker 1: happening all weekend long, and I just I really recommend it.

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Speaker 1: If that sounds good, do you plan a plan a

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Speaker 1: trip around it? So? Um, Austin has the only nude

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Speaker 1: beach in all of Texas. Hippie Hollow is a clothing

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Speaker 1: optional beach located on Lake Travis. Oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: love that. Have you ever been to a nude beach?

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Speaker 1: Just in like layer wearing layers topless? I just love

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Speaker 1: the idea of a guy that like puts on a

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Speaker 1: winter coat and goes d But no, I've never you've

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Speaker 1: been topless before wearing Israel or something. No, it was

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Speaker 1: in um St Martin. I would love to go to

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Speaker 1: a nude beach. I don't want to have like my

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get like sand in my vagina though,

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Speaker 1: because it already does when you're wearing a swimsuit. And

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Speaker 1: it's just like, havn't sand in your sandwich? Which you know,

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Speaker 1: I got one done in um Austin. Uh um, let's see,

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Speaker 1: I had no idea. Aren't interesting? God? These are the worst,

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00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:14,879
Speaker 1: uh Austin. If there's okay, these are all the worst facts.

446
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 1: It's just like promoting things. Um. The Texas State Capitol

447
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 1: Building is the second largest capital building. Who cares. Austin

448
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 1: is one of the sunniest cities in America at three

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Speaker 1: D sixty five days, Austin gets an average of three

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Speaker 1: hundred days of sunshine. That's awesome. I lived in Boulder

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Speaker 1: and they also um For a year I lived in

452
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Speaker 1: Boulder going to school, and that was also a place

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Speaker 1: that set celebrated three D days of sunshine. And man,

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Speaker 1: does that affect your fucking mood? You know? Kerson is

455
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Speaker 1: one of those lights that she sits in front of

456
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Speaker 1: in the winter when she's in Kansas. City to like

457
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Speaker 1: give her. I don't know if it's red light, but

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Speaker 1: you know it's just like for people with UM seasonal

459
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 1: affect disorder or whatever that like, and she says it

460
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Speaker 1: really works. Um, I definitely feel a mood shift when

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Speaker 1: the sun is out. But I'm also one of those

462
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Speaker 1: pop that loves the rain because it gives me an

463
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Speaker 1: excuse to be depressed, which I think actually makes the

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Speaker 1: most fun. I had in Austin. I took a pontoon

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Speaker 1: boat down Lake Travis. That was cool. And then you

466
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Speaker 1: go on a I don't know if you ever done

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Speaker 1: Have you ever done a rope swing? It's uh like

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Speaker 1: I did ropes courses like you know in middle school

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Speaker 1: and stuff for like tema rope swing into the lake

470
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Speaker 1: like swing where you let go. I've never been less grace,

471
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Speaker 1: Like you only fall ten feet, but you would have

472
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Speaker 1: thought I fell six thousand feet. The way I hit

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Speaker 1: the water, It's like I hit it in a way

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Speaker 1: that some it looked like God threw me down to

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Speaker 1: try to kill me. But it was cool. It was fun.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't but yeah, no, people do it all the time.

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Speaker 1: The best is like you see those videos where the

478
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Speaker 1: person let's go a little early and they missed a

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Speaker 1: lake completely, which is, oh yeah, I mean you know what,

480
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Speaker 1: I have done a rope swing off a yacht and

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Speaker 1: that's not to brag, but it is. It was off.

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Speaker 1: Amy rented us the sign Felt's yacht in um the

483
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Speaker 1: Bahamas for like all of her girlfriends, and we took

484
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Speaker 1: we had to take a seaplane there and we're on

485
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Speaker 1: this amazing fucking yacht where they I remember they had

486
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Speaker 1: a whole boat crew like below deck that they ironed

487
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Speaker 1: our sheets, which I thought was like, why are they

488
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 1: ironing our sheets? That's so stupid, But um, it was

489
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Speaker 1: the nicest experience of my life. But they had a

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Speaker 1: rope swing that went off the thing, and I remember

491
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Speaker 1: being so scared that I was gonna let go at

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Speaker 1: the wrong time and just like slam into the side

493
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Speaker 1: of it and just like flop in and like it's

494
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Speaker 1: just ropes, and like thinking, your upper body strength is

495
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 1: like more than you, like I always overestimate how strong

496
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Speaker 1: I am, but I looked pretty good. Actually, she posted

497
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Speaker 1: um and then Austin, I'm just I mean, Austin is

498
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Speaker 1: just like a cool fucking city. The people are cool,

499
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: comedy is always great there, i haven't been back in

500
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Speaker 1: so long, and I've moved this date a million times,

501
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: so like, I'm so appreciative of anyone coming out to

502
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Speaker 1: the shows, and um, I'm gonna have a lot of

503
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Speaker 1: comedians and like, um, you're gonna be there, but I'm

504
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Speaker 1: gonna have like a lot like I think Dr Drew's

505
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Speaker 1: coming to one show. Like I'm getting a lot of

506
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Speaker 1: like the comedians that are in town are coming to

507
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,719
Speaker 1: my show. So there's going to be an added element

508
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Speaker 1: of me feeling like very excited to like perform for

509
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Speaker 1: my peers because there's usually when you're performing, there's not

510
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: other comedians in town like scoping at your show, and

511
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Speaker 1: so that'll be fun too. And um, yeah, I went

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Speaker 1: on stage last night for the first time since December,

513
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: and so I did three sets. Dude, it was so fun.

514
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Speaker 1: I'm working on this new bit that I have. I

515
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: always knew I was going to talk about this one

516
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: thing that happened to me, and it was always so

517
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 1: embarrassing and kind of like shameful and something that I

518
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 1: thought that people would judge me for that I never

519
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: I just needed space from it, and I've had a

520
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: year away from it and now I'm ready to like

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Speaker 1: talk about it. And for the first time last night,

522
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: because all their phones are tucked away in these little

523
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: cases and things like that, I felt comfortable, Like I

524
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Speaker 1: went on stage was I wrote an entire new ten

525
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: minutes last night. I like sat down and wrote all

526
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Speaker 1: these jokes, and it's hard to memorize all of them,

527
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 1: but they really hit. There's some really special stuff going on,

528
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: and I'm really excited about my next special because I

529
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 1: have been talking to my boyfriend about it and we're

530
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: like talking about what I want to do. Like we're

531
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: watching Bo Burnham a lot the other day and we

532
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: were just talking about like this is because he's never

533
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: seen bo Burnham. It was one of those things where

534
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 1: he was like, oh, this kid's annoying and like wrote

535
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Speaker 1: him off and I was like, you just trust me,

536
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 1: You've got to get into it. And he was blown

537
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 1: away and really inspired and was like, Nikki, this is

538
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: what you need to do with the guitar, Like this

539
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: is you you like, And that's the way I felt.

540
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 1: I was like, I wanna I need to like start

541
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: saying more and being like as honest as bow is

542
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: and I have been doing that, I think, but there's

543
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: a new story I want to tell and um, he

544
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 1: told me, which is a great way to look at

545
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 1: anything creatively you're going through. It's like every joke you write,

546
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: everything you do, should answer the question, what's the story

547
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 1: you're trying to tell? Like what is what? What are

548
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 1: you trying to tell me? What's the story you're trying

549
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 1: to tell? Like he said that he worked on a

550
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 1: production like Anytime of Me works with this production company,

551
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 1: Done and Dusted. They do these big events like the

552
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: Emmy's Grammys and like I Heart Radio Awards and they're

553
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: you know, the main guy, David Jammy always asks does

554
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 1: this what story are we trying to tell? That's what

555
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: they always start with. And I love that, Like even

556
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,719
Speaker 1: an awards show has a story to tell. And you know,

557
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: this is getting into like Andrew of you being like,

558
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: but sometimes I just like to make a silly joke.

559
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean any doesn't have a like an overarching meeting,

560
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: but that's a story to tell. It's like silliness is important,

561
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: like that could be the story. So I'm just excited,

562
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: and um, I'm also excited. We're going to New Orleans, um,

563
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: and I want to just do a couple of fun

564
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 1: facts about New Orleans. Uh, and also Andrew obviously lived there.

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00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: All right, but before Andrew says one, I have an

566
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Speaker 1: interesting one. Did you know that Bourbon Street is not

567
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 1: named after the alcohol named after the chicken? What's no,

568
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: it's named after a royal family. Is Bourbon the drink

569
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: named after the royal family too? Then they both named

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00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't look at that fact? All right? Okay? Bourbon

571
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: Street that is New Orleans for me has been tough

572
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: because I don't drink anymo. I wish I would have

573
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 1: gone to New Orleans when I drank. I mean, it's

574
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: such a great city. Um, I hope that we maybe

575
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 1: let's stay an extra day there or something too, Like

576
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Speaker 1: I want to just have you take me around, Andrew, like,

577
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: where would you take me in New Orleans? As someone

578
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: who like has been on Bourbon Street has kind of

579
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: done like I don't like beignets, I don't like fried food,

580
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: I don't like drinking. I love like music, Like where

581
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: would you take me? I have the perfect thing. It's

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00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: it's my second fun fact. Yes, New Orleans features many

583
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: above ground tombs. I love those, Yes, many literally thousands.

584
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 1: They can't put them under underground because of the water level,

585
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: they'll just be floated down there. I love, I love

586
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Speaker 1: going through. Some interesting fact about New Orleans is uh

587
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: like you could live everyone like lives pretty much next

588
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: to a cemetery where everyone's above ground. It's just like

589
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: and it and it becomes in a way where it's like,

590
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, all those people are just floating like

591
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: like just about Like I don't know, it's like wild

592
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: how like normal people like New Orleans, Like you lived

593
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: in St. Louis, now you lived in Florida, has lived

594
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: in New York? Like what's the vibe in New Orleans?

595
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: What are the people? Well, here's the thing. When you

596
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: go to college, it's you are like, um, excluded from

597
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: kind of the culture or the people from there. You know,

598
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 1: you kind of stick to your own. That being said,

599
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: you know, there's a shirt or a phrase that's very

600
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: popular in New Orleans called third World and proud of It.

601
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:41,479
Speaker 1: And I guess the idea is like loud conversation, saying

602
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: the wrong things, dark humor, um obviously you know, throwing

603
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: up on your own genitals, but like really like just

604
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: so they've seen some ship and they're okay with like

605
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 1: so that show can be like dirtier. Oh my god,

606
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,719
Speaker 1: you could be can be touchy. It's not gonna be

607
00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: like groans. Like these people can get it almost anywhere.

608
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 1: It Yeah, hard to like entertain hard to shock them,

609
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, Oh, that's going to

610
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: be a challenge. Come to our New Orleans show and

611
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: watch us try to like get you to clutch your

612
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 1: pearls or your you know, beads that you got for

613
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: show on your tits. And I feel like with New

614
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: Orleans too, it's like just one of those cities where whatever,

615
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: you know, when I did drink, but you sit at

616
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: a bar and you you feel very like very quickly

617
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: comfortable talking to the person next to you that you've

618
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 1: never met, and you might hear a story that you

619
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: that most people would probably not tell anyone, but it's

620
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: like the story they lead with. And I think that's

621
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: kind of where I've gotten that kind of attitude from.

622
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: I remember going from New Orleans to then living in

623
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 1: like Hermosa Beach, California, like straight from there, and I

624
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:47,959
Speaker 1: was not ready for that for people putting on airs

625
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:52,719
Speaker 1: and like being more like just uh uptight, and so

626
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 1: I would lean into getting up in her moosa to

627
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 1: the point where I couldn't walk to prove that I

628
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 1: was normal, Like that was a mentor this too, but

629
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: like to prove how New Orleans I was. And you

630
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: guys don't get it. I have some Yeah, I wanna,

631
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: I really wanna. Um. I love this. This is actually

632
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,719
Speaker 1: so helpful because I feel like when I go to cities,

633
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: I don't try to know anything because I'm just like

634
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: I get scared of getting it wrong or being like

635
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: hating an outside or hating a tourist that doesn't know.

636
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: So I don't even attempt to know because what I

637
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: it's like not asking no how to pronounce her name,

638
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: because it's like I'm so ashamed that I don't know it,

639
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: that I don't even know what. I'm glad to get

640
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Speaker 1: into this. I would I would take you to like

641
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: this place called Tipotina's, which is just a small music

642
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: venue where like I don't know if you've ever seen

643
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: like a band called the Meters. It's like this brass band.

644
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: It's like fifteen guys all on you know, the stage

645
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: at the same the energy is just so p funk there,

646
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: uh you know in the funk Adelics, is it p funk. Yeah.

647
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: Um anyhow, wait, oh yeah, yes, I know who that is.

648
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 1: I think Wait, I don't have long draft. It's like

649
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: colorful dreads. He was in PCU the movie anyhow. But

650
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: like I think live music for you in New Orleans

651
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: that would be something that you would absolutely love any

652
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: energy of it. Um, Okay, that was awesome. Maybe we'll

653
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: talk a little bit more about those cities. But uh,

654
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: you know, every every show, I think we want to

655
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: cover a couple of cities that were coming to just

656
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: so we can learn about them and get the people

657
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: that are from They're excited about it. And if you

658
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: have any fun New Orleans or Austin facts to share

659
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: with us, please send them in and we might feature

660
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: them on the show. Okay, let's get to the news.

661
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: It's Wednesday, folks, you know what that means. It is Wednesday.

662
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: It's hump day. Baby. We're in the middle there with Tony.

663
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 1: Is gonna go up from there? Or is it going

664
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: to decline? No one knows really, but having all the

665
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: swells out there and uh, back to you know, all right.

666
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: Sandra Bullock swears by the seven dollar drug store product

667
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: for youthful skin. At fifty seven can you guys, guess

668
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: what it is swears by this product. I'm guessing your

669
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: Gina Cleaner cleanser. Um, I'm gonna guess coconut oil. Okay, well, uh,

670
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: you're both wrong. It is preparation. H She said that

671
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: while starring as Gracie Hart in This Congeniality, she took

672
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: away a beauty hack and said, I didn't realize that

673
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 1: putting hemorrhoid ointment on your face is acceptable in the

674
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: beauty business. But apparently but cream does help lines around

675
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: the eyes. Okay, I guess it like plumps them up

676
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: like I've heard of this before for like just um puffiness.

677
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: I love it constricts blood vessels, which can reduce puffiness. Okay, sorry,

678
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: that's what I meant. Um. I don't know why I was.

679
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 1: I was thinking like like filler, like like usually when

680
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 1: lines go away, it's her underry. Well. I was also, yeah,

681
00:34:55,760 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 1: I've got a tail coming out of my cornea. Um. No,

682
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 1: I guess I think of like I love these little

683
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: because from yesterday I was on set, I did beat

684
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 1: Bobby Flay, and I my makeup artist goes like, oh,

685
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: you have beautiful skin. I've been hearing that a lot. Recently,

686
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 1: and I you know, it's spirolactin. Known is the hundred

687
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: milligrams I take every day that cleared up my acne.

688
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: But honestly, I washed my faith with like any old

689
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: face wash. It's I don't really have a brand. And

690
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: then fucking that stupid serum from the ordinary plants, squalling,

691
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: plant squalling seven dollars for a thing. It's I swear

692
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 1: by it, you guys, Like it's just that's all I need.

693
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: And it's so simple, and I've bought things that are

694
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 1: hundreds of dollars, and I think it just can be

695
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: so much more simple than people think. And yes, I

696
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: I'll And the filler I had underneath my eyes was

697
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: one of the best, like you know, invasive kind of

698
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 1: things that I've done, and I've done a lot of them.

699
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: That and m sculpt on my butt gave me a

700
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: butt and it hasn't gone away. And maybe all so

701
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: like eating properly in gaining weight has given me a butt,

702
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: but um, I'm sculpted on my butt. And then um,

703
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 1: the filler underneath my eyes really helped with like just

704
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: the hollow eyes. And the thing is, I'm still lovable

705
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 1: with or without it. But um, there are when it

706
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,959
Speaker 1: comes to skincare, you don't need to go crazy. And

707
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 1: I would die for any bestie to call in with

708
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: like here is or here's my like cheap thing that

709
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 1: I swear by, Like do you guys know what? Do

710
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,879
Speaker 1: you have anything in your arsenal that's like just you'll

711
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: always use the rest of your life In terms of

712
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: hair care skincare, One thing that I learned is that um,

713
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 1: what does she say? Eyebrows are the window to your

714
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,959
Speaker 1: face or something so like if you have a good

715
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: arch in your eyebrows, it's like an instant facelift. Love

716
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: that I learned a new trick that I want to

717
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 1: share that I rarely find a new trick when you're

718
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 1: using an eye pencil. Uh in this and men listening,

719
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: maybe show this with women in your life or if

720
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,359
Speaker 1: you're a guy who wears guyliner. Um, when you're using

721
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 1: a pencil, sometimes it's like it's it kind of like

722
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: doesn't go well, like it's a little too cold, and

723
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 1: it's kind of gets like it doesn't like smoothly go

724
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: on because it's like a pencil. I saw my makeup

725
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 1: parts one time. Just do a lighter and hold it

726
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: over the lighter flame a little bit to warm it up,

727
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 1: and then it goes on smoothly, like it's almost liquid eyeliner.

728
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: And I thought that was like such a cool trick,

729
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 1: but I did it the other day and I burnt

730
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: my eyes. So be careful. It doesn't take a lot,

731
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: just a couple of swipes and then test it on

732
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: your hands like it's baby formula. Um okay. Next story.

733
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: Social media withdrawal symptoms differ in older and younger people.

734
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: One study found that older participants reported greater psychological distress

735
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: upon removing their mobile devices, while younger people reported feeling better,

736
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 1: less anxious, and less depressed. The theory is older people

737
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 1: may have more stressful lives and need an escape, so

738
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: they use their phones like a sedative. In contrast, younger

739
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 1: people maybe seeking excitement, so they use their mobile device

740
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: as a stimulant. Interesting because you would think that people

741
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 1: whose brains have been formed with mobile devices would be

742
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: more dependent on it. But I do find that there

743
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: was I forget I was around a bunch of youths once.

744
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get into details because that's my own

745
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: personal business, but I remember being around youth and like

746
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: having them say, like, like even a meal. I remember

747
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,320
Speaker 1: telling me like, he goes yes, and as I just

748
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: go to the coffee shop and I leave my phone

749
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: at home, which to me, I would never do. I

750
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 1: just I might put my phone in my bag for

751
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: a little bit or put it face down when I'm

752
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 1: having lunch with my friends, so I'm not triggered by

753
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 1: like lighting up, but leaving it at home, I would

754
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 1: not be able to do that. And I think that

755
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: I think that sometimes, Yeah, maybe your life gets so

756
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: stressful it's it's harder to manage these these because what

757
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 1: your phone is is exactly what we're talking about. It

758
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: is a way to numb out so that you're not

759
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: feeling your feelings because you're having anxiety, and so you

760
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: go to your phone to like not think because it's

761
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 1: too painful to you're avoiding pain. And I think when

762
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: you get older, you get weaker to to make good

763
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 1: decisions for yourself. You just have less options because you're

764
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 1: fucking tired, you're more in pain, because you're fucking weighed

765
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: down by life, and it's just the easiest thing to

766
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 1: to not give up. Andrew, Yeah, I think like social media,

767
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 1: I guess you could replace that with like an actual drug. Right,

768
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: So when you're young and you're feeling anxious, where you

769
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: might fucking throw in some cocaine in your nose to

770
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: fucking wild out, to to forget about everything and to

771
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,720
Speaker 1: just live in the moment and be present. When you're

772
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: fucking sixty, the idea of cutting up cocaine is just

773
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,439
Speaker 1: like I don't know, I mean, I think you'll die,

774
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 1: but like like you want, you want to numb out,

775
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 1: but you don't want to, you don't need, you don't

776
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 1: want it to be harmful, Yeah, at least harm And

777
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 1: I guess more younger you are, you're more apt to

778
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: do things that are will numb you out way more

779
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:07,439
Speaker 1: than your phone that you don't know yet are like oh,

780
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: yeah that's true too. Yeah, yeah, that's true too. And

781
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:11,439
Speaker 1: also I think that's your point is like young people

782
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: are like, oh, I'll just do cocaine or I'll do

783
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, I just meant their using their

784
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: phone as like Noah said, as like a stimulant. So

785
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: like the idea of being like, oh, they would rather

786
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 1: have not rather do cocaine, but like their phone is

787
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: cocaine to them. It's like, oh, I want to see

788
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: something fucking wild on my phone. Meanwhile, an older person

789
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 1: thing z X. You know what I mean, like an

790
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: older person. She's saying older people have more are get

791
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 1: more anxious when they're away from their phones. That was

792
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: the study, So younger polical distress. No, no, but my

793
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: point is is that they use social media as a

794
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: sedative and younger people use as a stimulant. That's what Okaya,

795
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: Oh that makes sense. Um. You know you don't see

796
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: an old person taking speed usually because then they'll just

797
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 1: crash your wheelchair into Like, yes you do. Really, we

798
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: had a president on oh have present. Yeah, it's like caffeine.

799
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: We're all on speed in some way, like a d

800
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: D meds that just took ten of them. Yeah, I

801
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 1: mean it's like speed is rampant things that uppers. I

802
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: hate downers, Like I I definitely always loved alcohol, which

803
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: is a downer, but um uppers. I don't have addictive

804
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: behavior towards like I did cocaine. I was like, I

805
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 1: love this, but it wasn't like I want to do it.

806
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: More like I'm just like Okay, that was good, and

807
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: I need to like stay. It's I don't have the

808
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: downers I get addicted to uppers. Uh, but but yeah,

809
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: we're all trying to mitigate it. Up and down, up

810
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: and down. Um, let's take a quick breaker actually right now,

811
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: and we'll come back and do more headlines. Alright, we're back, now,

812
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: what what's the next headline? All right? A relationship expert

813
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: has revealed the three real reasons that couples are triggered

814
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: to argue. The first underlying dynamic is about power and control,

815
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 1: which may sound like you need to unload the dishwasher

816
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: my way because that's the right way. The person responding

817
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: badly to that because they feel like they're being bossed

818
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 1: around and they're losing a sense of control exactly. The

819
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: second underlying cause for arguing is respect and recognition. For example,

820
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: you always make plans without even asking me first m

821
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: Do you even realize how much I'm doing around the house?

822
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: Very common, right, Like I need to be I need

823
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 1: to be men as we know, Noah, need masculine energy,

824
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: whether that you're the female or male or whatever in

825
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 1: the relationship. If you're the masculine energy, you need to

826
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 1: be respected by the person to feel loved. And I

827
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: think a lot of women fuck that. I realized that

828
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: was The problem in my relationship was that I didn't.

829
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:53,799
Speaker 1: I didn't respect my partner the way that he I

830
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 1: thought I did, but I didn't, And now I have.

831
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: I made the things. I made the right voices for

832
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 1: myself to find the ways that I have the most

833
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: deep respect for this man that I never had before.

834
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,399
Speaker 1: And it's as soon as I was able to tap

835
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 1: into that, and it's real, and it's like fucking like

836
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 1: I've never felt before the kind of respect that I

837
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: have for my boyfriend. As soon as I tapped into that,

838
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: everything that he was that he often would feel triggered

839
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: by or feel like insecure about, completely went away. It

840
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: made him feel so safe because men need to be

841
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:34,439
Speaker 1: respected and women need to be you know, cherished, And

842
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: it allowed him to cherish me when I respected him.

843
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 1: But respect is huge. Um what's the third? The third

844
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 1: one is being caring and closeness. And it may sound

845
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: like why am I the only one to text? Mm hmmm? Um,

846
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: I mean a lot like why am I the only one?

847
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: And the fourth is I kea yeah? Um yeah, it's

848
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: like I mean all of this every argument that I

849
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 1: get into, uh, in my relationship or in past relationships

850
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:11,319
Speaker 1: has always come from a place for me of fear

851
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: of abandonment, fear that he's going to leave me so

852
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 1: I leave him first, fear that um anger that I

853
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 1: am having to not be myself because this person can't

854
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: handle it, which really is about me not feeling like

855
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: I'm good enough for this person because I should be

856
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: able to be myself, and it it has led to

857
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,840
Speaker 1: resentment of like, God, I have to like act like

858
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 1: I'm okay right now because this guy will be mad

859
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: at me if I'm not okay, and then I get

860
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 1: mad at him. But really it's on me. I shouldn't

861
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,360
Speaker 1: be with someone that can't handle me. What am I doing?

862
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 1: So it was always It's always coming from a place

863
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,479
Speaker 1: of insecurity and me and feeling unlovable. And the only

864
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: reason I'm able to have a good relationship right now

865
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: is because I love myself. I just know it. And

866
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that if you don't love yourself you

867
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: can't be in a relationship, but to in a really

868
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: healthy one, I do believe that you have to feel

869
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 1: you have to respect yourself enough to let's to love

870
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 1: someone else. I just I wasn't capable of it before,

871
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: and I didn't even know I wasn't and I was

872
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 1: doing my best, and I'm glad that it took me

873
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: this long. But I I The other day, I was

874
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 1: watching the reality show with Chris did I share this anecdote?

875
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 1: And I was watching the first episode and he was

876
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: watching it through his fucking fingers because he doesn't want

877
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: to see himself. He's like embarrassed of like he just doesn't.

878
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: He's like me. But I told him, you're so good

879
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,879
Speaker 1: on this, You're so adorable. We are so cute. I'm

880
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 1: like rooting for us, like I'm watching a Nora Ephron film,

881
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,760
Speaker 1: Like we are so fucking cute. And for whatever reason,

882
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: I've watched the pilot now three times. It was the

883
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: third viewing with him, and I was watching it and

884
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 1: I was like, I saw how much he loved me

885
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 1: in it, Like I really saw it, and I was like,

886
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 1: that guy loves that girl so much. I kind of

887
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:56,760
Speaker 1: stopped seeing myself. And I was also like that girl,

888
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 1: she's a fucking lot, Like what a fucking guy this

889
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 1: guy is? Like I always used to think I was

890
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: such a fucking prize and like, why don't guys get it?

891
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: And the thing is I am, obviously, but there's nothing

892
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: wrong with me, but I am a lot. It takes

893
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:19,320
Speaker 1: a very special highly like um tolerant and like gentle,

894
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 1: like forgiving and like secure man to be with someone

895
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 1: who is so opinionated, loud talkie like as me. It

896
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: just it doesn't mean that like anyone who can put

897
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: up with me isn't special, but it takes a very

898
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 1: unique person. And I was just so I just turned

899
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: him and I go, thank you so much for loving

900
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: that girl. She is so difficult and like she's adorable

901
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: and I love her so much and she is doing

902
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: the best she can. But that is a lot for

903
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 1: someone to handle. And you're such a good man for

904
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: loving her like she needs that love. And you're like,

905
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: I just love you so much a loving her, and

906
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: like thank you, because that's a lot. Like suddenly I

907
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 1: saw like what he puts up with. Instead of me

908
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 1: being like, you're welcome, I was like and of course,

909
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 1: like I'm amazing, and I we laughed together, and I'm

910
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 1: a very forgiving and affectionate person, I'm sexy and all

911
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 1: these things that are great, but I'm also a fucking

912
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: handful and I respect him so much for being such

913
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: a man and putting up with such a sassy, brassy

914
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 1: woman that I don't think a lot of men could

915
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: put up with, and I know a lot of men

916
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: couldn't put up with. And I just loved him so

917
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: much for it, And I think it's a really great

918
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 1: way to find affection for your partner is to just

919
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: acknowledge that you're a tough cookie and that someone chose

920
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 1: to be with you and how cool that is and

921
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 1: chose to love you and like stand by you with

922
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: all of your flaws. And I just I fucking loved him.

923
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 1: So I just Chris smacking a random guy in the

924
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:56,479
Speaker 1: face because he has to put up with you. He's

925
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: just smacking a guy at freaking Whole Food. He just

926
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 1: packed his food wrong. God, It's like if not me

927
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: just watched the show, Just watch that reminds me, dude

928
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 1: that Like, no, I don't know about you. But when

929
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: I saw Jada Pinkett Smith not like get up and

930
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: go like we'll stop, like, I was so embarrassed for her,

931
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,719
Speaker 1: and I thought, like I in that moment, if I

932
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: were her, I would have been mortified that my husband

933
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: boyfriend did that. I very empressed. I wouldn't have been like,

934
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 1: I know, I think she did and I just I

935
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 1: didn't relate to that at all, And I don't know, No,

936
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 1: would you like if someone you know insulted something about you,

937
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: would you like av to like stand up for you

938
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: in in that kind of way? And in what kind

939
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:44,280
Speaker 1: of way would you have liked Do you get horny

940
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: for like him like standing up for you or like

941
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 1: defending you, protecting you? I think it depends, like in

942
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:53,320
Speaker 1: what way. But if we were in a similar situation,

943
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 1: like in a parking lot and like his, if he

944
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: reacted that way, he would only escalate it, and I

945
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 1: would be completely turned off by that because it would

946
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: be actually putting you more in harm's way. Yeah, exactly,

947
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: And it's like escalating to like a I don't know,

948
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: like a I don't know too, like barbaric for me,

949
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 1: like I I kind of the other day when I

950
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: was on Stern, I was looking at the clip they posted,

951
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: and I didn't see the comments because I just knew

952
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: that it was going to be upsetting to me because

953
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: I was a girl with an opinion and that has

954
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:27,479
Speaker 1: not met well by a lot of times. I didn't

955
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: even look, but there were eight hundred comments, and I

956
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: was like hired that day. I was just very concise

957
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,760
Speaker 1: and like right straight to the point. It was good.

958
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 1: I'm glad. I I really was kind of like embarrassed

959
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 1: of that and didn't repost it because I was like,

960
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 1: I don't even know what I said. I didn't even

961
00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 1: want to listen to it, but I want to say

962
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 1: that I saw eight comments and it had just been posted,

963
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, Ship, this is either like

964
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 1: very positive or very negative. But I just know there's

965
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: going to be some stuff in there that's really mean,

966
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: because I saw one mean tweet that was like, oh Stern,

967
00:49:56,800 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 1: this is the decline of Stern. Like usual, they of

968
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: any comedian to call in, all they can get is

969
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: Nikki Glazer, and it was like, oh god, it just

970
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: made me feel like he's probably ashamed that I even

971
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 1: called in, or like it just made me it was

972
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 1: the worst thing to read. But I didn't mean to

973
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:14,799
Speaker 1: read it, you know, and I almost I sent I

974
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:16,919
Speaker 1: said to Chris, like I'm having a rough day because

975
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: I saw comments and I just know I'm just predicting

976
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 1: that so many are just so mean, and I almost

977
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: wanted him to go read them and like go in

978
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 1: there and like right back to them, or like fucking

979
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 1: just like get in there and like just just right

980
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 1: back to these people, like the way that I used

981
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: to do for Amy, Like Amy used to get trashed

982
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 1: on the fucking Daily Mail and I would create fake accounts,

983
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: you know, anonymous accounts or as myself and on Reddit

984
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,359
Speaker 1: and I would go, you don't know what you're sucking

985
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: talking about. Calling your a joke thief is just a

986
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 1: way to diminish her. She's not a joke thief. This

987
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 1: is a fucking street joke that she knew was a

988
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 1: street joke to set up her other joke. You're an idiot,

989
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 1: you don't know what you're talking about. Sit this one out,

990
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 1: non comedian because you you're you're at Like I used

991
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 1: to defend her all the time, and it felt so good,

992
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 1: and I on, I love when people come to my defense.

993
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 1: But at the same time, it doesn't ever work. This

994
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 1: doesn't get through to people. And but there was something

995
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: that what wanted me to I just want someone to

996
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: witness what I deal with, you know, I guess that

997
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: was it. I wanted someone who I love to witness

998
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: like the hate that I have thrown at me sometimes

999
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 1: and like how and just to take that into consideration

1000
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: when I'm having a bad day, that like your version

1001
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 1: of a bad day is your own unique situation that

1002
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 1: I have to empathize with. But also like just I

1003
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 1: want you just just see a little bit of what's

1004
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 1: being hurled at me because he doesn't see it, you know,

1005
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 1: and like and I don't see it either, but even

1006
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 1: just knowing it's there, it's kind of like Andrew, you

1007
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 1: like to know you would like the water to be

1008
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:48,360
Speaker 1: clear so you could see if or you want the

1009
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,840
Speaker 1: water to be murky so you don't know if sharks

1010
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 1: are there, right like and I wanted to be clear.

1011
00:51:55,320 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 1: I don't know that analogy doesn't really work for this. Yes,

1012
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:04,720
Speaker 1: it's but it's I just go with it must be negative,

1013
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 1: like I just go with. I don't want to. I'm

1014
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,839
Speaker 1: not even gonna get in. I didn't read like all

1015
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 1: of it, you know, I just I really but like

1016
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 1: everything I saw, I mean, I honestly didn't see one negative.

1017
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:20,960
Speaker 1: And I wasn't looking for negative because if I did,

1018
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 1: I would have went through like all of them. You know,

1019
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: it was almost stick to you on it. There's just

1020
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,440
Speaker 1: times where I just know it's negative, and I know

1021
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 1: that you are going to see it because you're really

1022
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 1: good at like just like you're good at like you're

1023
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: proud of me, and so you look at the stuff

1024
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 1: like you always come from a place of like, oh,

1025
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: like you're always so proud of me, and I'm like

1026
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:41,240
Speaker 1: so appreciative of Like anytime I get good news, Andrew

1027
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 1: is always just like, dude, that's fucking awesome. Like it's

1028
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: weird to give your friends in the business good news

1029
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 1: that doesn't involve them sometimes because it can be like

1030
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: it can be threatening and like it's hard sometimes, and

1031
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: like I just want to say, Andrew, I really appreciate

1032
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: how what a good friend you are to always celebrate

1033
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: my chief ments and like look out for me and

1034
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 1: like and you're you're just it comes from such a good,

1035
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 1: loving place. And I just like really appreciate your friendship

1036
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: in that way, because it's it's not always easy to do,

1037
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 1: even for me when it comes to your achievements, Like

1038
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 1: I struggle with like because to me, it will mean

1039
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: he's gonna leave me. We're not gonna be friends anymore

1040
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: because he's gonna get too big and like he's like I,

1041
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:23,840
Speaker 1: so it's it's hard not to go there. And I

1042
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: just I think it's just takes a really strong person.

1043
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: So I like, thank you for loving me in that

1044
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 1: way as a friend. I appreciate it, and thank you

1045
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: for like I mean, it's reciprocated, as you know I've

1046
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 1: said many times, but like you know, just like little

1047
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: things like you. I don't know how the conversation went

1048
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:43,399
Speaker 1: with David Spade to get me to open for him

1049
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: this Saturday, but but that was you going, Hey, I

1050
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: believe in Andrew. He lives five minutes away. There's no

1051
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:51,879
Speaker 1: other comedians there that are alive. But other than that,

1052
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 1: you know, no, but it's not it, dude, there's other comedians,

1053
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 1: Like Andrew's the best fit to open for David Spaide,

1054
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: and he's he's going to impress him so much that's

1055
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: going to lead to opportunities for him that I don't

1056
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 1: even that had nothing to do with me, Like I

1057
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 1: you deserve it and like it's it's something that I

1058
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 1: gave to you because I felt it. Yeah, and I

1059
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 1: felt on your end, like I don't know, there's I

1060
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,439
Speaker 1: don't know what switched with you either or like both

1061
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: of us, I guess where it's like Okay, we're we're

1062
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 1: a team. We're not. We're individuals. We want each other

1063
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 1: to win. It's not a fucking competition. I've said that

1064
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 1: to you before, like I don't want to be competitive

1065
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: with you, and and and you've said before in the

1066
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: past like no, yeah, I get, but like, I don't know.

1067
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 1: Something like has changed with you that I've noticed that

1068
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: is I really like, appreciate, and like I work on

1069
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: it because it is not my normal instinct to feel.

1070
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 1: And I don't mean that, I don't mean by judging, like,

1071
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: but look look at you now, I'm proud of you,

1072
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 1: but no, like there is something about you. We're just

1073
00:54:56,239 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 1: struggle For me. I get so jealous of people's am

1074
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 1: Bushman's and I made this decision like Taylor Tomlins and

1075
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 1: Special was such a like she's so funny and she's

1076
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 1: so young. I didn't want to watch it. I And

1077
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: it's all because I'm threatened by her. It's all because

1078
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:15,839
Speaker 1: she I'm scared she's funnier than me. People are gonna

1079
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 1: and people with female comics always go God think in

1080
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: every comment I read about her is always like the

1081
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 1: one female comic that I like like, And it's just

1082
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 1: it all feels so personal against me because she's funny,

1083
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 1: and I just caught myself in this like spiral of

1084
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:33,320
Speaker 1: like like not wanting to celebrate her and this amazing

1085
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:36,240
Speaker 1: special she just put out or how funny this fucking

1086
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:39,800
Speaker 1: phenomen of comedy is because it somehow had something to

1087
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 1: do with me, and I chose, even though it was

1088
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:46,360
Speaker 1: difficult to me to fucking promote it because I was like,

1089
00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm not promoting this on purpose because I'm threatened by it.

1090
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 1: That is so dumb and so weak, and like, I'm

1091
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 1: so proud of her. Honestly watching her makes me a

1092
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 1: better comedian. I'm fucking grateful for her. And the second

1093
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: that I promoted her and was like like honestly said

1094
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: what I said, which is like this, you know, she's

1095
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 1: a beast. She's like the one to look out for

1096
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: and look out for, meaning like watch, not like, oh,

1097
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: she's gonna take your place, but we're all threatened. Taylor

1098
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 1: Johnbinson is so good at such a young age. And

1099
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:21,359
Speaker 1: I've been there before to where other female comics did

1100
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 1: not acknowledge me, and I thought I took it. I

1101
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 1: never took it as they were threatened by me because

1102
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:28,919
Speaker 1: I'm so funny. I always took it as they don't

1103
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 1: like me, and I thought maybe Taylor, because I'm not

1104
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 1: posting about her, and she knows that she knows, I

1105
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 1: know right, like she knows that I'm seeing her stuff

1106
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 1: like it. It's it turns into like she might think

1107
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: I don't like her, and that is so not it.

1108
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: It's actually the opposite. I'm such a fan that I

1109
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:48,919
Speaker 1: like can't deal. It's the same way I don't watch

1110
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 1: Mulaney because I'm just like, it makes me feel so insecure,

1111
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 1: so instead I posted about it. The second I posted

1112
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: about her, she writes me a d M We're d

1113
00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,799
Speaker 1: m ng back and forth just and I just go,

1114
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 1: I'm honest with her. I go, you are so extraordinary.

1115
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: You're like I I forget what I said, but I

1116
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: just spoke from the heart. And I didn't tell her

1117
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:10,799
Speaker 1: all of this. She'll probably hear this and like find out.

1118
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 1: But I'm threatened by you, Taylor, because you're so funny

1119
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 1: and it's so stupid. And when you go into the fear,

1120
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 1: the thing that you don't want to do, when you

1121
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 1: go into it because you know it's the right thing

1122
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 1: to do and you know that it will free you.

1123
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 1: On on the other side of it is like freedom.

1124
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: I love when I see her clips now, I like

1125
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 1: consume everything she has. There's no part of me that's like,

1126
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 1: oh God, like Taylor and I love about like m

1127
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 1: m a at the end when they hug each other

1128
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: after they like brutally kill what you tried to kill

1129
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 1: one another. Yes, and honestly, Taylor might get things that

1130
00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 1: I am up for. If Taylor didn't exist, I might

1131
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 1: work more. To be honest with you, I'm just let

1132
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 1: me just say though I'm not. Let's not live in

1133
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: this world where it's like there's a room enough for

1134
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 1: all of us. There isn't that women are there's one

1135
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 1: woman per show. There can be only one quirky best

1136
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 1: friend on a Netflix thing. Yes, we're a decade different

1137
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: in age, but there might be a thing where Taylor

1138
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,479
Speaker 1: gets something that if it wasn't for her, I would

1139
00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:12,640
Speaker 1: get it, and so I could maybe go, Yeah, she

1140
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 1: she could literally be a threat to me working. And

1141
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 1: even if let's say I do need work, Andrew, let's

1142
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 1: say I do need that job. So let let's say

1143
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm sued and I lose all my money and I

1144
00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:23,479
Speaker 1: do need to work, and Taylor takes that job, it's

1145
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: still me uplifting her is going to benefit me in

1146
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 1: the end, Like I'm not. I'm not not like Taylor

1147
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 1: is a threat to be getting things because she is

1148
00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: so funny, she's young, she's beautiful, she's fucking honest and cool.

1149
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean that I should indulge in those

1150
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 1: like jealous and vs. Bat like feelings, because that is

1151
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: just it's coming from a place of hate, and I

1152
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 1: just want to like I don't mean to sound like

1153
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 1: Will Smith's succeptance speech, but I want to come from

1154
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 1: a place of love. And like it took me. It

1155
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: took a lot for me to do the thing that

1156
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 1: I didn't want to do, which is like tell people, hey,

1157
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:02,920
Speaker 1: watch Taylor. She because I don't because I think my

1158
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 1: fans are gonna go, oh my god, she's so much

1159
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,280
Speaker 1: better than Nick. Why am I following NICKI follow Taylor everything.

1160
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 1: Now Taylor, it's like and in that right way, there

1161
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: is room for both of us. And honestly, me watching

1162
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: Taylor and which I was avoiding for so long, has

1163
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: been like, oh my god, I really like what she's

1164
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 1: doing here, and it like makes me think about the

1165
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 1: way I'm approaching. It's going to make me a better

1166
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 1: comic talk about mental health. She loves talking about all

1167
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:29,960
Speaker 1: the things awesome. Yeah, And I had her on my

1168
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:32,920
Speaker 1: podcast whatever like a while back, and I was like her,

1169
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 1: Nikki would be I've talked to you about this before,

1170
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 1: off Mike, but I was like, I know you guys

1171
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 1: will be friends. I knew you would be friends like

1172
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: you have, But I think sometimes you're you become so

1173
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 1: you have so much common ship with like an enemy

1174
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: that like all it takes is one like real healthy

1175
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 1: Because why why I'm threatened by her is because we're

1176
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 1: so simia the same reasons why we would be such

1177
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: good friends is why I want to keep her at

1178
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 1: a distance and try to like like and honestly, I

1179
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 1: bet Taylor would say Taylor will be me someday. She'll

1180
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 1: be ten years down the road and there will be

1181
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: some little phenom that is going to be in her

1182
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:14,440
Speaker 1: rear view mirror who is getting a lot of attention

1183
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: and they're saying like, finally this voice. We've been waiting

1184
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 1: for this, and it's going like it's that song nothing

1185
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 1: New by Taylor Swift and Phoebe Bridgers about um, will

1186
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:25,400
Speaker 1: you still love me when I'm nothing New? When I'm

1187
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 1: not the new girl anymore. And I was the new

1188
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 1: girl for so long. I was the young, like bratt

1189
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 1: like sassy, like kind of cute, like tell it like

1190
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 1: it is girl, And I'm not that girl anymore. Taylor's

1191
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 1: that girl now, and I I'm just like her success

1192
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: is has nothing to do with me, and I just

1193
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 1: I she is good for the world. She empowers girls

1194
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: to like be more honest, and that bitch has gotten

1195
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 1: to a place of honesty and being able to put

1196
01:00:55,520 --> 01:01:00,760
Speaker 1: it into joke form that is so uh precise. An expert,

1197
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 1: She's an excellent joke writer. She's a truth teller. She

1198
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: is young, and I know we have a lot of

1199
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 1: young listeners that sometimes don't relate to what I'm talking about.

1200
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 1: If you don't know Taylor Tomlinson, absolutely check her out.

1201
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 1: If this isn't a ringing endorsement, I don't know what is.

1202
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 1: And I just want to I want to just like

1203
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: celebrate people that threaten me more. She is the new

1204
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 1: host of f Boy Island three. I didn't they that

1205
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 1: honestly could happen, and I would be like, actually, that's

1206
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 1: a good you know, listen. I hope to work with

1207
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: her because like that's what this could lead to. Instead

1208
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 1: of me being like, final thoughts, I need to start

1209
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,360
Speaker 1: listening to Taylor Tomlins's podcast and drop out on ours. Now.

1210
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 1: We gotta have her on the show to talk about this,

1211
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 1: because I'm going to write her a d d M

1212
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 1: after this, just to warn her that I go into

1213
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: a whole thing. But um, it's it for me starting

1214
01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: out this episode admitting I don't know how to say

1215
01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:00,040
Speaker 1: you know his name? Like, I am actually admitting a

1216
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: lot of things that I never thought I would love

1217
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 1: air You're really thanks, but I but it brought it

1218
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 1: came up because dude, Like, it used to be hard

1219
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: for me when you would get things, whether it be

1220
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: like a girlfriend, whether it be a cat, like things

1221
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 1: like that threaten me. But I mean, like in the past,

1222
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: if you've got a cat, I'd be like, oh, and

1223
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 1: Jealsea has this new thing to post about that is

1224
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 1: like doesn't have to do with me. I don't know, no,

1225
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 1: mag it was so cute anyhow, But yeah, but like

1226
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 1: it when I have those instincts and I still do them,

1227
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm not freaking perfect. I'm sure there's going to

1228
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: be another Taylor Tomlinson that I'm gonna like have to like,

1229
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:52,960
Speaker 1: but what is it about, like the posting of like

1230
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: me having a cat to post, like, why would that

1231
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 1: offend or affect you negatively? Because it's getting you attend

1232
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 1: for a like Like, honestly, this is all really embarrassing

1233
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 1: to admit, by the way, And I don't think that

1234
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 1: I'm alone here and admitting that, Like when people's lives

1235
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 1: are going well on Instagram, you kind of resent it

1236
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:15,520
Speaker 1: because you're in a bad place, like you want everyone

1237
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 1: to be as gloomy as you are. So like, obviously

1238
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 1: it has every everything to do with me that that's

1239
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 1: that's that didn't happen, by the way, but like, let

1240
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 1: me just say how that could in a way? Um,

1241
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 1: you getting a cat? Oh, Brennan Andrew are so happy

1242
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: with their cat. Like he's he's so he's just happy.

1243
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: He looks happy. Everyone's happy for him. They're saying how

1244
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,400
Speaker 1: cute the cat is. Everyone loves him. He's getting so

1245
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:41,320
Speaker 1: many likes. No one likes me. Uh, he's gonna get

1246
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 1: so many likes that now he's going to realize, like,

1247
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 1: this post has nothing to do with Nikki, So do

1248
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:47,960
Speaker 1: I really need to be friends with Nikki anymore? Like

1249
01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: it's not really helping like I can. That's the way women.

1250
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: Women are fucking we that's the way my brain thinks.

1251
01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 1: I go so far and it's such a fucking narciss

1252
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:02,440
Speaker 1: like it is nothing, but I take it personally and

1253
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 1: I'm just starting to realize, like I if you just

1254
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 1: come up from a place of like, what do I

1255
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 1: what's the story I want to tell? Honestly, what's come

1256
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 1: back to this? What's the story I want to tell.

1257
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 1: I want everyone in the world to feel love and

1258
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 1: happiness and joy, Like that's all I want for anyone,

1259
01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:21,920
Speaker 1: and I wanted myself to feel that way. And anytime

1260
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 1: I want someone to not feel joy, it's because I

1261
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 1: don't feel joy and I wanted to match mine so like,

1262
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 1: but when it comes down to it, like those feelings

1263
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 1: of jealousy I have are all myself and I'm not

1264
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 1: a bad person for feeling them. That's why I'm talking

1265
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: about it honestly, because I don't think that's something to

1266
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 1: be ashamed of. To feel this way and to feel

1267
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: threatened by people. It's I can't help it, but I

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01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 1: but it's nice to share it and to be honest

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01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 1: about it, because it just freeze me when I see

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01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 1: you with like you know whatever like big comedians or

1271
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 1: like you know, you're you've traveled way more than I've

1272
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:57,760
Speaker 1: just been in St. Louis pretty much just playing golf

1273
01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: while you've done fifteen different shows, And it's of like

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01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 1: that sometimes I go, oh, she's just gonna forget about me,

1275
01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like I have those thoughts,

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01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:07,400
Speaker 1: you know, I have those thoughts. You've proven time and

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01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:11,040
Speaker 1: time over again to me that you have my back

1278
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:15,600
Speaker 1: and that I am have value to you and no

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01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 1: matter who you meet or like being on Howard or

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01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 1: all that ship which is whatever, like you've proven that, Like,

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01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 1: oh no, I'm not gonna But I still have those

1282
01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 1: doubts all the time, you know. I have that brain

1283
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 1: that goes through that like, oh look at her there.

1284
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's just gonna move to l A. And

1285
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna somehow live in St. Louis and have to

1286
01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: eat dinner with their parents without her, Like you know,

1287
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 1: I have these kind of thoughts. You know that you're

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01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 1: not crazy to think that, like those kinds you know,

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01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: Like so I, um, yeah, I guess that's true, and

1290
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 1: like that's very possible. All those things so I just

1291
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 1: want to validate that might have no I I you know,

1292
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: when it comes down to it's like trusting that like

1293
01:05:57,920 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: our friendship is about, is not transactional. And I think

1294
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:03,760
Speaker 1: that's what's gotten in the way for me sometimes is

1295
01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 1: that I feel like, oh, if Andrew wasn't on the

1296
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:08,919
Speaker 1: road for me with me, and I wasn't, he wasn't

1297
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 1: on my podcast, and all these things like would he

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01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 1: be friends with me? And I think I've just come

1299
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 1: to the place where I like trust that you would,

1300
01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 1: and like it's not about the things you get. Those

1301
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 1: are great things that I'm able to like give you

1302
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 1: and and of course that's like it's awesome for for

1303
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: you and for me, but like it just gets I

1304
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: think sometimes when you have your friends on payroll or

1305
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 1: like you are wrapped up in like work stuff, you

1306
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 1: start to question if you are really loved for who

1307
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:40,320
Speaker 1: you are, or for the opportunities you're providing, or because

1308
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:43,000
Speaker 1: you're like famous or whatever. And I think those were

1309
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 1: some insecurities of mine for a bit, and I just

1310
01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 1: instead of being like, I know he loves me as

1311
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 1: a friend, I just whatever it is it is, and

1312
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: I'll find out when it happens, and if you if

1313
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 1: you do end up like let's say you do end

1314
01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 1: up like only as soon as something about opportunity come along,

1315
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 1: we never talk again, right then that's okay, Like then

1316
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 1: I'll deal with it. It's like I just have to

1317
01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:07,840
Speaker 1: let go. And the truth is, as soon as I

1318
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:11,840
Speaker 1: let go, I realized, like, oh you you do, like

1319
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 1: there's just no question that you love. There's just no question.

1320
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:24,000
Speaker 1: And you know, I constantly feel like, you know, uh,

1321
01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 1: do am I talented to deserve these transactions because I'm

1322
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,919
Speaker 1: getting it from a friend? Does that make sense? Like

1323
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 1: am I? Am I worthy of this? Or am I

1324
01:07:36,160 --> 01:07:39,840
Speaker 1: only getting it because of friendship? And I have to

1325
01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 1: constantly question of like how talented really am I? Uh?

1326
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 1: Without the friend take the friendship out of it, if

1327
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 1: you're just going off my joke writing ability or whatever

1328
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:53,280
Speaker 1: like that, you know, like, uh, would would I still

1329
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:56,120
Speaker 1: be you know, in the running and what and do

1330
01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:57,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So then you know, like

1331
01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:00,000
Speaker 1: am I only keeping around for your friendship? But it's

1332
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 1: not about your talent? Yes? Well, I think that it's

1333
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 1: important to know that, Like bottom line, it could be

1334
01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:12,400
Speaker 1: it is both. But really, if I thought that you

1335
01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:17,639
Speaker 1: weren't talented, I would just pay like I just. I wouldn't,

1336
01:08:17,680 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 1: I wouldn't put you on my show like I would,

1337
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: I would be honest with you and give and I

1338
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 1: have given you constructive criticism of like when you do this, dude,

1339
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:26,800
Speaker 1: it is what you're really like. From my perspective, I

1340
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 1: think this is going to take you to the next level.

1341
01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:32,840
Speaker 1: This not so much. And like, so I I am

1342
01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:35,640
Speaker 1: aware of how talented you and like, yeah, I I

1343
01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 1: I get that too. I got that's so interesting because

1344
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:40,960
Speaker 1: we both are insecure about Like you're insecure that all

1345
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 1: I care about is your friendship and you're I've insecure

1346
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:45,920
Speaker 1: that all you care about is me using your talent.

1347
01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 1: And it's so funny because it um. I keep you

1348
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 1: around as my friend because you're so talented and because

1349
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:56,960
Speaker 1: you inspire me, and you are the sum of your

1350
01:08:56,960 --> 01:09:00,680
Speaker 1: five closest friends, and I want of my being to

1351
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,479
Speaker 1: be what Andrew Collins got going on. And that's the

1352
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:07,880
Speaker 1: truth of the matter. And you not so much or

1353
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:11,320
Speaker 1: no uh and noah, it's you too, Like you're someone

1354
01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: I spend so much time with on this podcast, and

1355
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 1: you are one of my five closest friends as well.

1356
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 1: And like, yeah, I want I want what you. I

1357
01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 1: would love to be Andrew. Um and and even though

1358
01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:28,439
Speaker 1: that's mostly sauce, Yeah, we gotta go. I gotta go

1359
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 1: run to a meeting. I love you both so much.

1360
01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:33,639
Speaker 1: What a great episode. Um, I'll be back in St.

1361
01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:36,479
Speaker 1: Louis tomorrow. We'll be face to face and uh, love

1362
01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:38,680
Speaker 1: you besties. I hope you enjoyed the episode. Don't be

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Speaker 1: and he to