1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer, Yes, Nicky Gazer Nikki. Hello here I am, 2 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: It's the Glazer. It's Tuesday. It's the nickig Lazer Podcast. 3 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: I'm here with Andrew Colin in St. Louis. Marian is 4 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: in the chair with him. You can see this on 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 1: our YouTube page. Luigi's in the chair with me. Noah 6 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: is in Arizona. Um, how is everyone's day going so far? 7 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: It's good. I tried to accomplish accomplish some that sentence. 8 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: I know, I'm slow and fast. You know, you're fascist 9 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: ship but also slow, you know, like a consummate chap. 10 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: One day you took sucking Yeah, I didn't even think 11 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 1: of a drug. Um. Wait again, So you tried to 12 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: accomplish things? Yeah, I just I went tried to go 13 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: to men's warehouse. The manager Wait why because you like yeah, yeah, 14 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: very nice men's warehouses, very vanist. Isn't that the place 15 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 1: where it's like because you like nice things? Oh No, 16 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: that's the jewel that's the No, that's the jeweler place 17 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: at the corner of I to seventy fair boy grad boy, 18 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 1: it's uh yeah, there's this guy is in every town. 19 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 1: But he makes it sound like he's just local. You 20 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: have offended in the diamond business. The Shane Company, the 21 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: Shane Company. I never know men's warehouses because you like 22 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: nice things. Well, I do as you can, as you know, 23 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: I'm did. That's where they make fun of the men's 24 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: warehouse where it's like seven suits for thirteen dollars and 25 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:37,199 Speaker 1: they're just suits that they sell as rags to clean 26 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: things up, like you can use them in your kitchen 27 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: to mop up spills. And it's just because it's just well, yeah, 28 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: that's what I was looking for. Whoa whoa accomplished old 29 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: stuttering mouth to the men's warehouse. Yeah, window gets rolled down. 30 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: Some ladies like, excuse me, sir, excuse me. I was like, 31 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: I have no money. They're like, no, men's warehouses closed. 32 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: Manager didn't show up, not till do you mean the 33 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: window gets rolled down? I'm so confused. When she was 34 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: in her car, I guess she was an employee at 35 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 1: Men's warehouse and we're walking in. Yeah, and the manager 36 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: had has the keya I assume. Yeah, So how great 37 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: is it when you show up to work and likes 38 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: not open? So Noah was it? Noah? Who? Maybe? No way? 39 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: Was Jed my assistant. Um. Last night, I was supposed 40 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: to have like an eight I saw my schedule. There 41 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: was like an eight thirty AM Zoom interview where I 42 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: had to be on camera. And I wrote her last 43 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: night to be like, hey, is this Like is this 44 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: on camera just because but it's just going to be audio. 45 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: We're just doing it on zoom just to see each other. 46 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: Or is this do I have to look nice? And 47 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: she was like, oh, Ship, I forgot to take that 48 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: off your calendar. That's canceled. She was like so sorry, 49 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: and I was like, no, it's so much better when 50 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: I think when I'm prepared for it and then it 51 00:02:56,400 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 1: goes away, I go, I'd rather that than have it 52 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: not be there. And if you're getting dressed up put 53 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: makeup on. No, but it was the night before, so 54 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: I was just anticipating it and then all of a sudden, cancel, 55 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 1: clothes can and canceled. Get to until you're not happy 56 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: when I'm putting on makeup, but then you have makeup 57 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: on for something else. No, because then I want to 58 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: go back to bed and I don't want to get 59 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: it all over my pillow. Yeah, okay, well just quickly 60 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: when when you get the news like that. Do you 61 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 1: get like a physical response like I calm for me, 62 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: it's a tingling. The same thing. John Laney had a 63 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: bit about canceled plants and he was like, it's the 64 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: closest I'll ever get to doing Heroin, the feeling that 65 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: you get when something you don't want to do cancels. 66 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: And then he did. And then he did Heroin and goes, 67 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: let me take that back, me get back. Have you 68 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: ever done Heroin and got your plans canceled? I could 69 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: see that, Joe spinning in your head because as soon 70 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 1: as I said, I was like, finished our sentence. We're 71 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: pretty good at that, kay. Then I went to pick 72 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: up a dress at a tailor for Brenna for the wedding. 73 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: It was supposed to be done today. I get there, 74 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: there's like you know that little clock that like small, 75 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: you know small where they go back in five another companies, 76 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: another business is supposed to like when people go Now, 77 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: we're just going I'm going out for coffee. I get 78 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: to shut down the shop. Ye just for six hours, 79 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: just for six days, that's fine. And then she showed up. 80 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: I waited. I was eating food in the car, waiting, 81 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: and uh, I go up there, it's like the dress ready. 82 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: She's like, oh no, it's not, like so casual. I 83 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: hate when they act like it's not something that they need, 84 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 1: Like like when you you know, it's like when you 85 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: order at a restaurant and you go, when you order 86 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: the meal, you go and I want and I would 87 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: love like that extra dressing on the side. You're say 88 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: some annoying thing, and then they don't bring it, and 89 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: you just casually go like, oh can I get that 90 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: ranch on the side that that extras And they go, 91 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I can get that for you. And it's like, no, 92 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 1: you don't act like this is a new thought. You 93 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: forgot it. And you go, oh no, I forgot Like 94 00:04:55,240 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: they're understaffed. That is fine, but just acknowledge that you 95 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: know that I already said it. Don't gaslight me into 96 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 1: being like this is a novel. I know. I know 97 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 1: they I had that the other day. And then you go. 98 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: Then you start eating your food and I asked for 99 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: what you like, I will wait or something to dip, 100 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 1: you know, or something or a sour cream. That's you. 101 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: You will ask for this thing that makes it essential 102 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: to you. But if you don't get it, You'll still 103 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: eat the nibble a little and then I'll will get bigger. 104 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 1: No one eats faster than Andrew and I. We are 105 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: the fastest eater. Kim Dylan very fast eater. I can't 106 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: keep up. Yeah, he wins out. I don't think anyone 107 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 1: because you will eat before the food has been you 108 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,119 Speaker 1: know what it is. I think growing up, I didn't 109 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: want to be at the dinner table, so I ate 110 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: as fast as possible, and then I just went to 111 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:47,919 Speaker 1: my room. And I remember my dad being a doctor. 112 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: He's like, that's not good for you, and I was like, 113 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: you're not good for me. No, No, I didn't say no. 114 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 1: I didn't say that. I did the time. But I 115 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: heard a great thing the other day. I was watching 116 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: like old clips, and it reminded me exactly of what 117 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: you just said about your dad. He went to He 118 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 1: was telling Letterman, like I don't know ten years ago 119 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: that he went to go he brought his dad with him, 120 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: who abandoned him when he was four. His dad's back 121 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: in his life and just like kind of a like 122 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 1: a guy that like this, and he's like, come on, Davy, 123 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 1: you know what it be like. He's always just like 124 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: just like surfer dude, kind of energy, and he he's 125 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: talked about him on David Letterman a lot. Letterman gets 126 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: a kick out of his dad. He's had him on 127 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: the show, and so he's like, how's your dad doing. 128 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: He's like, oh, you know, the other day, we went 129 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 1: to go visit a friend of mine in the hospital. 130 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: She just had a baby, and and I'm holding the 131 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 1: baby and my dad's like, look at him. He doesn't 132 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,839 Speaker 1: know what he's doing. He's never done. And he goes, 133 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: oh really, And he was like, what if I put 134 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: him on the floor and left, that's like, like you 135 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 1: did to me? Is that would that be the better 136 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: way to do it? And he was, I waited till 137 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 1: you were four. You could handle it. I waited till 138 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 1: you were four. Oh my god, it is fine, Like 139 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: a surfer dude and your dad he's like, what dude, 140 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: like chill? Like you can't get mad at that guy 141 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 1: if he's so chill about leaving you, you know what 142 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: I mean? Like if I did something terrible to you, 143 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: I was like, nicky dude. I was outside, Yeah, it 144 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: is a nice it's you want your sur cream, dude. 145 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, raped mate, baby raped meaning it's murdered turn 146 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: or dude, so did so Bretta is not getting addressed? No, 147 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: she so? Now she said be ready at four thirty. 148 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: So you know, I have paused little and just be 149 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: more specific about this wedding because you just kind of 150 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: glossed over Hannah Burner. Okay, So we have this wedding 151 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: that we're going to in the Hampton's whatever. It's Hannah 152 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: Burner from Summer House, our friend. She's getting married to 153 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: death Bishop. Another marriage. That's where the eighteen years apart. 154 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: She was eight. Didn't we just look up his age? Yeah, 155 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 1: he's six, so seventeen maybe anyhow she's twenty. No, she's 156 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: thirty right, maybe she has thirty at this point. So anyways, 157 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 1: long story short, Uh, Me and Brandon both wait till 158 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: the last second to get things for a wedding. Does 159 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: sound like it? I mean you're leaving on Thursday. It's Tuesday. No. 160 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: Some people get ready. Some people handle this ship three months. 161 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: I can't stand people who pack for trips like two 162 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: weeks in it. Man' My mom does that. She's like, 163 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: I'm all packed up, and I'm like, you're not leaving 164 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 1: for three months? He goes. You just throw clothes in 165 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: a bag. That's what I do. So no, I went 166 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: to the sup place. They're like, yeah, you want to. 167 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: I was like, they're like, when's the wedding. I go, 168 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, thirteen days. They're like, oh, you might 169 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 1: want to try about three months. Man, I'm like, who 170 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: the fuck? Also, I can't buy a suit off the 171 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: shelf because of my fucking centaur body menator, I don't 172 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: know what I am in my mento or sinner sent 173 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: up on um, yeah, I'm going to a wedding or 174 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: like a wedding reception on what are you? Yeah, I 175 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: mean I bought. I will tell you. Buying things on 176 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: posh Mark or the real real which are you know, 177 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: reusable or like you know, real stale clothing, they get 178 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: it to you so much faster than any you know, 179 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: retail shop. You these like I was saying the other day, 180 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: these women that go to the post office that do 181 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: eBay and stuff, they know how to fucking send a 182 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: package right away. They want to get that money and 183 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:34,959 Speaker 1: so they are not getting the money until that shipped. 184 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: And so I'm always nervous to buy from a third 185 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: party because I feel like you're forever They know people 186 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 1: who are selling their stuff online. It's the fastest I've 187 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: ever had stuff in my life because they deal so 188 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:48,199 Speaker 1: much with like my mom has sold stuff on eBay, 189 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: and just having people complain, like if anything is slightly wrong, 190 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 1: like there's a piece of fuzz on it. They want 191 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: any reason to people love complaining that. I know, it's 192 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: just ridiculous to me, but so many consumers, I'm anyone 193 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 1: who works in the consumer customer service knows how awful 194 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:07,439 Speaker 1: people are and how nitpicky, and they they focus on 195 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 1: these things because they hate their lives and they just 196 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: need to have control over something that they don't And 197 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: so um, yeah, I mean so I ordered three dress 198 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: four dresses off Posh mark. Um. One's forty six bucks, 199 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: the other was forty one bucks. The one was like 200 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 1: two because I'm going with Steep on that one because 201 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:27,079 Speaker 1: it's really nice. Um. And then I accidentally ordered another 202 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 1: one too that was like but because I asked you where, yeah, 203 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: I mean I are like, no, it was a different style. 204 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:39,719 Speaker 1: But I asked you what Brenna was wearing to the 205 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: wedding because I was like, what do you even where 206 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 1: the weddings? Like I don't know where and you said 207 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: that she got a dress at Reformation. So then when 208 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 1: I looked up that on Posh mark they're so expensive 209 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 1: compared to other dresses, which is fine, but um, they 210 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: are very cute, and so I got four. Are you 211 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: going to decide the day of day before or do 212 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 1: you try them all on? I'm going to start with 213 00:10:58,559 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 1: the one I like best if it I'm not going 214 00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: to try them all on. If the one I like 215 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 1: best is the first one, I'll just keep it. I'm 216 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: not someone who likes trying on things, but I'll keep 217 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: the other ones for other weddings I try to get 218 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,319 Speaker 1: out of. Yeah, I'm there, dumb poshmarker. I would check 219 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 1: that is a guy stuff too, Yeah, dude, they have 220 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: every real real Yeah, it has guys stuff. It's all 221 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 1: like real reals designer. You know, I've never done it. 222 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: And then three months later I'll be like, you're looking 223 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 1: for a belt like instead of I don't buy anything 224 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: retail anymore. It's just contributing to the trash of the world. 225 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: Just get up cycled things. So many things are brand 226 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 1: new and they're cool because they don't get they're not. 227 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 1: You can't find them everywhere, and you feel really specially 228 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: you put your sizes into posh marks, so everything you 229 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: search is only coming up if it's your size. So 230 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: have you ever got something and it looks like dogshit? Yes, 231 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: but it's cheap and it's like I just you know, 232 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: give it to my mind. Doesn't look like nothing ever 233 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: is like bad quality. If anything, it's always better than 234 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: that you think because these people know they don't want 235 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,079 Speaker 1: to deal with return. I mean, these are people that 236 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: you know selling out of their homes, so they're just 237 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: they're not gonna lie to you about stuff. But I did. Um. 238 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 1: I have this guy in Vancouver who does this um 239 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: vintage shop. I think it's like Van City Vintage or 240 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 1: something like that. But he is always on the lookout 241 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: for Taylor Swift and like Britney Spears and like pop 242 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: star vintage stuff. He gave me that Taylor Swift shirt 243 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: I wore on the podcast yesterday. Actually, that shirt goes 244 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 1: for a thousand dollars on eBay and I paid I 245 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: think a hundred something books for it. But yesterday he goes, hey, 246 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: my friend because he's in connections. Yeah, yeah, right, it's 247 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: a great deal. You said, you've never got a deal 248 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: that's a deal. I was gonna say that yesterday, but 249 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm never going to resell it, you know, like I'm 250 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: not doing it to be like, oh someday I'm gonna 251 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: cash in like that is. I'm going to give it 252 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: to my like niece. I was gonna say daughter, but 253 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 1: that's that adn't happened anytime make something. Yeah, she's got 254 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: to learn about capitalism, um somehow. So anyway of Yeah, 255 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 1: this guy wrote me yesterday being like, hey, check this out. 256 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: It was a Britney Spears perfectly faded black tea that 257 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: almost has like a crop to it, but oversized, like 258 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: you know what what remakes of shirts are trying to 259 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: be like when they try to recreate the vintage a 260 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: thick like um collar like from two thousand. It's her 261 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: on the steps with her hands in between her legs, 262 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: like looking sad, like the classic pose and um. And 263 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: I was like, am I going to have been a 264 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: hundred forty five dollars for a fucking great shirt that 265 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: has a couple of little bleached stains on the bottom 266 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 1: but that maybe adds coolness to it? And I go, 267 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: I don't know, and you go, I go see if 268 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 1: your friend can give me a deal and I'll shot 269 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:33,719 Speaker 1: him out on my Instagram if he wants to knock off, 270 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: like even ten bucks. I was like, trying to get 271 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: a deal. I never get deals, and I'm like, what, well, 272 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 1: because actually I can give back, like people should know about. 273 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: I love buying. I love following vintage shops on Instagram 274 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: with these vintage teeth because sometimes something comes up where 275 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: you go, oh my god, that's the team I love, 276 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: or that's the specific like you know, soul decision, like 277 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: no one has a sole decision shirt. That's hilarious and 278 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 1: so um think about making mom moved to nut asked 279 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: the ten a machine because I like the way you 280 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: make a move. Um, so he said it was so funny. 281 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: The shirts goes, I'll ask yes his friend. He goes, 282 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: he can do it for one fifty with shipping included, 283 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 1: and I go, how did the price go up? What? 284 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 1: I know he gave me a discount on shipping, but 285 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 1: somehow it went up, and for some reason, I'm like, 286 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 1: I want to do it. I got if you know 287 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: what it is honestly to me and my stupid brain 288 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: sounds more than one fifty. Too many numbers. Yeah, it's 289 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: more numbers. There's more numbers of syllables. That's why people 290 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: Walgreen's prices, things like because fifteen dollars seems more so 291 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 1: much would be the opposite. But still, um um, I 292 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: don't want to do it. Yeah, I get it, Yeah, 293 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 1: but it seems stupid. Don't spend you don't spend a 294 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: lot like you spend money on clothes. Starbucks Starbucks if 295 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: I added up, but I just want to Starbucks by 296 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 1: the way from a second coffee. And she goes, didn't 297 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 1: I already make the string today? And I go, yeah, 298 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: in front of everyone, very loud, to go I have 299 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: a problem. And she goes, it's okay, it's okay girl, 300 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: And I was like, it's not a Venti latte. No 301 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 1: one needs two of those within three hours except old 302 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 1: glaze dog. Well, look, she ain't gonna your drug dealer 303 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 1: ain't gonna stop, you know, Oh, caffeine is not one. 304 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 1: Is not a drug. Went. I went to Jay Crew 305 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: because they have suits ready, none of them fit me. 306 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: Your boys too thick, too thick for Jake Crew. You 307 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 1: are you know? I just did that rental site that 308 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 1: the best recommended and they were asking about body shape. 309 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 1: So are you a pair? Are you an apple? Are 310 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 1: you an inverted triangle? Are you a square? Are you 311 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: an hour glasses? Like? What girl doesn't want to be 312 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: an hour glass out of all of those? Yeah, and like, 313 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 1: but you were of inverted triangle but tiny hips, wide shoulders. Yeah, 314 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: so nothing fits me? And then I don't know I 315 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: have this like you know how I'm a little obsessed 316 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: with Ray Donovan how he dresses. Yes, the guy that 317 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: you look like, yeah, Ray Donovan, or just live actually 318 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 1: his character? Okay, his character. That makes sense. A watch 319 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 1: that I am obsessed with, but I won't convince myself 320 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 1: to buy unless I have make more money to where 321 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: because I've already done this before where I spend money 322 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: on a watch and the watch was the only investment 323 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: that you made that was good. Yeah, that's true. How 324 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: much is this? Okay, it's not that bad, but thank 325 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: you for going high. It's an Omega Professional C Master 326 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: three D. It's not a Rolex, it looks like a Rolex. 327 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 1: It's just it's just a perfect watch for me. Why 328 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 1: you want it to break? Yeah, let's go to break 329 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: and find out why Andrew wants a watch when he 330 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 1: has an iPhone. I do want to know. I know 331 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: they're like jewelry for men. Maybe that's it. It's a 332 00:16:56,800 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: status symbol. But you already have like a hot girlfriend, 333 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 1: Like what what propels men to keep trying after they 334 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 1: already have the hottest girl friends that anyone could ever have. 335 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 1: Let's find out after this quick break, we're back. Okay, 336 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 1: Well why the watch? Okay? So this watch I love. 337 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: It's an Omega as well, the one that you're wearing 338 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 1: one I'm wearing. It's Omega Constellation. It's from nWo is 339 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:27,239 Speaker 1: my grandpa Marvin's watch. Got it given to me by 340 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: my aunt Nancy. She kept the nicer one, the nicer 341 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:33,120 Speaker 1: four deserves that, I mean it was her dad. Whatever. 342 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 1: Who was counting? She is? And I am quick slow 343 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 1: turtle rabbit. Wait what was that? What was the word 344 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:50,880 Speaker 1: that you didn't finish? Triangle? So accomplished? Okay, so so 345 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: so they she gave me this. It was very nice. Honestly, 346 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: it was very nice to get this. I was extremely excited. 347 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 1: I really wanted to watch because I feel like a watch, 348 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: like a simple watch like this, any outfit you wear, 349 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 1: it kind of elevates it. Yeah, it elevates it a 350 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: little without trying too hard. That's a common thing for 351 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: women as well. Like you can wear like sweats and 352 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: like an oversized T shirt like a Britney Spears, like 353 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:15,640 Speaker 1: vinted T shirt, and then you wear a nice sandal 354 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,120 Speaker 1: or like a nice shoe, a heel, or you wear 355 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: like like layered dwelry or jewelry and it dresses it up. 356 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 1: And so I get that. Okay, this watch although it's 357 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 1: these socks, where where do you get those? That's a statement. Okay, 358 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 1: he's wearing gray socks that's say Calvin Klein and black 359 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 1: all over them, like it's he's a little label boy. 360 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 1: No one labels Calvin Clin kinds of It's not I 361 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 1: wear Calvin Klein underwear. No one wears. No one knows 362 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,360 Speaker 1: Calvin Clin socks. I didn't know it was written all over. 363 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 1: I just bought dress socks for like fourteen bucks on Amazon, 364 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: and I see why they're fourteen bucks. They're they're wearing 365 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 1: these shoes. These shoes are nice. Are those slippers? But 366 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 1: I'm wearing them just to grind out the bottom. I 367 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: was worried about my shoes for the wedding because I 368 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: want to be able to all I want to do 369 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: is dance because Emma, my boyfriend's brothers wife, they got married, 370 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: uh two years ago I think, but it was during 371 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 1: COVID and they had a reception and not not a 372 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 1: lot of people could come. So they're throwing a second one. 373 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:23,960 Speaker 1: It's going to be just a reception. That's what I'm 374 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 1: going to this weekend. She wrote me and was like, 375 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,399 Speaker 1: we they have a really good wedding band like that. 376 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 1: They performed at the last one and they said it 377 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 1: was just like insane how good they were. And she 378 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 1: was like, I told them, um, I have I put 379 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:37,439 Speaker 1: in a couple of requests that I think you're going 380 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: to be excited about. And I was like, yes, girls, 381 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 1: So I want to dance to some Taylor Swift so bad. 382 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 1: And so I was buying shoes with that in mind. 383 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,719 Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to dancing too at this wedding. Oh 384 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 1: my god, I don't dance ever anymore. And I fun 385 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: So back to the watch to the watch great watch. 386 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 1: It constantly breaks down, so it's essentially a bracelet, like 387 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 1: right now the second isn't working. It to look for 388 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 1: the time when it does work, or do you look phone? 389 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 1: So it doesn't really to work. But it's like you 390 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: calling out my Calvin Klein. Someone sometime will go, dude, 391 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: your watch. It's a work in case someone calls you 392 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 1: out for it, which never happens except for once maybe 393 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 1: every four months. So anyways, so that's another reason why 394 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:20,439 Speaker 1: I want a more functional watch. So you have an 395 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 1: excuse for why you're wearing it, yes, and so I'm 396 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: kind of have a weird obsession with wanting it, but 397 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: I know I don't. I think I deserve it. I 398 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 1: just don't want to spend that much money on it. Also, 399 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: I found one on Facebook on Marketplace for three thousand, 400 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 1: which is still check out Real Real. They have tons 401 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: of watches roll X Central and oh yeah, Real Real 402 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: is roll X I mean Real Real. You go in there, 403 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:46,919 Speaker 1: there's things for sale, they do furniture, it's all designer 404 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 1: and then that goes down to like, you know, twenty 405 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 1: dollars for an Alexander wearing T shirt that was probably 406 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: like eighty eight dollars to begin with. So like, you 407 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 1: get awesome deals on there, but they do have luxury 408 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 1: items that are like who the fuck, Well, there's a 409 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: guy in say Lewis who has the exact watch I want, 410 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,640 Speaker 1: but it's from two thousand eighteen, but it's the same models, 411 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 1: and he wants like thirty eight hundred, so that would 412 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 1: be a difference in bucks. That's definitely and used as 413 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 1: cooler than new, so much cooler. Yeah, he has the 414 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: box and everything. He is here not not don't ever 415 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: buy anything new if you can get it like new cheaper. 416 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 1: Just it is funny. Have you ever shot for something 417 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 1: that nice? Though? Because because I gus, I didn't want 418 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 1: to buy it, Like I knew what I wanted to 419 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 1: buy it, but I didn't think I was gonna buy. 420 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:35,920 Speaker 1: Like they try to convince you and uh, and then 421 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 1: you have on and so you try to like finagle 422 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: in a way like it have the money, but also 423 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 1: is there a payment plan? But also I don't need 424 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,199 Speaker 1: the payment plan. I could walk out of here right 425 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 1: like you want, because you don't want them to judge 426 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,880 Speaker 1: you either, even though like it doesn't matter. Payment plans 427 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 1: are helpful for people even if you do have the money. 428 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 1: So there's a twelve month payment plan, so it would 429 00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 1: be like five a month, but that's every month. I'd 430 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 1: be like the watch would depreciate in what I care 431 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: about it and then i'd be keeping money. That's tough. 432 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: Is that a purchase that you talked to Brenna about 433 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: or is it like no, No, I wouldn't, but she'll 434 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: see it eventually and go how much was that a lie? Yeah? 435 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 1: I think that, you know, even there is some like 436 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 1: sometimes when like I have friends that um complain about 437 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: money or something and they buy something and I go, well, 438 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 1: you're never allowed to complain it. We're going to any 439 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 1: restaurant I want from now on, even though I will 440 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 1: always pick up the bill. But like, you don't get 441 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: to complain about things. If you're buying this thing that 442 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: is so truly worthless, you don't get to complain about 443 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 1: like my insurance is this a month? Like? No? So 444 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: there's a little bit of that where you don't get away. 445 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 1: But you know, I have things like that in my 446 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: life too, where I'm complete hypocrite, um because I I 447 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 1: have this thing. I don't know if anyone relates. I 448 00:22:52,040 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 1: think probably everyone does, actually where I don't. Okay, I 449 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:06,440 Speaker 1: think you might will, I think you may actually might not, 450 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: But I don't know what this is. I am, um 451 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,919 Speaker 1: pretty generous when it comes to money generally, and as 452 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 1: with myself with others. There are times, though, if you 453 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 1: catch me on like a bad day, where I feel 454 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: again we're going back to customer service, feeling out of control, 455 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 1: having things in my life that are unmanageable, like I'm 456 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: stressed out, where I will focus on my money. I'll 457 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: go to my money and go caught. This runs the 458 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 1: wrong way. Stuff haven't even worn it, and I'm just 459 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 1: like spending three a month on this, like I'm so worthless. 460 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,879 Speaker 1: Like all of a sudden, I start picking at the 461 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: like minors things where I'm like, oh my god, like 462 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 1: I just ordered the wrong Starbucks thing that's three dollars extra, 463 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: like little charges, dude, little ones that I'm just like, 464 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 1: what is going on here? Because I just bought dollar 465 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: guitar last week on a whim that I'm never gonna play. 466 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: There's sometimes where I'm just crazy see with money, and 467 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 1: other times where fifteen cents extra, I start getting so 468 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 1: scared and I start like writing my businessmans were like 469 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 1: I need to know how much I'm spending a month 470 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,199 Speaker 1: on this? How didn't like and nothing's changed. It's not 471 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 1: like I lost a job. It's not like I suddenly 472 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 1: learned something financially. It's just it's so interesting when you 473 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: examine what is causing this. Like I saw this awesome 474 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 1: thing on Instagram yesterday that it was this black woman. 475 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,119 Speaker 1: And I say that because it's pertinent to the story 476 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 1: where she was talking about. Um. It was on one 477 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: of those like feel good Instagram reposts from TikTok. It 478 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: was this black woman that was talking about how she 479 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,160 Speaker 1: talks to her daughter about anger when her daughter has 480 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 1: like a fit or something, and what she says, because 481 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 1: she she grew up a black woman, that was like 482 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 1: when she would get angry, it was like, no, put 483 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,199 Speaker 1: on a happy face. Don't do that, you know, shaming 484 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 1: about anger. And then as she grows older, very scared 485 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: of being the angry black woman having any attitude. I mean, 486 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,400 Speaker 1: it's just so much exponentially more fraught for black women 487 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 1: than and white women. But now there's the care and 488 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 1: thing you don't want to be a Karen. Anger is 489 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 1: just whether your boy or girl scary to deal with. 490 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,120 Speaker 1: But I sent it to my sister and I also 491 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: posted on my Instagram and I said that I want 492 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: to use this method on myself because what she does 493 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 1: when her daughter is having a fit is she gets 494 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 1: on her level and she goes, and I don't do 495 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 1: that baby talk. I talked to her like a person, 496 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: and I say, what is your anger? Trying to tell 497 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 1: you right now? What is this? What is what is? 498 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 1: Because there's something, there's a siren going off. It's not 499 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: about the spilled juice. It's not about you're spending fifteen 500 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 1: extra on a subscription service that you don't use and 501 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 1: now you're beating yourself. What is it? And um, it's 502 00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:40,880 Speaker 1: very interesting like that. She said that, and I shared 503 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: it with my sister. I loved it. Um, and so 504 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 1: I think now I just try to win stuff when 505 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 1: I start going to the places that I genuinely generally 506 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:53,439 Speaker 1: go to, my weight, my um, the color of my 507 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 1: skin honestly, like trying to tan myself like I can 508 00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: if I'm pale on a day where I'm feeling instag 509 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: here in other ways, I will focus on that and 510 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 1: be obsessed with it and be like, you're disgusting, like 511 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 1: I just um, and so I just tried now to 512 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: catch it. But then I also heard and this might 513 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 1: help people too. I've been listening to. I've been really 514 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:19,920 Speaker 1: interested in binge eating disorder because obviously I have struggled 515 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: with that in the past, I've been believe it, I've 516 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 1: been um all those you know, I'd start myself and 517 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,239 Speaker 1: then I would banjah blah blah blah. So it's been 518 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 1: two years since i've like binged, but I still feel 519 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 1: a little bit out of control with food at times 520 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,960 Speaker 1: and um, and I've also been I have a girl 521 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: that I've met through eating disorder recovery stuff, who she 522 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 1: struggles with binging. She listened to the show. She's a bustie, 523 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 1: like she she found me through recovery, but she didn't 524 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,679 Speaker 1: know that who I was or anything. I'm anonymous in 525 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 1: those situations. And we started talking talking like a while before. 526 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: I was like before we talked about like our personal lives, 527 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 1: what we do. And I think one day she was 528 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: talking about something and I go, actually, I did a 529 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 1: podcast day. I think when I talked about will actually 530 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 1: help you. She's like, wait, what you did a podcast? 531 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,120 Speaker 1: Like what do you do? So now we've become friends. 532 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: She's a big bustie. Every time she writes me now 533 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 1: about stuff, she'll be like I know this is or 534 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:13,480 Speaker 1: she's like I know and ham drip, like it's really cute. Um, 535 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:14,919 Speaker 1: And she told me that I could talk about her 536 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:16,159 Speaker 1: on the show. So I want to just give a 537 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 1: shout out to my friend Amy, But she um, I've 538 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,680 Speaker 1: been trying to She shares with me about her binging 539 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 1: and things like that and how out of control it feels, 540 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 1: and I just don't relate to that as much. So 541 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to be a good friend and learn more 542 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 1: about it. And also for myself, I feel a little 543 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 1: lot of control sometimes. So I've been listening to this 544 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 1: podcast on YouTube called brain over Binge, and I love 545 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 1: this approach to treating your any It's pretty much the 546 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 1: approach that I use for alcohol, cigarettes, all the things 547 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 1: I've quit in my life because for beinge disorder or 548 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 1: kind of eating disorders, do you always go, what's really 549 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 1: going on? It's your childhood trauma. It's because you have love, 550 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: self esteem. It's always like, it's not about the food. 551 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,400 Speaker 1: It's about you're broken inside and you've got to fix 552 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,479 Speaker 1: that stuff before the binging will stop. But the truth is, 553 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:10,640 Speaker 1: much like cigarette companies, much like alcohol, uh you know, companies, 554 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: they gain from making it seem like the thing that 555 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 1: you're doing is hard to quit. If the story is 556 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 1: cigarettes are hard to quit, then you won't quit because 557 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 1: we all want to feel like it's not our fault 558 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 1: that we keep doing this thing. And if you give 559 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 1: them a reason to go, I can't quit smoking. It's 560 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 1: hard to quit. So if you don't know William more 561 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 1: like tobacco companies spread the propaganda of cigarette smoking is 562 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 1: hard to quit, it's it's such a hard addiction when 563 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 1: really it is a very very like small withdrawals. Yeah, 564 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: and so you would think that that's not them spreading that, 565 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 1: but it is because it's actually very easy to quit. 566 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 1: Same without alcohol, the withdraw symptoms are definitely more severe. 567 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: You can literally die from alcohol withdraw symptoms. But again, 568 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: the perpetuation of like there's something wrong, this is the 569 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 1: only thing you can turn to your alcoholic there's you 570 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 1: have a disease. This is terrible. So this podcast I'm 571 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 1: obsessed with because I've never heard this approach with eating 572 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: disorder stuff, and I just want to share because I 573 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 1: know a lot of besties have this um is that 574 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: they say on this thing. This girl just went through 575 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 1: she used to be binge bener beliemic and she does 576 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 1: this podcast with another woman named Cookie ironically, so that 577 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:22,960 Speaker 1: she keeps going. So you don't need to reach for 578 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: the bag of cookies, cookies, what do you cookie? What 579 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: do you think about that? Like, it's just so funny. 580 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 1: But this podcast is awesome because I'm only on episode 581 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 1: four because I'm really trying to take my time and 582 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 1: learn it. That's really good. Um So what she's saying 583 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: in it that I can glean from it is awesome. 584 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 1: And I want to like siminate this to the masses 585 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 1: because I think it's so important. Is that whenever I 586 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 1: over eat, or whenever I starved myself, or whenever I 587 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 1: would be beliemic back in the day, there was something 588 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 1: where I knew it was not about the food, not 589 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 1: about throwing up. It was something deeper childhood trauma, low 590 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 1: self esteem, whatever the story is, which is all true, 591 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 1: by the way, that is true. But the why you binge, 592 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 1: why you purge, is really because your lower brain, which 593 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 1: is like your animal brain that I talked about on stage, 594 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 1: the one that's like get everything pregnant, like your brain 595 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: that is operating like a caveman, is deprived of food, 596 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 1: probably because you've been starving all day because you feel 597 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: like you're susceptible to diet culture, so you're restricting. So 598 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 1: that brain is going next time you fucking get around food, 599 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 1: eat the funk out of it, because we don't know 600 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 1: what when you're gonna have food next, So that that 601 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 1: little voice is saying that, and also that voice, and 602 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: then your higher brain, which knows better, knows that there's 603 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 1: tons of food to be had. You don't need to 604 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 1: eat all of this right now. Your higher brain takes 605 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 1: that queue and makes it into a story of but 606 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 1: I have trauma, I have a disease, I'm weak. Um, 607 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: this is very hard. And I honestly think that eating 608 00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,680 Speaker 1: disorder centers, although they do great work, and I do 609 00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 1: think most of the people that work for them are 610 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 1: trying to get people better. I think it is a 611 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: money maker. If you don't get people better, they keep 612 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 1: coming back if you keep them sick, and so I 613 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 1: think making it like you need to have treatment as 614 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 1: opposed to really, this woman used to binge and perch 615 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: every single day of her life, multiple times. Horrible blimia, 616 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 1: which can kill you like that. I mean it killed 617 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 1: Amy Winehouse. People don't know that. People think she died 618 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 1: of drugs. It was bulimia. Um. It really is about 619 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,400 Speaker 1: just hearing that little caveman voice of that is the 620 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 1: same one that goes fun that girl, like that girl's tips, 621 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: like suck on her tits like like you would if 622 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 1: you were a caveman, you would just go funck that girl. 623 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 1: It's taking that voice and going shut the funk up, 624 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: like I know, you're just a dumb monkey my monkey 625 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 1: brain talking and it's literally just going. And so now 626 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: when I have the voice last time, like I've been recently, 627 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 1: like waking up in the middle of night and like 628 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 1: just needing to eat because it's like I'm probably thirsty, 629 00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 1: and so a lot of times you're hunger is thirst 630 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: and I also just have been anxious more so I 631 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:04,280 Speaker 1: get up in the the middle of night and I'm not 632 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: binging seventeen protein bars like back in the day, but 633 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 1: I'll have to and I'll eat them at the kitchen table. 634 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 1: I'll you know. But I'm sliding back into this like behavior. 635 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: So that's why I think I'm being vigilant about it. 636 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 1: But what I learned is that that voice that goes, 637 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 1: you need to have this food. You're struggling, this is 638 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 1: your comfort. You have a disease, you are believing you 639 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 1: are antarexic, you're eating sort of is really me making 640 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 1: excuses so I get to do this thing that I 641 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: want to do that really isn't what I want to do, 642 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,959 Speaker 1: because if I wanted to do it, she says at 643 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 1: one point, if you talk binging and purging or starving yourself, 644 00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 1: whatever it is, if you wanted to do it, why 645 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: are you listening to this podcast. It's it's literally ruining 646 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 1: your life. So you don't listen to a eighteen series 647 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: podcast about quitting something if there's any reason to keep 648 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: that in your life. They're just that's so I last 649 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,680 Speaker 1: night for the first time, like it didn't even occur 650 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 1: to me to do I woke up in the middle 651 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 1: of the night and I I, without question always just 652 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 1: go and grab two protein bars and I eat. I'm 653 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: at my table. This time, I was just like, I 654 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 1: answered that voice in my head the way I compare 655 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 1: it to when I'm with Arlow or something and he 656 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 1: wants to like hold a knife or something something that 657 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: I would never let him play with a knife, Like, 658 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 1: let's compare it to that, Like it's just not gonna happen. 659 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,400 Speaker 1: I know you want it so bad and you're gonna cry, 660 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 1: and out of context you're crying. People would be like 661 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 1: give that boy what he needs. He's on the floor, 662 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 1: throat like, throwing himself around. I mean it sounds like 663 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 1: he needs sustenance. But I know no, he wants a knife. 664 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 1: That's insane. He's not getting it. That's your voice telling 665 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: you to drink, to binge, to do these behaviors. It's 666 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 1: literally a dumb little child that wants to play with 667 00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 1: a knife, where you are a babysitter and you go, no, 668 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,959 Speaker 1: it's I'm not even gonna entertain it. I'm going to 669 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 1: ignore this. Like I might go, oh, that's cute, like, 670 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: but I'm putting it up on the shelf. It's not. 671 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 1: There's not even like because I think when you have 672 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 1: that voice of like should I drink tonight? Should I 673 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 1: do whatever? Be? Should I cut myself? Whatever it is 674 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 1: you're struggling with, there's a negotiation that happens where you go, no, 675 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 1: I can't, but I really want to. I can't. No, 676 00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,600 Speaker 1: don't do it. It doesn't need to be that. It 677 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 1: literally can be no. It's as as much of a 678 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,840 Speaker 1: dismiss you wouldn't consider giving a child a knife, like 679 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 1: let me hear him out. You can dismiss that voice 680 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 1: as much as a child begging for a knife. So 681 00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 1: every time I hear Nikki eat more when I know 682 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 1: that I don't need to, I'm now going to just 683 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 1: say it's a child asking for ice cream when he 684 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 1: hasn't eaten anything nutritious in days. There's no way exactly 685 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,400 Speaker 1: what my mindset was with the watch, driving to the mall, 686 00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 1: thinking about the watch, wanting it, needing it. Think it's 687 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 1: gonna filling. No, I can't, Yes, I can't. That struggle. 688 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: It feels like an accomplishment when you go, when you 689 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 1: choose either way, and sometimes you're going to choose the 690 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,680 Speaker 1: wrong way, and it's still gonna feel like an accomplishment, 691 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,759 Speaker 1: which it doesn't need to. You can just you know 692 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,360 Speaker 1: a little thing I did to help, because I'll do 693 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 1: that too. I'll like float to the refrigerator in the 694 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: middle of night and I don't even know how I'm 695 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 1: in there, and I'm just all of a sudden eating 696 00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 1: ham naked well with a shirt on. But um, I'd 697 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 1: take yetti, like a giant yetti, and I fill it 698 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 1: with like a quarter o J mango and a water 699 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: and just have a giant fucking yetti right next to 700 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:12,359 Speaker 1: my bed. So water is so cruise or some kind 701 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,839 Speaker 1: of I'm telling you, I haven't done it a lot 702 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 1: of it, Like you said, it's thirst, So I did, 703 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 1: and it's big enough for I could chug it like 704 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: fifteen times, So I'm getting that, like I am getting 705 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,800 Speaker 1: that feeling of like quench which I get from food, 706 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 1: which would feel the same feeling. But it's obviously afterwards 707 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 1: after you chug water and you just wait and you 708 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,120 Speaker 1: just go back to bed. For give yourself. Listen to 709 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 1: one song, listen, read one page of a book, and 710 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: if you still want to eat after that, go eat. 711 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 1: Let yourself eat. But the truth is is that you're 712 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 1: probably dehydrated. And also when I used to bene, I 713 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 1: had a um woman that was helping me with my 714 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 1: problems of night binging. And she one night, you know, 715 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 1: when I had to start not binging at night, which 716 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 1: was like the I couldn't imagine not binging it, like 717 00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:58,600 Speaker 1: it just was the thing I've done every day for 718 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,160 Speaker 1: the last few year is of my life. So it's like, 719 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 1: what the luck I'm going to sleep through the night. 720 00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 1: It's just not it's not even gonna happen. And I 721 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 1: was crying about it, and she goes when you wake 722 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,719 Speaker 1: up in the moment and you start struggling. Just remember, 723 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,920 Speaker 1: no one's ever died of starvation if they waited till breakfast. 724 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,359 Speaker 1: It really is not an urgent thing. You're not going 725 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 1: to die. The feelings are not going to kill. No 726 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 1: one's ever died of feelings. And that somehow resonates with 727 00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:24,919 Speaker 1: me too. I say sometimes to myself in the middle 728 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: of the night, you do not need to eat right now. 729 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,360 Speaker 1: You're not running a marathon, you are not actually starving. 730 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,759 Speaker 1: You ate all day. Now, It's different if you're not 731 00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 1: eating all day that that is the source of your binging. 732 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 1: If you are restricting during the day, you will binge. 733 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 1: There's just no there. It will happen. So that's the 734 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,520 Speaker 1: first thing you got to fix. But I just found 735 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,360 Speaker 1: it very comforting to hear approach to eating disorders that 736 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 1: is just as simple as how I've approached quitting drinking 737 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 1: and cigarettes, which is like you're lying to yourself acting 738 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,000 Speaker 1: like this is hard. It's not that hard, you can 739 00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,680 Speaker 1: do it. I think to your point, like the indulging 740 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:04,720 Speaker 1: obviously feels so fucking good, and then the fighting doesn't. 741 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 1: The last of your feel terrible. But you know what, 742 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,080 Speaker 1: I mean you missed the fighting, Like you missed that argument. 743 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 1: You'll get in a fight with your girlfriend or I'm 744 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: not saying to do it. I'm just saying like, that's 745 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 1: like that fighting feels like the indulgent. It's the same 746 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 1: kind of get off on that part of the drug. 747 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,320 Speaker 1: But don't engage the little child. And that's wanting the 748 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,359 Speaker 1: knife in your head because that all those things it's 749 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,680 Speaker 1: is dumb. It's it's dumb of a need as a 750 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: child being like I want to play with that knife. 751 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,759 Speaker 1: You would never give a baby a knife. So don't 752 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,279 Speaker 1: give yourself those that monkey brain that's going me, I'm 753 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,240 Speaker 1: not gonna get food for a while. You know better, 754 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: your smart brain will know. So the podcast I want 755 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: to turn you to is Brain over Binge, Brain Brain 756 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 1: over Binging, and it's just really helps me. And I 757 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,440 Speaker 1: just want to like let her because everyone deals with 758 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,600 Speaker 1: eating issues. I know there's maybe one person that's like, 759 00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 1: this doesn't relate to anything in my life. I guarantee 760 00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,880 Speaker 1: you you send it to your mom, she probably relates. 761 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:04,879 Speaker 1: Let's get to the news. Oh man, it's Tuesday, folks. 762 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:06,359 Speaker 1: You know what that means. It is Tuesday. I hope 763 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 1: you're having all the swells. If you're driving somewhere going 764 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,319 Speaker 1: to buy something that you don't need, or you're going 765 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 1: to eat something you don't want, stop right there and 766 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,319 Speaker 1: tell your child brain to go fund itself and give 767 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:20,040 Speaker 1: it a knife. Eat. Eat during the day, three meals 768 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 1: a day, eve when you're hungry, but you know, you 769 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 1: know better when you you're overdoing it. Half dessert if 770 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,400 Speaker 1: you want treat yourself, but you know when you're eating 771 00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 1: on top when it's going to make you sick. That's 772 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,600 Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Um, you having fun with Marian 773 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: over there, but give your kid a knife. Yeah, give 774 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,399 Speaker 1: your kid a knife. Noah, Noah. Back to you now 775 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: over there in the studio and in headquarters over there. 776 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 1: Nicky and Andrew will not be on tour this weekend. 777 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:48,800 Speaker 1: They'll both be at weddings. But the following weekend on Friday, 778 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,239 Speaker 1: you guys will be at the Wilbur in Boston. Oh 779 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 1: my god, two shows that the Wilbur shows everyone, Yeah, 780 00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:58,480 Speaker 1: and then uh fox Woods Resort Casino in Connecticut on Saturday. 781 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,719 Speaker 1: Very excited about the Foxwood show that one and I 782 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:07,040 Speaker 1: believe is sold out. There might be single really, you know, 783 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,000 Speaker 1: as always single tickets if you want to go alone 784 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,400 Speaker 1: to a show. Um, if you buy a single ticket 785 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 1: and you write me me my account Nicki Glazer, not 786 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,440 Speaker 1: Nikki Glazer. Pot. If you're write going alone in all caps, 787 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 1: your name and the show you're going to, no other information. 788 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,040 Speaker 1: I know you're grateful. You don't need to write thank 789 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 1: you and all this stuff. The best way for me 790 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:25,879 Speaker 1: to see it is to make sure the first part 791 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,400 Speaker 1: says going alone in all caps, otherwise I might miss it. 792 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,719 Speaker 1: And then if I heard it, that means you your 793 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,319 Speaker 1: name will be at the box office and you will 794 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 1: be good to go for a meet and greet, which 795 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 1: always proceeds the show. Um, and yeah, there we go. 796 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:42,560 Speaker 1: What's the first news headline? Noah, first news line is crazy. 797 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 1: A woman who was pronounced dead opened her eyes and 798 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:50,280 Speaker 1: pushed the coffin door in the middle of my own funeral. 799 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:55,520 Speaker 1: No wait, where this was in Peru? It's always and 800 00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,319 Speaker 1: I knew it was going to be somewhere. I mean, 801 00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 1: she had to go through so much, she had to 802 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 1: be dead, Like, you don't get in the coffin for 803 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 1: what's going on here? Okay? The mourners carrying her cough 804 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:11,080 Speaker 1: and heard a strange knocking sound from inside. The woman 805 00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 1: was actually alive and found to be gasping for air 806 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,759 Speaker 1: when the coffin was placed on the ground after she 807 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:22,640 Speaker 1: observed created. Yeah, she was cremated, and then two hours 808 00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 1: after she's still yelling my legs and yeah, wait can 809 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 1: we go? How long did very ash man? You're all ashes? 810 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,160 Speaker 1: I had a joke about something and not being funny 811 00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 1: out of roast going. I wanted to only cremate my ears. 812 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:47,239 Speaker 1: That's funny. Yeah, anyhow, go ahead. So after her, you know, 813 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,920 Speaker 1: she observed everyone at the funeral, The family took her 814 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 1: to the hospital, where they had difficulty finding signs of life, 815 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 1: putting her on life support until she died a couple 816 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:03,680 Speaker 1: of hours later. She is this, yeah, we need to Henry. 817 00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 1: The family essentially had to say goodbye twice, and some 818 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 1: of the family members believe a coma may have been 819 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,239 Speaker 1: improperly diagnosed as death because she was in a bad 820 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:22,719 Speaker 1: car accident, and apparently this happens to several people last year. Yea, 821 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,160 Speaker 1: a man pronounced dead after being hit by a motorcycle 822 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 1: woke up in a morgue freezer. A seventies six year 823 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,759 Speaker 1: old woman who is pronounced dead following a COVID nineteen diagnosis, 824 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 1: woke up right before her cremation. Oh my god. Okay, 825 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,719 Speaker 1: we'll just check the pulse. Let's this is a lesson 826 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:44,439 Speaker 1: to us, all um. Can I say though, that I've 827 00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,960 Speaker 1: been getting besties writing me about Tyler Henry or maybe 828 00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 1: just people that don't don't even listen to the pod, 829 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,920 Speaker 1: and they are also being converted to believing there's an 830 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,840 Speaker 1: afterlife because of this fucking Nutflix show. It's so wild 831 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,400 Speaker 1: that everything else that has been trying your whole life 832 00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:00,359 Speaker 1: to get you to believe in an after if, all 833 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,919 Speaker 1: the religion, all the propaganda, none of that works. One 834 00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 1: Netflix series where you watch this guy where you're like, 835 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,600 Speaker 1: this kid doesn't want to be famous. He's not doing 836 00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,359 Speaker 1: this to trick anyone. He's just a sweet gay kid. 837 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,839 Speaker 1: You go, this is too uncanny. I watched him on 838 00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,359 Speaker 1: a Matt Lower interview on the Today Show before Matt 839 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: Lower was canceled. He didn't see that coming, I'll tell 840 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:20,880 Speaker 1: you that, but it was. It must have been the 841 00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 1: week before because Matt Lower. This is still in the 842 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 1: Today Show page. Watch that interview, you guys. I cried 843 00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,160 Speaker 1: because Matt Lower is a skeptic of course, and he's 844 00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 1: going into this interview with him and he starts talking 845 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 1: about his father being proud of him and like little 846 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:38,919 Speaker 1: things that he just only would know about his dad, 847 00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:43,600 Speaker 1: and you just see him his journalistic like you know, 848 00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 1: wall just crumbling. And also there's one with Hoda and 849 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:51,800 Speaker 1: one with Jenna Bush. Hoda sobs in such a sweet 850 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,480 Speaker 1: way and she and it catches them off guard. They 851 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,799 Speaker 1: just don't That's what makes me a believe he is that. Yeah, 852 00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,360 Speaker 1: they just don't know, because you know, if it be 853 00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:02,759 Speaker 1: a skeptic too, and it's like a like a hypnotist. 854 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:08,680 Speaker 1: A lot of people are skeptics. You can say whatever 855 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,640 Speaker 1: you want. There are people that definitely are more suggestible 856 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 1: for hypnosis. Hypnesn't admit that. I don't want to do 857 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 1: that because I'm so scared, but I would at this 858 00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:21,840 Speaker 1: point on Friday, I'm doing a hypnosis session on Friday 859 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 1: for just a self self improvement. Oh my god, I 860 00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 1: would totally do that because that's not going to be 861 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:34,000 Speaker 1: like pretend like you're ironing you know something, And I 862 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,759 Speaker 1: don't know why I'm picturing ironing something because I was 863 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 1: Actually there was a joke about that and someone specially 864 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 1: that I once saw this. This is when I realized hypnois. 865 00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,319 Speaker 1: I always thought hypnotis for real, but I'd heard people 866 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:48,719 Speaker 1: go they're not real. I, as a junior, went to 867 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:52,920 Speaker 1: a senior after prom party because I was no my 868 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,239 Speaker 1: friend Taylor in high school. I went to the senior 869 00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 1: after prom party. There was a girl that was They 870 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,520 Speaker 1: had a hypnotist coump in front of the entire ass 871 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 1: at like two in the morning. The hypnotists brought all 872 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:06,400 Speaker 1: these students to the front hypnotized them. At one point 873 00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:10,200 Speaker 1: he told them that their chair was on fire. Everyone 874 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:13,439 Speaker 1: started running around after the chair was not on fire. 875 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 1: A girl had clearly paid her pants out of fear, 876 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,920 Speaker 1: and she hypnotized, took off her sweatshirt and tied it 877 00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 1: around her waist because she was so embarrassed even in 878 00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,279 Speaker 1: the hypnotis. So you can't tell me that it's not 879 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 1: real or those people aren't believing it. If you, no 880 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 1: one would. This girl did not want to pee her pants, 881 00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:32,879 Speaker 1: and that's when I knew that's how you put out 882 00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:37,840 Speaker 1: the fire. It's pretty smart. Um the dead person know 883 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:41,760 Speaker 1: how insane is it that she became alive? The family 884 00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:44,359 Speaker 1: must have lost their mind and then she's dead right 885 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:51,200 Speaker 1: away and then she goes no no, no no, like 886 00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:58,040 Speaker 1: not God is scary. I mean she must have been 887 00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:02,520 Speaker 1: dead for a few days. You in Peru, they might 888 00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:05,480 Speaker 1: be doing it like there might not be a morgue, 889 00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 1: might be like a village. I'm not trying to pretend 890 00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:09,719 Speaker 1: like Peru is, like I know, Peru is a very 891 00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:13,879 Speaker 1: like metropolitan city, but it could be like it could 892 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 1: be some kind of like within a type of church 893 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,680 Speaker 1: where they don't involve the singamore, where they just do 894 00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:22,800 Speaker 1: it in house. You know that these can be stories 895 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,080 Speaker 1: like that. I mean even in America that happens where 896 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure like, uh, you know they have. There's this 897 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,760 Speaker 1: one great clip unread it all the time where these 898 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,560 Speaker 1: kids in probably South America, um one of their friends 899 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 1: who's a soccer star died and they want to have 900 00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,920 Speaker 1: one last game with them. So they kick the like 901 00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:46,640 Speaker 1: they have a goal set up, and they bring out 902 00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,400 Speaker 1: the coffin and they kick it and the ricochets off 903 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,160 Speaker 1: the coffin into the net and they all cheer and 904 00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:55,960 Speaker 1: hug the coffin. It's so sweet and stupid. I loved it. 905 00:45:56,200 --> 00:46:00,080 Speaker 1: I wish they made him scoring his own goal. You know. 906 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,360 Speaker 1: Oh you don't know that. Like a lot of soccer players, 907 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:05,480 Speaker 1: they'll score in their own goal and then still get murdered. Yeah. 908 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 1: This Columbia guys scored on his own goal during the 909 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:10,480 Speaker 1: world that's why. That's how that kid died. They were like, 910 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,239 Speaker 1: we wanted him to have one last one. That isn't 911 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,200 Speaker 1: that one? So let's have no what do we have 912 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,320 Speaker 1: time for one more story before we get a break? Sure, okay, 913 00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:23,280 Speaker 1: this is a sweet one. A newly adopted puppy takes 914 00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 1: its first walk with his new family and digs up 915 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,319 Speaker 1: a treasure worth nearly eight thousand dollars in a park 916 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:34,479 Speaker 1: in England. Whoa. Much to everyone's surprised, the dog, whose 917 00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 1: name is Ali dug up would appear to be fifteen 918 00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:41,359 Speaker 1: sovereign coins, meeting pieces of gold that could date back 919 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:49,600 Speaker 1: as far as nine This in that story from yesterday. 920 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:53,719 Speaker 1: Wait what was the story? Oh yeah, the head, Yeah, 921 00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:57,760 Speaker 1: the bust. Yeah. Um, A little puppy found good dog. 922 00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:03,360 Speaker 1: Um yeah, this is why you should adopt, not shop. Yeah, 923 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,160 Speaker 1: if you want to become maybe if you can find 924 00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:09,000 Speaker 1: a bitcoin. I wonder why the dog was attracted to 925 00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:13,879 Speaker 1: that scent of the coins. I think I think it's 926 00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:21,320 Speaker 1: the breed. So the breed is Legato room Magnolo. Oh 927 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 1: so the yes stands for gold digger. Dude, have you 928 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 1: ever metal detected? It's kind of it's Oh, I leased 929 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,520 Speaker 1: to love it as a kid. It's so rewarding. I mean, 930 00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,759 Speaker 1: it's like going to goodwill. You're finding like treasures like 931 00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 1: people who it's gambling a little bit. People can addicted 932 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,800 Speaker 1: to it. You know, it's fun. This was in Alaska. 933 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:42,600 Speaker 1: That's like a humble I don't know. I feel like 934 00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,600 Speaker 1: Alaska does not make me feel like you're bragging. All right, 935 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,960 Speaker 1: Well you did take a cruise there old gold panning. 936 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 1: It's really fun, is that where you take those little 937 00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:54,560 Speaker 1: like get yeah, oh a pan and you sit down. Yeah, 938 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,239 Speaker 1: it's it's a fun time. You never find gold, it's 939 00:47:57,280 --> 00:48:00,040 Speaker 1: already been they've been doing in a way. Yeah, I 940 00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,359 Speaker 1: don't I think if I've ever found anything valuable. Oh. 941 00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,960 Speaker 1: Today I was walking the dog and Marian is insane. 942 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:08,880 Speaker 1: If you didn't know, last year in July she got 943 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,080 Speaker 1: attacked by a German shepherd or my parents neighborhood dog 944 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:15,400 Speaker 1: and was ripped and she was literally bisected like it was. 945 00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 1: I can't believe she lived. Actually, a besties friend who 946 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,320 Speaker 1: we met at the show this weekend said, my friend 947 00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 1: was the woman who did the operation, Like was the 948 00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,799 Speaker 1: vet that took care of that called Well. I believe 949 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:30,600 Speaker 1: her last name is called call Well, called well, um Amanda, 950 00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,560 Speaker 1: called dr Amanda, called Well. I think it's her name. 951 00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: I think I'm sucking up the last name though. Anyway, 952 00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 1: Marian almost died, yet she still goes after big dogs 953 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 1: and she's so tiny. And so today I saw like 954 00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 1: a bunch of cash on the ground outside that dinner 955 00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:48,520 Speaker 1: that we walked back, and it was you know, obviously 956 00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,320 Speaker 1: if tip had fallen off the table, and I was 957 00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:52,040 Speaker 1: gonna pick it up and put it back on the table, 958 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:53,719 Speaker 1: or pretend to and then put in my pocket, but 959 00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 1: you know, I was gonna pick it up and put 960 00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 1: it in the table. And so I walked over the 961 00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:58,880 Speaker 1: dollar and I did not because I was so like 962 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:03,640 Speaker 1: many many I didn't see a gigantic dog on the 963 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,920 Speaker 1: other side of the fence where the people are eating, 964 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,040 Speaker 1: and Marion almost lost her life again because I was like, oh, 965 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 1: a dollar, And so I was so embarrassed that I 966 00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,719 Speaker 1: like went over to this dog where clearly my dog 967 00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 1: was going to get injured and I didn't see the dog, 968 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,239 Speaker 1: which was so clear that I was like, but there's 969 00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,680 Speaker 1: cash on the ground, extend, I go, well, there's dollars. 970 00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,320 Speaker 1: I got defensive on it, but there's money on the ground. 971 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:28,080 Speaker 1: Once you clean up your money, Like I was so embarrassed, 972 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:31,080 Speaker 1: it's so stupid. So yeah, I sometimes find things. Have 973 00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,160 Speaker 1: you ever found money on the ground? Any good good 974 00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:36,279 Speaker 1: amounts of cash? You too? Um? I found like a 975 00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,960 Speaker 1: twenty on the ground one time. It feels good, or 976 00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,560 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes I do it to myself where I'll 977 00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:44,000 Speaker 1: find like a twenty in a weird pocket and it 978 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:48,880 Speaker 1: feels like I love that. It's most worth it to 979 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:52,399 Speaker 1: put cash in weird pockets of things and just don't 980 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,080 Speaker 1: give them a good will without searching and pockets. But 981 00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:56,360 Speaker 1: that's another thing a good will. My mom has found 982 00:49:56,400 --> 00:50:00,480 Speaker 1: so much cash and really folds wallets, jackets. Yeah, just 983 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,960 Speaker 1: from people not cleaning out their pockets before they donate. 984 00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,640 Speaker 1: But generally people go through pockets before, like the people 985 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:07,439 Speaker 1: that put it on the floor. I want to say 986 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,400 Speaker 1: though that, Um, what was I going to say about 987 00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:14,520 Speaker 1: finding cash on the fucking Oh? I forgot it was 988 00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,880 Speaker 1: gonna be good. But who cares. Um, let's take a 989 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 1: break and come back within cares Alright, we're back. What 990 00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:29,640 Speaker 1: do we care? Why do I care? So? I don't 991 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,959 Speaker 1: know if you've heard of this, heard about this? Mini 992 00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:37,280 Speaker 1: driver wrote about a pervy commercial audition in her new memoir, 993 00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,839 Speaker 1: Oh I did. I read a headline on Daily Mail, 994 00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:41,839 Speaker 1: but I don't remember it, so repeat it to me, 995 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,919 Speaker 1: all right. So years ago she was in her room 996 00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,200 Speaker 1: with a mail director and more than a dozen people 997 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,239 Speaker 1: from an ad agency, and she received no script for 998 00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:55,000 Speaker 1: a commercial years ago, years ago, So this is directly 999 00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:59,640 Speaker 1: good will hunting. All right. So the director asked her, 1000 00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,480 Speaker 1: you seen the movie when Harry met Sally, You know 1001 00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,919 Speaker 1: the scene where she fakes an orgasm, eat a piece 1002 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:08,359 Speaker 1: of chocolate and do that. And she responded, fake an 1003 00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:12,840 Speaker 1: orgasm and he goes, yes, unless you fancy having a 1004 00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:17,399 Speaker 1: real one. So um, she was talking about how, which 1005 00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,840 Speaker 1: is similar to what you talk about. How She was 1006 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 1: just like, well, I'm just gonna barge out of here 1007 00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:24,600 Speaker 1: and I'm going to go warn all the women in 1008 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,960 Speaker 1: the audition room, you know, like what they're asking for. 1009 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,400 Speaker 1: But in thanks for the heads up. I'm gonna start practicing, 1010 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,520 Speaker 1: but instead doing it, you're way more talented to me. 1011 00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:41,160 Speaker 1: She didn't do anything chocolate. Yes, she she did it, yea. 1012 00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:42,919 Speaker 1: And when they asked her if they if she could 1013 00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:46,399 Speaker 1: do it again, Um, she said she couldn't. And then 1014 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,239 Speaker 1: they said something condescending like that's the best bit about 1015 00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:54,960 Speaker 1: being a girl. Right. Well, the thing is that women 1016 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,600 Speaker 1: can do it over and over. Then are the ones 1017 00:51:56,640 --> 00:52:00,319 Speaker 1: that can. Um. Okay, why did she do it if 1018 00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,320 Speaker 1: she didn't want to do it? Just kidding, says everyone 1019 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:04,440 Speaker 1: who hears any story of a woman doing something she 1020 00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 1: doesn't want to do later on, Um, the reason she 1021 00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 1: did it when she didn't want to do it and 1022 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,279 Speaker 1: she knew it was wrong is because you want the role. 1023 00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:14,960 Speaker 1: You also think, because all these people are signing on 1024 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 1: that this is a good idea, that maybe you're in 1025 00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:20,040 Speaker 1: the wrong and you're being overly sensitive. And also it's 1026 00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 1: scary when you're auditioning and you just do things out 1027 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:24,040 Speaker 1: of kind of a fear. Yes they're not going to 1028 00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:25,600 Speaker 1: kill you, but just out of a fear they might 1029 00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:27,960 Speaker 1: not like you. All these things. When I talk on 1030 00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 1: stage about teaching your daughters, if a man takes out 1031 00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 1: his penis, tell them to tell the guy to put 1032 00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,799 Speaker 1: it away. I say, by the way, no, no one's 1033 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,400 Speaker 1: gonna do that. Your daughter is not gonna do it. 1034 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,200 Speaker 1: We can teach women all we want to tell a 1035 00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:41,400 Speaker 1: man who they like, who they're making out with, who 1036 00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,799 Speaker 1: takes out their penis, to be like, do something if 1037 00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:45,920 Speaker 1: they don't want to do it, does help them to 1038 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:48,080 Speaker 1: put away. I can't even do that. As a thirty 1039 00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:49,839 Speaker 1: seven year old woman who came up with the idea. 1040 00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:53,120 Speaker 1: I've done at one time, so I know that in 1041 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,000 Speaker 1: those situations you just can't do the right thing of 1042 00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,040 Speaker 1: like put it away. You hope that we can train 1043 00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,160 Speaker 1: women to say it for themselves men too, obviously, but 1044 00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:04,319 Speaker 1: it's really hard. What happens too, I think is you 1045 00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:08,040 Speaker 1: see a celebrity who maybe has maybe two good movies 1046 00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,520 Speaker 1: on their air belt, so everyone's like, why would she 1047 00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,120 Speaker 1: have to do that? She's famous, she has two movies. 1048 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,319 Speaker 1: You know what I didn't at this time though, no, no, no, yes. 1049 00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:18,120 Speaker 1: My point is is at that time, she's probably even 1050 00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:22,719 Speaker 1: more desperate because she's going on a thousand auditions. Right. 1051 00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:26,680 Speaker 1: You don't context, you don't understand the rejection this woman 1052 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,640 Speaker 1: has felt because you saw her famous for a movie. 1053 00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 1: Rian came up with that idea for that scene, which, 1054 00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:34,680 Speaker 1: if you do know when Harry met Sally very well, 1055 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,960 Speaker 1: that scene is very out of character for for Sally. 1056 00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:41,279 Speaker 1: Sally is like a very prim proper doesn't even like 1057 00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,319 Speaker 1: to be asked about sex. For her to like do 1058 00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:48,000 Speaker 1: a loud orgasm in the middle of it really does 1059 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:49,400 Speaker 1: take you out of it for a second. When I 1060 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,239 Speaker 1: watched it, I was like, Okay, well, this character would 1061 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,200 Speaker 1: never do that, But there's something really great about the 1062 00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,080 Speaker 1: fact that she would just came up with it, and 1063 00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,879 Speaker 1: I think it's I think it actually has done so 1064 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,160 Speaker 1: much good for the world in terms of alerting men 1065 00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,600 Speaker 1: to the fact that yes, we can fake it really 1066 00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,480 Speaker 1: well and you wouldn't know. Um. Have you ever had 1067 00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:09,200 Speaker 1: to do anything um for an audition or like a 1068 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,560 Speaker 1: role or something that you didn't expect and you go, 1069 00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:13,480 Speaker 1: oh god, I don't want to do this, Like I mean, 1070 00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,040 Speaker 1: I think an equivalent to anything like this as a 1071 00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:19,279 Speaker 1: stand up comedian is when you do a show, a 1072 00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,200 Speaker 1: bar show for three people. The TVs on, there's a 1073 00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:25,400 Speaker 1: fish tank that's empty. I just did an interview Ryan, 1074 00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:31,560 Speaker 1: Uh No, it's it's for a podcast with the to 1075 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,480 Speaker 1: me and then you travel an hour for to drink tickets. 1076 00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:38,880 Speaker 1: So that's the equivalent to having a fake Ryan Russilo podcast. 1077 00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,640 Speaker 1: It's a very popular podcast. Yeah him, Yeah he's cool. 1078 00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:44,320 Speaker 1: He was really nice. Yeah, big, big, big in sports, 1079 00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,760 Speaker 1: and he was great, great interview, but he was asking 1080 00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:49,120 Speaker 1: me questions about that had been submitted from Twitter and 1081 00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:52,280 Speaker 1: a lot of young I think guys asking about stand 1082 00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:55,160 Speaker 1: up and like, I go to these bar shows, they're 1083 00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:58,480 Speaker 1: all just comedians. They don't laugh. It's like, what's the 1084 00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:00,319 Speaker 1: point of even doing this? Is there another way? Like 1085 00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:02,240 Speaker 1: what should I do? And I just go No, there's 1086 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:05,400 Speaker 1: no other That's the only fucking way, dude. You just 1087 00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:08,640 Speaker 1: you got it, or put your online and try to grow. 1088 00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,399 Speaker 1: But like g didn't good at stand up. You need 1089 00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,720 Speaker 1: you need a live audience, even if they're just jaded 1090 00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 1: comedians who fucking hate you, and you need to talk 1091 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,719 Speaker 1: into a microphone when you're nervous. It's what you need 1092 00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:21,719 Speaker 1: to do, you know. My My uh advice for that 1093 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,680 Speaker 1: is that even if it's shitty in the room, if 1094 00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:30,919 Speaker 1: you put some subtitles on it, and maybe you oh yeah, 1095 00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:33,080 Speaker 1: and most people watch things on mute anyway stand up 1096 00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:37,040 Speaker 1: clips if they have good subtitles. Um. I once I've 1097 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,080 Speaker 1: had to do things that I didn't want to do 1098 00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,440 Speaker 1: and I look back and I'm like, why didn't do that? 1099 00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:42,759 Speaker 1: And I don't want to promote it because it was 1100 00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:45,359 Speaker 1: so embarrassing. It was sexual kiss people I didn't want 1101 00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:47,480 Speaker 1: to kiss. One time, I was in an acting class 1102 00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:49,480 Speaker 1: and they there was an old man in acting class 1103 00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 1: who was probably in his fifties, and all of us 1104 00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:52,960 Speaker 1: young girls were in our early twenties were in this 1105 00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:54,480 Speaker 1: acting class. There was a scene where we had to 1106 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:56,840 Speaker 1: kiss him and we had to practice outside of class 1107 00:55:56,880 --> 00:55:58,560 Speaker 1: and then come all of us because he was the 1108 00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:01,439 Speaker 1: only guy in the class and so he was doing 1109 00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,160 Speaker 1: the part of the guy and we all had to 1110 00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:06,320 Speaker 1: do it with him. And separately, we were practicing together 1111 00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:09,320 Speaker 1: as girls over the weekend for this class that was 1112 00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:11,520 Speaker 1: coming up, and they were like, I can't believe we 1113 00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:12,960 Speaker 1: have a kiss and I don't do this, and I 1114 00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,160 Speaker 1: was like, we don't have to do this, we are 1115 00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:17,000 Speaker 1: not doing it. And so I was the one on 1116 00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,279 Speaker 1: this class on Monday to go. We've decided that we 1117 00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:22,000 Speaker 1: don't want to kiss him for the scene. And it's 1118 00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:24,960 Speaker 1: nothing against you. It's just we don't think it's necessary 1119 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,919 Speaker 1: and that the instructor, who is this gay guy, was like, oh, 1120 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,480 Speaker 1: so if you have a role where you need audition 1121 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:32,440 Speaker 1: and this is the scene, you're not going to kiss 1122 00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:35,320 Speaker 1: the actor. And I go, I'm not being paid for this. 1123 00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:37,240 Speaker 1: This isn't a real role. This is an acting class. 1124 00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:39,279 Speaker 1: I don't want to kiss Mark. And I was like, 1125 00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:42,520 Speaker 1: marking to do with? You're so sad? And then I 1126 00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:44,200 Speaker 1: stood up because all the girls were like, we don't 1127 00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:46,880 Speaker 1: want to kiss him. And then guess who? Every single 1128 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 1: one of them kiss them except me because I was 1129 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:50,480 Speaker 1: the one that spoke up and had to say true 1130 00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:53,200 Speaker 1: to it because I argued it was so awkward, and 1131 00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 1: then they all gave in and I was the one 1132 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,920 Speaker 1: that didn't kiss him, and my instructor fucking hated me 1133 00:56:57,960 --> 00:56:59,359 Speaker 1: the rest of the time because I wasn't a true 1134 00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:03,040 Speaker 1: actress and no, not doing it, dude, that's a wild story. 1135 00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,280 Speaker 1: How many girls were in the class, probably six or seven? 1136 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:09,279 Speaker 1: So Mark kiss six women? Tense to dude, we we 1137 00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,000 Speaker 1: are dealing with, like, I mean, this is a class. 1138 00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:12,960 Speaker 1: Paris Hilton has taken Whitney Cummings like it was the 1139 00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:15,880 Speaker 1: Leslie Khan method, which is a great method teacher James Franco, 1140 00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:20,480 Speaker 1: it was just like yeah, no, um, James Franco wasn't okay, 1141 00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,960 Speaker 1: I don't think, but he was. He wasn't definitely used 1142 00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 1: these acting classes to coerce women to do for acting. Yes, 1143 00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 1: it's like I like that commercial for a mini driver. 1144 00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:34,320 Speaker 1: It's like it didn't have chocolate involved, Like it was 1145 00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:37,240 Speaker 1: like to sell insurance, you know what I mean? Like guys, 1146 00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,880 Speaker 1: just like using I wrote a scene once that my 1147 00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:41,760 Speaker 1: friend was like, we're shooting something tomorrow. We write a 1148 00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:44,720 Speaker 1: scene to shoot and I was like, I kind of 1149 00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:46,040 Speaker 1: want to make out with a boy. So I wrote 1150 00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:48,040 Speaker 1: a scene where I was pertinent to what was going 1151 00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:49,280 Speaker 1: on in my life and there was going to be 1152 00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:51,320 Speaker 1: making out anyway. But I was like, who do I 1153 00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:52,560 Speaker 1: kind of want to make out with? Whom I knew 1154 00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:54,040 Speaker 1: would be good in this? And I picked So I 1155 00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:55,600 Speaker 1: will admit I picked someone that I wanted to make 1156 00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:57,400 Speaker 1: out with. I've talked about this before. I know that's 1157 00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:59,880 Speaker 1: a slimy thing to say. I didn't know it was not. 1158 00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:03,000 Speaker 1: That's a good thing to do, but you can't help 1159 00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,200 Speaker 1: that if you want to cast someone that actually you 1160 00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:07,040 Speaker 1: also would want to make out with and Ben Leeve 1161 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:09,000 Speaker 1: and I had a fucking fun day of making out. 1162 00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:12,000 Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, how many girl actresses are like Brad Pitts 1163 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,760 Speaker 1: in the movie Okay, I want to ben Affleck and 1164 00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:17,280 Speaker 1: Emily he put her and gun Girl and then on 1165 00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:18,720 Speaker 1: a day Armis. I think he had a hand in 1166 00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:20,200 Speaker 1: that casting. You just go, who do I want to 1167 00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,479 Speaker 1: make out with him? Maybe sort of relationship with because 1168 00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:27,720 Speaker 1: we're gonna be very intimate on set the year olds 1169 00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,800 Speaker 1: like it's Anthony Hopkins. Let's get to redd it is 1170 00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:39,400 Speaker 1: he ready lips? This is your redit? Dum uh? Noah, 1171 00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:42,840 Speaker 1: you want to start us off? You found something? Yes? 1172 00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:47,240 Speaker 1: So uh. I think we had maybe like a hundred 1173 00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:52,080 Speaker 1: besties share this clip. Yeah, And you told me don't 1174 00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:54,400 Speaker 1: watch a clip of this thing. And I didn't see 1175 00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 1: it before real early on. So this is something that 1176 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 1: you talk about. I don't want to talk it up 1177 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:04,919 Speaker 1: or anything. I just want you to just watch. Okay, 1178 00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:08,080 Speaker 1: I already hate it. I would never watch this. If 1179 00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,480 Speaker 1: I saw still image of this, I wouldn't watch it. No, 1180 00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:14,520 Speaker 1: this is wonderful, and I'm gonna make you watch this. Okay, 1181 00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 1: So no one gets hurt. Nobody gets hurt. This is 1182 00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:21,160 Speaker 1: actually a beautiful I'm already if you'll be able to 1183 00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:25,920 Speaker 1: hear the audio, but no, don't, don't kind of video. 1184 00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,960 Speaker 1: It's it's it's even though I know you're getting hurt, 1185 00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:34,200 Speaker 1: I still don't like it. Well, the besties asked for this. Okay, Okay, 1186 00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:45,240 Speaker 1: it's okay, Okay, it's it's fat men on diving board one. 1187 00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:51,080 Speaker 1: It's one guy. His name is Okay. This guy's not reckless, 1188 00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:53,959 Speaker 1: but I do not like the double jump. I don't 1189 00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:55,760 Speaker 1: like but where you jump and then you have to 1190 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,720 Speaker 1: jump again on it. That's the part I don't like. 1191 00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:03,240 Speaker 1: So this is Zeke Sanchez, who's a part of the 1192 01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:08,240 Speaker 1: East Belly Dive Club. She's not I don't like it either. 1193 01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:15,280 Speaker 1: Come back, come on, okay, I'll stop sharing. That guy 1194 01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 1: is First of all, I love that song so freaking much. 1195 01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:24,760 Speaker 1: Um uh yeah, there is some There must be an ancestor. 1196 01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:27,560 Speaker 1: Thing of it was swim beats. Parents would get drunk 1197 01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:30,160 Speaker 1: after swim meats. Dads would try to show off. And 1198 01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:34,680 Speaker 1: there's something about the first jump, then the jump onto 1199 01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:37,320 Speaker 1: the board after the second jump to get the propulsion 1200 01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:40,880 Speaker 1: that even on trampolines when people do double jumps and 1201 01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:42,320 Speaker 1: spin in the air, I'm so worried they're going to 1202 01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:43,880 Speaker 1: fall back down and hit their head on the like 1203 01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:46,920 Speaker 1: springs on the side, Like I just don't like seeing 1204 01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:51,560 Speaker 1: people hurt. I just have someone hit the back of 1205 01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:55,600 Speaker 1: their head. I did. My drunk uncle Michael once got 1206 01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:58,920 Speaker 1: drunk on my tenth birthday at the Blamford's house and 1207 01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:01,880 Speaker 1: Nata trampoline and he slammed his head into the bar 1208 01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:04,400 Speaker 1: on the side, and I heard about it, like, I 1209 01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:08,680 Speaker 1: just you know, that was a big thing in our childhood, 1210 01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:11,960 Speaker 1: his head. Yes, So now I don't trust. Yes, I 1211 01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,160 Speaker 1: remember that too. I don't trust that's not going to 1212 01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:17,760 Speaker 1: happen to even the best person. And I just get 1213 01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:20,280 Speaker 1: worried of the board snapping and breaking, like it just 1214 01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:22,520 Speaker 1: makes me. I don't know what it is, something in 1215 01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:26,880 Speaker 1: my I bet you it's historical, you know, like my ancestors, 1216 01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:30,880 Speaker 1: something some trauma happened with that. But you'll do a backflip, 1217 01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:34,560 Speaker 1: which is surprising. Yeah, because I trust myself. I do 1218 01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:36,400 Speaker 1: get worried on a double jump, though. I do get 1219 01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:38,880 Speaker 1: worried of like the running up and going boom and 1220 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,160 Speaker 1: then boom again. I usually just do a backflip from 1221 01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:44,760 Speaker 1: a standing position into the into the water. Um, thank 1222 01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:46,600 Speaker 1: you for that, but also no, thank you. No, that 1223 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,120 Speaker 1: guy is very talented and that song made it less 1224 01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:52,920 Speaker 1: uh scary. Um, this is so cute and I know 1225 01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:54,480 Speaker 1: people are not. It's not gonna be as cute if 1226 01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:55,960 Speaker 1: you don't show the video. So I'll send that for 1227 01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:57,800 Speaker 1: later because that's a video and I didn't send it 1228 01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:01,360 Speaker 1: to you know, Okay, Um, this is highly relatable. I 1229 01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,600 Speaker 1: send it to my boyfriend this morning because he struggles 1230 01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:05,400 Speaker 1: with this and I wanted him to feel less alone. 1231 01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:08,240 Speaker 1: This is a tweet from UM. This is in the 1232 01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,280 Speaker 1: sub breddit me I r L me in real life. UM. 1233 01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 1: This is from a tweet from Ashraff Rahman. Three. Do 1234 01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 1: you all introverts ever open a text and think I'll 1235 01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:20,080 Speaker 1: reply when I have the energy and then it's three 1236 01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:21,680 Speaker 1: weeks and you have to live with the guilt of 1237 01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:25,760 Speaker 1: being a horrible friend. Yes, yes, yes, yes. All you 1238 01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:28,440 Speaker 1: have to do in that scenario is right back to 1239 01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:31,160 Speaker 1: the person that it's been three weeks, four or three months, 1240 01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:36,240 Speaker 1: three years, and say I've said this before. Say the 1241 01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:37,880 Speaker 1: fact that I haven't gotten back to you is a 1242 01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:39,760 Speaker 1: sign that I really care about you because I get 1243 01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:42,000 Speaker 1: back to people when it doesn't mean anything, and I 1244 01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,200 Speaker 1: wait for the people that I want to get back 1245 01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:45,480 Speaker 1: to so much because I want to give it the 1246 01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:47,920 Speaker 1: effort that I can in the time I have. And 1247 01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 1: I didn't ever have the time that I thought was 1248 01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:52,760 Speaker 1: adequate to write you back, so I just didn't. I 1249 01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:54,440 Speaker 1: hope you relate to this, but also I hope you 1250 01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:58,720 Speaker 1: don't because it's my constant struggle. I'm so embarrassed. I 1251 01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:01,880 Speaker 1: love you, and can we talk? Can we act like 1252 01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:03,840 Speaker 1: this never happened? And I'll try again and I'll probably 1253 01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:05,840 Speaker 1: do it again, but I promise you it is not 1254 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:11,080 Speaker 1: about you, Yes, because I relate to this so much. 1255 01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:16,000 Speaker 1: What if it's someone that you're not so close with 1256 01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:18,560 Speaker 1: that you would that I would. You can't say that 1257 01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,840 Speaker 1: to you without lying, well, that I feel so comfortable 1258 01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:26,000 Speaker 1: of sharing something so personal, because that is That's what 1259 01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,640 Speaker 1: I would say, Because what I would say is that 1260 01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:30,600 Speaker 1: I get that I get what you're saying. Of like 1261 01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:32,640 Speaker 1: that sounds too that's too much. Here's a way to 1262 01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:35,840 Speaker 1: say it to someone who maybe is um. For instance, 1263 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:40,960 Speaker 1: I owe um this executive at HBO of return email. 1264 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,560 Speaker 1: We've got into we became friends and pitched something to her, 1265 01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:46,440 Speaker 1: and then we became friends afterwards writing back emails she 1266 01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:48,000 Speaker 1: wrote me, and I have not read it because I 1267 01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:50,360 Speaker 1: just wanted to give it enough time. She's not someone 1268 01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:52,560 Speaker 1: that I feel comfortable going like, oh, this is an 1269 01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:55,560 Speaker 1: issue I deal with, but I would still right back. 1270 01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:59,280 Speaker 1: I don't care who it is, I would still Nina. 1271 01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:02,840 Speaker 1: I'm so barrassed I haven't written back yet. Please know 1272 01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:06,800 Speaker 1: that it is because I wanted to write back something 1273 01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:09,720 Speaker 1: that was I knew would take me a substantial amount 1274 01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:11,640 Speaker 1: of time because I care about getting back to you, 1275 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:16,840 Speaker 1: but the time never I never got enough time to it. 1276 01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:19,080 Speaker 1: Got what you know, what I say, I go this 1277 01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:22,320 Speaker 1: The fact that I haven't gotten back to you is 1278 01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:26,120 Speaker 1: a classic example of when, because everyone relates to this, 1279 01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:28,520 Speaker 1: you see an email that you're like, oh my god, 1280 01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:30,240 Speaker 1: I gotta get back to that, but it's gonna take 1281 01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:33,120 Speaker 1: me longer than a minute, so then you let it. 1282 01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,680 Speaker 1: So I let it sit. Then, of course email stack 1283 01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,800 Speaker 1: on top of it, and although subconsciously I knew that 1284 01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:40,840 Speaker 1: your email was there, I put it out of sight, 1285 01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:44,040 Speaker 1: out of mind, because that's how my brain deals with things, 1286 01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:48,320 Speaker 1: UH that are that I really care about about and 1287 01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I hope you understand. Um, but here's 1288 01:04:53,240 --> 01:04:58,040 Speaker 1: my response. People love honesty anyone who you might feel 1289 01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:00,439 Speaker 1: like I can't be that honest with. When you break 1290 01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:03,440 Speaker 1: that barrier of sharing something that's a little bit personal, 1291 01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:07,480 Speaker 1: a little bit embarrassing, a little bit you know, um, 1292 01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,400 Speaker 1: just vulnerable about yourself, people eat it up. It's rare 1293 01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:13,360 Speaker 1: that you find someone that goes yuck. If anything, they 1294 01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:16,280 Speaker 1: just won't respond to it, but I'll guarantee you it'll 1295 01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:17,960 Speaker 1: make them feel a little seen in a little better. 1296 01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:21,000 Speaker 1: This is actually perfect for a into my next video. 1297 01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:23,080 Speaker 1: And I'm just gonna play the clip of it because 1298 01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:24,560 Speaker 1: although I didn't send the video that you know what, 1299 01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:28,480 Speaker 1: the audio is all you need. Um. This is from 1300 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:32,440 Speaker 1: TikTok Cringe, which also the subredit TikTok Cringe. I've realized 1301 01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:34,520 Speaker 1: it's just TikTok's that people like. It is not even 1302 01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:37,400 Speaker 1: about cringe, but it's just a good subreddit for all TikTok's. 1303 01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:40,360 Speaker 1: And the um caption is nobody cares. And this is 1304 01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:43,240 Speaker 1: a TikTok that went viral. And you know, on TikTok 1305 01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:46,720 Speaker 1: sometimes people do it a prompt and then ask people 1306 01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:50,720 Speaker 1: to respond to it. This one was a girl asking this, 1307 01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:53,120 Speaker 1: and then these are all men answering. So a girl 1308 01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:56,520 Speaker 1: asked question, men answer, and that the headline is nobody 1309 01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,680 Speaker 1: cares with a smiley face without a mouth. You know 1310 01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:02,760 Speaker 1: that emoji when you were out here, lois who is 1311 01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:10,120 Speaker 1: that one person? I'm on man be on a single 1312 01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:17,200 Speaker 1: san Nobody, no one, because I'm all alone. I think 1313 01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:24,120 Speaker 1: I speak. People say nobody, I'm a guy. Nobody gives 1314 01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:27,120 Speaker 1: a ship. And at first I thought it was a 1315 01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:29,200 Speaker 1: joke because the music so sacred, and I thought guys 1316 01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:31,920 Speaker 1: were just like being like I thought it was just 1317 01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:33,520 Speaker 1: going to make fun of these guys. But it just 1318 01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:36,000 Speaker 1: goes on and on and on with guys being like 1319 01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:38,680 Speaker 1: no one, No one cares when a guy feels sad 1320 01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:40,800 Speaker 1: and alone. It made me so sad. And then I 1321 01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:43,080 Speaker 1: get into reading the comments, and I thought people would go, 1322 01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:46,680 Speaker 1: this is overdrawn, this is overdone. It made me so 1323 01:06:46,680 --> 01:06:51,640 Speaker 1: sad because the comments are all about um normalizing talking 1324 01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:54,320 Speaker 1: about your feelings between men, um, you know. And then 1325 01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:56,160 Speaker 1: it's just my homies, my dad, my brother, there's someone 1326 01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 1: that like kind of shares something. But most of the 1327 01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:01,200 Speaker 1: comments are pretty pretty sad. How we got here. Man, 1328 01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:03,680 Speaker 1: funk this. Men aren't real men if they have emotions. Bullshit. 1329 01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:07,680 Speaker 1: Toxic masculinity is a hell of a drug. Um. Toxic 1330 01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,120 Speaker 1: masculinity got shipped done for a very very long time. 1331 01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,160 Speaker 1: It got passed down from generation to generation as a 1332 01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:14,280 Speaker 1: way to get ship done. We're the first generation to 1333 01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:17,120 Speaker 1: acknowledge its toxicity. We're still not entirely sure how to 1334 01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,400 Speaker 1: function without it. Until then, I'll run miles and do 1335 01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:22,600 Speaker 1: push ups until I figure out how to cope what. 1336 01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:25,600 Speaker 1: You are an emotional man, Andrew. We've heard you call 1337 01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:28,040 Speaker 1: Ari and say I love you, and Ari easily said 1338 01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:30,120 Speaker 1: I love you back, not thinking it was a prank. 1339 01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:32,560 Speaker 1: Even Um, he thought you might be taking your own life, 1340 01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:35,600 Speaker 1: but he was open to it, didn't shame you. Do 1341 01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:38,560 Speaker 1: you think do you think this is a as big 1342 01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:40,600 Speaker 1: of a problem as this? Yeah? I think I think 1343 01:07:40,640 --> 01:07:44,480 Speaker 1: a lot of times men complaining gets pushed off as 1344 01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:47,200 Speaker 1: just sucking man up. You hear that a lot just 1345 01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:50,040 Speaker 1: sucking man up? Dude, stopping a pussy and man up? 1346 01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:53,440 Speaker 1: How are you complaining about fucking? You know? And it 1347 01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:55,960 Speaker 1: could be the smaller it is, the more they'll be 1348 01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:58,840 Speaker 1: like man up. So your mom died. Man up. No, No, 1349 01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:01,880 Speaker 1: but so I think what happened was it seems like 1350 01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:03,480 Speaker 1: it has to be your mom died to get any 1351 01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:07,080 Speaker 1: fucking sympathy. Yeah, it has to be upset about like 1352 01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:10,400 Speaker 1: I just feel lonely, or I just you know, women 1353 01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:12,320 Speaker 1: we can be There's a stand up clip I saw 1354 01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:14,400 Speaker 1: where I was like, women can just be crazy and 1355 01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:17,360 Speaker 1: we let it happen, and men like you can't be 1356 01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:20,439 Speaker 1: a man that's like, um, these are my crystals. It 1357 01:08:20,520 --> 01:08:22,599 Speaker 1: was a really good bit, got a little a little 1358 01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:24,840 Speaker 1: weird at the end, but like I thought it was 1359 01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:27,559 Speaker 1: a good point. I think I don't know a lot 1360 01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:29,679 Speaker 1: of it just has to do with getting older and maturing. 1361 01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:31,960 Speaker 1: There's some friends that I never would have went to 1362 01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:35,720 Speaker 1: that I go to now that and we're like, I 1363 01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:38,040 Speaker 1: don't know, it's weird. Like my buddy Rusty, like we'll 1364 01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:41,840 Speaker 1: talk about, you know, relationship stuff and we'll send each 1365 01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:45,880 Speaker 1: other different articles, or where I would never have gone 1366 01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:49,760 Speaker 1: to Rusty before in my twenties or especially as a 1367 01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,320 Speaker 1: teenager and been like, hey, man, I'm having a hard 1368 01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:55,040 Speaker 1: time with my parents divorce. You know, like it just 1369 01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:57,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't have come up. You just it would feel so 1370 01:08:57,360 --> 01:09:00,320 Speaker 1: so I get that. I hopefully you grow out of 1371 01:09:00,360 --> 01:09:03,400 Speaker 1: that and you find a friend that is as emotional 1372 01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:05,680 Speaker 1: as you, and you open yourself up to like a 1373 01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:08,320 Speaker 1: different friend group. I think that helps. I think that 1374 01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:11,920 Speaker 1: the a thing that I I think we need to 1375 01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:16,320 Speaker 1: rebrand being emotional as being doing the hard thing, because 1376 01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:19,000 Speaker 1: it's really hard for men to be emotional. It's harder 1377 01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:22,080 Speaker 1: than a cross fit class, you know, like and and 1378 01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:25,120 Speaker 1: men want to do difficult things to prove their manliness. 1379 01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:27,439 Speaker 1: Like if we brand being emotional, it is like, oh 1380 01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:28,840 Speaker 1: my god, I can't believe you did that. That is 1381 01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:32,440 Speaker 1: so impressive because it does come easy to us women easier, 1382 01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:35,840 Speaker 1: and we don't get impressed by men who share the 1383 01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:38,920 Speaker 1: feelings were like, finally, because we don't relate to being 1384 01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:41,479 Speaker 1: told constantly that our feelings don't matter, that we shouldn't 1385 01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 1: have them, So we judge men like just be just 1386 01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:49,000 Speaker 1: be sad, cry and like it's I see in my 1387 01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:53,920 Speaker 1: own relationships with men when they do share fit things, 1388 01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:59,680 Speaker 1: they feel incredibly emasculated, incredibly on sexy, like it's they 1389 01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:03,519 Speaker 1: feel like you know, quote unquote gay, you know, like 1390 01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:07,760 Speaker 1: it's so it makes them feel like women and it 1391 01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:10,880 Speaker 1: just isn't a gender thing. It's just everyone has feelings 1392 01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:13,639 Speaker 1: and I I don't know. I just get so horny 1393 01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:16,360 Speaker 1: for men who are emotional, and I think it's changing. 1394 01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:20,880 Speaker 1: I think if we brand men being emotional as hot, 1395 01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:24,719 Speaker 1: and if we keep perpetuating that, it will get through 1396 01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:27,120 Speaker 1: because we're all motivated by what's going to make us 1397 01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:33,160 Speaker 1: likable and fucable. Is it emotional or is it more communicative? Yeah, 1398 01:10:33,240 --> 01:10:39,360 Speaker 1: communicative about feelings. I mean when I heard my boyfriend 1399 01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:43,679 Speaker 1: say about you know, therapy, that it was the first 1400 01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:47,880 Speaker 1: time he had ever said his thoughts, some of his thoughts, 1401 01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:51,479 Speaker 1: these thoughts that he's been having out loud, like, said 1402 01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:55,439 Speaker 1: them audibly. I couldn't believe it. I've never had a 1403 01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:57,880 Speaker 1: thought I didn't say out loud. I've never kept anything. 1404 01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:02,240 Speaker 1: And there's something so important about not your mind is 1405 01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:04,960 Speaker 1: a fucking mess, dude. Like your thoughts are going a 1406 01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:07,000 Speaker 1: thousand miles a second. They're all over the place there, 1407 01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:10,320 Speaker 1: they look like a Picasso painting. There's no sense in there. 1408 01:11:10,960 --> 01:11:13,679 Speaker 1: When you are forced to verbalize your feelings or write 1409 01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:16,639 Speaker 1: them down, you were able to release them make sense 1410 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:20,519 Speaker 1: of them. It's it's it's very underrated. Just talking what 1411 01:11:20,560 --> 01:11:22,519 Speaker 1: you're thinking. And when I heard Chris say that, it 1412 01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:25,320 Speaker 1: was the first time you'd ever done that. Man, he's 1413 01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:28,960 Speaker 1: not alone. He he was like, it actually really helps 1414 01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:30,720 Speaker 1: to like say these things that I think about when 1415 01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:32,439 Speaker 1: I'm on my bike or when i'm you know, on 1416 01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:35,599 Speaker 1: the treadmill, you know, driving, I've never said them out 1417 01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:38,639 Speaker 1: lout of thought them. I just didn't know I needed to. Yeah, 1418 01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:40,840 Speaker 1: a lot of times you don't know how to verbalize it, 1419 01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:43,320 Speaker 1: or you're afraid to verbalize it because it could come 1420 01:11:43,360 --> 01:11:46,800 Speaker 1: off so dark and angry. You've been holding onto these 1421 01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:48,599 Speaker 1: things so long. Oh, you don't know it might spin 1422 01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:50,720 Speaker 1: out of control. Yeah, and you just you just you're 1423 01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:53,720 Speaker 1: afraid of your own thoughts and so you need to 1424 01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:56,639 Speaker 1: go to therapy because that's a place to say something 1425 01:11:56,720 --> 01:12:01,080 Speaker 1: or yeah, dude, therapy so great. You see so many 1426 01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:04,840 Speaker 1: TikTok's where it's like, guys, um, well you know, final thought, 1427 01:12:05,200 --> 01:12:08,679 Speaker 1: I don't know if you want me to where guys 1428 01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:12,160 Speaker 1: will go? She left me and now look at my 1429 01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:15,000 Speaker 1: body and like that's where it goes. Instead of like 1430 01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:18,559 Speaker 1: having one on his conversation, it's seven months of working 1431 01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:21,120 Speaker 1: out and then you learn that your pets aren't going 1432 01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:23,080 Speaker 1: to help your brain. What do you do if you're 1433 01:12:23,120 --> 01:12:24,760 Speaker 1: a man out there who I'm sure that their men 1434 01:12:24,800 --> 01:12:26,880 Speaker 1: are like, yeah, okay, I'm willing to talk, but who 1435 01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:28,680 Speaker 1: do I talk to I can't afford let's say you 1436 01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:30,799 Speaker 1: can't afford therapy. What if you just want a friend 1437 01:12:30,920 --> 01:12:32,800 Speaker 1: to be able to confide in. Well, if you listen, 1438 01:12:33,880 --> 01:12:36,800 Speaker 1: I'm a guy that's open. Send me. You can send 1439 01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,439 Speaker 1: me a message and I'll he'll never look and see 1440 01:12:39,479 --> 01:12:42,680 Speaker 1: what you look like. We don't when people send us 1441 01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:45,040 Speaker 1: messages that our hearts felt and all these things. We 1442 01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:47,040 Speaker 1: some I don't connect a lot of the girls that 1443 01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:49,559 Speaker 1: I deal him with regularly that our busties like, we'll 1444 01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:51,360 Speaker 1: just send me things that are funny or just comment 1445 01:12:51,360 --> 01:12:53,479 Speaker 1: about something that happened in their day, and you know, 1446 01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:55,080 Speaker 1: sometimes I get back to them. Sometimes they don't. It's 1447 01:12:55,080 --> 01:12:56,920 Speaker 1: always about if I'm busy or not, or if you know, 1448 01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:59,320 Speaker 1: my phone's in my hand. I meet them at these 1449 01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:01,519 Speaker 1: shows and I go, you're the girl that like I 1450 01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:03,280 Speaker 1: didn't I didn't look into what you look like. I'm 1451 01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:06,479 Speaker 1: not like judging you. You just get the information. It's 1452 01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:09,400 Speaker 1: such a great way to communicate and um, yeah, that's 1453 01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:11,160 Speaker 1: a really nice offer if you're a guy out there 1454 01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:14,000 Speaker 1: that has some feelings, right, Andrew a paragraph, he will. Yeah, 1455 01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:17,160 Speaker 1: I've had people like write me about, you know, giving 1456 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:20,720 Speaker 1: him drinking, getting on anti depressents, getting off anti depression, 1457 01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:24,320 Speaker 1: having a girl who talks over you constantly and belittles 1458 01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:27,599 Speaker 1: you on a podcast the first two years. Look, wait 1459 01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:31,800 Speaker 1: one year. The other day you've said out of being great, 1460 01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:33,680 Speaker 1: you were like, someone gave you some atity, and you're like, 1461 01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:37,040 Speaker 1: just because she doesn't mean you do. And I was like, 1462 01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:40,280 Speaker 1: do I still treat you like ship? I mean, like joke? 1463 01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:46,080 Speaker 1: But I used to be way worse. Oh yeah, yeah, 1464 01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:49,000 Speaker 1: for sure. I've made an effort. I've made an effort 1465 01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:53,879 Speaker 1: to like like I acknowledge every everything and like perfect, 1466 01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:57,800 Speaker 1: no one is dude and whatever. But I just wanted 1467 01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:02,080 Speaker 1: to make when people they'll you know, what happens is 1468 01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:05,200 Speaker 1: is like you hear this this podcast with us, which 1469 01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:10,120 Speaker 1: is an hour long, and yeah, which and then other 1470 01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:12,040 Speaker 1: days it's an hour and fifty minutes and we never 1471 01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:16,160 Speaker 1: get to the news. But you have an idea of 1472 01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:19,639 Speaker 1: what our relationship and friendship is and we're very open about. 1473 01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:23,240 Speaker 1: But what they don't see is like the other twenty 1474 01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:26,439 Speaker 1: three hours where you're way worse. No no, no, no, 1475 01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:28,840 Speaker 1: that's a stupid joke, but like where your way where 1476 01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:30,960 Speaker 1: it's honestly like some of the we have some of 1477 01:14:30,960 --> 01:14:35,679 Speaker 1: the best times ever, and there's like there's no like 1478 01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:39,400 Speaker 1: above and not trying to sing each other. It's just 1479 01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:41,760 Speaker 1: like and so I don't know, and this sounds like 1480 01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:44,320 Speaker 1: I'm like a like a victim being like no, you 1481 01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:46,880 Speaker 1: don't get it. No, But seriously, like there's like there's 1482 01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:49,759 Speaker 1: a beauty to our friendship that I think sometimes gets 1483 01:14:49,800 --> 01:14:54,719 Speaker 1: lost and like comebacks or like or like little things 1484 01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:57,080 Speaker 1: you see and then they stick to those things and 1485 01:14:57,120 --> 01:15:01,400 Speaker 1: it's like, you're not fucking there's some truth. It isn't 1486 01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:03,840 Speaker 1: a significant hour of our lives, and we are very 1487 01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,519 Speaker 1: honest on here, but it is heightened. It is not 1488 01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:11,360 Speaker 1: complete representation of us. But uh, it is the most 1489 01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:14,920 Speaker 1: honest one that I have put out there, aside from 1490 01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:16,519 Speaker 1: the reality show I have to do. I have to 1491 01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:19,559 Speaker 1: say I watched if you watch the third episode, you're 1492 01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:22,000 Speaker 1: really funny in it. You have a really good uh, 1493 01:15:22,200 --> 01:15:24,320 Speaker 1: you have some really good lines, and it's when we're 1494 01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:28,599 Speaker 1: anti or vintage shopping. It's really funny, and you have 1495 01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:30,439 Speaker 1: some really good lines elsewhere. I forgot them now, but 1496 01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:34,479 Speaker 1: they were really really funny. And there's a there's a 1497 01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:38,040 Speaker 1: part of the part where we are just disgusted touching 1498 01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:40,240 Speaker 1: each other's feet. There's the part where we're doing the 1499 01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:43,000 Speaker 1: podcast and you asked me if, oh, you say a 1500 01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:46,920 Speaker 1: really funny thing you're asking me about, like, uh, if 1501 01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:50,719 Speaker 1: the in the metaverse? Will I age like if, because 1502 01:15:50,720 --> 01:15:52,840 Speaker 1: I'm talking about in the future, and I'm like, we're 1503 01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:55,400 Speaker 1: gonna be It's water World. It's like, you know, there's 1504 01:15:55,560 --> 01:15:57,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be living. I forget what I said. I 1505 01:15:57,840 --> 01:15:59,720 Speaker 1: said something very dark, and you were like, in the 1506 01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:01,960 Speaker 1: metal verse, are you gonna like are you gonna forty seven? 1507 01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:03,640 Speaker 1: Because I go in ten years and forty seven? You 1508 01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:04,920 Speaker 1: go in the metaverse, are you gonna be forty seven? 1509 01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:06,639 Speaker 1: I go, god no, But that was really funny line 1510 01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:10,800 Speaker 1: from you. And but I like really had like a 1511 01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:14,719 Speaker 1: hard time with the show last night because I watched 1512 01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:17,440 Speaker 1: it and then it went right to Summer House afterwards 1513 01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:20,719 Speaker 1: on my like I was watching it on I guess 1514 01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:22,439 Speaker 1: YouTube TV, and it just knew that I needed to 1515 01:16:22,439 --> 01:16:25,800 Speaker 1: watch Summer House afterwards, and boy, those girls are really 1516 01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:30,040 Speaker 1: pretty and they look good in almost every scene, and I, 1517 01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:33,200 Speaker 1: you know, prided myself on not trying to look good 1518 01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:35,799 Speaker 1: in every scene. I just did not wear that much makeup. 1519 01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:39,639 Speaker 1: I kind of phoned it in. And there are scenes 1520 01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:42,120 Speaker 1: where I'm like, I don't know, I was just having 1521 01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:45,519 Speaker 1: a bad um because I'm like I'm older than that now, 1522 01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:48,160 Speaker 1: Like I look old in that scene and nothing's gotten better. 1523 01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:50,240 Speaker 1: And just having like why does my hair look like 1524 01:16:50,240 --> 01:16:53,519 Speaker 1: an old witch? Is like just having a lot of 1525 01:16:53,640 --> 01:16:55,880 Speaker 1: or being like why did you not say something funny there? 1526 01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:57,960 Speaker 1: Like there was an opportunity I could tell. For so 1527 01:16:58,040 --> 01:17:00,320 Speaker 1: much of it, I was so tired and maybe in 1528 01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:02,240 Speaker 1: a bad mood, and I was trying not to come 1529 01:17:02,280 --> 01:17:04,160 Speaker 1: across as a bit. But some scenes, I'm like, you're 1530 01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:07,479 Speaker 1: such a fucking bitch, like all your little face, Like 1531 01:17:07,760 --> 01:17:11,000 Speaker 1: it's interesting to watch yourself and go, yikes, I mean 1532 01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:14,360 Speaker 1: I need to be better again. Though, leaning into that 1533 01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:17,800 Speaker 1: over leaning into this fake facade that you're showing the 1534 01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:23,280 Speaker 1: people your best possible self. Yeah, I would lean into 1535 01:17:23,439 --> 01:17:26,960 Speaker 1: the dirty, the ugly. I have planned for a second season. 1536 01:17:27,320 --> 01:17:30,800 Speaker 1: I want more. I know I want more. Our show 1537 01:17:30,880 --> 01:17:34,000 Speaker 1: right now is towing the line of like half like 1538 01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:37,160 Speaker 1: bubbly and just like fun and like very reality show, 1539 01:17:37,200 --> 01:17:39,040 Speaker 1: and then half like whoa she looks like in the 1540 01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:41,720 Speaker 1: scene like this is really looks like almost intervention. Like 1541 01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:44,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to be more real. I want to have 1542 01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:47,599 Speaker 1: more like drama because there was drama going on at 1543 01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:50,200 Speaker 1: the time of like getting into like just being like 1544 01:17:50,280 --> 01:17:52,040 Speaker 1: exhausted me, like I don't want to be here today, 1545 01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:53,600 Speaker 1: and like I just want a little bit more of 1546 01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:55,559 Speaker 1: that side of myself because it looks like I'm just 1547 01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:58,200 Speaker 1: like sometimes in scenes, I look like I need to 1548 01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:00,679 Speaker 1: cry and it's like just let it out, girl, like okay, 1549 01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:03,240 Speaker 1: but sometimes the scene was like no, you're talking about 1550 01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:05,280 Speaker 1: your sister's party, like it's not a time for you 1551 01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:08,360 Speaker 1: to cry, and I'm like, yes, I want to though, 1552 01:18:08,400 --> 01:18:10,800 Speaker 1: like I want you know, when you're making a show, 1553 01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:12,960 Speaker 1: you're really just like trying to figure out along the way, 1554 01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:14,760 Speaker 1: what is this, what's the tone? You have no idea 1555 01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:17,439 Speaker 1: what it's going to look like. And I think second 1556 01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:19,080 Speaker 1: season I have a goal to make it a little 1557 01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:21,160 Speaker 1: bit more like what is actually going on right now? 1558 01:18:21,520 --> 01:18:24,559 Speaker 1: Don't try to don't try to keep this in be 1559 01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:27,519 Speaker 1: a man, share your feelings. Yeah, man, up and cry 1560 01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:29,800 Speaker 1: like a bit. Oh, that's that's the new that's a 1561 01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:31,760 Speaker 1: pretty good line. Actually, man up and cry like a bit. 1562 01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:35,360 Speaker 1: That's a good shirt for you. Um yeah, so I said, 1563 01:18:35,439 --> 01:18:39,320 Speaker 1: it's what we do. We find a house. But I 1564 01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:43,840 Speaker 1: would love to do that. I feel like for entertainment. Yes, 1565 01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:47,360 Speaker 1: you've got a drink, you gotta fight, you gotta date 1566 01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:51,439 Speaker 1: other people, and we gotta stab a guy. I gotta, yeah, 1567 01:18:51,439 --> 01:18:54,280 Speaker 1: I gotta, and you gotta look really good and while 1568 01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:56,360 Speaker 1: doing it. Whatever, Yeah, I gotta get a car accident 1569 01:18:56,360 --> 01:18:58,800 Speaker 1: and then wake up. And then after I died, we 1570 01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:01,320 Speaker 1: need to dw I need to meet Tyler Henry bring 1571 01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:03,240 Speaker 1: him on for an episode. God damn, and I want 1572 01:19:03,240 --> 01:19:05,719 Speaker 1: a second season. Please funk, will you watch my show? 1573 01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:07,800 Speaker 1: It's not because I'm not asking this because the ratings 1574 01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:10,320 Speaker 1: are bad. They're actually really good, but they need to 1575 01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:13,200 Speaker 1: be like undeniably good in TV now. So if you 1576 01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:16,000 Speaker 1: are out there and could watch or encourage your friends 1577 01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:19,000 Speaker 1: to watch, you know, after the premiere numbers start to 1578 01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:21,160 Speaker 1: dwindle because premier is, like it says, the most push, 1579 01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:23,720 Speaker 1: and now press is dying down. I'd love if you 1580 01:19:23,760 --> 01:19:25,720 Speaker 1: did an extra push for your friends out there. To 1581 01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:29,200 Speaker 1: watch the show. Thank you so much. Um, don't be kid, 1582 01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:32,160 Speaker 1: great episode, a lot accomplished today. I'm about to go 1583 01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:34,040 Speaker 1: to a couple of therapy. I'm very excited for it. 1584 01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:37,439 Speaker 1: This was a good little a mouse a mouse bush 1585 01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:42,000 Speaker 1: for that got my feelings coming out already. I'm bleeding. 1586 01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:44,280 Speaker 1: I was actually I didn't know if you went yet. 1587 01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:47,600 Speaker 1: I'm kind of excited. Oh yeah, I'm excited to go 1588 01:19:47,680 --> 01:19:50,720 Speaker 1: to I love a couple of therapy. It's so good. Okay, uh, 1589 01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:57,519 Speaker 1: don't be ka and yeah they no, no, I think, 1590 01:19:57,520 --> 01:19:59,400 Speaker 1: I think all right,