1 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 1: Hi. 2 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 3: We wanted to do something that highlighted our. 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 2: Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are 5 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 2: a sibling. Raivalry. 6 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 3: No, no, sibling. You don't do that with your mouth. 7 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 2: Revelry. 8 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 3: That's good. 9 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 10 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: I worked with Abs that's what they call her because 11 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 2: I don't have any apps. On Scream Queens. That was 12 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 2: quite set, quite the set. Yeah, I was the old 13 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 2: man on that set. You were with Jamie Jamie Lee. 14 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 2: But it was a bunch of young ands and me 15 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: and Jamie Lee. You know, I tried to be cool 16 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: and young and hip and it didn't work. So I 17 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 2: just stayed in my place in the New Orleans. Didn't 18 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 2: didn't integrate very well. Now anyway, let's bring them in there. 19 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 2: They've been waiting in the waiting. 20 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, how are you guys. 21 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 4: We're we're doing good. 22 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: We're good. 23 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:22,199 Speaker 3: Well, let's just jump right right in. Okay, So where 24 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 3: were you guys? Born? 25 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: New York? Yeah, you're like New York City? Any hospital? 26 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 2: Yeah I was, but yeah, oh you were. 27 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 4: And I always think about it because in friends, like 28 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 4: when Phoebe gives birth and friends. That like kind of 29 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 4: roundish building. That's where I was born in. Yeah, that 30 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 4: My mom really went to all the different hospitals for 31 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 4: all three of us. 32 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 3: I feel like, I say, there's another sibling, yes, yes, 33 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 3: Wait what's your other siblings name? 34 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: Ryan? 35 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 3: How old is Ryan? 36 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 2: He just turned forty, just turned forty two days ago, 37 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 2: So yeah, what's the order here. 38 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:04,559 Speaker 1: Ryan, I'm in the middle. 39 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: Spec he's the youngest baby. 40 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my god. And she was a little baby 41 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 3: when we worked together, and she was you were so 42 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 3: cute and it was crazy. 43 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 2: Almost forty nine. 44 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Oliver, when we worked together, I was 45 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 4: like nineteen. 46 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 2: I know, that's fucking crazy. 47 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that was ten years ago. 48 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 2: Was that ten years ago? 49 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: Years ago? Not? 50 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't even It's insane. 51 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: And raising Helen was twenty two years ago. 52 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 3: Twenty two years ago, pretty nuts? 53 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: Was like, what was what was it like growing up 54 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: in the city? I mean, were you allowed the freedom 55 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 2: to roam and explore or was it strict or. 56 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 3: Odd? 57 00:02:55,520 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I I don't know, I guess about the 58 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. It was just what do you. 59 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 4: Think we have like a kind of like a block 60 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 4: radius of where we could. 61 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean when I when I turned like thirteen fourteen, 62 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,959 Speaker 1: I started going off on my own doing stuff and 63 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: you know, hanging out with friends and playing in bands 64 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. But before that, you know, we 65 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: weren't like just like wandering around the city like totally unaccompanied. 66 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:25,119 Speaker 3: Yeah. 67 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 4: That didn't happen until I was like sixteen seventeen when 68 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 4: I started doing that. But yeah, but what I liked 69 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 4: about growing up in New York I was younger. 70 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: Because I'm a boy, so I got the game earlier. 71 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 4: It's not safe for the women exactly, yeah, exactly, wilderness. 72 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: I was able to offend for myself. 73 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I was more so. But we were also 74 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 4: because we were acting. We were traveling so much, so 75 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 4: we weren't really in New York for massive amounts of time. 76 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, on the road affair amount, Yeah, like a lot 77 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: in La. 78 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, Spencer, weren't you already working like when you were 79 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 3: little doing didn't you? 80 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:14,839 Speaker 1: I started doing like commercials and stuff when I was three? Yeah, 81 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 1: I agree, And I started off. My first one was 82 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: a My first two were like a Life cerial commercial 83 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: and a McDonald's commercial with Charles Barkley. Uh. And then yeah, 84 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 1: then it just kind of went from there. 85 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 3: It was cool. 86 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 4: I thought it was burking for some reason. 87 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: Why I was trying to it was a Mickey D's commercial. 88 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 2: Yeah wait, so this was obviously I mean, you're three 89 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 2: years old, who You're not making many life choices. Did 90 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: your parents sort of say, look, we're going to get 91 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 2: you guys into commercials and get you into that. 92 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: So there the origin story or whatever was uh uh. 93 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: It's I always laugh at this now because it seems 94 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: like so weird now as an adult. But when when 95 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: I was like in that eight when I was like three, 96 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: for there was just like indoor playground in Manhattan that 97 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: I used to go to. And it's funny now they 98 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 1: used to send like talent scouts out to like the 99 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 1: playgrounds to be like, oh, cute kid, really weird kind 100 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 1: of like, oh the kid's really adorable, like. 101 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 4: You just like somebody goes up to like the Karen 102 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 4: and it's like, I think your child is beautiful. 103 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 2: So now yeah, it's you're pretty hot kid. 104 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: No, so it's uh yeah, So then I started doing commercials. 105 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 1: Uh just I I had a good time doing them, 106 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: I guess, and then kind of kind of kind of yeah, 107 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: where I was discovered. 108 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: No, yeah, but Ryan, Ryan didn't have didn't have what 109 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 2: it took. 110 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: Huh, just zero interest, zero interest. He doesn't want to 111 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: be in front of the camera. I think he did 112 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: do like a cameo in Raising Helen. I think him 113 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: and his buddies. 114 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 4: Oh uh yeah, when we're like we were supposed. 115 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: To they were supposed to play like I think like 116 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: CD kids in a playground or something like that, like 117 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: the like The Bad Element or whatever. 118 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 3: God, because Gary don't even remember that. 119 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: Well Gary, like anyone you showed up to set, Gary 120 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: would just be like, oh, you want to do a 121 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 1: part in the movie. 122 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 3: Oh my god? Remember when he I'll never forget when 123 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 3: you were ordering the drink when he was just yelling 124 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 3: out five hundred million different drinks. Yeahore telling you that 125 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: was my favorite, telling me when to Singapore Sling. 126 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 4: I always because I did a movie with Gary. Also, 127 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 4: after I've aught we both did Princess Diary's too. Yeah, 128 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 4: after Raising Helen, and then I did New Year's Eve 129 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 4: with Curry and I'll never forget he called my mom 130 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 4: uh before because in New Year's Eve, I was like 131 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 4: fourteen years old and it's like we have me and 132 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 4: this other boy that was in the movie We have 133 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 4: a kiss, you know, and he said to my mom like, 134 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 4: I don't want to be lude heard. He was the best, 135 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 4: the best, He was the best. That's such a fun 136 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 4: movie because we did a lot in l a and 137 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 4: we did a lot in New York. And I remember, Kate, 138 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 4: you like were so cool because when we wrapped, I 139 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 4: was very sick that day. 140 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: I was starving. 141 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, speaking everywhere. But you took Spencer to 142 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 4: Swartz and I remember being like, I didn't care that 143 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 4: I was sick because I wasn't doing a good job 144 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 4: in the film. Was six years old. I because I 145 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 4: was like, damn was going to. 146 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: Kate? 147 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: Kate, you took Spencer to. 148 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was great. 149 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 2: It was just the two of you. 150 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 3: Well like it was well, who else was with us? 151 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 4: No, it was I think my mom was. 152 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: There and there was someone else who. 153 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 3: Was there and like my assistant or I remember, yeah, 154 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 3: I think so it's just a couple of us. 155 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: I remember when Abby was all sick and Gary came 156 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: up to the room. It was like, have you tried 157 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: like saltine crackers? 158 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 3: Abigail, I'll take you to fish once again. 159 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 4: I didn't down now, but can American girl doll store exactly? 160 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 3: I remember, this is such a great There's this scene 161 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 3: where I'm teaching her. I'm teaching her how to or 162 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 3: she's just trying to tie her shoes and I come 163 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 3: into the room and she's just like, you know, crying 164 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 3: because the last time she was learning how to tire 165 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 3: shoes was with her mom. And I, oh my god, 166 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 3: I could not get through this scene. Abigail could make 167 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 3: herself crush. I mean, she is so years old, she's 168 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 3: Wannie's age, crazy and she you are accessing something that 169 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 3: was so like pure and incredible, and everybody was just like, 170 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 3: oh my god. It was just heart wrenching. I'll never 171 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 3: forget it. You're sitting in that little. 172 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 2: Let me ask you a question. Actually, this is interesting 173 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 2: because that's six years old. I don't know. I'm sure 174 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 2: you have recollection of it, but how are you able 175 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 2: to do that? Meaning even you and then moving into 176 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 2: sort of other children watching some of these kids being 177 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 2: able to access emotion and make it so real. You know, 178 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 2: how do you remember how you did that where you 179 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 2: went at six to be able to do that or 180 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 2: were you just so in the moment of what the 181 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 2: scene was. 182 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 4: No, I think there's something wrong with me. I think 183 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 4: I try to work through this in therapy from time 184 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 4: to time. I don't really you know why, I no, 185 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 4: I think. 186 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 3: Like, uh uh, I I don't really. 187 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 4: I see it as a lot of like a mechanical thing. 188 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 4: I can make myself cry very easily. It's really great, 189 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 4: like in terms of in my real life, like I 190 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 4: can manipulate my husband really well. I would cry to 191 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:29,439 Speaker 4: my dad about getting things. No, I'm kidding, but I'm 192 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:33,439 Speaker 4: not so. I don't know. I don't know. I think 193 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 4: I was always just it's my party trick. I can. 194 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 4: I can cry very yeah. 195 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 3: Oh and break your heart. Now you're not just crying. 196 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 3: It was just like it was like heartbreaking. 197 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 4: Now the older I got, the older I got, the 198 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 4: more I, you know, would actually think about it. But 199 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 4: my mom could just say something to me, like you 200 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 4: need to apologize to your brother, and I would I didn't. 201 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: Want to say sorry, yeah, fair enough. Yeah. It's like 202 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: the hardest thing for me in the world to do. 203 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 1: I feel like it's like anytime I need to do 204 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: any type of scene where I'm crying, I need like 205 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 1: an hour to like figure out like a game plan 206 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 1: how to do it. It's like so difficult, so. 207 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 2: It's yeah, well that you can do it, Like I'm 208 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 2: kind of with you. I mean I for me, it's 209 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 2: like right before you know, he's getting ready, they're gonna 210 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 2: roll camera, and I'm like feeling like I'm fucking I'm 211 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 2: so money right now, like like the Emmys are gonna 212 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 2: be stacked up on my shelf. And then action, I'm like, 213 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 2: it's gone, yeah, there it goes. 214 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 4: It's like when you have a sneeze and you can't 215 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 4: get it out right away, so it's like and then 216 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 4: it's just gone. 217 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 2: Forever, right, And then half of the scene, I'm like, God, 218 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 2: damn it, you fucked you had it. 219 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: Stupid, stupid, stupid. 220 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 4: You really cry very well as well. It really is. 221 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 3: I think men have a harder time accessing emotion than 222 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 3: women do. Like we we are sort of almost like 223 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 3: hardwired to be more connected to our emotional you know. 224 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 2: I wonder from an evolutionary standpoint, like what that is? 225 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? From a primal place. 226 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 3: There's a book called a Female Brain, and it's really 227 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:21,679 Speaker 3: fascinating because it talks about that Ryan's a lot older 228 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 3: than you, guys then. 229 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, seven years old. I'm turning thirty three in a 230 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: few days and Ryan is Yeah, so he's about exactly 231 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: seven years older than me. He's eleven years older than Abby. 232 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, And how was that dynamic sort of growing 233 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 2: up as far as the sibling relationships went, you know, 234 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 2: because he was sort of gone, you know, if he's 235 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 2: seven years older, well he's seven years old, right. 236 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 1: No, he I mean it was probably a different dynamic 237 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 1: because we weren't so close in age. Yeah, I know, 238 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: like Ryan and I became a lot closer as buddies, 239 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: like when I towards the end of high school for me, 240 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 1: when he was Yeah, so yeah, we became like a 241 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: lot better pals end, just because you don't like if 242 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 1: someone's you know, seventeen and ten, that's such a huge 243 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: aage gap, but you know when it's you know, twenty 244 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 1: and twenty seven, it's kind of not that big a deal, right, Yeah. 245 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 4: Ryan and I became really closer around the same time, 246 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 4: Like when I was around seventeen eighteen, we became a 247 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 4: lot closer, but Sensor and I were because we're only 248 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 4: four years apart, so we grew up. But the difference 249 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 4: is like I didn't really get into any fights or 250 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 4: you know, like sibling issues with Ryan because he was 251 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 4: in college and was in and out and Spencer and 252 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 4: I would more it. 253 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,079 Speaker 1: Also would be pretty weird for like a college kid 254 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 1: to be like picking fights with like a seven year old. Yeah. 255 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 2: Pretty But it sounds like all of y'all got closer 256 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:05,439 Speaker 2: as you went as you got older. 257 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 4: Probably probably yeah, yeah, yeah, I would say. 258 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 1: We're all we're all pretty tight knit. 259 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 4: Did you guys grow up very close together? 260 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 261 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:27,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, we were all I mean like physically. Yeah. 262 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 3: Well you guys if you started so young, was raising 263 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 3: hell in like the first time you guys worked together? 264 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: Yeah? 265 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 3: And then and then that was still like kind of 266 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 3: in the beginning, right, I mean that was my second movie, right. 267 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: And yeah, I'd already been doing it, I guess for 268 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, I've been doing it for a while, 269 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 1: I guess at that point. 270 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 271 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean so I guess not that long, 272 00:14:57,760 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: I guess. Yeah, I mean I was ten years old, 273 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 1: so yeah, those are a long three years. Yeah, exactly right, No, Yeah, 274 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 1: but yeah, that was the first time we worked together 275 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 1: at all. 276 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 3: What did it feel like, like, I mean, I'm trying 277 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:17,359 Speaker 3: to think if we've interviewed like child actors, but you know, notoriously. 278 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 2: Sibling like sibling child actor. Yeah, yeah, I. 279 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 3: Mean it's a difficult. It's difficult anyway, but then you 280 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 3: add like your childhood, and then you add that you 281 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 3: guys are growing up together. You guys are going out 282 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 3: for different jobs, some people are maybe one is working 283 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 3: more than the other. Like did it create a challenging 284 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 3: dynamic for you guys? 285 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: I don't think so. 286 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 4: I don't think it was really hard when he didn't 287 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 4: get a little in the sunshine and eye got it. 288 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 1: I think it's probably. I think the reason that there 289 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: wasn't like a weird dynamic or like any type of 290 00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: competitive dynamic was like we're totally different, Like I'm I'm 291 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 1: a guy. She's like like we were never like kind 292 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: of going out for similar things. So there was never 293 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: this like competitive thing as much as oh, like cool, 294 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 1: you're doing this, you're doing that. Great. We kind of 295 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: had our own thing, like yeah, we chattered, we chat 296 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: our own thing or whatever. 297 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 2: If that means did you like being on set? I mean, 298 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 2: was it something you guys loved? Was it you know, 299 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 2: as a child actor, obviously there's challenges. It's an adult world. 300 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 2: Do you get thrown into you know, you can get 301 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 2: fucked up? You know, yeah, how did you guys deal 302 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 2: with all that? 303 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: I like being on set. I always enjoyed it. I 304 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: never had like I know a lot of people like 305 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: who maybe didn't you know, you hear about people like, oh, 306 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 1: I grew up a child actor and I hated it 307 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: and I resented and that's here, that's like their own experience. 308 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: For me, I've I've always enjoyed it, and I've never 309 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: felt like, oh, like I missed out on so much 310 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 1: from being that or this or that. Like I enjoyed 311 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: being on set. 312 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,120 Speaker 4: I think a lot of that too comes from, like, 313 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 4: you know, the fact that we weren't ever we had options, 314 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:07,640 Speaker 4: like if we didn't want to do it, our parents 315 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 4: weren't going to be like oh yeah. 316 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: We weren't like supporting the family got it. 317 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 4: So it wasn't like that immense amount of pressure. But 318 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 4: I mean we always I always at least had a 319 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 4: lot of fun on set. I don't think it was 320 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 4: until I was like twelve or thirteen when I did 321 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 4: this one movie where I really started liking acting in 322 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 4: terms instead of just loving being on set, if that 323 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:35,719 Speaker 4: makes sense. 324 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I just remember also Spencer was a very 325 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 3: like as a kid, you know, he knew what he wanted. 326 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 3: He was like a little man. He had very very 327 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 3: like specific opinions. And oh god, god, you were so 328 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 3: you guys were so cute. It's like, it's so this 329 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:04,440 Speaker 3: is so fun for me because I like really knew 330 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 3: you as kids, ye know, and and your nature, both 331 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 3: of you, your family, your whole family is so sweet. 332 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 3: And then we had Hayden. Uh yeah, you also worked 333 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 3: with Nashville so and she was just like ready to 334 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:27,479 Speaker 3: be an adult. I mean it was like you had 335 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 3: the teenage girl and then you had these like two 336 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 3: that was like ready to be an adult, ready to go, 337 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 3: ready to party, and then you had these like adoor. 338 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 3: I got so lucky with all three of you guys. 339 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 2: Was that was that Owen Wilson. 340 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 3: Movie, No No Raising? Helen Joan Cuzac, John Corbett. 341 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 2: John Corbett did a little part. 342 00:18:58,119 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 3: Of Paris Hilton, remember that at the at the at 343 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 3: the restaurant. So did you feel like you had a 344 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 3: normal childhood because I mean, from my point of view, 345 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:10,360 Speaker 3: it wasn't that normal. 346 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: Probably not. 347 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 4: I mean I think as normal is it couldn't. 348 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 3: Did you go to actual school or were you homeschooled? 349 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 3: We were homeschool yeah, all three of you. 350 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 1: Ryan two, Ryan too, Ryan too. Yeah. Homeschooling predates any 351 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 1: like involvement in showbiz or anything like that. 352 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. That was more so because my dad had just 353 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 4: started up his business. 354 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, they were doing their own thing. 355 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:43,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I know for me, like when I 356 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 4: was around fourteen, I did get into a weird thing 357 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 4: of like getting really obsessed with booking roles all the time. 358 00:19:54,560 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 4: And that stemmed from one article that I I read 359 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,919 Speaker 4: online when I had I was thirteen years old and 360 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:07,120 Speaker 4: I had done a play in New York on Broadway, 361 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 4: The Miracle Worker, and when the show closed, somebody, I mean, 362 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 4: who writes is about a thirteen year old child that 363 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:18,119 Speaker 4: they're like Abigail Breslin star power is waning after the closing. 364 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 4: Oh no, for reading that online and not knowing at 365 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:27,159 Speaker 4: thirteen even what the word waning meant and googling it 366 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 4: and being like, oh god, I have to book rules 367 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 4: like right now or else I'm completely And my parents 368 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 4: had noticed that I was getting very you know, stressed 369 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 4: about looking things, so they made me take about a 370 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 4: year and a half to two years off to just 371 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 4: be with my friends. Oh well, and at first I 372 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 4: was like, I hate you, You're the worst. I think 373 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 4: it was very important that I, you know, took that 374 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 4: time to so that that my dad said it to me, 375 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 4: was like, how can you play a teenager if you 376 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 4: don't know what it's like? 377 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:05,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 378 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 2: So, yeah, that's that's amazing honestly that your mom saw 379 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 2: that and did that, you know. Yeah, really it's so 380 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,400 Speaker 2: easy to say not just keep going, keep chugging it out, 381 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 2: like yeah, but it's like no, no, no, you need 382 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 2: to be a fucking kid, you know, child. 383 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I think that's why. But I don't I 384 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,880 Speaker 4: don't really know anybody who's had a normal childhood. 385 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 2: I don't think anyone in the world. Yeah, I don't know. 386 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 2: I'm sure normal believe it is. 387 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 1: I always I always say there's a lot of people. 388 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 3: Well, I mean I'm in the in the when when 389 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 3: you're talking, I mean in the sense of like having 390 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 3: the structure of what most kids are doing on a 391 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 3: daily basis, Like you wake up, you go to school, 392 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 3: you have your after school activities. You know their experience, right, 393 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 3: you play the clarinet. 394 00:21:57,840 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: I mean I know kids though, who are like in 395 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 1: like really serious like athletics throughout school and high school, 396 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:07,640 Speaker 1: and I feel like their life was more crazy than 397 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: uh yeah, the mine wasn't like much more regimented and 398 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: all about you know, work for and for them that 399 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 1: could be baseball, footbar, swimming or whatever. So I think 400 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:22,680 Speaker 1: it's all you know, yeah, it's all it's all. 401 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 3: It's all relative relative, Yeah, except that you're working mostly 402 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 3: with adults, correct, Yeah, so you're not in an environment 403 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 3: where you're actually socializing with people your own age and peers, 404 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 3: which is a really that's why, you know, when when 405 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 3: people look at the history of child actors, it's like 406 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 3: that peer development is really important. So when you don't 407 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,120 Speaker 3: have it, I thank god you guys had each other 408 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 3: in your you know, homeschooling and together had you there's 409 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 3: three of you, but you know, did you did she 410 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 3: put did did your parents put you in any like 411 00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 3: after school activities and stuff like that. 412 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 1: Or little league? Like we had swimming, we had gym 413 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: class for uh like the like we were part of 414 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,439 Speaker 1: like kind of like a like a homeschooling group, I 415 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: guess in New York. So there was we were in 416 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 1: a cult. 417 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:18,239 Speaker 2: That's what it was. 418 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: We were in a cult. But no, and like you 419 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: get together and do gym classes. I honestly think living 420 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: in New York helped the social aspect because there I 421 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: we weren't around like other kids as much in the business. 422 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 1: So it'sn't like going to the playground being like, oh, 423 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 1: who are you repped by? 424 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 4: Oh? 425 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 1: It was kind of like nonet really care. It was 426 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,159 Speaker 1: I had my friends from Little League, she had her 427 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: friends from swim class, and it was kind of very 428 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,119 Speaker 1: non like when we weren't working on a movie. It 429 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 1: was very much like a non show biz kind of house. 430 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 2: What was the recognition factor, like though you know, well 431 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 2: you guys recognized as kids? 432 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 433 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 4: I had more creepy experiences, yeah that where like would 434 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 4: come up and literally physically pick me up, like please 435 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 4: put down my child, like you don't grab my child 436 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,399 Speaker 4: and name be like I love it, and I would 437 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 4: cry about like little miss charge And it's when you're 438 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 4: you know, nine years old, that's in the very overwhelming. 439 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had someone, I had someone ask me for 440 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 1: an autograph while I was standing like at a urinal 441 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 1: at out back steakhouse, and I was like, you can 442 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 1: you wait until my hand. 443 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,640 Speaker 2: Praps you just pee on them? 444 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 3: Like what about the teenagers? 445 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 2: Did it? 446 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 4: Did you? 447 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 3: Were you ever rebellious? 448 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 1: I was? 449 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 3: I was quite tell us Spencer, Oh. 450 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I heard you're a year and a half sober. 451 00:24:58,720 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 1: I am a year and a half sober. 452 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 4: Yeah. 453 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:07,159 Speaker 1: I I guess I liked alcohol, uh and maybe I 454 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 1: liked it a little bit too much and uh yeah, 455 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,680 Speaker 1: so I you know, but I've I've had my ups 456 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: and downs. I guess with that. I don't know related 457 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 1: to show business or not. I think it's just because 458 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 1: I like drinking. So yeah. 459 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 2: But but but if you're okay talking about it, I 460 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 2: don't care. What was What was the moment where you're like, 461 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 2: you know what I says, I like this too much? 462 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,840 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like I need to I 463 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 2: need to get rid of this in my life entirely. 464 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 2: And I'm I'm semi it's semi relatable because I'm on 465 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 2: a bit of a sober kick, because for sure, Kate knows, like, 466 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 2: you know, I just felt like I was just drinking 467 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,120 Speaker 2: too much alcohol, you know what I mean. I I 468 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,439 Speaker 2: was still living my life and functioning and being a 469 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 2: dad and yeah, husband and working and all that, but 470 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 2: it was just taking its toll and I couldn't go 471 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 2: have a martini. I'd have like ten. 472 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,399 Speaker 1: That's that's the whole thing. I think for me, it's 473 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,919 Speaker 1: kind of like the old the old saying or whatever. 474 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: Ones too many, ten isn't enough. I just I kind 475 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 1: of I lost, like all my motivation. I was pretty 476 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 1: much like waking up to go out and drink with 477 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: people all day. And you know, I think a lot 478 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,880 Speaker 1: of my friends have it. Like a lot of the 479 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: people that I liked being around kind of stopped liking 480 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: being around me because I was kind of like just 481 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 1: a drunk and like there was no kind of like 482 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 1: humping the brakes ever. It was kind of just one 483 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: hundred percent go, go go, and you got in the 484 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:48,920 Speaker 1: cycle of yeah, just kind of like a really nasty cycle. 485 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:50,679 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, I really need to 486 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: stop this because this is, you know, getting dangerous and 487 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm not really living a life. 488 00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 3: So what was then, What's been the most surprising part 489 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 3: of your sobriety so far? 490 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 1: I was really afraid of how am I okay, how 491 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 1: am I going to be social with people. If I'm 492 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 1: not drinking or doing something else, am I gonna, you know, 493 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: get along with people? How am I going to talk 494 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: to people? Everyone's going to realize I suck or I'm 495 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 1: not funny or this and that, and I might I'm 496 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,919 Speaker 1: still not funny for sure, But. 497 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 3: Are you funny? 498 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,400 Speaker 2: Though you were funny and then you subjecting, Now you're 499 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 2: not funny anyway. 500 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's you know, it's just but it didn't work 501 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 1: out that way. And actually my life's gotten a lot better. 502 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 1: I've gotten a lot healthier. I don't need to wake 503 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 1: up and think like, oh, I really hope I wasn't 504 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 1: a dick to someone last night, or you know, was 505 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 1: I rude to someone or did I say something nasty 506 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 1: or you know, it's you know, and and I like 507 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: actually show up to stuff like, yeah, show up to 508 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: like I'm not just like blowing stuff off or forgetting 509 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:10,480 Speaker 1: to do. 510 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 2: And the energy I'm sure your energy level is are 511 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 2: like through the roof compared. 512 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I'm like, I wake up like it's 513 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: seven thirty in the morning, I still like do my things. 514 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,640 Speaker 1: Oh I used to take like two o'clock and wake 515 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 1: up over and miserable and it would take three four 516 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 1: hours to just get in a groove. 517 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 4: It's it's so it's been so strange to see him 518 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 4: in this way, because you know, everybody has their issues whatever. 519 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 4: He's my big brother, and I've been so like proud 520 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 4: of him. Not to be cheesy, I haven't proud of him, 521 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 4: because it's it's really like I think whenever somebody goes 522 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 4: through something like that, it's like, oh, I have like 523 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 4: my my brother back like to being the person they normally, 524 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 4: you know, know him to be. And he's just been 525 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 4: like such a badass like in his journey with that, 526 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 4: and we're very proud of him. 527 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 3: But I love hearing this so much. Spencer, do you 528 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 3: feel like your mental clarity is like a completely different Uh? 529 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, Yeah, for sure. 530 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 3: We were talking to this doctor Amon who's like a 531 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 3: psychiatrist and he's on Instagram lized a very popular psychiatrist, 532 00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 3: and but he was saying, like drinking just alcohol is 533 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 3: just absolutely awful for the brain. Like it just when 534 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 3: you actually see what it does to your brain function, 535 00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 3: it makes people just be like, h I'm not gonna 536 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 3: do and and and do that anymore. And the first 537 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 3: thing that people really realize when they stopped drinking in 538 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 3: those first like you know, weeks, is like it literally 539 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 3: it's almost like their whole brain works differently. 540 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I I was towards the end of 541 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: my drinking. I was, I was drinking about like two 542 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 1: bottles of vodka day. Oh my god, when you cut 543 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 1: that out, there's gonna be like a boost in Uh 544 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: it's just because you're basically in a coma when you're 545 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 1: drinking that much. 546 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 4: And I. 547 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, like the first couple of months, I mean, 548 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 1: i'd say in the first like six months to a year, 549 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: it's definitely tricky figuring out how to fall asleep. That 550 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 1: was the thing, because and then realizing what sleep actually 551 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 1: is as opposed to passing out. And uh yeah, and 552 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 1: like a roller coaster of emotions. Obviously, I'm feeling stuff 553 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: all the time because you've been you know whatever. 554 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 3: I think that some of this started to get worse 555 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 3: after you lost your your father, because I know, and 556 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry to hear that, thank you. Yeah, I've 557 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 3: thought about that. 558 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:18,479 Speaker 1: And I was actually talking with in in a meeting 559 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 1: I go to for my sobriety. I was talking about 560 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: this with someone because you kind of you'll think like, oh, 561 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 1: I wonder if this was the reason I drank more, 562 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 1: what was the tipping point? This and that? And I 563 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 1: would go crazy trying to figure it out. And then 564 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: I realized, like, okay, I think what it is is 565 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 1: like I'm an alcoholic and it's just what it is, 566 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 1: and I will you know, I can say, oh, my 567 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 1: dad died, I'm going to get drunk, and I did. 568 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 1: I could say, Oh, I booked a movie. I'm going 569 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 1: to go celebrate and get drunk. Oh I got fired 570 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 1: from this job. I'm going to get drunk. Oh I 571 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: really great happened. I'm going to get the key part 572 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: being I'm going to get drunk. 573 00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 3: I'm being going to be cheesy too. I'm really proud 574 00:31:58,120 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 3: of you. 575 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 1: Thank you. 576 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 2: But now we go like dealing with that and then 577 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 2: we'll move on. But like, I'm just curious, as his sister, 578 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 2: how do you approach that? You know? I mean, do 579 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:09,800 Speaker 2: you say you need to get your shit together you're 580 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 2: a fucking alcoholic, or you have to tread lightly? You 581 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:13,360 Speaker 2: have to tread lightly? 582 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 4: Well, may I say, go do so whatever you want. 583 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 1: I do. 584 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 4: Remember at one point when he had come to visit me, 585 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 4: at one point on a set of a film that 586 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 4: I was doing and saying to my mom, like, I 587 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 4: knew he was drunk when he came to visit me 588 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 4: on the set, and I was like, I'm concerned because 589 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 4: it's lunchtime on set, which was like, you know whatever 590 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 4: time it was two pm, and I said, and it's 591 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 4: just I you know, it was not so much that 592 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 4: he was hard to be around. It was more so 593 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 4: that I was worried for him. And then he was 594 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 4: the one, though, who came and said, you know, I 595 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 4: gotta I gotta sober up and I gotta get control 596 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 4: of this. And I felt an immense amount of relief 597 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 4: in that moment of Like I remember, I was with 598 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 4: my best friend tailor, and I started crying and I said, 599 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, he's gonna, you know, be healthy, because yeah, 600 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 4: I mean, it's it's hard, but I've also known so 601 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 4: many people who have addiction, and it's not always you know, 602 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 4: people like to make it this really dark, super scary thing, 603 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 4: and there are different levels to it. But I think 604 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 4: him taking accountability and doing what he needed to do 605 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:38,959 Speaker 4: to feel better has been awesome for him and awesome 606 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 4: for everybody that knows and loves him because he's he's 607 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 4: doing so well now and we're super happy. Not that 608 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 4: he was. It wasn't like he was you know, right 609 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 4: cars into you know, telephone pools or anything. But you 610 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 4: know it's. 611 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 1: Pretty high functioning, but not not really functioning at all. 612 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 1: It was all kind of a house of cards. 613 00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, and there's probably so many it's dodged 614 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 2: during you know what I mean, like a billion of them. 615 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,800 Speaker 2: Just it could have been this. It could have been that, 616 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 2: you could be jail, you call one hundred person, could 617 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 2: have killed someone in a car. I mean like all 618 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 2: that hundred percent. 619 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:16,360 Speaker 1: Very very lucky, Yeah, very grateful that my life is 620 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 1: so good right now. 621 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:18,720 Speaker 2: So that's awesome. 622 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:25,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, you got married. You're a married, married lady. Now 623 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 3: do you have kids yet or no? 624 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,759 Speaker 4: I have my two fur babies, but one that house 625 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,880 Speaker 4: far and then my other cat, Yoda, who's in the 626 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 4: other room sulking. He's a hairless cat. But you know, 627 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 4: that's on the that's on the horizon. I have my 628 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,120 Speaker 4: mother in law and my own mother, you know, asking 629 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 4: me every day when I know. 630 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:50,080 Speaker 3: Of course, everyone once they're all ready, they're like ready 631 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,400 Speaker 3: to get to just get their hands on a baby. 632 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, but I'm I'm starting. I've just been 633 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 4: starting to get that because there were a couple of 634 00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 4: years where I was like, maybe I'm just not the 635 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 4: type of person who's going to have kids, you know 636 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 4: what I mean. And only in the past year or 637 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 4: so I've been like, like, my friend had a baby 638 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh God, and this sounds but like, 639 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 4: I want to eat you. I can't. You know, when 640 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 4: babies are so cute you want to. 641 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 2: Consume them, like bite their faces. 642 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm about to go, like your legs swallow a 643 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 3: baby hole. In an hour and a half. 644 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 4: I was going to get my hands on that baby legs, 645 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:38,840 Speaker 4: the little like ringing legs, and I'm like, oh, I 646 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:43,840 Speaker 4: want to kill you. So I've been definitely starting to 647 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:45,040 Speaker 4: get that. 648 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, what have you been working on recently? 649 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,359 Speaker 4: I did this movie with my friend Tyler Shields called 650 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 4: Chapter fifty one. That's really cool. It's like the Zones 651 00:35:54,960 --> 00:36:01,319 Speaker 4: on Imax. It's very very, very cool, excited, and I 652 00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 4: play an actress in it. So that's really out of 653 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:04,799 Speaker 4: my wheel. 654 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 3: Hume couldn't relate to it at all. 655 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I've been working on my album and 656 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:11,400 Speaker 4: he does music, and. 657 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 3: Yes, when did you? When did you guys get into music? 658 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 1: I mean, we we grew in a house that appreciated 659 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 1: music a lot. So I mean I started playing in 660 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 1: like dumb bands and stuff like that when I was 661 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:31,320 Speaker 1: like thirteen, and then you know, playing around the city 662 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 1: and then you know, kind of just like little punk bands. 663 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:36,560 Speaker 1: Don't get mad at me. 664 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 4: But he was in a band when he was like, 665 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,719 Speaker 4: wortn't called not quite Dead yet? 666 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 3: Was it metal? 667 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 1: We were? Yeah, we were, we were. I think the 668 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:52,719 Speaker 1: band had an identity crisis what kind of music we 669 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 1: were playing, because we'd play, you know, one day, you know, 670 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:58,920 Speaker 1: we're a bunch of thirteen fourteen year old boys, so 671 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 1: one day someone'd be like, oh, play System of a Down. 672 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 1: Oh let's do this, like a lot of covers and 673 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:09,359 Speaker 1: then a couple of original songs that I hope I've 674 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 1: improved somewhat a lyricist and writer and all that since then, 675 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:14,920 Speaker 1: But maybe not. 676 00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 2: I mean it's. 677 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,759 Speaker 3: Kind of I don't know. System of a Down is 678 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:22,759 Speaker 3: a great start. Oh no, System of ADAD you're on 679 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:24,600 Speaker 3: you're on an upward trajectory. 680 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 1: The System of a Down was great. I'm talking about 681 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 1: our stuff. We wrote kind of something. All the covers 682 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,960 Speaker 1: we played were we had great taste in music, just 683 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,560 Speaker 1: like our execution for our own stuff was not the best. 684 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 4: Into his room and he would be on garage band 685 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 4: and he'd be like, ah, I need you to like 686 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 4: bang your hair brush against like the ladder for the 687 00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 4: bunk bed. And I was like, wow, I am a musician. 688 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:57,400 Speaker 2: Right like I made it like I am a recording artist, 689 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 2: but not quite down yet. It yeah, fucking genius for 690 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 2: thirteen year olds. 691 00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,600 Speaker 1: I mean exactly because we're literally not yet. 692 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:07,960 Speaker 2: It's a genius name. 693 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 1: Really, we're really tough. 694 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 3: Oh my god, when are you planning on? I mean, 695 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:16,880 Speaker 3: how far along are you with your album? 696 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:22,960 Speaker 4: It's basically done. I'm just I have some used to 697 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,439 Speaker 4: go on Spotify right now, but I don't go under 698 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 4: my name. I go under my artist's name, which is Sophomore, 699 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 4: and it's like very you know, singer songwriter pop. 700 00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,720 Speaker 1: It's good fun, it's good stuff. 701 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 4: It's it's fun, it's fun, and you do such great music. 702 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:45,840 Speaker 4: Thanks amazing. 703 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just I love hearing that you guys are 704 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 3: doing this. I'm going to get off and listen immediately. 705 00:38:53,080 --> 00:39:02,480 Speaker 3: I'm mad that I didn't, but I uh to do Yeah. 706 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,960 Speaker 1: I know beyond like I usually do my research. 707 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:06,480 Speaker 2: I don't know, but you have not. 708 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,680 Speaker 1: I'm mad you don't like celebrate the entire and not 709 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:09,879 Speaker 1: quite dead yet. 710 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 3: Yes I should know. 711 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:16,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to bring back that band. Go find 712 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,840 Speaker 2: your old buddies and make it happen. 713 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 1: We have a residency at the Sphere coming. 714 00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 3: Okay, so guys, we always end our podcast with a 715 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:35,480 Speaker 3: two part question. The first part is, you know, what 716 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,239 Speaker 3: is it about your sibling that you wish you had 717 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,279 Speaker 3: more of, something that you would love to be able 718 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,960 Speaker 3: to emulate. And then what is the one thing about 719 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 3: your sibling or one thing about your sibling that you 720 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,040 Speaker 3: wish you could alleviate that you could, you know, kind 721 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,880 Speaker 3: of remove from them so that they could have a 722 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:53,400 Speaker 3: better life experience. 723 00:39:55,719 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 4: I would say I wish I had sensors Resillliams. He's 724 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:06,879 Speaker 4: a very resilient person and he really shows up all 725 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,839 Speaker 4: the time and it has a really strong sense of 726 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 4: like responsibility that I really admire. And the one thing 727 00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 4: I wish I could take away from him is I 728 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 4: just and I think this is true for like everybody, 729 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 4: but I wish that he like saw what everybody else 730 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:30,880 Speaker 4: sees in him. 731 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, right, I was gonna just like do 732 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,960 Speaker 1: like a snarky joke, like, oh I wish I could 733 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:37,560 Speaker 1: cry on cue. 734 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:37,839 Speaker 3: Uh. 735 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:44,920 Speaker 1: I know, Abby's Abby's a great uh great at bringing 736 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 1: people together and like just like always like hosting like 737 00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:52,880 Speaker 1: good parties or like always like just figuring out the 738 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:58,239 Speaker 1: right combination of people to have around. I mean, I 739 00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,719 Speaker 1: have great friends too, but but like she's very good 740 00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: at just like getting cool groups of people together. 741 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 4: Really that's very high com And then I. 742 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:12,160 Speaker 1: Would say, maybe, uh, I wish she could be on 743 00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 1: time to dinner a bit. If the reservations at seven fifteen, 744 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,400 Speaker 1: I'm ordering it, I'm ordering a quarter to eighty. 745 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, oh my gosh. 746 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:27,719 Speaker 4: But I said the same thing I said, I wish 747 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 4: that I was more on time. 748 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:28,879 Speaker 3: Yeah. 749 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 4: I wanted to say one thing to Oliver because nobody 750 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 4: remembers this from screen queens, and I really hope that 751 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,120 Speaker 4: you do. Do you remember that scene where you have 752 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:39,280 Speaker 4: to say the word macob. 753 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,840 Speaker 2: Yeah of course I could not. Oh yeah, yeah, I 754 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,400 Speaker 2: didn't imagine that in my head, right, No, no, I 755 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:49,000 Speaker 2: couldn't get it out. It was macabre. McKay bro was 756 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 2: like I can't get it. It's like it's mccob. I'm like, 757 00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,480 Speaker 2: but there's an R. I could not get. 758 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,840 Speaker 1: It and not saying macab on Q, cannot cry on Q. 759 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:04,719 Speaker 2: So remember my cob because it's m A c A 760 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,279 Speaker 2: b r E. I think it's how. 761 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,600 Speaker 1: You spell it, the name of an Irish cop. 762 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,840 Speaker 2: And it just fucked me up. And I could And 763 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,840 Speaker 2: you know when you you you're coming to that word 764 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 2: in your dialogue and you're like, ohh here it comes, here, 765 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 2: it comes. 766 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:24,319 Speaker 1: It's like it's a fuck, the one that broke you. 767 00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:26,640 Speaker 4: I didn't imagine that in my mind. 768 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 2: Thanks, that's real. That's real, you guys. I love saying so. 769 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 3: Much, coming on and sharing everything. 770 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:36,799 Speaker 1: Awesome. 771 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 2: Yes, and congratus on your sobriety body. That's awesome. 772 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:44,280 Speaker 1: Thanks, Yes, love you love you guys. 773 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,320 Speaker 2: It's so crazy how big I mean, I mean you 774 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:49,959 Speaker 2: you know, because you haven't seen since they were little, 775 00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,840 Speaker 2: little little. I mean I saw Abigail. I mean, I 776 00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,000 Speaker 2: can't believe this ten years ago. 777 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:58,239 Speaker 3: It's almost too much. It's like they're real adults, like 778 00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:59,200 Speaker 3: you got. 779 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,720 Speaker 2: There's so much older there, adults. An adults is a woman, 780 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:03,440 Speaker 2: you know. 781 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:07,839 Speaker 3: It's so weird. That was great. I loved it all right. 782 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,359 Speaker 3: Bye bye ah