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Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice I said, come on now,

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Speaker 1: I dig me the one and only Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: want to be encouraging, uplifting and inspirational in some way

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Speaker 1: I'm very very conscious of my journey that I've been on,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show us live again. Good morning, everybody.

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Speaker 1: Get ready and prepare yourself to have a blessed date.

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Speaker 1: Live your life today in expectation that God is going

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Speaker 1: Seeing this, how you've awakened. Okay, so now that that

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Speaker 1: So now let's just expect him to do some other

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Speaker 1: something usually always happens when you proclaim it. Ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: this is Steve Harvey Morning Show. Make no mistakable bout it.

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Speaker 1: Hum huh about Shelley Shawberry. Good morning, Steve. I feel

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Speaker 1: like it today too. Colin Ferrera you're sounding good. What's up?

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Speaker 1: Boss man? Pipper ain't easy, but somebody got to do it.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of pimping, here's the voice that could have been

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Speaker 1: a pimp, Ladies and gentleman Junior morning. Uh yeah, your

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Speaker 1: We often had this conversation off as on this morning

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Speaker 1: Morning show people that I won't mention have oftentimes questioned

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Speaker 1: listening Morning show right now, it's time for the nephew

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Speaker 1: to run that brank back. Title is naked Lifeguard. Let's

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Speaker 1: go cat make a lifeguard. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: reach a carry. Yes, this is carried hi carry. My

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Speaker 1: far as being a lifeguard. Oh yeah, I did. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Have you had much experience being a life start? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've been doing this for a while now, back since

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Speaker 1: I do. I love it. Very good, very good. Well,

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Speaker 1: i'll tell you what. I've looked over your application and

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Speaker 1: I've checked everything out thoroughly, and I'm very excited about

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Speaker 1: maybe getting you too. I don't know if you're familiar

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Speaker 1: with it, but public pool it's actually in a subdivision.

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Speaker 1: There's two pools there. Are you familiar with Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: familiar with it. They're they're near where I live. Yeah, okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: there's actually in the back of the gated community and

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Speaker 1: We're gonna actually hire some more college students for Saturday

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Speaker 1: we start off job actually pays twenty five dollars an hour. Wow.

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Speaker 1: You would be our head lifeguard, and we would we

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Speaker 1: mean if you start at twelve, we'd actually like you

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Speaker 1: other lifeguards get there on time, and you know we'll

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Speaker 1: go from there. Okay, I carry there's only one catch

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Speaker 1: that that actually comes along with this job. We want

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Speaker 1: ten at night. But it's gonna pay you fifty dollars

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Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening to the Steven Show. Well, now,

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Speaker 1: I said that. Yeah, guilty is charged. They said. One

422
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: time I woke up and I was crying, talking about

423
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: I want my wife, I want my wife, and I said,

424
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: I don't know getting here, Well, I wasn't crying, she said, Steve,

425
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: everybody in there say you was crying. I said, you

426
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: tell that to somebody here and see what happened, So

427
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: it can happen. I think he, Uh, he shouldn't have

428
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: talked about his girlfriend. If it ain't in you, it

429
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: can't come out exactly. Steve. You know what I mean.

430
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: So I mean he thinking about her, you know, man. Oh,

431
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: that's what I say. He does love you. But she's

432
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 1: steal in there. But just give us some time. Y'all

433
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: ain't been dating that long? Right, how long they've been dating?

434
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: They've been together for a minute. She didn't really say

435
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: how long. She just says she's thirty two and they

436
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: broke up last week. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's all. They

437
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: might not have been with you long enough. Yeah yeah,

438
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 1: so all right. Well this one is from Keith in

439
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: Las Vegas. Keith says, wait, do you hear this one?

440
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: He's a sixty one sixty one year old retiree. He

441
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 1: was married for twenty seven years. He got caught cheating

442
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 1: and his wife divorced him. I just started online dating

443
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: and it's kept me busy. The women I date are younger,

444
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,719
Speaker 1: in their late forties, and they're also looking for a

445
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: good time. But they don't know how to please a

446
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: man like me. When I'm with a woman, I need

447
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 1: her to talk to me, tell me how she likes it,

448
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: and tell me what I'm shows, tell me that I'm

449
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: showing out. I can't believe how selfish these women are.

450
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: It's all about them, and they're quiet and shy in

451
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: the bedroom. Should I tell these women what I expect

452
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: from them? Beforehand. Well you can tell them. But if

453
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: you want somebody to tell you that you showing out,

454
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: maybe you ain't showing out, you know what I'm saying, Dog,

455
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: Maybe you ain't all that. You want everybody cheating you

456
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: own and clapping. You know you want it. You want

457
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 1: everybody to put on pom pom, But maybe you're not

458
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: putting on a pom pom type performance. So he's not that. Yeah,

459
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: you want all this praise. You know. I like a

460
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: woman please me. Well maybe they like a man to

461
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: please then, you know what I'm saying. Just because you

462
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: got called cheating, don't mean it was good. Yeah, you

463
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: could have been still been with your wife if you

464
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 1: weren't cheating. I mean you know, plus, if you was

465
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: all that good, your wife might have gave you another chance.

466
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I stinging me, Yeah side dog, Sorry about that. Dog,

467
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: I just ain't handle the wheel to go with your

468
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 1: Keith my bad player. I'll probably don't even know you

469
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 1: at all, So just right, that's off as a joke.

470
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: Next question, All right, this is from T and Evanston, Illinois.

471
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 1: T says, I'm forty four years old and my fiance

472
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 1: is thirty five. She's got a two year old son,

473
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: and my two children are grown. She wants one more child,

474
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: and I don't. I jokingly told her that she can

475
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,479
Speaker 1: have a baby by her ex, so that when he

476
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: comes in to get his two year old, he can

477
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: get the new baby too. I told her that her

478
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: ex could artificially inseminate her instead of having sex. My

479
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: fiance says, I'm crazy for thinking this way. I was joking.

480
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: But if it makes her happy, she can really do it.

481
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: Why would she get mad at me for offering her

482
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: a good solution? Hey, dog, are you for real? Man?

483
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: What's wrong with you? Yeah? You're gonna offer your girl

484
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: though as a freebee to her ex so when he

485
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: come get this one, he can pick the other one

486
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: up too. Bro, that ain't even funny. I don't know

487
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 1: how you thought it was a joke. I promise you

488
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: she wasn't laughing. So you know, bro, maybe why are you?

489
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: Why are you wanting to marry her? Yeah? I mean

490
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: that doesn't sound like you really love it. She says

491
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: she want one more child. She's only thirty five years old.

492
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: You know you don't want none. So now you're talking

493
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: about you had one with your ex? Man? That ain't really,

494
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: that's not really cool, bro to tell you the truth, man,

495
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 1: te you a little out of line with that one man.

496
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: You ought to apologize and take that off the table. Yeah,

497
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: and he says, why would she get mad at me

498
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: for offering her a good solution because you offered her

499
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: up to her ex? Yeah, come on artificial exsemination or

500
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: any other way. Yeah, right, but he feels it's not sex,

501
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: so it's okay, yeah really yeah, okay, okay, Well let

502
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 1: me tell you something. You're gonna be with the baby

503
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 1: Wayne more than when he come to pick it up. Yeah,

504
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 1: So he's gonna be sitting them there looking just like

505
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,719
Speaker 1: her ex. And I think that's what they should be

506
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: discussing the fact that he doesn't want children and the

507
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: fact that she does, because this is not a good

508
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: match right here, No, it is partner. Yeah, yeah, you

509
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 1: need to I'm not really cool though, bro T, that

510
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: ain't cool what you did. That's why she made Yeah

511
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, thank you, clo. As always, you're listening.

512
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 1: It's time now to play around of would you rather?

513
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,800
Speaker 1: Would you rather? Guys? Would you rather star as James

514
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: Bond or Michael Carlyone Corleon James Bond or Michael Corleone,

515
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: Carlyon what how the godfather? Yo? Hot? Ain't nobody following? Ye?

516
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: Game and everybody gonna on my hand? Had all the

517
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: families you yes? Yeah, ye, like Junior said you could

518
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 1: be boss baby something like that, but you ain't gonna

519
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 1: be Him's sunny the brother. Remember he was a hot

520
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: head family of the Corleons. Yeah, nobody, James Bond, I

521
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: go because you know there's talk they might put a

522
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 1: brother in that row. Come on, reggae. No, I ain't

523
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: got bond what ain't got body? No more? I can't run,

524
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: I can't I would you be? I'm not going to

525
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: hang on the edge and a helicopter blade because that

526
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 1: opening scene is ten minutes. Man, this is how to go. No,

527
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: this is how to go. N Yeah, you can rock

528
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: that wardrobe on? Got on a double, get a stunt double,

529
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 1: Steve's double? What else? All right? You're done with that one?

530
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather all your text messages get leaked,

531
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 1: all your text messages get leaked, or all your photos

532
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: get leaked? Be oh god? So you want all your

533
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: pictures to get leaked, not your text messages? Yeah, I

534
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: ain't got no pictures. Yeah, yeah, oh okay, Junior, Yeah,

535
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,959
Speaker 1: b I can't. I can't. I can't. I ain't gonna

536
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: see what I said to somebody. No, not the stuff

537
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: I've said. It cost you a career. Yeah, okay, you

538
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: open Tommy, I'm with him, a right one. All right.

539
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: Let's keep with the own theme here. Would you rather

540
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:07,240
Speaker 1: your phone ringer make porn sound or belching sound? Belch?

541
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: What is pown sounds with the poem? Huh? What is

542
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 1: pown sounds? Yeah? Sounds Okay, phoning and groaning and all

543
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: you know, just oh ah, you know all that stuff

544
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, yeah, and that's coming from my phone.

545
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah's your ringer, that's your ringer. Yeah. Would

546
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:36,839
Speaker 1: you rather belching or porn sound? Belch? Loud as you

547
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 1: can all belch. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steve.

548
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: We got an email from a listener. It says, my

549
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: friend is a chef. People always talk to him about cooking.

550
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 1: Even if he wants to talk about something besides food,

551
00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 1: the conversation inevitably goes back to him being a great chef.

552
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: The email goes on to say, I have a friend

553
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: working for candidate running for office and every conversation in

554
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:12,360
Speaker 1: which she protects inevitably turns into politics. So, Steve, what

555
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: does every conversation in your life turn into? I mean,

556
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:21,760
Speaker 1: do people talk about what TV? Money, money and advice?

557
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: I mean success? And it's not that now. It's not

558
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: that they ask for money. They want to discuss, you know,

559
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 1: ideas for how to make more. I don't really mind that,

560
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, it's like when you meet a chef,

561
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 1: you're gonna have questions because everybody loves inside information. A

562
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 1: guy in politics you want to get his opinion. You

563
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 1: meet a pro football player, you want to get information

564
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 1: about playing ball, other teams. High song. So, man, have

565
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 1: you ever faced and Rogers? That's just comment? So you know, man,

566
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 1: you know people, man, how was it? Man? You know?

567
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's like people see Marjorie all

568
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: the time. They're going, I bet he's just a hoop

569
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,959
Speaker 1: to live with. I bet he just funny holiday time.

570
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 1: They think comedian. No, he's not funny at home at all. Yeah,

571
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: they go. You just say, like, I'm just at the house,

572
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:17,879
Speaker 1: just show never stopped. Yeah. Yeah, Like they always want

573
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 1: to ask tell me they have a strawberry letter for me.

574
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 1: I got a letter for you. What you're always talking

575
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: to you about? Tom prank, my mama, prank, my dad,

576
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 1: prank my uncle. When the people I meet who meet me.

577
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,439
Speaker 1: Let me just split this up. I don't know where

578
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: Steve is. I don't know what he's doing. I'm not

579
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: with him. I don't know where the hell he is.

580
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 1: I don't talk to him that much. I just don't know.

581
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: And don't get me a damn thing to give him

582
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 1: that one. Oh, I'm not taking it. You're gonna be

583
00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:04,479
Speaker 1: with a bad Steve, Steve. I ain't telling Steve damn saying,

584
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 1: but how do you not take the stuff? Oh, you

585
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: know what I do? And I'm gonna admit this. I'm

586
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: gonna say it. Well, I'll take it. But I thought

587
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: it was I've watched him do it now. Yeah, I

588
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 1: don't want to hurt nobody feeling. Oh yeah, you know what.

589
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,839
Speaker 1: You know what I don't like Jake. They roll up

590
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 1: on Tommy, got something just for you dog, just for

591
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: you whole type. Come back ten minute later. Here it is,

592
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 1: get this to Steve. I'm down. This is my book

593
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,439
Speaker 1: and I know here like this book. Yeah, it's kind

594
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,919
Speaker 1: of like his book, but not a fool like his book.

595
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: I heard Steve like Jimmy chot cake. I made one's

596
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: wrapped up up I made. I made two, one for

597
00:40:55,160 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: you and one for Steve. Right in the track the cake. Though.

598
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: We can't eat something somebody we don't know, hands right,

599
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: and we can't get it. We can't put it in

600
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: our purse. Don't give damn what you're feelings. Getting hurt,

601
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 1: but you're not gonna do it. Is poising me. Nobody

602
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 1: eats food from a total strange. They can't do It's

603
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: not even smart. Oh, that reminds me of that meme

604
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: where this person was washing chitlands in their tub, in

605
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: their bathtub at homes. Yes, that's why you can't take

606
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: food from strangers. You don't know what their habits are.

607
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: Bathtub chitlands. Yeah, I don't know how y'all ain't. Yeah,

608
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: it's a kind of no. Yeah, in the bathtub. I

609
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: put them in the bathtub. I'm no eat no chilings

610
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: out your bath right right right man? Yeah, right after

611
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: they get out, Right after they get up, I'm gonna

612
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 1: get right back in. No. No, how about this, Hey,

613
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 1: save that water because that got cleaned. He don't don't

614
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 1: dream that that's ridiculous house. Again, you're listening to show

615
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about

616
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's today's Strawberry letter. The subject she

617
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: needs to get her kids. Okay, she needs to get

618
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: her kids. It's a subject of my strawberry letter for today.

619
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,760
Speaker 1: But right now the nephew in the building with today's

620
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 1: prank phone call, what you got for is enough. They

621
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:06,760
Speaker 1: moved big Mama. That's what they did. They moved Big Mama.

622
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: Got dog. If you move cleaning services. I'm trying to

623
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 1: Can I speak to the owner of the company. This

624
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 1: is he. It's just Robert. The owner is Robert. It's

625
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: just Robert. Yes, sir, this is this is mister Robert.

626
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 1: How can I help you? My name is Carruthers. Y'all

627
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: y'all clean. Y'all clean my uh my my house last week? Okay.

628
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: And when y'all moved the furniture to clean the carpet, somebody,

629
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: somebody moved my grandmother off the coffee table. He not

630
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 1: In't there no more hold on, sir? Do you know

631
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: what what data we clean your house on? Sir? Last Wednesday,

632
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: y'all clean mom house. We came to your house on

633
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: Wednesday of last week. What what's your address, sir, bing Mama,

634
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: it's it's a big mom. Sir. Hello, you said your

635
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 1: name is corrupt and we came to your house on Wednesday.

636
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: If you don't mind, can I have your address? Sleep yo,

637
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 1: bing Mama. Okay, mister carructs, listen, it's it's if we

638
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: if your grandmother now with your grandmother laying on the carpet,

639
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: I mean, my guys don't move people, sir, uh, we

640
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 1: would not have food. Our grandmother, my grandma, she was

641
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: on the she was on the coffee table. Her her

642
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,760
Speaker 1: urn was on the coffee table. Oh your mother, pats

643
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 1: be late yall if somebody moved it and now the

644
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: vase is still here, but hud okay, okay, okay, I'm sorry.

645
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 1: So you're saying that you're very well mister, mister Cruthers,

646
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: I am so sorry. Um, I just long my grandmother

647
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,479
Speaker 1: not too long ago, sir. I know how you feel.

648
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: Now I'm now, I'm listening. My guys would not have

649
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 1: knocked over a vase or something like that, or they

650
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: would have told me if they knocked over something. Are

651
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: you sure that it was my cleaning service? Yeah, I

652
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 1: have no nobody have no two different carbon cleaning services

653
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: to come by then the same week. Man, y'all the

654
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,839
Speaker 1: only ones came by there, y'all the ones that did it, y'all,

655
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: the one more my grandmama and now my grandmama. Girl,

656
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: mister Carruss, I'm a girl man, mister Carruthers, I'm sorry

657
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: about it, but if you would give me your address,

658
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: I can confirm that that actually was my company that

659
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: came by you. I apologized her. Uh, I'm sorry. Oh,

660
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, sir. Now, if can you please just

661
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 1: give me your address, sir, let me let me full

662
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: some information up in my system and we can we

663
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: can all this house hold on. I want second, please,

664
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 1: uh baby, do need baby? Go and ask Wayne and

665
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: Robert you need to come in here for a second.

666
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: They have to be want to cleaning man carpet on

667
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:21,240
Speaker 1: last week? Hold suck grandmama keeping on that corfee table.

668
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: But yeah, what's checking on that coffee table? Year? It's

669
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: in my yard. God, mister Caruthers, I'm sorry. I'm trying

670
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 1: to find out this. You know what, when I give

671
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 1: myself together, I'm gonna come down there and I'm gonna

672
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: kick some and that damn place in here. Do you

673
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 1: hear me, Lister Caruthers, And I'm now listen. I'm gonna

674
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 1: do everything that I can to help you. But now

675
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: don't don't uh, you're gonna prend me on this phone.

676
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you. You move my grandmama, and I'm

677
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: gonna move you. Now you hear me, I'm gonna, I promise,

678
00:46:56,600 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell everybody not to use this damn carpet cleaning. No,

679
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: holy hell on. Now let's listen. Nah. Now, it took

680
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: me a long time to get my services together, Sir,

681
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: we do a real good job. Now you're not gonna

682
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: prep me y'all newship for grandmama. That's what y'all do?

683
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:17,919
Speaker 1: You move people's grandmama. We sure we have never had

684
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: this kind of incidence. A matter of fact, we haven't

685
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: had any incidents at all. So I'm gonna everybody that

686
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about your grandmother. Sir. We donna get everything

687
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 1: right away, come always getting man in the newspaper and

688
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 1: tell everybody not to use this damn service. I proper

689
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,879
Speaker 1: I have told you once. Now you're not gonna prep

690
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: me about my damn company anymore. You understand me. I

691
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: ever putting on added, no newspaper, and you're not gonna

692
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:44,320
Speaker 1: ship there. Tell me what you're gonna do, how to

693
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 1: call my sons in here, how to calling that you

694
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: did the only ones that clean that god dog gonna comfit. Now,

695
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:50,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find out what happened. But you're not gonna

696
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 1: present my company. You understand. That's how I make my living. Now.

697
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 1: I don't know how you make your living, but that's

698
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: how make don't make y'all learn my moving people, grandmama's man.

699
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: You move my grandmama with my My mama ain't on

700
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: the coffee table no more, sir, sir, it's I'm sorry

701
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: that you're grandma not on your coffee table no more. Look,

702
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: I'll try to find out what happens. We're gonna get

703
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:12,359
Speaker 1: this stick for you, but you gotta work with me. Well,

704
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: I'm coming down now, riding down to do damn always

705
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 1: and start kicking some Tell your boys there too. You,

706
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: Oh you're gonna come down here, come bring you come

707
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: on down here right now. I'm not skiing you and

708
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 1: you look, I'm trying to help you, and you want

709
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 1: to go off on me like that. I don't give

710
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 1: a let us a come on down here right now.

711
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: You an't getting even your enters. I don't even know

712
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: where you are, and I don't even know if you.

713
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: I promise you, I'm whooping your boys he yo, because

714
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: y'all to move my grandma. Your move my grandmother. Man,

715
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,840
Speaker 1: some bro, misterr Carubb, don't threaten me or don't threaten

716
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: me by my boys. That that's my son. I don't

717
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 1: take that too lightly. I will come personally to your

718
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: house right now, beat up and then come back and

719
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: clean your house for freedom. You understand me. Don't you

720
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 1: talk to my children? And don't you try me? Let

721
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 1: me go my damn fine out. One more thing I

722
00:48:56,600 --> 00:49:00,040
Speaker 1: want to tell you, man, what is you listening? It

723
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: isn't man, nephew taught me from the Steve Harby Morning Show.

724
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: You just got plagued by your wife. Dog Hello, say

725
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 1: stay off? Say man ever um no harybody that that

726
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 1: wasn't That wasn't nobody timing. Man. You ain't right now?

727
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 1: You right? You called me coming now You got myself

728
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 1: into looking like like n did some bust up my

729
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: fast head. Man, You will tell me what you're gonna

730
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: do with my coming? Man? You know how long he's

731
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: been saying, Am I coming to? Thought? To man? You're

732
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 1: roughing the ro man? Hey man, Robert, I got one

733
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: more thing? Ask you, man, what is what is the

734
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: baddest And I'm talking about the baddest radio show in

735
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: the land, Steve Harby Morning Show playing Man, I listen

736
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: to y'all every morning. Man, give it to me people.

737
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:04,320
Speaker 1: I mean, but you you you started the whole prank

738
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: with crime. Yeah, because that don't know how to do here?

739
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:19,439
Speaker 1: Know what to come? Mister Crusts. What's wrong I talk?

740
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 1: I'll be so aggravated. Man, what did you cry? It

741
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 1: started in the middle. Baby already on a hike. We

742
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 1: don't know what's happening. What's going on? What this phone

743
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 1: called about? Let's get to it. That's my brother's favorite line.

744
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: But what is you crying? You cannot go around my

745
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:43,720
Speaker 1: brother start crying because the I don't care what it's about.

746
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: Hey man, Hey, what is you crying for? Kids can't

747
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: come to him crying. Stop? What is you crying? Let's

748
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: do it like this. I was outside, Well that's outside.

749
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: You ain't here now, all right, nephew, Thank you coming

750
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 1: up next. It's the Strawberry Letter, subject she needs to

751
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 1: get her kids. We'll get into it right after this.

752
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, guys, time now for

753
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:29,720
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex,

754
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:33,240
Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve

755
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 1: Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

756
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

757
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Let's go,

758
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: you bog a lot, Hold on tight, We got it

759
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew,

760
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:51,240
Speaker 1: subject she needs to get her kids. Dear Stephen Shirley.

761
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 1: I'm a fifty year old with three children and I've

762
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 1: been married for fourteen years. All of the children are

763
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: grown and are on their own, so my husband and

764
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 1: I have the house to ourselves. I love my alone

765
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 1: time with my husband, but his sister is causing some

766
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 1: big problems in our marriage. His sister gets on my

767
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 1: last nerve. She is an unstable mother and she drops

768
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 1: her kids off at my house with no warning. I

769
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 1: am tired of dealing with her kids. One day recently,

770
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:24,919
Speaker 1: I was walking into my living room and I saw

771
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 1: her letting her kids out of the car and she

772
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,439
Speaker 1: drove off. My husband was at work, so I ended

773
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:33,920
Speaker 1: up keeping the kids, which meant feeding them. I called

774
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:35,879
Speaker 1: my mother in law and told her to come get

775
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 1: the kids. My mother in law is sick of the

776
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: kids too. There have been many times when she has

777
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: asked me to keep the kids for a few hours,

778
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 1: then will return at three am to pick them up.

779
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: She just sits in the driveway and blows her horn

780
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 1: or shines her light on bright through my front windows.

781
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 1: She also has my husband doing crazy stuff like changing

782
00:52:57,719 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 1: her locks at night because she broke up with a

783
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 1: boyfriend and didn't want him to be able to get

784
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:05,760
Speaker 1: into her house. Stephen Shirley. She is thirty eight years

785
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 1: old and the family keeps enabling her. I am not

786
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: going to keep this up, and I told my husband

787
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: that enough is enough. I am at war with my

788
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: husband over her because it's his only sister. I hope

789
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 1: and pray I'm not being unreasonable by telling him to

790
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: choose between me and his sister. I got so angry

791
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: over his sister and her kids, and I told my

792
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: husband to go move in with her. I am not

793
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 1: a daycare, and I want to set boundaries with this woman.

794
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: How should I handle this this? Well, you're you're up

795
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 1: to a good start with setting boundaries with her, with

796
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:40,800
Speaker 1: letting her know that you're not a daycare, with getting

797
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:44,720
Speaker 1: angry with your husband. You're you're right about the family

798
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 1: enabling her. She's been allowed to do this for so

799
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 1: long she thinks that it's okay to do this, and

800
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: you're so right. I mean, everything you're saying your sister

801
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 1: in law is dead wrong and because of it, her children, herselves,

802
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: they're suffering because of this, going from house to house,

803
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 1: your house to the grandmother's house, and no telling who

804
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 1: else you know that she does this too, just dropping

805
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: them off at random houses with random people. This is ridiculous.

806
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:14,360
Speaker 1: I mean, she's rude, she's entitled, she needs to be checked.

807
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 1: So you're definitely on the right path. You need to

808
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 1: learn to say no. That's what happens when you set boundaries.

809
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 1: You gotta tell her no, all right, even if she

810
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: does drop the kids off, get right back in your

811
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: car and you know, follow her or drop them off

812
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: at her house. Whatever. But you don't want this responsibility,

813
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: and it's not the kid's fault. I'm sure you know.

814
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,839
Speaker 1: I feel so sorry for these children, and badly for

815
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: the kids because if she is unstable like you say

816
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 1: she is, and she sounds like it, that they have to,

817
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 1: you know, have a mother like this. This is terrible,

818
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 1: But again you're gonna have to learn how to say

819
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: no and need it. And one of the thing your

820
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:58,359
Speaker 1: husband is going to have to get on board and

821
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,719
Speaker 1: support you, not her. You are his wife, she's not

822
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 1: his wife. Those are not his kids, they're your relatives.

823
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 1: But she needs to deal with her own responsibilities. Steve,

824
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: you know, I was trying to find the humor in

825
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: this letter, but I couldn't. Yeah, because I know trifling

826
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: ass people and this. You've been married to your man

827
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 1: fourteen years. Y'all got three children, and all the children

828
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:30,879
Speaker 1: have grown so they out on their own. Y'all got

829
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 1: the house to yourself. So you thought you love your

830
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: lone time with your husband, but you ain't got it

831
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:42,560
Speaker 1: no more. But his damned sister, thirty eight years old,

832
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 1: unstable mother, she dropped. Now, you didn't say how many kids?

833
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: Did she say how many kids? She just says kids.

834
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: But the woman writing the letter has three children of

835
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: her own, so we know at least two of these

836
00:55:56,200 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 1: kids is getting dropped off. She dropped her kids off

837
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 1: at my house with no warning. No, I'm tired of

838
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 1: dealing with her kids. Well, you're really tired of dealing

839
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: with the kids like this way. You know. One day

840
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 1: recently you walked into your living room and you saw

841
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:19,280
Speaker 1: her letting her kids out the car, and she drove

842
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 1: off your husband at work. Hitty, damn kids come. Now.

843
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: I feel sorry for the kids, like Sureley say, because

844
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 1: they got to walk up on the horse on the

845
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: porch and they know this health a post at least

846
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 1: knock on the door, tell them we're coming. But the

847
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 1: kids got to go in the house. They don't know

848
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: what else to do. I don't know what to tell you, man,

849
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: There is no humor in this letter. So let me

850
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: just quit trying to look forward. This thing that got

851
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 1: on your lad's nerve. And I ain't mad at you.

852
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:50,759
Speaker 1: So your husband's at work, she drops them off. You

853
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 1: ended up keeping the kids. Now, you got to feed

854
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: them because you're decent person. Then you called your mother

855
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,280
Speaker 1: in law and you told her to come get the kids.

856
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 1: The mother lost sick of the kids too. Damn. Now

857
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 1: I feel really bad for these kids because they get

858
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: shoveled off from house to house and they knowing everybody

859
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 1: mad when they see them. But the kids ain't doing nothing.

860
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 1: They just to result of having a trifling mama. And

861
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: I feel bad for these kids. Man's dad, what dad?

862
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 1: She never mentioned that now she she got a boyfriend

863
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 1: that you know, the husband had to change the locks

864
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 1: at her house because her boyfriend and the hood was

865
00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 1: breaking up. You gotta change locks because he coming in.

866
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 1: That's been many times when she asked. She has asked

867
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: me to keep the kids for a few hours and

868
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 1: then we'll return at three am to pick them up.

869
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 1: Who wakes the babies up in the middle of the

870
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: damn night? Right? She trifling on a whole lot of levels.

871
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: I think I got something that for you, I guess.

872
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 1: All right, Well, hold on, hold on for part two,

873
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:09,040
Speaker 1: Steve Um. We'll have part two of your response coming

874
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 1: up at twenty three after the hour. Today's subject she

875
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: needs to get her kids. We'll be back right after this.

876
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, Let's go. Let's recap today's

877
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters. Subject she needs to get her kids. Lady

878
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 1: fifty years old got three kids, they grown, they moved

879
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 1: out the house. Her and her husband got the house

880
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 1: all today's self. She loves her lone time with her man.

881
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 1: She only got one problem, her man's system. Unstable. Mother

882
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 1: drops the kids off without any warning, just drops them off.

883
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 1: She tired of this. One day she was walking in

884
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 1: the living room and saw her pull up and just

885
00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 1: let the kids out and then drove off. I'll be Dan.

886
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: Now you gotta be kind to the kids, because it

887
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: ain't the kids fault. But now you gotta take him.

888
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 1: You gotta feed him. You just gonna sit down and

889
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 1: just watch TV with your feet off. Now you're feeding kids.

890
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 1: Then you can't count the time she come by and

891
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 1: tell you watching kids for a few hours and then

892
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: return at three am in the morning and pick them up.

893
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 1: Now hit the trifling part. This is how trifling this

894
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:20,080
Speaker 1: health is. She comes and just sits in the driveway

895
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 1: and blows her horn or shines her lights on bright

896
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: through my front windows. Boy, crazy boy, if that ain't ignorant,

897
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 1: you tell me. But if you want to really keep

898
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 1: your funking, here we go. I got something for you.

899
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 1: At the end. Though she also has my husband doing

900
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 1: crazy stuff like changing her locks at night because she

901
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 1: broke up with her boyfriend didn't want him be able

902
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 1: to get into her house. Stephen Sherley, She's thirty eight

903
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: years old. The family keeps enabling her. I ain't gonna

904
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 1: keep up with this. I told my husband that enough

905
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 1: is enough. I'm at war with my husband over her

906
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 1: because it's his only sister. I understand that. I hope

907
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: and pray I'm not being unreasonable. You're not by telling

908
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 1: them to choose between me and his sister. Okay, that Nah,

909
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,439
Speaker 1: that went a little far, but I understand because you're mad.

910
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 1: I got so angry over his sister and her kids

911
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 1: that I told my husband to go move in with him. Well,

912
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 1: since he liked taking care of the kids so much,

913
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 1: you know, I think it's a good idea. Since he

914
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 1: likes taking care of kids that much, then it's a

915
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 1: good idea that he just moves on end with him.

916
01:00:40,520 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 1: That's what I think. But I told my husband, and

917
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 1: I'm not at daycare and I want to set boundaries

918
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 1: for this woman. How sit I handle this? Well? I

919
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: didn't read this latter. Bines nice, Here's the only solution

920
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:56,040
Speaker 1: I got. Every you tell her this. What has to happen.

921
01:00:56,680 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: Every time she dropped him key kids off on your ass.

922
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 1: You are to go by her house and get on

923
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: her ass. What does that mean, Steve? Break it down.

924
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 1: If she dropped the kids off on your ass, you

925
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: ought to go over there and be on her. What

926
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 1: you got whoop o ass? One time? Line? Yeah? I

927
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 1: think she really just got to whoop ourr ass one time.

928
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 1: I think we're down to that. She trifling. Some people

929
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 1: need a good slapping and sit her down and tell her,

930
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 1: you know what, you are really abusive to your children,

931
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 1: and you are to be ashamed of yourself, and you

932
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 1: really these kids deserve better. You put them in uncompromising positions,

933
01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 1: passing them off like they potato chips. These kids know

934
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 1: that they're being drug around and passed off. They know

935
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 1: their mama unstable and they nobody told you. But you

936
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 1: are trifling ass mama, and you need to get your

937
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: sugar honey iced tea together. I slapped the sugar hunted

938
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 1: iced tea good, Paul, good pause. I think that's what

939
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 1: has to happen, because if the families in there, he's

940
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 1: a name because it's his only system, so he trying

941
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:21,040
Speaker 1: to help out. It's his baby system. I know that

942
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:24,560
Speaker 1: parameter has got to be pulling on it. Yeah, the

943
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: mother is already sick of so y'all got to do something, man,

944
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 1: y'all cats can't keep doing it like this, right, she

945
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 1: needs to shooping her hands and all. I see, that's

946
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 1: all I mean. Really, I just don't man. This ain't

947
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 1: about no therapy or nothing. She needs somebody to get

948
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:48,440
Speaker 1: her undivided damn attention. Yeah, and nothing gets your attention

949
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 1: like a handful got immediately everyone. I have got it

950
01:02:53,520 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 1: all from my mama, from some dudes, every last one

951
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:03,040
Speaker 1: of them. Yes, that's what I think you should do.

952
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: And just remind her every time you dropped him off

953
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 1: on my ass, I'm gonna be back over here on

954
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: your ass. Yeah, so what were you doing around? Were

955
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 1: exchanging asses? We exchange as, but the whole up though.

956
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 1: She brings the kids unannounced, so the husband he like, wow,

957
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 1: he called off? God too late too, and you got

958
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: the call before you bring these kids over and ask

959
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 1: make sure we ain't got nothing to do. I'm sorry,

960
01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 1: I just be thinking. And then she do it again.

961
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 1: She did. You had already said. She just pull up

962
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 1: and let him out and drive off this chick knows

963
01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 1: she trifling and she doing it on purpose. It's I

964
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 1: don't know. It's a lot to do because dude, she

965
01:03:57,200 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 1: dropped him off while he was at work. Yeah, oh

966
01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 1: you you shouldn't have been in the window. She saw you.

967
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:13,920
Speaker 1: Shut your doors, pull your blash down, act like you

968
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:17,960
Speaker 1: all right, Well, listen, post your comments on today's Strubberry Letter.

969
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 1: It's Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. And don't

970
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: forget to check out the Stubbery Letter podcast on demand

971
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 1: now coming up with forty six after the hour you're

972
01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 1: listening to the stew All right, guys, time for a

973
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:39,480
Speaker 1: comedy roulette. Today's categories are things you say to people

974
01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 1: to help you move. Lies, men tell to get out

975
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 1: of the house, lies women tell to get out of

976
01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:51,439
Speaker 1: the house. Uh huh. And lastly, stuff white people say

977
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 1: to black people that they think is really cool. All right,

978
01:04:54,520 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 1: oh yeah, let's spend the wheel, spun it, come on,

979
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 1: come on, getting out the house, come on, let's go.

980
01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 1: Oh it stopped. And stuff white people say the black

981
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 1: people that they think is really cool. Let's let's get

982
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: right into it. Let's get right into it. Right here

983
01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 1: we go. We just sliced up a whole lot of watermelon.

984
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 1: I'm sure you like it. I'm sure you like it.

985
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 1: So um. Do all of you all know the hip

986
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 1: hop thing? Oh? Y'all know hip hop? Don't you? White

987
01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 1: people say the black people that they think it's really cool.

988
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 1: I really want my I really want my lips to

989
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 1: look like yours. Really. Oh my gosh, Piggie wasn't small

990
01:05:56,160 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 1: at all. White people say the black people that they

991
01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: think is really I don't really mean to be out

992
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: of line, but could I just touch your ass just

993
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 1: to let me ask you something. I don't really know

994
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:28,000
Speaker 1: you guys that will, But do you all have chicken farms? Hey, dude, listen,

995
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 1: if you ever really want it, you know I can

996
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 1: teach you how to swim. Say the black people that

997
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 1: they think, Yeah, I'll tell you this first lady doesn't

998
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 1: compare to yours. I know that was a deep one. Yeah,

999
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 1: so let me get this right. You went to college,

1000
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 1: but not on a basketball scholarship. All right, Steve, who's

1001
01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:15,960
Speaker 1: the daddy? Yeah, I'll just tell you. I'm perfectly fine

1002
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 1: with another African American president. Yeah, I have a problem

1003
01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:29,880
Speaker 1: with the one we had. All right, Thank you guys.

1004
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: You're listening to show Steve Jay is here with things

1005
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 1: that have a cutoff age. Jay explain, well, well, well

1006
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:45,919
Speaker 1: Steve actually has it. The things Shelly and everybody. There's

1007
01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 1: a cutoff age to everything, to everything you do. Some

1008
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 1: people some people just ignore it and just keep doing it.

1009
01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 1: But front of them, like, come on, this should have

1010
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 1: cut off point. The name name. If you over, we

1011
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:10,959
Speaker 1: don't need to look out there and see you doing

1012
01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:16,120
Speaker 1: the name name, the whip or the name name and

1013
01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:23,200
Speaker 1: you farty really thirty five? Thirty three? Yeah, thirty three

1014
01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:25,639
Speaker 1: you asked stop doing the whip and the name name.

1015
01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:31,840
Speaker 1: Here's what you can't do if you over thirty five,

1016
01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:37,320
Speaker 1: you cannot go see the me goes the man down

1017
01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 1: so you can listen to them. You can't, but you

1018
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:46,080
Speaker 1: gotta take your keys, somebody with you. Necessary. Monica just

1019
01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 1: went way too old, way too old. People sitting next

1020
01:08:52,000 --> 01:09:01,719
Speaker 1: to her whom here's something that has a cut off age,

1021
01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 1: and we don't have to cut off age, but just

1022
01:09:04,080 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 1: listen to this. You cannot wear crop tops if you

1023
01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:20,680
Speaker 1: have a muffin top man woman shirts that's cut off

1024
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:25,640
Speaker 1: too short, like you exec your Elliott, Well you're not.

1025
01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 1: That's a good one. I like it. Just a little

1026
01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:33,559
Speaker 1: bit of muff you can't do it. I don't mind

1027
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 1: a little muffin on the woman, but on the man. Man, dude, dude.

1028
01:09:40,760 --> 01:09:44,439
Speaker 1: If you over twenty five, you got to stop using

1029
01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 1: the word lit. You over twenty five, Yes, Sherley, you

1030
01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:58,880
Speaker 1: got to stop using the word litt day if you

1031
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 1: all feel the five. If you're still using the word

1032
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: cope asthetics, that's cop asthetic, man, man, that's cope asthetic.

1033
01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: You need to come on out, come on. If you

1034
01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 1: four years old and you're in a stroller with your

1035
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:31,040
Speaker 1: legs crossed and you can pull yourself along in the stroller,

1036
01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:35,960
Speaker 1: the ass needs to be walking. Something for the baby

1037
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 1: is one. If you're over eighty with a walker and

1038
01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:50,599
Speaker 1: it's got to come, hold a fanny pat or place

1039
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:54,560
Speaker 1: the holy newspaper tennis balls for grip. Damn it, you

1040
01:10:54,680 --> 01:11:05,280
Speaker 1: gotta take something off. It's too much. If you over

1041
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 1: farty and people are still considering you ratchet, you're not ratchet.

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Speaker 1: You're actually stupid. A man over farty with two changed,

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Speaker 1: his name is not two changed on the outside of

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01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:39,679
Speaker 1: you are fifty and still wearing any form of nugget jewel?

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Speaker 1: What about the set you a nugget set his one

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Speaker 1: Monica Sherley. If you're over forty five, each finger nail

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Speaker 1: can't be a different they've been doing it polish whatever.

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Speaker 1: You all don't know. We might not know that. All right,

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Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. So, according to nutritionists,

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01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:30,160
Speaker 1: certain foods guys contain natural sleep promoting compounds like tripp

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01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 1: to fane and turkey that makes you sleepy after Thanksgiving dinner.

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01:12:34,840 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 1: Also carbohydrates to raise your blood sugar and serotonin levels,

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Speaker 1: which then converts into melatonin, a natural sleep aid. Here

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Speaker 1: are some foods that can add to your evening diet

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01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 1: that you can add to your evening diet to help

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01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:51,000
Speaker 1: you fall asleep faster and get some quality sleep. Before

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01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:52,519
Speaker 1: I give you the list, what do you think they

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01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 1: might be? Pea blue band? Nope, not on the list,

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01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:01,599
Speaker 1: because there's a boss put me to sleep every time

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Speaker 1: I try bananas. Bananas on the list. You eat banana,

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01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:13,800
Speaker 1: it'll help you get some quality sleep. Really, maybe I

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01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 1: better quit eat me bananas on his damn golf course,

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01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:23,639
Speaker 1: cause because you start to get sleepy. Around, bananas, any

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01:13:23,720 --> 01:13:28,360
Speaker 1: other not pumpkin pie, almond they make you sleeping, they

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01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 1: help you get a good night's sleep, cherries or cherry juice.

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Speaker 1: Oh I love oh oh that chi Yes, that one

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01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:48,960
Speaker 1: came of mill Or lavender tea wood one mouth, wide

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01:13:49,120 --> 01:13:54,120
Speaker 1: open eggs. Steve, you love eggs, and those are the

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Speaker 1: foods that help you get a good night's sleep, so

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Speaker 1: thinks my favorite I love. All right, coming up, we'll

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Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening show.

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Speaker 1: It is time now to play around of would you rather?

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01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:12,160
Speaker 1: Would you rather? Guys? Would you rather star as James

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01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:20,520
Speaker 1: Bond or Michael Carleone Corleon? James Bond or Michael Corleone Carlyon?

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01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:27,680
Speaker 1: What how the Godfather were your hot head? You more like?

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01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:35,479
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody following? Ye? No, damn game and everybody gonna

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01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 1: my hand? Had all the families you yes, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like Junior said, you could be boss baby something like

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01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 1: him and Sonny the brother, remember he was a hot head.

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Speaker 1: Family of the Corleons. Nobody James Bond, I'll go because

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01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 1: you know there's talk they might put a brother in

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01:15:05,200 --> 01:15:09,719
Speaker 1: that role. Come on, reggae, No, I ain't got bond.

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01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 1: We ain't, boy, no more, I can't run. I can't,

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Speaker 1: would you be I'm not going to hang on the

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Speaker 1: edge and a helicopter blade because that opening scene is

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01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:33,600
Speaker 1: ten minutes? Man, this ho no, this ho to go

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01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:41,479
Speaker 1: yah rock that wardrobe on? Got on? All that's double?

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01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:46,040
Speaker 1: Get a stuck double steve because that's not double? What

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01:15:46,200 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 1: else you got? All right? You're done with that one?

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01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather all your text messages get leaked?

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01:15:55,080 --> 01:15:57,879
Speaker 1: All your text messages get leaked, or all your photos

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01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:02,639
Speaker 1: it leaked? Be? Oh so you want all your pictures

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01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 1: to get leaked, not your textment? Yeah, I ain't got

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01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:12,559
Speaker 1: no pictures? Yeah yeah? Oh okay, Junior, Yeah I can't.

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01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:15,639
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. I ain't see what I said

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Speaker 1: to somebody. No, no, the stuff I've said it cost

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01:16:18,439 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 1: you a career. Okay, Tommy, I'm with him. All right.

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01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:35,519
Speaker 1: Let's keep with the phone theme here. Would you rather

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01:16:35,640 --> 01:16:41,040
Speaker 1: your phone ringer make porn sounds or belching sounds? Belch?

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01:16:42,200 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 1: What is pawing sounds with the poem? Huh? What is

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01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:54,040
Speaker 1: pawing sounds? Yeahs sounds? Okay, phoning and groaning and all

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01:16:54,160 --> 01:16:57,120
Speaker 1: you know? Just oh you know all that stuff, you know,

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01:17:00,400 --> 01:17:06,639
Speaker 1: and that's coming from my phone. Yeah yeah, yeah, rather

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01:17:07,479 --> 01:17:11,160
Speaker 1: belching or pouring something, belch loud as you can be.

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Speaker 1: All right, Thank you guys. Coming up next it is

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Speaker 1: Steve with today's closing remarks. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: to last break of the day. We've had a great

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01:17:24,479 --> 01:17:28,559
Speaker 1: morning today, Yes, yes we did. We have fun today. Steve.

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Speaker 1: It's time for you now to take us home with

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01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 1: your closing remarks. What you got for us Today's Steve Today. Um,

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Speaker 1: I was thinking of something that's another jewel that has

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01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:44,120
Speaker 1: really helped me in my quest and it's about my

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01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:48,920
Speaker 1: dreams and my goals, and I was wanted to share

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01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:57,080
Speaker 1: this with you today. One of the greatest dangers, uh,

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01:17:57,520 --> 01:18:01,320
Speaker 1: for most of us is not that our aim is

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01:18:01,400 --> 01:18:07,760
Speaker 1: too high and we miss it, but that is too

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01:18:07,920 --> 01:18:12,680
Speaker 1: low and we reach it. Can I say that to

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01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:15,880
Speaker 1: you again? This is actually a quote from Michael Angelo.

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Speaker 1: He said, the greatest danger for most of us is

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01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:24,840
Speaker 1: not that our aim is too high and we miss it,

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01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 1: but that is too low and we reach it. That's crazy, man.

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Speaker 1: My father used to say something to me all the time,

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Speaker 1: very similar. He says, son aim for the moon because

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Speaker 1: if you miss, you'll still be amongst the stars. And

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01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:49,439
Speaker 1: that's pretty much the same thing that he's saying that

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01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:52,600
Speaker 1: the greatest danger for most of us. It's not that

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01:18:52,720 --> 01:18:56,200
Speaker 1: our aim is too high and we miss it, but

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01:18:56,400 --> 01:18:59,400
Speaker 1: that is too low and we reach it. Let me

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01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:02,799
Speaker 1: explain something to you about low aspirations and low goals.

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01:19:04,240 --> 01:19:07,479
Speaker 1: When you reach a low aspiration and a low goal

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Speaker 1: and there's nothing after that, you think you've arrived, You

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01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:16,680
Speaker 1: think you that you actually get comfortable. Man, I made it,

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01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:21,360
Speaker 1: when in essence, there's so much more to life to live,

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01:19:22,040 --> 01:19:24,679
Speaker 1: so much more that you could accomplish if you would

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01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 1: just reset your goals in aspiration. I remember, Man, a

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01:19:28,439 --> 01:19:32,360
Speaker 1: long time ago, this dude in my high school. He said, Man, all,

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01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:35,120
Speaker 1: I want I know two dudes like this about a car?

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Speaker 1: He said, Man, all, I won't. Man, it's this grand Toreno. Man.

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Speaker 1: If I had a Grand Torino, Man, I wouldn't want

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01:19:42,520 --> 01:19:48,280
Speaker 1: nothing else for his senior graduation. This dude's father gave

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Speaker 1: him a Grand Toreno. Was like unbelievable in high school, Man,

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01:19:55,160 --> 01:19:57,880
Speaker 1: nineteen seventy four, Grand Toreno with the two windows and

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01:19:57,960 --> 01:20:00,519
Speaker 1: the slits in the back. I was looking at this

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01:20:00,680 --> 01:20:04,160
Speaker 1: like wow. Man, he drove it to the prom to

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01:20:04,200 --> 01:20:07,800
Speaker 1: still had a brand new Car's father bought it. I

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01:20:08,080 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 1: saw him like twenty years later. You know, he had

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01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:20,120
Speaker 1: the same car. He had the same car. It happened

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01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:22,800
Speaker 1: to another dude. I knew, man that wanted this Cadillac. Man,

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Speaker 1: if I ever get this Cadillac, Man, this white Cadillac,

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01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:31,320
Speaker 1: these red seats, Man, he got it. I saw him

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01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:35,160
Speaker 1: years later, years later, I don't really remember how many,

1153
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:38,479
Speaker 1: but he still had the same car. Always beat to hell,

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01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:42,200
Speaker 1: but he had the same car because that was his

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01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:45,800
Speaker 1: aspiration and he reached it. But when he reached it,

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01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:50,599
Speaker 1: he got comfortable. I got it, and he quit wanting more.

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01:20:50,640 --> 01:20:55,040
Speaker 1: He quit reaching for higher things. You have to reassess

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Speaker 1: your life constantly, man, because you are going to continue

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Speaker 1: to live. You have to aspire to something that requires

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01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:07,840
Speaker 1: God's help. Quit wanting and reaching for stuff that you

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01:21:07,960 --> 01:21:11,280
Speaker 1: can do. Why would you say to yourself, man, if

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01:21:11,320 --> 01:21:13,800
Speaker 1: I could just get me a used car, if I

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01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:19,800
Speaker 1: could get me a nineteen eighty five maximum, really, really

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01:21:20,800 --> 01:21:23,920
Speaker 1: get your money, save your money and go on and

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01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:26,920
Speaker 1: get it. But if that's your only goal and you

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01:21:27,040 --> 01:21:30,639
Speaker 1: get it, where you go from now. You are never

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01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:35,800
Speaker 1: too old to keep reaching your goal. One more time.

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Speaker 1: You are never too old to keep reaching your goal.

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Speaker 1: It's goals out there, it's things that you can achieve.

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Speaker 1: Get out of your comfort zone. Man, if you try

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01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:49,600
Speaker 1: to survive in your comfort zone, your comfort zone, you

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01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:54,880
Speaker 1: will fail in it. Everybody fails in the comfort zone

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01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:58,680
Speaker 1: because in order to be successful, you got to get uncomfortable.

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01:21:59,600 --> 01:22:01,479
Speaker 1: You got to get You gotta do somethings. You got

1175
01:22:01,560 --> 01:22:03,360
Speaker 1: to go when you don't want to go. You gotta

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01:22:03,439 --> 01:22:07,800
Speaker 1: do when you don't want to do. That's what discipline is.

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Speaker 1: It requires discipline to achieve great things. It requires discipline

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Speaker 1: to reach your goals. Because discipline is simply doing everything

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Speaker 1: you have to do and need to do, even if

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Speaker 1: you don't want to. That's what discipline is. It's doing

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Speaker 1: the things that you have to do and need to

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01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 1: do even when you don't want to. You go do

1183
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:34,799
Speaker 1: it anyway. That's what discipline is. That's how you achieve goals,

1184
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 1: that's how you reach higher heights. Aim for the moon

1185
01:22:39,120 --> 01:22:41,880
Speaker 1: because if you miss, you'll still be amongst the stars.

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01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:46,160
Speaker 1: But it's real simple, man, It's just like Michelangelo said,

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Speaker 1: the greatest danger for most of us. Is not that

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01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:50,800
Speaker 1: our aim is too high and we miss it, but

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Speaker 1: that is too low and we reach it because it's

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Speaker 1: danger man, when you ain't got nothing after that, because

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01:22:56,560 --> 01:22:59,320
Speaker 1: you get to settling and you get to thinking you there,

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01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:01,960
Speaker 1: when you ain't there, You got so much more life

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01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:06,280
Speaker 1: to live. God has so much more for you. God

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01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:09,640
Speaker 1: comes to give you life and give you life more abundantly.

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01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:15,759
Speaker 1: God ain't no mediocre God. God don't do mediocre things.

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01:23:15,880 --> 01:23:20,519
Speaker 1: God do great things. God performs miracles. God makes dreams

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01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:24,080
Speaker 1: come true. God is in the blessing business, the healing business,

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01:23:24,320 --> 01:23:27,960
Speaker 1: the saving business, the recovery business, to get your life

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Speaker 1: together business. Why don't you let him do that for you?

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01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:35,320
Speaker 1: Aim high? God may take you some places you've never been.

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Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks. Y'all have a great weekend

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01:23:39,439 --> 01:23:44,640
Speaker 1: right now, BT expressed. Do it, do it until you're satisfied.

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Speaker 1: Come on and do it. Good putting riding for all.

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