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Speaker 1: First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at adjocuslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Kai is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Evie. We went

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Speaker 2: on a date with and really liked. So in a

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Speaker 2: second we'll call her and see if she'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date

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Speaker 2: for first Kai, how long as the bench as you

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Speaker 2: were from Evie, Hi, guys, it's.

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Speaker 3: Been about two weeks.

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Speaker 4: As I've heard from Evie.

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Speaker 3: We usually a very friendly in flirtationoust of woman that

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Speaker 3: goes to our constant gym. We'd been starting back and

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Speaker 3: forwards a little bit, but then we decided that we

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Speaker 3: go and grab a smoothie after our workout, so we

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Speaker 3: want to grab a smoothie and.

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Speaker 4: That went really well.

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Speaker 3: So then we decided we'd go out and tractually have

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Speaker 3: a proper date. So we went to this new topics

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Speaker 3: place in town. We ended up chatting with each other

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Speaker 3: and we got the paiea and while we went on

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Speaker 3: the pie to come out, we decided to after we ordered,

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Speaker 3: we decided to sit on the same side of the

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Speaker 3: booth and we go through each other's phones, and we

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Speaker 3: were talking about pictures and videos that we're talking about,

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Speaker 3: especially of our failing numbers, and then there was a kiss,

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Speaker 3: which was pretty awesome. So I think everything was going

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Speaker 3: to corner plan. But then I have an art.

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Speaker 4: Doctor, and I think it's because I ate all the.

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Speaker 3: Shrimp out of the shrimp.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait wait wait wait wait, So let's talk about

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Speaker 2: the kiss.

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Speaker 5: Then.

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Speaker 2: Was that mutual?

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Speaker 5: Like, did you feel like she was given that energy back?

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Speaker 4: Definitely? Definitely, I kissed her to kiss the back.

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Speaker 2: So then where does the shrimp come in?

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 3: Mainly a few of the putting content, but I ate

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Speaker 3: my majority of the Yeah, shrimp from the I think

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Speaker 2: Why do you think that that's the thing that she

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Speaker 2: say something about it?

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Speaker 4: She would give me a look the entire time.

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Speaker 5: So is it that you ate all the shrimper? Is

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Speaker 5: that because you left the girl starving?

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Speaker 4: That's that's that's why I called you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay okay, And you reach out to her and she's

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Speaker 2: said nothing. Well, what was your last interaction? So what

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Speaker 5: So basically you sent her a text and said I

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Speaker 5: had a great time, and then she responded saying thanks

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Speaker 5: for dinner, and it wasn't the energy that you were

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Speaker 5: looking for.

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Speaker 4: So I texted TV after dinner. I said a really.

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Speaker 3: Great time and I was looking for don next day

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Speaker 3: and she just responded with, you know, thank you for

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Speaker 3: dinner with a period, you know, kind of low energy

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Speaker 3: would kind of response. So I haven't known anything from

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Speaker 2: Okay, have you seen her CrossFit?

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Speaker 3: Just backing, not really, not really a you know, long

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Speaker 3: home competition, just you know how I without that would

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Speaker 3: be talking about this type.

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Speaker 2: So you're getting curved yea? All right, well we'll see why.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if it tell us why she's ghosting you.

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Speaker 2: Maybe get you another date. Okay, all right, plus on

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Speaker 2: come back and get your first day follow up next

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Speaker 2: right in the middle of your first date follow up

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Speaker 2: and if you're us joining us. Kai is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Evie

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Speaker 2: that he really likes. He met her at CrossFit and

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Speaker 2: they went out on a date and he thinks he's

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Speaker 2: not getting a call back because he ate all of

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Speaker 2: the shrimp and the piea that they ordered, and she

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Speaker 2: also needs her protein because you know crossfits absolutely, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if that's the reason. All right, Kay, are

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Speaker 2: you ready to give her a call? Okay, man, here

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Speaker 2: we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to ev Please miss

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Speaker 2: Hey Evie? How are you? My name is Jubel. I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Ev,

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Speaker 2: I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Okay,

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Speaker 2: how are you? It's a radio shown.

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Speaker 4: Sure.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the Jebel Show before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Again?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Are you familiar with what a first date follow

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Speaker 2: up is?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, cool. Well that's the segment where if

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Speaker 2: you ghost somebody, they can email us to get you

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Speaker 2: on the show and ask why you're ghosting them. And

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Speaker 2: we got an email about you from somebody. You have

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Speaker 2: any idea who that would be?

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Speaker 1: Well, I've only gone on one first date recently, so

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Speaker 1: I have a feeling I might know who it is.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, who is that.

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Speaker 4: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Kai? Yes? It is. He told us about your date

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Speaker 2: and he wants to know why you're not calling him

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Speaker 2: back or why you're ghosting him? Would you mind telling us?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean so like we had a we were

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Speaker 1: having like a pretty good night tapas and then like

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Speaker 1: we had this like really good kiss, right, and then

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Speaker 1: he got up went to the bathroom, and while he

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Speaker 1: was there, his phone just kept getting messages from lending

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Speaker 1: v and it was like egg plant emojis and uh

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Speaker 1: like peach emojis.

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Speaker 4: And emojis and I'm at least five just.

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Speaker 1: In the time that he was in the bathroom, So like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know vii is, but it sounds like he's

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Speaker 1: kind of got something going on already, and I just

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Speaker 1: I felt so uncomfortable after that. Yeah, and then he

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Speaker 1: just didn't mention them, like I don't know, it felt

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Speaker 1: like he just left his phone out on the table

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Speaker 1: like he would see looking to the soul when he

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Speaker 1: came back kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, he thought, the reason you're not calling him back

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Speaker 2: is because he ate all the shrimp out of the

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Speaker 2: paa wow.

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Speaker 6: I mean yeah, he did do that, and that was dumb,

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Speaker 6: but like, okay, so it said he was getting texts

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Speaker 6: that seemed like from another girl, I mean five, Yeah,

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Speaker 6: a lot of.

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Speaker 4: Egg plant emojis.

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Speaker 2: A lot we should ask him about that, don't you

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Speaker 2: think you Yeah, Oh, that's right. He's here. Yes he is.

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Speaker 2: Guy's on the phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: Hey, maybe.

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Speaker 3: This is kind of awkward, but I'm I'm a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Mortified, and I'm going to shore my friend, the one

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Speaker 4: that was.

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Speaker 3: Setting all the emoji text messages, Jim my friends Dick.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's he was.

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Speaker 3: Basically, he knew that I was in ev for a

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Speaker 3: while and he was trying to be encouraging by sending

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Speaker 3: those messages in order to let me know exactly what

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Speaker 3: I should do. An Atomically speaking, everything goes well on

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Speaker 3: the dates. But I uh, not that I don't appreciate

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Speaker 3: his input, but I kind of already knew how to

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Speaker 3: knew that she was going to see the messages from him.

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Speaker 3: Uh okay, I'm going to kill him the next time.

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Speaker 4: I see him. But it was nothing.

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Speaker 3: Sexual between and somebody else. It was mainly sexual between

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Speaker 4: My buddy.

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Speaker 1: So what you're saying is it wasn't another girl, but

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Speaker 1: it was your friend, like convinced we were going to

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Speaker 1: hook up, Like, is that why you went out with me?

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Speaker 3: Because you wereized sure we were going to hook up.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't going out with you because I students, we're

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Speaker 3: going to look up. I was going out because I

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Speaker 3: wanted to go out with you. That the whole walking

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Speaker 3: up thing is just a bonus. You're the main You're

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Speaker 3: the main goal here is to go.

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Speaker 4: And have a good time with you because I have

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Speaker 4: coming to you a goal.

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Speaker 1: Come on, like a guy like you at the gym

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Speaker 1: only has one agenda and friends.

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Speaker 2: Just like the or Vic or whatever his name is.

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Speaker 2: I knew you were too good to be.

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Speaker 1: True when I went out right, like, if that's all

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Speaker 2: Not what I'm here for.

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Speaker 4: That's not all I'm interested in you.

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Speaker 3: That's just my friends and dumb idiots, and it's decided

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Speaker 3: to send very very dumb text messages.

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Speaker 4: When I wasn't at the table.

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Speaker 3: But I am not into you for that, and that's

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Speaker 3: just a bonus. I'm into you for everything that you

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Speaker 3: are and everything that you can be, and especially all

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Speaker 3: the conversation that we haven't on the last day.

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Speaker 7: Connections are going really well, So yes, I can understand

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Speaker 7: that you might be a little upset and confused by

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Speaker 7: the messages, but that's the last thing on my mind.

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Speaker 3: And you're also your Your squad game is like insane

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Speaker 3: that you can squat so much, and I think it's

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Speaker 4: Also that's not a bonus, but you have a child

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Speaker 4: there and enjoy it. It's some point in time.

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Speaker 3: After after an apology dinner when you possibly see about

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Speaker 3: you no, potentially.

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Speaker 4: Doing some little those lines. Okay, ice cream after two.

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Speaker 4: And also you get to eat all the shrimp tonight.

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Speaker 3: You get all the shrimp, and wherever we go, I

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Speaker 3: will make sure that they feed you at least eat

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Speaker 3: extra shrimp, just to make sure that I have to

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Speaker 3: make it for the last time.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it is like out there. Would

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Speaker 2: you like to go on another date with Kaile? We'll

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Speaker 2: pay for it.

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Speaker 1: I still don't know if I totally believe you yet,

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Speaker 1: but you can buy me shrimp in yes, yes, I will.

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Speaker 2: Go on a second date, but you are on probation.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you said yes to shrimp. Okay, well, congratulations, Kyle,

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Speaker 2: you got another date.

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Speaker 4: Yeahkay, this is exactly and I appreciate all that this

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Speaker 4: is one exactly how I thought it would go.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Let's just tell Victor exence.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah, I want to see those texts, though, I.

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Speaker 4: Will definitely show them too. I'm gonna do a little

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Speaker 4: bit of editing so that way to not as graphic.

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Speaker 3: As I will make sure that you see them.

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Speaker 2: M Juble's first date follow up