WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Roofer Madness

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<v Speaker 1>Second data to date. When we go through all the

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<v Speaker 1>second date email requests and we're trying to decide who

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<v Speaker 1>to call, we should probably base that decision on who

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<v Speaker 1>has the most compelling or romantic date story. I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we've been doing. I have a realistic chance

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<v Speaker 1>of actually reaching their person and making this whole call worthwhile.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we should be doing. Yeah, yea, the whole point.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good goal. That's what a good radio host

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<v Speaker 1>would do. But I'm not going to do that. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call the guy for one reason, and one reason

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<v Speaker 1>only because of his name's. We've done this before. It's

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<v Speaker 1>turned out well, yeah, I support it. Because this person

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<v Speaker 1>signed his email to us roofer roofer. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if that's his profession, and we got confused for it's

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<v Speaker 1>a typo or what. But it's caught my attention. It

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<v Speaker 1>spelled like a roof or like spelled like a roofer.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just want to find out. Welcome Roofer to

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<v Speaker 1>the show, right, how's it going? Okay? So is that

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<v Speaker 1>your real name or what real name is? Rufus? But

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<v Speaker 1>Bros called me Rufer and that's pretty much what I

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<v Speaker 1>go by. Okay, is that is that what you go

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<v Speaker 1>by to your dates too? Yep? All right, okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>I literally know nothing about what happened on your date

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<v Speaker 1>or who you were with, because all I saw was Rufer.

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<v Speaker 1>So why don't you start us off? Tell us who

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to call today? If you guys call

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<v Speaker 1>it Diana? Okay? What to coffee? All right? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>coffee is almost like a pre date, right, yeah? Keep

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<v Speaker 1>simple way to downplay his er. Yeah, I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>plenty romantic. That counts as a date for most people,

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<v Speaker 1>but not for Brooke. Apparently you say it it's like

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<v Speaker 1>it could be fifteen to thirty minute experience, right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not a anyway. Sometimes that's all that people have, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you guys can just like step argue, you

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of killing my buzz, right Brook, Sorry, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>guessing that's not a caffeine buzz friend tells about what

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<v Speaker 1>happened at the coffee shop? How'd it go? Yeah? So,

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<v Speaker 1>um it didn't start? Well, oh what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of forgot what you forgot about the sea?

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<v Speaker 1>I told you it wasn't a date. You better give

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<v Speaker 1>you so much trap? How did you forget? I was

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a little high at the time. There at what

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<v Speaker 1>point did you remember? Why didn't she text me Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you can just go drive now and go like, well

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully hopefully it's close. Yeah, it was about four blocks

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<v Speaker 1>from my place. Okay, so I text your back like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm close, like I'll be on my way. Good. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's good. Except for you showed up high as a kite.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know if you even showed up to the date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you. I did make it there, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make good, like showered and a little disheveled. All

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<v Speaker 1>I really remember is that I got until like a

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<v Speaker 1>fight with my pants, like a verbal fight or a

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<v Speaker 1>physical fight. Yeah, I just I remember at some point

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, come on, pants, like it just it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't happening. Happening. Were you sitting down at the shop

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<v Speaker 1>at this point? This is still home. I haven't left yet. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're still getting dressed. What happened after that? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>get the pants on. I win that fight, So I

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<v Speaker 1>start booking it down the street. There's only four blocks, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>running high up because you feel like you're running so fat.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been there before. You have no concept of time

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<v Speaker 1>tie has literally left you. I feel like, wait, what

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<v Speaker 1>street in my own Yeah, I feel like his arms

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<v Speaker 1>are just flatling all over the place, his legs are wobbling.

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<v Speaker 1>But did you make it to the coffee shop, Roofer?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I did. I went into a coffee shop

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<v Speaker 1>that I believed was the coffee shop, and then text

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<v Speaker 1>again are you here? And I said yeah, I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, oh wait, this isn't a coffee shop, this

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<v Speaker 1>is an empty cardboard box. I didn't hear anyway to

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<v Speaker 1>fight with the box. And then did you find Diana?

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<v Speaker 1>I texted her name and she said it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was a wrong coffee shop. Oh my god, the dude,

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<v Speaker 1>how is she even still waiting around for you at

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<v Speaker 1>this point? You cancel at this point for some reason.

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<v Speaker 1>She did. But I finally find it and I find

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<v Speaker 1>her all right, but it is not a good situation,

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<v Speaker 1>no very high end. What did she even say to you?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't entirely remember. Oh you know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>ordered a lot of pastries. You ate a lot of pastries?

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<v Speaker 1>The higher a credit card bill? And if okay, do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember anything from your interaction with her? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I stared at her face a lot. Oh no, that's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be pretty complimentary. But at one point her

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<v Speaker 1>friend showed up. She called in backup is what she did? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>That could be I guess. So yeah, I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>introduce myself, but she had to get out of there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you that's not when they asked for a

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<v Speaker 1>three song, that's not a good strategy. Wow, why do

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<v Speaker 1>you even want to make this call? Can I say that? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Count it as a lie? Why not move on? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she was super cute, and I feel like an idiot

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<v Speaker 1>for messing it up. I don't think I would have

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<v Speaker 1>messed it up, you know if I didn't get so high. Okay, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you were, if you were sober, maybe this

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<v Speaker 1>date would have gone really well and this could have

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<v Speaker 1>been the girl for you. Yeah, man stoned, we got

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<v Speaker 1>a big green mountain to climb this so, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet he smoked to big Green Mountain right before

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<v Speaker 1>he got on the phone. But I will not confer. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>call Diana for you, and we'll try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>your second date. Update. All right, ruf, all right, thanks guys,

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on second date, forget the day programs.

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<v Speaker 1>School should just play this segment to teach kids about

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<v Speaker 1>the dangers of recreational drugs because one of our listeners, Rufer,

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<v Speaker 1>admits he was high and forgot he even had a date,

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<v Speaker 1>but once he remembered, in his rush to make it there,

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<v Speaker 1>he ended up getting into a fight with his own pants. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he went to the wrong coffee shop, ate a dozen

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<v Speaker 1>pastries in one sitting, and just stared a lot at

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<v Speaker 1>Diana's face. He thinks about imagining it like stone looking

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<v Speaker 1>at her, like just downing Croissan. I could see his

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<v Speaker 1>little bloodshot eyes too in my head. So good, Ruff,

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<v Speaker 1>I really appreciate you coming on and just being so

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<v Speaker 1>honest and vulnerable with us on the radio. It takes

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of bravery. So good on you. Okay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and your email it says that this date happened about

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<v Speaker 1>a week ago. But I do have a question, like,

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<v Speaker 1>at any time did you ever admit to Diana that

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<v Speaker 1>you were elevated? I don't remember, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that I would have, Like I think I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 1>if you didn't, then maybe we shouldn't bring that up

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<v Speaker 1>to her. I don't know, man, I feel like he wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying she didn't know. She can't be the

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<v Speaker 1>person that dates Rufer. Okay, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're that naive like you just can't be in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship with him, I'm totally with you on that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just I don't think we should lead with it.

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<v Speaker 1>We should get her perspective about how it went first

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<v Speaker 1>and see if she offers that are Are you okay

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<v Speaker 1>with that? Rufer? Yeah? That works. I mean the profile

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<v Speaker 1>does say I'm for twenty friendly, so I always smell

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<v Speaker 1>it on you, but it doesn't say for twenty forgetful. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see if she even knows what that means or

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<v Speaker 1>noticed it at all. But we're going to dial her

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<v Speaker 1>number right now and try and get your second day

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<v Speaker 1>up date. Okay, here we go. Okay, let's do Hello

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<v Speaker 1>the day. Huh Hi, it's this Diana is Hi. Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from a morning radio show called

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<v Speaker 1>Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, who are you question?

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<v Speaker 1>We're a morning radio show and we're doing a segment

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<v Speaker 1>called a second Date Update where we help some of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners out with their dating lives. So then why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling me? I never signed up for help

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<v Speaker 1>with my dating life. Well, good question. You did not

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to us, but we did get a call

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<v Speaker 1>from a guy who says he would love to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with you again because your first date together didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go the way that he planned. He goes by the

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<v Speaker 1>name Rufer. Oh lord, yeah, he knows, he knows. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a little bit of a rough first date. It

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<v Speaker 1>was definitely the weirdest date I'd ever been on. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean he told us that he was super

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<v Speaker 1>late and that you hung around, so there must have

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<v Speaker 1>been some good reason while you hung around, like you

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<v Speaker 1>liked him a lot, good vibes, he looked very cute online. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but um, it was definitely something wrong or wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>him or just wrong altogether. Okay, what would give you

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<v Speaker 1>that impression? But let's f f In the beginning, he

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<v Speaker 1>kept texting that he was three minutes away. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>texted that same text seven times, seven times across a

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<v Speaker 1>period of how much time, every ten every ten min

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was really waiting for him to show up

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<v Speaker 1>and give me like a really amazing excuse. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>something happened Okay, that's kind, that's good, Diana. But um,

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<v Speaker 1>when he showed up, it seemed as if he had

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<v Speaker 1>just a run a marathon. It like in a hot, sexy,

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<v Speaker 1>listening on your muscles type of way. No, like you're

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<v Speaker 1>the last one coming in in the last place. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't tell us that he was running behind and

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<v Speaker 1>he was rushing and literally running to make it there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so he may not have been quite in his right mind.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he's a little bit flustered from having rushed

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<v Speaker 1>to get Yeah, it is, it is. Oh wait, so wait,

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<v Speaker 1>were you able to make it? Connection? We're able to

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<v Speaker 1>get over that? Well. I know that he connected very

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<v Speaker 1>well to the brick wall that we were sitting next to,

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<v Speaker 1>because he kept complimenting me and saying that I was

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<v Speaker 1>as beautiful as this brick wall. Okay, what did you

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<v Speaker 1>say to second beautiful? Thank you? Okay, thank you? Okay strong? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe comparisons aren't quite his forte Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell you that, because next he told me that

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<v Speaker 1>my skin looks so soft it should be made into

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<v Speaker 1>a nice room. Okay, that's a little but he said

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<v Speaker 1>it in a nice voice, not in like an Actually

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to make a skin roll. He said

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<v Speaker 1>it in a voice that could put a baby to sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so nice and lovely. Okay, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to be sweet to you, but the words

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<v Speaker 1>that are coming out don't match. I could from her perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>couple red flags are so is that kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing for you that he you know, he was

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit out of it seeming, and compliments weren't

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<v Speaker 1>coming out the right way. Well, that I could have

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<v Speaker 1>actually looked past because I don't know, maybe he was tired,

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<v Speaker 1>had a long day. But then a friend of mine

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<v Speaker 1>showed up, like totally randomly at the coffee shop, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just went over to talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>really quickly, and um Ruffer came over and he whispered

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<v Speaker 1>in my air. He was like, hey, he's this person

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<v Speaker 1>bothering you. Oh no, she's talking about your friend exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, no, I no, no, that's my friend, and

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<v Speaker 1>he mused, for back, I would like to fight them.

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<v Speaker 1>Fight it was a girl, Okay, I would like to

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<v Speaker 1>fight them. I'm sure Rufer has a very logical, reasonable

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<v Speaker 1>explanation for his behavior that day, and maybe it would

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<v Speaker 1>sound best actually coming from him, because Diana Rufer's on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? We have Roofer on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line. Roof are you there? Yeah, how's it going?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Oh my god, pretty chill. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry you had to hear that, but I mean

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<v Speaker 1>they asked me, and I told them the truth that

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happened. Listen. I mean that that skin robe

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<v Speaker 1>thing is creepy. I don't know why I would say

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<v Speaker 1>something like that. Do you do you remember saying that, Roofer.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember saying that. It doesn't sound like something

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<v Speaker 1>I would say. Our buddy Roofer has got a really

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<v Speaker 1>bad memory. We didn't mention that. Yeah, before you left,

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<v Speaker 1>you kept yelling like, hey, I want to show you

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<v Speaker 1>my ferbie Ferbie, like one of those stuff doll old roots.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you own a furbie, Roofer? I mean I do

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<v Speaker 1>that one. That one's clausible, Okay, yeah, it makes more

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<v Speaker 1>sense of the skin robe. Yeah, all right, Rufer. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we've kind of danced around this for long enough.

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<v Speaker 1>She's been very understanding throughout this whole call, so maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you should just come clean. I think you owe her

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<v Speaker 1>the honest answer of what was going on that day?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, M full disclosure. I was I was a

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<v Speaker 1>little high. I was very high, that a little That

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<v Speaker 1>was the full disclosure at the end. Yeah, yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>was sae. Did you get that feeling, Diana? How often

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<v Speaker 1>did you get high? You know? Occasionally? Don't give him

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<v Speaker 1>questions about concepts of time. Not in his wheelhouse. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>to Rufer's credit, he did say that he was four

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<v Speaker 1>twenty friendly on his dating profile, so I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>knew that going in, right, I did, But I have

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<v Speaker 1>never seen four twenty affects someone in that way. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a good question. Was it was it just four twenty Rufer?

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<v Speaker 1>Or was that something else? It might have also been

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<v Speaker 1>like two tw money and then three twenty, but my head,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Are you high right now? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>should have I should have rescheduled. That was on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Not a proud moment. And uh and I'm true to

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<v Speaker 1>be shatter. Oh it's good. That was I mean, that

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<v Speaker 1>was good, right, Diana. I mean he is cute and

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<v Speaker 1>if you can agree to not be high when we

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<v Speaker 1>meet up and he can bring some of that two

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<v Speaker 1>twenty three sixty whatever he was on him, maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>could try it together and you can learn some stuff together.

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<v Speaker 1>Really getting romantic yet. I don't know if we can

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<v Speaker 1>condone that, but I can condone it, Okay. What we

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<v Speaker 1>can condone is the two of you meeting up again,

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<v Speaker 1>sure sober at the beginning, you know, yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what you guys are adults. What you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>on your own time, that's your business. But our business

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<v Speaker 1>is to offer to send you out on a second

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<v Speaker 1>date and we'll pay for it. Okay, dianga. Sounds happy

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<v Speaker 1>you're now knowing what the whole deal was. I know

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<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't. Sounds like she should have just let off

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<v Speaker 1>with that rufer. Yeah, I should have this whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were like an escape mental patience. It

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<v Speaker 1>is essily yeah. No, not not to keep bringing up

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<v Speaker 1>the skin rolled thing, but that is I am scared

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<v Speaker 1>of myself that that was even in there Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning,