1
00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:05,120
Speaker 1: Second data to date. When we go through all the

2
00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,760
Speaker 1: second date email requests and we're trying to decide who

3
00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:11,520
Speaker 1: to call, we should probably base that decision on who

4
00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:15,200
Speaker 1: has the most compelling or romantic date story. I thought,

5
00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,279
Speaker 1: that's what we've been doing. I have a realistic chance

6
00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:21,320
Speaker 1: of actually reaching their person and making this whole call worthwhile.

7
00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:25,599
Speaker 1: That's what we should be doing. Yeah, yea, the whole point.

8
00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,600
Speaker 1: It's a good goal. That's what a good radio host

9
00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:32,560
Speaker 1: would do. But I'm not going to do that. We're

10
00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,280
Speaker 1: gonna call the guy for one reason, and one reason

11
00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:40,360
Speaker 1: only because of his name's. We've done this before. It's

12
00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,800
Speaker 1: turned out well, yeah, I support it. Because this person

13
00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:46,800
Speaker 1: signed his email to us roofer roofer. I don't know

14
00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,159
Speaker 1: if that's his profession, and we got confused for it's

15
00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:52,640
Speaker 1: a typo or what. But it's caught my attention. It

16
00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,520
Speaker 1: spelled like a roof or like spelled like a roofer.

17
00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,560
Speaker 1: So I just want to find out. Welcome Roofer to

18
00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,480
Speaker 1: the show, right, how's it going? Okay? So is that

19
00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:05,680
Speaker 1: your real name or what real name is? Rufus? But

20
00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:08,800
Speaker 1: Bros called me Rufer and that's pretty much what I

21
00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:11,319
Speaker 1: go by. Okay, is that is that what you go

22
00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,640
Speaker 1: by to your dates too? Yep? All right, okay, well

23
00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:18,000
Speaker 1: I literally know nothing about what happened on your date

24
00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:19,880
Speaker 1: or who you were with, because all I saw was Rufer.

25
00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:21,800
Speaker 1: So why don't you start us off? Tell us who

26
00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,399
Speaker 1: you want us to call today? If you guys call

27
00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:29,280
Speaker 1: it Diana? Okay? What to coffee? All right? I mean

28
00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,600
Speaker 1: coffee is almost like a pre date, right, yeah? Keep

29
00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:38,640
Speaker 1: simple way to downplay his er. Yeah, I think that's

30
00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,160
Speaker 1: plenty romantic. That counts as a date for most people,

31
00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,240
Speaker 1: but not for Brooke. Apparently you say it it's like

32
00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,480
Speaker 1: it could be fifteen to thirty minute experience, right, it's

33
00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,880
Speaker 1: not a anyway. Sometimes that's all that people have, Brooke.

34
00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:52,840
Speaker 1: So if you guys can just like step argue, you

35
00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:57,200
Speaker 1: just kind of killing my buzz, right Brook, Sorry, I'm

36
00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:00,760
Speaker 1: guessing that's not a caffeine buzz friend tells about what

37
00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,280
Speaker 1: happened at the coffee shop? How'd it go? Yeah? So,

38
00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:08,480
Speaker 1: um it didn't start? Well, oh what does that mean?

39
00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,320
Speaker 1: I kind of forgot what you forgot about the sea?

40
00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:21,520
Speaker 1: I told you it wasn't a date. You better give

41
00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,840
Speaker 1: you so much trap? How did you forget? I was

42
00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:30,840
Speaker 1: maybe a little high at the time. There at what

43
00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,960
Speaker 1: point did you remember? Why didn't she text me Okay,

44
00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,000
Speaker 1: you can just go drive now and go like, well

45
00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:43,400
Speaker 1: hopefully hopefully it's close. Yeah, it was about four blocks

46
00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:47,239
Speaker 1: from my place. Okay, so I text your back like, yeah,

47
00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,839
Speaker 1: I'm close, like I'll be on my way. Good. Yeah, yeah,

48
00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:54,320
Speaker 1: it's good. Except for you showed up high as a kite.

49
00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,359
Speaker 1: We don't know if you even showed up to the date.

50
00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,920
Speaker 1: I mean, did you. I did make it there, I

51
00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:03,519
Speaker 1: didn't make good, like showered and a little disheveled. All

52
00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:05,480
Speaker 1: I really remember is that I got until like a

53
00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:10,560
Speaker 1: fight with my pants, like a verbal fight or a

54
00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,320
Speaker 1: physical fight. Yeah, I just I remember at some point

55
00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:15,320
Speaker 1: I was like, come on, pants, like it just it

56
00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:21,840
Speaker 1: wasn't happening. Happening. Were you sitting down at the shop

57
00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:26,399
Speaker 1: at this point? This is still home. I haven't left yet. Okay, okay,

58
00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,760
Speaker 1: we're still getting dressed. What happened after that? Yeah, I

59
00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:32,760
Speaker 1: get the pants on. I win that fight, So I

60
00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,600
Speaker 1: start booking it down the street. There's only four blocks, okay,

61
00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:43,320
Speaker 1: running high up because you feel like you're running so fat.

62
00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,120
Speaker 1: I've been there before. You have no concept of time

63
00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:48,520
Speaker 1: tie has literally left you. I feel like, wait, what

64
00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,400
Speaker 1: street in my own Yeah, I feel like his arms

65
00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:53,320
Speaker 1: are just flatling all over the place, his legs are wobbling.

66
00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:58,320
Speaker 1: But did you make it to the coffee shop, Roofer?

67
00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,160
Speaker 1: I thought I did. I went into a coffee shop

68
00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,760
Speaker 1: that I believed was the coffee shop, and then text

69
00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,920
Speaker 1: again are you here? And I said yeah, I think so.

70
00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:08,880
Speaker 1: They're like, oh wait, this isn't a coffee shop, this

71
00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:14,920
Speaker 1: is an empty cardboard box. I didn't hear anyway to

72
00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:20,800
Speaker 1: fight with the box. And then did you find Diana?

73
00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,760
Speaker 1: I texted her name and she said it was it

74
00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:27,799
Speaker 1: was a wrong coffee shop. Oh my god, the dude,

75
00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,120
Speaker 1: how is she even still waiting around for you at

76
00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,799
Speaker 1: this point? You cancel at this point for some reason.

77
00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,240
Speaker 1: She did. But I finally find it and I find

78
00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:39,040
Speaker 1: her all right, but it is not a good situation,

79
00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:49,920
Speaker 1: no very high end. What did she even say to you?

80
00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:56,640
Speaker 1: You know, I don't entirely remember. Oh you know, I've

81
00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,440
Speaker 1: ordered a lot of pastries. You ate a lot of pastries?

82
00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,920
Speaker 1: The higher a credit card bill? And if okay, do

83
00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:07,159
Speaker 1: you remember anything from your interaction with her? I mean

84
00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,480
Speaker 1: I stared at her face a lot. Oh no, that's

85
00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,560
Speaker 1: trying to be pretty complimentary. But at one point her

86
00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,960
Speaker 1: friend showed up. She called in backup is what she did? Oh?

87
00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:20,039
Speaker 1: That could be I guess. So yeah, I tried to

88
00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,920
Speaker 1: introduce myself, but she had to get out of there. Yeah,

89
00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:25,919
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that's not when they asked for a

90
00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:30,200
Speaker 1: three song, that's not a good strategy. Wow, why do

91
00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:32,200
Speaker 1: you even want to make this call? Can I say that? Like?

92
00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,839
Speaker 1: Count it as a lie? Why not move on? I mean,

93
00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:38,080
Speaker 1: she was super cute, and I feel like an idiot

94
00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:39,919
Speaker 1: for messing it up. I don't think I would have

95
00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:44,400
Speaker 1: messed it up, you know if I didn't get so high. Okay, okay, okay,

96
00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,760
Speaker 1: like if you were, if you were sober, maybe this

97
00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,320
Speaker 1: date would have gone really well and this could have

98
00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:55,240
Speaker 1: been the girl for you. Yeah, man stoned, we got

99
00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,599
Speaker 1: a big green mountain to climb this so, I mean,

100
00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,120
Speaker 1: I bet he smoked to big Green Mountain right before

101
00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:07,840
Speaker 1: he got on the phone. But I will not confer. Well,

102
00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,280
Speaker 1: we're just gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll

103
00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,520
Speaker 1: call Diana for you, and we'll try and get you

104
00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:15,440
Speaker 1: your second date. Update. All right, ruf, all right, thanks guys,

105
00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:20,920
Speaker 1: All right, hold on second date, forget the day programs.

106
00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,760
Speaker 1: School should just play this segment to teach kids about

107
00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:29,440
Speaker 1: the dangers of recreational drugs because one of our listeners, Rufer,

108
00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:33,360
Speaker 1: admits he was high and forgot he even had a date,

109
00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,680
Speaker 1: but once he remembered, in his rush to make it there,

110
00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,279
Speaker 1: he ended up getting into a fight with his own pants. Yeah,

111
00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,919
Speaker 1: he went to the wrong coffee shop, ate a dozen

112
00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:47,320
Speaker 1: pastries in one sitting, and just stared a lot at

113
00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:53,640
Speaker 1: Diana's face. He thinks about imagining it like stone looking

114
00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,560
Speaker 1: at her, like just downing Croissan. I could see his

115
00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:01,200
Speaker 1: little bloodshot eyes too in my head. So good, Ruff,

116
00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:03,920
Speaker 1: I really appreciate you coming on and just being so

117
00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,280
Speaker 1: honest and vulnerable with us on the radio. It takes

118
00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:10,760
Speaker 1: a lot of bravery. So good on you. Okay. Yeah,

119
00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,280
Speaker 1: and your email it says that this date happened about

120
00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,040
Speaker 1: a week ago. But I do have a question, like,

121
00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:18,040
Speaker 1: at any time did you ever admit to Diana that

122
00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:22,080
Speaker 1: you were elevated? I don't remember, but I don't think

123
00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:27,640
Speaker 1: that I would have, Like I think I'm just saying

124
00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,520
Speaker 1: if you didn't, then maybe we shouldn't bring that up

125
00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:37,800
Speaker 1: to her. I don't know, man, I feel like he wasn't.

126
00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:41,320
Speaker 1: I'm just saying she didn't know. She can't be the

127
00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,920
Speaker 1: person that dates Rufer. Okay, you know what I'm saying.

128
00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:47,080
Speaker 1: If you're that naive like you just can't be in

129
00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,320
Speaker 1: a relationship with him, I'm totally with you on that.

130
00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:51,320
Speaker 1: But I just I don't think we should lead with it.

131
00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,880
Speaker 1: We should get her perspective about how it went first

132
00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,200
Speaker 1: and see if she offers that are Are you okay

133
00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:59,240
Speaker 1: with that? Rufer? Yeah? That works. I mean the profile

134
00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:03,480
Speaker 1: does say I'm for twenty friendly, so I always smell

135
00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:08,720
Speaker 1: it on you, but it doesn't say for twenty forgetful. Yeah. Yeah,

136
00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:10,920
Speaker 1: We'll see if she even knows what that means or

137
00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:12,680
Speaker 1: noticed it at all. But we're going to dial her

138
00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:14,640
Speaker 1: number right now and try and get your second day

139
00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:26,280
Speaker 1: up date. Okay, here we go. Okay, let's do Hello

140
00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:32,559
Speaker 1: the day. Huh Hi, it's this Diana is Hi. Hi.

141
00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,280
Speaker 1: My name is jeff from a morning radio show called

142
00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:43,600
Speaker 1: Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, who are you question?

143
00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,800
Speaker 1: We're a morning radio show and we're doing a segment

144
00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:48,960
Speaker 1: called a second Date Update where we help some of

145
00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,079
Speaker 1: our listeners out with their dating lives. So then why

146
00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,440
Speaker 1: are you calling me? I never signed up for help

147
00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,480
Speaker 1: with my dating life. Well, good question. You did not

148
00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,240
Speaker 1: reach out to us, but we did get a call

149
00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,480
Speaker 1: from a guy who says he would love to hang

150
00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,760
Speaker 1: out with you again because your first date together didn't

151
00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,199
Speaker 1: go the way that he planned. He goes by the

152
00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:14,600
Speaker 1: name Rufer. Oh lord, yeah, he knows, he knows. It

153
00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,040
Speaker 1: was a little bit of a rough first date. It

154
00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:21,240
Speaker 1: was definitely the weirdest date I'd ever been on. Okay,

155
00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,839
Speaker 1: but I mean he told us that he was super

156
00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,080
Speaker 1: late and that you hung around, so there must have

157
00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:29,400
Speaker 1: been some good reason while you hung around, like you

158
00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:36,320
Speaker 1: liked him a lot, good vibes, he looked very cute online. Okay,

159
00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:40,240
Speaker 1: but um, it was definitely something wrong or wrong with

160
00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,480
Speaker 1: him or just wrong altogether. Okay, what would give you

161
00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:47,000
Speaker 1: that impression? But let's f f In the beginning, he

162
00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,920
Speaker 1: kept texting that he was three minutes away. Yeah, he

163
00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:56,720
Speaker 1: texted that same text seven times, seven times across a

164
00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,840
Speaker 1: period of how much time, every ten every ten min

165
00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,480
Speaker 1: Like I was really waiting for him to show up

166
00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,800
Speaker 1: and give me like a really amazing excuse. You know,

167
00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:10,200
Speaker 1: something happened Okay, that's kind, that's good, Diana. But um,

168
00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,640
Speaker 1: when he showed up, it seemed as if he had

169
00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:18,880
Speaker 1: just a run a marathon. It like in a hot, sexy,

170
00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:23,199
Speaker 1: listening on your muscles type of way. No, like you're

171
00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:27,080
Speaker 1: the last one coming in in the last place. Oh yeah,

172
00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:30,320
Speaker 1: he didn't tell us that he was running behind and

173
00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:33,680
Speaker 1: he was rushing and literally running to make it there. Yeah,

174
00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:36,120
Speaker 1: so he may not have been quite in his right mind.

175
00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,400
Speaker 1: You know, he's a little bit flustered from having rushed

176
00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:44,840
Speaker 1: to get Yeah, it is, it is. Oh wait, so wait,

177
00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:46,880
Speaker 1: were you able to make it? Connection? We're able to

178
00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,560
Speaker 1: get over that? Well. I know that he connected very

179
00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,800
Speaker 1: well to the brick wall that we were sitting next to,

180
00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:57,040
Speaker 1: because he kept complimenting me and saying that I was

181
00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:04,000
Speaker 1: as beautiful as this brick wall. Okay, what did you

182
00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:12,600
Speaker 1: say to second beautiful? Thank you? Okay, thank you? Okay strong? Okay,

183
00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:17,040
Speaker 1: maybe comparisons aren't quite his forte Oh my god, I

184
00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,920
Speaker 1: can tell you that, because next he told me that

185
00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:24,520
Speaker 1: my skin looks so soft it should be made into

186
00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:33,200
Speaker 1: a nice room. Okay, that's a little but he said

187
00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,400
Speaker 1: it in a nice voice, not in like an Actually

188
00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:41,640
Speaker 1: he was going to make a skin roll. He said

189
00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:43,520
Speaker 1: it in a voice that could put a baby to sleep.

190
00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,800
Speaker 1: It was so nice and lovely. Okay, it sounds like

191
00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,400
Speaker 1: he's trying to be sweet to you, but the words

192
00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:54,640
Speaker 1: that are coming out don't match. I could from her perspective,

193
00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:59,080
Speaker 1: couple red flags are so is that kind of the

194
00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:01,439
Speaker 1: whole thing for you that he you know, he was

195
00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:05,000
Speaker 1: a little bit out of it seeming, and compliments weren't

196
00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,200
Speaker 1: coming out the right way. Well, that I could have

197
00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,160
Speaker 1: actually looked past because I don't know, maybe he was tired,

198
00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:13,120
Speaker 1: had a long day. But then a friend of mine

199
00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,600
Speaker 1: showed up, like totally randomly at the coffee shop, and

200
00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,040
Speaker 1: you know, I just went over to talk to her

201
00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:21,880
Speaker 1: really quickly, and um Ruffer came over and he whispered

202
00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:26,440
Speaker 1: in my air. He was like, hey, he's this person

203
00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:31,360
Speaker 1: bothering you. Oh no, she's talking about your friend exactly.

204
00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:35,079
Speaker 1: I said, no, I no, no, that's my friend, and

205
00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,760
Speaker 1: he mused, for back, I would like to fight them.

206
00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:48,520
Speaker 1: Fight it was a girl, Okay, I would like to

207
00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:54,439
Speaker 1: fight them. I'm sure Rufer has a very logical, reasonable

208
00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:58,439
Speaker 1: explanation for his behavior that day, and maybe it would

209
00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:02,360
Speaker 1: sound best actually coming from him, because Diana Rufer's on

210
00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:04,200
Speaker 1: the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

211
00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,439
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? We have Roofer on the

212
00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,560
Speaker 1: other line. Roof are you there? Yeah, how's it going?

213
00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:16,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, pretty chill. I mean,

214
00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you had to hear that, but I mean

215
00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,720
Speaker 1: they asked me, and I told them the truth that

216
00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:24,760
Speaker 1: that's what happened. Listen. I mean that that skin robe

217
00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,760
Speaker 1: thing is creepy. I don't know why I would say

218
00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:31,040
Speaker 1: something like that. Do you do you remember saying that, Roofer.

219
00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:35,000
Speaker 1: I don't remember saying that. It doesn't sound like something

220
00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,240
Speaker 1: I would say. Our buddy Roofer has got a really

221
00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:40,520
Speaker 1: bad memory. We didn't mention that. Yeah, before you left,

222
00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,800
Speaker 1: you kept yelling like, hey, I want to show you

223
00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:49,000
Speaker 1: my ferbie Ferbie, like one of those stuff doll old roots.

224
00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:52,240
Speaker 1: Do you own a furbie, Roofer? I mean I do

225
00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:58,200
Speaker 1: that one. That one's clausible, Okay, yeah, it makes more

226
00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:00,840
Speaker 1: sense of the skin robe. Yeah, all right, Rufer. I

227
00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,360
Speaker 1: mean we've kind of danced around this for long enough.

228
00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:06,640
Speaker 1: She's been very understanding throughout this whole call, so maybe

229
00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,040
Speaker 1: you should just come clean. I think you owe her

230
00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,360
Speaker 1: the honest answer of what was going on that day?

231
00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:15,920
Speaker 1: All right, M full disclosure. I was I was a

232
00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:20,000
Speaker 1: little high. I was very high, that a little That

233
00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,520
Speaker 1: was the full disclosure at the end. Yeah, yeah, that

234
00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:28,520
Speaker 1: was sae. Did you get that feeling, Diana? How often

235
00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:34,240
Speaker 1: did you get high? You know? Occasionally? Don't give him

236
00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:40,160
Speaker 1: questions about concepts of time. Not in his wheelhouse. I mean,

237
00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,480
Speaker 1: to Rufer's credit, he did say that he was four

238
00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,360
Speaker 1: twenty friendly on his dating profile, so I mean you

239
00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:48,640
Speaker 1: knew that going in, right, I did, But I have

240
00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:53,720
Speaker 1: never seen four twenty affects someone in that way. That's

241
00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:56,520
Speaker 1: a good question. Was it was it just four twenty Rufer?

242
00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,280
Speaker 1: Or was that something else? It might have also been

243
00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:05,160
Speaker 1: like two tw money and then three twenty, but my head,

244
00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. Are you high right now? Yeah? I

245
00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,960
Speaker 1: should have I should have rescheduled. That was on me.

246
00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:13,320
Speaker 1: Not a proud moment. And uh and I'm true to

247
00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:18,160
Speaker 1: be shatter. Oh it's good. That was I mean, that

248
00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:23,280
Speaker 1: was good, right, Diana. I mean he is cute and

249
00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,960
Speaker 1: if you can agree to not be high when we

250
00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:28,800
Speaker 1: meet up and he can bring some of that two

251
00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,920
Speaker 1: twenty three sixty whatever he was on him, maybe we

252
00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:37,040
Speaker 1: could try it together and you can learn some stuff together.

253
00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:41,680
Speaker 1: Really getting romantic yet. I don't know if we can

254
00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:46,240
Speaker 1: condone that, but I can condone it, Okay. What we

255
00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:48,800
Speaker 1: can condone is the two of you meeting up again,

256
00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:54,320
Speaker 1: sure sober at the beginning, you know, yeah, you know

257
00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,160
Speaker 1: what you guys are adults. What you want to do

258
00:15:57,200 --> 00:16:00,120
Speaker 1: on your own time, that's your business. But our business

259
00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:01,640
Speaker 1: is to offer to send you out on a second

260
00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:05,920
Speaker 1: date and we'll pay for it. Okay, dianga. Sounds happy

261
00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:09,760
Speaker 1: you're now knowing what the whole deal was. I know

262
00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:11,440
Speaker 1: you shouldn't. Sounds like she should have just let off

263
00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:17,640
Speaker 1: with that rufer. Yeah, I should have this whole time.

264
00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:20,520
Speaker 1: I thought you were like an escape mental patience. It

265
00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:24,720
Speaker 1: is essily yeah. No, not not to keep bringing up

266
00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,320
Speaker 1: the skin rolled thing, but that is I am scared

267
00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:33,120
Speaker 1: of myself that that was even in there Brooke and

268
00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:34,320
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning,