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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: Is your girl lexp And it's see Girl dre and

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Speaker 2: the Cold and you.

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Speaker 3: Are tuned in to another episode of poor Mind.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 3: We got a guest today, We got a guest today.

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Speaker 2: We do got a guest today. Bone Cueisha, hey, bone

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Speaker 2: Clisha Aka, this is a ka cousin. Yeah, this is

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Speaker 2: a cousin. Is so happy Halloween.

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Speaker 1: Happy Halloween, y'all.

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Speaker 2: In case y'all haven't figured out who we are, we

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Speaker 2: are the Adams family.

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Speaker 1: You are Uncle fa Stir. That's that's how he talked,

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Speaker 1: is he. It's not a special Uncle Fasta.

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Speaker 2: Are you gonna talk like that the whole episode?

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Speaker 1: Okay? I am Mortika, oh a little hood.

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Speaker 2: You know I'm not like more Titia because she stayed

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Speaker 2: with her, Nika, you stay with her.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is the thing though, Like so y'all probably

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Speaker 2: wondering what happened to my bus down middle part. But

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Speaker 2: I got a new haircut because you know, they say

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Speaker 2: a woman who cut her hair is about to change

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Speaker 2: your life. So you know I love him not mis

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Speaker 2: is not in a picture.

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Speaker 1: That is why I got the bob.

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Speaker 2: I felt like I needed a new start, a fresh start,

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Speaker 2: you know, like you.

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Speaker 1: Like him, you like.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. Yes, I just feel like I

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Speaker 2: needed a new start. You know, we're about to go

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Speaker 2: into twenty two twenty five. Sometimes you just got to

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Speaker 2: leave him in the dust.

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Speaker 1: You gotta pay him dust. She knows. She knows all

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Speaker 1: about the dust. She know all about the dust.

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Speaker 2: From dust to dust. Cash is the ashes dust to this.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, sometimes you just got to leave him in

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Speaker 2: the dust. He's about to be twenty twenty five. You

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Speaker 2: know what I feel like I'm giving Remember that lady

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Speaker 2: that they was using it every year for New Year's

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Speaker 2: she had the little bag, and it was like leaving

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Speaker 2: behind past trauma, leaving behind this is me, Mortica shout

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Speaker 2: out to her. So yeah, not in real life, Like

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Speaker 2: in real life, I'm me and my man needs together

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Speaker 2: in twenty twenty five. But Mortica left him in and

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Speaker 2: that's why that's why she got a bob.

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Speaker 1: I like it well, and I given my son is

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Speaker 1: my king.

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Speaker 3: We're pugs. Yes, we're here. I like that Wednesday right there.

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Speaker 3: You say my kids my age.

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 3: Well me, I'm not the average uncle fast. I am

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Speaker 3: BBL Fester.

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Speaker 1: Can we see?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my god, you look like a priest because

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Speaker 2: what is this?

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Speaker 1: I like, you're gonna wake cousin it up from the

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Speaker 1: day yob she about to get hard.

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Speaker 3: She already she's got a boner.

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Speaker 1: What what bb ol Fester. You need to calm you

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Speaker 1: need to calm down, you need to cool it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm more Tica and it's my cousin.

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Speaker 3: I'm BBL Fester cousins right. I think he was the brother.

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Speaker 3: He was either gold Masz's brother or Mortika's brother.

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Speaker 1: He was he was Uncle Fester, so he was somebody's

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Speaker 1: uncle obviously. Well, I mean he was Wednesday and Pugsy uncle.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's what I'm saying. I don't know if

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Speaker 3: he was the great uncle like he was gold Mazes

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Speaker 3: or I don't know, but i'm bbfs the period.

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Speaker 1: So yes, happy Halloween.

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Speaker 3: We got the candy. Yeah, I'm so excited. So shout

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Speaker 3: out what's what's the intern's name? Damn, Michayla, shout out

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Speaker 3: to MICHAELA. She decorated the set for us today and

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Speaker 3: she picked up Kenny and she didn't even know nerds

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Speaker 3: clusters are my favorite candy, So I'm taking that home yy.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry we kept sending me.

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Speaker 3: Well honestly, okay, no all jokes aside. I feel like

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Speaker 3: This is my actual bald head. I shaved my hair

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Speaker 1: Then why it's not the same.

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Speaker 3: Because I didn't get a tan dug. The sun don't

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Speaker 1: Cause why do it lift up? It don't move? You

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Speaker 2: I don't remember Uncle Fister talking this way.

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Speaker 1: You need to be quiet? Why he said like maximum

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Speaker 1: knowing way? I feel like Uncle Faster? What's shaddy?

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm not Uncle Faster.

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Speaker 1: I'm bb ill fist bbl Fister. So to kick off Halloween, why.

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Speaker 3: Are your eyes black? These are I didn't sleep last night.

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Speaker 3: I don't have no makeup on right now. This is

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Brocuz, well you ain't my uncle. I think

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Speaker 1: you either my brother something like that. Can you look

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Speaker 1: that up and figure out how Uncle Fester like? Who's

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Speaker 1: and Mortica related? I mean more T shirt Hester you? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm your un all it changed.

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Speaker 3: So now I'm Gomez's brother, So you cut goms off,

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Speaker 2: M I mean, that's okay, he had to go. He

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't have time. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So to start off the Halloween episode, y'all know it's

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Speaker 3: Friday night. I know y'all in the house or maybe

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Speaker 3: you're getting ready to go out. Say, y'all know, we

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Speaker 3: gotta start it off with the game. We gotta play, ty,

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Speaker 3: you're gonna play the game with us today, Okay, so

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Speaker 3: we gonna do y'all know I love a good ABC game. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so we're gonna do the ABC game. So you know,

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Speaker 1: Okay. Anyways, and but we have to.

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Speaker 3: Name Halloween things, things that have to do with Halloween,

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Speaker 3: scary things, okay, thoo the alphabet and if you can't.

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Speaker 1: Think of something, you know, you gotta take a step

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Speaker 1: with a drink and drink you gotta be something scary.

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Speaker 3: Not I mean, not something scary, but if it's like

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Speaker 3: anything that has to do with Halloween, anything, anything, Okay,

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Speaker 3: is everybody ready, y'all?

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Speaker 4: Can play at home. TI, you're gonna start it off

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Speaker 4: for us.

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Speaker 1: With a with a and a ghost.

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Speaker 4: No, No, it don't work like that.

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Speaker 1: Start with a. No. No. I think I talked that

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Speaker 1: whole time because I was giving you. I don't think

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Speaker 1: work either. Ours do not do that. That was a wolf.

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Speaker 3: That's also a howl more ticket love our wolves, do

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Speaker 1: You never heard that song from the eighties, thank you? Right? Wait,

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Speaker 1: somebody look up a wolf sound?

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Speaker 3: You never heard that song from the age howl with

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Speaker 1: But I said, I know that's how.

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Speaker 3: The word is how the word is howell, but the

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Speaker 2: Well, I believe it's a song, but like, no, that

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Speaker 1: Well, I got it wrong. Okay, Well, I'm gonna start over.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she thought about okay and Adam's family. It's bobbing

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Speaker 2: for apples, candied apple demon, Oh funky, that's scary.

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Speaker 1: Skip about to believe you?

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Speaker 3: You?

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Speaker 1: Yours was e oh ship more tinkle.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna it's not shouldn't count, but I'm accounting

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Speaker 3: for creativity.

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Speaker 1: I ain't that slow. I did skip over eat on

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Speaker 1: H what are you doing, Drea?

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Speaker 1: a hokus? Pokus.

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Speaker 3: That's a good one. What am i? H? I? I

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Speaker 1: Insects? Yeah, insects okay, I didn't think of that though.

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Speaker 1: Spooky for real city. You want to give Uncle faster

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Speaker 1: some couchie Wednesday, that's what she said. She cat heals me,

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Speaker 1: she said in sat I'm calling nah one one bitch,

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Speaker 1: not my child. I have mother first. I am a

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Speaker 1: mother first. Do not play with my daughter. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 3: Okay, h I I know she got she pull your

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Speaker 1: You're showing too much thought, Jay jeepers creeper. Oh, that's

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Speaker 1: a good one. Okay. Kruger, Freddy Krueger. Does it count y'all?

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Speaker 1: l A layer? You saw a witches layer? A layer?

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Speaker 3: Ylma Morticia, Oh okay, and I'm scary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, nigga.

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Speaker 5: In America, A nigga in America scary.

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Speaker 6: You're right, you right, okay, element Oh oh that's good.

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Speaker 1: That was. That was that's the calm down home.

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Speaker 2: You had no men today, okay, okay, p potion.

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Speaker 7: Oh ooo, what what's nott with a cute.

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Speaker 1: Queen?

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Speaker 5: Queen, it ain't scary to me, don't think of Oh

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Speaker 1: Riding the broom.

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Speaker 4: Were that's not good?

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Speaker 2: Telly to a beast, that is pretty scary.

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Speaker 1: They've grown ass men walking around in the Oh.

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Speaker 3: But wait, did y'all know that Teller tubbies were like

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Speaker 3: six feet tall, like the seven They were like huge.

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Speaker 3: I'll give that to you. Yeah, that ship was scary.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about y'all, but I never could fuck

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Speaker 3: with this, y'all.

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Speaker 1: It was scary to me. It was a little scary.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you you tombstone? Yeah, okay, you umbilical cord.

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Speaker 1: Why is that scary?

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Speaker 8: Me?

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Speaker 1: Take the ship?

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Speaker 2: The shi it's bloody seeing where I'm going with things.

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Speaker 1: You be just take the shot. Fuck okay u V

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Speaker 1: I was gonna.

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Speaker 3: Say, vaginas so you're not scary. Some of them be scary.

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Speaker 3: I've seen some scary ones.

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Speaker 1: Time time us. How many have you seen?

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Speaker 3: Quite a few in my day, old ones, young Harry

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Speaker 3: scary week Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: V.

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Speaker 3: B Weed that's a good that's a good one.

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Speaker 1: X X ray that's not an X ray. It kind

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Speaker 1: of is.

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Speaker 2: No, No, why did nobody say it's for skilty and

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Speaker 2: I just thought about it.

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Speaker 1: X ray don't count because it's bones.

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Speaker 2: X ray don't count because the X ray not scary. Thanks,

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Speaker 2: don't we beating? No, let's start with the.

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Speaker 1: Eat by Wednesday Wednesday said, y'all.

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Speaker 3: another lady shared a story. She was like, I was

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Speaker 3: on a flight one time and she said, I get

441
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Speaker 3: panic attacks sometimes, right, And she said, I was on

442
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Speaker 3: a flight to Europe and one of the flight attendants,

443
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 3: it was like a European guy whatever. She said, I

444
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,440
Speaker 3: had a panic attack. And she said one of the

445
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Speaker 3: flight attendants. It was a lady.

446
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Speaker 4: She was very attentive because she was like, I was crying.

447
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 3: She was asking me if I was okay, and she

448
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 3: said the guy was just like, oh my god, like

449
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 3: basically just kind of like you doing too much, Like

450
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Speaker 3: we on the plane's not that serious. And she said

451
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Speaker 3: she distinctively remembers it was a girl sitting in front

452
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Speaker 3: of in front of her, she was like a blond,

453
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,439
Speaker 3: cute girl whatever, and she got inconvenienced or something.

454
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 4: She wanted something they couldn't get it to her.

455
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 3: And she said, in like a ten minute span, that

456
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 3: man must have walked over there like three times to

457
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Speaker 3: just be like, oh, are you okay?

458
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 4: Do you need anything? And she was like just something

459
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 4: like that.

460
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 3: It just shows you how men are when they care

461
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 3: about you, or they're attracted to you, or they want

462
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 3: to be around in your presence when they see that

463
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 3: you need anything. It's a natural instinct for a man

464
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 3: to like how can I help you damsel on the.

465
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Speaker 1: Stress type thing.

466
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Speaker 3: But if you're in a relationship with a man, he's

467
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:29,719
Speaker 3: still gonna look at you that way, like what can

468
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 3: I do to help my baby feel better?

469
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: Like how can I help her?

470
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 3: So, yeah, that's a big sign like if you're upset

471
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Speaker 3: and your man is not trying to comfort you and

472
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Speaker 3: be there baby, you need to.

473
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Speaker 1: Let that go. Yeah.

474
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Speaker 3: And I when I think about a situation I was in,

475
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Speaker 3: it was like a big red flag to because it

476
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 3: was like, okay, let's talk what now? And I was

477
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 3: just like damn, damn, okay, Okay, you gotta pay attention

478
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 3: to the signs because at that moment, I realized, girl,

479
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 3: you in too deep and he's not.

480
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 1: Let it go. Let it go. Yeah. But sometimes people

481
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: just be annoying too well.

482
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 2: I think it's a not you no no no, I say,

483
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: like sometimes women and men people just be nagging too much.

484
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: So I feel like sometimes when people be kind of like,

485
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,239
Speaker 1: oh brother, what is he today? What is he now?

486
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 2: That'd be very much warranty because some people just be

487
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 2: complainers and like, no matter what, they're always unhappy.

488
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: So that's another side.

489
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 3: Of it is true, but that's also a sign of

490
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,440
Speaker 3: unhappiness both on both ends. A lot of times men

491
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 3: are a woman, they're nagging because they're unhappy.

492
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, and so they brought that space on.

493
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 3: So it's like a negative ending circle because it's like

494
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 3: she's upset or he's upset. She don't or he don't

495
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 3: want to hear while they're upset, and it's just.

496
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 2: Never fucking ending, right, And it's the theme though. Somebody

497
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 2: need to ending, it needs singing, and somebody needs to leave.

498
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 2: That's the part where it's like, no, you're not in

499
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 2: too deep. If you're unhappy, leave if you that unhappy,

500
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 2: if it's always more negative times, more bad energy than

501
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 2: good energy.

502
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: Leave that, nigga.

503
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 2: It does not matter if you've been with him for

504
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 2: ten years. It is going to be a fresh start

505
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 2: if you leave somebody. I have never in my life

506
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: been in a situation where I let someone go and

507
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: God did not see something better and replace me.

508
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: Every single time. Yeah, start to dating. Oh I like that,

509
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 1: I did. What's you let me taste this drink? It's

510
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: good ta so speaking of a drink. What we drinking?

511
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 3: Okay, So since we're doing the Adam's Family, we got

512
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 3: more I know you, Mortika, Mortiica you in the middle.

513
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 2: This cousin, I mean aka Aka that was her real name,

514
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 2: but they didn't say that in a movie. Yeah, this

515
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 2: Monquisha cousin. Okay, hey cousin. So I am the Claws

516
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 2: side piece.

517
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: Period. I gotta wear my man everywhere I go. I

518
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: know that you look you how did you get his hand?

519
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: He crawled up there? Period? You know where it's saying.

520
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: You know, we're homie.

521
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 3: So this is mortitious midnight martini. And so what we

522
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 3: have we have a lot of things going on. We

523
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 3: have some marshmallow that's been melted at the top to

524
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 3: make like a spiderweb. But inside the actual cocktail, we

525
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 3: have I infused the tequila and the vodka with activated charcoal,

526
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 3: so that's what's floating on top and at the bottom

527
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 3: there's a green layer. So it has apple schnaps, lemon juice,

528
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 3: and a little bit of a guy that So it's

529
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 3: kind of just giving us that martini that lemon drop

530
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 3: type of feel. So if you take a sip at

531
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 3: the top by itself, is just gonna be the liquor.

532
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: Okay, it's tasty, It's real tasty.

533
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 8: I like that.

534
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 1: I want to know the shot uncle fist to be

535
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: bof let's do it. I got my shots through. I

536
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 1: was sipping mind during the gun. I'll take another one

537
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: time I have mine steer.

538
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, what's the next?

539
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: So this has been this has been a great topic.

540
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I just want.

541
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Speaker 4: Was that blood?

542
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: Maybe?

543
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 2: But I just wanting to tell the girls, like listen

544
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 2: when I tell you, it's always something better out there,

545
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 2: like it is always something better. And I know that

546
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 2: sounds so cliche because so many people be wanting to

547
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 2: feel like, oh well, if you feel like it's always

548
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 2: something better, then you're insatiable. I have been called insatiable

549
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 2: a like throughout my life. I don't think that I'm.

550
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: Insatiable, though.

551
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 2: I think that I just always know that if this

552
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 2: no longer is working for me, or if this no

553
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 2: longer serves me, I can find something else.

554
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: And I don't think anything is wrong with that.

555
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 2: I think society wants to make people because I don't

556
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 2: even want to just say women. Society wants to make

557
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: people think that they have to settled. Yeah, now I

558
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: agree with that, or that you have to be okay

559
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 2: with some shit that you ain't okay with. If I

560
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 2: ain't okay with this, I ain't okay with it. And

561
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,719
Speaker 2: that's the thing maybe you want. Maybe you won't immediately

562
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 2: find a better man or a better woman, but being

563
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 2: single ain't bad, and being single is one of the

564
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 2: best things that you could be because it allows you

565
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 2: time to focus on yourself and to look into self

566
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 2: and figure out what it is that you like and

567
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 2: who you are, what makes you happy. And then that way,

568
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 2: when you do go into a new relationship or get

569
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 2: into a new relationship, you know what you're looking for

570
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 2: it right, and you know you're non negotiables, you know

571
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 2: what you're okay with, you know what you're not okay

572
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 2: we and you know what's gonna make you walk. But

573
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 2: you have to take that time and that work oneself

574
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: to figure that out.

575
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 8: Yeah.

576
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 3: I just feel like, like I said, holding somebody down

577
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 3: and being into deep Like at the end of the day,

578
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 3: what I learned is it can't rain forever. Yes, we

579
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 3: know breakups are hard, but one thing I've learned to

580
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 3: you're gonna be okay everything always is gonna be okay.

581
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 3: You're gonna have bad days and guess what, that's gonna

582
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 3: fly by, and then you're gonna have some good days.

583
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 3: You may have a good week, you may have a

584
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 3: good month, you may have a six month streak of

585
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 3: good days. But guess what, it's gonna rain again, and

586
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 3: it's gonna be a cycle. But it doesn't rain forever.

587
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 3: And I think that's something I had to realize too. Yes,

588
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 3: it hurts, it's a Kelly Price song. Thanks, But that's

589
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 3: what I'm learning too. I feel like sometimes when you

590
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 3: be going through a break or you have to walk

591
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 3: away from somebody that you love, you be feeling like,

592
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 3: oh my god, it's the end of.

593
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: The world and that should be hurting so bad. I

594
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: get it.

595
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 3: But that's one thing that I have learned with age two. Girl,

596
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 3: It's gonna be okay. Sit in your room, cry let

597
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 3: it out.

598
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: But it passes. This too shall pass.

599
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 2: It always passed, always it always as long as you're living,

600
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 2: you have another opportunity.

601
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: Well, was she not leaving? Not all of us?

602
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 2: But that she susaid she moved okay, bringing but but yeah, like,

603
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 2: as long as you have breath in your body, sorry,

604
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 2: because then you have then you have another chance, you know,

605
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 2: and it's and something better is gonna come. It's gonna

606
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 2: be another opportunity. And yeah, just keep living, keep living.

607
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Speaker 2: So for the second topic, I want us to talk about, Okay,

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00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 2: So it was the sweet okay, and the tweet said

639
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 2: be nice to people because you will never know what

640
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 2: you need or what you'll need them for later in life.

641
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 1: Right.

642
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 2: I think that that's a good perspective to have. But

643
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:05,880
Speaker 2: I think you should just be nice period, because you

644
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: should just be fucking nice, Like it literally costs nothing

645
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:11,280
Speaker 2: to be nice.

646
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: So if you're being nice.

647
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 2: Because you never know what you need from people, or

648
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 2: you never know what you might need or who they

649
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 2: might become, you're being nice with the ulterior motive. Yeah,

650
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 2: And I feel like when you do anything with an

651
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 2: ulterior motive, it's not genuine and you won't end up

652
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 2: quote unquote reaping what you saw, like you like, oh,

653
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 2: I'm being nice. I'm being nice. I'm a repor what

654
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,919
Speaker 2: I saw, but like you had a motive, right, Nice

655
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 2: people are just nice people and they're not doing it

656
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 2: for a reason. It's just embedded in who they are.

657
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 2: It's just who they are, like they can't help but

658
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 2: be nice. I feel like I'm a very nice person,

659
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 2: Like I can't help but be nice to people until

660
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 2: you got me fucked up.

661
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 3: When I was younger, I remember this poster in my

662
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 3: seventh grade teacher. It was in her on her desk,

663
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 3: in front of her desk, so you know, when you

664
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 3: walk into the room, I'm weak, you would see this on.

665
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 4: Her desk and it's said be nice. You never know

666
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 4: who's going to be your boss, and.

667
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 2: M yeah, I'll take it, okay. Fuck, I'm a bad influence. Yes, Mortica, sorry,

668
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 2: BBL do this thing for Big Booty lex Festa.

669
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 1: Your last name Festa lex Fester, BBL Fester's Big Booty

670
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: lex Festa. Now your own.

671
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 3: Anyway, she had this post on her desk and it

672
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:43,959
Speaker 3: said be nice to people.

673
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 1: You never know who your boss might be.

674
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 3: And it was crazy because I remember, like sometimes she

675
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,439
Speaker 3: would talk about the quote or when like students would

676
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 3: get into it or when people get caught up for bully,

677
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 3: and she would always talk about this.

678
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: But I always thought it was so weird, even when

679
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 1: people say, you said who teacher, which teacher?

680
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 3: Not my seventh grade teacher. She had a poster and

681
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 3: it said be nice. You never know who's gonna be

682
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 3: your boss. So anyway, so I always thought it was

683
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 3: weird because, like you said, I'm a nice person.

684
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:12,240
Speaker 4: I'm just nice to people.

685
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 3: So it doesn't matter, you know, X, Y and Z,

686
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 3: because even if like me and a person don't get along,

687
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 3: just because I don't necessarily like you as a person.

688
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: I don't have to be mean to you.

689
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 3: So I never had that fear of, oh my gosh,

690
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 3: a classmate could possibly be my boss. Let me make

691
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 3: sure I'm nice to everybody or treat somebody a certain way,

692
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,479
Speaker 3: because I have people in my life where it's been like, Okay,

693
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 3: I don't like her, But there's not a person walking

694
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 3: this planet that can say man.

695
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: Lex really bully me, or Lex was mean, you know

696
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

697
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 3: So I think it's very strange, and it's interesting when

698
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 3: people say things like that because it just comes off

699
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 3: like you're a user and you're giving me one of

700
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 3: them people who are you know, they try to finesse

701
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 3: their way in the situations and they try to manipulate

702
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 3: people like I can't stand a manipulative ass person.

703
00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: You're reliab a cheetah of a c heartbreak and I

704
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 1: won't let your bad in my life. So I'm taking

705
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: the house, the call, the kids, the dog. I want

706
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: it all nothing but not for real.

707
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:16,399
Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying.

708
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 3: That's what it's giving, and that's what it's given because

709
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 3: to me, don't be nice to me because you want

710
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 3: something from me, because.

711
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: Once I figure that out, I'm not fucking with you.

712
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 4: I'm not fucking with it. I'm not fucking with it.

713
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 2: Though it's easy. I think if you have good discernment,

714
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 2: well that's the thing. Most people don't really have.

715
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: A good days. Most people don't.

716
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 2: But you know, if you have a good discernment, I

717
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:44,760
Speaker 2: think you can always tell. I think you can always

718
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 2: tell somebody who's trying to use you, somebody who wants

719
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 2: something from you, from somebody who is like genuinely trying

720
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 2: to build a connection or a relationship with you, and

721
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 2: then maybe later down the line it so happens that

722
00:38:55,840 --> 00:39:04,800
Speaker 2: like a money move might happen. Or why do we

723
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:05,720
Speaker 2: sound ashy?

724
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 1: This? It sound rough? Did you put oil and did? Okay?

725
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: Well it don't look like it don't sound like anyways.

726
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 2: I just feel like, you know, when someone is being

727
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 2: genuine and a lot of the time people don't have

728
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 2: genuine intentions, but people be thinking they VANESSI, yes, I

729
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 2: don't getting over ain't an a Let me say this though,

730
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 2: Devil's advocate. I don't see nothing wrong with Vanisi. A

731
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,399
Speaker 2: little finess is necessary in life.

732
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 1: Now give her where you're trying to go. If you're

733
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: trying to go far, Vanessa is necessary.

734
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 4: Vanessa is necessary.

735
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 3: Yes, when you're trying to like, oh, let me finesse

736
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 3: this person coming on and doing this because I want

737
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 3: to get to this person and let me make me

738
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 3: work my moves, that's okay. But when you're trying to

739
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 3: finess in.

740
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 2: A way where it's manipulative, well, you ain't gotta hurt

741
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,760
Speaker 2: nobody in when you start, when you when you're crossing people,

742
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 2: what are you?

743
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:12,919
Speaker 1: What's in your cub? Daughter?

744
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 2: Wednesday, Wednesday, what are you drinking? Come show the people.

745
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: Wednesday said she read a show. They can't see you.

746
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:25,840
Speaker 1: You ain't gimming.

747
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, anyways, yes, I feel like people be trying

748
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 2: to get over.

749
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 3: If you finest somebody and they find out it hurts

750
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 3: their feelings, you're not a good person.

751
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: Now if I finessing, yes, yes, that's that's no. You

752
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 1: just said some bullshit.

753
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 4: No, that's not.

754
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 3: If you ask somebody and it's like, damn, I thought

755
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 3: you did this because you fucked with me, But you

756
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 3: did this because you wanted this to happen.

757
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: That hurts my feelings.

758
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 4: That's fucked up.

759
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 2: Because if I said, if you finess somebody and they

760
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 2: find out that's.

761
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: The reason behind it, yes that's fucked up.

762
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 2: No, but nest somebody period is fucked up. It doesn't

763
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 2: matter whether or not they find out. Finising somebody is

764
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 2: fucked up. What I just said, though, is that finessing

765
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:17,399
Speaker 2: is necessary. I think that any super successful person they.

766
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,760
Speaker 1: Don't finess, they don't finet.

767
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 2: But I think when you don't think, you necessarily have

768
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 2: bad intentions. But sometimes it's like you doing what you

769
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 2: gotta do, but right.

770
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 4: But it's not nothing personal.

771
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 3: Like a lot of times niggas be like, oh, let

772
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 3: me finesse this move real quick, and they be like

773
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 3: all right, bro, I got you, and they work and

774
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 3: they all finess and they all finessing moves.

775
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: But like I said, no, yes, it's bad.

776
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 2: You're the one who told me, because I think that

777
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 2: finessing was not a bad thing.

778
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,280
Speaker 1: It used to be. Like, Bro, no, fanessing is horrible,

779
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 1: but that's terrible.

780
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 3: But like I said, in certain situations, if a nigga like, hey, bro,

781
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 3: this is what we finn to do, and everybody kind

782
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 3: of knows, it's different in certain situations. But I'm saying

783
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 3: if somebody be like, man, I'm really finna put the

784
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 3: word cause I want to get cool with lex cause

785
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 3: I want to come on poor minds.

786
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 1: I'm just using that for an example.

787
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 3: And I'm thinking this person coming around because they care

788
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 3: about me. I'm sharing secrets with them, like I'm thinking

789
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 3: that we bonding, and I found out they was just

790
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 3: trying to finest because they want a job or they

791
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 3: want to to me.

792
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: Like that shit be fucked up. Or like say, I

793
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 1: actually let them.

794
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 3: I gave him a job because I'm like, man, my

795
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 3: homegirl be coming around, she be coming around help, and

796
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 3: I'm thinking, you really fuck with me? And I found out, like, girl,

797
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 3: that girl really don't like you. She really don't fuck

798
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 3: with you. She she just wanted the chance to do

799
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 3: poor minds or something like that. That's what I'm talking about.

800
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 3: But people are like that. They see what can I

801
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 3: get from her? And I know she got a big heart,

802
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 3: and that's what be fucked up about it. The main

803
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 3: people that get finessed are people with the big hearts,

804
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 3: and they be fucking like y'all be really fucking up.

805
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: Good people like that.

806
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. I think sometimes even me,

807
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 4: like I.

808
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 1: Feel like you a good person though you can't get

809
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 1: fucked up.

810
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:52,879
Speaker 3: I feel like no, And I agree with that because

811
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 3: like I said, I'm always a lover. I'm always a

812
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 3: people person. I have a big heart. That's just who

813
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 3: I am. But I will say I do move more

814
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 3: cautiously now. I do have to have more discerment. I

815
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 3: kind of like I don't jump into friendships as quickly

816
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 3: as I used to. You know what I'm saying just

817
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 3: because people have hurt my feelings, I figured out, Okay, I'll.

818
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 4: See what you're trying to do.

819
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 3: Like, you know, I feel like a person that I've

820
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 3: tried to be friend a couple of years ago. I

821
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 3: was like, Oh, you were just trying to get on

822
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 3: with somebody because you was trying to find X y Z.

823
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna get into it, but you.

824
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 3: Know, like she was just trying to get on to

825
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 3: getting what she wanted and she thought she was trying

826
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 3: to figure out who was the key to that, and

827
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 3: she was hopping with anybody, And I was like, damn girl, bitch,

828
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 3: I was fucking with you, like I was taken up

829
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 3: for you when.

830
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: Everybody had they back against you type shit. So it

831
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: just be stuff like that.

832
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,320
Speaker 3: It just be like it's just easy just to be

833
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 3: a good person, not because you're trying to use somebody

834
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:49,320
Speaker 3: or get ahead.

835
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 4: So when people be like, be nice, you never know

836
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 4: who you might need.

837
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 3: Bitch, you're a user. That's what it gives. That's the

838
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 3: vibes it gives to me. Period infested.

839
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 2: Don't life, but I do, But I do feel like

840
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 2: that's a good point. Also, like I think you can

841
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: be looked at from either POV because you should be

842
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 2: nice to people because you never know what you might need.

843
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: You should be nice period. I think if you're a

844
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: nice person, you're gonna be nice.

845
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not about what I might need.

846
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:20,760
Speaker 1: I said that earlier.

847
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 2: However, though, what I'm saying is that's also a good

848
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 2: perspective because if you're nice to people, people will be

849
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 2: more likely to help you.

850
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: With anything that you might need help with.

851
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 2: I mean, and I get what you're switch, but that

852
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 2: it's okay, it's okay with that being a motivation too.

853
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: I don't think it's anything wrong with that.

854
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 4: You know, it's not anything wrong with it.

855
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: But like I said, because you like karma, because to me,

856
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 2: that's karma. It's more like it's more like, okay, be

857
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 2: nice to people because you never know what you might need.

858
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 2: I'm gonna always be nice to people and have good

859
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 2: energy because I want that same energy reciprocated whenever I

860
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 2: need it.

861
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: Now, that's what I like. Maybe it's just the wording

862
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 1: I like that. I feel like I put.

863
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 3: I like to give out good energy because FESTA want

864
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 3: that back, well, Fest to put in the world, Fest

865
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,720
Speaker 3: to wont that back you know what I'm saying, okay,

866
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 3: and I'm talking about good energy, good vibes. I'm not

867
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 3: talking about ob nice because you never know what you

868
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,760
Speaker 3: might need. The only thing I need is good energy

869
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 3: and happiness around me.

870
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 2: But you don't feel like you ain't never in your

871
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 2: life fucked with somebody for with you.

872
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 3: No, I can't say that. Yeah, did all of them

873
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 3: first used to be popping that BBL booty back in

874
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 3: the day.

875
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 2: Now that's of I did something, but so so right,

876
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 2: so fest the finess finessing fistayell.

877
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not saying that it's right, but I'm also

878
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 3: saying that I've grown into a space to where I

879
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 3: just don't move like that no more.

880
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 4: And I realized my life.

881
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 3: Got better when I started doing when I just started

882
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 3: moving better, cause I feel like I was always this

883
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:05,800
Speaker 3: nice green girl and stuff.

884
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 4: It's like then I was like, ah, you know, I

885
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:12,839
Speaker 4: just got like, oh, let me work my move.

886
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 1: You was being a bad yall for me fessvs. Gooding up.

887
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 3: I mean, did I have a time, yes, But I

888
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:22,800
Speaker 3: do feel like that's not the life I wanted to

889
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 3: live anymore, just because at the end of the day,

890
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 3: it didn't feel good.

891
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 1: It didn't feel good. I didn't feel fulfilled. Like it's

892
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: a way to be fulfilled living that type of life though.

893
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I just feel like, like you said, going

894
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 3: back to what you said, because I like the way

895
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 3: you said it, and like I said, words mean things,

896
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 3: and it's like how you, yeah, put good And that's

897
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 3: when my mom always taught me. She was like, you

898
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:50,720
Speaker 3: know why we're so blessed because I put good energy

899
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 3: into the world, and that's how we receive our blessings

900
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 3: as far as and it's not about things, it's just

901
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 3: about living a peaceful life. I'm at peace. I wake

902
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 3: up in the more warning every day and I'm peaceful.

903
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: You know.

904
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 2: And I also hate fake nice people, Like I hate

905
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 2: people that be like, oh, I'm gonna be nice. I'm

906
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 2: put on this nice persona so I can get what

907
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 2: I want, but you ain't really nice.

908
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have people who.

909
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 3: Because we had a I'm not not gonna get into

910
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 3: details at all, but we had a recent situation where

911
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 3: I feel like somebody tried to pull the wool over

912
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 3: our eyes and think they was about to do their

913
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 3: big one and it just wasn't happening. And we see

914
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 3: right through that shit, it's just not happening. And I

915
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 3: don't like shit like that. I don't like shit like that.

916
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 3: I don't even want to talk about it because it's

917
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 3: pissing me off.

918
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 1: It's making fester mad. Me No lucky, you know, the

919
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: house be weird.

920
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 3: That's all we got to say about that. We're not

921
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 3: gonna get into it too much. But yeah, like I said,

922
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 3: I don't like what people try.

923
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 1: To be like.

924
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 2: I mean, this is the thing that I personally feel

925
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 2: about a lot of things in life. You know, sometimes

926
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 2: slow motion, growing things organically beat a way to make

927
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 2: things have longevity. Just because you have a lot of motion,

928
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 2: are you doing something right now? It doesn't necessarily mean

929
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 2: that you have longevity. Because you have longevity when you

930
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 2: build relationships and when you have a good reputation with people.

931
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 2: A lot of time people we have emotion but that

932
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 2: don't have a good reputation.

933
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: So that was a word no yeah, yeah, So.

934
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 2: It's more so about keeping your word in the reputation

935
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 2: that you have, and a lot of people just don't

936
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 2: keep they word. That's something that I think we're good at. Yeah,

937
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 2: whatever we say we're gonna do, we do it.

938
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 3: And I don't think we try to present anything like

939
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 3: outside or try to put on or try to have

940
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 3: this facade of things. I think we just who we are.

941
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 3: And and yeah, I think, like I said, I can't.

942
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 3: I I told y'all, I tried for a long time

943
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 3: to like fit in this mold of what I thought

944
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 3: people wanted me to be, and I got tired of it.

945
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 3: But I also, like I said, I found peace and

946
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 3: happiness and just being me and being fast.

947
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: No, that's what they called me. What I know, nobody

948
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 1: there calls you fist. They called me fast. The peeps.

949
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 1: Bon Queisha used to call me queenha dead but when

950
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:33,479
Speaker 1: she was alive, Monqusha is beautiful though with her pink

951
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 1: skin beautiful, So yeah, I don't like the phrase. And

952
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: her hair weave long, shout hair fin Queen sent boone

953
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 1: that didn't need my skin ten and my hair long.

954
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: I don't know, but his skin is not ten? Or

955
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: was that Drake who was that said my skin tin

956
00:49:57,760 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: and my hair along and my fans who being so

957
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 1: paid be like this. But this is the theme. Though.

958
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't like how you're trying

959
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 1: to clown but you just named yourself BBO Fist.

960
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 3: Drake didn't make that song BBL Drezzy. He did they

961
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:21,439
Speaker 3: that was what what metro booming. They made that beat

962
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 3: to make fun of him, BBL Drezzy. Drake did not

963
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 3: make that What I'm saying is.

964
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: I said what I'm he didn't make the song, but

965
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:41,320
Speaker 1: he made it popular anyway.

966
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 2: Did he not make it when he got on the

967
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 2: song with Sexy Red? Is that not what made the song?

968
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: That's not BBL Drezzy was going around that I know

969
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 1: was twerking. Okay, well rap the verse if it's so popular.

970
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 3: No, exactly, Drake didn't say. Brake didn't make that shit popular.

971
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 3: People was laughing at it because of what it was.

972
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 3: Drake didn't make it popular. He laughed at himself, which

973
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 3: was funny.

974
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 2: Drake made it popular because it was about Drake. If

975
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 2: it was not about Drake would have became popular.

976
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 1: Yes, because the.

977
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:16,720
Speaker 3: People Actually, if you want to go to the history

978
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:19,760
Speaker 3: of it, it was bbo fester first.

979
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: And this is how this is how I know you delusional.

980
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: It's fun BBO.

981
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 2: I knew he was about to say some fucking bullshit

982
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, nobody boter until

983
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 2: this episode comes out.

984
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 1: Nobody ever heard of you? What it is? That's all?

985
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 8: Like that?

986
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 1: You want some cookies?

987
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 4: No, not say from fucking crumble bitch just for me.

988
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: No, I don't trust you either, miss you didnet ate

989
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: my cookieas before pause?

990
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 2: But for real though, bbl festa is delusional hand like

991
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 2: I don't know because.

992
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 1: Not not we low key showing them abused. Oh my god,

993
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:20,719
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994
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995
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1025
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Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into the bay out bow.

1026
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Speaker 1: What So, we wanted to make it spooky time because obviously.

1027
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,240
Speaker 3: It's been a lot of things going on on the Internet.

1028
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 3: I don't like our name names or things that's going on.

1029
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 3: So basically there has been a popular OnlyFans person basically

1030
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 3: allegedly he gave a bunch of women herpes, and one

1031
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 3: of the women had actually spoke out and said, you know,

1032
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 3: she thought something looked a little funny on his wi weed.

1033
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 3: She's seen a little what what is it? Allsion allesion,

1034
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 3: she saw something on the.

1035
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: Tip of that pinky one on the tip. It was

1036
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:48,760
Speaker 1: on the shaft.

1037
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 3: The shaft, I'm sorry, the shaft. So today we're not

1038
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 3: gonna talk about them, but we're gonna talk about what

1039
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 3: do you do if prior to sex.

1040
00:54:57,320 --> 00:55:07,479
Speaker 1: So this was the man who understands damn right, damn

1041
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:11,320
Speaker 1: wrong in the situation. What do you they are wrong?

1042
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 4: But what do you do prior to sex?

1043
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 3: If something spooks you out, whether it's a smell, you

1044
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 3: see something.

1045
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:22,400
Speaker 1: You smell anything, if anything.

1046
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:25,800
Speaker 4: Makes you feel uncomfortable, what do you do?

1047
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: Martina gotta go. She ain't got time for that. I

1048
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 1: was in a comedic relationship for a very long time

1049
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 1: and I look like that. Oh I forgot about go Bez.

1050
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 1: Yeah that's your brother. That's the got bad memory. Mhm.

1051
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,959
Speaker 2: Martika was in a commedic relationship for a very long time.

1052
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 2: Cannot relate you.

1053
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,399
Speaker 1: Y'all. Young girls need to be out here getting these

1054
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 1: tests done.

1055
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:02,320
Speaker 2: But most importantly, I'm about to get on my soapbox

1056
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 2: real quick, and I probably should not say these were

1057
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 2: probably gonna get some backlash from these. I'm sorry, I know,

1058
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Hard, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

1059
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: But at nineteen, at war at war, what makes you

1060
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I'm not.

1061
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 2: Gonna go to school, I ain't gonna go work at

1062
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 2: low home depot, Randalls, none of the typical foot locker,

1063
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 2: none of the typical places that nineteen year olds work at.

1064
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just get a put a camera up and

1065
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 2: start fucking niggas on OnlyFans. What at nineteen makes you

1066
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 2: decide that that's the route you want to take? You

1067
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 2: you nineteen, you just graduated from school a year ago.

1068
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:52,600
Speaker 2: When girls be doing only fans at twenty six, twenty five,

1069
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 2: twenty seven, twenty eight, I could be like, Okay, at

1070
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,800
Speaker 2: least you donna try some things by then, like okay, fucky,

1071
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 2: like I'm gonna just do this because I feel like

1072
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 2: these easy money. At nineteen, though, what makes you be

1073
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 2: like this is what I'm gonna resort to well?

1074
00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:11,440
Speaker 7: And then.

1075
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: What makes you believe that he cut his penis shot

1076
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:34,480
Speaker 1: with with a razor. No hair that grow there okay,

1077
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:36,479
Speaker 1: so let me say this. Let me answer your first question.

1078
00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 1: And it was raised you saw it? Yeah, I didn't

1079
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: see it. It was they The screenshot was going around. Okay,

1080
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: so let me that's the it was festering. Please be

1081
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 1: out of it. It was in fiesty fister lea be

1082
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: out of it. Okay. So let me say this. First

1083
00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: of all, I'll answer your first question at nineteen, what

1084
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: would you know?

1085
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 4: Why would you do only fans?

1086
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 1: So I like to say this.

1087
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 4: I don't like to judge people.

1088
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 3: You never know what somebody is going through financially in

1089
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 3: life and what they have to resort to whatever. But

1090
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 3: I will say this, the porn industry and only fans,

1091
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 3: it's like it's kind of two different worlds. And the

1092
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 3: porn industry, like mis be Nasty told us, it's you.

1093
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 3: It's mandatory. You have to get tested and you have

1094
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 3: to show updated results before you can even shoot only fans.

1095
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 3: You're basically your own boss and you're running it yourself.

1096
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 3: So if y'all want to stay safe, y'all please get yourself.

1097
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:34,440
Speaker 3: If you're gonna be doing that, I'm not judging the

1098
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 3: reason why you want to do that, but y'all do

1099
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 3: have to remember. One, if something's on the internet, it

1100
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 3: lists forever. Y'all saw how we was talking about. We

1101
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 3: looked up poor minds at my booty hole all on

1102
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 3: the air. We're not my booty hole, but all that

1103
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:46,640
Speaker 3: stuff you I can't get rid of it. It's there forever.

1104
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 3: It wasn't my booty hole. It wasn't my booty how.

1105
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 1: But again, make decisions.

1106
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 4: Like I said, just be careful.

1107
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 3: But also if you're going to do it, just bea

1108
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 3: And one thing that raised the red flag on me

1109
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 3: for her was like he said something like, oh, my

1110
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 3: test results coming back. I'll show them to you after

1111
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 3: We're not filming until you get show me your updated

1112
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 3: test results. So I think we have to be smart

1113
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 3: and be safe and be careful. Like if y'all are

1114
00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 3: having raw sex with at the end of the day,

1115
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 3: these are strangers. Y'all are meeting somebody that's a coworker.

1116
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, you have to be careful.

1117
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 3: So if y'all are going to enter this sex industry,

1118
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 3: I think you need to run your business exactly like

1119
00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 3: they do in the.

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Speaker 1: Porn industry the same way.

1121
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 3: Like as for poor Minds, we try to run our

1122
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 3: business just like we are the Jennifer Hudson Show or

1123
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 3: the Oprah Win for you, like we try to be

1124
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 3: as organized and sufficient as possible because eventually we do

1125
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:46,439
Speaker 3: want to be on those levels and making that type

1126
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 3: of money. So I think it's like you have to

1127
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 3: look at yourself like a business. Yeah, so to me,

1128
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 3: you know, if you see anything spooky before sex, if

1129
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 3: you smell something, if you see something.

1130
00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 1: Stop, drop and roll, get out of there, Get out

1131
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 1: of there. This is your health. This is your health.

1132
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 3: And I don't I know a lot of women especially

1133
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 3: and you know, and let me not just say women,

1134
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 3: because sometimes men can too.

1135
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: You feel that.

1136
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 4: Pressure, like, oh my god, we're drunk. I don't pull

1137
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 4: like you could.

1138
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 3: Be vibing with somebody the whole night, y'all on date

1139
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 3: number three, y'all vibing, you really like him, conversation perfect,

1140
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 3: it's time to fuck you, don't pull his pants down.

1141
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 1: And you see a leisure.

1142
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 3: I ain't never lease, I've never seen that, but I'm

1143
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 3: telling y'all, please, but you never know, Mike. Sometimes people

1144
01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:40,560
Speaker 3: just feel pressure or they be scared or whatever. Y'all,

1145
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 3: do not let nobody pressure you. If you see a war.

1146
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 4: I don't care if it's an ingres.

1147
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 1: I see a wards. I have two aboards, name it

1148
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: sneeze first. I don't like that. Bless you, thank you,

1149
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 1: and bless him.

1150
01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 3: They need it, y'all, y'all better, because absolutely not if

1151
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 3: I see awards.

1152
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:06,360
Speaker 1: I ever inspecting your vagina?

1153
01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 3: Me?

1154
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:10,320
Speaker 1: Yeah? Do I inspeac my vagina? Like do you be

1155
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 1: looking at them?

1156
01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 2: I expeaked my vagina all the time. I inspected my

1157
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 2: vagina yesterday and I found out that how do you

1158
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:16,080
Speaker 2: do it?

1159
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 1: Do you like? I shouldn't say this on the show,

1160
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: because I should. I never have said, or do you

1161
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 1: raise your booty? Like?

1162
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 2: What do you be doing?

1163
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 1: I just be looking down there. You be like doing

1164
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: like this, or doing spread like this or like this? No,

1165
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 1: I be for real. I spready my pussy fat with

1166
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 1: both hends like this. It ain't that fat. That's you

1167
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 1: you got me, that's what you be doing. I am

1168
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 1: a boy.

1169
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:52,360
Speaker 2: Your pussy is a month. I'm a boy, spooky season.

1170
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 2: I have a very my pussy fat. But it ain't

1171
01:01:58,360 --> 01:01:59,959
Speaker 2: so you do like that with two heads.

1172
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: I just pulled it apart like I do have to

1173
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 1: pull it apart like this or like this, like what

1174
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: like this or like this like I don't need all

1175
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 1: this this, it's like this, Yeah, like this. When you

1176
01:02:16,080 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 1: like this, when you open it, I'll be pulling it apart.

1177
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:28,760
Speaker 1: So yesterday I had like notice that something was missing

1178
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,480
Speaker 1: the click, No, you know what was missing?

1179
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 7: What?

1180
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 1: You know?

1181
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 7: Who?

1182
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: And I was like, when did it feel? When did

1183
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:42,600
Speaker 1: that man probably ate it? He swallowed it? Oh my god.

1184
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 7: He did.

1185
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. It was gone. And I said, I

1186
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: gotta go get another one. Oh my god, it's gone.

1187
01:02:55,440 --> 01:03:01,439
Speaker 1: And it beating up that spooky. But it's crazy because

1188
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: I asked him too, because like he did do that

1189
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 1: the other day. So I said, was he still there

1190
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 1: when you did?

1191
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 7: He?

1192
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: He said, Man, I don't know. Stop asking me that

1193
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:10,840
Speaker 1: he got mad.

1194
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 3: He probably he was probably sucking he swallowed. He was

1195
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 3: probably saving me and his pool.

1196
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 1: That is horrible. But yeah, it was gone. So I

1197
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 1: insepect my cucie all the time. Yeah do you?

1198
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1199
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 1: I do. I look at it all the time me too, yeah.

1200
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 3: Like and sometimes when I get me a real deep inspection, i'll,

1201
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 3: you know, I'll get down there with the camera somebody.

1202
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 1: You let somebody get in there. No, But I mean

1203
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 1: sometimes I be telling my man, you know, you know,

1204
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: make everything straight down there. I'll be looking in there.

1205
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 1: I'll be looking cause you know, I get waxed from

1206
01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: the rout to the tool.

1207
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. So I need to make

1208
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 4: sure I ain't got no ingrown all that good stuff.

1209
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: Will he be in there. I'll be telling him to

1210
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:56,000
Speaker 1: help me out in between appointments, help me out. Sometimes

1211
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:58,360
Speaker 1: you might need a little little one inspection.

1212
01:03:58,960 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 3: You know.

1213
01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 2: I think it's very concerning when people don't want to

1214
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 2: have sex with the lights on.

1215
01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:07,640
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I need to see I knew to see

1216
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 3: what's going on. I'll be but I'm not only be

1217
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 3: that fat nappy sure timing. I expect my man sometimes

1218
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 3: just to make sure everything's straight enough.

1219
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 1: Okay, more Mortika, Pugsy and Wednesday is listening. Oh I'm sorry, y'all. Y'all,

1220
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 1: daddy had a fat nappy.

1221
01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 3: But yes, inspect your genitals, inspect your partner's genitals, and

1222
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 3: never do anything you don't want to do.

1223
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:41,640
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Speaker 4: All right, So now it's time to get into the.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Drea, what you're listening to? You want me to

1245
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Speaker 1: go birds?

1246
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 3: I cannot remember if I made this my bot before

1247
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:58,880
Speaker 3: or not. I don't think I have, but y'all know

1248
01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 3: I love me some Marios. I feel like we don't

1249
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 3: give her her flowers enough. I know I love Tala too.

1250
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 3: I know everybody's on a Tala wave, but I just

1251
01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:11,160
Speaker 3: feel like, you know, she always be doing her big

1252
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 3: one and she has a song called Pina Colada with

1253
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 3: black and it's fire. I love her voice, it's so

1254
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 3: smooth and sultry. I just feel like she is a

1255
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 3: absolute superstar. I say this all the time, and I

1256
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 3: hate when they compare her and Tyler because it's like

1257
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,000
Speaker 3: we can have more than one superstar. Tala is amazing.

1258
01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:31,840
Speaker 3: She's a superstar. She is a force to be reckoning with.

1259
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,800
Speaker 3: And so is Ariya Star. You don't have to choose

1260
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:37,040
Speaker 3: either or so. I don't like the comparisons with them too,

1261
01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 3: But I am a Aria Star stand. I think she's

1262
01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 3: absolutely amazing. And yeah, that's my Bopa the Week. Oh

1263
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 3: and another person is on it, this is London, so yeah,

1264
01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 3: that's my BOPA week. Shout out to Aria Star, we

1265
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 3: love you.

1266
01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:52,400
Speaker 2: I feel like I haven't had a Drake song in

1267
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 2: a long time. I used to always have to it,

1268
01:06:57,320 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 2: but I feel like I haven't had one a long time.

1269
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 2: So Circadian Rhythm by Drake This is my song.

1270
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:05,400
Speaker 1: I really like this song. I think it's a good song.

1271
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 1: It's cute. Vibe into it in my car.

1272
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 2: But y'all know, I'm a little bit of a Drake's

1273
01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 2: thing coming out with music like that.

1274
01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 1: Let the the he had to let the.

1275
01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:22,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, that had a die down, which is I think

1276
01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 3: he about to come out with a definitely five. Drake

1277
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:27,480
Speaker 3: is gonna make us dance and we're about to forget

1278
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:30,520
Speaker 3: all about this ship, like nobody cares. Not saying nobody

1279
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:31,880
Speaker 3: cares like it was an amazing song.

1280
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 1: They not like us as fire. But what I'm saying is,

1281
01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:37,560
Speaker 1: you know, the song did exactly what Kendrick said it

1282
01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 1: was gonna do.

1283
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 2: We about to be on a boat in Santorini, summer five,

1284
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 2: dancing Drake not worried about this ship.

1285
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 1: That's what it is.

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01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 3: So yeah, shout out to the item of the week

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Speaker 3: one more time, Bone Queisha cousin. It has on the

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01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 3: hair fing Queen's wig. This is a very nice quality hair, y'all.

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Speaker 3: It is a beautiful, beautiful week. So y'all be asking

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Speaker 3: beautiful great here that I have on. I actually borrowed

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Speaker 3: this from bone Creek Week, So go to hair feeing queens.

1292
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Speaker 3: I'll tag her below and yeah, get y'all a little

1293
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Speaker 3: glueless unit at.

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Speaker 1: That's right, quek week ChIL period pool. All right, what's

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Speaker 1: up y'all at your girl XP and it's sugarl dry

1296
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Speaker 1: and the call.

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Speaker 3: Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called

1298
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 3: Item of the Week. But do you have a product

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Speaker 3: or something that you want to promote and you want

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Speaker 3: it featured on Poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: Your opportunity is here, period.

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Speaker 2: If you have an item or you have a business

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Speaker 1: enjoyed our costumes. Did you like it? It was?

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Speaker 2: It's been great. Uncle Fesster is like festering. He needs

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Speaker 2: to go home. I think he a little drunk. However, though,

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Speaker 2: what's up y'all? As your girl likex P and it's

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Speaker 2: your girl draining the call And we have a.

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Speaker 1: Very exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're

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Speaker 2: gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to bell

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Speaker 4: Yes, y'all ask us for so much.

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Speaker 3: has grown into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna

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Speaker 3: have a lot of fun still over here at poor Chronicles.

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Speaker 4: So make sure y'all tune in September.

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Speaker 1: Second it's going down. Stay tuned.

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Speaker 2: Now, what's time to get into our favorite segment of

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Speaker 2: the show, which is pour your heart out. So you know,

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Speaker 2: if you have any questions, if you have any testimony,

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Speaker 2: you'll send them to ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 2: That's ask he O. You are in my IDs at

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Speaker 2: gmail dot com.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you want me to go? You want to go? Okay, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. Ok This is okay.

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Speaker 2: Hey, poor friends, my name is Seannie, and I need

1358
01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:39,479
Speaker 2: to hear how delusional I am from strangers. I recently

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01:11:39,560 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 2: caught my man with two women in his bed. He

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01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:44,320
Speaker 2: ended up being a hole miss with me bursting out

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01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 2: in his bedroom, bursting out his bedroom window, and seeing

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01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:51,200
Speaker 2: the females with my own eyes. He claims they were

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01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:53,320
Speaker 2: all having drinks and the women were too drunk to

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Speaker 2: drive home, so he offered his bed and.

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Speaker 1: He slept on the couch.

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Speaker 2: After a few days of me asking like a scorpio cycle,

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01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:03,960
Speaker 2: we finally stopped arguing. He has been stuck to me

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01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:06,880
Speaker 2: like glue for weeks, even falling asleep on the phone

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01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:09,599
Speaker 2: with me every night and actually being a good man.

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Speaker 2: He knows I'm a tip for tap person, so I'm

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01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:14,800
Speaker 2: sure he's staying close so I don't get my leak back.

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Speaker 1: Why.

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01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:17,479
Speaker 2: I'm at a point in my life that I don't

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01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 2: want to bring in another person as a high high.

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01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:24,040
Speaker 2: So what I have been doing is when I get angry,

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01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 2: I get aggressive hold on wait, I get aggressively turned

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Speaker 2: on to where in place of reaching out to another man,

1378
01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:34,960
Speaker 2: I have been mentally treating him like he's my side

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01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:38,160
Speaker 2: nigga and taking it, taking all of my frustrations out

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Speaker 2: on him sexually.

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Speaker 1: He is enjoying you too much and thinks I'm over

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Speaker 1: the situation.

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01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:47,479
Speaker 2: I told him I turn off emotions when I have

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Speaker 2: sex with him and role play in my mind that

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Speaker 2: I'm sleeping with a different version of him, the street

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Speaker 2: version he was when we started day nine years ago.

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Speaker 2: I made him get tested so I know he is clean,

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01:12:59,200 --> 01:13:01,360
Speaker 2: but I am stoopid. But am I stupid for even

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Speaker 2: dating with him at all?

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Speaker 1: Not?

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Speaker 2: First of all, dating for nine years is crazy as

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Speaker 2: far as our relationship. I am one foot at the door.

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Speaker 2: But I don't want to throw away the nine years

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Speaker 2: and don't know what I should do.

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Speaker 1: What would you do? In my case? We just talked

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Speaker 1: about this.

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Speaker 3: First of all, I think I would need a little

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01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:21,360
Speaker 3: more details because who were these women or these somebody

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Speaker 3: that you knew, like some female friends that he has,

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01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:28,719
Speaker 3: or girls that are his sisters, you know, whatever. And again,

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Speaker 3: if she walked in the house and she's seen the

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Speaker 3: girls in the bed and he was on the couch,

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Speaker 3: I mean, was he lying or not?

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01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 1: Like I don't know. It wasn't a lot of context.

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01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:40,800
Speaker 3: But I just think when situations like that happen, I

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01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 3: don't know why men do the things that they do.

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01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 1: Because if that's the.

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01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:47,879
Speaker 3: Case, why didn't you just say, hey, babe, my homegirls

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01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:50,120
Speaker 3: are over here. They're drunk, they can't drop home. I'm

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01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:51,960
Speaker 3: just letting you know that they're sleeping in my bed.

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01:13:52,479 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 3: You know, you can come over here, or can I

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01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:55,840
Speaker 3: come stay the night with you? It's just so many

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01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 3: ways to get around that. So I feel like, again,

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01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 3: like we were saying, she's obviously unhappy because you're doing

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01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 3: things that you wouldn't normally do with him. You're taking

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01:14:05,200 --> 01:14:07,479
Speaker 3: your anger out, you're imagining you, and you're doing all

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01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 3: these things that seem not necessarily unhealthy, but it's you're

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01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:13,560
Speaker 3: not happy. So I think what you need to do

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01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 3: is kind of take a step back, and maybe you

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01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:20,599
Speaker 3: need to ask yourself what do you want? I think

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Speaker 3: nine years is a long time to be with somebody, Like,

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Speaker 3: what is your what is your endgoal with him? I

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01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:26,560
Speaker 3: think you need to ask yourself that where do you

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01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:29,640
Speaker 3: see this relationship going? Because nine years with somebody and

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01:14:29,720 --> 01:14:31,720
Speaker 3: they can't even give you the decency to call you

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Speaker 3: and let you know, hey, babe, this is what's going on.

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01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:37,320
Speaker 3: I don't want you to feel uncomfortable. I know you

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01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 3: come to my house and announced sometimes, so just in

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01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 3: case you come over here, this is what's going on.

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Speaker 3: So I just feel like it's just a respect factor,

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01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:46,400
Speaker 3: and you can't be with somebody you cannot trust. I

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01:14:46,439 --> 01:14:48,120
Speaker 3: don't care how much you love somebody, If you don't

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01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:52,479
Speaker 3: have trust, that's nothing. You cannot even be friends with

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01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:53,559
Speaker 3: somebody you don't trust.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting a little time. Yeah, absolutely not. I agree

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01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:05,360
Speaker 1: with you. If I can't trust you, I'm gonna shoot you.

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01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 1: Damn Watka Jesus.

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01:15:14,400 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 3: Okay, Heydrea and lex I found your podcasts and have

1439
01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:20,920
Speaker 3: been hooked ever since. I even ventured off and watched

1440
01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 3: other podcasts you two were featured on. In one of

1441
01:15:23,520 --> 01:15:27,000
Speaker 3: the podcasts, the topic of changing your mindset upgrading your

1442
01:15:27,040 --> 01:15:29,680
Speaker 3: mentality within the dating world came up. How did you

1443
01:15:29,800 --> 01:15:31,360
Speaker 3: do it? What helped you get to the point you

1444
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:33,600
Speaker 3: are at now? Thank you for giving your insight. You

1445
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:36,599
Speaker 3: both are truly healing those who didn't know they were broken.

1446
01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:46,120
Speaker 1: Tired. I'm tired tired. I was tired. I was tired

1447
01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:47,559
Speaker 1: of dating the same type of men.

1448
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:51,400
Speaker 2: I felt like I had to switch up the type

1449
01:15:51,439 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 2: of men that I was dating because I felt like

1450
01:15:53,320 --> 01:15:55,360
Speaker 2: if I kept dating the same type of men, I

1451
01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:57,720
Speaker 2: was gonna keep eating the same type of results. Like

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01:15:57,840 --> 01:16:01,120
Speaker 2: I needed to try something different, And that's what I did,

1453
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:07,439
Speaker 2: because I was tired. When I say something different, I

1454
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:13,880
Speaker 2: mean as far as like he's very attentive. He's a

1455
01:16:13,920 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 2: little more emotionally intelligent.

1456
01:16:16,720 --> 01:16:21,840
Speaker 1: But don't now. I think when it comes to like,

1457
01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 1: if you want a successful man, I think successful all

1458
01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 1: successful men be having a lot of work to do.

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01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 2: Oh, of course you're not gonna find when it's like

1460
01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:33,840
Speaker 2: all the way hill because I think to end up

1461
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 2: getting to that point in life, yousion, they don't work

1462
01:16:42,200 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 2: on themselves a lot of work, right, what were we

1463
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:48,720
Speaker 2: talking about earlier, But it was something specific that we

1464
01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:50,800
Speaker 2: were talking about. But I just feel like they be

1465
01:16:50,920 --> 01:16:53,640
Speaker 2: having to like overlook a lot of sheep, They be

1466
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:57,839
Speaker 2: having to play a role, they be having to finesse.

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01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 2: I think it's hard to find a successful man who

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01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:02,480
Speaker 2: ain't a little.

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01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:05,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll say this for me.

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01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:07,840
Speaker 2: So it depends on what type of man you're trying

1471
01:17:07,840 --> 01:17:10,600
Speaker 2: to date, too, Like, if you want a man that's successful,

1472
01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 2: you to me, gotta understand that he gonna come with

1473
01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:14,559
Speaker 2: some trauma.

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01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:17,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, they're honestly, a lot of.

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01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 3: Men have that anyway, Yeah, because I taught how to

1476
01:17:22,400 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 3: channel their feelings. In general, successful or not, so a

1477
01:17:25,920 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 3: lot of these people. It's a lot of broken people

1478
01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 3: out here in general, especially in the black community. So

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01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:34,439
Speaker 3: with that being said, I think the biggest thing is

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01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:37,760
Speaker 3: finding somebody who's open minded and you can say, hey,

1481
01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:40,880
Speaker 3: what you're doing right now and the way you're communicating

1482
01:17:40,960 --> 01:17:43,000
Speaker 3: isn't healthy, and instead of them getting mad and upset,

1483
01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 3: they're open to talking about it, and they're open to

1484
01:17:45,160 --> 01:17:47,799
Speaker 3: understanding and they're gonna try to work on themselves.

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01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:50,840
Speaker 4: And honestly, for me, I just wanted somebody who.

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01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:57,439
Speaker 3: Was fucking nice, like a sweet, genuine, thoughtful man. A

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01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:59,320
Speaker 3: lot of times, like a lot of times, men be,

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01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 3: niggas be and I got tired of dealing with a

1489
01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 3: mean nigga, like he mad, or he upset, he don't

1490
01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:06,960
Speaker 3: want to talk to me, he cursed me, or whatever

1491
01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:09,280
Speaker 3: we getting into it. I wanted somebody who could be

1492
01:18:09,400 --> 01:18:11,320
Speaker 3: soft with me and like it's the same thing.

1493
01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:12,160
Speaker 1: I got tired.

1494
01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:15,040
Speaker 3: We're gonna have a disagreement, but I need somebody who

1495
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 3: could be soft with me and we can have a

1496
01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:20,040
Speaker 3: conversation without it being if we get into it, it

1497
01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:23,719
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that it's like a toxic relationship and we're fighting.

1498
01:18:23,840 --> 01:18:25,680
Speaker 3: Like we have a disagreement and we talk about it,

1499
01:18:25,800 --> 01:18:28,320
Speaker 3: we discuss it, you know, we go our separate way.

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01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:29,840
Speaker 3: Maybe a day or two that we don't talk, but

1501
01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:32,160
Speaker 3: we take our space and we come back and ain't like,

1502
01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 3: oh I'm mad, I'm finna go outside.

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01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:35,960
Speaker 1: My nigga made me mad. It ain't none of that.

1504
01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:37,559
Speaker 1: So I think you just have to.

1505
01:18:37,560 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 3: Get tired of getting treated a certain way, and you

1506
01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:43,120
Speaker 3: have to understand what you value. You know, like I

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01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:46,000
Speaker 3: wanted somebody who was ambitious, somebody who is successful, somebody

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01:18:46,040 --> 01:18:48,040
Speaker 3: who was driven, but also somebody who wants to work

1509
01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:51,720
Speaker 3: on their emotional intelligence, their communications. So it's a lot

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01:18:51,760 --> 01:18:55,559
Speaker 3: of things that I used to value that really doesn't

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01:18:55,600 --> 01:18:56,639
Speaker 3: make a person valuable.

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01:18:57,240 --> 01:18:58,640
Speaker 4: So I think you just kind of have.

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01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:01,320
Speaker 1: To get tired of the bullshit that you're going through.

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01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:02,880
Speaker 3: I think we can both say that we just got

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01:19:02,960 --> 01:19:04,720
Speaker 3: tired of the type of niggas we were dealing with,

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Speaker 3: and we were like, you know what, let me.

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Speaker 1: Think outside the box. Date outside. I mean, I want

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01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:09,639
Speaker 1: to be happy.

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01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:12,560
Speaker 2: Happiness is like when I think about the things that

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01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:15,160
Speaker 2: are most important to me on my checklist of like

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01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:20,479
Speaker 2: a relationship for me, happiness is number one fact I

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01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:22,360
Speaker 2: have to be happy. I have to All of the

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01:19:22,439 --> 01:19:24,200
Speaker 2: other things are going to fall in line, all of

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01:19:24,240 --> 01:19:26,360
Speaker 2: the other things are going to come into play like

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01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:29,040
Speaker 2: it's a giving. At this point in my life, I'm

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01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:31,640
Speaker 2: not gonna date a man that's not successful. I'm not

1527
01:19:31,720 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 2: going to date a man that doesn't have certain qualifications.

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01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:39,400
Speaker 2: But I want to be happy. Do you make me happy?

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01:19:39,600 --> 01:19:41,880
Speaker 2: Are we happy most of the time? Do we have

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01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:45,080
Speaker 2: a good relationship? Do we get along when we're around

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01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:45,479
Speaker 2: each other?

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01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:47,520
Speaker 1: Is it peaceful? Is it blissful?

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01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:53,400
Speaker 2: That's important to me. Today's episode also has taught me something.

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01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:59,800
Speaker 2: You have a very beautiful head. Well, no that's not,

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01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 2: but I think you would look cute with a short haircut.

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01:20:03,200 --> 01:20:07,000
Speaker 1: Is what hair? Well you had a short haircut before

1537
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:09,080
Speaker 1: because you have a nice head. Thank you.

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01:20:09,439 --> 01:20:10,879
Speaker 4: I mean my hair doesn't grow anymore.

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01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:13,439
Speaker 1: So this is this is what it is now. This

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01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 1: is my truth. But I can pull it off. No

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01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:20,120
Speaker 1: you can't. This is my skins. I can pull it off.

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01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:24,400
Speaker 1: I'm scratching my head. Don't Why would you tell me

1543
01:20:24,520 --> 01:20:25,559
Speaker 1: don't if I can't.

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01:20:27,840 --> 01:20:29,600
Speaker 3: I mean, I just feel so free ever since I

1545
01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:34,280
Speaker 3: shaved my head. Live in my life like it's cold,

1546
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:36,720
Speaker 3: Like when I'm riding my car and I put my

1547
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:39,160
Speaker 3: top down and the wind is just blowing on my

1548
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:43,519
Speaker 3: smooth scalp I just feel free and I'm just glad

1549
01:20:43,560 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 3: to be here.

1550
01:20:44,560 --> 01:20:46,200
Speaker 1: You know, they say you a different type of battery.

1551
01:20:46,240 --> 01:20:50,519
Speaker 1: If you can shave your head. You didn't though you

1552
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 1: mad you got that meat head. It's a little wrinkle.

1553
01:20:56,960 --> 01:20:59,840
Speaker 1: I ain't want to. I don't don't know. I mean

1554
01:20:59,880 --> 01:21:04,639
Speaker 1: I yes, thank you. And your eyes is black.

1555
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:08,679
Speaker 3: I just didn't sleep last night. But this is my natural.

1556
01:21:09,760 --> 01:21:10,800
Speaker 3: This is my natural face.

1557
01:21:10,840 --> 01:21:11,519
Speaker 1: This is who I am.

1558
01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:14,479
Speaker 4: So if you don't accept me, when I.

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01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:18,600
Speaker 1: No, I accept I don't have lashes on you do have.

1560
01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:22,880
Speaker 2: But what the thing is, I'm accepting you, but if

1561
01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:25,320
Speaker 2: you're talking about you, you got dark around.

1562
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:26,960
Speaker 4: Your eyes because it is No, it's not.

1563
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:30,560
Speaker 1: But I'm wondering why it's so dark. I had a

1564
01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: long night, Mortika, But this is my natural. I mean

1565
01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:37,280
Speaker 1: you my uncle, So you ease a little old.

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01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:39,479
Speaker 8: You.

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01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:44,640
Speaker 1: Oh you were like Adon. We don't need her by me.

1568
01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:46,920
Speaker 8: No, this is not.

1569
01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:51,200
Speaker 1: Close the show out. This is my sister. Okay.

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01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:56,800
Speaker 2: Well, anyways, make sure y'all subscribe support minds pou are

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Speaker 2: E's underscore in Instagram and The Call with three Follow

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Speaker 2: just Yeah follow Poor Minds. Follow us on Patreon. We

1581
01:22:36,640 --> 01:22:41,839
Speaker 2: drop new episodes every Monday. Poor Chronicles drops every Monday,

1582
01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:45,240
Speaker 2: and then we also drop the early episodes of Poor

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01:22:45,320 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 2: Minds on Wednesday.

1584
01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:50,120
Speaker 1: Her mouth open to she really for that?

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01:22:50,640 --> 01:22:53,479
Speaker 3: Me and y'all make sure y'all follow lovelex P. It

1586
01:22:53,560 --> 01:22:57,599
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01:22:58,120 --> 01:23:01,280
Speaker 3: So YouTube dot com slash Love. I hope y'all enjoyed

1588
01:23:01,320 --> 01:23:03,160
Speaker 3: the Halloween episode.

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01:23:02,840 --> 01:23:09,040
Speaker 2: And when Collection dot com Yes, A S B A

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Speaker 2: Gray and the Cold.

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1594
01:23:22,200 --> 01:23:23,720
Speaker 3: that good stuff. And let me say this before we

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01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:27,800
Speaker 3: close out, y'all, there is one Twitter account that is

1596
01:23:27,880 --> 01:23:31,760
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1597
01:23:32,240 --> 01:23:35,879
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1598
01:23:36,200 --> 01:23:38,720
Speaker 3: If you see at poor minds with no underscore, that.

1599
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:40,719
Speaker 1: Is at fake page. Do not follow that page.

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Speaker 3: Okay, they block me Andrea and the poor Minds page

1601
01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:49,280
Speaker 3: on both. So we only have one Instagram, one Twitter,

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01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:53,519
Speaker 3: one TikTok and it's p o. You are underscore in.

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Speaker 1: My nds all right, and we gotta hell a fake

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1605
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Speaker 1: is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of file.

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Speaker 3: So if you're on face, the one that's hours got

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Speaker 3: the least amount.

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01:24:07,520 --> 01:24:09,880
Speaker 1: Of file, but one that's not us got like two

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Speaker 1: hundred and fifty.

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Speaker 3: Make if you actually look at the content because the

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Speaker 3: capture is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because

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Speaker 3: their captures.

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Speaker 1: Are like bumba claude? Should men? Should men pay bill?

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01:24:21,520 --> 01:24:22,880
Speaker 1: Should men pay bill? Yes?

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01:24:23,000 --> 01:24:23,040
Speaker 8: No?

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01:24:24,320 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 3: Check answer below block block Polly, Like.

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01:24:29,439 --> 01:24:31,720
Speaker 1: That's literally what the captions. I'm like, you want what

1618
01:24:31,880 --> 01:24:35,560
Speaker 1: that DG is? Bumba claude, Bamba claude? Where is that?

1619
01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:36,840
Speaker 1: You better fucking thing?

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01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:42,920
Speaker 8: Without you, baby, I feel worthless. I'm living on the edge.

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01:24:46,080 --> 01:24:50,599
Speaker 8: It's been an hour since shoe being gun and that's

1622
01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:52,760
Speaker 8: too long, so come back home.

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01:24:53,840 --> 01:24:59,320
Speaker 1: I can't live with so I'll cried.

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01:25:00,320 --> 01:25:07,880
Speaker 8: You do anything that I can to feel the touch

1625
01:25:08,200 --> 01:25:09,400
Speaker 8: come from your hand.

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01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:17,160
Speaker 1: Sorry that I want you? Lady? What can I do?

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01:25:18,200 --> 01:25:18,439
Speaker 7: You know?

1628
01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:29,280
Speaker 1: You'reverything I do? Who do what you want me to?

1629
01:25:30,720 --> 01:25:31,400
Speaker 8: I would do?

1630
01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:44,479
Speaker 1: Get on my knees for you? Oh? What else is

1631
01:25:44,640 --> 01:25:53,840
Speaker 1: there to do? But I'll cry, baby, I.

1632
01:25:55,680 --> 01:25:59,360
Speaker 8: Will cry for you to.

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01:26:02,160 --> 01:26:24,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh cryd for you to know tonight. Oh

1634
01:26:25,439 --> 01:26:30,360
Speaker 1: you want me girl like a child when you're not here.

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01:26:30,920 --> 01:26:34,360
Speaker 1: I can't even. That's my mommy, y'all. I can't see.

1636
01:26:37,320 --> 01:26:46,760
Speaker 1: My mind is always. It's amazing what you do me

1637
01:26:47,040 --> 01:26:48,519
Speaker 1: falling in love with you.

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01:26:50,040 --> 01:26:50,360
Speaker 8: Girl?

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01:26:50,760 --> 01:27:05,479
Speaker 1: You are that. I know where else can I go? Who? Yeah, Auntie?

1640
01:27:06,360 --> 01:27:07,599
Speaker 1: Do you want?

1641
01:27:11,880 --> 01:27:12,439
Speaker 3: I will do?

1642
01:27:13,240 --> 01:27:24,519
Speaker 1: I will do a monny Ooh yeah? What else is daty?

1643
01:27:26,640 --> 01:27:46,360
Speaker 1: You don't know? He know? But lady, craft for you? Okay, okay,

1644
01:27:46,479 --> 01:27:53,080
Speaker 1: I got it, I got aunty. I will craft for.

1645
01:27:55,280 --> 01:27:59,679
Speaker 8: Soon soon.

1646
01:28:05,920 --> 01:28:15,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I said, hold on Festa, help me morticle please.

1647
01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:19,280
Speaker 1: Times my pillow gets so wet with I don't know.

1648
01:28:20,000 --> 01:28:21,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'll cry.

1649
01:28:27,160 --> 01:28:38,080
Speaker 8: Hey, yeah, he amy, I hear you on y'all. Mayby

1650
01:28:38,200 --> 01:28:43,720
Speaker 8: you're began, baby, I'm begging, begging, baby, Baby, I'm began, baby.

1651
01:28:43,520 --> 01:28:44,679
Speaker 1: I'm begging, begging.

1652
01:28:44,800 --> 01:28:50,240
Speaker 8: Festa best Megan Festo, I'm begging began, Festa fist and

1653
01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:51,040
Speaker 8: we're begging.

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01:28:51,400 --> 01:28:58,760
Speaker 1: That's so, we're begging. We're begging faster, we're begging best it.

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01:28:58,920 --> 01:29:03,240
Speaker 8: We're begging fast. We're back bag and faster, feester, we're

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01:29:03,320 --> 01:29:04,080
Speaker 8: back in faster.

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01:29:04,320 --> 01:29:12,599
Speaker 1: We're backing bag and Fasthera, Hello, all right, I'll see

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01:29:12,600 --> 01:29:16,200
Speaker 1: you all at dinner. Harry. Halloween