WEBVTT - EP. 22 " Flewed Out 101" 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:07.080 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:15.480 talk back. You know Spanish. That's it, little bit old 0:00:15.520 --> 0:00:18.480 like coming to y'all. Miss me, y'alla a j too, 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:23.760 mooey picknyo. What's very little? You know me? Very little? 0:00:24.000 --> 0:00:30.159 I know very little? Standish. Hey, y'all stand down, and 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.120 it's a j And we welcome you back to a 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:37.800 new episode of We Talk Back with your Besties. And 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:41.120 you know, the world is opening back up and bitches 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:44.239 just getting on planes, and we just want to talk 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:48.839 to y'all about getting flute out. Yeah, we got we 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:51.360 need to talk to women about the what's the world 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:58.040 about the proper fluid out etiquette because y'all got the 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:00.520 game fund up. I see 'all here. But before we 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:02.920 get into that, so we can school these bitches, how 0:01:03.000 --> 0:01:11.119 is your weekend? I got flut out whatever. I went 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:15.120 to poota kinda over the weekend. It was closed though, 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:18.400 like they have like a quarantine situation going on and 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:22.720 just restarted, so like nothing was open, closed were clothes like, 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:26.360 So we didn't do nothing. But like the beach was open, 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:28.360 was it hot? Was the weather? Oh no, the weather 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:30.160 was all right. So it was kind of like cloudy 0:01:30.240 --> 0:01:33.520 the first day, but the next two days it was beautiful, 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:35.560 So it was nice. I mean, I enjoyed. I got 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:37.920 to just relax, which is probably what I needed instead 0:01:37.920 --> 0:01:40.520 of too much turn up. I've seen you, girl, I 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:49.560 see girl. I ate a real carbon and at least 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:53.600 forty five days at this point. Well, I just had something. 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:56.440 So there is that poet what carbs your head? That 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.240 damn chocolate and the freezing. I got the sugar free 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:03.600 ships in the cloud. Look, I don't want to eat 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:05.800 it last night because I still was faster, but I 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:09.359 said it's nice. Right, that was good. I need the 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:12.200 sugar out. I have a crackhead when it comes to sugar. 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:14.320 Me too. That's why I had the bottles. If y'all 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:18.000 are addicted to sugar like me, Russell Stovers has like 0:02:18.160 --> 0:02:23.200 sugar free recy cups and sugar free turtles. Yeah yeah, man, 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:25.400 I'm she was hit. I ain't touch your turtles now, 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:27.000 but I didn't eat one those recy cups. It was 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:30.640 good though, but you can only eat one, That's what 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:32.679 I'm saying. Like I feel like I'll keep eating them. Yeah, 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:35.280 you have the ships because they sugar free. Anything sugar 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:37.840 free you eat too many. You're gonna be do doing? Really? 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:42.240 Give me two more? Yeah, I learned the hardware. This 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:47.000 is not a nice laxative to me. What about your weekend? Um, 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:49.080 I didn't do much this weekend. I went to Florida 0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:51.720 last weekend, last week anyway, but I ain't do much 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:55.359 this weekend. Cool hum, and figure out what the funk 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:58.880 we're gonna do for this week. Try to learn some stuff. 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.720 Anybody out there who know how to use premiere and 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:03.960 final cut all that bullshit, you want to be an 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:06.360 intern for our show? Look, hit us up, please, bitch. 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:12.359 We need fucking help. Okay, we need you. Appreciate its left. 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:13.960 For the most part, it was chilling the whole weekend. 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:16.160 I mean literally Saturday, I didn't get out of the 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:19.360 house of like five o'clock and it started pouring down, raining, 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:22.400 so that the whole weekend it was raining. Crazy. Well 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:26.680 I did, I had the phone for you, Thank you 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:30.440 any time. So let's squeeze in and ask a black 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:39.000 friend question. So this week Ask a Black Friend comes 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:42.280 from a listener by the name of Juel came in 0:03:42.400 --> 0:03:46.240 via Instagram and she says, Hi, my name is Juel, 0:03:46.320 --> 0:03:49.160 and I have and ask a black friend question, why 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:52.880 do black girls act as if they own every hair style? 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:56.840 I mean black women wear blonde here, That's what she said, bitch. 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:00.760 I mean black women were blonde here all the time. 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:05.800 You guys straighten your hair and by here too. I 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:09.720 recently went on vacation and got boxer braids. Car Rolls 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:13.000 is what you got, and I got so many hateful 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:16.240 comments on social media for them. I have seen this 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:18.919 happen to other white women before as well, and I 0:04:18.920 --> 0:04:21.520 think it's just so unfair. I was writing just to 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:24.400 see what you guys think about it. I love the show. 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:28.400 By the way, Thanks, hey Jule, thanks for writing. In 0:04:29.320 --> 0:04:35.640 first and foremost second, we do on every hairstyle. We 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:38.000 literally can do everything with our hair. You know, we 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:42.440 can do everything with our hair. Um. I really don't 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:44.480 give a funk how you wear your hair. Honestly, I 0:04:44.520 --> 0:04:46.080 would never be one of those people in a in 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:49.039 a white woman's comments talking about her hair hair. I 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:52.000 don't care. As long as you didn't braik your hair 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:57.599 down and then put black face on, We're cool. It's 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.600 the black face for me exactly. So yeah, and first 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:03.919 of all, they're just corn row. Uh, They're not to 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:09.120 be used with actual corn. I've seen that, well, you 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:12.479 know what in slavery, here's some here's some you know, 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:16.360 little education for you jewel. They would hide rice and 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:20.320 bits of corn inside the braids that you call boxer 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:24.920 braids to have food to eat when they're trying to 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:29.640 sneak away from slavery. So until you put some corn 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:32.040 and rice in that thing. But I've seen a bit 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:35.720 put in corn and they dare in corn rows. A 0:05:35.800 --> 0:05:40.479 black white lady and corn in the corn room because 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:43.520 they're corn rows. So she just wanted corner, and that 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:46.559 corn goes in the corn row. And they're just called 0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:51.719 box braids, not they're calling the boxer braids because that's 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:54.560 how boxers where they're here when they box boxers. Okay, 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:57.440 so they're box braise because of how you part the hair. 0:05:58.000 --> 0:06:01.000 That's the box braids is like the long plaids. But 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:04.560 the boxer braids aren't what we call corn rows. But 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:09.160 here's the thing. Boxer braids are usually small French braids 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:11.360 because they don't know how to do an actual corn room. 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:18.159 Hey listen, so where you're here, how the fun you 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:20.120 want to wear it. I'm not here to judge you 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:24.640 for it. I will wear, we've I will wear. But 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:27.200 I used to wear blonde hair for years until I 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:29.320 win black. I'm like, you know, this looks really classic. 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:31.640 What the fund am I doing? But blonde hair? Can? 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:34.360 Black people do have blonde hair? So when you say that, like, 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:39.719 that's totally incorrect. Exactly. Black people come in all shapes, forms, sizes, 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:43.240 hair texture. You got curly hair, blonde head, red hair 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:48.560 black people like seriously, so that doesn't necessarily apply, right, 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:51.720 But girl, do your thing. Boxer braids your ship up, bitch, 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:55.279 we don't care. Thank you for listening, though, we love 0:06:55.320 --> 0:07:00.240 you so for this week and stupid Internet new is 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:02.880 not calling them stupid though. Did you see Eric Amina 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:05.640 in Safari and how the beef in? Oh? Yeah, man, 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:08.640 that's a sad, sad situation. I get some type of 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:13.880 energy from Safari that he is insecure about who he married. 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:16.320 The world may never know, but what we do know 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:20.680 is that he wants to be present in the the 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:23.880 delivery room when she's delivering their child, and he went 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:26.760 to a judge about it. How do you feel about that? 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:31.480 Should he be allowed to be present because he's the father? Absolutely, 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:33.800 especially if he wants to be president do you know 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:36.760 how many women would love for their kids father to 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:42.200 be president in any like capacity? But shouldn't um the 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:45.360 delivery room be a space of love? The energy should 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:47.840 be all pleasant energy for the mother who's bringing this 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:50.800 into the earth. You know, why wouldn't you want her 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:53.320 to be in the most beautiful space. Yes, if you're 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:55.840 bringing her something or maybe he needs to change whatever 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:57.960 it is that he's doing to make her feel more 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.920 comfortable and more in time. To have him there for 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:04.760 the birth and going to the judge is not well, 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:06.880 you got to bring the white man into everything. Yeah. 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:09.680 I just maybe it's just that serious because maybe he's like, 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:11.600 I'm the father, so I should be their type shit, 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:14.080 And she's like, no, I don't want you there, And 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:16.240 I feel like, yes, the woman is giving birth, and 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:19.080 if this person causes you that much mental anguish, maybe 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:21.200 they shouldn't be there. Right. That's how I feel like, 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:23.560 if if I can't be at peace, I don't want 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:26.320 to know Nigga like standing over me like, yeah, bitch, 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:29.160 push my baby. I'll use stupid dumb bitch. You know. 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:32.000 You know he's already trying to take custody right the 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:34.560 other daughter, So it's like, I'm literally pushing out his 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:37.840 child child. I gotta fight him about these kids now, right, 0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:40.240 So it's just kind of unfair to her as a mom. 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:43.280 I feel like, and I don't feel like a judge 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:46.720 should be able to decide who's there for me to 0:08:46.800 --> 0:08:49.319 bring life on earth. I don't like because I don't care. 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:52.439 You know what I'm doing. You know there's we can't 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:56.800 make babies without being that's the truth. But Nigga, you 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:59.640 can't push this baby into the world like nothing. You 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:01.920 can't do that. I gotta do it. I don't know 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:06.640 what it need. You need to kiss, Yeah, that's what 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:08.439 he needs to do. And I don't think a judge 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:09.960 I don't like again, I don't like the government of 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:12.000 my fucking business, and I don't think the judge can 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:14.560 even force something like that. I don't know. We're gonna 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:18.040 see in a minute here, but I hope not because 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:24.240 that just seems very um man. He just seems kind 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:27.440 of toxic nowadays. For some reason. He's always the first 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.760 to run to the internet when they're having problems, but 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:32.120 not then when they're splitting up, like you don't know 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:33.439 if you're gonna work it out or not. Now you 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:35.600 look crazy because you don't put hair in the media 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:38.880 that you're no longer together. You're getting back and forth. Yeah, like, 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:43.160 keep be dumb bitches in private, please until you're ready 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:44.920 to not be a dumb bitch anymore. And you know what, 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:47.880 it ain't necessarily we are, Like any relationship goes through 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:50.080 those highs and lows and ups and downs and breakups 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:51.920 and stay together. You break up at least six times 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:54.640 before you really break up, you know, for real, but 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:56.840 just don't share it with the social media. Like the 0:09:56.880 --> 0:09:59.360 world don't need to know unless you found a way 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:02.439 to monitorze it. Don't tell the world. And now she's 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:04.360 about to be back on Love and Hip Hop. I 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:11.920 thought she said that's for broke people. Exactly about back 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:14.560 the Hometown Homies is supposed to be on Loving hip Hop. 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:17.600 We're gonna see Renny Roucie's How do you feel about that? 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:19.920 Do you feel like she would be a good cast member? 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:21.960 I do. I know she's probably gonna beat a bit 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:23.959 up on that, though. I feel like I feel like 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:26.080 you could have to beat a bit up on their dang. 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:30.520 I hope, yeah, I hope it catapults her career like 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:32.280 it did for card b. It don't work like that 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:34.559 for everybody's else. It doesn't. It can be like a 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:39.400 like a bad woman. Yeah yeah, destroy your career or 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:42.080 make it. You'll just be a reality TV star and 0:10:42.120 --> 0:10:45.439 that's it they see, and nobody want to hear your music. 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:47.640 And that's as far as you go. But Renny makes 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:50.080 good music. She makes great music. I hate the fact 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:52.680 that her Mulatto was be feeling back and forth because 0:10:52.679 --> 0:10:55.079 I think both of them are great rap artists and 0:10:55.120 --> 0:10:59.640 maybe they could come together. Women right, because they both 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:03.480 malt of right, Melotto, change her damn name, big Lotto, 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:06.880 big really big Lotto. Why y'all both can't be beat together? 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:12.280 Really beat her up? And we don't want them to fight. 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:15.880 We want them to come together. Nobody's gonna beat nobody. Listen, y'all. 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:18.160 First of all, it's coming from a bitch who religiously 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:22.000 watched fight videos on Instagram. That's my guilty pleasure. Why 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:29.320 are you telling about I also watched pimple popping videos? 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:32.680 What does that mean? Watch them? What people be popping 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.120 on the coochie like hair bumps? You don't watch that? 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:37.960 I don't know. I haven't seen the coochie ones you 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:40.000 don't see the Clinton none of that bow now, but 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:43.559 you know, you know have the hair bumps. Man, you 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:46.160 should see something living on the top of some girls 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:49.680 vagina right, Like you know, you use too many oils 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:53.800 and people use near they're really closedpores. So this ship 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:57.839 was coming out looking like a little warm. I love 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:00.960 pimple popping videos. Hey guys, it's trying to make some 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.520 bill payments real quick. We'll be back in a second, 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:11.240 all right. So you know we were just talking about 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:15.400 Eric Amina and Safari. Don't you know, it's a whole 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:20.760 hashtag going on. It's like trending on Twitter. In Father's Day? 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:23.040 Is it in Father's day? Home? You makes Sean saying 0:12:23.080 --> 0:12:27.520 exactly what it is? Yeah, and father's days in no 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:34.600 father's then yes? To get rid of the uh societal patriarchy, Yeah, 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:41.800 norms of patriarchy and families? What the if you didn't 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:46.760 have a daddy? Just say that I love my daddy 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:49.120 me too, Like what's wrong with y'all? Like I want 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:51.880 to take my daddy a bottle of do say um 0:12:52.000 --> 0:13:01.160 this beat y'all, beat you. I love mrs Probably give 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:05.120 you that NIGGD. Listen, my daddy wife is as old 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:08.200 as my older sister. So my older sisters, I don't 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:11.240 know them bitches like forty between forty threety five. No, 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:16.080 yeah they might. My daddy is seventy. His wife isn't 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:21.720 her daddy? Yeah? But no, never in Father's Day life. 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.080 I just think it's a bunch of trolls just trying 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.920 to get people riled up. Nobody really wants to end 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:30.280 Father's Day. You know. I looked it up and that's 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:33.160 that's exactly what's going on. It's like a group of 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:37.079 people who just create confusion basically, and then you'll still 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:39.760 have like the regular person who picks up on it 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:45.280 and actually uses this some mom who is the mother 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:48.480 and the father. I'm the mother and the father was 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:51.520 seeing the people who was using the hashtag are more 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:55.880 so than more fluid? O? Your fluid community wanting to 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:58.160 get rid of men? Are they the fluid community? And 0:13:58.200 --> 0:13:59.800 what would it? Because our girl, I don't know what 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.559 call it's so many different communities now, I can't keep 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:06.520 up with y'all. Can't be men. I'm sorry. Yeah, I 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:08.679 don't want to get into that conversation, but yeah, I 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:11.360 love men, and I love fathers, and I love good 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:15.240 fathers so and we love your daddy's too. But all right, 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:17.280 this is to the women, and I know and I 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:21.320 love y'all, and I know y'all hurting and women who 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:23.640 are saying that I am the mother and the father 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:27.320 on Father's Day, you are not the father. In the 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:30.280 words of Marie, you are not the father that you 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:33.440 are at a phenomenal mother. You do it all by yourself. 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:35.120 I commend you, I pet you on the back. I 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:37.680 want to give your flowers, but on Mother's Day is 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.240 when I give it to you, not on Father's Day. 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:43.640 So Happy Father's Day to all the fathers, to all 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:46.080 the fathers out there, Happy Father's Day. We ain't gonna 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:53.040 eat y'all. Yeah, now, speaking of one in Father's Day? 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:55.280 What's up with the women? I want to take their 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:58.120 husband's last name. I feel like if the man that 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:02.000 you're with, you're not proud to be with him, because 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:03.280 I feel like that's what it is. When you take 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:05.240 a man's last name, you marry them, they give you 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:07.520 the rain, you go through the whole whatever, whatever it's tradition, 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:10.440 you should be proud to take that man's last name. 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:14.720 You know what if his last name is like but 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:20.800 or something like a J. Butts, I don't want that 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:24.400 last name. Now I might hyphenate it. Now I'm with 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:28.840 that hyphenate. So did you see that post where the 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:31.400 girl was saying she would not give if she's not 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:35.200 married right and has a baby for someone, she's not 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:40.480 giving the child the father's last name, and if she's 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:43.440 even if she's married, she's not like obligated to take 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:45.600 the man's last name or something up to that effect. 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:50.840 I can understand both perspectives, honestly, because let's say I 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:53.880 have a child with a man and we decide that 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:56.160 we're not going to be together, there's nothing gonna happen 0:15:56.240 --> 0:16:00.240 between us, and then I give my baby his last name. 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:03.000 And then I meet somebody who do love me and 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:04.920 want to be with me, and we get married and 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:08.960 have kids. Now I got kids with one last name. 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:12.040 We got all me. The other baby and the husband 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.160 have this last name, and then this other child has 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:17.240 this man's last name. Nothing always change the child's last name, 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:21.520 because what's the girl eva? Um? Yeah, she yeah, But 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:24.040 the father has to sign off on that, do they? 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:27.680 I don't. I doubt the hell that she that guy 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:29.880 was putting her through. I doubt that he signed signed 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:33.920 off on her child like he didn't show up the court. Possible, 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:35.560 but I had to look at the laws on that. 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:38.920 But you have women out here, out here like refusing 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:42.480 to take on the man that they chose last name. 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:44.800 I just feel like, if you're not proud of them, 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:47.480 then just married him and you for the more. You 0:16:47.520 --> 0:16:50.480 should not be having children with somebody one of his 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:54.600 last name is cunt liquor. Shut up, you already said, butts, bitch, 0:16:59.120 --> 0:17:07.720 can't I can't be Tamala cunt liquor, Tamla mclovin. No, actually, 0:17:07.800 --> 0:17:15.399 mclovin isn't that bad? Then? What if you got six 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:21.720 baby daddies? Now? This is Tek Jones, this is Ashley Taylor, 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:29.199 this is Mustafa. You got all baby If you do, 0:17:29.280 --> 0:17:31.200 why can't they all come from you? Why you can't 0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:33.639 give them all your name? You couldn't, and I mean, 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:36.240 I guess for legal purposes if that, if you aren't 0:17:36.240 --> 0:17:39.520 married like you, I mean, especially if the person isn't 0:17:39.520 --> 0:17:42.400 about to be in your child's life, do I need 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:45.200 to carry on your last name? Maybe not so much. 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:49.480 But we have women saying, even if they're married, like 0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:52.240 they don't want the nigga last name, Like, that's weird 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:56.000 to me. I want my nigga last night. I can't 0:17:56.000 --> 0:17:57.560 wait to get rid of that. I can't wait to 0:17:57.640 --> 0:18:05.320 be tamalabaka. You threw that in there, you better put 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:12.480 it in there. Put it in the universe. Well, let's 0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:17.520 get into today's topic. We're talking about getting fluid out period. 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:20.199 So there was a post that went out. It was 0:18:20.200 --> 0:18:23.280 like on share room or something. So old girl, a 0:18:23.320 --> 0:18:25.640 guy she had been talking to, she had been sexting 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:30.879 with and having FaceTime sex. He bought her plane ticket 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:33.199 in a room to visit him, and then once she 0:18:33.280 --> 0:18:35.680 got there, he was like, what's up. I'm about ready 0:18:35.720 --> 0:18:37.560 to pull up on you, and she's like you want 0:18:37.560 --> 0:18:41.639 to do what? He's like, I'm trying to pull up 0:18:41.680 --> 0:18:43.480 on you and trying to see you. She's like, I 0:18:43.480 --> 0:18:47.040 don't want to have sex, you know, I just I 0:18:47.080 --> 0:18:49.760 don't see me tonight. I can possibly see you tomorrow, 0:18:49.800 --> 0:18:51.360 but I'll let you know right now. I don't want 0:18:51.359 --> 0:18:54.520 to have sex. And he just was like, what the 0:18:54.560 --> 0:18:57.960 fucking means? Did you know why I flew you out? 0:19:00.359 --> 0:19:02.440 So he's like, nah, fuck you, I'm about to cancel 0:19:02.520 --> 0:19:06.040 your room and I'm gonna cancel your flight, and she 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:07.879 was like, no, police, don't do that. I don't have 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:09.639 no money. I don't have no where. She tried to 0:19:09.640 --> 0:19:11.880 start calling his phone. Right, the man had been trying 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:14.680 to reach you, Right, you weren't answering any face times 0:19:14.760 --> 0:19:16.679 or phone calls. But now you're calling him when he 0:19:16.720 --> 0:19:19.200 talked about pulling that check on your ass. But rule 0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:24.760 number one, don't go nowhere without no money. That is 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:27.040 rule number one to getting fluid out. I don't know 0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:30.960 who raised your hosts, right, don't. First of all, you don't. 0:19:31.000 --> 0:19:33.240 My mama told me not to go nowhere. Don't leave 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:36.320 a house without money, right and clean under where you're going. 0:19:37.720 --> 0:19:40.720 You're going somewhere out in your community. You need to 0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:44.560 have some money in your pocket. Don't go nowhere empty handed. Um. 0:19:44.840 --> 0:19:48.879 Rule number two, when the niggabook you a ticket, called 0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:51.080 the airline and put security on that ship, he can't 0:19:51.119 --> 0:19:57.920 cancel that uh right, bit he needs a security call 0:19:58.000 --> 0:20:01.879 to cancel your ship or or furthermore, I have booked 0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:04.679 my own ship and got reimbursed immediately tell if you 0:20:04.680 --> 0:20:06.479 want to use the point of your credit card, so 0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:09.760 book your book your hotel room, yourself, book your flight 0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:11.919 and get the money back. Now, if you're dealing with 0:20:11.960 --> 0:20:14.439 somebody that you are afraid they won't give you the 0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:16.400 money back, you still can always just cancel the ship, 0:20:16.800 --> 0:20:19.320 right regardless, so or get the money off fronting the 0:20:19.440 --> 0:20:21.320 book it, or don't book in and keep the money, 0:20:21.560 --> 0:20:23.920 whichever you want to do. But just don't ever play 0:20:23.960 --> 0:20:26.120 yourself like that, and don't play with these men like 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:29.200 you had already been conversating with this man, like, let's 0:20:29.280 --> 0:20:32.040 let's forget the text, right, because I believe this happens, right, 0:20:32.960 --> 0:20:36.400 the audacity like of a man to assume you fucking 0:20:36.560 --> 0:20:39.600 right understand that part you have been You gave him 0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:46.200 the idea, yeah, like you had been sexing him, sexting him, um, 0:20:46.240 --> 0:20:49.280 talking about sex, sending pictures and ship like that, and 0:20:49.320 --> 0:20:52.119 now he don't flew flew your ass out somewhere and 0:20:52.359 --> 0:20:54.760 you acting like you don't understand what the assignment is 0:20:55.320 --> 0:20:57.399 that pussy for a real nigga, right, that's why you 0:20:57.440 --> 0:21:00.639 sent you the ticket. Me personally, I'm not only nowhere, 0:21:00.680 --> 0:21:02.480 I'm not flying to no nigga. I don't want to 0:21:02.520 --> 0:21:05.440 suck me neither. I'm not no, so I don't fly 0:21:05.680 --> 0:21:09.560 nowhere to any man that I wouldn't fuck right there 0:21:09.560 --> 0:21:13.280 you go, that's right, Sam, that I wouldn't. You could 0:21:13.320 --> 0:21:15.360 do something to keep you from getting this busy, right 0:21:15.400 --> 0:21:20.000 for sure. But the potential for you to get something 0:21:20.280 --> 0:21:22.920 is there. If I got on the plane to see you. Now, 0:21:23.520 --> 0:21:27.640 if I feel out myself, yeah, I might not even 0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:29.880 see a bit your ass, Like that's a trip I'm 0:21:29.920 --> 0:21:32.640 just going on, right, Yeah. I feel like she may 0:21:32.680 --> 0:21:36.320 have had somebody else. Yeah. Now the first night, she 0:21:36.480 --> 0:21:40.040 was like, um, as midnight, I'm just getting to the 0:21:40.080 --> 0:21:42.840 hotel and flew in late whatever. I understand that. And 0:21:42.920 --> 0:21:45.520 she wants to rest because flying and all that traveling. 0:21:45.560 --> 0:21:50.160 Really now, you gotta entertain the niggat midnight. I understand 0:21:50.200 --> 0:21:52.080 that part. But he was like, okay, cool, yeah, get 0:21:52.119 --> 0:21:54.480 your rest. I could come in the morning. And she 0:21:54.640 --> 0:21:58.200 was like how like like as friends, right, what you're 0:21:58.280 --> 0:22:00.960 doing too much? You going to play that card once 0:22:01.000 --> 0:22:05.439 he got there. You could have even played the period 0:22:05.520 --> 0:22:07.560 came on on the flight card or something. I don't know, 0:22:07.640 --> 0:22:10.280 but you ain't. Have you played it wrong? I was 0:22:10.320 --> 0:22:12.800 thinking maybe her period was on and she was afraid 0:22:12.840 --> 0:22:17.119 to tell him, you know, because I feel like, yeah, women. 0:22:17.440 --> 0:22:20.840 Men think that they're obligated to women's pussy. Man, they 0:22:20.840 --> 0:22:23.239 don't even take into consideration periods and ship like that, 0:22:23.760 --> 0:22:27.040 Like we literally plan our life around period, right, like 0:22:27.200 --> 0:22:29.520 we want to take a trip, birthday coming up, like 0:22:29.600 --> 0:22:31.960 whatever it is, we gotta look at the calendar and 0:22:32.040 --> 0:22:35.920 see when our period could possibly be on. So sometimes 0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:37.879 it might pop up on your early Maybe she didn't know, 0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:39.800 maybe the period started and she just didn't know how 0:22:39.840 --> 0:22:41.960 to tell him. Hey, like you know, because niggas think 0:22:42.000 --> 0:22:50.520