1 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who 2 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: talk back. You know Spanish. That's it, little bit old 3 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: like coming to y'all. Miss me, y'alla a j too, 4 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 1: mooey picknyo. What's very little? You know me? Very little? 5 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:30,159 Speaker 1: I know very little? Standish. Hey, y'all stand down, and 6 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: it's a j And we welcome you back to a 7 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: new episode of We Talk Back with your Besties. And 8 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: you know, the world is opening back up and bitches 9 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 1: just getting on planes, and we just want to talk 10 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: to y'all about getting flute out. Yeah, we got we 11 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: need to talk to women about the what's the world 12 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: about the proper fluid out etiquette because y'all got the 13 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: game fund up. I see 'all here. But before we 14 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: get into that, so we can school these bitches, how 15 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 1: is your weekend? I got flut out whatever. I went 16 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: to poota kinda over the weekend. It was closed though, 17 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: like they have like a quarantine situation going on and 18 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: just restarted, so like nothing was open, closed were clothes like, 19 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: So we didn't do nothing. But like the beach was open, 20 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: was it hot? Was the weather? Oh no, the weather 21 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: was all right. So it was kind of like cloudy 22 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: the first day, but the next two days it was beautiful, 23 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: So it was nice. I mean, I enjoyed. I got 24 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: to just relax, which is probably what I needed instead 25 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: of too much turn up. I've seen you, girl, I 26 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: see girl. I ate a real carbon and at least 27 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: forty five days at this point. Well, I just had something. 28 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: So there is that poet what carbs your head? That 29 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: damn chocolate and the freezing. I got the sugar free 30 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: ships in the cloud. Look, I don't want to eat 31 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: it last night because I still was faster, but I 32 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: said it's nice. Right, that was good. I need the 33 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: sugar out. I have a crackhead when it comes to sugar. 34 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: Me too. That's why I had the bottles. If y'all 35 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: are addicted to sugar like me, Russell Stovers has like 36 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: sugar free recy cups and sugar free turtles. Yeah yeah, man, 37 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: I'm she was hit. I ain't touch your turtles now, 38 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: but I didn't eat one those recy cups. It was 39 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: good though, but you can only eat one, That's what 40 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:32,679 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like I feel like I'll keep eating them. Yeah, 41 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: you have the ships because they sugar free. Anything sugar 42 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: free you eat too many. You're gonna be do doing? Really? 43 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: Give me two more? Yeah, I learned the hardware. This 44 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: is not a nice laxative to me. What about your weekend? Um, 45 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: I didn't do much this weekend. I went to Florida 46 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: last weekend, last week anyway, but I ain't do much 47 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 1: this weekend. Cool hum, and figure out what the funk 48 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: we're gonna do for this week. Try to learn some stuff. 49 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: Anybody out there who know how to use premiere and 50 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: final cut all that bullshit, you want to be an 51 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 1: intern for our show? Look, hit us up, please, bitch. 52 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 1: We need fucking help. Okay, we need you. Appreciate its left. 53 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: For the most part, it was chilling the whole weekend. 54 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: I mean literally Saturday, I didn't get out of the 55 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: house of like five o'clock and it started pouring down, raining, 56 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: so that the whole weekend it was raining. Crazy. Well 57 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: I did, I had the phone for you, Thank you 58 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: any time. So let's squeeze in and ask a black 59 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: friend question. So this week Ask a Black Friend comes 60 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: from a listener by the name of Juel came in 61 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: via Instagram and she says, Hi, my name is Juel, 62 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: and I have and ask a black friend question, why 63 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: do black girls act as if they own every hair style? 64 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 1: I mean black women wear blonde here, That's what she said, bitch. 65 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: I mean black women were blonde here all the time. 66 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: You guys straighten your hair and by here too. I 67 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: recently went on vacation and got boxer braids. Car Rolls 68 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: is what you got, and I got so many hateful 69 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: comments on social media for them. I have seen this 70 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: happen to other white women before as well, and I 71 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: think it's just so unfair. I was writing just to 72 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: see what you guys think about it. I love the show. 73 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: By the way, Thanks, hey Jule, thanks for writing. In 74 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: first and foremost second, we do on every hairstyle. We 75 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: literally can do everything with our hair. You know, we 76 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: can do everything with our hair. Um. I really don't 77 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 1: give a funk how you wear your hair. Honestly, I 78 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: would never be one of those people in a in 79 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,039 Speaker 1: a white woman's comments talking about her hair hair. I 80 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: don't care. As long as you didn't braik your hair 81 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 1: down and then put black face on, We're cool. It's 82 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: the black face for me exactly. So yeah, and first 83 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 1: of all, they're just corn row. Uh, They're not to 84 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: be used with actual corn. I've seen that, well, you 85 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 1: know what in slavery, here's some here's some you know, 86 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: little education for you jewel. They would hide rice and 87 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: bits of corn inside the braids that you call boxer 88 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: braids to have food to eat when they're trying to 89 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: sneak away from slavery. So until you put some corn 90 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 1: and rice in that thing. But I've seen a bit 91 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 1: put in corn and they dare in corn rows. A 92 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 1: black white lady and corn in the corn room because 93 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: they're corn rows. So she just wanted corner, and that 94 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,559 Speaker 1: corn goes in the corn row. And they're just called 95 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 1: box braids, not they're calling the boxer braids because that's 96 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: how boxers where they're here when they box boxers. Okay, 97 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: so they're box braise because of how you part the hair. 98 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: That's the box braids is like the long plaids. But 99 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: the boxer braids aren't what we call corn rows. But 100 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 1: here's the thing. Boxer braids are usually small French braids 101 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 1: because they don't know how to do an actual corn room. 102 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 1: Hey listen, so where you're here, how the fun you 103 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: want to wear it. I'm not here to judge you 104 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: for it. I will wear, we've I will wear. But 105 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: I used to wear blonde hair for years until I 106 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: win black. I'm like, you know, this looks really classic. 107 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: What the fund am I doing? But blonde hair? Can? 108 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: Black people do have blonde hair? So when you say that, like, 109 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 1: that's totally incorrect. Exactly. Black people come in all shapes, forms, sizes, 110 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: hair texture. You got curly hair, blonde head, red hair 111 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: black people like seriously, so that doesn't necessarily apply, right, 112 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 1: But girl, do your thing. Boxer braids your ship up, bitch, 113 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 1: we don't care. Thank you for listening, though, we love 114 00:06:55,320 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: you so for this week and stupid Internet new is 115 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 1: not calling them stupid though. Did you see Eric Amina 116 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: in Safari and how the beef in? Oh? Yeah, man, 117 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: that's a sad, sad situation. I get some type of 118 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: energy from Safari that he is insecure about who he married. 119 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: The world may never know, but what we do know 120 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: is that he wants to be present in the the 121 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: delivery room when she's delivering their child, and he went 122 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: to a judge about it. How do you feel about that? 123 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: Should he be allowed to be present because he's the father? Absolutely, 124 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: especially if he wants to be president do you know 125 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: how many women would love for their kids father to 126 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: be president in any like capacity? But shouldn't um the 127 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: delivery room be a space of love? The energy should 128 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: be all pleasant energy for the mother who's bringing this 129 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: into the earth. You know, why wouldn't you want her 130 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: to be in the most beautiful space. Yes, if you're 131 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: bringing her something or maybe he needs to change whatever 132 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: it is that he's doing to make her feel more 133 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: comfortable and more in time. To have him there for 134 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: the birth and going to the judge is not well, 135 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: you got to bring the white man into everything. Yeah. 136 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: I just maybe it's just that serious because maybe he's like, 137 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: I'm the father, so I should be their type shit, 138 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: And she's like, no, I don't want you there, And 139 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: I feel like, yes, the woman is giving birth, and 140 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: if this person causes you that much mental anguish, maybe 141 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: they shouldn't be there. Right. That's how I feel like, 142 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: if if I can't be at peace, I don't want 143 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: to know Nigga like standing over me like, yeah, bitch, 144 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: push my baby. I'll use stupid dumb bitch. You know. 145 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: You know he's already trying to take custody right the 146 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: other daughter, So it's like, I'm literally pushing out his 147 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: child child. I gotta fight him about these kids now, right, 148 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: So it's just kind of unfair to her as a mom. 149 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: I feel like, and I don't feel like a judge 150 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 1: should be able to decide who's there for me to 151 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,319 Speaker 1: bring life on earth. I don't like because I don't care. 152 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: You know what I'm doing. You know there's we can't 153 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: make babies without being that's the truth. But Nigga, you 154 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: can't push this baby into the world like nothing. You 155 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: can't do that. I gotta do it. I don't know 156 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: what it need. You need to kiss, Yeah, that's what 157 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,439 Speaker 1: he needs to do. And I don't think a judge 158 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 1: I don't like again, I don't like the government of 159 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: my fucking business, and I don't think the judge can 160 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: even force something like that. I don't know. We're gonna 161 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: see in a minute here, but I hope not because 162 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 1: that just seems very um man. He just seems kind 163 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: of toxic nowadays. For some reason. He's always the first 164 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: to run to the internet when they're having problems, but 165 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: not then when they're splitting up, like you don't know 166 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 1: if you're gonna work it out or not. Now you 167 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: look crazy because you don't put hair in the media 168 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 1: that you're no longer together. You're getting back and forth. Yeah, like, 169 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: keep be dumb bitches in private, please until you're ready 170 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: to not be a dumb bitch anymore. And you know what, 171 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: it ain't necessarily we are, Like any relationship goes through 172 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: those highs and lows and ups and downs and breakups 173 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: and stay together. You break up at least six times 174 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: before you really break up, you know, for real, but 175 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 1: just don't share it with the social media. Like the 176 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: world don't need to know unless you found a way 177 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 1: to monitorze it. Don't tell the world. And now she's 178 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: about to be back on Love and Hip Hop. I 179 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: thought she said that's for broke people. Exactly about back 180 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: the Hometown Homies is supposed to be on Loving hip Hop. 181 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: We're gonna see Renny Roucie's How do you feel about that? 182 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 1: Do you feel like she would be a good cast member? 183 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 1: I do. I know she's probably gonna beat a bit 184 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 1: up on that, though. I feel like I feel like 185 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: you could have to beat a bit up on their dang. 186 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: I hope, yeah, I hope it catapults her career like 187 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 1: it did for card b. It don't work like that 188 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:34,559 Speaker 1: for everybody's else. It doesn't. It can be like a 189 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: like a bad woman. Yeah yeah, destroy your career or 190 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: make it. You'll just be a reality TV star and 191 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 1: that's it they see, and nobody want to hear your music. 192 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: And that's as far as you go. But Renny makes 193 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 1: good music. She makes great music. I hate the fact 194 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: that her Mulatto was be feeling back and forth because 195 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,079 Speaker 1: I think both of them are great rap artists and 196 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: maybe they could come together. Women right, because they both 197 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: malt of right, Melotto, change her damn name, big Lotto, 198 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: big really big Lotto. Why y'all both can't be beat together? 199 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 1: Really beat her up? And we don't want them to fight. 200 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 1: We want them to come together. Nobody's gonna beat nobody. Listen, y'all. 201 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: First of all, it's coming from a bitch who religiously 202 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: watched fight videos on Instagram. That's my guilty pleasure. Why 203 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 1: are you telling about I also watched pimple popping videos? 204 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 1: What does that mean? Watch them? What people be popping 205 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: on the coochie like hair bumps? You don't watch that? 206 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. I haven't seen the coochie ones you 207 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: don't see the Clinton none of that bow now, but 208 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 1: you know, you know have the hair bumps. Man, you 209 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: should see something living on the top of some girls 210 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 1: vagina right, Like you know, you use too many oils 211 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: and people use near they're really closedpores. So this ship 212 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 1: was coming out looking like a little warm. I love 213 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 1: pimple popping videos. Hey guys, it's trying to make some 214 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: bill payments real quick. We'll be back in a second, 215 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: all right. So you know we were just talking about 216 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: Eric Amina and Safari. Don't you know, it's a whole 217 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: hashtag going on. It's like trending on Twitter. In Father's Day? 218 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 1: Is it in Father's day? Home? You makes Sean saying 219 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: exactly what it is? Yeah, and father's days in no 220 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 1: father's then yes? To get rid of the uh societal patriarchy, Yeah, 221 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: norms of patriarchy and families? What the if you didn't 222 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: have a daddy? Just say that I love my daddy 223 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: me too, Like what's wrong with y'all? Like I want 224 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: to take my daddy a bottle of do say um 225 00:12:52,000 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: this beat y'all, beat you. I love mrs Probably give 226 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 1: you that NIGGD. Listen, my daddy wife is as old 227 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 1: as my older sister. So my older sisters, I don't 228 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: know them bitches like forty between forty threety five. No, 229 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 1: yeah they might. My daddy is seventy. His wife isn't 230 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 1: her daddy? Yeah? But no, never in Father's Day life. 231 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,080 Speaker 1: I just think it's a bunch of trolls just trying 232 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 1: to get people riled up. Nobody really wants to end 233 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: Father's Day. You know. I looked it up and that's 234 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 1: that's exactly what's going on. It's like a group of 235 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:37,079 Speaker 1: people who just create confusion basically, and then you'll still 236 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: have like the regular person who picks up on it 237 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: and actually uses this some mom who is the mother 238 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: and the father. I'm the mother and the father was 239 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: seeing the people who was using the hashtag are more 240 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: so than more fluid? O? Your fluid community wanting to 241 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 1: get rid of men? Are they the fluid community? And 242 00:13:58,200 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: what would it? Because our girl, I don't know what 243 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 1: call it's so many different communities now, I can't keep 244 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: up with y'all. Can't be men. I'm sorry. Yeah, I 245 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: don't want to get into that conversation, but yeah, I 246 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 1: love men, and I love fathers, and I love good 247 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 1: fathers so and we love your daddy's too. But all right, 248 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: this is to the women, and I know and I 249 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: love y'all, and I know y'all hurting and women who 250 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: are saying that I am the mother and the father 251 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 1: on Father's Day, you are not the father. In the 252 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 1: words of Marie, you are not the father that you 253 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: are at a phenomenal mother. You do it all by yourself. 254 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: I commend you, I pet you on the back. I 255 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: want to give your flowers, but on Mother's Day is 256 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: when I give it to you, not on Father's Day. 257 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 1: So Happy Father's Day to all the fathers, to all 258 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: the fathers out there, Happy Father's Day. We ain't gonna 259 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 1: eat y'all. Yeah, now, speaking of one in Father's Day? 260 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: What's up with the women? I want to take their 261 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: husband's last name. I feel like if the man that 262 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: you're with, you're not proud to be with him, because 263 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: I feel like that's what it is. When you take 264 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: a man's last name, you marry them, they give you 265 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: the rain, you go through the whole whatever, whatever it's tradition, 266 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: you should be proud to take that man's last name. 267 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: You know what if his last name is like but 268 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: or something like a J. Butts, I don't want that 269 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: last name. Now I might hyphenate it. Now I'm with 270 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: that hyphenate. So did you see that post where the 271 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 1: girl was saying she would not give if she's not 272 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: married right and has a baby for someone, she's not 273 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 1: giving the child the father's last name, and if she's 274 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 1: even if she's married, she's not like obligated to take 275 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 1: the man's last name or something up to that effect. 276 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: I can understand both perspectives, honestly, because let's say I 277 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 1: have a child with a man and we decide that 278 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 1: we're not going to be together, there's nothing gonna happen 279 00:15:56,240 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: between us, and then I give my baby his last name. 280 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: And then I meet somebody who do love me and 281 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 1: want to be with me, and we get married and 282 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: have kids. Now I got kids with one last name. 283 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 1: We got all me. The other baby and the husband 284 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 1: have this last name, and then this other child has 285 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: this man's last name. Nothing always change the child's last name, 286 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: because what's the girl eva? Um? Yeah, she yeah, But 287 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: the father has to sign off on that, do they? 288 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 1: I don't. I doubt the hell that she that guy 289 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 1: was putting her through. I doubt that he signed signed 290 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 1: off on her child like he didn't show up the court. Possible, 291 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: but I had to look at the laws on that. 292 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: But you have women out here, out here like refusing 293 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 1: to take on the man that they chose last name. 294 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 1: I just feel like, if you're not proud of them, 295 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 1: then just married him and you for the more. You 296 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: should not be having children with somebody one of his 297 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 1: last name is cunt liquor. Shut up, you already said, butts, bitch, 298 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: can't I can't be Tamala cunt liquor, Tamla mclovin. No, actually, 299 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 1: mclovin isn't that bad? Then? What if you got six 300 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:21,720 Speaker 1: baby daddies? Now? This is Tek Jones, this is Ashley Taylor, 301 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:29,199 Speaker 1: this is Mustafa. You got all baby If you do, 302 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 1: why can't they all come from you? Why you can't 303 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,639 Speaker 1: give them all your name? You couldn't, and I mean, 304 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: I guess for legal purposes if that, if you aren't 305 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 1: married like you, I mean, especially if the person isn't 306 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: about to be in your child's life, do I need 307 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 1: to carry on your last name? Maybe not so much. 308 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: But we have women saying, even if they're married, like 309 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 1: they don't want the nigga last name, Like, that's weird 310 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: to me. I want my nigga last night. I can't 311 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 1: wait to get rid of that. I can't wait to 312 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: be tamalabaka. You threw that in there, you better put 313 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 1: it in there. Put it in the universe. Well, let's 314 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 1: get into today's topic. We're talking about getting fluid out period. 315 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:20,199 Speaker 1: So there was a post that went out. It was 316 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: like on share room or something. So old girl, a 317 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:25,640 Speaker 1: guy she had been talking to, she had been sexting 318 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 1: with and having FaceTime sex. He bought her plane ticket 319 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,199 Speaker 1: in a room to visit him, and then once she 320 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 1: got there, he was like, what's up. I'm about ready 321 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: to pull up on you, and she's like you want 322 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 1: to do what? He's like, I'm trying to pull up 323 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 1: on you and trying to see you. She's like, I 324 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 1: don't want to have sex, you know, I just I 325 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 1: don't see me tonight. I can possibly see you tomorrow, 326 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 1: but I'll let you know right now. I don't want 327 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 1: to have sex. And he just was like, what the 328 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: fucking means? Did you know why I flew you out? 329 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 1: So he's like, nah, fuck you, I'm about to cancel 330 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 1: your room and I'm gonna cancel your flight, and she 331 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 1: was like, no, police, don't do that. I don't have 332 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: no money. I don't have no where. She tried to 333 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 1: start calling his phone. Right, the man had been trying 334 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: to reach you, Right, you weren't answering any face times 335 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 1: or phone calls. But now you're calling him when he 336 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 1: talked about pulling that check on your ass. But rule 337 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: number one, don't go nowhere without no money. That is 338 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 1: rule number one to getting fluid out. I don't know 339 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 1: who raised your hosts, right, don't. First of all, you don't. 340 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: My mama told me not to go nowhere. Don't leave 341 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 1: a house without money, right and clean under where you're going. 342 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: You're going somewhere out in your community. You need to 343 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: have some money in your pocket. Don't go nowhere empty handed. Um. 344 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 1: Rule number two, when the niggabook you a ticket, called 345 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 1: the airline and put security on that ship, he can't 346 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 1: cancel that uh right, bit he needs a security call 347 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 1: to cancel your ship or or furthermore, I have booked 348 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,679 Speaker 1: my own ship and got reimbursed immediately tell if you 349 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:06,479 Speaker 1: want to use the point of your credit card, so 350 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: book your book your hotel room, yourself, book your flight 351 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:11,919 Speaker 1: and get the money back. Now, if you're dealing with 352 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 1: somebody that you are afraid they won't give you the 353 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,400 Speaker 1: money back, you still can always just cancel the ship, 354 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: right regardless, so or get the money off fronting the 355 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: book it, or don't book in and keep the money, 356 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:23,920 Speaker 1: whichever you want to do. But just don't ever play 357 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 1: yourself like that, and don't play with these men like 358 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 1: you had already been conversating with this man, like, let's 359 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: let's forget the text, right, because I believe this happens, right, 360 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 1: the audacity like of a man to assume you fucking 361 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 1: right understand that part you have been You gave him 362 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 1: the idea, yeah, like you had been sexing him, sexting him, um, 363 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 1: talking about sex, sending pictures and ship like that, and 364 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 1: now he don't flew flew your ass out somewhere and 365 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: you acting like you don't understand what the assignment is 366 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 1: that pussy for a real nigga, right, that's why you 367 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 1: sent you the ticket. Me personally, I'm not only nowhere, 368 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: I'm not flying to no nigga. I don't want to 369 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 1: suck me neither. I'm not no, so I don't fly 370 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: nowhere to any man that I wouldn't fuck right there 371 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 1: you go, that's right, Sam, that I wouldn't. You could 372 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,360 Speaker 1: do something to keep you from getting this busy, right 373 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: for sure. But the potential for you to get something 374 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 1: is there. If I got on the plane to see you. Now, 375 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 1: if I feel out myself, yeah, I might not even 376 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 1: see a bit your ass, Like that's a trip I'm 377 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 1: just going on, right, Yeah. I feel like she may 378 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: have had somebody else. Yeah. Now the first night, she 379 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: was like, um, as midnight, I'm just getting to the 380 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: hotel and flew in late whatever. I understand that. And 381 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 1: she wants to rest because flying and all that traveling. 382 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: Really now, you gotta entertain the niggat midnight. I understand 383 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 1: that part. But he was like, okay, cool, yeah, get 384 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 1: your rest. I could come in the morning. And she 385 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:58,200 Speaker 1: was like how like like as friends, right, what you're 386 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 1: doing too much? You going to play that card once 387 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 1: he got there. You could have even played the period 388 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 1: came on on the flight card or something. I don't know, 389 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 1: but you ain't. Have you played it wrong? I was 390 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: thinking maybe her period was on and she was afraid 391 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 1: to tell him, you know, because I feel like, yeah, women. 392 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 1: Men think that they're obligated to women's pussy. Man, they 393 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,239 Speaker 1: don't even take into consideration periods and ship like that, 394 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: Like we literally plan our life around period, right, like 395 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: we want to take a trip, birthday coming up, like 396 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 1: whatever it is, we gotta look at the calendar and 397 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:35,920 Speaker 1: see when our period could possibly be on. So sometimes 398 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 1: it might pop up on your early Maybe she didn't know, 399 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: maybe the period started and she just didn't know how 400 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: to tell him. Hey, like you know, because niggas think 401 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 1: that's a lie sometimes, But I thinks, now you gotta 402 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: something new, Dick, Like no, so listen, do not go 403 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 1: nowhere without your own money future. Remember the girl that's 404 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 1: how to hold Uh Yes, I'm good. Love and joy 405 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: ship started because he flew a girl out who thought 406 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: she was coming to go to the studio. This naked 407 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 1: text her like yeah, put something sexy on him, but 408 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,200 Speaker 1: I'm on the way, and she like, wait a minute, 409 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,360 Speaker 1: pump your brakes, like I didn't come here for that, right. 410 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 1: Maybe she wasn't sexting him, and maybe she didn't give 411 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: him that um idea that she was going to suck him, 412 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 1: But somehow he just had in his mind and he 413 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,879 Speaker 1: was anytime a man. So this is the thing I 414 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: feel like a man feels if he buys a plane ticket, 415 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: he's entitled to pussy that it came along with the 416 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:45,399 Speaker 1: plane ticket. They feel the same way about food, like 417 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: pussy come with food first of all, Nigga, me and 418 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 1: my friends eat like drug dealers all the time. Right, 419 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 1: you don't get this pussy by the meal. I'm sorry. Listen, 420 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: if you fly me out and you like acting all 421 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 1: thirsty as soon as I hoped off the plane, that's 422 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 1: a no pussy deal for you. Don't touch me. I'm 423 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: gonna tell you quick. Oh my god, t s A 424 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: stopped me at the gate. They told me my pussy 425 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:11,919 Speaker 1: was too bombed. I could not bring it. Look, if 426 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 1: I decide I want to funk, I'll get my friend 427 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: over here. But right now you're acting to thirsty. Don't 428 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 1: touch me. Keep your hands to yourself, relax, make me 429 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 1: want you. You know what I'm saying, Like I don't know. 430 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: I guess men men really don't think women have preference. Like, 431 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 1: just because you like me, they don't automatically mean I 432 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: like your ass. Right, just because you bought a plane 433 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,400 Speaker 1: ticket doesn't mean I'm gonna like you when I ARRIVEE. 434 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,879 Speaker 1: I wonder if there's a situation where like maybe she 435 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 1: met him on Instagram or something like that, and this 436 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 1: is their first time hanging out, you know, like I 437 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 1: don't even know you for real, aside from this conversation 438 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,679 Speaker 1: on the phone, which is the most intimate sometimes conversation 439 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:53,640 Speaker 1: talking a lot. But maybe maybe they shouldn't feel obligated 440 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,640 Speaker 1: to fuck you. I don't even know you. That they 441 00:24:56,640 --> 00:25:00,359 Speaker 1: absolutely should not be obligated feel obligated be because they 442 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: bought a plane ticket. First of all, how much is 443 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 1: a plane ticket across the country, even if you're going 444 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 1: from Miami to l A. Let's say you're going Miami, 445 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 1: Miami to Seattle, it's still not that much to entitle 446 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 1: you to my body. Men, Then you didn't flew the 447 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 1: girl out, and now you and you stink. She don't 448 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: want to fuck you. You stink. You couldn't wash your 449 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 1: balls before I got off the blairl A stink mouth, 450 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,679 Speaker 1: M teeth dirty, na. See I'm looking all in your 451 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: mouth on the face time. But you can't smell of 452 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 1: breath through the right dog but a stinking mouth. It's 453 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,360 Speaker 1: a little small, subtle ship that turning woman off. This 454 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 1: man didn't even get get to make it to the 455 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 1: hotel room. Yeah, she was wilding she could at least 456 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,080 Speaker 1: have breakfast with the dude, Like, I feel like she 457 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 1: hasked somebody else. Let's hope the bitch did because she 458 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 1: didn't have nowhere to go exactly like, but based on 459 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,640 Speaker 1: her messages back to him, it's like you flew out 460 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 1: there with no fucking money. Hey, you ain't trying to 461 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 1: give him no pussy? Right? What is your currency? My friend? 462 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: How are you How are you gonna feed yourself? Like? 463 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,879 Speaker 1: What if he only came to fun? How are you 464 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: gonna eat? How do you expect this man to hang 465 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:30,159 Speaker 1: out with you for nothing? I'm not saying you have 466 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: to give him sex, that you at least tell us 467 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:39,360 Speaker 1: some jokes, bitch, God damn, but listen, we've compiled a 468 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 1: list in which Tim kind of touched on two of 469 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 1: them already. So we got a list compiled of the 470 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 1: dudes and don't when getting flew it out, like, got 471 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,679 Speaker 1: to be more careful, all right, So we already did 472 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 1: rule number one, which is always always always have your 473 00:26:56,440 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 1: own money. Rule number two if he's if you're letting 474 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: this person book the flight for you. As soon as 475 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,199 Speaker 1: you he's seen you that flight information, you call the 476 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 1: airline and you put security on your ticket. You can 477 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 1: put a password on your ticket and you'll be the 478 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,439 Speaker 1: only one who can change or cancel your flight. It 479 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: doesn't matter whose credit card is on your name, You'll 480 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: be the only one to do it, okay. UM, So 481 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: number three, if you're booking the flight, get reimbursed in advance. Basically, 482 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: get the fucking money up front from these guys if 483 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 1: they flying you out right, you know, maybe you want, 484 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 1: maybe you don't want to give him your personal information 485 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 1: to book the flight for you. Get the money in 486 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:43,160 Speaker 1: advanced right. UM ruined them before because hold away because 487 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 1: they't that worse than paying for your own ticket and 488 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 1: getting fun and gotta fly home with a wet asks 489 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,639 Speaker 1: and no money. Never happened to me. I don't know, 490 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,640 Speaker 1: but I'm just saying I can't imagine that being nothing 491 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,919 Speaker 1: worse than that. If the flight, the day of the 492 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 1: flight comes up and you haven't gotten the money back, 493 00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 1: you should have never been going. Should cancel that ship 494 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,959 Speaker 1: in the first place if you paid for it and 495 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 1: you haven't got reimbursed yet. That's why I'm saying, get 496 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 1: the money up front, even try to get reimbursed, because 497 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,480 Speaker 1: he was like, man, I'll get the money when you 498 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:14,719 Speaker 1: get hire. No, already booked it. I sent you confirmation 499 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,159 Speaker 1: this book. Okay, I'm not trying to renig on the pussy. 500 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: Just send me the money before I get down here. 501 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:26,200 Speaker 1: Grow men, understand that number four. Make sure you know 502 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: where the funk you're gonna be staying there. Where are 503 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,199 Speaker 1: your accommodations. Don't be like I don't know where he 504 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 1: got me at. No, you need to know where you're staying, 505 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 1: and it needs to be up to part. It needs 506 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 1: to be up to your standards. So wherever you would 507 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: pay to stay at might better Actually listen if you 508 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 1: flinch when you're ask him like, hey, I want to 509 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 1: stay at the World, or maybe you should stay your 510 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: sucking ass home I don't know right, or he have 511 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 1: you on the blow up mattress at the bouncy house. 512 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 1: I think I have your ass, Like qua uh, what's 513 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: number five? Number five? Let someone know where you are. 514 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: Turn your location on, share your location with your home 515 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 1: girl or your family. Don't just go out there blind 516 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: like that. Get the nigger social security number possible right, 517 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 1: and send it to us so we can get some bags. 518 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 1: Guccis Charlotte. Right, Hey, look you've got something for you 519 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: got a couple of dollars. You know. The worst part 520 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: like when he was doing that, damn all the rights 521 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 1: and ship Nikkas was trying to sell the bags for 522 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 1: the same price at the store. If you don't quit 523 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 1: playing with me. Not that I know anyone that was 524 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: selling them, That's just what I heard, right, it was 525 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 1: only like a five pc discount. I know it was 526 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: hard work breaking into those places. That come on man, 527 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: number five's number six? Right? Did I misnumber it? Yeah? 528 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 1: Number six? Okay, don't fly out to someone you wouldn't 529 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 1: fuck for free? Right in plain that tip. What I'm 530 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 1: saying is, I mean, don't necessary don't funk for free. 531 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 1: I'm not telling you to do that, But don't fun 532 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 1: nobody for money that you wouldn't funk for free. Then 533 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: you're not at home. Simple math. The math was math 534 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 1: and real good at time. Don't fuck nobody that you 535 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: wouldn't funk for free, but don't do it for free. 536 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: Just don't do it for money, just for the money. 537 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 1: Does that make sense? No? See it the first wage? Okay, 538 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: don't funk anybody for free. I don't know. Don't funk 539 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 1: anybody that you wouldn't funk for free. Right, Basically, I'm 540 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 1: gonna suck you anyway because I like you or something 541 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 1: about you I like, right, but I'm still not doing 542 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,560 Speaker 1: it for fucking free. But but I'm not going to, 543 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 1: all right, make sure you get waxed. Don't we going 544 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 1: out there with that fucking limpball pussy, right, Clean it 545 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 1: up nice, make it pretty, make sure miss pussy. That's 546 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: what the old lady said, Keep miss pussy nice and pretty. 547 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 1: My mom will call it a money mack. Make sure 548 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 1: your fucking money mack is clean. Please, Yes, And and 549 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 1: last but not least, come with a positive attitude and 550 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: have a good time. Life is short. You know you 551 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 1: only live once. Don't be flying out nowhere acting entitled 552 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,840 Speaker 1: like somebody opened some ship because nobody owe you nothing, 553 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 1: complaining about what you didn't secure in the first place. 554 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: You need to know what the fun going on before 555 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,120 Speaker 1: you go, and just be a nice person, gonna have 556 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 1: fun and don't let nobody's ship on you. Right, literally, literally, 557 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 1: don't go out there because you know y'all be getting 558 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 1: flowed out to do big and ship piste off for 559 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 1: t I mean, if that's what you're into, just literally 560 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 1: a porter party, right, Okay? That is the eight s 561 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: E in the eight Rules to getting Fluid Out Ladies. 562 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 1: Seven eight. How many rules we've got, I don't know. 563 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that we can add some more to 564 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 1: this list, but I feel like those are the most 565 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 1: high meetings at that point. Yeah, that's the most important thing. Yes, 566 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: And just be careful, man, Just be careful and make 567 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: sure you know your surroundings. Oh yeah, pack a weapon 568 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 1: if you can, you can put it. Yeah, you can 569 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 1: definitely put a knife in your bag and the taser. 570 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: I just feel like you should stay your sucking ass home. 571 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 1: If if a nigga give you those type of vibes, 572 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 1: if you just never know, Yeah, you never know, because 573 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 1: they don't even have to be the nigga you go 574 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 1: to see. It could be somebody else out there. You 575 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 1: leaving the airport and somebody else running open and maybe 576 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: that you shouldn't be getting food out to niggas they 577 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe y'all should have some type of other encounter. 578 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,600 Speaker 1: Maybe he should fly to you first, and there's no 579 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 1: obligation for him to get because he can get his 580 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 1: own room or whatever I mean before y'all fuck like 581 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 1: meet in a in a perfect world where women just 582 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 1: not flying out the random niggas off Instagram. That's happening. 583 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,640 Speaker 1: That's what it's as getting fluid out as we speak. 584 00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 1: And on the Tuesday Spirit, Oh hell no, don't let 585 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: rule number nine. Don't let that nigga fly you on 586 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 1: the Spirit. Spirit two times in the last year. How 587 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 1: you felt you feel safe? You only can fly Spirit 588 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 1: if you're coming right back. Don't fun. Don't be trying 589 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 1: to fly Spirit like for real, I flew one way 590 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 1: Spirit and then back another airline for a vacation trip 591 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: this year and last year I flew I feel Spirit 592 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 1: just to go to Miami and come right back Spirit 593 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 1: kind of like a Greyhound in round trip same day. Yes, 594 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 1: have you coming back the same day? Would have got 595 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,360 Speaker 1: that book back? Yeah? Spirit, they got no seats, they 596 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 1: just got their things. You hold up to the stack 597 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 1: like you hold up. Hey, look, I'm not ashamed. So 598 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 1: I've been on the airline like that and your forty 599 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: five dollars. That's like Ryan Air in Europe. We used 600 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 1: to fly Ryan Air. And I promise you like you 601 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: could just stand up in the front and hold on, 602 00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 1: like you need to have to have no seat, but 603 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 1: they pissed you all every time. Just just know you 604 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,560 Speaker 1: might have to fight somebody alright. So before we get 605 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 1: into today's random sex fact, let's get these people their money. 606 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: So today's random sex fact is brought to you by 607 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 1: thrillists dot com and it's about the Mile High Club. 608 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 1: Um it says flying high makes for better orgasms. So 609 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,760 Speaker 1: it says the dipping atmospheric pressure is said to increase 610 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 1: orgasmic intensity. The higher you fly, the less oxygen is 611 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 1: in the air, you get mile hypoxia, which many believe 612 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,880 Speaker 1: leads to a better orgasm. Another very simple explanation is 613 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,839 Speaker 1: that the plane's vibrations heightened arousal. So if you're not 614 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:50,719 Speaker 1: gonna get none when you lasses get something in the air, Okay, 615 00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:57,800 Speaker 1: you ever did that before? You have everything? I have 616 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,960 Speaker 1: no listen. So this is when I was living in 617 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 1: England and my boyfriend at the time, it was Valentine's Day, 618 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: he took me to see The Lion King on like uh, 619 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 1: I guess the play, and then he bought me a 620 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 1: plane ticket home to visit my mom because I was homesick. 621 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 1: So we flew back to the States and I sucked 622 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 1: him on the plane. I couldn't wait in the bathroom 623 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 1: in our row. It was one of those massive planes 624 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,160 Speaker 1: like went with like eight seats in the middle. Was dark. 625 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 1: It was dark. It was a red Eye, and he 626 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 1: got he got some buns in some heads on the plane. 627 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,800 Speaker 1: You know what I don't like. I don't like people 628 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 1: to ask me for random head Like if we're in 629 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,359 Speaker 1: the car and they could be like, you know, trying 630 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 1: to ask me I want to get nasty. I don't. 631 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: I'm learning things about myself that I don't like niggas 632 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:56,839 Speaker 1: to ask me for. I like stuff like that. No, 633 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 1: don't ask me to suck your dick. Don't ask me, 634 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:00,879 Speaker 1: no pussy. If I want to suck your dick while 635 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,439 Speaker 1: you're driving, I'm gonna put your dick out and suck 636 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 1: your dick while you're driving. Don't be like, yeah, I 637 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: don't deserve some road head. Don't do that. Not like that. 638 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,720 Speaker 1: I don't deserve. Don't don't like. No, no, you don't. 639 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 1: But if you'd be like, why don't you give me 640 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 1: a little sloppy tuppy real quick? And then I'll get 641 00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:26,000 Speaker 1: you when we pull over. Yeah, like pull it out there, 642 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 1: We'll pull it out your mom. I would really talk 643 00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 1: about how you asked you yes, finessing me on some 644 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 1: head place. Thank you. So Look, if you guys enjoyed 645 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 1: this week's episode, please tune in every Thursday. I say 646 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:51,160 Speaker 1: this ship every Thursday. Turn and tune in every Thursday 647 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:57,880 Speaker 1: on the heart beat. You know they're better listening whenever 648 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:01,319 Speaker 1: you get your podcast at right h and you can 649 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:05,240 Speaker 1: check us out on We Talked Back podcast on Instagram. 650 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 1: I'm aj Holiday two point oh, I'm official Tam BAM 651 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 1: and we out peace