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Speaker 1: There's a there's an old school phrase that you heard

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Speaker 1: So what's the old school phrase that you want to hear?

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Speaker 1: You want it back? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: This Like whoever came up with this really did their

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Speaker 4: biggest one, Like it just hits so different when somebody

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Speaker 4: I like step back in my chair, like, you know what. Hell,

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Speaker 4: yeah for crying out loud, Like why would they do that?

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Speaker 4: And so I think we need to put a little

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Speaker 1: So you gotta start, you gotta start busting that one out.

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Speaker 1: This is a quote from the person who wrote him.

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Speaker 1: This is I'm just reading from what they said. I

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Speaker 1: was married to my ex husband for four years. I

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Speaker 1: didn't change my name when I first got married because

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Speaker 1: neither of us cared very much. I only changed it

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Speaker 1: after our daughter was born because I wanted us to

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Speaker 1: share a last name. This is It was posted on Reddit, actually,

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Speaker 1: which is where I get. You know, people think that

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Speaker 1: I do all of the preparation for the show and

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Speaker 1: the elevator on the way up, and sometimes it sounds

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Speaker 1: like it that little screen that says captivating gives me

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Speaker 1: up and like what time it is, and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: this is perfect. It is all I need. This is great.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to get in the Hall of Fame for

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Speaker 1: sure this way and then and then I do the show.

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Speaker 1: But no, it's redded. Is really the secret, It really is,

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Speaker 1: except that it can get real weird on there, so

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Speaker 1: I really can't start for the top and work my

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Speaker 1: alien topic on there this morning. There's some conspiracy theories,

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Speaker 1: so really can't use it completely. But nonetheless, this woman

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Speaker 1: explained that she and her ex husband divorced back in

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty two and the fact that she had his

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Speaker 1: last name has never been an issue. During a recent

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Speaker 1: visit to pick up her daughter from a custody visits,

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Speaker 1: she then bumped into the ex husband's new girlfriend, who

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Speaker 1: confronted her about the name change. And here's the quote,

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Speaker 1: going back to the Reddit post, she told me that

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Speaker 1: her and my ex want to get married, but the

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Speaker 1: only thing standing in the way is that I haven't

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Speaker 1: changed my last name back. The ex wife wrote about this,

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Speaker 1: so she said that essentially she needs the ex has

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Speaker 1: so that the new wife or girlfriend to be wife

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Speaker 1: would be the only one with the last name. That's

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Speaker 1: the hold up. That's not the hold up. No, no, girl,

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Speaker 1: that's not the hold up. That's not why it is.

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Speaker 1: Due is not proposing to you, because many people can

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Speaker 1: have the same last name. Yes, and in fact that

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Speaker 1: I think it's pretty common. You know, people get married,

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Speaker 1: I'm not changing my name again. That's a big pain.

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Speaker 1: My kids had the last name. We'll just keep it whatever.

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Speaker 1: You know, some people do change their last name back,

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Speaker 1: these people with the last name. Like what it is?

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Speaker 1: What it is? Well, it has nothing to do with

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Speaker 1: getting married and not getting married. No, you don't own it. No,

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Speaker 1: absolutely not. Girl. He line to you. If that's the

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Speaker 1: it would be the guy if you're taking his last name.

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Speaker 1: If he said to you, yeah, I don't know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: before you? They have children, correct, right this couple?

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Speaker 4: No, I would not have an issue with that, Like

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Speaker 4: you are the mother of his children. I can't get

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Speaker 4: rid of the kids, Like y'all are bonded forever. I mean,

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Speaker 4: it's a name, it's you were married, you did your time,

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Speaker 1: This sounds like some weird possessive this thing and control thing.

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Speaker 1: And I guess if I if I were marrying somebody

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Speaker 1: I'd be I would have issues. Wait, hold on, you don't.

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Speaker 1: We don't own people here? We don't. We can't rea

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Speaker 1: write history. Like if you want to get married, fine,

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Speaker 1: if you want to take my last name, great, but

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Speaker 1: like I'm not going to go back and undo everything

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Speaker 1: I've done before. I can't. You know, it's like people

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Speaker 1: but like, you don't control my narrative. You don't control

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Speaker 1: And then if I'm if I'm the girl and the

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Speaker 1: to propose until we get my ex to drop that name. Well,

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Speaker 1: then I'm like you, this is BS, he's reaching reaching.

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Speaker 1: What would you all agree? Are we all like a

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Speaker 5: Unless I'm changing if I'm the ex wife, I'm changing

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Speaker 5: the kids' names back to my.

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Speaker 1: Name, and then that's what my mom did. They Yeah,

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Speaker 1: then clean, sweet goodbye. But she doesn't want to change

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Speaker 1: So so she's like, I'm gonna be like, no, I'm

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Speaker 1: not doing it. I'm not doing it for you, right,

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Speaker 1: and what does it even mean? Like I was already

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Speaker 1: it with him, right, look at it, like, you can't

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Speaker 1: take that from me. Seconds someone tells me, if he

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Speaker 1: didn't care that the first wife didn't have his last name,

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Speaker 1: why does he care about the second one? Which is

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Speaker 1: why I wonder if it's her and not him, if

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Speaker 1: this is a she issue, you're nod in your head.

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Speaker 6: I feel like it's it's her, and I feel like

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Speaker 6: that's a huge red flag, Like what if something that

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Speaker 2: She cares about something that does not matter at all?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what else do we have to? What else do

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Speaker 1: we have to erase you pretend didn't happen. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm out on her. I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: You're right, you were in on her previously. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't know her, but I'm out. At one point you

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Speaker 1: were like maybe with her, but then but now yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're out. I'm moving on. We're completely out all this

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Speaker 1: marriage talk. Are you're going to have Kiki have second

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Speaker 1: thoughts and other text? Well? Oh no, girl? Are you

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Speaker 1: taking his name? Yes? On social media? On social media?

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Speaker 1: I would think that would be the one place you wouldn't.

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Speaker 4: Take Yeah, no, no, no, I'll change my Facebook. I add

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Speaker 1: But what about what about on like legal documents? I

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Speaker 1: don't have to have all that Okay, minor stuff. Deal,

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Speaker 1: we're pump faking a little bit, you know. Well he

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Speaker 1: knows it now, boy, Yeah, you know what. That's what

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Speaker 1: it says. I'm sorr. I should have read the fanatics.

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Speaker 1: It's Friday. I apologize. Yeah, I love you. So you've

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Speaker 1: been in this situation, this exact thing. Please.

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Speaker 7: So I got married in nineteen, had a kid, and

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Speaker 7: then like two years in the marriage, he went to divorce,

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Speaker 7: you know whatever. I didn't necessarily want it. But his

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Speaker 7: my last name and I said no, this is before

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Speaker 1: And I said no.

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Speaker 7: I said it's he didn't want me to have his

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Speaker 1: Period. So this woman wanted to be the only one

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Speaker 1: that had the last name, like the only like like

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Speaker 1: somehow that made her elite or something. You've already been

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Speaker 1: married to him. It happened, it's done right, Yeah, get

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Speaker 1: over it, Yeah exactly. Okay, so what we have.

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Speaker 7: We had a child with it with I had a

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Speaker 7: child with him, and I'm like, I'm not changing my

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Speaker 7: last name from my child. And then now he's on

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Speaker 7: his third wife.

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Speaker 8: Oh boy, And I kept his last name for like

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Speaker 8: ten ten ten years, and then I ended up getting

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Speaker 8: remarried and now I have a totally different last name

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Speaker 8: than any of my kids.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well it's gonna confusing now, So Tanny, I need

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna need to start drawing a map a little

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Speaker 1: bit here to see where everyone's going. We've got three husbands,

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Speaker 1: we've got two wives, we got three lives. No, it does, no,

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Speaker 1: there's no judgment. I'm just I'm just trying to make

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Speaker 1: sure we know whose last name is who's But you

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Speaker 1: didn't change your last name. She still married him and

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Speaker 1: then she took the name, and so she had to

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she had to be like, if he only wanted

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Speaker 7: one person to have his last name then he should

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Speaker 7: have thought about that before he married and we were divorced.

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Speaker 1: Me and then the second time and the third too, right, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think so.

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Speaker 7: Maybe actually, maybe try to work on your marriage before.

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Speaker 1: You just awore somebody, you know what. Maybe so, Tanya,

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Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day, and yeah you telling me,

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Speaker 1: maybe don't be I love you too. Maybe don't just

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Speaker 1: be out here giving out your last name like it's nothing, right, Jillian, Hey,

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Speaker 1: you're saying to girlfriends lululu here. I think we all

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Speaker 1: I remember, I remember. You know, if the sprink courst

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Speaker 1: had gone off, I couldn't anyway, don't get me started

429
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Speaker 1: on this trauma.

430
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Speaker 6: Parents don't like if you say anything happened other than

431
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Speaker 6: like amazingness, They're like, no, that is so like that.

432
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Speaker 1: I'm not even med about it. I'm not mad. Y.

433
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Speaker 1: I tell the joke all the time that now that

434
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Speaker 1: I have grown up money, I want to buy a

435
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Speaker 1: riding lawn more because they wouldn't let me have one,

436
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Speaker 1: and I want to just ride it around my parking

437
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Speaker 1: garage because I can have it if I want it. Yeah,

438
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Speaker 1: big album Home Depot will hook me up with a discount.

439
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Speaker 1: Even it's amazing. But my mom calls me, you never

440
00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:52,800
Speaker 1: mowed the lawn, like what are you talking about? Anyway?

441
00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:54,680
Speaker 1: But they would pay me, like I think whatever. They'd

442
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Speaker 1: pay me twenty dollars to do that. And the reason

443
00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,560
Speaker 1: they would I probably shouldn't have. They probably shouldn't have

444
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Speaker 1: paid me twenty dollars. They probably should have done it

445
00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:04,080
Speaker 1: because well, thanks for the you know, education and food

446
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,560
Speaker 1: and you know everything else. But but I think, you know,

447
00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,679
Speaker 1: when you're thirteen years old, you want basketball cards all

448
00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:10,600
Speaker 1: the time. It's like, all right, we'll go do something

449
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 1: and we'll give you the money, you know. And I

450
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,960
Speaker 1: think it was like teaching you about work and being

451
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Speaker 1: paid and saving you can you know, dot you know,

452
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Speaker 1: by this much now or that much later or whatever.

453
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Speaker 1: But even that, they didn't have to do that if

454
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Speaker 1: they didn't want to. But I have you know, I

455
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Speaker 1: didn't consent to any of that. I didn't consent to

456
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Speaker 1: any of it. This is one of my favorite debates

457
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Speaker 1: to have. But two a thousand people. Oh and by

458
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Speaker 1: the way, that they were sexually active adults too, So

459
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Speaker 1: let's just be clear here. We didn't ask that. We

460
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Speaker 1: didn't ask any virgins about this, okay, no, no, no,

461
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Speaker 1: no no. We didn't ask those who are who are

462
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Speaker 1: wearing purity rings and waiting for marriage. We didn't ask them.

463
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Speaker 1: I just think it's funny that they had to say

464
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Speaker 1: sexually active adults, because I think you can cheat on

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Speaker 1: someone non sexually. But maybe that's the question. Americans have

466
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Speaker 1: defined cheating in modern relationships. So according to two thousand

467
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 1: sexually active adults, many considers behavior like Many consider behaviors

468
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Speaker 1: like harmless flirting, chatting with an X, and watching adult

469
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Speaker 1: videos as forms of cheating that could potentially end their relationships.

470
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Speaker 1: At videos in huge trouble, she's prolific cheater every day,

471
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Speaker 1: multiple times a day, cheating over here.

472
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Speaker 10: Like child.

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Speaker 1: Video right, I don't know what, like.

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Speaker 9: The Blockbuster or whatever it was at the you know,

475
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Speaker 9: the video store back in the day, and you have

476
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Speaker 9: to go in between those beads.

477
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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, yeahs, beads.

478
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Speaker 6: It's all so hot in the nineties, zam beads and

479
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Speaker 6: one of them in their room, in their living room.

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Speaker 1: The sad part is that's a reference that there are

481
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Speaker 1: people listening who don't know what we're talking about. But

482
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Speaker 1: back in the day, they used to have in the

483
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Speaker 1: nineteen hundreds, in the yeah, right, the twentieth century or

484
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Speaker 1: very a long time ago, they had places where you

485
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Speaker 1: could go you can physically walk in, and they had

486
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Speaker 1: these little boxes and inside the box was another little box,

487
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Speaker 1: and you put that into a device, it will play

488
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Speaker 1: a movie. It's called a VHS tape. Then they had DVDs,

489
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Speaker 1: which little CDs have played movies, and you had to

490
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Speaker 1: go to the place and get the one you wanted

491
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Speaker 1: and use it and then bring it back or otherwise

492
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Speaker 1: you would charged enormous fees. I think they.

493
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Speaker 6: Still have them for our local listeners at Tajas by

494
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Speaker 6: Paris Club where it used to be.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that bookstore. Oh, you adult movies. I

496
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Speaker 1: was just describing. I was just describing the concept as

497
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Speaker 1: a whole. Oh. I wasn't even talking what are you

498
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Speaker 1: thinking about? No, I was talking about the video rental process.

499
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Speaker 1: You're talking about going inside of a store watching something

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Speaker 1: in a booth.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, they have the DVDs and you can still run them,

502
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Speaker 6: and they actually have an area where you could go.

503
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Speaker 1: I can't make it all the way home. Yes, yes,

504
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Speaker 1: at least they used to.

505
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Speaker 2: Yes, but they have a lot of DVDs and they're

506
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Speaker 2: still I was in there.

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Speaker 1: Get home, and you're gonna have to hang out here

508
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Speaker 1: for a while and watch the video I just rented. Yeah,

509
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Speaker 1: but then some of them the Blockbuster video, which of

510
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Speaker 1: course I am an alumnus of Blockbuster Video. I was

511
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Speaker 1: an assistant manager. I'll have you know at age sixteen,

512
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Speaker 1: which what could have possibly gone wrong with that? We

513
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Speaker 1: didn't have any of that kind of content. But then

514
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Speaker 1: some of those stores had like a little closet in

515
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Speaker 1: the back and it was there's a little bead partition

516
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Speaker 1: or a little curtain, and that was where you could

517
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Speaker 1: go get the naughty stuff. But then a friend of

518
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Speaker 1: mine was listening recently when we were talking about something similar,

519
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Speaker 1: and she said that they didn't have the naughty corner.

520
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Speaker 1: They had a catalog, like you had to ask for

521
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Speaker 1: the book and then stand there like, right, hey, can

522
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Speaker 1: I have the pervy book? Please? Like, no, the real

523
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Speaker 1: pervy one, not that one. That one's like more. That

524
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Speaker 1: one's more erotic. I want the real that's the one.

525
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Speaker 1: You get it over here, give it to me. What's

526
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Speaker 1: all the shame? I mean, well, let's your freak flag fly.

527
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Speaker 1: If you're still going to a store where you have

528
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Speaker 1: to flip through some sort of manual to get the

529
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Speaker 1: video that you want, then I maybe you're asking for

530
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Speaker 1: that kind of shit. Maybe you're a masochist. I don't know.

531
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Speaker 1: But when it comes to ADULTA films, fifty four percent

532
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 1: of people asked believe that racy content should be banned

533
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Speaker 1: altogether once the relationship becomes serious. So if I watched

534
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Speaker 1: content on my own, I'm cheating, that's what.

535
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Speaker 4: No, you're not cheating, You're not what You're not cheating.

536
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Speaker 4: But what I define is cheating is anything that I

537
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Speaker 4: wouldn't do in front of my partner. So would you

538
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Speaker 4: watch it in front of your partner or with your partner?

539
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Speaker 1: Yes, I would, But I don't know that I would

540
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Speaker 1: do the whole the whole Dog and Pony show, if

541
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Speaker 1: you know, necessarily, that's a whole different assets. That's an

542
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Speaker 1: entirely different proclivity. If I if i'm you know, I

543
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Speaker 1: want you to watch me do no, like, that's a

544
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Speaker 1: whole different thing. I'm not trying to do all that,

545
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 1: but I mean I can't. But I look, I guess

546
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Speaker 1: if we're being honest, I guess if I'm not trying

547
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Speaker 1: to this is very in the morning. I'm trying to

548
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,640
Speaker 1: be like, you know, as a I'm not sure about

549
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 1: this as possible, which is extremely hard for me to do.

550
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 1: But if I found out that my girlfriend or wife

551
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Speaker 1: were like addicted to some star, like watch the videos

552
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Speaker 1: of the same person over or even even as soon

553
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Speaker 1: as I walked out, the Hebrew Hammer comes on the

554
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 1: you know YouTube every single time, and then, like you know,

555
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: I would begin to feel self conscious. I would be like,

556
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: wait a minute, So the moment I leave the house,

557
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: you go and grab some other stimulus to make yourself

558
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Speaker 1: happy in that way. I don't know if that's cheating,

559
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 1: but I definitely think, like we have a problem.

560
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Speaker 2: You know, pushing you out, She's like, don't you have

561
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 2: to be at work?

562
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Speaker 1: Hy boy? It's two thirty. I mean, like, don't you

563
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 1: bag five? Like don't she need to you know? Yeah,

564
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 1: there's lunch in there for you, and dinner and breakfast

565
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Speaker 1: for the next day. If you, for some reason you

566
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Speaker 1: don't want to come back, I don't know it. I

567
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: mean I don't want it. Protein shaking there for your

568
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: work out. It put some workout clothes in there, don't forget.

569
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: We have that membership at the other place where you

570
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: can take a shower, so you don't have to come

571
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: home at all if you don't want to. Then she's

572
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 1: got the iPad plugged into a generator. Sorry, this thing

573
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: ain't gonna die now. So that would I would that

574
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Speaker 1: would make me uncomfortable if all that happened. But if

575
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Speaker 1: I find out that you look at a movie for

576
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: you know, or whatever, what is you look at the video?

577
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: If I find out you look at something just every

578
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Speaker 1: I don't know, like, that's not cheating, Kik. Can we

579
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Speaker 1: be reasonable for one? See reasonable? Guys? I'm all I'm saying.

580
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Speaker 4: Is any anything you wouldn't do in front of your

581
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Speaker 4: partner to me is cheating? Now, I think it's okay

582
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Speaker 4: to have some alone time. But like you said, next thing,

583
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Speaker 4: you know you addicted to the hammer that you watch

584
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Speaker 4: it every day?

585
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: Okay, that's crazy. Let me ask you this. So I

586
00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 1: don't watch any I don't want I don't watch any

587
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: videos content, But I think about people who aren't you.

588
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: You're cheating? What see you're cheating? Now I can't have

589
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 1: my own thought. No, so I can't even I can't

590
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: have any sid I just it has to just come

591
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,119
Speaker 1: to me well, and it has it has to be

592
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: about you, yes or else you got to say in

593
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: your mind. Get that out of there, Like I think

594
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: about Miyami. We'll see. That's the problem is that what

595
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 1: you're probably going to think about is either a fantasy

596
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: about someone else, or about someone else that you used

597
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 1: to get with in order to help with the that's

598
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,719
Speaker 1: that's probably worse than watching a stranger who you're never

599
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 1: gonna meet exactly. They're not real. I don't know.

600
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 4: Today these videos be like, you know, big Hamma's up

601
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 4: the street for ten dollars, you know, meet up with

602
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 4: big camera?

603
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 1: Like why is he so close.

604
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 10: In?

605
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 11: You know?

606
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: I don't know the way. I'm a little insulted because

607
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: just because I'm watching this doesn't mean I can't do

608
00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: it in real life. You're right, You're right. They'll be

609
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: an ad like why are you doing that? You can

610
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 1: call this number and someone will do it for it.

611
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, hold on, wait a minute, do you

612
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 1: know where I am? So they know where you are? Yeah,

613
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:14,959
Speaker 1: they know where you are?

614
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 2: Aaron, Yes, Hi, good morning.

615
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:18,880
Speaker 8: Hi.

616
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: So is it cheating to watch? I mean we only

617
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: got through the first one. I haven't been gotten through

618
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 1: the other things that are modern cheating. I didn't even

619
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 1: mean for this to be about one thing. But do

620
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: you think that watching a movie and an adult movie

621
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: is cheating if their partner's not there? I don't think.

622
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 3: It's cheating, But if you have a partner with uh,

623
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Speaker 3: good drive?

624
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: Why watch the movies? Well, because again, if you're if

625
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: you're avoiding connection with a person who you are with

626
00:28:56,880 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 1: in favor of watching something else, then I think that's problem.

627
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: But I don't know that. I think it's cheating. I

628
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: think you might have like it. There might be some

629
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: kind of emotional disconnected or some kind of a connection issue,

630
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: but like, I don't know that. I don't. I don't.

631
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: I don't know unless unless that's what you're doing. Like

632
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: if I literally don't want to get with you because

633
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: I would much rather do it myself with some other

634
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: completely unrelated stimulus, that's a problem. But if I'm just

635
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: at home one day and I'm like, hey, what's going

636
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: on here? They're in my area if you click Aaron,

637
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: if you click on it in my area link, we

638
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: have a problem.

639
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 2: Well yeah, but if your spouse is at home, then just.

640
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: You know, well, now that would make me uncomfortable too.

641
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't like that. I mean if I'm like,

642
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:42,959
Speaker 1: what are you doing? Man, and it's like hold on

643
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: you right right? Like I'm here though, and then if

644
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 1: the person were to say, well, why why are you here? Well,

645
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: then I you know, we have a problem eron, But

646
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: you're right. If I'm in the house and you choose

647
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: that over me, then I think again, is it cheating

648
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: or is it just we have an intimacy problem?

649
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 11: There's a problem.

650
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so too, Aaron, thank you you why

651
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 1: this has been eye opening. Have a great day you too.

652
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Okay, So there's that Digital interactions and

653
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: past relationship often create the most tension. As it pertains

654
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: to this study about modern cheating, sixty percent of those

655
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: surveys consider chatting with an ex partner as crossing the line,

656
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: and more than half view what many might dismiss as

657
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: harmless flirting as a betrayal of trust. So, okay, so

658
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: my ex from a girl you used tooke up with

659
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: fifteen years ago who's married, and hey, I saw your picture.

660
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 1: You look great, have a good day. Whatever, that's cheating, Jason,

661
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: What is it? Because I'm tired of me and the

662
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: man out here because it's all that's a different level

663
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: for me like that. So no one you've ever dated

664
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: can contact you. No, I can't control other people do.

665
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: So that's not cheating if someone just messages you.

666
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,959
Speaker 5: But if you're engaging with that then that is going

667
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 5: to uncover a problem.

668
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: That's right. But there are people who I've hooked up

669
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: with in the past who are not going to cheat

670
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: on their spouses and partners who I still have a

671
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: good relationship with. I think that only speaks to whether

672
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 1: that it was a healthy breakup. I'm more skeptical look

673
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: shooting or not cheating. I'm more skeptical of the person

674
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: who who none of their exes will talk to them,

675
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: and they won't talk to any of them. I'd be like,

676
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: what is that about. That's a red flag to make

677
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 1: sure there are going to be some that you're not

678
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: going to talk to anybody. I mean, I've dated some

679
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,479
Speaker 1: terrible human beings, but then but then I've dated some

680
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: really good people and I've screwed it up. So you know,

681
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 1: I don't consider myself a terrible human being, but I

682
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: consider myself a you know, emotionally flawed human being. So

683
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: I've screwed some up too. But that doesn't mean that

684
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: we don't have a good dialogue with some you know

685
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: what I mean. I think it's about communication.

686
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 5: Like if I'm dating you and you're talking to your

687
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 5: actually you need to be open about that because the

688
00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 5: last thing I want to do is.

689
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 1: Find out you're talking to them unbeknownst to me.

690
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 5: But if you're like, hey, I'm friends, but like you

691
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 5: could be friends with your acts, I'm totally fine with that,

692
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 5: but don't hide it.

693
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: A third of responders said they would directly confront their

694
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: partner if they noticed their significant other was hiding their

695
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: phone password. So now we think that's modern cheating. If

696
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: I don't give you my password, why not? And why

697
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: are you hiding your password? Why do you need my password?

698
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 1: It's my phone. I don't need it. But if you're like,

699
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: if you're like hiding, like shielding your phone like a

700
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: are you over me trying to get my phone password?

701
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 1: Well that doesn't matter.

702
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 4: But why are your password?

703
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: There are people in my area. That's why I don't

704
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: want you in my area. I want them. Wait a minute,

705
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 1: so you have probably have it, And if he wouldn't

706
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 1: give it to you, that's cheating. It wouldn't be cheating,

707
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: but it'd be very suspect. Suspect. Don't follow him on Instagram. Mom,

708
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 1: the whole family, and I'll call.

709
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 8: Him all.

710
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: Lord log knows. Yeah, their mom, she called mom, she

711
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: called dad, yeah, and she's there, they're in law enforcement,

712
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: she'd make them arrest him, and it would be so

713
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: you're right, it would be wild. Hey Allison, Okay, so

714
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: so so let me see you we're trying to identify

715
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: modern cheating, which apparently is now everything that I do

716
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 1: every day. You're saying the real question is what.

717
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 8: The real question to me is only fans. If you

718
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 8: are paying somebody and you can possibly interact with them

719
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 8: in real time, they can send you personalized content.

720
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:39,719
Speaker 11: To me, that is definitely cheating.

721
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 6: But I've had other people say it's not, because it's

722
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 6: not you're not with them in real life.

723
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: That's a very interesting one to me because I wouldn't

724
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: like that, right, Like if I'm dating someone and she's

725
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: paying another man, even if it's virtual, to you know,

726
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: whatever is it to make it look more intimate. On

727
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: the flip side, I'm very close, very very good friends

728
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: with the woman who makes a tremendous amount of money

729
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 1: making these videos on OnlyFans, And she'll tell you she

730
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: does not get one damn about these people like and

731
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,439
Speaker 1: that sounds to be disrespectful. She's providing a service, they're

732
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: providing her money. That's what it is. If they think

733
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:15,879
Speaker 1: it's more than that. That's fine, but she certainly makes

734
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 1: it feel like it is for their benefit. But what

735
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,439
Speaker 1: I'm saying is doesn't do just cheating that I guess

736
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: it doesn't require both sides to be engaged. That would

737
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 1: be a line for me.

738
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 6: I don't need you fallen for someone and having personalized

739
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 6: things like Hey, Tim, how you feeling?

740
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: You know.

741
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 7: That money on me because they're taking Yeah, right, you

742
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 7: are paying somebody.

743
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, Alison, thank you. Have a good day.

744
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 12: Hi?

745
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: Fred? How is your day? Are you in my area?

746
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm down the streets on your street. I'm outside your door.

747
00:34:56,200 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: I don't even have a street in an apartment. It's weird.

748
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 10: You're already spread show next.

749
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: Wait, it's Radio Survivor. I've been saying this for years.

750
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: This is Radio Survivor. We're going to find out in

751
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: ten years it was a science experiment. No, it's just like,

752
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: let's just let's just mess with everything and see if

753
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 1: they can manage to get people to continue listening. Bread

754
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: Show is on. Have you ever had an issue with

755
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 1: your phone such that you had to carry your iPad

756
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: with you because that was all you had. They tried

757
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 1: to suggest that to me once I accidentally dropped my

758
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: phone at a very high intensity. I may have accidentally

759
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 1: dropped it right right I dropped it. It was going very

760
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: fast speed when I dropped it into a wall, and

761
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: I dropped it in damaged wall. But anyway, so I

762
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,760
Speaker 1: may have done that once and I went to the store,

763
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: and there may not have been much phone left from

764
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 1: the drop that I dropped it. I know, it's crazy.

765
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: I was just what an accident, and I may truly

766
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 1: have only been able to provide the SIM card kind of.

767
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,479
Speaker 1: So I may have walked in with the SIM card

768
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 1: and they were like, well, why don't you bring us

769
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 1: the phone and we can I'm like, well we can

770
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 1: trade that in. I'm like anymore. And then they understood.

771
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 1: They understood the assignment like they knew like immediately they

772
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 1: work in a phone store, Like okay, got it. Well,

773
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,359
Speaker 1: you know, here's what we can do. We can get

774
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: you a warranty phone, I guess, or something. You can

775
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 1: buy a new phone, but the one phone's gonna take

776
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: a while. So what you could do is just carry

777
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: your iPad around for a while and like that'll, you know,

778
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 1: until Monday. Because I think this was a Saturday when

779
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: the dropping of the phone occurred, and then it was like, hey,

780
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 1: we'll get your phone by Monday, but like you can

781
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: just carry your iPad around like you want me to

782
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: carry my iPad around like a phone, Like you want

783
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 1: me to go to a date with my iPad? And

784
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 1: it's case, like, how you doing? What's going on?

785
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 13: Well?

786
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: What's that about? Well? Is in case it gets boring,

787
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch it. I'm right in the middle of

788
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: something on Netflix and I really didn't want to have

789
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 1: to interrupt it. So if you, you know, if you

790
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: see me look down in the ibad, that means you're

791
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: boring as hell.

792
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 10: Ever been left waiting by the phone?

793
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show, Tim, Good morning, welcome, good morning.

794
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 1: How are you were you doing? Okay, we call this

795
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: waiting by the field of course? Oh yeah, yeah here

796
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: here we are just hanging out with you, Tim. What's

797
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: going on with this woman? Is it Francesca? How did

798
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 1: you meet Francesca? And then tell us about any dates

799
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: that you've been on. What's going on? Now?

800
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 14: Yes, I met I met Francesca on a hinge and

801
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 14: I took her out to dinner and the dinner went

802
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 14: really well.

803
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,879
Speaker 1: And uh so I was like it was so well,

804
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: that took.

805
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 14: Her back to my place, and I was trying to

806
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 14: be a gentleman, so I didn't want to be like

807
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 14: push here and make a move.

808
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 11: Yeah, and I guess that that wasn't.

809
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,760
Speaker 14: The move because I haven't heard from her since.

810
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 1: Okay, so you think that because you weren't because nothing

811
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 1: physical happened, because you didn't initiate that. You think that's

812
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: her problem. She was turned off, like you're not interested

813
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: or something.

814
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 14: Yeah, I thought I thought that would be the move.

815
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 14: I thought that she would appreciate that because guys are

816
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 14: always a push.

817
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,439
Speaker 11: And I guess that I don't know. I just haven't

818
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 11: heard from her.

819
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: Sis. He was trying to be a good guy. He

820
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 1: was trying to be a gentleman. But I also see

821
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: how that could be misconstrued as he's on intimate. He

822
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 1: doesn't like me because now you're back at your place.

823
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: So I guess it's kind of, you know, not necessarily guaranteed,

824
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 1: but maybe implied that that kind of stuff might happen,

825
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 1: and it didn't, so that could be the issue. I

826
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 1: don't know. That's that's an interesting observation. But let's call

827
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 1: this woman Francesca Hey, Tim, Yeah, all right, Tim, let's

828
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 1: call at Francesca. You guys met on a dating app.

829
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: You went on this date. You thought that went really well,

830
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 1: back to your place, and then you know, you were

831
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: a gentleman, you weren't aggressive, didn't make any moves. But

832
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: then since the date, you haven't heard anything, and you

833
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: think maybe that's why maybe you I don't know, maybe

834
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 1: she thought you weren't into it.

835
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 11: Yeah, I just want to know. First of all, I

836
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 11: really like Francesca. I just want to know what happened.

837
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's call her right now. Good luck?

838
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 3: Hello?

839
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: Hi is his Francesca?

840
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is her.

841
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: Hi. Hi, my name is fredam callin from the Fred Show.

842
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: And I'm sure if you've heard it before, but I'm

843
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 1: hoping we can talk to you for a second on

844
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: the radio. I would need your permission though, to continue

845
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:12,439
Speaker 1: on the air.

846
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, no, that's fine.

847
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 3: I actually to show you they're awesome.

848
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much. We appreciate that. So you

849
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: know what's going on here. We're calling on behalf of

850
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: a guy who says he recently went out with you.

851
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 1: His name is Tim. Do you remember meeting too?

852
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 8: Oh?

853
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember too.

854
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 1: So okay, Well that's usually the tone of somebody who

855
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: like has got a story to tell. So he reached

856
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: out to us that he liked you, I was hoping

857
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 1: to see you again, but he can't get a hold

858
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: of you. Now, can you explain maybe kind of fill

859
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: us in on what's going on and why.

860
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 12: Yeah, So we went on agay and it was i

861
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 12: mean effortually, like completely fine, and he was a sweet

862
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:55,319
Speaker 12: gentleman and everything was pretty chill and pretty cool. And

863
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 12: so then we decided, you know, go back to his place.

864
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 12: And I'm thinking, oh, okay, like we're going to get

865
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 12: to know each other a little bit more and we

866
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 12: share a little tanko too, maybe something will happen.

867
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: Okay, So your expectation going back there was it like

868
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 1: you guys were going to hook up. That's that's where

869
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: your mind was.

870
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it was, well, I didn't think it was

871
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 3: gonna happen right away.

872
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 12: Like, I mean, he was being like a pretty sweet

873
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 12: gentleman the whole time, and I was like, okay, I

874
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 12: could dig this, like yeah, and then uh he.

875
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 3: Did when we got back to his place.

876
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 2: We didn't do anything.

877
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 3: In fact, the only thing we did.

878
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,479
Speaker 12: Is that he talked about how he was super good

879
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 12: at jiu jitsu, which is like that Japanese fighting style.

880
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 3: And I mean, I didn't find anything wrong with that.

881
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 11: At first.

882
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 12: I was like, hey, man, at least you're.

883
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 1: In shape and look good. Yeah. But then but then he.

884
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 3: Just proceeded to like have me sit there for hours

885
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 3: and I'm not and I'm not talking like one or.

886
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 12: Two hours, like I'm pretty sure we sat there like.

887
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 3: Like four or five hours.

888
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 12: I'm surprised I lasted that long.

889
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 3: And he just showed me videos of him and showing

890
00:40:58,120 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 3: me moves on how to like down my.

891
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: Own Wait, so these were videos of huge hips like

892
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 1: matches whatever they're called, the literal like video of him

893
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 1: doing that what you did?

894
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:10,800
Speaker 3: Well, Yes, it was like home videos, like I'm pretty

895
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 3: sure his mom or his grandma filmed it because there

896
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 3: was some leading going oh.

897
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 12: My god and then again and then but then.

898
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 3: I thought maybe something was gonna happen, because then he

899
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 3: was like, oh, let me show you something, and so

900
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 3: he was like, you know, getting behind me home, like okay,

901
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 3: maybe it'd night's not gonna.

902
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 12: Be a total loss.

903
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 3: No, he just proceeded to show me how he would

904
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 3: take out his opponent and I was like him, I'm

905
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 3: done and I oh, he like grant again. I'm thinking, baby,

906
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 3: something's gonna happen, to know, and he stands up and.

907
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: Is like and he wanted to I'm scared. Okay, I

908
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 1: gotta bring Tim and I forgot to mention Tim is here. Dude.

909
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 1: You brought it back to your house to watch videos

910
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 1: of you doing martial arts. Ye, those hours of them,

911
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: I mean like even maybe like a few clips, but

912
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 1: four hours rest of you whatever you're doing.

913
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 11: Yeah, I thought she was interesting, she was interested at first.

914
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 11: I did.

915
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 3: I did that to be nice. And nobody wants us

916
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 3: to sit there and watch you, you know, get the

917
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 3: great at jiu jitsu? Are you sure your mom got

918
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 3: bored of filming you.

919
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: No, one's trying to watch videos that you're being great

920
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 1: for four hours. I'm not trying to watch anything for

921
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: four hours. Botanic. And then you try to tell.

922
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,439
Speaker 14: What was this that I'm good at jiu jitsu?

923
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 3: I mean, dude, I was I was nodding off. So

924
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,879
Speaker 3: you did your demonstrations like I gave you the hand

925
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:42,760
Speaker 3: of like, oh boy, I'm kind of tired.

926
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:46,359
Speaker 1: Maybe you know, even you could have maybe like God

927
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 1: you could have done like a little like I'm good

928
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:52,799
Speaker 1: at ju u jitsu, flirty thing where maybe maybe, and

929
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: then you kind of pin her down and like in

930
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: a fun way, and then yeah, you know, like in

931
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: a way, and then lock her up and never let

932
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: her leave again. Like, I mean, there's a way you

933
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: could have made this fun. She sounded into it, but

934
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 1: four hours later she's exhausted of watching all your moves, Like,

935
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: what the hell, dude, I.

936
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 11: Mean, I mean she could have communicated that with it.

937
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 11: My thing is, like I was, I wasn't trying to

938
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 11: be pushy. I wondered to show where I'm as good

939
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 11: as you, Like, I'm pretty sure she would appreciate that

940
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 11: we're on a date and somebody attacked her. Yeah, I

941
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 11: know what. I don't know how you.

942
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 1: Already she was at your house, man, like you didn't

943
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: need to impress her any further. She was down. I

944
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 1: mean she was already. You won the match. I mean,

945
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 1: you were good to go. I don't, okay, I won

946
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 1: the match.

947
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 11: Its like I lost it.

948
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I don't know. This feels like

949
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: that would be like me inviting women over to my

950
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 1: house to play this. You want to hear clips to

951
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: me on the radio, It's like, no, I don't. Four

952
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: hours later, yeah jesus, all right, yeah, well yeah, that's

953
00:43:55,840 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 1: the thing that this sucks. I got Francesca another day

954
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: with this guy. Would you consider it? We'll pay for it. No,

955
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 1: no more video clips of him, no things.

956
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 12: I don't think they could take another fourteen hours.

957
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,399
Speaker 1: Of jiu jitsu, all right, Tim dude, come on, man,

958
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: I mean I think it's one thing to have a

959
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 1: hobby and a passion. I think you could probably communicate

960
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 1: that without having to go overboard like this. I think

961
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 1: you kind of missed it on this one. You missed,

962
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 1: you missed the cues.

963
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 11: Yeah, I guess you're right to day.

964
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 1: I mean you just got me sense. Oh Jesus, all right,

965
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 1: I gotta go, sense. No, I'm the sensor. What are

966
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: you the grasshopper? I gotta go. Good luck to both

967
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: of you, guys. Okay, thanks for your time. Francesca, it

968
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 1: is the frend Show. Good morning. Thanks for having us

969
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 1: on the radio, on the iHeart app live and anytime

970
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: search for The Fred Show on demand. Jason Brown, you

971
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: tried to kill your your partner last night? Is that

972
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: my understanding? Yeah, this is a.

973
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a couple of nights ago, but yeah,

974
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 5: I decided to, uh, I am cooking more, and so

975
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 5: I decided to make a debut and new dish.

976
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: Where are you getting these dishes that you're debuting, like

977
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:04,280
Speaker 1: Megan saw no Lazymeals dot com? Oh okay, my skill

978
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:04,919
Speaker 1: is very low.

979
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 5: Okay, so I go for the easiest of the easy,

980
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 5: and so this one was very easy. I will make

981
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 5: anything into a cast role. Okay, just put anything into

982
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 5: a baking dish there on the oven. But she's on top,

983
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 5: and like we're good, right, Well I made this. I

984
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 5: made this castle role. And I could just tell, like Cathley,

985
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 5: there was like I don't know, like this isn't We

986
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 5: were having the same issue when you were at about

987
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 5: you Fred was looking at me like this ain't seasoned and.

988
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:35,840
Speaker 1: Up right, excuse me, excuse me. When I was the

989
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,399
Speaker 1: chef at Beni Hannah a few weeks ago, all right,

990
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,720
Speaker 1: and you guys hate the food. I hate the food.

991
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: Later and the food tasted fine. It was great. It

992
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 1: was you need sauce, you need salt dip in the

993
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: soy sauce and problem solved.

994
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 4: Sauce what it was great after but in the process

995
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 4: I was like, wow, he's getting like he's close to

996
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 4: the finish line, and I'm seen that salt.

997
00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: Shaking the chicken really white. You know what? It was good?

998
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 1: Dare you? How dare you? Did all of you feel

999
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: fine afterwards? Yeah? All of you? I was hammered. But

1000
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: on the way home, okay, great, you got it in

1001
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: the car left, No, I didn't with your hands. I

1002
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: guess it wasn't spice correctly. Then she was craving my Benny, Hannah, right,

1003
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 1: craved your meat, craved my bi Okay. So anyway, you

1004
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 1: were making a what did what were the contents of

1005
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:33,720
Speaker 1: said cast? Okay?

1006
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 13: So it was.

1007
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 5: Ground beef, egg, noodles, peas where it's some other vegetable

1008
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 5: that was green, So hamburger helper with vegetables basically with

1009
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 5: cheese on top.

1010
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god, everything this sounds actually horrible. But anyway,

1011
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: so you you decided that it was a good idea,

1012
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: So I made I.

1013
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 8: Can do this.

1014
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 5: You just mix it all together and put in a

1015
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 5: dish like hell yeah, right, So I take it out

1016
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 5: of the oven and so like I'm like filling up

1017
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 5: my water cup and he walks in Mike walks in

1018
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 5: and he just stops like in front of it and

1019
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,840
Speaker 5: is just staring at it, like not like getting a plate,

1020
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:14,839
Speaker 5: not getting just staring at it. But he doesn't want

1021
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 5: to say anying because I like have my you know,

1022
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 5: sort of back to him. So I'm like, you know,

1023
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 5: looking through my peripheral and I'm like, oh, I'm looking

1024
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 5: at my peripheral.

1025
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: And so I see him just standing there.

1026
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 5: So then he like takes the littlest scoop and puts

1027
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,359
Speaker 5: on his plate and he's just standing there in.

1028
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: The kitchen eating it. Normally we make our plate, we

1029
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 1: go sit down and eat.

1030
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 5: He's just like sitting there like sampling it, saying nothing,

1031
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 5: saying nothing.

1032
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:37,919
Speaker 1: And I knew it was bad.

1033
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 5: So I made a plate and I'm starting to eat it,

1034
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 5: and it was the most silent dinner and neither of

1035
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 5: us up anything to each other. And then two days

1036
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 5: later he was like, that was prison food, which you

1037
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:51,359
Speaker 5: just gave me, literal prison food.

1038
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:54,320
Speaker 1: Wow, he accused you of giving him prison food.

1039
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, how did he wait two days to say that?

1040
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 5: Well, he waited until like I brought it up. I

1041
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 5: made some comment about cooking, and he was like, he

1042
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 5: was like, you never made what you make you know

1043
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 5: again two days ago because that was awful giving me

1044
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 5: prison food?

1045
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 1: Wow? Now ungrateful? That was last time he cooked something

1046
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:11,839
Speaker 1: for you? Oh? Never. I don't even think he knows

1047
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: how to turn the other on. I think if somebody

1048
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:17,359
Speaker 1: cooks something for you, you you have to you eat

1049
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: it and you don't say a thing.

1050
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 14: What.

1051
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I thought you're gonna say you have to

1052
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:21,439
Speaker 2: cook something for them.

1053
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, don't you start that. Well, I

1054
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: think that's a nice thing to do because your boyfriend,

1055
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: you're sorry, No, tell me the theory.

1056
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 6: There are cookers and then there are personality hires that

1057
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 6: stand there with the cooker, the chef, if you will

1058
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 6: and entertain them.

1059
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 2: They have a glass of wine, They tell jokes.

1060
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 1: Can I grab you anything? I say, personality higher Yeah

1061
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 1: in the kitchen. Yeah. I thought you were.

1062
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 6: About to say some crazy stuff like we got to

1063
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 6: each be cooking you know.

1064
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: No, No, I'm sure you. I'm sure you do your part. Uh,

1065
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,959
Speaker 1: personality higher. No, but you know if you if someone

1066
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 1: makes a meal for you, you have to eat it,

1067
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:04,799
Speaker 1: and then you have to just be quiet about it. Yes. Now,

1068
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 1: if someone asks me and like, like my mom My

1069
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: mom is a she's a very very good like home chef,

1070
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: and she's taking courses and you've done all this stuff.

1071
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,800
Speaker 1: My dad's not. My dad is no dummy in retirement.

1072
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 1: He has sent her to like various schools that's like

1073
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: for a week at a time or whatever, because she

1074
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: wants to do this. She wants to travel and how

1075
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 1: to cook like food. So he'll be like, go and

1076
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: then she comes home and she's, you know, making the

1077
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: food for him. He's not an idiot, and she's really

1078
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: really good, but like she'll make something and then she'll

1079
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 1: ask for feedback, and I know in that case she

1080
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: wants to know really what I thought, because she is

1081
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 1: like actually concerned with you know, I don't know she

1082
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: made it for other people, so I try and be

1083
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 1: honest ish like, but she never made me anything really bad.

1084
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: But the point is if so much cooking for me,

1085
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: I eat it and I say thank you, and that's

1086
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: the end of it, like I'm not coming back later

1087
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,399
Speaker 1: and on, By the way, that was terrible. The only

1088
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 1: problem is if he thought you thought it was good,

1089
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: then it's happening again. Like that will be on the

1090
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: rotation of lazy dishes.

1091
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 5: And the rotation is small, so like we're, you know,

1092
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 5: every two weeks eating the same thing. So I'm sure

1093
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 5: he was probably like, we're not adding this into He

1094
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 5: could have been.

1095
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 1: A better no, he could have been like, you know, hey,

1096
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 1: I like these things. I didn't particularly care for that

1097
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 1: one though. That's how you do that. And you don't

1098
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:24,839
Speaker 1: say you just fed me prison food. Oh, just like

1099
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 1: my orange chicken. Oh that was so bad. Don't ever

1100
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 1: try to make your own orange chicken. That was a

1101
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 1: bad night too. That to me sounds like something that

1102
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: I would just run down the street and pick up.

1103
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,319
Speaker 1: You know, there are certain foods I'm just you know,

1104
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: I'm not making orange chicken. I'm not. I don't I'm

1105
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:38,800
Speaker 1: not doing that worth it.

1106
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 10: You know.

1107
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 1: I have another theory while we're talking about food, and

1108
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people would agree. But no

1109
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: one ever cooks for me ever, really, because I either

1110
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: order it or make it myself. It's just me at

1111
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 1: the house. And I was at my friend Bruce's house

1112
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: over the weekend and this guy cooks everything like fist

1113
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 1: like it's ten o'clock at night. And there may or

1114
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,919
Speaker 1: may not have let's just say everyone was a little

1115
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: hungry on Friday night at ten o'clock maybe rhymes with munchies.

1116
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: And and he says to me, do you want cookies?

1117
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 1: And I was like, do I want chocolate chip cookie?

1118
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: Like okay, sure, And in my mind it's you know,

1119
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 1: slicing bake. No, no glass bowl comes out, flour measuring cups,

1120
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 1: melted butter, chocolate chips. Oh yeah, No, we did a

1121
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 1: whole thing. The mixer. I mean I was handed like

1122
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: one of the little things that the little blender things,

1123
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: you know, it's a liter Maybe that may have been

1124
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,319
Speaker 1: something he wanted to watch. I don't know, but it

1125
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: doesn't matter at the point. But where I'm going with

1126
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,919
Speaker 1: this is he cooked all weekend and I was eating

1127
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: food cooking. He made me a sandwich. Sandwich is made

1128
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:47,240
Speaker 1: by other people for you taste better than the ones

1129
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: you make yourself. That is a that is a proven

1130
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: even theory. It's a fact. Sandwiches somebody else makes for

1131
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 1: you taste better than the ones you can make yourself. Why.

1132
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:01,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, And I mean at home because obviously

1133
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 1: you go to like you know, a subway or Jimmy

1134
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:06,840
Speaker 1: Johns whatever, Jersey Mics, and then they make it for

1135
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 1: you it tastes good, but I get the house. Someone

1136
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: gives you a sandwich that may it taste better than

1137
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,399
Speaker 1: any other kind of sandwich. Just so true. Yeah, that's

1138
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,240
Speaker 1: what you should tell him next time you make something

1139
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:16,919
Speaker 1: that he doesn't like. Be like, well, there's lunch meat

1140
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:18,439
Speaker 1: in the fridge. That's what my mom used to say,

1141
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,959
Speaker 1: but I didn't like dinner. Yeah, well then there's bread

1142
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 1: and lunch meat. You should tell them just like your mom. Okay,

1143
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 1: front door, Yeah, and I move in, Fred, don't pick

1144
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: me up?

1145
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 6: Can you pick me up?

1146
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? Never mind, I actually don't do that. I'm not

1147
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: equipped for that. You can't live with me. And I

1148
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,239
Speaker 1: want to talk about scamming quickly, because you know, I'm

1149
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:40,879
Speaker 1: always I'm always looking out for the people who listen

1150
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:42,879
Speaker 1: to us. I'm constantly looking at all the different things

1151
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 1: that are happening to make sure that none of them.

1152
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: I don't want any of our listeners to be affected

1153
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: by scams that are out there. Cam, And I know

1154
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 1: you've been scammed before by a psidekick.

1155
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 6: Yeah you don't have to say that part, but yeah, because.

1156
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,320
Speaker 1: You told the story before, so I do have to

1157
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 1: tell I know I had to, I had to it's

1158
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 1: been I had to expose it. Okay, it's been a

1159
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: secret on this show forever, and I had to let

1160
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 1: everybody know you were scam by psychic. Okay, it's finally out.

1161
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 1: It's true. It's true. Quick recap for the new people,

1162
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: people who haven't been listening or who've been slacking or whatever,

1163
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: because you told the story a couple of years ago.

1164
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 1: What happened with the psychic?

1165
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't remember why I started engaging, but she

1166
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,879
Speaker 6: wanted like a picture of my palm, and I kept

1167
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 6: asking Jason and Paulina like, Okay, there's no information she

1168
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 6: could steal from me, and they're like no. So I

1169
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:29,240
Speaker 6: sent her that and then we were going back and forth,

1170
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 6: and then she wanted, you know, money for this and

1171
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:32,839
Speaker 6: money for that, and I was like I think. I

1172
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:34,959
Speaker 6: initially sent her a little bit. But then she told

1173
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:38,360
Speaker 6: me that I was cursed by witches when I was

1174
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 6: born and that's why bad stuff happens to me sometimes.

1175
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: And then I had to.

1176
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 6: Pay more to yeah, and I was like, accrap. But

1177
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 6: then I was in too deep and I had a

1178
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 6: blockhert and she was finding the other places.

1179
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,399
Speaker 2: But I did pay her a little bit and send

1180
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 2: her my palm.

1181
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: So how much did you give her?

1182
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 8: Oh?

1183
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 6: I don't remember, but too much. I mean even a

1184
00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 6: dollar is too much to a scamming psychic. I really

1185
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 6: like was like, oh no. And then I came in here.

1186
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:05,240
Speaker 6: I said, you, guys, I was cursed by which is born?

1187
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 13: And you guys, yeah, yeah, okay, Well you must it

1188
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 13: must have worked because around that time, you know, you

1189
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 13: got yourself a boyfriend who's nice to you and worships you,

1190
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:18,840
Speaker 13: and then you I don't know, career aspirations have been

1191
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 13: a compliment in Greece.

1192
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: There's a bit of a turney. It was a bit

1193
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 1: of a turning point, So I don't Maybe you weren't

1194
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: scammed after all. Maybe this person was absolute legitimate and

1195
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: them trying to find you with them being like no, no, no,

1196
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 1: there's more work to do for another twenty five dollars. Well,

1197
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, because I didn't pair. The final feel

1198
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 1: for a little bit is not lifted well in investing yourself,

1199
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,240
Speaker 1: that's crazy. I know what was her name, miss Cleo?

1200
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,839
Speaker 1: No less?

1201
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 4: You told me you missed the scammers comfort you know

1202
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:51,319
Speaker 4: it Je?

1203
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: That was the time. Yeah, if you're not familiar with

1204
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: that era either, that was after the eighties. That was

1205
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 1: called the nineties and they were lit. Yeah, if you

1206
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 1: don't know what that was about, then if you didn't

1207
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 1: come home from score, this was late at night, it

1208
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: would have been late at night like their MTV shows

1209
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: and that and jams.

1210
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:07,799
Speaker 8: To to.

1211
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 1: Text the frog for the crazy frog ringtone turned. If

1212
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:16,879
Speaker 1: you don't know what that is either, then I'm like, God,

1213
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm just old. But we talked about scams because there's

1214
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: a new case of scamming. I guess there was an

1215
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 1: AI generated bread Pitt scam. Not familiar with that, but

1216
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:31,760
Speaker 1: this is just crazy. It's just tragic really in this case,

1217
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 1: and I will say before I tell jokes, it was

1218
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 1: an old woman who was scammed. Okay, So I don't

1219
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 1: like that. This is not This wasn't Kaitlin who had

1220
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 1: all of her faculties. This was an old woman. So

1221
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: I don't like, don't scam old women. I mean, don't

1222
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: scam old people. Don't scam people. But so I say that,

1223
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: and now I'm gonna tell jokes. You know, schitzolyzed, but

1224
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 1: that the old people know. But even an old person,

1225
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 1: my grandfather, even and it is a ninety two before

1226
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: he died, would have called me and said, really, But

1227
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: this elderly Japanese woman was tricked out of thousands of

1228
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:10,280
Speaker 1: dollars by a scammer claiming to be an astronaut stranded

1229
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 1: in space. The romance scam began in July when the

1230
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 1: two connected on social media. Well, what's the other thing.

1231
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 1: My grandfather wouldn't have been on social media either, but

1232
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 1: I guess he was on the Facebook, and so my

1233
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: dad might fall for something like this. He's a very

1234
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 1: smart man, but he doesn't really know who he's talking

1235
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,359
Speaker 1: to and where he's posting, and what's public and what's

1236
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 1: not on the social media's. Yeah, the Frost told a

1237
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,280
Speaker 1: woman in her eighties that he was aboard of spaceship

1238
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 1: and facing an emergency. Trusting his story, the woman, who

1239
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,840
Speaker 1: police say developed feelings for the man as their conversations continued,

1240
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 1: electronically sent him more money because he needed it to

1241
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: buy oxygen. Oh you want to laugh? You want to laugh? Klin, No,

1242
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,839
Speaker 1: I did not do not hold it in the worst

1243
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 1: that it could possibly happen on this show. The very

1244
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: worst thing it could possibly happen is when I say

1245
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,399
Speaker 1: something that is fun out, especially when I say something

1246
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 1: that's funny. But when something funny happens, and you all

1247
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 1: want to laugh, but you're worried about your images and

1248
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 1: so so you laughed quietly. But I can see on

1249
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: your face that you were laughing. And you're as equally

1250
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 1: as bad of a person as I am, but you

1251
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: don't want other people to see it.

1252
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 6: Fred, I've talked about pooping my pants if I was

1253
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 6: worried about my inmation, that's true.

1254
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: That's an excellent point on this tree. That's probably that's

1255
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: an excellent point. But trusting his story, the woman sent

1256
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:28,000
Speaker 1: him sixty seven hundred dollars because he needed it to

1257
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: buy oxygen. Oh that's expensive space, I mean in space,

1258
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: and like he kind to buy it from somebody who's

1259
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: the Russians. I think they wouldn't give it to I mean,

1260
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 1: I had a nigga and yeah, he had access to

1261
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 1: the Internet and Venmo, but he for some reason, he

1262
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: didn't have access to oxygen down. Yeah, not a real one, exactly.

1263
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: Romance would love scams or not unique to any one region.

1264
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: The US Federal Trade Commission reports that Americans lost more

1265
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: than a billion dollars to similar schemes in twenty twenty

1266
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: three was roughly half of the dating site users encountering

1267
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 1: attempted scams. Officials warn that such scams often targets seniors,

1268
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 1: who are vulnerable to a range of fraudulent schemes. The

1269
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: victim in this case can at least take solace in

1270
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 1: knowing she's not the only one. Apparently, somebody else was

1271
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 1: scammed up to thirty thousand dollars by a man claiming

1272
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 1: to be a stranded astronaut at the International Space Station

1273
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: who needed money to buy a ticket back to Earth.

1274
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 1: Oh ticket, Now, hold on great encounter, Now that one.

1275
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: Let's remember our friends Butcher and Sunny. They could have

1276
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: used some money for They could have used it. No

1277
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 1: one gave him any money for a ticket back, and

1278
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: they were stranded there for fourteen months or whatever. It

1279
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,320
Speaker 1: was thought that he reportedly promised to marry the woman

1280
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 1: when she paid for a rocket to get him back

1281
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 1: to firm ground. What's the going rate for a ticket

1282
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 1: out of a rocket? It's about thirty thousand dollars. Is

1283
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 1: that like an uber Granny was down?

1284
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Speaker 8: Bad?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's about thirty thousand dollars, so yeah, sort of Look,

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Speaker 1: don't scam old people's that's our PSA of the day.

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Speaker 1: And don't if anyone tells you they need money to

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Speaker 1: get back from space or an oxygen oxygen, access to

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Speaker 1: oxygen or something. Remember the guy MJ used to be

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Speaker 1: on this show. He once told a woman he was

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Speaker 1: trying to break up with that he needed to he

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Speaker 1: was leaving for NASA Basic training. Yeah that's what, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah he was. I guess he didn't want to break

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Speaker 1: up with her, or he was breaking up with her,

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Speaker 1: but he wanted to come up with, you know, some

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Speaker 1: reasonable explanation as to why, and he didn't want to

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Speaker 1: hurt her feelings, so he told him that he was

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Speaker 1: going to NASA Basic Trade, which I have to say

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Speaker 1: is brilliant and if it works, that really tells you

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Speaker 1: something about the person who you're breaking up with, because

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Speaker 1: they're that gullible. NASA Now that actually might be a

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Speaker 1: thing now because we got the Space Force, so it

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Speaker 1: might work now. But back in the day, I hate

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Speaker 1: to break into you, but there was no ticket counter

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Speaker 1: in space. There's no NASA Basic Training. And then I guess,

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Speaker 1: like a week later he was you know, spotted and apple.

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Speaker 1: So it didn't work out. You get kicked out or

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Speaker 1: something more Fred Show. Next tradition the Friday throwback dance

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Speaker 1: party on the Friend Here's the Fred Show, Good morning.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for having us on the radio, on the iHeart

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Speaker 1: app Live and anytime. Search for The Fred Show on demand.

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Speaker 1: Calin has walky talkies in her home. She lives in

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Speaker 1: a one bedroom apartment. I have not been there. I'm

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Speaker 1: just I'm familiar with the way you've described it. You

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Speaker 1: and your boyfriend live in a one bedroom apartment, and

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Speaker 1: he bought you walkie talkies for Christmas. Yeah, because because

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Speaker 1: you go to bed earlier than he does, and God forbid,

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Speaker 1: you'd have to stop talking to each other at some point,

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Speaker 1: even though you're in bed and the purpose of being

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Speaker 1: in bed would be to sleep. Yeah, Well, things come up,

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Speaker 1: so then you walk you talkie. So he'll be on

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Speaker 1: the couch in the living room. Yeah, and then you're

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Speaker 1: in the bed and then you walk you talkie. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And it has been the best investment that we have

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Speaker 2: ever made.

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Speaker 1: Okay, first of all, so here's another example on Wyan Street.

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Speaker 6: So he wakes up earlier than me on the weekends

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Speaker 6: because you know, especially Saturday Friday. I don't know if

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Speaker 6: you guys are dead like I am, but I'm just

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Speaker 6: dead to the world. And so I sleep in a

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Speaker 6: little bit later because I'm catching up on all the

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Speaker 6: sleep from the week. So this Saturday morning, I woke up.

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Speaker 6: He was not in bed, and I didn't know where

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Speaker 6: he was, but he placed the walkie talkie next to

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Speaker 6: my head turned on. So I just walkie talking and said,

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Speaker 6: what are you doing out there? And then he told me,

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Speaker 6: because you know you wake up, you don't want to

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Speaker 6: get up yet, you want to figure out. Oh, can

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Speaker 6: you bring me some coffee?

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Speaker 1: Yes? I can, God forbid you, like just say hello,

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Speaker 1: pardon me. I mean, you're acting like you live in

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Speaker 1: the taj Ma hall or something like that. You need

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Speaker 1: that you need, you know, this sort of communication. I

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Speaker 1: do and.

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Speaker 6: Listen when I go to bed early, like I can't sleep,

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Speaker 6: so like any me getting up and seeing the light

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Speaker 6: or the TV or anything like it, it messes with

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Speaker 6: my sleep, Like I have I need like four hours

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Speaker 6: to really you know, wind down.

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Speaker 1: But a speaker with a battery in it next to

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Speaker 1: your head that someone can yell into you into your

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Speaker 1: ear at anytime, that's you need that though.

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Speaker 6: I was thinking that I do. And also if I yell.

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Speaker 6: Our dog freaks out. She doesn't like that, So me

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Speaker 6: just like, hey, can you bring me some water?

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Speaker 1: You know? I like it is this to startle you though? No?

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Speaker 1: Is it like the chirp remember the chirp phones?

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Speaker 9: Is it chirping?

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Speaker 1: No, it is not an Excel chirp phone.

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Speaker 6: It literally just goes like like it doesn't There's no

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Speaker 6: beeping or anything.

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Speaker 1: It's very nice. I just you know, I think sometimes

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Speaker 1: I go into a different room where there aren't people

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Speaker 1: so that I don't have to interact with them, right,

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Speaker 1: I don't necessarily get another layer of ways to communicate

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Speaker 1: with me. Well, we're not having full dialogues. It's just

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Speaker 1: can you basically, can you bring me something? When you

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Speaker 1: do something? Gay? I like that.

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Speaker 2: No, I want to know, like what he's doing out there.

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Speaker 1: That's just okay. It's been a game changer. I'm not

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Speaker 1: even joking.

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Speaker 2: It's been the best decision we've ever made.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling I like it. Just no, no, it's just no.

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Speaker 1: It's as an over me, Doug, and I'm glad it

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Speaker 1: works for you guys. It's wonderful. But like the whole

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Speaker 1: purpose of me being like, hey, why don't you hang

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Speaker 1: out in the living room for a while, or you're

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Speaker 1: going to bed, okay, cool, then I'll I'm all hang

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Speaker 1: out here for a little while. It's okay to do well.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like it with the walkie talkie. It's worth

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Speaker 1: my coffee. What's the score? What are you doing for me?

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Speaker 1: What are you cooking for me? What have you done

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Speaker 1: for me yet today? No? But I think I just

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Speaker 1: think sometimes it's like, okay, not to talk all the time.

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Speaker 1: He's a the other person. Yeah, it's a talk of time.

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Speaker 1: It's not a lot of talking.

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Speaker 6: But again, like he won't come into the bedroom when

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Speaker 6: I'm sleeping because he doesn't want to wake me up.

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Speaker 1: So if I tell him, you know, hey, is your

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Speaker 1: boyfriend big tim? Is he this thoughtful? No?

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Speaker 4: And I saw Okay, Well the other day I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I like this walkie talkie idea because this man ignores

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Speaker 4: text messages.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I didn't see your.

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Speaker 4: Text, bro, you saw my text and you heard me

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Speaker 4: call your name three times.

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Speaker 1: So I like this walkie talky idea. We need like

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Speaker 1: a like a one sided walkie talkie, like where I

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Speaker 1: do the talking and you the listening happens with it.

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Speaker 1: You can't. You can't come back to me with anything.

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Speaker 6: That's like our text line when we black people like

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Speaker 6: they can text us though we just can't reply.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we have a text, right, we have a thing,

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Speaker 1: and we can look at you can text the number

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Speaker 1: and we can like look at what you're texting obviously.

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Speaker 1: And so if if you like are really terrible to us,

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Speaker 1: and some people are really terrible to us and we

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Speaker 1: block you, all that does is mean that we can't

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Speaker 1: talk to you, but you could still say terrible things

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Speaker 1: to us. It's a great blocking mechanism. It works perfectly.

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Speaker 6: It's like we're tied down and they're just and we

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Speaker 6: can't do it exactly.

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Speaker 1: It's like we just meeted ourselves basically and allowed you

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Speaker 1: to just say what you want one sided. Oh, it's wonderful.

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Speaker 1: We played ourselves. Wow, Okay to game changer, guys, we

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Speaker 1: learned it to start the show, to start the week.

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Speaker 1: Game changer in a relationship is to always be in

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Speaker 1: two way communication. Never not be okay, now, see Chase,

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Speaker 1: you're not in your head the same way, Like sometimes

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Speaker 1: the silence is exactly what I'm looking for.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean we're always in the same room. No,

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Speaker 5: matter what, Like Mike and I are always like it's

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Speaker 5: like what we're following each other arounds, like we're gonna

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Speaker 5: go sit in the desk sitting watching TV. And then

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Speaker 5: he gets up. I'm like, oh, is it time for bad?

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Speaker 5: And he's like yeah, I was like all right, So

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Speaker 5: we get up and we're like oh no. However, like

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Speaker 5: I'll go to text him something and it'll literally be

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Speaker 5: like five days since we've texted, Like we don't like

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Speaker 5: talk like that like back and like I don't know

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Speaker 5: what it is, like we all day without talking, Like

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Speaker 5: literally I'll be here all day and I will.

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Speaker 1: You guys have.

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Speaker 6: Never sleep separate, Like sometimes my boyfriend will fall asleep

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Speaker 6: on the.

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Speaker 1: Couch and I'll be in the bed or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we can't. I can maybe sleep, but maybe you guys

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01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 1: could just sleep then maybe maybe the don't distance, we're

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01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 1: not in constant communication. Sounds like it and how they

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Speaker 1: would never go for this, No, no, no, he would

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01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:30,919
Speaker 1: break work as a firefighter, that's for saving people's lives.

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Speaker 1: Can I just want some coffee? Yes, exactly? You know what,

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Speaker 1: I think the batteries would be out of it all

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Speaker 1: the time. I don't know what happened to the batteries, Honey,

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01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: I have no idea the cad the batteries again, we

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01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:45,080
Speaker 1: don't have a can. I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what happened. More Thread Show. Next, The Fread Show is

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Speaker 1: on Fread's Fun Fact.

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Speaker 6: Fred Fund.

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Speaker 1: Learn so much? All right, guys, so this is interesting.

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Speaker 1: Bruce willis okay. When you think of Bruce willis, what

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Speaker 1: do you think of? First? Die Hard? Yep? So, Bruce,

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Speaker 1: have you ever seen Diehard? I know the answer.

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Speaker 2: I know that that.

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Speaker 1: Would mean what. I knew what you were gonna say.

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01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:25,040
Speaker 1: I could read your mind. Bruce Willis played the legendary

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Speaker 1: John McClain in the die Hard film franchise. Right, but

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Speaker 1: before he landed the role in the Action Pack movies,

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Speaker 1: the part was offered to Frank Sinatra, who was in

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Speaker 1: his seventies at the time. And that may sound strange,

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Speaker 1: but it had to do with illegal obligation. I never

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Speaker 1: knew this, by the way. The movie was based on

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Speaker 1: the nineteen seventy nine Roderick Thorpe novel Nothing Lasts Forever,

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Speaker 1: which was a follow up to nineteen sixty six The

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Speaker 1: Detective I Guess Not a movie in nineteen sixty eight,

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Speaker 1: or excuse me, that was a novel? In nineteen sixty eight,

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Speaker 1: that novel had been made into a film, Starringston not

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Speaker 1: as John McClain, but as Joe Leland, a former New

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Speaker 1: York cop who becomes a private investigator. So when Sinatra

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Speaker 1: signed up for that movie, it was in his contract

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Speaker 1: that the studio had to offer him the main part

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Speaker 1: in the sequel, But when that eventually happened, he turned

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Speaker 1: down the roll. But can you imagine Diehard without Bruce Willis?

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Speaker 2: No one with a seven year old sinatray?

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine Bruce Goillis without Diehard?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 1: And is it a Christmas movie? Oh God, here we go.

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Speaker 1: We don't have time more Fredshell Next