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Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast on iHeart Radio. This is the Benn

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Speaker 1: and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with her radio. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: Ben is still in Honduras being a saint. So I

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Speaker 1: have a very special guest. I might be a little

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Speaker 1: bit giddy um today because you know he is a

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Speaker 1: cutie and his name is Dean also known as Deanie.

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Speaker 1: Babies say hey, hello you guys. If you listen to

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Speaker 1: the Ben and Actually I almost its podcast, you definitely

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Speaker 1: watched The Bachelorrett and you definitely are obsessed with Dean

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Speaker 1: and he is fourth place to the fourth place finisher

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Speaker 1: on Rachel's season just got kicked off last week. How

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Speaker 1: do you feel? That's yeah, that's that's stunk to watch back,

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Speaker 1: but happy to be here. What how do you sell

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Speaker 1: your lesson? I'd love to hear you try to say

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Speaker 1: it first lt. Yeah, a lot of people don't pronounce

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Speaker 1: the t at the end unglert unglert. Yes, you're very

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Speaker 1: winner say winners set of Winter. I'll consciously try to

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Speaker 1: announce you as well as I can at times. You're

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Speaker 1: so good He's just fully rounded human being right there.

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Speaker 1: The most false You actually told me that you want

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Speaker 1: to take your wife's last name because you're desperate to

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Speaker 1: get rid of Unglert. It's not that I'm desperate to

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Speaker 1: get rid of it. I just think that it's a

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Speaker 1: last name. That's why. It has nothing to do with

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Speaker 1: the fact that you have a very hard to pronounce

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Speaker 1: last name. Well, there's part of that. I have two

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Speaker 1: older brothers that they can live to linea John. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: as long as it's negotiable. Um, alright, Dean. So if

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Speaker 1: you change anything? No. I feel like I've been asked

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Speaker 1: time around. You know. It's so funny is that I

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Speaker 1: He actually you know, had one of those early introductions

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Speaker 1: And actually he lent me his high school Deffel bag

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Speaker 1: that's why you had to borrow a lot of clothes

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Speaker 1: for your shoes. So how do you pick? Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Nice to meet you, doctor. Oh sorry, my apologies, Dot,

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Speaker 1: think I'm building up immunity too. No, not really, You're

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00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:17,040
Speaker 1: just lucky. Like the last thing you want to do

422
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 1: for your immune system is caudle it, you know, so

423
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 1: you're you're allowing it to fight for itself later on. We'll,

424
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 1: believe me. There are plenty challenges out there where you

425
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 1: don't have to you know. Okay, I mean maybe I'll reconsidered.

426
00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 1: So I have one more question for Dean. I want

427
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 1: you to tell everybody that that was the question. We're

428
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 1: on the same wavelength. That is exactly what I was

429
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:43,719
Speaker 1: gonna ask. Okay, so we munnected something I guess. I mean,

430
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,359
Speaker 1: there are a couple of reasons that I stopped using it.

431
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 1: I think that I wanted to have a more holistic

432
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 1: approach to my life. I noticed that there was less

433
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 1: of a difference between the way that I felt when

434
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,159
Speaker 1: I used open when I didn't use soap. So I

435
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 1: I just decided to cut it out and stopped adding

436
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: those chemicals to my body necessarily. I also, um, I

437
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 1: don't know. I I just think that I just I

438
00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just not a fant of soap. I

439
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 1: think that's why there's something like soap commercials and stuff,

440
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 1: because they're trying to convince you that they need, that

441
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 1: you need to use it. Well, look look at it

442
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:14,200
Speaker 1: this way. I mean, we didn't increase our life expectancy

443
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 1: and reduce the amount of illness that we had each

444
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:23,360
Speaker 1: countries without changing our cleaning habits and our sanitary habits

445
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:27,159
Speaker 1: and our sewers and all that stuff. So I can

446
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: understand how you're you're thinking. But if you look back historically,

447
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,399
Speaker 1: things have really improved a lot since we started staying

448
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: cleaner and using soap. That's a fantastic point. I don't

449
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 1: have a bottle for that. And Amy has one more question,

450
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: because she and I are such big grays anatomy fans.

451
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: You want to know what kind of soap do they

452
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,360
Speaker 1: use to scrub in? Dad? Do you scrub in well,

453
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 1: if I'm putting, if I'm putting in lines in, I

454
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 1: scrub in from doing blocks? Yeah, you wash your hands.

455
00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:01,200
Speaker 1: Things have changed a lot from medical perspective. It used

456
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 1: to be the turgeons would go out and scrub their

457
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: hands and uh with like beta dine or iodine soap

458
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 1: for like five ten minutes before they came into the ore.

459
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 1: Now they are all these new products where what they

460
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: really do is just coat their hands with this um

461
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 1: and about or antiseptic solution and that's all that they

462
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 1: need to do, because not that five minute scrubbing. No,

463
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: there's not the scrubbings are not. We don't do that anymore.

464
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: Very interesting, Papa, All right, love you and I talked

465
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: to you after this by Dr Bye bye? Should I

466
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: continue with the rapid fire for Dan? Can we just

467
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: make this the entire podcast? It's good stuff. Backs your boys,

468
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 1: new kids in the block or Hanson or in Sync,

469
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: none of them, come on, I mean, handsOn, just because

470
00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:00,479
Speaker 1: you're you're here. But love them all. Oh, um, New

471
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: Kids on the Block. I don't think you know a

472
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 1: single New Kids song. I don't know anythink that's the

473
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 1: last of all of them you'd care about. I don't.

474
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 1: I don't know any of them. Backstreet Boys, I think you.

475
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 1: I think I'm answering for you. I think you like Backspards.

476
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: Do you want to go to their show in Vegas

477
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 1: with me sometime? No? Thank you? Okay, all right, Well,

478
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 1: I know you like Vegas if you get super drunk

479
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 1: and then goes back to I don't really like Vegas

480
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,880
Speaker 1: that much. The only thing I like about gambling. Oh

481
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 1: that's right. But you like to gamble too well, I

482
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 1: just lose money though. Fine, we won't go to Vegas

483
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:32,880
Speaker 1: and see backspars. Um celebrity crush, I know this. It's

484
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 1: like so classic Dean What um lifetime celebrity crush is

485
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: Lucy Lou? Yeah? Um, who's your backup celebrity crush? Are

486
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: we supposed to have a back Oh? I have I

487
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 1: know your other backup on Brenda's song? Okay, Brenda, if

488
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: you're listening right now, Brenda is twenty nine and she

489
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 1: lives in l A. And I'm not I don't know.

490
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 1: Let's move on to the next have a fire questions.

491
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. This is how you get your celebrity

492
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: cross is how you lander by should giving her a

493
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 1: shout because Ryan Philippie tweeted at you once or something

494
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 1: even more personal. Yes, okay, Um, who from Bachelor Nation

495
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: do you think is cute? And apparently you can't say me? Um,

496
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: I think that Raven is really cute? Okay, great, good answer? Neutral.

497
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: I don't know her? Okay, Mary, Mary bang or kill

498
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 1: Becca Andy Caitlin and and he doesn't know and I'll

499
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:40,879
Speaker 1: kill and because I don't know her, Um, Mary Becca

500
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: Bang Caitlin. Yeah, I agree with that. Um, But Andy,

501
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 1: I love you too. I wouldn't kill you ever. And

502
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I don't know you, and I'm sorry for

503
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 1: having to kill you. But I was thrust in this position.

504
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: So all right, guess what time it is? Dean. You're

505
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 1: off the hook with the rapid fire questions? Hey? Do

506
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: you can you play rapid fire questions with me? Yeah?

507
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 1: Do you have questions? Yeah? Okay, let's take some calls

508
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: for us and then we'll go into that. I'll write

509
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 1: some questions down over here. All right, The fan girls

510
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: are going to freak out. Dean just has the best

511
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: teeny bopper following of all time. He is the Harry Styles.

512
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: I told him, Oh god, you guys, this this is

513
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: a whole other topic. I told him the other day

514
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: that he's the Harry Styles of the Bachelor fandom. But

515
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: get this, he doesn't know who Harry Styles is. What? Okay, alright,

516
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: who's the first caller? Let's get whoa Nafisa from England?

517
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: All right, I'm hope I'm saying her name right and

518
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: the Nafisa, Hey, you live in you live in England?

519
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: You're calling all the way from England? Yes, Oh don't.

520
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 1: Oh you're not. Then he's not. Then we actually have

521
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: Dean on the podcast right now as my co host.

522
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: She's like, oh Sorr, I'm gonna hang up there. Do

523
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 1: you know Dean? Are you getting the current eat over

524
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: there in England? Are you up to date? Yes? I'm

525
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:10,199
Speaker 1: up today. I loved like from day one. I mean,

526
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 1: is it's like the man. He is the man. He's

527
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 1: the greatest of his season is definitely. You guys are

528
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: too nice to me. Do you have a question for Dean? Yeah?

529
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: I do, actually like my question is how have you

530
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: coaked with like being recognized, like on the streets, like

531
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 1: convert to your life before the bat in the Red,

532
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: before Rachel and now everywhere you go kind of like

533
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: maybe not everywhere, well more people know you, like is

534
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,239
Speaker 1: it weird? Is it awkward? Or do you like it? Um,

535
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: it's interesting obviously. So it's never happened me before. It

536
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: happens to me every once in a while now, and

537
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't mind it. It's always great to

538
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: meet people that are fans. But what's funny is so

539
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: I have been hanging out with actually a little bit,

540
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 1: like going to random things with her, and people recognize

541
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 1: me first, just because I'm the most recent, I guess,

542
00:27:58,760 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 1: and they'll be like, oh my god, I love you,

543
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 1: Dean striking no, no, they freak out. They're like, oh

544
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: my god, Dean. And then they looked at their right

545
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: and they see Ashley and they freak out ten times more.

546
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: And of course Athlee I is amazing, like I know,

547
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 1: but it's the reason she does. It's so relatable, like,

548
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 1: oh my god, I've experienced this, Like why are more

549
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 1: people talking about it's amazing? She's amazing. My gosh, my

550
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: life is made right now whenever we go out together.

551
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: It's a constant reminder that she's much more popular than

552
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: I am. And I'm okay with that. I guess okay,

553
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: then It's always nice to have a little somebody to

554
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: keep you going humble, keep your grounded. Yet exactly if

555
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: I think I'm full of it. People love her more exactly,

556
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: and who wouldn't though it's actually she's the best. Thank you, Nafisa.

557
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: You are the sweetest. You've truly made my day. We

558
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: have to move on to the next caller. Now. Before

559
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: we take the next call, I have to read this tweet.

560
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: I just got it, says I saw this tweet with

561
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: the number to call in and talk to Dean. Um,

562
00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: but I just chickened down. I'm too nervous, I dude,

563
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: Like it literally came up while I was doing something

564
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 1: on my phone, and I instantly doubted. And I'm so

565
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,239
Speaker 1: glad because, like I just, I'm in heaven right now

566
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: and I love ways to listen to myself. That's amazing.

567
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna move on to Megan in Florida. Hey, Megan,

568
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: Hey Megan. Hey, it's Ashley and Dean. Megan. Do you

569
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 1: ever question? Yeah, I was wondering if it's been hard

570
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 1: for him in the past let his guard down in

571
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: relationships because of tough situations he's been in. Oh that's

572
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 1: a great question. Um, yeah, I mean it's definitely been difficult.

573
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: I think that the thing that was striking about Rachel

574
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: is she was the one that kind of pressed me

575
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: to open up about it, and in my past relationships

576
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: I hadn't really been uh pushed to that point, I guess, um,

577
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: And so it was never really difficult, just because I

578
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: feel like I'm really good at deflecting, making the topic

579
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: not about me and what's your favorite website? Okay, I

580
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: don't know, I just to something from the someone. But

581
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: watching it all played back, I would say it's definitely.

582
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: It was definitely very beneficial and cathartic from for what

583
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: Rachel like allowed me to do. But um, yeah, I

584
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: mean all my prior relationships had been not quite as

585
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: deep as as the one I had at Rachel, you know,

586
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 1: minus a couple of you and in friendships and of

587
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: course like all that kind of stuff. But but yeah,

588
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: it's always been kind of difficult for me to open up.

589
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: All Right, we gotta move on to Jamie and Nebraska.

590
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: Thank you for calling Megan. Thanks Megan, Jamie, Jamie, Hi,

591
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: how's Jan? Hi good? Are you Do you have a

592
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: question for Dean? Yeah? I do you know? For it? Hi?

593
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: Um I mentioned before, Um I saw on snatchat you're

594
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: kind of around the pop the paparazzi, and um, I

595
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: was just wondering if you if you like about being

596
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 1: in the limelight or if you care for more of

597
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: a private lifestyle. Um. I hate attention, So that whole

598
00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: thing is it's very foreign to me. That was basically

599
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: just Ashley and I going to a movie premiere together

600
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, now we have to walk down

601
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: the red carpet and it was yes, dozens and doesn't

602
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: like Yeah, he wore his backpack, which is actually super cute. Yeah,

603
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 1: I believe it. You read carpet trend. But yeah, long

604
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: story short, I don't really like it very much, but

605
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 1: I just I'm trying to my best to embrace it

606
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: as much as possible. Yeah. I think you've done an

607
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: awesome job of that. And I'm sure Ashley has helped

608
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: you out of time. Yeah, she's she's like my my mentor. Yeah,

609
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: I believe it. I believe it. Well, it's awesome seeing

610
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: your guys friendship just Oliver social media and me and

611
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: my friend Christie though we love just catching up with

612
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 1: you guys, and it's pretty far so thank you. He's

613
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 1: pretty fun too, Thanks for calling it all right, Thanks Jamie.

614
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: All right, Jordan's in North Dakota. Hey, Jordan's Hey, you're

615
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: over there by the bad Lands where I got by Crystals. Yeah.

616
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: I actually grew up near there, so that's crazy. Have

617
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 1: you ever been surrounded there? Have I ever wet, sorry

618
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: stranded there? I have not, But if you were going

619
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: to be left there for much longer, I was going

620
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: to come get you. And I really appreciate that. Thank

621
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: you so much. I know that you really called in

622
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: to talk to Dean. Do you have a good question

623
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: for him? I do, Dean? Can we expect to see

624
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: you with anyone after Bachelor in Paradise? Um? I left?

625
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: Well wait, actually I can't answer that question. I was

626
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: almost got it, and then he's censored. Excellent. I wish

627
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: I could tell you, but I guess you just anta

628
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: tune in to find out. Oh you know, I will.

629
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,239
Speaker 1: All right, It's going to be a good one, all right,

630
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Speaker 1: Thank you. Jordan's grace Grace in Philly. Hi. U uh,

631
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: we're with Dean right now, just hanging. Do you have

632
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: a question for Yeah, UM, so were wondering, I'm here,

633
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm actually out work with my coworkers. She and I

634
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: watched the show every Monday, and we talked about it

635
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: every Tuesday. UM. We were wondering if too much hesitant

636
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: to put his family dynamic on the show, um, given

637
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: that it was going to open his family up to

638
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 1: so much criticism. UM, I don't think that it really

639
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 1: opened us up to criticism. I mean, there's no real hesitation.

640
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: I think at the end of the day, at that point,

641
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: you're considering getting engaged to this woman, and I wanted

642
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: her to know what my family was like and what

643
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: her in laws would be like. So that was essentially

644
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: where I was going with that. Um. There was there

645
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 1: was a scene that didn't get aired unfortunately, where she

646
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: met with like four of my closest friends. UM, but

647
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: I definitely just wanted her to be familiar with my

648
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: family dynamic before we ultimately potentially took that plunge. UM,

649
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: and my family, like they all had to sign off

650
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: and approve on being on the show as well. So

651
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: it's not like any of them were had done so

652
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: against their will. Um, you know, they all have that

653
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: decision to make for themselves. All right, well, thank you,

654
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: thanks for calling in grace. Yeah, no problem. All right,

655
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: one more question before we take a quick break. Let's

656
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: go with Ray in Texas. You've got a deep question

657
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: from him. I think, hey, Hi, you're a girl. Do

658
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: you get that all the time with the name Ray,

659
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 1: I can kind of go either way. Well, yeah, it's

660
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 1: I never get the right spelling, and I'm actually named

661
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 1: after a guy, So yes, okay, Hi Dean, how are

662
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 1: you how cute to see what? Yeah? I just said?

663
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: Are you like a little giddy? You'd be talking to Dean? Yes,

664
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: And I'm like sneaking around because my boss is here,

665
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: so I'm like, put your boss on the phone. I

666
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: want to talk to them. Oh gosh, you don't want

667
00:34:54,760 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 1: to talk to him. I think do have a good

668
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 1: question for Dean. I do have a good question for Dane.

669
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:08,439
Speaker 1: UM two questions. The first one just to break the ice.

670
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: What is your favorite dog? My favorite dog? That's such

671
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: a tough question. I love all dogs, but I think

672
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: that maybe the cutest ones are corkies, especially corgy puppies.

673
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: I would agree that's hilarious because I've tweeted you a

674
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: picture of my corky and you tweeted me back you

675
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: found my spot. I guess. Oh, I hope by thanks

676
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: for calling. Corky puppies are truly the most amazing thing.

677
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: They're definitely on my must get dogless of my lifetime.

678
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: Also with a goal, I know I also need a

679
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: golden retriuer. Would be a cool duo a corky and

680
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 1: a golden trouver. But okay, so hey, Dean, your skin

681
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 1: is pretty damn perfect. You know what you may have?

682
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 1: You might be onto something here because you honestly have

683
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: perfect skin. Um, you just don't watch your face at

684
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 1: night or in the morning or anything like that. Just

685
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: perfect skin. I think they also don't wear makeup or

686
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: anything like that, so it's kind of easier for me,

687
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 1: But most normal people have to watch their face even

688
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 1: if they don't wear makeup. Well, I use Bioclarity. Bio

689
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: Clarity is an awesome product that I've been using for

690
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 1: a couple of months now because it's completely natural, so

691
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 1: you can use it. There's no weird chemicals, and I

692
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: know you have a problem with that it's really soothing.

693
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 1: It has green tea and camemeal and cucumber and oatmeal

694
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 1: kernel extracts, which are you know, pretty good, especially since

695
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 1: it doesn't have any benzel peroxide, which always causes meat

696
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 1: redness and dryness and irritation. And it has been significantly

697
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Speaker 1: proven to reduce the number of blumishes, not only in

698
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Speaker 1: my own skin, but basically anybody who uses it. After

699
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Speaker 1: a couple of weeks of use, people see an overall appearance,

700
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Speaker 1: overall better appearance in their facial skin, and a reduced

701
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Speaker 1: amount of oiliness and shyness. But it doesn't dry you out,

702
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: which is awesome, And it's cruelty and vegan free. You know,

703
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 1: we don't have to worry about our animals being hurt. Yes,

704
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: it's a three step process. First you cleanse with a

705
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Speaker 1: rich foaming cleanser which gets sort of dirt oil and

706
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Speaker 1: environmental plutants. And then you treat it and it attacks

707
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 1: your pores and all that bacteria that Dean thinks is

708
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 1: okay to have on your skin, but it's just not.

709
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Speaker 1: And then you use a restore gel that leaves your

710
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 1: skin feeling smooth and refreshed. That is Ben Higgins favorite

711
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: part of this process. He always feels, you know, just

712
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: so clean after it. So go to bio clarity dot

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714
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Speaker 1: only nine dollars and cents plus free shipping. What an

715
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Speaker 1: outrageous deal this is. It's a twenty dollar savings and

716
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Speaker 1: it comes with a risk free money back guarantee. But

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Speaker 1: you have to enter our code famous f A m

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Speaker 1: O U S. Go to bio Clarity and enter our

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Speaker 1: code of famous and if you don't like it, not

720
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Speaker 1: a big deal. You can always return it and get

721
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:00,399
Speaker 1: your money back. And Dean dr I think you should

722
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: try it, all right, doctors eyed orders? Yeah, okay, alright,

723
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: So go to clear dot com. Let's get back to

724
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: these fun questions alright. I like the one from Justine

725
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: and Cincinnati. Hi. Hi, it's Ashley and Dean. Oh my gosh,

726
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: Hi guys, how are you doing? I am so good

727
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: right now. You have no idea how much I love

728
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 1: both of you. Thank you. Should we just replace Ben? No,

729
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 1: absolutely not. I love Ben a little bit more than

730
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 1: I love Dean, but that's just because our friendship is

731
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,280
Speaker 1: a little bit longer. Dean has to keep proving himself

732
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: to me. I honestly don't know what I'm saying. I'm

733
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: just rambling right now, Justine, what kind of questions because

734
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't give give Dean any more compliments.

735
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: He's really weird about them, and I give them to anyway.

736
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 1: All right, Well, my question for Dean is do you

737
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 1: have any funny stories about your friendship with Alex and

738
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: Peter on the show. Like while we were on the show.

739
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: I know one. I know one that you and Peter

740
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 1: had to share a bed multiple times. We didn't have to.

741
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: We we wanted to know what a girl's day dream. No,

742
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: we've already talked about that one. You haven't, Yeah, So,

743
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 1: I mean Peter and I were room together in the mansion.

744
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: We room together every stop of the way pretty much.

745
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: And there was one instance in Switzerland when we had

746
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 1: a big, like California king size bed and we had

747
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: to share it. But we built a pillow wall down

748
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: the middle, and every girl wants to be that pillow wall.

749
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: There was no one necessary spooning. Now I'm gonna embarrasseding,

750
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,959
Speaker 1: but did you bring your stuffed animal that you sleep

751
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 1: with every night? You're not gonna embarrass me, but um,

752
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: I so I sleep with the Simba that I've had

753
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 1: since I was three, and I did not bring him

754
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 1: because I didn't want to risk losing him. Um, but

755
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: maybe like an Alex and Dean story. So when we

756
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,399
Speaker 1: were in you've glossed over Simba, can you let's let's

757
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 1: make him feel better. I still sleep with my Lammy

758
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: and blank you when I'm home. I don't take her

759
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 1: them anywhere. I mean, yeah, they're they're they're Your home

760
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 1: is their home. So it's kind of unfair. Is there

761
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: a chance we could convince you to post a photo

762
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 1: of Simba on your Instagram? There's a chance? Um, how

763
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: about today that's unlikely. Maybe in the near future it's possible.

764
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 1: I'll think about it all over ideas, um, Alex. So,

765
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: Alex and I became really good friends, and by the

766
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 1: time we got to Oslo and they just didn't really

767
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 1: seem to be enough drama in the house. So what

768
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 1: we decided to do was have a fake feud with

769
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:32,240
Speaker 1: each other. Every single time he went in an interview,

770
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 1: he would talk crap about me. On the Viking date,

771
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: you could see like we had the friendly feud, but

772
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 1: I kept telling him I was talking crap about him.

773
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 1: And every single I TM that I went into, nobody

774
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: knows what I means. So every interview that he went into,

775
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:46,720
Speaker 1: he was talking very very lowly of me and expecting

776
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: me to do the same to him. But every single

777
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: time I went into an interview, I was talking incredibly

778
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 1: highly of him, And every time I walked out, I'd like, yo, Alex,

779
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: I just talked so much crap about you, like you

780
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: get in there and do the same thing about me.

781
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: And I'm just really sad that they didn't really air

782
00:40:58,160 --> 00:40:59,919
Speaker 1: any of that stuff. But it was a fun, little

783
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: friendly future. Actually, can you tell people what I t

784
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 1: M means. I t M isn't in the moment interview.

785
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 1: It's when we go back after something dramatic happened or

786
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: whether or not we just need to kind of summarize

787
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 1: what's happened during the day, and we talk about our feelings.

788
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: So many feelings, so many feelings. It's basically our therapy sessions.

789
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: I love them. Well, thank you so much to seeing

790
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: that was great. Are you still there? Thanks for listening.

791
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: Sorry I'm too nervous to talk. Thank you so much.

792
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling. Thank you. All right, we're gonna take

793
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:40,320
Speaker 1: one more question. All right, it's We're gonna go with

794
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 1: Ashley from New York. Hey, Ashley, it's Ashley. Hi, Ashley Hide.

795
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 1: How are you? You have a great question about food?

796
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:56,760
Speaker 1: I love food. Let's talk about it. Yeah, let's okay.

797
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 1: So um, Dean, I know for a fact that you

798
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:04,399
Speaker 1: love flame hot Cheetos. That's a very true fact. Okay, good,

799
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: so um. The other day I was on I don't know,

800
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: I was on probably facebo or something, and I actually

801
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: saw something that said let me look at it. I

802
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:14,800
Speaker 1: tweeted it to you and you didn't answer. I'm sorry.

803
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:19,479
Speaker 1: It's okay, um. It's called the Flaming Hot Cheetos Bloody Mary.

804
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: Have you seen it? Yeah, my friend actually sent that

805
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: to me today as well. I've never seen it. I'm

806
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 1: sorry I've never had it, but I would love to

807
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,359
Speaker 1: try one. Yeah. Well, I'm not sure how I feel

808
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: about flaming hot Cheetos. I don't think i've ever actually

809
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: tried on what actually are you kidding? I send you.

810
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 1: I'm a little bit hurt by that. I mean, you

811
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: can introduce me to them if you want. I would

812
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: say your homework tonight is to go get a bag

813
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 1: of hot Cheetos. Preferably the Lamon kind. Give him a

814
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 1: shot and then tweet me again after you've tried it,

815
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: and I promise you I will respond. Really you will, yes, yes,

816
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: but you have to eat the whole back and you

817
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: have to uma lick the shut off your fingers at

818
00:42:56,960 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 1: the end to reach at this because um, I need

819
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: to remember it to do this. Okay, cool, I have

820
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: to go to the store and I have to get

821
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: the flame. Uh. Well, the thing with New York State

822
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 1: is New York State doesn't carry the Lemons. Wait do

823
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: you know? Sort of fact he's preparing because he's going

824
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 1: to New York this weekend to borrow and I'm kind

825
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: of bumped. Um, just a question. Did they sell them

826
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:23,320
Speaker 1: in l A Because I will be moving there in

827
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: a month. They're everywhere in LA but tonight. Yeah. So

828
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: they don't have the Lamon and they don't have the

829
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 1: Lamon flavor. Just try the regulars, um, I promise you'll

830
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: still love them. I don't know if you like spicy

831
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 1: foods or not, but I do. I do. Okay, give

832
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 1: him a shot, let me know what you think, and

833
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: I promise I'll do my best to get back to you.

834
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: Can we get sponsored by Cheetos. I mean please, Also, Ashley,

835
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: thank you for giving this idea to me, because next

836
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: time I need Dean to do something, I will give

837
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: him a flaming hot cheetos bluddy Mary and stad get

838
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 1: him a little loosey goosey. That's great idea. When you

839
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: do that, can you give me a cost? I can

840
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 1: join you. Guys. Absolutely, you're the greatest. Enjoy your last

841
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: month in New York. Thanks actually in l a bye,

842
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: and then going to take one more question. Okay, this

843
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 1: is a great question. Don't look all right? Hey, Sarah? Yeah, Sarah,

844
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: how's it doing over there in Kentucky? How's it doing?

845
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 1: It's doing good. I have no idea when that popped

846
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 1: out of my mouth. You know, when he talked for

847
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: an hour straight, you you really realize how inarticulate you are. Yeah,

848
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to just like keep everything together for like

849
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 1: my question, so I don't really blame you. Okay, recited slowly. Okay.

850
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: My question for you, Deine is this is not offensive?

851
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: Are your teeth real? Because boy they are gorgeous? Um? Yeah,

852
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 1: they're super real? And what's funny? Actually, I that's my

853
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: least favorite compliment because It's like what I told him

854
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: within like a half an hour of knowing him, and

855
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: he was like, dude, don't look at my teeth. I'm like,

856
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: oh my god, you could be a Colgate Uh, you

857
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 1: can be a cold Gate Crest model. Do you use toothpaste?

858
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: I use toothpaste. I've lost twice to day. Um no,

859
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:03,320
Speaker 1: I I saw. I got in this line in college

860
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:05,439
Speaker 1: because my teeth are a little crooked and it didn't

861
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 1: completely straighten them like I wanted them too. So if

862
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 1: you look very closely at it, you'll see that they're

863
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: a little uh not, not the straightest things in the world.

864
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: But I do appreciate that, and I just kind of,

865
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't like when people look at

866
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: my mouth and my talk. But it's truly, we're a

867
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: remarkable set of teeth. It's the first thing. It's the

868
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 1: first thing that I look at whenever I meet someone new,

869
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: especially um it's like the first feature that I noticed.

870
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: I guess, so I appreciate that. Did you ever think

871
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 1: of becoming a dentist? Did I? Yeah? Um no, I didn't. Well,

872
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: if you need a dentist, we know Dr Chris Cupcake

873
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 1: is around for you, right all right, well, thank you

874
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: so much, Sarah. That was a great question. Thank you Sarah,

875
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you guys. Looking forward to seeing you

876
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 1: on Paradise. Oh bye, thank you. Alright, Dean, this is

877
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: another favorite part of our podcast. We read, we read

878
00:45:55,840 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: listener emails, so this one is was sent in pretty recently.

879
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 1: It says, Hi Ashley Britt Niel sim recently opened up

880
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 1: about her alcohol addiction as well as having bulimia on

881
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: the show. I found this to be so brave of her,

882
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: and she's a wonderful role model for others who are

883
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: going through the same problems. But I was curious to

884
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: see if you had any idea that this was going

885
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: on on the show, and if you could say one

886
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: thing to Britt and any other girls struggling with the

887
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 1: same problems, what would it be. PSU and Ben make

888
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: a perfect podcast pair. I will be forever a devoted listener. Alright, hey,

889
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 1: alexis um Well, first off, to answer your last First off,

890
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 1: to answer your last question. I think what the world

891
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: needs is more people like Britt who are so open

892
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 1: about their struggles and vocalizing them helps other girls listen

893
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:50,359
Speaker 1: and learn and not feel alone. And the more open

894
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 1: you're you are about it, the more apt you are

895
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 1: to solve your problems. And then to answer your other question,

896
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: I actually had no idea. I learned about this stuff

897
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 1: actually just last week. I had no idea that Britt

898
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 1: was going through this in the house. Um, Like she said,

899
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,280
Speaker 1: she took a lot of effort to keep it hidden,

900
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: and she really did. I was pretty closer in the

901
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: house too, So no, I have no idea, but she

902
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 1: was eating like a normal person. That also shows what

903
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: a debilitating, terrible thing it is because you can hide

904
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:23,279
Speaker 1: it from people so easily. Yes, so people should really

905
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 1: reach out, tell them what they're going through get out.

906
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: One of the greatest things about Britt is that she's

907
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: always been really honest about what she's going through. Of

908
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 1: course she didn't mention this in the house, but you know,

909
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:36,399
Speaker 1: and now she's trying to help other girls. Yeah, everyone

910
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: in their own time. Now was when she was ready

911
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: to do it. Yeah, okay, next question. Okay, Hello Ashley,

912
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: ben Becca or special guesting. There you go. First off,

913
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 1: I love you Ashley every time I hear your podcast.

914
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: You're refreshing wave of real in this world of filters

915
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 1: and photoshop. Please don't ever change. My gosh. The listeners

916
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 1: today they're really really, really nice. Okay, is it always

917
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: like this? I don't know. They've been really nice to

918
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: me specifically. Sometimes sometimes they hate us, But do they

919
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. You read the emails, I'm not sure

920
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 1: what we're getting sent. You filter out the pretty stuff

921
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: for us. Now I'll put the bad ones in. If

922
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: people want to email us, they can do mean things.

923
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 1: I would love to read mean tweets. You know we'll

924
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: read mean emails. Benn and Ashley at iHeart media dot com. Yes, okay,

925
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,720
Speaker 1: So onto the situation. Rachel calls it the X factor.

926
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 1: I call it the fields. We all know that unexplainable

927
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 1: feeling you get when it's just there with someone. I'm

928
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: twenty six. I've had two serious relationships in the past.

929
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 1: Both men were great, both ended amicably. I think it

930
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,879
Speaker 1: was a case of lust versus love in both situations.

931
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 1: But I am a better but I am a better

932
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: person for them, and I would never regret either. However,

933
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: the field slash X factor were there instantaneously when I

934
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,919
Speaker 1: met them. Both. The relationships ended when I was twenty

935
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: one and twenty three, respectively. I've literally been it's been

936
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: literally years since I felt the fields for anyone. My

937
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,800
Speaker 1: question for you guys is do you think the X

938
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: factor can develop over time as you get to know

939
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:16,240
Speaker 1: someone or is it something that you will always feel

940
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,879
Speaker 1: during the first interaction. I have met some great men

941
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: but passed on opportunities because they've been lacking the fields.

942
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: I'm afraid that. I'm afraid that maybe a youthful way

943
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 1: of thinking, and I need to give guys more of

944
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: a chance. But deep down, I know if the fields

945
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 1: aren't there right away, I won't be interested in the

946
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:39,720
Speaker 1: long run. I'd love to hear a male and female

947
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 1: perspective on this. Thank you for being wonderful humans. This

948
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: has been Christie all right, Well, Christie, I am in

949
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,839
Speaker 1: your bow. If I don't feel it immediately, or if

950
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm not immediately attracted to someone, it just doesn't grow

951
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 1: and I pretty much write them off. And I've tried

952
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: to give people chances, not that many, but I've tried

953
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 1: a time or two and it just doesn't happen for me.

954
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 1: I just think I'm wired in a way that I

955
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:12,879
Speaker 1: need to feel that attraction right off the bat. Dean,

956
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: what about you? I love this question. Um. I think

957
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: I have a longer answer than you. Is that okay, yeah,

958
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 1: ok yeah, I love that. Um. Yeah. So I've definitely

959
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 1: had the feels before, as Christie puts it, Um, in

960
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: high school, I dated a girl who I was like

961
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: head over heels in love with, and ever since then,

962
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,760
Speaker 1: I had tried to like replicate that feeling in anyone

963
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 1: else or I just hadn't felt that way for anyone else,

964
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:37,799
Speaker 1: I guess. Um, but I had still like long term

965
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 1: relationships and all that kind of stuff. Not too long ago.

966
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: I had that similar feeling of a for a girl

967
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 1: that I had in high school. Um. But that relationship

968
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: that I had in high school, it was it was

969
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 1: like very toxic relationship because just just that I didn't

970
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 1: make We were, you know, sixteen seventeen years old, so

971
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: we didn't really know how to treat each other. Um.

972
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 1: And So what's funny is when I had the feelds again,

973
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 1: I kind of compared it to that same experience, and

974
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 1: I had to distance myself from that relationship because the

975
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:03,919
Speaker 1: first time around it it hurts so much, I guess.

976
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: But how did you Why do you think that it

977
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 1: was going to end in the same way. I just

978
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,240
Speaker 1: think that I noticed a lot of similar characteristics between

979
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: not only the individuals but the relationship itself. Do you

980
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:15,320
Speaker 1: think that's something psychological where you only feel things for

981
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: girls that you know what's going to go, you know,

982
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: right with? Right? All right, you guys, this is like

983
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:26,879
Speaker 1: the third podcast. I couldn't say Ryan, um um wait

984
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: what was the question? Do you think there's something psychological

985
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 1: when you like, you see those red flags, you tend

986
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 1: to have more of the fields. You know it's not

987
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 1: going to end right, Yeah, I guess. But on the

988
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:40,879
Speaker 1: on the flip side of it, I've been in long

989
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: term relationship with long is term relationships with girls that

990
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 1: I don't have the feels for but because it just

991
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 1: feels like a much more healthy relationship. Okay, but can

992
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: I ask you something based on conversation that we've had

993
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: off off the record, please. Okay, So the one girl

994
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,399
Speaker 1: that you dated for a year, you never really had

995
00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: strong feelings for her, but you continue to date her

996
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: because she's an amazing woman. Okay, but you knew like

997
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,120
Speaker 1: it was not going to go anywhere unless you had

998
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: like intense feelings and they just never grew. And I

999
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 1: think that when do you think that it's it's time

1000
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,479
Speaker 1: to stop dating someone because for me, if I didn't

1001
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 1: have feelings like that within six weeks, I'd be like,

1002
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 1: all right, we're gonna end this. I think what's difficult

1003
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 1: for me in my situation is I still have a

1004
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: lot of growing to do myself. So if I see

1005
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 1: troubles or problems in a relationship, I'm like, okay, like,

1006
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 1: this is something that I need to change, and if

1007
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:29,799
Speaker 1: and when I change it, then that's when it's going

1008
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: to kind of kick into gear and things will start

1009
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: feeling more right. It's not like anything ever felt wrong,

1010
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 1: but um, any any problems that we could have a

1011
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 1: relationship I kind of attributed to myself. So it's like, Okay,

1012
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: once I figure this out, then I can become ready

1013
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: for a more long term, more serious commitment, that kind

1014
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 1: of thing. So you think of them as learning experiences, well,

1015
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 1: have relationship asolutely? Well, absolutely, But like I guess you're

1016
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 1: not in a hurry to always end it because you're like, well,

1017
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: I'm getting something out of it. Well not, I mean

1018
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 1: that sounds so bad, But no, I'm saying I'm never

1019
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:00,800
Speaker 1: in a rush to end a relationship one because I

1020
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:04,240
Speaker 1: don't I don't know I don't like to make people upset.

1021
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 1: And I also know that I have a lot of

1022
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 1: work to do on myself, and I think that if

1023
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm able to do that in a relationship with someone,

1024
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,799
Speaker 1: then it will not only strengthen our relationship, but each

1025
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 1: of us as individuals. Does that make sense? Yeah? But

1026
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 1: you and I both are the kind of people who

1027
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: don't who don't crush very often. Would that be accurate?

1028
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 1: Or do you crush very often but you don't feel

1029
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: intense feelings very often? Um? Yeah, I guess I don't

1030
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:29,720
Speaker 1: feel intense feelings very often, but I can crush pretty

1031
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 1: easily and quickly. I have a big heart, so it

1032
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: like it opens up very very quickly. Got it all right? Well,

1033
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: that was a great question. Let's move on to another

1034
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 1: man who felt a lot of feelings alongside you on

1035
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: the Bachelorette. Okay, his name is Matt. Matt, what's going on?

1036
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 1: Hey buddy, Hey Matt, nice to meet you via phone. Yeah,

1037
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 1: you know, I see you all over the place. I

1038
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:56,399
Speaker 1: know you've been hanging out my friend a lout lately,

1039
00:53:56,560 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: so I've been jealous. And so Matt is the strapping

1040
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 1: gentleman who stepped out of the limit in the Penguins costume,

1041
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 1: and uh yeah, I mean unfortunately Matt and Adam were

1042
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: the two at near the end that didn't get there

1043
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: one on one time with Rachel. Um. But it was

1044
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 1: very clear that Rachel was very upset to let Matt

1045
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 1: go because obviously they're they're connection was something strong. It

1046
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 1: just unfortunately didn't really get aired too much on TV. Yeah, hey, Mac,

1047
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 1: can I ask a question about that? Yeah? Go ahead. Shoot.

1048
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: Rachel talked about how you guys were so similar and

1049
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:28,879
Speaker 1: how it would have lasted longer probably if it were

1050
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 1: to happen in real life your relationship. Um, can you

1051
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:37,400
Speaker 1: explain that a little bit further for us? Okay? Sure? Yeah, Well,

1052
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: you know, before before going on the show, UM, just

1053
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 1: by watching Nick season and by reading two things about Rachel, Um,

1054
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 1: it seemed to me like what she's saying now, UM

1055
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 1: would be the case. You know, I were both thirty

1056
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: two years and just turned thirty two, and we both

1057
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 1: have siblings that were married starting fan Lea's um. Both

1058
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:06,839
Speaker 1: really close with our families, immediate families. UM. I think

1059
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 1: we were just in similar stages of life. So I

1060
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 1: think that's kind of where our connection was built and um,

1061
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: you know, a big part. I remember there was a

1062
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 1: time actually in of course it was on TV like

1063
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:24,319
Speaker 1: most things between untum in in uh Norway actually where

1064
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 1: the first thing ever still said to me when we're

1065
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,359
Speaker 1: working room on the ninth portion of our group day

1066
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: was that she was worried about me. And I asked

1067
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: you to explain, and it was just that she saw

1068
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:38,800
Speaker 1: a lot of her and me, and she knew that

1069
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: I was skeptical about the whole process and that it

1070
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:45,320
Speaker 1: was it was holding me back, and you know, I was,

1071
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 1: I was a lot more reserved then I needed to

1072
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: be in order to make progress of her, and she

1073
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 1: just basically, you know, laid it out there for me

1074
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:54,759
Speaker 1: and said, either you're gonna take a leap of faith

1075
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 1: that you're not because if you don't, it's going to

1076
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: cost you and uh so, so you have to buy

1077
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: in or don't. So at that point, I think that's

1078
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,360
Speaker 1: when I started to loosen up a little bit and

1079
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: started to get comfortable with the whole thing. And you know,

1080
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: I had enough, I had enough information that I needed

1081
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:13,360
Speaker 1: at that point to move forward because I saw her

1082
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 1: make a lot of decisions that um made me think

1083
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 1: that this whole process was organic and and you know,

1084
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 1: it was something that I could believe in and move

1085
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: forward with love that. Yeah, one of my biggest pet

1086
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 1: peeves is when people poo poo the show and say

1087
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: that nothing's real. It's like, the feelings are real, definitely real. Um.

1088
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 1: You know, if I had a dollar for every time

1089
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: I could ask that question now sent back. Um, it's

1090
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,799
Speaker 1: crazy because you know, it's a lot of times it's

1091
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,759
Speaker 1: older people who are skeptical about reality TV and the

1092
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 1: way that I kind of describe it to them. My

1093
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 1: rebuttal to them is usually, how do you meet your

1094
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: significant other? If you're lucky enough to study with the

1095
00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:56,839
Speaker 1: chances are you've probably had to actually have have face

1096
00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 1: to face interaction with that person in order to the relationship.

1097
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 1: You know, you didn't hide behind a cell phone, you

1098
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 1: didn't have technology. You know, those distractions just weren't around.

1099
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 1: So I think it just enables you to um started

1100
00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:15,839
Speaker 1: beyond the expedited check to love I can. Yeah, it's

1101
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 1: it's nice. I love the way that it reverts us

1102
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: back to old school dating, you know, before cell phones,

1103
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: before social media and all that. I think it really

1104
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 1: makes us grow. People used to think the Bachelor was crazy,

1105
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 1: But now y'all meet on Bumble and it's like, that's

1106
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: way crazy crazy. Bumble makes sense. Yeah, for now you

1107
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 1: can just do whatever you want. If Bumble works for you, great,

1108
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 1: If the Bachelor works for you, yeah. Honestly, like a

1109
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 1: little bit older, one of the older guys on the show,

1110
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: I just I tried a lot of ways to you know,

1111
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: make it work with with people in my past, and

1112
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 1: I just figured, what do I have to lose, you know,

1113
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 1: why not? Why not get something new the shot? Um.

1114
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: I know that it must have been very frustrating for

1115
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 1: you not to get much air time and for people

1116
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 1: not to understand your relationship with Rachel. Can you share

1117
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 1: a story with us, um about behind the scenes moment

1118
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 1: besides the one you already mentioned, something that's a little

1119
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 1: bit more lighthearted that you'd like you'd like to share.

1120
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: You know, there's a couple of them, you know, if

1121
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:24,520
Speaker 1: gorgeous is Rachel looked in every dress she wore and

1122
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: everything she actually seemed most comfortable and jeans and swept

1123
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 1: bands and dressed down and just in comfortable clothes. So

1124
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:36,320
Speaker 1: I had an idea too. After right before we went

1125
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 1: to Hilton, our last night I mansion. I were the slippers,

1126
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 1: and I brought Rachel her own pair of slippers and

1127
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 1: she got out of her Um, she got out of

1128
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: her heels and into the cozy slippers, and that was

1129
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 1: I think. Um, she couldn't wait to get out of

1130
00:58:56,840 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: her out of her heels. Actually, so she was. She laughed.

1131
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 1: We both laughed, and I don't know how they don't

1132
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 1: hear that. You know, that's cute. It's very cute. It's

1133
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 1: much cuter than any interaction I had. But then we

1134
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: never saw it. Like most things, you don't end up

1135
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 1: on the cutting room floor. But I'm content with my

1136
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 1: time because I wasn't. I wasn't there to to get

1137
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: on TV. You know, I really did look forward to

1138
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 1: meeting her, and we shared some great moments together. It's

1139
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 1: been just the people talking about it and asking about

1140
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: it that's probably been the most rustrating. It's it's kind

1141
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 1: of a double edged sword, at least for me specifically,

1142
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 1: because I did a lot of really dumb things that

1143
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: didn't get aired, But there was also a lot of

1144
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 1: really cute things I didn't get aired. So it's like

1145
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: you gotta take the bat with the good I guess, Yeah,

1146
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 1: for me. All the moments that I thought would be

1147
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 1: the cutest and the funniest, they usually don't make it anyway, Matt,

1148
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us. Yeah, I love

1149
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: that the fans and get to know you a little

1150
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: bit more than love. Be good. Alright, guys, we have

1151
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:55,440
Speaker 1: huge Bachelorette news about the finale. It's a super tease

1152
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:58,720
Speaker 1: and you won't hear anywhere other than the almost famous podcast.

1153
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:01,320
Speaker 1: But hang ti, We're going to have that news at

1154
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:04,520
Speaker 1: the very end of the podcast. Dean, I know that

1155
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:06,920
Speaker 1: you want to play the rapid fire with me before

1156
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: we get get out of here. Yes, I just have

1157
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:12,040
Speaker 1: a couple of questions I want to ask you very

1158
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 1: pressing stuff. Goodness, all right, let's do it. Um first

1159
01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:18,640
Speaker 1: and foremost, If you were a deli meat, which deli

1160
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 1: meat would you be? Turkey? Basic? You know what? That is?

1161
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 1: So basic? But can I add something like, I like

1162
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 1: turkey with pepperoni. That's the best interesting, I think interesting combo?

1163
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 1: Is it? Yeah? I like, I mean, yeah, a little

1164
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 1: spice to your basic that that kind of defines me

1165
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: to basics. To build off of that very important question,

1166
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 1: if you were a condiment to which condiment would you

1167
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: be you know, I'd like to be spicy Mayo. Spicy Mayo,

1168
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 1: that's right, again, a little spice to the basics. I

1169
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:52,520
Speaker 1: don't think spicy mayo and pepperoni is too much spice. No,

1170
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 1: it's so good. Are you one of those people that

1171
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 1: puts chips on your sandwich? So? Could you put hot

1172
01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 1: Cheetos on your sandwich? I don't think hot cheets maybe

1173
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 1: regular Cheetos. They had to be hot. Next question, which

1174
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:06,720
Speaker 1: celebrities have you d M? And of those which have

1175
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 1: responded d M, we'll see d M would mean on

1176
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 1: Twitter that they would need to follow me back in

1177
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 1: order for me to d M them. Um. But on Instagram? Okay,

1178
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: there was one celebrity I d M on Instagram. It's

1179
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 1: Jimmy Garoppolo from the Patriots. Okay, did you get back

1180
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:28,960
Speaker 1: to what did them? Can I clarify? This was two

1181
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, this is coming off Christal season. So

1182
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: you were like a hot commodity. No? I was like

1183
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:38,200
Speaker 1: still not. I still didn't have much of a following.

1184
01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: I think maybe now if he saw six D and

1185
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: six do you remember what the d M said? Oh

1186
01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 1: my god, it was so basic. I cannot reveal this.

1187
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 1: I did the classic girl thing and I said, I

1188
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 1: never do this, but I'm going to be in the

1189
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 1: Boston area, so I love to grab a drink with

1190
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,600
Speaker 1: you or something. How could you not respond to that?

1191
01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: That's so sweet? He did it. I said to him again,

1192
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 1: I think I should and then I'll report back on

1193
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 1: next week. All right, what is your favorite type of tree?

1194
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: My favorite type of tree is definitely a palm tree

1195
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: or grandmother willow. Grandmother willow from Pocahon. That's right. You know.

1196
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: When I was little, I used to have a willow

1197
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: tree in the backyard and I would go up and

1198
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,640
Speaker 1: I'd talk to it like grandmother Willow, and I'd tell

1199
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: her about my day's events. We're all learning so much

1200
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 1: about you right now. Did you talk to Simba where

1201
01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:40,920
Speaker 1: you're like Yo, wors, Timon and Boomba. I still talk

1202
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 1: to Simba a little gay, but more I just kind

1203
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 1: of fill them in on my day because obviously isn't

1204
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:48,280
Speaker 1: part of it anyways. Um, if you were starting a band,

1205
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 1: like a TLC type band, who would be your two

1206
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 1: front runners to be to to head the band with you? Um? Well,

1207
01:02:55,320 --> 01:03:02,760
Speaker 1: probably my sister and people that are performers. Oh, already performers. Oh.

1208
01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 1: Then Taylor Swift, even though I'm sure there'd be some

1209
01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 1: drama in the band with her. I love her, but like,

1210
01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 1: let's be real. And then the other one. Mm hmm um,

1211
01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 1: Let's go with Celine Dion because Selene can do no

1212
01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 1: wrong vocally, especially what would be your guys hits on name? Well,

1213
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 1: when I was younger and I was in my Spice

1214
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 1: Girls Make Believe band, because every girl in the late

1215
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 1: nineties had a group of friends that she used to

1216
01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 1: like that they used to perform Spice Girls, I was baby.

1217
01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 1: My sister and I would fight over her. I would

1218
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 1: normally win, and she would normally be scary. She'd like

1219
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: to put the buns. I thought you were gonna be scary.

1220
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was gonna be scary. Why anyway, I

1221
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 1: think I'd be Pashia now okay, but yeah, So the

1222
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:53,200
Speaker 1: arch song because we decided that we couldn't just do

1223
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: Spice Girls covers, but we also had to have an

1224
01:03:55,920 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: original song, and it was called Waves of Wonder. So actually,

1225
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:04,959
Speaker 1: I Taylor Swift, Celean Dion Waves of Wonder Just letting

1226
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 1: you guys know. It tops the charts all right. I

1227
01:04:08,520 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 1: think I might have already asked you this question before,

1228
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 1: and tahoe, um, would you rather? Would you rather not

1229
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 1: be able to tell the difference between muffins and babies

1230
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: or change gender every time you sneeze? I would have

1231
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: to just not be able to tell between muffins and babies.

1232
01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 1: You know, you understand the repercussions of possibly eating a

1233
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:35,720
Speaker 1: muffin and realizing it's a baby and that I've been

1234
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 1: eating a baby. You wouldn't notice it, but other people

1235
01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 1: would be watching on in shock. But how alarming would

1236
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 1: it be to you if I'm sitting here and I

1237
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 1: sneeze and all of a sudden I became a man?

1238
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 1: You're right, I think I definitely think that would be

1239
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:51,320
Speaker 1: just as scary. I think I would rather have that

1240
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 1: than have you be cannibalistic towards babies, though well I

1241
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: would just have to I don't know, or like, what

1242
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:58,600
Speaker 1: if you're just like pushing a muffin around in a

1243
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 1: stroller all day long and then you're even crazier. I

1244
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: think you got me on this. I think you're right.

1245
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 1: Just something to think about. Okay, so you would for

1246
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 1: certain probably become a girl every time, do you sneeze

1247
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,920
Speaker 1: at um. Sometimes this is a weird thing about me.

1248
01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 1: I'll make myself sneeze very often. Oh yeah, we talked

1249
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 1: about that. Sometimes I'll get a little itch in my

1250
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 1: nose and I'll like vibrate my nose to the point

1251
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: where it makes me sneeze just because I think it

1252
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 1: feels good. I don't ever think sneezus feel good. I

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Speaker 1: try to keep them in as much as possible. I

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01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 1: do like bad thing where you don't blow it out

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Speaker 1: of your mouth, you just go. I think that's Isn't

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Speaker 1: that horrible for you? You're gonna have an aneurism or something.

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Speaker 1: My God, don't say that. Aneurisms I think are the

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Speaker 1: scariest in the entire world. They're pretty scary. Yeah, next time,

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Speaker 1: we'll have my dad come on and talk. So dr

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Speaker 1: I should you hold in his knees or is it

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01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,040
Speaker 1: healthy to let it all out? We need to know anymore?

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Speaker 1: For me? Is that it? That's all I got? Well? Actually,

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Speaker 1: let's see, let's see what's your what's your biggest fear.

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Speaker 1: My biggest fear is probably this is so basic. I

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Speaker 1: would say, not getting married, having a family. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: very basic. You're right, Yeah, but it's really for real.

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Speaker 1: That's I mean, that's all I got. Was your biggest

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Speaker 1: fear um heights? Heights, I'm just kidding. My biggest fear,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. You jumped off cliffs

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Speaker 1: yesterday with Robbie. Yeah, we went clip jumping yesterday. Is

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Speaker 1: not my biggest fear. I know. It's because these are

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Speaker 1: one of the This is a question that you would deflect.

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Speaker 1: You want to know what's funny. I think my biggest

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Speaker 1: fear might be public speaking. That's really yeah, and how

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Speaker 1: here I am on a podcast. Yeah, but you're it's

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Speaker 1: totally different because it's not in front of anyone. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like when I was in broadcasting school, I used to

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Speaker 1: be so afraid to talk in front of the class,

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01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 1: just so nervous and clammy. But then give me a

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Speaker 1: microphone and a private room like this, and I'm yeah.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's funny about those group presentations in college.

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Speaker 1: I always like stressed so much over them, Like the

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Speaker 1: class of fifty kids is going to listen to me present,

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Speaker 1: But like when other people presented, I paid zero attention.

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01:06:58,080 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 1: And you know that, like other people aren't paying attention.

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Speaker 1: Do you still stress out so much about it. You

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01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 1: just have to keep reminding yourself, nobody's actually listening. No

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01:07:04,600 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 1: one cares except for the teacher, and even they don't

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01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: really care that much. But you ever have one of

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Speaker 1: those kids that they get really nervous and they start

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01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 1: shaking and stumbling and you're like, oh man, now I'm

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Speaker 1: paying attention. So it's like, yeah, you kind of like

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01:07:16,360 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 1: dig your own grape. I guess, yeah, definitely. Alright, Well

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Speaker 1: that's that's all I got for you. Alright, guys, it's

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Speaker 1: time that we say goodbye to Dan Dean. Thank you

1296
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:26,360
Speaker 1: so much for being an amazing co host. We learned

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01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:28,919
Speaker 1: so much about you. People saw a whole different sides

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01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 1: to Danny babies today. Yeah, absolutely last, thank you for

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01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:34,600
Speaker 1: having me. Great. Please come back whenever Ben's gone and

1300
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 1: or we'll just push Ben out altogether. The Dean and

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01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with I Heart Radio. He's

1302
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 1: getting comfortable behind that. Mike has a great ring to it. Okay,

1303
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Speaker 1: it is time for the moment you've all been waiting

1304
01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 1: for the big tease for the Bachelorette finale on Monday.

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Speaker 1: You guys, we will be going live on Tuesday to

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01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: recap all the juicy details of what goes on during

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01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 1: this finale. We hear that no exaggeration, Like we promise

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01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 1: no exaggeration. This is one of the most dramatic finale

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Speaker 1: is of all time. The this is our exclusive scoop

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Speaker 1: for you, the final breakup between the two final guys standing.

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Speaker 1: And we're still not sure who the two final guys are,

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Speaker 1: but this breakup is one of the most heart wrenching, tough, brutal,

1313
01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:29,840
Speaker 1: heartbreaking in all of Bachelor history. You guys, there's been

1314
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Speaker 1: like over thirty seasons of the show, and this might

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Speaker 1: be truly the most dramatic. So the guy that is

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Speaker 1: not Rachel's fiance, he cries so hard, just a totally

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Speaker 1: emotional breakdown. He even cries so hard that when she

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Speaker 1: steps away from him and leaves, he collapses on the ground.

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Speaker 1: This is our exclusive scoop for you. The guy who

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Speaker 1: is not Rachel's fiance cries so hard he beats me

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Speaker 1: and crying apparently, and collapses to the ground. All right, So,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I got chills a little bit when you're

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Speaker 1: saying I don't want to be weird, but like I

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Speaker 1: just said, my best Ryan's seagrass, you did really well,

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Speaker 1: thank you. R Yeah, alright, So another little exclusive tidbit

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Speaker 1: we can give you is that Rachel actually didn't decide

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Speaker 1: who she was going to pick until the very last minute,

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Speaker 1: like day off. That's the kind of decision. Did you

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01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 1: get that vibe Dean of the last three that she

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01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:33,720
Speaker 1: was so torn? Yeah, I mean it's pretty clear that

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Speaker 1: she's torn. She's very invested in all three of these guys. No, No,

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Speaker 1: that's what they always make it seem like. But they

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Speaker 1: always know, they always know where they're going to pick.

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Speaker 1: Ben really knew, Um, Caitlin definitely knew. Everybody knows, but

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Speaker 1: Rachel waited till like the last day. I Mean, the

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Speaker 1: thing is, will never know exactly what Rachel was thinking,

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Speaker 1: but it really seems like she loves all three of

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Speaker 1: these guys. Yeah, we won't know until she comes on

1339
01:09:57,200 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 1: the Almost Famous podcast, and we'll make sure to get

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Speaker 1: her some days in make sure I'm in studio. One

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Speaker 1: more question on that. Could you feel love between her

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Speaker 1: and the three guys? Could I feel it personally? Yeah, because,

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Speaker 1: like let's say I'm around a couple, you can feel

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Speaker 1: someone else's love. Did you feel that? I think the

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Speaker 1: last time that all four of us were in the

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Speaker 1: same room together, was in Switzerland, and I don't think

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Speaker 1: that she outwardly loved anyone at that point. She was

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01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 1: still figuring it out, so I didn't interact with any

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Speaker 1: of them in the same room at all since that point,

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Speaker 1: so it's hard to say. Really, Okay, well, Ben, we'll

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Speaker 1: be back next week and they'll be discussing. No. No,

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Speaker 1: I've loved our two guests. They've been the best villains

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Speaker 1: any girl could ever ask for. Um and don't forget

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Speaker 1: it'll be up in your podcast app on Tuesday next

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Speaker 1: week because we're ready to record it right after the

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Speaker 1: actual finale. We'll see you next week. I've been Ashley,

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Speaker 1: I've been deep in good Bye. Followed the Benn and

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01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:05,560
Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on I Heart Radio or

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Speaker 1: subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.