WEBVTT - Make Relationships Flirty Again with Genevieve Parisi 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.280 Hell, I Suck at Dating with Dean Angler and Dared 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:10.920 Haven and I heard radio podcast. Hey, we're gonna help 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:13.600 I Suck at Dating a new episode. I'm, of course 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:16.200 Jared Haven, joined by Dean Angler. We have a very 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:19.280 special guest. You know her from the most recent season 0:00:19.400 --> 0:00:23.480 of The Bachelor. It is Genevieve Paris. Genevieve, how you doing. 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:26.640 I'm doing really well. How are you doing? I'm doing well? 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:29.520 Did you did I send your last name correctly? Did? 0:00:29.760 --> 0:00:32.800 I'm very very proud of myself. So before we jump 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:34.720 into the episode, we have to talk to Dean for 0:00:34.760 --> 0:00:39.800 a quick second. Dean, where the hell are you? Hey? Guys? Uh, 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:42.400 First of all, hello, good morning. UM, I hope you 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:45.040 guys all had a great week. Um. Sorry, my friend 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:50.159 isn't putting a seatbelt on. I'm driving through Mexico right now. 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:52.320 We're at a We're at a bachelor party for one 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:55.160 of my good buddies who's getting married in a couple 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:57.960 of months. And you know, I thought I was gonna 0:00:58.040 --> 0:00:59.840 be able to just like take ant like chip an 0:00:59.840 --> 0:01:02.040 out are out of the day and go record, But 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:05.000 it turns out that's not that's not loud at the 0:01:05.000 --> 0:01:08.840 bachelor Party. I guess so I need a bottle out 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:12.640 for today's episode, which I hate doing, you know, because 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:14.360 this is the highlight of my week every single week, 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:18.600 talking to you guys, getting to our emails. But I just, uh, 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:22.880 you know, I'm back into your corner here. Yes, uh, well, 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:24.880 enjoy your time at the bachelor party. What part of 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:29.280 Mexico you in. We're in Ensenata, not Inconitas like we 0:01:29.360 --> 0:01:34.360 all thought, but Ensnata. Where's Ensenata? Like four hours south 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:37.800 of Los Angeles and we drove down. We're down here 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:39.600 to serve in golf and we're going to like a 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:43.640 vineyard today and stuff. You crossed, Juanna, you go past 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:47.160 to Juanna. That's my friend Josh. All right, we're gonna 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:52.920 I've probably gotta go before anything else. All right, did 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:57.840 his audio drop? Oh god, Genevieve, Welcome to podcasting with 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:02.720 Deany Davies. Holy God. Yeah, that was that's interesting. Any 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:10.640 who welcome, Welcome to the podcast everyone, Genevieve, how are you? 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:16.200 And JOm Well that was a nice start. Just constant 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:18.440 chaos in the world of help. I suck a dating 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:20.440 here at my Heart Radio, but we're very grateful for 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:23.480 everybody who listens to this podcast. Sometimes I really wonder 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:27.320 why they do. But I love it. I really do. Uh, Genevieve, 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:30.160 obviously you were on this past season of the Bachelor, 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:31.720 so I want to talk a little bit about that. 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:35.160 You are from Massachusetts, right but you live in l A. 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:38.920 I am. I'm actually in Massachusetts right now visiting family. 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:40.920 But I am from here and I live in l A. 0:02:41.000 --> 0:02:42.720 I'm not gonna lie. The house that you're in, it 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:45.400 was it looks such like a Massachusetts house. I love 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:48.280 every second of it. Yeah, does not look like you're 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:50.400 in l A. I am in Rhode Island. We are 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:54.440 currently in West Grantwae, Rhode Island. My sister lives in Rhobeth. Oh, 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:57.000 no way. My aunt lives in East Grantwich. Oh that's 0:02:57.000 --> 0:03:01.640 so funny. E G. Yeah, that's crazy. So we're moving. 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:04.720 We're gonna build an e G. My favorite town ever 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:07.600 is East Grantage. Uh do you go there a lot? 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:11.320 I go there sometimes, like um family gatherings and stuffing 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:13.480 little to my aunts. Often. I love it there. So 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:16.519 my shameless plug. My favorite restaurant there is Lamas and 0:03:16.680 --> 0:03:19.320 it's right on Main Street. So there's also a main 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:22.480 Street coffee there incredible place, one of the places that 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:24.680 inspired me to open. So my my wife and I 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:27.960 we opened a coffee shop slash lounge. It's called All 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:30.760 Just Coffee House and Lounge. Uh and it's inspired for 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:35.320 from a place in each Scrantage anyway. Uh, it's so cool. 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:42.000 That's a coffee shop South Kingston, Rhode Island, so please do. 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.360 It's in South County Commons. How long are you in 0:03:44.400 --> 0:03:47.400 Massachusetts for? I'm here for like a week and then 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:49.120 going to New York for a week to visit my sister. 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:53.080 Oh that's so awesome. Oh hell yeah, you gotta come down. 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:58.800 Um well, I'm sure everybody loves us talking about Rhode Island, Massachusetts. Genevieve, 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:02.520 how did you get on the Bachelor? Um? So someone 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:05.120 actually reached out to me on Instagram, UM, and that 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:09.240 they are casting for a dating show and UM, if 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:11.720 I want to hear more information, just give her a call. 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:14.040 So I did, and she said it was a Bachelor 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:17.039 and I have I haven't watched recent seasons, but I 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:20.200 watched um Colton season. Maybe that was the last one 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:23.279 I watched. So however long ago that was um and 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:25.560 so I was like, okay, why not? So I went 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:27.680 through the process and it was kind of last minute. Actually, 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:30.200 they reached up to me pretty late, and I went 0:04:30.279 --> 0:04:33.880 through all the interviews and everything, and then they gave 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.320 me the call and said I was on. And I 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.200 tried to not get my hopes up. Um, so I 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:41.240 was just waiting to hear and I was pretty surprised. 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:42.680 And then I had a week. I had to pack 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:46.120 everything and get everything ready and go Yeah, it's crazy. 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:47.840 I did the exact same thing. I didn't want to 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:49.760 get my hopes up. I didn't. I tried not telling 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:52.120 anybody because I didn't want to be the person who 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.640 was like, oh, casting to be on the Bachelorette and 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:56.960 then not get on the show. And then even when 0:04:57.000 --> 0:04:59.520 I finally got the call to go on the show, 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:02.240 I was convinced I was going to be like an 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:05.280 extra because I heard that they fly extra people out 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:08.960 who never go out night one. There's they like, yeah, 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.560 if there's like twenty five people all night one, they'll 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:14.039 fly out twenty eight and there's like three reserves, but 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:16.839 they don't tell you your reserve. And then that night 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:18.720 they say, hey, you know, so sorry, I just didn't 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:22.040 work out. Yeah I know, So that's what I was. 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:24.120 I mean, the fact they reached out to me, I 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:26.120 had a little confidence. I was like, hopefully they wouldn't 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.680 be reaching out to me if they were just trying 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:30.000 to cut me. But um, I still didn't want to 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:31.919 get my hopes stuff like you said. So I was 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:34.279 just waiting and like also the same thing I didn't 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.640 I told my parents and that's about it, and my 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:40.560 sister because I didn't want to. I didn't wanna like 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:42.719 have that and then have you asking me and then 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:45.640 you have to say no, I didn't make it. So yeah, yeah, 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:48.200 speaking of East Granted, I was mad at my mother 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:51.880 because of course my mother cannot hold anything in. So 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:54.279 I get the call finally that they wanted me to 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:57.720 be on the show, and I begged my parents. I'm 0:05:57.760 --> 0:05:59.839 telling you, buddy, but she was like, listen, I just 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:03.040 on a small dinner with like your close family and friends, 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:05.520 you know, as a send off. I'm like, mom, I 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:08.440 could be home in three days, you know, like nothing 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:10.479 could happen. But of course she wanted to do it, 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:12.720 so I was like whatever. So we went to Meritage 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:16.159 and East Grimwage and then it was so embarrassing because 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:19.680 my mom was like, like to the waitress. She said like, oh, 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.320 my son, my son's going to film. He he might 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:23.880 be on the batch, He's gonna be on the Bachelor. 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:27.320 I'm a mom. Shut the hell up. I mean, thank god, hindsight, 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:31.000 it all worked out. But I mean I was the 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.039 final rose on night one. I could have easily just 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.279 gone home and known like that none of this would 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:38.880 have ever happened really soon, the final rods, how is 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:42.119 that that's gonna be? Like I was like in the middle, 0:06:42.120 --> 0:06:44.320 and I was terrified. I was coming up like with 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:47.159 every excuse in my head, like okay, hey, listen, you 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.720 know it was. You had a great experience. You got 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:51.880 you got to be on TV for a hot second. 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:54.760 You got to see this Bachelor mansion and and meet 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.600 producers and get flown out to l A like so 0:06:57.640 --> 0:07:00.440 many people can't say that you shouldn't be, you know, 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:02.800 ashamed or anything like that. And then Caitlyn called my 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:05.119 name and I was like talking your yeah, pep talking 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:08.200 yourself right. I was like, oh, Paulie said, go down 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:11.000 the driveway to the labdom, like repeating everything that he 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:14.080 said for if you don't get a rose um. But yeah, 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.520 luckily it worked out for both of us. Thank god. 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:19.920 Uh so, what did you think of Clayton? How is 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:23.880 your connection with him? Um? Mike connection with Clean it 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:26.800 was pretty good. Um. It started off like there are 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:28.720 these there were butterflies, and I feel like there was 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:33.320 an instant connection, kind of a spark um as to 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.160 sees them and on not getting a one on one 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:37.000 and just kind of being on the group dates and 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.440 not getting too much time you know how it works, um, 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:41.880 not getting too much time and seeing all the other 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:46.120 relationships past yours kind of um it it brought me 0:07:46.160 --> 0:07:49.000 back a bit, um and so not having that time 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.119 Clayton and I we I really like him as a person, 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:56.320 and I think he's an amazing person, But towards is 0:07:56.320 --> 0:08:00.920 he an amazing person? I don't know him. I'm sure 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:04.960 he's very nice. I since I was trying to give 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:06.840 him a break on the show for everything that happened, 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:10.040 kind of I like playing Devil's advocate. I don't know. 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:14.280 I've seen interviews since in social media and I'm like, huh, 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:17.920 I wonder maybe I don't know, not say he's a 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:21.400 bad person. OK. Yeah, So I mean, hey, I knew 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:24.960 him for a month and I talked to him for 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:27.240 a total hour of that month. So I don't really know, 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:31.160 but I do think I've never been the lead obviously, 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:33.400 so I don't know what it's like. But I feel 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:36.360 like it has to be hard to navigate that. But 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:40.199 with that said, watching the last episode, in the episode, 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:43.840 the second to last episode, it's it's it's interesting because 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:47.080 he did say to Susie to go back to all this. 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:48.720 He did say I love you the most, and then 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:52.160 he told Gabby and Rachel it's whoever I love the most, 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:54.679 so bad. I do think it was just a mess 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:58.040 and just wrong. But I think maybe in in the moment, 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:00.040 I don't know what he was thinking. I'm trying to 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:01.720 give him the benefit of the doubt because I don't 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:05.200 know what it's like genis Shoes. But it was bad. 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.320 Watching it back, I was like, oh gosh, and I 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:12.120 felt terrible for Yeat meeting Rachel. Yeah, no, I I agree, 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:14.240 And uh, I always trying to give people the benefit 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:16.640 down on the show, because it's you're in the moment, 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:20.240 You're surrounded by cameras, everything's amped up, especially when you 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:23.680 know that something might not like if you know you 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:27.080 made a mistake and then you're in your own head, 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:30.080 so you try to overcorrect the mistake and you only 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:32.439 end up making it worse and digging the hole deeper. 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:35.480 And then you're aware that that's happening and everything is 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:39.440 being recorded, and you're you realize you're spiraling out of control. Like, 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:42.440 I get it. I get why people could just easily 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:45.319 lose themselves for like ten minutes and then it just 0:09:45.520 --> 0:09:49.320 being horrible. Um anyhow, that's all I wanted to say. 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:53.600 That interesting, Like I see social media too, like and 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:55.679 it's back and some people are like, come on, give 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:57.760 him a break with some people are like you, he 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:00.320 didn't have to tell everyone he loves them, not to 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:03.120 beg them to stay a lot of stuff, So it's hard. 0:10:03.640 --> 0:10:05.920 I want to. I do think he's a good guy. 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:09.280 I think he has good intentions. I don't know about 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:11.640 it in the right way. And I hope him and 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:15.640 Susie do work out. I do really like being from 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:17.680 the show, it's like I want these couples to work out. 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:21.440 I really do. Yeah, yeah, no, And I do think, um, 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:24.160 they seem really I mean, they seem happy, and we 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:26.040 only get what's on social media, so we don't know. 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:28.920 But um, I do hope that they work out too. Yeah, 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:33.320 So how's life post show? Life? Will show? Has been good? 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:36.559 At first, it was I just lept for like two 0:10:36.600 --> 0:10:38.880 weeks straight. I didn't get out of bed, and there 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:41.080 was a lot. UM I was pretty anxious and just 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:43.280 like not knowing, Like I'm about to watch myself on 0:10:43.320 --> 0:10:45.319 TV and I don't know what I'm gonna look like. 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:46.600 I don't know what I'm gonna sound like, I don't 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.040 know how it's going to be edited. So it was scary. 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:52.360 But after the first episode, UM, I started getting excited 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:55.480 to watch it, and so life has been pretty good. Um, 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:57.760 I've been kind of hanging low because I don't love 0:10:57.840 --> 0:11:01.120 going out and people like, oh my god, you're Genevieve 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:03.120 and it's l A, so like a lot of people 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:08.600 in l A. UM, I guess recognize you. But yeah, 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:10.800 it's been No, it's been good. It's been really good. 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:12.600 Do you think people in l A recognize you? If 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:14.880 you go out in Massachusetts? I bet you get way 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:17.160 more people that were you know, I haven't been. I 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:19.840 had this the first time I've been home since I 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:24.960 got back since um it filmed air. Sorry, so we'll 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:27.320 have to see. No need to apologize for that. I 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:32.560 uh yeah, I uh, you know what. I completely understand 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:34.880 where you're coming from. When when this show first happened, 0:11:35.000 --> 0:11:36.400 I would go out and people like can I have 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:38.720 a picture with you? And I'd be like, I promise 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:41.120 you don't want to picture with me? I'm I'm very lame. 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.960 I like, that's the thing. I'm looked like this. You 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:48.200 really want to be nobody. I know, trust me, I 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:51.880 feel the same way. I still do. But honestly, it's, uh, 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:54.280 you know when when I like step back, it's such 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:56.599 a cool experience and so much fun and like a 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:59.760 once in a lifetime. You know. Ashley and I are 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:01.839 both very aware that one day no one's gonna want 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:04.040 to picture with us, and that day is probably coming. 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:07.400 So and so like, we like are really very humbled 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:09.600 by anytime someone's like can I have a picture with you? Like, 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:11.920 we would love that because that's really cool that anybody 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.480 is excited to beat us. Um. But it is like 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:16.080 it definitely takes time to get used to that because 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:19.120 I remember the first it was just like weird, um, 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:22.400 But that's good. So I'm I'm very curious. I don't 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:23.960 know if you can talk about it because there's so 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:26.920 many there's so much speculation about Paradise coming up this year, 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:29.480 whether it's going to happen or not, which is crazy. 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:32.440 Talk to me if Paradise doesn't happen. I mean, I 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:35.280 know it's just rumor mills on online, But my question 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:37.160 to you is, is their potential for us to see 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:40.000 you down in a beach Mexico. I want to I 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:43.320 would like to think so or it could. Okay, that's good. 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:47.640 That makes me feel like it's happening. I would hope so. 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:50.120 I've I've seen these rumors too, and I'm like wondering 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:53.440 where they're coming from. Okay, well, I'm assuming the rumors 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:55.200 are coming from the fact that The Bachelorette is not 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:58.360 earning until July, and usually Paradise airs in August. So 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:00.680 that makes me think when is Paradise going to air? 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:04.480 Because if Bachelorette airs in July, are they going to 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:07.880 air Paradise and Bachelorette simultaneously or they're going to push 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:11.040 Paradise back to like whenever The Hell Bachelor it would 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:15.800 be air in September October. I would think, if I 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:19.960 had to guess, it would be after I feel like 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:24.640 after the Bachelorette, I feel like this is an educated guess, 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:28.599 which I like it is. We're breaking news here and 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:31.080 help I suck at dating. We have an insider that's 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:34.040 how so Eastern. If you're listening, let's make sure the 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:37.000 name of this podcast is breaking news. Paradise will air 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:42.199 in September. Inside source confirms. And now I'm teasing. I'm teasing. 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:45.800 I honestly like it could not happen. I don't know, 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:48.120 but I really do hope that to this and I 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:49.840 hope that we see would you so you would say 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:52.960 yes if if I hasked to go back on Paradise. Um, 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:56.040 most likely if I were asked, I would go good. 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:58.520 That's also my advice for everybody when they're like should 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:01.080 I do Paradise or should I not do Paradise? My advice, 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:04.160 I mean, pent of the time it's very rare, is 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:08.160 do it. Go on Paradise, have fun, enjoy it. Because 0:14:08.200 --> 0:14:11.120 I've had friends excuse me, who have said no to 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:15.200 Paradise for a multitude of reasons, and then the following 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:17.680 year they're like, Okay, I'm ready to go on Paradise now. 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:20.840 And productions like, well we have you know, guys and 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:23.600 new girls like if we you know, of course we'd 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:24.760 love to have you on, but we're just trying to 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:26.880 figure everything out right now, and then they don't get 0:14:26.880 --> 0:14:29.880 invited on, and it sucks because they lose that opportunity. 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:33.200 You know, that's true. I know it's crazy because it 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:37.280 seems like, well, if you just finished filming in what 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.680 in October November, it seems like we're jumping right back 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:42.800 into it. If like we did, it would probably be 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:46.320 filming probably in the summer. So it seems like a lot. 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:47.720 But like you said, I think I would regret it 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:49.720 if I think so, and just to give it a shot, 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.240 just to give it a shot. See if I meet 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:54.840 someone and you met, didn't you meet? Ashley? Yes, we 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:57.840 met on the show. We ended up dating off the show. 0:14:58.080 --> 0:15:00.240 It's a very long, convoluted story, and then we ended 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:02.720 up making a cameo on Paradise where we got engaged, 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:05.560 which is really cool because even though it's on the show, 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:07.920 that really was the beach where we first met, so 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:11.760 it was very significant to both of us. Um. But yeah, no, 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:14.680 we met on Paradise. Hell, yeah, that's awesome. And see, 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:17.080 I really do, like I've seen a lot of couples 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:19.680 come out of it. So I have hopes. I have 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:22.720 high hopes for it. So I do hope that it happens, 0:15:22.800 --> 0:15:25.600 and I hope I'm invited and I get to be there. Well, 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:27.720 I hope all of the same. In Paradise definitely has 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:30.080 the highest success rate I think of couples. Now, Yeah, 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:33.840 I'm more than Bachelor and Bachelor seasons. I would say, Yeah, 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:35.800 it's very sad that Bachelor and Bachelor it's just don't 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:39.800 last anymore. It's very tragic. But Paradise keep it strong. Yeah, 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:42.200 I know, I'll try. If I'm there, I was trying 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.280 to keep it. Come out of that, all right. We're 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:46.520 gonna take a quick break, uh, and then we're gonna 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:48.440 come back and we have some hot topics and emails 0:15:48.480 --> 0:16:01.560 to go over. So sleepy tune, all right, welcome back 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:03.720 to help I suck at dating. We have a couple 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:07.240 of hot topics. Dean is still down in Mexico doing 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.480 god knows what. I just hope he's driving safely because 0:16:09.480 --> 0:16:11.160 it sounded like there was like a lot of dudes 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:13.840 in one car buckling up while he was trying to 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:15.800 record a podcast very quickly, and it was early in 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:20.360 the morning. And hopefully they're not drinking yet, so I 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:24.000 know Bachelor parties fingers crossed. Everything is going well down there. 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:25.760 But Genevieve, we do have a couple of hot topics 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:28.280 that I wanted to talk about. First and foremost, do 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:33.040 you know who Andy Dorfman is? She was a former Bachelorette? Yeah, actually, 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:37.680 um so she recently. Just so, she was the Bachelorette 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:40.320 before my season, well not my season, but the season 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:42.720 I was on of The Bachelor at Kitlin. And that 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:47.360 crazy thing about it's so weird because like I always 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:50.400 just talk about people as if everybody knows. But Nick Vial, 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.600 who's a very good friend of mine. Nick was on 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:57.840 Andy season first before he crashed our season of the Bachelorette, 0:16:57.880 --> 0:17:01.520 where he came halfway through Caitlin season, and uh, it's weird. 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:04.760 I remember before I went on the Bachelorette, I watched 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:08.000 an episode of Andy season to prepare myself to say, okay, 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:09.960 well what you know. I mean, I obviously know of 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:11.800 the show, but you know, to watch it and see 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:14.080 what it's about. And I remember seeing an episode where 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:16.800 Nick was just being crucified by his fellow cast members 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:20.120 and they made him look like the biggest jerk and uh, 0:17:20.280 --> 0:17:24.120 it's so funny to think that that was Nick. Um. Anyhow, 0:17:25.600 --> 0:17:27.159 I did do a podcast with him, so I have 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:32.160 met him. Oh you did, Yeah, okay, cool. Nick's awesome. 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:39.080 Oh good. Uh he's a good dude. I love Nick. Uh, 0:17:39.200 --> 0:17:45.240 he's such an acquired taste. But not anymore well, honestly, 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:48.239 like I don't feel I feel like he's just not 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:51.240 to talk about Nick. But um, you know, I used 0:17:51.240 --> 0:17:53.320 to always say about Nick that there was like such 0:17:53.400 --> 0:17:56.800 moments of greatness within him. I'm there, like, but then 0:17:56.800 --> 0:17:59.199 there'd be moments where like we it would literally just 0:17:59.240 --> 0:18:00.800 beat me and him at lunch and he would be 0:18:00.840 --> 0:18:07.400 on his phone percent of the time and just like that, 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:12.359 Oh I did it. But I know. Um, but then 0:18:12.359 --> 0:18:14.880 there'll be moments of Nick that were just so good 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:16.399 and he was such a good friend. I'll never forget. 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:19.439 We were watching, uh the Bruins, the Boston Bruins. I'm 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:21.840 a Boston Bruins fan. They were in the Stanley Cup Finals. 0:18:21.880 --> 0:18:23.080 I was living in l A at the time, and 0:18:23.080 --> 0:18:25.280 we went out to go watch the game and with 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:27.439 our friends Tanner and Jade, who are also a Bachelor 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:29.880 Paradise couple, and they have a couple of kids, and 0:18:30.040 --> 0:18:31.600 Nick was there as well, and it was me and 0:18:31.640 --> 0:18:34.680 Ashley and then Tanner and Jade. There was I don't forget, 0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:36.440 there was like a moment and like the kids were 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:39.840 crying and Tanner couldn't help, and Jade was like emotional. 0:18:39.880 --> 0:18:41.560 I forget, Like it was just like a very quick 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:44.040 moment where the kids were crying, and I remember Nick 0:18:44.720 --> 0:18:47.399 just like grabbed the baby and it was like I 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:50.520 got this and just like helped rock the baby and 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:53.280 and like let Jade like compose herself for a minute 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:55.280 while Tanner, I think with dealing was dealing with the 0:18:55.320 --> 0:19:00.480 other kid. And I was like, bro, that like that's awesome. 0:19:00.520 --> 0:19:04.120 That said something, Yeah, thats something about him. Yeah it does, 0:19:04.480 --> 0:19:09.480 you know, it really does. And but now I think so, like, 0:19:10.359 --> 0:19:13.040 but now I feel like that that Nick that was 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:14.600 like there sixty percent of the time and the other 0:19:15.240 --> 0:19:16.520 was when he was on his phone all the time 0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:19.040 at lunch. Like he's that way a hundred percent at 0:19:19.040 --> 0:19:21.200 the time now. And I think he's so happy with Natalie, 0:19:21.880 --> 0:19:25.680 which is his girlfriend. It's like really cool to see 0:19:25.720 --> 0:19:28.199 that he's just completely head over heels in love with 0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:34.399 this girl. And uh, Anyhow, it's weird talking about he 0:19:34.880 --> 0:19:37.080 does not do do you know like that guy? Do 0:19:37.119 --> 0:19:39.560 you know how many of my friends are like, excuse me, 0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:41.320 not my friends, but like how many people coming to 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:43.639 the coffee shop? And I'm like, oh, like, who do 0:19:43.680 --> 0:19:45.720 you want me to you know, ask to come to 0:19:45.760 --> 0:19:48.920 the coffee shop and do an event with so many Nick, 0:19:49.520 --> 0:19:52.280 so many Nick fans? Oh? Yeah, they just they want to. 0:19:52.600 --> 0:19:54.320 There's like a certain appealed on Nick, you know what 0:19:54.400 --> 0:19:56.480 I mean? Like, who are some of the other people 0:19:57.560 --> 0:20:00.600 that like they'll say like most popular? Well obviously like 0:20:00.640 --> 0:20:02.960 they just like they I think a lot of people 0:20:02.960 --> 0:20:05.200 who know, like who like come in and want to 0:20:05.200 --> 0:20:06.960