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Speaker 1: not because it's so romantic. You know, you have to

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Speaker 1: And I bring this up because a woman has gone

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Speaker 1: Mack received a full blown power point of all the single.

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Speaker 1: Wedding, not just their names, though this presentation included photos, profession,

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Speaker 3: I feel like people should do that for their friends.

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Speaker 1: And all the guys are watching going which one of

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Speaker 1: There's a very nice thing to do though. It's a

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Speaker 1: Right, the flight gets delayed five hours, so I guess

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Speaker 2: You know, section C on the airport, fresh.

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Speaker 5: Out the back seat next to you away on the plane.

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Speaker 2: Right exactly. Hey, Renee, good morning, Hey, good morning. Hi Renee.

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Speaker 1: So you have one of these sort of wedding hookup scenarios,

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Speaker 2: Now you know what had been out. If she married

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Speaker 6: Married a short while after the wedding, so that might

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Speaker 3: Wife I unbeknownst to me. Unbeknownst to me, I.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't the future wife at the wedding. How was this

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Speaker 3: Exactly, I have no idea. I didn't ask questions.

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Speaker 6: Ignorance is boss.

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Speaker 1: I agree with that. Thank you for that PowerPoint would

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Speaker 3: No, I've never really hot take care. I've never really

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Speaker 5: Well, anything that happened that was scandalous was after one wedding,

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Speaker 7: Thod That truly good.

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Speaker 2: I'm in bed with a woman. I am the woman.

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Speaker 3: I'm here to tell the story.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well that was what I think.

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Speaker 1: That was the weekend where I learned that you, if

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Speaker 7: Jason Brown yells at me and always says, I've never

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Speaker 7: I'm not staying at this place. Oh wow, Oh no,

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Speaker 7: So I asked him, Can I can I stay with you?

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Speaker 7: didn't want to be by a woman. And then he

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Speaker 7: woke up at four am. And I'm not even being funny.

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Speaker 7: He screamed dad and shot up from like the bed,

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Speaker 2: And that scares me to this day.

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Speaker 3: That was a very interesting night.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: And this all happened because you wouldn't put your pants

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Speaker 8: Morning, Hi, good morning. How are you guys?

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Speaker 1: Hey, so you great, Thanks for calling for listening. So

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Speaker 8: So the wedding was in Cabo. It was my best

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Speaker 8: We're trying, like the whole weekend to get us together.

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Speaker 2: Wow. And so they'll be coming to your wedding.

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Speaker 8: And now it's fun because you know, like double dates

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Speaker 1: But have you considered, and I'm not putting this on you,

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Speaker 1: but have you considered that like if one, if somebody

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have real problems.

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Speaker 8: We talk about that. We're like, yeah, me and my

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Speaker 2: Well there you go, Amanda, thank you, it works. Have

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Speaker 2: a good date. It worked for you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, people, I just think people are in

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Speaker 2: I guess. I guess.

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Speaker 1: I just I as a man, I'm not familiar with

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Speaker 2: It were me.

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Speaker 4: You don't ever feel that, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: No, because it's short of meeting the person who I

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Speaker 1: I don't know that I want to be married. I

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've met anyone I should be married to.

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Speaker 1: I should be doing it with oka and I don't

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Speaker 3: I would say, so, I think, I think so.

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Speaker 1: So then I don't yeah, so, then, but howbout you

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Speaker 1: had friends at weddings being like, oh, someday I hope

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Speaker 1: this or something like Jesse.

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Speaker 2: You guys don't say that to each other.

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Speaker 4: I go every wedd and I go to I'm like, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: that my wedding one day. I like how they did that.

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Speaker 3: I'm not doing my wedding one day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And then you scan the room for the single man

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Speaker 3: So yeah, women think like that.

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Speaker 4: I mean, from my perspective, that's how I've thought at weddings.

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Speaker 3: But like, yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just want to go home sometimes, That's what I.

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Speaker 1: Mean.

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Speaker 2: But I'm like, I want to go home.

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Speaker 1: What is the earliest possible opportunity for an exit that's

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Speaker 1: not considered.

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Speaker 2: That's where I'm at