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Never been left waiting by the phone. 11 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Adam, good morning, Welcome to the program. 12 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm all right. 13 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:44,200 Speaker 2: How are you doing? 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 3: Man? 15 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: Do it okay? What's going on with this woman? Kristen? 16 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: I gotta know how you met, about any dates that 17 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: you've been on and where things are now? In waiting 18 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: by the phone because you feel like maybe she's ghosting you? 19 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 4: Right? Well? 20 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean though me and Kristin I met by 21 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 3: the pool at our gym one weekend, and I mean 22 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 3: we were both just kind of hanging out with friends 23 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 3: and so like both we were both in the pool 24 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 3: and we just kind of started talking and so like 25 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 3: I was like, I really want this conversation to keep going. 26 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 3: So I asked her out and she said yes, so 27 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 3: she gave me your number, and so like we texted 28 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:17,639 Speaker 3: for a little bit. 29 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 4: And then we decided that we wanted to take it further, 30 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 4: so we met up for drinks and the like drinks 31 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 4: that week. We ended up doing really really well and. 32 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 3: So like even before the date, like our artechts were 33 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 3: getting super super party and I mean even even a 34 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 3: little icy to a certain point, and so like, and 35 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 3: then when we met, we had like just this in 36 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 3: person chemistry that didn't disappoint and it was going really 37 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 3: really good. Like I mean I was even late to 38 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 3: work the next day because like we had ended up 39 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:48,559 Speaker 3: having so much late night fun. 40 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 4: But I mean ever since that date, like I just 41 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 4: haven't heard from her, and I don't know what's going on. 42 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:58,559 Speaker 4: Things were going well. She agreed that things were going well, 43 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 4: and I mean, I don't know what happened. 44 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's always kind of crazy when this happens, because 45 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: it's like everything was going so well. I mean the 46 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: way you describe it, all this chemistry and all this 47 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: sort of you know, fun stuff, going on at night, 48 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: you're late to work. I mean, this is all this 49 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: all sounds great, except for whatever reason, something must have happened. 50 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 1: And now I assume you've texted, You've called Christen, you've 51 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: you know, carried your pigeons and smoke signals and everything. Yeah, 52 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: I mean I didn't. 53 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 4: Like send her an over abundant, like desperate amount of 54 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 4: text but like I did a couple of check in texts. 55 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 4: They even tried to call her one night and on 56 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 4: like one of the nights we had like at a 57 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 4: new stupree because that was the night that she had 58 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 4: a preset schedule with work, and so like those were 59 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 4: usually the nights we would like talk over the phone, 60 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 4: and so like I tried to call her one night 61 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 4: and she just didn't pick up. And so I don't 62 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 4: want to be like a stalker and keep texting, and yeah, 63 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 4: we don't know what, but I just kind of want 64 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 4: to know what's going on. Like they were going really 65 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 4: really well and then nothing. 66 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah makes sense. So we're going to play a song, 67 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:00,519 Speaker 1: come back in a couple of minutes. We'll all Kristin, 68 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: you'll be on the phone, Adham. We're gonna ask these 69 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: questions for you, and the hope is that maybe she's 70 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: been busy or who knows what's going on. Hey, Adam, 71 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: all right, let's call Kristin. You guys, you met at 72 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: the gym, right. You met at the gym, and you're 73 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: at the pool right with with your friends, and you 74 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: hit it off and we're chatting and everything went well, 75 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: exchange numbers, texted, you know, things kind of got there 76 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 1: was a lot of flirtation going on. They got a 77 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: little spicy, kicky, They got a little spicy by his uh, 78 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: by his description, and you guys have gone out and 79 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: had a great time, and then all of a sudden 80 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: radio silence, Kristin is not responding to you like she 81 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: normally would. It appears that you're being ghosted. You want 82 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: to know why. Okay, let's call Kristin now. Good luck, Adam. 83 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 1: I appreciate it, but thinks HI is this Kristin? Hey Kristin, 84 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fredam calling for the Fred Show, 85 00:03:58,120 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: the morning radio show, and I have to tell you 86 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now, and I do 87 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Said, okay, 88 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: if we have for a second. 89 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 5: I guess, I guess I guess that's yes. 90 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: Okay, well thank you. We're calling out behalf of a 91 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: guy named Adam. I guess you met him at the 92 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: at the pool and you hung out a couple of times, 93 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: and uh, I guess you guys went on some dates 94 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. Do you remember meeting this guy 95 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 1: and going out with him? 96 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:21,280 Speaker 5: Yep? 97 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 1: Sure? Okay, So he describes to us a minute ago 98 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: what he thought was, you know, this this great story 99 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: about meeting and all the chemistry you guys had, the 100 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: dates you've been on. But he says he can't get 101 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: a hold of you now, So what's going on with that? 102 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: Why are we ignoring Adam? 103 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 5: Okay, listen, Adam is awesome. 104 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 2: Okay, he's attractive, he's charming, he's confident, he has great energy. 105 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: Okay, what's the butt? Where's the problem? I want to 106 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 1: go out with it? So we did. 107 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 5: We did go out. Okay, just sex was amazing. 108 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: But okay, so interesting, Okay, all right, just wait for it. 109 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: He's leaving my place and you know. 110 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 2: He's talking about, you know, meeting up again, and he 111 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 2: just casually slips in now you know, Oh, he just 112 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 2: has to work it around, you know, like his kids 113 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 2: swim schedule, which okay, yeah, cool, you've got kids, fine, 114 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: and his wife's works schedule. Oh how do you think 115 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: I felt having just had this amazing night with this 116 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 2: man and all of a sudden learning that he. 117 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 1: Has a wife. Okay, so hold us. So you guys, 118 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: you met, you talked, you hooked up, you went on dates. 119 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: You didn't mention a way he never mentioned that he 120 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: was married. And then like in passing he's like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 121 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: maybe tomorrow, but if my wife can pick up the kids. 122 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,119 Speaker 5: Cos it out there like it's nothing. 123 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: And you didn't know anything about this. You didn't know 124 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: there was a wife. 125 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 5: I knew nothing about it. I would have never gone 126 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 5: out with him. 127 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: That's that's a details. 128 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 2: I had known that he had a wife. 129 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 1: Be helpful to know. Let me bring Adam, and I 130 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 1: forgot to mention kristin the Adam is here. I'm very forgetful. Also, 131 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: you're married, Adam, and that that's just not important to know. 132 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 133 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 4: I mean, did I forget to mention that? 134 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, yeah, you forgot to mention that. 135 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. 136 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 4: No, I'm non monogamous and my wife has agreed to 137 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 4: everything to an open relationship. She doesn't want to live 138 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:24,039 Speaker 4: that life, and so she says that I'm I'm available 139 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 4: to do whatever I would like because she would like 140 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 4: me to be happy in that respect, but she just 141 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 4: doesn't want to know about it. 142 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 5: So she doesn't want to know about it, like. 143 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: Really, and that would be interesting is to see, because 144 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, madam, what you're describing is. 145 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 2: Not I don't believe that. 146 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 1: I don't believe that what are you describing. I have 147 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: heard of existing before. 148 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 2: Where I have to But the wife actually like agrees 149 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 2: and like she's available to like talk to, you know, 150 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 2: potential partners. 151 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 5: It's like they don't believe. 152 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: A few she says she's wanting to doing it. But 153 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: at the same time, it's yeadam, you got it. I'm 154 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 1: trying to but you you got to disclose that the 155 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 1: other person involved in this needs to have all the 156 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: information because maybe like in this case, Kristin is not 157 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: comfortable with this arrangement even if it's above board in 158 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: your house exactly, and. 159 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 5: I mean it's about board. Why can't I talk to her? 160 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 5: I have trying to, you know, with this. 161 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 2: Kind of a lifestyle, and they're always allowed to talk 162 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 2: to the spouse and get it verified. That's all I'm 163 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 2: asking for, Like, if this is above board, The only 164 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 2: way I could participate in this is if I got 165 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 2: to talk to your wife and she said, yay. 166 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 5: Verily she can do this. 167 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 2: Okay, That's the only way. 168 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 4: Adam, I can her about like a verification thing, Like, 169 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 4: that's not problem. I'm not trying to find anything. Like 170 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 4: she just was very like she just very much said 171 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 4: she doesn't want to know about it if I'm being 172 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:46,119 Speaker 4: involved with another person. 173 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: But I mean, that's let's say that Adam's telling the truth. 174 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: I'm just going to give him the benefit of the 175 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: mount and he is telling the truth. You're saying that 176 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: if you could talk to her and verify, you might 177 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: be interested. But my question to Adam answer you, Kristin 178 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: is are you not upset or concerned about how this 179 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: might define the relationship. Because even if it's okay, Adam, 180 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 1: what's the likelihood you leave your wife? What's the likelihood 181 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: you wind up committed to Kristen in a relationship like 182 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: without I mean, Kristin, do you want to be a 183 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: third member of a dynamic? Sign up for that when 184 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: you meet a guy or you when you guys start 185 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: talking and no one just closes this sort of open 186 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: relationship thing. I mean, in your mind, it's it's what 187 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: I make it for me, right, So, adam you if 188 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: you fall in love with Kristin, well, are you going 189 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: to leave your wife? I mean that's pretty unlikely. 190 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 4: But I mean also Kristen said that she didn't want kids, 191 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 4: so I mean, I don't know what's to stop us 192 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 4: from doing this, Like. 193 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 2: It'll make me feel like I'm a cheater. I'm a 194 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 2: cheater for the entire length of our relationship. 195 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 1: How do I introduce you to people? Well? Then, but 196 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: like I just want to try to figure out is okay? 197 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: So so let's say it's all on the up and up? 198 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: I mean, is that just so that you know you 199 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: haven't been cheating and and you're gonna dump this guy? 200 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: Or like if she says, yeah, it's true, I let 201 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: him do it, then are you okay with those terms? 202 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 1: Because he just said he's not leaving his wife. So basically, 203 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: now you can accept that you're. 204 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 2: Going to be if there's no chance of him leaving 205 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 2: his wife. And I'm just like some weird little secret. Yeah, 206 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 2: I'm probably not interested honestly, Like I just I don't 207 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:19,719 Speaker 2: think I can live with that. 208 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: I can't live that way on your head, Kiki, what 209 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: because this is in like he's insane. This is insane. 210 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 1: Like you, if your wife gave you the green light 211 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: to do whatever you want to do, do it. But 212 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 1: why bring in people unknowingly, like hey my wife, I 213 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: have a wife. You don't tell somebody after the fact. 214 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: I think you gotta lay that out for me. I think, Adam, 215 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: you know that a lot of people are gonna say 216 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 1: no to this situation, and you didn't want Christin to 217 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: say no, so you just didn't tell her. That's what 218 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: I really lied, lied, And I can accept that, right, Okay? 219 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: Do we have an accountable person on that? It's impossible. 220 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: I do think you gotta you gotta lead with it, Adam, 221 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: Like you got to tell people, hey, I'm in an 222 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: open relationship, like I got a wife and kids, and 223 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: that's not going to change because everything changes now for 224 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 1: Kristen because maybe she didn't want to be an accessory. 225 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 1: Maybe she didn't want to be just you know the 226 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: side thing. Maybe she wants you to all to herself, 227 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 1: and she has every right to make that decision. But 228 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,719 Speaker 1: if she doesn't know, then look here we are. 229 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 5: It's just really disrespectful, is really what it comes down to. 230 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 5: It's incredibly disrespectful and it puts the other person in a. 231 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 2: Place where they feel dirty. 232 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 5: And she's, yeah, have you. 233 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: Ever had this problem before, Adam? I mean I assume 234 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: you've been doing this for a little while, Like if 235 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: you had this issue, where when do you normally lead 236 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: with it? You normally tell people up friend or no. 237 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: I mean usually the kind of gauge how how things go. First, 238 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: it's not going to work out. Kristin, Hey, thank you 239 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: for your time, and I'm sorry that you know this 240 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: happened to you and I wish you to mess an Adam. 241 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 1: Good luck out there to you as well. 242 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 4: Thank you