1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: I need that. I need to get in that financial domination. 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: Like you're telling me just like, hey, give me fifty 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: dollars and they're like here you whatever you say. It's 4 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: all online and you don't even show them your tids 5 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: or anything like this makes people very happy. They're happy 6 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: to bleed themselves dry because they're not they have so 7 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: much money, right, while some of them don't. I think 8 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: some people probably go broke doing this, and that's probably 9 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: less ethical. But but yeah, I mean, I think that 10 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: you've got a better chance of getting clients if you 11 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: do show your tips. That's for the Patreon, Yeah, Paton, 12 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 1: you have to subscribe for that kind of content. If 13 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: you're just going to send me a one time only 14 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: five dollars, you know, get ship. So you should just 15 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: message business men online and say, hey, send me five 16 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: right now. Look, you're not gonna get it if you 17 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: don't ask. That's very true, and a businessman would be 18 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: the first one to say, so, hey, do what the 19 00:00:55,840 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: lady says. She's very authoritative. That's right. You will. You 20 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: will feel all your control slip away as soon as 21 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: you write that check or make that whatever. Look not 22 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: a paper check, it's a figure of speech who is 23 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: still writing checks? Yeah, get your investment accountant to cut 24 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: me a check directly from your best performing portfolio and 25 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: I will be happy to invest it for myself. Is 26 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: the portfolio everything or do you have different portfolios? I 27 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: guess the portfolio is meant to be the whole thing, right, 28 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: What the what I'm getting at is we need a 29 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: financial advisor. So if anybody out there, I mean to 30 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: manage our portfolios. We don't even have a folder, let 31 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: alone a portfolio. Romance, I heart media dot com um. Also, 32 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: Hi everybody, I'm Eli. Hey, I'm Diana. Well we got 33 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: something exciting to start with today. I think we were 34 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: digging through the old digital file box here and it 35 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:11,119 Speaker 1: looks like we've got to take a mail call. Awesome. 36 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: This is from Seth bats That's that's he wrote in 37 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: after our Lonely Hearts Killers episode. Yeah, that was an 38 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: episode you gotta go back and check out if you 39 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: haven't heard it. Uh, it's about Martha Beck and Raymond 40 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: Fernandez and the two of them met through the Lonely 41 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: Hearts magazine ad. It was like the personals ad, but 42 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: it was also very looked down on at the time, 43 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: Like you were very it was very shameful to have 44 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: to go through this process. So this reminded our friends, 45 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: Seth of a story. Seth wrote, I was reminded of 46 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: how my parents met and I wanted to share it 47 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: with y'all. Picture it Logan, Utah three at the Utah 48 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: State University campus. My mom's college roommate hands around the 49 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 1: personal section of the newspaper and they're making fun of 50 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 1: the various profiles of for advertising your desire for marriage, 51 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: especially this one single father of three. They're making fun 52 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: of this guy. Yeah, I'm a single father of three 53 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: and I'm just trying to meet someone. It's hard to 54 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: get out there because I don't know if you heard, 55 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm a single father of three. So I'm going to 56 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: put an ad in the paper and they're laughing at him. 57 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: Kids are like me. After having a good laugh at 58 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: how desperate he sounded, she dared my mom to go 59 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: on a date with him. I think you can guess 60 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: what happened after that. While it had a different name, 61 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: it's still had the same stigma you talked about of 62 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: only the truly desperate resorting to advertising in the paper 63 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, it's true, Seth. I don't think it's 64 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: I guess it's gotten a little better with all the 65 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: online stuff because it's so ubiquitous. But well, and I remember, 66 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: you know, fortunately never had to do online dating, but 67 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: I remember the stigma around that being really bad when 68 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: it first started, definitely like you were only going to 69 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: meet creeps online, Like, oh my god, I can't believe 70 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 1: you a date online? How do you get to know 71 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: a person? And now it is the most normal thing 72 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, I think a lot of people are like, 73 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: I just don't have to meet people in real life anymore. 74 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: Not that I mean again, I hate to say anymore, 75 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: because it's not like we weren't always using some type 76 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: of way besides just walking up to a stranger in 77 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: a public place, which I also never did. I know, right, 78 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: I had a tried and true method for dating, and 79 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: it was randomly hook up with one of your old 80 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: friends and then date them for two years. It worked 81 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: for me three times, and then I married one of them. 82 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: And I'm so glad Seth that it worked out for 83 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 1: you and your parents. It was amazing. Definitely know there 84 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: were being mean about it. Well, I was just going 85 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: to say, I hope that your mom's friend had to 86 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: had to give a little speech at the wedding and 87 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 1: explain herself and how how wrong she was to laugh 88 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 1: at this man. We're like, look at this poor single dad, 89 00:04:54,760 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: raising his kids, doing the right thing. Seth also suggested 90 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: that we find a story from the Morrador or the 91 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: Mormon Corridor of southern Idaho, Utah and northern Arizona, because 92 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 1: surely with all the polygamy, all the bigamy, I guess 93 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: I should say, going must be some great stories, which 94 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 1: is so true, and I definitely want to look into that. 95 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 1: But I think we all know one does not simply 96 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: walk into the Morador. We're excited as always to bring 97 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: you another ridiculous romance today, and this one we're going 98 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: across the Palden. You could say, we are going to 99 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: talk about Winston and Clementine Churchill. And I'll tell you 100 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: right now, if you've been saying Clementine like I was, 101 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: you're saying it wrong. It was Clementine. And what we 102 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: really want to focus on today is the fact that, um, hey, Diana, 103 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: do you like Nazis. I fucking don't. I don't like 104 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: Nazis either, and I'm so glad that they're are at 105 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: least as few Nazis as there are today. Um, still 106 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: too many, still too many. But one is too many. 107 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: But I'll tell you right now, if it were not 108 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: for the marriage of Winston and Clementine Churchill, it's entirely 109 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 1: possible that we would be surrounded by Nazis today. Isn't 110 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: that a scary thought? One tumultuous marriage, and we are 111 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: going to get into that this episode and really focus 112 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 1: on their marriage during World War Two and how it 113 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: shaped the outcome. Yeah, well, let's do it. Let's get started. Hey, 114 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: their French come listen. Well, Eli and Diana got some 115 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: stories to tell. There's no matchmaking, a romantic tips. It's 116 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: just about ridiculous relationships, a lover, it might be any 117 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 1: type of person at all. And abstract concept are a 118 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:48,359 Speaker 1: concrete wall. But if there's a story, were the second glance, 119 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: we'll show ridiculous roll lets a production of I Heart Radio. 120 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 1: Clementine Churchill was born at home on the drawing room floor, 121 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: not what a drawing room Laura's for normally um in 122 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 1: London in five to Lady Blanche Hosia, who was an unconventional, 123 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: very rebellious aristocrats aristocratic woman and her husband, Sir Henry 124 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: Montague Hosier, who is a military officer. Clementine's parents did 125 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: not get along. They hated each other. They were constantly cheating. 126 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: There was this was an arranged marriage from a very 127 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: young age for Lady Blanche, and they weren't happy. In fact, 128 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: I guess Lady Blanche particularly like to step out so 129 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: much that people assumed that none of their children were 130 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: actually Henry's. They were just kind of like, Yeah, they 131 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: hate each other so much that it's likely they maybe 132 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: went to bed together a couple of times at best, 133 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: if that. Yeah, It's long been rumored that actually Lady 134 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: Blanche's brother in law is Clementine's mother, her sister's husband. 135 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: So to be fair, Sir Henry was no catch. I mean, 136 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: this was a very stodgy British imperial guy. He slept 137 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: around too, and he was he was didn't sound like 138 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: a lot of fun. Yeah, So with all that against them, 139 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: they actually separated when Clementine was six years old, probably 140 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: for the best. It sounds like not a great home 141 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: life together. Yeah. Lady Blanche was described by Clementine's daughter 142 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: Mary Solmes as looking as if Butter wouldn't melt in 143 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: her mouth, which is a British expression. Not hot enough 144 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: to melt butter basically, but she was hot. She would 145 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: have melted tons of butter. She melted many sticks of 146 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: butter in England. Only here where you get a phallic 147 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: symbol made out of a stick of butter. That's a 148 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: that's some good old American ingenuity right there. We can 149 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 1: make a dick out of anything. We can make a 150 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 1: dick out of anything, and we can make anything out 151 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 1: of butter. That's true. So Sir Henry was refusing to 152 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: pay alimony. After they separated and Lady Blanche fell out 153 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 1: of high society, she was living on family handouts. In 154 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: Clementine was fourteen and her mother packed up the family 155 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: and they moved to the north of France to a 156 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: town called deep And shortly after they weren't there for 157 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: too long before Clementine's oldest sister, Kitty, got typhoid fever. 158 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: Kitty was this like very pretty outgoing, fun loving daughter. 159 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: But Kitty got sick and sadly she did die when 160 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: she was just sixteen years old, and this really crushed 161 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: Lady Blanche and she retreated even further from Clementine. At 162 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: this point, So Blanche moved all the family back to 163 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 1: London and Clementine's growing up and she's, oh, she's kind 164 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:44,959 Speaker 1: of pretty. Oh she's pretty smart. Maybe Clementine can get us, 165 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: the whole family back into society, you know, where they 166 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: had kind of fallen out of favor. So she turned 167 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: to an aunt by marriage, Lady Saint Helier, who Mary 168 00:09:55,200 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 1: Solmes calls a frightful snob, and Lady Blonde was insistent 169 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: that Clementine get into a higher social class than they 170 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 1: were currently in. So she was like, you need to 171 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: be properly educated, very important for a high class lady. 172 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 1: But she couldn't learn unladylike subjects like math or maths 173 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: in England because they pluralize it over there. Well there's 174 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: more than one math, yes, I mean, I mean you're 175 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: right England, Yes, maths is plural, but just math. It's 176 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: a th h. We don't need to stick an s 177 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: on the end and make it more complicated studying math 178 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: which math? Oh there are many, right, or you just 179 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 1: say trigonometry, calculus, whatever, you know, the maths. Math is 180 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: what the English are saying right now, maths many maths. 181 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 1: Uh yeah. So she was like listen. If you learn 182 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: any math, you're going to ruin your marriage prospects. No 183 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:52,719 Speaker 1: man likes chick who likes math? Al Right, it's like, oh, 184 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: my dear, I just can't remember what three plus six is. 185 00:10:56,800 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: It's really not coming to me. Nine. What did you say? 186 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 1: I said eleven or six? I don't know. It's more 187 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 1: like it. Yeah. Her mom's like, you're allowed to learn humanities, 188 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: and you're allowed to learn French, and you're allowed to 189 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: learn German. So in her teen years, the headmistress she 190 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 1: had at school saw a lot of potential in her 191 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: and was like, this girl matters, this girl is important, 192 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: she is smart, learn maths pretty much. The thing was 193 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: Clementine was actually from her kind of awkward upbringing, but 194 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: not being very close with her mother and sort of 195 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: you know, coming in and out of different societies and 196 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 1: being away in France for a while. She was very 197 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: shy and reserved and quiet. And this headmistress was like, 198 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to teach you confidence and self reliance and 199 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: here's some things I want you to grow up learning. 200 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 1: It's too late for me, but I want you. I'm 201 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 1: twenty six, but I want you to learn practically a grandmother. 202 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: I want you to learn women's studies. I want you 203 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: to learn about the suffragist move man. I want you 204 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: to learn about, you know, women's right to vote, things 205 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 1: like that. I want you to be an unexpected force. 206 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 1: I want you to know things that people wouldn't think 207 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 1: you would know, because you you've got it, You've got 208 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: the gift. And she really invested herself in Clementine. Clementine 209 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 1: did go secretly teach herself maths. She would go to 210 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: the local church and hang out in the graveyard and 211 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 1: lay out her books on tombstones and study math there. 212 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:33,839 Speaker 1: I'm here for a math goth real. She's like, it's 213 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 1: just me and the bones and the ravens learning trigonometry. 214 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: What in acute tombstone goodness? If only someone was here 215 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: to enjoy by wit and then some constable walks by, 216 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: young lady. Did I just hell, you'll make a moth's joke. 217 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: Someone complained about a blue stocking in the graveyard. The 218 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 1: monarchy is collapsing, listen. Blanche had very specific trajectory for Clementine, 219 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: so despite her math pastime, when she turned nineteen, she 220 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 1: made her debut and a debutante ball but of course, Clementine, 221 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: her mother played no part in this debut. So she's there, 222 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: She's just peeking behind the curtains, like is everything going? 223 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: She talking about geometry again. But it was all Lady 224 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: Saint Helier and it was at one of her balls, 225 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: which was held at the home of Robert Offley Ashburton 226 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: Crew mimes, the first Marquess of Crew and his wife Peggy. 227 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,959 Speaker 1: Where's all her names? She only she gets You think 228 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: she was relieved? Do you think women ben where He's like, 229 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: I'm just sucking Peggy, Lady Peggy. It's fine, you know, 230 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 1: because some of these guys had to walk into a 231 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: room and be like, oh, how do you do my 232 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: name is? Maybe you should sit down, take a breath. 233 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 1: We're the first half of the day will be introductions. 234 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 1: Then we'll break for a light lunch. I will continue 235 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: my name after that. After that, and then sometime on 236 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 1: Thursday we'll begin our conversation. So this is the first 237 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: time Clementine meets Winston Churchill, The right Honorable Sir Winston 238 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: Leonard Spencer Churchill, first of his name, Commander of the 239 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 1: sixth Battalion, Chancellor of the Exchequer, Red of Hair, father 240 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: of butterflies and Prime Minister of the United Kingdom of 241 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: Great Britain and Northern Ireland was born November seventy four, 242 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: which is a great birthday, I must say. In fact, 243 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:43,239 Speaker 1: some other notable birthdays from November Mark Twain, the satirist, 244 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 1: Jonathan Swift, uh the artist, Marina Abramovic, actor director writer 245 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 1: Ben Stiller, comedy legend KYLEE. Quoko, another another hilarious actress, 246 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: Mandy Patinkin, the Great and somebody else was oh me, 247 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: that's my birthday. His parents were the English statesman Lord 248 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: Randolph Churchhill and Jenny Jerome, an American beauty from Brooklyn. 249 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: Growing up, he was a little ginger boy in school, 250 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: bright red hair, and he got the nickname Coppa Knob. 251 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: And he was actually terrible at school. He was not good. 252 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: His grades were not great, but he loved studying English, 253 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 1: the English language, and it took him three times before 254 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: he finally passed the entrance exam for the Royal Military College. 255 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: And the way he managed to get in was that 256 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: he decided, well, I'll apply for the cavalry instead of 257 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 1: the infantry because they had lower requirements and you wouldn't 258 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 1: need to study maths. He didn't need mathematics to get 259 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: into the cavalry. That's kind of why a major in theater. 260 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: He's like, oh, look, I just have to take a 261 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: one thousand one course in math and then I can 262 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: move the funk on. Fantastic. That's so fun. It never 263 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: lies to you, I mean, but it's it's concrete and 264 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 1: till it changes. That's fun too, that it gets exciting 265 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: from a nerd out and state. You're saying all the 266 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: things that made me go, and I'm done. I'm done. 267 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 1: All right. Back to Winston. We're just going to rush 268 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: through his early life here because it just reads like 269 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 1: a checklist of political and military achievements. He started in 270 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: the British Army in later he gained fame as a 271 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: war correspondent. He was a very good writer and he 272 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 1: wrote books about his time in the war, and he 273 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: eventually worked for the press as a correspondent and people 274 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: loved the way that he wrote. Eventually he served as 275 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 1: a Member of Parliament and MP, and there he championed 276 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: prison reform. He served as the Secretary of State for 277 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 1: War and also as the Secretary of State for the Colonies, 278 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 1: and also as the Secretary of State for air, the 279 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: Secretary of State for Fire, Secretary of State for Wind, 280 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: Secretary of State for water, earth heart, and so on, 281 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 1: you know combined. I am Winston Churchill. He was elected 282 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 1: minister in n and he gave old Man Hitler what 283 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 1: for what for sterne threshing. So look, there are multi 284 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:14,160 Speaker 1: volume novels about Winston church Hills military and political careers. 285 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 1: There are articles all about his controversy because he's like 286 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 1: also kind of a piece of ship. A lot of 287 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: classic British imperialism going on between him and India and 288 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: other colonies. Quite a bit of racist ship came out 289 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 1: of his mouth back in the day. Um, and there's 290 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: a lot out there about that. There's forty billion movies 291 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: about World War Two. I checked, there are forty billion 292 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 1: about World War two. Google how many World War two 293 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 1: movies there are, and you will find a Wikipedia page 294 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: that never stops scrolling, and you will spend the rest 295 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: of your days scrolling to the bottom of that list 296 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: because there are a lot, and we are not here 297 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: for that. You all know that we are here for 298 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: the ridiculous romance. We're here for the snogs, We're here 299 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: for the shags. So let's look at how these two 300 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 1: definitely loft swoggles met. By the way, I've been making 301 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 1: up a lot of British terminology this episode, because I 302 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 1: love things like daffite loft swoggles, chattery block snocks, swindly 303 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:19,399 Speaker 1: pito pats. They're so fun. I wish we had we 304 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:22,360 Speaker 1: don't have. We don't have that. So yes, it's nineteen 305 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 1: o four, Clementine stepping out for her debut at nineteen 306 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 1: years old, statuesque, lovely lady with well opened sapphire blue 307 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: eyes and a brain to match sapphire, because she's the 308 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:42,479 Speaker 1: smartest brain. Get it. I was here, I was on 309 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 1: that level. I don't know if y'all were going with me, 310 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: but I have a regular old green brain, so I 311 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: couldn't keep up. I got a green brain too, And 312 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 1: I was saying anyway, and Winston, oh yeah, marijuana. Yeah, 313 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: that's a green brain working slow. So Clementine's nineteen. Winston 314 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 1: is twenty nine years old. Winston is a member of 315 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 1: the Conservative Parliament, but he was a strong Centrist really. 316 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 1: He sided with the Liberals on many issues, including free trade, 317 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 1: limiting military expenses, trade union support issues like that, and 318 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 1: in May of that same year he actually crossed the 319 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 1: floor in the House of Commons to join the Liberal Party. 320 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: So Winston is already a controversial political figure. And not 321 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: only that is he controversial, but he's also terrible at 322 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 1: small talk. He's not one for parties. He doesn't particularly 323 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:46,360 Speaker 1: like this scene and uh, quite frankly, according to Winston 324 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 1: Churchill dot org, he was neither conventionally good looking nor athletic, which, 325 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: if your own namesake website is calling you out for 326 00:19:56,920 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: being ugly, like what a burn seriously one makes www 327 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 1: dot Diana Banks dot org and says she was not 328 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 1: really very cute, and I'll be like, excuse me. He 329 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 1: was a member of parliament, but he had no title, 330 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 1: he had no stately residence, and most importantly for lady Blanche, 331 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: he did not have a big old pile of money 332 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 1: lying around. It was not from cash. And so at first, 333 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 1: when he steps out of the ball, she's like, Winston, 334 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:34,400 Speaker 1: that's enough of that. And he walks by Lady Clementine 335 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: and they make some flirtatious eyes at each other. Lady 336 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: Blanche saw him, it must have been like to He'll 337 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 1: keep walking, keep walking, Oh, just pass on by kaponob 338 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: But Winston walks by Clementine looks into those big, beautiful 339 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: sapphire eyes and they smile at each other, and he 340 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: walks on by, and Lady Blanche is like, oh, thank god, 341 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:11,119 Speaker 1: somebody bring me a cordial. She is relieved so instead, 342 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: over the next couple of years, Clementine starts racking up 343 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: proposals from all kinds of stately gentlemen and foppish, dull 344 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: chocoler DAGs, wimbly old rump snuffers, ludicrously fat Bartholomew babies, 345 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: so many so that her younger sister had to keep 346 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: a file of all of her suitors and proposals that 347 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 1: she was getting, and she had them sorted under rejected, pending, 348 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:42,160 Speaker 1: and accepted. There were a few in the accepted category. 349 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 1: But a useful little secretary. It's fun. She's like, did 350 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 1: I accept him yet? Or she's still in the pending phone. No, 351 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,719 Speaker 1: he's pending. Put him in rejected. I've decided, all right, 352 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 1: another one for the shredder. She just gives it to 353 00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:01,159 Speaker 1: the dog dog shredder. Yeah, there you go, shouted, I 354 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 1: take it outside. And she started to get a little 355 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 1: worried about how picky she was. She was like, maybe 356 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: I'll never get married. And Winston, meanwhile, also very picky, 357 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:15,160 Speaker 1: and he had a ridiculous suitability test for the wife 358 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 1: that he was looking for. He said, first and foremost, 359 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 1: she has to have a face beautiful enough to launch 360 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 1: a thousand ships. Then we'll talk. Then we'll see if 361 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:29,199 Speaker 1: we're compatible. If her face could only launch two hundred ships, 362 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: we'll talk. But if her face could only launch one little, 363 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 1: puny ship, just like a little gunboat or something, she's 364 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,360 Speaker 1: in the reject pile, not even gonna speak with her. Meanwhile, 365 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:49,719 Speaker 1: Winston's face launs ships full of women, women and children 366 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: first into lifeboats. So obviously this is an idiotic system 367 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: that he has set up. Because once he lined these 368 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 1: women up, the ones who were kind enough to stick 369 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: around for him, he'd find out that they had, surprised 370 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 1: nothing in common. Like, yeah, that's you've got to rearrange 371 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 1: your criteria there, buddy. He learned that looks fade but 372 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: dumb as forever. But a lot of these women he 373 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 1: found very dull. He thought, you know, they only wanted 374 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 1: to talk about balls and frocks and things like that nature, 375 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: you know, gossip, and that's not fair, Winston. Sometimes I 376 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:34,640 Speaker 1: talk about gloves so I've heard enough about these gloves. 377 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 1: Oh would you like to hear about my reticule. So 378 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 1: he really hated tedious conversation and that kind of thing. 379 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 1: He wanted someone who understood what he was talking about. 380 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: He wanted to talk about politics and global events and 381 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 1: the state of the world and economics and things like that, 382 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 1: and he wanted someone to at least tolerate that and 383 00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 1: at best engage with him in that conversation. Which is 384 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,679 Speaker 1: so funny to me because it was like society was 385 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: set up to be like, women aren't supposed to learn that. 386 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 1: If you did, you were an undesirable wife. But then 387 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: they'd be like, all these girls are so boring and 388 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: they have nothing to talk about, and it's like, well, 389 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: whose fault is that, Like, let him have something to 390 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 1: talk about. So in the spring of nineteen o eight, 391 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 1: four years after their initial brief meeting, Lady st. Hellier 392 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: was having another grand ball. Winston was sitting in his 393 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: tub beforehand, super grumpy about it. He did not want 394 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,239 Speaker 1: to go. He was sick of these formal events. It 395 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: wasn't his scene, and he didn't feel like he was 396 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:43,879 Speaker 1: going to meet anybody interesting there. Meanwhile, Lady st helier 397 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: was having a nervous breakdown because a guest, a woman, 398 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,159 Speaker 1: had fallen ill and wasn't going to be there, and 399 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 1: there was going to be an empty chair. My numbers. 400 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 1: Just throw me in a ditch and let the wolves 401 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 1: have me. You know what kind of a hostess has 402 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 1: an uneven numbers? Tragedy in the making. But then she thinks, 403 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: wait a minute, what about that strange girl, Clementine. She's 404 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 1: still single for some reason. She's practically a corpse. I 405 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 1: can put her in a chair. And she invites Clementine, 406 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 1: who had spent the whole day teaching French, and she 407 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 1: was tired, and she didn't have a thing to wear, 408 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,479 Speaker 1: and um almost turned it down because it was very 409 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,719 Speaker 1: last minut invitation, but she decided she was going to go. 410 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 1: So Clementine shows up. There's only two chairs left by 411 00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,679 Speaker 1: the time she gets there, so she takes one of 412 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 1: them and sits down, and then door slowly creaks open, 413 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,879 Speaker 1: and this thirty four year old guy comes in, stomp 414 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: at his feet, real grumpy. Sits down and the only 415 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 1: chair left right next to Clementine, and within the hour 416 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: they were deep in conver station. I mean, these two 417 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 1: really were made for each other, it seems, because they 418 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: were both still bored with everybody else, and it was 419 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,679 Speaker 1: just like they were waiting for the other person, because he, 420 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 1: of course loved that she knew anything about the world, 421 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,120 Speaker 1: and she loved too. I'm sure that he was interested 422 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 1: in hearing any of these opinions she had. And I 423 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 1: guess the rest of the party was all like, how 424 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: rude do you see, Winston. He's over there ignoring all 425 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 1: the male dignitaries in favor of a woman. The woman 426 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: is listening to him, dashing brandy and seagulls. Oh my god, man, 427 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 1: what could she be offering you? That's so fascinating? But 428 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: she just not like she's talking about maths for something 429 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 1: interesting like that. Let's be clear, I think plenty of 430 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 1: dudes in high society also no ship about math, plenty 431 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:58,440 Speaker 1: of sea students up in here. Looks counted little with 432 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 1: her states Winston Churchill dot org. Jez damn again with 433 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 1: the burn. They just took every opportunity to be like. 434 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: And by the way, this guy was plug ugly like, 435 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: and Winston Churchill dot org is a voracious and furious 436 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 1: defender of his legacy. If they had no trouble. They 437 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: are like, we are going to keep it real about 438 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 1: the man's looks. He was a three and that's how 439 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:28,359 Speaker 1: it is British, the British three. When asked later that 440 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 1: night if Clementine found him handsome, she said, I find 441 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:37,399 Speaker 1: him very interesting, was a kind answer. He has a 442 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: great personality. Look, she was a diplomat from early on. 443 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:44,199 Speaker 1: Right well, and again she's probably like, who cares? Like, 444 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,919 Speaker 1: I've talked to some handsome dudes and I wanted to 445 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 1: jump out a window within like a day, So like, 446 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,400 Speaker 1: let me find somebody who doesn't bore me to tears. 447 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,359 Speaker 1: You know, who cares? What his face is like that 448 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 1: it sounds like that was one of the first conversations 449 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:05,920 Speaker 1: she legitimately enjoyed, like in her life, maybe years old. 450 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 1: For five months, they saw each other frequently as social engagements. 451 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 1: They sent to each other letters, and in September of 452 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: nine they got married, and Lady Blunch she actually wasn't 453 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,399 Speaker 1: too unhappy with the match. She was interested. She was 454 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 1: into it. She said, you know what, it's not the 455 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:24,399 Speaker 1: easy life that I wanted for her, but she's happy. 456 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 1: Real change of heart for Lady Blanche there, like, you 457 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 1: know what I'm really trying to put a square peg 458 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:34,159 Speaker 1: in a round hole here. And maybe my daughter's happiness 459 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,919 Speaker 1: is important. I don't know. And Clementine's grandmother, Lady Airley, 460 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 1: wrote that Winston is his father over again with the 461 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 1: American driving force, added, Clementine is wise, she will follow him, 462 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 1: and I hope say little. No, Lady Airley was the wrong, 463 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 1: Thank goodness, I know right, Thankfully, Clementine did not say little. 464 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: She said a lot. There's a story and history dot com. 465 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,719 Speaker 1: And in nine nine, Winston and Clementine had just arrived 466 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: in Bristol to do some glad handing with like local 467 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 1: party members, little political stop, and they had just been 468 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: fighting about the women's right to vote. This was a 469 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 1: big issue between them because Clementine was very pro women's 470 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: suffrage and Winston was very against it. He had taken 471 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 1: a public stance against it, in fact, and everyone knew 472 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: he was against it. So they're in Bristol. They're on 473 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 1: the platform of the train station. Clementine's on one end 474 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 1: chatting people up and Winston's on the other end doing 475 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 1: the same, and then out of the crowd a suffragist 476 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 1: burst forward and started attacking Winston. She beat him and 477 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: shoved him towards the tracks where a train was speeding 478 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 1: in fast. He teetered, he waved his hands, he tilted. 479 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 1: Will he survive or will Winston Churchill be crushed by 480 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: a speeding train laid lat on the tracks and a 481 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 1: big spatter of Winston mess. There's only one way to 482 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 1: know for sure, and we'll find out at this commercial break. 483 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,360 Speaker 1: Welcome back to the show. But we left our heroes last. 484 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 1: Winston was teetering towards his very depth in front of 485 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 1: a speeding train after being attacked by a militant suffragist. Fortunately, 486 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 1: from across the platform, Clementine saw what was happening, and 487 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 1: she wonder woman her way over to him. She was 488 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 1: tossing people out of her way left and right. She 489 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: was tumbling over a whole stack of sacks of luggage. 490 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: She was pushing carts and porters. She slapped a man 491 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 1: in the face to get to Winston. And she got 492 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: to Winston, and she grabbed the coat tails of his 493 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: jacket and pulled him back just as the train flew by, 494 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 1: saving his dang dang life. Amazing and hopefully, he thought, 495 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,320 Speaker 1: maybe I should give women the vote if they're Quentu 496 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 1: pushed me in front of Sadly, it did not change 497 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 1: his mind. Now, if anything, he'd probably like, see, look 498 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 1: how crazy you are. If women could vote, they'd vote 499 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 1: to throw me in front of a train. Might be right, yeah, 500 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: they might have clearly one person, one woman voiced her. 501 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 1: She said, I'll have a voice, whether you like it 502 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,479 Speaker 1: or not, sir. I wonder if she said that as 503 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 1: she shoved him. I vote you in front of trains. Clementine. 504 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 1: I mean she was athletic. That's the other thing about her. 505 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 1: She was taller and more athletic than Winston. She liked 506 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 1: to play tennis and go swimming and even climbing and 507 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 1: everything like that. So she was she was ready to 508 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,760 Speaker 1: save a life if she was called to do so. 509 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: I love it. But in England got into a spot 510 00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: of batha, a little fool little tit for tat with 511 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: the Germans called World War One. Well, I guess at 512 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 1: the time it was called the Great they were hoping 513 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,720 Speaker 1: there wouldn't be another one. Ended up we needed a sequel. 514 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 1: They're like, don't please, don't franchise this. It's just the 515 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 1: Great War. They should have called it the greatest war. 516 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 1: There will ever be period the end. No other wars trademarked. 517 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: Other wars are not allowed to be as great as 518 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 1: this one. We're done. Winnie, as Winston was known, took 519 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 1: on military leadership during World War One. Meanwhile, Clementine worked 520 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,239 Speaker 1: to provide food to munitions workers in London, so they 521 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 1: were both very active in the war effort. In nineteen eighteen, 522 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 1: she's appointed Commander of the Order of the British Empire 523 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 1: as a gratitude for her work, but Winnie totally bift 524 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 1: it while fighting the Turkish in the Dardanelles and the 525 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: Glipoli Campaign and it was seen as a military disaster 526 00:32:55,600 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 1: and the historic disaster, and he was demoted. Clementine told 527 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 1: him patience is the only grace you need. Yeah. He 528 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 1: actually then said, well, I know what I need to do. 529 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 1: I have to go volunteer to fight in the trenches 530 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 1: in the Western Front. And you'd think most wives at 531 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,240 Speaker 1: the time are going to be telling their husbands, no, please, 532 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 1: don't volunteer to do that. We've got children, don't go. 533 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: And Clementine said, yeah, yeah, you should, that is what 534 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 1: you should do. And she actually said don't come home 535 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 1: too soon because that she knew that he needed to 536 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 1: show the world that he wasn't some selfish hothead, that 537 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: he wasn't just going for the glory and to make 538 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:41,959 Speaker 1: himself look better. Her biographer Sonya Purnell said, she wanted 539 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 1: people to want him to come back. He couldn't just 540 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 1: show up and be seen and then come home. People 541 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't buy it. He had to make the people miss 542 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 1: him and realized that he was needed, and that's what 543 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 1: he did. He went and fought hard in the trenches. 544 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 1: But this was the sort of advice that Clementine was 545 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 1: giving him early in his career that really paved the 546 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 1: way for him to eventually become Prime Minister and defeat 547 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: the Nazis in World War Two. This was a definitive 548 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: moment in history and their early marriage uh is really 549 00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 1: what led to his success because it worked. He was 550 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 1: seen as a hero and really started to elevate his 551 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:26,280 Speaker 1: position after taking this action. A little personal note, Winston 552 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 1: called Clementine his pussycat and she called him her pug cute. 553 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,799 Speaker 1: He bought the estate chart Well in southeast England, near Kent. 554 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,920 Speaker 1: During the move, Clementine was visiting with her mother in 555 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,480 Speaker 1: France and Winstone wrote her a letter with a poem 556 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,360 Speaker 1: and its what do you say? We go on down 557 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:51,760 Speaker 1: to poetry corner. We're jamming out with Winston Churchill tonight. 558 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 1: Let's hear what he's got to say. Only one thing 559 00:34:55,280 --> 00:35:00,319 Speaker 1: lacks these banks of green the pussycat, who is the queen? 560 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 1: Well that's that's it. I'm done. Oh oh all right, 561 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 1: Well give it up from Winston Churchill. Everyone, there's another 562 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 1: one from Winston. If that's not enough, Winston Churchill poetry 563 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: for you. He did write one to his daughter because 564 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 1: there they had a pug dog and the pug was sick, 565 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:26,360 Speaker 1: so he wrote them another poem as well. Oh great, 566 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 1: here's another one from Winston Churchill. Don't forget to tip 567 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 1: your bartenders. Oh what is the matter with Paul puggy Wog? 568 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,839 Speaker 1: Pet him and kiss him and give him a hug, 569 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 1: run and fetch him a suitable drug, Wrap him up tenderly, 570 00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 1: all in a rug. That is the way to cure 571 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:54,960 Speaker 1: puggy Wug. That's it. I'm done. Wow. Just uh you know, 572 00:35:55,360 --> 00:36:01,320 Speaker 1: he was a writer. His pros were renowned across the world. Uh, 573 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 1: lesser known as a poet. And that's okay. I think 574 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: I see why anyway, So their early marriage was the 575 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:12,360 Speaker 1: easy years, particularly when Winstone was working with the Liberal Party, 576 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:16,919 Speaker 1: because Clementine could not stand the Tories. But Winstone kind 577 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,799 Speaker 1: of tilted either direction on many issues, as we talked 578 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 1: about here, already crushed the aisle for the liberals um, 579 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:27,359 Speaker 1: but he still had a lot of conservative leanings as well. Um, 580 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,600 Speaker 1: So Clementine saw it as her duty to be his 581 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:35,800 Speaker 1: conscience about social issues. Purnell wrote that Clementine once said 582 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 1: she would have loved to have been a statesman if 583 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 1: only she had been born with trousers rather than petticoats. Man. 584 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:47,840 Speaker 1: British babies are born in trousers, petticoats, My god, they're 585 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 1: very modest. So anyway, Clementine could not be a statesman herself, 586 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 1: so she decided she would help guide one. So they 587 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,360 Speaker 1: were forced to spend a lot of their time apart. 588 00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:01,760 Speaker 1: As Winston's career grew. She hated that he was gone 589 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: for a long time. She didn't like that they were 590 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:07,760 Speaker 1: a part. They fought regularly about her more liberal views. 591 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,720 Speaker 1: In the mid twenties, he rejoined the Conservative Party, which 592 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 1: was real difficult for her, and she didn't like Chart 593 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,359 Speaker 1: well either, But she put up with living there. And 594 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: Winston was a very hard husband have. He's pretty impossible. 595 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,920 Speaker 1: I mean, he loved her very much, but his priority 596 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,879 Speaker 1: was his political career. Mary Solmes wrote from the day 597 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 1: she married him until his death fifty seven years later, 598 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:35,319 Speaker 1: Winston dominated her whole life. And once this priority had 599 00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:40,800 Speaker 1: been established, her children, personal pleasures, friends, and outside interests 600 00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 1: competed for what was left. So Winston was like a 601 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:49,680 Speaker 1: largeer than life kind of presence. He took up a 602 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 1: lot of space even when he wasn't there. Yeah, and 603 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 1: he demanded a lot from the people around him. One 604 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,400 Speaker 1: time they were fighting. In their argument got so hated 605 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 1: that in the middle of dinner, Clementine flung a whole 606 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: plate of spinach right at his face. Out this heat 607 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,320 Speaker 1: is not becoming a new ma'am. This plate of spinach 608 00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:14,279 Speaker 1: will be coming into your face. Damn. Still, they kept 609 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 1: coming back together. They loved each other deeply. That was 610 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,560 Speaker 1: just a common through line. And this was evident in 611 00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 1: their letters and the people who knew them and the 612 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,399 Speaker 1: way they spoke to each other, and they just they 613 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,280 Speaker 1: really did love each other very much. And he knew 614 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 1: what a challenge he was, Like he understood that it 615 00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 1: was a lot of extra work for her. He wrote 616 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 1: her this letter during World War One while he was 617 00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,840 Speaker 1: in France that said, I would like to have another 618 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,840 Speaker 1: soul in another world and meet you in another setting 619 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,319 Speaker 1: and pay you all the love and honor of the 620 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,799 Speaker 1: great romances. He was like, I would somehow be less 621 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: work if it weren't for all this war stuff. If 622 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 1: everything was different, including me and you and the entire 623 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:01,320 Speaker 1: circumstances of the world at large. Howdy would I woo 624 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,400 Speaker 1: the hell out of you. You'd finally get a bouquet flowers. 625 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,400 Speaker 1: I'll show you a real good time if it weren't 626 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:11,920 Speaker 1: for you, know, everything there is. She was reading, like, oh, 627 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 1: that sounds easy. I'm so happy for other universe me. 628 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:23,000 Speaker 1: So in the Conservatives were defeated and Churchill was removed 629 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:27,560 Speaker 1: from office. Because of how British politics work, it's very complicated, 630 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 1: don't ask me. So he's out of office and these 631 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 1: are referred to as his wilderness years, and he had 632 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,360 Speaker 1: a reputation for heavy drinking at this time. He was 633 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 1: very prone to depression throughout his whole life, but especially 634 00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 1: now when he sort of didn't have a lot to 635 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:47,279 Speaker 1: get involved with and then in ninety three, this real 636 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:52,280 Speaker 1: fucking piece of work, this real fucking egotistical, big piece 637 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,880 Speaker 1: of ship. You might have heard of him. Adolph Hitler 638 00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:59,759 Speaker 1: had just come into power in Germany, and Winston and 639 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:04,760 Speaker 1: him and team both were like, Hey, everybody, bad idea. 640 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:09,440 Speaker 1: This guy is bad news. We don't like this. No 641 00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 1: one should be okay with this, and this isn't gonna 642 00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 1: go well for anyone. And you know, England wasn't really 643 00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,840 Speaker 1: thinking about it that much of the time. The government 644 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,680 Speaker 1: that was in power was like, Yeah, yeah, Germany's doing 645 00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 1: their thing. Well, we'll cross that bridge when we come 646 00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 1: to it. Or he's just a rabble rouser, he's just 647 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:31,360 Speaker 1: a smooth talker or whatever, no worries. So Churchill was 648 00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,480 Speaker 1: one of the few voices at that time that was 649 00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 1: really speaking out against it. To be fair, Churchill also 650 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: said similar things about Gandhi. So you know, you win some, 651 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:46,080 Speaker 1: you lose some. I was gonna say, um, if England 652 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:50,719 Speaker 1: was anything like America in the early thirties, they did 653 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 1: not care because they were more concerned about Germany paying 654 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 1: their reparations for World War One, for the Great War 655 00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,160 Speaker 1: than they were about whatever they were doing with him. 656 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,919 Speaker 1: And Juice just pay us our money. I always thought 657 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,319 Speaker 1: that was very frustrating that we were like, yeah, debt, 658 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,080 Speaker 1: that's the more important thing. Yeah. So anyway, the thirties 659 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:11,719 Speaker 1: are rocky for the church Hills and the world. You know, 660 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:16,439 Speaker 1: everybody in Europe like a depression, like a whole lot 661 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 1: going on. Nobody was having a great time in the thirties. 662 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:24,280 Speaker 1: And three is going to take us to this week's 663 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:31,560 Speaker 1: double side pian double side piece of them outside. It 664 00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 1: takes two to tango. Winston Churchill's secret affair is this 665 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:41,560 Speaker 1: mishmash of gossip and passion and super British repressed emotion. 666 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 1: In five, this guy Jack Colville, who had been one 667 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 1: of Churchill's wartime secretaries, came out of an interview and said, 668 00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:53,399 Speaker 1: Winston Churchill certainly had an affair. Now at this point 669 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 1: nineteen thirty three, Churchill's going to be about sixty years old, 670 00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:01,640 Speaker 1: and he was taking holiday regularly in the Trivieria. Clementine 671 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 1: didn't care for the south of France and she never 672 00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 1: went with him. So he's there alone, hanging out with 673 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:09,279 Speaker 1: some friends there, and he spent many days with a 674 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 1: woman named Doris castle Ross that Doris was a total 675 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:18,879 Speaker 1: smoke show. She was way younger than him, and she 676 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:22,919 Speaker 1: allegedly had been sleeping her way up the ranks through 677 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,840 Speaker 1: society because she kind of came from nothing and didn't 678 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:30,200 Speaker 1: like that. Um. She had been an American courtisan and 679 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:34,719 Speaker 1: slept with American millionaire Stephen Sandford and this aristocrat Tom Mitford, 680 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 1: and reportedly even tried to cure a known homosexual, Robert 681 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:43,480 Speaker 1: Herbert Percy. H Hey, guess what didn't work out for 682 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,600 Speaker 1: her there? Because that's not how it works Doris. So, 683 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,920 Speaker 1: how hot was Doris? Well, she is the great aunt 684 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:54,280 Speaker 1: of model and actor Kara del Avine. Oh my god. 685 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:59,200 Speaker 1: She's also a very uh sexual woman, and she once 686 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:03,400 Speaker 1: said there's no such thing as an impotent man, only 687 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:08,719 Speaker 1: an incompetent woman. Oh my god. Sorry, sorry, I got 688 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,880 Speaker 1: somebody to take my threat. Well, okay, but Doris would 689 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,880 Speaker 1: tell you that it is you know, did you get 690 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:20,960 Speaker 1: something else stuck in your throat? Yeah, that's what she'd says. 691 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:25,040 Speaker 1: Doris Colville claims that they had a recurring affair Doris's niece, 692 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 1: Caroline Delavine, whose car Delavine's mother said, my mother had 693 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,040 Speaker 1: many stories about my aunt's house in Berkeley Square when 694 00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 1: Winston came to visit the staff. We're all given the 695 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:40,799 Speaker 1: day off, which tells you something. Uh no, no, you 696 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:44,840 Speaker 1: won't be needed today. Thank you. Take your prying eyes elsewhere. 697 00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:50,120 Speaker 1: Caroline Delavine also said, Doris confided in my mother, and 698 00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,800 Speaker 1: yes it was known that they were having an affair. 699 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:56,320 Speaker 1: Winston's even rumored one time to have told her, Doris, 700 00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:06,000 Speaker 1: you could make a corpse. Come please, don't well, I 701 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:09,239 Speaker 1: know what you're thinking. You're like Clementine's at home being awesome, 702 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 1: getting cheated on. This is bullshit. But no. In she 703 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 1: boarded this yacht called the Roussara, and she met a bright, handsome, 704 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:23,480 Speaker 1: strong John Art dealer named Terence Philip. Can I just 705 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,960 Speaker 1: say how hard it was to google information about Terence Philip, 706 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 1: because all I got is hey, buddy, buddy, speaking of 707 00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:34,320 Speaker 1: strong Josh, I just don't even connect the Clemmie really 708 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:38,040 Speaker 1: needed a break. This guy's the polar opposite of Winston. Okay, 709 00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,680 Speaker 1: he's fest and loose, he's not ambitious. He's just a fun, 710 00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,719 Speaker 1: playful guy, super fun to be around. They're having a 711 00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,479 Speaker 1: good old time and she kind of falls like head 712 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:53,400 Speaker 1: over heels for him. But he had not met Doris, 713 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:57,680 Speaker 1: so he was gay. So the cruise wasn't the kind 714 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:01,560 Speaker 1: of cruising, the kind of Moogi Robinson cruise and she 715 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,200 Speaker 1: was going for. But I think it was probably a 716 00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:06,879 Speaker 1: really good break for her. She probably was like, I'm 717 00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,719 Speaker 1: a woman I think it probably made her feel like 718 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,640 Speaker 1: a woman again, you know what I mean, like I 719 00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 1: look good, I feel good. I think that really put 720 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 1: some heart back into her, and she was very excited 721 00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,600 Speaker 1: to get back to Winston. Their letters to each other 722 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:20,839 Speaker 1: at the time, while they were in separate areas, were 723 00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 1: still full of love and romance, and people who knew 724 00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,240 Speaker 1: them and knew all the gossip at the time said, 725 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:32,840 Speaker 1: this is all bullshit, bullocks, It's all a load of bullocks. 726 00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:38,840 Speaker 1: Winston Churchill dot Org furiously defend their fidelity. They say, 727 00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:43,360 Speaker 1: not only is this evidence super flimsy, but we also 728 00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:46,720 Speaker 1: don't trust this guy who said it. He doesn't know anything. 729 00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:50,359 Speaker 1: They say, it's all bullshit. They also say these two 730 00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:54,600 Speaker 1: were so in love that an affair is unthinkable. But 731 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:58,160 Speaker 1: I take issue with that as evidence because I think 732 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:01,520 Speaker 1: it's a broad statement to say two people who are 733 00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:05,760 Speaker 1: very much in love couldn't possibly have had an affair. 734 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 1: On opposite sides of the world, especially at a rocky 735 00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 1: point in their relationship. You don't have to have a 736 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 1: bad relationship for that to happen necessarily. Yeah, you don't 737 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 1: cheat unless you've fallen out of love. Is a very 738 00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,440 Speaker 1: limiting way to think about it, for sure, and to 739 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:25,799 Speaker 1: think about love in general regardless whatever happened. But the 740 00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:30,759 Speaker 1: affair or not, none of that mattered because we're moving 741 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:34,040 Speaker 1: into the late nineteen thirties now, and the world needed 742 00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 1: England to step up, and England needed Winston Churchill and 743 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:43,200 Speaker 1: Winston needed Clementine. But before we get in all at 744 00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,160 Speaker 1: let's just take a little quick break and be right 745 00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:50,720 Speaker 1: back after this. Okay, welcome back to the show. Where 746 00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:55,080 Speaker 1: were we? Six? King Edward The eight wanted to marry 747 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,000 Speaker 1: an American socialite named Wallace Simpson. This is another one. 748 00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,759 Speaker 1: We could probably do another episode. We will. I've yea 749 00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:05,759 Speaker 1: skipped forward to our future episode and wall Simpson. That's 750 00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 1: a whole thing. Uh. This was a big deal because 751 00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,719 Speaker 1: Wallas Simpson was working on her second divorce and the 752 00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:15,600 Speaker 1: Church of England didn't allow divorced people to remarry if 753 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,640 Speaker 1: their ex spouse was still alive, and so there's a 754 00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:22,319 Speaker 1: constitutional crisis there. So Edward was like, well, you know what, 755 00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,000 Speaker 1: how about y'all keep this throne and I go marry 756 00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 1: my divorce. I would rather have her than be king. Um, 757 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 1: so he abdicated. Church Hill thought this whole thing was 758 00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:36,960 Speaker 1: just nonsense, but Clementine was in hisas ear like, hey, 759 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,799 Speaker 1: you're really reading the room wrong, really keeping him in 760 00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:43,479 Speaker 1: touch with everybody else's opinions and trying to make sure 761 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,879 Speaker 1: that he's steered a little bit by public opinion because 762 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:50,760 Speaker 1: that's very important in politics. Uh So Edward abdicated the throne, 763 00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:53,960 Speaker 1: and he pledged loyalty to King George the sixth, but 764 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 1: he had called the whole thing unnecessary. Fortunately, though, I 765 00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:00,480 Speaker 1: think we're glad that Edward abdicated because he was something 766 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:04,480 Speaker 1: of a Nazi sympathizer himself, so if he had not 767 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,360 Speaker 1: sucked off, England may have made a deal with Nazi 768 00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:09,920 Speaker 1: Germany and we might have just a very different world today. 769 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,560 Speaker 1: So glad that King Edward has gone, especially with what's 770 00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,759 Speaker 1: coming next, because in May of nineteen thirty seven, the 771 00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:20,840 Speaker 1: Prime Minister Baldwin resigned and Neville Chamberlain was made Prime Minister. 772 00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 1: At first Churchill and Chamberlain he's totally into it. But 773 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:29,200 Speaker 1: then came the appeasements. Chamberlain appeased first to Musolini, then 774 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:33,280 Speaker 1: eventually to the fearer of fox sticks himself, Adolph Hitler. 775 00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:35,960 Speaker 1: And what that meant was give a little ground to 776 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:39,279 Speaker 1: the Nazis and uh and hopefully that'll stop an all 777 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,359 Speaker 1: out war from happening. Turns out you should never give 778 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,800 Speaker 1: a little ground to the Nazis. Here's a little historical 779 00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 1: lesson for you, because in September of nine, Hitler is like, 780 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:55,319 Speaker 1: I am gonna take land in Czechoslovakia. Okay, yeah, this 781 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:58,879 Speaker 1: is very good idea. This the last time we're going 782 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,480 Speaker 1: to take any part of your dont vory. It's the 783 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:05,640 Speaker 1: last thing we want. Uh. We swear, pinky swear, We're 784 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:09,120 Speaker 1: not going to take anything else. And Winston Churchill storms 785 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,120 Speaker 1: down to Downing Street. He's fucking pissed. He kicks down 786 00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:15,319 Speaker 1: the door and he's like the bloody hell he is. 787 00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:19,799 Speaker 1: He tells Chamberlain, listen, you're going to tell Hitler. Then 788 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,040 Speaker 1: if they lay one sour croutain swash to cover, don't 789 00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 1: Jacob jingle him a finger on Czechoslovakia. We're going to 790 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 1: war and Chamberlain says new and he goes down to 791 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 1: Munich and signs the Munich Agreement, which basically says, sure, Germany, 792 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,480 Speaker 1: we won't get in your way. Uh, And everybody's going 793 00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:43,960 Speaker 1: to be cool and we're all cool here. Everything's fine. 794 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,920 Speaker 1: But Hitler had his fingers crossed behind his back. Yeah, 795 00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:52,880 Speaker 1: pretty much. Churchill called it a total and unmitigated defeat 796 00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:58,480 Speaker 1: and big surprise. Within a year, Hitler was fucking around 797 00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:03,799 Speaker 1: and not finding out. So Britain declared war on Germany 798 00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:09,120 Speaker 1: and everybody's looking around like, hey, excuse me. Did somebody 799 00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:12,480 Speaker 1: see this coming. Did anybody's tell us that we shouldn't 800 00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,879 Speaker 1: let the Nazis just run around with their schnitzels out? 801 00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:18,840 Speaker 1: Did anybody think this was maybe going to go badly 802 00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:23,400 Speaker 1: for us? And they're like, oh, Winston Churchill seemed to 803 00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:28,000 Speaker 1: say something about it. So the day they declared war, 804 00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:31,799 Speaker 1: Chamberlain goes to Churchill and is like, uh, yes, I'm 805 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:34,680 Speaker 1: going to reappoint you as the first Lord of the Admiralty, 806 00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:38,279 Speaker 1: which was Churchill's original position in World War One. In 807 00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,840 Speaker 1: April of nineteen forty, the Nazis took Norway and a 808 00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,640 Speaker 1: two day debate was launched on how the British government 809 00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:48,319 Speaker 1: was handling the war. Spoiler alert not well, uh, there's 810 00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:51,879 Speaker 1: basically a vote of no confidence in Chamberlain. We don't 811 00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:57,359 Speaker 1: trust him. We need a bulldog here, and somebody said, 812 00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:01,920 Speaker 1: I know a pug perfect for this job, and Winston 813 00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:10,200 Speaker 1: Churchill became Prime Minister. Only recently has Clementine's importance in 814 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,120 Speaker 1: World War Two really come to light. We didn't know 815 00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:15,400 Speaker 1: about any of this ship until very very recently. The 816 00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:19,200 Speaker 1: public figure that we know and and imagine Winston Churchill 817 00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:22,319 Speaker 1: to be, she was half of that person. Really like 818 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:27,480 Speaker 1: his speeches rousing and amazing and inspiring, and they really 819 00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,800 Speaker 1: were a vital part of the Allied victory against Hitler. 820 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,080 Speaker 1: And she was his editor. She helped write those speeches. 821 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 1: She's not only his rock in private, but she's also 822 00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:39,759 Speaker 1: his editor. She's also, you know, kind of his ear 823 00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:42,960 Speaker 1: in the ground. She is part of what we think 824 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:47,320 Speaker 1: of as Winston Churchill, the leader. In September, the Germans 825 00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:51,080 Speaker 1: start bombing London. It's the Blitz and this went on 826 00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:54,680 Speaker 1: for eight months and five days. It was constant for 827 00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:57,839 Speaker 1: the first two months. Bombs were dropped by the Luftwaffe. 828 00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 1: Almost every single day and night. Out of the first 829 00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:07,640 Speaker 1: fifty seven days, fifty six of them saw bomb droppings. 830 00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 1: And the goal of the of all this it wasn't 831 00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:14,120 Speaker 1: just to destroy military targets. It was also about crushing 832 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:17,720 Speaker 1: the English spirit. They wanted them to be so downtrodden 833 00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,880 Speaker 1: and tired that they would not be able to campaign 834 00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:24,160 Speaker 1: against them. Well. They wanted the English people to want 835 00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:26,200 Speaker 1: to get out of the war. They wanted to exhaust 836 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 1: them to the point they were that they would tell 837 00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:30,200 Speaker 1: their government pull out, we don't care. Stop. This is 838 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:33,400 Speaker 1: terrible and honestly, if it worked for the Churchill's, that 839 00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:38,000 Speaker 1: really might have worked. But Clementine stepped it up for herself, 840 00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:41,319 Speaker 1: for her husband, and for England. She sent a letter 841 00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:44,960 Speaker 1: to Winston. He had been very brutish and demanding and 842 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 1: not really being sensitive to people's needs. He was very like, 843 00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 1: you know, get up, shake it off, Quitcher, bitchen. You 844 00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:54,120 Speaker 1: know we're gonna keep fighting like cold and uncaring in 845 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:55,719 Speaker 1: a way, and she wrote him this letter that was 846 00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:58,719 Speaker 1: basically like, Hey, you're not reading the room right, You're 847 00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:02,040 Speaker 1: not reading the room. You've got to bring people with you. 848 00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,399 Speaker 1: You've got to make them love you, and you've got 849 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,400 Speaker 1: to show them how to do it. You've got to 850 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:09,720 Speaker 1: go with them, lift them up and move them forward. 851 00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:13,400 Speaker 1: And this changed his whole attitude and helped him rally 852 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,000 Speaker 1: the support that he needed and the spirit that England 853 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,439 Speaker 1: was looking for. This is the foundation of that keep 854 00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:22,200 Speaker 1: calm and carry on mentality that Churchill espoused so much. 855 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:25,359 Speaker 1: And it can't be overstated. They were still recovering from 856 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:29,000 Speaker 1: World War One and when World War Two started, so 857 00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,240 Speaker 1: it's like everyone's just sick of this ship. But before 858 00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:37,560 Speaker 1: it even began. Yeah, So Purnell, Clementine's biographer, said she 859 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:41,359 Speaker 1: saw all Britain had was a collective spirit and that 860 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:45,600 Speaker 1: needed to be fostered, nurtured and protected. And at first 861 00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,200 Speaker 1: London didn't have any mass shelters ready for this bombing, 862 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,200 Speaker 1: and they had used their underground train stations as shelters 863 00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:55,440 Speaker 1: in World War One, but the government was not allowing 864 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,440 Speaker 1: them to use them again. They were they said, we 865 00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,600 Speaker 1: don't want to disrupt commuter travel and we don't want 866 00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,160 Speaker 1: people going down there and refusing to leave. So at 867 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:06,640 Speaker 1: first they locked the doors to the train stations uh 868 00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:10,520 Speaker 1: during the bombings, and after two weeks they realized they 869 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:12,839 Speaker 1: couldn't do that anymore, and they had to open up 870 00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:15,160 Speaker 1: and let people down there, and oh, this is like 871 00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:21,839 Speaker 1: an everyday thing for everyone to go. And in mid 872 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:26,839 Speaker 1: September a hundred and fifty thousand people slept underground every night. 873 00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:31,440 Speaker 1: And obviously these conditions were terrible, and Clementine goes to 874 00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,200 Speaker 1: the ministers and governments. She's like, hey, get some fire 875 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,600 Speaker 1: exits in here. Hey, you better build some beds. I 876 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,840 Speaker 1: want you to manufacture two million beds right now. We 877 00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:40,520 Speaker 1: gotta get them down there. I want people to be 878 00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:43,080 Speaker 1: able to sleep in beds next to their children, so 879 00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,440 Speaker 1: their children aren't terrified at the air raid sirens and 880 00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:48,239 Speaker 1: the bombings. And it's cold down there. Let's get some 881 00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 1: heating involved. You know, she was handling it. She was like, 882 00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 1: move people, go, go, go make this work. Not only that, 883 00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:59,560 Speaker 1: she was active as a firewatcher and she helped put 884 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 1: together many of the systems in place where women were 885 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:07,480 Speaker 1: helping the war effort at home, which made all the difference. 886 00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:11,719 Speaker 1: There's a lot of history there too. And meanwhile, Winston's 887 00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:14,960 Speaker 1: out here leading the charge. He's putting his freaking foot 888 00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:18,240 Speaker 1: down when it comes to fighting the Nazis. The British 889 00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:22,520 Speaker 1: government kept being like, well, yes, a wedding good, but 890 00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:25,040 Speaker 1: if France Foles, We're going to take a bit of 891 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:26,960 Speaker 1: a step back, Am I right? I mean we're going 892 00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,840 Speaker 1: to really re evaluate old this years and was like, 893 00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:33,440 Speaker 1: who the fuckers we're fighting? We're going to Did you 894 00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:36,359 Speaker 1: not hear it when I said keep calm and carry on, 895 00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:39,839 Speaker 1: I didn't mean keep calm and then sucking pull out 896 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 1: and run like a like a little fucking shite. I 897 00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:48,000 Speaker 1: meant we fighting these Nazis and we ain't stopping. I 898 00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,960 Speaker 1: don't want to be seen as a little bitch. Yeah, 899 00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,080 Speaker 1: he would go on air, he would read these speeches 900 00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,160 Speaker 1: that he had written and Clementine had edited, and he 901 00:55:56,200 --> 00:56:00,080 Speaker 1: gave him the whole resilient spirit that they needed to 902 00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:04,239 Speaker 1: get through this really difficult time. He's thriving like never 903 00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:08,000 Speaker 1: before because this is a really difficult time. But this 904 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 1: is kind of the perfect place for someone like Winston Churchill. 905 00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,799 Speaker 1: He claimed to be thrilled to be in charge in 906 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:18,040 Speaker 1: wartime in British history. He just knew that was his 907 00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,919 Speaker 1: strong suit and that England needed someone like him at 908 00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:24,279 Speaker 1: this exact point, and he needed to do this at 909 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,600 Speaker 1: this exact point. And their marriage was really strong right now, 910 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,399 Speaker 1: they're doing really, really well. And the two of them 911 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:34,040 Speaker 1: really helped rally that English spirit. And Clementine comes out 912 00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,640 Speaker 1: and she becomes the chairperson of the Red Cross Aid 913 00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:41,800 Speaker 1: to Russia Fund, because during World War Two, almost seventeen 914 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:46,440 Speaker 1: million Russians died. It was fifteen percent of their entire population, 915 00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:50,480 Speaker 1: so Russia really got hit hard. And uh England had 916 00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:53,480 Speaker 1: a lot of sympathy for Russia, and Clementine was like, 917 00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 1: we can help, So she called all of their wealthy friends. 918 00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:00,280 Speaker 1: She got a bunch of famous musicians and celebrities on word. 919 00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:03,799 Speaker 1: She got factory workers and schoolgirls to knit scarves and 920 00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:07,000 Speaker 1: gloves and hats, and the Red Cross Aide to Russia 921 00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:11,920 Speaker 1: Fund raised one million pounds between October and December of 922 00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:16,720 Speaker 1: one so in just a few months, and a total 923 00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:20,040 Speaker 1: of eight million pounds by the end of the war, 924 00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:27,840 Speaker 1: which today would be three hundred and fifty four million 925 00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:33,200 Speaker 1: pounds or four hundred eighty eight million dollars American almost 926 00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,560 Speaker 1: half a billion dollars in about four years. The night 927 00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:40,520 Speaker 1: before the D Day landings in June of Winston was 928 00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 1: very upset and depressed. Churchill was nervous about a full 929 00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:48,720 Speaker 1: frontal assault in Normandy. He had seen the defeats at 930 00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:52,680 Speaker 1: Dunkirk and Anzio and Salerno, and he floated the idea 931 00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 1: that hey, maybe we hit sicily, we go to what 932 00:57:55,720 --> 00:58:00,080 Speaker 1: he called Europe's soft underbelly. M hmm. But Stalin and 933 00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:05,720 Speaker 1: Roosevelt were firm in attacking Normandy, and Churchill actually took 934 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:07,680 Speaker 1: the high road here. He was like, well, it's better 935 00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:09,880 Speaker 1: for us all to be united, So if that's what 936 00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:12,000 Speaker 1: we're doing, we're doing it. So he was like, I'm okay, 937 00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,480 Speaker 1: I'm on board with this, but he was very nervous 938 00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 1: about it. He and Clementine had dinner alone the night beforehand, 939 00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:21,040 Speaker 1: and he told her, do you realize that by the 940 00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:23,640 Speaker 1: time you wake up in the morning, twenty thousand men 941 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:27,960 Speaker 1: may have been killed the dinner table. Yeah. But she 942 00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:31,840 Speaker 1: comforted him. She reminded him of that united spirit that 943 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 1: they had together and that the country had, and that 944 00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:37,440 Speaker 1: it had kept them going this long, and she reminded 945 00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:39,840 Speaker 1: him that that would be what won the war in 946 00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:43,720 Speaker 1: the end. And sure enough, on June a hundred and 947 00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:47,960 Speaker 1: fifty six thousand American, British and Canadian forces had landed 948 00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:50,560 Speaker 1: on the five beaches along the coast of Normandy. By 949 00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:55,200 Speaker 1: late August, all of northern France was liberated from Nazi occupation, 950 00:58:55,640 --> 00:59:00,400 Speaker 1: and by the following May Nazi punks fuck off. They 951 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:04,760 Speaker 1: were defeated. With the Japanese surrendering the following September, world 952 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:09,920 Speaker 1: War two was finally over. And I mean, look, if 953 00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:12,200 Speaker 1: you want a World War two podcast with all the 954 00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:15,920 Speaker 1: battles and dates and strategies and all the significant details, 955 00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:20,480 Speaker 1: please allow me to direct you to www dot Google 956 00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:23,480 Speaker 1: dot com. Let me write that down. You are going 957 00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:27,760 Speaker 1: to find three trillion hours of content. Right. The point 958 00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:31,200 Speaker 1: here on Ridiculous Romance, as we said, is that nobody's 959 00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:37,160 Speaker 1: talking about how important Winston and Clementine's marriage was during 960 00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:40,880 Speaker 1: the war. Sonya Brunell's biography totally blew the lid off 961 00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:43,760 Speaker 1: of Clementine's involvement here, But that didn't even come out 962 00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:48,440 Speaker 1: until so we are very recently learning this information. In fact, 963 00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 1: in an NPR interview about that book, she said, I 964 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:55,360 Speaker 1: didn't even know anything about this woman until I found, 965 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:57,640 Speaker 1: you know, one letter that sort of sent her on 966 00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:02,480 Speaker 1: the journey. Uh and uh, and she suddenly realizes, holy shit, 967 01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 1: this lady is why we beat the Nazis in a 968 01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:09,960 Speaker 1: lot of ways. Uh, and that's really incredible. Yeah. Julia Kelly, 969 01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:13,600 Speaker 1: who is an author who's written about the extensive vital 970 01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:16,880 Speaker 1: role of women during the war, has a piece on 971 01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,760 Speaker 1: Clementine and she says Clementine even had a room of 972 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:23,280 Speaker 1: her own in Winston's war rooms this which was a 973 01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:26,960 Speaker 1: bunker in London that was the center of Britain's wartime strategy. 974 01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,360 Speaker 1: And she kicked his ass when he needed it. She 975 01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:32,840 Speaker 1: was one of the few people who would openly criticize 976 01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:35,320 Speaker 1: his ideas in private and tell him, hey, you're not 977 01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:37,360 Speaker 1: reading the room right, you know. She was one of 978 01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:39,560 Speaker 1: the only one of the few people who were telling 979 01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:42,680 Speaker 1: him things like that and made a huge difference obviously. 980 01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,520 Speaker 1: And then also she took this five week tour of 981 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:49,960 Speaker 1: Moscow in early nineteen before the war was over. She's 982 01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,720 Speaker 1: invited to see how all their supplies were being put 983 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:55,439 Speaker 1: to good use. From all her fundraising that she'd done 984 01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:58,440 Speaker 1: with the Red Cross, relations between England and Russia were 985 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:01,560 Speaker 1: a little strained, mainly because there had been this little 986 01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:05,040 Speaker 1: secret meeting between the Yanks and the Brits and the 987 01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:08,360 Speaker 1: Nazis to see if maybe a little piece separate from 988 01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:14,000 Speaker 1: Russia could be worked out unbelievable. Russia was super pissed 989 01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:17,160 Speaker 1: about that, obviously, because, like we said, seventeen million of 990 01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:21,800 Speaker 1: them are dead for this, for this efforts, like excuse me, here, 991 01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:27,120 Speaker 1: you have meeting and I'm not invited. What what the 992 01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:31,200 Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Right? Yeah, he's mad. So 993 01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:34,960 Speaker 1: guess who goes and smooths that whole thing over. It 994 01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:38,360 Speaker 1: ain't Winston, It's Clementine. She goes over there to tour 995 01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:42,600 Speaker 1: and Stalin sent a letter to Winston saying Clementine had 996 01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:47,280 Speaker 1: left a deep impression on him. She just charmed the 997 01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:50,360 Speaker 1: funk out of the Russians. They loved her. They said 998 01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:52,920 Speaker 1: it was a delight to see her. She was endearing. 999 01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:57,480 Speaker 1: She was helping the Soviet Union immensely in these difficult times. 1000 01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,600 Speaker 1: So they were just like all about Clementine. Yeah, and 1001 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:03,040 Speaker 1: Churchill missed her. He said he would be very glad 1002 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:06,120 Speaker 1: to see her come home. Um, probably because he was like, man, 1003 01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:08,400 Speaker 1: I'm misreading rooms all over the place. I need to 1004 01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:12,400 Speaker 1: come back. He wrote to her. Expressed to stall In 1005 01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:15,960 Speaker 1: my cordial feelings and my resolve that a complete understanding 1006 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:19,120 Speaker 1: between the English speaking world and Russia will be achieved 1007 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:24,360 Speaker 1: and maintained for many years. Your Churchill is very Nixon. 1008 01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,880 Speaker 1: I know, right, I was trying to get the jewels, 1009 01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:32,400 Speaker 1: and you know you got the jewels. But many years 1010 01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:35,320 Speaker 1: maybe not quite right. But they did have a couple, 1011 01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:39,120 Speaker 1: They had some time. Yeah, I guess yes, between Russia 1012 01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:42,320 Speaker 1: and the English speaking world. What what do you think 1013 01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,800 Speaker 1: maybe three years things were okay there. I think the 1014 01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:50,800 Speaker 1: atomic bomb really made a an impression on Russia. Atomic bomb. 1015 01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:53,240 Speaker 1: It's really kind of you could say it really blew 1016 01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:56,920 Speaker 1: a hole in things. You could say it really you 1017 01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,479 Speaker 1: could say they really nuked their chances of having a good, 1018 01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:05,960 Speaker 1: good relationship. He oh, they were fishing for fishing vision 1019 01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:11,000 Speaker 1: for a problem. They were really um, well you get it, 1020 01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:18,680 Speaker 1: you get it, bomb jokesom Winston Churchill's chief of staff, 1021 01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:22,960 Speaker 1: General Ismay, said later that if not for Clementine, the 1022 01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:27,960 Speaker 1: history of Winston Churchill, and indeed of the world itself, 1023 01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:32,400 Speaker 1: would have been a very different story. Winston himself said 1024 01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:35,680 Speaker 1: of her, she made my life and any work I 1025 01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:38,760 Speaker 1: have done possible. And it's not just that, but he 1026 01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:42,520 Speaker 1: said that marrying this brilliant, kind, strong woman was his 1027 01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:46,040 Speaker 1: greatest achievement. He said, what could be more glorious than 1028 01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:49,880 Speaker 1: to be united with a being incapable of an ignoble 1029 01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:54,040 Speaker 1: thought that's nice. They really respected the hell out of 1030 01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:58,840 Speaker 1: her as she earned, oh absolutely. In fact, she was 1031 01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,600 Speaker 1: awarded the Order of Red Banner of Labor by the 1032 01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:05,320 Speaker 1: Soviet Union for her philanthropy, and in ninety six she 1033 01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:08,400 Speaker 1: was appointed the Dame Grand Cross of the Order of 1034 01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:14,320 Speaker 1: the British Empire, becoming Dame Clementine Churchill uh. In the 1035 01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:18,080 Speaker 1: years following the war, Churchill continued to lead the Conservative Party. 1036 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:22,320 Speaker 1: He encouraged an increasingly strong allyship between England and the 1037 01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:25,840 Speaker 1: US to help fend off the Iron curtain of the 1038 01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 1: Soviet Union. Churchill was Prime Minister again in the nineteen fifties. 1039 01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:32,760 Speaker 1: He was seventy six when he took office and already 1040 01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:35,720 Speaker 1: in poor health, and so after King George died and 1041 01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:38,960 Speaker 1: Elizabeth the Second took the crown, he stayed around for 1042 01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:42,080 Speaker 1: a few years, but in ninety five he retired after 1043 01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:45,160 Speaker 1: suffering a stroke. He was finally like, I guess I 1044 01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:48,600 Speaker 1: should go sit down for a minute, and Elizabeth awarded 1045 01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:52,880 Speaker 1: him the Order of the Garter, which is the most 1046 01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:56,400 Speaker 1: senior knighthood in the English system that you can get 1047 01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:59,120 Speaker 1: and she was like, find me the biggest medal we 1048 01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:04,080 Speaker 1: have wield it in on a carriage, probably a cake 1049 01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:07,040 Speaker 1: with his face on it. I don't want to see that. 1050 01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:11,280 Speaker 1: They were actually forget that put Clementine's face on it. 1051 01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:14,600 Speaker 1: Even your website says this cake is idiots. They had 1052 01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:17,000 Speaker 1: a cake with a quote from his website saying his 1053 01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:22,080 Speaker 1: face is not that so rude? Total roast. His health 1054 01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:26,720 Speaker 1: continued to decline. In ninety three, President Kennedy, acting under 1055 01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:30,680 Speaker 1: the authorization of Congress, proclaimed him an honorary citizen of 1056 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:36,000 Speaker 1: the United States stopped by any time. Winston one of Us. 1057 01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:39,200 Speaker 1: At the age of eighty eight, less than two years 1058 01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:43,000 Speaker 1: before his death, he wrote to Clementine, my darling one, 1059 01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:46,440 Speaker 1: this is only to give you my fondest love and 1060 01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:51,040 Speaker 1: kisses A hundred times repeated. I am a pretty dull 1061 01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:54,240 Speaker 1: and paltry scribbler, but my stick, as I write, carries 1062 01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:57,920 Speaker 1: my heart along with it yours ever and always. W 1063 01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:04,280 Speaker 1: Oh that's so sweet, yeah, Sir. Winston died on January if, 1064 01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:09,080 Speaker 1: nineteen sixty five, at the age of ninety. Following his death, 1065 01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:13,560 Speaker 1: Clementine was created a life peer as Baroness Spencer church 1066 01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:17,240 Speaker 1: Hill of Chodwell. A life peer means your title can't 1067 01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:20,840 Speaker 1: be inherited. That's just for you. She took some political action, 1068 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,320 Speaker 1: but her growing deafness made it pretty hard for her 1069 01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:26,840 Speaker 1: to be involved in Parliament, and she died in her 1070 01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:29,919 Speaker 1: London home of a heart attack at ninety two years 1071 01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:35,439 Speaker 1: old in nineteen seventy seven, twelve years after Winston's death. So, yeah, 1072 01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:40,160 Speaker 1: if Churchill and Clementine hadn't overcome their joy of missing 1073 01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,640 Speaker 1: out and gone to that party and sat next to 1074 01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:47,920 Speaker 1: each other, Um, yeah, it's very likely that he would 1075 01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:50,920 Speaker 1: not have become Prime minister. And if he had not 1076 01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:54,960 Speaker 1: been Prime Minister, it's very possible that Britain would have 1077 01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:58,840 Speaker 1: reached an agreement with Hitler redrawn the map of Europe 1078 01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:02,160 Speaker 1: and we would be just again living in a very 1079 01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:05,120 Speaker 1: different world, very different. I mean, it's insane to think 1080 01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:07,680 Speaker 1: of that. Just like if those two chairs hadn't been 1081 01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,720 Speaker 1: empty next to each other, you know, if they hadn't 1082 01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:12,680 Speaker 1: both been in a kind of a grumpy mood, if 1083 01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:17,440 Speaker 1: they had settled to marry someone else earlier in life, 1084 01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:22,760 Speaker 1: or any just you know, step on a butterfly, you know, 1085 01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:24,720 Speaker 1: this is what they're talking about. You make one little 1086 01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:27,720 Speaker 1: change and who knows what the repercussions could be historically, 1087 01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:34,520 Speaker 1: And you know, would England have just conceded to the Nazis. 1088 01:07:34,600 --> 01:07:37,880 Speaker 1: It's hard to say. But Winston was certainly one of 1089 01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:42,640 Speaker 1: the heaviest pushers against Nazism in England at the time. 1090 01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:47,120 Speaker 1: He really rallied the country to fight against the Nazis 1091 01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:49,920 Speaker 1: in a way that I'm not sure another leader in 1092 01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:53,120 Speaker 1: England at that time would have. Yeah, he was so pugnacious, 1093 01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:57,760 Speaker 1: pugny um that he Uh, It's entirely possible there was 1094 01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:00,800 Speaker 1: another politician saying the same thing, but maybe they weren't 1095 01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:03,800 Speaker 1: willing to go as far as Winston was in saying 1096 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:06,560 Speaker 1: it over like really saying, no, I am going to 1097 01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:11,160 Speaker 1: fight you about this um. So yeah, just thankful for 1098 01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:14,320 Speaker 1: both these personalities meeting each other at the right time. 1099 01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:16,679 Speaker 1: And you know, we didn't talk about the USA much, 1100 01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:20,960 Speaker 1: but but Churchill and FDR had a strong relationship. So 1101 01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:24,200 Speaker 1: Churchill himself, you know, as leader, helps to get America 1102 01:08:24,280 --> 01:08:27,479 Speaker 1: involved in the war. But beyond that, Churchill and FDR 1103 01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:30,280 Speaker 1: also butted heads a lot and there were many times 1104 01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:36,160 Speaker 1: when that uh, that alliance was in danger and Clementine 1105 01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:39,720 Speaker 1: and Eleanor Roosevelt had a very strong relationship, and the 1106 01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:42,519 Speaker 1: two of them certainly went back to their husbands and said, 1107 01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:46,000 Speaker 1: y'all need to clean it up, get it together, and 1108 01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:50,360 Speaker 1: work it out, because you're both reading the rooms wrong, right. 1109 01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:53,760 Speaker 1: I was thinking that, like, it's probably equally thankful that 1110 01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:57,080 Speaker 1: Eleanor Roosevelt was the first lady at this time as well. 1111 01:08:57,240 --> 01:09:02,320 Speaker 1: It takes two baby, because it's been said so. Yeah, 1112 01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:06,920 Speaker 1: just a really incredible story of some people who I 1113 01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:10,439 Speaker 1: don't know circumstances, really led to a big change in 1114 01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:13,400 Speaker 1: the world for the better, to whatever degree it was 1115 01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:16,040 Speaker 1: just by them knowing each other and falling in love. 1116 01:09:16,280 --> 01:09:19,879 Speaker 1: You know, love saved the day in this case quite literally. 1117 01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:22,439 Speaker 1: And if you were invited to a party tonight, you're 1118 01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:25,280 Speaker 1: not sure you want to go go to the party. Yeah, 1119 01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:29,400 Speaker 1: you might stop Nazism. What, you might prevent World War 1120 01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:32,960 Speaker 1: three or at least win it, or at least win it. Yeah, 1121 01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:36,000 Speaker 1: if only their meeting had prevented World War two, that 1122 01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:39,719 Speaker 1: would have been even better. Clementine Churchill, what a boss. 1123 01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:43,040 Speaker 1: I'm so glad to learn about her and Winston super 1124 01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:45,400 Speaker 1: cool in some ways, And of course I think we 1125 01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:49,000 Speaker 1: mentioned earlier he's super uncool in many ways. You know, 1126 01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:52,000 Speaker 1: we're not here to define a person one way or 1127 01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:55,040 Speaker 1: the other. We're just here to talk about Uh. They're 1128 01:09:55,240 --> 01:10:01,720 Speaker 1: there's Sweet Sweet Love's Sweet Sweet Love which literally literally 1129 01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:05,400 Speaker 1: changed the world in the course of history. Not every 1130 01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:08,559 Speaker 1: marriage can say that. Nope, we're working on it. I know. 1131 01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:12,240 Speaker 1: All right, one day we'll change history. And if you 1132 01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:15,360 Speaker 1: have a suggestion for how we can change the world, uh, 1133 01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:18,840 Speaker 1: please email us at Romance at ihart media dot com 1134 01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:21,880 Speaker 1: right or you can find us on the social media platforms. 1135 01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:25,040 Speaker 1: I'm at Dianamite boom and i am at O Great 1136 01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:27,519 Speaker 1: it's Eli, and you can find the show itself at 1137 01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:32,120 Speaker 1: riddic Romance r I d I c r O A 1138 01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:35,920 Speaker 1: Romance r o A r I d I see romance. 1139 01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:39,040 Speaker 1: You know how it's spells. Yeah and yeah, let us 1140 01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:41,400 Speaker 1: know what you thought. Hopefully you enjoyed this episode. We 1141 01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:43,880 Speaker 1: had a great time talking about it, so hopefully had 1142 01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:46,120 Speaker 1: a great time hearing about it, and we will talk 1143 01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:50,160 Speaker 1: to you on the next one. Can you see so long? Friends, 1144 01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:53,920 Speaker 1: it's time to go. Thanks so listening to our show. 1145 01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:57,680 Speaker 1: Tell your friends name's uncles in to listen to a 1146 01:10:57,800 --> 01:10:59,360 Speaker 1: show ridiculous romance