1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: Live from the wind Trust Studios KSCFM Chicago, Kiss FM, 2 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,559 Speaker 1: I heart radio station. Here's Fred and ANGIEO everyone, Good 3 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:12,399 Speaker 1: morning Tuesday in February fourth Friend Nancy r On, Hello, 4 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: Angie Taylor, Hello Modo, Sefie and Kaylin and Paulina and 5 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: the Edna Tamer Report is about fifteen minutes from now. 6 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: We'll do trending stories before that. What's coming up in 7 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: the oscars are on Sunday, and I have all the 8 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: details about the big swag bags that all the stars get. Whoa, 9 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 1: I mean, they're worth like one hundred and fifty grand 10 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: to somebody's here. They are about one hundred and fifty grand. Amazing. 11 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 1: How many times share presentations do they have to sit through? None? 12 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 1: Us regular faults have to do that. Get the free 13 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: strip bill. They don't have to know what are they? 14 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 1: They just hope they'll take a picture of him put 15 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 1: it on their social media or they get caught by 16 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: paparazzi wearing something. Yeah, that's coming up. Thank you so 17 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: much for waking up with us. Good morning post Bologne, 18 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: Missa one h three five Kiss FM. You're like me 19 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: and you're in your home. Became the Situation Room and 20 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: you were up just just staring at the TV on 21 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: all that you had all the different devices going so 22 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: you could see the results of the Iowa caucus. Oh yeah, 23 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: and you're probably still awake and you're still waiting to 24 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: what's trending? Is up next? We'll get into that the 25 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: super Bowl. Lots of numbers about the Super Bowl. Um, 26 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: Kobe Hamilton, Duncan. This is an interesting thing that Duncan's doing. 27 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: I'll tell you in a second. Um, I got a 28 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: couple of food stories today. Dunk a Ruse. You love 29 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: dunk rus. I used to love dunk a Ruse. I 30 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: guess I'm about that too. All in what's trending and 31 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: the entertainment reporting that Angie dot com, what's the trending 32 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: in Chicago? What's fred? And Angie? On one of three 33 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: five Kiss FM, Alina wants access to my parking spot. 34 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: She comes in here and leads with, Hey, Fred, I 35 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: have a proposition for you. No strength attached, That's what 36 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: she says. And I got your attention right. You're listening? Yeah, 37 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I was interested to see what you 38 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: What you were going to say next doesn't matter anymore, 39 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: I think in a few times, that people have said 40 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 1: to me, no strings attached is typically some sort of 41 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: other other form of implication. Yeah, exactly, which I was 42 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: curious to see if. Wow, that's unique after all these years, Paul, 43 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: and now you finally confessing your love to me. No, 44 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: I didn't think so. No, I didn't think so. I 45 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: didn't think I was your type. But I mean, you 46 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: got a car in a parking spot, you're my type. Now, 47 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: well done. I'm also not bloated, you know, which is 48 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: cool because that's as we all know. God, hold on, 49 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: he produced blow. I can't as we all know, Halina 50 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 1: can't stand the bloated person. Squeeze dot com won't have 51 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: that problem anymore, all right, Um, the first in the 52 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 1: nation presidential caucuses in Iowa. We're crawling towards completion last night, 53 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: but then there was an issue, um and the Democratic 54 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: Party announced you found inconsistencies in reporting the results. The 55 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,399 Speaker 1: word is that we'll get the later on today after 56 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: a manual hand count. Wow. So cheez weekends, as long 57 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: as I get it right, you know what I'm saying. 58 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: Glued to the TV last night, guys, glued, I couldn't 59 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: watch this every second waiting for the results. And now 60 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: I'm still I had a caucus party. Yeah, and and 61 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: then it was like dragging and drying believe because they 62 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: were all setting you had a caucus party. You didn't 63 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: invite me to you were invited. I didn't get the end. 64 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: Did you invite me on Facebook? Me on Facebook? Now? 65 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: It was the thing I never seen. Those I never 66 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: see people that would go to my caucus party were 67 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: the Facebook friends. That's a nightmare. Right caucus party. Man 68 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: had the American flag cake and the whole thing. A man, 69 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: that would have been so much more fun than I 70 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: had my TV set up. I had my iPads. Also, 71 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: there was a little election coverage room in my head 72 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: going on in there. I grew my beard at like 73 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: Wolf Blitzer. It was really exciting anyway, so we don't 74 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: really know what happened despite that, though a bunch of 75 00:03:55,600 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: candidates gave victory speeches. Anyway, I love that no one 76 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: knows the results in they're up there saying I won, Well, 77 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: how do you everybody can't be a winner? Guys, everybody 78 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: did a trophy. Super Bowl scored its first ratings increase 79 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: in five years, were just under one hundred million viewers 80 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 1: on average watching on Sunday. It drew an average of 81 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: ninety nine point nine million viewers and a forty one 82 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 1: point seven household rating, which is like forty two percent 83 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: of America watched it. I guess those numbers were slightly 84 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: up from CBS's broadcast last year. The halftime show drew 85 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: a sizeable one hundred and three million total viewers, so 86 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: more people watched the halftime show than they did the game, 87 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: and to a four percent of three million on last 88 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 1: year's Maroon five performance. However, Yeah, so I guess the 89 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 1: halftime show didn't quite match those numbers from eighteen and seventeen. 90 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: Though twenty eighteen, justin Timberlake in Minnesota drew one hundred 91 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: and six point six million viewers, so I guess he 92 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: was considered more mass appeal than were Jlo and Shakira. 93 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 1: So I didn't like. I didn't like. It was bad, Yeah, 94 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: it was a great I didn't like it. I know 95 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: how much you guys loved that song, so I just 96 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 1: had to go into my own rendition dance. Yeah. The 97 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: only good part about that song is that the music 98 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 1: video has Anna Kenrick in it. That's the only good 99 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: part of that, and she dance dance dances. There was 100 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 1: a there was like a I don't know if it 101 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: was a preview video or what it was, but he's 102 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 1: in the studio with all of his friends and they 103 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: pushed a button on the song and then they started dancing, 104 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: and then James Gordon dances on the roof, and then 105 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 1: I think it was all the people from that movie. Yeah, 106 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: rolls yeah, and then uh and then they go to 107 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: Anna Kendrick and she's in her dressing room and then 108 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: she's dance to dance dance and I'm like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 109 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,679 Speaker 1: So I muted the song and I just kept watching 110 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 1: the Anna Kendrick parton over and over again. Um, I'm 111 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 1: just hoping I've ever met her, like she smells bad 112 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 1: or something. I'm just hoping it's something like resounding is 113 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: just just overwhelmingly negative, because otherwise I think she's my dream. 114 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: She's sarcastic. Um, she's funny, she's rich, she's talented, she's rich, 115 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: and she kind of like read Brunette even kind of 116 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: whatever it is, it's not offensive. Yeah, does those Hilton commercials, 117 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: I mean she got lots of points. Probably Dana Hilton's 118 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: for free. That means all the hotel sex. I can 119 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: have Wow, as long as she didn't do that cups thing, 120 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: I'm fine. No, No, she will not. That would be 121 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 1: one rule I would have. I'll say, hey, whatever you 122 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: want to do in this relationship is fine. Just never ever, ever, 123 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: I dare you do that cups thing. Bill Murray's Groundhog 124 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: Day jeep ad finished first in USA Today's ad Meter 125 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 1: You'd Ring Super Bowl ads by consumer rating, with voters 126 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: giving each at a score from one to ten. Hunday 127 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: finished in a close second. There Boston, the Smart Pa 128 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: Yes Exactly, and the Google's Loretta, in which she ate 129 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 1: five year old grandmother of a real Google employee used 130 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 1: as a company's technology to to remember his late wife. 131 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 1: That came in third. By the way, the copy tribute 132 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: was the second most watched in NBA, NBA ESPN NBA history. 133 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: There that it was a Friday night, It was the Lakers. 134 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: They took a lasers and I did watch and second 135 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: most watched ESPN game on NBA history on that thing 136 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: four point four one million viewers. Featured an amazing performance 137 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: of Amazing Grace by Usher and the National Anthem by 138 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: Boys to Men video tribute to Brian as well, and 139 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: Lebron James gave a speech to the whole thing. I 140 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 1: was thinking about that. If you watched it was it 141 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: was like an hour before they even played the game. 142 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: So I must have been a lot for those guys, 143 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: especially Lebron he was so close, had to give the 144 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: speech and then they had to go play the game. 145 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure it was very yeah, drained. And then at 146 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: halftime before the game starts, Khalifa and Charlie again. Yeah, yeah, 147 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: the only telecasters are pass That was she Anuary two 148 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: thousand and three game on the ESPN between the Lakers 149 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: and Rockets that featured the first matchup between Shaquille O'Neil 150 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: and Yell Ming case you were wondering, everyone Jeopardy, you 151 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: can thank us for that. The original Broadway cast for 152 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: Hamilton was filmed in Manhattan's Richard Rogers Theater in June 153 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: of twenty sixteen, before the original cast started leaving. This 154 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: show and now it's coming to the big screen. Disney 155 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: spent seventy five million on the right and we'll bring 156 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 1: the movie version of Hamilton to theaters in North America 157 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: October fifteenth of twenty one. I thought of Rufio, right, away. Yes, 158 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: I guess so excited. Did you ever go see the one? Yeah? 159 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: Over there, I actually won the lottery and got the 160 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: ticket ten dollars tickets. Wow. Yeah, Wow, it's all right, Like, yeah, 161 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:43,199 Speaker 1: it's cool because you're like in the front row, but 162 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: it's kind of obstructed. You really can't see what's going on. 163 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: You don't see the whole thing. Yeah, yeah, because the 164 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: stage is way high. What I'm saying, do you hear it? 165 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:53,719 Speaker 1: But you don't you see when when they're right in 166 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: front of you. Yeah, but then like something happens in 167 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: the back and you know how the there's turntables on 168 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:59,559 Speaker 1: the floors and stuff like that. Everything spins around. You 169 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: really don't see any of that. But it isn't a 170 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,439 Speaker 1: deer Evan Hanson going in there now that same time, 171 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure that's another one. I'd like to say, Worth 172 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:09,959 Speaker 1: Manuel Miranda do the Chicago one or no? No, no, no, 173 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: I think did he did? Like special appearances, the most 174 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 1: famous person was Wayne Brady. Wouldn't it? Did that? Wayne 175 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 1: Wayne Brady do it? Hamilton's I thought he did? Oh no, 176 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: I thought he did? Um And then there was was 177 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 1: I thought there was some controversy about it anyway, I 178 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 1: don't remember. Duncan's releasing a Frank's Red Hot Jelly doughnut, 179 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: but only at two locations. It's still with the combination 180 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: of apple and raspberry jelly and then top with white 181 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: icing and drizzle with Frank's Red Hot Kayam pepper sauce. 182 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,439 Speaker 1: And you can only get it in Miami ra raspberry 183 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 1: the two locations, and said two locations in Miami. Oh, 184 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:48,559 Speaker 1: you can get it in Miami Apple on the raspberry 185 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: jelly and Kayenne peppersaud, I don't know, and well, here 186 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: you go. Dunk a Ruse, the nineties snack is making 187 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: a return to Stories this summer. The popular snack packs 188 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: feature kangaroo shaped cookies and frost They were just continued 189 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 1: in twenty twelve. Only one flavor will be available this summer, 190 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: Vanilla Cookies with rainbow sprinkled vanilla frosting. Only Miami, No everyone. 191 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: Dunkaroos will go on sale at seven eleven locations nationwide 192 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 1: before being available at other convenience stores and grocery stores. 193 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: If you love dunkar Roos, they're back. Yeah. National Hemp Day, 194 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: National Fank of Mail Carrier Day, and don't want Your 195 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: Dog eat them. What I have one to add? Oh, 196 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: I thought you raise your hand like I already screwed 197 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: it up. I'm like, I already didn't say an anything 198 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: national because Kalin's she's my fact checker. If I screw 199 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 1: it up and say, like Sean Kemp Day, No, it's 200 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: Hemp Day more on ump Day. Yeah, well they celebrate 201 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 1: that in Seattle a National Homemade Soup Day. And and 202 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 1: this just in Paisanos is bringing us pizza because National 203 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:54,079 Speaker 1: Pizza Day was over the weekend. I don't know out. 204 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:56,599 Speaker 1: I know you got their pasta. Bring us some of 205 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 1: that hot mama of that. I eat that whole damn 206 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: bowl like this. Oh yeah, the serving is probably it's 207 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: pretty spicy. It is super spicy, like it when I 208 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: eat it. That's why I like it. I gotta eat 209 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:10,959 Speaker 1: it by myself because it's a little embarrassing when I'm 210 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: like at the table, just like four servings in there 211 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 1: and I just crush it. Now there's now there's it's 212 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: one bowl. That's one. That's one serving. As far as 213 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:22,439 Speaker 1: I'm concerning serving. You brought it to me one person, 214 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: one person eating it. As entertainment reports, Oh, the oscars 215 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,839 Speaker 1: are on Sunday, the ninety first Academy Awards. Only a 216 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 1: select fuel will take on the gold. But when I 217 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 1: lose all twenty five acting and directing nominees get this 218 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 1: lavish gift bag. Um, a celebrity and product marketing company, 219 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: puts it all together. This year's Oscar bag is valued 220 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: at one hundred and forty eight thousand dollars, considerably more 221 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: than the value of the Oscar statue at which is 222 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: twenty four care gold plated. Yeah, when you win one 223 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: of those things, the value of your career. So yeah, So, 224 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: I mean, there's so much stuff in here that it's crazy, 225 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,599 Speaker 1: and they just really want to see the celebrities like 226 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 1: wearing stuff that is in there, so then they get 227 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: the money's worth. But here's some of the things. In 228 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:18,719 Speaker 1: addition to physical gifts, nominees are given bouchers as well 229 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 1: to redeem for big ticket items like this year's most 230 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: expensive gift, a luxury cruise for two to Iceland, the Galapagos, 231 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: the Amazon or Central America with spot treatments and a 232 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: private chef included. And so depending on the location you choose, 233 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: that value ranges from fifteen to twenty thousand dollars. Per 234 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: guests if you remember who I mean, I guess some 235 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: of the people getting this that would be amazing. But 236 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: then you've got other people who like they own their 237 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: own yachts, so they're not going to go on there. Yeah, 238 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: they don't care. Well, a lot of a lot of 239 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: people donate them to charities so that the charities can 240 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:58,079 Speaker 1: auction off individual items, which I think is a good 241 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: idea too. Among the other gifts, one week inclusive stay 242 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: at the Golden Door Spa. Isn't that in Scottsdale? Is maybe? 243 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, Starting at nine thousand dollars. Fashion jewelry 244 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 1: from million the mall, strip Ball. Oh yeah, those are 245 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: the good ones, Robert Kraft told me. With the shades 246 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: all just a neon sign that says massage. Yeah, yeah, no, 247 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: those are totally legit, right, Fashion jewelry for a million 248 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 1: of five hundred bucks, A bottle of French absence for 249 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: six hundred and up to thirty thousand dollars. A non 250 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: surgical rejuvenation treatments from Manhattan Manhattan plastic surgeon doctor V. Wow, 251 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 1: that's a lot of stuff. There's something you told me 252 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: this morning. I didn't know they have to pay a 253 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,559 Speaker 1: tax and all that stuff. Yeah, they said they have 254 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 1: to pay income tax. So if it's one hundred and 255 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: fifty thousand dollars income tax, was that Yeah? Like, p 256 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: so you've hand like forty thousand dollars thirty thousand. Yeah. Yeah, 257 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 1: it's like going on the prices, right, you know, you 258 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:57,559 Speaker 1: went all those prizes, you still got FID Second, but 259 00:13:57,960 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: I don't have to take any of this stuff. So 260 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: if if I'm one of these brands and I really 261 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: want celebrities to take my stuff, then I'm paying the 262 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: tax on it because otherwise, like I would think twice, 263 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: if I'm a famous person, I see a bunch of Chodskis, 264 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't need that. I wonder if legally 265 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 1: they can. I would just I would somehow figure out 266 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 1: a way to reimburse the tax, because that way the 267 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 1: famous person might be allowed to just grab it. Yeah, 268 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: I mean, you give it a charity, yet you get 269 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: you get text back on that. Yeah, that's true, you 270 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: get all the tax back. Um. So Robert Pattinson has 271 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: been declared the most handsome man in the world. What 272 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: do we agree fucking science research and what constitutes a 273 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: perfect face? So the actor was found to be ninety 274 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: two point one accurate on the Golden ratio of Beauty five, 275 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 1: which is said to measure, you know, the physical perfection 276 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: your eyes, your eyebrows right in your face. Yes, it's 277 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 1: a measure. Yep, the same one with Bella Hadi. It's 278 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: the same one. Yeah, same thing. Um so measure against 279 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: Other celebrities came closest to the Greeks idea of perfection. 280 00:14:56,560 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: Henry Cavill. Yeah, yeah, a close second. Witcher and Superman, 281 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: and then Bradley Cooper was killed. Yeah, yeah, his face 282 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: is perfect. Yeah, I didn't know that. Brat Yeah, Brad 283 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: Pitt and George Clooney run up top bachelor. Peter is 284 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: also a bachelor. Peter's on there too. No, I didn't 285 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: know that you had a crush on him. I mean 286 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: doesn't everybody. He's a superman beautiful man. I've ever seen it. Yeah, yeah, 287 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to like get with him, but he's 288 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: it's obvioutiful. Did you guys know the gun the bachelor 289 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 1: can fly plane? Did you guys know that I did it? 290 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 1: You didn't know? No? I thought they just called him 291 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 1: pilot Peter. No, No, he can fly a plane. And um, 292 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: and they try and demonstrate that at every possible moment. 293 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: Didn't watch it, no, but I just every scene that 294 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: I every time I've seen an episode, like a piece 295 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: of it, there's an airplane either behind him or they're 296 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: having a date to hangar, or he's flying an airplane, 297 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 1: or he's wearing an air pilot's uniform walking up a jetway, 298 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 1: like you know, he's a pilot. Guys, he's legitimate. Does 299 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: that mean that he should be on this scale of 300 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: hot people? Yeah, every pilot should be on the scale 301 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: of hot people. Jennifer lopez Is Super Bowl halftime show 302 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: performance may have only lasted about ten minutes, but it 303 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: took ten hours to create her beauty look for the game. 304 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: Her makeup artist, Scott Barnes said, we started at ten 305 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning, continued on and off until Jlo 306 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 1: took the stage around eight o'clock at night. Can you 307 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: imagine sitting in a makeup chair for that long? Oh? Why? 308 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: He said, My vibe for this was Versachi Supermodel the nineties. Um, 309 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: you know, like Linda Evangelista, Christy Turlington. I wanted to 310 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: give the nod to that. Um. The result a smokey eye, 311 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: glossy nude lip, bronze glow, and there's a whole ton 312 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 1: of art products and I know that, like, you know, 313 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: all the makeup junkies will love this list of products. 314 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: There's like ten or fifteen on here. But if you 315 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 1: want to see a complete list of every product that 316 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: Jalo's makeup artists used for the Big Game, you can 317 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: check it out fred Angie dot com. I'm kidding. They 318 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 1: could have put like a little uh whatever powder on 319 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: her face or lights did and shine and then off 320 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: she goes. I mean, how made up was she when 321 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: she was in here? She had makeup on. It was 322 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: very natural makeup. She just has that glow, you know, 323 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 1: the j Loo glow. She would have been fine. Now, 324 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: Shakira didn't look like she had that much. Shakira looks 325 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 1: a little more natural. Maybe not. I don't know what 326 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 1: Shakia looks like without any makeup, but didn't look like 327 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 1: she was totally She's never been like a big makeup, 328 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: heavy makeup person. Shakira. She's just so naturally like they 329 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 1: both are. That's good because it doesn't get at the pillow. 330 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 1: You know, that's nice. Well, you should probably take it 331 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: off before. Well, you know, sometimes there's not time. Um, 332 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 1: when Shakira comes over. Sometimes we just get right to it. Okay, yeah, 333 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 1: it's true. Andrew, our buddy, Andrew. This is the guy 334 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 1: who I guess his wife makes him watch The Bachelor, 335 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 1: and so now he's taken it. Last week was the 336 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 1: first week, but now he's taken to emailing updates on 337 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: what happened because he knows what We've all given up 338 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 1: and nobody watches this. Um, so Andrew emailed me last night. 339 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:59,439 Speaker 1: They just threw on a random three hour episode. Here 340 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: are my nose or what happened? So for you write 341 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 1: to me notes, um, so far before I threw my 342 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:05,360 Speaker 1: hands in the air finding out there's a third hour. 343 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,920 Speaker 1: They do make you, Bachelor fans commit to a lot 344 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 1: of time because they'll like three hour episodes if they 345 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: stretch it out. And it could be it's like those 346 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 1: meetings that last three hours that could have been an email. Well, 347 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 1: it's like the Super Bowl coverage that starts at eight 348 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning. Those guys aren't even awake yet, 349 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: they haven't even had their breakfast, and we're getting full coverage. 350 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:27,959 Speaker 1: Take it so commercials for all, well, some people are 351 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: really into like every little detail, like Sunday for the Oscars. 352 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 1: You know, they start all the red carpet stuff at 353 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 1: like now you got people showing up yet it's yeah, 354 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 1: it's super Bowl in the morning and the games played 355 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 1: at six. That's aggressive. Yeah, and it's all about selling 356 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: commercials though. Anyway, Um, let me see here Bachelor. Uh, 357 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: three girls got sent homes down to twelve. They go 358 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 1: to Costa Rica. Now, um, we got our answer to 359 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 1: the next source of drama in an episode pre of you. 360 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: One quarter of the way into the episode and it's Kelsey. 361 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,959 Speaker 1: I guess Kelsey is going to be the big drama. 362 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 1: Sounds like a generator. Um, Sydney got a one on one? 363 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 1: Who is this Kelsey? Lady Kelsey starts to forget the 364 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: concept of the show and gets jealous of Peter. It's 365 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 1: going on dates with other girls. I do love when 366 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 1: that happens. You know, my relationship with Peter is special 367 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 1: because you know, they use these buzzwords and they like 368 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 1: to use the word relationship for like each individual, Like 369 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 1: so apparently if I've met him once and we're face 370 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 1: to face, now we have a special relationship. But ere 371 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: for the right reasons. Yeah, but how can you go 372 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 1: on that show if you're gonna get jealous? You can't, 373 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:41,880 Speaker 1: like you have everyone knows. It's not a surprise. It's 374 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 1: not like, hey, we're gonna send you up with a 375 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 1: guy and then you show up in their twenty other 376 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 1: people there, like you know exactly what's going on. Do 377 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: you suppose it's like possible to catch feelings right away 378 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: and then you know, like whoa again, I don't know 379 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: what I believe any of these people in that period 380 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 1: of time are really truly catching feelings. I think they're 381 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 1: catching lust. I think they're not wanting to be embarrassed. 382 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:04,400 Speaker 1: I think they're catching competitiveness, not wanting to be sent home. 383 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: I mean maybe by the end of a month, you know, 384 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: if you're down to the final two, maybe you feel 385 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: a certain kind of way, But also also think you 386 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 1: feel a certain kind of way about the experience you're 387 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 1: being whished away to. You know, right, Yeah, that's why 388 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: they never last, because you get back home and you're 389 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 1: in your apartment. Pilot Peachs gotta put on his little 390 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 1: outfit and make his way off to you know, Tuscalooser 391 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 1: or whatever, flying for the airline and you're living in 392 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 1: Moleen or whatever. Nothing wrong with Moline, it's just not 393 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 1: Tahiti right Anyway, group date, Cosmo photos shoot. That's a 394 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: fun date. If a guy takes you on a date 395 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: makes you do a photos shoot, I don't know about that. 396 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: But three hours, my god, no, that's a long time 397 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 1: to watch and watch a movie. It's like, this is 398 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,400 Speaker 1: too long yet the relationship that I think that's a buzzword. 399 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: The producers feed the Bachelor of people. And then if 400 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:55,680 Speaker 1: you watch Married at First Sight, you can tell that 401 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: they're constantly making them call it, call them my wife, 402 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:01,439 Speaker 1: my husband, my relation, can ship, my marriage. You can 403 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: tell they're making them use those words because it's so 404 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 1: out of like it just seems so uncomfortable. The way 405 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 1: that they describe married at First Sight is making me 406 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 1: mad this year. The First Sight is making me uncomfortable 407 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: to watch. Yes, I don't know if you're watching. I 408 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: know you are, but I also read one of the spoilers, 409 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 1: so oh no, I won't tell you, but one of 410 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,159 Speaker 1: the things will not surprise you. Pastor cal pissed me 411 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 1: off last week? What did he do? So there's that 412 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 1: one couple. Um, I forgot their names the ones who 413 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: aren't sleeping in the same hotel room. Yes, okay, those two, 414 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 1: and like he's lying all the time. And she called 415 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:43,919 Speaker 1: Pastor cal and said, he's basically pressuring me, saying, if 416 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 1: we don't have sex by the time this is over, 417 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 1: and then then I don't want to be married. And 418 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 1: then he said, I'm gonna I'm gonna lay it down 419 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: on the guy right like I'm gonna give him a 420 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 1: hard time, but he based nobody asked her like she 421 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: she was like so nervous and like so uncomfortable, and 422 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,880 Speaker 1: nobody asked her, like past was like, you just gotta 423 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 1: make it work, and I'll talk to him, and it's 424 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: like yeah. And then he's sitting there saying she's uncomfortable 425 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 1: and she feels pressured to have sex, and nobody asked her. 426 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:10,719 Speaker 1: She's like, you know, do you want to get out 427 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 1: of this? Are you okay? Like I just felt yeah, 428 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: you know, they just kind of shut her down. Yeah, 429 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: And then yeah, I remember that because he said I'm gonna, 430 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:20,479 Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to him and i'm gonna lay it out. 431 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,479 Speaker 1: I'm gonna, you know, send him straight, and and then 432 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 1: you hear the conversation and it's like, I don't you 433 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 1: never really send him straight? He didn't send him straight, 434 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 1: and he lied to him. It was just kind of annoying. No, 435 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 1: and then, Um, I think the nerdy ones will be 436 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 1: married forever. I think they're they're well, they're perfect mass 437 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: for each other. Like he's he's an okay looking guy 438 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 1: and she's a pretty girl, and like they're perfect for 439 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 1: each other. I think the other two might be it 440 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 1: might be getting a little hot and heavy too fast. 441 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 1: The um the guy with the beard, No, no, no, 442 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: the guy with the beard and um and the other 443 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: one and I don't know the one that they're like 444 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,159 Speaker 1: making the most physical they have the most physical chemistry 445 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 1: off the top. Um, the hot guy is gay. That 446 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: guy sucks. I hate him. He's now the other girl's 447 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 1: real toothy, which is very vain of me. I can't 448 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 1: I cannot look at the size of her front teeth. 449 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 1: But that doesn't matter. That doesn't matter. I'm just saying 450 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: I'm a little focused on the teeth. But she's a 451 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 1: very pretty girl. I think she's also very insecure. Though 452 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 1: he won't stop talking here, I am like blabbering, but 453 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 1: he just says stuff. He'll talk for five minutes like 454 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: he is so smart and not say anything, And he 455 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: didn't say anything. Yeah, he's annoying, but you can tell 456 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: that he speaks with so much conviction. He sits there 457 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 1: and tells her, I am not attracted to you at all. 458 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 1: It's like, well duh. He'll be like, you know, but 459 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: I think that the theory on this and the philosophy 460 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,199 Speaker 1: shut up. We gotta you know, when we wake up 461 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,639 Speaker 1: to the morning, we gotta breathe. When we breathe, that 462 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 1: we gotta live. And as we're living that we're growing 463 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 1: people that are really worry that don't say anything crazy, 464 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,360 Speaker 1: what what did you did you? He'll sit there, look 465 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 1: at him and be like, I use a secret Dacoda ring, 466 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 1: figure out what you're trying to say. Sums up there, 467 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 1: sum sum's going on there anyway. There's a recap on 468 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: The Batsman Merit the first second Nose spoilers though, because 469 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 1: I guess I ruined the mass singer for a bunch 470 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: of people again yesterday. I'm sorry. He's a weekend. It's 471 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 1: Nangi on one of three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number 472 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 1: one hit music station, Fred Nangi, Good Morning, five seconds 473 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 1: of summer tickets seven twenty five, will do those ter 474 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 1: stay or go Justin Bieber tickets between seven thirty and 475 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: seven forty five. When you hear the creepy yummy thing, 476 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 1: yo mean, that's what he sounds like. That was a reenactment. 477 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 1: When you hear that, then call and gets your tickets 478 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:38,160 Speaker 1: to see Justin Bieber Soldier Field. A quarter of Americans 479 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:42,920 Speaker 1: plan to spend their Valentine's Day celebrating with their pets. 480 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 1: Two thousand adults in the US were his survey. They 481 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 1: found twenty eight percent, which is more than a quarter, 482 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 1: plan on spending the holiday with their furry friends. Forty 483 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: percent of men, thirty two percent of women planned to 484 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 1: spoil their pet on Valentine's Day. Thirty three percent of 485 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 1: adults contemplating collie in sick to work on v Valentine's 486 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 1: Day to make sure their pets get plenty of attention 487 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 1: and affection. Would this is my quickly eight five, five, nine, 488 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: one one h three five honestly, would you rather spend 489 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:14,360 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day with your human lover? You only get one 490 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: your human lover or your canine slash feet, feeline, slash, 491 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,240 Speaker 1: whatever your pet is or companion. Sorry, Peter, we're not 492 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: allowed to call the pets anymore. Your companion, you only 493 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,639 Speaker 1: get to choose. This is only one day. You can 494 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,119 Speaker 1: go back to the rest, you know whatever, we have 495 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: to hang out with tomorrow. But on Valentine's Day you 496 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 1: only get to pick Rufiel. You only get your cat, 497 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 1: or you get Jess. How's it going to be one day? Jess? 498 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,920 Speaker 1: All day? So your cats are just whatever? You go. 499 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: My cats are painting the butt Polina your cat or 500 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:55,399 Speaker 1: I don't know whichever Dominican guy you're dating currently. Um, 501 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: how are the cats for right now? Because at the moment, 502 00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:01,400 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people, if if given one day, 503 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 1: they'd say, I'll celebrate with you tomorrow. But today, if 504 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 1: I get to pick, it's gonna be the animals, sugar 505 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: dre no way, my husband. I mean, I hate Valentine's Day. 506 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 1: Things so dumb. But yeah, my husband always before pets, Um, 507 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 1: a cow, a cow or a lover you don't have, well, 508 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 1: I mean, let's go listen, let's go back to a 509 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,120 Speaker 1: place where you had a lover, and then there's a cow. 510 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,919 Speaker 1: First of all, my family's dog. Oh, I was going 511 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 1: to give you an opportunity to cuddle with a cow 512 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: again on Valentine's Day, or I want to cut a chance. Okay, 513 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 1: all right, well never mind the cow is out. You 514 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 1: don't have to know more cuddling with the cowans knows me. 515 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,159 Speaker 1: We don't have to get to know each other. I 516 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 1: don't know this cow. You know. There's a lot I 517 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,400 Speaker 1: get to knowing each other. That's true. But you didn't 518 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 1: have any problem getting with the rogue cow getting rogue. 519 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: So careful how we were that with any rogue cow? No, 520 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 1: she got with a rogue cow. I set it up. 521 00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 1: I paid for it. Damn it. She can go with him, 522 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: yes she did, and um, but we had to get 523 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,440 Speaker 1: to know each other's treated. She wasn't just like right 524 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: up in there. You know. She wasn't right. Story and 525 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 1: then and then dad we hung out. But chance, you 526 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,640 Speaker 1: know we already know each other. True, it's intimate. I understand. 527 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 1: I think I would take Lily over a lot of Yeah. 528 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: Well yeah, these days, yeah, probably so, I probably would Lily. 529 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 1: The problem with Lily my dog, Lily labradoodle. She's eleven 530 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 1: years old. She doesn't always want to be She's not 531 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,120 Speaker 1: always down like she down for what just like your 532 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 1: female lovers. Yeah, well basically no, like like like when 533 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 1: she wants attention and she'll come get attention, but when 534 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 1: she took the older dog and go in another room 535 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: and she'll chill and then like for her, like sometimes 536 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,439 Speaker 1: I'll go in there and I'll lay down next to her, 537 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,159 Speaker 1: and she'll get up and walk about four feet and 538 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 1: then lay down again because she's not having it. Drey 539 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,920 Speaker 1: is starting to do that too, because Dre's the same age. 540 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 1: She's getting older and now she doesn't want to like 541 00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 1: hang out with everybody else. She'll go to a different 542 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 1: room and sit by her, and she never used to 543 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,400 Speaker 1: do that. I think they turn into grumpy old men. See, 544 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: Lily has always been like that though. She's always been 545 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 1: very independent. I think it's because of her military training. 546 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know this about Lily, but 547 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 1: she's a natural born killer and she's an assassin. Yeah. No, 548 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 1: she's like one of those Seal Team six dogs. At 549 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: nighttime when we all go to sleep, she goes off 550 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 1: and fights, you know, wars and stuff. Yeah, she's a 551 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: secret like a like a double O seven kind of thing. 552 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,920 Speaker 1: Lily is. She's like the lamber dog. Well I'm not 553 00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,119 Speaker 1: false valor here. She's not a member of any official 554 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,680 Speaker 1: armed forces. She just goes and fights crime. And she's 555 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 1: more of like a subcontractor kind of thing, you know, 556 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,679 Speaker 1: like a fixture. Yeah, and Lily just sort of handled now. 557 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 1: She doesn't get her pause dirty anymore, and she delegates 558 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: to her other like German shepherd friends and one of 559 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 1: those other ones. Ma Mala Belgian malwaw. You know whatever 560 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 1: kind of dogs are? You know what is veget Belgian? 561 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 1: It's hard to sit mala wow wow wow wow wow. 562 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 1: You know the ones that they use for um for 563 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 1: attacking the really smart ones. They use him in the airport, 564 00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: they use him in the military, Belgian whatever. I can't 565 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: know how to say it. I just know Mala malanoa. 566 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: I don't know that's yea Malanoi, Mallinois Illinois. I think 567 00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 1: it's I sound like which I think is wow wow, 568 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: Like if some French word isn't like Illinois. I thought 569 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 1: it was like Mallinois. You're supposed to say Illinois. Illinos waway, 570 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: You're supposed to Emily, Hi, Hi, Hi. Valentine's Day with 571 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 1: your lover. First of all, do you have a lover, Yeah, 572 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: I've been with my boyfriend for six years, So six 573 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: year boyfriend? Or what's the animal? Um? I have two dogs? Okay, 574 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 1: so six your boyfriend or two dogs? Which one do 575 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 1: you pick? Um? I would probably pick my dogs. In fact, 576 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: I have to because my boyfriend works late on Valentine's Day, 577 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 1: But I would pick I would pick them anyway. They're 578 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 1: much better cuddlers. Wow is enough? And then you guys 579 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 1: can do something the next day, you know, and remember 580 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 1: you love six your boyfriend. You just would rather hang 581 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 1: out with the dogs because you get more out. I 582 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 1: think the perfect day would be spending the day with 583 00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:01,800 Speaker 1: both of them. All of them, well, I think kids. 584 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 1: So oh so I didn't give you that. Uiously, you 585 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 1: had to take one of the other. So there you go. 586 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: You're one of the twenty percent that would do that. 587 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: All right, have a good day, Emily, don't you ever? 588 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 1: You don't ever play this game where you have a 589 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 1: dialogue with your pets and you create identities for them. 590 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 1: But that you know, I think Lily is an assassin. 591 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 1: She's retired. She didn't do it anymore. I haven't created, like, uh, 592 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 1: you know, a backstory. Oh and Harley Brossard may he 593 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: rest in peace. He was a magnate, he was a 594 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: he was royal, and he made billions of dollars in 595 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,320 Speaker 1: investments and uh, you know, international business and uh yeah, 596 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 1: you don't ever do this. You know what. You don't 597 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 1: have a dialogue with your cats. You don't have like 598 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,479 Speaker 1: you don't. I mean, I chat, I chat with him, 599 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 1: but I don't have a whole like backstory. You don't. 600 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, totally. Yeah, I have a voice. I talked 601 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: to the man. I have a I have a they 602 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 1: have back Browns, my sister, my whole family acknowledge the 603 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:56,040 Speaker 1: greatness that is uh and we all yeah, yeah, Harley 604 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: was royalty, Lily an assassin. Yeah, they talk better than 605 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 1: these are the radio blogs. It's true. Okay, I'm not 606 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 1: the only one I know. I'm sure you're not. I'm 607 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,959 Speaker 1: sure you're not doing the only one, the only one 608 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: that's gonna probably admit it. I have full on I 609 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,479 Speaker 1: want to say, someday in heaven, I'm not the only 610 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: one who would admit it. Someday in heaven, I hope 611 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 1: to see them and they can talk to me, and 612 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 1: I can talk back to them. If I could have 613 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 1: a superpower, one of those superpowers would be to be 614 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 1: able to talk to animals. And they talk back to me, 615 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 1: I understand them. They're gonna say to me, like, why 616 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 1: did you talk to me like that? And where did 617 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 1: you come up with that scenario? Like this? I didn't 618 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 1: do anything all my life. All I did was like 619 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 1: walk around and chill and like sleep. I didn't do 620 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 1: any of that stuff. Audio Journal six fifty and eighth fifty. 621 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: I like for writing it Our diaries as please dear 622 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: blog speaking of dogs. UM my best friend. She lives 623 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 1: in New York, and she posted this picture yesterday. This 624 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 1: seems to me, like because I know we talked about 625 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 1: this a couple of weeks ago. She was walking in 626 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: Manhattan and somebody was going in to get a coffee 627 00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: and asked her to watch his dog while he went 628 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 1: in to get coffee. And she's a huge animal lover, 629 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 1: so obviously she stops, you know, in the middle of 630 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 1: her day and sits and waits for this dog. And 631 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 1: I guess it took like like twenty minutes and she 632 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 1: was on her way to work, and um, but I 633 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 1: was just like I She's like she said, I'm you know, 634 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 1: as an animal lover. I was happy to sit and 635 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 1: pet this dog. I would rather, you know, watch the 636 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: dog than see it tied up, because I hate when 637 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 1: I see dogs like tied up on the sidewalk. Um. 638 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 1: But I would be way too nervous to just take 639 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 1: off for twenty minutes and let somebody sit with my dog. 640 00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 1: I feel like, I don't know, they would steal my 641 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 1: dog or something. Now I've heard that happened before, where 642 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 1: you're on a patio and someone's running into it. Happened 643 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:45,480 Speaker 1: on a day one time. This is a while ago, 644 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 1: but I was on a patio and there's a like 645 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,040 Speaker 1: a to go place right there, and the person's like, hey, 646 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 1: would you mind? It feels like you're sitting in a patio. 647 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 1: You're not gonna go anywhere. You're sitting there eating. Yeah, 648 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 1: I suppose you could. You can stand up and run 649 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 1: away with the dog if you wanted to. That's a lot. Yeah, 650 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, Just like, yeah, I would rather see 651 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 1: if somebody would would hang out with it. Like maybe 652 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 1: if somebody came over start petting the dog, I'd be like, hey, 653 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: would you mind for a second, I'm gonna run in 654 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: here and do this thing. And then like I don't know, 655 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 1: someone who loves the dog. I would do it for somebody, 656 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 1: is I mean I would do it too. I would 657 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 1: definitely have been tying it up. Yeah, somebody's dog. But 658 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 1: like people are twenty minutes minutes, like you get in 659 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 1: that Starbucks line sometimes, you know, first thing in the morning. 660 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: I could take forever. But yeah, I was just like, whoa, 661 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 1: that's a long time. It's like, here's my kid. Jacqueline says, 662 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: this is why I'm single because of my imagination. Really, 663 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 1: you listened for ten years and you're just now realizing 664 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 1: that I'm a little cool cool, Like really, you're just 665 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 1: now figuring that out. And because I create create identities. 666 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: What's that? She's not trilling because she says she still 667 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 1: loves me, but you're responding to it. No, I don't 668 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 1: think she's I don't think she's killing me on this 669 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 1: though she's not saying it was like, what was it 670 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 1: the other guy yesterday? It was way to give relationship 671 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 1: advice when you can't hold one or you can't hang on. 672 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 1: Now it's trauma box. Yeah, I give twenty for that. 673 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 1: I don't have any cash. Sorry, you need to start 674 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 1: taking a zell or something, or we need like you 675 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,719 Speaker 1: know one of that thing. Yeah, we need square in here. 676 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: It's it's better for me to have a digital access 677 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,279 Speaker 1: than a troll box. It's like, whatever, that's why I 678 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: can't hold a relationship. Thanks man, I'm getting my full 679 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 1: twenty out of it. The reason I'm single, the reason 680 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 1: I'm single is far spans much further than my imagination. 681 00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 1: Will put it that way, dear blog. So I got 682 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 1: a stretch freaking Oh boy, I'm stretching. So what's happening. 683 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 1: There was a misunderstanding with a new friend last year. 684 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,280 Speaker 1: Is this regarding to your tweet from yesterday? Yes, okay, 685 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 1: it is. It's a misunderstanding with a new friend. And 686 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 1: this person did something that represented something that I would 687 00:34:55,120 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 1: do in a flight on a flaky scale. Um, And 688 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:02,960 Speaker 1: it really stood out to me because it was like 689 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 1: from my playbook. It was like, here are some plans, 690 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 1: and then right before the plans, ah, you know, like 691 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 1: you did to me at the movies at that time. No, 692 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 1: I was, first of all, you don't let a damn 693 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 1: thing go. Second of all, why can't you be a 694 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,320 Speaker 1: win man? And realized that two years ago, when I 695 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,760 Speaker 1: didn't go to a movie, I was getting some sound's 696 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,160 Speaker 1: wrong with that? Anyway? Back to my story, round the story, 697 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:33,880 Speaker 1: damn it so so it looked like something that I 698 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 1: would do when I was annoyed. So I let it 699 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,400 Speaker 1: go at the time, but it really ate at me, 700 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 1: and so I went in on this person a little bit, 701 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,640 Speaker 1: calling them out for what I thought had happened, because 702 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 1: it looked like something I would do flakiness wise. And 703 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 1: then I realized it was possible that I was wrong, 704 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,319 Speaker 1: that I was wrong about my assessment, and there could 705 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,320 Speaker 1: be another story, and that I wasn't nice, and that 706 00:35:56,440 --> 00:36:00,359 Speaker 1: I should apologize, which I'll be honest is not something 707 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm very good at. I think it's something a lot 708 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,360 Speaker 1: of people aren't very good at. I would say, I 709 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 1: am sorry are three of the fewest used words in 710 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 1: the English Dictionary in conjunction with one another people. I 711 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 1: have a very hard time saying that, and I don't 712 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 1: think that's an overstatement. But I thought about it, and 713 00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:19,440 Speaker 1: I was like, you know, whether this goes anywhere or not, 714 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,840 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have reacted that way. I guess I should 715 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 1: give this person the benefit of the doubt. And I 716 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 1: said to this person, I am sorry, which is very 717 00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 1: hard for me. To do. But it was deserved, it 718 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,600 Speaker 1: was it was appropriate. I am sorry. I probably misread 719 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 1: this situation. I shouldn't have reacted that way. And that's 720 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 1: all I wanted to say. You know, I don't I 721 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 1: don't think we're going to wind up agreeing on it, 722 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: but I am sorry that I did this. The response 723 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 1: from this person was to go in even harder on me. Well, 724 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: here's why, here's why, you're a jackass. And it was 725 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,040 Speaker 1: just more and more and more and more and more 726 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,400 Speaker 1: and more and more. It's annoying when you apologize him 727 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:06,360 Speaker 1: keep going. You know, it really bummed me out. It 728 00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 1: bummed me out because I actually I was when I 729 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,000 Speaker 1: when you come to somebody with contrition and you're feel 730 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 1: vulnerable and you know you could have been wrong, and 731 00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 1: maybe maybe I was eighty percent wrong, maybe I was 732 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:20,360 Speaker 1: ninety percent wrong, maybe I was forty percent wrong. But 733 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 1: what I was willing to do at that point was 734 00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:25,560 Speaker 1: say I was wrong. I don't care if you were wrong. 735 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 1: I'm letting that go. You don't have to apologize to me. 736 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 1: I'm telling you I'm sorry. I realize that it's not 737 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 1: like get out a jail free card, where somebody has 738 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:34,960 Speaker 1: to just forget why they're pissed off at you. But 739 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,440 Speaker 1: I do feel like when someone says to you they're sorry, 740 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 1: it's not an opportunity to go. But let me hammer 741 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 1: you down even further. Don't you then say okay, and 742 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,480 Speaker 1: then I accept your apology or I don't, and then 743 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: you sort of move on from there. Right You either 744 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,479 Speaker 1: decide where you want to you want to be running 745 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 1: that person or not, or how you want to act accordingly. 746 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,399 Speaker 1: But at that moment is at the time to tell 747 00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,400 Speaker 1: someone to really bury somebody even for I don't know, 748 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 1: I just probably kept up up. I was bummed. I 749 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 1: was really bummed about it. Sometimes when you apologize, if 750 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 1: somebody's really mad, they can accept your apology, but you know, 751 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:11,400 Speaker 1: the mad doesn't go away right away, you know, just 752 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 1: to get that someone apologizes, it takes a minute. Anyway, 753 00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 1: it's more of a lesson for me. It's a lesson 754 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 1: for me that I need to be And maybe maybe 755 00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,239 Speaker 1: that means that my apology came with some conditions which 756 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 1: it probably shouldn't have. The apology came with the condition 757 00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,360 Speaker 1: that that that this person would read that read what 758 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,479 Speaker 1: I said and maybe have a little empathy and maybe 759 00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,840 Speaker 1: tear the tables and say, well, you're wrong, but I 760 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 1: could see it okay, because that's that's you feel like 761 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,320 Speaker 1: you're upset because the script didn't go the way that 762 00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:44,440 Speaker 1: you thought. I'm upset because I thought, if you're just apologizing, 763 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:47,960 Speaker 1: it should just be the apology. There shouldn't be expectations. 764 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:52,920 Speaker 1: I meant the apology. What I didn't expect was that 765 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:58,240 Speaker 1: it would It would only lead to more pissed offness. 766 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, I should only apologize 767 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:02,520 Speaker 1: for yourself though, because if you feel like you did 768 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:04,880 Speaker 1: something wrong, then the apology is not really for the 769 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 1: other person. It's you're sorry about your actions and you're 770 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 1: taking owners. Yes, for the other person, it's for both though. 771 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 1: It is for the Well, you shouldn't do it then, 772 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: because you're expecting them to have an expectation. Yeah, the expectations. 773 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 1: That expectations. Is that unfair though? Is it unfair that 774 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:23,000 Speaker 1: that you would expect someone to I think so, yeah, 775 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 1: because you have an open mind about what I don't know. 776 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:26,400 Speaker 1: I was. I was bummed about it kept me up 777 00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 1: at night. I was in a control like how somebody's 778 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,800 Speaker 1: going to react to an apology? You can only just 779 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:34,120 Speaker 1: be genuine in your apology and and have it be 780 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,760 Speaker 1: for that reason and not have expectations attached. I was bummed. 781 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,279 Speaker 1: That's okay, you can be bombed, but you just have 782 00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 1: to try to expectations. And I think when somebody does that, 783 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 1: it is rare and it's vulnerable, and I don't know that. 784 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:47,960 Speaker 1: I think it's an opera. You know what it really 785 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,239 Speaker 1: says to me. It just says to me that my 786 00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 1: apology is not it's not going to even begin to 787 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: rectify the situation. And I guess that that's sort of that, 788 00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:58,319 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like you can't. I guess 789 00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 1: I was hoping that it was IM going a side 790 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 1: of myself that says, I'm I'm culpable, and we take 791 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:06,880 Speaker 1: this and we move forward. But instead it was like, no, 792 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 1: let me take this and let's go ten steps back, 793 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,279 Speaker 1: so I can, you know, get well one more in 794 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,920 Speaker 1: on you, which I just thought, are you really sorry 795 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 1: or were you apologizing to try to just fix the 796 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:19,440 Speaker 1: situation where you just say I was sorry by my behavior. 797 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,360 Speaker 1: But I guess I anticipate that when someone comes to 798 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:26,839 Speaker 1: you with contrition, that it's only fair to take one 799 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 1: second and say let me try and understand the other 800 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:35,359 Speaker 1: person's side in the moment, though, and someone they made 801 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,400 Speaker 1: you a week later, or their processes. I get it, 802 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 1: I get it, but I meant it, and I was 803 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,720 Speaker 1: bombed because you're right, it wasn't the reaction that I expected. 804 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,560 Speaker 1: And I guess the lesson for me is I should 805 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:48,400 Speaker 1: say I'm sorry more and not expect any sort of response. 806 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,239 Speaker 1: And the second thing is, I really need to do 807 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: a better job because I don't think it happened to 808 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 1: me yesterday, having a little bit of a lot more 809 00:40:56,040 --> 00:41:00,319 Speaker 1: empathy and and putting myself in another person's position to say, 810 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,920 Speaker 1: how would I feel if this happened to me? What 811 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 1: would this look? What does this look like? And can 812 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,760 Speaker 1: I see how somebody would go there? They might be wrong, 813 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:12,840 Speaker 1: but can I see how this happened? Intention? Yeah? Intention, 814 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 1: and how somebody in perception are I'm very different, you know. 815 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 1: I think I projected on this person because of behavior 816 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 1: that I exhibit on a regular basis, which also isn't cool. 817 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 1: But I also think that if it rolls a reverse, 818 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 1: I'd like to think, you know what, you were dead wrong? 819 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,600 Speaker 1: But I can I guess I can see it, you know, 820 00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 1: I guess I could. But and then that's like a 821 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,480 Speaker 1: one time deal. And then after like if it's repeated 822 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 1: and habitual, then I don't have to do that anymore. 823 00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,000 Speaker 1: You would handle it? Yeah, Well, not everybody's going to 824 00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,160 Speaker 1: handle things the way that you want them to or 825 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:44,160 Speaker 1: the way that you would. Well, unfortunately, but I just 826 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 1: see more people should do it like me. Fredd and 827 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:52,920 Speaker 1: Angie Yeah, Live from the Wintrust Studios UFM, Chicago I 828 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:56,359 Speaker 1: Heart radio station. Here's Fredd and Angie. Therapist is called. 829 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 1: She said she's gonna give me one session free because 830 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,760 Speaker 1: she's so proud of my growth and my thought process. 831 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:06,880 Speaker 1: Yet one free session. Yeah, No, she didn't say that. 832 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:08,560 Speaker 1: In fact, her rates went up. I have to I 833 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,400 Speaker 1: have to pay more. It's more expensive this year than last. 834 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:15,360 Speaker 1: Oh god, the money I could into therapy. I was 835 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,160 Speaker 1: thinking about it yesterday. You know. It's this is why 836 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,399 Speaker 1: Paulinus thinks she's working on is good and all this stuff, 837 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,920 Speaker 1: you know, trying to get people access to mental healthcare. 838 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,000 Speaker 1: Because if I don't have a pretty good job, it's 839 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,279 Speaker 1: still expensive. Man. It's expensive to keep me on the 840 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 1: straight and narrow. It is very expensive. It's very expensive 841 00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,360 Speaker 1: to keep me on the straight and narrow. But anyway, 842 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,400 Speaker 1: I was just proud of myself and I thought it 843 00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 1: was gonna go differently and it didn't. And it was 844 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 1: sad about it, I know. But you can still be 845 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:44,799 Speaker 1: proud of yourself because you apologized. Isn't that lamb though? 846 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,759 Speaker 1: That's the other Isn't that lamb that I'm proud of 847 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:50,560 Speaker 1: myself for stepping up and just taking the hit because 848 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:53,120 Speaker 1: I can see it. Because I can see it, you know, 849 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:54,840 Speaker 1: because it's because I realize how rare it is and 850 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,960 Speaker 1: how people don't do it. What is lame? Plain that 851 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 1: I have to celebrate. If it was hard for you, 852 00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,920 Speaker 1: then you can celebrate that you did. It's it's not 853 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 1: easy to apologize, you know, So just celebrate that fac 854 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 1: an thousand bucks paying some bills in just a second, 855 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:12,880 Speaker 1: the entertainer report after that, what do you have age? 856 00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what plastic surgeons, cosmetic surgeons say is 857 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:21,640 Speaker 1: the most requested face of the moment? Which female celebrity? 858 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 1: I never get these, right, I never. It's kind of random, 859 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,680 Speaker 1: but it makes sense. You probably wouldn't guess it though. 860 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,400 Speaker 1: I never get this stuff. Yeah no, And as soon 861 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,400 Speaker 1: as you say it I'm like, oh, yeah, I get that, 862 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 1: but then I it's a good one. It is a 863 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:41,200 Speaker 1: good one. I didn't think about it. Amina. Yeah, morning, 864 00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,120 Speaker 1: How are you doing? Welcome to Fred and Agie, stay 865 00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,680 Speaker 1: or go? How are you this morning? I'm god, how 866 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,160 Speaker 1: are you great? So? What's going on? This is where 867 00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,840 Speaker 1: we debate someone's We debate a lot of relationship problems, 868 00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 1: typically Fred's. They're our own or mine. In this case, 869 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:56,320 Speaker 1: it's going to be your zonemin know what's going on 870 00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:57,799 Speaker 1: with you? And by the way, I am the guy 871 00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:01,880 Speaker 1: who can't hold a relationship, but who gives immaculate dating advice. 872 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,239 Speaker 1: It's true, those who can do and those who can't 873 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,040 Speaker 1: have a radio show and tell other people how to 874 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:11,720 Speaker 1: do it. So what's the deal? Okay, So my boyfriend 875 00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:13,960 Speaker 1: and I have been together for about a year, um, 876 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,560 Speaker 1: and everything's great except for one thing that makes me 877 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:23,240 Speaker 1: really uncomfortable. Um he basically, he still kisses his family 878 00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:27,759 Speaker 1: on the lips like everybody, his mom, his sister's dad, 879 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:31,399 Speaker 1: and I don't get it really and that creeps me out. 880 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,759 Speaker 1: And I don't know, I was really shocked when I 881 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:36,360 Speaker 1: first thought. And I mean, I know it sounds like 882 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,440 Speaker 1: a like a tiny minute thing. But I haven't been 883 00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,080 Speaker 1: able to kiss, like tongue kissing these people, right, he's 884 00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:44,759 Speaker 1: kissing them on the lips. He's kissing them square on 885 00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,839 Speaker 1: the lips. Um. I feel like a cultural thing too, 886 00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:52,200 Speaker 1: is like a lot of yea, our family does. But yeah, 887 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 1: like and I realized that every family does. Our family 888 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:57,719 Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily kiss my mom on the lips like a peck. 889 00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:59,800 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. There's no like, you know, 890 00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:05,239 Speaker 1: tongue I know, I mean, I don't know. I guess you. 891 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 1: Sammy's free. I mean, can I see either pretty wasspy? 892 00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:12,239 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? They're pretty? There's no there's 893 00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,879 Speaker 1: no like, no cultural element you're saying, Wait, so you're 894 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,800 Speaker 1: thinking about dumping a guy who you've been with for 895 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 1: a year because he kisses his mom and dad on 896 00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 1: the lips. It's weird. It's and his sister's like on 897 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:27,439 Speaker 1: the mount. I don't know, is that like if people 898 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:31,440 Speaker 1: do that? It's people do that makes me kind of uncomfy? 899 00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,640 Speaker 1: Really yeah, so much so that you would dump somebody 900 00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,880 Speaker 1: after a year, I don't know. I don't know that 901 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 1: I would make it a year because but it made 902 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:42,440 Speaker 1: me uncomfy you know. I don't know. Uh, I don't know. 903 00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,920 Speaker 1: I would have to see the different different people in 904 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,960 Speaker 1: my different people in my family we have different sort 905 00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 1: of physical interaction. Like my mom is is she's very 906 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,000 Speaker 1: loving and there's lots of touching and hugs and that 907 00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:55,920 Speaker 1: kind of thing. My dad a little bit less so 908 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 1: like but that can you still kiss your mom on lips? Yeah? 909 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 1: I would, I have um, But I'm saying other families, 910 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:07,040 Speaker 1: I see, it's all hugs and all physical and everybody 911 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,040 Speaker 1: hugs everybody, and everyone kisses everybody. And know what I'm saying, 912 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:13,800 Speaker 1: everyone kisses everybody. People kiss strange. I've met friend family 913 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,440 Speaker 1: members of friends of mine and they'll kiss me and 914 00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 1: the lips. No, No, your friends on the lips like 915 00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,399 Speaker 1: when you give them a pack or something. I mean, 916 00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: I guess, like if they're drunk. I don't know. I 917 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:27,400 Speaker 1: don't do it like good night. I mean college, I 918 00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 1: think it's a phase. We can't add more touchy and 919 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,040 Speaker 1: kissy us with the night goes on. But I mean, 920 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 1: I don't do it every time I see them. Like 921 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,600 Speaker 1: my family is like a very kissy, huggy family. But 922 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 1: I don't I would not do somebody. Yeah, So if 923 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 1: I'm dating a girl and her dad kisses her on 924 00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,600 Speaker 1: the lips like a pet to say goodbye, I'm supposed 925 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:48,759 Speaker 1: to dump her mina. Well, I don't. It happens a lot. 926 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. It's kind of freaking me out. 927 00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,719 Speaker 1: It always has, Like I don't I don't like the week. 928 00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to kiss his family. Have you been 929 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 1: on the that? Have you been on the dating apps? 930 00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: You should really think twice about that before you dump 931 00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 1: this guy out and go back out there in the world. Um, 932 00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,239 Speaker 1: do you Okay? So it freaks you out, But why 933 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:12,160 Speaker 1: does it freak you out because you think like they're 934 00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:15,279 Speaker 1: making out or something like behind closed door. I was like, 935 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,840 Speaker 1: I don't get it. Well, you guys weally saying, well, 936 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,680 Speaker 1: I've seen hugs. This is not I mean, I get hugs. 937 00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,400 Speaker 1: I don't know, like just square on the mouth kisses 938 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,360 Speaker 1: like and we don't live in France, which is like 939 00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 1: the two kisses or whatever to decide like never, it's 940 00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:32,359 Speaker 1: just fine. But yeah, even if square on the mouth, 941 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just it's it's too much for me. 942 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 1: I don't tell him. You can only kiss his mom 943 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,880 Speaker 1: or his dad. But not the sisters. I think I 944 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:42,960 Speaker 1: don't understand the problem. Like, look, I don't do it, 945 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,359 Speaker 1: but I don't see if I don't understand the problem. Mean, 946 00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 1: let me take some phone clothes. Have a great deal 947 00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,799 Speaker 1: o afection. Okay, it's just an affection thing, and it's 948 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,400 Speaker 1: like their family or their culture. They've always done it, 949 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,799 Speaker 1: and it's it's not a sexual thing. I mean if 950 00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:58,399 Speaker 1: if she rolls up on the house and gives dad 951 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,799 Speaker 1: a ton kiss and then you know, he slaps her butt, 952 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:06,200 Speaker 1: you know that, Yeah, that's different. Questions like yeah, if 953 00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 1: you do that, like a lot of questions otherwise, but 954 00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 1: not that. Okay, fine, one three, five eight Crystal, Hey, 955 00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 1: Crystal Stair go, oh my god. She should stay because 956 00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,239 Speaker 1: she's been a little baby. It is not a big deal. 957 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:26,920 Speaker 1: This is his parents. This mom and dad raised their child. 958 00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:30,080 Speaker 1: When you have a baby, he's get kisses and hugs 959 00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 1: and loves and yes, that child grows up, but that's 960 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: still their child. My husband, I've been together, been together 961 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:40,239 Speaker 1: ten years. He kisses his mom and his dad and 962 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,880 Speaker 1: it is wonderful. It is affectionate. They love each other. 963 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,880 Speaker 1: We're family. It's not a baby. Yeah, I think the caller. 964 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,880 Speaker 1: I think the caller was just sexualizing something that's not 965 00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 1: meant to be sexual or something that didn't she didn't 966 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:57,279 Speaker 1: grow up with, so she's uncoutable. That makes it bad, 967 00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 1: Like I don't, I don't know about that. I mean, 968 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,960 Speaker 1: that's not something to break up with someone about. But 969 00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,480 Speaker 1: she may want to rethink the relationship with her. She's 970 00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:08,480 Speaker 1: going to be thinking that kind of crap in her head. 971 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,400 Speaker 1: She's uncomfortable, you know, kissing her parents, then she doesn't 972 00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,799 Speaker 1: have to write or if they have, I suppose they 973 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,960 Speaker 1: can establish different boundaries. But I don't know about that. Crystal. 974 00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,120 Speaker 1: Thank you have a great day. Thank you, thank you 975 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:23,719 Speaker 1: so much for calling. Hey, Jennifer, Yeah, Jennifer dare Go, 976 00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:29,759 Speaker 1: I should stay. It's a cultural thing. My family's from Switzerland. 977 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,239 Speaker 1: Everyone's Kiffers on the list. It's a cultural thing. And 978 00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,600 Speaker 1: she said it wasn't everyone does here. But you know 979 00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 1: it's comfortable. You know, she was comfortable. It can't be 980 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 1: the only thing. There has to be something out. I don't. 981 00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:46,800 Speaker 1: I don't think somebody. Yeah, I agree. Thank you, Jennifer, 982 00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,480 Speaker 1: You're welcome. Have an amazing day. Glad you called. Thanks 983 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:53,879 Speaker 1: for listening to Kim yeah, Jim, you're saying, go, yeah, 984 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:59,400 Speaker 1: I am actually why well, because well I know my 985 00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:03,960 Speaker 1: brother his wife kisses his kids on the lips, and 986 00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:07,719 Speaker 1: I kind of am like, I don't know I feel 987 00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:11,840 Speaker 1: about that, Like I guess just my personal opinion, like 988 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,320 Speaker 1: kissing on the lips, whether or not it's like tongue 989 00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:18,560 Speaker 1: and really intense or even just to pact like that's 990 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:21,880 Speaker 1: my freer significant other. Like I love my baby. I 991 00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:23,840 Speaker 1: kIPS and I hug my baby all the time, but 992 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,960 Speaker 1: I don't kiss her on the lips. Like I just 993 00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:31,160 Speaker 1: feel like there's an intimacy about it that is meant 994 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:36,800 Speaker 1: for your significant others. So if she's really that like 995 00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:40,600 Speaker 1: kind of like about it already, like imagine if she 996 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 1: has a family with him, would she be comfortable. Yeah, 997 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,840 Speaker 1: but they can establish that like she's gonna dump a 998 00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,760 Speaker 1: guy because he kisses his mom on the on the lips. 999 00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:54,319 Speaker 1: She's gonna dump a guy because of the way he expresses, uh, 1000 00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:58,080 Speaker 1: you know he's greeting more or less, don't I don't 1001 00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:02,759 Speaker 1: even think about it. Oh again, they're not like spooning 1002 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:04,960 Speaker 1: and dry humping or something. It's not like you know, 1003 00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:08,840 Speaker 1: the beginning of the night four play I mean, I 1004 00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,000 Speaker 1: don't think it's sexual at all. It just makes me uncomfortable. 1005 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,040 Speaker 1: Let me kim. Thank you, have a good day, Thank 1006 00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:18,080 Speaker 1: you for calling, Thanks for listening to Hey Maggie, Maggie. Ye, 1007 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,840 Speaker 1: hey morning, stare go. By the way, just recapping here, 1008 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,920 Speaker 1: this woman has been dating a guy for a year 1009 00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:27,239 Speaker 1: and she's uncomfortable that he kisses that his family when 1010 00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:29,239 Speaker 1: they greet each other, they kiss each other on the lips. 1011 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:32,640 Speaker 1: She wants to dump him for this. Yeah, I say, stay, 1012 00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,719 Speaker 1: I mean I do this with my family worst Sicilian 1013 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,520 Speaker 1: you know, my grandfather or his brother. We greet each other, 1014 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,400 Speaker 1: kiss on the lips. I even have friends we do this. 1015 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 1: I mean I just left for work and my fourteen 1016 00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:45,759 Speaker 1: year old gave me a kiss on the lips before 1017 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,880 Speaker 1: I left. Yeah, and let me tell you what concerns 1018 00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,600 Speaker 1: me more families that hate each other. Like if I 1019 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,279 Speaker 1: meet somebody and the woman's like, I hate everybody in 1020 00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:54,799 Speaker 1: my family and none of us talk to each other, 1021 00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,279 Speaker 1: that concerns me way more than I than a lip kiss. 1022 00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:59,239 Speaker 1: I'd be like, what kind of dysfunction are we dealing 1023 00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:02,480 Speaker 1: with here? You know? Lip kiss? Come on, come on, 1024 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,200 Speaker 1: thank you, Maggie, you're welcome. Yeah, thanks for listening. Hey 1025 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:15,840 Speaker 1: y Stephanie, Stephanie, Hey, Hi, Hi Stephanie. Hi, what's going on? 1026 00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:21,279 Speaker 1: We've been waiting for you all day. I'm definitely hurt 1027 00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 1: to say I'm stay. So, I mean my spouse m 1028 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:29,000 Speaker 1: also does that as well. I mean she still kisses 1029 00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:32,480 Speaker 1: her parents on the list as well, Grandpa. So I mean, 1030 00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,080 Speaker 1: there's really nothing wrong with it. Again, I just think 1031 00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:36,839 Speaker 1: it's just one of a culture thing that they grew 1032 00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:38,800 Speaker 1: up with. I mean, I don't see nothing wrong with 1033 00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:43,360 Speaker 1: it yet. I don't even thank you. Have a great day, Lisa. Hi, Lisa, 1034 00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:50,239 Speaker 1: Lisa stay or go? Um? Shee's it though, because yeah, 1035 00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:52,440 Speaker 1: she should go because she's okay, because she's got a 1036 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,000 Speaker 1: problem and she's not gonna get over it. So like 1037 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,560 Speaker 1: maybe he's if you only he knew about this, he'd 1038 00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:01,360 Speaker 1: dumped her. Yeah, absolutely, because like Reagan, and it's completely 1039 00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,400 Speaker 1: normal to like kiss on the sheet, you know, but 1040 00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,359 Speaker 1: it takes you like an hour to leave the house 1041 00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,719 Speaker 1: as my family, you know, Like we had somebody on 1042 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,279 Speaker 1: Twitter Erica said, you know, if if this is something 1043 00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:17,600 Speaker 1: that she's freaking out about, you know and and contemplating leaving, 1044 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:20,200 Speaker 1: like what's going to happen when they have serious problems? 1045 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,320 Speaker 1: Like if this is something that's what I'm saying, like 1046 00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:25,880 Speaker 1: this they had together. Yeah, this, this has nothing to 1047 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,759 Speaker 1: do with her. Really, It's not like it's not like 1048 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:31,480 Speaker 1: the family's going, Okay, now you have to tone kiss 1049 00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:33,360 Speaker 1: all of us before you leave or something. It's like, 1050 00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:36,320 Speaker 1: this is something that they do right and honestly, like 1051 00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:38,440 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people are saying that it's cultural, 1052 00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,200 Speaker 1: but I don't like because she's saying that they don't 1053 00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:44,920 Speaker 1: have like a cultural background, But I don't think that 1054 00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,200 Speaker 1: that matters. Like that's what they've been doing forever, you know, 1055 00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:51,879 Speaker 1: thank you's been doing it since he was a kid. 1056 00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:55,399 Speaker 1: Then it's normal to him. It could be so much worse. Yeah, 1057 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:59,120 Speaker 1: thank you, Lisa, have a great day in this in 1058 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:06,560 Speaker 1: this family, we tunkissed before we leave or sweet tickets 1059 00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 1: right now five Seconds of Summer No Shame twenty twenty 1060 00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:13,879 Speaker 1: twour at Northerly Island on August twenty six. Tickets until Friday, 1061 00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,279 Speaker 1: nine am at Live Nation dot Com. Calling her twenty 1062 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,719 Speaker 1: five you got these eight five, five, five nine, one 1063 00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:23,520 Speaker 1: one h three five Angie's Entertainment Reports with Fred and 1064 00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:27,080 Speaker 1: Angie one three fish. It's Batti by Sharp Vision LASA 1065 00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,359 Speaker 1: again I care. At one point during Jlo's Super Bowl 1066 00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:33,480 Speaker 1: halftime show, she wore that red, white and blue feather coat. 1067 00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:35,160 Speaker 1: That was a Porter we Can flag on one side, 1068 00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 1: American flag on the other. No, you dingdongs. It was 1069 00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:42,160 Speaker 1: not a Cuban flag. It was not a Texas flag. Okay, yeah, 1070 00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:48,600 Speaker 1: somebody thought there, Yes, yes, yes they were animal rights 1071 00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:52,600 Speaker 1: group contacts, folks contacting. Yeah. Animal rights group PETA was 1072 00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,880 Speaker 1: not impressed, called out JLO for what they said was 1073 00:54:55,920 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 1: an unnecessarily cruel fashion choice. PETA tweeted, this flag could 1074 00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,640 Speaker 1: have flown without killing birds. Dozen the birds were killed 1075 00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,919 Speaker 1: for this Super Bowl performance. According to an Instagram post 1076 00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,920 Speaker 1: from one of j Low's stylists, her feather coat. Feather 1077 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:12,879 Speaker 1: coat was made custom made by Versacci, featured a forty 1078 00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,880 Speaker 1: thousand red, white and blue feathers, all individually sewn in 1079 00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:18,919 Speaker 1: the officials. We're sure they were real, they weren't fake feathers. Well, 1080 00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,800 Speaker 1: the official Versacci Instagram account claimed that all the feathers 1081 00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:25,640 Speaker 1: used for the flag were sourced ethically, so they were real. 1082 00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:27,440 Speaker 1: But it's not like they went and plucked a bunch 1083 00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,040 Speaker 1: of chickens or something. I guess. Oh, so all the 1084 00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:32,280 Speaker 1: bluebirds they just they just fell off in the forest 1085 00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,319 Speaker 1: and they went and got them all them, that's Versaci said. 1086 00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:37,960 Speaker 1: If that's true, I mean, I guess if they killed 1087 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,360 Speaker 1: a bunch of birds to make a thing for the 1088 00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:41,200 Speaker 1: Super Bowl that that would be insensive in front. But 1089 00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,440 Speaker 1: hesn't the same people who say that I can't call 1090 00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:44,920 Speaker 1: my pet of pet anymore. I have to call them 1091 00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:48,480 Speaker 1: my friends or something made of pigskin, Like, yeah, why 1092 00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:51,799 Speaker 1: don't we just I mean a lot how many chicken 1093 00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:53,719 Speaker 1: wings were served during the Super bowls. Let's be mad 1094 00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:57,600 Speaker 1: about something else, all right. Former professional boxer Floyd Mayweather 1095 00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,960 Speaker 1: Junior is under investigation after allegedly assaulting a fan who 1096 00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:03,400 Speaker 1: asked for a photo this past Super Bowl weekend outside 1097 00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:07,080 Speaker 1: his Miami Beach hotel. The fan told police that he 1098 00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:10,560 Speaker 1: recognized Floyd standing outside the hotel by the ballet stand 1099 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,200 Speaker 1: around eight thirty in the morning on Saturday, asked him 1100 00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:16,919 Speaker 1: for a photo, and Floyd allegedly declined, saying I can't 1101 00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,640 Speaker 1: even get a good morning first. His security team pushed 1102 00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:22,439 Speaker 1: the guy away from him. Mayweather then yelled, I'll beat 1103 00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:26,359 Speaker 1: your ass. The Miami Beach Police Department launched an investigation 1104 00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:30,200 Speaker 1: into that whole incident. A leading cosmetic clinic revealed that 1105 00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:34,000 Speaker 1: Margot Robbie's face is the most requested when women come 1106 00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,280 Speaker 1: in for non surgical procedures. A spokesperson for the clinic 1107 00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:40,040 Speaker 1: says people prefer the Birds of Prey actress because she 1108 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:44,120 Speaker 1: showcases glowing skin and a radiant face rather than an 1109 00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:49,160 Speaker 1: overly dramatic or enhanced appearance. Yes, she's really naturally beautiful. 1110 00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:52,640 Speaker 1: Angelina Jolie had the second most requested face, followed by 1111 00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 1: the Duchess of Sussex, Megan Marcoll More to check out 1112 00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:59,959 Speaker 1: online Today's speaking of j Lo in the Super Bowl, 1113 00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:03,960 Speaker 1: there's a whole list of all the products that are 1114 00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:07,680 Speaker 1: makeup artists used for that Super Bowl. Look each individual 1115 00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:10,120 Speaker 1: products and I know the makeup chunkies will want to 1116 00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:11,960 Speaker 1: see it. You can see it at fred Angie dot com. 1117 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:17,240 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Angela, Diane, Hell Diane, you got 1118 00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:22,880 Speaker 1: tickets to five saucer Right? Yeah, congratulations? What's going on 1119 00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:24,720 Speaker 1: this morning? What are you doing? You drive and where 1120 00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:29,560 Speaker 1: I'm driving to work? Were you We're not alive during 1121 00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:31,640 Speaker 1: a time when they you probably weren't where the I 1122 00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:33,680 Speaker 1: was very little bit where the car phone and they're 1123 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:36,320 Speaker 1: called car phones and they had actual like a phone 1124 00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:39,120 Speaker 1: in a little thing and I there there's like a 1125 00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:45,080 Speaker 1: little antenna. I am sixty years old. You don't sell 1126 00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:46,800 Speaker 1: you don't. I thought you were in telling me you 1127 00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:48,520 Speaker 1: were like twenty three, and you're like, no, I've never 1128 00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:51,560 Speaker 1: heard of that, you idiot. Oh I love you, Thank you. 1129 00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:54,800 Speaker 1: You do have a very voice. Yeah, like I was, 1130 00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:56,880 Speaker 1: I was pretty small, but like my parents had a 1131 00:57:57,000 --> 00:58:00,880 Speaker 1: car phone number and then my office number a home number, 1132 00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:02,400 Speaker 1: and you had to try them all and if they 1133 00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:05,360 Speaker 1: were somehow like in between, you weren't getting them. Yeah, 1134 00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:07,800 Speaker 1: I still have a landline. I told you, I'm sixty 1135 00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,920 Speaker 1: two years old. My granddaughter she doesn't even know what 1136 00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:15,600 Speaker 1: to do. She's what is this thing? That was a 1137 00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:18,080 Speaker 1: big status symbolman having a car phone? That was a 1138 00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:20,840 Speaker 1: big dude, Diana, I want you to have a great 1139 00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,600 Speaker 1: time with this show. Who are you taking? I? Well, 1140 00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,360 Speaker 1: I probably will get the tickets to my daughter because 1141 00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:29,520 Speaker 1: I probably I've just got a kind of mom. I'll 1142 00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:32,760 Speaker 1: be my granddaughter. Oh that's nice, very good. We'll have 1143 00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 1: a great dated And thank you so much for Thank 1144 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:40,360 Speaker 1: you guys every morning, thank you. Hold on one second, okay, 1145 00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:45,320 Speaker 1: let's see. So justin Bieber tickets, the weirdo yummy guy 1146 00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:47,200 Speaker 1: will say yummy in the middle of the song and 1147 00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:50,840 Speaker 1: then you'll call and get those tickets. Um, the showb 1148 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:52,840 Speaker 1: Shelley Show Down three hundred bucks, that's coming up with 1149 00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:55,360 Speaker 1: the good News stories and uh and waiting by the 1150 00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:59,360 Speaker 1: phone from the Hall of Fame that's on after eight 1151 00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:01,800 Speaker 1: o'clock to day. I wanted to get into this, um, 1152 00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:06,400 Speaker 1: this Jessica Simpsons story, but there's so many Her book, 1153 00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:09,200 Speaker 1: I guess is in stories. Tomorrow is coming out. This 1154 00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:11,040 Speaker 1: says tomorrow. I don't know when the story was written. 1155 00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:12,800 Speaker 1: Maybe I thought I thought books came out on Tuesday, 1156 00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,160 Speaker 1: but anyway I thought so too. Um, I want to 1157 00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:16,280 Speaker 1: get to the story. We don't have a lot of 1158 00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:17,840 Speaker 1: time to talk about it. We may have to revisit. 1159 00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:21,800 Speaker 1: But apparently she and John Mayer broke up and got 1160 00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:27,480 Speaker 1: back together like nine times. Yeah, nine nine times. And 1161 00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:30,320 Speaker 1: where I wanted to go with this is is who's 1162 00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:33,680 Speaker 1: who listening could set the world record for the number 1163 00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 1: of times that you have gotten together and broken up 1164 00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,400 Speaker 1: with somebody? Nine times? Is a lot. I mean I 1165 00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:43,120 Speaker 1: can maybe twice, you know, or like I revisited a relationship, 1166 00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:44,400 Speaker 1: like it didn't work out the first time, so I 1167 00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:46,680 Speaker 1: went back, but like to break up and get back 1168 00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:50,200 Speaker 1: together nine separate times. I mean, now what point do 1169 00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:53,600 Speaker 1: you say, like, Okay, this isn't going to work sometimes relationship. 1170 00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,720 Speaker 1: You know, if you get a real toxic relationship with 1171 00:59:55,800 --> 01:00:00,200 Speaker 1: somebody that's a master manipulator, they can convince to you 1172 01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:04,000 Speaker 1: every single time that the breakup was your fault, you know, 1173 01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,560 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna take you back and blah blah blah. 1174 01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:09,600 Speaker 1: You get in this really unhealthy webb. There was a 1175 01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,120 Speaker 1: guy that I dated that was super manipulative, and I 1176 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,680 Speaker 1: think we broke up and got back together like four 1177 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,000 Speaker 1: or five times, and every single time it was like, 1178 01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:21,120 Speaker 1: you know, it was always my fault and blah blah blah, 1179 01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:23,840 Speaker 1: but I'll take you back, and it's it was just unhealthy. 1180 01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:27,160 Speaker 1: Five nine, one or three five? Who do you think 1181 01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:30,920 Speaker 1: you the most number of times that you have broken 1182 01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,080 Speaker 1: up and got gotten back together with the same person. 1183 01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:35,320 Speaker 1: I know somebody who legally married and divorced the same 1184 01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:38,600 Speaker 1: person three times. Married, divorce, married, divorce, married, divorce. My 1185 01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:43,360 Speaker 1: husband's parents got married and divorced twice. Yeah, maybe I 1186 01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,840 Speaker 1: can see one time you get divorced and then I 1187 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:47,640 Speaker 1: don't know, years later you realize that you were meant 1188 01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:49,560 Speaker 1: to be together and you get remarried. I guess I 1189 01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:51,320 Speaker 1: wonder why you even get remarried at that point, like 1190 01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:53,919 Speaker 1: you just just be together. He was he was a kid, 1191 01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:57,960 Speaker 1: and he always says, like, my parents got remarried and 1192 01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:01,120 Speaker 1: divorced twice because the first time didn't screw me up enough, 1193 01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:03,080 Speaker 1: so they had they had to go back for a more. 1194 01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,080 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, it's okay. How many times do 1195 01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:07,400 Speaker 1: you Yeah, I'm saying the same thing over and over again, 1196 01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:09,240 Speaker 1: But at what point do you say, like, Okay, you 1197 01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 1: know what. This is dysfunctional and this is the pattern. 1198 01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:15,400 Speaker 1: And James, when you're in it, it's hard to understand 1199 01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:20,880 Speaker 1: you're being manipulated nine times, I think I understand after five. 1200 01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:24,120 Speaker 1: I think five is my magic number of knowing that 1201 01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,880 Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't be She said that John Mayer was 1202 01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:30,720 Speaker 1: like super manipulative with her. Well, and I guess, and 1203 01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:33,000 Speaker 1: I can tell you one thing tied together was was 1204 01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:36,400 Speaker 1: apparently there was the lust factor was very high. Yeah, 1205 01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:39,440 Speaker 1: so the intimacy was on high. She says that apparently 1206 01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:41,520 Speaker 1: in the book, So I think that's what draws people back, 1207 01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:45,240 Speaker 1: but like officially breaking up and getting together again. Hey, Caitlin, Yeah, 1208 01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,640 Speaker 1: the book's open today today. By the way, Hi, the 1209 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:50,000 Speaker 1: number of times that you have broken up and gotten 1210 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 1: back together with the same person, Actually, the guy I'm 1211 01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:58,080 Speaker 1: currently dating has been about eleven times. Now, guys, Wow, 1212 01:01:58,520 --> 01:02:01,080 Speaker 1: what happened? I mean, this guy have a third leg? 1213 01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:05,520 Speaker 1: Like what's going on? Like? What? Why? Um? I guess 1214 01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:08,360 Speaker 1: timing was a big thing, Like we tried dating in 1215 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:11,760 Speaker 1: high school and then off and on for every year 1216 01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:14,520 Speaker 1: of high school we dated and then stop until now 1217 01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:16,480 Speaker 1: and I mean now we're back together again and I've 1218 01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,800 Speaker 1: been three months. So I mean, so how many how 1219 01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:21,760 Speaker 1: many shots do you give this? Like is this the 1220 01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:24,120 Speaker 1: last one? Or do you break up again? You'll find 1221 01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:26,640 Speaker 1: yourself back with this person again eleven times? Like why 1222 01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:28,520 Speaker 1: are you? I don't know, why do you guys keep 1223 01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:39,280 Speaker 1: breaking up? The last time you cheated on me? Oh girl, 1224 01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:45,120 Speaker 1: girl eleven time? And he's a cheater. Oh girl, you 1225 01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:48,640 Speaker 1: deserve better. I don't even know you. Well, thank you? 1226 01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:51,360 Speaker 1: Did he say? I'm sorry? He should say I'm sorry 1227 01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:54,919 Speaker 1: a lot. Oh he has a lot. How many times 1228 01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:56,680 Speaker 1: do you think he means it? I don't like this 1229 01:02:56,800 --> 01:03:00,200 Speaker 1: at all. It's upset. I'm triggered. I'm triggered right now. Okay, 1230 01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:02,040 Speaker 1: good luck to you. I hope it works out this time. 1231 01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:04,200 Speaker 1: I hope he knows what he's got, all right. Hey, 1232 01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:09,920 Speaker 1: keep your eyes open, girl. I don't like that. Hey, Stephanie, Hey, 1233 01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:12,920 Speaker 1: how you doing a number of times at one you're 1234 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,360 Speaker 1: about to tell me about another couple though a big couple. 1235 01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:20,200 Speaker 1: What's the record? Um? Way more than nine times? But 1236 01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:24,400 Speaker 1: for sure running stam from Jersey Shore. Oh yeah, more 1237 01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:27,320 Speaker 1: than nine times. And look at the dysfunction. Yeah, they 1238 01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:29,400 Speaker 1: broke up like one hundred times. But look at the 1239 01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:32,280 Speaker 1: dysfunction in that one. And with his current girlfriend, they've 1240 01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:34,360 Speaker 1: broken up and got them back together so many times. 1241 01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:42,280 Speaker 1: She's abusive, Like it's crazy, Like that's that's absolute, like dysfunction, codependency, 1242 01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:44,280 Speaker 1: whatever it is. I think two or three times and 1243 01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:48,400 Speaker 1: you're like, okay, this isn't gonna work, you know, right right? 1244 01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,680 Speaker 1: I mean like I yeah, thank you, Stephanie, have a 1245 01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:53,080 Speaker 1: good day because because it's bad, Like I don't I 1246 01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:56,200 Speaker 1: don't think that you know, history repeats itself. History does 1247 01:03:56,280 --> 01:03:59,400 Speaker 1: repeat itself. I think sometimes it's hard when you're in it, though, 1248 01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:03,040 Speaker 1: liked have that, you know, rational thinking. I mean, you 1249 01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:04,840 Speaker 1: date somebody, Okay, let's say you date someone in high 1250 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,440 Speaker 1: school for college and then you rekindle in you know, 1251 01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:09,600 Speaker 1: when you're grown ups. That makes sense to me because 1252 01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:12,000 Speaker 1: you're a different person when you grow up in mature 1253 01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:14,200 Speaker 1: and you get out and then you realize your priorities 1254 01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:16,800 Speaker 1: and whatever. But I mean, if you're a grown person 1255 01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:19,160 Speaker 1: and you're going back in the same person eight nine times, 1256 01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:21,760 Speaker 1: grown people, I feel like you're just not willing to 1257 01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:24,160 Speaker 1: expand if I think, I feel like it's it's almost like, 1258 01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:26,560 Speaker 1: haven't you ever been in a relationship with somebody that 1259 01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 1: was toxic and you know everybody around you knows you're 1260 01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:33,000 Speaker 1: being crazy, like the girl that's just called like obviously 1261 01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,920 Speaker 1: toxic relationship, But when you're in it, like it's so 1262 01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:40,000 Speaker 1: hard to to pull yourself out and you make excuses 1263 01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:42,440 Speaker 1: to stay and yeah, but they don't know him, like 1264 01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:47,440 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Yeah, I'm not judging, I'm yeah, you can, 1265 01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:50,360 Speaker 1: you can. You know, you'll find a way to rationalize 1266 01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:54,480 Speaker 1: something completely irrational. I'd be like, yo, I'm tired of 1267 01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:57,280 Speaker 1: having this conversation. It sounds like it's on repeat. We've 1268 01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:01,760 Speaker 1: done this nine times, Marie. Yeah, how are you doing 1269 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:07,040 Speaker 1: four times with the same person? Marie? Yes, okay, and okay, 1270 01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:13,360 Speaker 1: I'm older. I really am twnty. I feel you were kids. 1271 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,640 Speaker 1: Yeah I was, but I have a kid and he 1272 01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,760 Speaker 1: has two kids. So there were just so much like 1273 01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:22,400 Speaker 1: I'm on his end and then lack of patients and 1274 01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:26,000 Speaker 1: understanding on my end. So as time went on when 1275 01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:28,240 Speaker 1: we were separated, I was like, okay, it's a super 1276 01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,400 Speaker 1: way to bring up with as I'm as a psycho, 1277 01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:33,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So then like there was 1278 01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:36,880 Speaker 1: like four time for us to understand the life that 1279 01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:38,520 Speaker 1: we were going to live. But it's fully come a 1280 01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:42,560 Speaker 1: good We're we're very happy and we're expressing baby, oh 1281 01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:46,200 Speaker 1: we congratulations. Look if it works, I look and I 1282 01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,160 Speaker 1: can't put a number on it, but I guess three 1283 01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:53,560 Speaker 1: four times nine. Yeah, So Dan successes, and I feel 1284 01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:56,440 Speaker 1: really bad all that called before love time than he 1285 01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:58,920 Speaker 1: set on her because I was going to sit her. 1286 01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:01,760 Speaker 1: I got sports. Now I'm happy, but like the time 1287 01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:04,200 Speaker 1: that I that it took for me to actually your 1288 01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:09,280 Speaker 1: flout and not justify every stall accident. YEA, like a 1289 01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:12,840 Speaker 1: full stereotype. But there's sometimes I know how to get 1290 01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:17,120 Speaker 1: what they want. Yeah, I agree, but there are a 1291 01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:20,400 Speaker 1: lot of very manipulative women too, so I don't apolutely. Yeah, 1292 01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:23,480 Speaker 1: yeah for sure, Marie, thank you so much, have a 1293 01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:26,680 Speaker 1: good day. I love you too. Yeah. The thing is, 1294 01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:28,560 Speaker 1: every time I've done the thing where I go backwards, 1295 01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:31,480 Speaker 1: and I've only done the thing once, like Hi, Shelley, welcome, 1296 01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:33,520 Speaker 1: I break up with somebody and that I think I 1297 01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:35,680 Speaker 1: missed it, like I was in the wrong with timing 1298 01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:39,120 Speaker 1: was wrong. Um, I missed it. This person was great 1299 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:40,760 Speaker 1: and I screwed it up. Now I'm gonna go back. 1300 01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:44,280 Speaker 1: Guess what, the same problems arise, Like it's I don't know. 1301 01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:47,160 Speaker 1: I feel like you give it a good shot, you know, 1302 01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:49,040 Speaker 1: and then and then if it doesn't work out, and 1303 01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:50,280 Speaker 1: I think you just have to let it go and 1304 01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:54,920 Speaker 1: you got to look forward, right. Yeah, I've never been there, 1305 01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:57,440 Speaker 1: so maybe that's the reason where and I just learned 1306 01:06:57,480 --> 01:06:59,680 Speaker 1: to say I'm sorry yesterday, so it's maybe that will 1307 01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:02,040 Speaker 1: help me moving forward. I'm just not sure. Let's do 1308 01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,320 Speaker 1: the show. But Shelley's show down next and you've got 1309 01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:06,480 Speaker 1: two minutes to win Justin Bieber tickets. Betweens. In the 1310 01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:08,320 Speaker 1: next two minutes, you're gonna hear the weirdo guys at 1311 01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:10,360 Speaker 1: Yummy and then calling gets your tickets to see him 1312 01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:19,480 Speaker 1: as Soldier Field. It's kissing, I Love. I don't know 1313 01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:22,320 Speaker 1: if I have the quote, but Andy Reid of the 1314 01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:25,080 Speaker 1: Chief's head coach, wins the Super Bowl and they ask him, 1315 01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:28,440 Speaker 1: you're gonna take the trophy home tonight and he goes, no, 1316 01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:38,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take my trophy wife home tonight. Man. Love 1317 01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:44,240 Speaker 1: that that's the right answer, is it, Marona? Yeah, Hey, 1318 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:47,520 Speaker 1: you got Justin Bieber tickets? All right? Oh my god, 1319 01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:50,000 Speaker 1: thank you, you got it. Thanks so much for listening. 1320 01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:52,600 Speaker 1: The show is at Soldier Field on June nineteenth, and 1321 01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:56,360 Speaker 1: you will be there for free. Okay, okay, thanks, but 1322 01:07:56,560 --> 01:07:59,560 Speaker 1: have a great day, hold on, thanks for listening. Tickets 1323 01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:02,800 Speaker 1: on sale February fourteenth, Valentine's Day at noon ticketmaster dot 1324 01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:06,800 Speaker 1: com thanks to AEG present Fredd and Angie on one 1325 01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:11,240 Speaker 1: oh three five. Kiss up in a showbiz showy is 1326 01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,080 Speaker 1: a yeah. The lawyers made us bleep that out to 1327 01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:18,040 Speaker 1: tell you, guys, let's say you got something. Um. The 1328 01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:22,280 Speaker 1: Showbish Shelley Showdown brought to you by our friend. These 1329 01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:25,759 Speaker 1: guys are great human beings at Olivet Nazarene University online 1330 01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:30,639 Speaker 1: and they offer bachelor's, Masters, and doctoral degrees. Visit online 1331 01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:36,880 Speaker 1: dot Olivet dot Yeah, I shall that's going on. It's welcome. 1332 01:08:37,360 --> 01:08:41,360 Speaker 1: Your competitor today is Victoria. Hello, Victoria Beckham. How are 1333 01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:45,040 Speaker 1: you hi? Good? How are you okay? Welcome to the show, Matoria. 1334 01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:47,120 Speaker 1: Let's learn about you? Tell us about You're in New Yorkville? 1335 01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:49,960 Speaker 1: What else we need to know? Um? I am in 1336 01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:54,679 Speaker 1: nursings actually where I'm going right now? He very cool? 1337 01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:57,200 Speaker 1: All right? What don't you learn yesterday about nursing? About? 1338 01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:00,880 Speaker 1: Did you learn about flu botomy? Nope, I have not 1339 01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:03,280 Speaker 1: learned that yet. I'm still in the very beginning. So 1340 01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm just learning how to like flo patience right now? Okay? Good? 1341 01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:12,360 Speaker 1: Are you squirmish around blood? Because I would be a 1342 01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:15,320 Speaker 1: poor flebotomist, I think, because I would pass out every 1343 01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:19,799 Speaker 1: single time. I am not I I'm not at all. Actually, 1344 01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:25,160 Speaker 1: you'll be fine. I'm like saying flu botomy instead flebotomy. 1345 01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:26,320 Speaker 1: I don't even know if I don't even know if 1346 01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:27,960 Speaker 1: you can say it like that flebotomy? Is it like 1347 01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:31,160 Speaker 1: a practice of flebotomism? I might have no idea. No, 1348 01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:36,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. Well you'll know, you'll know one of 1349 01:09:36,040 --> 01:09:37,640 Speaker 1: these days. So it's fine. Um. So here we go 1350 01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:40,240 Speaker 1: to five questions, the prize of three hundred bucks, three 1351 01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:42,960 Speaker 1: straight wins for Shelley, three thirty six and twenty two 1352 01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:48,040 Speaker 1: all time? Are you ready? Victoria? I think so okay, Victoria? 1353 01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:55,200 Speaker 1: Good luck? Are you too? Shelley get after the sound boothpoof, 1354 01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:59,840 Speaker 1: She goes for her to enter within and she has entered. 1355 01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,040 Speaker 1: Here we go question number one for Victoria. This model 1356 01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:05,840 Speaker 1: and actress split with her husband John Peters after just 1357 01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:10,240 Speaker 1: twelve days of marriage. Oh my god, I have no crew. 1358 01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 1: The Crown will officially end after season five on this 1359 01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:23,400 Speaker 1: streaming service. Two one Happen. Birds of Prey is out Friday. 1360 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:32,599 Speaker 1: Who stars in that movie? Um? But um? Curtis Jackson 1361 01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:35,000 Speaker 1: received his star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. What 1362 01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:43,360 Speaker 1: is his stage name? Victoria? Season four of Summer Household 1363 01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:55,639 Speaker 1: premiere on Wednesday on this network. Oh, Victoria, whoa man? Rufio? 1364 01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:59,840 Speaker 1: Rufio is updating the board. That's all right? You know 1365 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:04,519 Speaker 1: what these things happen? One Shelley one doing the limbo 1366 01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:10,720 Speaker 1: over here, Here we go, Here we go. Question number one. 1367 01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:13,799 Speaker 1: This model and actress split with her husband John Peters 1368 01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:17,679 Speaker 1: after just twelve days of marriage. Emil Anderson The Crown 1369 01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:21,240 Speaker 1: will officially end after season five on this streaming service Netflix. 1370 01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:24,439 Speaker 1: Birds of Prey is out Friday. Who stars in that movie, 1371 01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:28,040 Speaker 1: Margot Rob Curtis Jackson received his star on the Hollywood 1372 01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:30,960 Speaker 1: Walk of Fame. What is his stage name? Center and 1373 01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:34,120 Speaker 1: Season four of Summer House will premiere on Wednesday on 1374 01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:40,320 Speaker 1: this network, Bravo. Let's go. Yes, that's pretty much how 1375 01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:44,680 Speaker 1: it's done, just like that damn light work. Victoria, you're 1376 01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:46,120 Speaker 1: gonna have to say, I'm my name as Victoria. I 1377 01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:49,000 Speaker 1: got showed up on the Showdown. My name is Victoria, 1378 01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:50,800 Speaker 1: and I got shot up on the Showdown. And I 1379 01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:55,880 Speaker 1: can't hang with the gorilla. Indeed, can't hang with the gorilla. 1380 01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:11,200 Speaker 1: I need a nurse. I need a nurse to assess 1381 01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:15,960 Speaker 1: between me else, how to move beds. That's it. I 1382 01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:17,880 Speaker 1: need a nurse to put the bed so I didn't 1383 01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:20,880 Speaker 1: pass out on it. Right now, all right, Victoria, I 1384 01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:25,400 Speaker 1: have a great hold on Okay, say right there, Shelley 1385 01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:27,920 Speaker 1: was coming up on your program. It happens on right 1386 01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:29,920 Speaker 1: here from ten to noon. You don't want to miss 1387 01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:33,840 Speaker 1: a minute. No, you shouldn't. Uh nda crossover ticket. Yeah, 1388 01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:37,040 Speaker 1: and the beef bus is coming to Chicago. What is 1389 01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 1: the beef bus? The beef the beef busus. I try 1390 01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:45,960 Speaker 1: to let the I love them. Let me drive the 1391 01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:48,439 Speaker 1: beef bus around so I can say that I drive 1392 01:12:48,479 --> 01:12:52,599 Speaker 1: the sounds like I want to start beef. I want 1393 01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:55,599 Speaker 1: to ride the beef want to ride my beef bus? Yeah? 1394 01:12:57,040 --> 01:13:02,080 Speaker 1: I want. Yeah. Oh, I was back up the beech 1395 01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:07,400 Speaker 1: bus for me with that hard I'm gonna be driving that. 1396 01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:22,040 Speaker 1: You want it. I'm gonna call someone again. Guy, I'm 1397 01:13:22,080 --> 01:13:23,640 Speaker 1: gonna call I'm gonna make a phone call that as 1398 01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:26,120 Speaker 1: they're gonna let drive the beef bus because I just 1399 01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:27,920 Speaker 1: want to say that I once did that. Yeah, you're 1400 01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:32,760 Speaker 1: gonna put your picture in there too. Yeah, I am 1401 01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:36,920 Speaker 1: the beef bus. What are you talking about? Shelley tends 1402 01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:38,960 Speaker 1: to dude, I kiss good news stories and next by 1403 01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:47,080 Speaker 1: the world. Yeah, it feels good with Fred and Angie 1404 01:13:47,320 --> 01:13:50,200 Speaker 1: on one or three five kiss up good news, positive 1405 01:13:50,400 --> 01:13:52,400 Speaker 1: uplifting stories. Every day we share them on the show 1406 01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:55,879 Speaker 1: What You Gotta Answer. Denver Hotel now serves as instant 1407 01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:59,840 Speaker 1: housing for those facing homelessness or living on a limited income. 1408 01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:04,840 Speaker 1: Last year, John Karvnski, president and CEO of the Colorado 1409 01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:08,559 Speaker 1: Coalition for the Homeless, purchased the quality in in suites 1410 01:14:08,640 --> 01:14:12,040 Speaker 1: the whole thing and converted one hundred and thirty nine 1411 01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:15,960 Speaker 1: a hotel rooms into fully furnished studio apartments. The newly 1412 01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:20,040 Speaker 1: christened Fusion Studios recently celebrated its brand opening. To be 1413 01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:22,880 Speaker 1: able to create one hundred thirty nine units of housing 1414 01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:25,519 Speaker 1: in less than seven months is really spectacular, he said. 1415 01:14:25,520 --> 01:14:29,360 Speaker 1: In addition to being an affordable place to lay their head, 1416 01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:33,799 Speaker 1: residents have access to mental health and addiction counseling, employment services, 1417 01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:37,479 Speaker 1: and other support. Renters reportedly use housing vouchers to cover 1418 01:14:37,560 --> 01:14:40,080 Speaker 1: the majority of the cost, which averages out one hundred 1419 01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:44,000 Speaker 1: bucks a month. But he bought the entire hotel awesome 1420 01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:50,280 Speaker 1: Ye Kansas City, Missouri, not Kansas City, Kansas, home of 1421 01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:55,240 Speaker 1: the Super Bowl champion Kansas City Chiefs. This guy, I 1422 01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:59,880 Speaker 1: hope I'm saying his name right. Derek Nanati and adis 1423 01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:03,280 Speaker 1: helping homeless dogs find new homes in wake of his 1424 01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:06,240 Speaker 1: Super Bowl Win the defensive tackles paying the adoption fees 1425 01:15:06,280 --> 01:15:09,560 Speaker 1: for all of the dogs currently available at the k 1426 01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:13,000 Speaker 1: C Pet Project. So if you want to adopt a dog, 1427 01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:16,000 Speaker 1: he's using some of his Super Bowls spoils to make 1428 01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:17,680 Speaker 1: sure that you can do it for free. They say 1429 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:20,000 Speaker 1: they have an amazing season long partnership with Derek and 1430 01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:22,360 Speaker 1: he couldn't have thought. They couldn't have thought, and he 1431 01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:24,200 Speaker 1: couldn't have thought of a better ending. The partnership is 1432 01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:27,120 Speaker 1: sponsored by his foundation. Uh there's more on the website, 1433 01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:30,360 Speaker 1: the d n n Adi Foundation net org. But yes, 1434 01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:33,160 Speaker 1: if you're in anybody in Kansas City wants to adopt 1435 01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:35,639 Speaker 1: a dog, you won't have to pay a fee thanks 1436 01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:38,880 Speaker 1: to him. And they're super Bowl Win and Angie live 1437 01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:45,719 Speaker 1: from the Winterst Studios UKSFM Chicago and I Heart Radio Station. 1438 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:50,040 Speaker 1: Here's Fred and Angel Kristen eight oh five, Tuesday, February fourth, 1439 01:15:50,080 --> 01:15:54,160 Speaker 1: Fret and Nangi are on Hell on Angie Taylor Entertainer 1440 01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:56,880 Speaker 1: Upport in about twenty minutes after we do a thousand bucks, 1441 01:15:56,920 --> 01:16:00,360 Speaker 1: pans and bills and waiting on the phone, what's coming up? Well? 1442 01:16:00,400 --> 01:16:03,400 Speaker 1: The oscars are on Sunday I'm gonna tell you what's 1443 01:16:03,439 --> 01:16:06,880 Speaker 1: inside D one hundred forty eight thousand dollars gift bags. 1444 01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:10,800 Speaker 1: You gotta pay taxes on man, and I realized they're rich. 1445 01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:14,599 Speaker 1: But I'm still like three taxes. You're talking about taxes 1446 01:16:15,360 --> 01:16:19,280 Speaker 1: on the weekend, just taking up why they get blown off. 1447 01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:21,679 Speaker 1: We we'll find out now. In Waiting by the phone 1448 01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:25,400 Speaker 1: with Fred and Angie, I'm one of three. Five. Kiss up, 1449 01:16:26,040 --> 01:16:29,080 Speaker 1: how you doing, Andrew? How's it going? Welcome to our show. 1450 01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:31,000 Speaker 1: We call this Waiting by the phone, of course. What's 1451 01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:33,479 Speaker 1: going on with Heidi? Tell us everything, how you met 1452 01:16:33,600 --> 01:16:35,760 Speaker 1: and any dates that you've been on and where things 1453 01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:38,559 Speaker 1: are now? Um? Yeah, So I met Heidi on Tinder 1454 01:16:39,040 --> 01:16:42,840 Speaker 1: and we exchanged numbers and we actually went out ye 1455 01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:46,439 Speaker 1: on two dates. Um they were great. We ended up 1456 01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:50,960 Speaker 1: looking up both times after each state, and I thought 1457 01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:52,599 Speaker 1: there's gonna be a third, you know, like it wasn't 1458 01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:54,439 Speaker 1: like one of those weird Tinder things or like com 1459 01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:57,320 Speaker 1: pay one night than or anything. Um. But after the 1460 01:16:57,400 --> 01:16:59,519 Speaker 1: third d eight in the morning too, after my house, 1461 01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:03,040 Speaker 1: and I haven't heard from her again, and I've tried 1462 01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:07,040 Speaker 1: messaging her and I haven't heard anything. All right, Well, 1463 01:17:07,080 --> 01:17:09,160 Speaker 1: that's I mean, I thought it all sounds pretty good. 1464 01:17:09,200 --> 01:17:12,080 Speaker 1: You'd hook up a couple of times and whatever, so 1465 01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:14,439 Speaker 1: you would think that you'd hear from that person again, 1466 01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:17,880 Speaker 1: especially hook up after the first day, go back for 1467 01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:23,479 Speaker 1: another day to look up again. I mean that that's encouraging. Yeah, no, definitely. 1468 01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:25,519 Speaker 1: I mean it's not like I said, it wasn't like 1469 01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:27,559 Speaker 1: a one night thing. You know, did you dress up 1470 01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:31,479 Speaker 1: like a clown? Did you refuse to leave? Did you 1471 01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:35,160 Speaker 1: did you did you have food in your bathroom? And 1472 01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:37,920 Speaker 1: I'm just going through some common scenarios that we hear. 1473 01:17:38,360 --> 01:17:40,439 Speaker 1: I mean, from what I remember everything with, you know, 1474 01:17:40,880 --> 01:17:43,160 Speaker 1: pretty normal, we had a really good night. All right, 1475 01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:45,320 Speaker 1: Well that's where we come in. We'll call Heidi and 1476 01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:47,360 Speaker 1: you'll be on the phone, and we'll ask some questions 1477 01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:48,960 Speaker 1: and hopefully we can get a hold of her and 1478 01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:51,080 Speaker 1: straighten all of this out and figure out what's going 1479 01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:53,439 Speaker 1: on and set you guys up on another day that 1480 01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:56,000 Speaker 1: we pay for. Okay, Okay, can you hang on for 1481 01:17:56,040 --> 01:17:58,880 Speaker 1: a second. Yeah, you gotta hear what happens next. We'll 1482 01:17:58,920 --> 01:18:00,880 Speaker 1: two points two after the week got a heartless in 1483 01:18:01,000 --> 01:18:06,080 Speaker 1: two minutes on one three five Weekend's Heartless one three 1484 01:18:06,160 --> 01:18:08,720 Speaker 1: five Kiss, Chicago's number one hit music station. Fred and 1485 01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:11,200 Speaker 1: Nangie take it to the NBA crossover of Van Navy 1486 01:18:11,320 --> 01:18:13,519 Speaker 1: Pierre for All Star Weekend. Hook you up in just 1487 01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:15,679 Speaker 1: a second, Part two of Waiting by the phone, Andrew, 1488 01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:20,719 Speaker 1: welcome back. You met Heidi on Tinder and you guys 1489 01:18:20,840 --> 01:18:22,759 Speaker 1: you had a great date, a couple of dates, actually 1490 01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:25,200 Speaker 1: hooked up both times, except now she's she's ghosting you 1491 01:18:25,280 --> 01:18:27,479 Speaker 1: and you want to know why? Yeah, all right, let's 1492 01:18:27,520 --> 01:18:37,840 Speaker 1: call her now? Good luck? Hello, Hi? Is this Heidi? Yes, Hey, Hidie. 1493 01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:40,080 Speaker 1: Fred and Nanjie calling from the morning radio show on 1494 01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:43,280 Speaker 1: Kiss FM in Chicago. And I'm sorry to bother, but 1495 01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:44,720 Speaker 1: I do have to tell you that we are on 1496 01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:47,280 Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission 1497 01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:49,080 Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can we talk for a minute? 1498 01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:53,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah sure, Okay, thank you so much. I won't 1499 01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:55,280 Speaker 1: waste too much of your time. We'll get right to 1500 01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:59,519 Speaker 1: And I'm calling on behalf of a guy named Andrew 1501 01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:01,600 Speaker 1: who's says that he met you on Tinder and you 1502 01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:06,200 Speaker 1: guys went on a couple of dates. Yeah, okay, Um, 1503 01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:09,160 Speaker 1: well what's going on? Because that doesn't sound very promising? 1504 01:19:09,200 --> 01:19:11,720 Speaker 1: He told us about a couple of dates. He made 1505 01:19:11,800 --> 01:19:15,440 Speaker 1: us sound like things went really well and was surprised 1506 01:19:15,680 --> 01:19:18,080 Speaker 1: that you seem to be ghosting him now. So that's 1507 01:19:18,080 --> 01:19:20,760 Speaker 1: why we're calling to figure out what happened. What's going on? 1508 01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:26,160 Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is so embarrassing. Um. Yeah, you 1509 01:19:26,240 --> 01:19:31,080 Speaker 1: know we went on to dates, um, and I really 1510 01:19:31,200 --> 01:19:36,960 Speaker 1: liked Andrew um at first. But after our second date 1511 01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:41,240 Speaker 1: we hooked up again and I slept over and we 1512 01:19:41,360 --> 01:19:45,760 Speaker 1: were lying. My god, we were lying their naked in 1513 01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:51,240 Speaker 1: bed and um, he pushed out a huge spart and 1514 01:19:51,760 --> 01:19:58,200 Speaker 1: eagles and oh it gets horss So it gets worse 1515 01:19:58,240 --> 01:20:01,920 Speaker 1: than that. Okay. He then said that Joe pushed my 1516 01:20:02,040 --> 01:20:05,360 Speaker 1: head under the covers now gave me a Dutch oven. No, 1517 01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:10,920 Speaker 1: he did not a Dutch oven. Hilarious. So and for 1518 01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:14,360 Speaker 1: those who are unfamiliar, that's when you pass gas under 1519 01:20:14,400 --> 01:20:18,160 Speaker 1: the covers and then push one underneath and then enclose 1520 01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:24,360 Speaker 1: them in the aroma. What the hell? What? Um? I 1521 01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:27,920 Speaker 1: forgot to be We've never heard this one before. I 1522 01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:31,200 Speaker 1: forgot to mention that andrews here, Heidie, Andrew, that's a bit, 1523 01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:38,680 Speaker 1: it's not how do you think it's not funny? Like, 1524 01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:42,120 Speaker 1: it's not that big of a deal. That's so disgusting, 1525 01:20:42,880 --> 01:20:46,080 Speaker 1: disgusting and disrespectful. Eric came out of your booty hole 1526 01:20:46,320 --> 01:20:50,280 Speaker 1: and then you made her breathe it in. That's disgusting. 1527 01:20:51,200 --> 01:20:55,240 Speaker 1: You could have gave her pay. That's fecal. That's Aaron's 1528 01:20:55,400 --> 01:21:00,559 Speaker 1: fecal matter or fecal. I don't need disgusting. What are 1529 01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:05,040 Speaker 1: you doing that pick it is? Okay? Well it's not funny. 1530 01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:06,960 Speaker 1: We don't think it's funny. She didn't. Well, we think 1531 01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:08,680 Speaker 1: it's funny, but we wouldn't think it's funny if it 1532 01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:19,799 Speaker 1: were happening too. No, that's about That's what this is about. Yeah, yeah, dude, 1533 01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:23,240 Speaker 1: that's disgusting. I think it's funny. Well she doesn't that 1534 01:21:23,400 --> 01:21:26,280 Speaker 1: I did that to me, I would start dying laughing. 1535 01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:27,960 Speaker 1: You would if a woman did that to you, you 1536 01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:31,920 Speaker 1: would think that was funny. Yeah, I mean you're into 1537 01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:34,840 Speaker 1: weird stuff too. All right, Well, so look you sort 1538 01:21:34,880 --> 01:21:36,840 Speaker 1: of have a juvenile sense of humor. I guess as 1539 01:21:36,880 --> 01:21:39,200 Speaker 1: to week because we're laughing. But again, we weren't the 1540 01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:43,599 Speaker 1: victim of your booty smell. So is there any way 1541 01:21:43,800 --> 01:21:46,200 Speaker 1: hide that if he agrees to act like an adult, 1542 01:21:46,320 --> 01:21:49,120 Speaker 1: that you would give him another shot. Maybe possibly. It 1543 01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:52,439 Speaker 1: sounds like prior to this things were going well. Yeah no, 1544 01:21:52,920 --> 01:21:56,160 Speaker 1: before that, Andrew was a great guy. But no, I 1545 01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:59,080 Speaker 1: not after that, I will never be the same. No, 1546 01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:00,760 Speaker 1: because if you did that, well untill do it again. 1547 01:22:01,120 --> 01:22:03,160 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean what other sort of like gross 1548 01:22:03,320 --> 01:22:08,120 Speaker 1: things do you think are funny, Andrew? Honesty, I just 1549 01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:10,839 Speaker 1: think parts are hilarious. Do you think like whoopee cushions 1550 01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:15,760 Speaker 1: are funny? Oh? Yeah, definitely? Um so, Hidi, he's not 1551 01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:18,760 Speaker 1: going to give you another shot, Andrew. I don't think 1552 01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:22,120 Speaker 1: that's really gonna go well for you in the future. 1553 01:22:22,200 --> 01:22:24,680 Speaker 1: But you know, I guess to each his own best 1554 01:22:24,720 --> 01:22:27,519 Speaker 1: of leut to you, Hid, thank you for your time. 1555 01:22:28,760 --> 01:22:32,479 Speaker 1: Get you into the NBA crossover events for All Star Weekend. 1556 01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:39,080 Speaker 1: After thereis Capaldi Louis Capaldi one three five Kiss FM, 1557 01:22:39,160 --> 01:22:41,360 Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station. Fred and Nanji. I'm 1558 01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:43,120 Speaker 1: trying to find this article. I read it on Friday 1559 01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:47,320 Speaker 1: because I was telling you before how I had this 1560 01:22:47,520 --> 01:22:51,240 Speaker 1: entire narrative that I conduct with my dogs. I speak 1561 01:22:51,280 --> 01:22:55,080 Speaker 1: to them, I speak for them in return. I have 1562 01:22:55,160 --> 01:22:59,559 Speaker 1: an entire storyline for their lives and characters and identities. Um, 1563 01:22:59,680 --> 01:23:03,000 Speaker 1: and the articles about how apparently some people don't have 1564 01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:07,960 Speaker 1: an internal dialogue, like they just say whatever's on their mind. No, no, no, no, 1565 01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:11,000 Speaker 1: like that, it's like a filter, like they don't they 1566 01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:16,040 Speaker 1: don't hear their own voice in their head. I'm confused, 1567 01:23:16,200 --> 01:23:17,720 Speaker 1: what do you mean? Like, like, like when you think, 1568 01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:20,519 Speaker 1: don't you hear your voice speaking to you in your mind? 1569 01:23:20,880 --> 01:23:25,040 Speaker 1: It's called an internal dialogue, yeah, talking to yourself. Yeah no, 1570 01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:28,439 Speaker 1: not out loud. I'm saying an internal dialogue, like, so 1571 01:23:28,600 --> 01:23:32,200 Speaker 1: you some people apparently don't have that voice in their head. 1572 01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:34,599 Speaker 1: I'm trying to find this research here. You don't when 1573 01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:37,439 Speaker 1: you think comes out loud, but there's no there's no 1574 01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:40,479 Speaker 1: process in your head where you hear your own voice. Nope, no, 1575 01:23:40,640 --> 01:23:43,439 Speaker 1: I just say everything out loud. Yeah, so you have 1576 01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:46,760 Speaker 1: no filter? That's like, well, I mean, I mean, I 1577 01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:50,439 Speaker 1: like I talked to myself out loud. I mean, yeah, correct, 1578 01:23:50,720 --> 01:23:52,960 Speaker 1: I'm trying to find this research here because somebodysembly doesn't. 1579 01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:58,080 Speaker 1: I Uh. People are weirded out to discover that some 1580 01:23:58,320 --> 01:24:03,760 Speaker 1: people don't have an internal dialogue. So um, let's see here. 1581 01:24:03,880 --> 01:24:05,680 Speaker 1: Tweet went out last week, and it's sparks a lot 1582 01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:09,040 Speaker 1: of conversation. Fun fact, some people have an internal narrative 1583 01:24:09,080 --> 01:24:11,720 Speaker 1: and some don't, as in, some people's thoughts are like 1584 01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:15,840 Speaker 1: sentences they hear, and some people just have abstract, nonverbal 1585 01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:19,160 Speaker 1: thoughts and they have to consciously verbalize them. This is 1586 01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:24,760 Speaker 1: according to research. So I don't I'm surprised by this. 1587 01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:29,479 Speaker 1: I thought that everybody in their mind heard or were 1588 01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:32,800 Speaker 1: able to sort of reason with themselves and debate with themselves, 1589 01:24:32,920 --> 01:24:36,160 Speaker 1: and they had heard like their voice, and they could 1590 01:24:36,160 --> 01:24:40,120 Speaker 1: have a conversation inside without saying a word. Yeah, yeah, 1591 01:24:40,160 --> 01:24:43,400 Speaker 1: I mean that's just like thinking out problems or thinking 1592 01:24:43,439 --> 01:24:46,160 Speaker 1: out thoughts, isn't it right? But some people don't have it. 1593 01:24:46,240 --> 01:24:48,960 Speaker 1: Apparently some people don't do that at all, which shocks me. 1594 01:24:49,200 --> 01:24:51,640 Speaker 1: I don't hear like my Like when I think I 1595 01:24:51,720 --> 01:24:54,280 Speaker 1: don't hear, I don't hear my voice. What do you think? 1596 01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:56,080 Speaker 1: You just see an image of something? No, I just 1597 01:24:56,479 --> 01:24:58,240 Speaker 1: I'm thinking of stuff. But it's not like I hear 1598 01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:01,920 Speaker 1: my own voice. Let's I don't know, No I could like, 1599 01:25:03,120 --> 01:25:04,880 Speaker 1: so you don't look at something and in your mind, 1600 01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:07,240 Speaker 1: like the piezolo just brought us a bunch of pizzas, 1601 01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:08,920 Speaker 1: and you don't look at it and hear yourself going, man, 1602 01:25:08,960 --> 01:25:10,439 Speaker 1: that pizza looks good. I'd like to eat it. No 1603 01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:14,160 Speaker 1: I say that out loud. Yes, I'll I think about 1604 01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:15,560 Speaker 1: it in my head, like, oh, do I want a 1605 01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:20,479 Speaker 1: piece of that pizza? Nad probably super Bowl like or 1606 01:25:20,520 --> 01:25:23,240 Speaker 1: when it comes to decision making, like I'll think I 1607 01:25:23,280 --> 01:25:24,800 Speaker 1: could do this, I could do that, and it just 1608 01:25:24,920 --> 01:25:27,320 Speaker 1: happens in my mind. But I think that's different than 1609 01:25:27,360 --> 01:25:29,000 Speaker 1: that having a filter, because I think you can have 1610 01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:32,040 Speaker 1: the internal dialogue and then also not know that it 1611 01:25:32,160 --> 01:25:35,240 Speaker 1: stops there. Yeah, but like when I'm thinking about stuff internally, 1612 01:25:35,360 --> 01:25:37,080 Speaker 1: I don't hear I don't hear my own voice. I 1613 01:25:37,160 --> 01:25:39,040 Speaker 1: think you're getting hung up on the voice part. No, 1614 01:25:39,160 --> 01:25:41,240 Speaker 1: but that's what he's saying, Like he says, you hear 1615 01:25:41,280 --> 01:25:46,160 Speaker 1: a voice. I just hear words, you know, just think thoughts. Yeah, thoughts. 1616 01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:49,720 Speaker 1: It's not like there's a voice to it. Five nine 1617 01:25:49,720 --> 01:25:53,000 Speaker 1: one five. Are you one of these weird people who 1618 01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:56,400 Speaker 1: do like Rufio, who have no internal dialogue? You don't 1619 01:25:56,479 --> 01:25:59,519 Speaker 1: converse with yourself at all. I often ask people who 1620 01:25:59,560 --> 01:26:03,360 Speaker 1: speak more table languages in which language their their internal 1621 01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:08,320 Speaker 1: dialogue is conducted, Like if English isn't your first language 1622 01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:12,920 Speaker 1: and Spanish. Is is your internal dialogue in Spanish or 1623 01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:16,360 Speaker 1: is it English? Do you think in which language? Because 1624 01:26:16,400 --> 01:26:19,000 Speaker 1: sometimes people will say, well, English was my second language, 1625 01:26:19,040 --> 01:26:22,080 Speaker 1: I'm the first language I learned was with Serbian or 1626 01:26:22,120 --> 01:26:24,759 Speaker 1: the first language I learned was French. I think in French, 1627 01:26:24,920 --> 01:26:28,599 Speaker 1: I speak in English. That's interesting. I wonder about that too. 1628 01:26:30,000 --> 01:26:35,000 Speaker 1: Um what is this polyphonic internal narration? Everything I do 1629 01:26:35,120 --> 01:26:38,759 Speaker 1: in a day is processed through several different internal voices, 1630 01:26:38,880 --> 01:26:41,880 Speaker 1: all me talking to one another in a conversation. If 1631 01:26:44,200 --> 01:26:46,280 Speaker 1: sometimes I actually speak yeah, no, that's me, I don't know. 1632 01:26:46,280 --> 01:26:49,360 Speaker 1: If it's yeah, I fully will. I can have a 1633 01:26:49,400 --> 01:26:52,240 Speaker 1: full on conversation with myself in my head. If I'm alone, 1634 01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:55,040 Speaker 1: sometimes I'll speak it out loud. It just depends if 1635 01:26:55,320 --> 01:26:57,880 Speaker 1: anyone else is around, because if other people around I 1636 01:26:57,960 --> 01:26:59,439 Speaker 1: talk out loud to myself, the people a gonna think 1637 01:26:59,439 --> 01:27:02,080 Speaker 1: I'm a weirdo more than I already do. I talk 1638 01:27:02,120 --> 01:27:04,920 Speaker 1: to myself in my head same. I'm just shocked to 1639 01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:06,559 Speaker 1: believe that that. I don't know. I don't know how else. 1640 01:27:06,800 --> 01:27:09,719 Speaker 1: I'll be sitting in line somewhere, like I just just thinking, 1641 01:27:09,800 --> 01:27:12,120 Speaker 1: and like what does that woman wearing? What was she thinking? 1642 01:27:12,160 --> 01:27:13,960 Speaker 1: When she left the house. I think you do have 1643 01:27:14,080 --> 01:27:17,040 Speaker 1: internal dialogue. I think you're not everything. What do you 1644 01:27:17,120 --> 01:27:20,759 Speaker 1: mean I don't. I think you can have internal dialogue 1645 01:27:20,800 --> 01:27:22,680 Speaker 1: and that not know that that's supposed to stay in 1646 01:27:22,760 --> 01:27:25,200 Speaker 1: your head. I mean, like about how you have to 1647 01:27:25,240 --> 01:27:28,240 Speaker 1: teach kids. You have to teach children they cannot say 1648 01:27:28,360 --> 01:27:30,840 Speaker 1: everything that they think and observed, right, Like that's a 1649 01:27:30,960 --> 01:27:33,360 Speaker 1: learned behavior. Yeah, I mean, never learn to have an 1650 01:27:33,400 --> 01:27:36,000 Speaker 1: internal dialogue. But I just like what you're saying. You 1651 01:27:36,120 --> 01:27:37,920 Speaker 1: hear your own voice. I don't hear my own voice. 1652 01:27:37,960 --> 01:27:41,479 Speaker 1: I just I talk to myself internally and externally. Hi, Chelsea, 1653 01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:44,880 Speaker 1: Hi are you? Are you a good morning? Are you 1654 01:27:44,880 --> 01:27:47,240 Speaker 1: one of these people who does not have an internal dialogue? 1655 01:27:47,760 --> 01:27:49,720 Speaker 1: And no, actually I wanted to give you guys, like 1656 01:27:49,760 --> 01:27:52,360 Speaker 1: a little insight on it because I've actually done I've 1657 01:27:52,400 --> 01:27:55,360 Speaker 1: done research on this. And did you know that people 1658 01:27:55,439 --> 01:27:58,479 Speaker 1: who do have that strong internal dialogue have to be 1659 01:27:58,720 --> 01:28:02,559 Speaker 1: very careful the way that they think because they are 1660 01:28:02,640 --> 01:28:12,479 Speaker 1: more susceptible to depression and a lower self. And then yes, yes, no, 1661 01:28:12,720 --> 01:28:15,040 Speaker 1: this is this is something I'm going to therapy for. 1662 01:28:15,200 --> 01:28:17,960 Speaker 1: Is it I can ruminate in my mind and play 1663 01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:20,880 Speaker 1: out every possible scenario of a situation and then begin 1664 01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:25,280 Speaker 1: to get sad about outcomes that haven't had, haven't even happened. 1665 01:28:25,560 --> 01:28:27,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no I have I can, I can. I 1666 01:28:27,160 --> 01:28:30,120 Speaker 1: can ruminate where paranoia comes from. So like people who 1667 01:28:30,120 --> 01:28:33,240 Speaker 1: are actually clin crazy, you gotta see, you got to 1668 01:28:33,280 --> 01:28:36,000 Speaker 1: think that people who are actually clinically crazy, unless they 1669 01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:38,800 Speaker 1: literally have something wrong with their brain, that it may 1670 01:28:38,960 --> 01:28:41,559 Speaker 1: just because they do have a strong mindset and they 1671 01:28:41,720 --> 01:28:44,519 Speaker 1: let it get out of Just convince yourself of whatever, 1672 01:28:44,720 --> 01:28:46,760 Speaker 1: yeah you're thinking, and then all of a sudden you're 1673 01:28:46,800 --> 01:28:49,320 Speaker 1: having a fight with yourself. And it's like, this is 1674 01:28:49,400 --> 01:28:56,000 Speaker 1: exactly what the self awareness myself heal with internal conflict 1675 01:28:56,040 --> 01:28:58,559 Speaker 1: a lot because I practice empathy on an end past 1676 01:28:59,320 --> 01:29:01,920 Speaker 1: I say a lot about like the human mind and 1677 01:29:02,120 --> 01:29:04,680 Speaker 1: how it works and how do you actually really do 1678 01:29:04,840 --> 01:29:06,760 Speaker 1: have to be gentle with it. And I honestly think 1679 01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:08,800 Speaker 1: that's why the world's going the way it does, because 1680 01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:12,519 Speaker 1: people just don't care about other people. And now, thank 1681 01:29:12,560 --> 01:29:18,320 Speaker 1: you Chelsea, Susie. Yeah, hi, Susie. So do you have 1682 01:29:18,439 --> 01:29:21,600 Speaker 1: the internal dialogue? I got to know, I feel like 1683 01:29:21,880 --> 01:29:24,800 Speaker 1: going up with what uh previous lady does that about 1684 01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:27,439 Speaker 1: being like an unpath and stuff like that. I feel 1685 01:29:27,439 --> 01:29:32,439 Speaker 1: that we all have that intuitive, lower like nicer voice 1686 01:29:33,080 --> 01:29:36,640 Speaker 1: that um, compared to like a really loud voice or 1687 01:29:36,680 --> 01:29:40,559 Speaker 1: something that's like ego like ego based or something like that. Um, 1688 01:29:40,760 --> 01:29:44,040 Speaker 1: I feel so sometimes I hear like the softer kind 1689 01:29:44,080 --> 01:29:53,280 Speaker 1: of like loving sort of thing. Yeah, no does things 1690 01:29:53,400 --> 01:29:55,640 Speaker 1: and more? Are you saying you process things in a 1691 01:29:55,760 --> 01:30:01,240 Speaker 1: gentler light than than white more than it varies? Well, yeah, 1692 01:30:01,280 --> 01:30:03,679 Speaker 1: it's a more based on the self awareness, I guess 1693 01:30:03,720 --> 01:30:06,840 Speaker 1: you could say. So. Um, the internal dialogue could be 1694 01:30:07,120 --> 01:30:11,880 Speaker 1: very loud and hard and yeah, like you decided like 1695 01:30:11,960 --> 01:30:14,080 Speaker 1: you could start arguing with there's something your mind. Yeah, 1696 01:30:14,120 --> 01:30:15,640 Speaker 1: that's something I have to focus on. I have to 1697 01:30:15,680 --> 01:30:18,519 Speaker 1: focus on whether I'm actually mad at the person for 1698 01:30:18,640 --> 01:30:21,439 Speaker 1: what they did or what I think they did or 1699 01:30:21,560 --> 01:30:23,880 Speaker 1: what I've played out in my head they could have done. 1700 01:30:24,240 --> 01:30:27,200 Speaker 1: I have to have to be mindful that oftentimes what 1701 01:30:27,320 --> 01:30:30,759 Speaker 1: I'm upset about may have not may not have actually occurred. 1702 01:30:31,120 --> 01:30:33,000 Speaker 1: But you got to have self awareness to be able 1703 01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:35,400 Speaker 1: to to do that, because it's really easy just to 1704 01:30:35,479 --> 01:30:38,160 Speaker 1: blame everything on everybody else and be pissed off. Yeah, 1705 01:30:38,200 --> 01:30:40,960 Speaker 1: I like, fuck on that rabom hole my husband's Yeah, 1706 01:30:41,240 --> 01:30:43,280 Speaker 1: thank you, Susy. Have a great day. I'm glad you called. 1707 01:30:43,760 --> 01:30:47,719 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Hey Elizabeth, Hi, Hi your doctor Elizabeth 1708 01:30:47,760 --> 01:30:50,639 Speaker 1: read you a psychologist? Yes I am. Oh good. Let's 1709 01:30:50,680 --> 01:30:53,080 Speaker 1: let's hear your theories. So the way that I think 1710 01:30:53,120 --> 01:30:55,880 Speaker 1: about it is that an internal monologue is when you 1711 01:30:56,400 --> 01:30:58,800 Speaker 1: are able to have a full sentence with yourself and 1712 01:30:58,920 --> 01:31:02,200 Speaker 1: have like just say statements to yourself. So people that 1713 01:31:02,439 --> 01:31:06,920 Speaker 1: lack the internal monologue, there are people that see abstractly 1714 01:31:07,120 --> 01:31:11,560 Speaker 1: or see in pictures in their minds. My mom is bilingual. 1715 01:31:11,960 --> 01:31:14,000 Speaker 1: When I asked their ship many internal monologue or just 1716 01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:16,200 Speaker 1: whether or not she speaks or she thinks in her 1717 01:31:16,320 --> 01:31:19,439 Speaker 1: language or in English that I don't think in a language, 1718 01:31:19,479 --> 01:31:23,240 Speaker 1: I just do. Yeah. So these people don't necessarily sit 1719 01:31:23,360 --> 01:31:27,200 Speaker 1: there and think. They always have to be constantly doing 1720 01:31:27,360 --> 01:31:31,040 Speaker 1: something or talking out woud interesting. For example, I have 1721 01:31:31,160 --> 01:31:33,400 Speaker 1: to sit there, and when I sit there, I sit 1722 01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:35,960 Speaker 1: with my thoughts. But she's not capable of doing that. 1723 01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:38,320 Speaker 1: She has to do something all the time. Yeah. Sometimes 1724 01:31:38,360 --> 01:31:41,320 Speaker 1: I have to slow the internal monologue down because sometimes 1725 01:31:41,400 --> 01:31:45,360 Speaker 1: my internal monologue is going faster than either my brain 1726 01:31:45,600 --> 01:31:49,040 Speaker 1: or my mouth or whatever can can follow. You've probably 1727 01:31:49,080 --> 01:31:50,920 Speaker 1: heard it pretty much every day on this show, where 1728 01:31:50,960 --> 01:31:53,160 Speaker 1: what I'm thinking I want to see is happening way 1729 01:31:53,200 --> 01:31:55,519 Speaker 1: faster than I can get the words out. Yeah, And 1730 01:31:55,960 --> 01:31:58,479 Speaker 1: something that's interesting about it is that people something that 1731 01:31:58,520 --> 01:32:00,120 Speaker 1: I'm looking in though. With people that is her with 1732 01:32:00,240 --> 01:32:03,280 Speaker 1: the INTERNI monologue, do they have more depression or are 1733 01:32:03,360 --> 01:32:06,639 Speaker 1: they like, do they have more anxiety? Because the stocks 1734 01:32:06,680 --> 01:32:09,920 Speaker 1: are really getting consider heads. Would It's one of the 1735 01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:12,240 Speaker 1: reasons that I have trouble sleeping at night because that 1736 01:32:12,400 --> 01:32:15,040 Speaker 1: model or dialogue will just keep going and going and going, 1737 01:32:15,160 --> 01:32:18,599 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I have to turn off the conversation. Right. 1738 01:32:19,600 --> 01:32:22,840 Speaker 1: So the way the depression anxiety manifest different, and people 1739 01:32:22,880 --> 01:32:25,680 Speaker 1: who don't have an internimnads are that it's physical but 1740 01:32:25,800 --> 01:32:28,720 Speaker 1: they feel tired or they feeling look at that, think 1741 01:32:28,760 --> 01:32:34,040 Speaker 1: Elizabeth got some esteem people physical and in my head 1742 01:32:34,120 --> 01:32:38,280 Speaker 1: saying you know that's what sedations for. Thank you, Elizabeth, 1743 01:32:38,320 --> 01:32:42,160 Speaker 1: have a good day, just today yourself. It's fine. Julietta 1744 01:32:42,880 --> 01:32:47,200 Speaker 1: Ki you so you briefly mentioned that um, people whose 1745 01:32:47,520 --> 01:32:50,720 Speaker 1: first language isn't English, that um, it's the thoughts are 1746 01:32:50,760 --> 01:32:54,120 Speaker 1: in Spanish, UM or English. And I took Germans for 1747 01:32:54,240 --> 01:32:57,799 Speaker 1: four years throughout high school, and I often find myself 1748 01:32:58,320 --> 01:33:01,320 Speaker 1: always thinking in German, like I have so many thoughts 1749 01:33:01,760 --> 01:33:04,120 Speaker 1: that are just in German and I don't even realize 1750 01:33:04,120 --> 01:33:06,200 Speaker 1: that it's a different language until I say it out loud. 1751 01:33:06,320 --> 01:33:09,120 Speaker 1: I feel like my grandmother is like that, because I 1752 01:33:09,240 --> 01:33:11,840 Speaker 1: can tell by the way she speaks that she's thinking 1753 01:33:11,920 --> 01:33:14,320 Speaker 1: that thoughts in her head in Serbian, and then she'll 1754 01:33:14,360 --> 01:33:17,000 Speaker 1: spit them out in English and either they don't make 1755 01:33:17,080 --> 01:33:20,759 Speaker 1: sense or they're so inappropriate because it's not her language. 1756 01:33:20,760 --> 01:33:23,120 Speaker 1: Like she'll swear in English and I'm like, oh, you 1757 01:33:23,160 --> 01:33:25,479 Speaker 1: can't say that. She's like, it's not my language, like you, 1758 01:33:26,760 --> 01:33:28,880 Speaker 1: because if she were to swear that would be in 1759 01:33:29,000 --> 01:33:34,559 Speaker 1: her language out loud, that would be super inappropriate to her. Interesting, totally. Yeah, 1760 01:33:34,560 --> 01:33:36,160 Speaker 1: I ask people all the time, thank you, Julianna, have 1761 01:33:36,200 --> 01:33:38,120 Speaker 1: a good day, Thank you too. Can you speak a 1762 01:33:38,160 --> 01:33:41,519 Speaker 1: lot of languages? What's the voice in your head speaking? Yeah, 1763 01:33:41,560 --> 01:33:45,040 Speaker 1: my Bubba is definitely a Serbian old lady in her head. 1764 01:33:45,280 --> 01:33:47,160 Speaker 1: But some people they don't have it, and I'm just 1765 01:33:47,240 --> 01:33:49,040 Speaker 1: not sure review if you don't have it, or if 1766 01:33:49,040 --> 01:33:51,560 Speaker 1: you just don't know when to stop. I mean, of 1767 01:33:51,640 --> 01:33:53,479 Speaker 1: course I talk to myself all day and see it. 1768 01:33:53,640 --> 01:33:58,680 Speaker 1: Sometimes you have it. Sometimes it's internally. Sometimes it's just 1769 01:33:59,000 --> 01:34:01,360 Speaker 1: know you have it, because you'll sit in that room 1770 01:34:01,400 --> 01:34:03,200 Speaker 1: and go, Okay, I gotta do this now, I gotta 1771 01:34:03,200 --> 01:34:04,560 Speaker 1: do this. Now, I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna do this. 1772 01:34:04,760 --> 01:34:06,920 Speaker 1: You're you're, you're, you're interacting with your brain, but you 1773 01:34:07,040 --> 01:34:09,000 Speaker 1: say it out loud. Yeah, gotta hear you do it 1774 01:34:09,120 --> 01:34:10,560 Speaker 1: all the time, when the rest of us might do 1775 01:34:10,640 --> 01:34:15,400 Speaker 1: that inside more than others. Okay, so that's external, gotcha. 1776 01:34:15,560 --> 01:34:18,320 Speaker 1: But I think he's talking to his brain but out loud, 1777 01:34:18,400 --> 01:34:20,280 Speaker 1: like we can hear it. Well, I'm aware of that. Six. 1778 01:34:20,520 --> 01:34:22,360 Speaker 1: But he's saying he doesn't have internal dialogue at all. 1779 01:34:22,400 --> 01:34:23,639 Speaker 1: And I don't think I think you do. I think 1780 01:34:23,680 --> 01:34:25,560 Speaker 1: you have some I do, I think you do, but 1781 01:34:25,680 --> 01:34:28,040 Speaker 1: some people don't have it at all. I was amazed 1782 01:34:28,080 --> 01:34:30,320 Speaker 1: to learn that. And there you go. The more you 1783 01:34:30,439 --> 01:34:33,360 Speaker 1: know a moment. Right here we are basically we're NPR. 1784 01:34:33,680 --> 01:34:36,040 Speaker 1: This is educational. 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You got Don't move. NBA event app is 1811 01:36:00,479 --> 01:36:02,439 Speaker 1: where you can get tickets half off for the NBA 1812 01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:05,599 Speaker 1: Crossover event next weekend. Maybe peer NBA one h three 1813 01:36:05,720 --> 01:36:08,959 Speaker 1: five one word if you want to hook up. Tangie's 1814 01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:14,960 Speaker 1: Entertainment Reports. Yeah, well, this is some sad news this morning. 1815 01:36:15,120 --> 01:36:18,639 Speaker 1: Shannon Doherty is fighting breast cancer again. She was talking 1816 01:36:18,720 --> 01:36:21,639 Speaker 1: with Good Morning America Got Real and wanting the public 1817 01:36:21,720 --> 01:36:24,000 Speaker 1: to not find out somewhere else. She said, it's going 1818 01:36:24,080 --> 01:36:25,400 Speaker 1: to come out in a matter of days or a 1819 01:36:25,439 --> 01:36:29,400 Speaker 1: week that I'm Stage four. So my cancer came back. 1820 01:36:29,600 --> 01:36:31,960 Speaker 1: That's why I'm here. I don't think I've processed it. 1821 01:36:32,200 --> 01:36:34,400 Speaker 1: It's a bitter pill to swallow in a lot of ways. 1822 01:36:35,080 --> 01:36:37,040 Speaker 1: The forty eight year old nine or two one actress 1823 01:36:37,120 --> 01:36:39,720 Speaker 1: Captain news to herself while working on the show's reboot. 1824 01:36:39,840 --> 01:36:42,120 Speaker 1: One of the reasons she didn't make this part of 1825 01:36:42,160 --> 01:36:44,760 Speaker 1: her battle public was the need to prove that she 1826 01:36:44,840 --> 01:36:47,600 Speaker 1: could still work. It turns out that she's in this 1827 01:36:47,760 --> 01:36:51,120 Speaker 1: battle with State Farm Insurance over a wildfire claim and 1828 01:36:51,320 --> 01:36:55,400 Speaker 1: court documents will detail her cancer situation and those will 1829 01:36:55,479 --> 01:36:58,560 Speaker 1: probably be made public shortly, so she's just kind of 1830 01:36:58,600 --> 01:37:02,719 Speaker 1: getting ahead of the news. But sad. The Academy Awards 1831 01:37:02,840 --> 01:37:06,439 Speaker 1: ninety first Academy Awards the Oscars on Sunday. Only a 1832 01:37:06,560 --> 01:37:10,760 Speaker 1: select fee will take home that statue. The statue is 1833 01:37:10,800 --> 01:37:12,720 Speaker 1: twenty four care of gold plated, by the way, and 1834 01:37:12,760 --> 01:37:15,720 Speaker 1: it's worth four hundred dollars. But the gift bags that 1835 01:37:15,800 --> 01:37:18,679 Speaker 1: they get are now valued at one hundred and forty 1836 01:37:18,720 --> 01:37:23,080 Speaker 1: eight thousand dollars. Wow. Yeah. In addition to physical gifts, 1837 01:37:23,160 --> 01:37:26,360 Speaker 1: nominees are given vouchers to redeem the big ticket items, 1838 01:37:26,680 --> 01:37:29,080 Speaker 1: such as this year's most expensive gift, which is a 1839 01:37:29,200 --> 01:37:33,400 Speaker 1: luxury cruise for two to Iceland, the Galapagos, the Amazon 1840 01:37:33,640 --> 01:37:37,280 Speaker 1: or Central America, with spot treatments, private chef all included. 1841 01:37:37,920 --> 01:37:41,120 Speaker 1: Depending on the location. That trip's value ranges from fifteen 1842 01:37:41,160 --> 01:37:43,519 Speaker 1: to twenty one thousand dollars. I'm still caught up in 1843 01:37:43,560 --> 01:37:45,000 Speaker 1: a fag. You have to pay tax, and I'm sure 1844 01:37:45,000 --> 01:37:47,519 Speaker 1: even though they're super rich, they are too because they're 1845 01:37:47,560 --> 01:37:50,200 Speaker 1: probably thinking this isn't really free, Like if I take 1846 01:37:50,280 --> 01:37:54,040 Speaker 1: this this Joskey, then I gotta pay for it indavertently, yeah, indirectly, 1847 01:37:54,120 --> 01:37:56,320 Speaker 1: so you know. Among the other gifts are a one 1848 01:37:56,400 --> 01:37:59,760 Speaker 1: week inclusive stay at the Golden Door Spa that starts 1849 01:37:59,800 --> 01:38:03,240 Speaker 1: at nine thousand, fashion jewelry from Miliana four hundred ninety five, 1850 01:38:03,600 --> 01:38:07,240 Speaker 1: a bottle of French absynthe for sixty bucks, and up 1851 01:38:07,240 --> 01:38:11,040 Speaker 1: to thirty thousand dollars in non surgical rejuvenation treatments from 1852 01:38:11,400 --> 01:38:15,800 Speaker 1: Manhattan Spa. So, I mean, yes, you do have to 1853 01:38:15,880 --> 01:38:19,920 Speaker 1: pay attacks on that, but there are some celebrities that 1854 01:38:20,080 --> 01:38:22,960 Speaker 1: take that swag bag and donate it to charity and 1855 01:38:23,080 --> 01:38:25,360 Speaker 1: then they have the tax break. So yeah, I mean, 1856 01:38:25,400 --> 01:38:28,960 Speaker 1: you're basically giving somebody a tax break. Really. Apparently, sources 1857 01:38:29,000 --> 01:38:31,519 Speaker 1: from Rock Nation are speaking out about jay Z trying 1858 01:38:31,600 --> 01:38:35,040 Speaker 1: to pressure Jennifer Lopez into cutting a segment about the 1859 01:38:35,080 --> 01:38:38,680 Speaker 1: border crisis. The political statement was Jennifer's idea, and it 1860 01:38:38,800 --> 01:38:42,479 Speaker 1: was in response to the Trump administration's immigration policy detaining 1861 01:38:42,600 --> 01:38:45,719 Speaker 1: undocumented miners and placing them in cages. If you noticed 1862 01:38:45,760 --> 01:38:49,040 Speaker 1: her daughter and all the kids on stage, they were 1863 01:38:49,040 --> 01:38:53,639 Speaker 1: all encaged. Yeah, there was a lot of messages there, 1864 01:38:53,760 --> 01:38:56,639 Speaker 1: but jay Z was worried the segment would upset the NFL, 1865 01:38:58,120 --> 01:39:01,120 Speaker 1: and so the reason Rock Nation speaking out about it 1866 01:39:01,280 --> 01:39:03,880 Speaker 1: is because some are upset with a partnership at the NFL. 1867 01:39:04,000 --> 01:39:07,120 Speaker 1: Jennifer put her foot down and insisted on keeping this segments. 1868 01:39:07,160 --> 01:39:09,839 Speaker 1: Sources also say that jay Z spoke to her personally 1869 01:39:09,880 --> 01:39:11,560 Speaker 1: and tried to get her to change her mind, but 1870 01:39:11,680 --> 01:39:15,080 Speaker 1: she said no. So I'm glad that she went through 1871 01:39:15,160 --> 01:39:18,160 Speaker 1: with her statement. More to check out online today. Speaking 1872 01:39:18,200 --> 01:39:22,080 Speaker 1: of Jennifer Lopez, she did look at the halftime show 1873 01:39:22,560 --> 01:39:26,559 Speaker 1: and is sharing every single product, all the makeup, every 1874 01:39:26,640 --> 01:39:29,200 Speaker 1: product that she used for that look that day. You 1875 01:39:29,280 --> 01:39:31,599 Speaker 1: want the j LO glow, go see what they are. 1876 01:39:31,720 --> 01:39:36,320 Speaker 1: Fred Angie dot com What's trending in Chicago with Fred 1877 01:39:36,360 --> 01:39:39,160 Speaker 1: and Angie on one of three five kiss. I still 1878 01:39:39,200 --> 01:39:41,599 Speaker 1: don't think we know who won the Iowa CAUCUSUS first 1879 01:39:41,640 --> 01:39:44,919 Speaker 1: in a nation presidential CAUCUSUS. They took place in Iowa yesterday, 1880 01:39:45,800 --> 01:39:49,400 Speaker 1: crawling towards completion, Chaos and disarray of apparently paralyzed the 1881 01:39:49,479 --> 01:39:52,800 Speaker 1: process after the state party announced you'd have found inconsistencies 1882 01:39:52,840 --> 01:39:55,800 Speaker 1: in reporting the result. Supposedly sometime today we'll get the 1883 01:39:55,840 --> 01:40:00,360 Speaker 1: result that after a hand count, I have to meet 1884 01:40:00,439 --> 01:40:03,360 Speaker 1: quality checks. I don't know it's a mess. Apparely some 1885 01:40:03,479 --> 01:40:07,960 Speaker 1: problem with an app nder that the Super Bowl scored 1886 01:40:08,040 --> 01:40:11,240 Speaker 1: its first ratings increase in five years, which is under 1887 01:40:11,240 --> 01:40:14,800 Speaker 1: one hundred million viewers on average watching on Sunday ninety 1888 01:40:14,840 --> 01:40:17,360 Speaker 1: nine point nine million viewers on average the halftime show 1889 01:40:17,720 --> 01:40:21,560 Speaker 1: one hundred and three million viewers, up four percent or 1890 01:40:21,680 --> 01:40:25,120 Speaker 1: roughly three million on last year's Maroon five. However, I 1891 01:40:25,160 --> 01:40:29,720 Speaker 1: guess it was justin Timberlake in Minnesota that drew one 1892 01:40:29,840 --> 01:40:33,080 Speaker 1: hundred and six point six million total viewers, so that 1893 01:40:33,160 --> 01:40:36,599 Speaker 1: they're comparing it to that. Bill Murray's Groundhog Day JEEP 1894 01:40:36,640 --> 01:40:39,840 Speaker 1: ad finished first in USA Today's ad Meter. It ranked 1895 01:40:39,880 --> 01:40:42,760 Speaker 1: Super Bowl ads based on consumer ratings, with voters giving 1896 01:40:42,800 --> 01:40:45,479 Speaker 1: each at a score of one to ten. Hunday came 1897 01:40:45,560 --> 01:40:51,280 Speaker 1: in second, and the Google Loretta spot which made everybody cry, 1898 01:40:51,640 --> 01:40:55,639 Speaker 1: came in third. There was a Kobe tribute game on Friday. 1899 01:40:56,040 --> 01:40:58,880 Speaker 1: It was the Blazers in Los Angeles to play the Lakers. 1900 01:40:58,920 --> 01:41:02,840 Speaker 1: It was the second watched game on ESPN for the 1901 01:41:03,000 --> 01:41:05,120 Speaker 1: NBA in the history, the number one game, in case 1902 01:41:05,160 --> 01:41:08,479 Speaker 1: you were wondering, two thousand and three Lakers Rockets. The 1903 01:41:08,560 --> 01:41:11,760 Speaker 1: first matchup between Shaquille O'Neil and neal Ming. I was 1904 01:41:11,800 --> 01:41:13,599 Speaker 1: a very moving tribute, and we were talking about this earlier. 1905 01:41:13,640 --> 01:41:15,040 Speaker 1: But as I'm watching this, I'm going this thing that 1906 01:41:15,200 --> 01:41:18,000 Speaker 1: last like forty five minutes after warm ups and there 1907 01:41:18,000 --> 01:41:20,920 Speaker 1: were speeches, you know, Lebron Jim give A. I thought 1908 01:41:20,920 --> 01:41:23,599 Speaker 1: it was a really good speech. Yeah, considering he wasn't reading. 1909 01:41:23,720 --> 01:41:26,599 Speaker 1: They wanted him to read, I guess and then he said, yeah, 1910 01:41:26,600 --> 01:41:28,960 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that and he spoke from the heart. 1911 01:41:29,000 --> 01:41:30,679 Speaker 1: I thought he did a really good job, especially considering 1912 01:41:30,680 --> 01:41:32,200 Speaker 1: all the emotion. And then they had to go play 1913 01:41:32,200 --> 01:41:35,280 Speaker 1: a game, so it had to be kind of tough. 1914 01:41:35,320 --> 01:41:39,400 Speaker 1: The original Broadway cast for Hamilton is releasing a movie. 1915 01:41:39,520 --> 01:41:42,560 Speaker 1: Was filmed at Manhattan's Richard Rogers Theater in June of 1916 01:41:42,640 --> 01:41:45,360 Speaker 1: twenty sixteen, before the original cast started leaving the show, 1917 01:41:45,560 --> 01:41:47,160 Speaker 1: and now it was covering to the big screen. Disney 1918 01:41:47,200 --> 01:41:49,640 Speaker 1: spent seventy five million dollars on the rights, and it 1919 01:41:49,640 --> 01:41:53,080 Speaker 1: will be in theaters October fifteenth of twenty twenty one. 1920 01:41:53,479 --> 01:41:55,840 Speaker 1: Can't wait, you want to see the original cast. Duncan 1921 01:41:56,040 --> 01:41:59,920 Speaker 1: is releasing A Frank's Red Hot Jelly Donut, but only 1922 01:42:00,120 --> 01:42:03,040 Speaker 1: two locations. They're both in Miami. It's a donnut filled 1923 01:42:03,080 --> 01:42:06,720 Speaker 1: with a combination of apple and raspberry jelly top with 1924 01:42:06,840 --> 01:42:09,919 Speaker 1: white icing and then drizzled with Frank's Red Hot original 1925 01:42:10,000 --> 01:42:14,640 Speaker 1: Kayenne pepper sauce. Interesting. You gotta go to Miami if 1926 01:42:14,680 --> 01:42:17,040 Speaker 1: you want that. And General Mills announced to the popular 1927 01:42:17,160 --> 01:42:21,000 Speaker 1: nineteen nineties snack Dun't Cruise, we'll be making their return 1928 01:42:21,400 --> 01:42:25,080 Speaker 1: to stores this summer. The popular snack packs feature kangaroo 1929 01:42:25,120 --> 01:42:28,599 Speaker 1: shape cookies and frosting. They were discontinued in twenty twelve. 1930 01:42:29,200 --> 01:42:32,439 Speaker 1: They'll be back first at seven eleven locations and then 1931 01:42:32,680 --> 01:42:35,640 Speaker 1: convenience stores and grocery stores everywhere after that. If you 1932 01:42:35,680 --> 01:42:37,320 Speaker 1: want to eat those things. So I always I always 1933 01:42:37,320 --> 01:42:39,160 Speaker 1: do the food stories, you know. I love a good 1934 01:42:39,200 --> 01:42:43,479 Speaker 1: food story. Still love Duntu. Yeah, good National Hemp Day 1935 01:42:43,520 --> 01:42:47,120 Speaker 1: to Day, National Thank a Mail Carrier Day, National Homemade 1936 01:42:47,160 --> 01:42:49,919 Speaker 1: Soup Day. And I want to take our friendship Bisanas 1937 01:42:49,920 --> 01:42:51,559 Speaker 1: for the stacks of pizzas that I see over there. 1938 01:42:52,840 --> 01:42:57,000 Speaker 1: And it's National Pizza Day on Sunday, and they'll be 1939 01:42:57,080 --> 01:42:59,920 Speaker 1: celebrating throughout the entire week by offering their entire original 1940 01:43:00,080 --> 01:43:03,439 Speaker 1: pizza menu for almost half off the price of a 1941 01:43:03,479 --> 01:43:07,120 Speaker 1: pizza when they open in nineteen ninety one, so February 1942 01:43:07,200 --> 01:43:09,479 Speaker 1: three of the ninth, the ninth nine dining. The only 1943 01:43:09,800 --> 01:43:12,600 Speaker 1: shout out to Paisanos And when you go, if you 1944 01:43:12,640 --> 01:43:15,880 Speaker 1: don't want pizza, get the hot Mohammas pasta or Robert's favorite. 1945 01:43:15,920 --> 01:43:18,720 Speaker 1: I'm a fan of Robert's favorite pasta. What's that It's 1946 01:43:18,760 --> 01:43:23,360 Speaker 1: got like a garlic he's my friend? Um it's uh 1947 01:43:24,400 --> 01:43:29,080 Speaker 1: is a garlic oil pasta with sausage slices in it, 1948 01:43:29,200 --> 01:43:34,320 Speaker 1: Italian sausage slices, siege. Yeah, sauces. Yeah, you say like 1949 01:43:34,439 --> 01:43:35,840 Speaker 1: that too when you when you get it, I want 1950 01:43:35,960 --> 01:43:40,280 Speaker 1: Robert's favorite with the saucean. Yeah. They talk better than 1951 01:43:40,320 --> 01:43:42,920 Speaker 1: they type. These are the radio blogs with Bread and 1952 01:43:43,000 --> 01:43:46,680 Speaker 1: Any set us uptein six fifty and eight fifty. It's 1953 01:43:46,800 --> 01:43:49,599 Speaker 1: like running in our diaries, except we say them allowed. 1954 01:43:49,680 --> 01:43:52,080 Speaker 1: Paulina is doing a blog. Let's hear this. Thank you, 1955 01:43:52,439 --> 01:43:54,720 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you to your blog. So, you know, 1956 01:43:55,040 --> 01:43:57,439 Speaker 1: like hot grow winter is going good, right, you know, 1957 01:43:57,600 --> 01:44:00,720 Speaker 1: like single winter. It's fun. But things kind of like 1958 01:44:00,920 --> 01:44:03,240 Speaker 1: a little weird last week, for the past two weeks actually, 1959 01:44:03,880 --> 01:44:05,720 Speaker 1: So I'm only saying this because like I want to 1960 01:44:05,800 --> 01:44:07,800 Speaker 1: know if this is normal for people to ever feel this, 1961 01:44:07,920 --> 01:44:09,519 Speaker 1: and I kind of feel like I've heard it maybe 1962 01:44:09,560 --> 01:44:12,639 Speaker 1: from Angie two and your relationship when you first got 1963 01:44:12,680 --> 01:44:15,280 Speaker 1: with your husband, you've said that so heavy rufio, like 1964 01:44:15,600 --> 01:44:17,439 Speaker 1: you kind of just know when you know, you know, 1965 01:44:18,120 --> 01:44:19,720 Speaker 1: so okay, you'll hear me out, they'll hear me out. 1966 01:44:20,000 --> 01:44:22,519 Speaker 1: So like I had met this guy, right, and I 1967 01:44:22,600 --> 01:44:24,760 Speaker 1: don't like believe in hanging out every day type thing, 1968 01:44:25,000 --> 01:44:27,280 Speaker 1: but it's kind of been at and I don't mind 1969 01:44:27,400 --> 01:44:30,479 Speaker 1: his company. Yeah, I don't mind it. He's kind of 1970 01:44:30,520 --> 01:44:33,080 Speaker 1: like my ideal man. He's Dominican in Puerto Rican from 1971 01:44:33,120 --> 01:44:35,000 Speaker 1: New York, which I would find the only one here 1972 01:44:35,040 --> 01:44:37,400 Speaker 1: in Chicago. And I was like, this is kind of cool, 1973 01:44:37,439 --> 01:44:38,920 Speaker 1: you're not from here. I like that because it's like 1974 01:44:39,000 --> 01:44:41,640 Speaker 1: I get to show you stuff, you know. And like 1975 01:44:41,760 --> 01:44:44,080 Speaker 1: he made a comment to me the other day that 1976 01:44:44,240 --> 01:44:46,840 Speaker 1: basically like reassured me that like he understands like what 1977 01:44:47,000 --> 01:44:49,400 Speaker 1: I do for a living here, like he get he 1978 01:44:49,520 --> 01:44:51,320 Speaker 1: gets it. And when he said that line to me, 1979 01:44:51,760 --> 01:44:53,800 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna marry this man, because I've 1980 01:44:53,920 --> 01:44:56,439 Speaker 1: never heard anybody saying I get it, like I get 1981 01:44:58,400 --> 01:45:00,880 Speaker 1: Let's talk to me in six months. Well here we 1982 01:45:00,920 --> 01:45:05,240 Speaker 1: are like, yeah, but that's that's definitely a start. I 1983 01:45:05,240 --> 01:45:06,720 Speaker 1: don't mean that you get it. I don't mean that 1984 01:45:06,800 --> 01:45:08,960 Speaker 1: this isn't no different. I don't know, but I'm saying 1985 01:45:09,200 --> 01:45:11,120 Speaker 1: people will tell you they get it, but then they 1986 01:45:11,200 --> 01:45:13,040 Speaker 1: got to live it. And and I will admit I 1987 01:45:13,080 --> 01:45:15,360 Speaker 1: don't think it's easy for those people, like, oh, yeah, 1988 01:45:15,400 --> 01:45:16,960 Speaker 1: I like your job, I support you or whatever, and 1989 01:45:17,040 --> 01:45:19,439 Speaker 1: then but then let's you just gotta play it out. Yeah, 1990 01:45:19,479 --> 01:45:21,360 Speaker 1: that's true. Wait for his friends to listen to you, 1991 01:45:21,479 --> 01:45:23,200 Speaker 1: wait for him to talk to you about it, wait 1992 01:45:23,240 --> 01:45:25,880 Speaker 1: for him to hear stories on the air. I'm just 1993 01:45:26,000 --> 01:45:28,640 Speaker 1: saying it's cool that he says he gets it, but 1994 01:45:28,760 --> 01:45:31,840 Speaker 1: let's I just never heard that. I'm saying about that. 1995 01:45:32,760 --> 01:45:34,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just like kind of like feel 1996 01:45:34,280 --> 01:45:35,880 Speaker 1: like the whole like when you know, you know a thing, 1997 01:45:35,960 --> 01:45:37,720 Speaker 1: like I've never felt that in my life, and even 1998 01:45:37,800 --> 01:45:40,280 Speaker 1: like with him and stuff, like he makes comments to 1999 01:45:40,360 --> 01:45:42,360 Speaker 1: me that I'm just like, I I agree, like he's 2000 01:45:42,400 --> 01:45:43,880 Speaker 1: like I know we just met, but like I like, 2001 01:45:44,080 --> 01:45:46,400 Speaker 1: you know, I feel like he's feeling the same kind 2002 01:45:46,439 --> 01:45:52,040 Speaker 1: of Yeah, I don't feel far this is exciting exciting? 2003 01:45:53,160 --> 01:46:00,800 Speaker 1: Yea are we gonna have a DTR conversation and soon 2004 01:46:01,000 --> 01:46:04,000 Speaker 1: define the relationship. I don't know. I don't like want 2005 01:46:04,080 --> 01:46:06,800 Speaker 1: too yet. It's literally been like two weeks. That's really quick. 2006 01:46:06,920 --> 01:46:09,400 Speaker 1: But my one of my best friends, she literally just 2007 01:46:09,520 --> 01:46:11,360 Speaker 1: got with her man like a month ago, and they're 2008 01:46:11,360 --> 01:46:13,200 Speaker 1: about some moving together and it's moving that quick too, 2009 01:46:13,240 --> 01:46:14,960 Speaker 1: And I'm like, why is everyone moving so fast? Like 2010 01:46:15,040 --> 01:46:17,120 Speaker 1: around me? Would you be upset if he started dating 2011 01:46:17,160 --> 01:46:20,040 Speaker 1: somebody else? Yes? Okay, so yeah you like him? Yeah 2012 01:46:20,040 --> 01:46:26,320 Speaker 1: I do like him. Good for you. You're excited for you? Boy? Yeah, 2013 01:46:26,640 --> 01:46:30,680 Speaker 1: she said she knew that's what she's you know you do. 2014 01:46:30,960 --> 01:46:32,080 Speaker 1: I mean like, I don't want to be all like 2015 01:46:32,160 --> 01:46:34,560 Speaker 1: dramatic about it, you know, because I don't know. But 2016 01:46:34,720 --> 01:46:38,240 Speaker 1: he's just like take it excited, get all butterflies, all 2017 01:46:38,320 --> 01:46:41,560 Speaker 1: that I do. That's a great feeling. Good for you, 2018 01:46:41,920 --> 01:46:44,200 Speaker 1: Good for you, it is. It's the best. I'm really 2019 01:46:44,240 --> 01:46:47,920 Speaker 1: excited for Your relationships are exciting. Don't listen to friend 2020 01:46:47,960 --> 01:46:53,519 Speaker 1: on any relationship advice. YEA, what do I know? I 2021 01:46:53,600 --> 01:46:56,280 Speaker 1: think I have a really good perspective on other people's situations. 2022 01:46:56,320 --> 01:46:58,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if I do it as good of 2023 01:46:58,200 --> 01:47:00,759 Speaker 1: a job in my own. By the way, speaking of DTR, 2024 01:47:00,880 --> 01:47:03,360 Speaker 1: was it messed up at me? Um, which means he 2025 01:47:03,400 --> 01:47:05,519 Speaker 1: answous Probably yes, but if I have to ask, But 2026 01:47:06,640 --> 01:47:09,960 Speaker 1: somebody emailed me who I don't know that well you 2027 01:47:10,240 --> 01:47:14,479 Speaker 1: and you know who it is, and um and and 2028 01:47:15,080 --> 01:47:17,200 Speaker 1: ask me a question about the show. This is something 2029 01:47:17,240 --> 01:47:18,519 Speaker 1: I don't know that well. But we have had some 2030 01:47:18,640 --> 01:47:21,920 Speaker 1: interaction with professionally, and back when I was in a 2031 01:47:21,960 --> 01:47:24,800 Speaker 1: relationship and I was very focused and whatever, now I'm not. 2032 01:47:25,400 --> 01:47:29,040 Speaker 1: And I said, Um, I actually blamed you. Uh in 2033 01:47:29,160 --> 01:47:31,000 Speaker 1: the thing said I said that you and I wish's not. 2034 01:47:31,200 --> 01:47:32,800 Speaker 1: This is not a lie. I said, you and I 2035 01:47:32,840 --> 01:47:35,240 Speaker 1: were debating whether she had a boyfriend or not. This 2036 01:47:35,400 --> 01:47:37,920 Speaker 1: is true. We did have this debate. And um and 2037 01:47:38,080 --> 01:47:40,799 Speaker 1: she said, well, I'm currently trying to lock down somebody 2038 01:47:40,920 --> 01:47:43,920 Speaker 1: from from a dating app and trying. She said that 2039 01:47:43,960 --> 01:47:45,960 Speaker 1: it was her words, I'm trying to lock it down 2040 01:47:46,040 --> 01:47:49,760 Speaker 1: in DTR. And I said, my response to the email was, well, 2041 01:47:49,800 --> 01:47:51,439 Speaker 1: when he screws it up, I want to be the 2042 01:47:51,520 --> 01:48:00,360 Speaker 1: first today. Is that bad? That bad? It was on her? 2043 01:48:00,479 --> 01:48:04,880 Speaker 1: I knew no, no, no seat. When I was saying 2044 01:48:04,920 --> 01:48:06,840 Speaker 1: the timeline, I'm just saying I looked at you in 2045 01:48:06,920 --> 01:48:11,240 Speaker 1: your little hard eyes. Nope, I was extremely well behaved, 2046 01:48:11,760 --> 01:48:14,439 Speaker 1: and you're well behaved. But I just know you very 2047 01:48:14,520 --> 01:48:19,000 Speaker 1: well well anyway, Yeah, no, but I think she didn't 2048 01:48:19,000 --> 01:48:22,080 Speaker 1: respond to that, so I don't think. I don't think 2049 01:48:22,120 --> 01:48:24,439 Speaker 1: that it worked. I don't think it. I don't think 2050 01:48:24,439 --> 01:48:27,080 Speaker 1: it went planted the seed though, Yeah, planted a seed. 2051 01:48:27,240 --> 01:48:29,400 Speaker 1: Did you ask her what dating if she's on? She 2052 01:48:29,520 --> 01:48:31,280 Speaker 1: told me which one? A guy said that to me 2053 01:48:31,400 --> 01:48:34,200 Speaker 1: once when I was in a relationship, and as soon 2054 01:48:34,240 --> 01:48:35,880 Speaker 1: as I got out of the relationship, he's the first 2055 01:48:35,920 --> 01:48:37,360 Speaker 1: person I called she. But I do have to say 2056 01:48:37,400 --> 01:48:39,200 Speaker 1: this if she if she had said to me, I 2057 01:48:39,320 --> 01:48:42,439 Speaker 1: have a boyfriend, what I wouldn't have done is said, 2058 01:48:42,800 --> 01:48:44,720 Speaker 1: oh well he ain't good or would he break would 2059 01:48:44,720 --> 01:48:47,000 Speaker 1: you break up with him? Or you know, no, no, no, no, 2060 01:48:47,479 --> 01:48:50,000 Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying, Like I guys do 2061 01:48:50,200 --> 01:48:53,760 Speaker 1: that where they're no, I don't. I don't do the 2062 01:48:53,920 --> 01:48:56,640 Speaker 1: thing where I'm respectful enough to say you purposely get 2063 01:48:56,680 --> 01:48:59,320 Speaker 1: the name wrong. Just let me know what I don't know, 2064 01:48:59,479 --> 01:49:00,800 Speaker 1: Like I don't. I don't want to be the guy 2065 01:49:00,880 --> 01:49:03,160 Speaker 1: who's like, oh well, I'm better than him. You're in 2066 01:49:03,200 --> 01:49:05,120 Speaker 1: a relationship like I can respect it, I mean, not 2067 01:49:05,280 --> 01:49:07,880 Speaker 1: like it. She's not in a relationship yet. She said 2068 01:49:07,920 --> 01:49:10,200 Speaker 1: she was trying to get there. I told you, and 2069 01:49:10,280 --> 01:49:12,000 Speaker 1: all I said was if it doesn't work out, I 2070 01:49:12,040 --> 01:49:14,080 Speaker 1: want to be the first to know. Now you would 2071 01:49:14,080 --> 01:49:15,679 Speaker 1: think it you would get some kind of nice reply, 2072 01:49:15,840 --> 01:49:18,559 Speaker 1: like if she were interested, like I'll keep that in mind, right, 2073 01:49:18,880 --> 01:49:20,840 Speaker 1: But I didn't get that sounds fine. I don't know. 2074 01:49:21,040 --> 01:49:23,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I would just you know, put it rainy day. 2075 01:49:24,280 --> 01:49:26,719 Speaker 1: I wrote that, that little nugget. I wrote that without 2076 01:49:26,760 --> 01:49:29,160 Speaker 1: even thinking. I wasn't even thinking. I just did it 2077 01:49:29,360 --> 01:49:31,719 Speaker 1: on my phone. I said, I'm like, oh, wait a minute, 2078 01:49:32,120 --> 01:49:35,040 Speaker 1: should I have done Oh god, damn right, I did 2079 01:49:35,560 --> 01:49:44,400 Speaker 1: internal monologue? Yeah, I was external. Shouldn't. I don't regret that. 2080 01:49:44,760 --> 01:49:46,439 Speaker 1: I mean it. I mean it. I don't want her 2081 01:49:46,479 --> 01:49:49,080 Speaker 1: to not have success. But I also think it's weird. 2082 01:49:49,120 --> 01:49:50,880 Speaker 1: Are really pretty girl like that? It's like I'm trying 2083 01:49:50,880 --> 01:49:52,640 Speaker 1: to lock this guy down. Like that says to me 2084 01:49:52,800 --> 01:49:57,200 Speaker 1: that pretty girls have to lock something. I just all right, 2085 01:49:57,320 --> 01:50:01,680 Speaker 1: let's not what I I'm saying. Is I so you're 2086 01:50:01,720 --> 01:50:05,719 Speaker 1: think you're really pretty that I do. I'm not saying 2087 01:50:05,880 --> 01:50:08,800 Speaker 1: pretty girls don't have you know, UH have to do 2088 01:50:08,960 --> 01:50:12,519 Speaker 1: things too. I'm saying, I just ugly I do shut 2089 01:50:12,600 --> 01:50:15,720 Speaker 1: up to hold them down. I'm just saying we have 2090 01:50:15,800 --> 01:50:18,519 Speaker 1: to water board them in a submission like Yes, in 2091 01:50:18,640 --> 01:50:20,960 Speaker 1: my opinion, this dude, in my opinion, there should be 2092 01:50:21,040 --> 01:50:24,840 Speaker 1: no question from this dude about locking it down. That's 2093 01:50:24,840 --> 01:50:27,360 Speaker 1: all I'm saying. That's just based on looks. So we 2094 01:50:27,400 --> 01:50:30,360 Speaker 1: don't know. Well, she seems like a nice human being. 2095 01:50:30,439 --> 01:50:33,200 Speaker 1: Now I don't know. Yeah, certainly, certainly from looks. What's 2096 01:50:33,240 --> 01:50:36,479 Speaker 1: this guy doing? Yeah, you know, but that's fine. Go 2097 01:50:36,520 --> 01:50:40,120 Speaker 1: ahead and deally dally ahead and Billy dallly dog. She 2098 01:50:40,200 --> 01:50:43,400 Speaker 1: can hook it up. I'm gonna send to this audio email. Nope, 2099 01:50:44,400 --> 01:50:46,120 Speaker 1: I want you to date her so we can use 2100 01:50:46,320 --> 01:50:50,760 Speaker 1: her use Yeah, I want her to be the plug. 2101 01:50:50,960 --> 01:50:53,479 Speaker 1: I'm still healing, guys, I'm still healing. Okay, Well, when 2102 01:50:53,520 --> 01:50:55,240 Speaker 1: you're done healing and you date her, can you get me? 2103 01:50:55,320 --> 01:50:59,640 Speaker 1: I mean I could, I could, really could you get 2104 01:50:59,680 --> 01:51:01,240 Speaker 1: her to look it up for me? I think she 2105 01:51:01,360 --> 01:51:08,640 Speaker 1: might have the e lixer. Oh my gosh, I don't know. 2106 01:51:09,479 --> 01:51:14,759 Speaker 1: I'm just being an idiot as always. Dear blog, speaking 2107 01:51:14,800 --> 01:51:16,760 Speaker 1: of being a big fat loser, I told you that 2108 01:51:21,320 --> 01:51:23,599 Speaker 1: I told you that. After the wedding, my sister's wedding, 2109 01:51:23,600 --> 01:51:26,800 Speaker 1: I just had this like the next day, I had 2110 01:51:26,840 --> 01:51:29,599 Speaker 1: this epiphany that I'm and I mean really like, I'm 2111 01:51:29,600 --> 01:51:31,040 Speaker 1: not even trying to be funny here. I felt like 2112 01:51:31,120 --> 01:51:35,040 Speaker 1: a big fat loser. Um, I feel like I've done 2113 01:51:35,040 --> 01:51:37,479 Speaker 1: okay in life, and I've had some success and I, 2114 01:51:37,600 --> 01:51:39,640 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know whatever, I haven't screwed up 2115 01:51:39,720 --> 01:51:42,920 Speaker 1: life too badly. But the next day, I wake up 2116 01:51:42,920 --> 01:51:46,080 Speaker 1: in my parents' house and here in Arizona, and here's 2117 01:51:46,120 --> 01:51:49,200 Speaker 1: my sister married off, you know, on her little staycation 2118 01:51:49,320 --> 01:51:51,680 Speaker 1: over here, and she got her life together, and I'm 2119 01:51:51,720 --> 01:51:53,880 Speaker 1: just sort of flailing over here. And I felt a 2120 01:51:53,880 --> 01:51:56,479 Speaker 1: little bad about myself. And to make matters worse, I 2121 01:51:56,520 --> 01:51:58,439 Speaker 1: think I'm gonna go to Arizona next week because it's 2122 01:51:58,720 --> 01:52:01,680 Speaker 1: a long weekend your parents house. Say back to my 2123 01:52:01,800 --> 01:52:05,040 Speaker 1: parents house where I has to drive my mom's car 2124 01:52:05,160 --> 01:52:08,360 Speaker 1: around where that says her name on the license plate, 2125 01:52:08,520 --> 01:52:11,320 Speaker 1: so I can't even pose like it's mine. Um, I 2126 01:52:11,400 --> 01:52:13,160 Speaker 1: took a big fat loser. I'm gonna go back there 2127 01:52:13,200 --> 01:52:16,360 Speaker 1: because whatever. And then I realized, as after I sort 2128 01:52:16,400 --> 01:52:18,160 Speaker 1: of started looking at the dates that One of the 2129 01:52:18,200 --> 01:52:20,200 Speaker 1: days i'll be there is Valentine's Day, which means I 2130 01:52:20,240 --> 01:52:22,479 Speaker 1: wind up going to dinner with my parents on Valentine. 2131 01:52:22,520 --> 01:52:23,960 Speaker 1: Why do you have to go with them? Because they 2132 01:52:24,000 --> 01:52:26,680 Speaker 1: won't let me not go because maybe you have something 2133 01:52:26,720 --> 01:52:29,160 Speaker 1: to do, because I'll say to them, please go on 2134 01:52:29,320 --> 01:52:31,080 Speaker 1: your own and I'm just gonna like sit at home 2135 01:52:31,120 --> 01:52:33,040 Speaker 1: and watch Live Pet like a big fat loser in 2136 01:52:33,160 --> 01:52:35,560 Speaker 1: time with your dogs. Yes, yeah, I'll hang out with 2137 01:52:35,640 --> 01:52:38,800 Speaker 1: my dogs. They're my Valentine's anyway, you know, the one 2138 01:52:38,880 --> 01:52:41,599 Speaker 1: piece all over me and the other one hardly wants 2139 01:52:41,640 --> 01:52:43,759 Speaker 1: to be around me either. I think Lily even realize 2140 01:52:43,880 --> 01:52:45,439 Speaker 1: what a loser I am, Like, can you go find 2141 01:52:45,479 --> 01:52:49,599 Speaker 1: a wife? That means they're claiming they want they claiming. 2142 01:52:49,640 --> 01:52:53,439 Speaker 1: You watch his Oliver's still a puppy and every time 2143 01:52:53,439 --> 01:52:55,600 Speaker 1: he gets excited he piece and stay with me. I 2144 01:52:56,160 --> 01:52:57,880 Speaker 1: do them and I'm about thirty nine and I still 2145 01:52:57,920 --> 01:53:00,320 Speaker 1: do that anyway. So I realized I'm thinking, like, should 2146 01:53:00,400 --> 01:53:02,720 Speaker 1: not even bother with this trip, Like should not even 2147 01:53:02,800 --> 01:53:06,720 Speaker 1: go because I don't want to be the day and 2148 01:53:07,080 --> 01:53:09,559 Speaker 1: nobody cares see block my parents, it's not that big 2149 01:53:09,600 --> 01:53:11,679 Speaker 1: of a deal. Tell me you have a date with yourself, 2150 01:53:13,560 --> 01:53:15,120 Speaker 1: know what I mean. You're not a loser, friend, I 2151 01:53:15,200 --> 01:53:17,240 Speaker 1: have a date with myself. Every everybody knows that I 2152 01:53:17,400 --> 01:53:20,639 Speaker 1: date myself on the regular, going on bachelor parties every weekend. 2153 01:53:21,120 --> 01:53:24,000 Speaker 1: You know, you're very successful in life. No, and I 2154 01:53:24,080 --> 01:53:25,920 Speaker 1: appreciate it, and I'm not thank you. And I'm not 2155 01:53:26,000 --> 01:53:31,680 Speaker 1: because he's saying, like my sisters, your sisters, they're comparing timelines, 2156 01:53:31,720 --> 01:53:33,960 Speaker 1: and that's like, you know, everybody's on their own path. 2157 01:53:34,080 --> 01:53:36,439 Speaker 1: I'm not honest to God, I'm not bringing this up 2158 01:53:36,479 --> 01:53:39,320 Speaker 1: so that people can say no, no, no, I'm just rock. 2159 01:53:39,560 --> 01:53:43,280 Speaker 1: If anyone has experienced this before, maybe a sibling or 2160 01:53:43,320 --> 01:53:46,280 Speaker 1: a close friend, you know, seems to like at some 2161 01:53:46,400 --> 01:53:50,720 Speaker 1: moment you sort of compare and go, yeah, maybe I'm 2162 01:53:50,760 --> 01:53:52,080 Speaker 1: not doing it right, you know what I mean. And 2163 01:53:52,160 --> 01:53:53,880 Speaker 1: that's that's kind of the way I felt about the 2164 01:53:54,200 --> 01:53:56,920 Speaker 1: day after this wedding. I was like, I got my 2165 01:53:57,040 --> 01:54:00,720 Speaker 1: first kaylin An guest invite. That was felt weird. I 2166 01:54:00,760 --> 01:54:03,840 Speaker 1: haven't had one of those other you know, And so 2167 01:54:03,960 --> 01:54:05,360 Speaker 1: what do you now that you don't have like the 2168 01:54:05,840 --> 01:54:08,599 Speaker 1: the built in date because you're not dating the boyfriend anymore. 2169 01:54:09,240 --> 01:54:11,080 Speaker 1: Uh No, now you're in the same predicament I'm in, 2170 01:54:11,160 --> 01:54:13,960 Speaker 1: which is who do you bring and how does it 2171 01:54:14,080 --> 01:54:16,960 Speaker 1: look to them? And will they behave themselves? And what 2172 01:54:17,040 --> 01:54:19,920 Speaker 1: are their expectations. I have a wedding in Mexico. I 2173 01:54:20,040 --> 01:54:23,280 Speaker 1: purposely don't bring people. I wouldn't bring anyone yourself in 2174 01:54:23,280 --> 01:54:27,280 Speaker 1: the country. No, I'd go buy yourself and pick up 2175 01:54:27,280 --> 01:54:30,439 Speaker 1: the straggler or someone. But going to Mexican, I'm not 2176 01:54:30,600 --> 01:54:33,080 Speaker 1: going to Mexico and getting kidnapped by myself. Well no, 2177 01:54:33,360 --> 01:54:35,000 Speaker 1: but I'm You're gonna be with a group of people 2178 01:54:35,080 --> 01:54:36,720 Speaker 1: right now. They all have dates, and they all have 2179 01:54:36,800 --> 01:54:38,520 Speaker 1: seferent fans to get there in different days. I'm not 2180 01:54:38,520 --> 01:54:43,920 Speaker 1: gonna like myself. Okay, first, not in Mexico for a 2181 01:54:44,000 --> 01:54:46,200 Speaker 1: typical wedding. I used to love going single. How did 2182 01:54:46,200 --> 01:54:48,280 Speaker 1: that go two weeks ago? For it? Where it was 2183 01:54:48,840 --> 01:54:51,320 Speaker 1: what do my sister's wedding? Yeah, that's a little different. 2184 01:54:52,160 --> 01:54:54,040 Speaker 1: I have. I have an actual reputation to a pull 2185 01:54:54,080 --> 01:54:57,560 Speaker 1: to my sister's. If I gonna Joe blows wedding in 2186 01:54:57,680 --> 01:55:02,040 Speaker 1: Mexico and I'm like, okay, I don't care, you know 2187 01:55:02,080 --> 01:55:03,520 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like it's I don't I'm not as 2188 01:55:03,560 --> 01:55:05,879 Speaker 1: concerned about that I was, these are my sister's friends 2189 01:55:05,960 --> 01:55:09,360 Speaker 1: and my parents are there, and again the big fan 2190 01:55:09,480 --> 01:55:11,840 Speaker 1: loser going back to my parents house at the end 2191 01:55:11,880 --> 01:55:14,680 Speaker 1: of the night, like, hey man, it's a lifestyle for 2192 01:55:14,760 --> 01:55:19,200 Speaker 1: some of us. Yeah, that's true, traff, I don't want 2193 01:55:19,200 --> 01:55:21,320 Speaker 1: Maybe you're a bigger loser than me. Oh my god, 2194 01:55:21,400 --> 01:55:24,040 Speaker 1: put that finger down, but you're not. That's right. I 2195 01:55:24,760 --> 01:55:33,080 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know who. I hear that guy's 2196 01:55:33,160 --> 01:55:38,040 Speaker 1: running back to right now. Delay he's on his way. 2197 01:55:39,280 --> 01:55:44,840 Speaker 1: Let's see Puerto Rican New York, that supportive career. If 2198 01:55:44,880 --> 01:55:46,880 Speaker 1: he was, you know, on the roads, he might want 2199 01:55:46,880 --> 01:55:51,640 Speaker 1: to want to hear about there, because just beard off 2200 01:55:51,680 --> 01:55:54,120 Speaker 1: the road. Let me tell you. Let me tell you 2201 01:55:54,160 --> 01:55:56,160 Speaker 1: the line. Though, if he heard that and he says 2202 01:55:56,200 --> 01:55:57,800 Speaker 1: something to you and he's acting weird, be like, you know, 2203 01:55:57,880 --> 01:56:00,120 Speaker 1: I'm just it was about someone else's No, no, no, 2204 01:56:00,560 --> 01:56:03,400 Speaker 1: this is what you gotta learn. I hate girl, I 2205 01:56:03,480 --> 01:56:06,560 Speaker 1: got a persona. Yeah, you know, I'm just I gotta say, guy, 2206 01:56:06,720 --> 01:56:09,880 Speaker 1: I'm just a character. I'm just playing a character of myself. 2207 01:56:11,400 --> 01:56:14,360 Speaker 1: We're just we're entertainers, man. We gotta say stuff to 2208 01:56:14,400 --> 01:56:17,480 Speaker 1: get a reaction. I mean, it's true, but you need 2209 01:56:17,520 --> 01:56:19,000 Speaker 1: to get used to using that because it will get 2210 01:56:19,040 --> 01:56:20,520 Speaker 1: you it should get you out of a lot of things. 2211 01:56:20,560 --> 01:56:20,920 Speaker 1: Go ahead,