WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Baggage Claim

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<v Speaker 1>Second. Yeah, thanks for getting off your phone to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to me during the back when you were singing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to ask when you were single, did you

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<v Speaker 1>ever want to give up on finding love? I wasn't really,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't think you were going to find it anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't know if that was my goal.

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<v Speaker 1>Say love it finds you. I really don't like I

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<v Speaker 1>found it and I love him, and I definitely wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get married in my life, but he was your cousin,

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<v Speaker 1>so that you had to send Michael. I got it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know that. I was in love with

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<v Speaker 1>lots of different people though. Yeah. The reason I ask

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<v Speaker 1>is because one of our listeners has been having kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a tough time, not just finding the one, but

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<v Speaker 1>even just locking down a date, and so now he's

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<v Speaker 1>reaching out to us for help. His name is Hunter.

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<v Speaker 1>A Hunter. Have you considered giving up on love yet? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Not giving up? Good? Okay, well maybe after this we'll

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<v Speaker 1>push you to that point. But first, let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the woman that you recently met. I guess what's her name? Well, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of nervous to say it life. Is it inappropriate? No? No, no, inappropriate?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what. You've found her name out? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, her name is Jamie. Chased it now, there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many of them. Sorry, I got nervous for no reason.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I'm this whole thing is nervous for me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay. We're just trying to have a fun time

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Like that's what makes you feel like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of down about your dating life recently, I'm getting really frustrated.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going on a lot of dates and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of them just keep bailing on me at the last minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I don't know, Like I'm talking a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>times I've been at the restaurant or bar, drink in hand.

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<v Speaker 1>You're talking actual last minute day. People are so flaky

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<v Speaker 1>these days. So yeah, it's it really like even in friendships,

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<v Speaker 1>people are flaky. Yeah, no, you're right. Yeah did you

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<v Speaker 1>hear that? Hunter Brooks says, it's not you, it's everyone

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<v Speaker 1>else in the world. Yeah, tell everyone should live their life, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not my fault. There must be someone else perfect. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>humans out there. I'll use that line in my therapist. Good. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So times where'd you meant Jamie? Well, I met her

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<v Speaker 1>at the airport. Oh interesting, how so I, um, I

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<v Speaker 1>saw this lady was Jamie grabbed my bag off the

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<v Speaker 1>luggage carousel and I literally chase her down, like across

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<v Speaker 1>the terminal. It was a black bag. I remember buying

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<v Speaker 1>my first piece of luggage and going, wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone has a like, what's the luck that it's someone

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<v Speaker 1>that's single in your attack. Yeah, that's a good strategy, though,

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<v Speaker 1>Just keep taking bags off of the luggage carousel to

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<v Speaker 1>a cute person walks up, don't keep checking bags and

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<v Speaker 1>hopes people will steal it, like sod. Did you catch her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I finally caught up to her, and I couldn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>what she looked like until I until I did you know?

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<v Speaker 1>She was for me? And okay, so she turns around.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah did you scream? Oh my god, you sergeant keep

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god? What happened? Well, I made a joke saying, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I would have taken your bag, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think i'd look as good in your clothes as

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<v Speaker 1>you do. Oh night, man, it's funny. Obviously she had

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<v Speaker 1>a good response to that. Yeah, I mean it's all

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<v Speaker 1>downhill from back. That's when this started happening. No, she

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<v Speaker 1>laughed and um, and we just stood and like waited

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<v Speaker 1>for our ubers on the corner and we talked, and

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<v Speaker 1>I took a risk and asked for a number. You

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<v Speaker 1>made friends real quick. So you guys, where'd you go

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<v Speaker 1>for your date? I have her to grab just the coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to keep it casual, you know. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we were texting the entire week leading up to it,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was just saying like she was excited to

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<v Speaker 1>meet me and then like blocked bork day of she

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<v Speaker 1>candl No, she canceled on. Yeah. You know it's risky

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<v Speaker 1>with coffee though, because it's easy to cancel on coffee

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<v Speaker 1>because you're like she was early in the morning, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's thirty minutes? It's true, Ale says, how many times

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<v Speaker 1>have you done this to guys before it canceled? The

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<v Speaker 1>last time? I don't even say yes to coffee dates.

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<v Speaker 1>I could feel like it's canceling him after she gets

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<v Speaker 1>her drink, canceling before they even ask she was she sorry? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she give you an excuse? No? I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>hear from her. And at this point it's happened so

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<v Speaker 1>many times, Like I need to understand what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>because there's candles be a coincidence. I mean, I hear you,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like canceling on coffee. But this is just happened

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<v Speaker 1>so many times. It's weird. You can get dates, you

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<v Speaker 1>seem charmingly attractive enough. Yeah, they're not even catfishing people

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<v Speaker 1>because you're meeting people in person. Every time I think

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<v Speaker 1>that there's other people that want this exact same answer,

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<v Speaker 1>I want the answer. Yeah, Well, I think you need

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<v Speaker 1>to stop screaming at people, Jeff, and that'll probably call. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna we're gonna call Jamie for a year and

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<v Speaker 1>in a very even keel voice, I'm going to ask

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<v Speaker 1>her why she's not going out with I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>super chill about answer, Jeff. All right, Hunter, her situation

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<v Speaker 1>could be different from from the other ones. I don't know, hope,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'd at least like to hear from her what happened, right,

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<v Speaker 1>is that someone you met in person and actually had

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<v Speaker 1>a connection with yea yeah, Or we can call every

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<v Speaker 1>girl that's cancer twenty five minutes segment or threatened to

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<v Speaker 1>steal her luggage because now you know what it looks like.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if threats are good. Yeah, we'll avoid

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<v Speaker 1>the threats, we'll just we'll just speak with the questions

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<v Speaker 1>to get your second date update right after this. We

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<v Speaker 1>just learned one of the best places to meet someone

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<v Speaker 1>is at the airport, specifically the baggage claim area. You

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<v Speaker 1>just stand in front of the carousel, wait for a

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<v Speaker 1>really attractive guy or girl to walk up to a bag,

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<v Speaker 1>and then run up and nab it right before they

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<v Speaker 1>and say oops, I thought that was mine. Now that

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<v Speaker 1>we have our bags in common, maybe we should hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty good, honestly. That's almost how one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Hunter met Jamie the other day. She accidentally took his

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<v Speaker 1>bag thinking it was hers, so he had to go

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<v Speaker 1>chase her down and they ended up vibing at the airport,

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<v Speaker 1>but then she canceled the day of their coffee date,

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<v Speaker 1>which has been happening to him over and over again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's got to be so frustrating. We agree that that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of become the new dating culture where people are

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<v Speaker 1>just flaking now all the time. In fact, I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thinking of flaking on my lunch with Brooke tomorrow

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<v Speaker 1>unless she buys again, and then I always buy. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I'll come Hunter, how are you feeling nervous but excited

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<v Speaker 1>to get an answer. Yeah, maybe get some truth out

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<v Speaker 1>of this. Figure out if it's something you've been doing

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<v Speaker 1>wrong and you can fix it. I disagree. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you're perfect. Hunter. Don't listen to what my host say.

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<v Speaker 1>There's nothing wrong with you. Oh well, you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>if only I wasn't interested in women. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that's where I was going with it, but I appreciate that. Hunter, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>you started this. Yeah, you may be free for lunch tomorrow. Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>that is true. We'll see what happens with you. Actually

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<v Speaker 1>blushed her. Will you buy? Are you gonna pay? Hunter? Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, got a solid plan, bake. Let's call your

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<v Speaker 1>plan a though, Jamie. Here, we'll see what she has

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<v Speaker 1>to say. Let's do it. Hello. Hey is this James? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Jamie. I know this is going to sound a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit weird, but you're talking to a morning radio

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<v Speaker 1>show right now? Hey Jamie? Um, Hi, yeah, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Why am I talking to a morning show right now? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Good question, Jamie. The answer to that is we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>a segment called a second Date Update. Okay, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she knows that is a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>date though, a lot of dates. That's fun. We've been dating. No, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we hear that you're a very attractive, fun lady social

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<v Speaker 1>idea yeahprene flying away. Oh well yeah, I travel a

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<v Speaker 1>lot for work. I'm sorry, I don't know what this

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<v Speaker 1>is about. Well, we heard that information from one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners name Hunter, who you met the other day

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<v Speaker 1>at the airport. Ah. Yeah, you remember a Hunter because

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have a long interaction with them. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>grabbed his bag by accident and we sage bags and

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<v Speaker 1>that was kind of like funny, cute coincidence. Huh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean sure, what was your first impression of Hunter? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, you know, it's kind of normal guy, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's he's cute. Yeah, marriage material sort of thing. Whoa, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know if I felt that right

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<v Speaker 1>off the bat, but um, I think it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little ramped up because I had his bag. Yeah, what's good.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, somewhere between nice and marriage material. That's a good,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, happy medium in there. So it's somewhere. But

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<v Speaker 1>the weird part that we heard is that the two

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<v Speaker 1>of you were supposed to go out to coffee and

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<v Speaker 1>then yeah, something happened and you had to cancel. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't feel like maybe you were going to reschedule

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<v Speaker 1>with him. Is that true? I don't think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we kind of are a little different in how

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<v Speaker 1>we approach things, So maybe it just wasn't like the

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<v Speaker 1>best fit. How would you know that, though? How would

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<v Speaker 1>you know that if you hadn't even hung out with them? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>They texted? What text for a week? Right? Yeah? We

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<v Speaker 1>texted for a week beforehand, and two days before he

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<v Speaker 1>texted me and said, are we still on? I said yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited to see you. And then after that, like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours before, he was like, hey, we're twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four hours out. I just want to make sure we're

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<v Speaker 1>still on. I was like at that point, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a little weird. I was like, yeah, we're still on.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he sent me like text leading up to

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<v Speaker 1>the next day it was like, hey, I'm excited to

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<v Speaker 1>see I just want to make sure we're still on.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh yeah, I'm like really busy with work

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. Like how did you like respond to these

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<v Speaker 1>texts over and over again or do you have one

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<v Speaker 1>of those limited text plans where you can only, But

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<v Speaker 1>I have one of those limited life plans where I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have them a lot of time to deal with,

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<v Speaker 1>like something really high mainan's right off the bat when

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't even met you like that. It's called making

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<v Speaker 1>yourself too available. How many times did he text you

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<v Speaker 1>asking if you were still on let me see there

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<v Speaker 1>was like yeah, it was like ten. He was exciting. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>On the bright side, it means he was really really

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<v Speaker 1>looking forward to seeing you again. I mean that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you've met somebody. But like I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>the initial meeting should be really just kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>short to the point, and then maybe after yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>then after if it goes well, maybe then a little

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<v Speaker 1>more text. But it's like that was well. If the

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<v Speaker 1>initial meeting went well, maybe the second meeting will go

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<v Speaker 1>even better, which is going to happen in three two one,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's on the phone right now. Okay, are you

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<v Speaker 1>excited to meet him again? I guess, hey, hunter, look

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<v Speaker 1>I gott in him. I'm a little embarrassed hearing it

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<v Speaker 1>all aired out like that, but I do want to

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to give you some contexts. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>so much a high maintenance thing. I just I've been

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<v Speaker 1>canceled on last minute a lot on dates women, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's just yeah that I wouldn't be putting that sort

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<v Speaker 1>of information out there. Hunter. It doesn't sound great too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this may be the reason, buddy. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I was doing it with Jamie. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>doing this before, but after so many times, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it's affected me more than I thought. Did you realize it? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean do you see where he's coming from, Jamie?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I do, But like when I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>him at all, like to come off like that, that's

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<v Speaker 1>like my only reference point for who this person is,

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<v Speaker 1>it just seems like a little much. Yeah. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean to come off that way. I just I was

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<v Speaker 1>excited to go on a date with Jin. I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to make sure it wasn't going to be another

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<v Speaker 1>blast minute cancelation. And I get it. I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>like that's just what you deal is in the stating world.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, I've been canceled on two and it sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't think that I would like, oh, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know the feeling that he has. Yeah, I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>know the same thing. But it's I wouldn't just then

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<v Speaker 1>send ten texts to somebody making sure they weren't canceling.

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<v Speaker 1>I find a middle ground, you know, if it's a

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<v Speaker 1>middle ground. But but it sounds like Hunter, you're hearing

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<v Speaker 1>her right, like you're hearing what she's saying. I do

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<v Speaker 1>hear what she's saying. And I've heard this segment before.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. Normally we asked if there's another date opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Jamie, would you be interested? I promise someone

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<v Speaker 1>text you? Oh God, that breath was not good. Yeah, Jamie,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's sweet. You know, he's a little jaded,

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<v Speaker 1>a little herb from the dating scene. But and Jamie, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll text you the proper about this time around him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go three to six, two to four. Let's get down.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's cut this down in writing. How many texts per day?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly are we going to be sending back and forth?

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<v Speaker 1>It feels like option right now? Yah? Who was three

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<v Speaker 1>four texts a day? So yeah, and here's the deal, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if I commit to something, I will show up. Well, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't show up when you committed to the last

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<v Speaker 1>date with her, so that's a point. Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she was going to until all the text came in,

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't follow through with her commitment. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>following through. But look, Jamie, I'm gonna forgive you for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Not only do I forgive you, I'm gonna pay for

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<v Speaker 1>your next date as long as it's with Hunter. Three

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<v Speaker 1>texts a day max, one text minimum. We're negotiating, what

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<v Speaker 1>is this a contract? It's making it sound really unattractive.

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<v Speaker 1>But as you will, Uy, I shouldn't be written. I

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<v Speaker 1>do think you should give him another chance. Yeah, Jamie,

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<v Speaker 1>give me another chance. I want to communicate with you

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<v Speaker 1>the proper amount. Proper I mean, it's a proper amount.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds so like romantic. You're right, Yeah, I guess yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>why not? All right? Okay, look at that. I love this.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing two texts. We're doing three texts where we're

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<v Speaker 1>bringing on. Let Jamie said too, Yeah, lock it in

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<v Speaker 1>two texts a day or you guys are done. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gonna be like, oh no, I forgot to ask

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<v Speaker 1>directions to the limit, Brookie. Jeffrey. In the morning, I

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<v Speaker 1>just got a text from Hunter saying, do you think

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay to text her right now? I knew it.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew someone needs to take his phone away from

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<v Speaker 1>until the day we just finished, so I would give

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<v Speaker 1>it a few hours before you finally reach out to her.

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<v Speaker 1>His first text her is going to be like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you mind if I text you? Yeah? And there it's

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<v Speaker 1>one text and the second one is sure right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can stop if you want. Yeah. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>think she did bring up a good point where she

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<v Speaker 1>said the pendulum swung too far the other way, because

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<v Speaker 1>she was probably right. He was trying to overcorrect because

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<v Speaker 1>he felt bad about getting digital. Many kids all understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>It really is from both sides here. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>what Hunter needs is he needs like a dummy texter,

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<v Speaker 1>like a buddy who he can text instead of her

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<v Speaker 1>every time he's feeling the urge. It's not like a

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a sponsor or something and the other. If

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<v Speaker 1>you want to volunteer to be his sponsor text person,

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<v Speaker 1>get texted him all night. Well, you can give out

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<v Speaker 1>your phone number No. Seventy five nine too. But remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you ever want to listen to any of our

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<v Speaker 1>second dates, you can find the podcasts of them up

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<v Speaker 1>online wherever you get your podcast. We put him on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we're everywhere we are. You can't avoid us. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't avoid us. That's your second date. Update Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning,