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Speaker 1: So like, I've been canceled on two and it sucks.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Jamie, would you be interested? I promise someone

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Speaker 1: I think it's sweet. You know, he's a little jaded,

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Speaker 1: I'll text you the proper about this time around him.

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Speaker 1: Let's cut this down in writing. How many texts per day?

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Speaker 1: It feels like option right now? Yah? Who was three

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Speaker 1: Not only do I forgive you, I'm gonna pay for

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Speaker 1: your next date as long as it's with Hunter. Three

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Speaker 1: give me another chance. I want to communicate with you

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Speaker 1: bringing on. Let Jamie said too, Yeah, lock it in

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Speaker 1: directions to the limit, Brookie. Jeffrey. In the morning, I

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Speaker 1: he felt bad about getting digital. Many kids all understandable.

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Speaker 1: It really is from both sides here. But I think

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Speaker 1: what Hunter needs is he needs like a dummy texter,

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Speaker 1: like a buddy who he can text instead of her

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Speaker 1: every time he's feeling the urge. It's not like a

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Speaker 1: you know, a sponsor or something and the other. If

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Speaker 1: you want to volunteer to be his sponsor text person,

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Speaker 1: get texted him all night. Well, you can give out

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Speaker 1: your phone number No. Seventy five nine too. But remember,

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Speaker 1: if you ever want to listen to any of our

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Speaker 1: second dates, you can find the podcasts of them up

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Speaker 1: online wherever you get your podcast. We put him on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: Now we're everywhere we are. You can't avoid us. You

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Speaker 1: can't avoid us. That's your second date. Update Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning,