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Speaker 1: think we had a request for Silent Night Steve Shine Night,

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Speaker 1: you pay for everything, right, y'all don't right? Right? So

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Speaker 1: I pay some time, I pay some Timmy Junior hands Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I've never seen it all right, anyway, you haven't called

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Speaker 1: ever and Noah will I No, no ever? No? So okay,

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Speaker 1: So here's a question for Junior and Tommy. So think

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Speaker 1: about your friends and family. You're the ones who make

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Speaker 1: the decent money in this friendship or in your family circle. Yeah, now,

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Speaker 1: do you splurge on them or do you feel like

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Speaker 1: they're eleech or and and does money actually change everything?

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Speaker 1: Can we talk about something else? Why because I don't

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Speaker 1: need my family then uston listening. Well, we gotta going

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Speaker 1: on say it though, Junior, We'll go ahead splurge on them. Huh.

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Speaker 1: I guess my problem is is when I think you

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Speaker 1: expect it. Okay, when we sit down for dinner at

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Speaker 1: a restaurant and it's fifteen twenty of us, I think

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Speaker 1: I started, and I've been telling my wife. I said,

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Speaker 1: I think they expect this all the damn time, and

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Speaker 1: nobody said I got by, I got me and my

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Speaker 1: wife I got ours. Don't nobody to say that it's

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Speaker 1: just past that envelope down at the time. They're not

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Speaker 1: fitting to say that either, because you're talking to somebody

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Speaker 1: speaking up right now to go ahead. I can walk

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Speaker 1: y'all through the whole process. But please don't expect them

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Speaker 1: to ever say it. They don't fix their lips and

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Speaker 1: ain't fitting to come out. Don't don't, don't don't prepare

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Speaker 1: your ears like what No, because they didn't. They didn't

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Speaker 1: say it. They're not fitting to say it. They ain't

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Speaker 1: about to say it. Hello, if it pay for everything.

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Speaker 1: So what I do with my family when I'm around them,

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Speaker 1: I just treat them first class, y'all. Just come on

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Speaker 1: this to life here. It is welcome. Now when y'all

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Speaker 1: go home, you know, I take care of my family. Now,

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Speaker 1: you know, my brothers and sisters. They ain't got they

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Speaker 1: ain't gotta work. I call here go y'all's you know,

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Speaker 1: a little summer and month. Here you go. I love y'all.

455
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Speaker 1: I don't want y'all struggling. A little little baby broad

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Speaker 1: doing good here after that, that's it, m see. But

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Speaker 1: what I did was I had to do that because

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Speaker 1: I had to stop the constant requests furness, no air

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Speaker 1: condition of brown, I need ties. So they kept coming

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Speaker 1: to you disconnection. Notice I went to the doctor, hold on,

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Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on. You gotta pay the

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Speaker 1: doctor bill. Yeah, and you know, man, it becomes a

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Speaker 1: request from two sisters and nephew. My nephew ain't never

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Speaker 1: asked me for the two sisters, two brothers at just

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Speaker 1: the request. Brow. I'm trying to fix my garage. Can

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Speaker 1: you help me that? Damn dope, it's dislodge And to see,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that. So what I do

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Speaker 1: is I just I got everybody in a situation. Here

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Speaker 1: we are. Everybody got a little payroll check coming from here.

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Speaker 1: It is every month you know you're gonna get that

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Speaker 1: all y'all pensions. Y'all can keep your pensions that you've

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Speaker 1: learned off your jobs, retirement money and higgo your little

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Speaker 1: baby broth throwing in a little bit more. Nah, can

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Speaker 1: you make it from there? Because I feel as though

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Speaker 1: you shoot, ladies and gentlemen, our very own voice of reason, intellect,

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Speaker 1: and most importantly the facts, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Anne Tripp,

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Speaker 1: Thanks Steve, come oneing everybody, this is a trip of

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Speaker 1: the news. You are, sister, Court Judge Ammat Sullivan blocking

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Speaker 1: the Trump administration's new rules on asylum, declaring them a

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Speaker 1: violation of federal immigration law. The way Judge Sullivan puts it, quote,

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Speaker 1: it is a will of Congress, not the whims of

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Speaker 1: the executive, that set the standards for expedited removal. That's

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Speaker 1: the quote. Under Trump's current policy, immigrants who claim that

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Speaker 1: they've suffered domestic violence or gang violence in their home

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Speaker 1: countries cannot use either reason as grounds for seeking asylum. Here. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 1: does appear that the Congress is getting closer to averting

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Speaker 1: a partial government shut down tomorrow. In fact, Democrats in

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Speaker 1: the Senate have gone along with the Senate Republican Leader

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Speaker 1: Mitch McConnell's short term spending bill designed to keep the

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Speaker 1: government operating through early February. I'm glad the leader thinks

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Speaker 1: the government should not shut down over the president's demand

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Speaker 1: for a wall, and Democrats will support this CR. CR

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Speaker 1: refers to continuing resolution that was Senate democratically. To Charles Schumer,

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Speaker 1: the measure from the majority Republican Senate still does not

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Speaker 1: contain the five billan dollars that Trump wants for attack

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Speaker 1: from taxpayers for his border wall. Outgoing House Speaker Paul

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Speaker 1: Ryan bid farewell to the Hill yesterday, and although he

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Speaker 1: didn't mention Donald Trump by name, he did call for

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Speaker 1: renewed political civility. For all the noise, there is passionless energy.

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Speaker 1: We sort of default to lazy litmus test and shopworn denunciations.

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Speaker 1: It's just emotional pablum fed through a trough of outrage.

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Speaker 1: It's exhausting, accepts meaning from our politics, and it discourages

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Speaker 1: good people from pursuing public service. And Ryan says that

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Speaker 1: outrage has now become a brand. The Wisconsin Republican said

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Speaker 1: that he was grateful for his two decades in Congress

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Speaker 1: and he's going to leave at the end of his term.

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Speaker 1: The President says he's pulling all US troops out of Syria,

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Speaker 1: and interestingly, enough of their people on both sides of

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Speaker 1: the aisle, Republican and Democrats, who really don't feel that

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Speaker 1: we should be pulling our troops out and feel that's

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Speaker 1: a really not such a great move that President Trump

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Speaker 1: has come up with. There's been another episode of Living

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Speaker 1: While Black Okay. This time a young black man goes

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Speaker 1: into a bank in Ohio to cash his first paycheck

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Speaker 1: from a new job. The white people working in Huntington

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Speaker 1: Bank thought it was too large a sum for a

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Speaker 1: black man to be making, so they call the police,

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Speaker 1: who took the man to custody and only released him

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Speaker 1: after they reached his boss, and then the boss verified

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Speaker 1: that yes, is my employee, and yes he has paid

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Speaker 1: that much. That was Huntington Bank in Ohio. The so

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Speaker 1: called First Step Act a measure back by President Trump,

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Speaker 1: I believe it or not, sale through the descent this week.

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Speaker 1: It's the First Step Act. It's a criminal justice reform

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Speaker 1: bill aimed at lowering a prison recidivism and senses for

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Speaker 1: non violent drug offenses. It was promoted by presidential son

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Speaker 1: Layd Jared Kushner. The idea favored by both Republicans and Democrats.

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Speaker 1: The First Step Act expected to pass the House easily.

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Speaker 1: You may not have experienced this, but a new study

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Speaker 1: says loneliness peaks at three stages of life, people in

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Speaker 1: their late twenties, and their mid fifties, and their late eighties.

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Speaker 1: That's something we're sad. But today is nationale Go Caroling Day.

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Speaker 1: Hit the story back to Steve Harp. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Game the Round for the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show Man in the street. Very simple question.

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Speaker 1: The question is what is your favorite Christmas song? Joy

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Speaker 1: to the World, jangle Bows, Oh Holy Night, silent I'm

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Speaker 1: dreaming of a white Christmas because one Melly Kaliki Maka.

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Speaker 1: Did you sing that for me? Oh? No, Joy to

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Speaker 1: the World, Silent Night. Grandma got run over by Randma

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Speaker 1: got run over by raindeer, Rudolf the Red Riddles ring

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Speaker 1: sing a little bit for me. No Merry Christmas, Happy

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Speaker 1: Holidays by in sync jingle bells, jingle Bells, jingle Bells

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Speaker 1: a rock jingle bell rocking. No, No, no, no, nothing

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Speaker 1: ing in then night o wait, Merry Christmas, Pretty Baby, Christmas,

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Speaker 1: pretty baby. But y'all Brown, what's your favorite Christmas song?

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Speaker 1: Like that one? Joy to the World, Silent Night, Oh

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Speaker 1: Holy Night, Santa Claus went to the Ghetto, Chestnuts roasting

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Speaker 1: Christmas Carol. I like the Mariah Carry one. That's that's

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Speaker 1: one of my favorite songs. I loved it. The question

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Speaker 1: today is what is your favorite Christmas song? Man Felice

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Speaker 1: Navida rocking around the Christmas Tree? Hang, oh the mistletoe.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get no better. What's the name of that one?

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00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: This Christmas fireside blazing bright fut out the red nose ring?

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Speaker 1: Can you sing a little bit? What is Christmas? Singing?

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00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: Old Michael Jackson? I saw Mommy Kiss and Santa Claus?

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Speaker 1: Can you sing it? White Christmas um, the one from

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Speaker 1: Charlie Brown, Christmas the y'all Oh Christmas Tree? Or No,

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Speaker 1: that's not it? Is it? It's the other one? It's

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Speaker 1: is that? That is my favorite Christmas song? Is Santa

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Speaker 1: Claus Comes to the Ghetto by Snoop Dogg and Nate Dogs.

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Speaker 1: You're listening show, so go on, nephew with your little

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Speaker 1: segment but you know, it's just it's that time of

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Speaker 1: the year, Shirley, and it's good for some people, and

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Speaker 1: then some people have to make adjustment. If you understand

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, side pieces have to make adjustments. You understand that.

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Speaker 1: And I want to talk to all of y'all. Here's

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Speaker 1: one I'm just listen. Don't find out what mall I'm

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Speaker 1: going to. I don't need you at that mall. Don't

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Speaker 1: you understand what I'm saying you, No, it's a free country.

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00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: Don't know wherever she wants to go. No, I can't

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Speaker 1: be shopping with my family with all these free and

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Speaker 1: see and then see you. He gonna concentrate on getting

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Speaker 1: getting cookies for the kids and look up that affects

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Speaker 1: our relationship later when you see me shopping with Just

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Speaker 1: don't go to the mall he at all. Don't go

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Speaker 1: to the mall at all. I'm good with that every store.

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Speaker 1: And don't drive by my house to see the lights

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Speaker 1: and stuff. Don't don't do that. I'm creating all my

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Speaker 1: little rain. Why you passing? Don't you put the lights

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Speaker 1: up for the people to see. Don't put yourself by

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00:39:56,920 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: you putting yourself through that. It affects our rel and

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Speaker 1: you see silhouettes of me and my family and there.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to see that because you gonna want

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Speaker 1: to be that. Yeah, you see shadows of us walking around.

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Speaker 1: Don't send me a video of yourself at home by yourself.

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Speaker 1: I know you at home. I know you by you, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I know you that. Don't you think I know where

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Speaker 1: you're at. Now here's a deal. Christmas Eve. I'm coming

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Speaker 1: by there at noon. Okay, Christmas it is from noon

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Speaker 1: to two thirty on Christmas. That's when Christmas you got

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Speaker 1: gonna be gone? All in right there, I'm gonna bring

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Speaker 1: three folks gifts by you. The gifts you got for me.

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Speaker 1: I can't take them with me right now. I can't

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Speaker 1: take home put it's wrong with you. I can't coming

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Speaker 1: here with no boxing put under the dream that's from

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Speaker 1: I can't take the boxes you got for me and

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Speaker 1: put them up if you want to, I'm throwing them

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00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: the highway. I never see that night. The hammer's going

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Speaker 1: out the window. Make it. Don't buy that watch guys,

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Speaker 1: really watch gonna be on side of the road. Don't

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Speaker 1: don't don't call me send me music to my phone?

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Speaker 1: What do they do lonely Christmas. Don't don't do that emotion. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what do the lonely? They don't call. That's what they

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00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 1: don't do. That's what they don't do. They don't call.

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Speaker 1: This all its texting, all its texting, sending Christmas pictures

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Speaker 1: and no, okay, time when do you hook up with

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Speaker 1: the sad Christmas Eve? And now after that, after Christmas Day,

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Speaker 1: this goes on to the second bar, tell the new Year,

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Speaker 1: New Year, Christmas and you, Steve, is the same that

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Speaker 1: two and a half I get New Year's and Christmas

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Speaker 1: on it in together two and a half hours. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna change, yes, and we're gonna eat chitlins right

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Speaker 1: there on the twenty four and two and a half hours.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have noticed this, but

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Speaker 1: Steve is suspiciously quiet right now. Will you have anything

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Speaker 1: to say to your nephew, noting what this boy right here?

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00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: I have four one job, this boy emerging so much Trump.

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Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not gonna be in this laughing with him.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be the I'm not gonna beat the

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Speaker 1: billy bush to just sitting bush lad. Damn, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I'm spit. Everyone's not gonna beat the foot. Sorry this

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Speaker 1: time one more. I'm not gonna be the billy bush

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Speaker 1: to Donald Trump. The only one I don't work right now.

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00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 1: I made it on the White House. It's really gone

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Speaker 1: from again, desperately wrong with this picture. Yes, we're just

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Speaker 1: giving out the dunce, that's all we're doing. I ain't

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Speaker 1: with none of this than you Facebook though, looking at

629
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: the family Christmas picture. Why are you doing that to you?

630
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: Why do you do that? All right, more of this

631
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

632
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the

633
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after today's

634
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. But first, nephew, it's time for today's frank

635
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 1: phone call. Yah hold tight, here you go. Hello, Hello,

636
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach you. Sandra is Hey, how you doing.

637
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,479
Speaker 1: I'm fine with this. This is Brian. This is Brian.

638
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: I work with your sister Kiba. Okay, we've we've met

639
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 1: a couple of times. You've you've come out to Happy

640
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: Yard with us a couple of times. But that's been

641
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: a way you just had a baby. Right, Oh yeah,

642
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:10,840
Speaker 1: well that must have been a long time ago. I

643
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: sure did just have a baby, he said, This is Brian. Yeah, Brian, congratulations.

644
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: How many months is it now? It's been three months

645
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 1: since I've had them. Okay, all right, well congratulations to you. Listen,

646
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: we um we're putting together a pot luck Christmas party

647
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: and we wanted to invite you out. Oh okay, is

648
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 1: this some kind of surprise or something? Well, you know what,

649
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 1: I'm My job is to call around since it's a

650
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: pot luck, and make sure we get everybody to bring something.

651
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: And what I wanted to do is I told her

652
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 1: she should invite her sister. I'm sure your sister. I

653
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: was just saying you probably hadn't been able to get

654
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 1: out since the baby, and maybe you would want to

655
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 1: get out a little bit. Yeah, you said that. I've

656
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: been trapped in this house with this baby. Oh and

657
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: he's such a greedy baby. But yeah, I'm here a lot.

658
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,880
Speaker 1: This is like my second child, and I'm telling you

659
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: he was nothing like the first one. But I haven't

660
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: been out. When is the party. It's gonna be next week,

661
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 1: next Friday. We're gonna throw it and we're not trying

662
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: to do anything too late. Probably around six o'clock. Everybody's

663
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 1: gonna leave work a little early, but we're gonna all

664
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: bring a little something to contribute to the party and

665
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 1: whatever type of food or drinks or whatever. So we

666
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 1: just wanted to reach out and give you an invitation.

667
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: I just need to see if I can get a babysitter.

668
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 1: I haven't had to use a babysitter yet, but I'll try.

669
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: I'll do my best for me. It's my sister and

670
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 1: her friend, so i'd be glad to come. So you

671
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 1: say it's it's pot luck. What are y'all bringing? Well,

672
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: some people are bringing finger food, some people are bringing desserts,

673
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: nachos and things like that. So I guess a little

674
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 1: bit of everything, and everybody's just in the Christmas spirit.

675
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: We're just gonna have a good time. Well, do I

676
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 1: need to cook it myself? Or can't I just order

677
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: something to have it delivered or something like that. You know,

678
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 1: I'm fooling with this baby. I can't get too much

679
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,720
Speaker 1: dune while I'm here, but i'd be glad to contribute. Well, actually,

680
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 1: we're interested in getting some egg nogs. Uh, yeah, I

681
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: can probably I could send my husband out to get

682
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: something because you know, there's just fool his especialty shop.

683
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 1: They make some good homemade egg nogs. I could do

684
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 1: egg nogs. Well, well, hang on, we didn't. We didn't

685
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 1: want anything from a specialty shop. We're real particular about

686
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,839
Speaker 1: having good egg nog. We've always had good eggnog every

687
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 1: year when we throw the big pot luck Christmas party.

688
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: We wanted to see if you didn't mind making some

689
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: egg nog from scratch. But you know, if you if

690
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: you could really really help us out, you know, you

691
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 1: using using breast milk to do it. Well, they make

692
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,359
Speaker 1: the best milk. Call for there. I know they use

693
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: whole milk. Sometimes they use that buttercream milk. You know what,

694
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: I should get my aunt to make it because she

695
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: got a real good recipe and I know she used

696
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 1: the best milk as I can get how to make some?

697
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,319
Speaker 1: Is that? Okay? Okay, So your mom has what kind

698
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:54,879
Speaker 1: of milk? My ain't. She makes the best egg nog.

699
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 1: And I know she used like whole milk and butter

700
00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: milk and stuff. That's why I was thinking. I don't

701
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: know if Kiva told no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

702
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 1: we want some breast milk, not the best milk. We

703
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 1: want breasts. Aren't you breastfeeding? You you say breast as

704
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 1: in b r e as keep breast milk, breast milk. Yes, yes,

705
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait a minute, yeah, I'm breastfeeding. But

706
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 1: breast milk is for babies. Adults. People don't supposed to

707
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: drink that. If you if you're not know anything, you're

708
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: not supposed to breast milk. Breast milk is the best milk. See,

709
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: so what we was trying to do is get it.

710
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 1: Get the eggnog made with breast milk, and that's what

711
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,879
Speaker 1: we want. Brian, you said your name is Brian. Yeah,

712
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm Brian. Okay, Brian, you must be white because because

713
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: black folks don't drink breast milk. That's for babies. Okay,

714
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 1: I am not making eggnog with breast milk. Now, Breast

715
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: milk is not what you get. That is for my

716
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:53,480
Speaker 1: newborn infants. That sounds nasty, unstable. Why would I do

717
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:56,440
Speaker 1: that to other people, to ask somebody to do I mean,

718
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: is that what you can like pump out two gallons

719
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 1: for us? I mean, we're just trying. We're about to

720
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 1: end this conversation. That is not something I'm about to do. Okay,

721
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: I am not pumping milks for some Christmas party. That

722
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: that is nasty. Okay, somebody gonna call the health department

723
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: on y'all bringing up milk up there to make some eggnogs?

724
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: What does that? We don't do that. This ain't no

725
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: feed of village with my milks. You you know what, man?

726
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 1: Ma'm I mean? I didn't. I wasn't trying to offend you.

727
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: I just wanted to see if if it was something

728
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 1: that you would do for us. You know, maybe you

729
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: could you could squeeze out a couple of gallons and

730
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: we could all. I'm past offended. I ain't squeezing out

731
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 1: a tablespoon of breasting up to be donating to some

732
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: Christmas party? Does that? Okay? Yeah? You got me up.

733
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:47,839
Speaker 1: You need to tell Keith. First of all, I don't

734
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,240
Speaker 1: even know why ever gave you my number to invite

735
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 1: me to some because she couldn't have She couldn't have

736
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: known you're gonna ask me to make some damn eggnogs

737
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 1: with real breastness. I didn't. I didn't. I didn't tell

738
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: Keiv exactly what I wanted, but I didn't think it

739
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: was gonna be this much of a of a problem

740
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: that you would have a problem with a couple of gallons,

741
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: so we could have a good time with real good milk. Well, hope, Bryan,

742
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: y'all work in corporate America. Surely you are smarter than that.

743
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 1: You're calling somebody ask me for some breast milk? Who

744
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: does that? What you can do? If you want some eggnog,

745
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,360
Speaker 1: you can stop at the grocery store and get you

746
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 1: some infamire some Simila can mix eggnogged yourself if that's

747
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 1: what you choose to do. But my breast milk, you

748
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: can't even pay for it. Okay, I don't get down

749
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,320
Speaker 1: like that. That's some if I ever heard of it.

750
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:31,760
Speaker 1: You too, can tell you to be call around asking

751
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 1: people for milk, that you're gonna be this selfish that

752
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: you can't loan us a little bit of breast milk

753
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,280
Speaker 1: so we can have a great time with some eggnog

754
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: at the party. Selfish, loan breast milk? Okay, you know what,

755
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: you know what concern don't worry about. We don't even

756
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 1: want you at the party. If you don't gonna bring

757
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: the breast milk, then don't come to the party. Damn right,

758
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 1: I don't need to come to your funky party. And

759
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 1: you tell Kiva this is some Steven have her friend

760
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:59,439
Speaker 1: called me. I am the party coordinator, and Kiva knows

761
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: that that's I tried to be nice enough to invite you. Offended.

762
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 1: I am offended. Okay, would you ask your wife or

763
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: your girlfriend or whoever your baby mama is to do

764
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: something like that? Would you expect somebody to ask cor

765
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:13,959
Speaker 1: You're disrespecting me asking me for something like that. Okay,

766
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 1: you know what, Bryan, what is your last name? Because

767
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,359
Speaker 1: I'm failing to remember who you are because I'm sho

768
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 1: gonna ask, well, Brian, Brian, Brian ain't really my name.

769
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 1: I didn't really want to tell you my real name,

770
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: so so you playing on the phone name you probably

771
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: don't even know my sister? Who is this? I mean,

772
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: I talk to your sister about twenty minutes ago. I

773
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 1: talked to Keiva. You can't talk to my Kiva because

774
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: this is a I know that too clearly. Okay, but

775
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: I want to go and tell you this hill. You

776
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 1: know what You're gonna get off my damn phone. That's

777
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do. Kiva told me to call because see,

778
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: I am nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Martin Show,

779
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: and your sister Kiva got me the prank phone call you.

780
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 1: You're talking about that nephew tim that's on the TV

781
00:50:55,600 --> 00:51:11,279
Speaker 1: and the ranio I did. This can't be real, you're real, said,

782
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you real? Funny? Okay, said, I

783
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 1: gotta ask you, baby, what's the baddest and I mean

784
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvey Morning.

785
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 1: You're listening to morning show? All right, right now, guys,

786
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. Don't forget it.

787
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on dating, on work,

788
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 1: on parenting, on sex, on more, submit your Strawberry letter

789
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey FM dot com. And that a parenting

790
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 1: question for y'all. I asked y'all earlier, and y'all are

791
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:51,479
Speaker 1: not giving me a chance to ask you. We would

792
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: like to talk to you about him, maybe about forty one.

793
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 1: Can we do a thing? Yeah, let's let's let's yeah.

794
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 1: We gotta get to the other show, but we'll run

795
00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: your Tommy, run your show. Don't take over trying to

796
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: be in charge of something what he can't even say

797
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:14,320
Speaker 1: it's w's and he's gonna try and defend someone. Oh no,

798
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:18,800
Speaker 1: you ain't letting a wing stop between all the water burger.

799
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: It's what a burger? Tommy delicious friend. Yes, all right, anyway,

800
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry letter and thank you guys, because we

801
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 1: have been getting a lot of letters in. We need

802
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 1: more though. Guess I just I told you when something

803
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 1: like that sense, you would be quiet. Okay, how about that? Whatever?

804
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 1: Buck up and hold on tight. Here it is strawberry letter.

805
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 1: They don't let me say that because it ain't No

806
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 1: damn wow, thank you Tommy. All right, here we go.

807
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 1: Subject was his wife over me. Dear Stephen Shirley, I

808
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: need your advice because I really want to kick my

809
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 1: dad's wife's behind. I am a forty two year old

810
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 1: single mother of two kids. My children's dads don't help

811
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: me financially, so my father has helped me raise my

812
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 1: kids for the past fifteen years. Well, I recently lost

813
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 1: my job and everything went downhill. I wasn't able to

814
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 1: pay my rent, so I had to move out of

815
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 1: my apartment. At the beginning of this month, I called

816
00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:31,919
Speaker 1: my dad to ask if we could move back home,

817
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: and my dad had the nerve to tell me that

818
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 1: I had to discuss it with his wife, my stepmother.

819
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: He put her on the phone and she screamed h

820
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:50,800
Speaker 1: E l na yes, and said this would be the

821
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: ninth time that I've moved back in with them. She

822
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 1: said it's not their problem that I can't keep a

823
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: job and that both of my kids dads are losers.

824
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 1: She said she will knownger allow me to ruin my

825
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 1: daddy's credit. Then she told me to get off my

826
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 1: fat blank yes and start and start taking care of myself.

827
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: Before she could finish, I hung up on her. Yes,

828
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: I have made plenty mistakes, but I don't need her

829
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 1: throwing them in my face. So now my children and

830
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:25,879
Speaker 1: I are living with my girlfriend, but we can't stay

831
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 1: there much longer. My dad will not speak to me

832
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:31,880
Speaker 1: until I apologize to his wife. I told him that

833
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: was never going to happen. Why should I apologize to

834
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:38,839
Speaker 1: this woman? She hurt my feelings, so she should apologize

835
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:41,919
Speaker 1: to me and let me move in until I get

836
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:44,439
Speaker 1: back on my feet. I don't feel like I'm wrong.

837
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: This was my dad's way. This was this was my

838
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 1: dad way before he was her husband. Stephen Shirley what

839
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:54,479
Speaker 1: do you think? Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. How wrong

840
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 1: are you? You are just so wrong right here? Uh?

841
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 1: And the fact that you don't know this makes this

842
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: letter even more ridiculous. Okay, your father has every right

843
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 1: to do what he's doing. Confer with his wife. He

844
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: has to discuss this with his wife. Okay, it's her

845
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: house too. Your dad doesn't owe you anything, Okay, he

846
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: doesn't have to let you and your kids move in

847
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: with them. I mean, how much more is he supposed

848
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 1: to do for you? At forty two? He's been helping

849
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 1: you for the last fifteen years. That help has turned

850
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 1: into enabling. Yes, your dad was you're enabler and he

851
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: is tired of it now and Wifeie is not having

852
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: it at all. Okay, and how old are these boys now?

853
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 1: They're doing this for fifteen years? Yeah, come on, now,

854
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 1: it's time for you to take your baby's daddy's to

855
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 1: court and get some child support so you can get

856
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:47,879
Speaker 1: the financial help you need to. Uh, you know, live

857
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 1: your life the way you need to live your life.

858
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:53,320
Speaker 1: And yes, of course, apologize to your step mom and

859
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 1: for your dad. You're trying to make them feel guilty

860
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:57,959
Speaker 1: for not letting you get back in. They have every

861
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: right to do what they did, every right. Come on now, Steve, Yes, Steve,

862
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 1: Come on boy, Steve. And these type of letters where

863
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: I excel. My gift comes out in letters like this.

864
00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 1: Let me take you down to it, because you really

865
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:23,879
Speaker 1: want to kick your daddy's wife behind. I'm forty too.

866
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 1: Let's just start to damn the single mother. Paul, You

867
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:33,919
Speaker 1: farty too? What hell you ain't twenty four? You didn't

868
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: flipped it? You farty too? You got two kids? Nothing's

869
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:47,839
Speaker 1: wrong here? Forty two? Two kids ain't bad, nothing wrong

870
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 1: with that? You're ready ready. My children's dads don't help

871
00:56:54,640 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 1: me financially, so they're not sending no child. So my

872
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: father has helped me raise my kids fifteen years. Did no,

873
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:13,400
Speaker 1: I don't worry about that. I do this with the

874
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: w fifteen years. You don't need extra breath for that.

875
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:20,959
Speaker 1: Somebody'd been helping you with the damned kids, and ain't

876
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 1: they damned shell? Damn hug your boyfriends? Fifteen years. Well,

877
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:29,919
Speaker 1: I recently lost my job and everything went down. Hell,

878
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: I wasn't able to pay my wrist, so I had

879
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 1: to move out of my apartment at the beginning to

880
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 1: this moment. I called my daddy asked him if we

881
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 1: could move back home, and my daddy had the nerve

882
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 1: to tell me I had discussed this with his wife.

883
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 1: That's cause it's her house. And the other reason it

884
00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: caused your asses fired too. You ain't fifteen, get put out?

885
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 1: You fired too. My stepmother, he put on the phone,

886
00:57:56,280 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 1: and she screamed, hell now, I love it. I love her,

887
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: and let me tell you why. She said, hell no,

888
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 1: because this will be the knife time. This will be

889
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 1: the knife time nine damn times. You're forty two year

890
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: old behind then, can't crawling back to the house. You

891
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 1: ain't crawling up in here no more we come back.

892
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why you really can't come back.

893
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 1: It ain't just the nine times. Oh that's big, But

894
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 1: I got mold than that. Why YO had can't come

895
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 1: back up in here nine damn times? Who do that?

896
00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: I don't know? Loes they place to stay? Nine times?

897
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 1: Just ain't paying no damn Rick's mad at his wife

898
00:58:56,760 --> 00:59:00,920
Speaker 1: if the kids ain't fifteen him every year you get

899
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 1: put out? The dude, step mama, you're brying our phones

900
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 1: and join your aunts. Ain't paying the rent? Right, all right,

901
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: we're gonna have part two of Steve's response coming up

902
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hour you're listening show. All right, Steve,

903
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 1: come on, let's get to part two of your response

904
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: to today's Strawberry letter. He chose his wife over me,

905
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 1: this forty two year old woman who is single, because

906
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:36,000
Speaker 1: he can't get nobody to marry her because she keep

907
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:40,160
Speaker 1: picking losers that don't pay no child support and help

908
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 1: up financially with d two boys. I feel sorry for that,

909
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 1: but dad ain't the problem. You called your daddy because

910
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 1: you lost your job, and why you keep losing job exactly?

911
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: You keep losing job, then you call your daddy. Now

912
00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:58,560
Speaker 1: he didn't help you in the path. And this time

913
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: we told you A discussed with his wife. Now you

914
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 1: want to kill her. You want to kick my wife's

915
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 1: daddy behind. He putting my stepmother on the phone, and

916
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 1: she screened, hell now you ain't coming. Hell no, when

917
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: you got bring it, she said it would be the

918
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 1: ninth time, and she did not lie. She's business because

919
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: you didn't dispute it. Just the knife damn time that

920
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 1: I moved back in with them. She'd been na through

921
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 1: eight moving. She said it's not the problem that I

922
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 1: can't keep a job and that both my kids dads

923
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 1: are losers. You slept with them bums. Now they ain't

924
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 1: helping out with the kids can keep Come on, this

925
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 1: will be the ninth time she said she would no

926
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 1: longer allow me to ruin my daddy's credit. Here is

927
01:00:55,360 --> 01:01:00,240
Speaker 1: what you really mad. Come on, she did tell told

928
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 1: me to get off my fat ass and start taking

929
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: care of myself. That's what prompted this letter, right, she

930
01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 1: had called your fat asswer see, that was not She

931
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 1: wouldn't go write this letter until she told her get

932
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 1: off your fat as, huh and take care of yourself. Lord,

933
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: Now we have the letter. Now before she could finish,

934
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:42,480
Speaker 1: I hung up because the fat ass wiped out. This

935
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 1: is how the conversation. Get off your fat ass and

936
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 1: take care of yourself. Hey, what is daddy and stepmama

937
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 1: over there doing by theirself? Anyway? What did they do?

938
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 1: They live it? They followed today They probably said sixty seventy.

939
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,680
Speaker 1: They don't want them damn kids and the fat ass,

940
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 1: and they're eating groceries. There's already last time she was hid.

941
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:10,480
Speaker 1: One reason she left that pad like refrigerator they put

942
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:16,040
Speaker 1: combinations on on camp, be sure she could finish. I

943
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:18,640
Speaker 1: hung up on her. Yes, I have made now here

944
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 1: we go. Here comes the confession. Now I hung up

945
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: on the Yes. I have made plenty of mistakes, but

946
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:26,480
Speaker 1: I don't need her throwing them in my face. She

947
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 1: ain't throw them in the face. You keep throwing them

948
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 1: in their face. You keep dragging them, damn kid back

949
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 1: over there eight times prior. It ain't that they throwing

950
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:35,439
Speaker 1: it in your face. You keep bringing it to their face.

951
01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: So now my children are now are living with my girlfrid,

952
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 1: But we can't stay there much longer. You know why

953
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 1: because your girlfriend know you got the fat ass, and

954
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 1: you're over there eating groceries up over there too, and

955
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 1: them two boys. My dad would not speak to me

956
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 1: until I apologize to his wife, because see, you ain't

957
01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 1: just hang up. See see what you called you fat ass?

958
01:02:56,560 --> 01:03:01,040
Speaker 1: Take care of yourself. Oh you went out the house

959
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: like you had the waffern come back around. Oh you

960
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 1: threw something back up in that house. Ton, Now you

961
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 1: gotta regret. I'm fat. Oh I'm fat. I ain't the

962
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: only one fat me and you wear the same size

963
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 1: because when I live at I wore your clothes. That's

964
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,360
Speaker 1: why you can't come back, and that's why you gotta apologize.

965
01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 1: I told him I was that was never going to happen.

966
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 1: Now you're not gonna apologize to you when you ain't

967
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 1: getting in this woman's Oh are you stupid? Why should

968
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:38,240
Speaker 1: I apologize to this woman? She hurt my feelings. You've

969
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 1: been eating her groceries, staying at her house, messing up

970
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: your daddy credit. She don't know you nothing. Na, she

971
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: hurt my feelings, So she should apologize to me and

972
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:50,959
Speaker 1: let me move in until I get back on my feet.

973
01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:54,160
Speaker 1: Who see, everybody always got to do something for you.

974
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: She got to apologize me and let me move in

975
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 1: until I get back on my feet. It's hard to

976
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 1: get on your feet with ass your side. I've seen

977
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 1: big people fall before. It takes a while. They got

978
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:08,920
Speaker 1: to roll over, get on both knees. They need a

979
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:10,560
Speaker 1: hand up. If they ain't no hand on the way,

980
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 1: they just stay there. No, I'm telling you this is

981
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 1: what this is. I don't feel like I'm wrong. Well,

982
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:20,480
Speaker 1: Charley told you all wrong. This was my dad way

983
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:23,720
Speaker 1: before he was a husband. Yeah, your dad, but when

984
01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 1: you get a wife, he has to leave all others

985
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:30,200
Speaker 1: and cleave unto her, that's your ass is included in

986
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 1: the league. What your ass is included in the league.

987
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 1: And you could come up with people's house and stay

988
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 1: long if you leave some of that ass, but you

989
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 1: brings that wide ass with and steady replenishing ass. See

990
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 1: if you would get in the weight loss business, somebody

991
01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 1: without mind letting you stay there. But you're in the

992
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 1: ass replenishing busins you over there just blowing. As we're

993
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 1: sitting up here watching this. If we go, your sons

994
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 1: is sitting on it while you're walking around Walmart. You

995
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 1: got one son on each cheek. He ain't gotta get

996
01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 1: your boys are riding your as. She really doesn't get it.

997
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 1: She says, this was my dad way before he was

998
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: her husband. Come on, yeah, that's right, but so damn

999
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: what he's still your daddy. And he says you can't

1000
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: come over there. He's not like Shirley said, he's not

1001
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: just your daddy. He's been your enaghbler. You've been over

1002
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 1: to these people's house eight So what you do is

1003
01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 1: you know you ain't got to do right as long

1004
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 1: as you don't want to, because you just go over

1005
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 1: your daddy's house. Well, they put a stop to this,

1006
01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 1: so now I ain't got to go to work. I

1007
01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: don't feel like it today. You five, I'm going to

1008
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 1: my daddy. You ought to be taking care of daddy.

1009
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 1: You're forty too, You're lazy, and you ask with like

1010
01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 1: a cough. All right, Steve, we gotta get email us

1011
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 1: or Instagram thoughts on today's Strawberry letter at my girls, Shirley,

1012
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 1: and coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show

1013
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show now

1014
01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 1: because Santa so busy some of the Mason's Department stores. Now,

1015
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 1: you gotta make an appointment to see Santa. So I

1016
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 1: have the schedule right here. Okay, all right, it's time

1017
01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:31,040
Speaker 1: to go, so shut up, Julian. Here it is. You're

1018
01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 1: listening from nine am to eleven am. Santa is gonna

1019
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:45,439
Speaker 1: see kids that have long list that's just from nine

1020
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 1: to eleven. Coming after eleven with no long list. We're

1021
01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 1: just doing long lists from nine to eleven. And Santa

1022
01:06:56,600 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 1: is warning you this year, don't be repeating stuff you

1023
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 1: hear the other kids safe making your list longer. Just

1024
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 1: read your list to setna from first right then at noon.

1025
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 1: Starting at noon, Sennah will see all the kids that

1026
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 1: are winders. Whin you win a lot. I don't want

1027
01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 1: to check your ass up way to noon. This what

1028
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 1: time is the trail Noon for the ones, not the windings.

1029
01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: That's very different. Now between three and five, this is important.

1030
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 1: Three and five, Santa gonna deal with the kids that

1031
01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:08,080
Speaker 1: JA won't sit steal, kids that fidgit and any children

1032
01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 1: that might bite bite because from three to the black

1033
01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:20,599
Speaker 1: Santa sit in and he gonna deal with the kids

1034
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 1: and let the bite and fit sit your as still

1035
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:26,720
Speaker 1: bite me, I'm gonna bite you back. You know you

1036
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 1: gotta hear stuff like that. I'm gonna bite you back

1037
01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 1: to grip them up. Okay, Now from then until seven, uh,

1038
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 1: this is towards the end of the day. Come on

1039
01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:53,240
Speaker 1: from then that'll be from five to seven, all loud

1040
01:08:53,680 --> 01:09:00,639
Speaker 1: criers and and kids that's afraid of sound. Save them.

1041
01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:04,360
Speaker 1: Scary asked you later on a day day. So if

1042
01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:07,959
Speaker 1: you know your baby gonna hol aloud and as afraid

1043
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:11,080
Speaker 1: of center, bring him every day. We're gonna on that

1044
01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 1: day we're gonna bring in us. We're gonna bring us

1045
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 1: skinny or Santa clause in it, so he ain't as imposing.

1046
01:09:17,760 --> 01:09:20,639
Speaker 1: Maybe cut down on some of the crime, but that's

1047
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:23,439
Speaker 1: right after the black Santa get through snatching or knocking

1048
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:30,879
Speaker 1: a couple of kids. Then listen very carefully, just critical,

1049
01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:37,120
Speaker 1: right before closing. Now we're only gonna take ten ofdes

1050
01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:40,720
Speaker 1: a day, so you gotta make an appointment. Only tends

1051
01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 1: a day, Okay, very important. These are kids who pee

1052
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:53,639
Speaker 1: on center. What your child, I gonna take a ten

1053
01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:57,479
Speaker 1: a day he on center. This is at the end

1054
01:09:57,520 --> 01:10:01,880
Speaker 1: of the day that we're only gonna take tea. Santa

1055
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:05,280
Speaker 1: got some special gear made. We're gonna switch him out

1056
01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 1: from the skinny center bring back fat center. Man, he

1057
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 1: ain't really that fat. It's just he got on a

1058
01:10:11,320 --> 01:10:18,400
Speaker 1: lot of absorbing clothes and so towards the end ten

1059
01:10:18,520 --> 01:10:21,920
Speaker 1: a day, that's all we're doing because we got enough

1060
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 1: absorbing pans on them where he can soak up ten peas. Okay,

1061
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:31,040
Speaker 1: so we're just doing ten. If your baby not be

1062
01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 1: living in light, he gotta come back to maw. We

1063
01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:36,320
Speaker 1: try to get him in there, but it's at the

1064
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:38,600
Speaker 1: end of the day. That way with Santah take his

1065
01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:48,760
Speaker 1: suit off, we can bring it about it. So that's

1066
01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 1: our schedule. So please, if your children fit in there anywhere,

1067
01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:56,439
Speaker 1: you know you're being able to know where your child

1068
01:10:56,600 --> 01:11:00,120
Speaker 1: fits in all that love, ass crying and all that

1069
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 1: you know when your child is going whiners. You know,

1070
01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:07,640
Speaker 1: kids with long list, just know where you're child, But

1071
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 1: especially those that peon sounder. End of the day, only

1072
01:11:12,040 --> 01:11:17,880
Speaker 1: ten of them and if your baby big, then we

1073
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 1: just gonna do nine. That's a lot, right, You can't

1074
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:28,479
Speaker 1: have nobody breaking loose like a great day. Don't bring

1075
01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 1: them peers up there early because they're not gonna see.

1076
01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:35,680
Speaker 1: If your peon sunda early and we informed you about that,

1077
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:39,600
Speaker 1: we will sue you. You're gonna sue the kids. The

1078
01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 1: children now we're gonna sue mama because they know, they

1079
01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:45,360
Speaker 1: know that they told you a time to bring a

1080
01:11:45,400 --> 01:11:56,439
Speaker 1: little all of this to be posted at Mason's. And

1081
01:11:56,560 --> 01:11:59,360
Speaker 1: I got a crazy list. That's where he got. I

1082
01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:04,040
Speaker 1: gotta come back. What is Santa doing from noon to

1083
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:07,639
Speaker 1: three after he sees the winers, Well, he gonna take

1084
01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:12,840
Speaker 1: a break because he gonna go smoke that break to five.

1085
01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:20,760
Speaker 1: You're listening to the show. Well, guys, the holidays, you know,

1086
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:23,559
Speaker 1: are supposed to be a time for peace and love

1087
01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:26,160
Speaker 1: and joy and all of that. You know, well, we

1088
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:29,719
Speaker 1: all know the truth. It's usually filled with tons of stress,

1089
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:34,160
Speaker 1: plenty of arguments. So how bad does it get you ask? Well,

1090
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 1: according to a brand new survey, eighty eight percent that's

1091
01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:43,200
Speaker 1: a lot of people. Eighty eight percent of respondents say

1092
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:47,200
Speaker 1: they get stressed out celebrating the holidays, with the average

1093
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 1: couple having seven arguments throughout the season. Seven, that's a lot.

1094
01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's a lot living up to the

1095
01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:59,679
Speaker 1: expectations of Christmas. Man, because what you see on television

1096
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 1: ano is what you got in your house. So I've

1097
01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 1: never had that on TV. No, we never had that Christmas,

1098
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:15,880
Speaker 1: all right, So let's never had the Christmas. The Christmas

1099
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:17,680
Speaker 1: I've had. I've woken up to my dad and his

1100
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 1: drawn passed out in the floor. I got to step

1101
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:23,200
Speaker 1: up with him to go play with my toys. I

1102
01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:26,799
Speaker 1: can top that one. I can definitely talk. You're always

1103
01:13:26,840 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 1: so come on what my Christmas is? Always had all

1104
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:33,080
Speaker 1: I asked my parents to do. My mom and my

1105
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:38,960
Speaker 1: dad to get my bicycle fixed. But Christmas not abdy

1106
01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:42,519
Speaker 1: a one. Just get just get me a flat. Get

1107
01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:45,479
Speaker 1: fixed the flat and I can ride with everybody else

1108
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 1: who had a bite. I go downstairs on Christmas, all

1109
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 1: I see is pajama tops and pajama bottoms. I don't

1110
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 1: I'm not saying who had on what? Okay, and they

1111
01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 1: was passed the hell out, That's all I'm saying. I

1112
01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 1: saw pajama tops, and I saw pajama bottoms and passed out.

1113
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:09,519
Speaker 1: You didn't get your bike fixed, didn't get the bike fixed?

1114
01:14:10,360 --> 01:14:12,479
Speaker 1: You got you got an old new bike. It just

1115
01:14:12,560 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 1: don't work a nice bike. Six. Just fix the flat.

1116
01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 1: And that was easy back in the day, right to

1117
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 1: fix the flat on the bottom. That was simple that

1118
01:14:25,200 --> 01:14:27,559
Speaker 1: you actually blow it up with your lips to tire.

1119
01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 1: You put that patch on that jay. Yeah, back up, Okay,

1120
01:14:34,960 --> 01:14:38,760
Speaker 1: So listen, guys, I see. Well here, here's what people

1121
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:42,000
Speaker 1: are fighting about. The biggest source of arguments is deciding

1122
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 1: where to spend the holidays. Okay, you want to spend

1123
01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:46,640
Speaker 1: it with your side of the family. She wants to

1124
01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 1: spend it with family. Yeah. All of that, okay, followed

1125
01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 1: by how much money you're gonna spend on gifts. I

1126
01:14:54,920 --> 01:15:01,280
Speaker 1: think gifts, it's so overrated. We do too much with that. Whatever. However,

1127
01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:03,840
Speaker 1: I don't even hear you right now. I don't even

1128
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:07,879
Speaker 1: hear you all that in the mall, just dragging bags

1129
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 1: and trying to we can y'all get it in it's

1130
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 1: too much money. Some money with you. I do too,

1131
01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 1: That's what it's come up to, you man, Just give

1132
01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:25,439
Speaker 1: him the money. Yeah. I don't have the patience anymore

1133
01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 1: to shop for everyone else, because if I go Christmas shopping,

1134
01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:43,479
Speaker 1: everything is for me, every me, but I did that's cute, Yeah,

1135
01:15:43,680 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 1: buying present it's me exactly, Well, I don't I need

1136
01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:52,240
Speaker 1: one of these? Plait a minute? Yeah, so um, you know,

1137
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:55,400
Speaker 1: so we know from Jay his stress from the holiday

1138
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:59,720
Speaker 1: was not getting his butt. Yeah, yeah, well you went child?

1139
01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:02,960
Speaker 1: Who on this? Jay? But what about now as an adult?

1140
01:16:03,080 --> 01:16:07,040
Speaker 1: You know they're talking about the arguments, right sir. You

1141
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 1: know what I've been out what I don't know what

1142
01:16:09,320 --> 01:16:12,760
Speaker 1: I've been doing. I've been now since they don't get

1143
01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:16,479
Speaker 1: me what I want? Who tell my wife and my kids? Yeah?

1144
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:19,000
Speaker 1: You know, you know they say I have everything, so

1145
01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:20,400
Speaker 1: they don't get me. You know, they don't know what

1146
01:16:20,479 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 1: to get. So I go out and I buy four

1147
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 1: or five gifts from me, get them wrapped. Yeah, I

1148
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:30,000
Speaker 1: put them under the tree from time and to a time. Yeah,

1149
01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:32,960
Speaker 1: I am the most exceeded person. When I opened it

1150
01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:36,519
Speaker 1: up on Christmas date, Oh my god, look what I

1151
01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 1: got me? I saw that commercial time y'all Walmart? Did

1152
01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:47,840
Speaker 1: you see what a lady m? Yeah? Yeah, I mean

1153
01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:51,719
Speaker 1: I would excited for clients. But my stress for Christmas

1154
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,640
Speaker 1: is like my daughter is so the opposite of me.

1155
01:16:54,800 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 1: I could not sleep Christmas Eve waiting on Christmas. Get up?

1156
01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:01,599
Speaker 1: She gets up. I mean, we have the Christmas tree,

1157
01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:05,920
Speaker 1: all decorated, presents, all under the tree, twelve o'clock. She's

1158
01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 1: still sleeping one o'clock. This is in the aftern next

1159
01:17:10,080 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 1: day Christmas, Like, what, who whose kid are you? That

1160
01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:21,280
Speaker 1: was my stress for Christmas? My daughter never she never

1161
01:17:21,439 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 1: got up early enough. I'm gonna say this, no sex

1162
01:17:25,960 --> 01:17:30,040
Speaker 1: on Christmas. It's very stressful. I'm just saying. I mean,

1163
01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:33,600
Speaker 1: that's my guilt. Wait, wait about someone Holiday stress? A

1164
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:35,120
Speaker 1: lot of people out that's the day. You know we

1165
01:17:35,160 --> 01:17:37,960
Speaker 1: should do that. We should all pitch in and get

1166
01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:40,400
Speaker 1: Jay a bike. We should all pitch in and get

1167
01:17:40,479 --> 01:17:42,439
Speaker 1: Jay a bike. I mean, you know, just with a

1168
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:47,080
Speaker 1: new bike for you, new bike and run it all right,

1169
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 1: we gotta go, Danny, Brown for the Steve having one

1170
01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:56,439
Speaker 1: to show. The question is who's the person in your

1171
01:17:56,560 --> 01:17:59,880
Speaker 1: family or in your life that's always burn money? My sister,

1172
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:02,880
Speaker 1: she owes you money right now? How much I'm not

1173
01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:06,439
Speaker 1: even gonna stay my son, my cousins, my cousin as well,

1174
01:18:06,680 --> 01:18:08,599
Speaker 1: my sister. But is a giveaway you don't even look

1175
01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:13,160
Speaker 1: for it back? No? No, Also my brother begging Billy,

1176
01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:15,679
Speaker 1: if you could get the money back that your brother

1177
01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:18,559
Speaker 1: owes you right now, how much would it be? Hundreds

1178
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 1: of dollars? Hundreds of dollars, thousands of dollars? I jan

1179
01:18:23,320 --> 01:18:25,800
Speaker 1: around with the Steve. I reminded, Joe, who's the person

1180
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:31,479
Speaker 1: in your family that's always borrowing money? Herr answer is

1181
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:34,560
Speaker 1: there too. You know what, it's not borried If I

1182
01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 1: don't give it back, it's not born. My sister, if

1183
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 1: she paid you back right now, how much would it be?

1184
01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:50,960
Speaker 1: Who was the ten thousand dollars? Oh? My dad, does

1185
01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:54,320
Speaker 1: he owe your money right now? No? Actually doesn't. My

1186
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:56,800
Speaker 1: sister if she paid you back right now, how much

1187
01:18:56,840 --> 01:19:01,519
Speaker 1: would it be? Four hundred dollars? Or one of my uncles,

1188
01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 1: how much does he owe you right now? Probably a

1189
01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:07,080
Speaker 1: couple of hundred do you think you'll ever see that. No,

1190
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:13,320
Speaker 1: he never pays his bets back me. You owe your

1191
01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:16,080
Speaker 1: sister money. Yeah, you paid a rout. How much would

1192
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:20,519
Speaker 1: it be now? Five hundred? I'm pretty good? Pretty good?

1193
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,439
Speaker 1: Damn it? Round for the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Who's

1194
01:19:23,479 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 1: the person in your family is always borrowing money? It's

1195
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:30,800
Speaker 1: Steve's Steve Harvey. Steve didn't borrow no money from you?

1196
01:19:31,640 --> 01:19:33,439
Speaker 1: Money from it? How much does he? You're right now,

1197
01:19:34,160 --> 01:19:35,960
Speaker 1: a lot of money because I said this suit never

1198
01:19:36,040 --> 01:19:40,120
Speaker 1: come favorite forty my children if they paid you back

1199
01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:42,280
Speaker 1: right now, how much would it be? Oh, a million dollars?

1200
01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 1: For a million dollars? These your kids right here, they're

1201
01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:50,439
Speaker 1: shopping right now, and then not pulling out any money.

1202
01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:55,000
Speaker 1: No money, no money. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning

1203
01:19:55,080 --> 01:19:59,680
Speaker 1: Show now. According to a report published an American psychologist,

1204
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:03,639
Speaker 1: people who listen to others without actually seeing them are

1205
01:20:03,760 --> 01:20:08,080
Speaker 1: better able to determine that person's emotional state. The tone

1206
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:11,400
Speaker 1: of a person's voice expresses emotion more than the face,

1207
01:20:11,800 --> 01:20:15,639
Speaker 1: where it's easier to hide such emotions less. It's more

1208
01:20:16,000 --> 01:20:18,639
Speaker 1: when trying to figure out how people feel, because when

1209
01:20:18,680 --> 01:20:21,080
Speaker 1: you are just listening to a person you are focused

1210
01:20:21,120 --> 01:20:24,679
Speaker 1: on just that, But if you're both listening and looking,

1211
01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:28,479
Speaker 1: your attention is divided. So, Steve, do you think you're

1212
01:20:28,479 --> 01:20:33,000
Speaker 1: a good listener? Oh? Yeah, absolutely, Yeah, you have to,

1213
01:20:35,840 --> 01:20:37,680
Speaker 1: you know, for a man. For a man, I'm a

1214
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:42,000
Speaker 1: good listener. I'm qualify that remark. Yeah, I mean, you know,

1215
01:20:42,120 --> 01:20:45,720
Speaker 1: because we do listen different. I'll admit that I think

1216
01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:48,920
Speaker 1: women are far superior at it. But for a man,

1217
01:20:49,320 --> 01:20:51,439
Speaker 1: I'm a good listener. Yeah. And you have to, you

1218
01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:53,680
Speaker 1: have to be in your line of work. But you

1219
01:20:53,800 --> 01:20:57,640
Speaker 1: know the reason women listen because there's a more of

1220
01:20:57,960 --> 01:21:02,400
Speaker 1: a richer and deeper exchange. We listened just to the

1221
01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:06,439
Speaker 1: point where we can provide a solution and then we

1222
01:21:06,560 --> 01:21:10,280
Speaker 1: wants to move on to something else. Women women dig

1223
01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:13,360
Speaker 1: into it a lot deeper, and Richard, we just try

1224
01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:16,519
Speaker 1: to provide a solution. Yeah, we want all the facts.

1225
01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:20,080
Speaker 1: What happened, then what he said? Then what did she said? Girl?

1226
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 1: And then and then what happened? Yeah, see we don't

1227
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:27,000
Speaker 1: need all that. Huh, what do you need? What do

1228
01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 1: you we? Just what you trying to get out of it? Listen?

1229
01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:36,880
Speaker 1: Call him and tell him no, and dot what what?

1230
01:21:37,280 --> 01:21:39,200
Speaker 1: I got it down to a sign. I can actually

1231
01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:40,960
Speaker 1: be on the phone with my wife. I know when

1232
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:44,960
Speaker 1: to say uh huh, what what? What? Really? And not?

1233
01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:47,600
Speaker 1: But not listening to none of but know how to

1234
01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:51,599
Speaker 1: jump in. Let me stop you because she's listening right now.

1235
01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 1: So are you sure you want to? Huh? But he's

1236
01:21:56,000 --> 01:22:03,680
Speaker 1: not listening. Who oh my god? Okay, hey, we need

1237
01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:09,000
Speaker 1: to go down now. H huh. So so your uncle

1238
01:22:09,160 --> 01:22:12,840
Speaker 1: listens to provide a solution. You don't listen at all.

1239
01:22:13,240 --> 01:22:16,200
Speaker 1: I listened to get through the day. What what? What?

1240
01:22:17,320 --> 01:22:25,000
Speaker 1: So you don't care? You don't care? Who? What? Where's Jordan? Who? Okay? No? Yeah,

1241
01:22:25,720 --> 01:22:30,760
Speaker 1: uh huh? He engaged? He makes her think she's engaging

1242
01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:35,240
Speaker 1: the phone. You got the phone on speaker. You lying

1243
01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 1: and it's just what sitting down there and you're just women?

1244
01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:45,559
Speaker 1: Are you acting? Are you acting? Are you in character? Absolutely? Hum?

1245
01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:54,880
Speaker 1: Play that again? Not not? It did? What? Not? Lord hammer?

1246
01:22:56,200 --> 01:22:59,639
Speaker 1: WI said? Are you listening to me? What do you say? Babe?

1247
01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:01,880
Speaker 1: I'm here that thing you're saying, you're gonna hear that part.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna hear that. Okay, Well tell me what I

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Speaker 1: just said. Oh that's what I hate when they do. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: well tell me what I just said. Tell me what

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Speaker 1: I just said. That I heard you. Now you're you're

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Speaker 1: trapped at that point. Get out of that. Still, Tell

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Speaker 1: me what I just said. I said, you just said,

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Speaker 1: Tell you what you just say? Tell me what I

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Speaker 1: just said. Don't get cute with it. You know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? Well, what do you think I should do?

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Speaker 1: But what I mean? You know, I mean, I mean

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Speaker 1: probably really honestly, don't honestly, don't call it, y'all. Just

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Speaker 1: pray about it. So should I take all the money

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Speaker 1: out of the bank. No, No, we need to pray

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Speaker 1: about it. Right, you're having at he said, No, he said,

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll be back right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: Dave Harvey Morning showing the Round for the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show Man in the Street. Very simple question. The

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Speaker 1: question is what is your favorite Christmas song? Joy to

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Speaker 1: the World, jingle bells, Oh Holy Night, Silent Night. I'm

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Speaker 1: dreaming of a white Christmas because Melly Kelliki Maka did

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Speaker 1: you sing that for me? Oh? No, Joy to the World,

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Speaker 1: Silent Night. Grandma got run over by rama, got run

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Speaker 1: over by Raindeer, Rudolf the Red Riddles Ring sing a

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Speaker 1: little bit for me No, Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays by

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Speaker 1: in Sync, jingle Bells, jingle Bells, jingle bells, a rock,

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Speaker 1: jingle bell rocking, No, no, no, no happing ding in

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Speaker 1: then night o wait, Merry Christmas, Pretty Baby, Christmas, pretty Baby?

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Speaker 1: But Yahn Brown? What's your favorite Christmas song? Like that one?

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Speaker 1: Joy to the World, Silent Night, Oh Holy Night, Santa

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Speaker 1: Claus on the Ghetto, Chestnuts Roasting Christmas Carol. I like

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Speaker 1: the Mariah Carryway. That's That's one of my favorite songs.

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Speaker 1: I loved that. The question today is what is your

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Speaker 1: favorite Christmas song? Man Felice rocking around the Christmas Tree?

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Speaker 1: Hang of the Mistletoe. I'm gonna get no, you better.

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Speaker 1: What's the name of that one? This Christmas fireside? Plasing bride? Nor?

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Speaker 1: Can you sing a little bit? What is Christmas? Singing?

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Speaker 1: Old Michael Jackson? I saw Mommy Kiss and Santa Claus?

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Speaker 1: Can you sing it? White Christmas? Um? The one from

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Speaker 1: Charlie Brown Christmas the Oh Christmas Tree? Oh No, that's

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Speaker 1: not it? Is it? No, it's the other one. It's

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Speaker 1: the is that that is My favorite Christmas song is

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Speaker 1: Santa Claus Comes to the Ghetto by Snoop Dogg and

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Speaker 1: Nate Dog. You're listening show Stave, we're here, uh at

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Speaker 1: the last break of the day. Just one more thing.

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Speaker 1: You're closing remarks, What do you have for us today

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Speaker 1: to take us into the weekend? Steve Well, I think

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Speaker 1: I should talk about dreams because it's such a major

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Speaker 1: component to your success. Dreams are such an important component

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Speaker 1: to success. You can't underplay dreams. See let me tell

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Speaker 1: you something. Education is necessary for certain fields and professions.

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Speaker 1: You want to be a doctor, a lawyer, a dentist,

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Speaker 1: a pilot, a scientist, a teacher. Education is so necessary

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Speaker 1: for many professions in this world. But there is nothing,

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Speaker 1: and I repeat, there is nothing more important than your dreams.

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Speaker 1: Your dreams have value. Your dreams wake you up in

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Speaker 1: the morning. The dreams give you hope. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying education doesn't do that. But education don't wake

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Speaker 1: you up in the morning. It's what you dream and

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Speaker 1: hope of becoming with the education that wakes you up.

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Speaker 1: It is your dream that causes you to even get

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Speaker 1: an education. If you want to fly a plane and

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Speaker 1: that's your dream, your dream will cause you to do

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Speaker 1: the things necessary to accomplish the dream That's why I

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Speaker 1: tell people educators in all, if we spent more time

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Speaker 1: talking to our children in our school system about their

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Speaker 1: dreams and visions, we can reduce the dropout rate. But

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Speaker 1: what we're doing is we keep talking to kids about

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Speaker 1: the education, and we're not talking about the kids for

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Speaker 1: the reason for the education. You gotta get your education,

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Speaker 1: because you gotta finish school. Finish school for what we have.

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Speaker 1: Got to take time out to talk about the dreams

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Speaker 1: and visions. I tell parents all the time. If you're

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Speaker 1: not talking to your kids about dreams every ninety days,

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Speaker 1: that's a mistake. Man, that's a mistake because young people

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Speaker 1: change more often than you think. But if you're not

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Speaker 1: revamping your dreams every ninety days as an adult, you're

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Speaker 1: making a mistake because guess what you change also now

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Speaker 1: you know may not change as often as your children,

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Speaker 1: because you become a little bit more subtle when you're older.

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Speaker 1: But you've got to refurbish these dreams. You gotta dust

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Speaker 1: them off. You gotta keep reminding yourself or what the

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Speaker 1: purpose is, because the dream provides purpose. You wake up

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Speaker 1: in the morning because of what you dream to be.

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Speaker 1: You get excited when the lawn clock. Get our goals

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Speaker 1: off because of what you dream to be. Man, don't

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Speaker 1: let nobody fool you. Now, listen to me. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: say this again. Education is important and it's critical to

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Speaker 1: certain things in life, but you can actually make it

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Speaker 1: in this world without one. Now, do you need to

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Speaker 1: have some basics under your belt? I strongly suggest you do.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not saying at all that you don't need school.

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Speaker 1: Because you do. School offers you a way to become

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Speaker 1: well rounded. That's the thing that school does for you

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Speaker 1: a great deal. It not only educates you, it gives

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Speaker 1: you social skills. It teaches you how to be well rounded.

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Speaker 1: It teaches you how to adapt. It teaches you the

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Speaker 1: tool of memorization. So I'm not knocking it at all.

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Speaker 1: But what I am saying to you, if you are

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Speaker 1: like me in any way and you're just not a

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Speaker 1: school person, what you're gonna do? You can still be something.

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Speaker 1: If you've blown your education opportunity in life, you can

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Speaker 1: still be something. If you just don't feel like you

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Speaker 1: can do school again, you can still be something. Because

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Speaker 1: the scripture says a man without a dream or vision

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Speaker 1: shall perish. I'm old the Bible inside out. I don't

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Speaker 1: know it. I didn't go to theology school anything, so

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Speaker 1: I can't quote it like people can oftentimes. But I

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Speaker 1: don't really don't recall ever going to Sunday School or

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Speaker 1: any service I've ever been to and read a scripture

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Speaker 1: about how necessary your education was. But I have seen

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Speaker 1: repeatedly that a man without a dream or vision shall perish.

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Speaker 1: See the reason You'll die without the dream of the vision,

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Speaker 1: because without the dream of the vision, you'll give up hope.

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Speaker 1: You've heard that so many people say, keep hope alive

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Speaker 1: because it's necessary. The dream, the vision. What you see

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Speaker 1: for yourself, your hope for tomorrow, that impossible thing that

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Speaker 1: nobody else can see except you, that thing that's around

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Speaker 1: in your imagination, that keeps pushing you to make you

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Speaker 1: think that's something out there other than this. For me,

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Speaker 1: If you wake up in the morning and you keep

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Speaker 1: saying yourself, man, that's got to be more to my

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Speaker 1: life than this, that's because it is. That's because it is.

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Speaker 1: Your visions and dreams are out there. And let me

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Speaker 1: tell you something else. You got to make your dreams

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Speaker 1: and visions so big, so big that it causes you

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Speaker 1: to overcome all of your fears. See the fear of

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Speaker 1: failures in number one cause of failure in this country,

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Speaker 1: because people are afraid to fail. But you have to

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Speaker 1: have dreams and visions so big that it just overcomes

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Speaker 1: all of your fears. You've got to want something so big,

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Speaker 1: so dynamic to happen in your life. Man, that you've

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Speaker 1: got to make this happen, and the fear is secondary

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Speaker 1: to all of it, and it will cause you to

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Speaker 1: push through. You've got to dream of something so outstanding

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01:32:08,080 --> 01:32:10,320
Speaker 1: that in order for it to have to in order

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Speaker 1: for it to happen, you absolutely have to have God's help.

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01:32:13,640 --> 01:32:16,559
Speaker 1: If you're dreaming of only stuff that you can accomplish yourself,

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Speaker 1: I got news for you. You ain't dreaming big enough.

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Speaker 1: Start dreaming big. Appreciate dreams. They will change your life.

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Speaker 1: It will change your perspective, It will cause your hope

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Speaker 1: to grow. All right, those are my closing remarks. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: all right for all Steve Every contests no purchase necessary,

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