Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: Connor is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named
Speaker 2: Gso we're about to call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: a second date. But first we have to find out
Speaker 2: about the date. Connor, how long has it been since
Speaker 2: you talked to you.
Speaker 3: It's been a little over a week, and I've I've
Speaker 3: tried everything. I've tried, calling, texting, you know the works.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, that's a frustrating feeling. Maybe she lost her phone.
Speaker 3: That would be a good, excellent right, you be hopeful.
Speaker 5: Why don't you tell us about your date?
Speaker 3: Okay? So we did something that's I don't know, I
Speaker 3: guess it's a little quirky. It was a scavenger hunt
Speaker 3: at the Art Museum downtown. And basically, you like download
Speaker 3: this app, right, and it gives you all these clues
Speaker 3: and like riddles to solve, and you basically like run
Speaker 3: around finding stuff, like, you know, the ugliest statue or
Speaker 3: the most romantic painting. And we were like when we started,
Speaker 3: I was like, you know, do you ever watch like
Speaker 3: Amazing Race or any of those like reality shows. And
Speaker 3: she was like, yeah, let's yeah, I love those. I
Speaker 3: love that stuff. So I was like me too, Let's
Speaker 3: like pretend we're on one of those. So I don't know,
Speaker 3: there was like a lot of playful banter conversation. Some
Speaker 3: of those conversations got like pretty deep, and we were
Speaker 3: like it felt very like easy and intimate because we
Speaker 3: were doing things like we were sharing our earbuds to
Speaker 3: listen to the audio tour and we were like, we
Speaker 3: kept making fun of how the like narrator sounded very dramatic,
Speaker 3: So I don't know, we were just having fun, you know, yeah.
Speaker 5: And it seemed like she was super into it too.
Speaker 3: Oh totally. It was easy. We were it. To me,
Speaker 3: it was like we were in our own bubble. Like
Speaker 3: even at one point, like we sat we were sitting
Speaker 3: and we found this like weird abstract sculpture that was
Speaker 3: on the like scavenger hunt, and we just sat there
Speaker 3: and before I knew it, I looked at my watch
Speaker 3: and forty minutes had passed. We had just been like
Speaker 3: talking and I don't know, like you know that kind
Speaker 3: of when something like that happens. It just feels like
Speaker 3: you clicked and it doesn't happen that much. So I
Speaker 3: really felt like we clicked.
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, So why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3: Well, that's it. I don't know, because I guess I've
Speaker 3: never had a date that I would actually describe as
Speaker 3: like fun. I feel like I meet a girl, I
Speaker 3: go out on like the obligatory coffee date. We have
Speaker 3: small talk, or there's like an awkward dinner where you're wondering,
Speaker 3: oh am I paying for this? Or we splitting it
Speaker 3: like it's just so awkward. And this was not any
Speaker 3: of that. It's kind of like we were I don't know,
Speaker 3: we were on like a little adventure, you know.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And I think the part that was like I'm not
Speaker 3: trying to sound corny or anything, but like the part
Speaker 3: that was most attractive is that I got to see
Speaker 3: her brain at work, you know, like how she saws
Speaker 3: stuff and like how she thinks and how she approaches
Speaker 3: the world. And I was just very very attracted by
Speaker 3: what I saw.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're into her, into her?
Speaker 6: I am.
Speaker 3: It's weird, Like she even when she even made this
Speaker 3: super dry joke about modern art that like no one
Speaker 3: else would have caught and I to this like a
Speaker 3: week later, I'm thinking about it every single day, Like
Speaker 3: the joke like replays in my head, and I'm like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's just so smart, you know, you
Speaker 3: don't you don't run into someone who's like as attractive
Speaker 3: but also so interesting and so easy to have fun with.
Speaker 5: Yeah, are you smart too?
Speaker 4: Because I mean, if we're thinking about what could have
Speaker 4: gone wrong, I don't know if she's super intellectual and
Speaker 4: maybe you can't think of anything, like there weren't even
Speaker 4: any awkward moments.
Speaker 3: I didn't have any, and like I'd like to think
Speaker 3: that I'm pretty smart, which is why I'm always looking
Speaker 3: for intelligence as like a part of the package. So no,
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think that would be it. I
Speaker 3: would be pretty surprised if she didn't find like, you know,
Speaker 3: she didn't feel like I was keeping up.
Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 2: for you. Then we'll play a song, come back call
Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: you or if you lost her phone.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and then we're never to get you a second date.
Speaker 3: Okay, thanks. I would appreciate that.
Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song come back and get
Speaker 2: your first date follow up next.
Speaker 1: First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow Up
Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Connor is on the
Speaker 2: phone and Connor is getting ghosted by a woman named Giso.
Speaker 2: We're about to call her and see if she'll tell
Speaker 2: us the reason she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: a second date. But first, Connor, why don't you break
Speaker 2: down your date again real quick with you?
Speaker 3: Yeah? It was perfect at least on my end, and
Speaker 3: I thought she had fune. We went to the Art
Speaker 3: Museum downtown. We like downloaded this app where you can
Speaker 3: go on scavenger hunt and solve riddles and like find
Speaker 3: different pieces of art, and it was it was everything
Speaker 3: I looked for and to date, it was fun, it
Speaker 3: was easy to talk to her. We totally clicked, and yeah,
Speaker 3: I just really feel like I got a glimpse into
Speaker 3: not only like not only her, but like how her
Speaker 3: brain works, which, like I said, sounds kind of corny,
Speaker 3: But I am really into this girl, So I'm really
Speaker 3: hoping that there's some I hope there's some fluke that
Speaker 3: I was asked to Why she's not like responding to me?
Speaker 6: Okay? Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3: As ready as I'll ever be?
Speaker 6: All right, here we go, Hello him, I speak to you. Please?
Speaker 2: Hey, Gia, how are you? This is the Jubil Show.
Speaker 2: It's a radio show.
Speaker 5: Hi, Gia, I'm Nina.
Speaker 6: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubil. How are
Speaker 6: you hi?
Speaker 3: Good?
Speaker 5: Think?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Are you? Do you know the show?
Speaker 5: Not like that?
Speaker 7: Well okay, I don't remember submitting to anything.
Speaker 8: But.
Speaker 2: Well I don't think you did. But we did get
Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody who listens to the show.
Speaker 2: That's why we're on the shoe. Oh cool, okay, you
Speaker 2: have the most chill attitude. Well, we do a segment
Speaker 2: on the show that's called the First Date follow Up.
Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 2: somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person
Speaker 2: can help.
Speaker 6: Us call you to ask us why you're ghosting them?
Speaker 5: Who are you ghosting?
Speaker 6: So Connor, Yes, it is about Connor.
Speaker 2: He said that he really liked you, thought your date
Speaker 2: was great, and it's confused that it's been you know,
Speaker 2: over a week now and you haven't responded to him.
Speaker 6: Do you mind telling us why?
Speaker 7: Yeah? Well, oh my goodness. The date was fun, like
Speaker 7: surprisingly fun. He's you know, clever and charming, but also
Speaker 7: he was just a.
Speaker 6: Lot a lot What does that mean?
Speaker 7: Well, you know how people can just like there's a
Speaker 7: line of like too much sometimes. At first we were
Speaker 7: clicking and like I thought it was, you know, cute,
Speaker 7: how into the scavenger he wasn't, you know, I love
Speaker 7: like interactive things and games and everything, but he kept
Speaker 7: making like literally everything into a bit just the whole time,
Speaker 7: like narrating the date in a god the worst fake
Speaker 7: British accent I've ever heard. You know, it's cute the
Speaker 7: first time, but not like you know, an hour later,
Speaker 7: and then you know, trying to solve clues that like
Speaker 7: weren't even you know, part of the game, and you know,
Speaker 7: high fiving strangers like like not everyone listen to to
Speaker 7: this dude, you know, yeah, I mean that's kind.
Speaker 5: Of a warm energy, you.
Speaker 7: Know, yeah, I mean like like this old guy just
Speaker 7: kind of looked at him weird, which actually was pretty funny.
Speaker 7: But then he like he climbed up on a fountain
Speaker 7: to like look for another clue.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 7: It set off his emotional arm and this was then
Speaker 7: sing like a docent uh huh yeah, yeah, like he
Speaker 7: got into like an argument with him and like they
Speaker 7: were starting to like call security.
Speaker 3: He was arguing.
Speaker 7: About whether this, like you know, I've seen it in
Speaker 7: different TV shows where it's like a banana or a
Speaker 7: fire extinguisher or something just like on the wall, whether
Speaker 7: that counts as art, you know, like having this debate
Speaker 7: about modern art. And it was just like I feel
Speaker 7: like those two tables just kind of like explain it
Speaker 7: the best. It was just like chaotic energy, and I
Speaker 7: was just like at first I was excited, but but
Speaker 7: then by the end, I was just exhausted. Wait.
Speaker 3: Wait, that's why you got to me because I was
Speaker 3: too fun.
Speaker 9: You guys didn't she was on here, you didn't.
Speaker 3: You didn't say anything. I mean you were laughing and
Speaker 3: we were having a really good time. We're having fun.
Speaker 7: We were, But then I also laugh when I'm stressed,
Speaker 7: like I'm nervous, you know, like I'm not going to
Speaker 7: tell someone that I barely know like how to not
Speaker 7: act when they're having fun. And yeah, some of it
Speaker 7: was fun and funny, but then I was just like,
Speaker 7: by the end of it, I didn't feel safe leaving
Speaker 7: you on supervised in public.
Speaker 9: I feel like you should have had one of those
Speaker 9: bad beliefs. Listen. Yeah, I wasn't trying to be extra.
Speaker 9: I just I really liked you.
Speaker 3: I was nervous, so I leaned into the jokes because
Speaker 3: it felt easier than like being awkward or quiet or
Speaker 3: like too serious.
Speaker 7: I get that. However, it's like okay to be quiet
Speaker 7: for a little bit in a museum, you know, there
Speaker 7: wasn't any room for just like being and like stopping
Speaker 7: and observing. It was just like onto the next, on
Speaker 7: to the next. It was like being stuck in an improv.
Speaker 3: Oh well, look, I know I can be a lot,
Speaker 3: but but like on that date, I swear I was
Speaker 3: not putting on a show. I was genuinely having one
Speaker 3: of the best dates I've ever had in my life.
Speaker 3: And I was just so surprised and it was so
Speaker 3: refreshing that you were so smart and funny, and you
Speaker 3: you made art to me feel like less pretentious. So
Speaker 3: I just didn't want it to end.
Speaker 5: Geah, he loves your brain.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, that's really sweet.
Speaker 7: Actually, thank you.
Speaker 3: I mean, listen, I'm not looking for you to change
Speaker 3: your vibe or anything. Like if you're Camra Mail, that's great,
Speaker 3: But I don't know Camma Mail and Espresso Espresso can
Speaker 3: work together, balance through thatselves, each other out or whatever.
Speaker 5: Right, so you're Espresso.
Speaker 8: I mean, I do like lavender more than cam meal.
Speaker 8: But what you want to be a lot like yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 8: See I can be a whole day macchiato if you'll
Speaker 8: let me.
Speaker 2: What do you think, Geo, you want to let him
Speaker 2: be a macchiato? Would you go on another date with.
Speaker 7: Okay?
Speaker 3: Let me think. I appreciate the honesty.
Speaker 8: I do.
Speaker 7: I did have a good time, minus apart where I
Speaker 7: thought we were going to get a band from the museum.
Speaker 3: Forever there's coming up. I will not climb on fountains.
Speaker 3: I will not climb on fountains. That's where I will.
Speaker 3: I will not get in fights with the dose and
Speaker 3: and there will be no fake accents and requested.
Speaker 7: It like maybe their next date is maybe signing up
Speaker 7: for an improv show or something.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think you should give we should give
Speaker 3: it one more shot.
Speaker 7: Yeah you will, you will yeah, because even today maybe
Speaker 7: last Yay.
Speaker 3: All right, sweet, this is awesome. Oh yes, this is
Speaker 3: exactly how I hope this would go. This is great.
Speaker 7: Okay, well I'll text you and we can go get
Speaker 7: those lattes and play the next thing.
Speaker 3: Cool. Just let me know when and I won't be latte.
Speaker 5: What what does that mean?
Speaker 3: Like late? Like like latte late?
Speaker 6: All right, you will first date, follow up