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<v Speaker 1>I think anything works as much as you put the

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<v Speaker 1>effort in, as much as you put the work in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you can't just.

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<v Speaker 1>Write on board and think, oh, I wrote these on

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<v Speaker 1>the board. So this is gonna happen in twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be my year. Man.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, what's up?

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all's your girl lex Pete and it's your girls are

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<v Speaker 4>in the call and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds, where

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<v Speaker 2>mind speaks sober thoughts.

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<v Speaker 4>We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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<v Speaker 4>guests today.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's New Year's a.

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<v Speaker 2>New year. I love a new year, So bring it on,

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<v Speaker 2>Bring it on.

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<v Speaker 4>So I want you to know this episode, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be reminiscing, but we're also going to be expiring. This

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<v Speaker 4>is gonna be an episode about hope and faith and positivity.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like that's how you have to bring in

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<v Speaker 4>the new year. Bare minimum. I get it. We depressed,

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<v Speaker 4>we sad. Life is hard, but bare minimum. Please at

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<v Speaker 4>midnight January one, bring in that new year.

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<v Speaker 2>With hope, faith. And if you don't do it on January.

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<v Speaker 4>One, hey, try again on the second, try again on

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<v Speaker 4>the third.

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<v Speaker 2>Just keep trying and trying. Come on, lin rock that

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<v Speaker 2>boat and tell them. I'm telling them.

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<v Speaker 1>I just told him what you did do show off

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<v Speaker 1>and dragon if at first you don't succeed. She was

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<v Speaker 1>onto something when she said.

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<v Speaker 2>That, don't stop, don't stop believe.

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<v Speaker 4>And that was a good one. Sorry, you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>go this way with it, don't stop and you go.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going, can't stop, won't stop rocking Phillip Records

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<v Speaker 1>because we get down.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta get down.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, come on, ain't that ice cube?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't stop. You can hit it.

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<v Speaker 4>We gonna do, we were gonna do, We're gonna do.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. I knew I would put you into it.

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<v Speaker 2>I know into it, put you into it.

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<v Speaker 4>I used to want to go, so y'all have to realize.

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<v Speaker 4>When I was younger, I could. I thought when I

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<v Speaker 4>went to the club, they were gonna play ice Cube.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, don't stop, get get it for real, don't stop.

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<v Speaker 2>You can hit it. I will. We're gonna, We're gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>We were gonna zoo, we were.

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<v Speaker 4>Gonna Oh my god. I wanted to be in the

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<v Speaker 4>club when they played that. You know, when when the

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<v Speaker 4>adults were in the club when that came out, they

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<v Speaker 4>had a ball.

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<v Speaker 1>It reminds me of Friday after next That party looked.

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<v Speaker 2>So crunk, crunk.

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<v Speaker 4>It wasn't lit, it wasn't jump cru it was it

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<v Speaker 4>was crunk.

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<v Speaker 1>That party looked so crunk, that party at their apartment

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<v Speaker 1>that they was about to get a VI from Merry Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's what I was gonna say too. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>They did the.

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<v Speaker 2>Club party in the club. I liked. I liked the

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<v Speaker 2>dance battle. Personally.

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<v Speaker 1>I have always wanted to go to the club and

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<v Speaker 1>have a dance battle with.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody, you know who you need to And I.

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<v Speaker 1>Never did that. Who I thought she was gonna say you,

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<v Speaker 1>because I would say I've been in the club with

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<v Speaker 1>too many a time.

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<v Speaker 2>We've never had a dance No.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, go to the club with guess who was dance.

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<v Speaker 2>Battling her on the floor. Now, No, me and be Lyn?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, well, okay, no, what I'm talking about. When

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<v Speaker 2>we went over there, me and be Lynn.

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<v Speaker 4>Had a whole dance battle. It was a whole thing,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's what I posted for her birthday thing. But

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<v Speaker 4>outside of that, because we fen have be lyin on

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<v Speaker 4>the show, we are because that's our y'all. So we

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<v Speaker 4>just went to the Usher concert. When I tell y'all,

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<v Speaker 4>me and bee Lynn danced the whole time. We did

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<v Speaker 4>not stop. The lady at the end of the show said, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>Usher should have paid y'all and brought y'all on stage.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how hard we dance. Y'all have to go watch

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<v Speaker 4>that vlog. Be Lynn has a blog out of us

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<v Speaker 4>on that night. I have never danced so hard in

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<v Speaker 4>my entire life. I've never been no, never, I've never

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<v Speaker 4>been front row at a concert though.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you have you been front row at like a

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<v Speaker 4>major concert before?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I haven't. I haven't, so you know how it

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<v Speaker 2>feels being front row? It's fun?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Oh my god. Then Usher performed my favorite song,

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<v Speaker 4>What's your favorite? For two seconds? That's in a pocket?

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<v Speaker 4>Usher tell me people don't know that song.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't tell me. Oh you know that song? He was

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<v Speaker 2>skating too, so he came out skating to that beach. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was cutting up.

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<v Speaker 1>I have fine at the Usher concert too. I went

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<v Speaker 1>to the Usher concert too.

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<v Speaker 4>Somebody said they seen you. It's like I didn't want to,

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<v Speaker 4>they said on my live they said, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 4>I've seen dre at the concert. But I know how

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<v Speaker 4>she is, and I didn't want to feel like I

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<v Speaker 4>was trying to clock her, so I left her alone

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<v Speaker 4>because that was one of my men. Yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 4>she said. That's what she said.

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<v Speaker 2>It was even love in this club. I was kissing

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<v Speaker 2>in the club concert.

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<v Speaker 1>No, of course, we are a classy bass.

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<v Speaker 2>All are not classy bassed.

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<v Speaker 3>We are. I've been to the club with y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>What we be doing, y'all be he be smacking out

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<v Speaker 2>as I'll be so grossed out.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he don't.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna talk about that later in the bed. He don't. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>he does.

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<v Speaker 4>He No, you know what I say. I said something

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<v Speaker 4>to him one day. I said, yeah, cause she be

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<v Speaker 4>twisting that ass were looking good. He said facts.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, excuse me, sir, Now, we wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>We definitely was not kissing, but it was very much

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<v Speaker 1>given love in the club, like he was singing to me.

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<v Speaker 1>He kept recording me. He was in the videos the

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<v Speaker 1>next day of.

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<v Speaker 2>Like him recording me. It was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, to know how a bunch of people I

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<v Speaker 1>knew though, I was like, which I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I at this point, it's like, anyway, shall.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like. This is the thing because we just

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this on the Christmas episode. My thing gets

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care about people knowing who I'm dating because

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<v Speaker 1>it ain't no secret, you know what I mean. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like for me to be loud and

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<v Speaker 1>proud and be posting someone, you need to.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel the same way because we at that a

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not I'm not I'm just not doing it. Of course

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<v Speaker 1>we be out together. Of course we be places together because.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, t that's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>We be everywhere together.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was so funny because somebody literally maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>four or five months ago, because I been getting on

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok Live a lot more likely. We we got to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about that real quick about TikTok canceled. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was on TikTok Live a few months ago. If somebody

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<v Speaker 1>was literally leaving his name on the TikTok Live but

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<v Speaker 1>they were spelling it wrong, like they were spelling the

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<v Speaker 1>last name wrong. But you know something, though, because you

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<v Speaker 1>got the first name right and you got part of

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<v Speaker 1>the last name right, how you know that I had

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<v Speaker 1>to block them real quick because you know, it ain't

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<v Speaker 1>even because you know too much. You're trying to spill

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<v Speaker 1>my tea. You can't spell my tea before or me.

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<v Speaker 2>Ring.

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<v Speaker 4>But the badly about blocking somebody because you don't know

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<v Speaker 4>what they're gonna do after that, because they'd be like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh I was right, I mean, and that's well, I'll

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<v Speaker 4>tell you where they was wrong because Shae told me

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<v Speaker 4>she's seen something online and they said I was dating

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<v Speaker 4>mister Reggie.

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<v Speaker 1>People always say that, and I was like, mister Reggie.

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<v Speaker 2>We love, we love, shout to mister Reggie nobody. But

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<v Speaker 2>it never gave me.

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<v Speaker 4>And dating somebody did me that much a go say,

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<v Speaker 4>oh he's too fine, I know you fucking him.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, he is, he's very attractive. But it

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<v Speaker 2>never gave me. And Lex was dating mister Reggie.

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<v Speaker 4>I think people this is the problem though, when we

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<v Speaker 4>talk about platonic friendships, and I like to say this

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<v Speaker 4>because we always we always get on the men, but

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<v Speaker 4>let's talk about the women. We always talk about how

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<v Speaker 4>men don't know how to have platonic relationships. Yes, women,

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<v Speaker 4>when y'all see another woman around a fine attracted man,

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<v Speaker 4>y'all be like, oh, they're not friends. It very much

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<v Speaker 4>is like a cool homegirl homeboyfriends type relationship. Because everybody

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<v Speaker 4>was swearing up and down. They was like, which one

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<v Speaker 4>of y'all, Which are y'all?

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<v Speaker 6>Which one are y'all going home? Reggie neither one but

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<v Speaker 6>shout out to shout out, but no.

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<v Speaker 1>Shane taught me she's seen that online and she was

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah. She was like it was people trying to say, and.

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<v Speaker 2>You are dating mister Reggie. And I was like, for real,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my, I'm crazy. The tea is so cold.

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<v Speaker 4>Somebody tweeted I'm gonna show you the tweet because.

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<v Speaker 2>It threw me for a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that we'd be like kuhaking people these days.

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<v Speaker 1>It'd be so because I know they be mad because

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<v Speaker 1>they really feeling like they be on.

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<v Speaker 4>To some so killer had to on to nothing. Somebody

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<v Speaker 4>had sent me this tweet. Look at this tweet.

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<v Speaker 5>When I've seen this, I said, what do y'all bold?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean partially it was partially cold.

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<v Speaker 2>But still cold. I'm not gonna say, but the tweet

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<v Speaker 2>is obviously.

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<v Speaker 4>But somebody damned my best friend today and was like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh her boyfriend is I was like, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>And then my thing be okay? So then if you

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<v Speaker 1>figured out who it is, bitch, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Want a cookie?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want? We don't got no more.

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<v Speaker 2>We actually ate them all, hate them all, all of them.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean we can get you some We can

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<v Speaker 1>send you a basket, maybe a fruit basket. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what do you want for knowing who me and

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<v Speaker 1>LyX are dating? Like, because the thing about me and you,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't be trying to hide who we're dating because

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<v Speaker 1>we be outside with the nega. It's just again for

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<v Speaker 1>me to post somebody on my social media. I just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't gotta you in my business.

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<v Speaker 1>Because anybody who matters, the people in my personal.

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<v Speaker 2>Life, we know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody knows who I'm dating. Yes, it's like he ain't.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna let us forget it. Okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So I want to get into I want to get

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<v Speaker 4>into the twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty five stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>So so I want to ask so bit I want

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<v Speaker 4>to Okay, I want to ask you this and was so.

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<v Speaker 2>Good, don't stop getting get it a week. Don't stop

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<v Speaker 2>let me get it a week unless.

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<v Speaker 4>Do we We're gonna do we We're gonna do we Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>come on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yous make you feel like you gotta make a face

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<v Speaker 1>like these.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, you know how it was like that ship was

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<v Speaker 2>so fire my head was Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So I have to tell y'all story because we're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>get into our twenty twenty five goals. So Toy wants

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<v Speaker 4>you to think about your goals, Dre, I want to

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<v Speaker 4>think about your goals, because I'm gonna talk about my goals.

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<v Speaker 2>First, I'm gonna start off. I'm gonna kick it off.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, y'all? As your girl XP and it's your

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<v Speaker 4>results of Maybury. So since we have started this show,

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<v Speaker 4>this show has been such a blessing and I'm so

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<v Speaker 4>grateful that we can go into this new year another

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<v Speaker 4>year of poor Minds going up the show is still growing.

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<v Speaker 2>The views are going up.

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<v Speaker 4>Show is going crazy right now, and it's crazy because

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<v Speaker 4>we've been doing this for so long and we're still growing.

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<v Speaker 4>So I say all that to say, since the beginning

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<v Speaker 4>of time, everybody's like, Lex, do stand up Legs, do

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<v Speaker 4>stand up?

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<v Speaker 2>Lex. We want to see you in the movie. Lex.

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<v Speaker 4>We want to see you in this and this and that.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, maybe I don't want to do

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<v Speaker 4>stand up. I was like, maybe acting. I could do

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<v Speaker 4>comedic acting. And even everybody that's on the team at

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<v Speaker 4>eighty five, like Ryan Chad, they've always they've all told

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<v Speaker 4>me like, you can make a whole other bag doing

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<v Speaker 4>this because you aren't. You're so much better than everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>You're funny, like Carlos has told me that. Everybody. So

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, you know what I want to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, I'm going to start acting classes. I said

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<v Speaker 4>this two years ago, and I never did it. I

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<v Speaker 4>never fucking did it, cause I was just like, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know what was holding me back. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to go by myself. I just don't

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<v Speaker 4>want to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>And then like as time went on, I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>Poor Minds is so good and we're here, but I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>what else Cause I'm like, if I'm being honest right now,

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<v Speaker 4>I love Poor Minds and I've loved what we've done,

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<v Speaker 4>but this is like, I'm not challenged anymore. Like I

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<v Speaker 4>sit here, this is real conversation at this point. This

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<v Speaker 4>is not work to me. I'm literally when we on

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<v Speaker 4>this couch, I'm literally talking to my friend. We know

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<v Speaker 4>how to, you know, keep things a little one, keep

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<v Speaker 4>it cute. But I think I was like, Okay, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>I should really challenge myself. But I was like, I

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<v Speaker 4>know I can act. I'm so fucking good, I'm so

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<v Speaker 4>fucking amazing. So I got signed up for an acting

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<v Speaker 4>class that they told me about two years ago, and

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<v Speaker 4>I finally went.

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<v Speaker 2>I fucking suck. I'm big, not good, I'm t rash,

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<v Speaker 2>trash boy.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought I was gonna go in there and kill that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I'm ass three packs of ass. Actually, but it's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard.

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<v Speaker 4>Acting is hard, and this is an improv class on

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<v Speaker 4>top of that. So but I went the first time,

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<v Speaker 4>and the first time I went, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was in the advanced class. I was like, oh, I can't.

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<v Speaker 4>So I went to the beginner's class and that was

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<v Speaker 4>a little so honestly.

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<v Speaker 2>It's something you went to the beginners went to the

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<v Speaker 2>second the second time, yes, and it was it was

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<v Speaker 2>too hard, but it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Better, And I feel like now I look forward to

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<v Speaker 4>it because now I'm challenged. I feel like I'm doing

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<v Speaker 4>something that's challenging to me. So for twenty twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>Five, that's my goal. I really want to like get

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<v Speaker 2>into acting and take it serious. Cause I was talking

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<v Speaker 2>to a vet about being ling my homegirl. We talked

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<v Speaker 2>about bling and she is hilarious.

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<v Speaker 4>If y'all think I'm crazy, I have never met somebody

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm not gonna lie. That was like beautiful and

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<v Speaker 4>really fucking funny. And I'm not saying that there's not

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<v Speaker 4>women out there like that. I'm just saying like, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't really I don't personally meet a lot of women

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<v Speaker 4>like that. So when I met her, I'm like, man,

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<v Speaker 4>this girl is really fucking funny and she's gorgeous. So

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<v Speaker 4>seeing her like do her skits and do her thing,

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<v Speaker 4>and then she dropped this like Halloween thing, but she

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<v Speaker 4>was like seriously acting like she got it serious.

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<v Speaker 2>But she was fucking phenomenal. I was like, oh, she

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<v Speaker 2>can really act, but she's never taken acting classes and

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<v Speaker 2>never did anything. She's like, oh, I want to take

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<v Speaker 2>acting classes with you. I said, oh, you ain't finna.

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<v Speaker 4>Come with me and burst me go yeah, but I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gonna let her come on me still, but it motivated me.

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<v Speaker 4>So in twenty twenty five, I want to focus on

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<v Speaker 4>my acting for me, but I also want to surround

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<v Speaker 4>myself with people who motivate me and dis and even

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<v Speaker 4>with you, like seeing how hard you go with like

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<v Speaker 4>Muse Beauty and stuff, I'm like, that's how hard I

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<v Speaker 4>want to go with my business as far as like

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<v Speaker 4>Love Lexp and my other venture that I'm working on.

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<v Speaker 2>Because by the time this drops.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it'll everything will be out in the open

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<v Speaker 4>and the YouTube will be up and running. So but

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<v Speaker 4>I know it's easy to start something, but it's not

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<v Speaker 4>easy to stay with it. And the way you have

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<v Speaker 4>stuck with Muse Beauty, Baby, you don't play, she gonna

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<v Speaker 4>drop them. So I feel like for twenty twenty five,

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<v Speaker 4>that's my goal. Stick with my acting classes, stick with

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<v Speaker 4>my Love Lexp, and surround myself with people.

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<v Speaker 2>Who inspire me. Okay, that's good. Goals. Yeah, now what

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<v Speaker 2>you got for me?

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to scale my business this year. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like the first two years that I ran used,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously, I'm gonna be honest, it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of I have stayed consistent because it's something that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>passionate about, but it's definitely been hard with simultaneously doing

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<v Speaker 1>poor Like I feel like mus has always kind of

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<v Speaker 1>take took in the back burner when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>like poor minds, you know what I mean, because poor

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<v Speaker 1>Minds is obviously like my bread and butter. This is

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<v Speaker 1>how I make majority of my money, this is how

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<v Speaker 1>I sustain my livelihood. So with MUSE, it's just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of always taken the back burner, and I really want

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<v Speaker 1>to scale it this year. Like I've made really good

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<v Speaker 1>money from it in the past two years, but I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I haven't even really went as hard as

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<v Speaker 1>I could. So I'm so a lot of the time,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, damn, if I haven't even really been going

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<v Speaker 1>as hard as I could these past two years, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've made this, imagine what I could do if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really like trying to scale it, if I'm really like

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<v Speaker 1>running ass because all of the money that I've made truly,

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<v Speaker 1>which is something that I really am very proud of

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe I could brag a little bit about. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've made almost six figures in the past two years

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<v Speaker 1>from us, and I have had no promotion from other

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<v Speaker 1>people other than mysel so other than just talking about

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<v Speaker 1>it on poor Minds, you know what I mean, talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it on my social media, whether I'm alive and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that, I have not had any brand ambassadors.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't paid anybody, I haven't really ran ads, forms

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<v Speaker 1>online and stuff. So all of the sales have been

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<v Speaker 1>for me and word of my outh. So I'm very

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<v Speaker 1>proud of it, cause it's hard to run a small,

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<v Speaker 1>small black business by yourself. So this year, I really

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<v Speaker 1>want to focus on scaling the business. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be consistently coming out with new products like every few

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<v Speaker 1>of us, because I do come out with new products

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<v Speaker 1>every year, but I want it to be like every

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<v Speaker 1>quarter type of thing. I really want to start running ads,

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to start a brand ambassador program, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just really want to scale the business. And my

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<v Speaker 1>goal is to get it into stores like Sophora or

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<v Speaker 1>to That's like my ultimate goal.

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<v Speaker 2>And then.

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<v Speaker 1>With poor minds. I really want us to gets picked

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<v Speaker 1>up as a talk show.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's that's like.

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<v Speaker 1>A major goal for me when it comes to Poormond

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, no shade. It was maybe a little shade,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I feel like we kind of like dominated

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<v Speaker 1>the podcasting lane to be honest as far as like

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<v Speaker 1>black meet, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Think that to be and when I'm not saying like

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<v Speaker 4>nobody's but we started off as there wasn't no TikTok around.

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't have a TikTok audience where you can make

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<v Speaker 4>thirty second videos.

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<v Speaker 2>We weren't viners, we weren't nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>And to the fact of the matter is like when

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<v Speaker 4>we dropped that NAB episode, it hit a hundred k

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<v Speaker 4>in like six seven.

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<v Speaker 2>Days on YouTube long form content.

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<v Speaker 4>I say that bragging because people are not doing that

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<v Speaker 4>in long form content. People want to see a TikTok.

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<v Speaker 4>They want you to show how to make a turkey

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<v Speaker 4>mac and cheese yams in thirty seconds.

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<v Speaker 2>We need to see it all and we know exactly

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<v Speaker 2>what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So the fact that we are having people sit

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<v Speaker 4>down and watch this long form content as a feed

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<v Speaker 4>within itself.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's just our visuals.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like the one hundred k on YouTube that

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<v Speaker 1>we get almost every week, that's just the visuals. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not even including our audio numbers, because we do like

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<v Speaker 1>another fifty k sixty k in audio.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I think that's an amazing feed.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's really hard to do what we've done, and

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<v Speaker 1>not only do our stuffs get a lot of views

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<v Speaker 1>on YouTube, but it get a lot of views on

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok and Instagram and stuff too. So my next goal

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<v Speaker 1>with Poor Mind Star, I really wanted to get picked

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<v Speaker 1>up as a show because I don't know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes kind of feel like we're so much bigger than

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast at this point. And then I also am

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<v Speaker 1>starting my own YouTube channel as well, which like when

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<v Speaker 1>this episode comes out, the first episode will be up

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<v Speaker 1>as well. And I just want to like try to

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<v Speaker 1>be consistent with logging and showing like more of my

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<v Speaker 1>life because I feel like it's something that people are

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<v Speaker 1>really interested in, but I've just always shied away from me.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like you would do so good in that

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<v Speaker 4>like Beauty Lane, that like Jackie ain't at us and.

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe it's not beauty, but only because only reason

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<v Speaker 1>I say no is because like people like Jackie, they

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<v Speaker 1>really do looks.

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<v Speaker 2>I literally wear the same Like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna switch up my I can show different lip combos,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I don't be switching my makeup.

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<v Speaker 4>But what I'm saying is it's not about like switching

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<v Speaker 4>up looks. It's about Okay, I like I tried this foundation,

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<v Speaker 4>it didn't work. You can do the same look with

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<v Speaker 4>different products that People just want to see what works

0:22:40.600 --> 0:22:42.600
<v Speaker 4>for your skin, what you're doing with this, what you're

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<v Speaker 4>doing with that. But I think that Beauty Lane is

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<v Speaker 4>so good for you because even but when I say

0:22:47.840 --> 0:22:49.919
<v Speaker 4>beauty Lane, it's like also like get ready with me?

0:22:50.000 --> 0:22:52.120
<v Speaker 4>Is they want to see what you're what lotion you're

0:22:52.119 --> 0:22:55.199
<v Speaker 4>putting on. People just want to see that. Even so

0:22:55.320 --> 0:22:57.639
<v Speaker 4>I think like that, like that's why I'm excited for

0:22:57.680 --> 0:22:59.560
<v Speaker 4>your YouTube because I know it's gonna do well.

0:23:00.119 --> 0:23:03.640
<v Speaker 2>Ask me about mine. Yes to all that beauty.

0:23:03.320 --> 0:23:07.159
<v Speaker 4>Getting ready, your makeup, your hair, all that stuff. I

0:23:07.160 --> 0:23:09.680
<v Speaker 4>think that is like even your workouts, like people want

0:23:09.680 --> 0:23:11.840
<v Speaker 4>to see you work out all this stuff. I think

0:23:11.840 --> 0:23:13.920
<v Speaker 4>that's like the perfect line for you. And that's why

0:23:13.960 --> 0:23:15.960
<v Speaker 4>I said I think Poor Minds is so good because

0:23:15.960 --> 0:23:19.720
<v Speaker 4>we're so opposite. So it's like people want to hear

0:23:19.760 --> 0:23:22.200
<v Speaker 4>me talk. They want to hear what movies, what I

0:23:22.200 --> 0:23:24.639
<v Speaker 4>think about this, they want to hear the gossip and

0:23:24.720 --> 0:23:27.439
<v Speaker 4>so and then like so we can go our separate

0:23:27.480 --> 0:23:28.359
<v Speaker 4>ways and do this.

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<v Speaker 2>So we'll still be on YouTube.

0:23:30.280 --> 0:23:33.840
<v Speaker 4>But for Poor Minds, it's time to be on HBO Max,

0:23:33.880 --> 0:23:35.520
<v Speaker 4>it's time to be on a Netflix.

0:23:35.600 --> 0:23:37.720
<v Speaker 2>It's time to you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>And also to another goal because I don't know, girl,

0:23:40.400 --> 0:23:41.719
<v Speaker 1>I got a lot of goals because I did. I

0:23:41.720 --> 0:23:44.639
<v Speaker 1>wrote all my goals down for twenty twenty five, and

0:23:45.400 --> 0:23:48.159
<v Speaker 1>I really want to start working on our scripty shows too,

0:23:48.720 --> 0:23:50.479
<v Speaker 1>which I feel like we've never talked about that on

0:23:50.520 --> 0:23:53.760
<v Speaker 1>Poor Minds, but you haven't by all. That's something that

0:23:53.840 --> 0:23:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I really would like to like get started in twenty

0:23:57.960 --> 0:24:00.520
<v Speaker 1>twenty five because I feel like it's such it's gonna

0:24:00.520 --> 0:24:01.800
<v Speaker 1>be such a good show.

0:24:02.359 --> 0:24:06.520
<v Speaker 4>And you know they're I and I'm gonna just I'm

0:24:06.520 --> 0:24:08.400
<v Speaker 4>gonna throw her name out there because I be talking

0:24:08.440 --> 0:24:10.720
<v Speaker 4>to her in the DMS and that's my girl, and

0:24:10.800 --> 0:24:12.640
<v Speaker 4>we had her on the show. Shout out to Dara.

0:24:12.960 --> 0:24:15.000
<v Speaker 4>She had the show dr from Detroit. But she's so

0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:18.399
<v Speaker 4>brilliant when we work on this show. If I'm not

0:24:18.440 --> 0:24:21.520
<v Speaker 4>working with Lisa, I want to work with Dara because

0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:25.480
<v Speaker 4>I love her. She's so creative and she's so amazing.

0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:28.359
<v Speaker 4>So I feel like, if there's any two people that

0:24:28.400 --> 0:24:30.280
<v Speaker 4>could make our vision come to life, it would be

0:24:30.280 --> 0:24:35.000
<v Speaker 4>one of them too, like, because I feel like a

0:24:35.040 --> 0:24:37.600
<v Speaker 4>lot of people look at people like Dara and Issa

0:24:37.640 --> 0:24:39.320
<v Speaker 4>they be like, oh, dre unless they can't relate.

0:24:39.359 --> 0:24:41.719
<v Speaker 1>But when dr sat on this couch, she was like,

0:24:42.359 --> 0:24:44.960
<v Speaker 1>I fuck with you. But I always wonder why do

0:24:45.040 --> 0:24:46.240
<v Speaker 1>people think we can't relate?

0:24:46.520 --> 0:24:48.760
<v Speaker 4>Because they think that we're one way, but they don't

0:24:48.800 --> 0:24:50.520
<v Speaker 4>realize that we're most tight faceted.

0:24:50.640 --> 0:24:51.240
<v Speaker 2>But that's okay.

0:24:51.240 --> 0:24:53.840
<v Speaker 4>We're gonna break down the doors so the girls behind

0:24:53.920 --> 0:24:56.240
<v Speaker 4>us who have podcasts, y'all can come. And it's gonna

0:24:56.240 --> 0:24:58.679
<v Speaker 4>be easy for y'all. That's my goal. I wanted to

0:24:58.680 --> 0:25:03.880
<v Speaker 4>make it easy everybody who's black woman. Whatever, you want

0:25:03.880 --> 0:25:06.320
<v Speaker 4>to sit on the couch and talk about X y Z,

0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:09.200
<v Speaker 4>do it, and it's gonna be easy because they gonna

0:25:09.200 --> 0:25:11.040
<v Speaker 4>believe in you because they see what poor minds did.

0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Because that's all I be for others. The others, Oh.

0:25:15.280 --> 0:25:18.640
<v Speaker 1>For sure, Ty, what's your goals? I have a lot

0:25:18.640 --> 0:25:22.480
<v Speaker 1>of goals. My number one goal is work life balance.

0:25:22.760 --> 0:25:27.480
<v Speaker 1>This year, while super successful my road with Crowns so

0:25:27.600 --> 0:25:31.080
<v Speaker 1>Mixy doing incredible numbers, it was a lot and I

0:25:31.080 --> 0:25:34.760
<v Speaker 1>felt stressed a lot of the year. So my personal

0:25:34.800 --> 0:25:36.560
<v Speaker 1>goal is to go into and just kind of like

0:25:36.600 --> 0:25:39.800
<v Speaker 1>prioritize a lot better and really figure out what direction

0:25:40.000 --> 0:25:43.480
<v Speaker 1>how I want to scale the business. So with so Mixy,

0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:46.080
<v Speaker 1>we're getting more into products. We're stepping away from like

0:25:46.160 --> 0:25:49.520
<v Speaker 1>smaller events, working more with bigger brands and more of

0:25:49.560 --> 0:25:52.200
<v Speaker 1>our corporate clients. So we are closing our books if

0:25:52.240 --> 0:25:55.800
<v Speaker 1>you are not a current client, but.

0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:00.199
<v Speaker 2>Kept cook but.

0:26:00.200 --> 0:26:03.760
<v Speaker 5>Can we were squeezing if we need a little party, yes,

0:26:03.920 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 5>like so we can get an event because I'm like,

0:26:06.800 --> 0:26:10.480
<v Speaker 5>I might want to have a little poor get Yeah, yes,

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:14.880
<v Speaker 5>but your clothes, but that's yes, random people they want

0:26:14.920 --> 0:26:16.400
<v Speaker 5>us to do like their birthday parties.

0:26:16.440 --> 0:26:18.760
<v Speaker 1>We are so thankful for the business, but at this

0:26:18.960 --> 0:26:22.000
<v Speaker 1>time we're just growing at a like an accelerated rate.

0:26:22.040 --> 0:26:25.040
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I just I need bigger Like I'm looking.

0:26:24.800 --> 0:26:26.160
<v Speaker 2>For bigger budgets.

0:26:26.840 --> 0:26:29.080
<v Speaker 1>Be doing a little couple hundred dollars here, No, we

0:26:29.119 --> 0:26:34.200
<v Speaker 1>need commas. So that's definitely a step for so looking

0:26:34.240 --> 0:26:36.960
<v Speaker 1>a scale in that capacity, and our team is expanding

0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:39.440
<v Speaker 1>and then we're coming out with some products, so we

0:26:39.520 --> 0:26:43.080
<v Speaker 1>actually are gonna I've been working with events. We are

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:47.159
<v Speaker 1>working on a cocktail calendar that is dropping now so

0:26:47.200 --> 0:26:49.640
<v Speaker 1>you can get that at www dot se mixy dot

0:26:49.640 --> 0:26:51.920
<v Speaker 1>com and it's going to feature today's cocktail too when

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:57.720
<v Speaker 1>I teach it. And then what else my roll with

0:26:57.760 --> 0:27:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Crown Royal I came in the door, are like really

0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:04.040
<v Speaker 1>doing big things and I just want to continue that trajectory,

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:07.880
<v Speaker 1>continue to bring and lift uplift women of color, specifically

0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:11.000
<v Speaker 1>people in our community, educating on spirits and just really

0:27:11.040 --> 0:27:14.680
<v Speaker 1>like dominating the brand ambassador field for spirits.

0:27:14.880 --> 0:27:19.640
<v Speaker 4>I love that you're doing an amazing job, like Ty,

0:27:19.880 --> 0:27:22.480
<v Speaker 4>when I tell you, you have been such an asset

0:27:22.520 --> 0:27:25.960
<v Speaker 4>to this show, and that's why I say, like, I'm

0:27:26.040 --> 0:27:29.080
<v Speaker 4>so proud of you, thank you, and I know you're

0:27:29.080 --> 0:27:31.480
<v Speaker 4>going to reach your goals, like cause you're so fucking

0:27:31.560 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 4>good like you are. You can nobody can make a

0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:36.879
<v Speaker 4>drink like some I'll be going to put to the

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:38.400
<v Speaker 4>bar telling them how to make a drink.

0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:41.280
<v Speaker 2>Well, let me tell yeah, have you had a blood.

0:27:40.960 --> 0:27:43.919
<v Speaker 4>Orange before whole Adnick, Yeah, they don't be knowing what

0:27:43.960 --> 0:27:44.800
<v Speaker 4>a blood one. Now.

0:27:44.960 --> 0:27:46.159
<v Speaker 2>Nabby's doing her big one is.

0:27:46.320 --> 0:27:49.679
<v Speaker 1>She has definitely helped elevate the show so much with

0:27:49.760 --> 0:27:52.320
<v Speaker 1>her presence. And I love you and we appreciate you,

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:54.560
<v Speaker 1>and I hope that you reach all of your goals.

0:27:54.680 --> 0:27:57.639
<v Speaker 1>Thanks twenty five and hopefully we can support you in

0:27:57.680 --> 0:28:01.879
<v Speaker 1>any way that we hear it. Y'all be years no

0:28:03.200 --> 0:28:05.560
<v Speaker 1>crazy together. So thank y'all for taking me on the

0:28:05.600 --> 0:28:07.280
<v Speaker 1>journey with you.

0:28:07.280 --> 0:28:10.440
<v Speaker 2>You ain't going nowhere. That's when we get our TV.

0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:12.960
<v Speaker 2>When we get our TV deal, is it gonna be.

0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:17.200
<v Speaker 4>Still gonna I'll be like, oh, can I come make drinks? Hell?

0:28:17.359 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 2>No, you can't. What can't? What else can't you? If

0:28:20.800 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 2>it be honest, if we're being honest, no you can't.

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:27.960
<v Speaker 2>What's up? Y'all? Iss your girl x PE and it's

0:28:28.000 --> 0:28:30.280
<v Speaker 2>your girl draining the call. And we have a very

0:28:30.320 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 2>exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. Yes,

0:28:34.840 --> 0:28:35.640
<v Speaker 2>we have a brand.

0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:38.160
<v Speaker 1>New shout dropping y'all on Patreon. It's gonna air on

0:28:38.200 --> 0:28:40.920
<v Speaker 1>September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles. We're gonna be

0:28:40.960 --> 0:28:43.520
<v Speaker 1>doing so much stuff on there. We're gonna be doing challenges.

0:28:43.640 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 1>If you can't go to Bellache, where the hell could

0:28:47.280 --> 0:28:47.440
<v Speaker 1>you go?

0:28:48.640 --> 0:28:51.160
<v Speaker 2>If you can't go to Belloche, what the.

0:28:51.160 --> 0:28:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Hell we're gonna be doing? Talk to me, Chat with me.

0:28:55.240 --> 0:28:56.959
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be spelling at a little tea.

0:28:57.800 --> 0:29:00.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh my girl. Are you doing.

0:29:04.080 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 1>Everything y'all been wanting to see? We're gonna be doing

0:29:06.000 --> 0:29:07.800
<v Speaker 1>it right here on Patreon.

0:29:08.000 --> 0:29:10.400
<v Speaker 4>Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been

0:29:10.440 --> 0:29:13.960
<v Speaker 4>to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's

0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:16.840
<v Speaker 4>gonna be a time. Y'all know poor Minds has grown

0:29:17.080 --> 0:29:19.520
<v Speaker 4>into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a

0:29:19.640 --> 0:29:21.960
<v Speaker 4>lot of fun still over.

0:29:21.760 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 2>Here at poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September.

0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:35.240
<v Speaker 4>Second it's going down, says. I want to talk about

0:29:35.240 --> 0:29:38.840
<v Speaker 4>our favorite poor Minds moments this year. I want to

0:29:38.840 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 4>talk our favorite poor Minds moments. I want to talk

0:29:41.760 --> 0:29:45.120
<v Speaker 4>to the favorite poor Minds. Guess I wanna talk favorite

0:29:45.120 --> 0:29:46.240
<v Speaker 4>poor Minds anything?

0:29:46.760 --> 0:29:49.640
<v Speaker 2>You want to start? Who want to start? I started

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:50.440
<v Speaker 2>last time.

0:29:53.880 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 1>My favorite poor Mind's moments this year when we had

0:30:01.560 --> 0:30:05.440
<v Speaker 1>t Pain on the show. That was amazing. That was

0:30:05.440 --> 0:30:08.720
<v Speaker 1>a full circle moment because we went on t Pain

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:13.480
<v Speaker 1>Show in twenty twenty two. Yes, yes, So having him

0:30:13.480 --> 0:30:16.080
<v Speaker 1>come on Poor Minds was like a full circle moment obviously,

0:30:16.120 --> 0:30:20.760
<v Speaker 1>because I mean it's fucking t Pain, a legend, a legend,

0:30:20.880 --> 0:30:24.400
<v Speaker 1>like we grew up listening to him. He's amazing. He's

0:30:24.440 --> 0:30:27.400
<v Speaker 1>still putting out fire songs for our music. He had

0:30:27.400 --> 0:30:32.520
<v Speaker 1>that song with Glow Reala Like yeah.

0:30:31.280 --> 0:30:34.240
<v Speaker 2>So that was an amazing moment for me.

0:30:35.440 --> 0:30:38.160
<v Speaker 1>Also, I think the episode that we had with Queen

0:30:38.240 --> 0:30:43.400
<v Speaker 1>Leora was really good because I love that we've Like,

0:30:43.560 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 1>to me, it's just so amazing seeing all of these

0:30:46.800 --> 0:30:53.080
<v Speaker 1>young people become successful and rich from TikTok, Like it's amazing.

0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:56.920
<v Speaker 1>It's something that generations before us were not afforded those

0:30:56.960 --> 0:30:59.800
<v Speaker 1>same opportunities. So I love to see the younger people

0:30:59.840 --> 0:31:02.560
<v Speaker 1>like blowing up on TikTok and really getting too a bag.

0:31:03.000 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>And like she came on here, she had so much personality.

0:31:06.160 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 1>She was exactly the same way she was that she

0:31:09.160 --> 0:31:12.120
<v Speaker 1>is on TikTok. Yeah, Like, I loved it. I thought

0:31:12.120 --> 0:31:15.840
<v Speaker 1>it was an amazing episode. Who else was like another

0:31:15.880 --> 0:31:21.360
<v Speaker 1>favorite of mine from this year obviously Devel, Oh, oh

0:31:21.400 --> 0:31:25.640
<v Speaker 1>my god, Devel was like that was the most watched episode.

0:31:25.880 --> 0:31:28.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, I lie, But I'm talking about in

0:31:28.520 --> 0:31:31.400
<v Speaker 1>the amount of period, in the time period, like because

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:34.360
<v Speaker 1>in podcast world they do the thirty day mark. Thirty

0:31:34.440 --> 0:31:38.240
<v Speaker 1>day mark, Devel was the most watched episode. Yeah, for sure,

0:31:38.400 --> 0:31:42.440
<v Speaker 1>for sure. So Devel was like, really dope. I feel

0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:45.760
<v Speaker 1>like it was very refreshing to have a man on

0:31:45.800 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 1>the show that's married, that speaks volumes and speaks very

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:54.200
<v Speaker 1>highly of his wife. They're in a healthy, happy marriage

0:31:54.240 --> 0:31:56.720
<v Speaker 1>and have been married for like twenty years and have

0:31:57.400 --> 0:31:59.520
<v Speaker 1>four kids. Like, I just thought it was a really

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:03.400
<v Speaker 1>dope episode to get, you know, a different perspective, because

0:32:03.400 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, obviously me and you a lot of

0:32:05.200 --> 0:32:07.680
<v Speaker 1>the time have different perspectives, but it's always nice to

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 1>have a man on the show that has a different

0:32:09.840 --> 0:32:13.080
<v Speaker 1>perspective as well, and especially when it's married that's like

0:32:13.120 --> 0:32:17.080
<v Speaker 1>a family man. I really enjoyed the cash All episode

0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:18.760
<v Speaker 1>because we've been wanting cash it All on for a

0:32:18.760 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 1>long time. I love cash All. It was a really

0:32:22.360 --> 0:32:25.680
<v Speaker 1>great episode. She was super dope, super funny, everything I

0:32:25.720 --> 0:32:26.400
<v Speaker 1>thought she would be.

0:32:26.720 --> 0:32:27.200
<v Speaker 2>She was.

0:32:27.680 --> 0:32:30.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it didn't surprise me now me either. She was

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:34.040
<v Speaker 1>everything I thought she was gonna be. So I really

0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:38.040
<v Speaker 1>enjoyed that episode. And then I'm trying to think, what

0:32:38.120 --> 0:32:40.360
<v Speaker 1>did we have some other guests this here, but.

0:32:40.360 --> 0:32:43.400
<v Speaker 4>Talk about like a moment or a clip, like that's

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:44.960
<v Speaker 4>what I said, you look you.

0:32:44.880 --> 0:32:45.520
<v Speaker 2>Were supposed to give.

0:32:46.080 --> 0:32:49.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm just well, no, I mean, I feel like I'm

0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:51.080
<v Speaker 1>just talking about my I mean, you could give clips.

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:53.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about my favorite What was I don't know

0:32:53.800 --> 0:32:55.360
<v Speaker 1>because I can't think of it off the top of

0:32:55.360 --> 0:32:58.080
<v Speaker 1>my head, but those are my favorite guests that we had.

0:32:58.200 --> 0:32:59.520
<v Speaker 2>On those guests.

0:32:59.600 --> 0:33:01.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I wish if I would have known we was

0:33:01.240 --> 0:33:03.360
<v Speaker 1>doing clips, I would have liked, you know, be in

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:04.000
<v Speaker 1>my research.

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:07.280
<v Speaker 2>I didn't think about clips either. Y'all have one either.

0:33:07.960 --> 0:33:09.720
<v Speaker 2>That's crazy because you just want me to get one.

0:33:10.920 --> 0:33:12.720
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know if you was thinking about one.

0:33:13.280 --> 0:33:15.480
<v Speaker 4>No, I know you got one clip you can think about,

0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:19.080
<v Speaker 4>do you know. I mean I'm gonna think you know, Okay,

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:23.280
<v Speaker 4>I'll say this. My favorite clip, My favorite clip of

0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:26.160
<v Speaker 4>the year was when we was talking about the dicks

0:33:26.720 --> 0:33:32.280
<v Speaker 4>with fucking Glamazante and dick up. That was one of

0:33:32.320 --> 0:33:33.040
<v Speaker 4>my favorite clips.

0:33:33.120 --> 0:33:35.040
<v Speaker 5>I mean, if you were saying, females, you would want

0:33:35.040 --> 0:33:36.840
<v Speaker 5>the same d I'm boiling that dick.

0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:40.520
<v Speaker 2>Why was that your favorite? Because it was funny as hell.

0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:44.240
<v Speaker 4>It was funny as hell because Tay was so confused

0:33:44.280 --> 0:33:45.160
<v Speaker 4>because she was like.

0:33:45.160 --> 0:33:47.040
<v Speaker 2>No, I can get my dick's made. I said, hell, no,

0:33:47.200 --> 0:33:50.160
<v Speaker 2>boil that dick up. Bought that dick up.

0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:52.800
<v Speaker 4>That was a That was a good moment. That was

0:33:52.840 --> 0:33:57.280
<v Speaker 4>funny as fuck. That was a good moment as far

0:33:57.320 --> 0:34:00.520
<v Speaker 4>as clips go. Another clip, this is a clip that

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:03.600
<v Speaker 4>I actually I don't like, but it's gonna be.

0:34:03.520 --> 0:34:05.720
<v Speaker 2>A classic clip that sticks with us for life. The

0:34:05.760 --> 0:34:09.760
<v Speaker 2>fifty thousand clip that's gonna stick with us for life.

0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:13.480
<v Speaker 4>That wasn't this that was taking fifty thousand dollars, don't date,

0:34:14.960 --> 0:34:18.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm just being for real. Yes, that whole February, that

0:34:18.080 --> 0:34:20.040
<v Speaker 4>was around February was That's.

0:34:19.920 --> 0:34:22.759
<v Speaker 2>The clip that's gonna stick with us for life. Unfortunately,

0:34:22.800 --> 0:34:23.480
<v Speaker 2>because when it's.

0:34:23.440 --> 0:34:27.120
<v Speaker 4>Some thousand dollars, Yeah, fifty thousand dollars clip, Yeah, that's

0:34:27.160 --> 0:34:30.120
<v Speaker 4>a that's a clip that's going to.

0:34:30.360 --> 0:34:33.640
<v Speaker 2>Stick with us, you know, for a long time.

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:36.960
<v Speaker 1>I think for me, if we're talking about moments, like

0:34:37.200 --> 0:34:39.680
<v Speaker 1>a recent moment, I feel like the episode we did

0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:41.880
<v Speaker 1>with the Bell when we did karaoke like that was

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 1>like probably the best karaoke that.

0:34:44.080 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 2>We had in a long time, meeting in my bedroom. Yeah,

0:34:51.080 --> 0:34:52.880
<v Speaker 2>he was cutting meeting.

0:34:52.640 --> 0:34:56.319
<v Speaker 1>In my bedroom karaokey with the bell. That shit was

0:34:56.400 --> 0:35:02.480
<v Speaker 1>so fucking he was cutting up that shiit so fucking.

0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:03.040
<v Speaker 2>It was funny.

0:35:03.120 --> 0:35:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie like, I had a great time

0:35:06.440 --> 0:35:06.880
<v Speaker 1>doing that.

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:10.040
<v Speaker 4>Another one that I like is when we had Whiz

0:35:10.200 --> 0:35:13.760
<v Speaker 4>Khalifa on and people in the comments were just dying

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:15.319
<v Speaker 4>because they was like, oh my god, I can't believe

0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 4>you didn't know Whiz's name. You thought his name was

0:35:17.120 --> 0:35:21.440
<v Speaker 4>wized Fer. I didn't think his name. I was joking

0:35:21.480 --> 0:35:25.439
<v Speaker 4>around but calling him Whistafer. That shit funny as fuck. Yeah,

0:35:25.760 --> 0:35:27.719
<v Speaker 4>So that was another moment because I was like a

0:35:27.800 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 4>Whiz stand like literally love Withiz.

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:32.719
<v Speaker 2>So the fact that we had fucking with.

0:35:32.840 --> 0:35:36.239
<v Speaker 4>Khalif on the show, and then of course you know

0:35:37.120 --> 0:35:41.440
<v Speaker 4>now Home Team episode when Now was fire, it was

0:35:41.480 --> 0:35:48.520
<v Speaker 4>funny her usual love us something now do not miss you.

0:35:48.760 --> 0:35:50.080
<v Speaker 2>Mean, that's what's crazy.

0:35:50.160 --> 0:35:50.279
<v Speaker 3>Now.

0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:53.520
<v Speaker 4>I can have a conversation with anybody about anything, but

0:35:53.600 --> 0:35:59.919
<v Speaker 4>I will say my favorite guest of the year of course,

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:03.280
<v Speaker 4>like you know, the Tea Pains with everybody. I loved

0:36:03.360 --> 0:36:04.640
<v Speaker 4>everybody I loved.

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:05.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what it was.

0:36:06.320 --> 0:36:12.920
<v Speaker 4>I really loved g Amazon Tay episode. I was fine.

0:36:13.440 --> 0:36:15.200
<v Speaker 4>I really loved that episode.

0:36:15.200 --> 0:36:15.640
<v Speaker 2>I did.

0:36:16.080 --> 0:36:18.000
<v Speaker 4>Of course, I agree with you with Queen Lee, Aura,

0:36:19.560 --> 0:36:21.680
<v Speaker 4>and I do want to start tapping in more so

0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:24.600
<v Speaker 4>with the TikTokers and the people because we're in a

0:36:24.600 --> 0:36:25.320
<v Speaker 4>different world.

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:28.719
<v Speaker 2>I mean, the TikTokers are on the same level with

0:36:28.800 --> 0:36:29.880
<v Speaker 2>the celebrities.

0:36:30.120 --> 0:36:32.400
<v Speaker 4>But what I will say about TikTok is like is

0:36:32.480 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 4>quick content. So I feel like, and this is I'm

0:36:36.560 --> 0:36:39.319
<v Speaker 4>not being shady because TikTok is hard. That's why I'm

0:36:39.360 --> 0:36:42.320
<v Speaker 4>not a TikToker. That's why I can scroll and watch y'all.

0:36:42.719 --> 0:36:45.320
<v Speaker 4>But we're in the long form content. They got to

0:36:45.360 --> 0:36:49.000
<v Speaker 4>make short form content. And I feel like I necessarily

0:36:49.040 --> 0:36:50.640
<v Speaker 4>can't be funny in a minute, but I can be

0:36:50.680 --> 0:36:53.560
<v Speaker 4>funny once you know, you hear and were talking and

0:36:53.600 --> 0:36:57.680
<v Speaker 4>we vibbing. So we're in two different worlds, so I

0:36:57.719 --> 0:36:59.800
<v Speaker 4>feel like it's different, but I like when we collide.

0:37:00.680 --> 0:37:03.279
<v Speaker 2>I like it. Yeah, I agree.

0:37:03.440 --> 0:37:05.160
<v Speaker 1>I feel like we did a lot of really good

0:37:05.360 --> 0:37:06.440
<v Speaker 1>solo episodes.

0:37:06.719 --> 0:37:08.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh solo episodes.

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:13.280
<v Speaker 1>The solo episodes are really funny. The Thanksgiving episode was hilarious.

0:37:13.440 --> 0:37:17.640
<v Speaker 4>The Thanksgiving episode was people still talking to me about

0:37:17.680 --> 0:37:19.360
<v Speaker 4>that fucking green bean casserole.

0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:25.160
<v Speaker 2>You didn't talk about that, just so you know the

0:37:25.200 --> 0:37:28.080
<v Speaker 2>past three and I'm not gonna stop until y'all try.

0:37:28.280 --> 0:37:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I would like for you to stop, because nobody want

0:37:30.520 --> 0:37:34.840
<v Speaker 1>to eat this shit. I don't care how advertizing.

0:37:33.920 --> 0:37:36.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm not gonna eat it.

0:37:36.520 --> 0:37:39.280
<v Speaker 4>Since we talked about Thanksgiving, because we recorded that Dram

0:37:39.280 --> 0:37:41.600
<v Speaker 4>made some green beans for Thanksgiving.

0:37:41.680 --> 0:37:44.719
<v Speaker 2>Moses not cast role. No, it wasn't cast but it

0:37:44.760 --> 0:37:47.120
<v Speaker 2>was green beans. It was good. You had the meeting.

0:37:47.200 --> 0:37:48.719
<v Speaker 2>Now the potato meat.

0:37:48.800 --> 0:37:50.880
<v Speaker 4>It wasn't a meeting. Now, maybe it wasn't. I would

0:37:51.200 --> 0:37:52.880
<v Speaker 4>it had some potatoes in there though.

0:37:53.640 --> 0:37:54.799
<v Speaker 2>It was potatoes in there.

0:37:55.280 --> 0:38:02.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I be really cook cooking for the kitchen giving Big.

0:38:02.680 --> 0:38:05.600
<v Speaker 2>Mama on he he had made some pomegran i to.

0:38:05.480 --> 0:38:09.560
<v Speaker 1>Toot my own horn, but tokik.

0:38:08.520 --> 0:38:13.879
<v Speaker 4>He had made some pomegranate lamb chops. What Tiffany had

0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:15.400
<v Speaker 4>made some jerk chicken.

0:38:16.000 --> 0:38:19.880
<v Speaker 2>He also made some sweet potato corn breage. That's what

0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:20.279
<v Speaker 2>she made.

0:38:20.280 --> 0:38:23.680
<v Speaker 1>A sweet potato cheesecake. She made a regular sleep potato pie.

0:38:23.719 --> 0:38:28.480
<v Speaker 1>Can he be cooking cooking for? She made some greens

0:38:28.680 --> 0:38:32.200
<v Speaker 1>with turk all them brees was fire. And then you

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:35.280
<v Speaker 1>had made mac and cheese. Mac and cheese was bussy.

0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:37.560
<v Speaker 1>You know what cheese was.

0:38:38.400 --> 0:38:39.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie.

0:38:40.920 --> 0:38:44.239
<v Speaker 4>Look Kiki friend he was he had my mac and

0:38:44.320 --> 0:38:45.040
<v Speaker 4>cheese was so good.

0:38:45.040 --> 0:38:47.440
<v Speaker 2>He d m me the next day he said, what

0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:48.480
<v Speaker 2>is going on with it?

0:38:49.040 --> 0:38:50.799
<v Speaker 1>He said, it's the best mac and cheese I ever

0:38:50.840 --> 0:38:51.600
<v Speaker 1>had in my life.

0:38:51.640 --> 0:38:53.279
<v Speaker 4>And I said, I know you lying because I know

0:38:53.360 --> 0:38:55.000
<v Speaker 4>Kiki mac and cheese better than mine.

0:38:55.040 --> 0:38:57.799
<v Speaker 2>But I will say, I mean yours.

0:38:57.520 --> 0:39:00.960
<v Speaker 4>Up there, my mac and cheese. But it's like I

0:39:01.040 --> 0:39:03.960
<v Speaker 4>don't I do. I can't cook.

0:39:04.760 --> 0:39:07.480
<v Speaker 2>I just I'm picky when I cook. That's it.

0:39:07.520 --> 0:39:09.880
<v Speaker 5>But I know what I'm doing in that kitchen. Now

0:39:10.120 --> 0:39:12.080
<v Speaker 5>you did that though, what they making cheese. I ain't

0:39:12.120 --> 0:39:12.520
<v Speaker 5>gonna lie.

0:39:12.560 --> 0:39:14.600
<v Speaker 1>The next day, I had took you a big ass

0:39:14.640 --> 0:39:17.879
<v Speaker 1>school and I was tearing it down.

0:39:18.280 --> 0:39:19.719
<v Speaker 4>But I'm gonna give it to you when it's fresh

0:39:19.760 --> 0:39:21.960
<v Speaker 4>out THEU and next time you need to.

0:39:23.600 --> 0:39:24.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm ready.

0:39:24.440 --> 0:39:29.719
<v Speaker 1>But it was good. Like the Thanksgiving meal we did that,

0:39:29.840 --> 0:39:30.360
<v Speaker 1>we ate that.

0:39:30.560 --> 0:39:32.880
<v Speaker 2>Well, it's time for us to have a Thanksgiving party.

0:39:32.880 --> 0:39:36.319
<v Speaker 1>We only need us to, we really do because it's

0:39:36.360 --> 0:39:38.759
<v Speaker 1>don't go down. I think for I don't know what

0:39:38.880 --> 0:39:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm going home for Christmas, but maybe for New Year's.

0:39:41.200 --> 0:39:43.160
<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about maybe having a New Year's party

0:39:43.200 --> 0:39:45.200
<v Speaker 1>in my house again because that was fun.

0:39:46.200 --> 0:39:49.440
<v Speaker 2>That's the same thing Tiffany said. Can I feel like

0:39:49.480 --> 0:39:50.840
<v Speaker 2>we have maybe.

0:39:50.440 --> 0:39:53.239
<v Speaker 1>Possibly have another New Year's party at my house? We gonna,

0:39:53.280 --> 0:39:55.400
<v Speaker 1>but I think we should contribute more. I feel like

0:39:55.480 --> 0:39:57.520
<v Speaker 1>last time, like you cooked everything and we did a

0:39:57.560 --> 0:39:59.480
<v Speaker 1>talk all night and then we kind of showed up

0:39:59.480 --> 0:40:01.440
<v Speaker 1>and everything was then. I think we should all contribute

0:40:01.480 --> 0:40:02.040
<v Speaker 1>a little more.

0:40:02.360 --> 0:40:03.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're doing that.

0:40:05.000 --> 0:40:08.200
<v Speaker 1>Because it ain't because being outside just ain't the more

0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:08.920
<v Speaker 1>to me.

0:40:08.960 --> 0:40:09.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm too old.

0:40:10.719 --> 0:40:12.520
<v Speaker 4>Now, Before we get to the topics, Ty, what was

0:40:12.520 --> 0:40:14.480
<v Speaker 4>your favorite Poor Mind's moments this year?

0:40:14.840 --> 0:40:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Hands down, Ta Pain, Cash, y'all and Wiz and Eric Bellinger.

0:40:22.680 --> 0:40:25.880
<v Speaker 1>He gave us tickets to the concert. Yes, that was

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:29.920
<v Speaker 1>super dope. And then really just like I like the

0:40:29.960 --> 0:40:33.279
<v Speaker 1>solo episode. I felt like I participated a little bit more.

0:40:33.520 --> 0:40:36.200
<v Speaker 1>People are getting to know me. The my ties out there,

0:40:37.160 --> 0:40:41.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh my time, that's so cute.

0:40:41.560 --> 0:40:45.040
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know about this because I'm my top president.

0:40:45.840 --> 0:40:50.800
<v Speaker 2>I love tie. Come on, like, that's really cute to do.

0:40:50.840 --> 0:40:51.920
<v Speaker 2>You know what you need to do. You need to

0:40:51.920 --> 0:40:53.719
<v Speaker 2>get on TikTok and make your drinks and.

0:40:53.719 --> 0:40:55.799
<v Speaker 1>Just you will take so much.

0:40:55.840 --> 0:41:03.120
<v Speaker 2>But that is it. Yeah, we got my guys, what cute.

0:41:03.800 --> 0:41:04.520
<v Speaker 2>I ain't gonna lie.

0:41:04.760 --> 0:41:08.200
<v Speaker 4>I shook as fun because I'm like when we start

0:41:08.200 --> 0:41:09.960
<v Speaker 4>our personal youtubes, like what are your what are they

0:41:09.960 --> 0:41:13.200
<v Speaker 4>gonna call? Because we got the poor crew, but what

0:41:13.239 --> 0:41:18.560
<v Speaker 4>are they? What are Drea's fans called her supporters? We'll

0:41:18.600 --> 0:41:19.759
<v Speaker 4>think about it, We'll come.

0:41:19.680 --> 0:41:21.360
<v Speaker 2>Back because I don't know what I'm calling them either.

0:41:21.560 --> 0:41:23.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Girls. We gotta we gotta think of

0:41:23.880 --> 0:41:27.800
<v Speaker 2>something everybody has to have, like a tools, Dre tools,

0:41:28.360 --> 0:41:30.560
<v Speaker 2>What does that mean? Like you know like me too.

0:41:32.960 --> 0:41:38.640
<v Speaker 2>We're gonna we're gonna reuse it. We're gonna y'all it

0:41:38.640 --> 0:41:43.200
<v Speaker 2>to Okay, So what's up y'all?

0:41:43.200 --> 0:41:45.839
<v Speaker 1>Is your girl xp Andy Sugarl, Dre and the Call

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<v Speaker 4>Because we're keeping on the topic of the New Year's

0:42:56.320 --> 0:42:58.640
<v Speaker 4>do you feel like vision boards or a scam or

0:42:58.640 --> 0:43:02.120
<v Speaker 4>do they really work. Think about your vision board last

0:43:02.160 --> 0:43:04.399
<v Speaker 4>year or the year before, Like, do vision boards work?

0:43:04.800 --> 0:43:07.440
<v Speaker 4>Like do you feel I think anything works as much

0:43:07.480 --> 0:43:10.360
<v Speaker 4>as you put the effort in, as much as you

0:43:10.360 --> 0:43:12.520
<v Speaker 4>put the work in. Yeah, you can't just write some

0:43:12.520 --> 0:43:14.439
<v Speaker 4>shit on the fucking board and think, oh, I wrote

0:43:14.480 --> 0:43:16.640
<v Speaker 4>he's on the board, So this is gonna happen in.

0:43:16.600 --> 0:43:21.239
<v Speaker 1>Twenty twenty five, it's gonna be my year. Yeah. No,

0:43:21.680 --> 0:43:25.120
<v Speaker 1>I think anything works as much as you put the

0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:28.640
<v Speaker 1>work in. So with a vision board, it's like you

0:43:28.680 --> 0:43:31.000
<v Speaker 1>could sit down and you could write out everything that

0:43:31.040 --> 0:43:32.640
<v Speaker 1>you want to do this year, everything that you want

0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:34.839
<v Speaker 1>to accomplish. But if you don't have an actual real

0:43:34.960 --> 0:43:39.560
<v Speaker 1>plan come on set in place to make these goals happening,

0:43:39.600 --> 0:43:42.560
<v Speaker 1>to accomplish these things, it's just words on a paper.

0:43:42.840 --> 0:43:45.120
<v Speaker 1>It's just words on a board. Like what does that matter?

0:43:47.200 --> 0:43:49.799
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I think that you have to put the

0:43:49.840 --> 0:43:51.520
<v Speaker 1>work in. And I think that a lot of people

0:43:51.600 --> 0:43:55.000
<v Speaker 1>just be writing shit down and they just be like, Yeah,

0:43:55.040 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm manifesting this, manifesting about it.

0:43:58.160 --> 0:44:00.480
<v Speaker 4>Talk about manifesting because I know you can go this,

0:44:00.640 --> 0:44:01.080
<v Speaker 4>talk about it.

0:44:01.160 --> 0:44:04.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I'm a manifestor myself, I'm a manifestor but

0:44:05.000 --> 0:44:07.920
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I also put the work in to

0:44:08.000 --> 0:44:10.560
<v Speaker 1>get the things that I really want. I don't just

0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:13.600
<v Speaker 1>sit around like hoping and crossing my fingers that oh,

0:44:13.680 --> 0:44:15.799
<v Speaker 1>this is gonna happen for me. Like, no, you have

0:44:15.880 --> 0:44:18.120
<v Speaker 1>to have a real plan of action, and then if

0:44:18.160 --> 0:44:19.960
<v Speaker 1>that plan of action don't work, you should have a

0:44:19.960 --> 0:44:24.120
<v Speaker 1>plan B. People don't be having plan bs. They be

0:44:24.120 --> 0:44:25.880
<v Speaker 1>feeling like, oh, I only got a Plan A, and

0:44:25.920 --> 0:44:27.600
<v Speaker 1>if Plan A don't work, then I don't know what

0:44:27.640 --> 0:44:29.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do, And then Plan A don't work and

0:44:30.120 --> 0:44:35.200
<v Speaker 1>you don't know what you're gonna do. So you need

0:44:35.239 --> 0:44:38.840
<v Speaker 1>to have plans. You need to write down plans. You

0:44:38.880 --> 0:44:42.640
<v Speaker 1>can't just have a goal with no plan agreed. There

0:44:42.680 --> 0:44:44.799
<v Speaker 1>needs to be steps that's gonna be taken to get

0:44:44.840 --> 0:44:48.399
<v Speaker 1>you to what you're trying to do. And yeah, something

0:44:48.480 --> 0:44:50.640
<v Speaker 1>might end up happening, a miracle might happen, and some

0:44:50.800 --> 0:44:53.840
<v Speaker 1>shit might just come out of thin air and it

0:44:53.960 --> 0:44:55.920
<v Speaker 1>be the opportunity that she was looking for, because that

0:44:56.000 --> 0:45:00.359
<v Speaker 1>does happen. But in the meantime, in between time, you

0:45:00.400 --> 0:45:01.240
<v Speaker 1>need to have a plan.

0:45:01.880 --> 0:45:03.840
<v Speaker 4>But I also think you have to be prepared for

0:45:03.880 --> 0:45:08.440
<v Speaker 4>that opportunity. If an opportunity comes, you gotta be ready

0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:12.319
<v Speaker 4>because yeah, and I know we talked about this all

0:45:12.360 --> 0:45:15.319
<v Speaker 4>the time, but like when Carlos invited us on eighty five,

0:45:15.360 --> 0:45:16.160
<v Speaker 4>we were prepared.

0:45:16.239 --> 0:45:17.280
<v Speaker 2>We were a package.

0:45:17.680 --> 0:45:19.600
<v Speaker 4>Me Andrea already knew how to sit in front of

0:45:19.600 --> 0:45:22.400
<v Speaker 4>mics and talk and spit that shit and be funny together.

0:45:23.000 --> 0:45:25.680
<v Speaker 4>So I think you have to be prepared for opportunities

0:45:25.760 --> 0:45:26.240
<v Speaker 4>as well.

0:45:26.640 --> 0:45:28.200
<v Speaker 2>So, like she said, just have a plan.

0:45:28.960 --> 0:45:32.160
<v Speaker 4>Poor minds was poor minds before you know eighty five

0:45:32.239 --> 0:45:35.600
<v Speaker 4>came along. They elevated us, of course, but you have

0:45:35.760 --> 0:45:38.280
<v Speaker 4>we had a plan of action if they didn't come along,

0:45:38.320 --> 0:45:41.160
<v Speaker 4>like we knew, We knew what we wanted to do

0:45:41.200 --> 0:45:43.200
<v Speaker 4>and what we were trying to get to and how

0:45:43.200 --> 0:45:44.120
<v Speaker 4>we were going to get there.

0:45:45.080 --> 0:45:50.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, like vision boards can work, they can't,

0:45:50.520 --> 0:45:51.480
<v Speaker 1>but it's just a vision.

0:45:51.600 --> 0:45:53.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's just a vision.

0:45:53.560 --> 0:45:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Must inspiration to get those juices fun and get you

0:45:56.760 --> 0:45:59.840
<v Speaker 1>motivated to execute. And let me tell a lot of

0:46:00.000 --> 0:46:02.879
<v Speaker 1>people is because I used to be and I love

0:46:03.120 --> 0:46:05.560
<v Speaker 1>ex Twitter whatever you call it. You are not gonna

0:46:05.560 --> 0:46:07.239
<v Speaker 1>tweet your way into an opportunity.

0:46:07.640 --> 0:46:10.080
<v Speaker 2>You're not. I don't know who needs to hear this.

0:46:10.440 --> 0:46:12.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't care how fucking mini retweets you get.

0:46:13.160 --> 0:46:17.840
<v Speaker 4>Twitter is the app that's down here, especially since Elon

0:46:17.960 --> 0:46:20.879
<v Speaker 4>took it over. You're not gonna make nothing from Twitter.

0:46:20.920 --> 0:46:23.320
<v Speaker 4>So y'all be tweeting all day. I'm still creative.

0:46:23.360 --> 0:46:24.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm stop.

0:46:24.560 --> 0:46:27.920
<v Speaker 4>I'm so that put some fucking content out. Record yourself,

0:46:28.160 --> 0:46:31.759
<v Speaker 4>let your nuts hang, y'all so scary. I realized that

0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:34.480
<v Speaker 4>after a while. I used to be on Twitter all

0:46:34.600 --> 0:46:37.319
<v Speaker 4>day every day, and I'm like, what am I gonna do?

0:46:38.239 --> 0:46:42.640
<v Speaker 4>I had to prop that fucking camera up. You're not

0:46:42.680 --> 0:46:45.719
<v Speaker 4>gonna tweet your way into an opportunity. That is the

0:46:46.400 --> 0:46:48.719
<v Speaker 4>worst app to think that you're gonna get somewhere off

0:46:48.760 --> 0:46:50.880
<v Speaker 4>of and I and this is coming from somebody.

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:51.920
<v Speaker 2>That was the app that.

0:46:51.880 --> 0:46:54.040
<v Speaker 4>I use the most, bless you, that was the app

0:46:54.040 --> 0:46:57.400
<v Speaker 4>I use the most out of Instagram. Faith, it's people

0:46:57.400 --> 0:46:59.279
<v Speaker 4>who are millionaires off of Facebook.

0:46:59.360 --> 0:47:01.640
<v Speaker 2>Y'all be on what are laughing at Facebook? People?

0:47:01.840 --> 0:47:05.680
<v Speaker 4>They are millionaires off Facebook. I just started my Facebook.

0:47:05.719 --> 0:47:07.560
<v Speaker 4>I got like eight hundred followers on there, so y'all

0:47:07.560 --> 0:47:11.319
<v Speaker 4>go follow me. But people have millions of following them.

0:47:11.320 --> 0:47:14.879
<v Speaker 4>They be making money. Yeah, you make money on every app.

0:47:14.960 --> 0:47:18.000
<v Speaker 4>The money that you make on slapchat, snapchat.

0:47:21.200 --> 0:47:24.960
<v Speaker 1>It's consistency. It's the consistency that matter. Also, were speaking

0:47:25.040 --> 0:47:27.360
<v Speaker 1>of like these apps or whatever. I said, we were

0:47:27.360 --> 0:47:29.879
<v Speaker 1>going to talk about that TikTok. So do y'all think

0:47:29.880 --> 0:47:32.319
<v Speaker 1>that they're really gonna shut TikTok down for real? On

0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:34.680
<v Speaker 1>January nineteenth this year? You do a wall?

0:47:42.680 --> 0:47:43.919
<v Speaker 2>Oh wow? For real?

0:47:44.480 --> 0:47:47.080
<v Speaker 4>So y'all can't hear him, but he said they're removing

0:47:47.080 --> 0:47:49.799
<v Speaker 4>the watermarks so y'all can download the videos and move

0:47:49.840 --> 0:47:52.000
<v Speaker 4>on to wherever you want them to be.

0:47:54.000 --> 0:47:58.520
<v Speaker 2>Now they've been saying that. Let me say I agree

0:47:59.360 --> 0:47:59.879
<v Speaker 2>with a wall.

0:48:01.080 --> 0:48:04.600
<v Speaker 4>I I thought I was finna This is me back

0:48:04.640 --> 0:48:06.960
<v Speaker 4>in the day, y'all. I thought I was finna be

0:48:07.000 --> 0:48:10.040
<v Speaker 4>a Vine star because I saw all these unfunny people

0:48:10.080 --> 0:48:15.040
<v Speaker 4>doing Vine's. Then I saw Vine shut down. I never

0:48:15.040 --> 0:48:17.839
<v Speaker 4>thought I would see Vine shut down, y'all have it

0:48:17.880 --> 0:48:22.839
<v Speaker 4>was people on there, they were super stars and I'm

0:48:22.840 --> 0:48:26.799
<v Speaker 4>not being dramatic, and I saw it shut down. Now,

0:48:26.880 --> 0:48:28.920
<v Speaker 4>TikTok is on another level than Vine was.

0:48:28.920 --> 0:48:30.240
<v Speaker 2>But Vine was huge.

0:48:31.040 --> 0:48:35.719
<v Speaker 4>If but if Vine can shut down, it's very fucking possible.

0:48:36.239 --> 0:48:39.840
<v Speaker 4>That's why I said, for us, for me, like and YouTube,

0:48:39.840 --> 0:48:45.439
<v Speaker 4>it's cool too. But I'm like, what else because if

0:48:45.480 --> 0:48:47.879
<v Speaker 4>YouTube shut down tomorrow, it's you know what I'm saying,

0:48:47.880 --> 0:48:49.320
<v Speaker 4>how are people going to reach us?

0:48:49.840 --> 0:48:52.359
<v Speaker 2>Now? Good thing? Eighty five smart? No, because we y'all

0:48:52.360 --> 0:48:54.680
<v Speaker 2>got the I don't know.

0:48:54.560 --> 0:48:56.839
<v Speaker 4>Because bitch, we're finna be on eighty five app too.

0:48:56.960 --> 0:49:02.440
<v Speaker 2>We're gonna figure something out or we got the formula.

0:49:02.680 --> 0:49:06.640
<v Speaker 2>But I want say that's what it is scary.

0:49:07.120 --> 0:49:09.840
<v Speaker 1>No, it is, it is, And that's why I'm grateful

0:49:09.880 --> 0:49:15.040
<v Speaker 1>that we have, you know, an audience on multiple platforms.

0:49:15.040 --> 0:49:17.320
<v Speaker 1>So like cause we do have a pretty large following

0:49:17.400 --> 0:49:20.040
<v Speaker 1>on TikTok. I mean, we have like over three hundred

0:49:20.080 --> 0:49:24.000
<v Speaker 1>thousand followers on TikTok right now and it's growing every day.

0:49:24.640 --> 0:49:27.960
<v Speaker 1>But if TikTok does shut down, we also have a

0:49:28.040 --> 0:49:29.719
<v Speaker 1>large following on Instagram.

0:49:29.800 --> 0:49:31.800
<v Speaker 2>We also have a large YouTube following.

0:49:31.840 --> 0:49:36.080
<v Speaker 1>We also have large personal followings on Instagram, So.

0:49:36.120 --> 0:49:37.080
<v Speaker 2>It's not as bad.

0:49:37.560 --> 0:49:40.160
<v Speaker 1>That's the part that just kind of like concerns me

0:49:40.440 --> 0:49:44.319
<v Speaker 1>for the people on TikTok who have like millions of

0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:46.520
<v Speaker 1>followers and then they don't have a fan base on

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:49.040
<v Speaker 1>any of these other apps. Be cause, like even on Facebook,

0:49:49.040 --> 0:49:50.800
<v Speaker 1>I think we got like a hundred and something.

0:49:51.400 --> 0:49:55.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh, we I think we had like for real maybe.

0:49:54.760 --> 0:49:57.920
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it's like we have followers on other apps.

0:49:58.040 --> 0:50:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I be concerned about the influencers that are mainly on TikTok.

0:50:03.640 --> 0:50:06.719
<v Speaker 2>That's where they make their money. What are they gonna do?

0:50:07.000 --> 0:50:08.960
<v Speaker 1>Because if you ever noticed, it's a lot of these

0:50:09.000 --> 0:50:11.920
<v Speaker 1>people who have like two million followers on TikTok, and

0:50:11.920 --> 0:50:13.759
<v Speaker 1>then you go look at the Instagram page they be

0:50:13.840 --> 0:50:16.719
<v Speaker 1>having like one hundred thousand followers, fifty thousand followers if

0:50:16.760 --> 0:50:20.560
<v Speaker 1>they so, it's like, and I know, if you got

0:50:20.600 --> 0:50:26.000
<v Speaker 1>two million followers on TikTok, you clearing probably like seven thousand,

0:50:26.520 --> 0:50:29.719
<v Speaker 1>eight thousand at the least minimum.

0:50:29.880 --> 0:50:31.399
<v Speaker 2>If your videos are getting more, If.

0:50:31.280 --> 0:50:34.080
<v Speaker 1>Your videos, if your videos are getting washing and you're

0:50:34.080 --> 0:50:36.640
<v Speaker 1>making a mini at the lead, that's what you're making,

0:50:38.040 --> 0:50:39.760
<v Speaker 1>how are you gonna supplement that income?

0:50:39.880 --> 0:50:41.520
<v Speaker 2>If TikTok gets shut down.

0:50:41.480 --> 0:50:44.280
<v Speaker 1>They can't just convert them like try to get their audience.

0:50:44.400 --> 0:50:49.040
<v Speaker 1>It's hard, very hard these days on Instagram. It's so

0:50:49.320 --> 0:50:51.640
<v Speaker 1>hard to get people to follow you like it was

0:50:51.680 --> 0:50:54.279
<v Speaker 1>so easy back in the day. Because I've been having

0:50:54.320 --> 0:50:56.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot of followers on Instagram for a long time.

0:50:57.040 --> 0:50:58.160
<v Speaker 2>But these days.

0:50:58.280 --> 0:51:04.799
<v Speaker 1>It's just it'll take me thirty days to gain like

0:51:05.880 --> 0:51:09.680
<v Speaker 1>ten thousand followers on Instagram these days, back in the day,

0:51:09.920 --> 0:51:10.760
<v Speaker 1>I'll ask you can.

0:51:10.640 --> 0:51:13.840
<v Speaker 4>Look it up, because I feel like my like, my

0:51:13.960 --> 0:51:15.000
<v Speaker 4>Instagram has been growing.

0:51:15.080 --> 0:51:18.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I always compare my Instagram to poor.

0:51:18.320 --> 0:51:21.880
<v Speaker 4>Minds because obviously I used to have way more followers

0:51:21.920 --> 0:51:24.360
<v Speaker 4>than poor minds. Poor Minds surpassed me at one point.

0:51:24.800 --> 0:51:27.600
<v Speaker 4>Then I surpassed poor Minds, but now poor Minds has

0:51:27.600 --> 0:51:31.640
<v Speaker 4>surpassed me again. Yeah, so let me look.

0:51:31.480 --> 0:51:33.400
<v Speaker 2>At my insights.

0:51:33.560 --> 0:51:40.200
<v Speaker 4>So total followers, So from December eleven to December seventeenth,

0:51:40.239 --> 0:51:42.600
<v Speaker 4>that's the past seven day. Oh, should we do thirty

0:51:42.680 --> 0:51:45.520
<v Speaker 4>days thirty okay, I'll do thirty days update.

0:51:45.640 --> 0:51:47.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So for the past.

0:51:47.320 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 4>Thirty days overall, I've gotten eight thousand followers in thirty days. Right,

0:51:53.880 --> 0:51:56.879
<v Speaker 4>that's a total of fourteen thousand follows, and I've had

0:51:56.960 --> 0:52:03.600
<v Speaker 4>six thousand unfollows. But so TikTok, I don't post on TikTok.

0:52:03.680 --> 0:52:06.320
<v Speaker 4>Every time I log in on TikTok, I've got one hundred.

0:52:06.440 --> 0:52:09.919
<v Speaker 4>I get one hundred followers a day, sang a day

0:52:10.760 --> 0:52:12.560
<v Speaker 4>because the way, I don't know why, I don't know

0:52:12.600 --> 0:52:15.000
<v Speaker 4>how they set up that algorithm. So when me and

0:52:15.040 --> 0:52:18.279
<v Speaker 4>Drea started coming up in the YouTube Instagram world, it

0:52:18.400 --> 0:52:21.760
<v Speaker 4>was hard. Now on TikTok, you can tell a story

0:52:21.800 --> 0:52:24.839
<v Speaker 4>about how your drink was nasty and you just gotta

0:52:24.880 --> 0:52:28.120
<v Speaker 4>go like this. But oh my god, that's so funny

0:52:28.320 --> 0:52:30.840
<v Speaker 4>and this is no shade, no tea to TikTokers. But

0:52:30.880 --> 0:52:36.480
<v Speaker 4>the TikTok algorithm is different. So I hate that. I

0:52:36.520 --> 0:52:39.080
<v Speaker 4>hate that because some people are actually talented. But that's

0:52:39.120 --> 0:52:42.160
<v Speaker 4>why people like Jackie. I ain't a I can't pronounce

0:52:42.200 --> 0:52:43.959
<v Speaker 4>her new last name, but that's why she's been able

0:52:44.000 --> 0:52:47.799
<v Speaker 4>to go pay. Jackie's gonna be fine because she can

0:52:47.800 --> 0:52:52.200
<v Speaker 4>make long foreign content. She knows how to navigate, so

0:52:52.400 --> 0:52:58.120
<v Speaker 4>it's gonna be very interesting to see. If I don't

0:52:58.160 --> 0:53:00.160
<v Speaker 4>want the app to shut down, I'm trying to be

0:53:00.200 --> 0:53:00.880
<v Speaker 4>a TikToker.

0:53:01.719 --> 0:53:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, we've been gaining a lot of followers

0:53:04.000 --> 0:53:06.520
<v Speaker 1>on our personal siss we both almost at like fifty

0:53:06.600 --> 0:53:07.360
<v Speaker 1>k followers.

0:53:07.400 --> 0:53:10.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to TikTok. I can TikTok. If I can

0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:15.200
<v Speaker 4>do this for an hour, I can TikTok, bitch. You

0:53:15.239 --> 0:53:17.840
<v Speaker 4>can TikTok, bitch, you know.

0:53:18.040 --> 0:53:20.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't really know if I be wanting to be

0:53:20.440 --> 0:53:21.759
<v Speaker 1>a TikToker, though.

0:53:21.560 --> 0:53:23.319
<v Speaker 4>I want to be a TikToker. I want to clean

0:53:23.400 --> 0:53:24.520
<v Speaker 4>up before they get out.

0:53:25.360 --> 0:53:27.200
<v Speaker 1>It's about to be out, though, I don't know how

0:53:27.280 --> 0:53:30.279
<v Speaker 1>much you can clean up. I don't know how much

0:53:30.320 --> 0:53:32.920
<v Speaker 1>you can clean up in a few more weeks, one month,

0:53:33.239 --> 0:53:36.719
<v Speaker 1>literally to the day, I need to clean up, that's what.

0:53:36.920 --> 0:53:39.759
<v Speaker 2>But you was right, get on all that apps.

0:53:41.080 --> 0:53:45.120
<v Speaker 1>I think it's important to utilize all the apps and

0:53:45.160 --> 0:53:48.719
<v Speaker 1>be posting consistently on all the apps because you never know.

0:53:48.800 --> 0:53:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Like you said, like if Vine could get shut down,

0:53:52.320 --> 0:53:53.640
<v Speaker 1>anything could get shut down.

0:53:53.800 --> 0:53:54.920
<v Speaker 2>Vine was my shit.

0:53:55.239 --> 0:54:02.759
<v Speaker 4>I just knew I was going to well toush she was.

0:54:00.480 --> 0:54:06.440
<v Speaker 2>Was that it's just nice no no more. But yeah, okay,

0:54:06.680 --> 0:54:08.040
<v Speaker 2>so moving on.

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<v Speaker 1>get there, all right, by y'all. Friendship demotion ooh, I'm

0:55:08.680 --> 0:55:09.880
<v Speaker 1>glad you brought this one on.

0:55:10.000 --> 0:55:14.000
<v Speaker 2>Twenty twenty five or period.

0:55:14.800 --> 0:55:21.600
<v Speaker 1>How do y'all feel about friendship demotion? You asking me first?

0:55:22.239 --> 0:55:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't really know if I feel like friendship demotion

0:55:25.160 --> 0:55:27.440
<v Speaker 1>is a real thing to me, because like, get rid

0:55:27.440 --> 0:55:28.560
<v Speaker 1>of the beach, throw her away?

0:55:30.239 --> 0:55:33.880
<v Speaker 2>Hello, what the fuck you waiting on? Why am I

0:55:33.920 --> 0:55:35.759
<v Speaker 2>demoting you? Why are you waiting till the news?

0:55:36.680 --> 0:55:39.000
<v Speaker 1>And then why am I waiting at twenty twenty five?

0:55:39.200 --> 0:55:39.439
<v Speaker 2>Bitch?

0:55:39.440 --> 0:55:42.600
<v Speaker 1>You could go today? What's today? The eighteenth. You can

0:55:42.600 --> 0:55:43.080
<v Speaker 1>go today.

0:55:44.080 --> 0:55:45.319
<v Speaker 2>You've been demoted.

0:55:46.640 --> 0:55:49.239
<v Speaker 4>Hey, this is what I have to say. Sometimes people

0:55:49.280 --> 0:55:51.280
<v Speaker 4>are not meant to be in your life. And that's okay.

0:55:51.600 --> 0:55:54.680
<v Speaker 4>It's because I'm not gonna lie. I've had situations where

0:55:54.719 --> 0:55:58.000
<v Speaker 4>I feel like, you know what, this person hurt my feelings,

0:55:58.280 --> 0:55:59.759
<v Speaker 4>but I want to talk to her because I know

0:55:59.840 --> 0:56:02.279
<v Speaker 4>she didn't mean to hurt my feelings, so I'm gonna

0:56:02.280 --> 0:56:04.360
<v Speaker 4>talk to her about it. But when I felt like

0:56:04.440 --> 0:56:08.160
<v Speaker 4>I have to demote you, it's no demotion, it's no talk.

0:56:08.480 --> 0:56:10.919
<v Speaker 4>I'm just not talking to you no more. It ain't

0:56:10.960 --> 0:56:14.720
<v Speaker 4>no process, this ain't no job. Be a good person

0:56:14.840 --> 0:56:16.400
<v Speaker 4>or don't.

0:56:16.880 --> 0:56:19.480
<v Speaker 1>I think the emotion is one of those things where

0:56:22.120 --> 0:56:26.440
<v Speaker 1>like I think people some people because me, I get

0:56:26.520 --> 0:56:30.920
<v Speaker 1>rid of my family too, But some people demote their

0:56:31.000 --> 0:56:33.160
<v Speaker 1>family members because they be feeling like, oh, this is

0:56:33.200 --> 0:56:36.040
<v Speaker 1>my family. So I'm just well, you know, as matter

0:56:36.040 --> 0:56:38.120
<v Speaker 1>of fact, I could actually speak on that because I

0:56:38.160 --> 0:56:41.920
<v Speaker 1>do have a family member. They're like, I'm yeah, yeah,

0:56:42.040 --> 0:56:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I used to be way closer to them back in

0:56:45.200 --> 0:56:47.279
<v Speaker 1>the day than I am now, and we're just not

0:56:47.360 --> 0:56:50.320
<v Speaker 1>as close anymore because I feel like as we've gotten older,

0:56:50.880 --> 0:56:55.560
<v Speaker 1>our interests have not aligned. We're misaligned. We just don't

0:56:55.800 --> 0:56:58.360
<v Speaker 1>care or value the same things. We don't see a

0:56:58.400 --> 0:57:00.880
<v Speaker 1>lot of shit the same way. They actually called me

0:57:00.960 --> 0:57:03.440
<v Speaker 1>earlier this year about the election and pieced to me.

0:57:03.400 --> 0:57:04.160
<v Speaker 2>To fuck off.

0:57:04.560 --> 0:57:07.400
<v Speaker 1>That was both for or what they were advising me

0:57:07.600 --> 0:57:11.399
<v Speaker 1>or wanting me to do. So I'm just like, yeah,

0:57:11.480 --> 0:57:14.239
<v Speaker 1>this is why I don't be fooling with you.

0:57:14.680 --> 0:57:15.560
<v Speaker 2>Like that no more.

0:57:16.200 --> 0:57:19.600
<v Speaker 1>So. I guess in some situations, I get in the

0:57:19.600 --> 0:57:21.280
<v Speaker 1>emotion because at the end of the day, I still

0:57:21.360 --> 0:57:24.720
<v Speaker 1>love the person, but it's just like, I just don't

0:57:25.680 --> 0:57:28.800
<v Speaker 1>fuck with you like that. Like you, but you are real.

0:57:28.880 --> 0:57:32.200
<v Speaker 4>That's how I know you from Texas because what's Slim said,

0:57:32.200 --> 0:57:33.720
<v Speaker 4>if you don't fuck with me, don't fuck with me.

0:57:33.800 --> 0:57:38.000
<v Speaker 1>It's not confusing. It ain't it's not confusing. It's not confusing.

0:57:38.160 --> 0:57:41.360
<v Speaker 1>It's either we cool or we not. And I think

0:57:41.400 --> 0:57:43.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm very much the type of person like if you've

0:57:43.280 --> 0:57:46.760
<v Speaker 1>been the motive be, you're gonna know if we're not

0:57:46.880 --> 0:57:48.080
<v Speaker 1>cool no more, you're gonna know.

0:57:48.120 --> 0:57:52.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm not New Year to do nothing, bro, I'm not

0:57:52.280 --> 0:57:53.720
<v Speaker 4>waiting to the New Year to do nothing.

0:57:54.120 --> 0:57:56.040
<v Speaker 2>Now. I do believe new Year.

0:57:56.080 --> 0:58:01.240
<v Speaker 4>Fresh start, So I feel like if not for you, though, yeah,

0:58:01.320 --> 0:58:04.840
<v Speaker 4>not for these friends, not for you. That's what I'm saying.

0:58:05.520 --> 0:58:09.400
<v Speaker 4>A friend, and I consider friend's family because I don't

0:58:09.400 --> 0:58:12.680
<v Speaker 4>have a lot of family. So if I demote you

0:58:12.760 --> 0:58:15.280
<v Speaker 4>as a friend, especially for me, you have to then

0:58:15.400 --> 0:58:21.640
<v Speaker 4>did some messed up. I forgive everybody for everything, so

0:58:21.840 --> 0:58:25.439
<v Speaker 4>I feel like demotions shouldn't wait. Don't wait till twenty

0:58:25.440 --> 0:58:27.600
<v Speaker 4>twenty five to demote somebody. This is somebody who's in

0:58:27.640 --> 0:58:31.040
<v Speaker 4>your personal space. And I think that's weird because if

0:58:31.080 --> 0:58:34.360
<v Speaker 4>you're applotting to demote somebody, you're no better than them

0:58:34.560 --> 0:58:38.000
<v Speaker 4>because you're like haha and janeyel ray raw one whole

0:58:38.080 --> 0:58:40.600
<v Speaker 4>ad nigga, you're fucking out of here.

0:58:41.760 --> 0:58:44.280
<v Speaker 2>Will you want to have your moment? You think you

0:58:44.360 --> 0:58:49.360
<v Speaker 2>finna do your big one because you can go now

0:58:50.240 --> 0:58:54.680
<v Speaker 2>the door is open. I just I don't be having

0:58:54.760 --> 0:58:56.160
<v Speaker 2>time for that type of sheep.

0:58:56.480 --> 0:59:01.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't think about you though, you can get the

0:59:01.120 --> 0:59:01.840
<v Speaker 1>fuck anything.

0:59:03.600 --> 0:59:06.560
<v Speaker 4>It could be your birthday, bitch, You're gonna be like,

0:59:06.760 --> 0:59:08.080
<v Speaker 4>happy birthday, bitch.

0:59:08.200 --> 0:59:10.760
<v Speaker 2>Fuck you don't come and don't come back.

0:59:10.920 --> 0:59:12.840
<v Speaker 1>Bench you given a little too much credit to think

0:59:12.880 --> 0:59:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I would even say happy birthday, like michy'all cut you

0:59:17.120 --> 0:59:19.960
<v Speaker 1>off your birthday and not even say happy birthday. Facts

0:59:21.320 --> 0:59:24.800
<v Speaker 1>like no, I don't give a fuck like cause I don't.

0:59:25.120 --> 0:59:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I am very much a person. Me and my best

0:59:27.600 --> 0:59:29.760
<v Speaker 1>friend was having a conversation about this the other day,

0:59:30.720 --> 0:59:33.520
<v Speaker 1>and I think that's why me and her are just

0:59:33.600 --> 0:59:37.000
<v Speaker 1>so locked in, because we just get each other. By

0:59:37.040 --> 0:59:38.959
<v Speaker 1>the way, my best friend, I think I said this before,

0:59:39.000 --> 0:59:42.920
<v Speaker 1>she has said to serious, but she was just like,

0:59:44.120 --> 0:59:50.080
<v Speaker 1>I just don't feel like nobody owe me nothing. I

0:59:50.120 --> 0:59:52.680
<v Speaker 1>think that's like the biggest blessing for me as a

0:59:52.720 --> 0:59:56.320
<v Speaker 1>person that I've came to the realization don't nobody owe

0:59:56.320 --> 0:59:59.240
<v Speaker 1>me nothing. But the beautiful epiphany about that is that

0:59:59.320 --> 1:00:02.520
<v Speaker 1>I also don't I owe you shit either. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>owe nobody nothing. Because she was talking about how she

1:00:06.960 --> 1:00:10.240
<v Speaker 1>used to talk to this guy because I'm not gonna lie.

1:00:10.240 --> 1:00:13.480
<v Speaker 1>My best friend is terrible at like responding to people.

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<v Speaker 2>She is. I text her happy birthday. She didn't take

1:00:15.600 --> 1:00:18.200
<v Speaker 2>that for like six hours. Yeah, I mean that's how

1:00:18.240 --> 1:00:19.160
<v Speaker 2>she I said.

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<v Speaker 1>And she don't mean no harm by it. That's just

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<v Speaker 1>how she is. A lot of times she'd be having

1:00:23.320 --> 1:00:27.320
<v Speaker 1>her phone on do not disturbing stuff. So she was

1:00:27.440 --> 1:00:30.640
<v Speaker 1>just like, I was talking to this guy and we

1:00:30.640 --> 1:00:33.280
<v Speaker 1>had only been talking for like a few weeks, and

1:00:33.320 --> 1:00:35.600
<v Speaker 1>he was just like, you be taking too long to

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<v Speaker 1>text me back? And she was like, do I owe

1:00:38.600 --> 1:00:42.320
<v Speaker 1>you to like text you back within an hour or so?

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<v Speaker 2>Like what have you done?

1:00:44.080 --> 1:00:47.520
<v Speaker 1>What have you done to be that priority status in

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<v Speaker 1>my life to where I have to say something to

1:00:49.280 --> 1:00:52.160
<v Speaker 1>you within a few hours, Like if I'm busy, I'm busy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like I owe you that. She was like,

1:00:54.120 --> 1:00:56.959
<v Speaker 1>I just but I just don't feel like people owe

1:00:57.000 --> 1:00:59.400
<v Speaker 1>people anything, so and.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have to agree.

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<v Speaker 4>So let me ask you this, though, what does somebody

1:01:03.040 --> 1:01:05.360
<v Speaker 4>have to do to feel like you owe them? Is

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<v Speaker 4>there anything a person can do to feel like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>they should answer on time or they should do does anybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Owe you that?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, from what she said to me, she said she

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<v Speaker 1>felt like her and this person had never had a

1:01:17.240 --> 1:01:23.400
<v Speaker 1>conversation about actually really like trying to date each other.

1:01:23.920 --> 1:01:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Like we're talking, we're communicating, we're texting, but we haven't

1:01:27.680 --> 1:01:30.440
<v Speaker 1>had an actual conversation about like this is what we're doing.

1:01:30.560 --> 1:01:32.680
<v Speaker 1>We really trying to like go to the next step,

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<v Speaker 1>go to the next level. So I guess in her opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>she felt like we're not exclusively dating. I don't owe

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<v Speaker 1>you anything, But.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm asking you, though, what do you feel because you

1:01:44.200 --> 1:01:45.160
<v Speaker 4>said you feel the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't owe people nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh but a person that you feel like I owe

1:01:49.440 --> 1:01:52.240
<v Speaker 4>them to answer this phone call, to respond to them,

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<v Speaker 4>to show up for them.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that look like?

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like if I'm really completely being honest,

1:02:01.720 --> 1:02:03.520
<v Speaker 1>which I know is gonna piece some people off, but

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I truly feel like it's to your disgrace.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like you really owe anybody anything. I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of people's number one problem is like

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<v Speaker 1>talking and responding and going out of their way to

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<v Speaker 1>do things when they don't feel like it. Like sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you be having a mental fucking breakdown.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you're not in the capacity to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you don't want to sit on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>two hours and have a conversation with somebody about some

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<v Speaker 1>street that you don't care about. And I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay to not want to do that. It's fine now,

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<v Speaker 1>depending on the type of person that you are, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you want to give the person a courtesy text and

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<v Speaker 1>be like, hey girl, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>In the mood.

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<v Speaker 1>Or I don't have the capacity to have this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with you today. But I think some people just don't.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think my best friend is one of those people.

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<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes I could be one of those people.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't be necessarily feeling like I owe a person

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<v Speaker 1>a courtesy text if I'm fucking having a bad day, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you might be having a bad day too, And

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<v Speaker 1>now you and you calling me to talk to me

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<v Speaker 1>about your bad day.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm having a bad day too. But that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I say.

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<v Speaker 4>I always when I'm having a bad day, I say, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>can you talk?

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<v Speaker 2>What's up?

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<v Speaker 4>But also I had a bad mental breakdown the other week.

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<v Speaker 4>I had to text everybody. I text you, I text

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<v Speaker 4>my sister. Yeah, I killer, I text Lauren. I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm okay, please just leave me alone like I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>through it because I don't feel like I owe y'all that.

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<v Speaker 4>But I just feel like, let me communicate because.

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<v Speaker 1>And I called you, you're speaking me.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I was like, I told you, don't call me.

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<v Speaker 4>She said, that's why I said, Hey, I said, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry for being me.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you don't apologize because the thing about me I

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<v Speaker 1>don't apologize to people for not answering the phone. I

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I just don't answer the phone. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like talking. And then when I call you the

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<v Speaker 1>next day, I'm not gonna be like, oh, girl, I'm

1:03:59.200 --> 1:04:03.280
<v Speaker 1>sorry for not insermay, like no, now we can what's up?

1:04:03.360 --> 1:04:06.960
<v Speaker 1>We can resume because I'm having a better day. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think people people have too much entitlement these days.

1:04:12.080 --> 1:04:13.840
<v Speaker 1>That's what me and my best friend were talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>People have way too much entitlement to your time. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't owe nobody's shit. I don't all nobody.

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<v Speaker 4>People because they gonna they gonna hear this and they

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<v Speaker 4>gonna feel some type of way. But it's the truth.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't stop and everything is revolving around you. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>somebody not talking to you has nothing to do with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why it'd be so funny to me when like,

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<v Speaker 1>cause I have like I feel like sometimes my men will.

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<v Speaker 2>Say I feel like, oh, the world revolve around me.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing about me is when I don't talk

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<v Speaker 1>to people, or when people don't inswer my phone calls,

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't give a FuG like it just be like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you having a bad day, cool. I don't really take

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<v Speaker 1>shit like that personally. I really don't just be like

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<v Speaker 1>all right, cool.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't either, Like if I somebody we're talking, i'll

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<v Speaker 4>text you. I'll be like, he bitch, I called you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll be like, call me back. That's my text. Now

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<v Speaker 4>what thing about you that is you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>No, if if you don't answer my phone calls, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't be like, call me back.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, sometimes I don't know, but people I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>if people are seen or not. So I'll just send

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<v Speaker 4>a text. So cause sometimes calls don't go through this,

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<v Speaker 4>so it's not like no bothering you. I just be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>call me back so you can just see it, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and don't be like, oh my god. And then if

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<v Speaker 4>I text that and it's say deliver, I know you

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<v Speaker 4>got it. So you're gonna call me back whenever you can.

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<v Speaker 4>I just do that because I know how I am.

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<v Speaker 4>Because sometimes I don't see the phone call or now

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<v Speaker 4>maybe I'll be on my laptop and I'll see the

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<v Speaker 4>coming back. I'm like, oh shit, let me call her

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<v Speaker 4>back or let me say, you know, let her know,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'll call.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll shoot a text, call me back.

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<v Speaker 4>But thinking like oh my god, they're mad at me,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, or oh my god, I need to

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<v Speaker 4>talk to them, or oh what's going on. It's like, bro,

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<v Speaker 4>nobody owe you a conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, I don't feel like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I definitely feel like I do be like

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<v Speaker 1>the world revolve around me. I feel like everybody world

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<v Speaker 1>should revolve around them. It's it's just my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's me.

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<v Speaker 1>My world should revolve around me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like who else is it supposed to revolve around.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the end of the day, if people don't

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<v Speaker 1>call me back in the timely men, or if they

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<v Speaker 1>don't take me back unless it's something important, if it's

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<v Speaker 1>about business, or if it's about something like an emergency,

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<v Speaker 1>then yeah, you need to call me back. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's just about some bullshet and you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to me today, I don't be.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't Twenty twenty five is about self I don't

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<v Speaker 4>care being selfish, Yes, be selfish, self care.

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<v Speaker 2>Take like this in nineteen ninety one.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh and you know me, babe, I don't even fuck

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<v Speaker 4>about nothing. If I don't want to do something, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not coming. I'm not showing up. I'm not giving it.

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<v Speaker 4>Leave me on, leave me the fuck alone, please.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that's a little different though, let me one

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<v Speaker 1>that's a little different and not answering the phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>Not answering a phone call and not wanting to do

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<v Speaker 1>she is two different things.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm just saying, sometimes I don't want to go,

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<v Speaker 4>but sometimes you need to go. But I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 4>like we're not talking about like stuff like that, but like,

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<v Speaker 4>but honestly, I feel like I'm starting to learn better though,

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<v Speaker 4>how to navigate with like my mental health things, because

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<v Speaker 4>I used to be like, oh fuck everybody, fuck everything.

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<v Speaker 2>La da da.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think now I'm being better with it, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I'm saying. But definitely in the past, I

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<v Speaker 4>used to be like, oh fuck, everybody doesn't matter. But

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<v Speaker 4>what I've learned is my issues aren't everybody else's issues.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's another thing too. I feel like you can

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<v Speaker 4>be like, Okay, fuck you and this, but sometimes you

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<v Speaker 4>do have to show up and you do have to

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<v Speaker 4>do certain things. So it's a balance.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, because I feel like you have to this

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<v Speaker 1>is this has always been my thing. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>important to prioritize yourself and your own mental health and

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<v Speaker 1>mental illness.

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<v Speaker 2>But you should never make people around you.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel like, oh, if I'm going through something, it's fuck you,

1:08:02.280 --> 1:08:06.520
<v Speaker 1>because it's not fuck you. It's just I need some

1:08:06.640 --> 1:08:10.000
<v Speaker 1>time to myself. But then I think some people make

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<v Speaker 1>people feel like, oh, well, if I'm going through something,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fuck everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's wrong. Yeah, I agree now that I can.

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<v Speaker 1>That's wrong because those gonna be the same people that

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<v Speaker 1>you need, that you're gonna need at some point, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. And it's like you done told

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<v Speaker 1>them fuck them, or you don't bet onf some fuck

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<v Speaker 1>you type cheet now you need six months from now,

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<v Speaker 1>a year from that, right, you just have to.

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<v Speaker 4>Be But I think that's where communication comes in. That's

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<v Speaker 4>where communication comes in because sometimes people will act a

1:08:41.400 --> 1:08:43.680
<v Speaker 4>certain way and you don't know why. That's why I

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<v Speaker 4>say it's easier to say, hey, i'm clocked out right now,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not doing well.

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<v Speaker 2>Say that so.

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<v Speaker 4>People don't be like, oh, and then now you gotta

1:08:53.200 --> 1:08:55.360
<v Speaker 4>come back and explain, Oh, it wasn't fuck you. I

1:08:55.520 --> 1:08:58.120
<v Speaker 4>wasn't being me, Nah, bitch, you should have just said, hey,

1:08:58.120 --> 1:09:00.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm going through something. You don't gotta talk to me

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<v Speaker 4>on the phone for three hours, just say hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not good right now. I gotta do what's best for

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<v Speaker 4>me and just say that we gotta work. And that's

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<v Speaker 4>another thing for twenty twenty five. We gotta work on

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<v Speaker 4>the girls gotta and the guys communication.

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<v Speaker 2>Say what you mean and mean what you're safe. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I talked about this before on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>and some people are gonna agree and some people are

1:09:25.360 --> 1:09:29.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna disagree. But I think sometimes people just have to

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<v Speaker 1>be friends with people that they align with and people

1:09:32.240 --> 1:09:35.320
<v Speaker 1>don't understand them. I think again, going back to me

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<v Speaker 1>and my best friend, one of the main reasons that

1:09:37.960 --> 1:09:39.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel like we get along so great is.

1:09:39.880 --> 1:09:41.519
<v Speaker 2>Because we understand each other. Yep.

1:09:41.680 --> 1:09:44.120
<v Speaker 1>When we first became friends, it was certain shit she

1:09:44.200 --> 1:09:44.519
<v Speaker 1>used to do.

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<v Speaker 2>They used to.

1:09:45.040 --> 1:09:48.600
<v Speaker 1>Rub me the wrong way, like to tell her and

1:09:48.640 --> 1:09:51.320
<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, this be ribbing me the wrong way

1:09:51.320 --> 1:09:54.320
<v Speaker 1>that she be doing it, and she was like this

1:09:54.439 --> 1:09:56.200
<v Speaker 1>be ribbing me the wrong way that she be doing

1:09:56.280 --> 1:09:59.600
<v Speaker 1>these And we've both made conscious differences to not do

1:09:59.720 --> 1:10:03.320
<v Speaker 1>certain and she anymore. But then when it's times because

1:10:03.360 --> 1:10:06.479
<v Speaker 1>I know too that sometimes she suffered from anxiety and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about me if you didn't answer the phone.

1:10:10.240 --> 1:10:12.559
<v Speaker 1>But then because we share locations with each other, if

1:10:12.600 --> 1:10:13.960
<v Speaker 1>you didn't answer the phone, but I see you at

1:10:14.000 --> 1:10:16.679
<v Speaker 1>your apartment, so I know, you know, probably not doing anything.

1:10:17.080 --> 1:10:22.280
<v Speaker 1>It's fine because it's not personal. But I think that

1:10:22.439 --> 1:10:26.040
<v Speaker 1>goes into friendship styles and being friends with people. You

1:10:26.120 --> 1:10:28.280
<v Speaker 1>have to be friends with people that are like minded

1:10:29.240 --> 1:10:32.479
<v Speaker 1>like you. Some people be friends with needy ass people

1:10:32.600 --> 1:10:34.599
<v Speaker 1>and you not a needy ass person that goes.

1:10:34.479 --> 1:10:37.600
<v Speaker 2>Remember that, Remember that conversation we had. We were talking about.

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<v Speaker 4>Anxious attachments and different type of attachment styles. That's why

1:10:43.600 --> 1:10:46.000
<v Speaker 4>I said we're gonna get an expert on here, because

1:10:46.120 --> 1:10:47.880
<v Speaker 4>I think we kind of glazed over it.

1:10:48.280 --> 1:10:51.000
<v Speaker 2>But that's that's a good point.

1:10:51.840 --> 1:10:57.160
<v Speaker 4>It goes avoidant attachment styles. Anxious, like an avoidant should

1:10:57.200 --> 1:10:59.960
<v Speaker 4>not be with somebody who has an anxious like you can't.

1:11:00.520 --> 1:11:03.120
<v Speaker 1>I have another friend who I'm still friends with right

1:11:03.120 --> 1:11:05.280
<v Speaker 1>now too, who we have had like a little falling

1:11:05.320 --> 1:11:07.720
<v Speaker 1>out like last year because she was just like, I

1:11:07.720 --> 1:11:10.320
<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm always calling you first, so I'm always

1:11:10.360 --> 1:11:14.160
<v Speaker 1>calling you all the time, and to me, I don't know,

1:11:14.240 --> 1:11:16.240
<v Speaker 1>like I'm just such a person who live in my

1:11:16.320 --> 1:11:18.120
<v Speaker 1>own world. A lot of time, which is something that

1:11:18.160 --> 1:11:20.240
<v Speaker 1>I did say twenty twenty five. Maybe I need to

1:11:20.280 --> 1:11:22.639
<v Speaker 1>work on that calling people more because I have like

1:11:23.000 --> 1:11:26.120
<v Speaker 1>two friends that I actually call all the time, and

1:11:26.200 --> 1:11:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I do feel like a lot of my other friends

1:11:28.160 --> 1:11:32.040
<v Speaker 1>they be calling me first. And it's not personal. It's

1:11:32.160 --> 1:11:35.680
<v Speaker 1>just I think some people make me calm and some

1:11:35.720 --> 1:11:37.320
<v Speaker 1>people give me like make me.

1:11:37.240 --> 1:11:38.040
<v Speaker 2>A little anxious.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so the people who make me anxious, Yeah, I'm

1:11:42.120 --> 1:11:44.040
<v Speaker 1>probably not gonna call you all the time, but it

1:11:44.080 --> 1:11:46.760
<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean I don't want to talk. If you want

1:11:46.800 --> 1:11:48.760
<v Speaker 1>to talk to me and you want to call me

1:11:48.840 --> 1:11:50.760
<v Speaker 1>and talk to me about something, that's fine. You could

1:11:50.800 --> 1:11:52.439
<v Speaker 1>do that, But I'm not trying to make you feel

1:11:52.479 --> 1:11:56.760
<v Speaker 1>like the friendship is only one sidey. But I think

1:11:56.800 --> 1:12:02.360
<v Speaker 1>that also goes into friendships and relationship styles because I

1:12:02.400 --> 1:12:06.360
<v Speaker 1>don't not trying to be because I'm trying to make

1:12:06.400 --> 1:12:08.120
<v Speaker 1>sure our worth is right. Because it's not to say

1:12:08.120 --> 1:12:09.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be friends with somebody like that,

1:12:10.280 --> 1:12:12.960
<v Speaker 1>but like stuff like that be so petty to me.

1:12:13.280 --> 1:12:17.719
<v Speaker 1>Conversations like about who called somebody first and who made

1:12:17.720 --> 1:12:21.960
<v Speaker 1>the last phone call, and I just feel like, is

1:12:22.000 --> 1:12:23.360
<v Speaker 1>that what we're really talking about?

1:12:23.520 --> 1:12:25.479
<v Speaker 2>One thing about me. I do not I don't even

1:12:25.479 --> 1:12:27.439
<v Speaker 2>pay attention to that shit. I don't give a fuck.

1:12:27.439 --> 1:12:29.559
<v Speaker 4>If I called you last four times, I'm gonna call

1:12:29.600 --> 1:12:30.160
<v Speaker 4>you the fist time.

1:12:30.240 --> 1:12:30.920
<v Speaker 2>What you doing a girl?

1:12:31.080 --> 1:12:33.080
<v Speaker 1>But that's what I'm saying. Like, stuff like that is

1:12:33.160 --> 1:12:35.599
<v Speaker 1>just kind of But but then for some people, if

1:12:35.600 --> 1:12:38.400
<v Speaker 1>it's a big deal. And so that's where I feel

1:12:38.439 --> 1:12:40.920
<v Speaker 1>like friendship styles, I don't know if that's really a

1:12:41.000 --> 1:12:41.519
<v Speaker 1>real thing.

1:12:41.640 --> 1:12:44.160
<v Speaker 2>It is, but that's important.

1:12:44.200 --> 1:12:47.000
<v Speaker 4>Love languages, all that stuff, as much as it applies

1:12:47.040 --> 1:12:49.479
<v Speaker 4>to relationships, it applies to friendship to.

1:12:49.880 --> 1:12:53.680
<v Speaker 2>It definitely does. So I know, so, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think that's why, like certain friends and certain

1:12:58.000 --> 1:13:01.240
<v Speaker 4>people that I'm cool with, I have to treat certain

1:13:01.280 --> 1:13:04.120
<v Speaker 4>friends differently in XYZ, but.

1:13:06.600 --> 1:13:10.840
<v Speaker 2>They get me. We may not get along all the time,

1:13:11.640 --> 1:13:12.200
<v Speaker 2>but it's.

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<v Speaker 4>An understanding there, it's a certain level of understanding. So

1:13:16.439 --> 1:13:18.519
<v Speaker 4>I do feel like, in the year of twenty twenty five,

1:13:18.920 --> 1:13:22.360
<v Speaker 4>be around people who actually like you, and who actually

1:13:22.400 --> 1:13:26.360
<v Speaker 4>are good friends, and who actually understands you. Because sometimes

1:13:26.360 --> 1:13:32.479
<v Speaker 4>people wanna be liking yeah, yeah, yeah, A lot of

1:13:32.479 --> 1:13:34.680
<v Speaker 4>times y'all be around people who don't fucking like you.

1:13:34.720 --> 1:13:36.559
<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, okay, okay, s's up y'all as your girl

1:13:36.760 --> 1:13:38.960
<v Speaker 2>XP and it's Sugarl Dre and the Cale.

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all know, we have a segment on Poor Minds called

1:13:42.000 --> 1:13:43.960
<v Speaker 4>Item of the Week. But do you have a product

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<v Speaker 4>or something that you want to promote and you want

1:13:45.520 --> 1:13:46.840
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1:13:47.120 --> 1:13:49.320
<v Speaker 2>Your opportunity is here period.

1:13:49.800 --> 1:13:51.839
<v Speaker 1>If you have an item or you have a business

1:13:51.880 --> 1:13:53.760
<v Speaker 1>and you want to get it promoted, we are now

1:13:53.920 --> 1:13:57.240
<v Speaker 1>having slots available on the Poor Mind's episode. So if

1:13:57.280 --> 1:13:59.559
<v Speaker 1>you would like to get your product featured for Item

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<v Speaker 1>of the Week, all you need to do is send

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1:14:18.040 --> 1:14:21.840
<v Speaker 1>Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make.

1:14:21.720 --> 1:14:25.040
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1:14:25.120 --> 1:14:27.680
<v Speaker 2>now and a black business said that, but.

1:14:27.800 --> 1:14:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I meanmade any businesses welcome.

1:14:34.160 --> 1:14:34.360
<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>It's time to get into the b out a bow

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<v Speaker 4>a bow about bell bell.

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<v Speaker 2>Did we even do the drinks? Nope? But drink okay,

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<v Speaker 2>hell d.

1:14:55.040 --> 1:14:57.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm making lexus drink now. But this is and I

1:14:57.560 --> 1:14:59.600
<v Speaker 1>was already sipping mind since we're in the episode, but

1:14:59.720 --> 1:15:01.360
<v Speaker 1>even it's gonna put some really cute pictures up of

1:15:01.400 --> 1:15:03.560
<v Speaker 1>this drink because it has some glitter that was like

1:15:03.640 --> 1:15:04.400
<v Speaker 1>circulating around.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is the New Year, New Me. Okay, twenty

1:15:07.760 --> 1:15:08.240
<v Speaker 2>twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>We stepping in with our big girl's shoes and a

1:15:10.040 --> 1:15:12.880
<v Speaker 1>big girl panties on the thongs. Okay, pull them up

1:15:12.880 --> 1:15:14.719
<v Speaker 1>and let's go. All right, let's get these bags.

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<v Speaker 2>New Year Knew Me.

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<v Speaker 1>We have your spirit of choice. We have some elderflower liquor,

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<v Speaker 1>some grapefruit, a little bit of lime, and some lavender syrup.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we topped it off with some champagne just

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<v Speaker 1>to give that New Year's fizz, and we added some

1:15:28.200 --> 1:15:31.640
<v Speaker 1>edible glitter to it. And that is it, ladies, the

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<v Speaker 1>New Year Knew Me and lex yours is coming right back.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that. Do it again?

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<v Speaker 4>May it shout out to the Twins figs. They used

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<v Speaker 4>to drop them bangas on the ass.

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<v Speaker 2>They did.

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<v Speaker 4>They were the first people that was whispering in the

1:15:45.600 --> 1:15:59.400
<v Speaker 4>bitch ear on the song's Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I know to be right nasty, so I don't mind

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<v Speaker 2>asking for head.

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<v Speaker 7>I need to make.

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<v Speaker 2>Like the oh pussy like bill like bam beat they

1:16:37.680 --> 1:16:46.400
<v Speaker 2>beat the beat the Oh my god, that was such

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<v Speaker 2>a good song.

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<v Speaker 1>It was there was another song that idea was that

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't we want to go in the studio.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you know what's crazy, so many people try to

1:16:56.560 --> 1:17:01.120
<v Speaker 4>remake a whisper type song and they couldn't do There's

1:17:01.200 --> 1:17:04.120
<v Speaker 4>been no like a lot of Atlanta people rappers were

1:17:04.160 --> 1:17:07.080
<v Speaker 4>trying to do like a whisper and they couldn't remake

1:17:07.160 --> 1:17:09.960
<v Speaker 4>that song. There was another song that they had they

1:17:10.000 --> 1:17:14.240
<v Speaker 4>were whispering on. What was it do?

1:17:14.360 --> 1:17:16.160
<v Speaker 2>Y'all remember the Yan Twins.

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<v Speaker 4>They had another song where they were kind of whispering

1:17:18.439 --> 1:17:20.479
<v Speaker 4>on it. I gotta put off my Spotify, y'all.

1:17:21.040 --> 1:17:24.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. I have to do but Drea in the meantime, okay,

1:17:24.320 --> 1:17:24.960
<v Speaker 2>in the meantime.

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<v Speaker 1>So for the bad topic, we're gonna be talking about sex.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk with your friends. What do you tell your friends

1:17:32.280 --> 1:17:35.160
<v Speaker 1>and what do you not tell them about your six

1:17:35.320 --> 1:17:40.920
<v Speaker 1>life or about your men or your women, Like, are

1:17:41.000 --> 1:17:43.479
<v Speaker 1>there certain things that are off limits you feel like

1:17:43.760 --> 1:17:47.280
<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't tell my friends these or are you the

1:17:47.320 --> 1:17:49.120
<v Speaker 1>type of person that you just feel like, you know,

1:17:49.640 --> 1:17:52.920
<v Speaker 1>if we friends. I'm just lit the chopa sing.

1:17:54.360 --> 1:18:01.600
<v Speaker 2>So I feel like it's certain things that I like

1:18:01.680 --> 1:18:04.080
<v Speaker 2>to do in the bedroom. Honestly, I'll say this.

1:18:04.280 --> 1:18:08.720
<v Speaker 4>I tell my friends a lot I do, but as

1:18:08.800 --> 1:18:10.880
<v Speaker 4>I've gotten older, I feel like it's certain things that

1:18:10.960 --> 1:18:13.920
<v Speaker 4>I just like to have between like me and my men.

1:18:14.000 --> 1:18:16.439
<v Speaker 4>It's not that it's nothing like, oh, freaky embarrassing, but

1:18:16.920 --> 1:18:18.599
<v Speaker 4>it just be certain things that go in the bedroom

1:18:18.640 --> 1:18:20.920
<v Speaker 4>that I just keep to myself. I think it's more

1:18:21.080 --> 1:18:24.760
<v Speaker 4>so about me and his bond and things that we

1:18:24.880 --> 1:18:28.280
<v Speaker 4>can have just that's between us that other people don't know.

1:18:28.720 --> 1:18:31.400
<v Speaker 4>And also, like I said, I feel like I used

1:18:31.400 --> 1:18:33.360
<v Speaker 4>to share so many things that I do in the

1:18:33.439 --> 1:18:37.960
<v Speaker 4>bedroom on this show too. It'd be stuff that I like,

1:18:38.040 --> 1:18:40.040
<v Speaker 4>maybe tried or I thought was funny and I was

1:18:40.120 --> 1:18:41.760
<v Speaker 4>making a joke about it, and it'd be like years

1:18:41.840 --> 1:18:43.599
<v Speaker 4>later and they still be bringing it up and talking

1:18:43.600 --> 1:18:47.479
<v Speaker 4>about it. It's like relax but people like to take

1:18:47.520 --> 1:18:51.599
<v Speaker 4>a little inch, and what is it? You give them

1:18:51.640 --> 1:18:55.519
<v Speaker 4>an inch and they take a relax So, honestly, I

1:18:55.560 --> 1:18:58.080
<v Speaker 4>feel like there's certain things that like you and your

1:18:58.120 --> 1:18:59.800
<v Speaker 4>friends can laugh about. But I feel like if you're

1:18:59.800 --> 1:19:02.559
<v Speaker 4>in a serious relationship. There's certain things that should be.

1:19:02.600 --> 1:19:09.400
<v Speaker 2>Between you and your man. I agree, Hm, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't think everybody needs to know everything, but I also don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it depends on why you keeping stuff to yourself,

1:19:19.439 --> 1:19:22.799
<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like I don't know. I don't operate

1:19:23.120 --> 1:19:27.800
<v Speaker 1>in fear when it comes to anything. So I think

1:19:28.000 --> 1:19:31.639
<v Speaker 1>that some people don't like to share stuff about their

1:19:31.800 --> 1:19:33.960
<v Speaker 1>relationship or their sex life and stuff because they be

1:19:34.000 --> 1:19:36.080
<v Speaker 1>feel like, oh, if you tell somebody too much, or

1:19:36.120 --> 1:19:38.400
<v Speaker 1>if you share too much with your friends, then they

1:19:38.439 --> 1:19:41.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna want to fuck Y'allniga Beachmnia not gonna fuck y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>It ain't about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm not worried about that, like I ever thought

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<v Speaker 1>of it that way. Well, I'm saying because because maybe

1:19:50.800 --> 1:19:53.240
<v Speaker 1>that's not how you look at it. But I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>like I've heard a lot of like that, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to tell my friends too much about my

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<v Speaker 1>real relationship. I don't want to tell my friends too

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<v Speaker 1>much about this or too much about that, because I

1:20:05.720 --> 1:20:08.080
<v Speaker 1>feel like if I share too much about my men

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<v Speaker 1>and like that he's well in doubt or that he's

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<v Speaker 1>good in the bedroom, or he eat pussy good, whatever

1:20:13.760 --> 1:20:15.599
<v Speaker 1>the case may be, then they gonna want to fuck

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<v Speaker 1>my nigga, will beach. I'm not worried about that.

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<v Speaker 2>And also if you.

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<v Speaker 4>Hear your friends say that and you be wanting to

1:20:21.680 --> 1:20:25.080
<v Speaker 4>fuck him, that's weird. Weird, that's weird as fuck.

1:20:25.240 --> 1:20:25.920
<v Speaker 2>It is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do think that there are women like that.

1:20:29.000 --> 1:20:32.600
<v Speaker 1>But I think that more and so goes into the company.

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<v Speaker 2>That you keep.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean because men, because you know that men be

1:20:36.080 --> 1:20:37.880
<v Speaker 1>like that, Because first of all, why is you friends

1:20:37.920 --> 1:20:39.960
<v Speaker 1>with a beach that you think will fuck your hey?

1:20:40.120 --> 1:20:41.720
<v Speaker 2>And why are you with a nigga who you think

1:20:41.760 --> 1:20:42.920
<v Speaker 2>will fuck one of your friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>If I ever had that type of doubt in my

1:20:46.439 --> 1:20:49.880
<v Speaker 1>mind about my man or my friend, you not about

1:20:49.920 --> 1:20:51.320
<v Speaker 1>to be my man or my friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Hey, hey, that's my bitch you. I don't got

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<v Speaker 4>to say that. My nigga don't have to say that.

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<v Speaker 4>And I also think too, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Just think it's I think a lot of the time,

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<v Speaker 1>to me, that's why people don't share stuff like.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I didn't think about it that way.

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<v Speaker 4>I was more thinking about like, oh, there's a certain secret,

1:21:08.120 --> 1:21:10.240
<v Speaker 4>Like it's certain secrets that like me and you have,

1:21:10.600 --> 1:21:12.200
<v Speaker 4>or like me and Killa have, or me and my

1:21:12.320 --> 1:21:14.519
<v Speaker 4>men have, like I like to have that we have

1:21:14.720 --> 1:21:17.320
<v Speaker 4>that together and it's just ours and.

1:21:17.360 --> 1:21:20.519
<v Speaker 2>It's something special. I never thought about that, but you're right,

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<v Speaker 2>you right, I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really a person who I can truly say when

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<v Speaker 1>it depending on how close in practice, like how close

1:21:31.880 --> 1:21:35.439
<v Speaker 1>our relationship is. I'm like an open book with people

1:21:35.520 --> 1:21:38.880
<v Speaker 1>that I'm close to, So I don't care about you

1:21:39.040 --> 1:21:40.760
<v Speaker 1>knowing certain shit. I'm not gonna go out of my

1:21:40.880 --> 1:21:43.760
<v Speaker 1>way to just tell you my sexual business. But if

1:21:43.760 --> 1:21:46.640
<v Speaker 1>we're having a conversation, like for example, if one of

1:21:46.680 --> 1:21:49.080
<v Speaker 1>my friends having a conversation with me and they asking

1:21:49.160 --> 1:21:53.320
<v Speaker 1>me about like head or a certain scenario in the bedroom,

1:21:53.479 --> 1:21:55.800
<v Speaker 1>something that they want to try, and it's something that

1:21:55.920 --> 1:21:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I've tried, if you asking me about it, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be like, oh girl, I don't know. And me

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<v Speaker 1>and my man and danity, you know what I mean,

1:22:04.520 --> 1:22:07.880
<v Speaker 1>or I'm experienced in that realm. I'm not gonna sit

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<v Speaker 1>here and act like, oh girl, I don't know about

1:22:10.000 --> 1:22:11.320
<v Speaker 1>it or not talk to you about it, because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want.

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<v Speaker 2>You to know about what me and my man be doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I just I agree. I think stuff

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<v Speaker 2>like that. It's a little weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you don't trust your friends, and if that's

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<v Speaker 1>the case, then be why are they your friends?

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<v Speaker 2>That's true, that's true.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, but I think, like I said, if

1:22:29.080 --> 1:22:31.639
<v Speaker 4>you be around your friend and you want to fuck

1:22:31.720 --> 1:22:33.760
<v Speaker 4>her man or your man want to fuck you, and

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<v Speaker 4>you know it.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all just weird as fun.

1:22:36.840 --> 1:22:39.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, the signs be there though, be you want

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<v Speaker 1>to fuck yr Nigga or would fuck yr Nigga or

1:22:43.080 --> 1:22:44.280
<v Speaker 1>nigga who wuck one.

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<v Speaker 2>Of your friends SNS. You gotta give us the signs.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, this is what poor Mind's is about. Oh sorry, Burt,

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<v Speaker 4>I say this is a sign if y'all, Like, if

1:22:58.320 --> 1:23:00.479
<v Speaker 4>y'all like out and she be all in his face

1:23:00.600 --> 1:23:02.320
<v Speaker 4>type ship like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what I'm saying. You know how somebody be in

1:23:03.880 --> 1:23:07.679
<v Speaker 2>somebody's face too flirty, too flirty and being like, ah

1:23:08.280 --> 1:23:12.920
<v Speaker 2>were outside, bro, you're so yeah, like she all in

1:23:13.040 --> 1:23:20.479
<v Speaker 2>his face or she trying to embarrass you. She'd be like, girl,

1:23:21.400 --> 1:23:24.040
<v Speaker 2>you need some gum. Bitch, bitch you.

1:23:24.120 --> 1:23:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Need some gun, or she be like, uh, now you

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<v Speaker 1>need some gums like some thunder.

1:23:31.240 --> 1:23:35.280
<v Speaker 2>She be like, bitch, why are you grabbing my toe?

1:23:36.479 --> 1:23:44.360
<v Speaker 2>You yes, it's a tourist thing. Why the I am?

1:23:44.680 --> 1:23:46.679
<v Speaker 1>And I just said, and so, why would you keep

1:23:46.840 --> 1:23:49.000
<v Speaker 1>doing this? Why come you're not laughing? Why are you

1:23:49.080 --> 1:23:49.679
<v Speaker 1>getting mad?

1:23:51.040 --> 1:23:54.200
<v Speaker 2>Used to get so mad. No, they don't. I thought

1:23:54.200 --> 1:23:54.840
<v Speaker 2>it was funny.

1:23:54.920 --> 1:23:57.679
<v Speaker 4>I never knew that her mama, her and my mama

1:23:57.760 --> 1:24:00.599
<v Speaker 4>got the say birthday. I used to grab mama feet.

1:24:01.520 --> 1:24:05.240
<v Speaker 1>She would get so mad, she would never last She no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you better fucking stop.

1:24:10.080 --> 1:24:11.320
<v Speaker 2>My mommer.

1:24:11.479 --> 1:24:15.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm so and and I'm so ticklish in the weirdest

1:24:15.960 --> 1:24:17.360
<v Speaker 1>places too, tied.

1:24:17.360 --> 1:24:22.559
<v Speaker 2>Like under my but like on my thigh, under my butt,

1:24:22.720 --> 1:24:24.040
<v Speaker 2>my whole life. My mom.

1:24:24.160 --> 1:24:25.880
<v Speaker 1>Whenever she would know I would be mad at her,

1:24:26.320 --> 1:24:29.320
<v Speaker 1>she would start tickling me, like under my bud when

1:24:29.320 --> 1:24:30.639
<v Speaker 1>I was like a teenager and stuff.

1:24:30.640 --> 1:24:34.120
<v Speaker 2>And I would be like, stop, didn't give me my memory.

1:24:34.680 --> 1:24:41.200
<v Speaker 2>It's about it for my mom. Girl, move please. Okay,

1:24:41.280 --> 1:24:43.680
<v Speaker 2>but I'll say that you in a nigga face. Are

1:24:43.720 --> 1:24:45.280
<v Speaker 2>you trying to embarrass your friends?

1:24:45.360 --> 1:24:49.040
<v Speaker 1>What we said on the last episode, the outcare song.

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<v Speaker 2>I found them?

1:24:55.160 --> 1:24:55.479
<v Speaker 3>The song?

1:24:55.560 --> 1:25:01.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay, remember do y'all remember this song? What happened, Miss

1:25:02.640 --> 1:25:04.839
<v Speaker 2>what happened? You ain't gonna get hell.

1:25:08.479 --> 1:25:13.600
<v Speaker 4>Mam okay before you, y'all and tell your things. Do

1:25:13.760 --> 1:25:17.360
<v Speaker 4>y'all remember this Yen Yane Twins song. Look, bitch, you

1:25:17.479 --> 1:25:18.760
<v Speaker 4>done talk to a whole lot of ship.

1:25:18.960 --> 1:25:21.320
<v Speaker 2>But wait, do you see my dick ain't bitch.

1:25:21.720 --> 1:25:24.000
<v Speaker 4>I ain't really for the talking game. But you came

1:25:24.080 --> 1:25:27.479
<v Speaker 4>in the room and start handling things. First thought, beat

1:25:27.520 --> 1:25:29.760
<v Speaker 4>the pussy up. Hit it from the back, and beat

1:25:29.800 --> 1:25:33.760
<v Speaker 4>the pussy up. When all that running be your west

1:25:33.880 --> 1:25:36.680
<v Speaker 4>Steel long dick come in. Ride on the dick like

1:25:36.720 --> 1:25:40.640
<v Speaker 4>he was dancing in the club, y'all. I remember you

1:25:40.800 --> 1:25:43.760
<v Speaker 4>heard U min long dick coming.

1:25:43.840 --> 1:25:46.120
<v Speaker 2>It's lone coming.

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<v Speaker 4>That was so they did another whisper. They were kind

1:25:49.320 --> 1:25:51.439
<v Speaker 4>of he wasn't whispering, but he was kind of whispering.

1:25:52.000 --> 1:25:54.519
<v Speaker 4>Shout out to the Yin Yane Twins pioneers in the game.

1:25:54.840 --> 1:25:56.960
<v Speaker 4>Niggas was really trying to whisper on that track.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to fucking cut it out, big, You need

1:26:04.920 --> 1:26:05.519
<v Speaker 1>to cut it out.

1:26:05.880 --> 1:26:08.360
<v Speaker 2>But no, I don't know what's up, y'all.

1:26:08.360 --> 1:26:10.960
<v Speaker 4>Iss your girl xp andy sh girls Ryan a call,

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<v Speaker 4>and y'all do not forget to call our shot line.

1:26:14.120 --> 1:26:15.600
<v Speaker 2>I know you've heard of a hot line, but this

1:26:15.760 --> 1:26:17.559
<v Speaker 2>is the poor mind's shot line.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we love to hear from y'all. Y'all need to

1:26:19.840 --> 1:26:23.000
<v Speaker 1>call in y'all, and this is not necessarily for questions.

1:26:23.040 --> 1:26:24.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, we just want to hear from y'all if

1:26:24.400 --> 1:26:26.639
<v Speaker 1>we want to know y'all, feedback, y'all, thoughts on the show,

1:26:26.960 --> 1:26:28.640
<v Speaker 1>or just what's going on in your life. So you

1:26:28.720 --> 1:26:31.960
<v Speaker 1>can always call six seven eight eight two seven one

1:26:32.240 --> 1:26:33.280
<v Speaker 1>eight two seed.

1:26:33.640 --> 1:26:35.880
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and y'all know, keep it short and cute.

1:26:35.920 --> 1:26:38.519
<v Speaker 4>Don't be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy,

1:26:38.560 --> 1:26:39.879
<v Speaker 4>says a brother, cousin boyfriend.

1:26:39.960 --> 1:26:42.360
<v Speaker 2>Okay, well I want to hear about that. Actually, well

1:26:42.439 --> 1:26:43.000
<v Speaker 2>you know they can.

1:26:43.000 --> 1:26:44.360
<v Speaker 4>Let a little some, but you know, we want to

1:26:44.439 --> 1:26:46.640
<v Speaker 4>keep it cute and short. Like she said, this is

1:26:46.720 --> 1:26:49.400
<v Speaker 4>not questions, This is not pour your heart out. So

1:26:49.600 --> 1:26:51.760
<v Speaker 4>just call give us a little feedback. What you want

1:26:51.760 --> 1:26:54.200
<v Speaker 4>to see on the show, any suggestions, what you think

1:26:54.240 --> 1:26:55.840
<v Speaker 4>about the show, if you just want to simply give

1:26:55.920 --> 1:26:58.559
<v Speaker 4>us our flowers, you know, or any It could be anything.

1:26:58.600 --> 1:27:00.920
<v Speaker 4>What's bothering you this week, what on your nerves this week?

1:27:01.080 --> 1:27:02.719
<v Speaker 4>If you just want to vent and get some things

1:27:02.800 --> 1:27:05.519
<v Speaker 4>off your chest. Pull the shot line again.

1:27:05.600 --> 1:27:09.200
<v Speaker 2>The number is six seven eight eight two seven one

1:27:09.320 --> 1:27:14.439
<v Speaker 2>eight two six. Time to get into the big the

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<v Speaker 2>bob see see see see the Bop Ay the Bob.

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<v Speaker 2>Bow Bow Bow Bow about bow Bow We in the

1:27:27.000 --> 1:27:31.080
<v Speaker 2>New Year. I keep clean, come looking real clear. I'm

1:27:31.160 --> 1:27:33.519
<v Speaker 2>that bitch and not fuck on your nigga. But he

1:27:33.640 --> 1:27:36.360
<v Speaker 2>came out fucked on me. He ain't got sick figgures.

1:27:36.479 --> 1:27:40.880
<v Speaker 4>Oh all right, mood, I was stuttering a little bit.

1:27:40.880 --> 1:27:43.160
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna have to work over. I gotta go to

1:27:43.240 --> 1:27:46.519
<v Speaker 4>the stool. I gotta get it right. Okay, So the

1:27:46.560 --> 1:27:48.880
<v Speaker 4>bop of the week. Okay, you want me to go first,

1:27:48.960 --> 1:27:49.160
<v Speaker 4>are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>So my bop of the week Alex Vaughn. I made

1:27:52.479 --> 1:27:54.160
<v Speaker 4>her my bop of the week about two years ago.

1:27:54.280 --> 1:27:56.400
<v Speaker 4>She had a song called so be It and it

1:27:56.560 --> 1:27:59.760
<v Speaker 4>was so fire. She's so good and I want you

1:28:00.280 --> 1:28:02.479
<v Speaker 4>R and B artist stopped just not dropping music. You

1:28:02.520 --> 1:28:05.000
<v Speaker 4>gotta be consistent. And this is not to Alex Vaughn.

1:28:05.000 --> 1:28:07.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying in general, but she has a new

1:28:07.120 --> 1:28:10.400
<v Speaker 4>song called hit a Wall and it's so relatable. You

1:28:10.439 --> 1:28:13.280
<v Speaker 4>would love this song. You would love this song. Because

1:28:13.360 --> 1:28:16.120
<v Speaker 4>sometimes that's what happens. Out of you hit a wall,

1:28:16.240 --> 1:28:18.639
<v Speaker 4>you be like, what the fuck are we doing? Sometimes

1:28:18.680 --> 1:28:21.519
<v Speaker 4>you gotta hear fucking wall and be like, what is

1:28:21.600 --> 1:28:24.840
<v Speaker 4>going on? Alex Vaughn, I don't know what she does.

1:28:25.280 --> 1:28:27.320
<v Speaker 4>Let me tell you about this indie music they be

1:28:27.439 --> 1:28:28.719
<v Speaker 4>talking about real shit.

1:28:31.800 --> 1:28:34.800
<v Speaker 2>Reata when I tell you I sung the fuck out

1:28:34.840 --> 1:28:35.400
<v Speaker 2>of that too.

1:28:35.560 --> 1:28:49.320
<v Speaker 1>When us your son has sung, I said, yeah, I

1:28:49.520 --> 1:28:50.120
<v Speaker 1>was ready to.

1:28:50.479 --> 1:28:55.000
<v Speaker 2>Get on, but yeah no. But I'm saying, Alex Vaughn

1:28:55.160 --> 1:28:55.639
<v Speaker 2>hit a wall.

1:28:55.760 --> 1:28:58.680
<v Speaker 4>If you were in a relationship right now and you

1:28:58.880 --> 1:29:00.880
<v Speaker 4>feel like you don't know what to do, listen to

1:29:01.000 --> 1:29:04.599
<v Speaker 4>this song because you're gonna know. We are all going

1:29:04.720 --> 1:29:07.720
<v Speaker 4>through it in this holiday season with men we are,

1:29:08.479 --> 1:29:10.439
<v Speaker 4>don't You're not alone. I don't care how bad you are,

1:29:10.479 --> 1:29:12.400
<v Speaker 4>how funny you are, how much money you make, how

1:29:12.479 --> 1:29:14.479
<v Speaker 4>amazing of a woman like Cardi B said, I got

1:29:14.560 --> 1:29:16.920
<v Speaker 4>little feet, Cardi, I don't care how small your feet are.

1:29:17.400 --> 1:29:22.120
<v Speaker 2>We all going through it. Okay, that's all I gotta say.

1:29:22.160 --> 1:29:24.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't care. I got a size ten, she got

1:29:24.439 --> 1:29:25.240
<v Speaker 2>a size seven.

1:29:25.800 --> 1:29:27.760
<v Speaker 1>I got a size seven. And just because you see

1:29:27.920 --> 1:29:31.519
<v Speaker 1>me at that concert, we're still going through it.

1:29:33.640 --> 1:29:38.320
<v Speaker 2>Don't matter. We're all going through it. So Alex vaugh Little.

1:29:41.439 --> 1:29:45.719
<v Speaker 4>Ten sevens are telling you it don't mean it anything,

1:29:47.520 --> 1:29:48.560
<v Speaker 4>but Alex.

1:29:48.280 --> 1:29:49.360
<v Speaker 7>Vaughn, so be it.

1:29:50.040 --> 1:29:52.479
<v Speaker 2>That's the song I put on my playlist a long

1:29:52.560 --> 1:29:53.760
<v Speaker 2>time ago. Go listen to that.

1:29:54.160 --> 1:29:56.519
<v Speaker 4>She's got a new song called hit a Wall. Alex Vaughn,

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<v Speaker 4>You're amazing. Please keep dropping music. I'm gonna give mazak. Misatti.

1:30:03.200 --> 1:30:05.800
<v Speaker 4>I hope I'm saying your name right. You had a

1:30:05.880 --> 1:30:07.760
<v Speaker 4>song that you dropped like three or four years ago.

1:30:07.840 --> 1:30:12.080
<v Speaker 4>It's called Intoxicated Truth. Misati. I don't know where you are.

1:30:13.360 --> 1:30:15.800
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you are under another name.

1:30:17.680 --> 1:30:20.680
<v Speaker 2>God. I hope you didn't pass away. I don't know

1:30:20.720 --> 1:30:24.800
<v Speaker 2>where you are, but please drop some more music. It's

1:30:25.080 --> 1:30:27.679
<v Speaker 2>m A S A T I, y'all.

1:30:27.720 --> 1:30:31.240
<v Speaker 4>Please find him for me, blow him up and maybe

1:30:31.560 --> 1:30:33.680
<v Speaker 4>maybe he don't want to do music no more, and

1:30:34.040 --> 1:30:35.880
<v Speaker 4>let me know, because I don't want to be bothering

1:30:35.960 --> 1:30:38.760
<v Speaker 4>this man. But he has a song called Intoxicated Truth.

1:30:38.840 --> 1:30:40.960
<v Speaker 4>I made this my bop like two years ago. But

1:30:41.040 --> 1:30:42.680
<v Speaker 4>I went in like a rabbit hole the other day

1:30:42.720 --> 1:30:44.759
<v Speaker 4>trying to look for him, and I could not find anything.

1:30:45.320 --> 1:30:49.200
<v Speaker 4>So Misati intoxicated truth, where are you?

1:30:49.920 --> 1:30:51.920
<v Speaker 2>It don't bother me? It is song you remember this song?

1:30:52.000 --> 1:30:59.160
<v Speaker 2>Making a day? When you start speeling his name up

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<v Speaker 2>A c k E b l e e, you're doing

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<v Speaker 2>it wrong. Black belly s p l k k A

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<v Speaker 2>b e l f i e black old belly? What

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck you spell?

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<v Speaker 7>A s y f b b E m A c

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<v Speaker 7>k b s m b p y e mo b

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<v Speaker 7>lets so said, let key.

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<v Speaker 2>Because what song did you see?

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<v Speaker 1>She's said?

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<v Speaker 2>Now m b A bock big motor song. Fuck u

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<v Speaker 2>m b y x y z t.

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<v Speaker 7>X y z the fa bed head.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about. Oh my god, that was such a

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<v Speaker 2>good What the blay brother? You can call up man?

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<v Speaker 2>I think that was Jack Thriller? Was he black?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it.

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<v Speaker 2>Black abell? Look at Oh my god? Look black of velly?

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<v Speaker 2>Is Jack Thriller? Black of belly? That sounds like yours.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a song bye and needs your cool.

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<v Speaker 3>She like a die cool, She like a die.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's Plackavelli a R and B song? Is this

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<v Speaker 1>song y'all talking about an R and B song? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's called It's by pressure Pressure pressures Jack Thriller.

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<v Speaker 2>This does not look like Jack Okay, my bad, my bad,

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<v Speaker 2>I was wrong. I was wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this the song y'all talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>Every woman needs her own black vela? Oh brother, chi

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<v Speaker 2>can call when her you can't play?

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna tell me what kind of superman will take you

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<v Speaker 1>in his bedroom?

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<v Speaker 2>Baby? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah song by y'all. Was listening to that in Chicago.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea what this No, but I definitely will. Damn.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not Jack from the Home of the Original. Why

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<v Speaker 2>do you know that? But why do you Why do

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<v Speaker 2>you know Jack Fuller's song? Though? What Jack Thriller song?

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<v Speaker 4>Because that was a rememberable song, rememberable, memorable, rememberable.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no real memory So wait Jack Thriller song? No,

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<v Speaker 2>it was so gay. It was just what's your Circadian Rhythm?

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<v Speaker 2>By Drake. I haven't had a Drake song in a

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<v Speaker 2>very very You're off. I'm gonna let you you're off

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<v Speaker 2>with that girl.

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<v Speaker 4>She's trying to make up because she was Jammy Kendrick

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<v Speaker 4>Hardest don't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>I could dream both the flood. I'm not scared of

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<v Speaker 1>neither one of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Squabbles up, so.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I can like both artists. And yes, Drake

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<v Speaker 1>had came out with Circadian rhythm. It actually came out

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<v Speaker 1>like back in August, but I just never said it

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<v Speaker 1>as my.

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<v Speaker 2>Bob because I listen to it for a minute. Mhm,

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta listen to it. I don't think I have

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<v Speaker 2>heard of you not.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't promoted that much.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I've heard it. It's snow like cover

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<v Speaker 2>art or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>But in the meantime, Okay, y'all, now it's time to

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<v Speaker 1>get into our favorite segment of the sho which just

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<v Speaker 1>pour your heart out. You know, if you have any questions,

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<v Speaker 1>any testimonials, you can always send them in to ask

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<v Speaker 1>poor Minds at gmail dot com. It's ask he O,

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<v Speaker 1>you are in my MBAs dot com. Why did you

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<v Speaker 1>take your crown off?

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<v Speaker 2>That's my head. It was like squeezing my head a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. Can we switch crown? No, because this is questions,

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<v Speaker 2>not my speech. Okay, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead,

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead, go ahead. M hm.

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<v Speaker 1>Heylex Andrea, I'm gonna make this short and sweet. Me

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<v Speaker 1>and my boyfriend have been together for almost four years.

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<v Speaker 1>We are high school sweethearts. He's everything I always wanted

1:35:40.760 --> 1:35:43.879
<v Speaker 1>in a partner. He treats me so well mentally, physically,

1:35:44.040 --> 1:35:47.920
<v Speaker 1>and emotionally, but financially we go fifty fifty on bills,

1:35:48.000 --> 1:35:50.240
<v Speaker 1>and recently I have been paying the bills for both

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<v Speaker 1>of us because he's not making money.

1:35:52.080 --> 1:35:52.360
<v Speaker 2>Right now.

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<v Speaker 1>We are both twenty three and I'm struggling financially myself

1:35:55.960 --> 1:35:58.720
<v Speaker 1>taking care of us both. I can't see myself being

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<v Speaker 1>with anybody else. But at the same time, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to stressen myself out paying all.

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<v Speaker 2>The bills with no help. Need advice.

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<v Speaker 4>So let me say this, one hundred percent on the

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<v Speaker 4>man and zero percent for the woman. It's not for everybody,

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<v Speaker 4>first of all, but if y'all agreed on fifty to fifty.

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<v Speaker 2>Where yo fifty at nigga, you gotta show the fuck up.

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<v Speaker 4>So this is novel we agreed upon. If you signed

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<v Speaker 4>up for fifty percent, you need to show up for

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<v Speaker 4>guess what. I can't show up here. I can't be

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<v Speaker 4>like ta, I don't got it this month. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 4>pay you twenty five percent.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do that. I can't do that. That's not you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 4>If you have to show up in your household, because

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<v Speaker 4>if he had his own apartment and he was on

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<v Speaker 4>his own.

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<v Speaker 2>He gotta pay that rent by hisself.

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<v Speaker 4>You are teaching this man to depend on you, and

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<v Speaker 4>the more you do this, the more he's gonna get

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<v Speaker 4>comfortable with being lazy and doing nothing. You want a

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<v Speaker 4>man who bare minimum can show up for you fifty percent.

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<v Speaker 4>He don't even got to show up one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 4>You asking him to show up fifty percent for the

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<v Speaker 4>bills and he can't do that. Y'all are twenty three,

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<v Speaker 4>so y'all young. I know y'all probably not living in

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<v Speaker 4>no high rise or no big ass townhouse or this,

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<v Speaker 4>and that he should be able to show up with.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll throw out a number here.

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<v Speaker 4>If you can't show up one thousand dollars a month

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<v Speaker 4>at twenty three years old, you not going hard enough,

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<v Speaker 4>and you got a person that's helping you. At twenty three,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't have nobody helping me like that. Well, yes

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<v Speaker 4>I did, let me not lie. But what I'm saying is,

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<v Speaker 4>at twenty three, you have a woman who is willing

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<v Speaker 4>to go fifty to fifty when most people are not

1:37:39.560 --> 1:37:41.880
<v Speaker 4>trying to go fifty to fifty. But the average person

1:37:42.040 --> 1:37:44.200
<v Speaker 4>in the relationship is going fifty to fifty. Girl, you

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<v Speaker 4>be better off getting you a one bedroom and figuring

1:37:47.120 --> 1:37:49.679
<v Speaker 4>shit out on your own. But if you're gonna stay

1:37:49.720 --> 1:37:52.960
<v Speaker 4>with him, make him pay because you're teaching him that

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<v Speaker 4>this is okay and that you're gonna hold shit down.

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<v Speaker 2>He too young to not be able to show up.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, if we are a million and something, you come

1:38:02.360 --> 1:38:06.000
<v Speaker 4>on hard times, that's a different ball game. That's a

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<v Speaker 4>different ballgame once we talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Some real money. Because sometimes shit.

1:38:10.479 --> 1:38:12.960
<v Speaker 4>Happens and you be like, hey, I gotta handle the

1:38:13.000 --> 1:38:15.920
<v Speaker 4>mortgage this month because whatever happened, maybe y'all are twenty

1:38:16.000 --> 1:38:17.640
<v Speaker 4>three and he can't show up for you. If he

1:38:17.680 --> 1:38:19.800
<v Speaker 4>can't show up for you at twenty three, you're not

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<v Speaker 4>gonna show up for you at thirty three.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree.

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<v Speaker 4>You are underscore in my n d s. Y'all are

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<v Speaker 2>Is a fake page. Do not follow that page.

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<v Speaker 1>My nds all right, and we got held a fake

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<v Speaker 1>thing is our Facebook page actually have the least amount

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<v Speaker 1>got the least amount of but one that's not us

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<v Speaker 1>got like two hundred and fifty.

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<v Speaker 4>Make if you actually look at the content, because the

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<v Speaker 4>caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because.

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<v Speaker 1>Their captures are like bumba claude, should men?

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<v Speaker 2>Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Check answer below block block Like that's literally what the captions.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what that DG's bumba claude, bumba claud im

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<v Speaker 2>me like she thinking about trying me. She wanted, she

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<v Speaker 2>can't take no more.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm alf take her to my spot. I'm gonna get

1:41:11.000 --> 1:41:13.360
<v Speaker 1>her hot. She's gonna turn overun and when I.

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<v Speaker 2>Beat beat beat, beat beat, she gonna make me.

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<v Speaker 1>Beat beat, beat, beat beat. She gonna let.

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<v Speaker 2>Beat beat beat.

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<v Speaker 1>Go go, go go go. I'm gonna have her screaming

1:41:31.320 --> 1:41:35.400
<v Speaker 1>like go go go, go go go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tear it up like be missed.

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<v Speaker 1>But sexy can take you to my crib make love

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<v Speaker 1>on my piano.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>You know me, little shorty from Atlanta, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>do something you such show body, make you get.

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<v Speaker 2>Naughty, say my name.

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<v Speaker 1>When I beat beet beef.

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<v Speaker 2>We can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>In a pool of the jeep jep jeep because girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you turn.

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<v Speaker 2>To me home, so they been eyeing me.

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<v Speaker 1>She looking like she's thinking about trying me.

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<v Speaker 2>She want it.

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<v Speaker 1>She can't take no more. I'm about to take her

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<v Speaker 1>to my spide I'm gonna get it hot. She gonna

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<v Speaker 1>turn around and let me beat beat.

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<v Speaker 3>Be beat.

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<v Speaker 2>She gonna let me beat beat beat beat beat. She

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<v Speaker 2>gonna let me beat beat beat me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, it's screaming like, go go go, go

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<v Speaker 1>go go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have a screaming light go go, go.

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<v Speaker 4>Go go go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna serve.

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<v Speaker 3>Condo.

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<v Speaker 2>I can make it rain, I can make it.

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<v Speaker 1>Clap of me.

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<v Speaker 2>He's driving me crazy. I know you want me this girl,

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<v Speaker 2>I want you.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me hen we kick it tonight, lights camera action.

1:42:52.360 --> 1:42:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I'll play director, turn you out, let me sneak up, peek,

1:42:56.840 --> 1:42:59.360
<v Speaker 1>turn you out on a late night creep.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't playing in no games to night.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean, she look like you's thinking about trying me. No money,

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<v Speaker 2>no more, no more. I might get a high beat

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<v Speaker 2>beat beat beat beat. She gonna make me a beat

1:43:18.360 --> 1:43:22.639
<v Speaker 2>beat beat beat beat beat beat beat beat beat.

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<v Speaker 4>Miss's all for sirs.

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<v Speaker 1>I swagon out, I got inos, She says. She likes

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<v Speaker 1>the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Work her out til she passing out. You want to

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<v Speaker 2>be with us?

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<v Speaker 1>Thought for baby.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm an astronaut. Let alick the rapper.

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<v Speaker 1>I call it a jawbreaker.

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<v Speaker 2>If her back was the law, didn.

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<v Speaker 8>Call me the lawbreaker. Call me the lawbreaker. What if

1:43:50.000 --> 1:43:53.840
<v Speaker 8>her back was the law, call me.

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<v Speaker 2>The law break man. We'll see y'all next week. Happy

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<v Speaker 2>New Year, mother, Fuck me do my little one cheek

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<v Speaker 2>all right? This ship up