Speaker 1: I think anything works as much as you put the
Speaker 1: effort in, as much as you put the work in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't just.
Speaker 1: Write on board and think, oh, I wrote these on
Speaker 1: the board. So this is gonna happen in twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2: It's gonna be my year. Man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, what's up?
Speaker 4: Y'all's your girl lex Pete and it's your girls are
Speaker 4: in the call and you.
Speaker 2: Are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds, where
Speaker 2: mind speaks sober thoughts.
Speaker 4: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no
Speaker 4: guests today.
Speaker 1: And it's New Year's a.
Speaker 2: New year. I love a new year, So bring it on,
Speaker 2: Bring it on.
Speaker 4: So I want you to know this episode, we're gonna
Speaker 4: be reminiscing, but we're also going to be expiring. This
Speaker 4: is gonna be an episode about hope and faith and positivity.
Speaker 4: I feel like that's how you have to bring in
Speaker 4: the new year. Bare minimum. I get it. We depressed,
Speaker 4: we sad. Life is hard, but bare minimum. Please at
Speaker 4: midnight January one, bring in that new year.
Speaker 2: With hope, faith. And if you don't do it on January.
Speaker 4: One, hey, try again on the second, try again on
Speaker 4: the third.
Speaker 2: Just keep trying and trying. Come on, lin rock that
Speaker 2: boat and tell them. I'm telling them.
Speaker 1: I just told him what you did do show off
Speaker 1: and dragon if at first you don't succeed. She was
Speaker 1: onto something when she said.
Speaker 2: That, don't stop, don't stop believe.
Speaker 4: And that was a good one. Sorry, you know, I
Speaker 4: go this way with it, don't stop and you go.
Speaker 1: I was going, can't stop, won't stop rocking Phillip Records
Speaker 1: because we get down.
Speaker 2: I gotta get down.
Speaker 1: Okay, come on, ain't that ice cube?
Speaker 2: Don't stop. You can hit it.
Speaker 4: We gonna do, we were gonna do, We're gonna do.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I knew I would put you into it.
Speaker 2: I know into it, put you into it.
Speaker 4: I used to want to go, so y'all have to realize.
Speaker 4: When I was younger, I could. I thought when I
Speaker 4: went to the club, they were gonna play ice Cube.
Speaker 1: He said, don't stop, get get it for real, don't stop.
Speaker 2: You can hit it. I will. We're gonna, We're gonna do.
Speaker 1: We were gonna zoo, we were.
Speaker 4: Gonna Oh my god. I wanted to be in the
Speaker 4: club when they played that. You know, when when the
Speaker 4: adults were in the club when that came out, they
Speaker 4: had a ball.
Speaker 1: It reminds me of Friday after next That party looked.
Speaker 2: So crunk, crunk.
Speaker 4: It wasn't lit, it wasn't jump cru it was it
Speaker 4: was crunk.
Speaker 1: That party looked so crunk, that party at their apartment
Speaker 1: that they was about to get a VI from Merry Christmas.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's what I was gonna say too. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: They did the.
Speaker 2: Club party in the club. I liked. I liked the
Speaker 2: dance battle. Personally.
Speaker 1: I have always wanted to go to the club and
Speaker 1: have a dance battle with.
Speaker 2: Somebody, you know who you need to And I.
Speaker 1: Never did that. Who I thought she was gonna say you,
Speaker 1: because I would say I've been in the club with
Speaker 1: too many a time.
Speaker 2: We've never had a dance No.
Speaker 4: I said, go to the club with guess who was dance.
Speaker 2: Battling her on the floor. Now, No, me and be Lyn?
Speaker 2: Oh no, well, okay, no, what I'm talking about. When
Speaker 2: we went over there, me and be Lynn.
Speaker 4: Had a whole dance battle. It was a whole thing,
Speaker 4: and that's what I posted for her birthday thing. But
Speaker 4: outside of that, because we fen have be lyin on
Speaker 4: the show, we are because that's our y'all. So we
Speaker 4: just went to the Usher concert. When I tell y'all,
Speaker 4: me and bee Lynn danced the whole time. We did
Speaker 4: not stop. The lady at the end of the show said, hey,
Speaker 4: Usher should have paid y'all and brought y'all on stage.
Speaker 4: That's how hard we dance. Y'all have to go watch
Speaker 4: that vlog. Be Lynn has a blog out of us
Speaker 4: on that night. I have never danced so hard in
Speaker 4: my entire life. I've never been no, never, I've never
Speaker 4: been front row at a concert though.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Have you have you been front row at like a
Speaker 4: major concert before?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I haven't. I haven't, so you know how it
Speaker 2: feels being front row? It's fun?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh my god. Then Usher performed my favorite song,
Speaker 4: What's your favorite? For two seconds? That's in a pocket?
Speaker 4: Usher tell me people don't know that song.
Speaker 2: Don't tell me. Oh you know that song? He was
Speaker 2: skating too, so he came out skating to that beach. Oh,
Speaker 2: but I was cutting up.
Speaker 1: I have fine at the Usher concert too. I went
Speaker 1: to the Usher concert too.
Speaker 4: Somebody said they seen you. It's like I didn't want to,
Speaker 4: they said on my live they said, oh my god,
Speaker 4: I've seen dre at the concert. But I know how
Speaker 4: she is, and I didn't want to feel like I
Speaker 4: was trying to clock her, so I left her alone
Speaker 4: because that was one of my men. Yeah, that's what
Speaker 4: she said. That's what she said.
Speaker 2: It was even love in this club. I was kissing
Speaker 2: in the club concert.
Speaker 1: No, of course, we are a classy bass.
Speaker 2: All are not classy bassed.
Speaker 3: We are. I've been to the club with y'all.
Speaker 2: What we be doing, y'all be he be smacking out
Speaker 2: as I'll be so grossed out.
Speaker 1: No, he don't.
Speaker 2: We're gonna talk about that later in the bed. He don't. Yes,
Speaker 2: he does.
Speaker 4: He No, you know what I say. I said something
Speaker 4: to him one day. I said, yeah, cause she be
Speaker 4: twisting that ass were looking good. He said facts.
Speaker 2: I said, excuse me, sir, Now, we wasn't.
Speaker 1: We definitely was not kissing, but it was very much
Speaker 1: given love in the club, like he was singing to me.
Speaker 1: He kept recording me. He was in the videos the
Speaker 1: next day of.
Speaker 2: Like him recording me. It was fun.
Speaker 1: I said, to know how a bunch of people I
Speaker 1: knew though, I was like, which I know.
Speaker 2: I at this point, it's like, anyway, shall.
Speaker 1: I don't like. This is the thing because we just
Speaker 1: talked about this on the Christmas episode. My thing gets
Speaker 1: I don't care about people knowing who I'm dating because
Speaker 1: it ain't no secret, you know what I mean. But like,
Speaker 1: I just feel like for me to be loud and
Speaker 1: proud and be posting someone, you need to.
Speaker 4: I feel the same way because we at that a
Speaker 4: like I'm.
Speaker 1: Not I'm not I'm just not doing it. Of course
Speaker 1: we be out together. Of course we be places together because.
Speaker 2: Oh no, t that's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: We be everywhere together.
Speaker 1: Like it was so funny because somebody literally maybe like
Speaker 1: four or five months ago, because I been getting on
Speaker 1: TikTok Live a lot more likely. We we got to
Speaker 1: talk about that real quick about TikTok canceled. But I
Speaker 1: was on TikTok Live a few months ago. If somebody
Speaker 1: was literally leaving his name on the TikTok Live but
Speaker 1: they were spelling it wrong, like they were spelling the
Speaker 1: last name wrong. But you know something, though, because you
Speaker 1: got the first name right and you got part of
Speaker 1: the last name right, how you know that I had
Speaker 1: to block them real quick because you know, it ain't
Speaker 1: even because you know too much. You're trying to spill
Speaker 1: my tea. You can't spell my tea before or me.
Speaker 2: Ring.
Speaker 4: But the badly about blocking somebody because you don't know
Speaker 4: what they're gonna do after that, because they'd be like,
Speaker 4: oh I was right, I mean, and that's well, I'll
Speaker 4: tell you where they was wrong because Shae told me
Speaker 4: she's seen something online and they said I was dating
Speaker 4: mister Reggie.
Speaker 1: People always say that, and I was like, mister Reggie.
Speaker 2: We love, we love, shout to mister Reggie nobody. But
Speaker 2: it never gave me.
Speaker 4: And dating somebody did me that much a go say,
Speaker 4: oh he's too fine, I know you fucking him.
Speaker 2: I was like, he is, he's very attractive. But it
Speaker 2: never gave me. And Lex was dating mister Reggie.
Speaker 4: I think people this is the problem though, when we
Speaker 4: talk about platonic friendships, and I like to say this
Speaker 4: because we always we always get on the men, but
Speaker 4: let's talk about the women. We always talk about how
Speaker 4: men don't know how to have platonic relationships. Yes, women,
Speaker 4: when y'all see another woman around a fine attracted man,
Speaker 4: y'all be like, oh, they're not friends. It very much
Speaker 4: is like a cool homegirl homeboyfriends type relationship. Because everybody
Speaker 4: was swearing up and down. They was like, which one
Speaker 4: of y'all, Which are y'all?
Speaker 6: Which one are y'all going home? Reggie neither one but
Speaker 6: shout out to shout out, but no.
Speaker 1: Shane taught me she's seen that online and she was
Speaker 1: like yeah. She was like it was people trying to say, and.
Speaker 2: You are dating mister Reggie. And I was like, for real,
Speaker 2: Oh my, I'm crazy. The tea is so cold.
Speaker 4: Somebody tweeted I'm gonna show you the tweet because.
Speaker 2: It threw me for a lot.
Speaker 1: I love that we'd be like kuhaking people these days.
Speaker 1: It'd be so because I know they be mad because
Speaker 1: they really feeling like they be on.
Speaker 4: To some so killer had to on to nothing. Somebody
Speaker 4: had sent me this tweet. Look at this tweet.
Speaker 5: When I've seen this, I said, what do y'all bold?
Speaker 5: I mean partially it was partially cold.
Speaker 2: But still cold. I'm not gonna say, but the tweet
Speaker 2: is obviously.
Speaker 4: But somebody damned my best friend today and was like,
Speaker 4: oh her boyfriend is I was like, what is going on?
Speaker 1: And then my thing be okay? So then if you
Speaker 1: figured out who it is, bitch, you.
Speaker 2: Want a cookie?
Speaker 1: What do you want? We don't got no more.
Speaker 2: We actually ate them all, hate them all, all of them.
Speaker 1: But I mean we can get you some We can
Speaker 1: send you a basket, maybe a fruit basket. I don't
Speaker 1: know what do you want for knowing who me and
Speaker 1: LyX are dating? Like, because the thing about me and you,
Speaker 1: we don't be trying to hide who we're dating because
Speaker 1: we be outside with the nega. It's just again for
Speaker 1: me to post somebody on my social media. I just
Speaker 1: kind of feel like.
Speaker 2: I don't gotta you in my business.
Speaker 1: Because anybody who matters, the people in my personal.
Speaker 2: Life, we know what.
Speaker 1: Everybody knows who I'm dating. Yes, it's like he ain't.
Speaker 2: Gonna let us forget it. Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 4: So I want to get into I want to get
Speaker 4: into the twenty.
Speaker 2: Twenty five stuff.
Speaker 4: So so I want to ask so bit I want
Speaker 4: to Okay, I want to ask you this and was so.
Speaker 2: Good, don't stop getting get it a week. Don't stop
Speaker 2: let me get it a week unless.
Speaker 4: Do we We're gonna do we We're gonna do we Okay,
Speaker 4: come on.
Speaker 1: Yous make you feel like you gotta make a face
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Speaker 2: Really, you know how it was like that ship was
Speaker 2: so fire my head was Okay.
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Speaker 4: you to think about your goals, Dre, I want to
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Speaker 4: results of Maybury. So since we have started this show,
Speaker 4: this show has been such a blessing and I'm so
Speaker 4: grateful that we can go into this new year another
Speaker 4: year of poor Minds going up the show is still growing.
Speaker 2: The views are going up.
Speaker 4: Show is going crazy right now, and it's crazy because
Speaker 4: we've been doing this for so long and we're still growing.
Speaker 4: So I say all that to say, since the beginning
Speaker 4: of time, everybody's like, Lex, do stand up Legs, do
Speaker 4: stand up?
Speaker 2: Lex. We want to see you in the movie. Lex.
Speaker 4: We want to see you in this and this and that.
Speaker 4: And I was like, maybe I don't want to do
Speaker 4: stand up. I was like, maybe acting. I could do
Speaker 4: comedic acting. And even everybody that's on the team at
Speaker 4: eighty five, like Ryan Chad, they've always they've all told
Speaker 4: me like, you can make a whole other bag doing
Speaker 4: this because you aren't. You're so much better than everybody.
Speaker 4: You're funny, like Carlos has told me that. Everybody. So
Speaker 4: I was like, you know what I want to do it.
Speaker 4: I said, I'm going to start acting classes. I said
Speaker 4: this two years ago, and I never did it. I
Speaker 4: never fucking did it, cause I was just like, I
Speaker 4: don't know what was holding me back. I was like, oh,
Speaker 4: I don't want to go by myself. I just don't
Speaker 4: want to do it.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: And then like as time went on, I feel like
Speaker 4: Poor Minds is so good and we're here, but I'm like,
Speaker 4: what else Cause I'm like, if I'm being honest right now,
Speaker 4: I love Poor Minds and I've loved what we've done,
Speaker 4: but this is like, I'm not challenged anymore. Like I
Speaker 4: sit here, this is real conversation at this point. This
Speaker 4: is not work to me. I'm literally when we on
Speaker 4: this couch, I'm literally talking to my friend. We know
Speaker 4: how to, you know, keep things a little one, keep
Speaker 4: it cute. But I think I was like, Okay, maybe
Speaker 4: I should really challenge myself. But I was like, I
Speaker 4: know I can act. I'm so fucking good, I'm so
Speaker 4: fucking amazing. So I got signed up for an acting
Speaker 4: class that they told me about two years ago, and
Speaker 4: I finally went.
Speaker 2: I fucking suck. I'm big, not good, I'm t rash,
Speaker 2: trash boy.
Speaker 4: I thought I was gonna go in there and kill that.
Speaker 4: Oh I'm ass three packs of ass. Actually, but it's okay.
Speaker 2: It's hard.
Speaker 4: Acting is hard, and this is an improv class on
Speaker 4: top of that. So but I went the first time,
Speaker 4: and the first time I went, I.
Speaker 2: Was in the advanced class. I was like, oh, I can't.
Speaker 4: So I went to the beginner's class and that was
Speaker 4: a little so honestly.
Speaker 2: It's something you went to the beginners went to the
Speaker 2: second the second time, yes, and it was it was
Speaker 2: too hard, but it was.
Speaker 4: Better, And I feel like now I look forward to
Speaker 4: it because now I'm challenged. I feel like I'm doing
Speaker 4: something that's challenging to me. So for twenty twenty.
Speaker 2: Five, that's my goal. I really want to like get
Speaker 2: into acting and take it serious. Cause I was talking
Speaker 2: to a vet about being ling my homegirl. We talked
Speaker 2: about bling and she is hilarious.
Speaker 4: If y'all think I'm crazy, I have never met somebody
Speaker 4: like I'm not gonna lie. That was like beautiful and
Speaker 4: really fucking funny. And I'm not saying that there's not
Speaker 4: women out there like that. I'm just saying like, I
Speaker 4: don't really I don't personally meet a lot of women
Speaker 4: like that. So when I met her, I'm like, man,
Speaker 4: this girl is really fucking funny and she's gorgeous. So
Speaker 4: seeing her like do her skits and do her thing,
Speaker 4: and then she dropped this like Halloween thing, but she
Speaker 4: was like seriously acting like she got it serious.
Speaker 2: But she was fucking phenomenal. I was like, oh, she
Speaker 2: can really act, but she's never taken acting classes and
Speaker 2: never did anything. She's like, oh, I want to take
Speaker 2: acting classes with you. I said, oh, you ain't finna.
Speaker 4: Come with me and burst me go yeah, but I'm
Speaker 4: gonna let her come on me still, but it motivated me.
Speaker 4: So in twenty twenty five, I want to focus on
Speaker 4: my acting for me, but I also want to surround
Speaker 4: myself with people who motivate me and dis and even
Speaker 4: with you, like seeing how hard you go with like
Speaker 4: Muse Beauty and stuff, I'm like, that's how hard I
Speaker 4: want to go with my business as far as like
Speaker 4: Love Lexp and my other venture that I'm working on.
Speaker 2: Because by the time this drops.
Speaker 4: You know, it'll everything will be out in the open
Speaker 4: and the YouTube will be up and running. So but
Speaker 4: I know it's easy to start something, but it's not
Speaker 4: easy to stay with it. And the way you have
Speaker 4: stuck with Muse Beauty, Baby, you don't play, she gonna
Speaker 4: drop them. So I feel like for twenty twenty five,
Speaker 4: that's my goal. Stick with my acting classes, stick with
Speaker 4: my Love Lexp, and surround myself with people.
Speaker 2: Who inspire me. Okay, that's good. Goals. Yeah, now what
Speaker 2: you got for me?
Speaker 1: I really want to scale my business this year. I
Speaker 1: feel like the first two years that I ran used,
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously, I'm gonna be honest, it was kind
Speaker 1: of I have stayed consistent because it's something that I'm
Speaker 1: passionate about, but it's definitely been hard with simultaneously doing
Speaker 1: poor Like I feel like mus has always kind of
Speaker 1: take took in the back burner when it comes to
Speaker 1: like poor minds, you know what I mean, because poor
Speaker 1: Minds is obviously like my bread and butter. This is
Speaker 1: how I make majority of my money, this is how
Speaker 1: I sustain my livelihood. So with MUSE, it's just kind
Speaker 1: of always taken the back burner, and I really want
Speaker 1: to scale it this year. Like I've made really good
Speaker 1: money from it in the past two years, but I
Speaker 1: feel like I haven't even really went as hard as
Speaker 1: I could. So I'm so a lot of the time,
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, if I haven't even really been going
Speaker 1: as hard as I could these past two years, and
Speaker 1: I've made this, imagine what I could do if I'm
Speaker 1: really like trying to scale it, if I'm really like
Speaker 1: running ass because all of the money that I've made truly,
Speaker 1: which is something that I really am very proud of
Speaker 1: and maybe I could brag a little bit about. But like,
Speaker 1: I've made almost six figures in the past two years
Speaker 1: from us, and I have had no promotion from other
Speaker 1: people other than mysel so other than just talking about
Speaker 1: it on poor Minds, you know what I mean, talking
Speaker 1: about it on my social media, whether I'm alive and
Speaker 1: stuff like that, I have not had any brand ambassadors.
Speaker 1: I haven't paid anybody, I haven't really ran ads, forms
Speaker 1: online and stuff. So all of the sales have been
Speaker 1: for me and word of my outh. So I'm very
Speaker 1: proud of it, cause it's hard to run a small,
Speaker 1: small black business by yourself. So this year, I really
Speaker 1: want to focus on scaling the business. I want to
Speaker 1: be consistently coming out with new products like every few
Speaker 1: of us, because I do come out with new products
Speaker 1: every year, but I want it to be like every
Speaker 1: quarter type of thing. I really want to start running ads,
Speaker 1: I really want to start a brand ambassador program, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I just really want to scale the business. And my
Speaker 1: goal is to get it into stores like Sophora or
Speaker 1: to That's like my ultimate goal.
Speaker 2: And then.
Speaker 1: With poor minds. I really want us to gets picked
Speaker 1: up as a talk show.
Speaker 2: Like that's that's like.
Speaker 1: A major goal for me when it comes to Poormond
Speaker 1: because I mean, no shade. It was maybe a little shade,
Speaker 1: but like I feel like we kind of like dominated
Speaker 1: the podcasting lane to be honest as far as like
Speaker 1: black meet, I.
Speaker 4: Think that to be and when I'm not saying like
Speaker 4: nobody's but we started off as there wasn't no TikTok around.
Speaker 4: We didn't have a TikTok audience where you can make
Speaker 4: thirty second videos.
Speaker 2: We weren't viners, we weren't nothing.
Speaker 4: And to the fact of the matter is like when
Speaker 4: we dropped that NAB episode, it hit a hundred k
Speaker 4: in like six seven.
Speaker 2: Days on YouTube long form content.
Speaker 4: I say that bragging because people are not doing that
Speaker 4: in long form content. People want to see a TikTok.
Speaker 4: They want you to show how to make a turkey
Speaker 4: mac and cheese yams in thirty seconds.
Speaker 2: We need to see it all and we know exactly
Speaker 2: what you're doing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So the fact that we are having people sit
Speaker 4: down and watch this long form content as a feed
Speaker 4: within itself.
Speaker 2: And that's just our visuals.
Speaker 1: You know, like the one hundred k on YouTube that
Speaker 1: we get almost every week, that's just the visuals. That's
Speaker 1: not even including our audio numbers, because we do like
Speaker 1: another fifty k sixty k in audio.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think that's an amazing feed.
Speaker 1: Like it's really hard to do what we've done, and
Speaker 1: not only do our stuffs get a lot of views
Speaker 1: on YouTube, but it get a lot of views on
Speaker 1: TikTok and Instagram and stuff too. So my next goal
Speaker 1: with Poor Mind Star, I really wanted to get picked
Speaker 1: up as a show because I don't know, I just
Speaker 1: sometimes kind of feel like we're so much bigger than
Speaker 1: a podcast at this point. And then I also am
Speaker 1: starting my own YouTube channel as well, which like when
Speaker 1: this episode comes out, the first episode will be up
Speaker 1: as well. And I just want to like try to
Speaker 1: be consistent with logging and showing like more of my
Speaker 1: life because I feel like it's something that people are
Speaker 1: really interested in, but I've just always shied away from me.
Speaker 4: I feel like you would do so good in that
Speaker 4: like Beauty Lane, that like Jackie ain't at us and.
Speaker 1: Like maybe it's not beauty, but only because only reason
Speaker 1: I say no is because like people like Jackie, they
Speaker 1: really do looks.
Speaker 2: I literally wear the same Like.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna switch up my I can show different lip combos,
Speaker 1: but like I don't be switching my makeup.
Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is it's not about like switching
Speaker 4: up looks. It's about Okay, I like I tried this foundation,
Speaker 4: it didn't work. You can do the same look with
Speaker 4: different products that People just want to see what works
Speaker 4: for your skin, what you're doing with this, what you're
Speaker 4: doing with that. But I think that Beauty Lane is
Speaker 4: so good for you because even but when I say
Speaker 4: beauty Lane, it's like also like get ready with me?
Speaker 4: Is they want to see what you're what lotion you're
Speaker 4: putting on. People just want to see that. Even so
Speaker 4: I think like that, like that's why I'm excited for
Speaker 4: your YouTube because I know it's gonna do well.
Speaker 2: Ask me about mine. Yes to all that beauty.
Speaker 4: Getting ready, your makeup, your hair, all that stuff. I
Speaker 4: think that is like even your workouts, like people want
Speaker 4: to see you work out all this stuff. I think
Speaker 4: that's like the perfect line for you. And that's why
Speaker 4: I said I think Poor Minds is so good because
Speaker 4: we're so opposite. So it's like people want to hear
Speaker 4: me talk. They want to hear what movies, what I
Speaker 4: think about this, they want to hear the gossip and
Speaker 4: so and then like so we can go our separate
Speaker 4: ways and do this.
Speaker 2: So we'll still be on YouTube.
Speaker 4: But for Poor Minds, it's time to be on HBO Max,
Speaker 4: it's time to be on a Netflix.
Speaker 2: It's time to you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And also to another goal because I don't know, girl,
Speaker 1: I got a lot of goals because I did. I
Speaker 1: wrote all my goals down for twenty twenty five, and
Speaker 1: I really want to start working on our scripty shows too,
Speaker 1: which I feel like we've never talked about that on
Speaker 1: Poor Minds, but you haven't by all. That's something that
Speaker 1: I really would like to like get started in twenty
Speaker 1: twenty five because I feel like it's such it's gonna
Speaker 1: be such a good show.
Speaker 4: And you know they're I and I'm gonna just I'm
Speaker 4: gonna throw her name out there because I be talking
Speaker 4: to her in the DMS and that's my girl, and
Speaker 4: we had her on the show. Shout out to Dara.
Speaker 4: She had the show dr from Detroit. But she's so
Speaker 4: brilliant when we work on this show. If I'm not
Speaker 4: working with Lisa, I want to work with Dara because
Speaker 4: I love her. She's so creative and she's so amazing.
Speaker 4: So I feel like, if there's any two people that
Speaker 4: could make our vision come to life, it would be
Speaker 4: one of them too, like, because I feel like a
Speaker 4: lot of people look at people like Dara and Issa
Speaker 4: they be like, oh, dre unless they can't relate.
Speaker 1: But when dr sat on this couch, she was like,
Speaker 1: I fuck with you. But I always wonder why do
Speaker 1: people think we can't relate?
Speaker 4: Because they think that we're one way, but they don't
Speaker 4: realize that we're most tight faceted.
Speaker 2: But that's okay.
Speaker 4: We're gonna break down the doors so the girls behind
Speaker 4: us who have podcasts, y'all can come. And it's gonna
Speaker 4: be easy for y'all. That's my goal. I wanted to
Speaker 4: make it easy everybody who's black woman. Whatever, you want
Speaker 4: to sit on the couch and talk about X y Z,
Speaker 4: do it, and it's gonna be easy because they gonna
Speaker 4: believe in you because they see what poor minds did.
Speaker 2: Because that's all I be for others. The others, Oh.
Speaker 1: For sure, Ty, what's your goals? I have a lot
Speaker 1: of goals. My number one goal is work life balance.
Speaker 1: This year, while super successful my road with Crowns so
Speaker 1: Mixy doing incredible numbers, it was a lot and I
Speaker 1: felt stressed a lot of the year. So my personal
Speaker 1: goal is to go into and just kind of like
Speaker 1: prioritize a lot better and really figure out what direction
Speaker 1: how I want to scale the business. So with so Mixy,
Speaker 1: we're getting more into products. We're stepping away from like
Speaker 1: smaller events, working more with bigger brands and more of
Speaker 1: our corporate clients. So we are closing our books if
Speaker 1: you are not a current client, but.
Speaker 2: Kept cook but.
Speaker 5: Can we were squeezing if we need a little party, yes,
Speaker 5: like so we can get an event because I'm like,
Speaker 5: I might want to have a little poor get Yeah, yes,
Speaker 5: but your clothes, but that's yes, random people they want
Speaker 5: us to do like their birthday parties.
Speaker 1: We are so thankful for the business, but at this
Speaker 1: time we're just growing at a like an accelerated rate.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I just I need bigger Like I'm looking.
Speaker 2: For bigger budgets.
Speaker 1: Be doing a little couple hundred dollars here, No, we
Speaker 1: need commas. So that's definitely a step for so looking
Speaker 1: a scale in that capacity, and our team is expanding
Speaker 1: and then we're coming out with some products, so we
Speaker 1: actually are gonna I've been working with events. We are
Speaker 1: working on a cocktail calendar that is dropping now so
Speaker 1: you can get that at www dot se mixy dot
Speaker 1: com and it's going to feature today's cocktail too when
Speaker 1: I teach it. And then what else my roll with
Speaker 1: Crown Royal I came in the door, are like really
Speaker 1: doing big things and I just want to continue that trajectory,
Speaker 1: continue to bring and lift uplift women of color, specifically
Speaker 1: people in our community, educating on spirits and just really
Speaker 1: like dominating the brand ambassador field for spirits.
Speaker 4: I love that you're doing an amazing job, like Ty,
Speaker 4: when I tell you, you have been such an asset
Speaker 4: to this show, and that's why I say, like, I'm
Speaker 4: so proud of you, thank you, and I know you're
Speaker 4: going to reach your goals, like cause you're so fucking
Speaker 4: good like you are. You can nobody can make a
Speaker 4: drink like some I'll be going to put to the
Speaker 4: bar telling them how to make a drink.
Speaker 2: Well, let me tell yeah, have you had a blood.
Speaker 4: Orange before whole Adnick, Yeah, they don't be knowing what
Speaker 4: a blood one. Now.
Speaker 2: Nabby's doing her big one is.
Speaker 1: She has definitely helped elevate the show so much with
Speaker 1: her presence. And I love you and we appreciate you,
Speaker 1: and I hope that you reach all of your goals.
Speaker 1: Thanks twenty five and hopefully we can support you in
Speaker 1: any way that we hear it. Y'all be years no
Speaker 1: crazy together. So thank y'all for taking me on the
Speaker 1: journey with you.
Speaker 2: You ain't going nowhere. That's when we get our TV.
Speaker 2: When we get our TV deal, is it gonna be.
Speaker 4: Still gonna I'll be like, oh, can I come make drinks? Hell?
Speaker 2: No, you can't. What can't? What else can't you? If
Speaker 2: it be honest, if we're being honest, no you can't.
Speaker 2: What's up? Y'all? Iss your girl x PE and it's
Speaker 2: your girl draining the call. And we have a very
Speaker 2: exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. Yes,
Speaker 2: we have a brand.
Speaker 1: New shout dropping y'all on Patreon. It's gonna air on
Speaker 1: September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles. We're gonna be
Speaker 1: doing so much stuff on there. We're gonna be doing challenges.
Speaker 1: If you can't go to Bellache, where the hell could
Speaker 1: you go?
Speaker 2: If you can't go to Belloche, what the.
Speaker 1: Hell we're gonna be doing? Talk to me, Chat with me.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be spelling at a little tea.
Speaker 2: Oh my girl. Are you doing.
Speaker 1: Everything y'all been wanting to see? We're gonna be doing
Speaker 1: it right here on Patreon.
Speaker 4: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been
Speaker 4: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's
Speaker 4: gonna be a time. Y'all know poor Minds has grown
Speaker 4: into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a
Speaker 4: lot of fun still over.
Speaker 2: Here at poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September.
Speaker 4: Second it's going down, says. I want to talk about
Speaker 4: our favorite poor Minds moments this year. I want to
Speaker 4: talk our favorite poor Minds moments. I want to talk
Speaker 4: to the favorite poor Minds. Guess I wanna talk favorite
Speaker 4: poor Minds anything?
Speaker 2: You want to start? Who want to start? I started
Speaker 2: last time.
Speaker 1: My favorite poor Mind's moments this year when we had
Speaker 1: t Pain on the show. That was amazing. That was
Speaker 1: a full circle moment because we went on t Pain
Speaker 1: Show in twenty twenty two. Yes, yes, So having him
Speaker 1: come on Poor Minds was like a full circle moment obviously,
Speaker 1: because I mean it's fucking t Pain, a legend, a legend,
Speaker 1: like we grew up listening to him. He's amazing. He's
Speaker 1: still putting out fire songs for our music. He had
Speaker 1: that song with Glow Reala Like yeah.
Speaker 2: So that was an amazing moment for me.
Speaker 1: Also, I think the episode that we had with Queen
Speaker 1: Leora was really good because I love that we've Like,
Speaker 1: to me, it's just so amazing seeing all of these
Speaker 1: young people become successful and rich from TikTok, Like it's amazing.
Speaker 1: It's something that generations before us were not afforded those
Speaker 1: same opportunities. So I love to see the younger people
Speaker 1: like blowing up on TikTok and really getting too a bag.
Speaker 1: And like she came on here, she had so much personality.
Speaker 1: She was exactly the same way she was that she
Speaker 1: is on TikTok. Yeah, Like, I loved it. I thought
Speaker 1: it was an amazing episode. Who else was like another
Speaker 1: favorite of mine from this year obviously Devel, Oh, oh
Speaker 1: my god, Devel was like that was the most watched episode.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I lie, But I'm talking about in
Speaker 1: the amount of period, in the time period, like because
Speaker 1: in podcast world they do the thirty day mark. Thirty
Speaker 1: day mark, Devel was the most watched episode. Yeah, for sure,
Speaker 1: for sure. So Devel was like, really dope. I feel
Speaker 1: like it was very refreshing to have a man on
Speaker 1: the show that's married, that speaks volumes and speaks very
Speaker 1: highly of his wife. They're in a healthy, happy marriage
Speaker 1: and have been married for like twenty years and have
Speaker 1: four kids. Like, I just thought it was a really
Speaker 1: dope episode to get, you know, a different perspective, because
Speaker 1: I feel like, obviously me and you a lot of
Speaker 1: the time have different perspectives, but it's always nice to
Speaker 1: have a man on the show that has a different
Speaker 1: perspective as well, and especially when it's married that's like
Speaker 1: a family man. I really enjoyed the cash All episode
Speaker 1: because we've been wanting cash it All on for a
Speaker 1: long time. I love cash All. It was a really
Speaker 1: great episode. She was super dope, super funny, everything I
Speaker 1: thought she would be.
Speaker 2: She was.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it didn't surprise me now me either. She was
Speaker 1: everything I thought she was gonna be. So I really
Speaker 1: enjoyed that episode. And then I'm trying to think, what
Speaker 1: did we have some other guests this here, but.
Speaker 4: Talk about like a moment or a clip, like that's
Speaker 4: what I said, you look you.
Speaker 2: Were supposed to give.
Speaker 1: I'm just well, no, I mean, I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: just talking about my I mean, you could give clips.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about my favorite What was I don't know
Speaker 1: because I can't think of it off the top of
Speaker 1: my head, but those are my favorite guests that we had.
Speaker 2: On those guests.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wish if I would have known we was
Speaker 1: doing clips, I would have liked, you know, be in
Speaker 1: my research.
Speaker 2: I didn't think about clips either. Y'all have one either.
Speaker 2: That's crazy because you just want me to get one.
Speaker 2: I didn't know if you was thinking about one.
Speaker 4: No, I know you got one clip you can think about,
Speaker 4: do you know. I mean I'm gonna think you know, Okay,
Speaker 4: I'll say this. My favorite clip, My favorite clip of
Speaker 4: the year was when we was talking about the dicks
Speaker 4: with fucking Glamazante and dick up. That was one of
Speaker 4: my favorite clips.
Speaker 5: I mean, if you were saying, females, you would want
Speaker 5: the same d I'm boiling that dick.
Speaker 2: Why was that your favorite? Because it was funny as hell.
Speaker 4: It was funny as hell because Tay was so confused
Speaker 4: because she was like.
Speaker 2: No, I can get my dick's made. I said, hell, no,
Speaker 2: boil that dick up. Bought that dick up.
Speaker 4: That was a That was a good moment. That was
Speaker 4: funny as fuck. That was a good moment as far
Speaker 4: as clips go. Another clip, this is a clip that
Speaker 4: I actually I don't like, but it's gonna be.
Speaker 2: A classic clip that sticks with us for life. The
Speaker 2: fifty thousand clip that's gonna stick with us for life.
Speaker 4: That wasn't this that was taking fifty thousand dollars, don't date,
Speaker 4: I'm just being for real. Yes, that whole February, that
Speaker 4: was around February was That's.
Speaker 2: The clip that's gonna stick with us for life. Unfortunately,
Speaker 2: because when it's.
Speaker 4: Some thousand dollars, Yeah, fifty thousand dollars clip, Yeah, that's
Speaker 4: a that's a clip that's going to.
Speaker 2: Stick with us, you know, for a long time.
Speaker 1: I think for me, if we're talking about moments, like
Speaker 1: a recent moment, I feel like the episode we did
Speaker 1: with the Bell when we did karaoke like that was
Speaker 1: like probably the best karaoke that.
Speaker 2: We had in a long time, meeting in my bedroom. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he was cutting meeting.
Speaker 1: In my bedroom karaokey with the bell. That shit was
Speaker 1: so fucking he was cutting up that shiit so fucking.
Speaker 2: It was funny.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie like, I had a great time
Speaker 1: doing that.
Speaker 4: Another one that I like is when we had Whiz
Speaker 4: Khalifa on and people in the comments were just dying
Speaker 4: because they was like, oh my god, I can't believe
Speaker 4: you didn't know Whiz's name. You thought his name was
Speaker 4: wized Fer. I didn't think his name. I was joking
Speaker 4: around but calling him Whistafer. That shit funny as fuck. Yeah,
Speaker 4: So that was another moment because I was like a
Speaker 4: Whiz stand like literally love Withiz.
Speaker 2: So the fact that we had fucking with.
Speaker 4: Khalif on the show, and then of course you know
Speaker 4: now Home Team episode when Now was fire, it was
Speaker 4: funny her usual love us something now do not miss you.
Speaker 2: Mean, that's what's crazy.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 4: I can have a conversation with anybody about anything, but
Speaker 4: I will say my favorite guest of the year of course,
Speaker 4: like you know, the Tea Pains with everybody. I loved
Speaker 4: everybody I loved.
Speaker 2: I don't know what it was.
Speaker 4: I really loved g Amazon Tay episode. I was fine.
Speaker 4: I really loved that episode.
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 4: Of course, I agree with you with Queen Lee, Aura,
Speaker 4: and I do want to start tapping in more so
Speaker 4: with the TikTokers and the people because we're in a
Speaker 4: different world.
Speaker 2: I mean, the TikTokers are on the same level with
Speaker 2: the celebrities.
Speaker 4: But what I will say about TikTok is like is
Speaker 4: quick content. So I feel like, and this is I'm
Speaker 4: not being shady because TikTok is hard. That's why I'm
Speaker 4: not a TikToker. That's why I can scroll and watch y'all.
Speaker 4: But we're in the long form content. They got to
Speaker 4: make short form content. And I feel like I necessarily
Speaker 4: can't be funny in a minute, but I can be
Speaker 4: funny once you know, you hear and were talking and
Speaker 4: we vibbing. So we're in two different worlds, so I
Speaker 4: feel like it's different, but I like when we collide.
Speaker 2: I like it. Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1: I feel like we did a lot of really good
Speaker 1: solo episodes.
Speaker 2: Oh solo episodes.
Speaker 1: The solo episodes are really funny. The Thanksgiving episode was hilarious.
Speaker 4: The Thanksgiving episode was people still talking to me about
Speaker 4: that fucking green bean casserole.
Speaker 2: You didn't talk about that, just so you know the
Speaker 2: past three and I'm not gonna stop until y'all try.
Speaker 1: I would like for you to stop, because nobody want
Speaker 1: to eat this shit. I don't care how advertizing.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not gonna eat it.
Speaker 4: Since we talked about Thanksgiving, because we recorded that Dram
Speaker 4: made some green beans for Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2: Moses not cast role. No, it wasn't cast but it
Speaker 2: was green beans. It was good. You had the meeting.
Speaker 2: Now the potato meat.
Speaker 4: It wasn't a meeting. Now, maybe it wasn't. I would
Speaker 4: it had some potatoes in there though.
Speaker 2: It was potatoes in there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I be really cook cooking for the kitchen giving Big.
Speaker 2: Mama on he he had made some pomegran i to.
Speaker 1: Toot my own horn, but tokik.
Speaker 4: He had made some pomegranate lamb chops. What Tiffany had
Speaker 4: made some jerk chicken.
Speaker 2: He also made some sweet potato corn breage. That's what
Speaker 2: she made.
Speaker 1: A sweet potato cheesecake. She made a regular sleep potato pie.
Speaker 1: Can he be cooking cooking for? She made some greens
Speaker 1: with turk all them brees was fire. And then you
Speaker 1: had made mac and cheese. Mac and cheese was bussy.
Speaker 1: You know what cheese was.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 4: Look Kiki friend he was he had my mac and
Speaker 4: cheese was so good.
Speaker 2: He d m me the next day he said, what
Speaker 2: is going on with it?
Speaker 1: He said, it's the best mac and cheese I ever
Speaker 1: had in my life.
Speaker 4: And I said, I know you lying because I know
Speaker 4: Kiki mac and cheese better than mine.
Speaker 2: But I will say, I mean yours.
Speaker 4: Up there, my mac and cheese. But it's like I
Speaker 4: don't I do. I can't cook.
Speaker 2: I just I'm picky when I cook. That's it.
Speaker 5: But I know what I'm doing in that kitchen. Now
Speaker 5: you did that though, what they making cheese. I ain't
Speaker 5: gonna lie.
Speaker 1: The next day, I had took you a big ass
Speaker 1: school and I was tearing it down.
Speaker 4: But I'm gonna give it to you when it's fresh
Speaker 4: out THEU and next time you need to.
Speaker 2: I'm ready.
Speaker 1: But it was good. Like the Thanksgiving meal we did that,
Speaker 1: we ate that.
Speaker 2: Well, it's time for us to have a Thanksgiving party.
Speaker 1: We only need us to, we really do because it's
Speaker 1: don't go down. I think for I don't know what
Speaker 1: I'm going home for Christmas, but maybe for New Year's.
Speaker 1: I was thinking about maybe having a New Year's party
Speaker 1: in my house again because that was fun.
Speaker 2: That's the same thing Tiffany said. Can I feel like
Speaker 2: we have maybe.
Speaker 1: Possibly have another New Year's party at my house? We gonna,
Speaker 1: but I think we should contribute more. I feel like
Speaker 1: last time, like you cooked everything and we did a
Speaker 1: talk all night and then we kind of showed up
Speaker 1: and everything was then. I think we should all contribute
Speaker 1: a little more.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're doing that.
Speaker 1: Because it ain't because being outside just ain't the more
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 2: I'm too old.
Speaker 4: Now, Before we get to the topics, Ty, what was
Speaker 4: your favorite Poor Mind's moments this year?
Speaker 1: Hands down, Ta Pain, Cash, y'all and Wiz and Eric Bellinger.
Speaker 1: He gave us tickets to the concert. Yes, that was
Speaker 1: super dope. And then really just like I like the
Speaker 1: solo episode. I felt like I participated a little bit more.
Speaker 1: People are getting to know me. The my ties out there,
Speaker 1: Oh my time, that's so cute.
Speaker 2: I didn't know about this because I'm my top president.
Speaker 2: I love tie. Come on, like, that's really cute to do.
Speaker 2: You know what you need to do. You need to
Speaker 2: get on TikTok and make your drinks and.
Speaker 1: Just you will take so much.
Speaker 2: But that is it. Yeah, we got my guys, what cute.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 4: I shook as fun because I'm like when we start
Speaker 4: our personal youtubes, like what are your what are they
Speaker 4: gonna call? Because we got the poor crew, but what
Speaker 4: are they? What are Drea's fans called her supporters? We'll
Speaker 4: think about it, We'll come.
Speaker 2: Back because I don't know what I'm calling them either.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Girls. We gotta we gotta think of
Speaker 2: something everybody has to have, like a tools, Dre tools,
Speaker 2: What does that mean? Like you know like me too.
Speaker 2: We're gonna we're gonna reuse it. We're gonna y'all it
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Speaker 4: Because we're keeping on the topic of the New Year's
Speaker 4: do you feel like vision boards or a scam or
Speaker 4: do they really work. Think about your vision board last
Speaker 4: year or the year before, Like, do vision boards work?
Speaker 4: Like do you feel I think anything works as much
Speaker 4: as you put the effort in, as much as you
Speaker 4: put the work in. Yeah, you can't just write some
Speaker 4: shit on the fucking board and think, oh, I wrote
Speaker 4: he's on the board, So this is gonna happen in.
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty five, it's gonna be my year. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I think anything works as much as you put the
Speaker 1: work in. So with a vision board, it's like you
Speaker 1: could sit down and you could write out everything that
Speaker 1: you want to do this year, everything that you want
Speaker 1: to accomplish. But if you don't have an actual real
Speaker 1: plan come on set in place to make these goals happening,
Speaker 1: to accomplish these things, it's just words on a paper.
Speaker 1: It's just words on a board. Like what does that matter?
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think that you have to put the
Speaker 1: work in. And I think that a lot of people
Speaker 1: just be writing shit down and they just be like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm manifesting this, manifesting about it.
Speaker 4: Talk about manifesting because I know you can go this,
Speaker 4: talk about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm a manifestor myself, I'm a manifestor but
Speaker 1: I feel like I also put the work in to
Speaker 1: get the things that I really want. I don't just
Speaker 1: sit around like hoping and crossing my fingers that oh,
Speaker 1: this is gonna happen for me. Like, no, you have
Speaker 1: to have a real plan of action, and then if
Speaker 1: that plan of action don't work, you should have a
Speaker 1: plan B. People don't be having plan bs. They be
Speaker 1: feeling like, oh, I only got a Plan A, and
Speaker 1: if Plan A don't work, then I don't know what
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do, And then Plan A don't work and
Speaker 1: you don't know what you're gonna do. So you need
Speaker 1: to have plans. You need to write down plans. You
Speaker 1: can't just have a goal with no plan agreed. There
Speaker 1: needs to be steps that's gonna be taken to get
Speaker 1: you to what you're trying to do. And yeah, something
Speaker 1: might end up happening, a miracle might happen, and some
Speaker 1: shit might just come out of thin air and it
Speaker 1: be the opportunity that she was looking for, because that
Speaker 1: does happen. But in the meantime, in between time, you
Speaker 1: need to have a plan.
Speaker 4: But I also think you have to be prepared for
Speaker 4: that opportunity. If an opportunity comes, you gotta be ready
Speaker 4: because yeah, and I know we talked about this all
Speaker 4: the time, but like when Carlos invited us on eighty five,
Speaker 4: we were prepared.
Speaker 2: We were a package.
Speaker 4: Me Andrea already knew how to sit in front of
Speaker 4: mics and talk and spit that shit and be funny together.
Speaker 4: So I think you have to be prepared for opportunities
Speaker 4: as well.
Speaker 2: So, like she said, just have a plan.
Speaker 4: Poor minds was poor minds before you know eighty five
Speaker 4: came along. They elevated us, of course, but you have
Speaker 4: we had a plan of action if they didn't come along,
Speaker 4: like we knew, We knew what we wanted to do
Speaker 4: and what we were trying to get to and how
Speaker 4: we were going to get there.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, like vision boards can work, they can't,
Speaker 1: but it's just a vision.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just a vision.
Speaker 1: Must inspiration to get those juices fun and get you
Speaker 1: motivated to execute. And let me tell a lot of
Speaker 1: people is because I used to be and I love
Speaker 1: ex Twitter whatever you call it. You are not gonna
Speaker 1: tweet your way into an opportunity.
Speaker 2: You're not. I don't know who needs to hear this.
Speaker 2: I don't care how fucking mini retweets you get.
Speaker 4: Twitter is the app that's down here, especially since Elon
Speaker 4: took it over. You're not gonna make nothing from Twitter.
Speaker 4: So y'all be tweeting all day. I'm still creative.
Speaker 2: I'm I'm stop.
Speaker 4: I'm so that put some fucking content out. Record yourself,
Speaker 4: let your nuts hang, y'all so scary. I realized that
Speaker 4: after a while. I used to be on Twitter all
Speaker 4: day every day, and I'm like, what am I gonna do?
Speaker 4: I had to prop that fucking camera up. You're not
Speaker 4: gonna tweet your way into an opportunity. That is the
Speaker 4: worst app to think that you're gonna get somewhere off
Speaker 4: of and I and this is coming from somebody.
Speaker 2: That was the app that.
Speaker 4: I use the most, bless you, that was the app
Speaker 4: I use the most out of Instagram. Faith, it's people
Speaker 4: who are millionaires off of Facebook.
Speaker 2: Y'all be on what are laughing at Facebook? People?
Speaker 4: They are millionaires off Facebook. I just started my Facebook.
Speaker 4: I got like eight hundred followers on there, so y'all
Speaker 4: go follow me. But people have millions of following them.
Speaker 4: They be making money. Yeah, you make money on every app.
Speaker 4: The money that you make on slapchat, snapchat.
Speaker 1: It's consistency. It's the consistency that matter. Also, were speaking
Speaker 1: of like these apps or whatever. I said, we were
Speaker 1: going to talk about that TikTok. So do y'all think
Speaker 1: that they're really gonna shut TikTok down for real? On
Speaker 1: January nineteenth this year? You do a wall?
Speaker 2: Oh wow? For real?
Speaker 4: So y'all can't hear him, but he said they're removing
Speaker 4: the watermarks so y'all can download the videos and move
Speaker 4: on to wherever you want them to be.
Speaker 2: Now they've been saying that. Let me say I agree
Speaker 2: with a wall.
Speaker 4: I I thought I was finna This is me back
Speaker 4: in the day, y'all. I thought I was finna be
Speaker 4: a Vine star because I saw all these unfunny people
Speaker 4: doing Vine's. Then I saw Vine shut down. I never
Speaker 4: thought I would see Vine shut down, y'all have it
Speaker 4: was people on there, they were super stars and I'm
Speaker 4: not being dramatic, and I saw it shut down. Now,
Speaker 4: TikTok is on another level than Vine was.
Speaker 2: But Vine was huge.
Speaker 4: If but if Vine can shut down, it's very fucking possible.
Speaker 4: That's why I said, for us, for me, like and YouTube,
Speaker 4: it's cool too. But I'm like, what else because if
Speaker 4: YouTube shut down tomorrow, it's you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: how are people going to reach us?
Speaker 2: Now? Good thing? Eighty five smart? No, because we y'all
Speaker 2: got the I don't know.
Speaker 4: Because bitch, we're finna be on eighty five app too.
Speaker 2: We're gonna figure something out or we got the formula.
Speaker 2: But I want say that's what it is scary.
Speaker 1: No, it is, it is, And that's why I'm grateful
Speaker 1: that we have, you know, an audience on multiple platforms.
Speaker 1: So like cause we do have a pretty large following
Speaker 1: on TikTok. I mean, we have like over three hundred
Speaker 1: thousand followers on TikTok right now and it's growing every day.
Speaker 1: But if TikTok does shut down, we also have a
Speaker 1: large following on Instagram.
Speaker 2: We also have a large YouTube following.
Speaker 1: We also have large personal followings on Instagram, So.
Speaker 2: It's not as bad.
Speaker 1: That's the part that just kind of like concerns me
Speaker 1: for the people on TikTok who have like millions of
Speaker 1: followers and then they don't have a fan base on
Speaker 1: any of these other apps. Be cause, like even on Facebook,
Speaker 1: I think we got like a hundred and something.
Speaker 2: Oh, we I think we had like for real maybe.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's like we have followers on other apps.
Speaker 1: I be concerned about the influencers that are mainly on TikTok.
Speaker 2: That's where they make their money. What are they gonna do?
Speaker 1: Because if you ever noticed, it's a lot of these
Speaker 1: people who have like two million followers on TikTok, and
Speaker 1: then you go look at the Instagram page they be
Speaker 1: having like one hundred thousand followers, fifty thousand followers if
Speaker 1: they so, it's like, and I know, if you got
Speaker 1: two million followers on TikTok, you clearing probably like seven thousand,
Speaker 1: eight thousand at the least minimum.
Speaker 2: If your videos are getting more, If.
Speaker 1: Your videos, if your videos are getting washing and you're
Speaker 1: making a mini at the lead, that's what you're making,
Speaker 1: how are you gonna supplement that income?
Speaker 2: If TikTok gets shut down.
Speaker 1: They can't just convert them like try to get their audience.
Speaker 1: It's hard, very hard these days on Instagram. It's so
Speaker 1: hard to get people to follow you like it was
Speaker 1: so easy back in the day. Because I've been having
Speaker 1: a lot of followers on Instagram for a long time.
Speaker 2: But these days.
Speaker 1: It's just it'll take me thirty days to gain like
Speaker 1: ten thousand followers on Instagram these days, back in the day,
Speaker 1: I'll ask you can.
Speaker 4: Look it up, because I feel like my like, my
Speaker 4: Instagram has been growing.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I always compare my Instagram to poor.
Speaker 4: Minds because obviously I used to have way more followers
Speaker 4: than poor minds. Poor Minds surpassed me at one point.
Speaker 4: Then I surpassed poor Minds, but now poor Minds has
Speaker 4: surpassed me again. Yeah, so let me look.
Speaker 2: At my insights.
Speaker 4: So total followers, So from December eleven to December seventeenth,
Speaker 4: that's the past seven day. Oh, should we do thirty
Speaker 4: days thirty okay, I'll do thirty days update.
Speaker 2: Okay, So for the past.
Speaker 4: Thirty days overall, I've gotten eight thousand followers in thirty days. Right,
Speaker 4: that's a total of fourteen thousand follows, and I've had
Speaker 4: six thousand unfollows. But so TikTok, I don't post on TikTok.
Speaker 4: Every time I log in on TikTok, I've got one hundred.
Speaker 4: I get one hundred followers a day, sang a day
Speaker 4: because the way, I don't know why, I don't know
Speaker 4: how they set up that algorithm. So when me and
Speaker 4: Drea started coming up in the YouTube Instagram world, it
Speaker 4: was hard. Now on TikTok, you can tell a story
Speaker 4: about how your drink was nasty and you just gotta
Speaker 4: go like this. But oh my god, that's so funny
Speaker 4: and this is no shade, no tea to TikTokers. But
Speaker 4: the TikTok algorithm is different. So I hate that. I
Speaker 4: hate that because some people are actually talented. But that's
Speaker 4: why people like Jackie. I ain't a I can't pronounce
Speaker 4: her new last name, but that's why she's been able
Speaker 4: to go pay. Jackie's gonna be fine because she can
Speaker 4: make long foreign content. She knows how to navigate, so
Speaker 4: it's gonna be very interesting to see. If I don't
Speaker 4: want the app to shut down, I'm trying to be
Speaker 4: a TikToker.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, we've been gaining a lot of followers
Speaker 1: on our personal siss we both almost at like fifty
Speaker 1: k followers.
Speaker 4: I'm trying to TikTok. I can TikTok. If I can
Speaker 4: do this for an hour, I can TikTok, bitch. You
Speaker 4: can TikTok, bitch, you know.
Speaker 1: I don't really know if I be wanting to be
Speaker 1: a TikToker, though.
Speaker 4: I want to be a TikToker. I want to clean
Speaker 4: up before they get out.
Speaker 1: It's about to be out, though, I don't know how
Speaker 1: much you can clean up. I don't know how much
Speaker 1: you can clean up in a few more weeks, one month,
Speaker 1: literally to the day, I need to clean up, that's what.
Speaker 2: But you was right, get on all that apps.
Speaker 1: I think it's important to utilize all the apps and
Speaker 1: be posting consistently on all the apps because you never know.
Speaker 1: Like you said, like if Vine could get shut down,
Speaker 1: anything could get shut down.
Speaker 2: Vine was my shit.
Speaker 4: I just knew I was going to well toush she was.
Speaker 2: Was that it's just nice no no more. But yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: so moving on.
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Speaker 2: Twenty twenty five or period.
Speaker 1: How do y'all feel about friendship demotion? You asking me first?
Speaker 1: I don't really know if I feel like friendship demotion
Speaker 1: is a real thing to me, because like, get rid
Speaker 1: of the beach, throw her away?
Speaker 2: Hello, what the fuck you waiting on? Why am I
Speaker 2: demoting you? Why are you waiting till the news?
Speaker 1: And then why am I waiting at twenty twenty five?
Speaker 2: Bitch?
Speaker 1: You could go today? What's today? The eighteenth. You can
Speaker 1: go today.
Speaker 2: You've been demoted.
Speaker 4: Hey, this is what I have to say. Sometimes people
Speaker 4: are not meant to be in your life. And that's okay.
Speaker 4: It's because I'm not gonna lie. I've had situations where
Speaker 4: I feel like, you know what, this person hurt my feelings,
Speaker 4: but I want to talk to her because I know
Speaker 4: she didn't mean to hurt my feelings, so I'm gonna
Speaker 4: talk to her about it. But when I felt like
Speaker 4: I have to demote you, it's no demotion, it's no talk.
Speaker 4: I'm just not talking to you no more. It ain't
Speaker 4: no process, this ain't no job. Be a good person
Speaker 4: or don't.
Speaker 1: I think the emotion is one of those things where
Speaker 1: like I think people some people because me, I get
Speaker 1: rid of my family too, But some people demote their
Speaker 1: family members because they be feeling like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: my family. So I'm just well, you know, as matter
Speaker 1: of fact, I could actually speak on that because I
Speaker 1: do have a family member. They're like, I'm yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I used to be way closer to them back in
Speaker 1: the day than I am now, and we're just not
Speaker 1: as close anymore because I feel like as we've gotten older,
Speaker 1: our interests have not aligned. We're misaligned. We just don't
Speaker 1: care or value the same things. We don't see a
Speaker 1: lot of shit the same way. They actually called me
Speaker 1: earlier this year about the election and pieced to me.
Speaker 2: To fuck off.
Speaker 1: That was both for or what they were advising me
Speaker 1: or wanting me to do. So I'm just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is why I don't be fooling with you.
Speaker 2: Like that no more.
Speaker 1: So. I guess in some situations, I get in the
Speaker 1: emotion because at the end of the day, I still
Speaker 1: love the person, but it's just like, I just don't
Speaker 1: fuck with you like that. Like you, but you are real.
Speaker 4: That's how I know you from Texas because what's Slim said,
Speaker 4: if you don't fuck with me, don't fuck with me.
Speaker 1: It's not confusing. It ain't it's not confusing. It's not confusing.
Speaker 1: It's either we cool or we not. And I think
Speaker 1: I'm very much the type of person like if you've
Speaker 1: been the motive be, you're gonna know if we're not
Speaker 1: cool no more, you're gonna know.
Speaker 4: I'm not New Year to do nothing, bro, I'm not
Speaker 4: waiting to the New Year to do nothing.
Speaker 2: Now. I do believe new Year.
Speaker 4: Fresh start, So I feel like if not for you, though, yeah,
Speaker 4: not for these friends, not for you. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: A friend, and I consider friend's family because I don't
Speaker 4: have a lot of family. So if I demote you
Speaker 4: as a friend, especially for me, you have to then
Speaker 4: did some messed up. I forgive everybody for everything, so
Speaker 4: I feel like demotions shouldn't wait. Don't wait till twenty
Speaker 4: twenty five to demote somebody. This is somebody who's in
Speaker 4: your personal space. And I think that's weird because if
Speaker 4: you're applotting to demote somebody, you're no better than them
Speaker 4: because you're like haha and janeyel ray raw one whole
Speaker 4: ad nigga, you're fucking out of here.
Speaker 2: Will you want to have your moment? You think you
Speaker 2: finna do your big one because you can go now
Speaker 2: the door is open. I just I don't be having
Speaker 2: time for that type of sheep.
Speaker 1: I don't think about you though, you can get the
Speaker 1: fuck anything.
Speaker 4: It could be your birthday, bitch, You're gonna be like,
Speaker 4: happy birthday, bitch.
Speaker 2: Fuck you don't come and don't come back.
Speaker 1: Bench you given a little too much credit to think
Speaker 1: I would even say happy birthday, like michy'all cut you
Speaker 1: off your birthday and not even say happy birthday. Facts
Speaker 1: like no, I don't give a fuck like cause I don't.
Speaker 1: I am very much a person. Me and my best
Speaker 1: friend was having a conversation about this the other day,
Speaker 1: and I think that's why me and her are just
Speaker 1: so locked in, because we just get each other. By
Speaker 1: the way, my best friend, I think I said this before,
Speaker 1: she has said to serious, but she was just like,
Speaker 1: I just don't feel like nobody owe me nothing. I
Speaker 1: think that's like the biggest blessing for me as a
Speaker 1: person that I've came to the realization don't nobody owe
Speaker 1: me nothing. But the beautiful epiphany about that is that
Speaker 1: I also don't I owe you shit either. I don't
Speaker 1: owe nobody nothing. Because she was talking about how she
Speaker 1: used to talk to this guy because I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: My best friend is terrible at like responding to people.
Speaker 2: She is. I text her happy birthday. She didn't take
Speaker 2: that for like six hours. Yeah, I mean that's how
Speaker 2: she I said.
Speaker 1: And she don't mean no harm by it. That's just
Speaker 1: how she is. A lot of times she'd be having
Speaker 1: her phone on do not disturbing stuff. So she was
Speaker 1: just like, I was talking to this guy and we
Speaker 1: had only been talking for like a few weeks, and
Speaker 1: he was just like, you be taking too long to
Speaker 1: text me back? And she was like, do I owe
Speaker 1: you to like text you back within an hour or so?
Speaker 2: Like what have you done?
Speaker 1: What have you done to be that priority status in
Speaker 1: my life to where I have to say something to
Speaker 1: you within a few hours, Like if I'm busy, I'm busy.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I owe you that. She was like,
Speaker 1: I just but I just don't feel like people owe
Speaker 1: people anything, so and.
Speaker 2: I would have to agree.
Speaker 4: So let me ask you this, though, what does somebody
Speaker 4: have to do to feel like you owe them? Is
Speaker 4: there anything a person can do to feel like, Okay,
Speaker 4: they should answer on time or they should do does anybody.
Speaker 2: Owe you that?
Speaker 1: Well, from what she said to me, she said she
Speaker 1: felt like her and this person had never had a
Speaker 1: conversation about actually really like trying to date each other.
Speaker 1: Like we're talking, we're communicating, we're texting, but we haven't
Speaker 1: had an actual conversation about like this is what we're doing.
Speaker 1: We really trying to like go to the next step,
Speaker 1: go to the next level. So I guess in her opinion,
Speaker 1: she felt like we're not exclusively dating. I don't owe
Speaker 1: you anything, But.
Speaker 4: I'm asking you, though, what do you feel because you
Speaker 4: said you feel the same way.
Speaker 2: I don't owe people nothing.
Speaker 4: Oh but a person that you feel like I owe
Speaker 4: them to answer this phone call, to respond to them,
Speaker 4: to show up for them.
Speaker 2: What does that look like?
Speaker 1: I just feel like if I'm really completely being honest,
Speaker 1: which I know is gonna piece some people off, but
Speaker 1: I feel like I truly feel like it's to your disgrace.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like you really owe anybody anything. I
Speaker 1: think a lot of people's number one problem is like
Speaker 1: talking and responding and going out of their way to
Speaker 1: do things when they don't feel like it. Like sometimes
Speaker 1: you be having a mental fucking breakdown.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you're not in the capacity to talk.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't want to sit on the phone for
Speaker 1: two hours and have a conversation with somebody about some
Speaker 1: street that you don't care about. And I think it's
Speaker 1: okay to not want to do that. It's fine now,
Speaker 1: depending on the type of person that you are, maybe
Speaker 1: you want to give the person a courtesy text and
Speaker 1: be like, hey girl, I'm not.
Speaker 2: In the mood.
Speaker 1: Or I don't have the capacity to have this conversation
Speaker 1: with you today. But I think some people just don't.
Speaker 1: And I think my best friend is one of those people.
Speaker 1: I think sometimes I could be one of those people.
Speaker 1: I don't be necessarily feeling like I owe a person
Speaker 1: a courtesy text if I'm fucking having a bad day, yeah,
Speaker 1: because you might be having a bad day too, And
Speaker 1: now you and you calling me to talk to me
Speaker 1: about your bad day.
Speaker 2: But I'm having a bad day too. But that's why
Speaker 2: I say.
Speaker 4: I always when I'm having a bad day, I say, hey,
Speaker 4: can you talk?
Speaker 2: What's up?
Speaker 4: But also I had a bad mental breakdown the other week.
Speaker 4: I had to text everybody. I text you, I text
Speaker 4: my sister. Yeah, I killer, I text Lauren. I said, hey,
Speaker 4: I'm okay, please just leave me alone like I'm going
Speaker 4: through it because I don't feel like I owe y'all that.
Speaker 4: But I just feel like, let me communicate because.
Speaker 1: And I called you, you're speaking me.
Speaker 4: Because I was like, I told you, don't call me.
Speaker 4: She said, that's why I said, Hey, I said, and
Speaker 4: I'm sorry for being me.
Speaker 1: No, you don't apologize because the thing about me I
Speaker 1: don't apologize to people for not answering the phone. I
Speaker 1: sometimes I just don't answer the phone. I just don't
Speaker 1: feel like talking. And then when I call you the
Speaker 1: next day, I'm not gonna be like, oh, girl, I'm
Speaker 1: sorry for not insermay, like no, now we can what's up?
Speaker 1: We can resume because I'm having a better day. Like,
Speaker 1: but I think people people have too much entitlement these days.
Speaker 1: That's what me and my best friend were talking about.
Speaker 1: People have way too much entitlement to your time. You
Speaker 1: don't owe nobody's shit. I don't all nobody.
Speaker 4: People because they gonna they gonna hear this and they
Speaker 4: gonna feel some type of way. But it's the truth.
Speaker 4: I don't stop and everything is revolving around you. Sometimes
Speaker 4: somebody not talking to you has nothing to do with you.
Speaker 1: And that's why it'd be so funny to me when like,
Speaker 1: cause I have like I feel like sometimes my men will.
Speaker 2: Say I feel like, oh, the world revolve around me.
Speaker 1: But the thing about me is when I don't talk
Speaker 1: to people, or when people don't inswer my phone calls,
Speaker 1: I really don't give a FuG like it just be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: you having a bad day, cool. I don't really take
Speaker 1: shit like that personally. I really don't just be like
Speaker 1: all right, cool.
Speaker 4: I don't either, Like if I somebody we're talking, i'll
Speaker 4: text you. I'll be like, he bitch, I called you.
Speaker 4: I'll be like, call me back. That's my text. Now
Speaker 4: what thing about you that is you?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: No, if if you don't answer my phone calls, I
Speaker 1: don't be like, call me back.
Speaker 4: Well, sometimes I don't know, but people I don't know
Speaker 4: if people are seen or not. So I'll just send
Speaker 4: a text. So cause sometimes calls don't go through this,
Speaker 4: so it's not like no bothering you. I just be like, hey,
Speaker 4: call me back so you can just see it, you know,
Speaker 4: and don't be like, oh my god. And then if
Speaker 4: I text that and it's say deliver, I know you
Speaker 4: got it. So you're gonna call me back whenever you can.
Speaker 4: I just do that because I know how I am.
Speaker 4: Because sometimes I don't see the phone call or now
Speaker 4: maybe I'll be on my laptop and I'll see the
Speaker 4: coming back. I'm like, oh shit, let me call her
Speaker 4: back or let me say, you know, let her know,
Speaker 4: so I'll call.
Speaker 2: I'll shoot a text, call me back.
Speaker 4: But thinking like oh my god, they're mad at me,
Speaker 4: Oh my god, or oh my god, I need to
Speaker 4: talk to them, or oh what's going on. It's like, bro,
Speaker 4: nobody owe you a conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I don't feel like that.
Speaker 1: I mean I definitely feel like I do be like
Speaker 1: the world revolve around me. I feel like everybody world
Speaker 1: should revolve around them. It's it's just my life.
Speaker 2: Like it's me.
Speaker 1: My world should revolve around me.
Speaker 2: Like who else is it supposed to revolve around.
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, if people don't
Speaker 1: call me back in the timely men, or if they
Speaker 1: don't take me back unless it's something important, if it's
Speaker 1: about business, or if it's about something like an emergency,
Speaker 1: then yeah, you need to call me back. But like,
Speaker 1: if it's just about some bullshet and you don't want
Speaker 1: to talk to me today, I don't be.
Speaker 4: I don't Twenty twenty five is about self I don't
Speaker 4: care being selfish, Yes, be selfish, self care.
Speaker 2: Take like this in nineteen ninety one.
Speaker 4: Oh and you know me, babe, I don't even fuck
Speaker 4: about nothing. If I don't want to do something, I'm
Speaker 4: not coming. I'm not showing up. I'm not giving it.
Speaker 4: Leave me on, leave me the fuck alone, please.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's a little different though, let me one
Speaker 1: that's a little different and not answering the phone call.
Speaker 1: Not answering a phone call and not wanting to do
Speaker 1: she is two different things.
Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, sometimes I don't want to go,
Speaker 4: but sometimes you need to go. But I'm talking about
Speaker 4: like we're not talking about like stuff like that, but like,
Speaker 4: but honestly, I feel like I'm starting to learn better though,
Speaker 4: how to navigate with like my mental health things, because
Speaker 4: I used to be like, oh fuck everybody, fuck everything.
Speaker 2: La da da.
Speaker 4: So I think now I'm being better with it, you
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. But definitely in the past, I
Speaker 4: used to be like, oh fuck, everybody doesn't matter. But
Speaker 4: what I've learned is my issues aren't everybody else's issues.
Speaker 4: So that's another thing too. I feel like you can
Speaker 4: be like, Okay, fuck you and this, but sometimes you
Speaker 4: do have to show up and you do have to
Speaker 4: do certain things. So it's a balance.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, because I feel like you have to this
Speaker 1: is this has always been my thing. I think it's
Speaker 1: important to prioritize yourself and your own mental health and
Speaker 1: mental illness.
Speaker 2: But you should never make people around you.
Speaker 1: Feel like, oh, if I'm going through something, it's fuck you,
Speaker 1: because it's not fuck you. It's just I need some
Speaker 1: time to myself. But then I think some people make
Speaker 1: people feel like, oh, well, if I'm going through something,
Speaker 1: it's fuck everybody.
Speaker 2: Well that's wrong. Yeah, I agree now that I can.
Speaker 1: That's wrong because those gonna be the same people that
Speaker 1: you need, that you're gonna need at some point, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And it's like you done told
Speaker 1: them fuck them, or you don't bet onf some fuck
Speaker 1: you type cheet now you need six months from now,
Speaker 1: a year from that, right, you just have to.
Speaker 4: Be But I think that's where communication comes in. That's
Speaker 4: where communication comes in because sometimes people will act a
Speaker 4: certain way and you don't know why. That's why I
Speaker 4: say it's easier to say, hey, i'm clocked out right now,
Speaker 4: I'm not doing well.
Speaker 2: Say that so.
Speaker 4: People don't be like, oh, and then now you gotta
Speaker 4: come back and explain, Oh, it wasn't fuck you. I
Speaker 4: wasn't being me, Nah, bitch, you should have just said, hey,
Speaker 4: I'm going through something. You don't gotta talk to me
Speaker 4: on the phone for three hours, just say hey, I'm
Speaker 4: not good right now. I gotta do what's best for
Speaker 4: me and just say that we gotta work. And that's
Speaker 4: another thing for twenty twenty five. We gotta work on
Speaker 4: the girls gotta and the guys communication.
Speaker 2: Say what you mean and mean what you're safe. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think I talked about this before on the show,
Speaker 1: and some people are gonna agree and some people are
Speaker 1: gonna disagree. But I think sometimes people just have to
Speaker 1: be friends with people that they align with and people
Speaker 1: don't understand them. I think again, going back to me
Speaker 1: and my best friend, one of the main reasons that
Speaker 1: I feel like we get along so great is.
Speaker 2: Because we understand each other. Yep.
Speaker 1: When we first became friends, it was certain shit she
Speaker 1: used to do.
Speaker 2: They used to.
Speaker 1: Rub me the wrong way, like to tell her and
Speaker 1: I'll be like, this be ribbing me the wrong way
Speaker 1: that she be doing it, and she was like this
Speaker 1: be ribbing me the wrong way that she be doing
Speaker 1: these And we've both made conscious differences to not do
Speaker 1: certain and she anymore. But then when it's times because
Speaker 1: I know too that sometimes she suffered from anxiety and stuff.
Speaker 1: It's not about me if you didn't answer the phone.
Speaker 1: But then because we share locations with each other, if
Speaker 1: you didn't answer the phone, but I see you at
Speaker 1: your apartment, so I know, you know, probably not doing anything.
Speaker 1: It's fine because it's not personal. But I think that
Speaker 1: goes into friendship styles and being friends with people. You
Speaker 1: have to be friends with people that are like minded
Speaker 1: like you. Some people be friends with needy ass people
Speaker 1: and you not a needy ass person that goes.
Speaker 2: Remember that, Remember that conversation we had. We were talking about.
Speaker 4: Anxious attachments and different type of attachment styles. That's why
Speaker 4: I said we're gonna get an expert on here, because
Speaker 4: I think we kind of glazed over it.
Speaker 2: But that's that's a good point.
Speaker 4: It goes avoidant attachment styles. Anxious, like an avoidant should
Speaker 4: not be with somebody who has an anxious like you can't.
Speaker 1: I have another friend who I'm still friends with right
Speaker 1: now too, who we have had like a little falling
Speaker 1: out like last year because she was just like, I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm always calling you first, so I'm always
Speaker 1: calling you all the time, and to me, I don't know,
Speaker 1: like I'm just such a person who live in my
Speaker 1: own world. A lot of time, which is something that
Speaker 1: I did say twenty twenty five. Maybe I need to
Speaker 1: work on that calling people more because I have like
Speaker 1: two friends that I actually call all the time, and
Speaker 1: I do feel like a lot of my other friends
Speaker 1: they be calling me first. And it's not personal. It's
Speaker 1: just I think some people make me calm and some
Speaker 1: people give me like make me.
Speaker 2: A little anxious.
Speaker 1: Yes, so the people who make me anxious, Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: probably not gonna call you all the time, but it
Speaker 1: doesn't mean I don't want to talk. If you want
Speaker 1: to talk to me and you want to call me
Speaker 1: and talk to me about something, that's fine. You could
Speaker 1: do that, But I'm not trying to make you feel
Speaker 1: like the friendship is only one sidey. But I think
Speaker 1: that also goes into friendships and relationship styles because I
Speaker 1: don't not trying to be because I'm trying to make
Speaker 1: sure our worth is right. Because it's not to say
Speaker 1: I don't want to be friends with somebody like that,
Speaker 1: but like stuff like that be so petty to me.
Speaker 1: Conversations like about who called somebody first and who made
Speaker 1: the last phone call, and I just feel like, is
Speaker 1: that what we're really talking about?
Speaker 2: One thing about me. I do not I don't even
Speaker 2: pay attention to that shit. I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 4: If I called you last four times, I'm gonna call
Speaker 4: you the fist time.
Speaker 2: What you doing a girl?
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. Like, stuff like that is
Speaker 1: just kind of But but then for some people, if
Speaker 1: it's a big deal. And so that's where I feel
Speaker 1: like friendship styles, I don't know if that's really a
Speaker 1: real thing.
Speaker 2: It is, but that's important.
Speaker 4: Love languages, all that stuff, as much as it applies
Speaker 4: to relationships, it applies to friendship to.
Speaker 2: It definitely does. So I know, so, I know.
Speaker 4: So I think that's why, like certain friends and certain
Speaker 4: people that I'm cool with, I have to treat certain
Speaker 4: friends differently in XYZ, but.
Speaker 2: They get me. We may not get along all the time,
Speaker 2: but it's.
Speaker 4: An understanding there, it's a certain level of understanding. So
Speaker 4: I do feel like, in the year of twenty twenty five,
Speaker 4: be around people who actually like you, and who actually
Speaker 4: are good friends, and who actually understands you. Because sometimes
Speaker 4: people wanna be liking yeah, yeah, yeah, A lot of
Speaker 4: times y'all be around people who don't fucking like you.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, okay, s's up y'all as your girl
Speaker 2: XP and it's Sugarl Dre and the Cale.
Speaker 4: Y'all know, we have a segment on Poor Minds called
Speaker 4: Item of the Week. But do you have a product
Speaker 4: or something that you want to promote and you want
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Speaker 2: Your opportunity is here period.
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Speaker 4: It's time to get into the b out a bow
Speaker 4: a bow about bell bell.
Speaker 2: Did we even do the drinks? Nope? But drink okay,
Speaker 2: hell d.
Speaker 1: I'm making lexus drink now. But this is and I
Speaker 1: was already sipping mind since we're in the episode, but
Speaker 1: even it's gonna put some really cute pictures up of
Speaker 1: this drink because it has some glitter that was like
Speaker 1: circulating around.
Speaker 2: But this is the New Year, New Me. Okay, twenty
Speaker 2: twenty five.
Speaker 1: We stepping in with our big girl's shoes and a
Speaker 1: big girl panties on the thongs. Okay, pull them up
Speaker 1: and let's go. All right, let's get these bags.
Speaker 2: New Year Knew Me.
Speaker 1: We have your spirit of choice. We have some elderflower liquor,
Speaker 1: some grapefruit, a little bit of lime, and some lavender syrup.
Speaker 1: And then we topped it off with some champagne just
Speaker 1: to give that New Year's fizz, and we added some
Speaker 1: edible glitter to it. And that is it, ladies, the
Speaker 1: New Year Knew Me and lex yours is coming right back.
Speaker 2: I like that. Do it again?
Speaker 4: May it shout out to the Twins figs. They used
Speaker 4: to drop them bangas on the ass.
Speaker 2: They did.
Speaker 4: They were the first people that was whispering in the
Speaker 4: bitch ear on the song's Yeah.
Speaker 2: I know to be right nasty, so I don't mind
Speaker 2: asking for head.
Speaker 7: I need to make.
Speaker 2: Like the oh pussy like bill like bam beat they
Speaker 2: beat the beat the Oh my god, that was such
Speaker 2: a good song.
Speaker 1: It was there was another song that idea was that
Speaker 1: I wouldn't we want to go in the studio.
Speaker 4: Because you know what's crazy, so many people try to
Speaker 4: remake a whisper type song and they couldn't do There's
Speaker 4: been no like a lot of Atlanta people rappers were
Speaker 4: trying to do like a whisper and they couldn't remake
Speaker 4: that song. There was another song that they had they
Speaker 4: were whispering on. What was it do?
Speaker 2: Y'all remember the Yan Twins.
Speaker 4: They had another song where they were kind of whispering
Speaker 4: on it. I gotta put off my Spotify, y'all.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I have to do but Drea in the meantime, okay,
Speaker 2: in the meantime.
Speaker 1: So for the bad topic, we're gonna be talking about sex.
Speaker 1: Talk with your friends. What do you tell your friends
Speaker 1: and what do you not tell them about your six
Speaker 1: life or about your men or your women, Like, are
Speaker 1: there certain things that are off limits you feel like
Speaker 1: I shouldn't tell my friends these or are you the
Speaker 1: type of person that you just feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: if we friends. I'm just lit the chopa sing.
Speaker 2: So I feel like it's certain things that I like
Speaker 2: to do in the bedroom. Honestly, I'll say this.
Speaker 4: I tell my friends a lot I do, but as
Speaker 4: I've gotten older, I feel like it's certain things that
Speaker 4: I just like to have between like me and my men.
Speaker 4: It's not that it's nothing like, oh, freaky embarrassing, but
Speaker 4: it just be certain things that go in the bedroom
Speaker 4: that I just keep to myself. I think it's more
Speaker 4: so about me and his bond and things that we
Speaker 4: can have just that's between us that other people don't know.
Speaker 4: And also, like I said, I feel like I used
Speaker 4: to share so many things that I do in the
Speaker 4: bedroom on this show too. It'd be stuff that I like,
Speaker 4: maybe tried or I thought was funny and I was
Speaker 4: making a joke about it, and it'd be like years
Speaker 4: later and they still be bringing it up and talking
Speaker 4: about it. It's like relax but people like to take
Speaker 4: a little inch, and what is it? You give them
Speaker 4: an inch and they take a relax So, honestly, I
Speaker 4: feel like there's certain things that like you and your
Speaker 4: friends can laugh about. But I feel like if you're
Speaker 4: in a serious relationship. There's certain things that should be.
Speaker 2: Between you and your man. I agree, Hm, I.
Speaker 1: Don't think everybody needs to know everything, but I also don't.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think it depends on why you keeping stuff to yourself,
Speaker 1: Like I feel like I don't know. I don't operate
Speaker 1: in fear when it comes to anything. So I think
Speaker 1: that some people don't like to share stuff about their
Speaker 1: relationship or their sex life and stuff because they be
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, if you tell somebody too much, or
Speaker 1: if you share too much with your friends, then they
Speaker 1: gonna want to fuck Y'allniga Beachmnia not gonna fuck y'all.
Speaker 2: It ain't about it.
Speaker 1: So I'm not worried about that, like I ever thought
Speaker 1: of it that way. Well, I'm saying because because maybe
Speaker 1: that's not how you look at it. But I'm saying
Speaker 1: like I've heard a lot of like that, Like I
Speaker 1: don't want to tell my friends too much about my
Speaker 1: real relationship. I don't want to tell my friends too
Speaker 1: much about this or too much about that, because I
Speaker 1: feel like if I share too much about my men
Speaker 1: and like that he's well in doubt or that he's
Speaker 1: good in the bedroom, or he eat pussy good, whatever
Speaker 1: the case may be, then they gonna want to fuck
Speaker 1: my nigga, will beach. I'm not worried about that.
Speaker 2: And also if you.
Speaker 4: Hear your friends say that and you be wanting to
Speaker 4: fuck him, that's weird. Weird, that's weird as fuck.
Speaker 2: It is weird.
Speaker 1: But I do think that there are women like that.
Speaker 1: But I think that more and so goes into the company.
Speaker 2: That you keep.
Speaker 1: I mean because men, because you know that men be
Speaker 1: like that, Because first of all, why is you friends
Speaker 1: with a beach that you think will fuck your hey?
Speaker 2: And why are you with a nigga who you think
Speaker 2: will fuck one of your friends.
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 1: If I ever had that type of doubt in my
Speaker 1: mind about my man or my friend, you not about
Speaker 1: to be my man or my friend.
Speaker 4: Hey, Hey, hey, that's my bitch you. I don't got
Speaker 4: to say that. My nigga don't have to say that.
Speaker 4: And I also think too, I.
Speaker 1: Just think it's I think a lot of the time,
Speaker 1: to me, that's why people don't share stuff like.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I didn't think about it that way.
Speaker 4: I was more thinking about like, oh, there's a certain secret,
Speaker 4: Like it's certain secrets that like me and you have,
Speaker 4: or like me and Killa have, or me and my
Speaker 4: men have, like I like to have that we have
Speaker 4: that together and it's just ours and.
Speaker 2: It's something special. I never thought about that, but you're right,
Speaker 2: you right, I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm really a person who I can truly say when
Speaker 1: it depending on how close in practice, like how close
Speaker 1: our relationship is. I'm like an open book with people
Speaker 1: that I'm close to, So I don't care about you
Speaker 1: knowing certain shit. I'm not gonna go out of my
Speaker 1: way to just tell you my sexual business. But if
Speaker 1: we're having a conversation, like for example, if one of
Speaker 1: my friends having a conversation with me and they asking
Speaker 1: me about like head or a certain scenario in the bedroom,
Speaker 1: something that they want to try, and it's something that
Speaker 1: I've tried, if you asking me about it, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna be like, oh girl, I don't know. And me
Speaker 1: and my man and danity, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: or I'm experienced in that realm. I'm not gonna sit
Speaker 1: here and act like, oh girl, I don't know about
Speaker 1: it or not talk to you about it, because I
Speaker 1: don't want.
Speaker 2: You to know about what me and my man be doing.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I just I agree. I think stuff
Speaker 2: like that. It's a little weird.
Speaker 1: It's like you don't trust your friends, and if that's
Speaker 1: the case, then be why are they your friends?
Speaker 2: That's true, that's true.
Speaker 4: I don't know, but I think, like I said, if
Speaker 4: you be around your friend and you want to fuck
Speaker 4: her man or your man want to fuck you, and
Speaker 4: you know it.
Speaker 2: Y'all just weird as fun.
Speaker 1: I mean, the signs be there though, be you want
Speaker 1: to fuck yr Nigga or would fuck yr Nigga or
Speaker 1: nigga who wuck one.
Speaker 2: Of your friends SNS. You gotta give us the signs.
Speaker 4: Now, this is what poor Mind's is about. Oh sorry, Burt,
Speaker 4: I say this is a sign if y'all, Like, if
Speaker 4: y'all like out and she be all in his face
Speaker 4: type ship like you.
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. You know how somebody be in
Speaker 2: somebody's face too flirty, too flirty and being like, ah
Speaker 2: were outside, bro, you're so yeah, like she all in
Speaker 2: his face or she trying to embarrass you. She'd be like, girl,
Speaker 2: you need some gum. Bitch, bitch you.
Speaker 1: Need some gun, or she be like, uh, now you
Speaker 1: need some gums like some thunder.
Speaker 2: She be like, bitch, why are you grabbing my toe?
Speaker 2: You yes, it's a tourist thing. Why the I am?
Speaker 1: And I just said, and so, why would you keep
Speaker 1: doing this? Why come you're not laughing? Why are you
Speaker 1: getting mad?
Speaker 2: Used to get so mad. No, they don't. I thought
Speaker 2: it was funny.
Speaker 4: I never knew that her mama, her and my mama
Speaker 4: got the say birthday. I used to grab mama feet.
Speaker 1: She would get so mad, she would never last She no, no,
Speaker 1: you better fucking stop.
Speaker 2: My mommer.
Speaker 1: I'm so and and I'm so ticklish in the weirdest
Speaker 1: places too, tied.
Speaker 2: Like under my but like on my thigh, under my butt,
Speaker 2: my whole life. My mom.
Speaker 1: Whenever she would know I would be mad at her,
Speaker 1: she would start tickling me, like under my bud when
Speaker 1: I was like a teenager and stuff.
Speaker 2: And I would be like, stop, didn't give me my memory.
Speaker 2: It's about it for my mom. Girl, move please. Okay,
Speaker 2: but I'll say that you in a nigga face. Are
Speaker 2: you trying to embarrass your friends?
Speaker 1: What we said on the last episode, the outcare song.
Speaker 2: I found them?
Speaker 3: The song?
Speaker 2: Okay, remember do y'all remember this song? What happened, Miss
Speaker 2: what happened? You ain't gonna get hell.
Speaker 4: Mam okay before you, y'all and tell your things. Do
Speaker 4: y'all remember this Yen Yane Twins song. Look, bitch, you
Speaker 4: done talk to a whole lot of ship.
Speaker 2: But wait, do you see my dick ain't bitch.
Speaker 4: I ain't really for the talking game. But you came
Speaker 4: in the room and start handling things. First thought, beat
Speaker 4: the pussy up. Hit it from the back, and beat
Speaker 4: the pussy up. When all that running be your west
Speaker 4: Steel long dick come in. Ride on the dick like
Speaker 4: he was dancing in the club, y'all. I remember you
Speaker 4: heard U min long dick coming.
Speaker 2: It's lone coming.
Speaker 4: That was so they did another whisper. They were kind
Speaker 4: of he wasn't whispering, but he was kind of whispering.
Speaker 4: Shout out to the Yin Yane Twins pioneers in the game.
Speaker 4: Niggas was really trying to whisper on that track.
Speaker 1: You need to fucking cut it out, big, You need
Speaker 1: to cut it out.
Speaker 2: But no, I don't know what's up, y'all.
Speaker 4: Iss your girl xp andy sh girls Ryan a call,
Speaker 4: and y'all do not forget to call our shot line.
Speaker 2: I know you've heard of a hot line, but this
Speaker 2: is the poor mind's shot line.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we love to hear from y'all. Y'all need to
Speaker 1: call in y'all, and this is not necessarily for questions.
Speaker 1: You know, we just want to hear from y'all if
Speaker 1: we want to know y'all, feedback, y'all, thoughts on the show,
Speaker 1: or just what's going on in your life. So you
Speaker 1: can always call six seven eight eight two seven one
Speaker 1: eight two seed.
Speaker 2: Yes, and y'all know, keep it short and cute.
Speaker 4: Don't be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy,
Speaker 4: says a brother, cousin boyfriend.
Speaker 2: Okay, well I want to hear about that. Actually, well
Speaker 2: you know they can.
Speaker 4: Let a little some, but you know, we want to
Speaker 4: keep it cute and short. Like she said, this is
Speaker 4: not questions, This is not pour your heart out. So
Speaker 4: just call give us a little feedback. What you want
Speaker 4: to see on the show, any suggestions, what you think
Speaker 4: about the show, if you just want to simply give
Speaker 4: us our flowers, you know, or any It could be anything.
Speaker 4: What's bothering you this week, what on your nerves this week?
Speaker 4: If you just want to vent and get some things
Speaker 4: off your chest. Pull the shot line again.
Speaker 2: The number is six seven eight eight two seven one
Speaker 2: eight two six. Time to get into the big the
Speaker 2: bob see see see see the Bop Ay the Bob.
Speaker 2: Bow Bow Bow Bow about bow Bow We in the
Speaker 2: New Year. I keep clean, come looking real clear. I'm
Speaker 2: that bitch and not fuck on your nigga. But he
Speaker 2: came out fucked on me. He ain't got sick figgures.
Speaker 4: Oh all right, mood, I was stuttering a little bit.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to work over. I gotta go to
Speaker 4: the stool. I gotta get it right. Okay, So the
Speaker 4: bop of the week. Okay, you want me to go first,
Speaker 4: are you?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 4: So my bop of the week Alex Vaughn. I made
Speaker 4: her my bop of the week about two years ago.
Speaker 4: She had a song called so be It and it
Speaker 4: was so fire. She's so good and I want you
Speaker 4: R and B artist stopped just not dropping music. You
Speaker 4: gotta be consistent. And this is not to Alex Vaughn.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying in general, but she has a new
Speaker 4: song called hit a Wall and it's so relatable. You
Speaker 4: would love this song. You would love this song. Because
Speaker 4: sometimes that's what happens. Out of you hit a wall,
Speaker 4: you be like, what the fuck are we doing? Sometimes
Speaker 4: you gotta hear fucking wall and be like, what is
Speaker 4: going on? Alex Vaughn, I don't know what she does.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you about this indie music they be
Speaker 4: talking about real shit.
Speaker 2: Reata when I tell you I sung the fuck out
Speaker 2: of that too.
Speaker 1: When us your son has sung, I said, yeah, I
Speaker 1: was ready to.
Speaker 2: Get on, but yeah no. But I'm saying, Alex Vaughn
Speaker 2: hit a wall.
Speaker 4: If you were in a relationship right now and you
Speaker 4: feel like you don't know what to do, listen to
Speaker 4: this song because you're gonna know. We are all going
Speaker 4: through it in this holiday season with men we are,
Speaker 4: don't You're not alone. I don't care how bad you are,
Speaker 4: how funny you are, how much money you make, how
Speaker 4: amazing of a woman like Cardi B said, I got
Speaker 4: little feet, Cardi, I don't care how small your feet are.
Speaker 2: We all going through it. Okay, that's all I gotta say.
Speaker 2: I don't care. I got a size ten, she got
Speaker 2: a size seven.
Speaker 1: I got a size seven. And just because you see
Speaker 1: me at that concert, we're still going through it.
Speaker 2: Don't matter. We're all going through it. So Alex vaugh Little.
Speaker 4: Ten sevens are telling you it don't mean it anything,
Speaker 4: but Alex.
Speaker 7: Vaughn, so be it.
Speaker 2: That's the song I put on my playlist a long
Speaker 2: time ago. Go listen to that.
Speaker 4: She's got a new song called hit a Wall. Alex Vaughn,
Speaker 4: You're amazing. Please keep dropping music. I'm gonna give mazak. Misatti.
Speaker 4: I hope I'm saying your name right. You had a
Speaker 4: song that you dropped like three or four years ago.
Speaker 4: It's called Intoxicated Truth. Misati. I don't know where you are.
Speaker 4: I don't know if you are under another name.
Speaker 2: God. I hope you didn't pass away. I don't know
Speaker 2: where you are, but please drop some more music. It's
Speaker 2: m A S A T I, y'all.
Speaker 4: Please find him for me, blow him up and maybe
Speaker 4: maybe he don't want to do music no more, and
Speaker 4: let me know, because I don't want to be bothering
Speaker 4: this man. But he has a song called Intoxicated Truth.
Speaker 4: I made this my bop like two years ago. But
Speaker 4: I went in like a rabbit hole the other day
Speaker 4: trying to look for him, and I could not find anything.
Speaker 4: So Misati intoxicated truth, where are you?
Speaker 2: It don't bother me? It is song you remember this song?
Speaker 2: Making a day? When you start speeling his name up
Speaker 2: A c k E b l e e, you're doing
Speaker 2: it wrong. Black belly s p l k k A
Speaker 2: b e l f i e black old belly? What
Speaker 2: the fuck you spell?
Speaker 7: A s y f b b E m A c
Speaker 7: k b s m b p y e mo b
Speaker 7: lets so said, let key.
Speaker 2: Because what song did you see?
Speaker 1: She's said?
Speaker 2: Now m b A bock big motor song. Fuck u
Speaker 2: m b y x y z t.
Speaker 7: X y z the fa bed head.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about. Oh my god, that was such a
Speaker 2: good What the blay brother? You can call up man?
Speaker 2: I think that was Jack Thriller? Was he black?
Speaker 1: Was it.
Speaker 2: Black abell? Look at Oh my god? Look black of velly?
Speaker 2: Is Jack Thriller? Black of belly? That sounds like yours.
Speaker 2: It's a song bye and needs your cool.
Speaker 3: She like a die cool, She like a die.
Speaker 1: It's it's Plackavelli a R and B song? Is this
Speaker 1: song y'all talking about an R and B song? Yes,
Speaker 1: it's called It's by pressure Pressure pressures Jack Thriller.
Speaker 2: This does not look like Jack Okay, my bad, my bad,
Speaker 2: I was wrong. I was wrong.
Speaker 1: Is this the song y'all talking about?
Speaker 2: Every woman needs her own black vela? Oh brother, chi
Speaker 2: can call when her you can't play?
Speaker 1: Gonna tell me what kind of superman will take you
Speaker 1: in his bedroom?
Speaker 2: Baby? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah song by y'all. Was listening to that in Chicago.
Speaker 2: I have no idea what this No, but I definitely will. Damn.
Speaker 2: It's not Jack from the Home of the Original. Why
Speaker 2: do you know that? But why do you Why do
Speaker 2: you know Jack Fuller's song? Though? What Jack Thriller song?
Speaker 4: Because that was a rememberable song, rememberable, memorable, rememberable.
Speaker 2: No, no real memory So wait Jack Thriller song? No,
Speaker 2: it was so gay. It was just what's your Circadian Rhythm?
Speaker 2: By Drake. I haven't had a Drake song in a
Speaker 2: very very You're off. I'm gonna let you you're off
Speaker 2: with that girl.
Speaker 4: She's trying to make up because she was Jammy Kendrick
Speaker 4: Hardest don't matter.
Speaker 1: I could dream both the flood. I'm not scared of
Speaker 1: neither one of them.
Speaker 2: Squabbles up, so.
Speaker 1: You know I can like both artists. And yes, Drake
Speaker 1: had came out with Circadian rhythm. It actually came out
Speaker 1: like back in August, but I just never said it
Speaker 1: as my.
Speaker 2: Bob because I listen to it for a minute. Mhm,
Speaker 2: I gotta listen to it. I don't think I have
Speaker 2: heard of you not.
Speaker 1: It wasn't promoted that much.
Speaker 2: I don't think I've heard it. It's snow like cover
Speaker 2: art or anything.
Speaker 1: But in the meantime, Okay, y'all, now it's time to
Speaker 1: get into our favorite segment of the sho which just
Speaker 1: pour your heart out. You know, if you have any questions,
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Speaker 1: take your crown off?
Speaker 2: That's my head. It was like squeezing my head a
Speaker 2: little bit. Can we switch crown? No, because this is questions,
Speaker 2: not my speech. Okay, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead,
Speaker 2: go ahead, go ahead. M hm.
Speaker 1: Heylex Andrea, I'm gonna make this short and sweet. Me
Speaker 1: and my boyfriend have been together for almost four years.
Speaker 1: We are high school sweethearts. He's everything I always wanted
Speaker 1: in a partner. He treats me so well mentally, physically,
Speaker 1: and emotionally, but financially we go fifty fifty on bills,
Speaker 1: and recently I have been paying the bills for both
Speaker 1: of us because he's not making money.
Speaker 2: Right now.
Speaker 1: We are both twenty three and I'm struggling financially myself
Speaker 1: taking care of us both. I can't see myself being
Speaker 1: with anybody else. But at the same time, I don't
Speaker 1: want to stressen myself out paying all.
Speaker 2: The bills with no help. Need advice.
Speaker 4: So let me say this, one hundred percent on the
Speaker 4: man and zero percent for the woman. It's not for everybody,
Speaker 4: first of all, but if y'all agreed on fifty to fifty.
Speaker 2: Where yo fifty at nigga, you gotta show the fuck up.
Speaker 4: So this is novel we agreed upon. If you signed
Speaker 4: up for fifty percent, you need to show up for
Speaker 4: guess what. I can't show up here. I can't be
Speaker 4: like ta, I don't got it this month. I'm gonna
Speaker 4: pay you twenty five percent.
Speaker 2: I can't do that. I can't do that. That's not you.
Speaker 2: Don't you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 4: If you have to show up in your household, because
Speaker 4: if he had his own apartment and he was on
Speaker 4: his own.
Speaker 2: He gotta pay that rent by hisself.
Speaker 4: You are teaching this man to depend on you, and
Speaker 4: the more you do this, the more he's gonna get
Speaker 4: comfortable with being lazy and doing nothing. You want a
Speaker 4: man who bare minimum can show up for you fifty percent.
Speaker 4: He don't even got to show up one hundred percent.
Speaker 4: You asking him to show up fifty percent for the
Speaker 4: bills and he can't do that. Y'all are twenty three,
Speaker 4: so y'all young. I know y'all probably not living in
Speaker 4: no high rise or no big ass townhouse or this,
Speaker 4: and that he should be able to show up with.
Speaker 2: I'll throw out a number here.
Speaker 4: If you can't show up one thousand dollars a month
Speaker 4: at twenty three years old, you not going hard enough,
Speaker 4: and you got a person that's helping you. At twenty three,
Speaker 4: I didn't have nobody helping me like that. Well, yes
Speaker 4: I did, let me not lie. But what I'm saying is,
Speaker 4: at twenty three, you have a woman who is willing
Speaker 4: to go fifty to fifty when most people are not
Speaker 4: trying to go fifty to fifty. But the average person
Speaker 4: in the relationship is going fifty to fifty. Girl, you
Speaker 4: be better off getting you a one bedroom and figuring
Speaker 4: shit out on your own. But if you're gonna stay
Speaker 4: with him, make him pay because you're teaching him that
Speaker 4: this is okay and that you're gonna hold shit down.
Speaker 2: He too young to not be able to show up.
Speaker 4: Now, if we are a million and something, you come
Speaker 4: on hard times, that's a different ball game. That's a
Speaker 4: different ballgame once we talk about.
Speaker 2: Some real money. Because sometimes shit.
Speaker 4: Happens and you be like, hey, I gotta handle the
Speaker 4: mortgage this month because whatever happened, maybe y'all are twenty
Speaker 4: three and he can't show up for you. If he
Speaker 4: can't show up for you at twenty three, you're not
Speaker 4: gonna show up for you at thirty three.
Speaker 2: I agree.
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Speaker 2: I'm like, what that DG's bumba claude, bumba claud im
Speaker 2: me like she thinking about trying me. She wanted, she
Speaker 2: can't take no more.
Speaker 1: I'm alf take her to my spot. I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: her hot. She's gonna turn overun and when I.
Speaker 2: Beat beat beat, beat beat, she gonna make me.
Speaker 1: Beat beat, beat, beat beat. She gonna let.
Speaker 2: Beat beat beat.
Speaker 1: Go go, go go go. I'm gonna have her screaming
Speaker 1: like go go go, go go go.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tear it up like be missed.
Speaker 1: But sexy can take you to my crib make love
Speaker 1: on my piano.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: You know me, little shorty from Atlanta, I want to
Speaker 1: do something you such show body, make you get.
Speaker 2: Naughty, say my name.
Speaker 1: When I beat beet beef.
Speaker 2: We can do it.
Speaker 1: In a pool of the jeep jep jeep because girl,
Speaker 1: you know you turn.
Speaker 2: To me home, so they been eyeing me.
Speaker 1: She looking like she's thinking about trying me.
Speaker 2: She want it.
Speaker 1: She can't take no more. I'm about to take her
Speaker 1: to my spide I'm gonna get it hot. She gonna
Speaker 1: turn around and let me beat beat.
Speaker 3: Be beat.
Speaker 2: She gonna let me beat beat beat beat beat. She
Speaker 2: gonna let me beat beat beat me.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, it's screaming like, go go go, go
Speaker 1: go go.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have a screaming light go go, go.
Speaker 4: Go go go.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna serve.
Speaker 3: Condo.
Speaker 2: I can make it rain, I can make it.
Speaker 1: Clap of me.
Speaker 2: He's driving me crazy. I know you want me this girl,
Speaker 2: I want you.
Speaker 1: Tell me hen we kick it tonight, lights camera action.
Speaker 1: I'll play director, turn you out, let me sneak up, peek,
Speaker 1: turn you out on a late night creep.
Speaker 2: I ain't playing in no games to night.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 2: Mean, she look like you's thinking about trying me. No money,
Speaker 2: no more, no more. I might get a high beat
Speaker 2: beat beat beat beat. She gonna make me a beat
Speaker 2: beat beat beat beat beat beat beat beat beat.
Speaker 4: Miss's all for sirs.
Speaker 1: I swagon out, I got inos, She says. She likes
Speaker 1: the way.
Speaker 2: Work her out til she passing out. You want to
Speaker 2: be with us?
Speaker 1: Thought for baby.
Speaker 2: I'm an astronaut. Let alick the rapper.
Speaker 1: I call it a jawbreaker.
Speaker 2: If her back was the law, didn.
Speaker 8: Call me the lawbreaker. Call me the lawbreaker. What if
Speaker 8: her back was the law, call me.
Speaker 2: The law break man. We'll see y'all next week. Happy
Speaker 2: New Year, mother, Fuck me do my little one cheek
Speaker 2: all right? This ship up