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Speaker 2: It's gonna be my year. Man.

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Speaker 4: Y'all's your girl lex Pete and it's your girls are

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Speaker 4: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 2: New year. I love a new year, So bring it on,

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Speaker 4: So I want you to know this episode, we're gonna

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Speaker 4: I feel like that's how you have to bring in

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Speaker 4: we sad. Life is hard, but bare minimum. Please at

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Speaker 2: With hope, faith. And if you don't do it on January.

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Speaker 2: Just keep trying and trying. Come on, lin rock that

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Speaker 1: I just told him what you did do show off

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Speaker 4: And that was a good one. Sorry, you know, I

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Speaker 1: I was going, can't stop, won't stop rocking Phillip Records

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Speaker 2: Don't stop. You can hit it.

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Speaker 4: We gonna do, we were gonna do, We're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. I knew I would put you into it.

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Speaker 4: I used to want to go, so y'all have to realize.

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Speaker 4: When I was younger, I could. I thought when I

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Speaker 4: It wasn't lit, it wasn't jump cru it was it

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Speaker 1: That party looked so crunk, that party at their apartment

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Speaker 4: I said, go to the club with guess who was dance.

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Speaker 1: Not I'm not I'm just not doing it. Of course

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Speaker 1: People always say that, and I was like, mister Reggie.

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Speaker 2: We love, we love, shout to mister Reggie nobody. But

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Speaker 4: To some so killer had to on to nothing. Somebody

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Speaker 4: But somebody damned my best friend today and was like,

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Speaker 1: And then my thing be okay? So then if you

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Speaker 2: Want a cookie?

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Speaker 1: What do you want? We don't got no more.

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Speaker 2: We actually ate them all, hate them all, all of them.

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Speaker 2: I don't gotta you in my business.

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Speaker 1: Because anybody who matters, the people in my personal.

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Speaker 2: Life, we know what.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows who I'm dating. Yes, it's like he ain't.

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Speaker 2: Twenty five stuff.

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Speaker 4: results of Maybury. So since we have started this show,

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Speaker 4: So I say all that to say, since the beginning

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Speaker 4: You're funny, like Carlos has told me that. Everybody. So

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Speaker 2: I fucking suck. I'm big, not good, I'm t rash,

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Speaker 1: I really want to scale my business this year. I

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Speaker 1: on YouTube, but it get a lot of views on

441
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Speaker 1: TikTok and Instagram and stuff too. So my next goal

442
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 1: with Poor Mind Star, I really wanted to get picked

443
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 1: up as a show because I don't know, I just

444
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 1: sometimes kind of feel like we're so much bigger than

445
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,719
Speaker 1: a podcast at this point. And then I also am

446
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 1: starting my own YouTube channel as well, which like when

447
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: this episode comes out, the first episode will be up

448
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,639
Speaker 1: as well. And I just want to like try to

449
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Speaker 1: be consistent with logging and showing like more of my

450
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 1: life because I feel like it's something that people are

451
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: really interested in, but I've just always shied away from me.

452
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Speaker 4: I feel like you would do so good in that

453
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 4: like Beauty Lane, that like Jackie ain't at us and.

454
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Speaker 1: Like maybe it's not beauty, but only because only reason

455
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,199
Speaker 1: I say no is because like people like Jackie, they

456
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 1: really do looks.

457
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Speaker 2: I literally wear the same Like.

458
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna switch up my I can show different lip combos,

459
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,160
Speaker 1: but like I don't be switching my makeup.

460
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Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is it's not about like switching

461
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Speaker 4: up looks. It's about Okay, I like I tried this foundation,

462
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 4: it didn't work. You can do the same look with

463
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 4: different products that People just want to see what works

464
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 4: for your skin, what you're doing with this, what you're

465
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 4: doing with that. But I think that Beauty Lane is

466
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 4: so good for you because even but when I say

467
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Speaker 4: beauty Lane, it's like also like get ready with me?

468
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 4: Is they want to see what you're what lotion you're

469
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,199
Speaker 4: putting on. People just want to see that. Even so

470
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,639
Speaker 4: I think like that, like that's why I'm excited for

471
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Speaker 4: your YouTube because I know it's gonna do well.

472
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Speaker 2: Ask me about mine. Yes to all that beauty.

473
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:07,159
Speaker 4: Getting ready, your makeup, your hair, all that stuff. I

474
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 4: think that is like even your workouts, like people want

475
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 4: to see you work out all this stuff. I think

476
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,920
Speaker 4: that's like the perfect line for you. And that's why

477
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 4: I said I think Poor Minds is so good because

478
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,720
Speaker 4: we're so opposite. So it's like people want to hear

479
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 4: me talk. They want to hear what movies, what I

480
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 4: think about this, they want to hear the gossip and

481
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,439
Speaker 4: so and then like so we can go our separate

482
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 4: ways and do this.

483
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 2: So we'll still be on YouTube.

484
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 4: But for Poor Minds, it's time to be on HBO Max,

485
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 4: it's time to be on a Netflix.

486
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 2: It's time to you know what I'm saying.

487
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Speaker 1: And also to another goal because I don't know, girl,

488
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Speaker 1: I got a lot of goals because I did. I

489
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,639
Speaker 1: wrote all my goals down for twenty twenty five, and

490
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Speaker 1: I really want to start working on our scripty shows too,

491
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,479
Speaker 1: which I feel like we've never talked about that on

492
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: Poor Minds, but you haven't by all. That's something that

493
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Speaker 1: I really would like to like get started in twenty

494
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Speaker 1: twenty five because I feel like it's such it's gonna

495
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: be such a good show.

496
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Speaker 4: And you know they're I and I'm gonna just I'm

497
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 4: gonna throw her name out there because I be talking

498
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 4: to her in the DMS and that's my girl, and

499
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,640
Speaker 4: we had her on the show. Shout out to Dara.

500
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 4: She had the show dr from Detroit. But she's so

501
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 4: brilliant when we work on this show. If I'm not

502
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 4: working with Lisa, I want to work with Dara because

503
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 4: I love her. She's so creative and she's so amazing.

504
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 4: So I feel like, if there's any two people that

505
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 4: could make our vision come to life, it would be

506
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 4: one of them too, like, because I feel like a

507
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 4: lot of people look at people like Dara and Issa

508
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 4: they be like, oh, dre unless they can't relate.

509
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,719
Speaker 1: But when dr sat on this couch, she was like,

510
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: I fuck with you. But I always wonder why do

511
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: people think we can't relate?

512
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 4: Because they think that we're one way, but they don't

513
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 4: realize that we're most tight faceted.

514
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 2: But that's okay.

515
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 4: We're gonna break down the doors so the girls behind

516
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 4: us who have podcasts, y'all can come. And it's gonna

517
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,679
Speaker 4: be easy for y'all. That's my goal. I wanted to

518
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:03,880
Speaker 4: make it easy everybody who's black woman. Whatever, you want

519
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 4: to sit on the couch and talk about X y Z,

520
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 4: do it, and it's gonna be easy because they gonna

521
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 4: believe in you because they see what poor minds did.

522
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Speaker 2: Because that's all I be for others. The others, Oh.

523
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Speaker 1: For sure, Ty, what's your goals? I have a lot

524
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 1: of goals. My number one goal is work life balance.

525
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: This year, while super successful my road with Crowns so

526
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: Mixy doing incredible numbers, it was a lot and I

527
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: felt stressed a lot of the year. So my personal

528
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: goal is to go into and just kind of like

529
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: prioritize a lot better and really figure out what direction

530
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 1: how I want to scale the business. So with so Mixy,

531
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Speaker 1: we're getting more into products. We're stepping away from like

532
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 1: smaller events, working more with bigger brands and more of

533
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 1: our corporate clients. So we are closing our books if

534
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: you are not a current client, but.

535
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:00,199
Speaker 2: Kept cook but.

536
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 5: Can we were squeezing if we need a little party, yes,

537
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 5: like so we can get an event because I'm like,

538
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 5: I might want to have a little poor get Yeah, yes,

539
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 5: but your clothes, but that's yes, random people they want

540
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 5: us to do like their birthday parties.

541
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Speaker 1: We are so thankful for the business, but at this

542
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: time we're just growing at a like an accelerated rate.

543
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: And yeah, I just I need bigger Like I'm looking.

544
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 2: For bigger budgets.

545
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: Be doing a little couple hundred dollars here, No, we

546
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 1: need commas. So that's definitely a step for so looking

547
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: a scale in that capacity, and our team is expanding

548
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 1: and then we're coming out with some products, so we

549
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: actually are gonna I've been working with events. We are

550
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: working on a cocktail calendar that is dropping now so

551
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,640
Speaker 1: you can get that at www dot se mixy dot

552
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: com and it's going to feature today's cocktail too when

553
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: I teach it. And then what else my roll with

554
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:01,160
Speaker 1: Crown Royal I came in the door, are like really

555
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: doing big things and I just want to continue that trajectory,

556
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 1: continue to bring and lift uplift women of color, specifically

557
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: people in our community, educating on spirits and just really

558
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: like dominating the brand ambassador field for spirits.

559
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 4: I love that you're doing an amazing job, like Ty,

560
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 4: when I tell you, you have been such an asset

561
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 4: to this show, and that's why I say, like, I'm

562
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 4: so proud of you, thank you, and I know you're

563
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 4: going to reach your goals, like cause you're so fucking

564
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 4: good like you are. You can nobody can make a

565
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 4: drink like some I'll be going to put to the

566
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 4: bar telling them how to make a drink.

567
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 2: Well, let me tell yeah, have you had a blood.

568
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 4: Orange before whole Adnick, Yeah, they don't be knowing what

569
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 4: a blood one. Now.

570
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 2: Nabby's doing her big one is.

571
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 1: She has definitely helped elevate the show so much with

572
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: her presence. And I love you and we appreciate you,

573
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: and I hope that you reach all of your goals.

574
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 1: Thanks twenty five and hopefully we can support you in

575
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,879
Speaker 1: any way that we hear it. Y'all be years no

576
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: crazy together. So thank y'all for taking me on the

577
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: journey with you.

578
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 2: You ain't going nowhere. That's when we get our TV.

579
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 2: When we get our TV deal, is it gonna be.

580
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 4: Still gonna I'll be like, oh, can I come make drinks? Hell?

581
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: No, you can't. What can't? What else can't you? If

582
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: it be honest, if we're being honest, no you can't.

583
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 2: What's up? Y'all? Iss your girl x PE and it's

584
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 2: your girl draining the call. And we have a very

585
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 2: exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. Yes,

586
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 2: we have a brand.

587
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: New shout dropping y'all on Patreon. It's gonna air on

588
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 1: September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles. We're gonna be

589
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: doing so much stuff on there. We're gonna be doing challenges.

590
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: If you can't go to Bellache, where the hell could

591
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: you go?

592
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 2: If you can't go to Belloche, what the.

593
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 1: Hell we're gonna be doing? Talk to me, Chat with me.

594
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:56,959
Speaker 1: You're gonna be spelling at a little tea.

595
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 2: Oh my girl. Are you doing.

596
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: Everything y'all been wanting to see? We're gonna be doing

597
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: it right here on Patreon.

598
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 4: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been

599
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 4: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's

600
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 4: gonna be a time. Y'all know poor Minds has grown

601
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 4: into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a

602
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 4: lot of fun still over.

603
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 2: Here at poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September.

604
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 4: Second it's going down, says. I want to talk about

605
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 4: our favorite poor Minds moments this year. I want to

606
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 4: talk our favorite poor Minds moments. I want to talk

607
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 4: to the favorite poor Minds. Guess I wanna talk favorite

608
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 4: poor Minds anything?

609
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 2: You want to start? Who want to start? I started

610
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 2: last time.

611
00:29:53,880 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: My favorite poor Mind's moments this year when we had

612
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: t Pain on the show. That was amazing. That was

613
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: a full circle moment because we went on t Pain

614
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: Show in twenty twenty two. Yes, yes, So having him

615
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: come on Poor Minds was like a full circle moment obviously,

616
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: because I mean it's fucking t Pain, a legend, a legend,

617
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 1: like we grew up listening to him. He's amazing. He's

618
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: still putting out fire songs for our music. He had

619
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: that song with Glow Reala Like yeah.

620
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 2: So that was an amazing moment for me.

621
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Speaker 1: Also, I think the episode that we had with Queen

622
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: Leora was really good because I love that we've Like,

623
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: to me, it's just so amazing seeing all of these

624
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: young people become successful and rich from TikTok, Like it's amazing.

625
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: It's something that generations before us were not afforded those

626
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: same opportunities. So I love to see the younger people

627
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: like blowing up on TikTok and really getting too a bag.

628
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: And like she came on here, she had so much personality.

629
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: She was exactly the same way she was that she

630
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: is on TikTok. Yeah, Like, I loved it. I thought

631
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: it was an amazing episode. Who else was like another

632
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 1: favorite of mine from this year obviously Devel, Oh, oh

633
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: my god, Devel was like that was the most watched episode.

634
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I lie, But I'm talking about in

635
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 1: the amount of period, in the time period, like because

636
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: in podcast world they do the thirty day mark. Thirty

637
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: day mark, Devel was the most watched episode. Yeah, for sure,

638
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: for sure. So Devel was like, really dope. I feel

639
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: like it was very refreshing to have a man on

640
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: the show that's married, that speaks volumes and speaks very

641
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 1: highly of his wife. They're in a healthy, happy marriage

642
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: and have been married for like twenty years and have

643
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: four kids. Like, I just thought it was a really

644
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: dope episode to get, you know, a different perspective, because

645
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 1: I feel like, obviously me and you a lot of

646
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: the time have different perspectives, but it's always nice to

647
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: have a man on the show that has a different

648
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: perspective as well, and especially when it's married that's like

649
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: a family man. I really enjoyed the cash All episode

650
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 1: because we've been wanting cash it All on for a

651
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: long time. I love cash All. It was a really

652
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: great episode. She was super dope, super funny, everything I

653
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: thought she would be.

654
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 2: She was.

655
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it didn't surprise me now me either. She was

656
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 1: everything I thought she was gonna be. So I really

657
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Speaker 1: enjoyed that episode. And then I'm trying to think, what

658
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Speaker 1: did we have some other guests this here, but.

659
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Speaker 4: Talk about like a moment or a clip, like that's

660
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Speaker 4: what I said, you look you.

661
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Speaker 2: Were supposed to give.

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Speaker 1: I'm just well, no, I mean, I feel like I'm

663
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Speaker 1: just talking about my I mean, you could give clips.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about my favorite What was I don't know

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Speaker 1: because I can't think of it off the top of

666
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Speaker 1: my head, but those are my favorite guests that we had.

667
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Speaker 2: On those guests.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wish if I would have known we was

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Speaker 1: doing clips, I would have liked, you know, be in

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Speaker 1: my research.

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Speaker 2: I didn't think about clips either. Y'all have one either.

672
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 2: That's crazy because you just want me to get one.

673
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Speaker 2: I didn't know if you was thinking about one.

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Speaker 4: No, I know you got one clip you can think about,

675
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Speaker 4: do you know. I mean I'm gonna think you know, Okay,

676
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Speaker 4: I'll say this. My favorite clip, My favorite clip of

677
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Speaker 4: the year was when we was talking about the dicks

678
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Speaker 4: with fucking Glamazante and dick up. That was one of

679
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Speaker 4: my favorite clips.

680
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Speaker 5: I mean, if you were saying, females, you would want

681
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Speaker 5: the same d I'm boiling that dick.

682
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Speaker 2: Why was that your favorite? Because it was funny as hell.

683
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Speaker 4: It was funny as hell because Tay was so confused

684
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Speaker 4: because she was like.

685
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Speaker 2: No, I can get my dick's made. I said, hell, no,

686
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Speaker 2: boil that dick up. Bought that dick up.

687
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Speaker 4: That was a That was a good moment. That was

688
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 4: funny as fuck. That was a good moment as far

689
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Speaker 4: as clips go. Another clip, this is a clip that

690
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Speaker 4: I actually I don't like, but it's gonna be.

691
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Speaker 2: A classic clip that sticks with us for life. The

692
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Speaker 2: fifty thousand clip that's gonna stick with us for life.

693
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Speaker 4: That wasn't this that was taking fifty thousand dollars, don't date,

694
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Speaker 4: I'm just being for real. Yes, that whole February, that

695
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Speaker 4: was around February was That's.

696
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Speaker 2: The clip that's gonna stick with us for life. Unfortunately,

697
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Speaker 2: because when it's.

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Speaker 4: Some thousand dollars, Yeah, fifty thousand dollars clip, Yeah, that's

699
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Speaker 4: a that's a clip that's going to.

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Speaker 2: Stick with us, you know, for a long time.

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Speaker 1: I think for me, if we're talking about moments, like

702
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Speaker 1: a recent moment, I feel like the episode we did

703
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: with the Bell when we did karaoke like that was

704
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: like probably the best karaoke that.

705
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Speaker 2: We had in a long time, meeting in my bedroom. Yeah,

706
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Speaker 2: he was cutting meeting.

707
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Speaker 1: In my bedroom karaokey with the bell. That shit was

708
00:34:56,400 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: so fucking he was cutting up that shiit so fucking.

709
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 2: It was funny.

710
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,800
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie like, I had a great time

711
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 1: doing that.

712
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 4: Another one that I like is when we had Whiz

713
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Speaker 4: Khalifa on and people in the comments were just dying

714
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 4: because they was like, oh my god, I can't believe

715
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Speaker 4: you didn't know Whiz's name. You thought his name was

716
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Speaker 4: wized Fer. I didn't think his name. I was joking

717
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:25,439
Speaker 4: around but calling him Whistafer. That shit funny as fuck. Yeah,

718
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 4: So that was another moment because I was like a

719
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Speaker 4: Whiz stand like literally love Withiz.

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Speaker 2: So the fact that we had fucking with.

721
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 4: Khalif on the show, and then of course you know

722
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Speaker 4: now Home Team episode when Now was fire, it was

723
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 4: funny her usual love us something now do not miss you.

724
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Speaker 2: Mean, that's what's crazy.

725
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Speaker 3: Now.

726
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 4: I can have a conversation with anybody about anything, but

727
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Speaker 4: I will say my favorite guest of the year of course,

728
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,280
Speaker 4: like you know, the Tea Pains with everybody. I loved

729
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Speaker 4: everybody I loved.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it was.

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Speaker 4: I really loved g Amazon Tay episode. I was fine.

732
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Speaker 4: I really loved that episode.

733
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Speaker 2: I did.

734
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Speaker 4: Of course, I agree with you with Queen Lee, Aura,

735
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 4: and I do want to start tapping in more so

736
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 4: with the TikTokers and the people because we're in a

737
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 4: different world.

738
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Speaker 2: I mean, the TikTokers are on the same level with

739
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Speaker 2: the celebrities.

740
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Speaker 4: But what I will say about TikTok is like is

741
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 4: quick content. So I feel like, and this is I'm

742
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 4: not being shady because TikTok is hard. That's why I'm

743
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 4: not a TikToker. That's why I can scroll and watch y'all.

744
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 4: But we're in the long form content. They got to

745
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 4: make short form content. And I feel like I necessarily

746
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 4: can't be funny in a minute, but I can be

747
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 4: funny once you know, you hear and were talking and

748
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 4: we vibbing. So we're in two different worlds, so I

749
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 4: feel like it's different, but I like when we collide.

750
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Speaker 2: I like it. Yeah, I agree.

751
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Speaker 1: I feel like we did a lot of really good

752
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Speaker 1: solo episodes.

753
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 2: Oh solo episodes.

754
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Speaker 1: The solo episodes are really funny. The Thanksgiving episode was hilarious.

755
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 4: The Thanksgiving episode was people still talking to me about

756
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 4: that fucking green bean casserole.

757
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 2: You didn't talk about that, just so you know the

758
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 2: past three and I'm not gonna stop until y'all try.

759
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: I would like for you to stop, because nobody want

760
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 1: to eat this shit. I don't care how advertizing.

761
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not gonna eat it.

762
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,280
Speaker 4: Since we talked about Thanksgiving, because we recorded that Dram

763
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 4: made some green beans for Thanksgiving.

764
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 2: Moses not cast role. No, it wasn't cast but it

765
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 2: was green beans. It was good. You had the meeting.

766
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Speaker 2: Now the potato meat.

767
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 4: It wasn't a meeting. Now, maybe it wasn't. I would

768
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 4: it had some potatoes in there though.

769
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 2: It was potatoes in there.

770
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I be really cook cooking for the kitchen giving Big.

771
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Speaker 2: Mama on he he had made some pomegran i to.

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Speaker 1: Toot my own horn, but tokik.

773
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Speaker 4: He had made some pomegranate lamb chops. What Tiffany had

774
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 4: made some jerk chicken.

775
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 2: He also made some sweet potato corn breage. That's what

776
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Speaker 2: she made.

777
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: A sweet potato cheesecake. She made a regular sleep potato pie.

778
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Speaker 1: Can he be cooking cooking for? She made some greens

779
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 1: with turk all them brees was fire. And then you

780
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 1: had made mac and cheese. Mac and cheese was bussy.

781
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: You know what cheese was.

782
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

783
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 4: Look Kiki friend he was he had my mac and

784
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 4: cheese was so good.

785
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 2: He d m me the next day he said, what

786
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 2: is going on with it?

787
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 1: He said, it's the best mac and cheese I ever

788
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 1: had in my life.

789
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 4: And I said, I know you lying because I know

790
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 4: Kiki mac and cheese better than mine.

791
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 2: But I will say, I mean yours.

792
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 4: Up there, my mac and cheese. But it's like I

793
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 4: don't I do. I can't cook.

794
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 2: I just I'm picky when I cook. That's it.

795
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 5: But I know what I'm doing in that kitchen. Now

796
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 5: you did that though, what they making cheese. I ain't

797
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 5: gonna lie.

798
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: The next day, I had took you a big ass

799
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,879
Speaker 1: school and I was tearing it down.

800
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 4: But I'm gonna give it to you when it's fresh

801
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 4: out THEU and next time you need to.

802
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 2: I'm ready.

803
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: But it was good. Like the Thanksgiving meal we did that,

804
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 1: we ate that.

805
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 2: Well, it's time for us to have a Thanksgiving party.

806
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: We only need us to, we really do because it's

807
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: don't go down. I think for I don't know what

808
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: I'm going home for Christmas, but maybe for New Year's.

809
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: I was thinking about maybe having a New Year's party

810
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: in my house again because that was fun.

811
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 2: That's the same thing Tiffany said. Can I feel like

812
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 2: we have maybe.

813
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: Possibly have another New Year's party at my house? We gonna,

814
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 1: but I think we should contribute more. I feel like

815
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: last time, like you cooked everything and we did a

816
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: talk all night and then we kind of showed up

817
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 1: and everything was then. I think we should all contribute

818
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Speaker 1: a little more.

819
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're doing that.

820
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: Because it ain't because being outside just ain't the more

821
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: to me.

822
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 2: I'm too old.

823
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 4: Now, Before we get to the topics, Ty, what was

824
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 4: your favorite Poor Mind's moments this year?

825
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: Hands down, Ta Pain, Cash, y'all and Wiz and Eric Bellinger.

826
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: He gave us tickets to the concert. Yes, that was

827
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: super dope. And then really just like I like the

828
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 1: solo episode. I felt like I participated a little bit more.

829
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: People are getting to know me. The my ties out there,

830
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Speaker 1: Oh my time, that's so cute.

831
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Speaker 2: I didn't know about this because I'm my top president.

832
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Speaker 2: I love tie. Come on, like, that's really cute to do.

833
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Speaker 2: You know what you need to do. You need to

834
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Speaker 2: get on TikTok and make your drinks and.

835
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Speaker 1: Just you will take so much.

836
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Speaker 2: But that is it. Yeah, we got my guys, what cute.

837
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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: I shook as fun because I'm like when we start

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Speaker 4: our personal youtubes, like what are your what are they

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Speaker 4: are they? What are Drea's fans called her supporters? We'll

842
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Speaker 4: think about it, We'll come.

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Speaker 2: Back because I don't know what I'm calling them either.

844
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Speaker 2: I don't know. Girls. We gotta we gotta think of

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Speaker 2: something everybody has to have, like a tools, Dre tools,

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Speaker 2: What does that mean? Like you know like me too.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna we're gonna reuse it. We're gonna y'all it

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00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 4: Because we're keeping on the topic of the New Year's

877
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 4: do you feel like vision boards or a scam or

878
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 4: do they really work. Think about your vision board last

879
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,399
Speaker 4: year or the year before, Like, do vision boards work?

880
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 4: Like do you feel I think anything works as much

881
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 4: as you put the effort in, as much as you

882
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 4: put the work in. Yeah, you can't just write some

883
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,439
Speaker 4: shit on the fucking board and think, oh, I wrote

884
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 4: he's on the board, So this is gonna happen in.

885
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty five, it's gonna be my year. Yeah. No,

886
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: I think anything works as much as you put the

887
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 1: work in. So with a vision board, it's like you

888
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: could sit down and you could write out everything that

889
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: you want to do this year, everything that you want

890
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 1: to accomplish. But if you don't have an actual real

891
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: plan come on set in place to make these goals happening,

892
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: to accomplish these things, it's just words on a paper.

893
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 1: It's just words on a board. Like what does that matter?

894
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think that you have to put the

895
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 1: work in. And I think that a lot of people

896
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: just be writing shit down and they just be like, Yeah,

897
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: I'm manifesting this, manifesting about it.

898
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 4: Talk about manifesting because I know you can go this,

899
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 4: talk about it.

900
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm a manifestor myself, I'm a manifestor but

901
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: I feel like I also put the work in to

902
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 1: get the things that I really want. I don't just

903
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: sit around like hoping and crossing my fingers that oh,

904
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: this is gonna happen for me. Like, no, you have

905
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 1: to have a real plan of action, and then if

906
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 1: that plan of action don't work, you should have a

907
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: plan B. People don't be having plan bs. They be

908
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 1: feeling like, oh, I only got a Plan A, and

909
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: if Plan A don't work, then I don't know what

910
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do, And then Plan A don't work and

911
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: you don't know what you're gonna do. So you need

912
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 1: to have plans. You need to write down plans. You

913
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: can't just have a goal with no plan agreed. There

914
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 1: needs to be steps that's gonna be taken to get

915
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,399
Speaker 1: you to what you're trying to do. And yeah, something

916
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: might end up happening, a miracle might happen, and some

917
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 1: shit might just come out of thin air and it

918
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: be the opportunity that she was looking for, because that

919
00:44:56,000 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 1: does happen. But in the meantime, in between time, you

920
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:01,240
Speaker 1: need to have a plan.

921
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 4: But I also think you have to be prepared for

922
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 4: that opportunity. If an opportunity comes, you gotta be ready

923
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 4: because yeah, and I know we talked about this all

924
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 4: the time, but like when Carlos invited us on eighty five,

925
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 4: we were prepared.

926
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:17,280
Speaker 2: We were a package.

927
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 4: Me Andrea already knew how to sit in front of

928
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 4: mics and talk and spit that shit and be funny together.

929
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 4: So I think you have to be prepared for opportunities

930
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:26,240
Speaker 4: as well.

931
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 2: So, like she said, just have a plan.

932
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 4: Poor minds was poor minds before you know eighty five

933
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 4: came along. They elevated us, of course, but you have

934
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,280
Speaker 4: we had a plan of action if they didn't come along,

935
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 4: like we knew, We knew what we wanted to do

936
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 4: and what we were trying to get to and how

937
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 4: we were going to get there.

938
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, like vision boards can work, they can't,

939
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: but it's just a vision.

940
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just a vision.

941
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 1: Must inspiration to get those juices fun and get you

942
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: motivated to execute. And let me tell a lot of

943
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,879
Speaker 1: people is because I used to be and I love

944
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: ex Twitter whatever you call it. You are not gonna

945
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,239
Speaker 1: tweet your way into an opportunity.

946
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 2: You're not. I don't know who needs to hear this.

947
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 2: I don't care how fucking mini retweets you get.

948
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 4: Twitter is the app that's down here, especially since Elon

949
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 4: took it over. You're not gonna make nothing from Twitter.

950
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 4: So y'all be tweeting all day. I'm still creative.

951
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 2: I'm I'm stop.

952
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 4: I'm so that put some fucking content out. Record yourself,

953
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 4: let your nuts hang, y'all so scary. I realized that

954
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 4: after a while. I used to be on Twitter all

955
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,319
Speaker 4: day every day, and I'm like, what am I gonna do?

956
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 4: I had to prop that fucking camera up. You're not

957
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 4: gonna tweet your way into an opportunity. That is the

958
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 4: worst app to think that you're gonna get somewhere off

959
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 4: of and I and this is coming from somebody.

960
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:51,920
Speaker 2: That was the app that.

961
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 4: I use the most, bless you, that was the app

962
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 4: I use the most out of Instagram. Faith, it's people

963
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 4: who are millionaires off of Facebook.

964
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: Y'all be on what are laughing at Facebook? People?

965
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 4: They are millionaires off Facebook. I just started my Facebook.

966
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 4: I got like eight hundred followers on there, so y'all

967
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:11,319
Speaker 4: go follow me. But people have millions of following them.

968
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:14,879
Speaker 4: They be making money. Yeah, you make money on every app.

969
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 4: The money that you make on slapchat, snapchat.

970
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 1: It's consistency. It's the consistency that matter. Also, were speaking

971
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 1: of like these apps or whatever. I said, we were

972
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,879
Speaker 1: going to talk about that TikTok. So do y'all think

973
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 1: that they're really gonna shut TikTok down for real? On

974
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: January nineteenth this year? You do a wall?

975
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:43,919
Speaker 2: Oh wow? For real?

976
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 4: So y'all can't hear him, but he said they're removing

977
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 4: the watermarks so y'all can download the videos and move

978
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 4: on to wherever you want them to be.

979
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 2: Now they've been saying that. Let me say I agree

980
00:47:59,360 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 2: with a wall.

981
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 4: I I thought I was finna This is me back

982
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 4: in the day, y'all. I thought I was finna be

983
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 4: a Vine star because I saw all these unfunny people

984
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 4: doing Vine's. Then I saw Vine shut down. I never

985
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,839
Speaker 4: thought I would see Vine shut down, y'all have it

986
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 4: was people on there, they were super stars and I'm

987
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,799
Speaker 4: not being dramatic, and I saw it shut down. Now,

988
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 4: TikTok is on another level than Vine was.

989
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:30,240
Speaker 2: But Vine was huge.

990
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 4: If but if Vine can shut down, it's very fucking possible.

991
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 4: That's why I said, for us, for me, like and YouTube,

992
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:45,439
Speaker 4: it's cool too. But I'm like, what else because if

993
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,879
Speaker 4: YouTube shut down tomorrow, it's you know what I'm saying,

994
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 4: how are people going to reach us?

995
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,359
Speaker 2: Now? Good thing? Eighty five smart? No, because we y'all

996
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 2: got the I don't know.

997
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 4: Because bitch, we're finna be on eighty five app too.

998
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 2: We're gonna figure something out or we got the formula.

999
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 2: But I want say that's what it is scary.

1000
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 1: No, it is, it is, And that's why I'm grateful

1001
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: that we have, you know, an audience on multiple platforms.

1002
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 1: So like cause we do have a pretty large following

1003
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: on TikTok. I mean, we have like over three hundred

1004
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: thousand followers on TikTok right now and it's growing every day.

1005
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: But if TikTok does shut down, we also have a

1006
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: large following on Instagram.

1007
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 2: We also have a large YouTube following.

1008
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: We also have large personal followings on Instagram, So.

1009
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:37,080
Speaker 2: It's not as bad.

1010
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: That's the part that just kind of like concerns me

1011
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:44,319
Speaker 1: for the people on TikTok who have like millions of

1012
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: followers and then they don't have a fan base on

1013
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: any of these other apps. Be cause, like even on Facebook,

1014
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:50,800
Speaker 1: I think we got like a hundred and something.

1015
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 2: Oh, we I think we had like for real maybe.

1016
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's like we have followers on other apps.

1017
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: I be concerned about the influencers that are mainly on TikTok.

1018
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 2: That's where they make their money. What are they gonna do?

1019
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 1: Because if you ever noticed, it's a lot of these

1020
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: people who have like two million followers on TikTok, and

1021
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: then you go look at the Instagram page they be

1022
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: having like one hundred thousand followers, fifty thousand followers if

1023
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 1: they so, it's like, and I know, if you got

1024
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: two million followers on TikTok, you clearing probably like seven thousand,

1025
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 1: eight thousand at the least minimum.

1026
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 2: If your videos are getting more, If.

1027
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 1: Your videos, if your videos are getting washing and you're

1028
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: making a mini at the lead, that's what you're making,

1029
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:39,760
Speaker 1: how are you gonna supplement that income?

1030
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 2: If TikTok gets shut down.

1031
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,280
Speaker 1: They can't just convert them like try to get their audience.

1032
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 1: It's hard, very hard these days on Instagram. It's so

1033
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: hard to get people to follow you like it was

1034
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: so easy back in the day. Because I've been having

1035
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 1: a lot of followers on Instagram for a long time.

1036
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 2: But these days.

1037
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 1: It's just it'll take me thirty days to gain like

1038
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: ten thousand followers on Instagram these days, back in the day,

1039
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:10,760
Speaker 1: I'll ask you can.

1040
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 4: Look it up, because I feel like my like, my

1041
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 4: Instagram has been growing.

1042
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. I always compare my Instagram to poor.

1043
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 4: Minds because obviously I used to have way more followers

1044
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 4: than poor minds. Poor Minds surpassed me at one point.

1045
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 4: Then I surpassed poor Minds, but now poor Minds has

1046
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 4: surpassed me again. Yeah, so let me look.

1047
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:33,400
Speaker 2: At my insights.

1048
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 4: So total followers, So from December eleven to December seventeenth,

1049
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 4: that's the past seven day. Oh, should we do thirty

1050
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 4: days thirty okay, I'll do thirty days update.

1051
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 2: Okay, So for the past.

1052
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 4: Thirty days overall, I've gotten eight thousand followers in thirty days. Right,

1053
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:56,879
Speaker 4: that's a total of fourteen thousand follows, and I've had

1054
00:51:56,960 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 4: six thousand unfollows. But so TikTok, I don't post on TikTok.

1055
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,320
Speaker 4: Every time I log in on TikTok, I've got one hundred.

1056
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,919
Speaker 4: I get one hundred followers a day, sang a day

1057
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 4: because the way, I don't know why, I don't know

1058
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 4: how they set up that algorithm. So when me and

1059
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 4: Drea started coming up in the YouTube Instagram world, it

1060
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,760
Speaker 4: was hard. Now on TikTok, you can tell a story

1061
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 4: about how your drink was nasty and you just gotta

1062
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 4: go like this. But oh my god, that's so funny

1063
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,840
Speaker 4: and this is no shade, no tea to TikTokers. But

1064
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 4: the TikTok algorithm is different. So I hate that. I

1065
00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 4: hate that because some people are actually talented. But that's

1066
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 4: why people like Jackie. I ain't a I can't pronounce

1067
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:43,959
Speaker 4: her new last name, but that's why she's been able

1068
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:47,799
Speaker 4: to go pay. Jackie's gonna be fine because she can

1069
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 4: make long foreign content. She knows how to navigate, so

1070
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 4: it's gonna be very interesting to see. If I don't

1071
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 4: want the app to shut down, I'm trying to be

1072
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 4: a TikToker.

1073
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, we've been gaining a lot of followers

1074
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 1: on our personal siss we both almost at like fifty

1075
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 1: k followers.

1076
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 4: I'm trying to TikTok. I can TikTok. If I can

1077
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 4: do this for an hour, I can TikTok, bitch. You

1078
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,840
Speaker 4: can TikTok, bitch, you know.

1079
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 1: I don't really know if I be wanting to be

1080
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:21,759
Speaker 1: a TikToker, though.

1081
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 4: I want to be a TikToker. I want to clean

1082
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 4: up before they get out.

1083
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: It's about to be out, though, I don't know how

1084
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 1: much you can clean up. I don't know how much

1085
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 1: you can clean up in a few more weeks, one month,

1086
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 1: literally to the day, I need to clean up, that's what.

1087
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 2: But you was right, get on all that apps.

1088
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: I think it's important to utilize all the apps and

1089
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 1: be posting consistently on all the apps because you never know.

1090
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,080
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1091
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: anything could get shut down.

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Speaker 2: Vine was my shit.

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Speaker 2: Was that it's just nice no no more. But yeah, okay,

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1115
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 1: glad you brought this one on.

1116
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 2: Twenty twenty five or period.

1117
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:21,600
Speaker 1: How do y'all feel about friendship demotion? You asking me first?

1118
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 1: I don't really know if I feel like friendship demotion

1119
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 1: is a real thing to me, because like, get rid

1120
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: of the beach, throw her away?

1121
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 2: Hello, what the fuck you waiting on? Why am I

1122
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 2: demoting you? Why are you waiting till the news?

1123
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 1: And then why am I waiting at twenty twenty five?

1124
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:39,439
Speaker 2: Bitch?

1125
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: You could go today? What's today? The eighteenth. You can

1126
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 1: go today.

1127
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 2: You've been demoted.

1128
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 4: Hey, this is what I have to say. Sometimes people

1129
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,280
Speaker 4: are not meant to be in your life. And that's okay.

1130
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 4: It's because I'm not gonna lie. I've had situations where

1131
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 4: I feel like, you know what, this person hurt my feelings,

1132
00:55:58,280 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 4: but I want to talk to her because I know

1133
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 4: she didn't mean to hurt my feelings, so I'm gonna

1134
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:04,360
Speaker 4: talk to her about it. But when I felt like

1135
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 4: I have to demote you, it's no demotion, it's no talk.

1136
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,919
Speaker 4: I'm just not talking to you no more. It ain't

1137
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:14,720
Speaker 4: no process, this ain't no job. Be a good person

1138
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 4: or don't.

1139
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 1: I think the emotion is one of those things where

1140
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 1: like I think people some people because me, I get

1141
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 1: rid of my family too, But some people demote their

1142
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: family members because they be feeling like, oh, this is

1143
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 1: my family. So I'm just well, you know, as matter

1144
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 1: of fact, I could actually speak on that because I

1145
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 1: do have a family member. They're like, I'm yeah, yeah,

1146
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 1: I used to be way closer to them back in

1147
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: the day than I am now, and we're just not

1148
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,320
Speaker 1: as close anymore because I feel like as we've gotten older,

1149
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: our interests have not aligned. We're misaligned. We just don't

1150
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:58,360
Speaker 1: care or value the same things. We don't see a

1151
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 1: lot of shit the same way. They actually called me

1152
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,440
Speaker 1: earlier this year about the election and pieced to me.

1153
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 2: To fuck off.

1154
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 1: That was both for or what they were advising me

1155
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:11,399
Speaker 1: or wanting me to do. So I'm just like, yeah,

1156
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 1: this is why I don't be fooling with you.

1157
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 2: Like that no more.

1158
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: So. I guess in some situations, I get in the

1159
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 1: emotion because at the end of the day, I still

1160
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: love the person, but it's just like, I just don't

1161
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 1: fuck with you like that. Like you, but you are real.

1162
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 4: That's how I know you from Texas because what's Slim said,

1163
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 4: if you don't fuck with me, don't fuck with me.

1164
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 1: It's not confusing. It ain't it's not confusing. It's not confusing.

1165
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:41,360
Speaker 1: It's either we cool or we not. And I think

1166
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm very much the type of person like if you've

1167
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 1: been the motive be, you're gonna know if we're not

1168
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: cool no more, you're gonna know.

1169
00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 4: I'm not New Year to do nothing, bro, I'm not

1170
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 4: waiting to the New Year to do nothing.

1171
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 2: Now. I do believe new Year.

1172
00:57:56,080 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 4: Fresh start, So I feel like if not for you, though, yeah,

1173
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 4: not for these friends, not for you. That's what I'm saying.

1174
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 4: A friend, and I consider friend's family because I don't

1175
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 4: have a lot of family. So if I demote you

1176
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 4: as a friend, especially for me, you have to then

1177
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 4: did some messed up. I forgive everybody for everything, so

1178
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:25,439
Speaker 4: I feel like demotions shouldn't wait. Don't wait till twenty

1179
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 4: twenty five to demote somebody. This is somebody who's in

1180
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 4: your personal space. And I think that's weird because if

1181
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 4: you're applotting to demote somebody, you're no better than them

1182
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 4: because you're like haha and janeyel ray raw one whole

1183
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 4: ad nigga, you're fucking out of here.

1184
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 2: Will you want to have your moment? You think you

1185
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 2: finna do your big one because you can go now

1186
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 2: the door is open. I just I don't be having

1187
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 2: time for that type of sheep.

1188
00:58:56,480 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 1: I don't think about you though, you can get the

1189
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 1: fuck anything.

1190
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 4: It could be your birthday, bitch, You're gonna be like,

1191
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:08,080
Speaker 4: happy birthday, bitch.

1192
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 2: Fuck you don't come and don't come back.

1193
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 1: Bench you given a little too much credit to think

1194
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 1: I would even say happy birthday, like michy'all cut you

1195
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: off your birthday and not even say happy birthday. Facts

1196
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 1: like no, I don't give a fuck like cause I don't.

1197
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 1: I am very much a person. Me and my best

1198
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 1: friend was having a conversation about this the other day,

1199
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 1: and I think that's why me and her are just

1200
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 1: so locked in, because we just get each other. By

1201
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:38,959
Speaker 1: the way, my best friend, I think I said this before,

1202
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:42,920
Speaker 1: she has said to serious, but she was just like,

1203
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: I just don't feel like nobody owe me nothing. I

1204
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:52,680
Speaker 1: think that's like the biggest blessing for me as a

1205
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 1: person that I've came to the realization don't nobody owe

1206
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: me nothing. But the beautiful epiphany about that is that

1207
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,520
Speaker 1: I also don't I owe you shit either. I don't

1208
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 1: owe nobody nothing. Because she was talking about how she

1209
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 1: used to talk to this guy because I'm not gonna lie.

1210
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 1: My best friend is terrible at like responding to people.

1211
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 2: She is. I text her happy birthday. She didn't take

1212
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 2: that for like six hours. Yeah, I mean that's how

1213
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 2: she I said.

1214
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 1: And she don't mean no harm by it. That's just

1215
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: how she is. A lot of times she'd be having

1216
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 1: her phone on do not disturbing stuff. So she was

1217
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 1: just like, I was talking to this guy and we

1218
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 1: had only been talking for like a few weeks, and

1219
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: he was just like, you be taking too long to

1220
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: text me back? And she was like, do I owe

1221
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 1: you to like text you back within an hour or so?

1222
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 2: Like what have you done?

1223
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 1: What have you done to be that priority status in

1224
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 1: my life to where I have to say something to

1225
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 1: you within a few hours, Like if I'm busy, I'm busy.

1226
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I owe you that. She was like,

1227
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:56,959
Speaker 1: I just but I just don't feel like people owe

1228
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 1: people anything, so and.

1229
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 2: I would have to agree.

1230
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 4: So let me ask you this, though, what does somebody

1231
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 4: have to do to feel like you owe them? Is

1232
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 4: there anything a person can do to feel like, Okay,

1233
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 4: they should answer on time or they should do does anybody.

1234
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 2: Owe you that?

1235
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 1: Well, from what she said to me, she said she

1236
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 1: felt like her and this person had never had a

1237
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: conversation about actually really like trying to date each other.

1238
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 1: Like we're talking, we're communicating, we're texting, but we haven't

1239
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 1: had an actual conversation about like this is what we're doing.

1240
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 1: We really trying to like go to the next step,

1241
01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 1: go to the next level. So I guess in her opinion,

1242
01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: she felt like we're not exclusively dating. I don't owe

1243
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: you anything, But.

1244
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 4: I'm asking you, though, what do you feel because you

1245
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 4: said you feel the same way.

1246
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 2: I don't owe people nothing.

1247
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 4: Oh but a person that you feel like I owe

1248
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 4: them to answer this phone call, to respond to them,

1249
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 4: to show up for them.

1250
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:55,440
Speaker 2: What does that look like?

1251
01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 1: I just feel like if I'm really completely being honest,

1252
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: which I know is gonna piece some people off, but

1253
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: I feel like I truly feel like it's to your disgrace.

1254
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 1: I don't feel like you really owe anybody anything. I

1255
01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:14,960
Speaker 1: think a lot of people's number one problem is like

1256
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 1: talking and responding and going out of their way to

1257
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 1: do things when they don't feel like it. Like sometimes

1258
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 1: you be having a mental fucking breakdown.

1259
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 2: Sometimes you're not in the capacity to talk.

1260
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't want to sit on the phone for

1261
01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:30,400
Speaker 1: two hours and have a conversation with somebody about some

1262
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 1: street that you don't care about. And I think it's

1263
01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 1: okay to not want to do that. It's fine now,

1264
01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 1: depending on the type of person that you are, maybe

1265
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:40,760
Speaker 1: you want to give the person a courtesy text and

1266
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:42,040
Speaker 1: be like, hey girl, I'm not.

1267
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 2: In the mood.

1268
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:46,120
Speaker 1: Or I don't have the capacity to have this conversation

1269
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 1: with you today. But I think some people just don't.

1270
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,919
Speaker 1: And I think my best friend is one of those people.

1271
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:52,600
Speaker 1: I think sometimes I could be one of those people.

1272
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 1: I don't be necessarily feeling like I owe a person

1273
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 1: a courtesy text if I'm fucking having a bad day, yeah,

1274
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: because you might be having a bad day too, And

1275
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 1: now you and you calling me to talk to me

1276
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 1: about your bad day.

1277
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 2: But I'm having a bad day too. But that's why

1278
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 2: I say.

1279
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,479
Speaker 4: I always when I'm having a bad day, I say, hey,

1280
01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 4: can you talk?

1281
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 2: What's up?

1282
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 4: But also I had a bad mental breakdown the other week.

1283
01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 4: I had to text everybody. I text you, I text

1284
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 4: my sister. Yeah, I killer, I text Lauren. I said, hey,

1285
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 4: I'm okay, please just leave me alone like I'm going

1286
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 4: through it because I don't feel like I owe y'all that.

1287
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 4: But I just feel like, let me communicate because.

1288
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 1: And I called you, you're speaking me.

1289
01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 4: Because I was like, I told you, don't call me.

1290
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 4: She said, that's why I said, Hey, I said, and

1291
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 4: I'm sorry for being me.

1292
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:49,560
Speaker 1: No, you don't apologize because the thing about me I

1293
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 1: don't apologize to people for not answering the phone. I

1294
01:03:52,520 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 1: sometimes I just don't answer the phone. I just don't

1295
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: feel like talking. And then when I call you the

1296
01:03:57,440 --> 01:03:59,160
Speaker 1: next day, I'm not gonna be like, oh, girl, I'm

1297
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 1: sorry for not insermay, like no, now we can what's up?

1298
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:06,960
Speaker 1: We can resume because I'm having a better day. Like,

1299
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: but I think people people have too much entitlement these days.

1300
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 1: That's what me and my best friend were talking about.

1301
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 1: People have way too much entitlement to your time. You

1302
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: don't owe nobody's shit. I don't all nobody.

1303
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 4: People because they gonna they gonna hear this and they

1304
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 4: gonna feel some type of way. But it's the truth.

1305
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 4: I don't stop and everything is revolving around you. Sometimes

1306
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:32,320
Speaker 4: somebody not talking to you has nothing to do with you.

1307
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 1: And that's why it'd be so funny to me when like,

1308
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 1: cause I have like I feel like sometimes my men will.

1309
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,720
Speaker 2: Say I feel like, oh, the world revolve around me.

1310
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: But the thing about me is when I don't talk

1311
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: to people, or when people don't inswer my phone calls,

1312
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 1: I really don't give a FuG like it just be like, Okay,

1313
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 1: you having a bad day, cool. I don't really take

1314
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 1: shit like that personally. I really don't just be like

1315
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 1: all right, cool.

1316
01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 4: I don't either, Like if I somebody we're talking, i'll

1317
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 4: text you. I'll be like, he bitch, I called you.

1318
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 4: I'll be like, call me back. That's my text. Now

1319
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 4: what thing about you that is you?

1320
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1321
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: No, if if you don't answer my phone calls, I

1322
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 1: don't be like, call me back.

1323
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 4: Well, sometimes I don't know, but people I don't know

1324
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:16,439
Speaker 4: if people are seen or not. So I'll just send

1325
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:19,040
Speaker 4: a text. So cause sometimes calls don't go through this,

1326
01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:21,480
Speaker 4: so it's not like no bothering you. I just be like, hey,

1327
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 4: call me back so you can just see it, you know,

1328
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:25,920
Speaker 4: and don't be like, oh my god. And then if

1329
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 4: I text that and it's say deliver, I know you

1330
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 4: got it. So you're gonna call me back whenever you can.

1331
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 4: I just do that because I know how I am.

1332
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 4: Because sometimes I don't see the phone call or now

1333
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 4: maybe I'll be on my laptop and I'll see the

1334
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 4: coming back. I'm like, oh shit, let me call her

1335
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 4: back or let me say, you know, let her know,

1336
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 4: so I'll call.

1337
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 2: I'll shoot a text, call me back.

1338
01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 4: But thinking like oh my god, they're mad at me,

1339
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 4: Oh my god, or oh my god, I need to

1340
01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 4: talk to them, or oh what's going on. It's like, bro,

1341
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 4: nobody owe you a conversation.

1342
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:57,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I don't feel like that.

1343
01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 1: I mean I definitely feel like I do be like

1344
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:02,439
Speaker 1: the world revolve around me. I feel like everybody world

1345
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 1: should revolve around them. It's it's just my life.

1346
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 2: Like it's me.

1347
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 1: My world should revolve around me.

1348
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 2: Like who else is it supposed to revolve around.

1349
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, if people don't

1350
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: call me back in the timely men, or if they

1351
01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 1: don't take me back unless it's something important, if it's

1352
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 1: about business, or if it's about something like an emergency,

1353
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:26,440
Speaker 1: then yeah, you need to call me back. But like,

1354
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:29,040
Speaker 1: if it's just about some bullshet and you don't want

1355
01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: to talk to me today, I don't be.

1356
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 4: I don't Twenty twenty five is about self I don't

1357
01:06:33,680 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 4: care being selfish, Yes, be selfish, self care.

1358
01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 2: Take like this in nineteen ninety one.

1359
01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 4: Oh and you know me, babe, I don't even fuck

1360
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 4: about nothing. If I don't want to do something, I'm

1361
01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 4: not coming. I'm not showing up. I'm not giving it.

1362
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:53,440
Speaker 4: Leave me on, leave me the fuck alone, please.

1363
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's a little different though, let me one

1364
01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 1: that's a little different and not answering the phone call.

1365
01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 1: Not answering a phone call and not wanting to do

1366
01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 1: she is two different things.

1367
01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, sometimes I don't want to go,

1368
01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 4: but sometimes you need to go. But I'm talking about

1369
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 4: like we're not talking about like stuff like that, but like,

1370
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 4: but honestly, I feel like I'm starting to learn better though,

1371
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:22,959
Speaker 4: how to navigate with like my mental health things, because

1372
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:25,439
Speaker 4: I used to be like, oh fuck everybody, fuck everything.

1373
01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 2: La da da.

1374
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:28,440
Speaker 4: So I think now I'm being better with it, you

1375
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:30,400
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. But definitely in the past, I

1376
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 4: used to be like, oh fuck, everybody doesn't matter. But

1377
01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 4: what I've learned is my issues aren't everybody else's issues.

1378
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:39,800
Speaker 4: So that's another thing too. I feel like you can

1379
01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:41,960
Speaker 4: be like, Okay, fuck you and this, but sometimes you

1380
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 4: do have to show up and you do have to

1381
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 4: do certain things. So it's a balance.

1382
01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:49,400
Speaker 1: Well yeah, because I feel like you have to this

1383
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:52,120
Speaker 1: is this has always been my thing. I think it's

1384
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 1: important to prioritize yourself and your own mental health and

1385
01:07:56,080 --> 01:07:56,840
Speaker 1: mental illness.

1386
01:07:56,960 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 2: But you should never make people around you.

1387
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:01,520
Speaker 1: Feel like, oh, if I'm going through something, it's fuck you,

1388
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: because it's not fuck you. It's just I need some

1389
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:10,000
Speaker 1: time to myself. But then I think some people make

1390
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 1: people feel like, oh, well, if I'm going through something,

1391
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 1: it's fuck everybody.

1392
01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 2: Well that's wrong. Yeah, I agree now that I can.

1393
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 1: That's wrong because those gonna be the same people that

1394
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:24,600
Speaker 1: you need, that you're gonna need at some point, you

1395
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And it's like you done told

1396
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:28,080
Speaker 1: them fuck them, or you don't bet onf some fuck

1397
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 1: you type cheet now you need six months from now,

1398
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 1: a year from that, right, you just have to.

1399
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:37,559
Speaker 4: Be But I think that's where communication comes in. That's

1400
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 4: where communication comes in because sometimes people will act a

1401
01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 4: certain way and you don't know why. That's why I

1402
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:46,599
Speaker 4: say it's easier to say, hey, i'm clocked out right now,

1403
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:47,679
Speaker 4: I'm not doing well.

1404
01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:49,880
Speaker 2: Say that so.

1405
01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:53,160
Speaker 4: People don't be like, oh, and then now you gotta

1406
01:08:53,200 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 4: come back and explain, Oh, it wasn't fuck you. I

1407
01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 4: wasn't being me, Nah, bitch, you should have just said, hey,

1408
01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:00,960
Speaker 4: I'm going through something. You don't gotta talk to me

1409
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:03,639
Speaker 4: on the phone for three hours, just say hey, I'm

1410
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 4: not good right now. I gotta do what's best for

1411
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:09,599
Speaker 4: me and just say that we gotta work. And that's

1412
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:12,519
Speaker 4: another thing for twenty twenty five. We gotta work on

1413
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:14,960
Speaker 4: the girls gotta and the guys communication.

1414
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:18,679
Speaker 2: Say what you mean and mean what you're safe. Yeah,

1415
01:09:19,320 --> 01:09:20,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know.

1416
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 1: I think I talked about this before on the show,

1417
01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 1: and some people are gonna agree and some people are

1418
01:09:25,360 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 1: gonna disagree. But I think sometimes people just have to

1419
01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 1: be friends with people that they align with and people

1420
01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:35,320
Speaker 1: don't understand them. I think again, going back to me

1421
01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 1: and my best friend, one of the main reasons that

1422
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 1: I feel like we get along so great is.

1423
01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:41,519
Speaker 2: Because we understand each other. Yep.

1424
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:44,120
Speaker 1: When we first became friends, it was certain shit she

1425
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 1: used to do.

1426
01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 2: They used to.

1427
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:48,600
Speaker 1: Rub me the wrong way, like to tell her and

1428
01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 1: I'll be like, this be ribbing me the wrong way

1429
01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 1: that she be doing it, and she was like this

1430
01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:56,200
Speaker 1: be ribbing me the wrong way that she be doing

1431
01:09:56,280 --> 01:09:59,600
Speaker 1: these And we've both made conscious differences to not do

1432
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 1: certain and she anymore. But then when it's times because

1433
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:06,479
Speaker 1: I know too that sometimes she suffered from anxiety and stuff.

1434
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:09,639
Speaker 1: It's not about me if you didn't answer the phone.

1435
01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 1: But then because we share locations with each other, if

1436
01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:13,960
Speaker 1: you didn't answer the phone, but I see you at

1437
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:16,679
Speaker 1: your apartment, so I know, you know, probably not doing anything.

1438
01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 1: It's fine because it's not personal. But I think that

1439
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 1: goes into friendship styles and being friends with people. You

1440
01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 1: have to be friends with people that are like minded

1441
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 1: like you. Some people be friends with needy ass people

1442
01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:34,599
Speaker 1: and you not a needy ass person that goes.

1443
01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:37,600
Speaker 2: Remember that, Remember that conversation we had. We were talking about.

1444
01:10:38,800 --> 01:10:43,559
Speaker 4: Anxious attachments and different type of attachment styles. That's why

1445
01:10:43,600 --> 01:10:46,000
Speaker 4: I said we're gonna get an expert on here, because

1446
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:47,880
Speaker 4: I think we kind of glazed over it.

1447
01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 2: But that's that's a good point.

1448
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:57,160
Speaker 4: It goes avoidant attachment styles. Anxious, like an avoidant should

1449
01:10:57,200 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 4: not be with somebody who has an anxious like you can't.

1450
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 1: I have another friend who I'm still friends with right

1451
01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:05,280
Speaker 1: now too, who we have had like a little falling

1452
01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:07,720
Speaker 1: out like last year because she was just like, I

1453
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 1: feel like I'm always calling you first, so I'm always

1454
01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 1: calling you all the time, and to me, I don't know,

1455
01:11:14,240 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: like I'm just such a person who live in my

1456
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:18,120
Speaker 1: own world. A lot of time, which is something that

1457
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:20,240
Speaker 1: I did say twenty twenty five. Maybe I need to

1458
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:22,639
Speaker 1: work on that calling people more because I have like

1459
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:26,120
Speaker 1: two friends that I actually call all the time, and

1460
01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:28,160
Speaker 1: I do feel like a lot of my other friends

1461
01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 1: they be calling me first. And it's not personal. It's

1462
01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:35,680
Speaker 1: just I think some people make me calm and some

1463
01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 1: people give me like make me.

1464
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:38,040
Speaker 2: A little anxious.

1465
01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:42,120
Speaker 1: Yes, so the people who make me anxious, Yeah, I'm

1466
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: probably not gonna call you all the time, but it

1467
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:46,760
Speaker 1: doesn't mean I don't want to talk. If you want

1468
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 1: to talk to me and you want to call me

1469
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:50,760
Speaker 1: and talk to me about something, that's fine. You could

1470
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 1: do that, But I'm not trying to make you feel

1471
01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:56,760
Speaker 1: like the friendship is only one sidey. But I think

1472
01:11:56,800 --> 01:12:02,360
Speaker 1: that also goes into friendships and relationship styles because I

1473
01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 1: don't not trying to be because I'm trying to make

1474
01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:08,120
Speaker 1: sure our worth is right. Because it's not to say

1475
01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to be friends with somebody like that,

1476
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:12,960
Speaker 1: but like stuff like that be so petty to me.

1477
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:17,719
Speaker 1: Conversations like about who called somebody first and who made

1478
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 1: the last phone call, and I just feel like, is

1479
01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:23,360
Speaker 1: that what we're really talking about?

1480
01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:25,479
Speaker 2: One thing about me. I do not I don't even

1481
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:27,439
Speaker 2: pay attention to that shit. I don't give a fuck.

1482
01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 4: If I called you last four times, I'm gonna call

1483
01:12:29,600 --> 01:12:30,160
Speaker 4: you the fist time.

1484
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 2: What you doing a girl?

1485
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:33,080
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. Like, stuff like that is

1486
01:12:33,160 --> 01:12:35,599
Speaker 1: just kind of But but then for some people, if

1487
01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:38,400
Speaker 1: it's a big deal. And so that's where I feel

1488
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:40,920
Speaker 1: like friendship styles, I don't know if that's really a

1489
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 1: real thing.

1490
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 2: It is, but that's important.

1491
01:12:44,200 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 4: Love languages, all that stuff, as much as it applies

1492
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:49,479
Speaker 4: to relationships, it applies to friendship to.

1493
01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:53,680
Speaker 2: It definitely does. So I know, so, I know.

1494
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:58,000
Speaker 4: So I think that's why, like certain friends and certain

1495
01:12:58,000 --> 01:13:01,240
Speaker 4: people that I'm cool with, I have to treat certain

1496
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:04,120
Speaker 4: friends differently in XYZ, but.

1497
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:10,840
Speaker 2: They get me. We may not get along all the time,

1498
01:13:11,640 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 2: but it's.

1499
01:13:12,040 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 4: An understanding there, it's a certain level of understanding. So

1500
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 4: I do feel like, in the year of twenty twenty five,

1501
01:13:18,920 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 4: be around people who actually like you, and who actually

1502
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:26,360
Speaker 4: are good friends, and who actually understands you. Because sometimes

1503
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:32,479
Speaker 4: people wanna be liking yeah, yeah, yeah, A lot of

1504
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:34,680
Speaker 4: times y'all be around people who don't fucking like you.

1505
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, okay, s's up y'all as your girl

1506
01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:38,960
Speaker 2: XP and it's Sugarl Dre and the Cale.

1507
01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 4: Y'all know, we have a segment on Poor Minds called

1508
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:43,960
Speaker 4: Item of the Week. But do you have a product

1509
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:45,519
Speaker 4: or something that you want to promote and you want

1510
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:46,840
Speaker 4: it featured on Poor Minds.

1511
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:49,320
Speaker 2: Your opportunity is here period.

1512
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:51,839
Speaker 1: If you have an item or you have a business

1513
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 1: and you want to get it promoted, we are now

1514
01:13:53,920 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 1: having slots available on the Poor Mind's episode. So if

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01:13:57,280 --> 01:13:59,559
Speaker 1: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1516
01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 1: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1517
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 1: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

1518
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 1: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

1519
01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:13,240
Speaker 1: H E W E E K P M at gmail

1520
01:14:13,600 --> 01:14:16,400
Speaker 1: dot com. Send us an email and we'll.

1521
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:17,599
Speaker 2: Work it out. We're gonna figure it out.

1522
01:14:18,040 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 1: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make.

1523
01:14:21,720 --> 01:14:25,040
Speaker 2: You some money. We love some more to small business

1524
01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:27,680
Speaker 2: now and a black business said that, but.

1525
01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 1: I meanmade any businesses welcome.

1526
01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:34,360
Speaker 2: Now.

1527
01:14:34,680 --> 01:14:39,519
Speaker 4: It's time to get into the b out a bow

1528
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:43,320
Speaker 4: a bow about bell bell.

1529
01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 2: Did we even do the drinks? Nope? But drink okay,

1530
01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:53,559
Speaker 2: hell d.

1531
01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:57,439
Speaker 1: I'm making lexus drink now. But this is and I

1532
01:14:57,560 --> 01:14:59,600
Speaker 1: was already sipping mind since we're in the episode, but

1533
01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:01,360
Speaker 1: even it's gonna put some really cute pictures up of

1534
01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:03,560
Speaker 1: this drink because it has some glitter that was like

1535
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:04,400
Speaker 1: circulating around.

1536
01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:07,719
Speaker 2: But this is the New Year, New Me. Okay, twenty

1537
01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 2: twenty five.

1538
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,040
Speaker 1: We stepping in with our big girl's shoes and a

1539
01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:12,880
Speaker 1: big girl panties on the thongs. Okay, pull them up

1540
01:15:12,880 --> 01:15:14,719
Speaker 1: and let's go. All right, let's get these bags.

1541
01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:15,960
Speaker 2: New Year Knew Me.

1542
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:19,200
Speaker 1: We have your spirit of choice. We have some elderflower liquor,

1543
01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:22,519
Speaker 1: some grapefruit, a little bit of lime, and some lavender syrup.

1544
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:24,720
Speaker 1: And then we topped it off with some champagne just

1545
01:15:24,800 --> 01:15:28,000
Speaker 1: to give that New Year's fizz, and we added some

1546
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:31,640
Speaker 1: edible glitter to it. And that is it, ladies, the

1547
01:15:31,800 --> 01:15:33,800
Speaker 1: New Year Knew Me and lex yours is coming right back.

1548
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 2: I like that. Do it again?

1549
01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 4: May it shout out to the Twins figs. They used

1550
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:42,320
Speaker 4: to drop them bangas on the ass.

1551
01:15:42,720 --> 01:15:43,200
Speaker 2: They did.

1552
01:15:43,520 --> 01:15:45,560
Speaker 4: They were the first people that was whispering in the

1553
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 4: bitch ear on the song's Yeah.

1554
01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:04,679
Speaker 2: I know to be right nasty, so I don't mind

1555
01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 2: asking for head.

1556
01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:07,599
Speaker 7: I need to make.

1557
01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 2: Like the oh pussy like bill like bam beat they

1558
01:16:37,680 --> 01:16:46,400
Speaker 2: beat the beat the Oh my god, that was such

1559
01:16:46,439 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 2: a good song.

1560
01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 1: It was there was another song that idea was that

1561
01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:52,760
Speaker 1: I wouldn't we want to go in the studio.

1562
01:16:53,040 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 4: Because you know what's crazy, so many people try to

1563
01:16:56,560 --> 01:17:01,120
Speaker 4: remake a whisper type song and they couldn't do There's

1564
01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:04,120
Speaker 4: been no like a lot of Atlanta people rappers were

1565
01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 4: trying to do like a whisper and they couldn't remake

1566
01:17:07,160 --> 01:17:09,960
Speaker 4: that song. There was another song that they had they

1567
01:17:10,000 --> 01:17:14,240
Speaker 4: were whispering on. What was it do?

1568
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:16,160
Speaker 2: Y'all remember the Yan Twins.

1569
01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 4: They had another song where they were kind of whispering

1570
01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:20,479
Speaker 4: on it. I gotta put off my Spotify, y'all.

1571
01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I have to do but Drea in the meantime, okay,

1572
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 2: in the meantime.

1573
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:28,400
Speaker 1: So for the bad topic, we're gonna be talking about sex.

1574
01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:32,120
Speaker 1: Talk with your friends. What do you tell your friends

1575
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:35,160
Speaker 1: and what do you not tell them about your six

1576
01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:40,920
Speaker 1: life or about your men or your women, Like, are

1577
01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:43,479
Speaker 1: there certain things that are off limits you feel like

1578
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:47,280
Speaker 1: I shouldn't tell my friends these or are you the

1579
01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 1: type of person that you just feel like, you know,

1580
01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:52,920
Speaker 1: if we friends. I'm just lit the chopa sing.

1581
01:17:54,360 --> 01:18:01,600
Speaker 2: So I feel like it's certain things that I like

1582
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:04,080
Speaker 2: to do in the bedroom. Honestly, I'll say this.

1583
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:08,720
Speaker 4: I tell my friends a lot I do, but as

1584
01:18:08,800 --> 01:18:10,880
Speaker 4: I've gotten older, I feel like it's certain things that

1585
01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:13,920
Speaker 4: I just like to have between like me and my men.

1586
01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:16,439
Speaker 4: It's not that it's nothing like, oh, freaky embarrassing, but

1587
01:18:16,920 --> 01:18:18,599
Speaker 4: it just be certain things that go in the bedroom

1588
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 4: that I just keep to myself. I think it's more

1589
01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:24,760
Speaker 4: so about me and his bond and things that we

1590
01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:28,280
Speaker 4: can have just that's between us that other people don't know.

1591
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:31,400
Speaker 4: And also, like I said, I feel like I used

1592
01:18:31,400 --> 01:18:33,360
Speaker 4: to share so many things that I do in the

1593
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:37,960
Speaker 4: bedroom on this show too. It'd be stuff that I like,

1594
01:18:38,040 --> 01:18:40,040
Speaker 4: maybe tried or I thought was funny and I was

1595
01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:41,760
Speaker 4: making a joke about it, and it'd be like years

1596
01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:43,599
Speaker 4: later and they still be bringing it up and talking

1597
01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:47,479
Speaker 4: about it. It's like relax but people like to take

1598
01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:51,599
Speaker 4: a little inch, and what is it? You give them

1599
01:18:51,640 --> 01:18:55,519
Speaker 4: an inch and they take a relax So, honestly, I

1600
01:18:55,560 --> 01:18:58,080
Speaker 4: feel like there's certain things that like you and your

1601
01:18:58,120 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 4: friends can laugh about. But I feel like if you're

1602
01:18:59,800 --> 01:19:02,559
Speaker 4: in a serious relationship. There's certain things that should be.

1603
01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:09,400
Speaker 2: Between you and your man. I agree, Hm, I.

1604
01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:12,559
Speaker 1: Don't think everybody needs to know everything, but I also don't.

1605
01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1606
01:19:14,360 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: I think it depends on why you keeping stuff to yourself,

1607
01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:22,799
Speaker 1: Like I feel like I don't know. I don't operate

1608
01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:27,800
Speaker 1: in fear when it comes to anything. So I think

1609
01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:31,639
Speaker 1: that some people don't like to share stuff about their

1610
01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:33,960
Speaker 1: relationship or their sex life and stuff because they be

1611
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:36,080
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, if you tell somebody too much, or

1612
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:38,400
Speaker 1: if you share too much with your friends, then they

1613
01:19:38,439 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 1: gonna want to fuck Y'allniga Beachmnia not gonna fuck y'all.

1614
01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:43,120
Speaker 2: It ain't about it.

1615
01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:46,840
Speaker 1: So I'm not worried about that, like I ever thought

1616
01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 1: of it that way. Well, I'm saying because because maybe

1617
01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:53,240
Speaker 1: that's not how you look at it. But I'm saying

1618
01:19:53,360 --> 01:19:57,400
Speaker 1: like I've heard a lot of like that, Like I

1619
01:19:57,479 --> 01:19:59,720
Speaker 1: don't want to tell my friends too much about my

1620
01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 1: real relationship. I don't want to tell my friends too

1621
01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:05,560
Speaker 1: much about this or too much about that, because I

1622
01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:08,080
Speaker 1: feel like if I share too much about my men

1623
01:20:08,360 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 1: and like that he's well in doubt or that he's

1624
01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:13,679
Speaker 1: good in the bedroom, or he eat pussy good, whatever

1625
01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:15,599
Speaker 1: the case may be, then they gonna want to fuck

1626
01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:17,880
Speaker 1: my nigga, will beach. I'm not worried about that.

1627
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:19,120
Speaker 2: And also if you.

1628
01:20:19,240 --> 01:20:21,640
Speaker 4: Hear your friends say that and you be wanting to

1629
01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 4: fuck him, that's weird. Weird, that's weird as fuck.

1630
01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:25,920
Speaker 2: It is weird.

1631
01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:28,840
Speaker 1: But I do think that there are women like that.

1632
01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:32,600
Speaker 1: But I think that more and so goes into the company.

1633
01:20:32,280 --> 01:20:32,920
Speaker 2: That you keep.

1634
01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 1: I mean because men, because you know that men be

1635
01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:37,880
Speaker 1: like that, Because first of all, why is you friends

1636
01:20:37,920 --> 01:20:39,960
Speaker 1: with a beach that you think will fuck your hey?

1637
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:41,720
Speaker 2: And why are you with a nigga who you think

1638
01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:42,920
Speaker 2: will fuck one of your friends.

1639
01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:43,200
Speaker 3: Hey?

1640
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:46,280
Speaker 1: If I ever had that type of doubt in my

1641
01:20:46,439 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 1: mind about my man or my friend, you not about

1642
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:51,320
Speaker 1: to be my man or my friend.

1643
01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:54,640
Speaker 4: Hey, Hey, hey, that's my bitch you. I don't got

1644
01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:56,519
Speaker 4: to say that. My nigga don't have to say that.

1645
01:20:56,920 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 4: And I also think too, I.

1646
01:20:58,479 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 1: Just think it's I think a lot of the time,

1647
01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 1: to me, that's why people don't share stuff like.

1648
01:21:02,920 --> 01:21:05,760
Speaker 2: I don't know, I didn't think about it that way.

1649
01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:08,040
Speaker 4: I was more thinking about like, oh, there's a certain secret,

1650
01:21:08,120 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 4: Like it's certain secrets that like me and you have,

1651
01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:12,200
Speaker 4: or like me and Killa have, or me and my

1652
01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:14,519
Speaker 4: men have, like I like to have that we have

1653
01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:17,320
Speaker 4: that together and it's just ours and.

1654
01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:20,519
Speaker 2: It's something special. I never thought about that, but you're right,

1655
01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:24,160
Speaker 2: you right, I just I don't know.

1656
01:21:24,520 --> 01:21:27,800
Speaker 1: I'm really a person who I can truly say when

1657
01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:31,759
Speaker 1: it depending on how close in practice, like how close

1658
01:21:31,880 --> 01:21:35,439
Speaker 1: our relationship is. I'm like an open book with people

1659
01:21:35,520 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 1: that I'm close to, So I don't care about you

1660
01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:40,760
Speaker 1: knowing certain shit. I'm not gonna go out of my

1661
01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:43,760
Speaker 1: way to just tell you my sexual business. But if

1662
01:21:43,760 --> 01:21:46,640
Speaker 1: we're having a conversation, like for example, if one of

1663
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:49,080
Speaker 1: my friends having a conversation with me and they asking

1664
01:21:49,160 --> 01:21:53,320
Speaker 1: me about like head or a certain scenario in the bedroom,

1665
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:55,800
Speaker 1: something that they want to try, and it's something that

1666
01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:59,600
Speaker 1: I've tried, if you asking me about it, I'm not

1667
01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:02,280
Speaker 1: gonna be like, oh girl, I don't know. And me

1668
01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:04,400
Speaker 1: and my man and danity, you know what I mean,

1669
01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,880
Speaker 1: or I'm experienced in that realm. I'm not gonna sit

1670
01:22:07,920 --> 01:22:09,960
Speaker 1: here and act like, oh girl, I don't know about

1671
01:22:10,000 --> 01:22:11,320
Speaker 1: it or not talk to you about it, because I

1672
01:22:11,320 --> 01:22:11,760
Speaker 1: don't want.

1673
01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:14,040
Speaker 2: You to know about what me and my man be doing.

1674
01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:17,960
Speaker 2: I don't know, I just I agree. I think stuff

1675
01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 2: like that. It's a little weird.

1676
01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:21,240
Speaker 1: It's like you don't trust your friends, and if that's

1677
01:22:21,280 --> 01:22:24,400
Speaker 1: the case, then be why are they your friends?

1678
01:22:24,479 --> 01:22:26,599
Speaker 2: That's true, that's true.

1679
01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:29,040
Speaker 4: I don't know, but I think, like I said, if

1680
01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:31,639
Speaker 4: you be around your friend and you want to fuck

1681
01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:33,760
Speaker 4: her man or your man want to fuck you, and

1682
01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:34,439
Speaker 4: you know it.

1683
01:22:35,160 --> 01:22:36,519
Speaker 2: Y'all just weird as fun.

1684
01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:39,000
Speaker 1: I mean, the signs be there though, be you want

1685
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 1: to fuck yr Nigga or would fuck yr Nigga or

1686
01:22:43,080 --> 01:22:44,280
Speaker 1: nigga who wuck one.

1687
01:22:44,200 --> 01:22:48,120
Speaker 2: Of your friends SNS. You gotta give us the signs.

1688
01:22:48,200 --> 01:22:52,840
Speaker 4: Now, this is what poor Mind's is about. Oh sorry, Burt,

1689
01:22:53,200 --> 01:22:58,200
Speaker 4: I say this is a sign if y'all, Like, if

1690
01:22:58,320 --> 01:23:00,479
Speaker 4: y'all like out and she be all in his face

1691
01:23:00,600 --> 01:23:02,320
Speaker 4: type ship like you.

1692
01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:03,800
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. You know how somebody be in

1693
01:23:03,880 --> 01:23:07,679
Speaker 2: somebody's face too flirty, too flirty and being like, ah

1694
01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:12,920
Speaker 2: were outside, bro, you're so yeah, like she all in

1695
01:23:13,040 --> 01:23:20,479
Speaker 2: his face or she trying to embarrass you. She'd be like, girl,

1696
01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 2: you need some gum. Bitch, bitch you.

1697
01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:27,360
Speaker 1: Need some gun, or she be like, uh, now you

1698
01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 1: need some gums like some thunder.

1699
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 2: She be like, bitch, why are you grabbing my toe?

1700
01:23:36,479 --> 01:23:44,360
Speaker 2: You yes, it's a tourist thing. Why the I am?

1701
01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:46,679
Speaker 1: And I just said, and so, why would you keep

1702
01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:49,000
Speaker 1: doing this? Why come you're not laughing? Why are you

1703
01:23:49,080 --> 01:23:49,679
Speaker 1: getting mad?

1704
01:23:51,040 --> 01:23:54,200
Speaker 2: Used to get so mad. No, they don't. I thought

1705
01:23:54,200 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 2: it was funny.

1706
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:57,679
Speaker 4: I never knew that her mama, her and my mama

1707
01:23:57,760 --> 01:24:00,599
Speaker 4: got the say birthday. I used to grab mama feet.

1708
01:24:01,520 --> 01:24:05,240
Speaker 1: She would get so mad, she would never last She no, no,

1709
01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:08,200
Speaker 1: you better fucking stop.

1710
01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 2: My mommer.

1711
01:24:11,479 --> 01:24:15,880
Speaker 1: I'm so and and I'm so ticklish in the weirdest

1712
01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:17,360
Speaker 1: places too, tied.

1713
01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:22,559
Speaker 2: Like under my but like on my thigh, under my butt,

1714
01:24:22,720 --> 01:24:24,040
Speaker 2: my whole life. My mom.

1715
01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:25,880
Speaker 1: Whenever she would know I would be mad at her,

1716
01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 1: she would start tickling me, like under my bud when

1717
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:30,639
Speaker 1: I was like a teenager and stuff.

1718
01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:34,120
Speaker 2: And I would be like, stop, didn't give me my memory.

1719
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:41,200
Speaker 2: It's about it for my mom. Girl, move please. Okay,

1720
01:24:41,280 --> 01:24:43,680
Speaker 2: but I'll say that you in a nigga face. Are

1721
01:24:43,720 --> 01:24:45,280
Speaker 2: you trying to embarrass your friends?

1722
01:24:45,360 --> 01:24:49,040
Speaker 1: What we said on the last episode, the outcare song.

1723
01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 2: I found them?

1724
01:24:55,160 --> 01:24:55,479
Speaker 3: The song?

1725
01:24:55,560 --> 01:25:01,840
Speaker 2: Okay, remember do y'all remember this song? What happened, Miss

1726
01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:04,839
Speaker 2: what happened? You ain't gonna get hell.

1727
01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:13,600
Speaker 4: Mam okay before you, y'all and tell your things. Do

1728
01:25:13,760 --> 01:25:17,360
Speaker 4: y'all remember this Yen Yane Twins song. Look, bitch, you

1729
01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:18,760
Speaker 4: done talk to a whole lot of ship.

1730
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:21,320
Speaker 2: But wait, do you see my dick ain't bitch.

1731
01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:24,000
Speaker 4: I ain't really for the talking game. But you came

1732
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:27,479
Speaker 4: in the room and start handling things. First thought, beat

1733
01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:29,760
Speaker 4: the pussy up. Hit it from the back, and beat

1734
01:25:29,800 --> 01:25:33,760
Speaker 4: the pussy up. When all that running be your west

1735
01:25:33,880 --> 01:25:36,680
Speaker 4: Steel long dick come in. Ride on the dick like

1736
01:25:36,720 --> 01:25:40,640
Speaker 4: he was dancing in the club, y'all. I remember you

1737
01:25:40,800 --> 01:25:43,760
Speaker 4: heard U min long dick coming.

1738
01:25:43,840 --> 01:25:46,120
Speaker 2: It's lone coming.

1739
01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 4: That was so they did another whisper. They were kind

1740
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:51,439
Speaker 4: of he wasn't whispering, but he was kind of whispering.

1741
01:25:52,000 --> 01:25:54,519
Speaker 4: Shout out to the Yin Yane Twins pioneers in the game.

1742
01:25:54,840 --> 01:25:56,960
Speaker 4: Niggas was really trying to whisper on that track.

1743
01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:04,800
Speaker 1: You need to fucking cut it out, big, You need

1744
01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:05,519
Speaker 1: to cut it out.

1745
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:08,360
Speaker 2: But no, I don't know what's up, y'all.

1746
01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:10,960
Speaker 4: Iss your girl xp andy sh girls Ryan a call,

1747
01:26:11,120 --> 01:26:14,120
Speaker 4: and y'all do not forget to call our shot line.

1748
01:26:14,120 --> 01:26:15,600
Speaker 2: I know you've heard of a hot line, but this

1749
01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:17,559
Speaker 2: is the poor mind's shot line.

1750
01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:19,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, we love to hear from y'all. Y'all need to

1751
01:26:19,840 --> 01:26:23,000
Speaker 1: call in y'all, and this is not necessarily for questions.

1752
01:26:23,040 --> 01:26:24,400
Speaker 1: You know, we just want to hear from y'all if

1753
01:26:24,400 --> 01:26:26,639
Speaker 1: we want to know y'all, feedback, y'all, thoughts on the show,

1754
01:26:26,960 --> 01:26:28,640
Speaker 1: or just what's going on in your life. So you

1755
01:26:28,720 --> 01:26:31,960
Speaker 1: can always call six seven eight eight two seven one

1756
01:26:32,240 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 1: eight two seed.

1757
01:26:33,640 --> 01:26:35,880
Speaker 2: Yes, and y'all know, keep it short and cute.

1758
01:26:35,920 --> 01:26:38,519
Speaker 4: Don't be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy,

1759
01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:39,879
Speaker 4: says a brother, cousin boyfriend.

1760
01:26:39,960 --> 01:26:42,360
Speaker 2: Okay, well I want to hear about that. Actually, well

1761
01:26:42,439 --> 01:26:43,000
Speaker 2: you know they can.

1762
01:26:43,000 --> 01:26:44,360
Speaker 4: Let a little some, but you know, we want to

1763
01:26:44,439 --> 01:26:46,640
Speaker 4: keep it cute and short. Like she said, this is

1764
01:26:46,720 --> 01:26:49,400
Speaker 4: not questions, This is not pour your heart out. So

1765
01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:51,760
Speaker 4: just call give us a little feedback. What you want

1766
01:26:51,760 --> 01:26:54,200
Speaker 4: to see on the show, any suggestions, what you think

1767
01:26:54,240 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 4: about the show, if you just want to simply give

1768
01:26:55,920 --> 01:26:58,559
Speaker 4: us our flowers, you know, or any It could be anything.

1769
01:26:58,600 --> 01:27:00,920
Speaker 4: What's bothering you this week, what on your nerves this week?

1770
01:27:01,080 --> 01:27:02,719
Speaker 4: If you just want to vent and get some things

1771
01:27:02,800 --> 01:27:05,519
Speaker 4: off your chest. Pull the shot line again.

1772
01:27:05,600 --> 01:27:09,200
Speaker 2: The number is six seven eight eight two seven one

1773
01:27:09,320 --> 01:27:14,439
Speaker 2: eight two six. Time to get into the big the

1774
01:27:14,600 --> 01:27:21,240
Speaker 2: bob see see see see the Bop Ay the Bob.

1775
01:27:21,479 --> 01:27:26,840
Speaker 2: Bow Bow Bow Bow about bow Bow We in the

1776
01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:31,080
Speaker 2: New Year. I keep clean, come looking real clear. I'm

1777
01:27:31,160 --> 01:27:33,519
Speaker 2: that bitch and not fuck on your nigga. But he

1778
01:27:33,640 --> 01:27:36,360
Speaker 2: came out fucked on me. He ain't got sick figgures.

1779
01:27:36,479 --> 01:27:40,880
Speaker 4: Oh all right, mood, I was stuttering a little bit.

1780
01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:43,160
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to work over. I gotta go to

1781
01:27:43,240 --> 01:27:46,519
Speaker 4: the stool. I gotta get it right. Okay, So the

1782
01:27:46,560 --> 01:27:48,880
Speaker 4: bop of the week. Okay, you want me to go first,

1783
01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:49,160
Speaker 4: are you?

1784
01:27:49,600 --> 01:27:49,880
Speaker 2: Okay?

1785
01:27:49,960 --> 01:27:52,439
Speaker 4: So my bop of the week Alex Vaughn. I made

1786
01:27:52,479 --> 01:27:54,160
Speaker 4: her my bop of the week about two years ago.

1787
01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:56,400
Speaker 4: She had a song called so be It and it

1788
01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:59,760
Speaker 4: was so fire. She's so good and I want you

1789
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:02,479
Speaker 4: R and B artist stopped just not dropping music. You

1790
01:28:02,520 --> 01:28:05,000
Speaker 4: gotta be consistent. And this is not to Alex Vaughn.

1791
01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:07,000
Speaker 4: I'm just saying in general, but she has a new

1792
01:28:07,120 --> 01:28:10,400
Speaker 4: song called hit a Wall and it's so relatable. You

1793
01:28:10,439 --> 01:28:13,280
Speaker 4: would love this song. You would love this song. Because

1794
01:28:13,360 --> 01:28:16,120
Speaker 4: sometimes that's what happens. Out of you hit a wall,

1795
01:28:16,240 --> 01:28:18,639
Speaker 4: you be like, what the fuck are we doing? Sometimes

1796
01:28:18,680 --> 01:28:21,519
Speaker 4: you gotta hear fucking wall and be like, what is

1797
01:28:21,600 --> 01:28:24,840
Speaker 4: going on? Alex Vaughn, I don't know what she does.

1798
01:28:25,280 --> 01:28:27,320
Speaker 4: Let me tell you about this indie music they be

1799
01:28:27,439 --> 01:28:28,719
Speaker 4: talking about real shit.

1800
01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:34,800
Speaker 2: Reata when I tell you I sung the fuck out

1801
01:28:34,840 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 2: of that too.

1802
01:28:35,560 --> 01:28:49,320
Speaker 1: When us your son has sung, I said, yeah, I

1803
01:28:49,520 --> 01:28:50,120
Speaker 1: was ready to.

1804
01:28:50,479 --> 01:28:55,000
Speaker 2: Get on, but yeah no. But I'm saying, Alex Vaughn

1805
01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:55,639
Speaker 2: hit a wall.

1806
01:28:55,760 --> 01:28:58,680
Speaker 4: If you were in a relationship right now and you

1807
01:28:58,880 --> 01:29:00,880
Speaker 4: feel like you don't know what to do, listen to

1808
01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:04,599
Speaker 4: this song because you're gonna know. We are all going

1809
01:29:04,720 --> 01:29:07,720
Speaker 4: through it in this holiday season with men we are,

1810
01:29:08,479 --> 01:29:10,439
Speaker 4: don't You're not alone. I don't care how bad you are,

1811
01:29:10,479 --> 01:29:12,400
Speaker 4: how funny you are, how much money you make, how

1812
01:29:12,479 --> 01:29:14,479
Speaker 4: amazing of a woman like Cardi B said, I got

1813
01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:16,920
Speaker 4: little feet, Cardi, I don't care how small your feet are.

1814
01:29:17,400 --> 01:29:22,120
Speaker 2: We all going through it. Okay, that's all I gotta say.

1815
01:29:22,160 --> 01:29:24,320
Speaker 2: I don't care. I got a size ten, she got

1816
01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:25,240
Speaker 2: a size seven.

1817
01:29:25,800 --> 01:29:27,760
Speaker 1: I got a size seven. And just because you see

1818
01:29:27,920 --> 01:29:31,519
Speaker 1: me at that concert, we're still going through it.

1819
01:29:33,640 --> 01:29:38,320
Speaker 2: Don't matter. We're all going through it. So Alex vaugh Little.

1820
01:29:41,439 --> 01:29:45,719
Speaker 4: Ten sevens are telling you it don't mean it anything,

1821
01:29:47,520 --> 01:29:48,560
Speaker 4: but Alex.

1822
01:29:48,280 --> 01:29:49,360
Speaker 7: Vaughn, so be it.

1823
01:29:50,040 --> 01:29:52,479
Speaker 2: That's the song I put on my playlist a long

1824
01:29:52,560 --> 01:29:53,760
Speaker 2: time ago. Go listen to that.

1825
01:29:54,160 --> 01:29:56,519
Speaker 4: She's got a new song called hit a Wall. Alex Vaughn,

1826
01:29:56,640 --> 01:30:02,560
Speaker 4: You're amazing. Please keep dropping music. I'm gonna give mazak. Misatti.

1827
01:30:03,200 --> 01:30:05,800
Speaker 4: I hope I'm saying your name right. You had a

1828
01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:07,760
Speaker 4: song that you dropped like three or four years ago.

1829
01:30:07,840 --> 01:30:12,080
Speaker 4: It's called Intoxicated Truth. Misati. I don't know where you are.

1830
01:30:13,360 --> 01:30:15,800
Speaker 4: I don't know if you are under another name.

1831
01:30:17,680 --> 01:30:20,680
Speaker 2: God. I hope you didn't pass away. I don't know

1832
01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:24,800
Speaker 2: where you are, but please drop some more music. It's

1833
01:30:25,080 --> 01:30:27,679
Speaker 2: m A S A T I, y'all.

1834
01:30:27,720 --> 01:30:31,240
Speaker 4: Please find him for me, blow him up and maybe

1835
01:30:31,560 --> 01:30:33,680
Speaker 4: maybe he don't want to do music no more, and

1836
01:30:34,040 --> 01:30:35,880
Speaker 4: let me know, because I don't want to be bothering

1837
01:30:35,960 --> 01:30:38,760
Speaker 4: this man. But he has a song called Intoxicated Truth.

1838
01:30:38,840 --> 01:30:40,960
Speaker 4: I made this my bop like two years ago. But

1839
01:30:41,040 --> 01:30:42,680
Speaker 4: I went in like a rabbit hole the other day

1840
01:30:42,720 --> 01:30:44,759
Speaker 4: trying to look for him, and I could not find anything.

1841
01:30:45,320 --> 01:30:49,200
Speaker 4: So Misati intoxicated truth, where are you?

1842
01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:51,920
Speaker 2: It don't bother me? It is song you remember this song?

1843
01:30:52,000 --> 01:30:59,160
Speaker 2: Making a day? When you start speeling his name up

1844
01:31:00,160 --> 01:31:04,080
Speaker 2: A c k E b l e e, you're doing

1845
01:31:04,160 --> 01:31:09,120
Speaker 2: it wrong. Black belly s p l k k A

1846
01:31:09,560 --> 01:31:14,120
Speaker 2: b e l f i e black old belly? What

1847
01:31:14,240 --> 01:31:15,160
Speaker 2: the fuck you spell?

1848
01:31:17,400 --> 01:31:21,720
Speaker 7: A s y f b b E m A c

1849
01:31:22,040 --> 01:31:27,640
Speaker 7: k b s m b p y e mo b

1850
01:31:27,840 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 7: lets so said, let key.

1851
01:31:31,320 --> 01:31:32,840
Speaker 2: Because what song did you see?

1852
01:31:35,560 --> 01:31:36,040
Speaker 1: She's said?

1853
01:31:36,240 --> 01:31:46,439
Speaker 2: Now m b A bock big motor song. Fuck u

1854
01:31:47,000 --> 01:31:49,840
Speaker 2: m b y x y z t.

1855
01:31:53,080 --> 01:31:56,679
Speaker 7: X y z the fa bed head.

1856
01:31:59,120 --> 01:32:01,160
Speaker 2: Let's talk about. Oh my god, that was such a

1857
01:32:01,240 --> 01:32:07,080
Speaker 2: good What the blay brother? You can call up man?

1858
01:32:07,560 --> 01:32:11,960
Speaker 2: I think that was Jack Thriller? Was he black?

1859
01:32:12,360 --> 01:32:12,559
Speaker 1: Was it.

1860
01:32:14,439 --> 01:32:19,360
Speaker 2: Black abell? Look at Oh my god? Look black of velly?

1861
01:32:19,479 --> 01:32:26,559
Speaker 2: Is Jack Thriller? Black of belly? That sounds like yours.

1862
01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:29,960
Speaker 2: It's a song bye and needs your cool.

1863
01:32:30,120 --> 01:32:33,960
Speaker 3: She like a die cool, She like a die.

1864
01:32:36,320 --> 01:32:39,800
Speaker 1: It's it's Plackavelli a R and B song? Is this

1865
01:32:39,880 --> 01:32:42,320
Speaker 1: song y'all talking about an R and B song? Yes,

1866
01:32:42,800 --> 01:32:48,200
Speaker 1: it's called It's by pressure Pressure pressures Jack Thriller.

1867
01:32:49,600 --> 01:32:51,720
Speaker 2: This does not look like Jack Okay, my bad, my bad,

1868
01:32:51,760 --> 01:32:52,720
Speaker 2: I was wrong. I was wrong.

1869
01:32:52,960 --> 01:32:54,439
Speaker 1: Is this the song y'all talking about?

1870
01:32:55,439 --> 01:32:59,599
Speaker 2: Every woman needs her own black vela? Oh brother, chi

1871
01:32:59,720 --> 01:33:01,920
Speaker 2: can call when her you can't play?

1872
01:33:02,320 --> 01:33:04,400
Speaker 1: Gonna tell me what kind of superman will take you

1873
01:33:04,479 --> 01:33:05,120
Speaker 1: in his bedroom?

1874
01:33:05,160 --> 01:33:05,679
Speaker 2: Baby? Yeah?

1875
01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:09,240
Speaker 1: Yeah song by y'all. Was listening to that in Chicago.

1876
01:33:09,360 --> 01:33:15,200
Speaker 2: I have no idea what this No, but I definitely will. Damn.

1877
01:33:15,280 --> 01:33:18,519
Speaker 2: It's not Jack from the Home of the Original. Why

1878
01:33:18,560 --> 01:33:20,880
Speaker 2: do you know that? But why do you Why do

1879
01:33:20,960 --> 01:33:26,880
Speaker 2: you know Jack Fuller's song? Though? What Jack Thriller song?

1880
01:33:26,960 --> 01:33:33,480
Speaker 4: Because that was a rememberable song, rememberable, memorable, rememberable.

1881
01:33:33,600 --> 01:33:40,160
Speaker 2: No, no real memory So wait Jack Thriller song? No,

1882
01:33:41,080 --> 01:33:45,200
Speaker 2: it was so gay. It was just what's your Circadian Rhythm?

1883
01:33:45,400 --> 01:33:49,080
Speaker 2: By Drake. I haven't had a Drake song in a

1884
01:33:49,439 --> 01:33:54,720
Speaker 2: very very You're off. I'm gonna let you you're off

1885
01:33:54,760 --> 01:33:56,200
Speaker 2: with that girl.

1886
01:33:56,479 --> 01:33:58,799
Speaker 4: She's trying to make up because she was Jammy Kendrick

1887
01:33:58,880 --> 01:34:00,479
Speaker 4: Hardest don't matter.

1888
01:34:00,600 --> 01:34:06,080
Speaker 1: I could dream both the flood. I'm not scared of

1889
01:34:06,160 --> 01:34:06,840
Speaker 1: neither one of them.

1890
01:34:17,520 --> 01:34:19,880
Speaker 2: Squabbles up, so.

1891
01:34:23,280 --> 01:34:29,040
Speaker 1: You know I can like both artists. And yes, Drake

1892
01:34:29,120 --> 01:34:31,920
Speaker 1: had came out with Circadian rhythm. It actually came out

1893
01:34:32,080 --> 01:34:35,160
Speaker 1: like back in August, but I just never said it

1894
01:34:35,200 --> 01:34:35,600
Speaker 1: as my.

1895
01:34:35,640 --> 01:34:39,360
Speaker 2: Bob because I listen to it for a minute. Mhm,

1896
01:34:39,880 --> 01:34:41,800
Speaker 2: I gotta listen to it. I don't think I have

1897
01:34:42,000 --> 01:34:42,840
Speaker 2: heard of you not.

1898
01:34:44,280 --> 01:34:45,800
Speaker 1: It wasn't promoted that much.

1899
01:34:46,600 --> 01:34:49,080
Speaker 2: I don't think I've heard it. It's snow like cover

1900
01:34:49,320 --> 01:34:50,120
Speaker 2: art or anything.

1901
01:34:50,840 --> 01:34:58,720
Speaker 1: But in the meantime, Okay, y'all, now it's time to

1902
01:34:58,760 --> 01:35:00,320
Speaker 1: get into our favorite segment of the sho which just

1903
01:35:00,360 --> 01:35:02,760
Speaker 1: pour your heart out. You know, if you have any questions,

1904
01:35:02,880 --> 01:35:06,320
Speaker 1: any testimonials, you can always send them in to ask

1905
01:35:06,400 --> 01:35:09,720
Speaker 1: poor Minds at gmail dot com. It's ask he O,

1906
01:35:09,880 --> 01:35:12,880
Speaker 1: you are in my MBAs dot com. Why did you

1907
01:35:12,960 --> 01:35:14,000
Speaker 1: take your crown off?

1908
01:35:14,400 --> 01:35:16,360
Speaker 2: That's my head. It was like squeezing my head a

1909
01:35:16,360 --> 01:35:23,000
Speaker 2: little bit. Can we switch crown? No, because this is questions,

1910
01:35:23,280 --> 01:35:25,120
Speaker 2: not my speech. Okay, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead,

1911
01:35:25,120 --> 01:35:29,439
Speaker 2: go ahead, go ahead. M hm.

1912
01:35:31,439 --> 01:35:33,760
Speaker 1: Heylex Andrea, I'm gonna make this short and sweet. Me

1913
01:35:33,840 --> 01:35:36,360
Speaker 1: and my boyfriend have been together for almost four years.

1914
01:35:36,760 --> 01:35:40,719
Speaker 1: We are high school sweethearts. He's everything I always wanted

1915
01:35:40,760 --> 01:35:43,879
Speaker 1: in a partner. He treats me so well mentally, physically,

1916
01:35:44,040 --> 01:35:47,920
Speaker 1: and emotionally, but financially we go fifty fifty on bills,

1917
01:35:48,000 --> 01:35:50,240
Speaker 1: and recently I have been paying the bills for both

1918
01:35:50,280 --> 01:35:52,000
Speaker 1: of us because he's not making money.

1919
01:35:52,080 --> 01:35:52,360
Speaker 2: Right now.

1920
01:35:52,880 --> 01:35:55,879
Speaker 1: We are both twenty three and I'm struggling financially myself

1921
01:35:55,960 --> 01:35:58,720
Speaker 1: taking care of us both. I can't see myself being

1922
01:35:58,760 --> 01:36:01,559
Speaker 1: with anybody else. But at the same time, I don't

1923
01:36:01,560 --> 01:36:03,920
Speaker 1: want to stressen myself out paying all.

1924
01:36:03,840 --> 01:36:06,080
Speaker 2: The bills with no help. Need advice.

1925
01:36:07,920 --> 01:36:10,280
Speaker 4: So let me say this, one hundred percent on the

1926
01:36:10,360 --> 01:36:13,080
Speaker 4: man and zero percent for the woman. It's not for everybody,

1927
01:36:14,000 --> 01:36:17,080
Speaker 4: first of all, but if y'all agreed on fifty to fifty.

1928
01:36:17,160 --> 01:36:21,080
Speaker 2: Where yo fifty at nigga, you gotta show the fuck up.

1929
01:36:22,120 --> 01:36:27,759
Speaker 4: So this is novel we agreed upon. If you signed

1930
01:36:27,840 --> 01:36:30,479
Speaker 4: up for fifty percent, you need to show up for

1931
01:36:31,160 --> 01:36:35,160
Speaker 4: guess what. I can't show up here. I can't be

1932
01:36:35,320 --> 01:36:37,639
Speaker 4: like ta, I don't got it this month. I'm gonna

1933
01:36:37,640 --> 01:36:38,559
Speaker 4: pay you twenty five percent.

1934
01:36:38,640 --> 01:36:41,720
Speaker 2: I can't do that. I can't do that. That's not you.

1935
01:36:41,800 --> 01:36:42,920
Speaker 2: Don't you know what I'm saying?

1936
01:36:43,400 --> 01:36:45,240
Speaker 4: If you have to show up in your household, because

1937
01:36:45,240 --> 01:36:47,840
Speaker 4: if he had his own apartment and he was on

1938
01:36:47,960 --> 01:36:48,439
Speaker 4: his own.

1939
01:36:48,320 --> 01:36:50,240
Speaker 2: He gotta pay that rent by hisself.

1940
01:36:50,760 --> 01:36:53,360
Speaker 4: You are teaching this man to depend on you, and

1941
01:36:53,479 --> 01:36:55,760
Speaker 4: the more you do this, the more he's gonna get

1942
01:36:55,800 --> 01:36:58,640
Speaker 4: comfortable with being lazy and doing nothing. You want a

1943
01:36:58,720 --> 01:37:02,200
Speaker 4: man who bare minimum can show up for you fifty percent.

1944
01:37:02,479 --> 01:37:04,280
Speaker 4: He don't even got to show up one hundred percent.

1945
01:37:04,840 --> 01:37:06,800
Speaker 4: You asking him to show up fifty percent for the

1946
01:37:06,840 --> 01:37:09,120
Speaker 4: bills and he can't do that. Y'all are twenty three,

1947
01:37:09,200 --> 01:37:11,560
Speaker 4: so y'all young. I know y'all probably not living in

1948
01:37:11,640 --> 01:37:13,920
Speaker 4: no high rise or no big ass townhouse or this,

1949
01:37:14,040 --> 01:37:16,240
Speaker 4: and that he should be able to show up with.

1950
01:37:16,560 --> 01:37:17,840
Speaker 2: I'll throw out a number here.

1951
01:37:18,240 --> 01:37:20,360
Speaker 4: If you can't show up one thousand dollars a month

1952
01:37:21,800 --> 01:37:24,479
Speaker 4: at twenty three years old, you not going hard enough,

1953
01:37:25,360 --> 01:37:28,920
Speaker 4: and you got a person that's helping you. At twenty three,

1954
01:37:28,960 --> 01:37:31,040
Speaker 4: I didn't have nobody helping me like that. Well, yes

1955
01:37:31,080 --> 01:37:33,000
Speaker 4: I did, let me not lie. But what I'm saying is,

1956
01:37:33,439 --> 01:37:36,360
Speaker 4: at twenty three, you have a woman who is willing

1957
01:37:36,439 --> 01:37:39,479
Speaker 4: to go fifty to fifty when most people are not

1958
01:37:39,560 --> 01:37:41,880
Speaker 4: trying to go fifty to fifty. But the average person

1959
01:37:42,040 --> 01:37:44,200
Speaker 4: in the relationship is going fifty to fifty. Girl, you

1960
01:37:44,400 --> 01:37:47,080
Speaker 4: be better off getting you a one bedroom and figuring

1961
01:37:47,120 --> 01:37:49,679
Speaker 4: shit out on your own. But if you're gonna stay

1962
01:37:49,720 --> 01:37:52,960
Speaker 4: with him, make him pay because you're teaching him that

1963
01:37:53,080 --> 01:37:56,360
Speaker 4: this is okay and that you're gonna hold shit down.

1964
01:37:56,439 --> 01:37:58,280
Speaker 2: He too young to not be able to show up.

1965
01:37:58,880 --> 01:38:02,280
Speaker 4: Now, if we are a million and something, you come

1966
01:38:02,360 --> 01:38:06,000
Speaker 4: on hard times, that's a different ball game. That's a

1967
01:38:06,080 --> 01:38:07,959
Speaker 4: different ballgame once we talk about.

1968
01:38:07,800 --> 01:38:10,639
Speaker 2: Some real money. Because sometimes shit.

1969
01:38:10,479 --> 01:38:12,960
Speaker 4: Happens and you be like, hey, I gotta handle the

1970
01:38:13,000 --> 01:38:15,920
Speaker 4: mortgage this month because whatever happened, maybe y'all are twenty

1971
01:38:16,000 --> 01:38:17,640
Speaker 4: three and he can't show up for you. If he

1972
01:38:17,680 --> 01:38:19,800
Speaker 4: can't show up for you at twenty three, you're not

1973
01:38:19,840 --> 01:38:21,280
Speaker 4: gonna show up for you at thirty three.

1974
01:38:21,720 --> 01:38:22,200
Speaker 2: I agree.

1975
01:38:23,080 --> 01:38:26,240
Speaker 1: I think that was very great advice. Lix to the

1976
01:38:26,320 --> 01:38:33,120
Speaker 1: motherfucking pee now. Of course, make sure you shop Musbeuty

1977
01:38:33,160 --> 01:38:35,479
Speaker 1: collection dot com. Get your lip glosses, your matt liq

1978
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Speaker 1: with lipsticks, your lip liners, your jelly blushes. We are

1979
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Speaker 1: also having a sell right now. To make sure you

1980
01:38:42,680 --> 01:38:45,439
Speaker 1: go to musbdy collection dot com. Make sure you follow

1981
01:38:45,600 --> 01:38:48,600
Speaker 1: my personal YouTube channel at dre and a call with

1982
01:38:48,680 --> 01:38:51,639
Speaker 1: three e's. Make sure you follow lex personal YouTube channel

1983
01:38:52,040 --> 01:38:53,720
Speaker 1: at love underscore.

1984
01:38:54,080 --> 01:38:54,920
Speaker 2: Look, it's just love.

1985
01:38:55,479 --> 01:38:58,320
Speaker 1: Oh, it's just a lovelex F my bad at LOVELEXP

1986
01:38:59,360 --> 01:39:02,479
Speaker 1: And yeah, y'all, we'll see y'all next week. Bye happy,

1987
01:39:02,960 --> 01:39:06,000
Speaker 1: Oh we gotta pop the popping.

1988
01:39:11,880 --> 01:39:18,479
Speaker 2: Is niggas is way two weeks? Oh okay, fyve four

1989
01:39:21,000 --> 01:39:30,479
Speaker 2: three two? What oh.

1990
01:39:33,680 --> 01:39:35,320
Speaker 1: I'll be in trouble if you're lasting.

1991
01:39:35,520 --> 01:39:38,280
Speaker 2: No for y'all next week, by y'all.

1992
01:39:38,520 --> 01:39:43,200
Speaker 4: Y'all, make sure y'all share the content like subscribe, follow

1993
01:39:43,360 --> 01:39:45,000
Speaker 4: all that good stuff. And let me say this before

1994
01:39:45,040 --> 01:39:49,000
Speaker 4: we close out, y'all. There is one Twitter account that

1995
01:39:49,160 --> 01:39:50,320
Speaker 4: is connected to four Minds.

1996
01:39:50,400 --> 01:39:50,960
Speaker 2: It's p O.

1997
01:39:51,200 --> 01:39:55,120
Speaker 4: You are underscore in my n d s. Y'all are

1998
01:39:55,240 --> 01:39:58,360
Speaker 4: tagging the wrong poor Minds page. If you see at

1999
01:39:58,439 --> 01:40:00,120
Speaker 4: poor Minds with no underscore, that.

2000
01:40:00,200 --> 01:40:02,080
Speaker 2: Is a fake page. Do not follow that page.

2001
01:40:02,120 --> 01:40:06,080
Speaker 4: Okay, they blocked me Andrea and the poor Mines page

2002
01:40:06,120 --> 01:40:10,639
Speaker 4: on both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter,

2003
01:40:11,520 --> 01:40:12,360
Speaker 4: one TikTok.

2004
01:40:12,720 --> 01:40:14,920
Speaker 2: It is p O, you are underscore in.

2005
01:40:14,960 --> 01:40:17,639
Speaker 1: My nds all right, and we got held a fake

2006
01:40:17,840 --> 01:40:21,920
Speaker 1: Facebook page. The Facebook page it's our face. The crazy

2007
01:40:22,000 --> 01:40:24,920
Speaker 1: thing is our Facebook page actually have the least amount

2008
01:40:24,960 --> 01:40:27,559
Speaker 1: of file. So if you're on Facebook, one that's ours

2009
01:40:27,920 --> 01:40:30,559
Speaker 1: got the least amount of but one that's not us

2010
01:40:30,720 --> 01:40:32,000
Speaker 1: got like two hundred and fifty.

2011
01:40:33,080 --> 01:40:34,760
Speaker 4: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

2012
01:40:34,880 --> 01:40:38,240
Speaker 4: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because.

2013
01:40:37,960 --> 01:40:40,439
Speaker 1: Their captures are like bumba claude, should men?

2014
01:40:40,600 --> 01:40:43,920
Speaker 2: Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill?

2015
01:40:44,080 --> 01:40:44,240
Speaker 3: Yes?

2016
01:40:44,360 --> 01:40:44,400
Speaker 1: No?

2017
01:40:45,680 --> 01:40:52,160
Speaker 2: Check answer below block block Like that's literally what the captions.

2018
01:40:52,360 --> 01:41:01,559
Speaker 2: I'm like, what that DG's bumba claude, bumba claud im

2019
01:41:01,800 --> 01:41:06,200
Speaker 2: me like she thinking about trying me. She wanted, she

2020
01:41:06,320 --> 01:41:07,479
Speaker 2: can't take no more.

2021
01:41:08,200 --> 01:41:10,920
Speaker 1: I'm alf take her to my spot. I'm gonna get

2022
01:41:11,000 --> 01:41:13,360
Speaker 1: her hot. She's gonna turn overun and when I.

2023
01:41:13,479 --> 01:41:16,240
Speaker 2: Beat beat beat, beat beat, she gonna make me.

2024
01:41:16,360 --> 01:41:19,200
Speaker 1: Beat beat, beat, beat beat. She gonna let.

2025
01:41:22,880 --> 01:41:24,360
Speaker 2: Beat beat beat.

2026
01:41:26,160 --> 01:41:31,120
Speaker 1: Go go, go go go. I'm gonna have her screaming

2027
01:41:31,320 --> 01:41:35,400
Speaker 1: like go go go, go go go.

2028
01:41:36,200 --> 01:41:38,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tear it up like be missed.

2029
01:41:39,040 --> 01:41:42,479
Speaker 1: But sexy can take you to my crib make love

2030
01:41:42,560 --> 01:41:43,439
Speaker 1: on my piano.

2031
01:41:43,800 --> 01:41:44,000
Speaker 2: Girl.

2032
01:41:44,040 --> 01:41:47,120
Speaker 1: You know me, little shorty from Atlanta, I want to

2033
01:41:47,200 --> 01:41:52,200
Speaker 1: do something you such show body, make you get.

2034
01:41:52,320 --> 01:41:54,040
Speaker 2: Naughty, say my name.

2035
01:41:54,160 --> 01:41:55,800
Speaker 1: When I beat beet beef.

2036
01:41:56,000 --> 01:41:56,640
Speaker 2: We can do it.

2037
01:41:56,800 --> 01:41:59,240
Speaker 1: In a pool of the jeep jep jeep because girl,

2038
01:41:59,280 --> 01:42:00,120
Speaker 1: you know you turn.

2039
01:42:00,200 --> 01:42:02,800
Speaker 2: To me home, so they been eyeing me.

2040
01:42:03,439 --> 01:42:05,800
Speaker 1: She looking like she's thinking about trying me.

2041
01:42:06,479 --> 01:42:06,960
Speaker 2: She want it.

2042
01:42:07,080 --> 01:42:10,000
Speaker 1: She can't take no more. I'm about to take her

2043
01:42:10,040 --> 01:42:12,880
Speaker 1: to my spide I'm gonna get it hot. She gonna

2044
01:42:12,920 --> 01:42:15,839
Speaker 1: turn around and let me beat beat.

2045
01:42:15,200 --> 01:42:15,760
Speaker 3: Be beat.

2046
01:42:16,240 --> 01:42:19,240
Speaker 2: She gonna let me beat beat beat beat beat. She

2047
01:42:19,400 --> 01:42:21,160
Speaker 2: gonna let me beat beat beat me.

2048
01:42:21,920 --> 01:42:28,519
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, it's screaming like, go go go, go

2049
01:42:29,240 --> 01:42:30,040
Speaker 1: go go.

2050
01:42:30,720 --> 01:42:33,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have a screaming light go go, go.

2051
01:42:34,640 --> 01:42:36,240
Speaker 4: Go go go.

2052
01:42:36,960 --> 01:42:37,839
Speaker 2: I'm gonna serve.

2053
01:42:39,160 --> 01:42:39,639
Speaker 3: Condo.

2054
01:42:39,960 --> 01:42:41,720
Speaker 2: I can make it rain, I can make it.

2055
01:42:41,840 --> 01:42:42,560
Speaker 1: Clap of me.

2056
01:42:42,840 --> 01:42:46,639
Speaker 2: He's driving me crazy. I know you want me this girl,

2057
01:42:46,680 --> 01:42:47,240
Speaker 2: I want you.

2058
01:42:47,840 --> 01:42:51,960
Speaker 1: Tell me hen we kick it tonight, lights camera action.

2059
01:42:52,360 --> 01:42:56,360
Speaker 1: I'll play director, turn you out, let me sneak up, peek,

2060
01:42:56,840 --> 01:42:59,360
Speaker 1: turn you out on a late night creep.

2061
01:42:59,479 --> 01:43:01,479
Speaker 2: I ain't playing in no games to night.

2062
01:43:02,560 --> 01:43:02,720
Speaker 4: Man.

2063
01:43:03,479 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 2: Mean, she look like you's thinking about trying me. No money,

2064
01:43:09,720 --> 01:43:15,320
Speaker 2: no more, no more. I might get a high beat

2065
01:43:15,439 --> 01:43:18,240
Speaker 2: beat beat beat beat. She gonna make me a beat

2066
01:43:18,360 --> 01:43:22,639
Speaker 2: beat beat beat beat beat beat beat beat beat.

2067
01:43:25,240 --> 01:43:29,680
Speaker 4: Miss's all for sirs.

2068
01:43:30,680 --> 01:43:33,600
Speaker 1: I swagon out, I got inos, She says. She likes

2069
01:43:33,640 --> 01:43:33,960
Speaker 1: the way.

2070
01:43:34,160 --> 01:43:36,320
Speaker 2: Work her out til she passing out. You want to

2071
01:43:36,400 --> 01:43:36,920
Speaker 2: be with us?

2072
01:43:36,960 --> 01:43:37,840
Speaker 1: Thought for baby.

2073
01:43:37,920 --> 01:43:40,200
Speaker 2: I'm an astronaut. Let alick the rapper.

2074
01:43:40,240 --> 01:43:41,720
Speaker 1: I call it a jawbreaker.

2075
01:43:42,080 --> 01:43:43,639
Speaker 2: If her back was the law, didn.

2076
01:43:43,560 --> 01:43:49,920
Speaker 8: Call me the lawbreaker. Call me the lawbreaker. What if

2077
01:43:50,000 --> 01:43:53,840
Speaker 8: her back was the law, call me.

2078
01:43:53,880 --> 01:44:03,479
Speaker 2: The law break man. We'll see y'all next week. Happy

2079
01:44:03,560 --> 01:44:05,880
Speaker 2: New Year, mother, Fuck me do my little one cheek

2080
01:44:09,000 --> 01:44:11,120
Speaker 2: all right? This ship up