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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Sca, Tilly and Tan Your Bad and

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Speaker 1: I Heart Radio and People's Choice award winning podcast. That's right, people,

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Speaker 1: we are an award winning podcast. That's right one more time,

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Speaker 1: because we are the little engine that could, and we did,

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Speaker 1: we could, and we did. We beat Oprah round one,

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Speaker 1: which was like Pish posh Amy Schumer on a Farriss

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Speaker 1: the Lady Gang, which we thought had it in the back,

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Speaker 1: chicks in the office, like we were up against some

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Speaker 1: mega bird that shepherd. You know, that's a big show.

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Speaker 1: Guess what for Our listeners all came in behind Scrubbing In.

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Speaker 1: I mean knew even it's all the listeners. All credit

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Speaker 1: to all credit to the listeners, All credit to Tania

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Speaker 1: like rallied, all credit to Sophia and Paulina. There was

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Speaker 1: all credit to your family's teacher in Serbia. I got

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Speaker 1: the whole university, voted the whole country of Serbia. Here's

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Speaker 1: the thing. I'm gonna be brutally honest with you guys

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Speaker 1: right now, because we don't have as many listeners as

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Speaker 1: some of those other shows, so that means our people

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Speaker 1: really made this happen. Lastly, they may be voted a

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Speaker 1: hundred times each. First, I had a girl last weekend

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Speaker 1: at Albertson's and she said she voted five hundred times

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Speaker 1: a day. I'm like, how many email addresses is that?

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Speaker 1: Don't do them? Don't even like being sarcastic either. She

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I voted five hundred times a day.

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Speaker 1: I was like, that's what I'm saying. Like, I was

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Speaker 1: laying in bed last night thinking the amount of subscribers

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Speaker 1: and listeners come from ours compared to the other podcast,

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Speaker 1: Like if everyone just did it, if everyone got like

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Speaker 1: one vote per email whatever, and that was like limited,

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Speaker 1: there's no chance. So that means our listeners put in

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Speaker 1: so much. Yeah. People were like complaining too, because they

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Speaker 1: were like two chicks in office. They won on Twitter

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Speaker 1: they had the most tweet votes or whatever, and this

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Speaker 1: is rigged. And I was like thank you next, like

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Speaker 1: like this is not like there, what does that mean? No,

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Speaker 1: there was like a thing that you could retweets. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but that was just that was just one way that

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Speaker 1: you could vote. Yeah. I love the story of how

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Speaker 1: you found out that you want. Please take us through

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Speaker 1: your night life. Where do we start? Start from the

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Speaker 1: beginning of the day. I came over so which was

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Speaker 1: so cute. So yeah, so the event for the first

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Speaker 1: The event was on the West Side in Santa Monica,

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Speaker 1: and for some reason we were like, let's get ready

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Speaker 1: to get Tanny is in Studio City. It's because the

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Speaker 1: It was like traffic got over there, so we're getting ready.

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Speaker 1: We're like talking about like, oh, we don't know if

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Speaker 1: they're gonna We didn't know. We didn't expect them to

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Speaker 1: and we're this is a new category. But we thought

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Speaker 1: They they have other awards that they just kind of

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Speaker 1: So we get ready, we're we're going we're kind of

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Speaker 1: we should be super proud of. However, it doesn't define

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Speaker 1: like what we're putting out there, whether we want or not,

425
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Speaker 1: like what we're doing. And like I I got a

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Speaker 1: tweet that I want to read in a little bit

427
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,679
Speaker 1: that I I like teared up this morning reading it

428
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Speaker 1: because it was like, Wow, we're doing so much more

429
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: than just like talking, oh yeah, and we've we've truly

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Speaker 1: have created a community of people that like feel like

431
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Speaker 1: can be authentically themselves. They can be kind and nice

432
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Speaker 1: and and it's I don't know, it's cool to be

433
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Speaker 1: like that, and I think it's really special. And I

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Speaker 1: mean I know we're joking like during our acceptance speech

435
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Speaker 1: and stuff like that, because I can't go into the

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Speaker 1: like heartfelt place because I will cry, Like I will

437
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Speaker 1: go into a like a really I want to say

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Speaker 1: dark place, because this award means so much to me personally,

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Speaker 1: But I want to keep it like light and bright,

440
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Speaker 1: because I think it's okay to to say, like how

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Speaker 1: grateful we are that anyone listens. Yeah, like you, we

442
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Speaker 1: don't take that for granted. It is so kind that

443
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Speaker 1: somebody takes an hour out of their life to listen.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's really that's not means a lot. It's

445
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Speaker 1: not even like that. It's like listens, yes, and the

446
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Speaker 1: and the like the fact that this woman voted five

447
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: hundred times a day for for this podcast, and it's

448
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Speaker 1: like people and like the one woman on the carpet

449
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Speaker 1: that was interviewing me, I feel like you were with

450
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: the person next to me. She said that she wanted

451
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Speaker 1: to dress up in red scrubs because she was such

452
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Speaker 1: a fan of the podcast, and she in a nod

453
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Speaker 1: to to helping me find my red starburst and I

454
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: was just like, I know, I'm like, it gets gets

455
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Speaker 1: really yeah. She was a reporter, yeah, And I was

456
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Speaker 1: just like, get I get really emotional because I think

457
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: like for a lot of times, and I mean I

458
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Speaker 1: feel like Amy and Mark you can attest to this,

459
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 1: especially like in my early years in radio, I was

460
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: told like don't talk so much. Yeah, start not enough,

461
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Speaker 1: you're not good enough, or you're too much of a

462
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Speaker 1: cartoon character, and I'm not. Yeah. I like really it

463
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 1: got hit hard, hard, hard in the beginning of my

464
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Speaker 1: career and so like to be on the other end

465
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Speaker 1: of it right now is like my mind is still

466
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Speaker 1: just like blow, Like I really don't even have words,

467
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Speaker 1: so like it. It's not so much the award, but

468
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Speaker 1: it's almost like it's like a message of like we're

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Speaker 1: doing something powerful, We're doing something like Becca just said,

470
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Speaker 1: someone sent her a message that made her tear up.

471
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 1: It comes our way to It means so much when

472
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Speaker 1: somebody rights or has an opinion or feeling and look,

473
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Speaker 1: you guys are cute and smart and wonderful and all

474
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Speaker 1: those things, but you're also imperfect and authentic. And I

475
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: think for me that's why I like you guys so much.

476
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Speaker 1: It's like nobody's putting on airs with you two. It's

477
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Speaker 1: like this is what we are, sorry, and I know,

478
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Speaker 1: And that's always why I like. It's hard when somebody

479
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: like says something about your character because I'm like, that's

480
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Speaker 1: just how I am, you know what I mean, Like

481
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: I am I am a cartoon character at times, but

482
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Speaker 1: like I don't really know what else, no other way

483
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,640
Speaker 1: to be other than myself, you know, yeah, I mean

484
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Speaker 1: I agree. I think it's like I mean, I just

485
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Speaker 1: like this last week for some reason, I had like

486
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 1: a ton of like trolls on my Instagram being like

487
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: Becca's had surgery, Beca looks so different, and I'm like,

488
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,719
Speaker 1: I I've gained weight, so I think my face looks fuller,

489
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: and people are like she has like fillers. I don't know,

490
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,879
Speaker 1: but it's like it was like really mean, and I haven't.

491
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Speaker 1: I really haven't. I don't deal with that a lot.

492
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people do. And I've always

493
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: heard like, oh you know, like I remember hearing like

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Speaker 1: the more I remember actually, I think one of the

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Speaker 1: Kardashians said it words live by but they said, the

496
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Speaker 1: more successful you get, the more haters you're going to have.

497
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Speaker 1: And so I always have thought like I don't want

498
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Speaker 1: I don't necessarily want hate, like I don't want that,

499
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Speaker 1: like I want to be able to be successful people

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Speaker 1: still be nice to me. But it was just a

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Speaker 1: moment of being like, well, these people should not define

502
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Speaker 1: like what I feel about myself for my confidence or

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00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: like what I'm you know, putting out there for other

504
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: people just because they're hurting my feelings. So Kristen Dalton

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Speaker 1: is going to be here in just a second. I'm

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00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: super excited to talk to her. Um. But first Mark

507
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 1: and Tania are going to tell me about Amazon Fire Tanya,

508
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Speaker 1: what are you watching lately? What's your what's your thing?

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Speaker 1: What are you really into right now? Well? On YouTube?

510
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: Sure or anywhere? Well, you know, I have that show

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Speaker 1: with Brad. You have a show on YouTube. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's it called. It's called the b Rad and t

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Speaker 1: Rad Show. That's fantastic. Yeah. So we've actually been watching

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Speaker 1: a lot of YouTube videos to kind of figure out

515
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Speaker 1: like kind of the direction that we want to go

516
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Speaker 1: in be Rad, Brad and Rad. Yeah, I get that.

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Speaker 1: So the cool thing is now with Amazon Fire TV,

518
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Speaker 1: you don't have to watch that on your phone anymore.

519
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: You can watch it on the giant screen. So if

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Speaker 1: you can't get enough Tanya and be Rad, you can

521
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Speaker 1: watch it on TV now Magical. You made it. You

522
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Speaker 1: got your own TV show through Amazon Fire TV, Mom

523
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Speaker 1: and Dad. It brings all the live and streaming content

524
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Speaker 1: you love to the biggest screen in your house. You

525
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Speaker 1: can watch everything you love with access to Netflix, Prime Video,

526
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Speaker 1: Hulu and so much more, and of course YouTube videos websites.

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Speaker 1: You can do Facebook on fire TV. You can do Reddit,

528
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Speaker 1: by the way, go and read it and see what

529
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Speaker 1: they're saying about this show that's bad, it's been okay lately,

530
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Speaker 1: but they have long opinions and read about all podcasts. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: go check that out. Check that out. You know you

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00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: can also do which is kind of cool. Is I

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Speaker 1: hear radio? You can listen to this podcast through your

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Speaker 1: fire TV. That's awesome. You can really do it all

535
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Speaker 1: and it's really simple. You just plug it in and

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Speaker 1: you're connected to WiFi and you're off. And then you

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00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 1: know how Alexa is your best friend. Well, now Alexa

538
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Speaker 1: is going to be in your TVs. You can say, Alexa,

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Speaker 1: open YouTube or Alexa open up Netflix, Alexa, find me

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Speaker 1: some comedies. Alexa, I really need a romantic movie right now.

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Speaker 1: Whatever it is, Alexa can help you navigate that. Awesome.

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Speaker 1: So there it is. Just go to Amazon dot com

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Speaker 1: slash scrubbing in. You can get a fire TV if

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Speaker 1: you're very own and you know, they make great gifts

545
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Speaker 1: this holiday season, a super gifts. Yeah, it's not expensive

546
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Speaker 1: and you're gonna tell somebody you love them so much.

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Speaker 1: Amazon dot Com slash scrubbing in. Okay, I want to

548
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: talk about the Farmer's Dog. So Phoebe loves to eat

549
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Speaker 1: no matter what. I'm not gonna lie. She is an eater,

550
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Speaker 1: but like mother, like daughter. Yeah, but she is obsessed

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Speaker 1: with the Farmer's Dog because I have tried. You know,

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Speaker 1: I was cooking for her beef and rice, like on

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Speaker 1: a regular basis. I cooked more for her than I

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Speaker 1: ever did for myself, and I got tired of it.

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Speaker 1: And so I was trying different foods and she literally

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Speaker 1: want to eat them. So I was like, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to try the Farmer's Dog. It's like fresh food that

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Speaker 1: they cook and it has like carrots, spinach, chickpeas. It's

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Speaker 1: like healthy food for your dog. It's basically what I

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Speaker 1: did if I upped my cooking skills and they sent

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Speaker 1: it straight to straight to my door. That's your favorite part. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I decided to try it, and she loves it.

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Speaker 1: She loved it immediately. It's not like I had to

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Speaker 1: like encourage her. It was an instant thing. Um dog.

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Speaker 1: A ton of dog food companies claim to use natural ingredients.

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Speaker 1: But I mean most of the food that our dogs

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Speaker 1: are eating, or like hard burnt pieces of food in

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Speaker 1: a bag, and it seems like like I would never

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Speaker 1: eat that. Why would I ever expect? It's just like

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Speaker 1: the Farmer's Market for dogs. Basically I enjoy that. Um.

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Speaker 1: So what you do? You go on the Farmer's Dog

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Speaker 1: dot com and you feel out a quiz about your dog,

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Speaker 1: like what kind of dog she is? What I mean,

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Speaker 1: what breed, how much she weighs, what sort of meat

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Speaker 1: she would prefer if she wants it? Um, And then

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Speaker 1: it arrives in preportioned packs, ready to open and pour.

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Speaker 1: It's easy, it doesn't smell bad because it's real food.

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Speaker 1: Studies show that adding fresh food to your dog's diet

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Speaker 1: can reduce some cancers by close to So I'm all

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Speaker 1: about that. So start feeding your dog better today. Try

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Speaker 1: plus you get free shipping. Get your first week free

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Speaker 1: at the Farmer's Dog dot Com slash Becca one more

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Speaker 1: time the Farmer's Dog dot Com slash Becca. Alright, so,

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Speaker 1: as we said before, we have a very special guest today.

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00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 1: UM pretty much embodies what this podcast is about we

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00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: have Kristen Dalton Wolf in the building. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for being here. Oh my gosh, I'm so excited

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00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: to be here after y'all. Just want to people. I

590
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: feel so honored. Well we feel honored, so thank you.

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00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 1: Um Wait, where are you from? I'm from North Carolina? Okay,

592
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: I heard it is that where you live currently? No,

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Speaker 1: I'm here okay, got it right down the street. So

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Speaker 1: I was real happy that you you record here in Bank.

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Speaker 1: It is your husband live here too, Yes, husband and

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Speaker 1: a daughter, Aurora sixteen months and I'm pregnant. Could see her,

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Speaker 1: you would never guess, like literally, well if the morning,

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Speaker 1: so I haven't eaten that much, so it's you know,

599
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Speaker 1: stomach is flatter in the morning, but when I eat

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Speaker 1: throughout the day you can see a little. Are you

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Speaker 1: having Are you having morning sickness or anything? No, thank goodness.

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Speaker 1: Did you have it with your first the whole first

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Speaker 1: twelve weeks? But it's a boy congratulation. No morning sickness.

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Speaker 1: But I am having You can't tell as much right now,

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Speaker 1: but I'm having like break out some of my cheeks,

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Speaker 1: which is hormonal. I can't because yeah, that's so crazy.

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Speaker 1: Signs that you're having a boy out on her cheeks.

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Speaker 1: Should be pregnant with the boy all the time. We

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Speaker 1: hear how you met your husband was just that was

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Speaker 1: the next question. Oh my gosh, I love that you

611
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Speaker 1: all want to know. I love talking about my husband. Um. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we met at a Bible study here in Los Angeles. Um.

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Speaker 1: It was right when it was first starting. Have you

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Speaker 1: ever gone to um judasmissed Bible study contage? I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it's still there, but so I went to

616
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: that like when it when it was very first starting

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Speaker 1: before when it was in Um. Yes, so that's where

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Speaker 1: we met. Yeah, when it was in the living room.

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Speaker 1: There was like twenty people there, and I was actually

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Speaker 1: there because I liked another guy. But and I love

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Speaker 1: God to but so I was interested another guy that

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Speaker 1: he didn't give me the time of day. That night. Um,

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Speaker 1: but my husband Chris came up to me, and he

624
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 1: just has this very like warm, approachable personality. He kind

625
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: of treats everybody the same, like hey, you know, Like,

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Speaker 1: so he was very he wasn't flirting with me, He

627
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Speaker 1: didn't really have game. You know. I didn't feel like

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Speaker 1: he was coming on to me, which is good because

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Speaker 1: that makes me I don't like that, you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: like thank you next. So then that makes me feel

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Speaker 1: like like I have to, you know, have game back exactly.

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Speaker 1: So I just felt very comfortable with him. I thought

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Speaker 1: he was one of the leaders who was just trying

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Speaker 1: to make me feel welcomed. But then but then this

635
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 1: like a really pretty girl who was one of his friends,

636
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 1: came up behind him and threw her arms around him

637
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: and she's like, let's go up to the rooftop. And

638
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: he was like, oh my gosh, you just you know,

639
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 1: ruined my chance at getting her number. So so then

640
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 1: later that night he found me on Facebook and friended

641
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 1: me and sent me a message. The next day. I

642
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: was like, so nice to meet you last night. Hey.

643
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 1: By the way, um, my friends and I were going

644
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 1: to play beach volleyball this weekend. When you want to come?

645
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, I'm introverted and I don't really

646
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: want a thing out Like funny, I was invited to

647
00:34:55,239 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: those volleyballs. Well did you ever go? No? Yeah? Why?

648
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: Probably the same reason as me. I don't know why

649
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: I never went to be honest, do you play volleyball?

650
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 1: That's part of it, Like, like like I get that you

651
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: could just go and just like hang like I do

652
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: that a lot, like, but I can't remember why I

653
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: never went. Yeah, that's just not how I want to

654
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 1: get to know someone, like if you want to date me,

655
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:25,720
Speaker 1: like ask me on a date. You know. Well there, okay, alright.

656
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: So I just didn't respond until Monday, and I was like, oh,

657
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I'm really bad at checking Facebook. And

658
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, me too. He told me later he

659
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 1: was checking like every five minutes. And then he's like,

660
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: you know I should, so I should probably just get

661
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 1: your number and and so I gave it to him,

662
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: but then I and then he gave me his number back,

663
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 1: but I didn't save it in my phone, so when

664
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: he called me, you know, it was just an anonymous number.

665
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 1: Don't answer that, So I don't answer. They go straight

666
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 1: to my voice small. So I listened to my voice

667
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 1: and he's like, Kristen Dalton, it's so nice to me

668
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,399
Speaker 1: the other night, blah blah blah. We remember he said

669
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 1: he was very confident, but he didn't introduce himself, and

670
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: so I was like, I give my number two uh,

671
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 1: and then I was like, oh, I think it was

672
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 1: that guy on Facebook. So we ended up texting. I

673
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,320
Speaker 1: don't like to talk on the phone. I get really nervous,

674
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: so we so he would like call me every day

675
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: for like two weeks and I'll text him back. And

676
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 1: then finally one night he called me and I had

677
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 1: had a couple of glasses in one and I was like,

678
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: what the heck and we ended up talking for like

679
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: six hours. Oh this is so relatable. I feel like

680
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 1: this is how so many people feel because it's so

681
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: easy to be like I just wish someone would pick

682
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 1: up the phone and call me, but I'm like, I

683
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: don't like talking, like I don't necessarily want that, and

684
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 1: I really enjoy a phone call. That's just me. Well,

685
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: I think, on one hand, because I'm pretty traditional when

686
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: it comes to like the guy personective girl, and I

687
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: want you to pick me up, I want you to

688
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: take me on the day, like all the things. But

689
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: it is really weird how there's some parts of me

690
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 1: that are like, let's you know, I want to like

691
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:58,439
Speaker 1: text you yeah, oh yeah, because I feel I guess

692
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: it's because I feel a little bit of pressure, sure

693
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 1: when I don't have any really context. We haven't really

694
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: hung out before, so I know you're calling me because

695
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: you like me, and so then I just felt nervous.

696
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 1: Well yeah, but I feel like so cute. I can't

697
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: I'm like freaking out so sweet. Well, we kind of

698
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: have like go back and forth on the because I

699
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: I've always been way more traditional in the sense of like, no,

700
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: if he wants me, he'll come get me. But I

701
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 1: do I have noticed, like I think Tanya is has

702
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 1: a very different approach of being well, she goes back

703
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: and forth. She likes she goes between, I want to

704
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: be pursued, like if he wants to come and get

705
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: me too. I'm a modern woman. I can make things happen,

706
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 1: right a woman. I can like I can talk, but

707
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 1: I think in my mind there's a bigger like God's

708
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: got me. So it's like there's nothing I can do

709
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 1: to mess it up. Do you know what I'm saying.

710
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: So if I want to talk to somebody, or I

711
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 1: want to reach out and I want to know to

712
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: text somebody first, or it's like I'm gonna do it.

713
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: I mean God's got you, but he also gives you

714
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 1: like common sense to like know when to either stand

715
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 1: back or let something happen. It's I heard I heard

716
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 1: someone say that similar sentiment the other day about how

717
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,879
Speaker 1: like if it's God's plan, like I can't mess it up,

718
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 1: and but I do think you can derail it, and

719
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: there can be there can be a distraction and a

720
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 1: detour that will take longer to get to his purpose

721
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 1: or his plan if you're if you're acting like in accordance. Yeah,

722
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 1: it's funny because I feel like, I, um, I'll go

723
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 1: on like a spree where I'll just like have all

724
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: like I think it was like maybe two months ago,

725
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: I was like like four guys and in my like

726
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 1: whatever world. Yeah, and it was one of my best

727
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: friends bad. He's like Tony, it's hectic energy, Like you

728
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 1: need to just like be done with all of these

729
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,839
Speaker 1: guys and just like do you? And I was like,

730
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 1: you know what, I've just been doing them. I've just

731
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 1: been doing me and like I'm really just good. Like

732
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 1: it feels good when you say you've been doing you

733
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:57,959
Speaker 1: what do you mean by that? Just like doing living

734
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 1: my life, working, hang off my friends, winning People's Choice awards,

735
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, seriously, being so just fulfilled, totally happy,

736
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: which is which actually gets us to the sparkle effect. Yeah, yeah,

737
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: I mean it's kind of about that. I mean, it's

738
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: about living your life being It's like you might not

739
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,720
Speaker 1: have you know, X y Z fill in the blank

740
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: of like what everybody's society says that you need to

741
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: have to have like the perfect happy life. You're saying,

742
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,959
Speaker 1: just be happy with yourself and you're going to create

743
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: that energy. Right Well. I feel like in especially today's

744
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:42,879
Speaker 1: kind of like social media Instagram world, we think that

745
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: in order to be successful, in order to win in

746
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: life or to get the guy or the dream or

747
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: whatever it is, we have to have certain qualities in

748
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:54,359
Speaker 1: order to get there, Like we have to come from

749
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: a wealthy family, or have a certain amount of money

750
00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: in our bank account where parents who are very connected

751
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 1: um or uh, a certain relationship status or a certain

752
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: amount of followers on Instagram or like some comments or

753
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:11,800
Speaker 1: verified status or whatever it is. And I have just noticed, Um,

754
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: so I'm a former Miss USA and when I was

755
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: competing at Miss Do I say um. In that world,

756
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: it's like there's this whole kind of like subculture of

757
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: fans who make their prediction lists and rank the girls,

758
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: and they predict who's gonna be in the top fifteen,

759
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: top five, who's gonna win and when I was going

760
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: to compete, I wasn't on anyone's radar. Um. I didn't

761
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 1: have like that's right girl, I wasn't. I wasn't necessarily

762
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 1: the most beautiful girl. UM. I remember comments about how

763
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:40,919
Speaker 1: he looked, how it was very plain, how I wasn't

764
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: like what is they called a head turner? Um. And

765
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 1: so I wasn't on anyone's prediction list. And I didn't

766
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 1: have like all of the the fans and the followers

767
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 1: and what you think you need in order to win.

768
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: But I was like that's okay because I had a

769
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: voice within me that had told me since I was

770
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: a little girl, like you're to be Miss USA one

771
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: day and I listened to that, and I was like,

772
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: I just can't wait for these people to see it

773
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 1: when they when they see me on the telecaster, because

774
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 1: I know like there is something else and people call

775
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: it the factor. Um, it's like this aura or this

776
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: radiance about a girl that just draws you to or

777
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 1: it's like warm magnetic it makes you feel comfortable. But

778
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 1: it's like this mysterious kind of invisible quality that really

779
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:29,720
Speaker 1: hasn't been defined. And I feel like the it factor,

780
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,760
Speaker 1: like when when you talk about it. It sets girls

781
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 1: up to fake it till they make it or to

782
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: turn it on um, and then you're just operating from

783
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: this place of like faking um emptiness, not really feeling confident.

784
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: You're just like acting confident. And I used to do

785
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 1: that like when I was when I was young. I

786
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 1: remember I was, I was so good at walking in

787
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 1: school and being like hey, smiling, acting happy, acting confident,

788
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,280
Speaker 1: but not feeling it and not feeling sure of myself

789
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: on the inside. And and I just so I wrote

790
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 1: the Sparkle Effect because that night after I won Miss USA,

791
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,359
Speaker 1: the head judge came up to me and she's like, um, hey,

792
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:10,879
Speaker 1: christ and I just want to let you know that

793
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 1: after they announced the top fifteen, all the judges leaned

794
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: into me and they were like, how do we know

795
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: who to pick? All these girls are like pretty and qualified,

796
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 1: And she's like, you're going to see it in a

797
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: girl through the night. It's the girl who sparkles. It's

798
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,439
Speaker 1: in her eyes and in her smile. And she's like, Chris,

799
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 1: and I just want to let you know that girl

800
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: was you. And after they leaned in after the commercial break,

801
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,800
Speaker 1: they were like, we see here, we're talking about we

802
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 1: see the girl who sparkles, and Um. I was like, oh,

803
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: that's so cool because I was on a winning high,

804
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 1: you know. And then I moved to Los Angeles after

805
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 1: my years in miss USA, I was like going on auditions.

806
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 1: I started judging pattern as I was coaching girls working

807
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: in ministry, and I started to see firsthand that it

808
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: was true. It's like not always the girl that like

809
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: when you look at her right away, you're like, oh

810
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: my gosh, she's so pretty. She has everything it takes.

811
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,720
Speaker 1: But it's not necessarily like the obvious choice that rises

812
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: to the top. It's this girl with this this sparkle

813
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 1: about her. And so I was just asking the question,

814
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: you know, are you born with that? Does everybody get?

815
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 1: Is only meant for some girls? Like can it be taught?

816
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 1: And I'm a Christian? Um, And when I moved out

817
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 1: to l A, someone told me for the first time.

818
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: They're like, Christen, don't you know that you are a

819
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 1: daughter of the king, because I believe that God is

820
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: the king of the world. And I was like, that's

821
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: so it was a paradigm shifting moment for me. I

822
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, if I'm a daughter of the king,

823
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 1: then that makes me a princess like full time, and

824
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: that makes me royalty. And I realized that so much

825
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: of my life I was like pressing into, I was

826
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: like striving from this place of emptiness. I was trying

827
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 1: to like make God proud, prove myself to people. And

828
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: I realized that actually, all along I already was all

829
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: the things I was trying to be. And if that

830
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: was true for me, then it's true for every girl

831
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,240
Speaker 1: because we're all God's daughter, and that makes us all royalty,

832
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: that makes us all approved, it makes us all fulfilled,

833
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: it makes us all like we're already operating from this

834
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: place of validation rather than for validation. And so I

835
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: was like, well, what would it what would it look

836
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:18,320
Speaker 1: like to define that thing, that invisible quality, the sparkle effect.

837
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: And so that's what I that's what I call it

838
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:23,319
Speaker 1: the sparkle effects of in my book, Um, I broke

839
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: it down in the thirty one qualities of what it

840
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,359
Speaker 1: really takes to press that out because it's in, It's

841
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 1: in all of us, are is available within all of us?

842
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: One for proverb, Um, yes, there's that, and then thirty

843
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:41,360
Speaker 1: one days of the month. Oh cool, it's like a

844
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: little devotional yeah, it can be. The chapters are are

845
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: pretty digestible and easy to read. Uh So yeah, that's

846
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:53,839
Speaker 1: so I wanted to make it because honestly, I just

847
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 1: went to New York for the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show

848
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:58,959
Speaker 1: and it was I mean, it was like a dream

849
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: come true. But it you I found myself being like,

850
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,799
Speaker 1: oh my, like, look, even not even just I mean

851
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 1: the models you almost like are able to separate, like

852
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: those are like Victoria's Secret Models and you know whatever,

853
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 1: but even just like the girls around me, it's like

854
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: you're looking and it's like, I'm you find yourself comparing

855
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: yourself and my I was telling my friend about I was.

856
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: We were texting back and forth and she was like, Becky,

857
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: you have you have someone. You have more than just

858
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: how you look like. You have something that's in you

859
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 1: and you have so much more to offer people than

860
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 1: just what you look like or what you wear, what

861
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: your makeup looks like. And I was like, and I

862
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: know that, Like I'm like very I'm a Christian too,

863
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: and I'm like very aware of like my worth and

864
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 1: where it comes from. But it was this moment of

865
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: where I got like in my head and people were

866
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 1: I was just telling them before you walked in. People

867
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: were commented, I literally, I don't know if I've gained

868
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 1: weight in my face or something. People are like like,

869
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: she's had so much work done and I had my

870
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: makeup done a different way and people are just like

871
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 1: it was like mean stuff, but really mean. And she

872
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: just had like baking on her face like really, I

873
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: mean for people, it's like under eyebright nerve, but it

874
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,439
Speaker 1: like got my nose contour, So I don't know, you're

875
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: something different, looks different. But it was like, oh, she

876
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: didn't makeup different, but instead people were very saying very

877
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: hurtful things, and it like really got in my head.

878
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: And I normally I never get like that, and for

879
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 1: some reason it like got to me, and I was

880
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 1: like what am I doing? Like why am I giving

881
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 1: these people who like don't even know who I am

882
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: as a person, Like they don't even know me personally.

883
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: I'm giving them my time, I'm giving them my energy,

884
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 1: and I'm letting them bring me down when I know

885
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: like who I am and what I have to offer

886
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: and it's so much more than how my makeup looks

887
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: or what my face looks like. And it was just

888
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,720
Speaker 1: like a weird moment of like allowing it to shift

889
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: me and I didn't like it. You know what, I'm

890
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 1: gonna go on your Instagram and I'm gonna troll those

891
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: comments so hard. I'm literally gonna respond to every single

892
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 1: person to say thank you, next, thank you, next, thank

893
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: you for your opinion, goodbye, because it's like, yeah, it's

894
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: so funny because it's like everyone's first instinct is to

895
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 1: go negative, you know what I mean. It's like they

896
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 1: comment that saying hurtful things when why yeah, you know

897
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like why, well, it's just like you're

898
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: reading the things of people like not going into that path.

899
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even I can't even imagine the

900
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: pageant world and being like why isn't anyone chosen me?

901
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: Like why isn't no one like thinking that I have

902
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 1: a chance. And it's that weird feeling that you're like

903
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:31,399
Speaker 1: and they don't know. Before you got here, we were

904
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 1: talking about earlier on in my radio career, how I

905
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: was told like that I was not good enough and

906
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm too much of a cartoon character and I'm ratings

907
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: poison ratings here and this is like about my personality,

908
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like that's like hurtful

909
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: and like it's really bad and totally but it's like

910
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: now all this is coming around and like just the

911
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: trajectory of my career is completely flipped. It's like you

912
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: have to kind of silence at all and just know.

913
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: And it's really hard to do. I don't really know

914
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 1: how anybody does it. And when you say that it

915
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:14,280
Speaker 1: doesn't get to you at all, you're lying. That is human.

916
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: The first the first part of having that and both

917
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: of you all totally have it. Otherwise you want to

918
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 1: have one of people's choice of word and and risen

919
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 1: above naysayers in your life and risen above the criticism.

920
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 1: The first part of having the sparkle effect is to

921
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 1: make a decision. A you have to make a decision

922
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 1: of like the fact that you you were here for

923
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: a purpose and you have a god given dream, and

924
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,360
Speaker 1: too you have to make a decision that you're going

925
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:42,240
Speaker 1: to believe that you are worthy because there are so

926
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 1: many moments and so many people, in so many situations

927
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 1: that are going to tell us the complete opposite. Just

928
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 1: like the other night when you were dealing with the

929
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: criticism about your face and your beauty and you were

930
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 1: like and then I and then you had that moment

931
00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: of weakness where it really got to you. But I mean,

932
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: having the Sparkle effect or being confident doesn't mean that

933
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: you're you're above your feelings. It just means that you're

934
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 1: gonna make a combat, that you're going to rise above it,

935
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 1: and you're gonna be like, hold on a second, hold

936
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: on a second. Actually I have a truth, a capital

937
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: T truth to cling onto that Trump's this And even today,

938
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:21,879
Speaker 1: like I had like a little bit of a moment

939
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: of weakness. I started feeling a little bit nervous as

940
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 1: I was walking in the building. Um, and I was like,

941
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:28,839
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I am I feeling like this? Am

942
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: I feeling like this? Into Yeah, I just started feeling

943
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: nervous and I and I don't really usually get nervous.

944
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: I get excited. But I started feeling nervous and like,

945
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:39,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to feel that way. It's completely against

946
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 1: the Sparkle effect. Why am I feeling this? And I'm

947
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: like it's okay, Like I'll just like because I'm really

948
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 1: good at if I feel nervous, I can act like

949
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: I'm confident. But I'm like, I don't want to do that.

950
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 1: You know, I don't want to fake it. And then

951
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: I was like, hold on, what do I need to

952
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 1: cling onto? That's true? And the truth is I've in

953
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 1: position for such a time as this, so I can

954
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 1: cling onto that I am here like I was invited

955
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,799
Speaker 1: here because I'm meant to be here, and y'all are

956
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 1: here because you're meant to be here, you know, And

957
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:10,799
Speaker 1: so just reminding ourselves of the truth. Yeah, when when

958
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: the little lies come in, I understand the nerves were

959
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 1: people's choice board winners. Yeah, I'm just like, what's happening

960
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: right now? Kicked him last night? I don't really I'm

961
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 1: more excited about stuff. The last night I got like

962
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 1: a little bit like, oh, I got that queasy feeling

963
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: of like, oh God, was it y'all's goal? Were you like,

964
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 1: we want this or were you kind of like did

965
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: you even think you were in the realm of possibility? Well?

966
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:41,720
Speaker 1: Originally it was at first it was not their own possibility,

967
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: but then once they made the first cut, Tiny made

968
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: it her mission. Yeah, became the only option was to win. Okay,

969
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: love that it was. It was mission possible. Yeah. I

970
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: was like, because I literally was like, if we don't

971
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 1: win this, I want to go down no wing that

972
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: we gave it everything that we possibly could happen. But

973
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: you've no doubt we did not lose against On Affairs

974
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: and Amy Schumer I heard. I heard Oprah too, but

975
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 1: that was like first round, Like what is that y'all?

976
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: I know, how long have you had your podcast in existence?

977
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: Just a year? A little over a year. This is exciting.

978
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 1: I feel like everyone's going to be so inspired to

979
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: start a podcast. I'm inspired to start. I think it's

980
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 1: I think it's cool because, um, even little things that

981
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 1: you do, like on a daily I feel like it's

982
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: it's you know, when you create this kind of when

983
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: you're saying you live a purposeful life, Like even just

984
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,399
Speaker 1: like the littlest things like somebody messaged me the other

985
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 1: day about how they've been feeling really badly about themselves

986
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,319
Speaker 1: physically and how I inspire them to like go go

987
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:55,320
Speaker 1: to the gym for that day. Yeah, just like little

988
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 1: things like that, you know what I mean? Cause it's

989
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,360
Speaker 1: like I make it a priority every single day to

990
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: do an hour of something for my help, whether it's

991
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 1: like walk or run or something. And um, they were

992
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 1: like I was not. I was literally about to talk

993
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: myself out of going to the gym, and then I

994
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 1: saw this story and like now I put my shoes

995
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 1: on and I'm going It's like just little things like that,

996
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's like it's constantly happening

997
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 1: even through this what you're saying, like you're touching so

998
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,439
Speaker 1: many people through this book, and um, I just think

999
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: it's it's really cool. I'm so happy that you're here

1000
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: today to thanks for having me so much work pressing

1001
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 1: this book out, y'all. Was it was like it was

1002
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: like so many things that I wrote about, like comparison,

1003
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 1: self doubt, confidence, When did you start writing like these

1004
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: these things, those things that I talked about, like overcoming

1005
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 1: and how to overcome it that I thought I was

1006
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: totally like above, they started being triggered, like just in

1007
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,399
Speaker 1: this this process because you know, like when you take

1008
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: new ground or new territory, like new Devil's come up,

1009
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: it's like new level, new devil. Um Facebook group is

1010
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: going to quote that one devil. And you also said

1011
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: something earlier, you said from validation, not for validation exact. Yeah,

1012
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: so you're operating like from victory, like you've already want

1013
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 1: you're already there you're already like you're you're operating from

1014
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 1: like this confidence that's like in you, and you're not

1015
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: like seeking it from outward sources. Eve, when did you

1016
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 1: start writing this, like time wise? Like what year? Uh,

1017
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 1: the end of two thousand fifteen. It took me four

1018
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 1: months to write it and then it takes like a

1019
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: year to publish. Right. Well, I was going to go

1020
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: the self publishing route because I've self published two other books,

1021
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 1: and I love that process because I'm I'm a maximizer

1022
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 1: at an activator. I like to get things done quit

1023
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: I don't like to wait for other people's um But

1024
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 1: I really wanted this one to This is the book

1025
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: I've been waiting to write, so I really wanted to

1026
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 1: do it justice that I talked to some people just

1027
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,760
Speaker 1: in the industry about it, and they're like, you should

1028
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: really go to the traditional publishing route. So just the

1029
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,439
Speaker 1: process of finding the book agent, at the book agent

1030
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 1: reading it, deciding she liked it, and then fishing it

1031
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 1: to publishing houses and then then making edits and having

1032
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: the phone calls and going through the deals. Like. It's

1033
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 1: finally released in October October two. So I've always wanted

1034
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 1: to write a book. So I'm so interested in like

1035
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 1: the process, the process. Everyone says, don't do it, but

1036
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, but I'm like, I really want to

1037
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 1: for some reason. I mean, it's not a money maker,

1038
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 1: like it's the passion project. It's a passion project. Yeah,

1039
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 1: and but that's my whole life, right truly. If it's

1040
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:31,880
Speaker 1: in your heart to do it, then you should do it. Hellover,

1041
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:33,839
Speaker 1: you should make it mission possible, just like he did

1042
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 1: with People's Choice. Like, you can do that, and you

1043
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 1: can write a book and we'll probably be New York

1044
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: Times bestseller gratitude. I do. Yeah, I actually that's cute.

1045
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 1: Oh hello, I know that your hair was long in

1046
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,840
Speaker 1: this and did you just recently chop it? It was

1047
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: a gradual process. Um. I had short hair trauma from

1048
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: the seventh grade. My mom is not a hair stylist,

1049
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,800
Speaker 1: and she cut my hair because that was like I

1050
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,320
Speaker 1: want to be cute and I have just hair because

1051
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: Cameron Diaz was like the thing at the time, and uh,

1052
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: but she it was not Cameron Diaz. You'll have a picture,

1053
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 1: I'll show you. It was a boy haircut. And I cried.

1054
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: I cried so hard in the bath. I cried every

1055
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 1: night for probably six months, um, and by the time

1056
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: I could put it in a ponytail, I would like

1057
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: slick it back with water and then hair spray it

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00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 1: down and then clip it with all those like little

1059
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:25,959
Speaker 1: clips to keep it fall. He just really took me back,

1060
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: flicking it back with the hair spray and water. Was Oh,

1061
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: my gosh, how old are you? Probably run? That age?

1062
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 1: The worst the worst had a really bad like at me.

1063
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 1: Sister g got me and cover my face and it

1064
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 1: was terrible. So so I was like, I will never

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00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: have short hair again. I only want to have long hair.

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00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: So for the longest time I had long hair. But

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00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:51,759
Speaker 1: then after my baby came, um, well, first of all,

1068
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 1: I would wake up with like breast milk and crusted

1069
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: in my hair, uh in this And then second of all,

1070
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 1: I just started feeling like heavy and yeah, just heavy.

1071
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 1: And I was like, I feel like I need to

1072
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 1: feel I want to feel fresh and light, and I

1073
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 1: need I need to change like reve like snap back

1074
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:16,399
Speaker 1: into like who I am, because motherhood can still your identity, y'all. Um.

1075
00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: And so it's kind of it's been five haircuts to

1076
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: get to this. I like gradual, well, Tanya, I just

1077
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: I read I didn't know that this is why you

1078
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 1: cut your hair, but I read on the um kiss

1079
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 1: website like, why is that real? Oh? That's I love

1080
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 1: that what happened? I have you read? I can't tell me,

1081
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: tell me why she didn't share that with me, so

1082
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:47,759
Speaker 1: I have to read, yeah, cut her hair popped up

1083
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: and it's like why the powerful reason why Tanya cut

1084
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 1: her hair? I'm like, that's click bait. It's funny because

1085
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: the moment, actually I think happened on the podcast where

1086
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,080
Speaker 1: it came out of my mouth, but my hair is

1087
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: really long for a long time, and um it was

1088
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 1: because somebody told me guys like long hair, and I

1089
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,839
Speaker 1: think I said it on the podcast, like guys like

1090
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 1: long hair. And the minute I heard it come out

1091
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,320
Speaker 1: of my mouth, I was like, this literally goes against

1092
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 1: everything that I say. It's like, I'm like, do what

1093
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: you want, do what makes you feel good. And I

1094
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 1: wanted to change. I definitely didn't want it to shore,

1095
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: but I'm happy that it is. Like I wanted so

1096
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 1: cute less than this and she did way more. But

1097
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm happy about it. And I'm just I'm happy that

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00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: I did it because it just really like it did

1099
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 1: it like change my vibe. Does it kind of make

1100
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: you want to keep cutting it? No? I think I'm good.

1101
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 1: I wanted it all to be in a ponytel okay,

1102
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 1: because I like work out a lot. I don't think

1103
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 1: I could handle the little scraggles. It's kind of cute, though,

1104
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: and it's you do you? Um? Honestly, I think you

1105
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 1: were the perfect first guest to have after this, because

1106
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 1: I think what our podcast is about is everything that

1107
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 1: you represent. It is about the sparkle effect, and I

1108
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 1: just didn't know what it was called, but that's I

1109
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 1: think that sums it up. So um. I feel like

1110
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 1: so many of our listeners have experienced what you have

1111
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 1: talked about, just even today, and I'm sure what you

1112
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: talked about in your book. And I think there's something

1113
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: that's so comforting about hearing someone who struggles and rises

1114
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: above the struggles. It's real and you're not above getting

1115
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 1: your feelings hurt. Like I think you think you miss USA,

1116
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 1: you think like got it off. Why would you have

1117
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 1: any insecurity? Yeah? Right, So, I I really can't thank

1118
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 1: you enough for being here. And it was really special

1119
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:44,000
Speaker 1: and I feel like really encouraged and I'm super excited

1120
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 1: to read this. Thanks yah, thanks for having me. Um,

1121
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: where can you buy the Sparkle Effect? You can get

1122
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:53,919
Speaker 1: it Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Target, Walmart, I think really

1123
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: anywhere you buy books, right, Yeah, everybody get it Sparkle Effect.

1124
00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:00,920
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming in. Scrubbing in today,

1125
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 1: scrubbing and I'm scrubbing out. Um. Wait, can we talk

1126
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: about what we got asked on the red carpet last

1127
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 1: night at the People Yeah, that was really nice and unexpected.

1128
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 1: A woman came up to Becca and I and asked

1129
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: us who our dentists were because our teeth are so great. Yeah.

1130
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 1: It was like a very unexpected question, but very appreciated. Yeah. Um,

1131
00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't. I couldn't tell her my dentist

1132
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 1: because I'm going to be honest, I don't go to

1133
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 1: the dentist as much as I should. And I can't

1134
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: remember my guy's name. I'm very happy to give her mind.

1135
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 1: Dr Bow. I love him. Yeah, I like my guy too,

1136
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 1: I just don't know his name. Um, but I wanted

1137
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 1: to say the reason why our teeth are so good

1138
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: is because we use quip, which is a toothbrush for

1139
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Speaker 1: those that right. For that is a toothbrush for those

1140
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Speaker 1: that you do not know. Um it's an electric toothbrush

1141
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: that's a fraction of the cost of bulkier brushes and

1142
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 1: while still packing just the right amount of vibrations to

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01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 1: help clean your teeth. Basically, um, it helps you clean

1144
01:00:05,200 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 1: for the dentist recommended two minutes with guiding pulses that

1145
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 1: remind you when to switch sides. Um. Yeah. They also

1146
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Speaker 1: have a subscription plan, so they deliver new brusheads on

1147
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: a dentist recommended schedule which is every three months for

1148
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 1: just five dollars, and that includes shipping worldwide. And finally,

1149
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 1: everybody loves Quip and they were on Oprah's Sorry oprah

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Speaker 1: Oh list, named one of Time's Best inventions, and is

1151
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Speaker 1: the first subscription electric toothbrush accepted by the American Dental Association.

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01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 1: Umquip starts at twenty five dollars. If you go to

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Speaker 1: get quip dot com slash Becca right now, you'll get

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Speaker 1: That's your first refill pack free at get quip dot

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Speaker 1: com slash Becca. That's spelled g et q u i

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Speaker 1: p dot com slash Becca. All right, if you are

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Speaker 1: code Becca. Got some emails here worth delving into. This

1182
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 1: is from Jenny, and this is something I think you

1183
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 1: have a strong opinion on both of you, because there

1184
01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 1: are a couple of sides to this um. Jenny says,

1185
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I've been together three years. I'm twenty three,

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01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 1: he's twenty six. My predicament is this. In the past year,

1187
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 1: he's gained weight, probably thirty to forty pounds. She said.

1188
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:25,479
Speaker 1: It's not the weight getting that bothers me. I still

1189
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:27,640
Speaker 1: love him. I find him extremely attractive as the fact

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01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 1: that he lives a very unhealthy lifestyle. Obesity runs in

1191
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 1: his family, and where he's going to get to the

1192
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 1: point where it's too hard to bounce back. How do

1193
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 1: I try to get him to live a healthier lifestyle

1194
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 1: without hurting his feelings. I've tried bringing it up nicely,

1195
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 1: but nothing ever changes. I don't want to wake up

1196
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 1: one day and have the man I love having health

1197
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: issues because of his unhealthy lifestyle. That's a tough one. Yeah,

1198
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 1: you read it as it's not the way game, though,

1199
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 1: worries me because I still love She says, it's not like, um,

1200
01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 1: cosmetic physically, she doesn't like like it's almost like if

1201
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 1: you're dating a guy, all of a sudden he starts

1202
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: bolding like she wants him to live a long, healthy life. Yes, Um,

1203
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 1: I have never dealt with this personally. I've always thought

1204
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: that if you know, being in a relationship, I think

1205
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 1: people are happy and they get comfortable and they kind

1206
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,600
Speaker 1: of like let themselves go in a sense of like

1207
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 1: they're happy and comfortable, so they don't feel like they

1208
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:27,400
Speaker 1: need to keep that part of themselves up. But I

1209
01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 1: think that maybe you could just tell him that, Um,

1210
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: maybe you start working out together, doing things together, say

1211
01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 1: that you want to have a healthier lifestyle and you

1212
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 1: want him to be a part of it. Um. And

1213
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: if he seems uninterested in that, then maybe you go

1214
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: a route of telling him that you're concerned. I mean,

1215
01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 1: thirty to forty pounds is not just I mean that's

1216
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: significantly somebody And this isn't about the thirty to forty pounds.

1217
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 1: But we've also we've talked many times about Rebecca, you

1218
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: don't eat the healthiest, so what if you're with a

1219
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 1: guy who started dropping hints that you know, and not

1220
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 1: because he thinks you're out of shape, because he's worried

1221
01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: about you. He's worried about your heart or your cholesterol

1222
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 1: or whatever it is, and he starts making hints. I

1223
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 1: don't feel like that's going to be received great. No,

1224
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:10,760
Speaker 1: that's what I actually my suggestion to her was going

1225
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 1: to be to not say anything to him and almost

1226
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 1: just let that let yourself be an example, like you

1227
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:19,439
Speaker 1: live a healthier life, like let him see you working out,

1228
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 1: and if we don't know if she does are but

1229
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:23,800
Speaker 1: if she, if she does, then that's all she can do.

1230
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 1: I think I don't think you can say anything to

1231
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 1: anybody to really like, I think a lot of times

1232
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:31,880
Speaker 1: people take comments like that not in the best light,

1233
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:34,640
Speaker 1: even if you have the best intentions, like no, see,

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01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: I disagree because I think if if someone said that

1235
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 1: to me, my feelings would be hurt. But I would

1236
01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 1: hear it, and it would it would make me want

1237
01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, Like, sometimes you don't even realize

1238
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: things like that because you're like in a place of contentment,

1239
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 1: you're not focused on it. So until someone else pointed out,

1240
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:54,480
Speaker 1: you're not gonna even know that you need to make

1241
01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 1: a change. So I think even though it's staying a

1242
01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 1: little bit, if I was dating a guy and he

1243
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 1: was like, hey, I love you, I think you're beautiful,

1244
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:03,479
Speaker 1: but I'm like concerned for your health and I want

1245
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: you I want you to be around for a long

1246
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 1: time and like I want to see you like live

1247
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 1: your best life and be healthy, I would be like,

1248
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:12,120
Speaker 1: even if I'm like I'm not doing anything about it,

1249
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:15,640
Speaker 1: it would stick. I would think about it every time

1250
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:18,600
Speaker 1: I ate something bad or something. But would you yeah,

1251
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:20,919
Speaker 1: at least for a little bit. It would at least

1252
01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 1: for a little bit. See there you go. I think.

1253
01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: I think you can't make a change for somebody, they

1254
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:28,080
Speaker 1: have to see it themselves, I think. So, I mean

1255
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,760
Speaker 1: he tested it for himself. She can't physically make him

1256
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 1: do it. But I think bringing it up and having

1257
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 1: a conversation about it would be like beneficial, have him

1258
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:37,640
Speaker 1: change his ways for a month and then go back.

1259
01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 1: Now just like be like, I'm concerned because I get

1260
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: what what if he doesn't do it on his own

1261
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 1: and he gets to a point where it's hard to

1262
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 1: like she said, hard to bounce back with like, does

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Speaker 1: but a point of very very difficult return where people

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Speaker 1: get way more discouraged because it's like, what, like where

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Speaker 1: do I even begin? Whereas he's at a place where

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Speaker 1: now where he could he could do that and like

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Speaker 1: get back to a healthy place. And I think her

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Speaker 1: not saying anything, I'm waiting for him to realize it

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Speaker 1: is not gonna benefit either of them well. As a

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Speaker 1: guy who spent I met my wife when I was

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Speaker 1: twenty six, and I spent most of those twenty six

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Speaker 1: years horizontal. I was a real guy who loved laying

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Speaker 1: on the couch and not doing much at all. Amy

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Speaker 1: has inspired me by finding fun things for us to

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Speaker 1: do together. So I would say, hiking, stuff that he enjoys,

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Speaker 1: that's active, do it with him. Don't say can you

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Speaker 1: go to the gym with me? He doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: do that. Take a spinning class with me, he doesn't

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Speaker 1: want to do that. But he might enjoy something like hiking,

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Speaker 1: and I know he'll enjoy um. The in my situation,

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Speaker 1: I don't know where you are in this situation. Three

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Speaker 1: years in Uh, my wife makes very healthy meals and

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Speaker 1: that's helped me a great deal so that her kind

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Speaker 1: of taking control of that and me knowing if I

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Speaker 1: just think what she makes, I'm gonna be fine. That's

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Speaker 1: helped me a lot too. Yeah, I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: even like cooked together and make it like a like

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Speaker 1: a date night where you cooked together. If you like

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Speaker 1: to cook and healthy food, then you do that more

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Speaker 1: and like try not to go out to eat as much,

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Speaker 1: because it's it's really hard. Like I even my friends

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Speaker 1: Like it's hard to be around someone who eats terrible

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Speaker 1: and like and try to be healthy. So you know,

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Speaker 1: Jessica Seinfeld put out that book about sneaking healthy food

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Speaker 1: into your kid's food. No, no, Jerry Seinfeld's wife put

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Speaker 1: out a book about sneaking spinach or whatever it is

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Speaker 1: they'll actually eat it. You literally have to treat guys

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Speaker 1: like that, we are children. But if you can sneak

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Speaker 1: healthy food, swap out the beef for turkey, he'll never

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Speaker 1: know that sort of thing. He's not gonna know. He's

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Speaker 1: gonna be appreciative of the meal and stuff, and if

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Speaker 1: but like even like it's so funny because even when

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Speaker 1: like made my own little oatmeal breakfast like I do

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Speaker 1: every day. But it is hard when you're like around

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Speaker 1: some like Becca who's like constantly wanting to eat like

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Speaker 1: you know, doesn't tempt me. But when she wants to

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Speaker 1: You know she started. I started eating healthy today. I

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Speaker 1: had Greek yogurt. I had Greek yogurt with blueberries and

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Speaker 1: egg whites. I'm having a rice cake and peanut butter

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Speaker 1: or almond butter first snack today. It begins good for you,

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Speaker 1: Be good for you, Becca, tell me good for you,

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Speaker 1: and it's like day five. We want to encourage you.

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Speaker 1: I always I can always get past breakfast. What about

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Speaker 1: Dr Pepper? I can't have that if I'm being healthy excellent,

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Speaker 1: But I mean I'm not. Here's the thing. I'm not

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Speaker 1: giving these things up forever. I'm just trying to like

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Speaker 1: have some balance in my life, and I can't have

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Speaker 1: like Dr pepper and right now because I can't balance it.

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Speaker 1: We'll get an update next week. Yeah, I think she

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Speaker 1: should suggest doing activities together, you being healthy being an example,

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Speaker 1: but also relaying the fact that you're just you know,

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Speaker 1: want him to be around for a long time, and

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Speaker 1: he feels discouraged about it. That's what I think, And

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Speaker 1: I say to the opposite, perfect advice. I don't get

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Speaker 1: how not talking about something like that benefits him at all,

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Speaker 1: Like if she's healthy working out, he sees that, and

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Speaker 1: it clearly hasn't done anything. So I'm just thinking has

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Speaker 1: to come from from within. I really do. I think

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Speaker 1: that conversation like like you said, you would do it

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Speaker 1: He clearly is not in his head, and she needs

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Speaker 1: to do it in a subtle, non confrontational kind of Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I love you. I think you're so sexy, and I

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Speaker 1: and I'll be better next week because I feel like

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Speaker 1: I was on my game. We all have a tired today.

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Speaker 1: will Beckham make it through a whole week of healthy eating?

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Speaker 1: I know you'all be sitting on the edge of your

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