Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio Podcast.
Speaker 1: Doesn't it feel just like more real when you're in
Speaker 1: a studio, like the heartbeat, all of it feels better
Speaker 1: in studio. I love your house. I love your house.
Speaker 1: Feel better. Oh, I see what you're saying. Yes, no,
Speaker 1: this yeah, this is like this feels like work, and
Speaker 1: I mean it does. Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But like we're showing up to work and yeah, not
Speaker 1: that the house doesn't feel like work, but this is
Speaker 1: like cool, Well it feels Fisher Price in comparison, doesn't
Speaker 1: it right? Like your your Fisher Price microphone and headphones
Speaker 1: that you have in my house compared to like where
Speaker 1: the I Heart Radio there's a gold microphone and they
Speaker 1: have a real microphone and real headphone. You guys, I'm
Speaker 1: not a baby anymore. So we're in Los Angeles right now.
Speaker 1: We wanted to just have a quick little Thanksgiving episode.
Speaker 1: It's going to be very short, but we just want
Speaker 1: to say hi. We will to run down a few things,
Speaker 1: have a few laughs, and then have you all go
Speaker 1: on your way, because we know you guys are busy
Speaker 1: this Thanksgiving season. But in l A though, Kristen, you
Speaker 1: had some things you wanted to discuss. L A Jenna's here.
Speaker 1: L A Jenna drives like a bat out of hell,
Speaker 1: and I'm confused where my friend is. Have you never
Speaker 1: seen her drive? Like, have you ever really ridden with?
Speaker 1: That's what I think it's actually going on. Is that
Speaker 1: what's happening. It was weird that you even wanted to drive,
Speaker 1: first of all, because I'm not used to that and
Speaker 1: you and then all of a sudden, I felt like
Speaker 1: I was on a really bad after school special, like
Speaker 1: I had been kidnapped, and I was being flipped around
Speaker 1: in the backseat like she's been like shuffled to and
Speaker 1: from and I'm like, what is happening? I mean, if
Speaker 1: you had a plow on the front of that suburban,
Speaker 1: there was about three cars that would have just been
Speaker 1: scooted to the side. She's a wild driver, Listen. I
Speaker 1: am a very defensive like I I like to take control,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, I'm not gonna know
Speaker 1: you aren't. I'm very safe though, Well that gets that one,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we almost got a wreck. Well, like
Speaker 1: I said, I said, mine is that one moment where
Speaker 1: I was three times that was like did you see
Speaker 1: the front at that point, I was like, I need
Speaker 1: to focus on my phone and my safety and make
Speaker 1: sure my will is updated. I was just making sure
Speaker 1: that like when I die, Eastern gets my stereo, you know, listen.
Speaker 1: But I did have one little oopsie and I go
Speaker 1: it was like that moment I go my bad, I go,
Speaker 1: Mobby no. But honestly, I mean, I'm not like y'all,
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a safe driver, especially when my kids
Speaker 1: are in the car. But when I'm here, I know
Speaker 1: how to drive in l A. Like, if you're not aggressive,
Speaker 1: you're not going to get out in the lane. You
Speaker 1: don't like Eastern, Hannah. You guys know you know he
Speaker 1: has known I'm talking about. You have to be aggressive
Speaker 1: because if not, you will not go awhere. Yeah, you'll
Speaker 1: get eating a lot, just like when every little Midwestern
Speaker 1: girl comes to Los Angeles, you will get eaten live
Speaker 1: in l A. Yeah. Well I don't know this because
Speaker 1: I was Jenna. She's like, like, move okay, this like
Speaker 1: you confuse how even a suburban became so small and
Speaker 1: had such a tight turn radius, Like I never it
Speaker 1: was very close call. But thanksgiving an episode, I am
Speaker 1: grateful for my health and safety. Actually a great driver.
Speaker 1: Thank you. I really do appreciate you taught me how
Speaker 1: to drive in l A. I mean, I'm still a
Speaker 1: lot more conservative than you are driving. But it's hard
Speaker 1: when like five cars going yellow. Yeah, Nashville doesn't do that.
Speaker 1: And also like in the canyons and stuff like when
Speaker 1: you're timid going like yes, you have to go slow
Speaker 1: ISSU around the corners. But if not, like again, you
Speaker 1: just gotta like own it. You're owning it. You gotta
Speaker 1: own your car and be safe. I'm safe drivers out there,
Speaker 1: I will say, though, it is very scary thinking about
Speaker 1: talking about driving. But don't they say that crashes usually
Speaker 1: happen the night before Thanksgiving. Yeah, it's the biggest bart
Speaker 1: night of the year, right, So instead of that, just
Speaker 1: stay home, don't drive, or a good and Uber Uber
Speaker 1: is a good choice. Uber is a good choice. Um. So, yes,
Speaker 1: we're in l A. I was supposed to I'm going.
Speaker 1: I'm going. Let's let's share our plans. I'm going to
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving for I'm going to Michigan for Thanksgiving. I was
Speaker 1: supposed to be in Michigan the full week, but I
Speaker 1: booked an audition. I can't say I don't think I
Speaker 1: can say what it's for you. I don't do that. So, um,
Speaker 1: things have been changing of when I am all right,
Speaker 1: i gotta drop the kids off in Michigan and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go to Chicago to film something. You said it
Speaker 1: like a girl. So I'm gonna film something in Chicago
Speaker 1: the day before Thanksgiving and then I have a flight
Speaker 1: from Thanksgiving to Michigan on Thanksgiving Day. Yeah okay, so
Speaker 1: but I'm like thinking the positive, right because I'm going
Speaker 1: to go back to gratefulness because Thanksgiving, I'm grateful that
Speaker 1: I have. You know, I booked a job, Like how
Speaker 1: cool is that? Right? And it's a little bit different
Speaker 1: than normal jobs for you huge, It's gonna be so
Speaker 1: much fun. I'm uh so, yeah, that's what my Thanksgiving
Speaker 1: plans are keeping. I actually am leaving California and going
Speaker 1: straight to Michigan. Hey, and on Thanksgiving Day. I've come
Speaker 1: up with the term this year. I call it unhosting.
Speaker 1: I talked about it. Um. Unhosting is the act of
Speaker 1: honoring oneself and not hosting a bunch of ungrateful people
Speaker 1: at a bed and breakfast that is actually your home
Speaker 1: over the hall of Day. So I'm unhosting this year,
Speaker 1: and we are flying. I'm flying into Michigan, which part
Speaker 1: again in Michigan and ourbor area. I'm googling how far
Speaker 1: away we're gonna be from each other. Nothing can keep
Speaker 1: us apart. Gramer And if you drive like you did
Speaker 1: in l A, you'd be there in five minutes. When's
Speaker 1: the last time you didn't host? It's been a while, right,
Speaker 1: eight years? Maybe? Yeah? I tried. I tried to cancel
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving a few years back. I had a newborn, and
Speaker 1: I had a toddler, and I had a husband on
Speaker 1: the road. And then, um, it lasted like a day
Speaker 1: and then it got reinstated. We all remember my favorite
Speaker 1: We're only gonna be fifty nine minutes apart from each other. Oh,
Speaker 1: it's doable. Wait can you can we can we hang?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, come over and watch the movie because
Speaker 1: my movie premieres the day after Thanksgiving. We fly out
Speaker 1: that day. Never mind, but Tuesday or Wednesday, if you know,
Speaker 1: we'll play day. I'm going to be in Chicago, but
Speaker 1: my kids will be there. I'll go see Jolly and Jay's. Um, Hey,
Speaker 1: can we make unhosting a trend? Hashtag unhost that's kind
Speaker 1: of a cool thing. You never hosted. You've never hosted.
Speaker 1: Oh I don't like hoasting? Well, I mean I know
Speaker 1: you wouldn't cook, but like you probably have, like you
Speaker 1: could cater. Well I've hosted and had them like the
Speaker 1: family come in and cook. Yeah, but I just don't
Speaker 1: love it. It's not my thing. I feel you. I'd
Speaker 1: rather go to someone else's house. And we have out
Speaker 1: a town relative so they come in and they stay
Speaker 1: for like days. We don't have that all our families
Speaker 1: in town. So tell me why you don't. So you
Speaker 1: don't like hosting because you have to cook. I just
Speaker 1: I like my own space. And if they could come
Speaker 1: in and I could host them for a dinner and
Speaker 1: send them on their way with like a little pie
Speaker 1: tin of leftovers, it would be bliss for me. But
Speaker 1: instead it's two days before, two days after breakfast, lunch, dinner.
Speaker 1: It's just and I've always had little kids, right teeny's
Speaker 1: But calf for you? Is it? I think they wouldn't stay?
Speaker 1: So what is it? Well, the problem is is they
Speaker 1: do stay, you know, like I want to be somewhere
Speaker 1: when I can where I can leave, eve when I'm
Speaker 1: ready to leave, like if I'm done, I want to
Speaker 1: go right, you know, but they're through your house. It's like,
Speaker 1: all right, guys, and all to go. I love hosting.
Speaker 1: You're definitely you're a great I don't like to cook,
Speaker 1: but I like to host. Yeah, I like to cook.
Speaker 1: I actually like to host. I just would like everyone
Speaker 1: to leave. I don't like hashtags. We're going to the
Speaker 1: Lions game on Thanksgiving. We're going to lose. Well, that's
Speaker 1: not missed that they're playing the Bills by rest in Peace. Thanksgiving,
Speaker 1: we're going skiing oh unhosting again. I don't host. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like I haven't on hosting since do that and nine.
Speaker 1: I actually decided because the family dynamic was so weird
Speaker 1: around Thanksgiving and figuring in all our family was there,
Speaker 1: Like a couple of years ago, we were like, let's
Speaker 1: just go away for Thanksgiving every year. It's kind of nice.
Speaker 1: I think it's fun too for you, though, Cat, because like,
Speaker 1: since you and Nick are back together, it's like you
Speaker 1: you guys love going on vacations together. So I think
Speaker 1: it's just gonna be because I knew that was something
Speaker 1: that would like you would miss, like the family vacation.
Speaker 1: So I think, um, it's cool that y'all are having
Speaker 1: like this moment too. Yeah, well, and it's in the season.
Speaker 1: It's the last vacation we took was this same vacation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we went skiing at Keystone. It was actually his idea
Speaker 1: that he's like, let's go back to Keystone. Cute. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that'll be good. And we had a great vacation. Then,
Speaker 1: I know we've always vacation his hand, yeah, held his
Speaker 1: hand for the person put his hand to wear. It
Speaker 1: was like she touched my hand. But that's so sad.
Speaker 1: We went to the first great separate what's a sex
Speaker 1: life like? Oh my gosh, listen, I proloded on my
Speaker 1: Instagram page. Let's just on a side note. Friday, the
Speaker 1: day after Thanksgiving, my movie with Mario Lopez Stepping into
Speaker 1: the Holiday is premiering on Lifetime. Uh so it's a
Speaker 1: cute little movie. You'll give it a little watch A
Speaker 1: c slater and Janet Grammer is appropriate. Jolie's in it,
Speaker 1: and she's gonna she's gonna watch it, but I'll watch
Speaker 1: it with the kids. But yeah, hunt, it's Lifetime Christmas movie.
Speaker 1: Can I interview you on your own podcast? Sure? What's
Speaker 1: a c slater like? In real life. So I feel
Speaker 1: bad that he's stuck there for me, but he just
Speaker 1: always will be there. I feel bad because I say
Speaker 1: it to Like even when I was on Access this
Speaker 1: past week, I was like, I was nervous as it is.
Speaker 1: It's a c slater forever, you know. So it's like
Speaker 1: I was so nervous to to act with them. But um,
Speaker 1: he's great, Like he's he's like Kramer. He calls me Kramer.
Speaker 1: I like it, Cramer, Like what what's But he's a
Speaker 1: great He's a great guy and I um had fun
Speaker 1: working with him and it was really cool because we
Speaker 1: shot at in Columbia, Tennessee, so close ish to home,
Speaker 1: And um, do you kiss him? In the movie? There's
Speaker 1: always a lifetime kiss? I was always counting on. I
Speaker 1: don't think we've talked about this. How did I not
Speaker 1: ask you're away the kiss? Yeah? But usually she will
Speaker 1: tell me, like I ask her. That's true. You always
Speaker 1: ask is this person to get kisser? But I feel
Speaker 1: like it's weird to to say, like if someone's a good,
Speaker 1: good kisser when they're like married. Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 1: Well that's fair, that's fair. I didn't did you think
Speaker 1: about that? Three kids. He's married, and she's amazing. She's
Speaker 1: also in the movie Courtney Lopez. She's beautiful in the movie,
Speaker 1: and so yeah, so I it's like, but I think,
Speaker 1: I don't know, can you separate that and also go
Speaker 1: like a kiss is a kiss right, like and and honestly,
Speaker 1: in those lifetime movies, it's not like you're like passionately.
Speaker 1: You have to have some kind of connection. Like Mario
Speaker 1: and I for sure had like a good connection. I
Speaker 1: think it was out of respect that, like, you know,
Speaker 1: he's we're both parents and like, um, but like there's
Speaker 1: only one lifetime. I want to say that there's one.
Speaker 1: There's one two movies that I did that I didn't
Speaker 1: have connection, like when I kissed the person I want
Speaker 1: to name it. In one it wasn't Mario. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: still want to name it because I don't want to
Speaker 1: like hurt feelings. But it might have not been there
Speaker 1: for them either. But it's hard because you have like act. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm like, to me, it's like a business kiss. So
Speaker 1: I like to know if it's real. Even in One
Speaker 1: Tree Hill with like Steve and I'm like rolling around
Speaker 1: like you know, uh, in like in bed with him
Speaker 1: and it's like two seconds later we're done kissing. It's like,
Speaker 1: all right, what do you have for lunch today? You know,
Speaker 1: like the Caesar salad or because it's not supposed to
Speaker 1: be the moment. It needs to be like that connection.
Speaker 1: But if there's not to be able to like be like,
Speaker 1: all right, we're not in love anymore, we're in love
Speaker 1: action not in love anymore, does it make it hard
Speaker 1: to like actually work with them though, if there's not
Speaker 1: that connection there. Oh yeah, I was gonna said I
Speaker 1: would make the whole movie hard. I would feel like, yeah, um,
Speaker 1: I wonder if I could know. Because there's this guy
Speaker 1: one of my girlfriends was on a TV show with
Speaker 1: and she was playing the wife of someone, and like
Speaker 1: he was just not great at all, and so she
Speaker 1: was just like She's like, how am I supposed to
Speaker 1: play his wife? But I mean that's when you just
Speaker 1: have to act, you know. Um, A lot of us
Speaker 1: have played wife and we don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It feels like I can nail it. No, I mean
Speaker 1: it's true. So but I mean, yeah, he wasn't He
Speaker 1: wasn't a bad kisser. I'll say that, Okay, good A C.
Speaker 1: Slater forever. But he was great. Now I would like
Speaker 1: to be in a movie with My guy was Mark
Speaker 1: Paul uh every Zach with this giant phone. It's like
Speaker 1: literally like the size of my were you screech rest
Speaker 1: in peace? But that guy wasn't told me what screech was.
Speaker 1: He died. I know, I said rest in peace first,
Speaker 1: but it doesn't make what he said to me any bad.
Speaker 1: What happened. We interviewed him when I was on air
Speaker 1: in Michigan on our morning show, and he was a
Speaker 1: dirt bag christ in piece again. I mean, I hope
Speaker 1: you settled all of your things when you got up there.
Speaker 1: But he was so wildly inappropriate with me. We were
Speaker 1: doing a breakfast, like a live on air breakfast. He
Speaker 1: was doing the local comedy club. So he came in
Speaker 1: and he started. I mean, I was like twenty, you know,
Speaker 1: baby Kristen and just likesent, and he was screeched, and
Speaker 1: I was just so happy to be in his present.
Speaker 1: You're happy. I was happy. I couldn't even happier. You
Speaker 1: didn't even believe you're here. That was the interview, and yeah,
Speaker 1: he I spilled. There was some sort of like pancake batter.
Speaker 1: We were making pancakes, doing it all in the studio.
Speaker 1: It was really fun, you know, it sounded cool on air,
Speaker 1: and something happened where the pancake batter like spilled or
Speaker 1: it was on. Then he goes he made some inappropriate
Speaker 1: comment about licking the better no no batter, right, and
Speaker 1: I'm twenty, and I'm like, now, looking back, it's like
Speaker 1: a hashtag me too, movement, movement moment, you know, Oh man,
Speaker 1: I mean, I was just so taken back. I didn't know,
Speaker 1: and I'm very rarely at a loss for words, as
Speaker 1: I'm sure everyone is well aware, but I didn't know
Speaker 1: what to say wildly inappropriate. I was super uncomfortable. I
Speaker 1: was young. I'm in there, my little station polo, my
Speaker 1: logo on. You know, I'm just trying to make the
Speaker 1: best of it. And your screech and now all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, you're a dirt bag. No hard for me,
Speaker 1: And I think he was just being funny. It's hard
Speaker 1: when inappropriate. But he was like a comedian at the time,
Speaker 1: and you know they get raunchy and like, right, it's
Speaker 1: like sagg it would say, like raunchy stuff, but we
Speaker 1: love but like he would never say that, but then
Speaker 1: I was always like, is Bob really raunchy or is
Speaker 1: he just not have a dust buster in his hand?
Speaker 1: Like it's like, we grew up with him being Danny Tanner,
Speaker 1: so when he said anything that was like a little
Speaker 1: we were like, oh, that's really racy. But really, I mean,
Speaker 1: you definitely got a little raunchy on. Yeah. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: he wouldn't have most comedians do verbally assaulted me about
Speaker 1: pancake better. No, No, he wouldn't have that. No, that's
Speaker 1: tough when you meet someone that you know again because
Speaker 1: growing up watching this show, I mean, it's an iconic show.
Speaker 1: You meet them, you're excited to meet them. It's just
Speaker 1: like if I did the movie with Mario and he
Speaker 1: was a dirt bag or something, I would have been heartbroken. Also,
Speaker 1: I would have been so upset, Like I've met someone
Speaker 1: in the music world where I was a ginormous fan
Speaker 1: of and they were not nice, and I was like, God,
Speaker 1: I wish I never met you. Yeah, tricky, because it's like,
Speaker 1: now that's what I think of when I think of
Speaker 1: your songs as opposed to high school Janna singing. Oh.
Speaker 1: So I was thinking a lot of different thoughts in
Speaker 1: our brains. So that's why, you know, I was like
Speaker 1: bummed about that. But you know, um, that's tough. I
Speaker 1: hate to say that even because he's not alive, so
Speaker 1: it feels but it's still memory and you're still my truth. Great, Um,
Speaker 1: but yeah, in conclusion, watch the show, watch the movie. Um,
Speaker 1: little Jolie has a little party of super cute all right,
Speaker 1: before we get off of this Thanksgiving episode, what is
Speaker 1: a one mm hmmm. Two things you're grateful for and
Speaker 1: one thing the turkey can take when he leaves. The
Speaker 1: turkey can take himself because I don't eat meat. Yeah,
Speaker 1: turkey list, Turkey list, and you're an impossible turkey. I am.
Speaker 1: Actually that should be my new handle on Instagram. Ali, everybody,
Speaker 1: I'm Tyler Florence and I'm Wells Adams were the hosts
Speaker 1: of the new podcast Two Dudes in the Kitchen. You
Speaker 1: might be asking yourself, why do these guys have a podcast?
Speaker 1: Because we love food. You and I have known each
Speaker 1: other for a while. We've got a chance to click
Speaker 1: together on television on Food Network back in the day,
Speaker 1: and uh, I gotta tell you there's no two better
Speaker 1: guys are more equipped to take you. Guys on a
Speaker 1: journey through the kitchen. It's all about great recipes, it's
Speaker 1: all about connecting with fantastic techniques and having a great time.
Speaker 1: Why you're doing it. It's a podcast for you, for
Speaker 1: you to call into give us your feedback, and we're
Speaker 1: here to answer your questions and kind of get those
Speaker 1: kitchen burners fired up. I got a lot of questions
Speaker 1: just because I'm not nearly as good of a chef
Speaker 1: as you are. So I'm gonna be asking you a
Speaker 1: lot of questions, and you guys out there can ask
Speaker 1: him as well. It's gonna be a lot of phone
Speaker 1: We're gonna learn a lot and you know what, most importantly,
Speaker 1: we're gonna eat good. We're gonna eat good. Man, eat
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Speaker 1: Two things I'm grateful for and two things and one
Speaker 1: thing the turkey can take. I really mean this when
Speaker 1: I say this. It's not because we're here, but this
Speaker 1: is what I'm grateful for. And not get emotional. Oh gravy,
Speaker 1: I feel like a person one episode one we did,
Speaker 1: didn't we so emotional, But I just miss like being myself.
Speaker 1: So this makes me feel like myself, Like studio, you
Speaker 1: guys l a all of it, like even when we're
Speaker 1: just in your house, just like being a person and
Speaker 1: plugging in and not just feeling like a mom and
Speaker 1: a wife. My husband has a very successful career and
Speaker 1: he does a lot of big things, and I have
Speaker 1: just tabled a lot of what I've wanted to do
Speaker 1: for a long time to be able to be a
Speaker 1: stay at home mom in homeschool and make sure that
Speaker 1: we have front front porch parties for him. And this
Speaker 1: is like wildly good for me, and I just feel
Speaker 1: like a person. I love that. Yeah, it's good. That's good.
Speaker 1: And I yeah, it's fun to see you shine too,
Speaker 1: And I think that's a good thing for you know
Speaker 1: you guys listening. It's if there's something that brings you
Speaker 1: to you to tap more into that and to follow that. Yeah, Catherine,
Speaker 1: it's funny. Mine's kind of the opposite. Actually, don't enjoy that. Actually,
Speaker 1: she's like, I quit and while we're here, I'm getting
Speaker 1: no in the sense that I've always work work, work, work, work,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of in like a place in my life
Speaker 1: where it's like I'm ready to like be home more
Speaker 1: and like set more boundaries, I think as the kids
Speaker 1: have gotten older, like I just want to be there more,
Speaker 1: you know. And it's like, so not that I'm talking
Speaker 1: about this specifically, but like you've been home so much,
Speaker 1: like now you want to get out and you want
Speaker 1: to and I'm in a place where I mean, you
Speaker 1: have you know, and it's I'm in a place where
Speaker 1: like I was hardly ever home, right, you know, and
Speaker 1: so now it's like working from home and all that.
Speaker 1: It's like made me realize that, like that's important. You
Speaker 1: also have really cool kids. Yeah, they are pretty cool,
Speaker 1: and they're getting older and yeah, I can imagine there
Speaker 1: are a lot of fun yeah, like all the stuff
Speaker 1: they do. And I'm thankful that I have the job
Speaker 1: that I do and where I'm at in my life,
Speaker 1: like I am there in the like you prioritize your kids, Janna.
Speaker 1: So it's like I get to prioritize my kids too,
Speaker 1: because you know, we still work, but it's like we're
Speaker 1: there in the afternoon, like we make sure we're there
Speaker 1: to get our kids. That's why this has been such
Speaker 1: a blessing, I think, because it's always going to be
Speaker 1: mom first, so it's not like it can fit right in. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's the turkey taken? Oh, turkey is taking And I
Speaker 1: want y'all do this around your Thanksgiving table because you
Speaker 1: have to do what you're thinking first. Okay, we'll come
Speaker 1: back to you. Um, hurry and stress. I just I
Speaker 1: want it out. It's hard. Feel that it's good. It's hard.
Speaker 1: I want to go on. Ye, it's a different life. Yeah,
Speaker 1: embrace it. Yeah, took five, but I'm getting there, like, okay, slow,
Speaker 1: calm and only things that are good for me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what about you? That's it. And the turkey takes itself.
Speaker 1: Turkey out it. Um, so I will say, what the
Speaker 1: turkey is taking is myself doubt. That's right, the church said. Amen.
Speaker 1: I feel like in the last month I've done things.
Speaker 1: Um oh no, it's my turn. Um good, there's a
Speaker 1: double crime. I've I don't bet on myself a lot
Speaker 1: and um, I feel like I've taken a lot of
Speaker 1: chances the last month. I'm you know, taking that one
Speaker 1: movie role that on myself with that and I took
Speaker 1: you know, I passed up on a movie role that
Speaker 1: was a lot of money for a role that literally
Speaker 1: was like two grand, just because I wanted to prove
Speaker 1: to myself I could play something different. And the bet,
Speaker 1: you know, paid off and I made huge fans and
Speaker 1: I'm going to do more movies movies with them. And
Speaker 1: then even like the audition that I ended up getting,
Speaker 1: I was so stressed that day, Poor Catherine, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have to show the bloopers because I was like, I
Speaker 1: can't do this, and I was just like, when you
Speaker 1: actually believe in yourself and you bet on yourself, like
Speaker 1: you will win. So I think taking I want to
Speaker 1: get rid of like the self doubt. That's what the
Speaker 1: Turkey's gonna take. And then UM, on today's episode of
Speaker 1: Wine Down, I'm going to say that I am grateful
Speaker 1: for where I'm at co parenting right now. My ex
Speaker 1: has been really great with um helping me with the
Speaker 1: schedule and just understanding kind of my emotions around the
Speaker 1: holiday and and working with me to be like all right, hey,
Speaker 1: like when can you know maybe you can come over
Speaker 1: to see the kids this day and knowing it to
Speaker 1: be long, and I just like I there's so many
Speaker 1: times where I think our experience is really tough in
Speaker 1: our marriage. But now I can, like, I want to
Speaker 1: give moments when it is good to say like they're
Speaker 1: you know, I'm great full that we can have moments
Speaker 1: that are kind and um, we can have empathy towards
Speaker 1: each other when travel and work and holidays come together.
Speaker 1: I predicted this a little though. Do you remember I
Speaker 1: said I felt like you guys will always be friend.
Speaker 1: I felt like you were better for I think it
Speaker 1: goes in waves, and I think she had some stuff
Speaker 1: and I'm not saying you're brading each other's hair at
Speaker 1: this one, but there's a lot of things never mind.
Speaker 1: But anyways, so I'm just I I like to I
Speaker 1: just want to at least call it something positive because stems,
Speaker 1: I feel like it's just like, you know, always on
Speaker 1: the next So I'm trying to go for looking on
Speaker 1: the positive. We just talked about it in a good way,
Speaker 1: in a very positive way. So I had told her
Speaker 1: about everything changing, because you know, Karl had to tell
Speaker 1: him we were changing our flight. And I was like
Speaker 1: actually a herder on the phone today with Mike, and
Speaker 1: I was so impressed with how y'all handled that. I mean,
Speaker 1: I didn't really hear his words, but it seemed like
Speaker 1: he was really receptive, and it was just I was
Speaker 1: impressed and I was telling her that yeah, cool, yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe I'll yeah anyway, but yeah, that's actually a really
Speaker 1: big deal. Baby steps. Um. So, I think the moral
Speaker 1: of all of this is step into who you are,
Speaker 1: believe in yourself, and look at the positive even when
Speaker 1: things can be hard and tough and difficult. And um,
Speaker 1: on another note, we are so thankful for you guys
Speaker 1: for listening to this podcast. We would not be here
Speaker 1: if you didn't listen. And um, we hope that you
Speaker 1: have an amazing Thanksgiving and let that turkey leave with
Speaker 1: any negative thoughts and doubts and an unhosted if you
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