WEBVTT - Joy Produces More Jealousy And Envy Than Money

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<v Speaker 1>Your opinions to the Breakfast Club top Good five five

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<v Speaker 1>five one warning everybody at j Envy, Charlamagne the God.

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<v Speaker 1>We are the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 2>Now if you just joined us, we're talking about what

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<v Speaker 2>makes you happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, man.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, our guy Joey called up this morning and

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<v Speaker 3>Joy was talking about how he's just happy and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>he's in such a positive place. And that made me

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<v Speaker 3>feel real good because I had a great therapy session

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<v Speaker 3>yesterday and my therapist said to me that joy produces

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<v Speaker 3>more jealousy, uh in envy than money does. He said,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, people might be jealous of your position, they

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<v Speaker 3>might be jealous of your success, they might be jealous

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<v Speaker 3>of your money, but nothing makes them more jealous than

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<v Speaker 3>when you are in a position of joy.

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<v Speaker 2>A smile, and I ain't gonna lie. The last couple

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<v Speaker 2>of years I've been so and I tell you why.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just, you know, to experience the things that you experienced.

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<v Speaker 2>This is gonna sound so morbid. So many people have

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<v Speaker 2>been dying and their life has been cut so short,

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<v Speaker 2>and they've been cut short at a young age. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not like they've been eighty ninety years old. I'm talking

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<v Speaker 2>thirty years old, forty years old. You know, so it

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<v Speaker 2>makes you experience and enjoy life so much more so

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<v Speaker 2>when I say I enjoy my family, I enjoy my wife,

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<v Speaker 2>I enjoy my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy them so much and they make me so

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<v Speaker 1>happy like that.

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<v Speaker 2>There is no feeling then like going to my daughter's

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<v Speaker 2>baseball game yesterday, or going to Logan's track me or

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<v Speaker 2>even just daddy daddy daughter date night with Madison, or

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<v Speaker 2>you know, going to their dance stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>It just makes me.

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<v Speaker 2>And I love picking up my kids from school. I

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<v Speaker 2>love when they come out and they see you and

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<v Speaker 2>they run to you and they give you that hug

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<v Speaker 2>like no other. Those are the things that make me

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<v Speaker 2>joy and that's why I always post it, because they

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<v Speaker 2>make me so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy life.

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<v Speaker 3>I was raised on the dirt road in Monks Corner,

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<v Speaker 3>South Carolina. I used to work at Taco Bell.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. I sold crack. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been hitting out of trouble a lot in my

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<v Speaker 3>life and at this age to be born in nineteen

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<v Speaker 3>hundred and seventy eight, be approaching forty five years old.

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<v Speaker 3>As you said, just to wake up every day is

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<v Speaker 3>a blessing. To wake up every day is a privilege.

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<v Speaker 1>I wake up.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a beautiful wife, I got four beautiful daughters.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a circle of friends and family that I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have a circle of friends. I have a circle

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<v Speaker 3>of family.

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<v Speaker 1>If you around me.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I call people my nieces and my sister

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<v Speaker 3>and everybody, because that's how I feel. My brother, because

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<v Speaker 3>I really feel like, you know, we're family, and I

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<v Speaker 3>cherish my family so much.

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<v Speaker 1>And to me, that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm good. I really do not need anything else.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything else is a bonus now. The opportunity to get

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<v Speaker 3>to come to wake up every morning and do something

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<v Speaker 3>that I love to do, which is morning radio, amazing

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<v Speaker 3>and everything else that I'm doing, you know, career wise,

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<v Speaker 3>stems from you know, doing morning radio.

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<v Speaker 1>That is just a plus. But you know, it's funny.

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<v Speaker 3>My therapist, we even got on that conversation because he

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<v Speaker 3>talked about how he sees how much fun where having

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<v Speaker 3>in the morning. He said, you and Envy are having

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<v Speaker 3>so much fun. He said, when Ess is up there,

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<v Speaker 3>y'all look like y'all, he said, it feels like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Party for three hours.

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<v Speaker 3>Like this, my therapist, like, I hope I'm not overstepping

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<v Speaker 3>by saying this. But he's just like he said, it

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<v Speaker 3>just feels like y'all are having so much fun. And

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<v Speaker 3>he said, it look like y'are having so much fun,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we are. Yeah, No, that's that's what it feels like.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know when people when people are hatefullest for you,

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<v Speaker 2>or when people are mad at you, or when you

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<v Speaker 2>have that person that's always hating on you or don't

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<v Speaker 2>like what you do, it's usually because, like you said,

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<v Speaker 2>they don't have that joy, joy, that happiness. They don't

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<v Speaker 2>have the thing that makes you happy.

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<v Speaker 1>People say, what's so funny? Why are you so happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Why the hell should not be? You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>what you smiling for?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, imagine just walking in the room smiling and somebody

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<v Speaker 3>what you smiling for?

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<v Speaker 1>Why shouldn't I be smiling?

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<v Speaker 3>If I came in here with a mean mug, you

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't have a problem with you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I am operating from a position to joy. I am

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<v Speaker 3>extremely happy. I love my life and that's how it's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be. Kuna matada, God damn it. And you know what,

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<v Speaker 3>And one other thing my therapist said to me, my

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<v Speaker 3>therapist said, because you know, you talk about when people

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<v Speaker 3>come at you, my therapist, that you can't have your

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<v Speaker 3>you can't have those kind of problems without your kind

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<v Speaker 3>of success. Of course, if you don't want those problems,

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<v Speaker 3>then just simply don't be successful. It is to tell

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<v Speaker 3>me don't be happy. Right, that's the truth. That's it,

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<v Speaker 3>so that all all of it comes with the territory.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. Hello. Who's this?

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<v Speaker 3>Hello?

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<v Speaker 4>Yo? This is from Flaps, Brooklyn.

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<v Speaker 1>From Brooklyn? What what brings you joy? Brother?

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<v Speaker 4>Yo? I love dancing man. Grew up a free style

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<v Speaker 4>dance and break dancing, almost free styft dancer. And I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to say, you know, y'all, don't be shouting up

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<v Speaker 4>the dancers out there. You know, fifty gives a hip hop.

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<v Speaker 4>Dancing has been part of hip hop absolutely top there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean, I'll bust your ass.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't even say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Bring your cobo bottom of DJ, he said, Bring battle DJ.

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all play the music. I'm gonna show you how to

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<v Speaker 4>dance a dance.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll I'll butt and and that what you're gonna put on?

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me what song you're gonna put on, and I'll

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<v Speaker 3>tell you what song I'm gonna put on.

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<v Speaker 5>Bro, Let's let's go.

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<v Speaker 6>To a club.

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<v Speaker 4>Bro, I'm gonna real about it. I can't even go

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<v Speaker 4>to clubs, man, because I ain't got no friends like that,

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<v Speaker 4>you know. I mean, I'm keeping a rip and going

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<v Speaker 4>out by yourself as a man a little bit difficult.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean even my birthday broke December thirty first, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't even go out because they raised the prices three

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<v Speaker 4>and going up by myself it is not a good look. Yo. Listen,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't go.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't go out either, but don't challenge me again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll butt your ass. You know what I'm saying. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put you talking.

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<v Speaker 4>Like you're talking all the time. Bro, let's go. Let's

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<v Speaker 4>don't challenge me, and then let's not do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna put Uncle Louke on.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I want to put your hands up high, your

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<v Speaker 3>ass down, draw to the floor.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want no problem you.

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<v Speaker 2>It would look so stupid. This is you two fifty

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<v Speaker 2>year old brothers dancing badly because.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gonna be break dancing, and I'm gonna be putting

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<v Speaker 1>my hands up high, my ass down. Lord, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>hot draw it to the floor like that, Hello, Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your name?

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<v Speaker 4>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing, Hey, Jimmy, we're just talking about joy.

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<v Speaker 1>What brings you a joy? What makes you happy?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the most thing that makes me happy is my daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>Today she's getting to the National fidears on the Society

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<v Speaker 5>s get an award today. And I always try to push.

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<v Speaker 2>Be better than what I absolutely now that that's what

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<v Speaker 2>it is I mean, and that's what it should be.

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<v Speaker 2>We should be living for our kids. We should be

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<v Speaker 2>making sure our kids are happy, and we should be

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<v Speaker 2>wanting to spend as much time with our kids as possible.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, you gotta be there for your kids.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta hold them, you gotta hug them, you gotta

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<v Speaker 2>mold them, you gotta show them what's right and what's wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>And and for me, like I said that, that makes

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<v Speaker 1>me happy. Yeah, I say that all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>There's certain people, there's certain people that I hear talk.

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<v Speaker 3>There's certain people out here say things and I see

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<v Speaker 3>how they acting. The first thing I think is they

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<v Speaker 3>cannot have a family. There's no way they got a

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<v Speaker 3>wife that loves them or some kids that they love,

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<v Speaker 3>and they acting like that because they are not happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, Let's go to one more caller. Hello, who's this?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi? Good morning, Duke Mom.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up?

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<v Speaker 4>Mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Dukes? How you feeling good?

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<v Speaker 5>Real good?

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<v Speaker 4>Real good?

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<v Speaker 1>But what makes you happy, mom? Dukes?

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<v Speaker 6>The fact that my seven kids and I can still

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<v Speaker 6>be on a positive note after casting as their dad

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<v Speaker 6>was thirty years over thirty years plus, you know, my

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<v Speaker 6>seven kids, and you know it was a struggle.

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<v Speaker 1>Sending you condolences absolutely.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you and appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>How old was he?

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<v Speaker 4>Actually?

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<v Speaker 5>Young?

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<v Speaker 4>Guys?

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<v Speaker 6>He was almost fifty three, and he did not say

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<v Speaker 6>that at all.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't what he didn't look at?

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<v Speaker 5>Aid?

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<v Speaker 1>How did he pass? If you don't mind me? Asked?

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<v Speaker 7>Come to find out?

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<v Speaker 5>Fitting off?

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<v Speaker 4>Which was a shocker? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>Fitting what you said?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think it was like maybe somebody laced some

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<v Speaker 1>some weed or something like that. Don't say it was

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<v Speaker 1>the weak pretty much? Do you think it was we

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, Jesus, come on, don't tell me that. Jesus.

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<v Speaker 2>Like when she said it was a shock, and that

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<v Speaker 2>means that he wasn't a druggie, that somebody like probably lacing.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been seeing so many cases of people lacing things

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<v Speaker 1>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you know, people to always tell people when

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<v Speaker 2>you do get your cannabis, so you're weed.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you go to a dispensary. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we want to swat you get because you were saying

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<v Speaker 1>that your family makes you happy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yes, one of them.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, my son seven, he used to play for Organs time.

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<v Speaker 7>Now he's at Jackson's State and when he just you

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<v Speaker 7>know started school pretty much, uh, and you know he

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<v Speaker 7>has to just fall back for a minute, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>in his mind, and.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, play things over pretty much.

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<v Speaker 6>We just waited ro play, you know, the last moment

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<v Speaker 6>because it was unasted and you know, like you said,

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<v Speaker 6>joy and envy and jealousy. You know everybody even that happened.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, people still wasn't you know, have remorse for you.

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<v Speaker 6>Like we kind of feel like in a way maybe

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<v Speaker 6>someone did it on purpose.

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<v Speaker 4>To them, but we have a way improve in that part.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you just make sure you keep that family together.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean the fact that you got seven, you keep

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<v Speaker 2>them tight as possible. I try to keep mind six

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<v Speaker 2>as tight as possible. You do things all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>You try to take vacations with each other. You try

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure you have those dinners, whether it's East birthday, Christmas,

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<v Speaker 2>like you try to keep them as close as possible.

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<v Speaker 1>So that when you know, when you when you move.

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<v Speaker 2>On, they always have each other's backs, you know, right, true,

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<v Speaker 2>right mama, And keep and keep smiling.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, And I appreciate you guys.

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<v Speaker 5>To you guys are the light up month.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you all right.

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<v Speaker 3>That that phone call right there is exactly why you

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<v Speaker 3>should wake up every day and regardless of what's going

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<v Speaker 3>on in your life, you should smile and you should

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<v Speaker 3>be happy because you're still here. For a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>us men, that's our biggest fear, right, you know, we

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<v Speaker 3>got these families, we got these wives, and then you know,

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<v Speaker 3>something unexpected happening. We're no longer here and they got

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<v Speaker 3>to navigate this earthly terrain correct by themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Like as a man, I don't know about everybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my that's that's my biggest concern.

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<v Speaker 3>But as my therapist says, of faith and anxiety cannot coexist, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>So I will only speak positive things and I'm definitely

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<v Speaker 3>sending healing energy to that that that that.

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<v Speaker 1>Young woman and her family. Man, that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>Eighty five eight five one oh five one which is

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<v Speaker 2>asking what brings you joy?

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<v Speaker 1>What makes you happy? Let's talk about it. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 8>Good morning, it's topic time called eight hundred and five

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<v Speaker 8>five one five one to join into the discussion with

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<v Speaker 8>the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody's DJ Envy Charlamagne to God. We are the Breakfast Club, nephew,

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<v Speaker 2>just joining us. We're asking what brings you joy? What

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<v Speaker 2>makes you happy?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>That this conversation comes from a gentleman named Joey who

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<v Speaker 2>called this morning during Get It Off your Chest, and

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<v Speaker 2>he was just like he wanted to shout out all

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<v Speaker 2>the miserable people in the world, because he said, he smiles.

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<v Speaker 2>He's at a place of peace and he's happy, and

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<v Speaker 2>nobody could take that piece from him, and he smiles

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<v Speaker 2>all the time and his life is.

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<v Speaker 3>Happy, and the irony of that is literally yesterday, I

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<v Speaker 3>had a I had a great therapy session, and I

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<v Speaker 3>called Envy after the therapy session and I told him

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<v Speaker 3>what my my therapist told me, because.

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<v Speaker 1>It was real.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, my therapist said, joy produces more jealousy and

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<v Speaker 3>envy than money. And my therapist said, people can be

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<v Speaker 3>jealous of your money, they can be jealous of your success.

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<v Speaker 3>They can be jealous of your position, but that's nothing

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<v Speaker 3>makes them more jealous than your joy.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know you gotta be happy. Like you walk

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<v Speaker 3>in the room sometime and people would be like, why

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<v Speaker 3>are you smiling? Why the hell should not be smiling?

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<v Speaker 3>Come on, I worked for this piece, you hear me?

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<v Speaker 4>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go to the phone line. Hello, who's this hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Keisha piece Keisha from Kesh. You can't wait to get

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<v Speaker 1>your head done? Right, Keisha?

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<v Speaker 3>I can tell I'm not evenna lie I can. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know why, but I can hear the bdbs on

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<v Speaker 3>your background. I can't hear that you needed your head done.

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<v Speaker 3>H I'm not so happy he stopped at Keisha. What

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<v Speaker 3>makes when you're getting your head done, Kesha? When you're

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<v Speaker 3>getting your head done, I couldna come in.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm gonna swing on you. I'm gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't taking your joy? Keish your head done, Keisha, I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 9>Swing on you. Want you come on down here with

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<v Speaker 9>a little ubal when he bring his little da.

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about coming down Helot Duval day this year.

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<v Speaker 1>I really was you better not now? Kes you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be looking for you.

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<v Speaker 6>You better slide because I'm gonna be.

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<v Speaker 1>The one on the more head that's you, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have your head none. Don't. You don't have it

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<v Speaker 1>done right now, but you're gonna have it none. What

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<v Speaker 1>brings you joy?

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<v Speaker 9>Done?

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<v Speaker 3>I got locked?

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<v Speaker 4>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>What makes you have to? Keisha? Okay?

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<v Speaker 9>So things so on one, my own girl put me

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<v Speaker 9>on the roll saying, man, I think you such in

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<v Speaker 9>a life out my body.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's one.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, the roads makes you happy?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, yeah, And then the second thing is I love.

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<v Speaker 9>Shopping and I don't have to buy the stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>So what I'll be doing right still.

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<v Speaker 9>Get to the sore and like the mannequin, I be

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<v Speaker 9>just signing at the manniquin. And then I will not

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<v Speaker 9>be looking in court anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming. I'm coming to do ball day just to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you get arrested.

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<v Speaker 3>When I'm gonna give you a hug, I'm gonna say, Keisha,

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<v Speaker 3>what's up? Stay here for one second and I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>dog dollar number, and then they're gonna take you somewhere

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<v Speaker 3>where you're gonna be cool for the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, goodness gracious, all right, Keisha?

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<v Speaker 5>You feeling all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all have to have a good day. Keisha, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell you something that's so crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>But your dad asked serious everything she just said, Keisha,

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<v Speaker 3>Dad's serious, She's serious. I just want you to know

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<v Speaker 3>that she's from Jacksonville. Okay, she's serious. He's serious, from Florida.

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<v Speaker 3>That's Florida.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you was gonna say that your family maker happy,

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<v Speaker 1>she said.

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<v Speaker 3>Her role the rolls, in boosting the rolls and shoplifting

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<v Speaker 3>from the stars is what makes Keisha happy. Hey, Jacksonville, Florida,

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<v Speaker 3>Ladies and gentlemen, Jacksonville, Floyd Okay for that.

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<v Speaker 4>I ain't in Jacksonville.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we ain't talking about you. We talked about Keishy

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<v Speaker 1>that called the second Ago. But what up, Keith?

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<v Speaker 4>What's going on? How you doing this morning?

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't from Florida. We blessed Black and Holly. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>from Jacksonvie. Where you from, Keith?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in South Carolina?

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<v Speaker 5>From York.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what part of South Carolina?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in prosperity, look down about thirty miles from Columbia.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay to the eight oh three. What makes you happen?

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<v Speaker 1>Keith Man?

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<v Speaker 4>My kids man, my kids all good I got six,

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<v Speaker 4>and I got one on the way. I got one

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<v Speaker 4>on weight on right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Congratulations black man. Seven that's God's number. That's a blessing.

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<v Speaker 3>What are they with boys?

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<v Speaker 1>Girls? What you got?

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<v Speaker 4>I got four boys?

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<v Speaker 1>I may have five.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna have five boys and girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, congratulations, brow do you forty one? Forty one? The

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<v Speaker 1>blessing Jesus. Absolutely take care of yourself so you could

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<v Speaker 1>be around for them kids. Man, go get your klanne

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Go get your cardiovascular checked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure your cholesterol and blood pressure is low.

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<v Speaker 4>No doubt, I will have a good one.

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<v Speaker 5>Brother.

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<v Speaker 4>I gotta I gotta be around to see my grandkid.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, that's the goal. That is the goal, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the more of the story. The mall of the.

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<v Speaker 3>Story is, Man, don't let anybody remove you from your

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<v Speaker 3>position of joy. As my therapist told me yesterday, joy

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<v Speaker 3>produces more jealousy and envy than money and success.

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<v Speaker 1>So even if you don't have the most money, even

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have the.

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<v Speaker 3>Most success, you can guarantee that you have the most

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<v Speaker 3>happiness just by making the choice to be happy every

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<v Speaker 3>damn day. You don't gotta wear a designer, but you

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<v Speaker 3>could wear a big ass smile, and that big ass

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<v Speaker 3>smile pitch people off more to design. You can walk

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<v Speaker 3>in a room with some Louis and some Gucci and

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<v Speaker 3>some Proda and some Hermes whatever. You can walk in

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<v Speaker 3>there with all of that stuff on, and people will

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<v Speaker 3>be like whatever, who they think they is walking there

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<v Speaker 3>with a smile?

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<v Speaker 1>I bet you here what you're smiling for? Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you so happy? You're right? You're right? And that's just smile.

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>We should play in Duval play Duval? Got it, nah bitch?

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<v Speaker 2>And when we come back, we got your room and report.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to talk about money bag Yo and his

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<v Speaker 2>relationship with rixelection. We'll get into an nexus. The breakfast

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<v Speaker 2>Sluggle Morning