1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: Kiki, you must be triggered because it says on here 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 1: you wanted me to ask what bill people hate paying 3 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: the most, which means that you were triggered by a bill. 4 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 2: You know. 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 3: I'm always triggered by all bills actually, Like you know, 6 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 3: every time I pay a bill, it ends up on 7 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 3: our topic. 8 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 4: She because I just get triggered. 9 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 3: I would like to manifest Jason's life. 10 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 4: You can just you can take a why. I don't 11 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 4: know what it's like. You don't have any idea, but 12 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 4: still broke. I don't understand it. I don't. He's got 13 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 4: a bill. 14 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 1: A lot of people have student loans and also have 15 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 1: to pay for houses. 16 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 4: But it's not normal. But I wouldn't even be able 17 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 4: to survive. It's that sick lady for real. That's where 18 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 4: he's sending all his money. Yeah, spin me around. Just 19 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,639 Speaker 4: moved into an old best because. 20 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: I just I've never understand when people are like, you know, 21 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: my husband pays all the bills, or my partner pays 22 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: all the bills, but I'm still that would drive me crazy. 23 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 4: I'll show you my bank account. You want to know, 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 4: see how it's possible, I'll show you. All right, So 25 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 4: what's the building pissed you. 26 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 3: Off insurance and I didn't know if this was a 27 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 3: safe space, but insurance for sure, because I feel like 28 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 3: car insurance, yes, okay, yes, And you know, normally my 29 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 3: company threatens me every month to get their bills, so 30 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 3: we do this whole thing, like they send me three 31 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 3: and I'm like, okay, fine, i'll pay you, but they 32 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 3: they increased yesterday, and I just feel like I'm paying 33 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:35,919 Speaker 3: for what if situation? Like I'm paying you every month 34 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 3: all this money for something that may never knock on 35 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 3: wood happen, and it just bothers. 36 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 4: Me every month. I don't know why. 37 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 3: Huh Yeah, Like I mean for years I drove around 38 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 3: just on with the best insurance that anybody can buy, 39 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 3: which is just you know, faith in God and let 40 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: him cover the way. 41 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 5: Literally. 42 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 4: Okay, so you had no car insurance. 43 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 3: But now I'm a law abiding citizen because i'm a judge. 44 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 3: Now I have to follow rules, and so you're. 45 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: Gonna be happy that you had car insurance if something 46 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: God forbid, something happened. 47 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 3: Right, But it's like, what what if? What if nothing 48 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 3: ever happens? And I just gave you ten thousand dollars 49 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 3: for nothing. 50 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: What's the bill that triggers you the most? Eight five, five, 51 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: five nine one one oh three five It is a 52 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 1: safe space. 53 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 4: Okay, we'll let you go off, all right, go off? 54 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 4: Cis go off? 55 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 3: I mean yeah, I mean, I love like and I 56 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 3: need some new insurance because I feel like we need 57 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 3: to break up the company I'm with now. We just 58 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 3: need to break up and I need to find a 59 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 3: new man. But I also feel like like it's just 60 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 3: so triggering, it's so expensive, and it's a what if situation. 61 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 4: Y'all, don't think about this. Yes, I do. Taxes pissed 62 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 4: me off the most. Oh yes, oh yes, girl. 63 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: I feel like I've never this is never enough. That's 64 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: another word like it's never an I already paid income 65 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: tax because you took it. 66 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,279 Speaker 4: He took it. I didn't have a choice an ask. 67 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 4: You just straight up took it from me. 68 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: And then somehow at the end of the year, even 69 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: though all my stuff is right, you know, CPAs are 70 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,399 Speaker 1: going to call me and go, how could you owe 71 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: more money? Your deductions are right now, they're right, But 72 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: somehow I owe more money? And how's that you didn't 73 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: take enough? 74 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 4: You know? 75 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: And how come this is? How come every day drive to work, 76 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: there's a bottle on the road, exactly pay for this. 77 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 6: See. 78 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 4: It really upsets me. 79 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: And I remember my parents used to say when you 80 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: were younger, like, oh, you'll care more about politics, and 81 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: you'll care more about, you know, the stuff's going on 82 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: in the you know, in the environment, in the city 83 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: and the world in the country when you start paying taxes, 84 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: and I'm like, whatever, you know, how rich i'd be 85 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: if I didn't pay text. 86 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 4: I don't even look like that. 87 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 3: That doesn't trigger me as much because it's kind of 88 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 3: out of sight, out of mind. It just happens, and 89 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 3: I never know that it happens. The problem is any 90 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 3: bill that I have to physically pay, like when I 91 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 3: have to open my phone and actually pay you. But taxes, 92 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 3: I feel like, I don't I don't even see it. 93 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 3: I try not to even look at like the net 94 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 3: or whatever, you know, the gross versus a net. I 95 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 3: don't even look the gas bills pissing me off to 96 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 3: these days. 97 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 4: Oh it was yeah, oh my god, yeah, I know 98 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 4: how we're. 99 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: Still paying, Like they figured out that we'll pay you know, 100 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: four or five whatever dollars a gown. They figured it out, 101 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: so they're never going to change it now because like, 102 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: well everyone's used to this, I guess, so here you go. 103 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure there's an economist that can call 104 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: up here and explain why. But I don't think no. 105 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: I think they're just greedy. I think they're greedy and 106 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: they know what we'll pay, and so they'll just they 107 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: just leave it there. Why would they ever you know, 108 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: it's like, why would they ever charge less? I mean, 109 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: I guess the world's gotten by paying this, so we'll 110 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 1: just keep making a bunch of money on you. Hey, Eddie, 111 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: good morning, Eddie man, let's go off. Go ahead. The 112 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 1: bill that you can't stand it pisses you off the most. 113 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 7: Well, I lived in an apartment for my most of 114 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 7: my adult life, and I recently bought a house. I'm 115 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 7: about six months ago, and then two months later I 116 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 7: started seeing these bills. Like the first one was the 117 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 7: water bill. I ever paid a water bill in my life, 118 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 7: And I'm like, okay, that's not terrible. Well, then my like, 119 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 7: GA's an electric bill in an apartment I was paying 120 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 7: maybe like I don't know, one hundred dollars a month. Well, 121 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 7: it's like triple that, and I'm like, what is this 122 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 7: And it's just all these random fees whether I have 123 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 7: this mortgage and mortgage insurance, and because I'm a first 124 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 7: time homeowner, like they have to like all these extra 125 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 7: extra charges and extra bills that I didn't even know 126 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 7: existed until I owned a house. So I thought owning 127 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 7: a house it would be great until I bought a house. 128 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 6: Yeah. 129 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 1: Well, hey, by the way, congratulations, that's a big accomplishment 130 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: and you should be really proud of that. But there 131 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 1: is something and I advocate for people buying houses because 132 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: you know, you own it and it feels I'm sure 133 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: it feels good. 134 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 4: You pull up, it's yours. 135 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 1: You know, you know that the money's going into an 136 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:46,799 Speaker 1: account hopefully that you know you're hopefully you're at least 137 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: getting your money back someday when you sell the house, hopefully, right. 138 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 1: But at the same time, there's somebody to be said 139 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: for renting, because when something's broken, you call up you know, 140 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: old gem the landlord, and tell them, hey, this thing's broken, 141 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: come fix it, and then it's their problem. Or in 142 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 1: Jason's case, you just call the guy who's paying the 143 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: bills anyway. 144 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, lays next to you. 145 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, Eddie, thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. 146 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 4: Man, have a great day. 147 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's so real because when you have a house, 148 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 8: you have to because it depends, but you have to 149 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 8: like watch how much water you're using because they're charging 150 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,919 Speaker 8: you for it, right, Yes, like I do hoa, so 151 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 8: I can use as much water as I want. 152 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 4: I believe, I do believe. Correct. Do you think that'll 153 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 4: pay water bills? I'm assuming goes. I guess I don't 154 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 4: either way, Yes, I guess. Yeah, yeah, but they'll raise 155 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 4: the hoa on you. 156 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 1: Oh my god, we did. Oh yeah, oh yeah. Well 157 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: hey Lena, Hi Lena, So good morning. What is the 158 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: bill that just triggers you? 159 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 4: The phone bill? Yeah, it's awful. 160 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 2: Every single time I look at it, I'm like, why 161 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 2: am I paying? 162 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 4: You know, and it all adds up. It's like two phones, 163 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 4: an air pods, and. 164 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 9: A watch, and it's like thirty bucks for this, twenty 165 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 9: bucks for that because the actual service is. 166 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 4: Not that fun, but you have to pay off all 167 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 4: these electronics. 168 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, well oh yeah, because that's the thing now is 169 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: a lot of places they don't want to sell the phone. 170 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: They want you to rent the phone from them, essentially, 171 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 1: But which I guess means you can get a new 172 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: phone more often. But like I would love to go 173 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: back to a two year contract, Like the two year 174 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: contract their phone was included. 175 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 4: You just were stuck in a contract for two years. 176 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 4: Now they tricked you. I'll be like the. 177 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: Contract's man, you want to be funny of the contract, 178 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: but you have to pay for the phone now. Well, 179 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: the other thing is, do you guys have any software 180 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: that you have to pay, Like you can't download like 181 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: the stuff that we used to edit stuff, audio stuff 182 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: and whatever like that I have at my house. You 183 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: can't just buy it anymore. You have to basically rent 184 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: it from Adobe. And it's like before you can And 185 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: of course they know this, Like I used to use 186 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: like Adobe whatever was called before Cool Edit Pro from 187 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 1: like nineteen ninety five did the exact same thing. I 188 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: hadn't had to buy it in twenty years. And then 189 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: they were like, nope, not anymore. Now you have to 190 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: pay monthly to have access to it because they know 191 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: that people like me rout they're using the one from 192 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: the you know, Apple two c days. I had a 193 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: big disk drive and everything, and now they now they're 194 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: trying to make me pay Lena have a good day. 195 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 4: Thank you. 196 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: It's all subscription now because they're onto you. They know 197 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: that people will just keep the same stuff. Hey, Rusty, 198 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: how you doing? 199 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 3: Hey? 200 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 1: Not bad, rusty man? What the bill? That just triggers you? 201 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: You can't stand it? Uh. 202 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 5: I'm also gonna with auto insurance. The reason for that one, though, 203 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 5: is that you can spend upwards of ten grand. You 204 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 5: loyal to your insurance company for years and years and years. 205 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,079 Speaker 6: You get one or two accidents. 206 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 5: And they drop you, yep, and now you're stuck trying 207 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 5: to search for another stupid company. They're going to raise 208 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 5: your rates and give you just thumb coverage. 209 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 10: You know. 210 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's where I need to go. 211 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, they got all they got all that. 212 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 4: Yeah they do. 213 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 1: No, it's it's it's annoying rut. Okay, So add that 214 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: to the list. Car insurance and well that was the 215 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 1: one that got this whole thing started. Upsets Kiki the most. 216 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 1: Thank you man. Have a good day, Rusty. 217 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 218 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: And the other thing is, okay, here we go. I 219 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 1: don't have a lot of time, but have you have 220 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: you tried to shop for a hotel lately? And this 221 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 1: has been going on for a while, but like you'll go, 222 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: like I was trying to get one last week to 223 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,599 Speaker 1: go somewhere, and you'll go look at it and it 224 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: will say, like, I don't know, two hundred dollars a 225 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: night for the hotel, Like okay, two hundred bucks a night, 226 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: like I got it, okay, book it. And then when 227 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:31,199 Speaker 1: you go to close out, it's like three fifty a 228 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: night because you got to pay a resort fee, you 229 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: got to pay a bed fee, you got to pay 230 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: you want a. 231 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 4: Key to the room fee. I'm like, well, what is 232 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 4: this up? 233 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: Just honestly, I would rather you just charge me three 234 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: fifty and I don't feel nickel and dimed by this. 235 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 4: What's a resort fee? I thought? 236 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 1: I thought that's what I paid, what I pay for 237 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: the first tife housekeeping. 238 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 4: Don't even come back no more. I know my room nasty? 239 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 4: What kind of resort is it? 240 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 1: More? 241 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 4: Fresh Show next? 242 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they tell me. 243 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 4: These are the radio blogs on The Fresh Show. 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Okay, 251 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:29,679 Speaker 3: let's all respect the saying because recently a friend has 252 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 3: been in my house for a few days and it's 253 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 3: like every like, I don't want you to educate me 254 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:36,119 Speaker 3: on everything. 255 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 4: Some things I would just like to not know. 256 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 3: And recently he just really ruined my whole experience of 257 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 3: using paper plates, like, let me use my paper plates 258 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 3: in peace. Every time I use a paper plate, this 259 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 3: man goes. You hear that, and you hear that sound 260 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 3: of that cackling in the microwave. It's killing you every 261 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 3: time you use a paper plate, Like, bro, did I really. 262 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 4: Like chemicals are robbing off on your food or something? 263 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 4: You don't have plates, regular plates in your house? Excuse me? 264 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: I have plates, But why would I want to wash 265 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 3: dishes in this climate? You got a dishwash with this 266 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 3: water bill, Yes, the dishwashering uses less water than washing 267 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 3: it by hand. Well, we've already had this argument before. 268 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 3: You know, I don't use a dishwasher because I'm triggered. 269 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 3: As a child, I was never allowed to use my dishwasher. 270 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 4: I washed it day now I do. I just watched 271 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 4: it every day. I don't. I don't. 272 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 3: But that's not why we're here, Rufio. We're here because 273 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 3: he's ruined my paper blade experience. 274 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 4: It's nothing. I would just like not to know. You 275 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 4: don't use paper It's. 276 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: Okay, you guys can we can we The point here 277 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: is this is a guest in your home. Yes, I'm 278 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: not here to criticize the way you live your life 279 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: when I'm staying in your home. 280 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 4: Thank you. 281 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 1: You want to use paper plates in your home, that's 282 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: your prerogative. And if I'm a guest, I'm not here 283 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 1: pointing out the things that you know, that's the in 284 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: law stuff. See you know that's when the in laws 285 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 1: come over and they point out all the stuff about 286 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,319 Speaker 1: the house that they don't like it, that they want 287 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 1: to fix, or that you're not doing right or whatever. Yeah, 288 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:01,679 Speaker 1: this is just a guest in your home. If you 289 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 1: want to use paper places, that's your business. 290 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 3: And some things I just don't want to be educated about, 291 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 3: like let me just enjoy my paper plate. 292 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 4: I don't understand that. 293 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 3: And another friend who tell me don't eat something at 294 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 3: a barbecue that my other friend was having and I'm like, 295 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 3: but I love eating their food at this barbecue. 296 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 4: Now, why did you have to tell me not to 297 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 4: eat it? That's another thing. Don't ruin. 298 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 1: Don't ruin somebody's enjoyment of a food or something by 299 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 1: telling you, oh, you know that carries salmonella. It's like, okay, 300 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: well I'm eating it right now, so let me down. 301 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 1: I mean seriously, I. 302 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 2: Was gonna say, what if he just cares about you 303 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 2: and he really believes that they're hurting you? 304 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 4: And I know that's what it is, okay. 305 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 3: And it's just like certain things I see you guys, 306 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 3: like even my friends in here, I see y'all do 307 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 3: certain stuffing. I'm like, oh, they should not do that. 308 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 3: But I don't want to tell you. 309 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 4: Oh no, please go ahead. 310 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: I'm not telling you which one of us does it. 311 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 4: Everybody has one thing, and I, okay, what's mine. I'm 312 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 4: asking you to tell me. I'm not doing it. I 313 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 4: like sitting here. 314 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 3: I'm not ruining, but I asked you can tell you 315 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 3: tell me no, because I don't like how it feels when. 316 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 4: It happens to me. 317 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 3: Just let me die in peace and eat off my 318 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 3: paper plates to the food that I should not eat 319 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 3: at the barbecue. 320 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 4: What's good to know? 321 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 1: Good to know that you've got something in your brain 322 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 1: that could save my life. 323 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 4: You just won't tell me what it is. I feel scared. 324 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 4: I know you guys don't want to know. 325 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: I want to get back to this, but I'm going 326 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 1: to play for you in a second, because there's more 327 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: to this. But dear blog, so as you know, I'm 328 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: obsessed with my niece Polly. She's uh, I don't know, 329 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 1: approaching two and a half kind of, I don't know. 330 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 1: Two years and five months, you know whatever. I'm approaching 331 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 1: two and a half, I don't know. 332 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 4: Thirty six months, sure, no, that's three years. 333 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: Paper plates are messing you Upkiki. Maybe she's stop eating 334 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 1: off paper plates. You'd be able to do math better. 335 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: But she's now, she's she's talking a lot. I was 336 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 1: telling Pauline off the air, she's very what's the word 337 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 1: I'm looking for, Well, she's very confident, and she speaks 338 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 1: with intentions. She's like as she's got something to say 339 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 1: and she needs you to hear it. But the running 340 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: they listen to us on the radio on their way 341 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 1: to school each day, and my sister is a school 342 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 1: counselor and and my niece goes to a program at 343 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: the school where my sister works in Dallas, and so 344 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: they listening to stay. And so the thing is, now 345 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: I call and or they'll FaceTime me, and I'll go. 346 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 1: She'll go Bubby Radio because she calls me Bubby because 347 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: my sister used to call me Bubba. And then I'll 348 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: go Polly Radio. And she laughs, except now she says, no, 349 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 1: she doesn't want Polly Radio. And here's why I'm gonna 350 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 1: My sister captured this audio in the car the other 351 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 1: day where she was explaining why she doesn't want Polly radio. 352 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 1: And here I'll hopefully you can hear this. 353 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 4: You don't you don't want to go on the radio. 354 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 4: Why not? You're scared of the radio. But Bubby's on 355 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 4: the radio, and he is saying, Bubby safe, He's okay, 356 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 4: it's scared. 357 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 9: You're to the radio. 358 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 4: Can you tell me why? Yeah, because you're stuck. Oh 359 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 4: you're worried if you're in the radio, inside the radio, 360 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 4: that you get stuck. Well, how does Bubby get out? Okay, Well, 361 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 4: we'll have to talk to Bubby about this because he's 362 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 4: in the radio. Every day, but he's able to get out. 363 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I am each day. I'm able to get out 364 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: of the radio. But she, in her mind, in her 365 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: in her brilliant little mind, believes that we're inside the 366 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: radio and she's worried that she would get in there 367 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: and then wouldn't be able to get out. 368 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 4: Oh, I don't want her to have that girl. Some days, 369 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 4: I get that we've been sucking here for a while. 370 00:15:51,360 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: Now, I'm just gonna say, help us out. From a 371 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: metaphor standpoint, she's really not wrong. But it is sort 372 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: of true actually, but not physically. It's more mental thing. 373 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: But yeah, but I want to get back to this 374 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: a little bit because I want to know that the 375 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: wild concept that your kid has developed. I remember a 376 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: guy one time when I was a look kid, I 377 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: went to visit a radio station at school and there 378 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 1: was a dude that worked there, and he was telling 379 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: me when he was a kid, he used to drive 380 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: by the radio station and there'd be like one car 381 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 1: in the parking lot, and he would wonder, like, where's 382 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 1: all the music coming from? This one guy playing like 383 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 1: like as if everybody was in there playing the songs 384 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: on the radio. There's only one car though, how could 385 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: they be doing this? But Polly is afraid she will 386 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 1: get stuck inside the radio. 387 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 4: That's so like sweet. And also I don't want her 388 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 4: to have that anxiety. 389 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 1: No, And of course my sister the therapist being well, 390 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 1: tell me why you feel that way. Yeah, I don't 391 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: know if that's going to mess her up more or 392 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 1: make her more well adjusted. 393 00:16:55,240 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 4: I'm not sure. Stare Go is next waiting by the phone. 394 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 4: It's the Fred Shout Morning Shad is funny. 395 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 1: Hi, glad you're here waiting by the phone, so I 396 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: have your email. You met a guy named Tom on 397 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: a hinge the dating app, and then what happened? 398 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 4: Correct? 399 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, we met him hinch and he asked me for 400 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 9: my number, and then he asked me out for strawing 401 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 9: and we had a really nice time. And I don't 402 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:29,919 Speaker 9: usually date so much. And now I remember why, and 403 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 9: it's because, like this guy, I got ghosted again and 404 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 9: I'm just trying to figure out why. I don't understand. 405 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 9: I mean, I feel like we had a really nice 406 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,359 Speaker 9: time on our date, and all of a sudden I 407 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 9: don't hear from him again. 408 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 1: I'm telling you the dating apps man, it's uh, it 409 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: messes everything up, whether you meet someone in person or online, 410 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: because it's like the next shiny toy, you know what 411 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 1: I mean, And so sometimes people get disappointed because you 412 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: felt one way, but then the other man, the other 413 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: person could even like you, but there's just the next match, 414 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and you gotta log on 415 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 1: to see who comes in next. 416 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 4: Right, Well, I. 417 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 9: Don't know why he can be honest and just be like, hey, 418 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,120 Speaker 9: I'm not interested anymore. Like that's the part that hurts 419 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 9: the most for those things. 420 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 1: Okay, really though, you look back on the date and 421 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,440 Speaker 1: everything went well, you really expected to hear from him. 422 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 4: But nothing, Yeah, exactly. 423 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's call him and we'll see if 424 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: we can get him on the phone, ask some questions. 425 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone as well, and hopefully we 426 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 1: can straighten all of this out, figure out what's going on. 427 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 1: Set you guys up on another date and we'll pay 428 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: for that. Okay, Okay, I'm gonna play one song and 429 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: come back. Can you hang on for a second, Let's 430 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: see what's going on hard two after Paramore on the 431 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 1: French show. Back in a few minutes, Paramore, he is 432 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 1: on the commercial free frend show. Hello, Good Morning, Part 433 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 1: two A Waiting by the phone Shannon. Hey, all right, 434 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call this guy Tom. You met on Hinge, 435 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: had a great date. You know, you were saying you 436 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: don't date a whole lot, but you did like this 437 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: guy and you were hoping to hear from him. But 438 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: he kind of fell into the pattern that you've experienced 439 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 1: before where you can't get a hold of him. You 440 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 1: feel like he's ghosting and you want to know why. 441 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 9: Yeah, exactly, I want to know. 442 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 4: What's going on. 443 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:17,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes sense. Let's call him now. Good luck. Hello, 444 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 1: Oh hi, Tom, how you doing. My name is Fred 445 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: from the Fred Show, and I have to tell you 446 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now and I 447 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Is that 448 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: okay if we talk for a second. 449 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, that's really good. 450 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 4: Thank you. Wow. 451 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 1: Look at this guy identifies himself. Nice guy, says we 452 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: can talk to him. I mean, this is wonderful. I'm 453 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: not sure if you've ever heard this before, but we're 454 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a woman named Shannon who says 455 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:45,160 Speaker 1: that you guys met on Hinge and you went out. 456 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: You recall meeting her and the date. 457 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, Okay, so remember her. 458 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:54,120 Speaker 1: She told us that she hasn't heard from you, Slash, 459 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 1: can't get a hold of you. Feels like you're ghosting. 460 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 1: Can you tell us what's going on? 461 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 6: Wow, she said, I'm ghosting. That's it's weird because she 462 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 6: didn't She didn't even really like me, is what I 463 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 6: kind of felt on the date. 464 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 4: So well, she says she lolled you. 465 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: I mean, she she's calling us because she wants to 466 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,880 Speaker 1: know why you haven't reached out, feeling as though you're 467 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: you're rejecting her, and so I think it's the opposite. 468 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:16,400 Speaker 1: I think she liked you a lot. 469 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 6: Wow, you fool me. 470 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 4: Okay, So what happened to give you that impression? 471 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 6: Well? Yeah, first, yeah, I mean I thought she was 472 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 6: really cool, and then we're pretty fast. I realized that 473 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,880 Speaker 6: I don't think she likes guys very much. She's kind 474 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 6: of a really anti men, kind of put me down 475 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 6: the whole time. And I later, you know, she she 476 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 6: got he did something wrong and she goes typical dude. 477 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 6: He wasn't even listening either, you know, So. 478 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,239 Speaker 4: Totally what happened is I know a lot. 479 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,879 Speaker 6: I didn't want to say anything and get myself in 480 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 6: trouble or on the internet or so. Basically what happened is, uh, 481 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 6: I just kind of got nervous, a little too scared 482 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 6: to talk or anything. So and then I just felt 483 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 6: after the date might as well, you know, she didn't 484 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 6: like me, so I just kind of avoid all that. 485 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 1: So she was putting down all men, including you, on 486 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 1: the day, and now she's. 487 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:13,360 Speaker 2: Calling, Okay, you really walking entire time and she wants to. 488 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 1: Know why you don't want to go out with her again. 489 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: Let me let me just bring Shannon in. I forgot 490 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 1: to mention that she is here. I want to get 491 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: her side of the story. Shannon, What what's this about? 492 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:23,719 Speaker 1: The entire time you put the guy down and then 493 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: according to him, and now you want to know why 494 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:26,560 Speaker 1: he doesn't call you? 495 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:31,919 Speaker 9: Wow, Tom, you're such a cha You hear that? 496 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, I heard that one too that night. She has 497 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 6: a list of buzzwords. 498 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 4: She's just a. 499 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 9: Typical guy, the same typical guy stuff. 500 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 4: Like like just speaking. 501 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,680 Speaker 1: I mean, give me an example of something he did 502 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: that makes him so terrible and a chauvinist. 503 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 9: Well, like, for example, wanting to order for me for 504 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,719 Speaker 9: that song when you wanted to order for me. 505 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 4: It's kind of nice. 506 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 6: It was an advertiser. I just thought we should have 507 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 6: an appay. 508 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 1: Those are typically share I do assume that, Okay, did 509 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: he pay for dinner too? 510 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 9: He did pay, but I used to pay half because 511 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 9: I mean, does that doesn't matter to me? I I 512 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 9: believe that women should seeler pay half of the dinner. 513 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 4: Why not pay for the whole thing? 514 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 9: Then? 515 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:29,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I'm not hearing necessarily that he was 516 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 1: a bad guy. I'm hearing that he was trying to 517 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 1: be romantic or trying to be initiative. Yeah, right, like 518 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: that he wanted you to have a good time, wanted 519 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,399 Speaker 1: you to be taken care of. I think, gentlemen, I 520 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: don't think he's just I don't get the impression that 521 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 1: he's saying you can't do it. I think what he 522 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: was doing is just trying to make you feel special. 523 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 9: Well, and he was like defending the waiter, and obviously 524 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 9: like the waiter was not even listening to us. 525 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 4: He was just I don't know, he was. 526 00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,040 Speaker 6: Good and I was a very busy night though it 527 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:00,439 Speaker 6: wasn't his. 528 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,359 Speaker 1: So the guy made a mistake, and so I don't know. 529 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 1: I guess I'm not I'm really trying to hear your 530 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 1: side here, Channon. I'm trying to like hear the thing 531 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 1: that he did that was so bad because to call 532 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 1: the guy a chauvinis, I mean, that's that's not a 533 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:15,159 Speaker 1: very good label. 534 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,159 Speaker 6: No, it's it's a very bad label and made me 535 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 6: feel very uncomfortable. 536 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: And if the guy ordered chips and guac and on 537 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 1: your behalf for you both to share, and that makes 538 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: him a chauvinus, that I would I would argue that 539 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,199 Speaker 1: by definition maybe not, But I'm trying to hear it. 540 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 4: I'm I'm really I'm trying to be open minded. 541 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 6: You. 542 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 9: Well, guys just tend to me and it's not it's 543 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 9: not fun. You know, Why would I want to keep 544 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 9: going out on dates when they're like. 545 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 4: It's not funny. Call cha when you're not a chauvinist either. 546 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 9: I was, Yeah, but you could have actually told me, 547 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 9: you could have said something to me. 548 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 6: I didn't know what. Honestly, I didn't know what to 549 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 6: say to you. 550 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:52,399 Speaker 4: It's you. 551 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 6: It's very confrontational and at that point, you know. 552 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 1: What's why there's titles you're not going to win and 553 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,360 Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, if I'm sitting on a date 554 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: and everything that that men are doing on this date, 555 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 1: even if they're trying to be nice, is bad. I'm 556 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 1: probably not gonna argue with you. I'm just maybe not 557 00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:09,439 Speaker 1: gonna call again. 558 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 4: Is a man? 559 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, this one can't be saved. So guys, 560 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: thank you for your time, and I wish you both 561 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: the best of luck. 562 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 6: All right, I appreciate it. 563 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:23,719 Speaker 9: Thank you. 564 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 4: Let's get to blog right now, shall we tell you? Yeah, 565 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 4: they talk better than they These are the radio blogs 566 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 4: on the Fred Show. All right, you ready, I'm so ready. 567 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,919 Speaker 4: All right, good, let's do it. Your blog, go, dear blog. 568 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,959 Speaker 2: So I'm coming to you guys with a lot of 569 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:43,879 Speaker 2: gratitude right now. So do you know the feature on 570 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 2: Instagram or I don't know if it's a feature intentionally, 571 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,120 Speaker 2: but you know when you film something long ways like this, 572 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 2: it crops it right into a square you can't fit the. 573 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 4: Whole sure photo. I did, of course I knew that. Okay. 574 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 2: Well, I've never been so grateful for that in my 575 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 2: entire life, and I will tell you why. 576 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 4: So it's been a busy couple weeks for me, and 577 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 4: I've just. 578 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 2: Been like here there everywhere, at concert, another club, whatever, 579 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. And so I was catching up with 580 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 2: one of my friends who was at Taylor Swift with 581 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 2: Jason and I last weekend, and I said, hey, you 582 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 2: know you took a lot of photos videos. I didn't 583 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,679 Speaker 2: take anything. Can you send me your stuff? Because I 584 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,399 Speaker 2: was kind of just like living in the moment whatever. 585 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 2: So I finally get a second to go through the 586 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 2: photos and videos that she has from the concert. Now, 587 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 2: mind you, she has already post a swipe through for 588 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 2: her experience. Okay, I haven't posted anything at this point. 589 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,880 Speaker 2: So I finally go through everything. I watch all the videos, 590 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 2: and she had an adorable video of me singing Fearless 591 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,679 Speaker 2: by Taylor Swift. I looked so happy, and I was like, 592 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:39,959 Speaker 2: this one. I'm going to say this post this one. 593 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 2: I noticed that a strong gust of wind as I'm 594 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 2: singing Fearless comes right on through. Kaylin didn't have a 595 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 2: bra on, and my entire left booby, entire left booby 596 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 2: is out in this video that I already know was 597 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 2: already posted. 598 00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,639 Speaker 4: She did not notice. I did not notice, you guys. 599 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 2: The crap was like right above nip level, right above 600 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:05,919 Speaker 2: nip Ah. 601 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 4: I didn't feel it in the moment. Somehow, I just 602 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 4: kept on singing. 603 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 2: She never saw it, and I had just noticed it, 604 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,640 Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god. So I run 605 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 2: to her posts and luckily, because she was filming long ways, 606 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 2: there is a tiny, tiny little crop that I'm very 607 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,120 Speaker 2: thrankful for. 608 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:27,120 Speaker 1: As half of the city tries to find your Instagram 609 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 1: right now to go see for themselves. 610 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 4: It is not on mine, and she is private, thank 611 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 4: you Jesus. She has private, thank you Jesus. 612 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 2: And also you can't see anything and it maybe I 613 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 2: can post the video if I do some sort of emoji, 614 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,679 Speaker 2: but it is full like the fath that neither of 615 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 2: us noticed, and I didn't feel it. 616 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:42,919 Speaker 4: I just kept on singing long well. 617 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 1: And the interesting thing is one hundred percent of people 618 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 1: only focus on how they look in videos and pictures 619 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,120 Speaker 1: they post on their social media. So it's very possible 620 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: that she could have just been so consumed with looking 621 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,919 Speaker 1: at the one that was best of her and then 622 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 1: posted one of your boob just flopping out of the wind. 623 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 2: I said to her, I go, literally, it's my entire 624 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,439 Speaker 2: how your left boob And I go, hey, you know 625 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,680 Speaker 2: that video you posted. I'm like, can you watch it again? 626 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 2: Really quick and just look at the lower half of 627 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 2: the screen and she was like, holy crap, I have 628 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 2: no idea how I missed it? 629 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: Did it just returned into its original position? Like how 630 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 1: did you not know that? So you didn't feel that 631 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 1: the boob was out? But then it just it just 632 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: went back into covered position on its own. 633 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,159 Speaker 2: So picture, I know you're you know you're used to 634 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 2: your fashion segment. Picture picture like a cowl knack. 635 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 4: She's like an absolute nay the kilter okay, And so 636 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 4: you can't wear a bra. 637 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 2: With it, Like it's like the fabric is like this 638 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 2: right here. 639 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:37,679 Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, no, you couldn't wear a bra with that. 640 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 4: Now they don't make it. They don't make a broth 641 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,679 Speaker 4: for that, but I guess technically whatever. Then a strong 642 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 4: gus you could wear if you wanted to. 643 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 2: I could, and I didn't. I wish I had very much. 644 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,360 Speaker 2: So strong Wind entire left booby out. 645 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 4: Song went back, puts it back in a place, and 646 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,360 Speaker 4: I didn't miss a beat on fearless, but you were. 647 00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 4: You were definitely fearless, you think, and I literally it is. 648 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 2: Just so close to look at that and it's been 649 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 2: up for you know, forever. 650 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 4: Her family, all all of our friends, So that's a 651 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 4: nice gift. 652 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: Have any of you ever had a wardrobe malfunction that 653 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,199 Speaker 1: you were not aware of until after the fact. I mean, 654 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 1: I think we've all, like you know, our FLI has 655 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: been down or I don't know, something like that where we. 656 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:23,240 Speaker 4: Always actually Jason's I wonder why that's normal. I wonder 657 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 4: you want to see. 658 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 1: I was going to say that you spend a lot 659 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 1: of time in the bathroom. So if you know, if 660 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 1: you know, you know, if you don't, I'm not going 661 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 1: to explain it to you now. But have you ever 662 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 1: had one where you didn't realize it until like you 663 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 1: got home. 664 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 10: Remember that one company party we had and I wore 665 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:40,040 Speaker 10: like this romper. 666 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 4: You guys remember that the famous ropper right, Oh yeah, 667 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 4: it's the famous rapper. 668 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 10: Every move I made, My move was out to the 669 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 10: point that one of our bosses, Echo was like giving 670 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 10: me a scarf to like put over, and then Nicky 671 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 10: were in the bathroom trying to take me off. 672 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 4: I remember that. 673 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 10: Yeah, that was a great outfit, but bad choice for 674 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 10: that day. 675 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 4: Bad choice. Oh yeah, I'm trying. 676 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 1: To think of I've had one where it was just 677 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 1: when on the whole day and no one told me. 678 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 1: I don't think so, but yeah, I've had moments, yeah, like. 679 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 2: See through stuff can be one like you don't see 680 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,959 Speaker 2: until like you take a picture with flash, like oh, 681 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 2: there's my jabos. 682 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 4: You know. 683 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 1: Someone's asking if the original video will be shown Yes 684 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: on our exclusive You have to be a member. If 685 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 1: you go to Fred Show radio dot com, you'll see 686 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 1: there's an exclusive membership. It's our only fans. Yeah, it'll 687 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 1: be up there. It's five dollars a month. But your 688 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 1: introductory video is Kaelin's move, just flopping around. 689 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 4: It's just amazing.