WEBVTT - Matthew López

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, welcome to I've never said this before with

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<v Speaker 1>me Tommy Diderio. Today's guest is the brilliant Matthew Lopez.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a director, a screenwriter, and a Tony Award winning playwright.

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<v Speaker 1>And on top of that, Tony add on maybe six

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<v Speaker 1>or seven other noteworthy awards for his play The Inheritance,

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<v Speaker 1>which I was lucky enough to see on Broadway, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was so incredibly moved by, and being the theater

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<v Speaker 1>geek that I am, I also saw another show he

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<v Speaker 1>co wrote, which was the musical adaptation for Some Like

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<v Speaker 1>It Hot, also fantastic. But today we are diving into

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<v Speaker 1>Red White and Royal Blue, one of the most anticipated

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<v Speaker 1>movies of the year that Matthew co wrote and directed. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>this film is an adaptation of the best selling novel

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<v Speaker 1>by Casey mcquisten, and I would say it's arguably one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most popular books ever written. So here's the story.

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<v Speaker 1>Alex is the son of the American President, and he

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<v Speaker 1>is in a feud with Prince Henry of Britain and

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<v Speaker 1>at one event that they both are attending, that few

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<v Speaker 1>becomes pretty public when it comes to a head. So

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<v Speaker 1>to prevent a wedge from being driven into the US

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<v Speaker 1>and British relations, Alex and Prince Henry are forced to

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<v Speaker 1>stage a truce that well it, you know, sparks something

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<v Speaker 1>unexpected and deeper than anyone could have imagined. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think you can guess some love ensues. Matthew brings this

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<v Speaker 1>queer love story from the pages to the screen in

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<v Speaker 1>the most beautiful way. And let's just say, while watching this, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I shed quite a few tears. I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I am a sucker for love. What can I say?

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<v Speaker 1>So let's see if today we can get Matthew to

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<v Speaker 1>say something that he's never said before. Matthew, how are you,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing really well.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks good. I'm so happy you're here. I know you've

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<v Speaker 1>had a crazy few days. You've been on a whirlwind

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<v Speaker 1>tour for this movie, which but we're going to get

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<v Speaker 1>all into I have to tell you, Ah, what can

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<v Speaker 1>I say that will truly convey what it felt like

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<v Speaker 1>watching this movie in that theater on Monday night at

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<v Speaker 1>the screening, I mean, my husband and I went crazy

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<v Speaker 1>over it. We laughed, we cried, we cheered, all the

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<v Speaker 1>things and more. You did such a brilliant job with

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<v Speaker 1>this movie. Congratulations, Thank you, thank you. I know it's

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<v Speaker 1>your first film. Why did you want to make Red, White,

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<v Speaker 1>and Royal Blue?

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<v Speaker 3>It was about February, February twenty twenty and my agent

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<v Speaker 3>sent me the book, and I had just opened Inheritance

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<v Speaker 3>on Broadway, and I was looking to do something new.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to start looking for a film to make,

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<v Speaker 3>and then this book came along, and I just knew

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<v Speaker 3>about page fifty, I kind of knew that this was

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<v Speaker 3>the thing I wanted to do, and it was. And

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<v Speaker 3>then the rest of the book was essentially me already

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<v Speaker 3>starting to figure out how I might be able to

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<v Speaker 3>make a film work out of this book. And I

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<v Speaker 3>found out that Greg Burlanti, who was one of the

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<v Speaker 3>producers of The Inheritance, had acquired the Riots, and I

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<v Speaker 3>lobbied him and Sarah Schechter, his business partner, and eventually,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, they came to me and said, yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 3>do this. And I then that became the last two

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<v Speaker 3>and a half years of my life. I really really

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<v Speaker 3>responded so so much to the optimism of the book.

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<v Speaker 3>I really loved the fact that it was this queer

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<v Speaker 3>romance with a happy ending and with really idiosyncratic vibrant characters.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that there was a latinae bisexual, Southern boy

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<v Speaker 3>in the lead.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's so much I could relate to in

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<v Speaker 2>this book.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, when you contemplate spending two years working

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<v Speaker 3>on something.

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<v Speaker 2>You had better really like it, and you better really

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<v Speaker 2>be excited about it, or you better really be excit.

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<v Speaker 3>I did about the paycheck, I guess, But for me,

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<v Speaker 3>I really needed my first film to be something that

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<v Speaker 3>I was passionate about, that I was going to sacrifice

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<v Speaker 3>sleep for.

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<v Speaker 2>And this was it for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So you said you were reading it and then fifty

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<v Speaker 1>pages in you knew you had to make this a movie.

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<v Speaker 1>What was that defining moment for you?

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<v Speaker 3>I probably the fans of the book will tell me

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<v Speaker 3>how wrong I am at this, So it's probably not

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<v Speaker 3>at page fifty.

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<v Speaker 2>But their first kiss.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the way the gway Casey described the first

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<v Speaker 3>kiss was so cinematic.

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<v Speaker 2>I could see the movie. The movie was just unschooling.

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<v Speaker 3>In my head as I was reading it, And I

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<v Speaker 3>love that it was this you know, a kid, a

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<v Speaker 3>New Year's even snowy white house grounds.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought there was something.

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<v Speaker 3>Just inherently cinematic about about so much of the book,

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<v Speaker 3>and I really kind of fell for the swoony, romantic

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<v Speaker 3>quality of Casey's writing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and the two leads bring this story to life brilliantly.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you spent five or six months auditioning hundreds

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<v Speaker 1>of different actors. You found Taylor, you found Nicholas. Why

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<v Speaker 1>were they the right guys to play these roles?

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny, after having made the film with them, it's

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<v Speaker 2>almost becomes really difficult to explain why they're the most

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<v Speaker 2>the perfect guys in the roles because they are just

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<v Speaker 2>simply now the roles. You forget what the casting process

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<v Speaker 2>was like.

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<v Speaker 3>And I've had to really go back and actually watched

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<v Speaker 3>some of their auditions recently, and I remember watching Nick

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<v Speaker 3>audition and working with Nick. He really convinced me that

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<v Speaker 3>what Henry needed was a caretaker, and what Nick was

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<v Speaker 3>able to do as the actor playing the role was

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<v Speaker 3>less inhabit him than care for him.

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<v Speaker 2>He really really protected Henry. He really felt very protective

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<v Speaker 2>of Henry.

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<v Speaker 3>I think as an actor saw his job as being

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<v Speaker 3>someone who had to just sort of create a roll

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<v Speaker 3>around Henry and keep bad things from happening to him.

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<v Speaker 3>And there was such an enormous well of compassion for.

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<v Speaker 2>Henry, and I knew that with Nick, I was leaving.

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<v Speaker 3>This character in very good hands, and I could I

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<v Speaker 3>could I didn't need to worry about Henry, and I

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<v Speaker 3>could worry.

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<v Speaker 2>I could focus on of the things.

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<v Speaker 4>And with Taylor, Taylor has this ability to transform himself,

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<v Speaker 4>both his body and his energy into something else.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a real.

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<v Speaker 2>Chameleon and he's a shape shifter.

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<v Speaker 3>And when I started reading him for this role, I

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<v Speaker 3>could see Alex just sort of springing to life. And

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<v Speaker 3>and so there's it's funny. There's this very complimentary energy

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<v Speaker 3>that they have as actors, at least on this film,

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<v Speaker 3>that Nick was very sort of internal and Taylor was

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<v Speaker 3>very external. There was some sort of inward energy coming

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<v Speaker 3>toward Nick and there was some outward energy coming from Taylor,

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<v Speaker 3>and so that independently of each other, they were already

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<v Speaker 3>without having met, we're creating these very complimentary performances, just

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<v Speaker 3>even in the auditions.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I put them in on a zoom.

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<v Speaker 3>Together to do a chemistry read and just sort of

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<v Speaker 3>like praying and hoping that oh my God, you know, please,

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<v Speaker 3>please please.

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<v Speaker 5>Just if it's not true, give me enough that I

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<v Speaker 5>can fake it, you know, and they didn't need I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't need to fake anything and neither today.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just there from the beginning. It was it

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<v Speaker 3>was I mean, it's gonna sound stupid to say it,

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<v Speaker 3>but it just sounded like fate. It just was so perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>They were the characters, They became the characters more and

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<v Speaker 3>more throughout the audition process, and then when we got

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<v Speaker 3>into this chemistry read they just clicked instantly. So the

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<v Speaker 3>one hand, it was incredibly thorough this process, both on

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<v Speaker 3>my part and theirs, I would say, and then it

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<v Speaker 3>just clicked and became incredibly easy and simple and straightforward.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow wow, Yeah, their chemistry is incredible in the film.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know you guys spent about two weeks rehearsing

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<v Speaker 1>and prepping prior to shooting, which I know isn't always common,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that's really cool you took the time

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. Was there anything that happened in those

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<v Speaker 1>rehearsals that maybe influenced to change then, you know, from

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<v Speaker 1>something you originally thought that it was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a certain way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, I you know, on a film like this

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<v Speaker 3>with these two leads, I knew that there was going

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<v Speaker 3>to be a point in which I needed to be

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<v Speaker 3>the boss or sometimes just sort of sort of have

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<v Speaker 3>a firm hand on things. And I knew that these

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<v Speaker 3>two weeks were really invaluable for us, both in terms

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<v Speaker 3>for the two of them to really get to know

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<v Speaker 3>each other and to really feel comfortable with one another,

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<v Speaker 3>but then also for me to give them an opportunity

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<v Speaker 3>to challenge anything that was in the script, anything that

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<v Speaker 3>was part of the plan for the shooting of the film.

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<v Speaker 3>I needed to give them a lot of agency, because

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<v Speaker 3>I needed then to take it away from them once

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<v Speaker 3>we started building it anyway, and this was an opportunity

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<v Speaker 3>for us to sort of like it was almost like

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<v Speaker 3>the whole thing was like an open source code. And

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<v Speaker 3>for two weeks, the three of us really worked together

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<v Speaker 3>to devise what this thing was going to be. We

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<v Speaker 3>tried different avenues, we tried different ways of doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>We blocked scenes, we ran scenes. There are a few

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<v Speaker 3>scenes in the movie that are as filmed and as edited,

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<v Speaker 3>are exactly how we rehearsed them in terms of the blocking,

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<v Speaker 3>in terms of what this thing is about.

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<v Speaker 2>This this lovely, tiny.

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<v Speaker 3>Little moment in the scene where in Alex's bedroom, which

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<v Speaker 3>is one of my favorite scenes in the movie for them,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's in Alex's bedroom after they hook up for

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<v Speaker 3>the first time.

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<v Speaker 2>In the blocking in in the movie that you see

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<v Speaker 2>is precisely what we did.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the very last day of rehearsals and this

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<v Speaker 3>little sort of moment where they talk over each other

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<v Speaker 3>near the end of it and it's kind of suddenly

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<v Speaker 3>gets awkward again. That just happened one day in rehearsal,

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<v Speaker 3>and I remember clocking that and on set I actually was.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a video of the rehearsal and they did it.

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<v Speaker 3>I showed it to them before we shot the scene.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, do you remember this from nine weeks ago?

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<v Speaker 2>And so I come from theater.

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<v Speaker 3>I you know, rehearsals are invaluable for creating, for inventing.

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<v Speaker 3>There's some there's there are times, and especially on a

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<v Speaker 3>film like this, where your ability to invent on set

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<v Speaker 3>is very limited, And I needed to get their imaginations firing,

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<v Speaker 3>and I needed that to allow my imagination to fire too.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think it's what made that.

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<v Speaker 3>Those two weeks are absolutely what made what is special

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<v Speaker 3>on screen between them possible.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I love about you is I could feel

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<v Speaker 1>it through the screen. You have so much pride in

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<v Speaker 1>the work that they did. Your beaming when you talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it, which I think, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel like a proud parent, I really do, because I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>the thing is is that this movie is only as good.

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<v Speaker 3>This movie would only ever been as good as my

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<v Speaker 3>ability to get natural, easy performances out of them. And

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<v Speaker 3>one of the things that I'm really really proud of

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<v Speaker 3>in this film across the board is how relaxed everybody is.

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<v Speaker 3>And it starts with Taylor and Nick. There is such

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<v Speaker 3>an ease about them that really just permeates every scene

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<v Speaker 3>of the film. And Yeah, I'm incredibly proud, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, one of the one of the great pleasures

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<v Speaker 3>and challenges of this process was editing the film because

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<v Speaker 3>it was a wealth of options, you know, and and

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<v Speaker 3>there's a whole other version of this movie which I

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<v Speaker 3>could assemble out of alternate takes, and and it would

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<v Speaker 3>be it would be a different movie, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely very proud of those two.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think a lot of people want to see

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<v Speaker 1>those deleted scenes.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's get the non deleted scenes out into the world first,

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<v Speaker 3>and then we'll see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Fair enough, fair enough. There was a moment in the

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<v Speaker 1>film for me that that blew me away between between

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<v Speaker 1>Nick and Taylor. For you, I'm sure this is such

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<v Speaker 1>a tough question. There were many, But is there one

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<v Speaker 1>moment that you're just so blown away by?

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<v Speaker 2>There are so many.

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<v Speaker 3>I did give the example of that scene in the bedroom,

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<v Speaker 3>which is just for me in terms of their chemistry

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<v Speaker 3>is so is so beautiful. I have to say that

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<v Speaker 3>the confrontation scene in Henry's bedroom was I think it

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<v Speaker 3>was something that we were all dreading at filming because

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<v Speaker 3>we knew what it was going to cost all of us.

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<v Speaker 3>And I knew that, I mean practically speaking the filmmaker,

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<v Speaker 3>and as a filmmaker, I knew I had other things

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<v Speaker 3>to do that day, so I also couldn't like indulge

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<v Speaker 3>in too long a process on set for that scene.

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<v Speaker 3>But I also knew I couldn't leave until I got

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<v Speaker 3>what I needed. And we did it maybe two thirds

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<v Speaker 3>of the way through the shoot, and it's longer than

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<v Speaker 3>we expected it to and I actually there there's a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of things that I didn't shoot that day because

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<v Speaker 3>I just just cut them right out and we had

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<v Speaker 3>to break for lunch and I was and we hadn't

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<v Speaker 3>finished the scene and I was really really worried that

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<v Speaker 3>we were going to come back from lunch and all

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<v Speaker 3>I was just gonna have lost them, you know, and

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<v Speaker 3>we would never recapture what was happening on set before lunch.

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<v Speaker 2>And and it was the move, It.

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<v Speaker 3>Was the pivotal part of the scene is the end

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<v Speaker 3>when they're when the sort of when Alex Nix's ultimatum

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<v Speaker 3>to Henry.

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<v Speaker 6>And we got back on set and we got we.

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<v Speaker 3>Started filming again, and instantly in the first take after lunch,

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<v Speaker 3>Taylor started crying and Nick was facing away from him

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<v Speaker 3>and he heard Taylor and Nick started crying, and and

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<v Speaker 3>the back half of that scene is so beautiful because

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<v Speaker 3>they're doing such great work. And I really had a

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<v Speaker 3>difficult time cutting it because there was such beautiful, nuanced

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<v Speaker 3>work from all from both of them. But what to

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<v Speaker 3>me it was so remarkable about it is they had

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<v Speaker 3>just had lunch, They just and they came right back

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<v Speaker 3>into it and they were more dialed in and they

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<v Speaker 3>were more in touch with each other than before, and

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<v Speaker 3>it was truly it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was pretty remarkable. And I have to say that

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<v Speaker 2>was the moment.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew that whatever happened with this movie these those

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<v Speaker 3>two actors would be fine in their career.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, that was the scene I was thinking of

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<v Speaker 1>as well. It was It was pretty remarkable. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>wait for people to see that one. Was there a

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<v Speaker 1>scene or two from the book that you thought, okay, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I better get this just right.

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<v Speaker 2>There was well, the case scene, of course, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that for many reasons. It's the opening of

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<v Speaker 2>the film.

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<v Speaker 3>It really establishes the characters so much. But it's also

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<v Speaker 3>just the most iconic moment in the book, one of

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<v Speaker 3>the most iconic moments of the book, And so there

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<v Speaker 3>were a million reasons why I knew I needed to

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<v Speaker 3>get it right. And it was also the most technical

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<v Speaker 3>thing I had filmed up to that point. It was

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<v Speaker 3>I think we shot it in our second week, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the first few days of filming were pretty

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<v Speaker 3>gentle on me and ever buddy, and then we had.

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<v Speaker 2>This two day shoot inside the ballroom with this cake,

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<v Speaker 2>with these extras, with all of these other scene elements

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<v Speaker 2>that were happening, and then on day two we had

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<v Speaker 2>to drop this cake had get them all mucky, and

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<v Speaker 2>it had to be funny and it had to be

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<v Speaker 2>technically accurate. That was the one that I was really

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<v Speaker 2>really uptied about because there was.

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<v Speaker 3>No margin for error and there were lots of opportunities

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<v Speaker 3>for air. So, you know, that was that was the

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<v Speaker 3>most technical filmmaking we did on it. And the funny

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<v Speaker 3>thing is is that when it came to the actual

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<v Speaker 3>shot of the cake going into their faces, because that

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<v Speaker 3>whole cake was was was was not. It was foam,

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<v Speaker 3>rubber and latex, and so for the most part, the

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<v Speaker 3>cake is phony and it's just.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just, you know, it's it's it's a fake cake.

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<v Speaker 3>And so we could do a lot with it and

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<v Speaker 3>drop it and it just bounced and then you could

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<v Speaker 3>drop it again. But when it came to getting them dirty,

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<v Speaker 3>we had a couple of duplicate costumes for them, and

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<v Speaker 3>there was a plan to get them showered and hair

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<v Speaker 3>and make up redone as fast as possible, but I

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<v Speaker 3>just knew that I was going to lose too much

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<v Speaker 3>time and I needed to just get it done in

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<v Speaker 3>as few takes as possible. And it was me and

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<v Speaker 3>my production designer off camera, and we were, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>at the count three, we threw the cake and the

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<v Speaker 3>icing into their faces and it was a bullseye.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, it was an absolute bullseye, and we watched it

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<v Speaker 2>and we.

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<v Speaker 3>Just decided to keep moving on and we had it,

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<v Speaker 3>so I lecked out.

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<v Speaker 2>That was the luckiest break on this entire.

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<v Speaker 3>Film was getting the cake in their faces the first take,

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<v Speaker 3>the first and only take.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was it. And then the one that I

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<v Speaker 2>was really excited to do was the VNA scene at

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<v Speaker 2>the Victoria and Albert Museum. Scene at night in the museum.

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<v Speaker 1>It just beautiful, was the scene.

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<v Speaker 2>That's my favorite scene in the book.

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<v Speaker 1>And when he clicked that music on, come on, come on, Yeah, yeah, that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that was That was That was the one I

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<v Speaker 2>was most looking forward to.

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<v Speaker 3>That was that was we were locked into the v

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<v Speaker 3>N a overnight.

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<v Speaker 2>We we we had it all to ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>It was pretty magical, and it was just the two

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<v Speaker 3>of them, you know, there were no there were no extras.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a very you know, the crew had you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the crew.

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<v Speaker 3>We were just all like a family at that point.

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<v Speaker 3>And so it was a real night at the museum.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you know, picking up music because I know

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<v Speaker 3>in the book it's Elton John's your song, and which

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<v Speaker 3>I knew and instinctively wasn't gonna work for us.

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<v Speaker 2>In the film.

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<v Speaker 3>It just wasn't the right sound, uh, And so we

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<v Speaker 3>auditioned a lot of different songs, and on set we

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<v Speaker 3>used that one. We used the Perfect Genius and had

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<v Speaker 3>my Perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>Genius was gonna do a new cover of an older.

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<v Speaker 3>Song for us that we really were excited about. And

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<v Speaker 3>then I cut together the assembly of the film and

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<v Speaker 3>we watched the scene with Perfect Geniuses Can Help falling

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<v Speaker 3>in Love, and we knew it was the right song

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<v Speaker 3>and it was perfect. And so that was another lucky

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<v Speaker 3>break because the song that we just decided to use

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<v Speaker 3>on set was the song we ended up using the film.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that song is gonna sore to number one.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a beautiful recording. It's an absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful, absolutely beautiful. And I have to tell you when

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<v Speaker 1>I put up a story on Monday night saying that

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the movie and I screened it in and

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<v Speaker 1>it was great, I had so many people message me,

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<v Speaker 1>people I haven't even spoken to him forever, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was shocked at how many of those people were straight.

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<v Speaker 1>This story, this book has such a built in fandom

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<v Speaker 1>from all areas and walks of life. I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you're the type of person that lets that pressure

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<v Speaker 1>sneak in when you making your art, when you're making

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<v Speaker 1>your project, when you made the movie. But how do

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of not let that cloud your mind when

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<v Speaker 1>you are creating this movie, knowing that there's so many

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<v Speaker 1>people who are waiting and wanting and loving this.

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<v Speaker 2>I learned I.

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<v Speaker 3>Think I learned in theater that worrying about what other

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<v Speaker 3>people think is just really a pointless exercise. You really

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<v Speaker 3>you only have, especially on a film, you only have

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<v Speaker 3>one chance to get it right. You're only in that

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<v Speaker 3>you're only on that set one day. You got to

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<v Speaker 3>move on to the next scene. You're always just moving forward.

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<v Speaker 3>And so you really on a film set, you are

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<v Speaker 3>living in the present. There's no past, there's no future,

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<v Speaker 3>and that is actually incredibly helpful.

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<v Speaker 2>For focus, you know, and I need that. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's just sort of the typrote thing. If you look down,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna fall.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't think about ultimately what anybody would think of

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<v Speaker 3>the film.

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<v Speaker 2>I just kept following my gut and following my instincts.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew, I knew this story. I knew and look,

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<v Speaker 2>it's my version of red, white, and moral blue. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's not anybody else's.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not case It's not even Casey's, and Casey will

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<v Speaker 3>be the first two minute Casey's. Casey's book is Casey's book,

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<v Speaker 3>and my movie is my movie. It's my movie based

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<v Speaker 3>on Casey's book, and it is my reaction to Casey's book.

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<v Speaker 3>And the things that I love about Casey's book are

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<v Speaker 3>what I put into the movie. And I knew that

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<v Speaker 3>I would own it regardless, so I might as well

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<v Speaker 3>do it in exactly the way that my instinct tells

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<v Speaker 3>me to do and not worry about what other people

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<v Speaker 3>would it.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, that must be incredibly freeing. And I read a

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<v Speaker 1>quote you gave in a different interview and you said,

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<v Speaker 1>love it or hate it, it's the movie I set

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<v Speaker 1>out to make. That doesn't always happen. I love that quote.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's true. I look.

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<v Speaker 3>The one thing that is really true about this process

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<v Speaker 3>is that I was surrounded by incredibly talented people across

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<v Speaker 3>the board.

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<v Speaker 2>This cast is a dream cast.

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<v Speaker 3>I worked with one of the legendary cinematographers in the business.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, Stephen Goldblatt was this cinematographer Angels in America,

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<v Speaker 3>and in addition to the Cotton Club, which is a

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<v Speaker 3>forgotten gem of Francis Coppola's.

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<v Speaker 2>But I never ever felt.

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<v Speaker 3>As if I had to do this on my own,

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<v Speaker 3>and I never felt that I did not have my

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<v Speaker 3>It was really remarkable that every single idea I have

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<v Speaker 3>was executed perfectly. And you know, look, the things that

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<v Speaker 3>we knew weren't going to work physically or within budget,

0:22:48.160 --> 0:22:53.600
<v Speaker 3>we adjusted because that's just filmmaking. But it really the

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<v Speaker 3>movie I dreamed of in my head when I started

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<v Speaker 3>working on this film is largely up there on the screen.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. And one thing I love that you chose to do,

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<v Speaker 1>I imagine pretty strategically, is this movie doesn't shy away from

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<v Speaker 1>being sexy. You have these intimate scenes and they're beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>and you actually feel like you're watching a couple having

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<v Speaker 1>a loving moment. And sometimes I feel like in content

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<v Speaker 1>that's for the queer community, you kind of get the

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<v Speaker 1>water down version of that and you don't always get

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<v Speaker 1>to see those moments of true, deep passionate love. Was

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<v Speaker 1>that something important for you to show between the two

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<v Speaker 1>gentlemen deeply deeply?

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<v Speaker 3>I think you know one or two things usually ends

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<v Speaker 3>up being true, not always, And those other movies and

0:23:42.480 --> 0:23:44.960
<v Speaker 3>those other scenes stand out as a result. But either

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<v Speaker 3>it's a scene that is you can tell it's a

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<v Speaker 3>straight filmmaker making the scene, or you know that it's

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<v Speaker 3>a straight audience for whom the scene is being ultimately considered.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's sort of like generally, I think in the past,

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of it has, especially in studio movie, a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of it is, you know, don't scare the straits,

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<v Speaker 3>and there was none of that on this film.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't know if it was because I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know, I don't know why, but I did not

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:17.720
<v Speaker 3>get any resistance to my plans for this thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I also made it very clear at the beginning. I said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if you hire me, this is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be in the movie.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you don't want it to be in the movie,

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<v Speaker 3>you should find somebody else to make this film. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was very upfront about it because I didn't want

0:24:28.320 --> 0:24:29.960
<v Speaker 3>to have any arguments later.

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<v Speaker 2>And what was really important.

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<v Speaker 7>To me is is I really wanted to I really

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<v Speaker 7>wanted to do two things which I'd never I hadn't

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<v Speaker 7>seen much of in film. I wanted to show two

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<v Speaker 7>men having sex in a way that is loving, that

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<v Speaker 7>is connected, that is that is pleasurable, and that is

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<v Speaker 7>is beautiful, and I also wanted to film a sex

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<v Speaker 7>whose geography and whose physical execution of makes sense to

0:25:08.240 --> 0:25:10.240
<v Speaker 7>people who know.

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<v Speaker 2>How to have gay sex. So I needed it.

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<v Speaker 3>To both be incredibly accurate physically, and I also needed

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<v Speaker 3>it to be incredibly to the point where we are

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<v Speaker 3>in the story. I needed it to be focused on

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<v Speaker 3>the characters. I needed it to be focused on their journey.

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<v Speaker 3>And so we applied both seemingly oppositional desires.

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<v Speaker 2>To the scene and it ended up being the scene

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<v Speaker 2>that's in the film.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, they're beautiful scenes. I'm happy you suck to

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<v Speaker 1>your instinct and your guts on that. I was surprised

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<v Speaker 1>that the movie and I know you share the same sentiment.

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<v Speaker 1>Got to rate it, are, I guess because of the

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<v Speaker 1>sex scenes. But that surprised me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I say it surprised me. And then

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<v Speaker 2>also it didn't surprise me.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's sort of like, you know, I think

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<v Speaker 3>in the perfect world that maybe sometimes still exists in

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<v Speaker 3>my head, it surprised me.

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<v Speaker 2>And then in the reality that I live in, it didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like not surprising at all. It's I think that

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<v Speaker 2>it's just it's two things it's.

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<v Speaker 3>I just if it had been a man and a woman,

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<v Speaker 3>if it hadn't been a gay couple, I really don't

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<v Speaker 3>think that scene would have garnered the R rating, But

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<v Speaker 3>let's even pretend that that that maybe it would have.

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<v Speaker 2>What is more depressing to.

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<v Speaker 3>Me actually is the fact that it is sexuality that

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<v Speaker 3>got us the R rating. And you you can name

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<v Speaker 3>a dozen movies that are incredibly violent, far more violent

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<v Speaker 3>movies than my film is sexual that RPG thirteen. So

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<v Speaker 3>I think even if you set aside latent homophobia or

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<v Speaker 3>over homophobia, you're still left with the problem that the

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<v Speaker 3>NPAA favors violence over sexuality. They prefer American audiences see

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<v Speaker 3>acts of violence than acts of love, and that's really

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<v Speaker 3>fucked up. Yeah, and I think that it's it may

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<v Speaker 3>be overdue for a reassessment of the use of the NPAA.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what its function is anymore, and I

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<v Speaker 3>think it might be a little outdated.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, well, which is all the more reason why

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<v Speaker 1>a movie like this is important with the choices you

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<v Speaker 1>made artistically, because it's going to show people that this

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<v Speaker 1>is content people want to see, and they're going to

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<v Speaker 1>line up to see it, and there's no problem with it. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you are.

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<v Speaker 3>Living in the same country that we did when the

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<v Speaker 3>NPAA was over right, right, I feel like the.

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<v Speaker 2>Standards are still being applied to the.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably I would imagine the nineteen sixties or early seventies

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<v Speaker 3>is when the MPAA was probably founded. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>that off the top of my head, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we're not living in that world anymore. And I don't

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<v Speaker 3>see anything in this film that actually anybody who isn't

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<v Speaker 3>at least thirteen, couldn't couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Watch, you know. Yeah, so but hey, that's me. What

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<v Speaker 2>do I know?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I agree. I think it's a film for everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>And like I said, I'm glad you made the choices

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<v Speaker 1>you made, Matthew. I imagine doing a movie like this is

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<v Speaker 1>so gratifying on a million different levels and in a

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<v Speaker 1>million different ways. But personally, what do you learn about

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<v Speaker 1>yourself through making your very first movie like this?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>I learned that I could get by on a lot

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<v Speaker 3>less sleep than I ever imagined.

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<v Speaker 2>I look. I think that.

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<v Speaker 3>Hollywood has for the last several years been going through

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<v Speaker 3>a reassessment of what is acceptable behavior for people with power,

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<v Speaker 3>And there is no person in Hollywood at a certain

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<v Speaker 3>point in any filmmaking process, more powerful on any given

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<v Speaker 3>day than the director of a film. And my two

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<v Speaker 3>mentors in this business were Stephen Daldry and Tom Fontana

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<v Speaker 3>is one of the great TV showrunners. And they both

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<v Speaker 3>operate in the world from a place of kindness, and

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<v Speaker 3>they operate in this world from the place of really

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to help people do their best work. And when

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<v Speaker 3>you're on when you're working with Stephen or you're working with.

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<v Speaker 2>Tom, you're working, but you're always.

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<v Speaker 3>Valued, you're always asked how you're doing, and you're always

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<v Speaker 3>having fun. And it was something that I I think

0:30:09.560 --> 0:30:12.760
<v Speaker 3>I maybe unconsciously brought with me into the process of

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<v Speaker 3>doing this. And there were days when I was frustrated.

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<v Speaker 3>There are days when I got angry. There were days

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<v Speaker 3>when something didn't work and it was somebody's fault and

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<v Speaker 3>you could actually find someone.

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<v Speaker 2>To blame for it.

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<v Speaker 3>And my instincts always in the time of stress or

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<v Speaker 3>to get angry. But my actions, I learned, were much

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<v Speaker 3>more effective if I didn't.

0:30:38.240 --> 0:30:43.160
<v Speaker 2>And it's so easy to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Awful, and it is so hard sometimes to be kind,

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<v Speaker 3>And yet I discovered through exercising the lessons that I

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<v Speaker 3>learned from Stephen and Tom on hopefully a daily basis

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<v Speaker 3>that you really really do get the best work out

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<v Speaker 3>of people. If you create a warm, loving, safe environment

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<v Speaker 3>for them. You can push them harder to do scarier things.

0:31:09.040 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 3>You can make something that is seemingly impossible possible. Weirdly,

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<v Speaker 3>I also think it saves your time. So I learned

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<v Speaker 3>about myself that my mentors were right, and that I

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<v Speaker 3>also learned about myself that I have more of a

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<v Speaker 3>capacity to be understanding of people than I ever imagined.

0:31:38.160 --> 0:31:40.400
<v Speaker 3>And I know that sounds like I'm in some ways

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<v Speaker 3>boasting or tuning my own horn or whatever.

0:31:43.400 --> 0:31:45.360
<v Speaker 2>But I think if.

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<v Speaker 3>Anybody knows me, knows that I'm I'm pretty driven and

0:31:49.240 --> 0:31:53.960
<v Speaker 3>I can be tough, and I can be tough on myself.

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<v Speaker 3>But I hope also that people know that I that I.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope I have a reputation for being loving and

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<v Speaker 3>kind and caring and that battle within anybody between those

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<v Speaker 3>two instincts. I sort of wage that internally on this

0:32:13.200 --> 0:32:16.720
<v Speaker 3>movie and love love always wins.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>That's beautiful. I love that I do. What a great

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<v Speaker 1>realization to have through through doing your work. That's so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think man, we all need to tap into

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<v Speaker 1>more of the kindness thing in this world, in society.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very important.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it would be nice. It would be really nice.

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<v Speaker 3>And it applies in all things, in all ways, and

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<v Speaker 3>not just in this business. And it applies to our

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<v Speaker 3>discourse and the way we treat other people on social media,

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<v Speaker 3>the way we treat other people.

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<v Speaker 2>At the supermarket, right everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, right on with that, Matthew. The last question for

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<v Speaker 1>you is off the title of the show, which is

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<v Speaker 1>I've never said this before, So I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>know something that you have never said before that you

0:33:07.280 --> 0:33:09.400
<v Speaker 1>would like to share. It can be deep, it can

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<v Speaker 1>be silly, it can be anything you want.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never said this before, but I used to want

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<v Speaker 3>to be president of the United States, Do you really?

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<v Speaker 2>I really did.

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<v Speaker 3>When I was about between the ages of about fifteen

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<v Speaker 3>and seventeen, maybe eighteen, I just fell so passionately in

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<v Speaker 3>love with politics, and I was a big We've read

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 3>the New York Times at that age, and I watched

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<v Speaker 3>CNN constantly, and I just wanted to be if not

0:33:45.720 --> 0:33:48.600
<v Speaker 3>president then like proximal to the president, or maybe a

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<v Speaker 3>senator or a congressman.

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to be in politics.

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<v Speaker 6>And then I discovered that I liked kissing guys. I

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<v Speaker 6>at that time in my life and that time, in

0:33:59.640 --> 0:34:02.720
<v Speaker 6>this kind of she's life, I knew, well, I could

0:34:02.760 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 6>either I could either kiss guys or run for president.

0:34:07.360 --> 0:34:11.080
<v Speaker 2>And and the boys won. What can I say?

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<v Speaker 3>So it's funny because when I was thinking about that question,

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<v Speaker 3>I was trying to figure out what's how to answer,

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<v Speaker 3>and and I remember giving an interview about being on

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<v Speaker 3>the Oval Office set, and I just I remember actually

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:33.000
<v Speaker 3>sitting behind the desk, you know, before work one day,

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<v Speaker 3>and just thinking. I remembered in that moment how I

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:40.239
<v Speaker 3>had these dreams of like I wanted to go to Loss.

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<v Speaker 2>I planned it all.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to get into politics, and then you know,

0:34:46.200 --> 0:34:49.600
<v Speaker 3>summer of ninety five, I just.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean never say never, though, right, you know?

0:34:56.800 --> 0:34:58.439
<v Speaker 2>I mean sure, never say never.

0:34:58.840 --> 0:35:03.520
<v Speaker 3>I'd rather maybe make donations to queer candidates and let

0:35:03.560 --> 0:35:04.520
<v Speaker 3>other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Do that themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Fair enough, that's an awesome answer. So were you geeking

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<v Speaker 1>extra hard at Uma Thurman as president?

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<v Speaker 2>God? Are you kidding me?

0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:14.879
<v Speaker 3>It was like I think Uma and I were both

0:35:14.880 --> 0:35:17.520
<v Speaker 3>geeking together about it. Like people would never say this,

0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:20.320
<v Speaker 3>but I saw her sit behind that desk and she's

0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:23.040
<v Speaker 3>sort of like she had an idea or two about

0:35:23.040 --> 0:35:25.440
<v Speaker 3>what she could do after this movie. I think that

0:35:26.239 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 3>you what I absolutely can say, even on a sound

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<v Speaker 3>stage in London, you walk into even an approximation of

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<v Speaker 3>the Oval Office and you really do feel this immense

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:43.840
<v Speaker 3>sense of power, this immense sense of history. And I

0:35:43.840 --> 0:35:46.200
<v Speaker 3>mean it was like pol I would and like fake,

0:35:46.400 --> 0:35:51.840
<v Speaker 3>like really cheap carpeting, and yet still you can't.

0:35:51.600 --> 0:35:52.880
<v Speaker 2>Help but be on, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>But I do think that Ellen has a much better

0:35:55.920 --> 0:35:59.920
<v Speaker 3>sense of style than Joe Biden.

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<v Speaker 1>I would agree. Well, listen, if in a few years

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<v Speaker 1>from now, ten years, twenty years, I see your name

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<v Speaker 1>on the race, I'm going to pull this interview and say,

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<v Speaker 1>see see you do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I'm going to come to you for big donations.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Matthew, this was awesome. I like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I love the movie. You did a fantastic job. I

0:36:21.440 --> 0:36:24.400
<v Speaker 1>think you're such a brilliant artist. As we close out

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<v Speaker 1>the episode, tell people when, how where? How to watch

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<v Speaker 1>this film All the things.

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<v Speaker 3>Red, White, and World Blue on Amazon Prime starting August eleventh,

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<v Speaker 3>everywhere in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing, Thank you, my friend. This was so much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I really appreciate talking to you. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I've Never Said This Before is hosted by me, Tommy Diderio.

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