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<v Speaker 1>What caught my attention in this email was one sentence

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<v Speaker 1>that Darby said out of all that this is what

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<v Speaker 1>caught my attention. Such a sad world to raise my

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<v Speaker 1>children in. Pastor Chad Warren Montana Man, mountain Man back

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<v Speaker 1>on the podcast, back one of the all time favorite guests,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're just talking before we started the camera. You

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<v Speaker 1>are starting a podcast called Take and Read, the Taken

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<v Speaker 1>Read Podcast. Yeah. For those that have followed this podcast

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<v Speaker 1>long enough, you've heard Chad talk about this with me.

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<v Speaker 1>It is what we're kind of calling it is the

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<v Speaker 1>next level to this podcast, the deeper level. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you hear something, if you hear something that we reference

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<v Speaker 1>from the Bible, and you want to hear it a

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<v Speaker 1>deeper analysis of it. I say that kind of lightly

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<v Speaker 1>because it's also going to be for anyone yet to

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<v Speaker 1>hear exactly, I think, similar to what we get to

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy here and then other people watch it. We have questions,

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<v Speaker 1>they're deep questions. Some of them are not deep questions.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's two guys just off the cuff, no preparation,

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<v Speaker 1>and there are so many times in our interactions where

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<v Speaker 1>whether we're getting tacos or grabbing a cup of coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>we bring up a passage of scripture and that leads

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<v Speaker 1>to something else and we just are all of a

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<v Speaker 1>sudden off to the races and we're chewing on the

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<v Speaker 1>word and we're getting into life and what does it mean?

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<v Speaker 1>How does it affect the way that I'm a dad?

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<v Speaker 1>How does it affect I'm a husband or a brother

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<v Speaker 1>or a friend. And so it'll be a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>that where we'll just start with a passage scripture and

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<v Speaker 1>no preparation in fact, you're going to be on it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll just switch chairs. I'll be over all right,

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<v Speaker 1>you good, and we'll just read a passage and then

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<v Speaker 1>just talk about it and see where it goes. How

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<v Speaker 1>do we kind of unpack that as menagata? For those listening,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a normal thing for Chad and I will go,

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<v Speaker 1>like you mentioned, we'll go get lunch, we'll get tacos.

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<v Speaker 1>And this podcast that you're listening to now is really

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<v Speaker 1>just an extension of these kind of conversations. The way

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<v Speaker 1>that we have this setup is if you have a

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<v Speaker 1>question anything in the world, and you would like it answered,

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<v Speaker 1>you email Grangersmith Podcast at gmail dot com. And then

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<v Speaker 1>here's Chad and I and we're eating tacos together with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you ask it in a way that you just say, hey, Maniel,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got something in my heart I want to share

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Guys. It's about my career, or about my girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>or about my grandmother, or about my dog, or could

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<v Speaker 1>be anything. Could be about fishing, could be about hunting.

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<v Speaker 1>We've talked about all these things and could I get

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<v Speaker 1>y'all's opinion on it. And then you get to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sit at the table with us as we're having tacos,

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<v Speaker 1>and like Chad and I do with our lives with

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<v Speaker 1>each other, and Chad is so great. That's why I

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<v Speaker 1>have them as a guest, that we get to just

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it together. So and you get the advantage

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<v Speaker 1>of maybe you hear a question that somebody else asked

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<v Speaker 1>and it's not yeah, maybe you never knew you had

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<v Speaker 1>that question, or you're too afraid or you didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>who or where to go with it. And now you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to benefit from at least Granger and I. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be candid. Benefit might be a loose word in

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<v Speaker 1>some situations. We'll see, we'll see. I'm gonna I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>jump right into this, so you're going to hit you

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<v Speaker 1>with something right off the bat, Chad, This subject line

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<v Speaker 1>is government mandate. Oh there we go, going to be

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<v Speaker 1>talking about masks. Here we go. We'll find out it says,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Granger, I'm just wondering how you feel about the

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<v Speaker 1>government and all the mandates. How are they pressuring everyone

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<v Speaker 1>to get the jab and wear a mask? Again? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you see the light at the end of the tunnel

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<v Speaker 1>with all of this? Such a sad world to raise

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<v Speaker 1>my children in? Frowny face. I'm definitely not planning on

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<v Speaker 1>getting the jab. What are your thoughts? Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>your amazing podcast. God bless you and the Smith family. Darby.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know where Darby's from, but thanks for riding Garby.

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<v Speaker 1>What caught my attention in this email was one sentence

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<v Speaker 1>that Darby said out of all that this is what

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<v Speaker 1>caught my attention. Such a sad world to raise my

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<v Speaker 1>children in. And I rebuke that thought. I hear people

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<v Speaker 1>say that, and I rebuke that thought for so many reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll just start by saying, all human beings are

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<v Speaker 1>brought into the world for a time such as this,

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<v Speaker 1>This is their time. I was just thinking, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it fires me up. And when people say such

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<v Speaker 1>a tough time to raise children, and Darby, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>using that. I'm not saying that in that way to

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<v Speaker 1>belittle your concern, because it's a true concern for you

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<v Speaker 1>and probably for a lot of people. But what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying is I'm trying to fire you up to say

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<v Speaker 1>this is a good time. This is a good time

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<v Speaker 1>to raise good children, this is a good time to

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<v Speaker 1>raise little warriors. And I love that. And you know

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<v Speaker 1>the old the old adage that says that good times

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<v Speaker 1>make weak people. Weak people make bad times, bad times

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<v Speaker 1>make strong people. And it's just this is how this

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<v Speaker 1>little this cycle goes. And so we've had good times

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<v Speaker 1>in the past. My generation was great kids born in

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<v Speaker 1>the seventies, eighties, and nineties. We had it really good.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think we're starting to We're going to see

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<v Speaker 1>a trend where it's going to get tough, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the kids that are being raised right now that are

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<v Speaker 1>raising a tough time are going to be strong, and

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<v Speaker 1>then those strong kids are going to grow up and

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<v Speaker 1>create good times. What do you think about all this stuff, Chad? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think, like you said, your generation, we

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<v Speaker 1>had certain things that were good and bad. And I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>even when I was a kid, my grandparents and parents,

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<v Speaker 1>uncles aunts saying, man, you guys have it so easy

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<v Speaker 1>back in my day. And so you just like each

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<v Speaker 1>generation sees its own challenges and ease and compares it

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<v Speaker 1>to the next. And so I think, yeah, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>our kids are born for such a time as this. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>they they won't know a world where you could just

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<v Speaker 1>wait at the gate for your loved ones to come

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<v Speaker 1>off the plane. That world's gone. That changed twenty years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's things are changing, but they are this is

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<v Speaker 1>the time. This is the time they were brought in

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<v Speaker 1>the world intentionally, sovereignly, supposed to be born and supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be raised in this time, Darby. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>think for Darby and for any of us who lament

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<v Speaker 1>some of the challenges that we're experiencing, and we just

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<v Speaker 1>we reflect on our own upbringing and maybe the freedoms

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<v Speaker 1>we had that you know, like like I can't my

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<v Speaker 1>mom would send me outside on a Saturday, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be home till like and she'd send me out

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning and I wouldn't be home till like

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<v Speaker 1>after dark and she had no worries. And we don't

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<v Speaker 1>live in a world where my kids can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>But there are other opportunities that have that I didn't have,

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<v Speaker 1>and so trying to embrace them. But yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm asking myself, what are the principles that are important

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<v Speaker 1>for my kids to gain, not necessarily just the experience

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<v Speaker 1>that they're supposed to have, and helping to infuse them

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<v Speaker 1>and their their experience with those principles as key. So

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what Darby, what principles he thinks, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we had the benefit of, or he had when he

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<v Speaker 1>was a kid, and what experience is brought about those

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<v Speaker 1>learning those principles, and then how can he create those

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<v Speaker 1>opportunities for his own kiddos. But yeah, the whole mask thing,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did he ask if you're going to get

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<v Speaker 1>the poke? He didn't. He just said what do we

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<v Speaker 1>think about it? He said, I'm definitely not. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he said, how are they pressuring everyone? Well, we know

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<v Speaker 1>how they are, they're taking, they're taking the liberties that

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<v Speaker 1>they want to take. How are they pressuring everyone to

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<v Speaker 1>get the jab and wear the mask? Again? Uh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I asked myself about the mask thing. I asked myself

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing. I think, what, this's just common sense

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<v Speaker 1>that when you sit down at the table and you

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<v Speaker 1>take it off and you put it back on and

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<v Speaker 1>you take you touch your face, that's just common sense. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's here's what I think. Here's what I know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not going to act like I know anything

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<v Speaker 1>more than anybody else. But the virus is very contagious.

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<v Speaker 1>It's affecting a lot of people. I think at some

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<v Speaker 1>point it will directly affect every human being on the earth,

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<v Speaker 1>probably at some point, I think, I think we all

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<v Speaker 1>need to be bold enough to live with it, to

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<v Speaker 1>live our lives safely. However, you want to be safe,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're if you're at high risk, do what you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do. But we're going to have to live

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<v Speaker 1>our lives. Yeah, And I think one of the things

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<v Speaker 1>that we have to wrestle with is what doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>to honor or submit to or be a citizen when

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<v Speaker 1>we feel like our rights are being violated and you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, what does that look like? Those are things

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<v Speaker 1>that we have to wrestle with and they're not hard.

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<v Speaker 1>And what what what frustrates me is the the way

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<v Speaker 1>that it is becoming so divisive. If you you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you were wearing a mask or not wearing a mask,

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<v Speaker 1>you were making a statement and you were put into

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<v Speaker 1>a camp or a category. And that's rough. Yeah. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta we gotta move forward with wisdom, winsomely and

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<v Speaker 1>representing truth, but with a lot of humility, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of grace, a lot of patience. Yeah, totally agree. This

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<v Speaker 1>subject is so beaten down that we don't need to

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<v Speaker 1>talk any more of this podcast. Usually you start out with, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever driven a track? I know, Sorry, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at you when when I set up this I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>really putting it in any kind of order. Off, just like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is truly non rehearsed. Yeah, this is non rehearsal.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna hit you next. I'm gonna hit you with

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<v Speaker 1>one called for you and Pastor Chad, oh cool man,

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<v Speaker 1>is the same question there? It is? It says, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>mister Smith and Pastor Chad, what are your views on predestination?

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<v Speaker 1>I respect you and your faith and your willingness to

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<v Speaker 1>speak freely about it, and predestination is a pretty complex idea,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm curious what you both think. Thanks, this is

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<v Speaker 1>Joe from Iowa. Good another softball question, another just another

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<v Speaker 1>easy one out of the gates. So we should we

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<v Speaker 1>should kind of build this for listeners in a simple

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<v Speaker 1>way to kind of say what, first of all, what

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<v Speaker 1>Joe's even talking about? And then we could say what

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<v Speaker 1>we think about it. Simply put, predestination is the idea,

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<v Speaker 1>a biblical idea that God knew from the beginning, who

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<v Speaker 1>has chosen people are. That's as simple as I could

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<v Speaker 1>put it. Yeah, that God actively predestined some to salvation.

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<v Speaker 1>And the rub that people have is that immediately means

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<v Speaker 1>or by implication, that God then predestined some to help. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So some people might be thinking, well, that's a terrible thought,

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<v Speaker 1>why would you even discuss it. We discuss it because

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually written that way in the Bible with actually

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<v Speaker 1>that word predestined. So the way that I know Chad's heart,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've talked about this subject many times together, so

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<v Speaker 1>I know I know how he feels about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it could be it could be treated delicately. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be, because it's not my word. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>a mess. I'm just the deliverer of the male. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not the I'm not the composer deliver it, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to feel weird about it. But there there

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<v Speaker 1>are two There are two components to a Christian or

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<v Speaker 1>a human being saved, Grace and faith. And Amber put this,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm gonna let you tell your story up

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<v Speaker 1>to basketball. But Amber told me this, and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was so interesting. But grace and faith are like

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<v Speaker 1>two parallel lines. And I've heard this many times. They

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<v Speaker 1>are like two parallel lines that only intersect in heaven.

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<v Speaker 1>But she she put it, like, what do you call

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<v Speaker 1>the people in the circus that are on the rings

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<v Speaker 1>the trapeze? The trapeze? Yeah, like the people that hold

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<v Speaker 1>the rings. I guess they have it. And gymnastics too,

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<v Speaker 1>like they swing on the rings. So it's like grace

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<v Speaker 1>and faith are like the two rings, and they're on

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<v Speaker 1>a pulley, so they are they coexist. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>have both to stabilize yourself, but you can't let go

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<v Speaker 1>of one or you'll you'll completely lose balance. And so

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<v Speaker 1>how that balance exists is a mystery, and it's no

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<v Speaker 1>human knows the the impact of faith. Belief, believe and

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<v Speaker 1>you'll be saved or grace because it's it's they co exist.

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<v Speaker 1>There there are parallel lines, and that's why. And so

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<v Speaker 1>that's why Joe's saying this is this is complex, This

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<v Speaker 1>idea is complex. Before before you go and just blow

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<v Speaker 1>our minds, I have to say that this idea, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've said, I've said kind of alluded at this before

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<v Speaker 1>in this podcast, don't ever let this kind of stuff

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<v Speaker 1>stump you or trigger you or make you doubt. If

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<v Speaker 1>any way that you start thinking this, this is not fair,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not doubting, then just stop. It's not necessary

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<v Speaker 1>for everyone to go through this in their mind and

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<v Speaker 1>completely dissect how they feel about it. But but I

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<v Speaker 1>would encourage you, as you read your Bible too, to

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<v Speaker 1>see it. Circle that stuff and you'll see it a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll see you'll see Paul and Peter and John and

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus talk about this a lot. And so it's interesting

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<v Speaker 1>to circle it and go, oh, he chosen, chosen, chosen, predestined, elected. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead, Chad. Yeah, I think I remember struggling with

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<v Speaker 1>this as a new believer, whether or not I was

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<v Speaker 1>okay with a God that would pick some and not others.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's really what it came down to for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And so, like Joe says, it is complex because there's

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<v Speaker 1>it just it seems unfair. It seems like, well, how

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<v Speaker 1>come some people get picked and not others, especially if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not anything that they've done. How could he do that?

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<v Speaker 1>And then they start to question the character of God

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<v Speaker 1>or he's got loving if he's like that, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if if people just have no say in the matter.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think what you're saying is there is this

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<v Speaker 1>mystery in our activity and our role in extizing faith

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<v Speaker 1>and obedience to Christ. And there's also God's sovereignty just

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<v Speaker 1>showing up and arriving and him opening our eyes to

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<v Speaker 1>see things. And I can tell from my own story

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<v Speaker 1>that I was not looking for him. It's not because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm somehow clever or I found the secret sauce like

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<v Speaker 1>I was running away from him and he completely disrupted me.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I can't take credit for this awareness or

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<v Speaker 1>understanding of who God is. He did that and revealed

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<v Speaker 1>that to me. But some of the ways that I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's important to understand is that we all in

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<v Speaker 1>this human condition, we would identify as Christians. We would

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<v Speaker 1>say that all have sinned, all fall short. So there

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<v Speaker 1>It isn't as though God is taking this group and

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<v Speaker 1>saying I'm going to make you sinners and you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to go to Hell, and I'm going to make you

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<v Speaker 1>nonsinners and you're going to go to heaven. But the

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<v Speaker 1>reality is the whole human race is falling, broken and sinful.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then why is it that a God that

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<v Speaker 1>we would say is loving and good and perfect and righteous,

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<v Speaker 1>why would he choose some to then escape that fate.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the big question. And what we see throughout the Bible,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's the Old Testament of the New Testament. God

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<v Speaker 1>is a God that picks, he chooses, he selects, he predestines,

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<v Speaker 1>And it starts with Abram, and he calls Abram, who

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<v Speaker 1>is not a godly man, he just was in obscurity,

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<v Speaker 1>but he calls him and makes and he says, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to make a people out of you, and yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>total pagan. And he tells Abram, which he later names Abraham,

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm through you. I'm going to make you a name.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to make a name for you. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to give you descendants as numerous as the stars, and

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<v Speaker 1>through you, all nations will be blessed. So all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, he selects this one guy, and it's through

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<v Speaker 1>him that all nations are going to come to be

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<v Speaker 1>blessed by Abraham. So he's picking one to bless the rest.

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<v Speaker 1>We see that again with the people of Israel. There

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<v Speaker 1>are time and time again where through Israel he's going

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<v Speaker 1>to interact with the people so that the watching world

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<v Speaker 1>sees what kind of God he is, and the way

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<v Speaker 1>that he blesses these people as they walk in obedience,

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<v Speaker 1>well they don't over and over again, but again he

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<v Speaker 1>allows them to come back when they repent of their sin.

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<v Speaker 1>They come back and the watching world gets to see

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<v Speaker 1>a God of power, a God of grace. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we enter the New Testament, and it's made very clear

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<v Speaker 1>that what God is doing through his son Jesus Christ

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<v Speaker 1>is drawing people to himself, and all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>and now it's not just the Jews the chosen people,

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<v Speaker 1>but now it's what the Bible calls gentiles. All those

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<v Speaker 1>non Jews, that's you and me are now included. And

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<v Speaker 1>so what God is saying is that the boundaries are

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<v Speaker 1>moving out and all these different kinds of people are

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<v Speaker 1>being brought in. And so the reason why he chooses

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<v Speaker 1>some is to draw the rest. And there's a board

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<v Speaker 1>picture that a friend of mine always tells he's a

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<v Speaker 1>pastor out in New York, and he says, imagine it

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<v Speaker 1>this way that you have. You're in this high school

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<v Speaker 1>basketball gym, and you've got this this phenomenal basketball team.

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<v Speaker 1>They're the visitors, and they've come to play, and they

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<v Speaker 1>are clearly high caliber, talented team, best of the best.

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<v Speaker 1>And what God does is he looks around it and

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<v Speaker 1>he instead of choosing like the varsity squad for your

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<v Speaker 1>home team, he goes out of the basketball court area

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<v Speaker 1>through the double doors that exit the gym around the corner,

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<v Speaker 1>and he finds the group of smokers and emo kids

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<v Speaker 1>and the people that are just angry and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just hate sports and have a chip on their shoulder

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, eyeline or all that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>And he picks those kids and he says, you're my team,

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<v Speaker 1>and he brings them in and coaches them in such

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<v Speaker 1>a way that they excel beyond all of the best

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<v Speaker 1>basketball players in the gym, to the extent that now

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<v Speaker 1>all of the jocks that he overlooked they want to

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<v Speaker 1>play on that team. Like that that's what God's doing

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<v Speaker 1>when he picks, he's picking for the purpose of mission. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to draw others to himself. You, Joe, you

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<v Speaker 1>asked pastor Chad and you got it. You know, when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to this kind of stuff, it's interesting to

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<v Speaker 1>think about. If you think I believe that something you

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<v Speaker 1>could ask, but why do you did? Was that belief

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<v Speaker 1>given to you or did you create it on your own?

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<v Speaker 1>Because the Bible says we should have nothing to boast

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<v Speaker 1>about in our salvation, nothing, and to an extent, you

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<v Speaker 1>could boast that you believed and others didn't, So that

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<v Speaker 1>can't be real. If you if you are not saved,

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<v Speaker 1>you are an active rebellion. You are someone that says

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not, I want nothing to do with it. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're questioning and you're like, but am I, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>person I want to talk to. Yeah, if you're questioning that,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're thinking maybe you are, then maybe you are right.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then there's those parallel lines, you know, then

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<v Speaker 1>so like what are you balancing on? You balancing on

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<v Speaker 1>God's grace? Are you bouncing on your own belief? And

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. It's a mystery and I think if

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<v Speaker 1>it was, if it was perfectly clear cut, we could

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<v Speaker 1>just say check that box, we're done, see in heaven.

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<v Speaker 1>But because it's not clear cut, it's complicated. We want

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<v Speaker 1>to read more and we want to underline. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to circle those words and we go what does that

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<v Speaker 1>word mean? Why? But why do I need to be?

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<v Speaker 1>How do I need to be getting closer? And it

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<v Speaker 1>becomes a lifetime of this and I think that was

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<v Speaker 1>by design. Yeah, it was by design. Thank you, appreciate you. Joe.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to Iowa Stu. We got another question coming up.

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<v Speaker 1>It can it be like what my favorite color is?

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<v Speaker 1>How about this one? This one says my career. Surely

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<v Speaker 1>this is going to go east my career. Hey Grangeer,

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<v Speaker 1>my name is Landon. I'm from Boise, Idaho. I love

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<v Speaker 1>your show. I was and it was wonderful. If you

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<v Speaker 1>could please sorry, I'm going to read this right, it

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<v Speaker 1>would be wonderful. I'm just correcting a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>your writing. Landon, it'd be wonderful if you could answer

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<v Speaker 1>this question on your podcast. I'm fourteen and for all

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen years of my life, I've wanted to pursue my

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<v Speaker 1>dream of being a police officer. Do you have any

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<v Speaker 1>tips on how to stay productive in ways to reach

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<v Speaker 1>my dream job without giving up or blindly choosing to

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<v Speaker 1>pursue something different? Thank you, I hope you have an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing day. Appreciate you and Boise Idaho, I love Boise

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen good age. And he says, blindly choosing to pursue

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<v Speaker 1>he's predestining himself too, blindly that he's choosing this is

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<v Speaker 1>a good one. Chap this. We don't have to get

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<v Speaker 1>in trouble with this. It doesn't apply to just whether

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be a police officer. No, right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>no if if you've if you've got a dream and

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<v Speaker 1>there's a there's something you want to do with your life,

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<v Speaker 1>what what are the best steps? Like? How did you

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<v Speaker 1>when did you want to become a musician? We were

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about actually right here, fourteen So you can't

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<v Speaker 1>go to academy at fourteen. You can't train really in

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<v Speaker 1>any way. I mean, yeah, I don't I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what is required to become a police officer. You know obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know the law, studying the law, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>all stuff they'll teach you. There's I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>watching law and orders is a good thing or a

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<v Speaker 1>bad thing, because I'm sure it's not like it's portrayed

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<v Speaker 1>in the TV show. There's probably a lot of law

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<v Speaker 1>enforcement officers listening. Comment below if you're watching on YouTube,

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<v Speaker 1>a comment below if you could help Landing out. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it starts with get good grades. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>work hard. If you don't get your high school diploma.

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<v Speaker 1>If you fail out, you're not going to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the academy, right I'm assuming you're not going to get

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<v Speaker 1>accepted to be like a lot of these academies are

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<v Speaker 1>pretty strict. So your first, your first tiered goal right here,

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<v Speaker 1>Landing is to get into a good academy that you want.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would go boom to their website. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be an Idaho State Trooper. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>just throwing that out there. That's probably one of the

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<v Speaker 1>more difficult law enforcement groups in Idaho, the troopers. So

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<v Speaker 1>you go to their website and you go to applications

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<v Speaker 1>or the next event that they're hosting, and you just

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<v Speaker 1>go down the checklist of what it takes. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>how old do you have to be, what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>degree do you have to have, what kind of physical training.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have to have or you have to run

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<v Speaker 1>you have to run five miles under this time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now you got something to work for. Yeah, you got

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<v Speaker 1>a goal. Yeah. I mean I can relate to that

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<v Speaker 1>because when I was thirteen fourteen, my older brother who

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<v Speaker 1>was in the Navy, turned me onto this these this

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<v Speaker 1>group called Navy Seals yep, and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do that, and now I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to enlist at fourteen or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But he got me the physical entrance requirements and I

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<v Speaker 1>was far from them. But I had some goals. I

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<v Speaker 1>had to get my run time down. I had to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to swim and pull up smush up. So

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<v Speaker 1>there were certainly those types of things. What I wish

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been able to do in order to

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<v Speaker 1>get a better idea is to be around it, like

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<v Speaker 1>to be around that community and see what you know,

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<v Speaker 1>their family life was, Like what was you know? Because

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<v Speaker 1>all that I knew was what was portrayed in the media,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's going to be hyped up. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure now there's a lot more accurate portrayals of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But back back then, I mean in the early nineties,

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<v Speaker 1>there wasn't a lot of material out there, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, like if my own son who's thirteen, he's

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<v Speaker 1>got things that he wants to do and things he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be, and so I try to just get

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<v Speaker 1>him around people that do that to let them speak

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<v Speaker 1>into that, because he may have an idea of what

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<v Speaker 1>it is and it's it's not that it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be romanticized or so I don't know if you when

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<v Speaker 1>you can start going on right alongs or that's a

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<v Speaker 1>great Now. I bet you there's some kind of clinic

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<v Speaker 1>going on that maybe do like a summer clinic, or

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<v Speaker 1>there's there's always land in the there's always the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of you go and you get a job there in

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<v Speaker 1>the mailroom or taking off the trash right and you say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do this. I want to do whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it takes. Do you have anybody in the mail room

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<v Speaker 1>that needs help. I will intern, I'll do it for free.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to take off the trash. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>I want to clean the garden beds of the precinct.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just I think land, and there's there's got

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<v Speaker 1>to be a checklist that you can get into pretty easy.

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<v Speaker 1>After you listen to this podcast. You can get in

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<v Speaker 1>and just make you a little short list and go,

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<v Speaker 1>I got to run this kind of mile, I got

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<v Speaker 1>to lift this kind of weight, I have to have

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of grade at school. And and other than

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<v Speaker 1>that what Chad said, just absorb it around you. Get

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<v Speaker 1>get involved as much as you can. Don't forget to

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<v Speaker 1>live your life as a fourteen year old kid. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>be fourteen, be fourteen, and maybe get into trouble. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>get in trouble. It's like go steal a bike. No,

0:28:02.080 --> 0:28:06.320
<v Speaker 1>don't do that. Just totally kidding. Yeah, I love it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's awesome. Hey, Landon, there's not a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>kids that are that are having this dream so much respect.

0:28:14.200 --> 0:28:16.960
<v Speaker 1>I wish that we had an entire generation like you

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<v Speaker 1>that says, I love law enforcement. This is all I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever wanted to do. I have no aspirations past that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think. That's that's awesome, buddy, So hats off to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Back to the podcast. I have another one for you here.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how triggered this is going to be Chad,

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<v Speaker 1>but the title is burnt Out by the Ministry for

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<v Speaker 1>Pastor Chad, says, Hey Granger, Pastor Chad, my name is David.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nineteen years old. I'm from North Carolina. Pause, nineteen nineteen.

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<v Speaker 1>That isn't add up. Burnt out okay, says A couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks ago, I emailed Granger about his thoughts on

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<v Speaker 1>gospel music. Well, I have a question for Pastor Chad

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<v Speaker 1>now relating to the ministry. My question is this, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you do when you feel burnt out by the ministry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interning in a church in New Jersey for the

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<v Speaker 1>summer and God has really blessed me. I've learned a

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<v Speaker 1>lot and the church has blessed me a ton. But

0:32:02.800 --> 0:32:05.720
<v Speaker 1>the church is in transition and searching for a new pastor,

0:32:06.560 --> 0:32:08.360
<v Speaker 1>and with that comes a lot of stress from the

0:32:08.400 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 1>congregation staff and myself. I have been here only for

0:32:12.600 --> 0:32:15.080
<v Speaker 1>a month, and while it's been a blessing, I'm just

0:32:15.160 --> 0:32:20.160
<v Speaker 1>burnt out from constant negativity, questions we can answer, and

0:32:20.280 --> 0:32:22.680
<v Speaker 1>getting used to this new environment. It's been hard to

0:32:22.680 --> 0:32:25.960
<v Speaker 1>stay positive and energized. Would love to hear back from

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. Thanks for what you guys do, ye you,

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<v Speaker 1>David ah Man. That's it's a Unfortunately, it's a pretty

0:32:36.320 --> 0:32:45.600
<v Speaker 1>common scenario where people feel called into full time vocational ministry,

0:32:45.640 --> 0:32:51.920
<v Speaker 1>pastoral work, minister at work, and they get to that point.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sad that he's nineteen and he's there, but unfortunately

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<v Speaker 1>not surprising as well. I mean, it doesn't take long

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<v Speaker 1>to get there. And there are things that you have

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<v Speaker 1>to hold on to as you respond to that call

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:12.479
<v Speaker 1>and you engage in this kind of work, and that

0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:16.959
<v Speaker 1>is remembering that God is the one that called you

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<v Speaker 1>and you work for him. It's very easy to get

0:33:21.600 --> 0:33:23.840
<v Speaker 1>caught up, whatever the structure of the church or the

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<v Speaker 1>ministry or the organization is, to think that your primary

0:33:29.680 --> 0:33:33.560
<v Speaker 1>report is to people and to their opinions and what

0:33:33.600 --> 0:33:37.640
<v Speaker 1>they want from you. But just to always remember God's

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<v Speaker 1>one to put you there, that you're His called shepherd

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<v Speaker 1>or person in that position, and so you're beholden to Him.

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<v Speaker 1>And oftentimes, and we see this in the scripture, God

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<v Speaker 1>puts on the heart or leads a leader to do

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<v Speaker 1>something that's unpopular with the people, not unbiblical, but unpopular,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's going to face resistance. But those people always

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<v Speaker 1>are absolutely sure that it's God that they're following and

0:34:07.160 --> 0:34:10.000
<v Speaker 1>that he's leading them. And so as much as they

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<v Speaker 1>get pressure, and sadly they are going to get a

0:34:12.239 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure from people, they serve him that he

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<v Speaker 1>is the boss, he's who they work for. I'd also

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<v Speaker 1>say it's important to have a network of support friends

0:34:22.800 --> 0:34:27.040
<v Speaker 1>outside of that direct ministry experience. So I've got friends

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<v Speaker 1>from other churches, other pastors, other ministries that aren't in

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<v Speaker 1>my current church, and it's just refreshing to hear what

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<v Speaker 1>the Lord's doing in their world, what they're wrestling with,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a place that I can decompress with them

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<v Speaker 1>and I can work through challenges that I'm facing or

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<v Speaker 1>frustrations that I have, and they're able to listen say yep,

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<v Speaker 1>now get back in the game staying there. You got this,

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<v Speaker 1>So having those kind of people outside of your immediate

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<v Speaker 1>context is huge. It sounds like he doesn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of that. Yeah, that can be challenging, David. We

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<v Speaker 1>could hit this from a couple different one being just

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<v Speaker 1>a simple fact that it's a summer internship. That should

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<v Speaker 1>be enough to energize you through this. There's an end date,

0:35:11.440 --> 0:35:14.799
<v Speaker 1>there's a temple world, and you can and on one

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<v Speaker 1>one hand, you could go, hey, I'm learning, I'm learning

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of people I don't really want to be

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<v Speaker 1>around right now. You could say it in that way,

0:35:25.400 --> 0:35:27.479
<v Speaker 1>keep it in mind exactly what Chad said that God

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<v Speaker 1>called you here for a reason. That reason could be

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<v Speaker 1>so you see a stagnant environment that you don't that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be a part of. It could

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<v Speaker 1>be that he's showing you this is not your calling.

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<v Speaker 1>That too, he brought you here to experience this and

0:35:43.040 --> 0:35:45.880
<v Speaker 1>you go, man, this isn't what I'm wired for. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The other angle I could take this from is this,

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<v Speaker 1>this is typically this kind of thing is a leadership problem.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a trickle down problem. If they're changing leadership, it

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<v Speaker 1>would explain even more why this is a trickle down

0:36:00.160 --> 0:36:05.320
<v Speaker 1>problem you're if you're feeling says burned out, constant negativity,

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<v Speaker 1>questions we can't answer, getting used to this environment, hard

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<v Speaker 1>to stay positive, energized. That's all that. All that is

0:36:12.320 --> 0:36:18.000
<v Speaker 1>trickling down from bad leadership, not bad people, bad leadership,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's in transition, so that could it could not

0:36:23.000 --> 0:36:26.879
<v Speaker 1>even fall in anyone one person's shoulders. So you could

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<v Speaker 1>learn from this and you can go this is not

0:36:28.760 --> 0:36:31.839
<v Speaker 1>how this is not how I would be leading, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to give into negativity. I'm going to

0:36:34.719 --> 0:36:36.680
<v Speaker 1>be the one that stays positive in the hallways and

0:36:36.719 --> 0:36:39.160
<v Speaker 1>the office ways and outside on the sidewalk when I

0:36:39.200 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>see somebody, I'm gonna bring I'm going to bring that energy.

0:36:42.400 --> 0:36:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to bring that light because that is up

0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:47.160
<v Speaker 1>to you, and you can be the one that does it.

0:36:47.600 --> 0:36:51.200
<v Speaker 1>You don't have to fall into constant negativity, the questions

0:36:51.239 --> 0:36:55.400
<v Speaker 1>you can't answer. What's wrong with saying we can't answer

0:36:55.400 --> 0:36:58.759
<v Speaker 1>that right now? There's a positive way to not being

0:36:58.800 --> 0:37:02.359
<v Speaker 1>able to answer questions. Man, David, I could relate this

0:37:02.600 --> 0:37:07.880
<v Speaker 1>directly to me on tour. I could say, we see bands,

0:37:08.200 --> 0:37:10.799
<v Speaker 1>and we see bands all the time that are just

0:37:10.920 --> 0:37:14.759
<v Speaker 1>walking around their head down, they're dragging their feet. We

0:37:14.840 --> 0:37:18.520
<v Speaker 1>see crews, audio crews at big, massive festivals and they're

0:37:18.560 --> 0:37:23.120
<v Speaker 1>just walking around, just mad. And I'm thinking, you're doing

0:37:23.160 --> 0:37:27.120
<v Speaker 1>this for a living. You're making people smile for a living.

0:37:27.960 --> 0:37:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Traveling around in a tour bus, eating catering. Ten years ago,

0:37:33.600 --> 0:37:36.880
<v Speaker 1>this was your dream. Now you're mad and you're negative

0:37:36.920 --> 0:37:39.399
<v Speaker 1>because it's hot or it's too windy, or the rain

0:37:39.520 --> 0:37:44.160
<v Speaker 1>might come at three o'clock, or the people are getting

0:37:44.160 --> 0:37:46.800
<v Speaker 1>outside the barricade and you have to fix it, or whatever.

0:37:46.920 --> 0:37:52.200
<v Speaker 1>The thousands of reasons humans will continually fall back to

0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:55.320
<v Speaker 1>negativity when they don't have a leader that's keeping them energized.

0:37:57.920 --> 0:38:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I'd also say one of my mentors told me, in

0:38:02.040 --> 0:38:04.600
<v Speaker 1>the ministry, there's a lot of stuff that you're going

0:38:04.680 --> 0:38:08.560
<v Speaker 1>to do that wasn't what you imagined it to be, Like,

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:11.080
<v Speaker 1>this isn't what I thought pastoral ministry was going to be.

0:38:11.360 --> 0:38:14.399
<v Speaker 1>Or there's just a lot of stuff you do that's

0:38:14.520 --> 0:38:18.360
<v Speaker 1>just not fun and a lot of challenges. But he said,

0:38:18.400 --> 0:38:21.359
<v Speaker 1>you have to set boundaries and ensure that you get

0:38:21.440 --> 0:38:23.680
<v Speaker 1>to do a fair amount of what does energize you,

0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:26.000
<v Speaker 1>what does fill your cup in the way that you're

0:38:26.040 --> 0:38:28.960
<v Speaker 1>called designed to serve that kind of thing, things that

0:38:29.080 --> 0:38:33.359
<v Speaker 1>interest you, and ensure that you protect that you get

0:38:33.360 --> 0:38:36.840
<v Speaker 1>to do those things, and it allows you to navigate

0:38:36.880 --> 0:38:39.839
<v Speaker 1>and endure the many things that aren't enjoyable. And I'm

0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:43.000
<v Speaker 1>sure for you, man, there's probably a lot of stuff

0:38:43.000 --> 0:38:45.280
<v Speaker 1>you got to do that's just part of the business,

0:38:45.320 --> 0:38:47.920
<v Speaker 1>just part of the music industry. It's not your favorite

0:38:48.040 --> 0:38:53.120
<v Speaker 1>and it can be a drag, but you make sure

0:38:53.160 --> 0:38:54.759
<v Speaker 1>that you get to do enough of what you do

0:38:54.880 --> 0:38:59.640
<v Speaker 1>love songwriting and being with fans and getting to deliver

0:38:59.680 --> 0:39:02.600
<v Speaker 1>your music to people and share that with people. That

0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:05.799
<v Speaker 1>makes the rest of it okay. That's worth it, absolutely

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:08.799
<v Speaker 1>And you could sum that up by saying, David, keep

0:39:08.840 --> 0:39:14.000
<v Speaker 1>your gratefulness higher than your expectations. You're expecting so much

0:39:14.040 --> 0:39:16.760
<v Speaker 1>from this church and you're not as grateful for the position.

0:39:17.640 --> 0:39:19.719
<v Speaker 1>Just make yourself it doesn't have to be a lot

0:39:19.760 --> 0:39:22.520
<v Speaker 1>more grateful. You'd just be a little tiny bit more

0:39:22.560 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 1>grateful than you expect out of the job. Gratefulness above expectations,

0:39:28.440 --> 0:39:31.000
<v Speaker 1>and you're not going to feel that drag. You could

0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:34.439
<v Speaker 1>relate that to any job, David. There's plenty of other

0:39:34.520 --> 0:39:37.920
<v Speaker 1>jobs out there. You could switch to another profession and

0:39:37.960 --> 0:39:41.520
<v Speaker 1>feel the same way in the same thing. Not being said,

0:39:41.520 --> 0:39:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't relate to this particular job like Chad can,

0:39:44.880 --> 0:39:48.279
<v Speaker 1>but I could say with almost certainty, no one gets

0:39:48.280 --> 0:39:50.279
<v Speaker 1>into the ministry and goes I'm looking to get in

0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:54.000
<v Speaker 1>ministry because it's gonna be fun. Yeah, it's not the

0:39:54.040 --> 0:39:57.880
<v Speaker 1>first reason you would say so. And that has to

0:39:57.920 --> 0:40:02.359
<v Speaker 1>do with lower your expectations a bit. Hire the gratefulness,

0:40:02.440 --> 0:40:08.240
<v Speaker 1>and that's really good. Let me just fine gratefulness above expectations.

0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:10.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you made that up, but that's brilliant.

0:40:10.440 --> 0:40:12.200
<v Speaker 1>I didn't make it up, but I don't remember where

0:40:12.239 --> 0:40:14.399
<v Speaker 1>I heard it, but I've used it for so long.

0:40:14.760 --> 0:40:17.799
<v Speaker 1>That is really good. And it could relate to we're

0:40:17.840 --> 0:40:22.200
<v Speaker 1>playing a gig and when we used to be in

0:40:22.239 --> 0:40:24.440
<v Speaker 1>the van and we would have to load in and soundcheck,

0:40:24.480 --> 0:40:25.759
<v Speaker 1>and then we would get in the van and go

0:40:25.800 --> 0:40:29.280
<v Speaker 1>to eat dinner, go to a hotel room and change clothes,

0:40:29.640 --> 0:40:32.120
<v Speaker 1>come back to the venue, and we come back the

0:40:32.160 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 1>parking lot. What does it look like? It's like the

0:40:35.120 --> 0:40:37.880
<v Speaker 1>instant idea of how this night's gonna go. Is it

0:40:38.040 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 1>packed or are there like four cars there? So if

0:40:42.560 --> 0:40:46.759
<v Speaker 1>you just keep your expectations low. Like, man, it's Friday night.

0:40:47.480 --> 0:40:49.640
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna play a gig tonight. You know, I don't

0:40:49.680 --> 0:40:52.360
<v Speaker 1>even care who comes. Then when you roll up and

0:40:52.360 --> 0:40:56.560
<v Speaker 1>there's fifteen cars, you go, dude, fifteen cars, maybe they

0:40:56.560 --> 0:40:59.040
<v Speaker 1>had five people in them each car, It's gonna be

0:40:59.040 --> 0:41:02.360
<v Speaker 1>pretty good night. But if you played there last year

0:41:02.480 --> 0:41:04.759
<v Speaker 1>and there was one hundred cars, and then you roll

0:41:04.840 --> 0:41:08.040
<v Speaker 1>up this year after dinner and there's fifty cars you

0:41:08.040 --> 0:41:11.520
<v Speaker 1>were expecting one hundred or more, it's gonna be a

0:41:11.520 --> 0:41:15.480
<v Speaker 1>bad night. You've lost the gratefulness of what the night is.

0:41:17.800 --> 0:41:20.480
<v Speaker 1>So thanks for the question, Dave. Again, I appreciate your brother.

0:41:25.320 --> 0:41:29.680
<v Speaker 1>We got some stuff. How about football and peer pressure? Yeah,

0:41:29.719 --> 0:41:32.359
<v Speaker 1>it's football. We're getting into the fall season. Per two

0:41:32.480 --> 0:41:35.239
<v Speaker 1>days are probably starting. Hey Grange, I've listened to many

0:41:35.239 --> 0:41:38.000
<v Speaker 1>of your podcasts and your songs. My favorite song of

0:41:38.040 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 1>yours is America, Thank You Buddy. It says I'm from

0:41:41.120 --> 0:41:44.680
<v Speaker 1>a small town in Iowa this or second Iowa, Second Iowa,

0:41:45.719 --> 0:41:50.160
<v Speaker 1>and I'm thirteen. I'm going into the eighth grade. At

0:41:50.200 --> 0:41:53.160
<v Speaker 1>my school. Sports is a huge thing. I've played football

0:41:53.400 --> 0:41:55.919
<v Speaker 1>at my school for three years now, and this year

0:41:56.000 --> 0:41:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I've decided not to play football. It's just not my thing.

0:41:58.960 --> 0:42:01.640
<v Speaker 1>But some of my friends really want to play, and

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:03.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to. How should I handle this? I

0:42:04.040 --> 0:42:06.799
<v Speaker 1>love your advice. I'd really love you to help me out.

0:42:06.800 --> 0:42:12.520
<v Speaker 1>Thanks in advance. I would like to remain anonymous. Well

0:42:14.040 --> 0:42:17.760
<v Speaker 1>how do I process? You're thirteen, so I could approach

0:42:17.800 --> 0:42:22.360
<v Speaker 1>this in two ways, one your buddy, two father figure.

0:42:26.360 --> 0:42:30.640
<v Speaker 1>I might have the same answer with both. I would say,

0:42:31.880 --> 0:42:36.520
<v Speaker 1>if a lot of your friends you say, some of

0:42:36.520 --> 0:42:40.520
<v Speaker 1>my friends really want to play, if those are close

0:42:40.560 --> 0:42:45.160
<v Speaker 1>friends of yours, I would follow them into football, because

0:42:45.160 --> 0:42:51.600
<v Speaker 1>you're risking separating yourself from that friend group and football.

0:42:51.960 --> 0:42:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I love football. I talked about it on the last podcast.

0:42:56.480 --> 0:42:59.120
<v Speaker 1>And one of the reasons I love football is because

0:42:59.120 --> 0:43:06.040
<v Speaker 1>it's not talent and skill based. It is camaraderie. It

0:43:06.120 --> 0:43:11.840
<v Speaker 1>is mental toughness, It is show up and compete. It

0:43:11.960 --> 0:43:18.120
<v Speaker 1>is it is be available, be ready, and much less

0:43:18.239 --> 0:43:22.319
<v Speaker 1>like baseball is so much more skill and right place,

0:43:22.440 --> 0:43:29.200
<v Speaker 1>right time and patience, and football is is eleven guys

0:43:29.200 --> 0:43:31.319
<v Speaker 1>and they're gonna put on helmets and we're gonna get

0:43:31.320 --> 0:43:34.040
<v Speaker 1>out there and try to win this game regardless, and

0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:36.320
<v Speaker 1>it comes in all different shapes and sizes of people

0:43:37.160 --> 0:43:41.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, all different skill levels. So this is my

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:48.760
<v Speaker 1>first my first bit, Sam, Sorry, why do I do that? Luckily?

0:43:49.560 --> 0:43:52.400
<v Speaker 1>Why do I do that? My first bit to you,

0:43:52.520 --> 0:43:56.680
<v Speaker 1>sir is, uh, follow your friends in there. You're in

0:43:56.719 --> 0:43:59.080
<v Speaker 1>eighth grade. Give it, give it one more year. That's

0:43:59.080 --> 0:44:00.799
<v Speaker 1>what I would ask you. Give it one more year

0:44:01.280 --> 0:44:03.279
<v Speaker 1>for your friend's sake, so that you could be with them.

0:44:03.719 --> 0:44:06.400
<v Speaker 1>It's not about starting. It's not about being a star.

0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:09.359
<v Speaker 1>It's not about being a hero in the field. It's

0:44:09.400 --> 0:44:13.680
<v Speaker 1>about going through August and September with these guys in Iowa.

0:44:14.120 --> 0:44:16.680
<v Speaker 1>I was just not in Iowa recently with a head

0:44:16.680 --> 0:44:21.360
<v Speaker 1>football coach actually, and I was such a cool, cool

0:44:21.360 --> 0:44:24.680
<v Speaker 1>little stadium in green Grass and just being a part

0:44:24.680 --> 0:44:27.239
<v Speaker 1>of that, being a part of something that's bigger than you,

0:44:28.560 --> 0:44:33.880
<v Speaker 1>that's greater than you, where you're contributing, not necessarily always

0:44:33.880 --> 0:44:38.120
<v Speaker 1>on the field, but you're there contributing morally with your friends.

0:44:38.120 --> 0:44:43.359
<v Speaker 1>You're there to give them support. And unless you could

0:44:43.400 --> 0:44:46.480
<v Speaker 1>replace all that I just said with something else in

0:44:46.520 --> 0:44:50.960
<v Speaker 1>eighth grade, like maybe it's track or baseball or chess

0:44:51.320 --> 0:44:53.600
<v Speaker 1>or math team. If you could replace it with that,

0:44:54.320 --> 0:44:56.720
<v Speaker 1>do it. But if you can't and you're just gonna

0:44:56.760 --> 0:45:02.319
<v Speaker 1>do nothing, I would say follow your friends in footb Yeah,

0:45:02.400 --> 0:45:06.520
<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of questions for Anonymous. What kind

0:45:06.520 --> 0:45:08.400
<v Speaker 1>of friends are they? Are these the kind of friends

0:45:08.440 --> 0:45:11.760
<v Speaker 1>that you want to be? Like? Are they good friends?

0:45:13.239 --> 0:45:16.560
<v Speaker 1>Are they you know, a good peer group? This is

0:45:16.600 --> 0:45:18.600
<v Speaker 1>obviously the dad and the pastor and me. I'm not

0:45:18.680 --> 0:45:22.200
<v Speaker 1>answering as a friend, but whether you should or shouldn't

0:45:22.440 --> 0:45:25.600
<v Speaker 1>I think a question that you probably want to answer

0:45:25.680 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 1>is what do you want to be true of you

0:45:27.120 --> 0:45:29.719
<v Speaker 1>in a year from now? Like, in terms of your

0:45:29.719 --> 0:45:32.560
<v Speaker 1>relationship with these guys and these friends, do you want

0:45:32.680 --> 0:45:36.480
<v Speaker 1>a deeper friendship? And there's no doubt if you go

0:45:36.520 --> 0:45:38.880
<v Speaker 1>through something as challenging as a football season with a

0:45:38.920 --> 0:45:42.080
<v Speaker 1>group of guys, the highs and the lows, everything that

0:45:42.160 --> 0:45:45.120
<v Speaker 1>you have to traverse with them is going to draw

0:45:45.160 --> 0:45:48.920
<v Speaker 1>you closer. There's something about having to go through something

0:45:48.960 --> 0:45:54.480
<v Speaker 1>difficult together that just forms bonds and friendships that can

0:45:54.640 --> 0:45:58.399
<v Speaker 1>last a lifetime and develop character. And there's all kinds

0:45:58.440 --> 0:46:01.680
<v Speaker 1>of benefits even if it's And the other question would

0:46:01.680 --> 0:46:03.880
<v Speaker 1>be why don't you want to? Is there something about

0:46:03.960 --> 0:46:07.279
<v Speaker 1>or something you've had as an experience that that just

0:46:07.440 --> 0:46:08.560
<v Speaker 1>you go, you know what, I don't want to have

0:46:08.600 --> 0:46:10.120
<v Speaker 1>to work that hard. I don't want to go through

0:46:10.160 --> 0:46:11.960
<v Speaker 1>two days. I don't want to have to get hit.

0:46:12.880 --> 0:46:16.320
<v Speaker 1>Or is there something more, you know, severe that really

0:46:16.480 --> 0:46:19.279
<v Speaker 1>good point that's causing you to not want to do it?

0:46:19.360 --> 0:46:22.759
<v Speaker 1>So I would just wigh. Is it just a I

0:46:22.800 --> 0:46:25.680
<v Speaker 1>wanted to have a free fall and just kind of

0:46:25.680 --> 0:46:28.040
<v Speaker 1>be in the stands and hang out with the ladies,

0:46:28.600 --> 0:46:31.200
<v Speaker 1>or I guess there's other guys that don't play football too, right,

0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:36.160
<v Speaker 1>But what's the reason why you wouldn't really good point

0:46:36.320 --> 0:46:40.680
<v Speaker 1>to listen to anonymous that what are you trading this for?

0:46:40.719 --> 0:46:44.360
<v Speaker 1>Why are you deciding not to do it? I promise

0:46:44.400 --> 0:46:47.200
<v Speaker 1>you that when you do. First of all, let me

0:46:47.239 --> 0:46:50.560
<v Speaker 1>say that the last three years, which have been fifth grade,

0:46:50.640 --> 0:46:52.960
<v Speaker 1>sixth grade, and seventh grade, aren't going to be the

0:46:53.000 --> 0:46:56.640
<v Speaker 1>same caliber football as eighth grade football. That's going to be.

0:46:56.719 --> 0:47:00.960
<v Speaker 1>It's going to be different and you will be able

0:47:01.000 --> 0:47:03.520
<v Speaker 1>to say one day. I promise you in your job,

0:47:03.840 --> 0:47:07.520
<v Speaker 1>when your job gets hard and something you have a challenge,

0:47:07.680 --> 0:47:10.280
<v Speaker 1>you're going to go. You know what, I remember standing

0:47:10.280 --> 0:47:15.240
<v Speaker 1>out there in October and the cold rain, standing ankle

0:47:15.280 --> 0:47:18.600
<v Speaker 1>deep in mud, in that field with my buddies. This

0:47:18.760 --> 0:47:22.719
<v Speaker 1>isn't that bad. That was tough. You're going to learn

0:47:22.880 --> 0:47:27.200
<v Speaker 1>so many life lessons like that. You get about about

0:47:27.280 --> 0:47:33.920
<v Speaker 1>winning and losing and struggling and fighting through adversity and

0:47:34.000 --> 0:47:37.920
<v Speaker 1>competition and challenges and overcoming them together as a group.

0:47:38.280 --> 0:47:40.399
<v Speaker 1>That all these things you're going to learn. And once

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:42.920
<v Speaker 1>again I got to say, this is not about talent

0:47:43.040 --> 0:47:47.760
<v Speaker 1>and skill and fame and notoriety. Some very few kids

0:47:47.800 --> 0:47:51.040
<v Speaker 1>get that. But what you're really going to get out

0:47:51.040 --> 0:47:55.240
<v Speaker 1>of football is this group. And we're made as humans

0:47:55.280 --> 0:47:59.600
<v Speaker 1>to be connected in a group. So I challenge you

0:47:59.680 --> 0:48:02.520
<v Speaker 1>to to rewind this podcast and listen to what Chad

0:48:02.560 --> 0:48:07.920
<v Speaker 1>said and question your reasons. As a dad, as a pastor,

0:48:08.400 --> 0:48:12.120
<v Speaker 1>We're going to question why are you not wanting to play?

0:48:13.160 --> 0:48:15.799
<v Speaker 1>And this is this is not what you wanted to

0:48:15.840 --> 0:48:18.880
<v Speaker 1>hear in this podcast. Probably when you wrote in this

0:48:18.960 --> 0:48:22.160
<v Speaker 1>is not what you're expecting, you wanted us to say, Well,

0:48:22.400 --> 0:48:24.400
<v Speaker 1>you go out there, just do what you know, do

0:48:24.520 --> 0:48:29.840
<v Speaker 1>you man? B you bu But I feel pretty serious

0:48:29.880 --> 0:48:33.200
<v Speaker 1>about this, and I would say too that if there

0:48:33.280 --> 0:48:36.560
<v Speaker 1>is something else, that another reason why you shouldn't do it,

0:48:37.480 --> 0:48:39.719
<v Speaker 1>and it's a good reason then obviously we don't have

0:48:39.800 --> 0:48:43.520
<v Speaker 1>that information, and we're going off of what you've indicated here.

0:48:43.560 --> 0:48:46.520
<v Speaker 1>But there's a few things that for my own son,

0:48:46.560 --> 0:48:49.400
<v Speaker 1>who's thirteen and looking at a fall season of sports,

0:48:50.400 --> 0:48:54.359
<v Speaker 1>like I want, I want him to know that this

0:48:54.440 --> 0:48:56.279
<v Speaker 1>is a season that will pass. He has very few

0:48:56.320 --> 0:48:58.920
<v Speaker 1>opportunities to do this kind of stuff. I mean, the

0:48:58.920 --> 0:49:02.239
<v Speaker 1>opportunities to play on a team sport and to I mean,

0:49:02.360 --> 0:49:05.759
<v Speaker 1>you've got probably only five more opportunities to do this,

0:49:06.800 --> 0:49:09.560
<v Speaker 1>and then once you get off, most people aren't going

0:49:09.600 --> 0:49:11.160
<v Speaker 1>to be able to do this in college or in

0:49:11.160 --> 0:49:14.120
<v Speaker 1>their adult life. So it's a unique season of life

0:49:14.200 --> 0:49:17.600
<v Speaker 1>to take advantage of these kind of things. Also, we're

0:49:17.640 --> 0:49:22.279
<v Speaker 1>training future men. We're not raising boys, we're raising men.

0:49:22.440 --> 0:49:24.879
<v Speaker 1>And we need a generation of young men that can

0:49:24.920 --> 0:49:28.240
<v Speaker 1>take the hill, that can and that comes because they've

0:49:28.280 --> 0:49:32.040
<v Speaker 1>decided to do hard things and they've survived them and

0:49:32.040 --> 0:49:35.799
<v Speaker 1>they've gotten better for it. So do hard things, anonymous,

0:49:35.840 --> 0:49:38.640
<v Speaker 1>all right, we need we need men like you to

0:49:38.800 --> 0:49:42.680
<v Speaker 1>lead in the future. So do hard stuff, make hard choices.

0:49:42.920 --> 0:49:45.279
<v Speaker 1>And if you've ever said yes to any one of

0:49:45.280 --> 0:49:47.160
<v Speaker 1>these buddies when they said, hey, are you gonna play football,

0:49:47.160 --> 0:49:49.680
<v Speaker 1>and you said yes, then you better do it because

0:49:49.719 --> 0:49:53.160
<v Speaker 1>your word is your bond. That's so good. What do

0:49:53.200 --> 0:49:54.879
<v Speaker 1>you say? We have to we have to have men

0:49:54.920 --> 0:49:57.200
<v Speaker 1>that could take the hill. Yes, we need men that

0:49:57.239 --> 0:50:00.239
<v Speaker 1>can take the hill, that could take the hill. Yes,

0:50:00.320 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 1>I love that. I love that man. And let me

0:50:03.239 --> 0:50:06.600
<v Speaker 1>say one more time, Anonymous, let me just clarify. If

0:50:06.640 --> 0:50:10.000
<v Speaker 1>you're saying you want to replace this with soccer cool,

0:50:10.560 --> 0:50:15.000
<v Speaker 1>wrestling great, cross country cool, it's not. This is not

0:50:15.239 --> 0:50:21.480
<v Speaker 1>football specific. This is doing difficult things, do hard things.

0:50:21.960 --> 0:50:24.880
<v Speaker 1>It'll be better for it, and when you do it

0:50:24.920 --> 0:50:28.120
<v Speaker 1>in a group, even even better than that. Right, thank

0:50:28.120 --> 0:50:33.440
<v Speaker 1>you for email. We got time. We have time, Chad, sweet,

0:50:33.600 --> 0:50:36.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna throw this over to you. We have military

0:50:37.040 --> 0:50:41.240
<v Speaker 1>marriage is hard. We have relationship problems. We have feeling

0:50:41.320 --> 0:50:47.520
<v Speaker 1>lost in a fog. Advice from a fan, grief belief

0:50:47.640 --> 0:50:52.319
<v Speaker 1>differences in relationship. You have advice from a fan. I

0:50:52.360 --> 0:50:56.480
<v Speaker 1>think it was miss misstated here, okay, advice to us.

0:50:56.480 --> 0:51:00.000
<v Speaker 1>I'd love to hear. I thought that I read it.

0:50:59.160 --> 0:51:04.000
<v Speaker 1>And let's jump into one of those relationship marriage ones.

0:51:04.080 --> 0:51:07.239
<v Speaker 1>Which one do you want? You want the belief differences

0:51:07.280 --> 0:51:11.879
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, relationship problems or military marriages is hard

0:51:13.080 --> 0:51:18.360
<v Speaker 1>belief differences sounds says, Hey Granger, I'd like to remain anonymous.

0:51:18.560 --> 0:51:23.759
<v Speaker 1>You got it, he says. I'm a strong Christian, but

0:51:23.920 --> 0:51:29.160
<v Speaker 1>my boyfriend considers himself agnostic. He doesn't understand why God

0:51:29.239 --> 0:51:33.160
<v Speaker 1>would let bad things happen to people and children, like cancer, starvation, etc.

0:51:34.200 --> 0:51:37.359
<v Speaker 1>I never know what to say other than that, other

0:51:37.440 --> 0:51:40.000
<v Speaker 1>than that we live in a fallen world with suffering,

0:51:40.280 --> 0:51:42.320
<v Speaker 1>and that this is in our home, and that life

0:51:42.360 --> 0:51:46.359
<v Speaker 1>is so short comparatively to eternity. What would you say

0:51:46.400 --> 0:51:49.760
<v Speaker 1>to a non believer that says that they cannot believe

0:51:49.800 --> 0:51:52.640
<v Speaker 1>in God who would let bad things happen to innocent people?

0:51:53.200 --> 0:51:56.520
<v Speaker 1>What do scriptures say? Also? What are your thoughts on

0:51:56.560 --> 0:51:59.839
<v Speaker 1>marriage between a Christian and a non Christian? What does

0:51:59.840 --> 0:52:03.120
<v Speaker 1>a Bible say about that? I'm always praying for God

0:52:03.160 --> 0:52:06.480
<v Speaker 1>to reveal himself to my boyfriend and for him to

0:52:06.680 --> 0:52:10.000
<v Speaker 1>escape to accept Jesus into his heart. Thanks for reading

0:52:10.000 --> 0:52:16.080
<v Speaker 1>my email. This is loaded. We've gotten into this in

0:52:16.120 --> 0:52:18.760
<v Speaker 1>the previous times. I've been here at at the table

0:52:18.800 --> 0:52:22.880
<v Speaker 1>with you in terms of why would God allow and

0:52:22.920 --> 0:52:26.440
<v Speaker 1>what would we say to somebody who's struggling with a

0:52:26.480 --> 0:52:30.040
<v Speaker 1>God that allows evil and bad things and suffering and cancer,

0:52:32.280 --> 0:52:35.239
<v Speaker 1>and I think, yeah, I mean the answer remains the

0:52:35.280 --> 0:52:41.560
<v Speaker 1>same there, certainly is. We live in a world that

0:52:41.680 --> 0:52:43.920
<v Speaker 1>is very fallen and broken, and there's a ton of

0:52:43.960 --> 0:52:50.000
<v Speaker 1>pain and suffering. The reason why God allows that to

0:52:50.080 --> 0:52:53.120
<v Speaker 1>take place is because he's a God of love and

0:52:53.280 --> 0:52:58.480
<v Speaker 1>he is created a universe in which we are free creatures.

0:52:59.280 --> 0:53:03.399
<v Speaker 1>And in order for authentic love to occur, freedom has

0:53:03.440 --> 0:53:07.000
<v Speaker 1>to exist, which also means we have the ability and

0:53:07.040 --> 0:53:10.520
<v Speaker 1>the freedom to not love and to reject Him in

0:53:10.560 --> 0:53:14.200
<v Speaker 1>his ways. So there, that's usually where I start with

0:53:14.680 --> 0:53:17.879
<v Speaker 1>when I'm talking to somebody who really gets upset about

0:53:17.920 --> 0:53:19.920
<v Speaker 1>the idea of evil and a god that will allowed.

0:53:20.120 --> 0:53:23.560
<v Speaker 1>Is I look at the ideals of love, which everyone

0:53:24.080 --> 0:53:27.400
<v Speaker 1>they enjoy that they love the idea of freedom, but

0:53:27.480 --> 0:53:31.279
<v Speaker 1>to realize that freedom necessitates both a good and a

0:53:31.320 --> 0:53:34.640
<v Speaker 1>bad side. There's the freedom to do good and evil,

0:53:35.120 --> 0:53:39.480
<v Speaker 1>and that is something that this world has because He

0:53:39.600 --> 0:53:42.120
<v Speaker 1>is a God of love and has created this world

0:53:42.160 --> 0:53:44.640
<v Speaker 1>for that. Let me tie this to the last question

0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:47.960
<v Speaker 1>real quick. So I would say to this anonymous, I

0:53:47.960 --> 0:53:52.239
<v Speaker 1>would say, to your question, and as Christians, we need

0:53:52.280 --> 0:53:54.680
<v Speaker 1>to be armed with an answer of some sort we

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<v Speaker 1>can't just fumble our way to I don't know you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you're right. So to answer this, why does God?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did God create a world that has suffering? Basically

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<v Speaker 1>is what you're saying. So I'd say to relate to

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<v Speaker 1>the last question, why did Man create a game like

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<v Speaker 1>football that allows suffering and pain and blood and hardship

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<v Speaker 1>and loss and adversity and possible broken bones? Why did Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did we create a game like that? And why

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<v Speaker 1>do we still play it? That sounds ridiculous. Oh wait

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<v Speaker 1>a minute, that's the same question, because look what football

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<v Speaker 1>does to young men. It creates men that could take

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<v Speaker 1>the hill. It creates strength and bond and love and

0:54:48.239 --> 0:54:52.920
<v Speaker 1>endurance and perseverance and patience. Why do we go to

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<v Speaker 1>a gym and work out to tear down our muscles

0:54:55.800 --> 0:55:00.719
<v Speaker 1>to grow bigger ones? That everything in life revolves on

0:55:00.800 --> 0:55:04.399
<v Speaker 1>this same principle, that it takes adversity or some kind

0:55:04.440 --> 0:55:08.799
<v Speaker 1>of breakdown to then build back up. God created this world,

0:55:08.880 --> 0:55:10.880
<v Speaker 1>He created us. Don't you think he kind of knew

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<v Speaker 1>that that if you imagine a world of perfect bliss,

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<v Speaker 1>what would that be like? Will be terrible? I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not talking about Heaven. I'm not talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about this here and now. If it was

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<v Speaker 1>just everything was just fine. I was reading a study

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<v Speaker 1>or a story I think it was back in the nineties.

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<v Speaker 1>There was this experiment I think it was in Arizona

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<v Speaker 1>called the biosphere or biosphere too, and scientists created this

0:55:46.239 --> 0:55:50.879
<v Speaker 1>environment that was completely closed in and it had all

0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:53.120
<v Speaker 1>of the different trees and plants and things like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were doing an experiment to see if they

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<v Speaker 1>could create that kind of the perfect environment free from

0:56:00.440 --> 0:56:02.400
<v Speaker 1>that kind of thing, and what they could learn from it.

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<v Speaker 1>The interesting thing they found out about the trees in

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<v Speaker 1>this biosphere, and it was that after a certain after

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<v Speaker 1>they would grow to a certain maturity, these trees that

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<v Speaker 1>were full and lush and fruitful would fall over and

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<v Speaker 1>then some of them would just start to shrivel up

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<v Speaker 1>and die. And they were like, what's going on here?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's because the trees lived in an atmosphere with

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<v Speaker 1>zero adversity. There was no wind, and because there was

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<v Speaker 1>no wind, their root systems were shallow and they didn't

0:56:38.880 --> 0:56:41.399
<v Speaker 1>have to grow deep root systems, and so they were

0:56:41.520 --> 0:56:45.719
<v Speaker 1>unstable and they fell. So it's interesting to learn that

0:56:45.840 --> 0:56:50.080
<v Speaker 1>trees need adversity, They need the stress of wind and

0:56:50.200 --> 0:56:53.080
<v Speaker 1>rain and snow, and it causes their roots to go

0:56:53.200 --> 0:56:55.600
<v Speaker 1>deeper and deeper and stronger and stronger so that they

0:56:55.600 --> 0:56:59.239
<v Speaker 1>can be mature and even more vibrant. That's incredible analogy,

0:56:59.360 --> 0:57:04.120
<v Speaker 1>that's perfect. We need wind to then send our root

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<v Speaker 1>system deeper to stabilize us, and then we're more fruitful,

0:57:08.560 --> 0:57:13.480
<v Speaker 1>and then we have more vibrant lives. That's that is

0:57:13.600 --> 0:57:16.920
<v Speaker 1>the answer. And people don't people think that's so hard

0:57:16.960 --> 0:57:22.880
<v Speaker 1>to understand why God could introduce adversity or suffering into

0:57:22.920 --> 0:57:27.280
<v Speaker 1>our lives. When if you look at every time that

0:57:27.640 --> 0:57:30.760
<v Speaker 1>we go through a war in this country, imagine World

0:57:30.760 --> 0:57:35.120
<v Speaker 1>War two, we came together from that adversity. We unified

0:57:35.600 --> 0:57:37.800
<v Speaker 1>after nine to eleven, the aftermath of nine to eleven.

0:57:38.360 --> 0:57:40.360
<v Speaker 1>The flags I still see the vision of all the

0:57:40.360 --> 0:57:43.720
<v Speaker 1>flags on everybody's porch, and everyone coming together is one

0:57:44.200 --> 0:57:46.760
<v Speaker 1>to help each other and make each other stronger. And

0:57:46.800 --> 0:57:51.600
<v Speaker 1>it's those type events help make us stronger. Let's move

0:57:51.640 --> 0:57:55.640
<v Speaker 1>on to her next big question here, what are your

0:57:55.640 --> 0:57:57.480
<v Speaker 1>thoughts in marriage between a Christian and a non Christian?

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<v Speaker 1>What does the Bible say about it? Praying to God

0:58:00.800 --> 0:58:07.560
<v Speaker 1>forgot to reveal himself to my boyfriend. Uh, this will

0:58:07.560 --> 0:58:09.640
<v Speaker 1>be the last thing. And then in the podcast, Yes,

0:58:09.720 --> 0:58:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I have had this conversation with a variety of couples

0:58:13.640 --> 0:58:17.560
<v Speaker 1>through the years, and it is let me say, let

0:58:17.560 --> 0:58:22.720
<v Speaker 1>me say, is chat is you give marriage advice pre

0:58:22.760 --> 0:58:26.640
<v Speaker 1>marriage counseling, So you're you're pretty equipped for this kind

0:58:26.680 --> 0:58:29.320
<v Speaker 1>of Yeah. And one of the things that I do

0:58:29.400 --> 0:58:33.960
<v Speaker 1>with a couple is I have them picture. Let's say

0:58:33.960 --> 0:58:40.080
<v Speaker 1>their marriage is wildly successful, they have this long, happy marriage,

0:58:40.600 --> 0:58:45.160
<v Speaker 1>and I have them separately imagine who's around them. Let's

0:58:45.160 --> 0:58:48.560
<v Speaker 1>say when they're ninety and their marriage they've they've been

0:58:48.560 --> 0:58:52.080
<v Speaker 1>married maybe seventy years, and when they close their eyes

0:58:52.080 --> 0:58:55.920
<v Speaker 1>and picture who's there? What are the people experiencing that

0:58:55.960 --> 0:59:00.640
<v Speaker 1>are there? Yeah, what's the size of the people. What

0:59:01.120 --> 0:59:04.840
<v Speaker 1>does life look like in that picture? And it's interesting

0:59:04.920 --> 0:59:12.120
<v Speaker 1>that how often couples that are both believers have a

0:59:12.160 --> 0:59:16.320
<v Speaker 1>similar vision, the pictures the same, which means as they

0:59:16.720 --> 0:59:20.000
<v Speaker 1>decide things about and priorities about their life, and that's

0:59:20.040 --> 0:59:24.440
<v Speaker 1>going to lead to that ultimate successful picture, they're going

0:59:24.520 --> 0:59:27.440
<v Speaker 1>to be making decisions with the same sense of priority,

0:59:27.760 --> 0:59:32.760
<v Speaker 1>and they're going to have the same priorities. But if

0:59:32.760 --> 0:59:35.320
<v Speaker 1>a couple has a different picture of what success in

0:59:35.400 --> 0:59:38.840
<v Speaker 1>marriage looks like, that's going to be extremely challenging to

0:59:38.920 --> 0:59:42.880
<v Speaker 1>begin a marriage that's going two different directions. And so

0:59:43.720 --> 0:59:46.840
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to kids, how are we going to

0:59:47.120 --> 0:59:49.720
<v Speaker 1>discipline our kids? Are we going to go to church?

0:59:49.840 --> 0:59:52.320
<v Speaker 1>What does it look like if moms heading'to church but

0:59:52.400 --> 0:59:56.680
<v Speaker 1>dads stay home and watching football on Sunday. Those types

0:59:56.720 --> 1:00:01.320
<v Speaker 1>of things have an impact. Not that it can't be successful,

1:00:01.360 --> 1:00:04.960
<v Speaker 1>but the odds are stacked against. Statistically, if it's not

1:00:05.080 --> 1:00:07.520
<v Speaker 1>the mother that goes to church that affects the kids,

1:00:07.600 --> 1:00:10.440
<v Speaker 1>it's the father. And a father that does not go

1:00:10.480 --> 1:00:13.760
<v Speaker 1>to church, eighty percent of those kids will not go

1:00:13.800 --> 1:00:16.400
<v Speaker 1>to church when they grow up, regardless of what the

1:00:16.440 --> 1:00:20.440
<v Speaker 1>mother does. It's leadership, right, It's a leadership issue in

1:00:20.440 --> 1:00:23.600
<v Speaker 1>that regard. And so yeah, other things come into play.

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<v Speaker 1>How you spend money, prioritize spending, how you make decisions

1:00:28.120 --> 1:00:32.600
<v Speaker 1>about career and whose career and all these these are

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<v Speaker 1>all emanating out of two distinct worldviews. A Christian worldview says,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that God exists, that he's ultimately good, and

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<v Speaker 1>that he orders my days. A non Christian worldview thinks

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm in charge of things here and if it's

1:00:49.320 --> 1:00:51.360
<v Speaker 1>going to be it's up to me. And so there's

1:00:51.600 --> 1:00:56.560
<v Speaker 1>different hopes and dreams and different standards, and so it's

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<v Speaker 1>extremely challenging. It's very difficult. Anonymous dumping or we'll be

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<v Speaker 1>praying for him. That's the pastor leouds. I like to

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<v Speaker 1>say that on this podcast. Dump him. Yeah, I may

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<v Speaker 1>or may not be serious, but thank you for the email.

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<v Speaker 1>This is this We're around a campfire, just a couple

1:01:20.840 --> 1:01:25.000
<v Speaker 1>of buddies. Remember I can say to say we're buddies here,

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<v Speaker 1>not on the platform. We're on the same page. Thank you, guys. Chad,

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<v Speaker 1>love you brother, You're awesome. We are. This is episode

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<v Speaker 1>ninety seven. We're still planning on the getting together with

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<v Speaker 1>several of us on number one hundred, so we'll talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that. And yeah, thank you guys for all the

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