WEBVTT - Fat Guy #2: Episode 25 with Joe Gatto and Steve Byrne 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:06.680 If there was a problem, where to your mother? 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:10.080 And here we go again. 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:12.280 It's Two Cool Moms to the new boot boop. That 0:00:12.360 --> 0:00:13.440 was the new thing song I made up? 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:19.200 Will you please you please make that our theme song 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:19.600 from now? 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:26.639 Thank you for listening to too Cool Moms. This is 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:28.960 the Two Cool Moms. It's a podcast. I don't know 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:30.800 what I said that. 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:34.080 If somebody out there is musically gifted, could you drop 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:36.440 like just a few chords for that and loop it 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:40.559 and please make a senidence my God. Welcome to Two 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:41.200 Cool Moms. 0:00:41.240 --> 0:00:45.400 I am Joe Gatto him. Then we are here to 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:46.760 solve the world's issues. 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:50.040 Yes, one listener at a time, one listener at a time. 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:54.120 We're here for you, yes, as Cool Moms are normally we. 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:55.920 Want to be here for you. But honestly, thank you 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:58.600 guys so much for all the questions but also the 0:00:58.960 --> 0:01:02.440 questions we've answered. There's always been some kind responses, for 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:05.919 sure that we really appreciate. So it sounds like we're 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:07.760 it sounds like we're doing okay. 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:08.600 I think we're doing all right. 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:10.440 Yeah, don't complaints yet none yet? 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:12.080 Well there were, we just we just delete those. 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:13.039 What do we uh? 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:16.039 What do you have you ever brought a dilemmaty to 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:18.679 your mother that she helped you solve. Like when I 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:20.240 ask you that to something come to mind. 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:27.240 My mom is just she so this is my mom. 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:28.160 Okay, okay. 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:33.640 The last time she was at my house, she goes, uh, 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:36.959 she goes, you look tired. I go, I am tired. 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:40.440 She goes, okay, and then she just looked at me 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:44.800 one like this, O get the belly came on. 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:47.080 You're putting on a little LB's and. 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:47.720 She walked away. 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:50.040 She went, and now you've lost weight. Sorry, I guess 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:55.320 you solved your dilemma a disgusting monster. Thanks mom. 0:01:57.360 --> 0:01:59.880 I mean that is crazy to do that, the comfortable 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:02.200 to go up to somebody and just go I mean 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:05.080 I mean she made you. I mean yeah, yeah, I 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:08.200 guess about that's happy with what she made you. 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:12.480 You're a reflection of her work. She's like, ugh's what 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:14.160 I made you. 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:16.239 Never really think of it that way. That's so true though, 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:19.040 Like a woman birth you and then she's like, please 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:19.760 keep it together. 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.680 You did you did you think like I don't want 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:24.160 an ugly baby when you had your kids and like, 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:26.680 my kids are cute, right, Like everybody thinks that and 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:28.840 then everybody thinks that their babies is cute, but we 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:32.080 all know that there's there's ugly babies. So I wonder 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:34.239 how much the awareness is, Like I know, undenied that 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:37.200 my children are adorable and yours as well. We we've 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:40.960 we've hit the jackpot luckily, but there are some out 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:45.200 there that just aren't cute babies. And I wonder, Yeah, 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:50.040 the disappointment fact that right have you? You know what's 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:51.119 hard too, is like because. 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:54.080 I am so like the baby comes out, can you 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:55.520 just put it back in? And no, maybe it needs 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:56.400 to be in the oven a little bit. 0:02:56.960 --> 0:02:59.120 Every baby that comes out as disgusting, like not right away, 0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:01.959 you know. Yeah, you has the best line ever, He says, 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:06.760 every baby looks like a little Winston Churchill, but like 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:08.760 they do look like a shrinky dank you know. They're 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:11.400 like yeah, but like as they grow up and like 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:13.280 they get to that stage where they should be getting cute, 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:15.840 Like I remember what my daughter is like, come on, baby. 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:20.119 Get cute. You can do it. But you're I'm sure 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:24.280 your kids because you're right, you have. I think there's 0:03:24.320 --> 0:03:27.200 like an innate bias, right We're just like, oh, it's 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:30.080 my kid and you know of course, but yeah, I 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:30.920 mean I've seen. 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:34.200 There's some undeniably not there's some really cute babies. 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:36.760 I've seen, like babies that like I just saw so 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:38.080 somebody showed me a pictures. 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:40.280 I'm like, oh my god, that's perfect little angel. 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:43.280 But yeah, I mean you're like, yeah, you know what. 0:03:43.440 --> 0:03:46.600 You know, what gets gets? What throws off the mathematics 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:49.040 for me on it is when they have a huge nose, 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:52.680 like you see some babies with us straight up, Jimmy Duranty, 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.880 they got to can going on. That's because isn't that's 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:00.480 hard to come back from. You have to wait till 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:02.839 they get a bigger face. Yeah, they grow into they knows. 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:04.440 For most people, you. 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:05.960 Hope, so you hope. 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:06.880 So I did very well. 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:09.200 When you see an ugly baby, just like, hey, you 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:11.840 got ten fingers and ten toes, that's all. It's it. 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:14.440 If that's healthy, healthy, then we go. 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:16.560 The first compliment that people give you when your show 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:19.400 your baby, like how many fingers and toes? Staff could work? 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:20.400 That's it? 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:25.279 Oh yeah, I mean because I worked in the baby business, 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:28.839 that's right. Yeah, And I had seen some real clunkers, 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:33.520 but I'm a salesman, right, So every baby. 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.000 Comes with like a little sheets. You can pull it down. 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:37.320 She don't scare anybody. 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:40.040 This hoodie is reversible, sircar butt the hood over their face. 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:45.479 There is there was some there was some real straight 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:47.800 up flat tires out there, baby, and I was like 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:49.720 I had to battle through it. I was like, They're like, 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:51.360 doesn't my baby cute in this out And I'm like, 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:54.240 absolutely it does, like you know what I mean. And 0:04:54.279 --> 0:04:55.640 I'm like, the good thing about this carry you can 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:57.479 hold the baby backwards so people don't have to see 0:04:57.520 --> 0:04:58.839 it out of the world that could face you. 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:01.920 But it's almost like you me, you know, right, I 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:02.800 know you have to know. 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:05.360 People have to know though, right, yeah, you think people do. 0:05:05.560 --> 0:05:08.080 We're like they're repeated like is my baby and and 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:13.520 the constant looks of like yeah, baby, it's amazing. It's 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:14.760 a baby, for sure, it's a baby. 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:17.560 Yeah. But you know what I really, really really felt 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:19.760 bad was in the store, like the door opens, the 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:21.640 ding ding, and they come into the store and a 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:23.640 woman walks in with a little baby with the white 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:26.479 bow and everything. It's like everybody's losing that ship. And 0:05:26.480 --> 0:05:30.920 then oh kid, that's can we help you with the 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:33.919 next person who's this ugly baby? That's like, yeah, what 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:35.560 do you need? Do you need lotion? What do you 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:41.200 need diaper cream? Like it says no big hurrah, there's 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:44.880 no parade of fanfare. It's just it's you and your 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:46.159 monster baby. 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:48.880 So you're looking for a basket and directions to the church. 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:50.159 Is that is that where we're looking? 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:50.760 Just leave it there? 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:51.720 Yeah, the closest river. 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:53.400 Let me google map it for you. Does that you 0:05:53.400 --> 0:06:00.520 can send it down in a basket like Moses, it's. 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:09.560 Me come in, we saw it. 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:12.360 It's true though, right, it's true. 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:14.000 I wonder how people think about. 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:26.520 It everything all you get out and drive off a clip. 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:28.120 You are you are hurting our numbers here with you? 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:31.480 You know what it feels? You know too? Is like 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:35.400 I always think about this too, like when you write, 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:40.160 like when you write casting calls and there's people who 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.880 want like not pretty baby or not you like you're 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:46.039 like just in description is like unattractive or whatever. Like 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.279 people have to go casting call and be like. 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:52.720 Hi, like I'm a hot mess. 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:55.160 I want to be an actor, you. 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:55.600 Know what I mean? 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:57.560 Like I do feel bad. 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:02.960 And I did my film okay, we you know we 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:06.159 we there were roles that like asked for people to 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:08.919 be like, you know, like you were describing. And so 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:12.240 then when we were getting ready to release the film, 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:15.800 there were like two individuals that said, oh, I don't 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:17.800 I don't want to be considered like an extra. I 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:20.360 want to name in the title on the scroll. And 0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:22.400 I was like, you don't even say anything. You're just 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:25.080 there and you're there to be like part of like 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:29.000 the one girl's kind of like overweight and Jimmy thinks 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:31.560 she's pregnant, right, so he says something on baby. She's like, 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:33.200 what are you talking about. He's like, uh oh, so 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:36.680 it's like one of those things. And so so I'm like, 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:40.000 do we do this? And it was like, I guess 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:41.480 we could. I was like, well, I guess so, but 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:43.560 I was kind of like a little steamed, like you're 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:46.280 just like an extra right right still, and so I 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:49.320 was like, all right, we'll call her Taffy. And that 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:51.200 was like my revenge. It's like, all right, you want 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:52.920 a credit, then you're gonna be known as Taffy. You 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:56.240 are Taffy. You are just thinking of the worst name 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:58.680 for a girl I can think of in Taffy's to 0:07:58.760 --> 0:07:59.640 me is horrendous. 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:02.480 And in my short film, I had to, uh, there's 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:04.440 you know, there's three girls who show up in the dream. 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:05.960 That's the main girl, there's the second girl, right, and 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:08.040 then the third girl just the other girl, right. So 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:09.240 I had to write the credit. I had to write 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:11.400 credit them. And I was like, and I wrote the credit, 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:12.800 I was like other girl and I was like, that 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:15.440 doesn't sound right because they don't have names in the short, 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:18.200 you know, And I was like, I can't name other girl, 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:19.400 Like I had to think of something else. 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.080 Spirit number Yeah, you gotta throw. 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:23.800 Amb like the number three in it, like I always 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:25.600 wanted to be credited is a fat guy number two? 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:28.040 Like that's off living fault. I want to get like 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:29.800 an Avengers movie. I want to have one line and 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.960 I'm like, oh my goodness, watch out and something like that. 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:34.720 I want to be credit. It's fact guy number two, 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:36.800 even if there's not a fact guy number one, Like 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:40.559 I want to. 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:39.360 Go to it right. 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:44.560 Yeah, it is interesting, Like it did take me a while. 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:46.120 I also had this thing, and I like to dispel 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:47.800 this myth to people all the time that as soon 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:49.360 as your baby comes out, you're gonna fall in love. 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:52.520 Like I didn't. I didn't. I didn't write away for real. Yeah, 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:53.920 for real. I think we talked about this too. 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:56.719 But you're not the first guy that said that. I've 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:59.120 had another friend or two recently that I've had a 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:02.240 conversation with and he said when his uh first daughter 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:05.760 was born, he he didn't feel anything right, and he 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:08.080 said it took him a while together that I was like, wow, 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:10.679 the minute it happened for me, I was instantly in there, 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:11.480 We're going there. 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:14.000 I do feel that way about when I meet dogs, though, 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:16.160 which is interesting because I feel like a lot of 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:19.400 my rescues have picked me. Really when I did, like 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:21.440 it was really just like when I when I got Spamoni, 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:23.360 who was total one hundred percent of mind. Like I 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:25.240 was on the road in Vegas and I was sitting 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:28.320 down and getting interviewed by this company called love Pop. 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:31.079 When they have a brilliant model where they take dogs 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:35.040 that are adoptable to events and have celebrities put them 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:37.800 on their social media. So the viewership of these animals 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:40.120 that are available is huge and well pop and they 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:41.839 could find these dogs where you can find blah blah blah. 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:43.400 So I'm sitting there getting interviewed by. There's a bunch 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:45.520 of puppies walking around this ten or fifteen in the room, 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:49.240 and then here comes little Spomoni four weeks old, five 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:51.079 weeks old, comes over, just curls up right in my 0:09:51.120 --> 0:09:53.719 lap as I'm talking wow, and I was like oh. 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:55.079 I was like, oh, I'm taking this one. And the 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:56.640 guy was like, no, that's not how it works. And 0:09:56.640 --> 0:09:58.120 then Q was with me. He goes, no, that's how 0:09:58.120 --> 0:10:00.360 it works if you're Joe Gata and I went I 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:02.600 called up. I called up. I was in Vegas. Yeah, 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:04.640 we're live flying out to Phoenix the next morning, seven am. 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:06.600 It was six pm at night. Our show was at eight. 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:08.960 I called up the local petco and I said, Hey, 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:11.480 do you guys deliver? And I'm like no, I'm like, 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:13.360 do you know when practical jokers I'm Joe Gatto And 0:10:13.400 --> 0:10:14.679 They're like, oh my god, I love that show. I'm like, 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:16.840 I need you doing your solid I'm adopting this dog 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:18.640 because you do my fair put together everything. I need 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:20.640 to take it with me to Phoenix tomorrow morning. And 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:23.680 they went and they dropped it at the MGM or No. 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:26.240 And because of that fan is why I have one 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:27.920 of my favorite dogs. And I'll never forget that. How 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:31.320 awesome my fans. Isn't that crazy? Yeah, it's nuts. 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:33.120 But when they when they when they when when you 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:36.600 bring dogs right to an event and it's like can 0:10:36.640 --> 0:10:39.240 you adopt the dog? Why can't you just take it? 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:42.679 Because they have to vet you. They have to vet you, like, 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:44.280 but I'm like, oh, I'll take this dog, but you 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:45.880 have to it's like a running a credit check, like 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:47.520 to make sure you're serious about this dog. Yeah, because 0:10:47.520 --> 0:10:49.320 then they'll just get it back, you know. They want 0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:50.520 to make sure the dog funds are good home. They 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:53.839 want to you know, things like that. Some places look 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:54.320 the other way. 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:57.640 Yeah, but if you if I would think it's changes there, 0:10:57.760 --> 0:11:01.000 Oh gotcha? Yeah, yep, this is a. 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:02.199 Nice husky you got here. 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:07.000 I was. I went to a shelter with my kids. 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:12.199 We went, Oh during pandemic when people are getting rid 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:16.120 of animals or stuff or whatever. We heard like, oh, 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:18.160 you could save it. So we went and there was 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.679 this dog. Still to this day, it's like it's like, 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:23.760 oh God, there's this great line and a Citizen Kane 0:11:23.760 --> 0:11:28.320 where he's talking about could Rosebud be a girl? And 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:32.280 he's asking his former accountant and the accountant says it 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:34.400 could be, and he's like, but it's got to be 0:11:34.400 --> 0:11:37.559 somebody he knew and loved and all the stuff. The 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:39.480 reporter is trying to find out what Rosebud is and 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:42.319 the guy's like not necessarily, he's like, how do you mean? 0:11:42.400 --> 0:11:44.400 What do you mean? And I always remember this great 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:46.920 piece of dialogue. I'm going to butcher it. But he's like, 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:50.160 he's like, I remember being on the ferry and I 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:52.680 saw this woman in like in a white dress or whatever. 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:56.839 And he's like, for a month, ever since I saw her, 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:00.480 there hasn't been a day I haven't thought of her. 0:12:00.760 --> 0:12:03.160 And I see her and I don't know her, and 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:06.240 he's like, you know, it's going on about the impact 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:09.360 of just And to this day, I still remember this 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:11.840 dog in this cage. It was this beautiful dog just 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:13.760 sitting there looking at her, and I was like, I 0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:16.719 would love to that there was something that just I 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:19.920 don't know. Maybe I think there's a connection, but the 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:23.360 dog could just be like, yeah, let me get this sucker, 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:25.800 yeah just whatever. I don't know. Just you know, it 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:28.840 could be having flashbacks from like a horrible Asian family 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:30.280 try to eat it or something. I don't know, but 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:33.120 just sat there. But my wife was like, no, absolutely not. 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:35.600 I'm like, look, it's just She's like, yeah, I get it. 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:35.960 But no. 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:37.960 Well, the first one we bought was Cannoli, and Canoli 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:39.160 was in a you know, it was in a pen 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:40.839 with a bunch of other puppies at this puppy store 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:43.200 and we were looking Bessie and I were looking at 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:45.800 this other one, and Cannola just kept coming over and 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:48.719 pushing my hand, pushing the dog my hand out of 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:51.000 the way. And then we took the one dog out 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:53.360 and Bessie was, you know, playing with it whatever, and 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:54.640 I just had my hand on the thing, and then 0:12:54.679 --> 0:12:56.280 you can Only just came up and just leaned on 0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:58.560 my hand, and I was like, give me that one, 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:00.000 put this one back, hold this one for a minute, 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:02.520 and can Only just sat on Bessie for twenty minutes. 0:13:02.679 --> 0:13:04.600 The first dog was yapping, biting around, and the dog 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.320 just plopped and stayed on Bessie for twenty minutes. And 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:09.719 I was like, that's a ghatto pop right there. 0:13:10.480 --> 0:13:14.200 Do you think these dogs again, in those situations, have 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:18.360 the awareness of what's going on there, knowing the age 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:22.839 of knowing, like you know, like especially in the shelter 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:25.400 when they when they see people coming through, do they 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:28.319 know like, oh, it's my taking out of here? Do 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:30.200 you think They're just like, oh, it's just people. And 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:32.800 I'm like, yeah, i think I'm going need. 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:34.920 I think that. I think this shelter experienced it definitely. 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:37.520 But once they leave, they're. 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:37.560 Like, oh wow, what is this. 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:40.760 Then the first time that that Biscotti like jumped on 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:43.600 the couch with me right like and then just like 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:45.719 so I got I met her in the shelter and 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:47.320 I can't believe to this day I got her because 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:50.480 tail between the legs, barking, yappie really like aggressive on 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:52.240 the leash and whatnot. But I just felt it was 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:54.080 like so much love and I was like, this is 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:55.800 a good dog. It was really attached to the one 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:57.839 person at the shelter. We'll let her play with her. 0:13:57.960 --> 0:14:00.160 So then Bessie brought down Canoli. I was like, at 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:02.440 the meat. As soon as Canola came in, they ran 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:04.880 nose to nose, hotail went up, wag tails. They started 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:06.600 playing together and I was like, Okay, I said, at 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:08.760 least I'll have that. Yeah, I said, we'll start from there. 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:09.960 So I was like all right, we'll take her home. 0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:11.599 So I go to take her home, tail between the 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:13.640 legs or at me, you know, I get her on 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:16.800 the leash. She's following Canoli. We get to the house, 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:20.920 Canoli is playing on me, whatever, Piscotti looks whatever. And 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:22.560 then we just go and I keep a scout of 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:25.320 your own space. We can't try and do anything. Sitting 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:26.600 there watching TV. I have my feet up and I 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:28.600 have the picture of this be Scotty just jumps up 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:30.600 on the couch, goes on my legs into a circle 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:32.440 and just lays and falls asleep on my leg. Yeah, 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:34.480 and from that moment on, she's been my dog. I 0:14:34.520 --> 0:14:37.240 was like, and I was like, that's crazy. And you 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:39.160 could just see like the dog was like, oh, I 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:42.320 could live like this. And it was just instantly discomfort 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:44.240 And you know, it's such a different experience because the 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:47.600 shelters are just so rough. But there is something too, 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:50.000 like when you see when you get picked, you feel 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:51.480 like you feel like you get picked a lot. And 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:54.840 that's the problem with me is I've been picked so 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:59.120 many times. I gotta stop put myself in positions where 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.800 I'm getting picked. I feel like, you want to come 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:03.280 to this dog event. I'm like, the dogs there, if 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:05.440 there are, I'm not coming, yeah, because I'm gonna get picked. 0:15:05.880 --> 0:15:07.680 You're like a hot blonde man, I'm a hot blonde. 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:09.440 And then I like, look at this guy. Well, you know, 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.520 I got to finger. It's like, this guy looks like 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:13.200 it's a good cuddle. 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:18.880 But dogs humping anything makes me laugh. 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:21.880 You childhood, right, your mom got knocked over by Oh 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:22.440 that's right. 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:26.040 I love that dog. Yeah, help me, Steve, help me. 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:30.040 I was crying laughing so hard. Okay, all right, let's 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.560 get a jelly and doge. Shall we Okay, here we go. 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:36.600 It's coming to us from Turner. What's up? Joe and Steve. Recently, 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.480 before playing my instruments for an audience, I've been getting 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:41.600 really nervous. I don't know what to do about it. 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:44.320 I get really nauseous, and I'm starting to panic. I've 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:46.200 also noticed that when I have to meet new people 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:48.720 or start new classes at school, I will also start 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:50.600 to get nervous and panic. What should I do? 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:54.280 Okues, it's a little bit of social anxiety, which is 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:55.480 what it seems like it's going on. 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:59.960 But it sounds like he's in a band or performing 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:02.960 an instrument. So he's performing in front of people. 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:09.560 So stage fright on top of socials do something else. Man, 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:14.480 you're putting yourself out there in front of people. That 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:16.760 I feel like that goes with time. I feel like 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:18.320 a lot of that goes with the social anxiety is 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:20.280 a different thing. But let's talk about stage fright first. 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:22.600 I think stage fright is you get more confident what 0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:25.440 you do, no matter what it is, anything, not even 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:28.240 in front of peoples, just what you're doing. If you 0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:29.880 get better at it, you get more confident in That 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:32.080 fades for me, and I've seen that happen on people 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:34.000 that have been first time doing stand up, first time 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:36.840 doing comedy, first time acting, first time whatever, be this 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:39.280 wallflowers and then just blossom into their own once to 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:42.000 get comfortable. So I think that'll go away. The social 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:45.280 anxiety thing is you always got to think about what 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:46.000 are you anxious about? 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:46.160 Right? 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:48.640 What is the root of it? And that's what you 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:52.400 got to pull out. So are you not interesting? Are 0:16:52.440 --> 0:16:54.680 you afraid that you don't have people aren't going to 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.560 like you? Are you like what is it? Because you 0:16:57.600 --> 0:17:01.200 seem pretty cool to me in the message and self aware. 0:17:01.520 --> 0:17:04.320 Yeah, So yeah, I think you're right, though, I think 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:07.280 to distill it, it's one thing to feel nervous, right 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:10.240 and to go and everybody is nervous. Room full of 0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:13.359 strangers who wouldn't fel nervous, So just know everybody feels 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:16.600 that way. But I think to your point, to have 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:19.040 that moment of like self reflection and just sit there 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:21.480 and think about it and really try to distill what 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:24.560 is it that's causing this? Why am I genuinely like this? 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:27.720 And I think then then it's a lot easier to 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:31.760 address what it is. I mean, we're all, we're all insecure, 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:34.399