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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all

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Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stubbing good it sting together. Please,

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Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta turn you, you gotta

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Speaker 1: turn to turn them out. Turn you got to turn

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Speaker 1: them out. Then turn the water the water go. Come

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Speaker 1: come on your baby, huh. I show well a good

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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You'all listening to the voice, Come on dig

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Speaker 1: me now one it only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Here we go today. I think I have something for

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Speaker 1: a lot of people today, at least I hope I do.

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Speaker 1: And this is about on your journey, And this is

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Speaker 1: about something that happens to us all. I mean, what

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Speaker 1: happens to all of us from time to time when

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Speaker 1: we get discouraged, What happens to all of us when

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Speaker 1: we feel like quitting, What happens to all of us

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Speaker 1: when we have that turn back moment, What happens to

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Speaker 1: all of us when it don't seem like it's gonna

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Speaker 1: pan out. Because I want you to understand something that everyone,

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Speaker 1: every single living soul, has those thoughts about something at

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Speaker 1: some point point in their life. I mean, you know, look,

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Speaker 1: I've oftentimes been discouraged about things not happening as fast

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Speaker 1: as I like them. All things don't pan out the

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Speaker 1: way I would like for them to have panned out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's so many ways to get discouraged. But

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Speaker 1: but what my encouragement to you is when discouragement comes

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Speaker 1: is understand this. It is a part of the growth process.

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Speaker 1: It is a test. It is a test of your faith.

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Speaker 1: How bad you want it, do you really believe? That's

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Speaker 1: all faith is. It's simply and I've said this how

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Speaker 1: many times. Faith is to belief in things that you

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Speaker 1: cannot see. So when discouragement comes, setbacks comes, it is

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Speaker 1: a test of your faith. At least it's been that

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Speaker 1: way for me. Now other people can explain it another way.

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Speaker 1: I'm not other people. I can only give it to

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Speaker 1: you the way it has come to me and throughout

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Speaker 1: my life, and man on man on man. Discouragement sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's tough to deal with because it seems at times

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Speaker 1: when you are discouraged that is so absolute that this

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Speaker 1: means the end, and if you allow it to set in,

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Speaker 1: it can be just that the end of you. When Milly, Milly,

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Speaker 1: it was a test, That's all it is. But the

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Speaker 1: majority of people that I know who are not successful

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Speaker 1: gave up, it was because at a moment of discouragement

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Speaker 1: that they allowed it to set in and it became

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Speaker 1: And then they started justifying it with hither one that

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Speaker 1: I hate to hear. Well, if if it's God's will,

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Speaker 1: excuse me. If it's God's will that you fail. If

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Speaker 1: it's God's will that you're not successful. If it's God's

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Speaker 1: will that you lay down and give up, it's God's

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Speaker 1: will that you allow yourself to amount to to not

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Speaker 1: reach your potential. That's God's will. That's not the God

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Speaker 1: I know. That's not the God I served. That's not

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Speaker 1: believe in. I'm sorry. I just my mother always taught

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Speaker 1: Now have I convinced myself or some things, yep, have

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Speaker 1: all of that. But you can't blame that on God. Now,

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Speaker 1: it if you can, as a test of your faith,

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Speaker 1: and you merely have to pass the test. It could

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Speaker 1: That's your job. If you do that, that's how you

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Speaker 1: the discouraging feeling. And how do you do that? Steve?

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Speaker 1: I start talking to myself like that, I think, think

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Speaker 1: I'm just giving you different ways to look at it.

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Speaker 1: then I go, where can this lead to? If I

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Speaker 1: stay with it? Man, and the outcome comes true? What

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Speaker 1: else could that lead me to? Because I mean, there's

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Speaker 1: me to? What are the possibilities? Man? What are the

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Speaker 1: limitless possibilities? What could God possibly have in store for me?

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Speaker 1: be another one. Life ain't none but a series of tests. Man. Man,

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Speaker 1: when you're thinking about giving up, when you're discourage, think

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Speaker 1: lead to? What? What can this get you too? If

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Speaker 1: What are the limitless and endless possibilities of holding on

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Speaker 1: out as always. They know, damn vacation. His whole job

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Speaker 1: is a vacation, Ladies and gentlemen. Without further ado, the

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Speaker 1: all for and first take what is all set? Take

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Speaker 1: off here? Cold dude, I like take off. I like

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Speaker 1: quay voter, I like all. I like all of them,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. But we is the other me goals,

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Speaker 1: cause it's three over us trace that me goes Colin

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Speaker 1: for I want to be Cardi Beato. What's up? Good morning,

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Speaker 1: hey Steve, what's up? Nephew? Okay, tholmost smiles. We can't

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Speaker 1: get cut your mic on? Oh hell day Amy Offset

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Speaker 1: In a comedy world, that's me, that's me, that's me. Yeah, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's Thursday. How are you feeling Steve this morning? You

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Speaker 1: know I'm good. I wake up good. You know I

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Speaker 1: You suck a lot of people are my friend has

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Speaker 1: been moved to a regular room. Here we go. He's

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Speaker 1: out of our CEU. He's in the regular room in

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Speaker 1: the hospital, so that's probably good. Can we talk to him,

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I guess you know. Yeah, I'd like

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Speaker 1: to tell you now, you ain't gonna like the story? What? What? What? What?

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Speaker 1: After you get out of the hospital, I'm gonna I'm

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Speaker 1: can get some more people get these vaccinations. Man's staying

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Speaker 1: a serious man. Yeah, And this is a friend of

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Speaker 1: it's got something for you. Yeah? Hell yeah, so that's

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Speaker 1: another thing. Sorry. Yeah, Well, prayer healing for your friends.

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Speaker 1: When we come back at thirty two after the hours, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna kick off. Ask the CLO right after this.

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Speaker 1: Why they don't never asked me nothing? You're listening to Okay,

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Speaker 1: time now Steve for ask the CLO. That is you,

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Speaker 1: my brother. This one is from Harper in Nashville. Harper says,

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Speaker 1: old like me. I'm not the most physically fit person

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Speaker 1: But my wife is lazy, a complainer that wants to

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Speaker 1: I like it. But I'm concerned about growing old gracefully

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Speaker 1: tell her real suthing. You're the love of my life.

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Speaker 1: You're my soul maid. I love you, and I want

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Speaker 1: us to grow old together, soul. I want us to

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Speaker 1: start doing some things together that might keep us here longer.

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Speaker 1: I think we should get on her eating regiment together.

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Speaker 1: I think we should go on walks together. Though. I

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Speaker 1: you know, stuff like that. But you've got to make

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Speaker 1: that's pointing at saying, oh no, sir, no, sir, don't

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Speaker 1: do that. So when she when he say all that, dog,

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Speaker 1: so you're trying to say I'm big. That's what you're

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Speaker 1: But no, I'm just worried. I just want us to

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Speaker 1: have the best quality life that we can have healthy. Yes, yes, keywords.

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Speaker 1: Tommy and his wife Mina coolness. They aren't big on bathing.

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Speaker 1: This is not a print, you know, because you could

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Speaker 1: boy right there. It's it's your own show and all that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: prankback what you got, nephew, This right here is called

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Speaker 1: your bobbecue. Ain't right? No, no, no, Carller, you don't

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Speaker 1: ain't right. Let's go cat. Hello, Hello, trying to reach Gerald. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this Jill who's calling? Man? Hey Gerald? This this is

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't want to subscriptions and nothing. Brother,

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Speaker 1: no subscript since you calling my some subscription and something. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, man, you you've been grilling every day.

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Speaker 1: Seemed like over there, I've been smelling the smoke in

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Speaker 1: the Are you you you over there putting it down? Huh?

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Speaker 1: I mean I think thank you for the compliment. But um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know who who gave you my number? Though? Uh

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Speaker 1: it's a down on your street? Last name Edwards. I

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Speaker 1: So you you cooking smooth? Man? I could. I burned

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Speaker 1: What what are you been cooking? Since? Since? Since we've

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Speaker 1: I can smell it. I can smell a wood in

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Speaker 1: Smell good? And did you just come out of nowhere cutting?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I knew we're all going crazy right now,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this. You ain't gonna cut that. Okay, cool, cool,

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna cut no more. Cool, But let me

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Speaker 1: No modg you gonna tell me what the two? You

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Speaker 1: you're gonna smell it. How about that? Man? Okay, man, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: because because you got the smoking add to smell like

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Speaker 1: I'm doing. Have you tasted it? I don't want to

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Speaker 1: taste it. I don't want my set off the bone.

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Speaker 1: I've been experimented. Okay, Okay, I did put some apple sauce.

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Speaker 1: See that right there? What the kids that you did?

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Speaker 1: What with some apple sauce? Hey man, don't put you

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Speaker 1: YouTube videos you can learn how to bobecue because you're

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Speaker 1: me what to do if your food is tight? While

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Speaker 1: the whoop your ass. You ain't got how about that?

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Speaker 1: Hey man, Hey, this this nephew tim Me from the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harbin Morning Show. Your cousins can started this. Your cousin,

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Speaker 1: your cousin, trait guy got me to frank you man,

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Speaker 1: that mother came over here gotta play yesterday. They were

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Speaker 1: ready the corner, snicking with my eyes just for nothing. Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now. He no, he ain't

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Speaker 1: hate all, no more. We didn't socially distance his ass

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Speaker 1: gotta tell me this right here, right here, right now, Gerald,

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Speaker 1: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio

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Speaker 1: show in the land. Come on, brother, the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show man with this nine shit talking about my

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Speaker 1: foolish suffice. Oh my god, oh my god. You know what.

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to say it, but dog go

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Speaker 1: I can't hi the that you are coming up entertainment

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Speaker 1: and national news. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: So you know, we've been watching Olympics and someone Biles

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Speaker 1: everybody has been supporting her decision to pull out of

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Speaker 1: the Olympics, the individual games, the team we know. She

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Speaker 1: pulled out the USA gymnastics team, the female team. They

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Speaker 1: She's just in a different place, she said, she says,

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Speaker 1: dealing with some things and she didn't want to hurt

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Speaker 1: herself hurt the team. Well check this out, guys. The

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Speaker 1: Texas Deputy Attorney General, his name is Aaron Rates. He

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Speaker 1: has sparked outrage on social media. He tweeted that Simone

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Speaker 1: Biles was a national embarrassment after her withdrawal from the

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Speaker 1: Tokyo Olympics. Ye got to do with the Olympics. How

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Speaker 1: dare him tweet something like that? You know, he's trying

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Speaker 1: to say that she's selfish, and he compared her to

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Speaker 1: other gymnasts in the early nineties. Her name was Kern

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Speaker 1: compare Simone Biles to carry Strug. Carrie tweeted that she

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Speaker 1: an ankle injury. She has an injury that's going on

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Speaker 1: internally that we know nothing about. Secondly, this Deputy Attorney

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Speaker 1: General with his missque Lass position, has other things he

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Speaker 1: should be concerned about, like voting rights. But I bet

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Speaker 1: if you concerned about Simone Bows, you don't give a

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Speaker 1: damn about voting ranks. And I can ensure you're voting

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Speaker 1: we've got that part of it out the way, you

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Speaker 1: Who do flips? Right? What she don't want to? Shan

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Speaker 1: won't play no more right, she won't go home. She tired.

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Speaker 1: It is. She don't want the pressure, no mold. Whatever's

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Speaker 1: going on with her, it's really none of our business.

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Speaker 1: She pulled out of the Olympics after all that preparation

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Speaker 1: possibly be wrong? And so you know, I mean, but

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Speaker 1: really we're talking about the Olympics. What y'all talking about?

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Speaker 1: You don't look man, When Clay Thomas got injured for

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Speaker 1: the Golden State Warriors in the middle of it, Clay Thompson,

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Speaker 1: he went out Jamal Mary with the Denver Nuggets, he

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Speaker 1: got injured, he went out. The Brooklyn Nets didn't get

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Speaker 1: to play in the finals because they had injuries. The

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Speaker 1: still something is wrong. It's an injury that takes people's out.

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Speaker 1: The tennis player, what's her name, she pulled out because

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Speaker 1: she had an injury that you can't see, y'all stupid,

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Speaker 1: she flept. You want a gold met take your monck

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Speaker 1: ass over there and win one, mister Attorney General. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you don't even do nothing, and you passing judgment on

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Speaker 1: people who them. She's one of the greatest gymnasts of

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Speaker 1: all times. She'll won't do it no more. You go

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Speaker 1: over there and get go over there and get a

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Speaker 1: damn medal yourself, Yes, sir, Time for today headlines Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's go man, ladies and gentlemen, miss and triumph. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get to that one. Good morning, everybody, here

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Speaker 1: we go. President Biden is to announce later today that

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Speaker 1: all Americans should start masking up again, even vaccinated people,

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Speaker 1: and that, of course is because of that of the

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Speaker 1: variant that's going on to coronavirus, which is very very

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Speaker 1: very very contagious. No real surprise though. Republican House Leader

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Speaker 1: Kevin McCarthy's critical of the CDC's new mask requirement that

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Speaker 1: even vaccinated people should wear masks indoors. McCarthy calls the

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Speaker 1: reinstitution of restrictions quote a decision not based on science.

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Speaker 1: How Speaker Nancy Pelosi A reportedly called McCarthy a moron.

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Speaker 1: When asked about it again by the press, she put

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Speaker 1: it like this. To say that wearing a mask is

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Speaker 1: not based on science, I think is not wise and

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Speaker 1: that was my comment. Certainly, the Republican Party has been

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Speaker 1: delinquent and embracing the science that people need to be vaccinated,

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Speaker 1: and she says, you know, if everything is evident, Oh,

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Speaker 1: we talk about Republicans again. Texas Deputy Attorney generally just

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Speaker 1: heard of a little bit about that from Stephen. The folks.

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Speaker 1: Aaron Rights has sparked outrage on social media for tweeting

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Speaker 1: that uber athlete Simone Biles is a quote national embarrassment

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Speaker 1: unquote because she's announced her withdrawal from this week's Tokyo Olympics.

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Speaker 1: No word on whether she'll participate in next week's Individual Apparatus,

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Speaker 1: a competition just one day after withdrawing from the team

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Speaker 1: division because of mental stress of Biles, who was a

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Speaker 1: Houston native, and says she is pulling out of the

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Speaker 1: games for at least for this week. She says her

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Speaker 1: body's but her mind is not, and the Texas AG

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Speaker 1: calls her a selfish, childish, national embarrassment. Wealth folks on

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Speaker 1: social media coming down hard on this guy, demanding that

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Speaker 1: he apologize, and so are her teammates. They support her,

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Speaker 1: they support the young athlete. Olympic spokesman Mark Adams says

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Speaker 1: there'll be everyone behind her. There is in the village,

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Speaker 1: on top of all the psychologists and so on that

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Speaker 1: we have there there is also a helpline in seventy

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Speaker 1: languages which will keep going after the games, and that

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Speaker 1: Deputy Age has since removed his little nasty tweet. According

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Speaker 1: to a published report, the architect of the Florida condo

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Speaker 1: that collapsed last month, killing ninety eight people, was reportedly

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Speaker 1: suspended for gross incompetency years earlier because of the structural

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Speaker 1: failures associated with another work of his. William Friedman designed

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Speaker 1: the cha Champlaining Towers South, and the Florida Board of

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Speaker 1: Architecture found this guy, Freedman, who died in two thousand

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Speaker 1: and eight, guilty of gross incompetence. It's important to mention

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Speaker 1: that the officials haven't really determine the exact cause of

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Speaker 1: the collapse or whether Freeman's design paid roll. But I

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Speaker 1: just you need to know that today's visited a neighbor day.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. I'll bring you some cupcakes. Now back to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steven Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, check this out, guys. Charles Barkley says the

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Speaker 1: only people who don't have the COVID nineteen vaccines are

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Speaker 1: just well buttholes. But he said a hole, said Carl.

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Speaker 1: He said a hole. Char said, people that don't get

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Speaker 1: the vaccine, asshole, thank you, thank you. That's it was

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Speaker 1: my honor. Well check this out. While appearing on see

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Speaker 1: c NBC I should say, Charles Barkley said, I'm vaccinated,

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Speaker 1: on to say he personally thinks that the sports leagues

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Speaker 1: you imagine if one of these guys that are not vaccinated,

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Speaker 1: if they were, you know, they want these players or

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Speaker 1: their kids, or their wives, or their girlfriends or their

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Speaker 1: parents get sick and die over some unnecessary conspiracy bull blank,

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Speaker 1: that's sir. Charles said, I don't understand somebody else on

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Speaker 1: the team, and you got all these people around you,

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Speaker 1: I don't understand them not getting vaccinated. That makes no sense.

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Speaker 1: You know, you playing day in and day out, you

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Speaker 1: know that this virus is deadly, and you don't want

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Speaker 1: to You don't want to protect yourself and anybody around you.

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Speaker 1: That don't make no sense to me. It not only

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Speaker 1: don't make no sense if you playing basketball on the

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Speaker 1: team sport, it don't make no sense if you're part

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Speaker 1: of a family right to see. Yeah, your loved ones. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's it's it's more non athletes than it is athletes

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Speaker 1: that's walking around not vaccinated. And I started to on

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Speaker 1: this show not to push the vaccination because I was

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Speaker 1: getting so many friends of mine gonna, hey, man, Steve,

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Speaker 1: and ain't right for you to push that you don't

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Speaker 1: know what's in it, sending people off to slaughter. Well,

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Speaker 1: now that several very very close people in my life

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Speaker 1: have contracted COVID, and a very very close person in

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Speaker 1: my life it's in the hospital right now suffering been

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Speaker 1: in I SEU five days with COVID. They just moved

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Speaker 1: him to a regular room. I was able to talk

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Speaker 1: to him. He said, Man, I wish I got that vaccine. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Now there's a report out somebody told me as I

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Speaker 1: haven't seen it, but somebody said that most people who

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Speaker 1: are in the hospital now who have contracted COVID, who

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Speaker 1: do not have the vaccine, every last one of them

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Speaker 1: has said I wish I had taken the vaccine now,

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Speaker 1: because see, once you get hospitalized, those symptoms and got serious,

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Speaker 1: very serious. This is a serious, deadly diseased. My in

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Speaker 1: laws who are in their eighties got vaccinated. The nurse

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Speaker 1: that goes to their house gave them COVID. They didn't

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Speaker 1: even have to go to the hospital now pre existing condition,

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Speaker 1: and the doctor clearly stated if they had not got

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Speaker 1: this vaccine two weeks ago when we celebrated their sixty,

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Speaker 1: if we're in the anniversary, might not be having it.

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Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to show as we get older, you guys,

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Speaker 1: the family dynamic tends to turn with you know, kids

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Speaker 1: suddenly feeling the need to look after and take care

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Speaker 1: of their parents regardless of the relationship that they have

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Speaker 1: with them. Well, this one mom doesn't think that that's

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Speaker 1: the case. She's gone viral sharing her opinion on TikTok

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Speaker 1: and she recently posted a video where she expressed her

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Speaker 1: belief that kids don't oh parents anything and it quickly

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Speaker 1: saying that she's grateful for what her mom has done

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Speaker 1: for her, but she's just saying that children don't owe

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Speaker 1: their parents are certain kind of relationship, they don't owe

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Speaker 1: them anything depending on what the parent did for them

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Speaker 1: or if the parent didn't respect them or they didn't

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Speaker 1: have this relationship. So I don't know, what do you

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Speaker 1: guys think? Do you think your kids owe you something

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Speaker 1: for raising them? Or Steve, you're really good at this.

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Speaker 1: What kind of advice can you give to parents out there?

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Speaker 1: I think we kind of talked about parenting the other

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Speaker 1: day during closing remarks. What do you think? I mean? Look,

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Speaker 1: parenting can be a thankless job at times. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: wouldn't it be great if it was? Or not? But

632
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 1: if it was a thankful job, I'm grateful for my parents,

633
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: the life and the love and the discipline and the

634
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,760
Speaker 1: lessons they taught me. Yes, I'm grateful to my parents.

635
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 1: I am forever grateful, and I felt indebted to them

636
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: because what they gave me got me to where I

637
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 1: am today. My mother gave me faith, and my daddy

638
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 1: gave me work, ethic and the principles of manhood. Them

639
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 1: two things are the cornerstone of who I am today.

640
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: So now I feel an obligation to them now, just

641
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:27,439
Speaker 1: like Tommy, me, every man that I know that's worth

642
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 1: They salt when they get their hands on their money.

643
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 1: They won't do something for their mom. They won't do

644
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 1: something for their daddy. Anybody I know, every man that

645
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: I know is worth is salt. So I don't know

646
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: where you know, this is a new generation, this generation

647
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 1: the kids is different. Man. And you know, I got

648
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: you feel like you don't owe but where's your sense

649
00:41:55,719 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: of gratitude for what was done to you? Because everybody

650
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: don't get great parents, and if you get a pair

651
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: of great parents, you blessed. You're very fortunate. And I

652
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,439
Speaker 1: think too, this is a cultural thing. Because this woman

653
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: was on TikTok and I looked her up. She is white,

654
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: and I think that for us, we talk about as

655
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: African Americans, the responsibility and the gratitude that we have

656
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:33,280
Speaker 1: for our parents. How we no, it's not a burden,

657
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: but it's just what we do. You know, how do

658
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: you understand what I'm trying to say as a as

659
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: a culture thing and what we do with that with

660
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: our parenting and take care parents. Look, we come up

661
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 1: in a way where I felt like I owed my parents,

662
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: That's what I mean, that's it. Yes, you know, and

663
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: I respected them and honored them. I honored my mother

664
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: and father. Now you may feel like you don't owe

665
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: your parents nothing like they do, and what they're supposed

666
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 1: to do. But I think when you're the recipient of

667
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 1: a great parent, I think you're blessed, and I think

668
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: that should be some level of importance. And I think

669
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: if they took care of you when you needed it,

670
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 1: I think you should take care of them when they

671
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: need it. That's your go hand in hand because your

672
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: mom and daddy could have walked off from your monkey ass,

673
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: but if they stayed there, then help guide you through

674
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 1: some tough times. You can't do the same thing for

675
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: them when they get old. I just I just think

676
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: we've lost our sense of respect and responsibility a lot

677
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 1: of times. And you know, the woman, she can say

678
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,320
Speaker 1: what she wanted to say. She got every right and

679
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: she got every right to feel that way. But I disagree.

680
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 1: I would think that, after all I've been and done

681
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: for my children, that if I got old and needed something,

682
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: they would be there for me. And I'm banking at

683
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: least three of them to do that. What about the

684
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: other four? You're not quite sure you wrote for that? See, yeah, yeah,

685
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: parenting is like you said, it's a thankless job sometimes.

686
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: But I love my parents, love my mama, all right.

687
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: Coming up next, the nephew is here. We're gonna switch gears.

688
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: You got today's prank phone call right after this you're

689
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at the top of the hour,

690
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after Shirley is off today. But

691
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 1: check this out. She left us with a strawberry letter

692
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 1: and the subject is my first dating mistake. But right,

693
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: don't we all? Yes, yes, don't we all? Never this? Right?

694
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 1: Here is Sarah? Is it seg You know it's not segregated?

695
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: What will you braking somebody about segregation? I don't know,

696
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: but Sah, it's Sarah Grant, mother of segregated mother. I

697
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 1: can't but but it's it's okay, Sarah got or segregated

698
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: night you either did this? What hull you did it

699
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:17,320
Speaker 1: without hub? I don't know, Sarah Grant are segregated? Okay,

700
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 1: Sarah Gant, Okay, Sarah Grant mother. I don't know why

701
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: they made don't we're so close together that I wouldn't they?

702
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,360
Speaker 1: Who let me ask you something? Who is over words?

703
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: And where here's we never were here about them? But

704
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 1: we never see welt? Where is welt? Why is a

705
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:45,839
Speaker 1: stupid step? Well? Its weftstu? Bye, Sarah Grant mother? Here

706
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: we go come. Okay, huh yeah, Roger, can I see

707
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: to Roger? Hey this Calvin Man? How you doing? I

708
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 1: go to the same church y'all go too, Okay. I

709
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 1: got your number from one of the guys at the church. Man.

710
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 1: They told me that if I wanted to talk to y'all,

711
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:03,920
Speaker 1: I could reach out to you or whatever. How you

712
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: doing today? I'm good, man, I'm good. I can help

713
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 1: your your wife, man, does she I'm not trying to

714
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: be disrespectful anything, but she seems to be real fit?

715
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: Does she? Does she work out all the time? Yeah?

716
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 1: She go to January once in a while. Bro? Yeah?

717
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: Who who is this? Bro? Like I said, I name

718
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 1: Calvin Man. We go to the same church. Listen, me

719
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: and my wife been trying for a long time. Many

720
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 1: actually have some kids. And to be honest with you,

721
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 1: Roger Man, it just ain't happening. Dog. I mean we've

722
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 1: been trying and trying. But what I'm trying to do

723
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: now just find another type of way to make this happen. Now.

724
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: You say your wife is in good condition, right, my

725
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 1: wife kid isn't good condition. Brother. What does she got

726
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 1: to do with you and your wife trying to have

727
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: a baby? She You know, y'all already got kids, don't you.

728
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 1: Y'all got like from what the brothers the church told me,

729
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:52,840
Speaker 1: y'all got three kids right there? We got three. I

730
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 1: got two boys in the girl. Okay, here's what I'm

731
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:59,399
Speaker 1: trying to do, man, I was hoping that I could

732
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,879
Speaker 1: find somebody, a female that would be a good seagant

733
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 1: mother or what you know. What I'm saying is like

734
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: because my wife, I mean, you know, we want to

735
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 1: have kids, man, we want to have hold on, brother,

736
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 1: you just said you you're looking for a seragant mother.

737
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 1: And the brother the church told you to call me. Well, no, no, no,

738
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: anybody tell me to actually call you. I asked them

739
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: about you and your wife. You know, I asked them

740
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: for your phone number so I can actually call you myself. Man,

741
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: wait a minute, So you've been you've been I and

742
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: my wife? No? No, no, no, no, no, I ain't been.

743
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: So you're looking at it wrong. Listen. What I was

744
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: saying is that your wife just seems like a healthy,

745
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: healthy person. I want to be able to have a

746
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 1: healthy child. Man, I really do, man, that me and

747
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 1: my wife. We listen, you called me about my wife

748
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: and you want her to be a Seragant mother for

749
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 1: your wife. I don't even while me on the phone. Brother,

750
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: here's the real deal, man, me and my wife we

751
00:47:56,680 --> 00:48:00,120
Speaker 1: can't have kids. We tried and tried and tried, and

752
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: you know, biologically, we've just been going through it and

753
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: going through it man. And I was just you know,

754
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 1: I've seen your wife. She healthy. I see y'all at

755
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 1: church all the time. And I was just like, reach

756
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 1: it out, man, maybe somebody wouldn't mind being the Saragan

757
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 1: mother for for me and my wife so we can

758
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 1: have a child. I'll figured Sarragan mother, I mean, dog,

759
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 1: hold on the brother, you calling me to see if

760
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: my wife can be a Saragon mother see your child?

761
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 1: And I know it's crazy. It's crazy, and and I

762
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: think you your mind. Brother, out of all the members

763
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 1: in the church, you're calling me to get my wife

764
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 1: to have your baby. Dog. I know it sounds crazy, man,

765
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 1: I do, but I ignorant, brother, I'm tying you sound ignorant. Man.

766
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 1: There's so many place to go at doctor baby. I

767
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: can take you down to the county court, I can

768
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: show you kids need a doctor right next. But you

769
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: can go to Africa like like like all the rest

770
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: of them. People can gonna find your baby. You're gonna

771
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 1: call me and my wife. It's twenty thousand members in

772
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: this church. You know how stupid you say? Brother? No brother, brother,

773
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: a man, listen, man, I'm not trying to come across

774
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 1: like that. Man, how are you trying to come across

775
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 1: the brother? You didn't done it? Just hear me out, man,

776
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 1: I don't want you to go ahead, brother, go ahead, man, Okay,

777
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,720
Speaker 1: we're looking for a Sarah grand mother. We look, we've

778
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: seen your your wife, and we thought she'd be a

779
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,760
Speaker 1: great Sarah good mother. And I know it sounds crazy

780
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: for me to pick you out of all the people

781
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:28,800
Speaker 1: that go to the church. I understand that, man, I do.

782
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 1: But listen, we would love for your wife to be

783
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: the seagant mother. And we're willing to pay for this. Man,

784
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: But listen to them if you don't mind. We don't

785
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: want to do this with no test tubes and all

786
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: that way. They mixed my seed with her with with

787
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: with her egg. We want to do this naturally. War war,

788
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 1: war war, you just said. Man, you gotta understand a

789
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 1: real man want to do I want to do it realistically.

790
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm just saying that, brother, Holder,

791
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,839
Speaker 1: are you telling me that you want to have sex

792
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: with my wife? But I mean, I mean you know

793
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: you don't want to lose all my Christianity right now? Brother?

794
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:09,919
Speaker 1: You want to have a baby the real way, though,

795
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I don't give a damn

796
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: having this fake way. You tell me you want to

797
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 1: lay down in a ball my wife, but dum, you

798
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 1: already got three kids. Think about the people that can't

799
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: have doctor baby. Man, take your daring. Ain't gonna doctor

800
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,280
Speaker 1: damn baby because you didn't go sit down, psychiatric problem.

801
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 1: I don't want to have your baby. Do you know

802
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:32,359
Speaker 1: what you sound like? Don't crazy? I know it sounds crazy, man,

803
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: I do How do how do you get my number? Man?

804
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:38,240
Speaker 1: To mean you get my number? I got your number

805
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: for one of the brothers at the church. Now listen,

806
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just be real with you like a man.

807
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 1: I wanted to come at you first and talk to

808
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 1: you like a man and see you know if you

809
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: was cool with the proposition. But look, come Sunday, I'm

810
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: gonna go to your wife and just talked on what

811
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go I'm just gonna talk to your

812
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: wife and say you lost your mind. I told you

813
00:50:57,719 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: to answer no, Nay said me gonna go around me.

814
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 1: Which I I'm gonna do is talk to my wife.

815
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: You call my wife. You right now, if you called

816
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 1: my wife, I'm gonna tell you what's really gonna happen.

817
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: You call my wife and wife next Sunday. I'm never

818
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: gonna didn't go through this, mon I'm talking to her

819
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 1: next Sunday. Next Sunday, I'm ana whoop you. You ain't

820
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 1: gonna do nothing to me. I'm anna whop your men

821
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:20,479
Speaker 1: and my wife who desid for time too? You ain't.

822
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna stand in the middle of this. I'm

823
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,320
Speaker 1: the middle of this. Man, You talk to my Wife's

824
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 1: next thing you want too? I got one more thing

825
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: I want to say to you. Man, Is you listening

826
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: to me? Say? What the you gotta say? You can

827
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:36,879
Speaker 1: get off my phone. This is nephew tim Me from

828
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You just got pranked by

829
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: your homeboy? What this is? Who this is this? Listen?

830
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 1: Who is this man? This nephew tim Me, man from

831
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 1: the Steve Hobby Morning Show. Your home boy got me

832
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:03,439
Speaker 1: to Frank phone call you. Man. I'm over here. Man,

833
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: my head is spinning. Got me. I'm ready to fight. Brother. Hey,

834
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: I got one more thing that dog man, what is

835
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 1: the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in

836
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: the plan man to Steve Harvey Morning show Man, y'all

837
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: got me this morning man? Got me Man, Tommy, you

838
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: yeah too much. You were calcarn and Roger. But when

839
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 1: you talked him, you wanted to add a baby naturally,

840
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: not Sarah. That was it. You're gonna if you if

841
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,840
Speaker 1: you're gonna have a baby, I think you should have

842
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,919
Speaker 1: it naturally. You know, you know, you your wife, y'all.

843
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: You know, y'all gonna do some issues. But I think

844
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: you ought to be able to be that. They ought

845
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 1: to be able to let you man up on making

846
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:53,800
Speaker 1: your baby. I just think so. I just think you

847
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: should the wrong with fat treatments and there's nothing wrong

848
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: with doing it. But this right here, that's right here. Yeah,

849
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:05,320
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with this right here. I

850
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 1: think we should do it naturally. You know, you know

851
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 1: what I mean. Let you know, let me get in

852
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: here and make that baby, you know, let me put

853
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: some effit in Let me put some you know, some love,

854
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: and I can't put no love. And if you don't

855
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: let me, let me put my back in it and

856
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 1: really know, so when my child come out and be like, yeah,

857
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,800
Speaker 1: yeah I made him, not just like you know she

858
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,319
Speaker 1: did it all by herself, I want to. I mean,

859
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 1: I mean, you are really I'm really concerned. It's really

860
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:34,359
Speaker 1: as I don't I don't understand. I don't understand the problem.

861
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: I really don't understand the problem. Up next, Today's Strawberry Letter.

862
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It

863
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,800
Speaker 1: is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you

864
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, on sex, on work, on dating, unparenting,

865
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 1: on more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey

866
00:53:56,080 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. All right,

867
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: let's get it. Buckle up, hold on tight. We got

868
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: it for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter, subject

869
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:10,240
Speaker 1: my first major dating mistake with brothers, dear uncle Steve

870
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: and Aunt Shirley. I am a young female that graduated

871
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 1: from high school two years ago. Yeah, and I am

872
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 1: in a sticky situation. You see, after graduation, I met

873
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: a guy on an online app and we texted back

874
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: and forth and decided to spend some time together. We

875
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: ended up going on dates and messing around a lot.

876
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 1: He is a really great person, but he was not

877
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: the one for me, so we ended our fling. We

878
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: stayed in touch for a while through text messages, but

879
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 1: that was about it. Last November, I met a new

880
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,919
Speaker 1: guy and he and I are in a committed relationship,

881
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: so things were great until we went to a New

882
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 1: Year's Eve party and the guy from my past was

883
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:55,879
Speaker 1: at the party. As if it were not awkward enough

884
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,800
Speaker 1: seeing him, I found out that this guy and my

885
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: boyfriend are brothers. We allowed my boyfriend to introduce us,

886
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 1: and neither one of us gave away our big secret.

887
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,399
Speaker 1: I may be overthinking this, but I do not want

888
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 1: this guy to drive a wedge in my relationship by

889
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 1: telling his brother about all of the wild stuff we

890
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 1: used to do. It's been very awkward whenever all three

891
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,840
Speaker 1: of us are around each other. I think I should

892
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: come clean and mentioned to my new guy that I

893
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: used to mess with his brother. Do you think that

894
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 1: he knows already and likes me so much that he's

895
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 1: not saying anything. I don't want my past to ruin

896
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:35,799
Speaker 1: our future. I really value your advice, so please help me. Well,

897
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 1: so far he hasn't told his brother, right, So what

898
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: makes you think he's gonna tell him at all? I mean,

899
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 1: I do think you're overthinking this a bit. If you're

900
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 1: truly in a committed relationship, like you say, it might

901
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 1: not matter to him. He hasn't mentioned it to you.

902
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:53,360
Speaker 1: You haven't said that in the letter that he's mentioned

903
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: it at all. So I think you're a young lady.

904
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,360
Speaker 1: I think you need to know and you'll learn in

905
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 1: life that stuff is going to happen. Steph happens in

906
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 1: life that you have absolutely no control over. And I

907
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 1: think that's just what happened here. You met his brother first.

908
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 1: You guys were both very young. You've matured now, you've

909
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:13,919
Speaker 1: moved on as people do. You said in your letter

910
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:16,439
Speaker 1: he was not the one for you, so you guys

911
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 1: ended it so to you. I just say, stop feeling guilty,

912
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:22,839
Speaker 1: Stop feeling some kind of way when you're with your

913
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: new man. All of that. I mean, life goes on.

914
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,400
Speaker 1: Let this go live your life. Stop worrying about the past.

915
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: If it comes up, you can say that was a

916
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: long time ago. It's over. You know it's just over.

917
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: Sorry I didn't say anything, but it's over. It didn't

918
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 1: mean anything to me. We're together now, Steve, Well that

919
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: came from your aunt Shirley. Yes, that's real, nice, hopeful,

920
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: optimistic response. Lets you feel better about yourself and all

921
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 1: that now. Because you are a young female, I want

922
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 1: to try to do the same thing for you, but

923
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:02,880
Speaker 1: you enough stick situation. This guy that you ended up

924
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 1: going on the date messing around with a lot, really

925
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 1: great person, but he was not the one for me,

926
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 1: so we ended it. But you stayed in touch for

927
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 1: a while through text message. Well we all know what

928
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 1: was on new text message, what they was doing. You

929
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 1: know they were sexty, they were on show mission maber

930
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 1: that time you and all that time. Last November, I

931
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: met a new guy. He and I ain't a committed relationships.

932
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: Things great to the New Year's Eve party. The guy

933
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 1: from your past at the party. Awkward enough you find

934
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: out this guy and your boyfriend our brothers. We allowed

935
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: my boyfriend to introduce us, and neither one of us

936
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 1: gave away our big secret. I'll be overthinking. I might

937
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: be overthinking this, but I do not want this guy

938
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 1: to drive awadge in my relationship by telling his brother, well,

939
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 1: now let me tell you something. The first brother that

940
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 1: you slept with, he ain't doing nothing wrong. You said

941
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: it was. He was this great guy. He just wasn't

942
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: the one for you, so you ended your fleeing. Now,

943
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 1: you don't want this guy to drive away in my

944
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:11,840
Speaker 1: relationship by telling his brother about and hit a crazy

945
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 1: part about all the wild stuff we used to do.

946
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 1: See that asked where we how wild was it? Exactly

947
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 1: what was you doing? It's been awkward whenever three of

948
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: us around each other. I think I should come clean

949
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 1: and mentioned to my new guy that I used to

950
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: mess with his brother. Do you think that he knows

951
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: already and likes me so much that he's not saying anything?

952
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 1: You can take that out your mind. That ain't how

953
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 1: men work. Do you think he knows already and likes

954
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:51,439
Speaker 1: me so much that he not saying anything? What? Hey

955
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 1: don't know? Your boyfriend don't know nothing about this. I

956
00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: don't want my pass ruin my future. I really value advice,

957
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 1: so please help me. Here's two things you got going

958
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 1: for you. Number One, your boyfriend's brother may not want

959
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 1: to hurt his brother by saying something. If he thinks

960
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: his brother's happy, so maybe he won't say nothing. On

961
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 1: the other hand, he may not want to hurt his

962
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:22,480
Speaker 1: brother by not telling him, because if it come out,

963
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 1: he's gonna be looking up beside his brother's head. The

964
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 1: best thing for you to do is shut your damn mouth. Now,

965
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 1: this is taking a page from the men's playbook. Why

966
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 1: would you bring up an issue that ain't an issue?

967
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: Why would you tell the truth when saying nothing at

968
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:48,919
Speaker 1: all sounds much better. I'm gonna repeat that. Why would

969
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 1: you tell the truth when saying nothing at all sounds

970
00:59:54,520 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 1: so much better? Shut your damn don't say nothing. Hear

971
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 1: your boyfriend act like you ain't never seen that other day,

972
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 1: And then if it come out, just say I didn't

973
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: know until I saw him at the New Year's Eve

974
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 1: party and I was too embarrassed. I felt horrible. That's

975
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:20,440
Speaker 1: all you can do. And then throw yourself at the

976
01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 1: mercy of the court. When we come back, Jay and

977
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 1: I will do reenact me. All right. We'll have part

978
01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: two suns and Jay's gonna step in as well when

979
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 1: we come back at twenty three after the hour. Right

980
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to all right, Steve, let's recap

981
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letters subject my first major dating mistake with brothers.

982
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 1: This girl met a guy online, dated him, had an affair.

983
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 1: It was pretty hot, did a lot of while stuff.

984
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 1: Found out they wasn't for each other. They broke up.

985
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 1: They stayed in til they text each other for a

986
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: little while. She meets another great guy. Everything going fine.

987
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:03,360
Speaker 1: They go to the New Year's Eve party and the

988
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: guy she used to date was there. Come to find out,

989
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: the two dudes is brothers. Now she messed up her

990
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 1: Boyfrid introduced him as his new woman and his brother.

991
01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 1: They both kept their secret a secret. They didn't say

992
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 1: nothing to each other. Maybe the brother don't want to

993
01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: hurt his brother and ain't gonna ever hurt him by

994
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:25,520
Speaker 1: telling him. Maybe it could be y'all secret, but we

995
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 1: don't know. Then again, he may have to tell his brother,

996
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 1: because man, I can't let you go on not knowing this,

997
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 1: because if it ever come out, I can't let you

998
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 1: know that I knew this. Your only play that I

999
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: think is if it comes out. I didn't know y'all

1000
01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: his brothers until I met y'all at New Year's Eve,

1001
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 1: and I was humiliated and batrassed I didn't know what

1002
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: to do, and I've been shaking in my boots until

1003
01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 1: this came to life because I didn't want to lose you.

1004
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 1: You're the best thing ever happened to me. He gonna

1005
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 1: leave you, but that you want to Try to say

1006
01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: that though, Try to get that in and cry while

1007
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 1: you see. But his asses go. If his brother tell him,

1008
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 1: it's gonna be messed up. Man. So here we are

1009
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 1: at this moment. I am gonna play the boyfriend who's

1010
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: having some suspicions because y'all act a little strange around

1011
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 1: each other. Jay is gonna be the girl trying at

1012
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 1: all costs to keep me off this subject. No problem, Hey, baby,

1013
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 1: can't talk to you about something yet about you know,

1014
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: every time I see you and my brother around each other, y'all,

1015
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 1: y'all that kind of strange. What strange strange? You know,

1016
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 1: y'all y'all seeing like you know, y'all, y'all don't really

1017
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:45,680
Speaker 1: be friendly with each other, you know, be kind of distance. Brother,

1018
01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 1: know your brother cool with me? I like your brother.

1019
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 1: Ain't know you had a brother, y'all know, y'all know

1020
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 1: you don't know I had one boy. I introduce you

1021
01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: at the New Year's Eve party, and I remember back

1022
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 1: looking at the party, seemed like y'all was just sort

1023
01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: of like, so you look, you look real sick. No,

1024
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 1: not at all. Wasn't shot. No, not me, No, yeah no, baby,

1025
01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 1: I'm taking that well baby, because you threw up. Oh well,

1026
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 1: I was just look sick. You know, I had the

1027
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 1: bean dip. It was just like setting on my stomach,

1028
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,000
Speaker 1: but ginger on top of that. And I can't take

1029
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 1: being different. Baby. You didn't need that. You didn't. You

1030
01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:27,920
Speaker 1: didn't need that to ask first, got to introduce you

1031
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:29,920
Speaker 1: to my brother. As soon as you looked at him,

1032
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 1: you started trying to hold it in and threw up

1033
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:36,439
Speaker 1: and you threw that was that beanp The bean dip

1034
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: had been one no being dip baby, because they didn't

1035
01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 1: bring the bean dip out right there. You ain't got

1036
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 1: the yeah your brother up the hold on, hold on,

1037
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Have you ever met

1038
01:03:51,560 --> 01:04:00,479
Speaker 1: my brother before? I ain't ever seen your brother? Hi, baby, brother, baby,

1039
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:02,440
Speaker 1: you're in a whole another octave right now? What's that

1040
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:13,360
Speaker 1: what you're crying for? I just asked you have you

1041
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 1: met my brother before? I'm saying I got to tell

1042
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 1: you ain't your brother, and you know I gotta upset stomping,

1043
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:26,479
Speaker 1: keep asking me? So you keep talking about this episode something,

1044
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: this being deal. Damn it's September. Now what did you

1045
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 1: keep talking about this? Bean? Dip you head? Not for what?

1046
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: You crying phone? Just answer the question. Have you ever

1047
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Speaker 1: met my brother before? Baby just came, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby,

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Speaker 1: Just calm down. Don't worry about that. Look, I probably

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01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 1: ain't nothing, you know. I was just asking you know,

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01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 1: I look crime all this hill, it ain't nothing. Just

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01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 1: to get out said something. Baby, Come on now, I'm

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01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 1: just a little up. I know, I know, I know,

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01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: I know, I know you had to be deal. Look

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01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 1: excuse me. Okay, hold on, I want to im I'll

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01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 1: tell you what. Don't worry about it. I'm gonna ask

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01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 1: my brother righten up on right now? Yeah, yeah, you're

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01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:54,919
Speaker 1: here on the way over here because we gonna go out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: ain't coming on. I'm just gonna ask him because I

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01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 1: don't want to set you. Oh he gonna you ask me?

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01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 1: Ask him? No, I ain't gonna asking nothing for you. No.

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Speaker 1: This my brother, Me and my brother we talked. Hello, Hello, Hello,

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01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 1: oh from so bad. Hold on, I've been sitting there.

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01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: I kept saying to myself, Well, when did that bean

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01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 1: I get to do? I? Oh oh have for with brother. Listen,

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Speaker 1: we gotta wrap this up. Guys, email us your Instagram

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Speaker 1: us your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter at Steve Harvey

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01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 1: at m Are. You can go to my Instagram, My

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01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:48,280
Speaker 1: Girls Shirley at My Girls Shirley Coming up at forty

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01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:52,920
Speaker 1: six after the hour from the Talk our girl, Sheryl Underwood.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the

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01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 1: top of the hour. I will have my reality update.

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01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 1: But Steve right now, put your hands together. Whole twenty dollars, Steve,

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01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 1: how you know? That's exactly when they called me living

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01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 1: whole twenty dollars like I all the but I need

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01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 1: y'all help. Carlifarrel, that's going to listen. So you know,

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01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: last time men and Junior had a fight, we broke up.

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01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:29,480
Speaker 1: It's over. Well, okay, I got turned out by the youngness. Uh,

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01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 1: Carlin Farrell, you know anybody named Junior? You know? Yeah? Yeah,

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01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 1: he turned me out with the youngness. Then he got goes.

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Speaker 1: I haven't talked to Junior. Where is it have y'all seen.

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01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 1: Have y'all talks up? Because I haven't got it not

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01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 1: see about the cuss. Steve Harbit swept for lord about

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01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:49,640
Speaker 1: the cuss. You said it right? He on vacation. He

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01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:52,440
Speaker 1: ain't asked me to go. No, I'm trying to the cuss.

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Speaker 1: What what if y'all broke up? Then it's over. Then

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01:07:57,240 --> 01:08:00,760
Speaker 1: he just went on vacation. He's been playing in a vacation.

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01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 1: When we was together and he playing a vacation. There

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01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 1: is Steve ding ding ding ding ding. That's why you're

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01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:10,920
Speaker 1: the host of the biggest game showing the world, because

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01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:17,640
Speaker 1: right because up there, that's what I think. So, now

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Speaker 1: that junior doesn't drop kick me to the curb, I

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01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 1: will start dating my age range. If you over the

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01:08:24,280 --> 01:08:27,120
Speaker 1: age of fifth, that last your girl. Now, if you're

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01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:30,240
Speaker 1: in your seventies, that made me a young tender running Tommy.

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01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:33,520
Speaker 1: So how lift? But wait a minute, I need some requirements.

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01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 1: I need some requirements. Well, first, I can't date no

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01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:43,080
Speaker 1: more juniors. I gotta date cleophassists. If your name is

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01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 1: on anything his story, if your name got phone last

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01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:55,200
Speaker 1: names put together, you know, like Franklin Jefferson Woodrow's Franklin,

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Speaker 1: Jefferson Woodrow. That's up my alley right now, that's what

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01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: if you get excited, Steve Hobby that we're going over

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01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:05,000
Speaker 1: to mister Alberts to get you a soup for church.

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01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 1: Shut up and we go and after church, we're going

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01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 1: to the Hole in the wall. That's who I'm dating

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01:09:12,080 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: right now. That girl, that's right, that's right, that's the okay, Steve,

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01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:20,560
Speaker 1: that's right, Steve, give me some tips that day in

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01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:23,679
Speaker 1: my age. Right if you're driving au on the quarter,

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01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 1: diving in the back subroottop, they're gonna see you with

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01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:28,800
Speaker 1: the gates of League and you got the eight tract

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Speaker 1: tape of it in your car. Right now, I'm dating you.

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01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 1: If your name Theodore, Yah, Teddy, but they call you

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01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 1: Teddy Pete. They got your name and they call you

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01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:48,599
Speaker 1: Teddy to be Yeah, if you ever met little Milton, Yeah,

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01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:54,959
Speaker 1: little blue bird, that's right. If your name is Milton,

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Speaker 1: I'm dating you, right, we gotta go, crazy woman, I

1116
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 1: got reality updates. Stick around. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, get ready, and it is that time.

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01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:13,960
Speaker 1: I said, it's that time. Buckalove and hold on tight.

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01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:18,120
Speaker 1: She is here, call a faroll with what reality update?

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, nephew, thank you. I miss my

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01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:24,320
Speaker 1: girl saying wait wait, wait, wait, wait, let me do,

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01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:28,679
Speaker 1: let me do okay, coming in hot, I thank you, nephew.

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Speaker 1: Let's get crackhead. Let's talk about Real housewives or Potomac

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01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 1: and then we're gonna talk about love and marriage hunts

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Speaker 1: me okay, wait wait wait my Potomac. No, I don't

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Speaker 1: really know. Geographically, I don't know, but so I'm in

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01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 1: I'm in DC shooting ready to love the next season.

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Speaker 1: Right there you go. So's it Potomac Hill? Is that?

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01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:48,439
Speaker 1: Where is that? Where it is? Yes? DC? Is it

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Speaker 1: by my apartment? I don't know where the Potoma where

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01:10:51,080 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: is it? I don't know if the Potomac River is

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Speaker 1: by your apartment. I don't know. I just ask it.

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01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:58,519
Speaker 1: What I look outside, I don't really see no water.

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01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 1: So I mean, where is the one? You gotta look

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01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:04,879
Speaker 1: for it. You gotta look for a crazy man. Let's go, Robin.

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Speaker 1: And she has been I don't know, she's been kind

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01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:10,960
Speaker 1: of depressed on the show. She's been sleeping in late

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01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 1: and her fiance, who is her ex husband the father

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01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:18,040
Speaker 1: of her children, they are getting remarried. One he is,

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01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 1: you know, he's encouraging Robin. Come on, you gotta do better.

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01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:24,759
Speaker 1: You gotta get up. You gotta take care of the kids.

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01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:29,400
Speaker 1: And she said, you to the pandemic, homeschooling, the routine, cooking, cleaning.

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01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:32,640
Speaker 1: She's been kind of depressing, sleeping in late. So a

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01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:34,720
Speaker 1: man is telling her, come on, mama, I need you.

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01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:36,400
Speaker 1: You gotta do a little bit better. So we'll see

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Speaker 1: what's happening with Robin. I'm sure a lot of women

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01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:41,639
Speaker 1: can relate to what Robin was going through. It was tough.

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01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:44,639
Speaker 1: It was tough. So she just laying around and how

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01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:48,320
Speaker 1: you're laying around, ain't doing fan around. Yeah, but it's

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01:11:48,680 --> 01:11:50,360
Speaker 1: I think it's a mental thing. You know, we've been

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01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:53,760
Speaker 1: talking about mental health and self care and all that,

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01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 1: so I think it's a lot of that that's going

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01:11:56,240 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: on with Robin. I mean, she's cooking anything, and she

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01:11:58,680 --> 01:12:02,200
Speaker 1: cleaning up. When she lar she doing anything to help

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01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:06,519
Speaker 1: the household. She said, not seeing that for you. You

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01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:09,639
Speaker 1: gotta you gotta be fair. Now, she she's she has

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01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 1: her issues and she's gonna talk about that. When a

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01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:14,240
Speaker 1: man lay around and how he lays and he just

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Speaker 1: lays run out. Sorry, sorry, right trifling, So it's okay,

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Speaker 1: house she ain't got it is, yes, it is? She

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Speaker 1: cooking or everybody all they just getting food delivering? How

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01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:33,559
Speaker 1: they doing this? Chick fil A, A lot of Chick

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01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:36,639
Speaker 1: fil A, A lot of chick But those things, those

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01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:40,760
Speaker 1: are such the nicest people. Yes, yes, my pleasure, Chick

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01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,960
Speaker 1: fil A. Let me move on real quick. Wendy, she

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01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 1: got her boobs and her booty done plastic surgery, so

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01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:48,759
Speaker 1: I said, okay, then Wendy giving it to the people

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01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:51,240
Speaker 1: at the same time. Did she get it done at

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01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:55,840
Speaker 1: the same time? I think she did. She kind of

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01:12:55,960 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 1: played around when she revealed what she had done, and

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Speaker 1: Robin was like, girl, you know you had your booty done.

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Speaker 1: You do not have a button color. How much is

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01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:05,640
Speaker 1: a booty though? What do a booty call? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: because mine, I'm good, so I didn't have to look

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01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 1: that up. I didn't answer that. Already enough already, and

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Speaker 1: you and Shirley, you and Serles straight, we're good, right good?

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01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:19,040
Speaker 1: And Mississippi Monica straight now one of y'all top the top. Okay,

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01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:21,360
Speaker 1: let's move on, let's move on, let's move on, all right,

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Speaker 1: So you know what, Wendy though she has issued with

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Speaker 1: Miya the new cast made on the show. The new

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01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:30,320
Speaker 1: cast member a Karen's friend. I don't know. She keeps

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01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 1: coming for her. She does not like her. Mia is beautiful.

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01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:36,760
Speaker 1: She says she's had a lot of placid surgery. She

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01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:40,080
Speaker 1: is younger than her husband is about a thirty year difference.

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01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:46,640
Speaker 1: She's had everything done, including her private part area priastic surgery.

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01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:49,360
Speaker 1: Mia has had all of that done. So we're like,

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Speaker 1: all right there, girl, So we gotta see what's going

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01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 1: on with that. What's going on with Jazelle and Karen?

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01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:57,759
Speaker 1: They absolutely hate each other. So we will be watching

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Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Potomac and Quile before we run out

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01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 1: of time. Nephew. The new season on the own Network

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Speaker 1: of Love and Marriage Huntsville. Martell and Melody, they are back.

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01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 1: Marceu and Titha, they are back. There's a new couple

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01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:17,840
Speaker 1: on the show, Tiffany and her husband Lewis. So they

1195
01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:20,600
Speaker 1: are teasing what's coming up. The season is back, but

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01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:23,040
Speaker 1: you've got a chance to kick it with him this season.

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01:14:23,120 --> 01:14:29,880
Speaker 1: Who I got reality update? I got all the tea baby,

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01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:34,599
Speaker 1: just getting this information from Carlo's reality update always coming

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Speaker 1: in hot. So we will be watching Love and Marriage

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01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:41,760
Speaker 1: Huntsville on the own network looking for the nephew. So

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01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:44,840
Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour, make sure you come back.

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01:14:44,920 --> 01:14:47,720
Speaker 1: We'll talk about more trending topics and also follow me

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01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 1: at lips by Carlo. We'll be back at twenty. Actors,

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01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:58,959
Speaker 1: you're listening, so listen. You guys know the actors Ashton

1205
01:14:59,080 --> 01:15:03,840
Speaker 1: Kutcher and his wife Mila Coolness, Well, listen to this.

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01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:06,840
Speaker 1: They aren't big on bathing. Did you say no, Steve,

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01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:08,200
Speaker 1: you didn't know who they were, did you? I mean,

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01:15:08,240 --> 01:15:10,720
Speaker 1: I know who he is. I don't know her. You

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01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:13,200
Speaker 1: know when you see it, she's she's an actress, that's

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01:15:13,240 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 1: his wife. So they just as well listen. You heard

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01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:18,760
Speaker 1: about this right, Tommy. They were on a podcast and

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01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:22,080
Speaker 1: they just got real about their beauty routines. And the

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01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 1: couple revealed that they only wash souls and holes every day,

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01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 1: so yeah, they don't take baths that often. They only

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01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 1: watched souls and holes every day, and the same goals

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01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:41,920
Speaker 1: for bathing their kids. They said that there's no point

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01:15:41,960 --> 01:15:44,639
Speaker 1: in bathing the kids all the time unless you literally

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01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:47,040
Speaker 1: see dirt on them, and that's what they said what

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01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 1: they did with their newborn. And when he was with

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Speaker 1: Demi Moore, he didn't do that. He took a whole baith.

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01:15:53,400 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 1: He was this behind Oh damn bail. Then he wasn't

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01:15:56,880 --> 01:15:59,200
Speaker 1: having this. Yes, she wasn't having that. What is just

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01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:01,240
Speaker 1: half ass half and you bathe and you're doing this?

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01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:04,240
Speaker 1: Don't make no sense? Are we getting pumped? Are we

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01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 1: getting pumped? No? No, this is everywhere. I saw the

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01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:13,439
Speaker 1: story trending and I'm like, they only wash souls and holes.

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01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 1: That's a little too much information the right, Steven feet right,

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01:16:21,479 --> 01:16:25,920
Speaker 1: so they're doing those holes, your holes, and then there's

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01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:31,560
Speaker 1: of course there's that one, then there's that. Yeah, we

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01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:38,200
Speaker 1: gotta go more of the Steve Harb. Yeah, you're listening

1231
01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:43,040
Speaker 1: to show, all right, check this out, guys. Charles Berkeley

1232
01:16:43,200 --> 01:16:47,000
Speaker 1: says the only people who don't have the COVID nineteen

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01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:52,240
Speaker 1: vaccines are just well buttholes. But he said a hole,

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01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:58,000
Speaker 1: said Carl, he said a hole, Le said, people that

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01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 1: don't get the vaccines asshole. Thank you, thank you. That's

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01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:13,000
Speaker 1: a little it was my honor. Well I check this out.

1237
01:17:13,040 --> 01:17:16,799
Speaker 1: While appearing on seeing CNBC, I should say, Charles Barkley

1238
01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 1: said I'm vaccinated, and everybody should be vaccinated period. The

1239
01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:25,719
Speaker 1: only people who are not vaccinated are just a holes.

1240
01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:28,920
Speaker 1: Sir Charles went on to say he personally thinks that

1241
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 1: the sports leagues should force players to get vaccinated, and

1242
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 1: he said, can you imagine if one of these guys

1243
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 1: that are not vaccinated, if they were, you know, they

1244
01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:42,479
Speaker 1: want these players or their kids, or their wives, or

1245
01:17:42,520 --> 01:17:45,800
Speaker 1: their girlfriends or their parents get sick and die over

1246
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 1: some unnecessary conspiracy bull blank. That's Sir Charles said, I

1247
01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:55,040
Speaker 1: don't understand somebody else on the team, and you got

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Speaker 1: all these people around you, I don't understand them not

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Speaker 1: getting vaccinated. That makes no sense. You know, are you

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Speaker 1: playing day in and day out, you know that this

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Speaker 1: virus is deadly, and you don't want to You don't

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Speaker 1: want to protect yourself and everybody around you. That don't

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Speaker 1: make no sense to me. It not only don't make

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Speaker 1: no sense if you playing basketball on the team sport,

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Speaker 1: it don't make no sense if you're part of a family.

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Speaker 1: Right to see, it's it's it's more non athletes than

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Speaker 1: it is athletes that's walking around not vaccinated. And I

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Speaker 1: started to on this show not to push the vaccination

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Speaker 1: because I was getting so many friends of mine gonna

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Speaker 1: hay Man, Steve, and ain't right for you to push

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Speaker 1: that you don't know what's in it, sending people off

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Speaker 1: to slaughter. Well, now that several very very close people

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Speaker 1: in my life have contracted COVID, and a very very

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Speaker 1: close person in my life it's in the hospital right

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Speaker 1: now suffering been in I SEU five days with COVID.

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Speaker 1: They just moved him to a regular room. I was

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Speaker 1: able to talk to him. He said, Man, I wish

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Speaker 1: I got that vaccine. Wow. Now there's a report out.

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Speaker 1: Somebody told me as I haven't seen it, but somebody

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Speaker 1: said that most people who are in the hospital now

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Speaker 1: who have contracted COVID, who do not have the vaccine,

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Speaker 1: every last one of them has said I wish I

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Speaker 1: had taken the vaccine now, because he once you get hospitalized,

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Speaker 1: those symptoms then got serious, very serious. It's a serious,

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Speaker 1: deadly diseased. My in laws, who are in their eighties,

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Speaker 1: got vaccinated. The nurse that goes to their house gave

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Speaker 1: them COVID. They didn't even have to go to the

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Speaker 1: hospital now pre existing condition, and the doctor clearly stated

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Speaker 1: if they had not got this vaccine two weeks ago

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Speaker 1: when we celebrated their sixtieth were in the anniversary, we

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Speaker 1: might not be happy. Coming up, it will be our

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Speaker 1: last break of the day and Steve Harvey will have

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Speaker 1: his closing remarks, and that's coming up at nine after

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Speaker 1: the hour. You're listening to, Okay, Steve closing remarks, the

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Speaker 1: last break of the day, you know, Man, I was

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Speaker 1: thinking about this, and I'd gotten into a conversation with

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Speaker 1: a few young people yesterday at work and we were

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Speaker 1: talking about becoming successful. And they asked me, They said,

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Speaker 1: mister h what do you think is one of the

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Speaker 1: key components to being successful? And I wanted to try

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Speaker 1: to share with them in a different way than I

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Speaker 1: normally do, because you know, people think I'm repetitive, but

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Speaker 1: you the principles of a success are not going to change.

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Speaker 1: You can find more clever ways to say it, but

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01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:46,880
Speaker 1: they're the same principles. And I told them, I said,

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Speaker 1: you gotta get good at suffering and then with what?

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Speaker 1: And I said, yeah, if you want to be successful,

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Speaker 1: you're going to have to get really good it's suffering.

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Speaker 1: They said, please explain that, because don't nobody want to suffer?

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Speaker 1: I said, that's true. Nobody wants to suffer. But in

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Speaker 1: order to be successful, you got to get comfortable being uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: And they were young, and they were just really honestly

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Speaker 1: asking me, but why are you saying that? I said,

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Speaker 1: because everything you want in life, everything you consider success,

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Speaker 1: it's on the other side of some discomfort. You've got

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01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 1: to break through the wall of discomfort in order to

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Speaker 1: get to whatever it is you want. I don't care

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Speaker 1: what it is. If you want to win the strong

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Speaker 1: man contest, you got to get uncomfortable. If you want

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Speaker 1: to win a gold medal in the Olympics, you got

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Speaker 1: to get uncomfortable. Boat. If you want a college degree,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get uncomfortable. You want to climb

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Speaker 1: the corporate ladder, you gotta get uncomfortable. You want the

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Speaker 1: top position down at your job, you got to get uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: You want to make the track team, the basketball team,

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01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:25,960
Speaker 1: the baseball team, you gotta get uncomfortable. You want to

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Speaker 1: one day get the world record in the high jump,

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01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:32,599
Speaker 1: you gotta get uncomfortable. You want to break you same

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01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:39,559
Speaker 1: boats record, you gotta get uncomfortable. I don't care who

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Speaker 1: you are or what you do, but if you have

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Speaker 1: any aspiration of being successful, you gonna have to get uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Because let me tell you something. If you stay in

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Speaker 1: your comfort zone, that's exactly where you will failed. Stay there,

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01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:02,360
Speaker 1: Stay in your comfort zone, and watch what happened to

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01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:04,840
Speaker 1: you that you're gonna fail in that thing right there,

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01:23:06,040 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 1: because there is no success in comfort. Getting successful and

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Speaker 1: having something in life and wanting more in life is

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Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. That's why I told him early on, I said,

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Speaker 1: you got to get good at suffering. So I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you something about Steve Harvey. You can say whatever

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Speaker 1: you want to say about me, but I'm good at suffering.

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Speaker 1: And you got to say, well, that's a stupid thing

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Speaker 1: to get good at. Okay, call it stupid if you

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Speaker 1: want to, But I got good at it. And what

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Speaker 1: makes me be able to sustain and fight through all

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Speaker 1: the things that have happened to me because of God's

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Speaker 1: grace and his mercy and his strengthening me. But the

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Speaker 1: strength he gave me, he gave me an ability to suffer. Well, Oh,

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Speaker 1: Steve harn know how to suffer. I have set within

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Speaker 1: this thing with nothing but me and God so many times,

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Speaker 1: so many days, so many weeks, so many years. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't nobody but me and him. I've learned how to suffer.

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Speaker 1: If you don't get into learning how to deal with

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Speaker 1: suffering and discomfort, you're not going to be successful. I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry to tell you that I wish there were another way.

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01:24:28,680 --> 01:24:32,240
Speaker 1: But everything that you want in life is on the

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Speaker 1: other side of some discomfortable, something discomforting. You got to

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Speaker 1: break through the wall of discomfort. You got to break

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01:24:40,200 --> 01:24:43,160
Speaker 1: through the circle of convenience. You've got to break through

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01:24:43,240 --> 01:24:46,080
Speaker 1: the moments of suffering to get to what you want

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Speaker 1: in life. You want to keep your relationship together, you

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01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:52,840
Speaker 1: got to get in there and get uncomfortable. You got

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01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:55,240
Speaker 1: to start talking about the things that y'all don't really

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01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:58,200
Speaker 1: want to talk about. You got to open up the

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01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:00,720
Speaker 1: can of worms that you wish would keep lead on it.

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Speaker 1: That's if you want your relationship to last. Because I

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Speaker 1: don't care what relationship you're in, you're gonna hit the

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Speaker 1: point where you're gonna have to talk about some uncomfortable things.

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Speaker 1: You want to save your money for a new house,

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01:25:13,080 --> 01:25:15,280
Speaker 1: you got to get uncomfortable. Why I got to get

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable save money for a new house because you can't

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01:25:17,680 --> 01:25:20,640
Speaker 1: go spend like you want to. Now, you got to

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Speaker 1: put some money away. And if you want to put

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Speaker 1: some money ways me and you got have to cut

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Speaker 1: back on something that ain't comfortable, that's uncomfortable. And I'm

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Speaker 1: just talking to you about small things. Oh but don't

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Speaker 1: mess around and want nothing big in life. Don't sit

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01:25:37,080 --> 01:25:40,640
Speaker 1: up here and decide you really want to be successful.

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Speaker 1: Let's say you consider success being a millionaire. Let's just

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Speaker 1: say that's not the definition of success. But let's just

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Speaker 1: say you want to be a millionaire. Can I tell

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Speaker 1: you something. You got to get ready to suffer because

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01:25:55,439 --> 01:25:57,799
Speaker 1: they're not printing that money out there and then mailing

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Speaker 1: it to people's houses. You got to go and do

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Speaker 1: some serious things to acquire a million dollars, and then

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Speaker 1: you got to do some even more serious things to

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Speaker 1: hold onto it. And then you got to get even

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Speaker 1: more serious if you want to acquire some more. So y'all,

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Speaker 1: here's what I'm telling you, and please don't take it

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Speaker 1: the wrong way. But if you have any aspirations or

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Speaker 1: becoming more than what you are right now, you got

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Speaker 1: to get out your comfort zone and you got to

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Speaker 1: get comfortable being uncomfortable flat period. That's all to it.

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Speaker 1: And when you get uncomfortable, Before you get uncomfortable, you

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Speaker 1: need some God, don't wait till you're uncomfortable to call it.

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Speaker 1: Start that relationship. Now those are my clothes and remarks.

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Speaker 1: I hope it helps you. In the meantime. You got stick.

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Speaker 1: Go see y'all tomorrow. Bye for all. Steve Every contests

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Speaker 1: US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated.

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.