1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARBFM dot com and 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buck love and hold on time. 9 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: What are you singing? Steve Teams been through? 11 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. All right, let's get into the letter. 12 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, nef subject. I was there the whole time. 13 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been with the same man for 14 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: six years, and his two sisters love to hate on me, 15 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: and my boyfriend does not take up for me. He 16 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,319 Speaker 1: had a cookout this past weekend and I was at 17 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: his house that morning to help him get his house 18 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: in order. I was vacuuming and I turned around too 19 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: quickly and pull something in my back. My boyfriend gave 20 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: me a mild muscle relaxer and I went to lie 21 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: down in his room. That was at ten in the morning. 22 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: I woke up groggy around two thirty and texted my 23 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: man to see how things were going. He never returned 24 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: the text. I went back to sleep and woke up 25 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: around five pm. Mind you, I'd been sleep all day 26 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: and hadn't eaten anything or had anything to drink. I 27 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: texted my boyfriend again to ask if he would bring 28 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: me something to drink. He ignored my text again, so 29 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: I went to the bathroom and got back in bed. 30 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: I had taken off my wig and makeup, so I 31 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: couldn't go up front. Around seven, I woke up and 32 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: put my wig on and stumbled into the kitchen because 33 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: I was hungry. As soon as I saw my boyfriend, 34 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: I cursed him out. His little sister said I was 35 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: disrespectful to come in there fussing like I did. I 36 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: told her I had been there the whole time, and 37 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: nobody cared. My boyfriend laughed and said he didn't tell 38 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: anyone that I was in the bed. He also lied 39 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,919 Speaker 1: and said he didn't see my text messages, even though 40 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: he always has his phone in his hand. His older 41 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: sister said, I love to make a scene. My boyfriend 42 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: agreed with her. I can't win with this family. I'd 43 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 1: never treat my boyfriend like that? Why didn't he tell 44 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: his sisters that I was there? Is he the problem 45 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: or his hating sisters? Well, I got to tell you 46 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: in this situation, it sounds kind of like you're the problem. 47 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: I mean, you don't come out of the room all day, 48 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: and when you do, the first thing you do is 49 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: curse your man out, especially you know, with no makeup, 50 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: you're probably you're wig wasn't on rite or whatever. I mean, 51 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: it was disrespectful what you did, Like his sister said, 52 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: that's his house, not yours. And what did you think 53 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: his sisters would say when you come out looking and 54 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: acting like that? Yes, he was wrong for not checking 55 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: on you number one and for not answering his phone 56 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 1: number two. He should have texted you back. But stuff 57 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: like this has been going on for six years, right, 58 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 1: you said he doesn't take up for you when his 59 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 1: sisters talk about you and hate on you and stuff. Well, 60 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: as you can see, nothing has changed, and that doesn't 61 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: seem like it's going to change. I think you need 62 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: to change and you need to rethink this whole relationship 63 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: situation because he's not taking care of you, so you 64 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 1: need to take care of yourself. Steve. 65 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 2: Oh, these type letters I love right here. I just 66 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 2: want to shy. I know you do. I was there 67 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 2: the whole time. 68 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 3: Now, she says, I've been with the same man for 69 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 3: six years, and his two sisters loved to hate on 70 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 3: me and my boyfriend don't never defend me. He had 71 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 3: a cookout this past weekend. I was at his house 72 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 3: that morning to help him get his house in order. 73 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 3: I was vacuuming. I turned around too quick, and I 74 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 3: pulled something. 75 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: In my back. 76 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 3: Now that means that we all have a little age 77 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 3: on us. These ain't twenty year old. Things that happened 78 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 3: twenty year olds. Vacuum turn around real quick and just 79 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 3: see what's back. Then, right, all the people turn around 80 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 3: real quick, and sugar honey, ice tea start happening. 81 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 2: So now we know there's a little age on you. 82 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 3: My boyfriend gave me a mild muscle relax, and I 83 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 3: went laid down in the room. 84 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 2: So now let's keep track of it. 85 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 3: We got a little age on us. 86 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 2: Two. 87 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 3: We not in shape, okay, because if you turned around 88 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 3: while I use vacuuming too quick and pull something, you're 89 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 3: not in shape, and you got a little age on you. 90 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 2: I'm just tallying that. What's wrong here? That was at 91 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 2: ten o'clock in the morning. 92 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 3: I woke up groggy around two point thirty fall at 93 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 3: a half hours later. Okay, keeping track of this, text 94 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 3: my man to see how things was going. He never 95 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:12,719 Speaker 3: returned to text. He's out there with his family having 96 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 3: a good time. I text my boyfriend again. 97 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 2: To ask if he would bring me something to drink. 98 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 3: He ignored my text again, so I went to the 99 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 3: bathroom and got back in bed. 100 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 2: Now let's stop right here. 101 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 3: If he's hosting a cookout and he's the host and 102 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 3: people over at the house, do you really think he's 103 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 3: got his phone. 104 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 2: In his hand. 105 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 3: I think he's busy hosting, So I don't think he 106 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 3: ignored you. I just think he ain't looking at his phone. Hell, 107 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 3: you in the house, the woman he cared about is 108 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 3: in the house, and all his family friends is out there. 109 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,359 Speaker 2: So why you got to check his text? But you 110 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 2: asked to bring something to drink? 111 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 3: He ignored my text, So I went to the bathroom 112 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 3: and got back in bed. 113 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 2: Now, listen to this. 114 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 3: I had taken off my wig and make up, so 115 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: I couldn't go up front. 116 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 2: Now, when you took this wig and the make up. 117 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,359 Speaker 1: You're kind of focus on that. 118 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 3: Why can't you go back up front? Now, let's talk 119 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 3: about this for se How shocking is it once you 120 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 3: take off that wig and make up? 121 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 2: Hang on, Steve, you're not go up front cause you 122 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 2: ain't think the people is gonna know who you are. 123 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 2: Hang on, we'll have parts. I was gonna get back 124 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 2: on a little bit. 125 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, of your response, Steve. Coming up at twenty 126 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour, Today's Strawberry Letters subject. I 127 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: was there the whole time. We'll get back into it 128 00:06:49,800 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: right after this. 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All right, come on, Steve, 138 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is I was 139 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: there the whole time. 140 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 3: Now, this is woman that's been with this man for 141 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 3: six years. His two sisters loved to hate on him, 142 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 3: and he don't defend him. He was throwing a barbecute house. 143 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 3: She went over there at ten o'clock in the morning. 144 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 3: She was vacuuming, and she turned around too quickly and 145 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 3: pulls something. 146 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 2: So when that happens, we already know she not in her. 147 00:07:56,080 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 3: Twentiesse people in their twenties can turn around quick and 148 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 3: just be around. When you got a little age on you, 149 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 3: you turn around too quick. Suk a hundred ice tea 150 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 3: starts happening, and thus it happened. So she's a little 151 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 3: up there. I don't know how old yet, can't figure 152 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 3: it out. 153 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 2: I may learn it. And she out of shape. 154 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 3: So your boyfriend gave your mild muscle relax and you 155 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 3: went to lay down. 156 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 2: That was at ten in the morning. 157 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 3: You woke up four and a half hours late at 158 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 3: two thirty text your man to see how it was going. 159 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 3: He didn't return to text, so you went back to 160 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 3: sleep and woke up around five. Now you've been down 161 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 3: seven hours right now, mind you, I'd been sleep all 162 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 3: day and hadn't eaten anything or had anything to drink. 163 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 3: That ain't nobody fault. 164 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 2: Nobody's fault. 165 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 3: So I text my boyfriend again and asked he would 166 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 3: bring me something to drink. He ignored it, So I 167 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 3: went to the bathroom, got back in bed. I took off. 168 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 3: Now he would go. I'd been slepter all day, hadn't 169 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 3: eaten anything or had anything to drink. So then she 170 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 3: texted her boyfriend again to ask if he would bring 171 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 3: me something to dream. She said, he ignored my text again, 172 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 3: So I went to the bathroom and got back in bed. 173 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 2: I'm not thinking he's ignoring the text. He's hosting. 174 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 3: His girlfriend is in the house, all his loved ones 175 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 3: and friendz is in the backyard, and it's at his house. 176 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 3: He got to watch them ribs, he got flippedy burgers over, 177 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 3: he got a talk trash. They out there drinking. So 178 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 3: I went back to the bathroom and got back in bed. 179 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 3: I had taken off my wig and makeup, so I 180 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 3: couldn't go up front. 181 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 2: Now let's talk about this. When you take off your wig. 182 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:49,719 Speaker 3: And makeup, what exactly happens? 183 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 2: How Seville is the change? How shocking is you without 184 00:09:58,000 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 2: the wig? 185 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 3: And the makeup what we talk about to the point 186 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 3: where you have determined I cannot go up front. And 187 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 3: I'm thinking you can't go up front because of some 188 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 3: people up there. They ain't gonna know who you is? 189 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 2: You are, who is she? 190 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 3: And I'm saying they ain't gonna know who you is 191 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 3: for the man that wrote that letter in that day 192 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 3: to say I need to be a better example for 193 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 3: young people to how to talk. 194 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 2: Remember that guy. So I just wanted to say, ain't 195 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 2: nobody gonna know who you is? Who you are? This 196 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 2: is for him. That ain't my job to the letter. 197 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 2: See what is my job? 198 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 3: It's to discuss what happens to this woman when these 199 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 3: wigs and makeup is around seven, I woke up and 200 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 3: put my wig on, just the wig. I stumbled into 201 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 3: the kitchen because I was hungry. Yeah it's seven, You've 202 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 3: been in bed nine hours and. 203 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 2: You slept the night before. 204 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 3: So I stumbled into the kitchen with just my wig 205 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:08,319 Speaker 3: on because. 206 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 2: I was hunger. 207 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 3: As soon as I saw my boyfriend, I cursed him out. 208 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 3: His little sister said I was disrespectful to come in 209 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 3: there fussing like I did, which is a true statement. 210 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 3: Why you curse him out, and I told him I'd 211 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 3: been there the whole time and nobody cared. 212 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 2: You were sleep. 213 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 3: My boyfriend laughed and said he didn't tell anyone that 214 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 3: I was in the bed. He also lied and said 215 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 3: he didn't see my tents, even though he always has 216 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:38,080 Speaker 3: his phone in his head. 217 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 2: Now, how you gonna host the barbecue? 218 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 3: Flip the burgers, watch the grill, watch pay attention to 219 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 3: them ribs. Put all that ice in that cooler. You 220 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 3: gotta do a lot of work. His older sister said, 221 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 3: I love to make a scene, and you did. My 222 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 3: boyfriend agreed with her, and you did. I can't win 223 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 3: with this family. You ain't in the family. Do you 224 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 3: understand what's happening here? You have been his girlfriend for 225 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 3: six years. He ain't ask you to marry him yet. 226 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 3: And you know why he ain't ask you to marry 227 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 3: yet because you're up there, you're out of shape. 228 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 2: You turn to look. 229 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 3: Around, see what was behind you when you take that 230 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 3: wig in that makeup ball. He don't know who you are. 231 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 3: He ain't signing up for this right here. Now, you 232 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:31,239 Speaker 3: coming here cussing him out. That's why you steal the girlfriend. 233 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 3: That's exactly why and the little sisters hate on you 234 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 3: because they're watching how you do they brother ain't None 235 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 3: of them. 236 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 2: Have said you need to marry that girl. She's good 237 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 2: for you. 238 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 3: And every time you come in there, the big sister said, 239 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 3: you love to make a scene, which is your mo o, 240 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 3: which is. 241 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 2: Why you ain't his home. 242 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 3: Why you ain't the way my boyfriend agreed with her. 243 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 3: I can't win with this family now cause you ain't 244 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 3: in the family. I never treat my boyfriend like that. 245 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,439 Speaker 3: What you just went in there and custom out. You 246 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 3: just blamed him in front of all the people for 247 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 3: ignoring your text, and then you turn around and say 248 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 3: I never treat my boyfriend like that. 249 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 2: You just did. Why didn't he tell his sisters that 250 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 2: I was there? 251 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 3: Cause he ain't want you coming out doing what you did. 252 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 2: Let sleeping dogs lie. 253 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 3: Have you ever heard that saying, don't wake up trouble 254 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 3: when it's asleep. So he left you asleep. He's out 255 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 3: there having a great time without you. Is he the 256 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 3: problem on his hating sisters? 257 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 2: It's You're the p You You're the problem. Mark, it's you, lady. 258 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: You can comment on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram. 259 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 2: And don't let me in the kitchen looking crazy. 260 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: At Steve Harvey FM. Also check out the Strawberry Letter 261 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 1: podcast coming up next to his Junior and sport Stock. 262 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: Right after this, you're 263 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:54,679 Speaker 1: Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show