1 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: Have I ever been left waiting by the phone. It's 2 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Hey baby, good morning, welcome to the program. 3 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 2: How are you guys? 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: We are super excited to have you here. So waiting 5 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: by the phone is on. We're trying to figure out 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: why you may have been ghosted BBI, So why don't 7 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: you tell us about this guy Max, how you met, 8 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: give us any background, and then kind of where things 9 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: are now and so we can figure out. 10 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 3: How we can help. 11 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 12 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 2: So, I mean I met Sax on the app, you. 13 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 3: Know, as a lot of us do the days. 14 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 2: So yeah, we started talking and to connect fairly well, 15 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 2: you know, he was witty, he was funny, so I 16 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 2: was like okay, and then you know, we kept talking 17 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,319 Speaker 2: and it started to get a little flirty and then 18 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 2: he asked me, asked me for my actual numbers. So 19 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 2: we moved, you know, off the app started to actually 20 00:00:55,480 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: you know, texting and flirty, and we dec to go 21 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: out and I was really excited about that. And we 22 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:08,479 Speaker 2: went out. It was great, like underdos aren over that good. 23 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 2: I was happy, shocked that it was going this well. 24 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 2: And I mean, you know, I even ended up you know, 25 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 2: sleeping over at a place at the end of it. 26 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 2: Believe me, I wouldn't see this often and it was 27 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 2: I was shocked. That went as well. 28 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, no, so you have no idea after this 29 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: amazing date, why and even with the you guys hooked 30 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 1: up and everything, so this is all good stuff. And 31 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: then since then you have not heard from him. Have 32 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: you reached out to him? Have you tried to contact 33 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: him at all? 34 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: I tried calling him, I texted him. I only texted 35 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 2: him once because I didn't, you know, want to see 36 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 2: too much. I had already tried calling. 37 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: I mean, it would be nice to know after you 38 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: hook up with somebody why you know, why they're not interested. 39 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: I guess they don't necessarily owe you that, but it's 40 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: always nice to know I have some closure. 41 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 3: It's respectful. 42 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: So sure, especially after you hook up with someone you 43 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 2: know we have put together. Okay, see whatever, but at 44 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 2: least why you know? 45 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 3: I get it. I get it. 46 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: Ideally you'd like to know, and that's where we come in. 47 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,079 Speaker 1: So we'll call. We'll call Max. You'll be on the 48 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: phone at the same time. I don't want you to 49 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 1: say anything right at first, because we're gonna try and 50 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: get some info for you. But at some point, you're 51 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 1: welcome to jump in and hopefully we can figure out 52 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: what's going on. Maybe we can patch things up, I 53 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: don't know, any kind of disconnect and get you guys 54 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 1: set up on another date. 55 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 3: That we pay for. Okay, okay, all right, I'm gonna 56 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 3: play one. 57 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: Song and then we'll come back in two minutes and 58 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: we'll call this dude and figure it out. Let's see 59 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: what's going on in part two of Waiting at the phone. 60 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: Right after this song, Sabrina Carpenter back in two minutes 61 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: on the Fread Show. 62 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 3: Don't move. 63 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show on the radio, on the iHeart app. 64 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: Listen live and anytime. You can catch up all day 65 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: and search for the friend show for that and make 66 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: us a preset. Hey bb Yeah, Hi Bby, welcome back. 67 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: Let's call Max. You guys met on one of the 68 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: dating apps and you chatted and you went on this 69 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 1: date that you thought went really well, so well that 70 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: you slipped over his house, you know. So that's good. However, 71 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: since then you haven't heard from him. You've reached out once, 72 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: he hasn't responded. I can understand why that might bother you, 73 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: because you want to know why you want to know 74 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: what happened? 75 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 3: Where's this guy? Where did he go? Right? 76 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I just want to know why. You know, 77 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, if he's not interested, well, 78 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 2: but at least let me know why. 79 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, fair enough, let's call him now. Good luck. Phoebe? 80 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 5: Hello? 81 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 3: Hi? Is this Max? 82 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 5: Yeah? 83 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 3: Hey Max? Good morning. 84 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show on 85 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: one O three five Kiss FM, and I'm starting to bother. 86 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: I do have to tell you that we are on 87 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission 88 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can we start for a 89 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: couple of minutes on the show? 90 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 5: Yeah? 91 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 3: That's fun, Thank you so much. 92 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you've heard this before, but we're 93 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: actually calling on behalf of a woman named Phoebe who 94 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: says she met you on one of the days aps 95 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: you guys went out recently and had a what she 96 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: described as a really successful date. 97 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 3: To remember her, Yeah, yeah, I definitely remember. 98 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, so what she told us that 99 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: you know that you guys were flirting again? Long, Well, 100 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: she did say that she slept over at your house. However, 101 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: she says she can't get a hold of you you're 102 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: not responding, you're not reaching out. It's kind of bugging her. 103 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: We had no problem getting ahold of you. So what 104 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,799 Speaker 1: you know, can you kind of would you mind filling 105 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 1: us in on where you're at with her? 106 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, the date was good. 107 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 6: The everything else that happened after was good. Uh, it 108 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 6: was just actually it was it was sort of What 109 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 6: happened after after was what was kind of weird. I 110 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 6: woke up like just in the middle of the I 111 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 6: just had to pee and I was like hearing noises 112 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 6: from my living room and I walked it into my 113 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 6: living room and. 114 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 5: She was watching like porn. 115 00:04:56,520 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: Oh did she fire up the fifty in should like 116 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: you know, share it to the street, Like. 117 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like we had just soaked up like an hour 118 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 5: before that. 119 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: There's just like, hey, hey, maybe this lady is insatiable. 120 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: Maybe she you know, maybe she was ready for another round. Uh. Well, 121 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 1: you know what, I forgot to mention that BB you here. 122 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,679 Speaker 1: I I don't know what. I always have this laps 123 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: in my memory. I forget to mention that part. The 124 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: BB's here, Max. You guys know each other. 125 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 3: BB. 126 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: So what was going on on the couch after afterwards? 127 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: And why was it so loud. 128 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 2: By the way, Yeah, I didn't know that he caught me. 129 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: Okay, well he did so why an hour after you 130 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: hook up with the guy, are you in the other 131 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: room watching you know, those kind of videos. 132 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 2: Well, why do you think so? 133 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 3: You didn't? 134 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: You did so? Pauline is right, So you didn't. It 135 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: wasn't satisfying. It wasn't satisfactory the experience. 136 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 2: I wouldn't even I wouldn't say that though I had 137 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 2: a great experience, like it was a really fun time. 138 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 3: Didn't You didn't. 139 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: You didn't get to the high the highest hype. 140 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 2: I did not finish so and I did not expect 141 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 2: him to walk in and catch me. 142 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 3: You know, that was never my intention. I guess in 143 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 3: the future, maybe I would leave. Yeah, I you know, 144 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 3: I I. 145 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: Know I might conceal what I'm doing a little better 146 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: if I didn't want any chance that the guy I 147 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: liked or girl I liked or whatever would find out. 148 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: I mean, because I get it. You know, it's you 149 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: don't always get to that point. But Max, man, you're 150 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: awfully quiet on this whole thing. I mean, you hear 151 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: what this is the reason? 152 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 3: Why? What say you? 153 00:06:56,320 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. I guess I get it. It's 154 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,119 Speaker 5: just it was just kind of weird. I definitely didn't 155 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 5: expect it. 156 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 3: You don't seem real surprise. 157 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 5: I thought it would be great, like we did. 158 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 3: I'm not saying it, I don't. 159 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: I'm not saying it wasn't a great time. That was 160 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 2: not at all what I'm trying to say here. 161 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: I will say this is a difficult concept for most 162 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: men to understand. Myself included, we're like operating an appliance, 163 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: you know, on off. 164 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 3: It's not that tricky. 165 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: Women typically are a little it's a little more complicated women. 166 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: I think you guys would agree, right, I mean, for 167 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: the most part that it can be a little trickier. 168 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: And I think men, just because we're used to most 169 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: of the time, we get to that point, and I 170 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: think we just expect that we can give that to 171 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: our partners only. And I think many men are surprised 172 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: to find out that you guys can have a great 173 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: time and enjoy the experience, but not automatically get to 174 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 1: that height. 175 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 176 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I think it's a hard thing for guys 177 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 3: to understand. Yeah, yeah, I get that. 178 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 5: I just like washing porn on like my couch hack. 179 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 5: I don't know. I just I was right next to her. 180 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. So the finished like what 181 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 3: a gentleman. 182 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 5: Yeah. 183 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: I would have been more offended that I wasn't invited 184 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: to that party, you know. I would have been like, well, 185 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: I mean I can help with them. But then again 186 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: it didn't. It didn't work the first e No, all right, 187 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: well look Max, I mean so since you say you 188 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: have an understanding of this whole concept, so why are 189 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: you ignoring her? 190 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 3: Are you embarrassed by it? 191 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: Are you? I don't know what, what did it hurt 192 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: your masculinity somehow? I mean I don't mean to generalize her, 193 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 1: like I don't mean to suppose, but what why wouldn't 194 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: you call her again after that? 195 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 5: I don't know. 196 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 4: It was just a little weird to me. It was, uh, 197 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 4: it just it was just really off putting, and I 198 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 4: don't know, it was just really weird and it just 199 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 4: it threw me off. 200 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 5: And I'm sorry. I'm not good at, you know, just 201 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 5: not talking to people, so I tend to just not 202 00:08:59,280 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 5: talk to people. 203 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 6: Not good at confrontation or like dealing with that stuff, 204 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 6: so I tend to just not respond. 205 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: And I know it's clearly not good and here we are. 206 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 1: But well, that's that's nice, you know, there you go, Bbe. 207 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: So that was the issue. I don't know that every 208 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,839 Speaker 1: guy would handle it that way, but you know, he's 209 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: admitting that he's not really good. I think I think 210 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: many of us are not good at that at that 211 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 1: phone call later where it's like, hey, by the way, 212 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: I don't like you, not that that's how you say it, 213 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: but you know, it sounds like that's the issue here. 214 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 3: So Boebe, I'm sorry. I don't think it's going to 215 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:30,559 Speaker 3: work out. 216 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 2: No fair enough, man, I. 217 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 1: Know he doesn't seem too surprised by all this. I 218 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: don't know it just maybe it's just not a it's 219 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 1: not a match. But guys, thank you so much for 220 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: your time. Best eluct to both of you. 221 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:42,199 Speaker 5: Thank you. 222 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report headlines the biggest stories of the day 223 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: and the fun fact All next Fred Show.