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Speaker 1: Hey, Bachelination, it's Susan and Kathy here from the Golden Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you remember us.

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Speaker 2: They better remember us. We were both trying to date

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Speaker 2: the same guy, and as the world now knows, neither

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Speaker 2: one of us got Gary, but we got each other.

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Speaker 1: Yes we do. Kathy, do you remember that first night

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Speaker 1: and we started to bond from that moment on? Do

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Speaker 1: you know how far we've come?

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Speaker 2: I do remember it, Susan, and I remember feeling this

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Speaker 2: instant I like this woman. I want to know her better.

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Speaker 2: I think we could be really good friends. And look

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Speaker 2: where we've come. Do you remember us laughing that night

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Speaker 2: and talking? We we shared so many stories that first night,

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Speaker 2: about our children and our families.

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Speaker 1: It's getting to know each other. But do you remember

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Speaker 1: when the when the night nurse I would call her

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Speaker 1: would say, ladies, it's got to be lights out, And

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Speaker 1: I remember screaming out, do you really think turning the

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Speaker 2: And do you remember do you remember you and I

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Speaker 2: were talking and some of the other women were trying

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Speaker 2: to sleep, and you and I just kept talking and talking,

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Speaker 2: and we'd wreck up in the morning and we'd start

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Speaker 2: talking again right before you started doing my hair. Thank

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Speaker 2: you and look at us now. Look but can I

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Speaker 2: just say, how many months have we known each other?

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Speaker 2: I always say you and I are sisters from another mother.

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Speaker 2: We we love each other. We take care of each other.

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Speaker 2: When we're talking. I know something's going on in your

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Speaker 2: life that's bothering you. You give me great advice. I

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Speaker 2: give you even better advice.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you always use the word zip it, And

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Speaker 1: what do I say? Shut them up?

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Speaker 2: You know what, I'm going to train you to get

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Speaker 2: that word out of your vocabulary.

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Speaker 1: Men don't like it.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, that's why your single Susan.

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Speaker 1: Let's be honestly why. This is probably why. But I

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Speaker 1: gained a friend for life.

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Speaker 2: You have a friend in me for life?

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Speaker 1: You do. I think there was a song about that one.

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Speaker 1: There's some kind of.

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Speaker 2: If you're going to ask me to hump, you got

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Speaker 2: a friend in me? You've got a friend in me?

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Speaker 2: That is all. I don't know. I just think how

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Speaker 2: lucky were we? There were twenty two women in that

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Speaker 2: the bat, and I am so grateful for that opportunity

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Speaker 2: of meeting you. And look where we've gotten to look

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Speaker 2: where we are. I don't think I can imagine a

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Speaker 1: I love that. I feel blessed, I really do. But

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Speaker 1: everything ended up perfectly.

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Speaker 2: And that's where we are right now. We are so excited.

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Speaker 2: I know I am to have our new podcast, Bachelor

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Speaker 2: Happy Hour, Golden Hour. We are going to talk about

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Speaker 2: everything susan relationships, heartbreak, sex, love, sex again. We're going

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Speaker 2: to talk about things that really matter to people, and

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Speaker 2: you and I we know no limits, and.

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Speaker 1: What it's like to look for love at this stage

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Speaker 1: were younger. It's totally different. I look at it differently.

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Speaker 1: The things that I want from a partner are totally

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Speaker 1: different than I thought about when I was thirty. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Oh my gosh, how about when

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Speaker 1: we're out together, Kathy, all the people when we went

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Speaker 1: to the golf tournament in Carmel, was that not amazing?

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Speaker 1: The fans, what they shared with us.

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Speaker 2: That is, first of all, they love to see us.

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Speaker 2: But I know you've heard it as much as I have.

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Speaker 2: They always say how we've changed their lives. We've made

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Speaker 2: them have hope. Again that they feel like love is

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Speaker 2: in their future. They're getting up off the sofa, they're

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Speaker 2: living their life. They feel energized again. And to me,

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Speaker 2: when you and I are together, they see our friendship

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Speaker 2: and that's important, but they also see that we really

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Speaker 2: are who we say we are. We have we love life,

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Speaker 2: we love each other, we love you know. We want

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Speaker 1: Most of the dms as we were talking about earlier,

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Speaker 1: saying how much they enjoy seeing us together and what

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Speaker 1: sharing with me about their problems and their struggles, whether

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Speaker 1: The whole message out of this show. For me and

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you as well. Let's say together, hope, hope, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: their sixties. It's not too late. Like I've quoted a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it really is. I will tell you I've had

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Speaker 2: people who have come up to me that you know,

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Speaker 1: And that's what we're here for. To make you guys

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Speaker 1: what to do in the dating world, or you just

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Speaker 1: want to share some heartfelt things with us, we're here.

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Speaker 2: I think my favorite part, Susan, is going to be

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Speaker 2: that we're going to hear from you, Bachelor Nation, our listeners.

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Speaker 2: We want to hear all of your questions about love

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Speaker 2: and relationships and anything else that you feel like you

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Speaker 2: want our help with. You can send any questions or

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Speaker 2: comments to Bachelornation dot com or you can DM us

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Speaker 2: on Bachelor Happy Hours Instagram. And you know what, maybe

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Speaker 2: we'll get some dms from some guys too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you never know.

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Speaker 2: I would really like to interview some of the younger bachelorettes.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like our perspectives are so different. They're

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Speaker 1: And I like to hear what they have to say

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, I think their perspective is important, and I think

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Speaker 1: And I think everybody saw me give Rachel advice on

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Speaker 2: So I think Susan you you gave great advice, as

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Speaker 2: you always do, but thank you. Come on, we're both

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Speaker 2: still looking for mister Wright. So everybody out there, kids,

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Speaker 2: your grand kids, your uncles, your stepfathers, your next door neighbor,

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Speaker 2: feel free to send in your applications to us.

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Speaker 1: Oh seriously, we definitely want those. We will review them carefully,

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Speaker 1: and if there's somebody out there that wants to date

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Speaker 1: my girl Kathy, I'll pull that right aside and check

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Speaker 1: everything really good on your application, and I'll set that

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Speaker 2: You know what, I love your pieces and I'm going

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Speaker 2: If there's a really good guy that wants you, I'm

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Speaker 1: Of course you would. I'm gonna have to get them

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Speaker 1: all first. Okay, let's get into some of the topics

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Speaker 1: that we are going to talk about on this show.

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Speaker 2: Let's just go through some of these questions and see

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Speaker 2: where we stand on them.

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Speaker 1: What do you say sounds good? Let's see all right?

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Speaker 2: Sex on the first date, Susan, Yes or no? Absolutely?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Absolutely? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Why not? You gotta know them a little bit, right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here's one for you. Would you date a guy

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Speaker 2: forty years younger than you are? Please tell me forty No?

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Speaker 1: How about if you realize really soon into a relationship

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, you and I are neat next, so we

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Speaker 2: know the answer about that is a huge no. I

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Speaker 2: it all right? Would you offer to split the bill

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Speaker 1: Definitely?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.

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Speaker 1: You know in my past from dating, if I knew

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Speaker 2: You know what I do. If I know I'm never

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Speaker 2: going to see this guy again, I say, I have

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Speaker 2: a bus to catch. Could you please bring the bill now?

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Speaker 2: All right? Would you sign up for another reality show?

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Speaker 1: Amen?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: Yes, best experience ever, And I encourage all the people

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Speaker 2: I think it should be a reality show Susan and

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Speaker 2: Kathy and we fight over the same man. What do

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Speaker 1: Oh God, how about traveling the world looking for love?

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Speaker 1: I'll do any of the other.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm into that. I will definitely, yes, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, if he just sends in the

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Speaker 1: first letter, how about that? What if it's the first

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Speaker 2: In one of us, then you're gonna have to handle

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Speaker 2: this podcast by yourself because I'm going to be off

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Speaker 1: No, you're not.

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Speaker 2: All right, So let's let's get into all that on

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Speaker 2: the podcast. I want you all to be sure to

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Speaker 1: Don't you love golden hour? Is that not a perfect name?

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Speaker 2: Can I just tell you, Susan, you know this, But

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Speaker 2: for the rest of you out there, the golden hour

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Speaker 2: It is everything. The light is different, it's beautiful, and

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Speaker 1: I do too, especially at a perfect sunset. But ladies

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